This is a theory Ive started working on since I read a post about women who claimed they werent attracted to their partners in the start, but now they are.

My theory is that women experience many difference kinds of attraction. Some sexual, some emotional. The emotional aspect is brought through things like feeling supported, feeling safe, having a partner they trust.

My point of this post is that these versions of attraction manifest themselves in different ways. Guys often complain that women "let chad do this/that with them" but with their current bf they wont. Thats because there was a sexual attraction towards "chad". They want him, bad. But for their current boyfriend, they feel attraction in a safe, loving way, but not a sexual way. For them the sex then is just a matter of connecting, not experiencing raw sex. Thats why the bedroom is more dead in those situations, because although the women loves her boyfriend, its a different sort of attraction they have.