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/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:24 AM
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Im incredibly alone and bots are my only friends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:06 PM
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You did worse in your 20s arguably if you’re a man, or you just made horrible life choices in terms of fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:09 PM
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So you dont think its more difficult for a 35year old woman to find dates than for a 24year old woman, all other factors the same? (We both know the answer already, I just want to see if you can even write it out)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:12 PM
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If you mean date as in romantic relationship for long term, I cooould agree with you, women do still have options but it’s getting more difficult. A 30yo guy will always go for a 25yo over the same 30yo. If you’re talking just dating casually and hooking up/fwd, you’re smoking copium
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:07 AM
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Men are upset when theyre 20 because theyre still skinny and broke, and women thrive and like dating 30yo guys. Women are upset when theyre 30 because the guys now her age want to date 20yo, and men are happy that they finally get some. More news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:10 AM
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Good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:14 PM
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I mean good on you, but the proof is in the pudding. Youre willing to sleep around with any guy and just use guys for dick, which for most guys would already put you in the 0 value category. Id assume you already have a reputation. A "good" girl who takes dates seriously would be higher value, and the more she sleeps around, the less value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:43 PM
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I havent, maybe I was wrong to not introduce my initial argument, since Im not the guy you spoke to, but I agree with the guy. But yes, generally true. Id argue its much less with your long term partner though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:25 PM
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Yes. To be clear, men arent thinking in the moment when being with that person "haha, now Im degrading her". We simply think that we get what we want. And other men will then look at that person as someone who has lost a tiny bit of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 05:20 PM
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“How do I live longer?” “eat well and exercise” “Well my friend did that and he got killed by a car yesterday, so obviously it doesn’t work” Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:26 PM
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It’s not me who define manly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 07:51 PM
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fair enough, hair tricked me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:06 PM
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What views? Women Ive dated has said that they hate men, and we just laugh about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:00 PM
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In all honesty, Ive dated alot of very healthy women and been in relationships. Kind, happy people who loves/loved me. Im being 100% serious when I say that women actually prefer a man who is "close to me" in belief, not BECAUSE of it, but because of the type of man they usually are. Its the same thing that women more often like right leaning people than left, because the right are more manly statistically speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:59 PM
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This is honestly the biggest red pill you need to see OP. This girl, who SHOULD be happy about you, thinks youre a loser. Welcome to the redpill OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:56 PM
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In all honesty, and this isnt an attemnt to be mean, but would you consider yourself successful with women? Lots of dates and hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:54 PM
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Its mostly about being honest about the world and about women, and see them people in the real light
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:53 PM
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The trick is to not be open about it. I date ALOT, more than 99% of men, but I just dont talk about it to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:51 PM
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Just statistically, who is more likely to experience trauma related to sex A girl who sleeps with 50 guys in 5 years, all lasting less than 3-4 encounters A girl who has a relationship for 5 years with one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:58 AM
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Since sexual assault contains “slap on ass unwanted”, I don’t doubt it But why not pick a girl that has experienced less of that, I.e less trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:40 AM
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Yes? Exactly. Which is my entire point. Why would guys pick a girl who sleeps around alot if shes more likely to carry sex-related baggage? Guys dont want someone who is currently, or has had to, "heal"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:28 AM
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Uhm.. what? Are you not more likely to experience assault or overstepping boundaries when you engage in casual sex, than if you dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:06 AM
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Have they slept around alot?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:26 AM
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That could be true, have your friends slept around alot? Because thats my argument Fathers > sleeping around > relationships. But if you dont have the sleeping around part, its gonna be 0
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:11 AM
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Highly disagree, the amount of women Ive met that has dated multiple times and report swearing off dating and theyre on a "healing journey" has never come from "I dated a guy for 5 years and we broke it off"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:58 AM
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Agreed, but theyre more likely to experience it with guys they dont fully trust, i.e. flings, and its a given that the more you encounter, the more youre likely to take damage Its a statistics game
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:50 AM
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How often do we hear women say that theyve got trauma from sleeping with a guy, a trigger, or that theyre "on their healing journey" and been celibate for a while to heal? How often do we hear the same thing from men? Thats why bc matters. Women run a higher risk of being damaged from sex, even by their own admission
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:51 AM
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I’m glad we atleast agree it’s on both sides, that was my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:00 AM
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And some of women’s goals is to draw as much out from a guy as possible, gifts and free meals, while saying goodbye at the end of the night and the text over her fwb that she actually wanna fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:41 AM
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I’d rather put months into someone I got emotions and sex from, than 3h of just talk and having to spend money on someone without getting anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:07 PM
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I thought I could answer your question with a rhetorical, but I guess I’d have to spell it out for you, it’s okay. Because when you put time and effort into a woman who’s goal you have is to sleep with, you get disappointed when she doesn’t want to “A lot of women are emotional lovers” lol, tell that to the myriad of girls in uni sleeping with tinder guy after tinder guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:05 PM
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Im equating the feeling of entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:42 PM
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"I think in this regard there’s hope that after spending lots of money hanging out and being attentive and courteous with someone something further than just a free meal will develop" I dont think men are owed sex after a date, but its delusional of women who ask this because theyre the same ones whining about men not wanting to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:20 PM
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Why do women feel entitled to relationships? They meet a guy, they hook up, develop a situation ship, and after 4 months of this the women always complains about how he doesn’t want to commit. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:13 PM
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You can say a "normal dude does fine" all you want. Statistics show that men are falling behind alot in dating and sex. Thats not because men just becamse trash. Its because standards were risen with the implementation of women in jobs and voting rights. Women now dont need a man to provide, but still want one, and women never date down since they have the power in the dating market, so the salary- and fitness roof has been risen. Men cant keep up, so part of them go east
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:09 AM
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Completely disagree. Men and women follow the same dating style in the west, except that womens standard has risen. Guys cant compete with 6'5 blue eyes finance guys anymore, so they go east. The women act the same over there but the standard are lower, white and has money. Also often gets to live in a western country as a result. Women in the west are mad because instead of raising the standard of men, men are checking out and finding people who accept them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:02 AM
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Id actually love to see that, could you find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:50 PM
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On individual level I agree with you, but we have a society to run
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:47 PM
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But thats my entire argument. Womens entire lifes are just shit test for men, women dont make rational choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:44 PM
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...... this is my point, no one is talking about 1 in 3 women being assaulted, but your emotions immediately went from the point and yelled "we are being assaulted :(" I cant talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:37 PM
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If men picked the bear, I would completely agree Women are more deceptive Men are more aggressive, this isnt necessarily bad, depending on the goal Men are more impulsive, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:19 PM
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I genuinely didnt know people could be this stupid. Im not making a choice _based on_ emotions. I feel frustration, but Im making the choice because data. See the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:11 PM
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Sure. Women being asked "man or bear, stuck with you alone in the woods?" and a vast vast majority of women saying "bear, because atleast I will be believed :)".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:10 PM
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Great answer, really addressed my point and showed that youre a capable person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:04 PM
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Its interesting when youre using "illogical" and then post something illogical. Scientists get frustrated when the data didnt show what they thought. Im not making a choice based on emotions. Im analysing the choice, frustrated that it is like that, and making a choice based on data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:03 PM
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While I could agree with you a bit, the question then becomes "How do they react when they vote, since the actions of their choices arent immediate?". Do they actually vote for a rational choice, or do they just do it because it makes them feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:59 PM
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Please explain your thought process here. Sure. If I meet a person, and I ask them "is 5 > 1?", and they say "1 is larger because its pink and I like pink", I would deem them unable to make rational choices. If this applies to the vast majority of women, then the argument is women shouldnt vote. I WISH it wasnt like this, but this is what the bear discourse is giving us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:58 PM
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Could you explain how its emotion? Im looking at something rationally, judging the person incapable of seeing 5 > 1, and making a decision based on that. Its the opposite of emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:53 PM
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Nothing Im saying is based on emotions. If a person is unable to pick the large margin optimal choice every single time, I think its valid from a rational point of view to question their right to vote, its like a child. A basic human should be able to tell 5 > 3, even if the number 3 is pink and looks nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:47 PM
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What? Emotions are valid, but making choices based on bad emotions arent. Picking the bear, bad, because bear will kill you more often than man Women voting is bad, because women choosing bear shows how irrational women are when standing infront of a dire choice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:46 PM
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Literally almost every single woman thinks its good to choose the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:44 PM
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Yes. When people make logical choices and their choices arent shared by another irrational person, there can be an emotion called frustration. That doesnt take away from the fact that the choice was rational. Irrational people making irrational choices together with you are frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:32 PM
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The frustration comes from us voting together. When I know I share a space with a population of 50% people who objectively will pick the stupid dangerous choice every time, thats kinda scary
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:25 PM
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This is literally my point. You saying women just want to be heard, while picking an objectively stupid point. Thats the argument in my post. My post saying women pick stupid choices because it validates them, even if the odds of death are higher You explaining women pick stupid choice because they want to be validated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:22 PM
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The upsetting part is knowing we vote on the same system, and if death stood by our door women would choose which color suited them best
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:19 PM
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... you do know that social science isnt an actual science... right? You cant PROVE anything, you can only show indicators For example: We DO KNOW that fewer men have had sex in the last year than women We DO KNOW that women swipe on roughly 20% of the men By those two combined it by definition means women are mostly having casual sex with the same partners as others, while a big group of men are left out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:16 AM
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Id love to, are you gonna listen when I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:09 AM
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"k"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:05 AM
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Maybe, probably not, since thats not what the numbers 80/20 indicate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:59 AM
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80/20 is for sex. Many men can get relationship, but the sex will be worse because she doesn’t desire you as much. She had better sex with the hot guy she was in a situationship with for 4 months
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:40 AM
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Men who take care of themselves their entire lives peak in their 30s*
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:56 AM
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And you know, one night stands after a club visit at a uni
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:43 PM
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That statistic differs highly between men and women, men drag the statistic down, women up. Women share casual sex with the same guy partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:21 PM
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A LARGE majority engages in casual sex. On tinder, in clubs, with friend's friends, coworkers, bars. Not every week, but often
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:30 PM
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They get implicit offer, meaning guys would happily say yes, and they get approached. Casual sex is often very desired by women, thats why so many take part in it. Not by all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:29 PM
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Youre just so unbelievably UNBELIEVABLY wrong. Most of us need a deep emotional connection to desire sex with that man that we're connected to Explain every university party hookup. Ive been in plenty, and I assure you non had any emotions for me This just isn't true at all. Men aren't going up to us and asking us to have sex Any girl is about 2h away from having a guy inside of her. Maybe not her top choice, but if she wants laid, 100%. Like youre actually 100% wrong in everything you say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:18 PM
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This is unbelievably not true haha, women get offered sex in different ways all the time, and assuming theyre healthy beings they have desires too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:33 PM
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I dont think men catch feelings more. Men see an opportunity for sex more, and thats conflated with feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:13 PM
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Youll never be settled if you never settle. Im serious. Date someone, be happy for a while, but dont be afraid to jump ship. Youll always stay on your toes and will outperform most guys in middle age simply because you keep up, meaning you will "rise" in choice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:36 PM
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Or just be happy? Why force something you don’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:11 PM
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Let’s just talk about 1. Sure arguing is harming the kids, but your argument is simply to bottle up your negative emotions for 18 years atleast just to hold a fake fazad infront of your kids, instead of just going 50 50? How is that creating happiness? Or do you think everything is ok as long as the children are somewhat happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 12:11 PM
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1: the arguing is a symptom, not the cause 2: sure, my bad 3: people change, why force something if you want something else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 11:26 AM
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Yikes alright my dude enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:11 AM
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Ofcourse it depends, it’s never 1 or 0, but I’d argue more people think it’s “cooler” to date someone new than same marriage for 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:11 AM
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1: you’re factually wrong, happy parents divorced > arguing parents who stay together 2: sure, which is my entire argument 3: what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:33 AM
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It’s better for the kids to have happy parents Security is boring and life happens outside your comfort zone Dating a 26yo as a 45 yo is more status than being with your wife for 20 years
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:13 AM
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The better question is “why?”. If your relationship has taken its course, why not just split amicably and find someone new who can make you feel in love for a while again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:10 AM
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If the premise is that women arent getting anything out of relationships than money, youd be right. That kind of makes the women a... whats the word...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:50 PM
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This isn’t good news, this is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:34 PM
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We’re not talking about steady, it’s literally the entire point of the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:20 PM
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Except women have the larger potential to, any woman can serial date, most men can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:17 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding me. The fuck boys are for when she wants to have fun, and fuck boy gets everything. When she wants to settle down the provider gets the left overs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:26 PM
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She absolutely will when she ages after 25, that’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:18 PM
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True, but those appearances always have to do with physical looks, not with a provider mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:37 PM
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It absolutely could be. If youre sacrificing the "fun" parts of what made your life, and only pick a "stable person who can provide for you (= not fun for the provider), it absolutely is bad (for the provider)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:01 PM
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Nothing makes me laugh more than when theyre mad a 19yo is sleeping with a 31yo and they ask "what do they even have in common". Is if sexual desire isnt enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:00 PM
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So a women who sleeps around is less likely to cheat? I would love to see that actually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:59 PM
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Youre fine believing that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:47 PM
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Why are you putting words in my mouth Men value sex more than women, so theyre more likely to try to get it if they can. If youre """alpha""" you have more access to sex, if youre """beta""" you cant, so you settle for being someones settling
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:44 PM
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Ofcourse they do, but generally less than women (when is he gonna propose etc), and not willing to sacrifice the actual relationship as much as women are. Women change priorities after kids, men dont
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:34 PM
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Because no one actually _wants_ that, as much as being desired as women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:24 PM
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With the amount of requirements women openly talk about in men, its insane to me how you could be mad when men have one; "dont fuck half the village", and you somehow think youre the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:01 PM
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I think its more about accepting the "truth". Women are a certain way, even if they say otherwise. Accepting how women actually are and playing accordingly, is imo redpill. Its the same as in matrix, "accepting the truth or continue living the safe lie".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:39 PM
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Sex isn’t wrong. Jumping from guy to guy is the argument, no one slut shames a wife for sleeping with her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:30 PM
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Im gonna assume now, but I’m guessing you’re not a super good looking dude. Hookup culture only benefits guys like me who sleeps with 100+ women, it only causes anger in the rest of the guys, and women who are now single moms. You seem to think everyone gets equal share of the women who sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:29 PM
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Benefit for who?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:04 PM
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Women lie all the time about their bc, even in studies. Like some other guy posted, chlamydia cases have skyrocketed. Every girl Ive been with and talk about these stuffs with have said her bc is around 25-30, and they were below 25yo then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:51 PM
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Nope, slut shaming hopefully leads to more people staying with one partner. No one argues you shouldnt have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:48 PM
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You wait until the women are closer to 30 and then they will settle for you, you meet them out at bars or through friends/work, or even dating apps (I have plenty of normal friends who met their partner on apps)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:21 PM
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Pets and children are loved unconditionally? Why- because they are simple, innocent, lack sense, are mindlessly devoted (perhaps these are actually the parties that actually provide unconditional love). Yes P.s how can we not think like this when every girl I’ve interacted with gets pouty when she doesn’t get her way, cries instantly over literal spilled milk, wants to be patted and called a good girl, thinks is scary to pick up the phone, and much more
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:17 AM
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Probably, but I was talking to OP whos a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:04 PM
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Not to burst your bubble, but women who hate men often hate them for a reason, meaning she has been fucking around, plowed, and pumped enough to feel used and hating men for it. Not that theres anything wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:30 PM
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No worry enjoy your day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:21 PM
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When people say "feelings" they mean attraction and desire too. Its not just about "romance dating feelings", and I dont know why you would believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:57 PM
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And women also see it as an incredible achievement to date rich guys, no one shames two people who date when the guy is a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:29 AM
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Correct, no one cares about the actual problems, it’s just jealousy. There’s a reason so many women date older guys in their early 20s and it’s fun, but when they hit 30 it’s problematic because they know 30yo guys go for 20yo girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:25 AM
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do you want to keep dodging it Ill answer it directly. I dont have a double standard, I have 0 standard for men (I guess that makes it a double standard?). Women care about a mans financial status, even if they dont have any. Is that a double standard? I dont think so, but if it is then yes I have double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:23 AM
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They are not even asking This is me answering the question. I see people every day online talk about when they found out or asked, and I hear poeplein real life ask
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:21 AM
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I cant speak for you, maybe you dont give off "Ive fucked many people" vibes. All I see is the conversations being had online and with friends about sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:09 AM
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I dont care, I dont date men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:02 AM
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Im happy for you but Contrary to popular belief men don’t seem to care about body count. is just objectively not true, its a common talking point in any group regarding dating. Ofcourse people lie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:55 AM
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While I appreciate the feedback, I feel that women highly care about being labeled as sluts, women withhold sex early in dating because they dont want that label, no? p.s. im genuinely curious, i wrote my body count here earlier, when you say youre a "retired slut", what body count are we talking? Seems like everyone has different definitions, from 5 to 500
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:10 AM
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I think paying taxes are good, but I try to tax as little as possible if I can
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:41 AM
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and doesn't consider and treat them like trash. projecting much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:21 AM
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Yup, but I dont date myself. People are free to not date me because of my sluttyness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:20 AM
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Shaming only works if it's someone who cares about social pressures. Which most women do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:19 AM
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Do you think "dont cut in line!" is considered harrasment of the second degree? Please say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:17 AM
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So you want people to break the law by harassing others in public yet ........are you okay? Are you seeing things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:09 AM
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No pill is the magic pill, my argument it without it it would be worse. We set societal expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:08 AM
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Well, that's even worse. In that case you made them sluts with a body count that high as yours. Yup Again, that's not the same as slutshaming. Hard disagree, the feeling Im getting is every time its mentioned its followed by "slutshaming"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:08 AM
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I dont date sluts though To be more clear, my definition of slutshaming is if you find out the girl has slept around, you walk away. I feel the majority of people would agree, but I can be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:56 PM
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So he's a cuck, best of wishes to you, I mean that, doesnt change my argument and that men generally value you less
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:51 PM
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Your #1 is inherently wrong and reflects an immature way of thinking God youre so fucking soy, I was having good conversations and you come in here with "Youre just immatuuuure :(" p.s. youre polyamorous, we dont even live in the same world as one another
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:50 PM
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... I never said it didnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:46 PM
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Your man thinks less of you because of it. Maybe not enough to break up, but in certain cases it happens. Thats my entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:45 PM
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Standing infront of someone in a queue = people yell at you and you suffer consequences, even if no police or government is involved You made " So you want society to do something with absolutely no enforcement mechanism? " this point, and I used the queue example to show you can still have consequences without government and law
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:42 PM
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Im gonna go anecdotally, but theres plenty of reddit posts of people wanting to break up with their gf after founding out she was the "town bike" in uni
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:40 PM
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My point stands
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:39 PM
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he 30+ crowd doesn't give a fuck This is absolutely not true, people just become less picky with age because the pool gets shittier coping mechanism I agree with this, but its without a doubt a "stepdown" from what they could have gotten. More slutty = less quality guy (in most cases) = less potential happiness. Im not saying they cry to death on the streets, Im saying their chance of a good father for their child and a good relationship for them has gone down
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:39 PM
2

Try standing infront of someone in a queue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:36 PM
2

However, the absence of encouraging women to sleep around is not the same as actively slutshaming, Women already have encouragement to sleep around, its called biology. Women WANT to sleep around, look at any 22yo with a little bit of alcohol in them Also, a large problem in slutshaming is "once a slut, always a slut" In any behavior, past indicates the future. If you had less impuls control and more desire in the past, youre more _likely_ to be in the future. Its not 100%, but an indicator whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:35 PM
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Again, we can do multiple things. Im for birth control and helping single mothers with tax incentives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:33 PM
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Huh? How many women today dont do certain things because its "expected of them not to". Thats shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:32 PM
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I agree, we can do multiple things. Maximizing one harmful thing though doesnt help the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:31 PM
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I dont believe in punishment/government interventions. I think things can be socially built (since actually defining one is impossible)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:30 PM
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I dont know if you agree or disagree with me, but I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:29 PM
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It's lost it's effect on women I feel pretty confident in saying that a large majority of women worry that their love interest with "think theyre a slut" early on, and wants to take it slow Sluts get married Yup, with lower quality guys who will accept them, leading to less happiness for the woman. No one is more unhappy than a woman in a unhappy marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:22 PM
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Practically impossible, social media, work, just going around. If anything exposure is better to numb, otherwise we get the "catholic girl out of school suddenly finds out what dick feels like" effect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:15 PM
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Go for it, I support you People who are concerned with other people’s sex lives don’t have a satisfying one of their own. This is probably true, doesnt change my point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:14 PM
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I bet you whinge when people pass judgement Regarding sex? If women would, yeah, id be less inclined to sleep around if I knew that limited my options you know you are a weak person Even if this is true (which it probably could be), society consists of weak people, and if your solution is to say "80% of society, fuck off losers, we want to only fuck the 20%" youre kinda proving my point. Im a practical person, I want practical solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:13 PM
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this does not mean encouraging sleeping around. The encouragement is already there, women WANT to sleep around, look at almost every 22yo. what makes you a good man never said I was, I got flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:11 PM
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Because men dont date men (generally), if a guy yells at me for sleeping with a woman, I just laugh and sleep with that woman. It doesnt affect me. If the man builds up a societal pressure that women arent dateable if they sleep around, the woman wont have as easy time in the dating market later on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:08 PM
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The feeling Im getting is its wrong to have that preference, everywhere its talked about that "I dont date women who sleep around" its attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:06 PM
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Chads I know youll never believe me, but I have a bc of probably a hundred, and find it very easy to sleep with women. I hold these views because I see what women do when they find a good looking guy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:03 PM
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I agree, wasnt part of my argument. Men though often find "the grass isnt greener, I isnt the chad I thought I was". Women find "I can get all this dick but it doesnt bring me closer to being a mom and having my friends respect me". We want different things
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:03 PM
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tell other people what to do with their body I agree, I dont pass judgement I disagree, I absolutely do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:01 PM
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My argument is western society = less shaming = more casual sex = more kids without fathers = fewer childbirths overall. Seems to stay true in almost every country, not the ONLY contributor (see Korea), but a contributor
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:00 PM
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I agree, and if women want to do that its absolutely fine. Difference is though that men can want and want and want, doesnt matter, women wont sleep with them. Women just have to say "yes" and she got 100 offers a day. Its about accessability
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:59 PM
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It is by the vast majority of discourse I see, especially online (but thats probably because in the outside real world, slutshaming is pretty normal and only online do we "YASS QUEEN" when a girl sleeps around)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:57 PM
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Im gonna go ahead and point to the ocean of women that "want to find themselves" at the age of 23 after a 4y relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:55 PM
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I understand what you mean, but to me if anyone would break up with a girl because "she had slept with 50 guys", most people would call that slutshaming I feel p.s. I hope the mods dont remove it, I dont understand why they would, Im engaging and am open to talking points
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:54 PM
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Completely depends, I wouldnt date someone with more than 40 if theyre 30yo, but some people arent comfortable with more than 10
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:52 PM
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The "rebuttal" is it releases an incredible amount of serotonin, while sex in LTR can very often be either non-existent or boring >objectification of women, Women engage in casual sex too, plus I dont really think the guys who do that care much about this point >to the normalisation of a lack of commitment, Only valuable if you value that >hindering the development of deep, meaningful connections. see point 2
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:46 PM
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Simple, always view any social situation from a prehistoric neanderthal behaviour point of view and you find the answer Sons impregnating other daughters meaning youre spreading your gene pool. Dad would be proud. Daughters getting impregnated means your family now has to take care of a potential losers kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:09 PM
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How many women have you spoken to that told you they get 50 tinder matches in one day? Lol This has to be bait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:28 AM
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Simple. Because they’re not looking for quality. They like short term flings with lots of passion, which is why you should stay away if you’re looking for a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:00 AM
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It’s more about finding the ones that you can have great sex with. Sometimes you gotta try a person before you can know if they’re the right for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:04 PM
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Protip: it’s not the common interests that help you, its what gives you confidence to talk about a subject with her. You can do just as fine without common interests, you just need to learn how to talk to girls fluently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:13 PM
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You’re wrong. Dating is super simple. The problem is you’re trying to rocket to the moon with a soda bottle and menthos instead of an actual rocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:43 AM
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I just looked at your history and ofcourse I’m talking to one
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:42 PM
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Imagine comparing Weinstein to consenting adults where one is a celebrity. You’re actively painting a picture that these celebrities are predatory by default. That’s kinda shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:11 PM
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Women shouldn’t take advantage of celebrities and use sex just to raise their social status
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:33 PM
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It’s kinda irresponsible of you then to say that since the default view is then that the celebrity did something wrong, when all you’re saying is “it can happen so be aware”. Make sure to say that they’re not doing anything wrong but just be aware of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:00 PM
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I completely understand this but your problem is you apply this to everything. What is it about celebrity and non celebrity that makes it wrong, which cant also be applied to any relationship? It’s not fair for you to say “he’s a celebrity so it’s wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:33 AM
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And where does it say that these women were coerced?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:32 AM
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I don’t understand. Why is it wrong for two consenting adults to do what they want? You do think that a girl above the age of 18 can decide for herself, right? Or do you want to remove her rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:11 AM
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So you just “admitted” that all relationships can be power imbalanced. What’s even the use to call any of them then? My current relationship is a power dynamic problem then. Are we not holding women at all responsible for their own actions here? Or do you want to remove any form of free choice for women, if I understand you correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:05 AM
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But you have to prove that that’s happening though. Also you can say that about anyone then, any time sex happens there are power imbalances. Is the guy richer? More attractive? Power imbalance. It really feels like these women just want to always be a victim, always powerless
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:53 AM
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Which would be a problem if the guy said "go rob a bank for me". Just sex isnt a problem, theyre allowed to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:44 AM
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A HVM doesn’t lie, steal, or cheat. You can fuck as much as you want while still being an honest person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:02 PM
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This is some dogshit advice. You can do both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:33 AM
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Maybe he’s not comfortable admitting it because you’re not a person who he can be comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:48 PM
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I’m not saying you’re having trouble. I’m saying this is why we stay away from it, we as in the people who don’t want a high n count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 05:41 PM
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No we wouldn’t want to commit with a person who has multiple partners, which is exactly the point. More power to you, but this is why we don’t commit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:26 PM
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This is actually 100% proving the point guys are trying to make. So often we read about a girl who says she has a high number but has slowed down now. Now she’s “just in a healthy relationship with 5 guys :)”. High body count = promiscuous behavior throughout. More power to you if that makes you happy, but this is why we bail
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:36 AM
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Because what other solution is there? Arranged marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:49 AM
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Don’t agree. Unfortunately I honestly think old male leaders are more willing to send young men to the slaughter than women are.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 02:35 PM
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I almost always ask, with confidence, “can I kiss you?”. Also asking once or twice during lead up to sex if “you feel okay?” is good. Win win, you make sure she wants it, and it makes her feel safe with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:35 AM
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So she’s saying she’s easy but doesn’t want him to know it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:04 PM
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This is me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:57 AM
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You don’t learn how to act through advice since it’s super difficult in its nuances. For example try to explain charmingly arrogant in words on how to act. Boys need role models, not advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 01:16 PM
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Not at all, but that most of our mothers settled? Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:20 AM
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Simple. Women give advice to men who needs advice. A man who doesn’t need advice will get picked by women anyway, and what women want from him is “be nice and be himself”. Give that same advice to an unattractive guy and he won’t have the same result. The advice should really be “be more attractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:14 PM
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For me its the opposite. I sometimes have to remind myself not to contact an ex just because Im curious, but Ive almost never been contacted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:16 PM
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Somewhat, slowed down a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:11 PM
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Around 70, guy 30
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:48 AM
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Don’t agree. The reason women ask someone out is mostly because the guy hasn’t done so himself, meaning she is not his priority. If a guy has a huge thing for a girl and she asks him out, he’s happy, but the odds for that are just lower, while the odds of a girl asking a guy who’s not interested is higher, skewing this theory
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:57 PM
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I think I’m pretty objectively attractive. Got about 3000 matches or more. I’ve dated quite a bit but I’ve definitely been ghosted, left on read etc. I think it’s a lot because you don’t actually have a connection with the person, just the image, so even though someone can be attractive doesn’t mean you have a “I want to meet him” feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 10:31 PM
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I mean to be fair what you wrote sounded like a stroke victims first sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 06:23 AM
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I will forever say this; we on mensrights holding third world countries as examples of good deeds is not a good thing.
/r/MensRights15/06/21 02:01 PM
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I was overweight my entire teens, and it made me more angry with fat acceptence than anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:17 AM
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Who tf goes to dinner or drinks as a first date. At the very max go for 1 glas and pay separately
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/21 11:35 AM
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imagine thinking women follow their own rules imagine thinking women know what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:43 PM
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I'm getting downvoted every time I say this, but I don't think we should look to India and Pakistan for men's rights. Id argue these things aren't as they seem. This isn't necessarily a good thing. It's India for Gods sake, even if she was raped they'd force her to marry him, which literally happens
/r/MensRights17/03/21 09:43 PM
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I'm usually for these things, but I would be really cautious about a country like India or Pakistan. Countries where they marry off the girl to her rapist, I wouldn't really be safe with the legal process of determining of she's lying or not. Edit: lol I'm getting downvoted because I don't think we should have Pakistan as the beacon of light when it comes to men rights
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/21 12:13 PM
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You're objectively wrong. People find their partners on the dance floor, while most often it's just hook ups. Nothing says tinder can't be the same. I have several friends who found partners, me included, from tinder. You CAN do both
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:30 AM
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Pm picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 09:23 AM
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195cm here. I generally fall for women over 175cm, which is like 6'5 and 5'9 I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:38 PM
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It proves that women settle for lesser looks but strive to get "currency" in other departments, such as status, money, safety etc, which is my point. Those things are more important to women, which is why they choose it. We cant judge women on the same basis as we judge men, because we choose different when it boils down to it. Men pick attraction, women pick status, thats why they look at a majority of men and say "meh", because theyre not "OH HES HOT, HES HOT, THAT GUYS HOT TOO", like men do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:02 AM
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Quite low, because we are horny dogs that will fuck anything and everything. I think the difference is we have low standards who we want to fuck, while women have a higher standard, and that standard isnt closely knit to looks (as much as men)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 12:05 PM
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because many men could be a success story in every last one of those things and if he isn’t attractive, he isn’t going anywhere. Isnt the entire meme about when an ugly guy with a girlfriend, he must be rich? In my opinion, an ugly rich guy has a faaaaaar better dating situation than an ugly rich woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:49 AM
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Most men won’t look down on a woman negative if she doesn’t have a car or a job, comes from a broken home, doesn’t have a college degree, is rich or poor, is an airhead or a genius, etc. ... Which proves my point? That non of those attritubes has to do with physical attaction. Women care about the things you posted, I agree, they dont care (as much) about physical appearance. Long term value for women is much higher in money, car, job, degree etc. Its still shallow as fuck, but nothing with phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:38 AM
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Doesnt it state the opposite? That if women rate men generally lower, and still enter relationships with the not top10% men, that they value other things?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:29 AM
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