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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | Men’s Rights and TeachingThat’s fine, an English class is an English class 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 02:32 PM |
| 10 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.Lol it’s true jokes can get out of hand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:11 PM |
| 53 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.Yeah I’m like was this meant to be a joke? It actually could be :0 but if it’s not molly you are in danger girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 0 | JFC. Men: she cares more about material things more than me. Also men: I had to buy a bed frame to get laid.Hmmm I would still have sex with someone without the bed frame. It depends who they are, what’s going on and how I feel. Am I wrong for that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 4 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningGirl I had the same epiphany as you recently. I think we have to allow ourselves to be honest about our attractions. I recently put more strict categories on my Okcupid account (some of which I payed for). I now am having a lot more fun browsing because the men seem closer to what I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:46 PM |
| 14 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysThat I believe is true. I posted because I appreciated some of the thought process but it is good to keep what you have said in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysYeah it really opened my eyes to learn how domineering he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:51 AM |
| 5 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysSomething makes me feel like both he and they just don’t think deeply about life so I am not sure if they even know what they are putting themselves through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysI have thought of making shirts that say “F Dad Bod” 😂 I don’t think people should feel bad if they are not in shape, but I don’t like the element of oh I am rich so it doesn’t matter that I have dad bod thing going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysOr they might be okay with it, I think there might still be a cool mom mentality out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 30 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysYeah it’s so weird. Also would add that when I talk to younger guys the conversation isn’t really fruitful because they know less than me and we are just interested in different things. I don’t get how people can live having non conversations with live human beings. Boring but also hurtful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 20 | Why Are Some Men Obsessed With Barely Legal Girls?Another good article on this annoying phenomena. I have been trying to work on making men prove themselves first before being friendly. Very difficult! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:35 PM |
| 27 | Older men’s fixation with younger women really boils my kidneysI read this article while I was trying to reflect on the thoroughly annoying attention I get from guys who think they are older than me. And ones that are older. Just so annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | How to Handle Conversational NarcissismInteresting, one thing I have had to learn to watch out for is people saying they are down in the dumps, but they aren’t actually. She might not be so bad off but there are some people who I think just never learn they are making this problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 07:25 AM |
| 7 | How to Handle Conversational NarcissismYeah it sucks, I think some people might not know they are doing it. I had the same realization about a roommate. I was like, “why are our convos so fishy? I feel tired after them”. Then this article explained it all. That I was basically talking to a wall. She always wants me to hang out with her. I now recognize the desperate plea in her voice. She is subtley exerting force! Which I didn’t recognize. It’s all about her! It’s sad because I think people probably don’t listen to her which has mad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 07:08 AM |
| 31 | Don't Be So AgreeableYup that’s why very difficult guys effin love me. Because I am super agreeable. But I am working on that. Actually difficult people in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:34 AM |
| 25 | Don't Be So AgreeableWow another good article about preserving boundaries. You have to consciously make yourself slow down for a few beats in conversations to preserve them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:19 AM |
| 5 | How to Stop Being a Pushover: Five Secrets From ResearchNot sure what to make of the end of this article but the first half was pretty solid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:04 AM |
| 25 | How to Handle Conversational NarcissismWow super helpful article for a problem I just barely realized I had. I think it could help some of us remember to keep things 50/50 and to not accept less as anything less is not really a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | The Introvert Struggle That No-one Talks AboutI would say my experience has been the same. Extreme over the top negative outbursts. That’s why I kept asking myself “what is up with my life?” Pretty crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | The Introvert Struggle That No-one Talks AboutNo problem ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:08 PM |
| 0 | The Introvert Struggle That No-one Talks AboutIt’s so funny that you say this about the older woman. The exact same thing happened to my sister. But the lesson my mom and sister tried to tell me in the end was that my sister was stupid for not giving the woman food. That threw me for a loop! Maybe there is some info missing, but it’s weird to me that some people learn that’s what they are supposed to do. So weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 3 | The Introvert Struggle That No-one Talks AboutActually Alie makes the distinction you make on other parts of her blog which is why she probably didn’t make it here. But I think a lot of people develop emotional issues and shyness because they are introverts living in a society that can favor extroverts. This was my experience. There are also so many mixed messages out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:36 PM |
| 17 | The Introvert Struggle That No-one Talks AboutYou are right, Alie actually says that on her blog. But we live in an extrovert biased society which in my opinion causes a lot of introverts to develop emotional baggage and shyness that makes it difficult to function. (At least in the USA.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 3 | How to Stop Worrying About What Others Think of YouNice thank you, I will subscribe and post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:25 PM |
| 12 | How to Stop Worrying About What Others Think of YouNot specifically dating but would eventually help dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:44 PM |
| 40 | The Introvert Struggle That No-one Talks AboutI’m trying to look out for all of us introverted women who are subject to a different set of risks. Not to leave the extroverted women out as I wish to protect them also, but introverted women need some specific advice at times. Alie’s blog also has a lot of therapeutic advice that doesn’t specifically deal with dating but is a big help to one’s life which I think eventually impacts dating life. I highly recommend browsing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Don't Fall for the Tender TrapIt’s so fake! They are not real with themselves! They have an idea of who we are that’s not real! We need to run! I feel happy to know the man meant for me would not do this. He would tickle and tease me lightheartedly. And be real! Lmao tender man is like “how was that for you heeeey” why I’m just laying there like a plank. Uh it was okay man 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 19 | Don't Fall for the Tender TrapLmao this was so funny, so lucky to have found this article. Tender man sucks! Sign of an artificial relationship. Does he really know you if he is insincerely treating you like glass during sex. Needs to relax. But it feels like a lot of people have sex this way. Just mimicking things they saw on tv instead of feeling real desires. Inexperience is one thing that you could maybe work on. But listen to what you really want if things aren’t improving. I think it’s a sign of a mismatch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:32 AM |
| 15 | You Don't Have To Like Everyone — Work SharkInsanely helpful and beautiful article. Remember, if you feel like you are being forced, you probably are. I have to work to remember every day sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 4 | sex is not a need, it’s a wantWhat do you think about people with disabilities that bring this up? I have seen at least two news stories about people with disabilities saying they visit prostitutes for this reason. One person, I don’t think could hold their penis, but the other person could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on AbortionSo scary! I think I would say, “Okay, we’re just having oral sex!” In that event. But I have never had a boyfriend that I liked that much where I could be overpowered so I can’t judge, and it seems like according to this thread, all methods are faulty anyway. Except for vasectomies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | I feel like kids have less tolerance for offensive and annoying behavior than adults doI have been thinking about this. When I was young I was flat out scared of some people. It took me until 26 to be like “oh shit, I was being bullied and THEY were bad.” I didn’t realize that people would make assumptions about me and treat me poorly based on those assumptions(how I look, what I do). This continued until college. The reason why I didn’t get this is because I don’t do this to others. I also didn’t understand that I should have had more of an opinion and left these people, but I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | It's Not That I Can't Find A Man To Love Me, I Can't Find A Man I LoveI think what she is saying is that people typically think something is wrong with a woman when they are single, but that is the wrong belief to have. And yes I would agree the article has some spotty areas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:19 PM |
| 13 | Gaslighting women is society’s standard practiceYou should get the streaming service Kanopy and see if you can watch the film Tough Guise on there. It brings up that when crimes against women appear in the news, they always bring up that it was a “crime against a woman” but the wording is never “another man has committed a crime against a woman” it subtly encourages/allows people to subconsciously place the blame on the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:19 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to bullies?You should read the book Introvert Power. You sound a lot like me, not understanding people. That book might help you as it helped me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/20 04:49 AM |
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