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I know that but I’m just in a situation where I need a place to live for now until i get back on my feet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 08:01 PM
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Thank u for this comment. I’m not interested in doing a gofundme of anything, I feel guilty enough for taking up other resources. Advice is plenty for me. I just feel like a failure for going back and feel like I’m betraying myself because I told myself I won’t go back. I know I am not ready to live on my own especially without a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:29 PM
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I left my dms closed for the fear of hate messages but I opened them again. Thank u for this comment. I think I need to go back, I’m not financially stable or mentally well. I just feel like a damn failure for leaving and then going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:25 PM
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Thank you, i see so many stories about people running away at 15,16 surviving and thriving meanwhile I’m 24 and just struggling so much. I keep hearing these success stories and I thought there was something wrong with me for wanting to go back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:24 PM
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I’m sorry that happened to u too. I don’t have any where else to go and the weather is freezing now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:33 AM
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ESP with her writing on the Mindy Project and her own relationship with BJ Novack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 12:52 AM
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Oh yea and if u call them out on it, they will say BUt I KNoW X FOr 15 yEaRS!! Like Buddy, you have to put your wife and children first. How are u suppose to be a good husband and father?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:22 PM
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Makes me really hesitant joining these irl support groups :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:52 AM
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EXACTLY! Even with a perfect 100% HVM whats stopping him from dying? My mother was a stay at home mom and my father died and we had a hard time picking ourselves up. Practically no work history, single mom with two small children. I don’t like working either (news flash no one does) that’s why it’s called work. But I value my freedom and safety so I can provide a life for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 01:53 PM
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I comment on skincare subreddits and tv show discussions are those also auto ban?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:30 PM
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I watched a few videos of hers because it’s interesting seeing another persons life style but it’s very clear she is so insecure from stripping. She recently got toe surgeries where she gets her “long” toes shortened. I didn’t even know that type of surgery existed. Not to mention 3 nose jobs, boob job, bbl. just very sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:27 PM
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She got a huge audience from YouTube and started her own stripper clothes company. She recently quit. But yea all her videos just talk about the positives of it. There’s even some videos where she brings her fans to her strip club and have them be strippers. Gives me pimping vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:25 PM
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It is disgusting how Indian men treat Indian women. They want a submissive house wife and yet wanna fuck anything breathing. Not to mention expecting their gf/wives to be virgins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:01 AM
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I feel like theoretically it makes sense. But when the male entitlement is so strong plus with the brainwashing by porn, they think they are desirable and don’t need to compete with other men. In reality, those balding short lvm are a dime a dozen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:00 AM
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Same and these women would be crying. The family Members of the male kidnappers (usually women) would then take the kidnapped bribe to calm her down and basically do a Stockholm syndrome on her to get her to wed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:58 AM
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Oh and in China they call unmarried women as “left over women.” When there’s literally more men than women... like what kinda of backwards logic is that?? It’s just another attempt to shame and play reverse psychology on these women who refuse to marry some loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:57 AM
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He’s also much younger then Jenna. I think early 20s when they first met. I remember in one video she was mentioning about marriage and a ring but he compromised and bought her a nice promise ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:55 PM
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Ngl sounds like she knows what she was doing. There’s another video with her natural voice and it just seems like she is tailoring her weird infant image of the high pitch voice and clothes to appeal to him. And it worked, she got insanely lucky that he is a millionaire and now she’s married to him. He’s a LVM but some people don’t care about that if they can live that rich. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:54 PM
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I think Marzia was a cam model when they first started dating hence the “pornsick”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:51 PM
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Same, it felt fake and forced. Plus a bit "insecure" when they post it to show how hot they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:16 AM
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Same! I’m thankful for growing up in an all girls hs, college major that’s female dominated. I use to think there was something wrong with me and was a pick me but it’s so easy to get sex. Literally one swipe away with tinder and I just wanna save it for someone special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:37 PM
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I’m 25 and a virgin (no shame, lvm gross me out) and I thought it would move been better if my first time was also with a virgin. But will they still wanna compensate? As opposed to the fuck boys with too much experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:17 PM
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I refuse to support her after her racism against Asians and African Americans. I use to like her music but there's other artists I can give my views/money too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 08:15 PM
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WHAT?? With that hair line?? I thought he was at least in his late 30s. I think this is the bigger shock here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:20 PM
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They do it because they set their orientation as straight, female and would see their competition of men. Some ppl do it to scope out the competition, others do it to copy their bios, and some are incels who wanna rage on women and wanna see how many chads there are Then they realize their stupid and can’t change their gender but still wanna use the app and get laid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:48 PM
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The groupies are the extreme pick mes who feel “they can change them” and want to pretend that they are so special that a monster that kills so many people would make an expectation and fall in love with them because they are so unique and special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:43 PM
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An interesting point too is that straight,tall, white men are on the top of social hierarchy so they were never held to consequences before and are more excused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:38 PM
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Women to them are like trophies. Depending on what race he is, his culture might value white women more. He probably likes the praise he got but was too ashamed to date women of his own culture because they are “not as valuable”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:35 PM
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I totally forgot his gf looked exactly like her and the same style of baggy clothes too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:02 PM
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I hate how everyone’s like “SOOO EMPOWERING”. I can’t help to feel she was groomed and pushed by the Hollywood exces to think the sexualization was HER idea and HER choice when in reality, sex sells.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:24 AM
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That’s disgusting, I’m sorry it happened to u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:13 AM
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Wtf hospital is this? OR rooms are big and if ur scrubbed in, why tf are they breaking the sterile field
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:52 PM
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So true, the most famous male artists are always men. Same for chiefs as well. For female dominated fields, it seems men are the ones who still are on top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:07 PM
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So true, the most famous male artists are always men. Same for chiefs as well. For female dominated fields, it seems men are the ones who still are on top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:07 PM
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Very interesting topic. Sometimes when I put on makeup and wear pink dresses I wonder if I truly like what I am wearing or I have been groomed by society at a young age. It makes me feel good but theoretically am I being genuine to my authentic self?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:00 PM
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I fucking hate men, a fellow coworker(from another department I’m not familiar with) assaulted me today at work and I started crying. It was an involuntary reaction to something so traumatic. Ofc other people try to minimize what happened and told me “toughen up” and tried to “it’s okay sweetie” me. It just felt in-genuine while the coworker went unscathed and how “it was just a mistake.” Not even an apology from the male coworker while I’m getting apologizes from other women saying it for him. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:54 AM
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I use to be like that too but honestly it’s better to block them on all forms of social media (even including Venmo-had some exes trying to give me money to talk to me) because u won’t hear their response at all. The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:47 AM
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He’s so beautiful yet hot, it looks photoshopped😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:40 AM
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Have you seen the video where Hailey and Justin were in nyc and Hailey fell meanwhile Justine skateboarded away? The paparazzi had to help her up lmao. Or the other ones where he slams the door in her face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:44 AM
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Omg I remember them! It was so creepy bc he was obviously looking to groom her and trying to find a gf through his “Mormon” mission. They didn’t get that much slack from the fans on the show though, prob because there’s way crazier couples then them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:00 PM
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Can we talk about colts mommy issues and the emotional incest with him and Debbie???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:50 PM
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It was a few years back when his dms were leaked and the girl explicitly said she was 16 and he replied with I don’t care. He was inviting her to his hotel room and even sent nude pics. The nude pics were the scandal all over the news not the teenager part. He played it off like hahaha I’m wild 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:59 PM
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I honestly think some unhappy housewives are constantly pushing this narrative of marriage being the best thing ever because they have never amounted to anything higher and are subconsciously bitter 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:15 PM
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I feel the same way! But honestly, I notice white men fetishized me and also still have the same problems. They just hid it better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:10 PM
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Did u see that one actress who called him and James Franco out? Basically Seth pretends to be fake woke meanwhile enabling his pedo friend James Franco. There has been multiple reports of Franco trying to have sex with 16 year olds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:08 PM
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Her children maybe as fucked as she, her psychopath genes may have been inherited plus she def teaching them the wrong morals and behaviors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:58 PM
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Won’t a cop like... have basic morals... and not date a serial killer???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:56 PM
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I still can’t believe someone would drug, rape and then killed their own sister. She should’ve been in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:22 AM
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Thank you. I’m in my 20s and I don’t have much friends, just one best friend. How did u meet these supportive people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:05 AM
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I think I’m more mad at myself for believing my abusive mother would change. I would always cry myself to sleep and beg him to pretend to be a good mom and give me a hug and lie everything will be okay. I don’t know why I keep doing this to myself. I just wish I had a normal family. She is my only family and I feel like families are just attached to u no matter what. People will always ask about ur child hood, family life, who ur going to walk u down the aisle, who u would invite to ur wedding. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:55 AM
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Could it be fake...? Plus if the family didn’t approve of the marriage, won’t they just threaten to cut her off from her trust fund
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:16 AM
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Bored rich girl syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:51 AM
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She prob will get a bunch of nannies and have a cold bitter marriage because she’s afraid of the divorce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:51 AM
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For someone who never faced financial hardships or struggles, I’m sure she was coodled and has a circle of yes men around her hoping to get some of her money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:49 AM
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I’m surprised her family didn’t stop the marriage. For someone that level of wealthy, they usually want to marry into the same class and have lawyers upon lawyers for prenups. Also why is she getting advice from Reddit and not from her friends or therapists or Financial counselors?? She surly can afford it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:48 AM
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What does her husband do for work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:35 AM
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I mean I’m not surprised she had to pressure her husband into marrying her. In the view of a LV rich man, why marry her when there’s plenty of younger and prettier women? Anna is older and had to settle with the best thing she could get. She probably can’t get a millionaire so she settled with a guy who made decent money. (I’m not calling Anna old or ugly and being older is a bad thing, I’m pointing out rich LVM will think these things). Plus with social media, I bet she is photoshopping and mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:34 AM
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How do u know about the marriage? I was scrolling they her isnta and I couldn’t find wedding pics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:28 AM
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Exactly! When I first joined FDS, I read the hand guide and I found her as a recommended reading. She rubbed me the wrong way because I’m not trying to marry for money, I want to marry for love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:33 PM
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The main goal of her videos is to show how women can bag a rich guy. Hence the super sexist overtones of being feminine and looking/acting perfect all the time. Plus with the overtone of being a trophy and house wide. From a males perspective that is what men want and hence she is catering towards the male gaze and contributing to the patriarchy. Let’s say you manage to marry a rich guy, what then? You have to keep up this act of perfection and probably be okay with him cheating. Rich does not m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:31 PM
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100%. She just gives sugar baby advice but sprinkle in some feminism and empowerment. She is very much so old fashioned in terms of women must always be feminine and dainty and Elegant. It’s very sexist but with the right sprinkle ppl eat up that bs more so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:25 PM
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In a way she does have the massive pick me vibes from rich old men. I want to wear what I find comfortable and I can’t live my life in hopes of catching and then keeping some rich guy and always looking perfect all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:20 PM
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I started dating when I was 20 and I regretted nothing. At first I was very insecure when I was a teenager on why no men wanted me but I avoided so much drama and emotional angst. I worked on my studies in hs and went to a really good college. If I have some advice for ppl in hs right now, it’s focus on your studies. I went on a couple dates in college but it didn’t interest me and so I focused on my really hard classes and studies. I’m in my last year of university and I already got a job offer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:27 PM
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Funny how they slut shame but they want to have sex with these women themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:13 AM
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I miss drew monsoon, he was so funny :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:38 AM
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I personally think it’s because he got married so young and men have that excuse of “not playing the field” aka get free pussy before marrying. He prob follows those Ig models to “get it out of his system”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:35 AM
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I remember about posting my progress on a weight loss space. There was no pictures, just numbers and I was talking about how I finally felt comfortable in gym clothes like my sports bra and leggings. I got so many dms and comments about how “slutty” I was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:31 AM
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Oh my god, good thing I didn’t continue on. I hate how season 1 and 2, they always framed Danny as the end game. I really liked cliff (the hot lawyer) who challenged Mindy but she ofc picked Danny over Cliff when he kissed her on the airplane. Casey was interesting too (he had a whole bunch of lvm behaviors too) but he challenged Mindy to see the world differently. Mindy went to Haiti, cut her hair short, and even was okay with having a non lavish wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:33 AM
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He’s only apologizing because his sponsors dropped him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:22 AM
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I remember loving that show during middle and highschool. Now I’m rewatching it, up to season 2 and I can’t get over how Mindy is such a pick me. She’s literally a doctor!! Plus Danny was shown as a misogynist and that behavior is suppose to be seen as “cute” because his how stick is how much a tough man from Staten Island? I can’t even make it past season 2, during my first watch. I literally stopped watching the show preFDS days because something just didn’t seem right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:08 AM
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What did he do? I remember his videos use to be posted here for a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:29 PM
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It should be a balance. He should love to show you off to his friends and family but not the point where he is only posting pictures about your “hotness” or sexualizes you. When people go thru his social media, they should know he has a girlfriend. It’s a red flag if people on his social media doesn’t know you exist (he may be cheating or trying to appear single to cheat). It really depends on each person, I know some people badly use social media at all or some people expect to be posted about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:21 PM
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Ofc, And I don’t know hila personally. I didn’t mean to overgeneralized but sometimes cultural upbringings can affect a person. Like how our society grooms pick mes with social media, tv, etc. For my mother’s country, it’s been raised that it is acceptable for a man to have a mistress as long as he comes home back to the wife. And if the man is providing, then he is doing his job and his other behaviors are excusable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:31 PM
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I agree, plus with the whole david thing dying down they gonna need new content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:22 PM
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WHAT? Where was this mention? I’m an avid watcher of his
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:44 AM
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The full story is even worse. Apparently they’ve been talking about marriage for a while and Hila knew he was gonna propose. Ethan so “nervous“ that he decided to propose while they were in his parents house by putting the ring into the wet wipes used to clean up after yourself. Ethan was on the toilet pretending to poop and calling for Hila to bring him the toilet wet wipes, and then proposed opening side toilet wet wipe package.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:43 AM
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They are pretty rich. In the frenemies podcast, Trisha mentioned how Ethan has a maid. Plus they have a nanny for their child. So good for Hila, I guess. One less thing for her to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:39 AM
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Without a doubt this is going on their podcast. I actual like frenemies, but hopefully Ethan understands FDS isn’t a “incel hate sub” all of Reddit wants to portray. But I think I’m getting my hopes up :( it’s great content for them to just hate on us and how women are all gold diggers and crazy and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:37 AM
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I think this was the same podcast where Ethan said women are supposed to be raped because in nature men are more dominant and stronger. He said the rape is “natural“
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:35 AM
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Hila is very religious and she’s not from America, she probably has a very different idea of respect and expectations from her husband. I know my mother from a third world country only expects the husband to provide and excuses the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:34 AM
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Him and Hila give me the teenage runaway with an older man vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:31 AM
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The veil?? That’s a new low...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:09 AM
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Same! And I feel so judged like a piece of meat there. Also I’m not the strongest so when I grab a 5lb or 10 lb dumbbell, some men will make comments on how “weak I am.” It was kinda the threatening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:08 PM
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I never felt comfortable in a gym, even with my xxxl t shirts that covered everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:02 PM
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Thank u!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:05 PM
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Haha why should I dilute my tall off spring with some midget? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:03 PM
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I think it’s an American thing. Plus the men and women from my culture are known to be short and why I was more ridiculed for being tall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:59 PM
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I never seen a truly ugly women. Some are unkempt but any girl who puts in the slightest effort of grooming makes them pretty already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:52 PM
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Another good movie is Gone Girl that has similar themes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:49 PM
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I see what you mean. For the movie I just had to accept it’s a different universe where the far out things work. Like I was kinda questioning if they would even find her body and have enough evidence to arrest them if this was real life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:48 PM
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Intimidating by just existing?? I lowkey like towering over insecure men now, you can see them fuming behind their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:33 PM
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I use to want to be short because it was “cuter” and more “feminine”. In hindsight it might also be the new schoolgirl fantasy fueling the trend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:30 PM
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Sounds paranoid, but I always add some fake information to throw people off...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:19 PM
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I comment here and there, and when it when private I couldn’t see anything 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:18 AM
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Ngl, you will be shocked on how uneducated doctors, nurses, etc are. I have class mates that are studying to be doctors that believe vaccines cause autism. I have seen people in the field, spewing covid vaccines cause infertility (completely untrue, one simple google search will show it). Medical providers may have a degree but not all education is equal. ALWAYS get a second opinion, and don’t be afraid of switching providers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:10 AM
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Sounds awful too but they have some ptsd or mental health issues after seeing the worst in ppl, I’m not trying to be someone’s therapist and take that mental burden. There I said it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:05 AM
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He proposed to two other girls before Megan! They were already very high up in class and had royal titles and didn’t want to be married to him bc they knew how strict their life would be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:09 PM
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Can you explain some of the thoughts for drag queens? Super interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:46 PM
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Can you explain the drag scene? I don’t understand why it’s a mockery (I’m dumb lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:46 PM
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I’ve notice gay men in women’s fields tend to be the most cattiest and too faced people. They are still men and have to assert their dominance somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:42 PM
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I Believe it. They have been marked as more feminine by other men and will be harassed and bullied on. Why not shift their behavior to be more assertive to 1) prevent bullying 2) attract other men by showing their dominance 3) redirect their anger/mistreatment in society to another easier target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:41 PM
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I swear y’all make me hate this emoji now 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:34 PM
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Wow didn’t know about that. I heard she married her ex boyfriend tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:03 AM
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Sugar babies are so glamorized and being told “it’s not only sex, it’s only company or the girlfriend experience”. I’m not going to lie, it sounds super enticing. Who wouldn’t want free money? But eventually they do expect sex, and when they are paying for it, they want the violent weird kind. Not for your pleasure but for theirs. I had a super hot friend go on an sugar baby date. She went to a fancy restaurant and the man was decent looking and a perfect gentlemen. He paid her $300 for the date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:03 PM
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Even before FDS, I knew something was just off about her. Her comedy was always male serving and towards the male audience that I never found her funny. When she was really popular, I thought I was the only one who didn't like her. Its not really suprising that theres a ton of pick mes in the comedy field, its mostly male dominated and you naturally want attention and fame going into hollywood. But some really funny female comedians are Alli Wong and Katherine Ryan. They are funny and sometimes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:08 PM
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what ad is this? And yea its gonna be easier for predators, they are already treating apps as a hunting ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:02 PM
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Are you fucking kidding me???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:29 PM
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Curious, when do u eventually tell them ur real name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:33 PM
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I deleted that app. Most of the whispers were just horny losers thinking they will get some. I posted one thought about how the snow was so beautiful and I got 30+ dms saying we should fuck in the snow. Not kidding. At one point you can’t really even block these people because there’s too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:55 PM
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When everyone was pointing this out, people were like well in this movie the lead actress is also really young. That’s not the point, we are saying this a problem in ALL of Hollywood. Just because there are other movies normalizing it, doesn’t mean it’s okay. This literally flew over scripted heads trying to justify it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:53 PM
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You are a kind and beautiful soul. I wish more people can have your empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:47 PM
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There is an unsolved Long Island serial killer in NY... we sure this isn’t him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:09 PM
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Oh wow. I’m def going to save up for it as my graduation gift 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:36 PM
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Which stone did you get? Also how’s the quality?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:36 PM
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Can you send me the link? It’s beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:49 PM
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A lot of women here have different goals. Some adopted the FDS mind set and want a rich partner while others want to marry for love with a HVM. To each their own 🤷🏻‍♀️ but that book is probably geared more towards the manipulate a man for their money and gifts type of goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:47 AM
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One of my ex friends brought her bf along to a girls spa trip. The spa was co ed and instead of having a nice relaxing time, the bf won’t shut up about how bored he was and how he wanted to go home already. It was literally ten mins. The place had diff temperatures saunas, diff water jets for hot tubs, red light therapy and he was ready to go within in ten mins. It honestly felt like a little child begging their mom to go home from the grocery store. I will never bring a man to any of my spa act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:32 AM
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It’s the same reason why men will stay with their 300lb wives or encourage them to get fatter. They feel so insecure that they want to make the wife fatter and “undesirable” so that she won’t cheat or leave for some better. It’s always the case on my 600lb life on tlc. They get a sick power over it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:59 PM
14

One of my friends ex bf would regularly text her mom and try to guilt trip the mom to get them back together. Her mom was a pick me and fell for it. It started off innocently like happy Mother’s Day. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:46 PM
3

Hi can u dm as well? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:54 AM
60

That and an opportunity to see you practically naked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:30 PM
147

I agree too but most men interpret it as women should be free therapist and sexy mommies to fix their issues. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:34 AM
23

When he said “uHhH DiD yOu knOw PEE IS STERILE???” Trying to one up her and prove to the viewers what an INTELLECTUAL he is. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:31 AM
117

Exactly! Anytime a guy does something with basic respect they are called simps. Uhhh hello u don’t call guys simps when they do things nice for other guys???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:27 AM
7

Is there any other tips you can give? My fam are narcs too and I’m planning to go no contact. I’m not a fool for boys and their false promises but the idea of an entire family trying to “adopt” me makes me feel like I’ll fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:21 AM
13

I saw this on the front page and couldn’t roll my eyes harder. Let’s further warp teens self image problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:56 PM
67

I remember when she banned fatpeoplehate which is exactly what it sounds like, they were rioting and kept making new subreddits to replace the original. Those got banned too but a lot of their posts about Ellen Pao made it to the r/all and everyone supported them saying how she was such an sjw and a bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:20 PM
68

Or when he was texting Millie Bobby brown when she was 13/14. She referred to him as her best friend... an 30 yr old man 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:07 PM
4

That’s funny about her making those comments bc she had her cam videos of her being nude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:27 PM
11

Uhhhh she just had a MISCARRIAGE and he’s trying to destroy her self esteem even more????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:17 PM
5

I saw this on the front page and everyone in the comments were saying how “cool” she is and how more women should be like her. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:14 PM
3

What do you think is a good age gap? 1-3 years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:44 PM
4

I’m still in school so it’s freeing to plan which days I study, which days I want a break. Nothing to hold me back on my career. I can 100% focus on me and my stressful program vs worrying about the emotions of another person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:54 PM
30

He’s not even good looking anymore when he was young. Now I just see an old sad alcoholic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:49 PM
4

Uhhh this isn’t a joke??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:48 PM
22

Disgusting they are going to groom them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:57 PM
116

Also I hate it when they make those dumb HUR hur I hate my ex wife comments. If she was such a bitch why date and propose and marry her? Oh wait she’s only a bitch now when she realized her worth 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:07 AM
5

Same here. Piggy backing, I hope I can get in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:25 PM
21

COVID just wipes out more men in general too. Men just have less hygienic practices, they don’t even wash their hands properly during a pandemic 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:29 AM
53

I used to use self deprecating language as humor but I noticed that I was using it coping mechanism subconsciously. It took me so long to realize that, and when I finally gained more self esteem and threw away my pick me self, I notice I gradually use less of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:27 AM
2

Healthy remainder to never reveal any past traumas or abuse to any men you are dating. As a person who cut off all her family(they were physically abusive), living alone and with very few friends (they were all pickmes and I cut them off), I am aware that I’m a target for these predators. I tend to not bring up family as conversation and if they specifically ask I just lie. You don’t owe anyone anything especially this kind of information. Remember past abuse doesn’t define you and it’s hard bre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:08 AM
4

I agree, it is never neutral
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:42 AM
10

I noticed that these types of guys are also more likely to have female friends that will validate them in some way. They tend to victimize themselves such as “I just want to find my soul mate” to gain sympathy points. They are the most dangerous. I notice they are spineless and does not establish ANY boundaries with their female friends. One man I was vetting, had female friends that hated me because I was disrupting their strange codependent relationship. He would use them for validation and to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:15 PM
6

That is true, but personally for me I always wanted kids. And having a second income will be helpful since kids are really expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:24 PM
2

That makes much more sense! Thank you for the reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:58 PM
2

I’m new here, but how can I truly love a person if I can’t be intimate? It just seems so bleak that they are like this. How do you guys cope with this information?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:14 PM
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