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Omg how does that even happen?!! And I’m with you on the UTIs - absolutely awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:15 PM
8

It seems like this is normal behaviour for men these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:28 PM
10

We are both English. If I showed any of my friends that message they would be horrified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:20 PM
7

Agree. Urgh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:33 PM
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I think him calling me a cunt is him ending things with ME. He also said that he stopped caring for me after I went on some other dates, but continued to date me 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:07 PM
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Thank you!!! I am far to embarrassed to share this with my friends as they would think I was an idiot for hanging around even for 2 months. It’s done. Thanks for the reassurance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:01 PM
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Making things up/deluded/gaslighting.... this is exactly what I’ve been writing in my notes about someone else. He made me second guess my own sanity. I will write a clearly coherent message explaining why I’m upset and he’ll just ignore it. Now a normal person would address it with their POV and even if you didn’t agree entirely, it might make SOME sense. But to just ignore something is A, causing the person who wrote it a lot of anxiety, B, acting like it never happened. Like they don’t need t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:09 AM
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What type of gaslighting would he do? Trying to explain to an avoidant gaslighter what they’ve done wrong is near on impossible as they will always try and blame you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:56 AM
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You I I am definitely guilty of this. How do I stop? And should you message anything at all or just ignore them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:53 PM
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You are 20 years old!!! You are so so young! PLEASE do not focus your efforts in finding a man right now, focus your efforts in building a life for yourself... whether that be career, investing in friends, discovering new places etc. My self esteem was terrible in my 20s and I made lots of mistakes where men were concerned. I would give anything to go back and slap myself around the face. Build on your self esteem and self love and confidence. How do you do that? By learning new skills, widening…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 10:01 PM
7

I’m interested in what you said about ‘sex depraved kink.’ What if the woman enjoys it? Or do you think that’s impossible because patriarchy ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:19 PM
4

Well done you! I’m curious about this bit though... “I should have calmed my personality down”. What do you mean by that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:10 PM
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Yes! So it’s completely fine to have hooked up with her but she can’t be marriage material. Except all the men who slept with her... THEY are marriage material 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:03 AM
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I read a horrific thread where the OP was asking for advice on her bf’s reaction to her sexual history. Apparently they had been together a few years and were blissfully happy until he found out through a new colleague that she had some ‘wild times’ or whatever at college/university. He decided to leave her, despite being happy up until that point. And all the comments are like ‘you are entitled to act as you please just as he is entitled to judge you on those actions’. I mean, WTF. If I found o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:54 PM
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‘As my body count has risen, I care less about how many people my other half has slept with’ LOL. Oh so, it wasn’t ok for girls you were seeing to have casual sex until you decided it was okay for YOU to do it. Urgh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:28 PM
15

Omg same thing happened to me at 7pm! Please.... I was already in my pjs by then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 08:39 PM
36

Boyfriend dumped me at 33 after five years and replaced me with a 23 year old colleague
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 12:47 AM
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What you said about feeling rejected and disgusting... I’ve had that, I think a lot of women have had that. And it’s totally a wake up call. Sleeping with you then blocking and deleting you says way more about this guy and nothing about you and YET understandably it made YOU feel shitty. It’s just a reminder that we need to be super protective of our bodies and mental health and not just trust someone who appears to be a decent guy on the surface. This is why OLD is so hard. Thanks for sharing y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 11:17 PM
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This!!! Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference when you first meet someone between finding them physically attractive and actually liking their personality. Someone recently said to me she goes for funny men and if they are attractive then that’s a bonus. It got me thinking... normally I just think about whether I am physically attracted to them and then I try to figure out if we’re compatible. If I have no interest in someone then I don’t think about it too much if they don’t text after the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 08:44 PM
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That’s an interesting point of view. And yeah sometimes I feel like we give off more of an energy than we realise so even when we want to come off totally un bothered, men know the truth! In fact it’s always the dates that I’ve forgotten about that end up calling me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 08:18 AM
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Yesssss! You are going to feel SO amazing and powerful now you’ve done this 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 07:26 PM
8

I was in a vulnerable place after being dumped by an ex of 5 years. Started seeing this guy who gaslighted the shit out of me, got me to pay stuff and didn’t pay me back etc. Then one day I just decided fuck that if you text me I’m ghosting you. And I did! He probably didn’t care either way but it was a big step for me to see my worth and not let someone walk all over me. I learnt to walk away. I get easily attached so it was a big deal for me finding that inner strength
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 09:11 AM
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Exactly, he was acting as if he did ME a favour. Glad you have learnt to do better too. And yes ruthless is the only way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:04 AM
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Yeah later in the day I really wanted to lay into him. It did actually affect me more than a usual one night stand as I felt like he was trying to make out I’d dreamt up his behaviour. But I don’t want to come across as being hurt cause I got rejected. It’s not that at all, the whole thing has left me feeling weird. But I’ll be fine and I’ll do better next time. Thanks for your comment 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:03 AM
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Good advice, i’m avoiding too much alcohol in future for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 08:01 AM
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Yeah I mean it was my idea in the end and not saying he should have advised I went home but I was under the impression he enjoyed my company as well. Oh well you live and learn! The thing that annoyed me most was the whole ‘I didn’t think we had much of a connection I’m sorry if you thought that’ as if he wasn’t trying to make it come across that way. Seriously I’ve had less enthusiasm on first dates from men who turned into long term partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:57 AM
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OMG, so true. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:55 AM
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Wow, what an idiot! I’m not against casual sex in theory but it’s not making me happy right now. I thought dating in my 30s would be easier than 20s but men have not grown up AT ALL. My expectations are so low now I’m going to be much clearer up front about what I want. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:54 AM
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Yeah I didn’t think about that, normally you think of women as craving intimacy more but it makes a lot of sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:52 AM
7

I agree. He was soooo keen for me to stay for another drink and why would that be if he already knew by that point he wouldn’t see me again. Urgh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:00 PM
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Yeah that’s true. Like I think if a guy wants to hug me all night in bed it MIGHT mean he’s interested but in fact it means there was no connection at all LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:09 PM
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Thank you. Yeah I realise now he may well have been pretending to be interested, instead of actually trying to form a connection. I also agree coffee dates are better, or agreeing to one drink and that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 08:08 PM
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My ex of 5 years broke up with me and we talked for 30 mins then I asked him to leave. Besides from one polite message we exchanged I haven’t spoken to him since. THEN I found out he left me for a girl at his work and I still didn’t message. He messaged twice to apologise but I didn’t respond. Silence says a lot more than yelling, at least I’d like to think so. It’s like... you hurt me so much there are no words. This happened 10 months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 09:11 PM
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