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I hate all the couples costumes where the man is a character and the woman is a literal object. Like man painter, woman...canvas. Or man miner, woman...lump of gold. How is that cute???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:15 PM
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hope it doesn't lull more women into a false sense of security.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:24 PM
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they say we've reached equality and then ask questions like this. hobby spaces are supposed to be how you escape the world but we're marginalized in them, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:03 AM
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it aligns with his worldview and what he wants to hear so it must be RAW TRUTH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:52 PM
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sws use social media for advertising. he's mistaking male pandering for "honesty" about the "human experience" lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:11 PM
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I had a dude whining about the money he spent on gas to drive to my town for 50/50 dates he asked for after I broke it off with him. I said are you asking for $20 as payment for not spending the rest of my life with you? they're always gonna make themselves the victim so you might as well let them pay for dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:17 PM
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and then he's mad when she gets custody of the kids and the kidneys :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:23 PM
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he's advertising that he doesn't drink enough water?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:02 PM
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if you're afraid of dying with no one by your bedside your best investment is in female friendships. my grandmother has been the one comforting and advocating for all her dying friends who have been long widowed. also it's just weird to live your whole life based on trying to make the last few moments a little more bearable - especially when there are millions of random factors that could throw that plan off anyway. it's an empty fear tactic to make you settle for less than the treatment you des…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:39 PM
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just an innocent humorous husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:02 PM
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so she said this because she thought there would be no condoms because she didn't want to do it...and he's excited to gotcha her into a sex act she's uncomfortable with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:19 PM
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another thought: the way they villify this mistress is the reason single women start being excluded as their friends marry and get older. They frame her as 40, single, "running out of time" to have a baby and husband, so she decides to steal another woman's life out from under her. (This is a dude who posted revenge porn of his ex wife, I wouldn't say he's an innocent and upstanding man that was manipulated by another woman.) The idea that older single women are desperate and will steal a husban…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:07 PM
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they'll find any way to blame a woman for a man doing wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:01 PM
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like even if he does do all this...so do most of the women who give up their name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:05 AM
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yeah that one...theoretically he would risk his life for his family and so it doesn't matter that his wife would literally risk her life to make that family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:24 AM
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lol he's making his voice deeper to give this condescending speech what a cliche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:43 PM
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"some qualities are attractive in men and unattractive in women" translation: I don't like to be treated how I treat others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:24 PM
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I just don't understand how porn is simultaneously no big deal and something they can't be asked to live without.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:07 PM
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if your "dark humor" is about a struggle other people face and you don't, that's not "dark humor" that's bullying/abuse/oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:31 PM
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and also use the idea that men built and invented everything as "evidence" of their superiority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:24 PM
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so his roommates feed him all week and when it's his turn he makes his gf do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:00 PM
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this is real. when I was 22 I heard a male friend say "*insert talented woman in our professional niche* is my hero." I didn't know why I was crying until I realized it was the first time I had ever heard a man recognize a woman (who was not his mom) as a person to look up to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:54 PM
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YoU'rE NOt a PrInCesS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:10 PM
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slang for talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:01 PM
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it's a tweet, not a term paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:57 PM
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what they mean: let us rape a selection of financially vulnerable women or we'll rape all of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:46 PM
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ahaha she looks happy healthy and gorgeous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:22 PM
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yeah even in communities when women are abused by someone with a good reputation or power it's so much harder for them. I can't imagine that scaled up to a celebrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:04 PM
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yeah pretty low level stand up comedian. dude bro fans. first saw him like 7 years ago on MTV's Girl Code and Guy Code, $5 production value, just some stand ups and influencers making pithy comments about chosen topics. (pre FDS so I'm sure both were misogynist as hell but I wouldn't have been able to discern that at the time).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:02 PM
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yes true. also don't put anything about or answer questions about "what kind of man you like" or "what you're looking for" explicitly. it's basically handing a manipulator the pamphlet on how to manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:54 PM
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my cat has been with me fifteen years and has never made me feel sad or bad about myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:32 PM
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helps his anxiety? like drugs and alcohol do? would rather self medicate, stay sick, destroy his girlfriend's self esteem, waste ridiculous money, than go to a therapist and do the work of learning to handle anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:22 PM
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I ghosted too. "Closure" is dangerous with manipulators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:17 PM
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this is so unsurprising I turned on that show and didn't make it through 8 seconds. his grimy energy and unearned ego was overwhelming even through the screen. I wish her so much peace and healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:16 PM
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oh the "you'll never find someone else like me" cliche. yeah...I uh... hope not to, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:13 PM
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haha exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:03 PM
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usually I don't harp on grammar but his incorrectly putting "I" before the other subject in his sentences seems pathological. edit: added an s for better grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:17 PM
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classic negging + the idea men have that bigger women are so lowly and desperate they should be honored to be offered sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:26 AM
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by adulthood good people are usually pretty aware of their faults and actively try to improve themselves or act against their natural tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:46 PM
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SISTER never date a man that finds your time so valueless. the things you could do with all that time wasted watching someone else do something: read cool books, improve your skills at your hobby, write or make cool things, learn new things, start a side business, get fresh air, watch a show that makes you giggle. like yes, if you want a relationship you have to put in time- learning about each other, building trust, having new experiences together. but watching someone play games does not build…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:14 PM
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that's awesome! you're strong and I'm proud of you as a sister to take that step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:48 PM
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"the rule is ridiculous because children are harmed by family members all the time." uh?? that's exactly why it's not ridiculous. why does she not see the child's safety as more important than her pride and her boyfriend's ego? if this boyfriend could see outside himself he would see that this is a pretty rational rule for a mother to make and would not take it personally to the extent that he harms his girlfriend's relationship with her family. same with the poster. Edit: because I'm still thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:14 AM
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"therapy is for women"- a lot of women have to go to therapy because of the abuse they have suffered from men and patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:50 AM
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they don't even want to marry their first wife anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:41 AM
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wow they're so jealous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:12 AM
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yeah the ghost of past present and future have to visit him before he can bother with empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:28 AM
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you know his OLD profile says he's a "business owner" "founder" or "CEO" because he runs this blog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:21 AM
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its all fantasy and delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:19 AM
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hm. looks less fun than being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:11 AM
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Great article."OLD sucks but it's just how people meet now" is a sentence I said a lot of times. but it was always silly because I am an active person with hobbies and interests, and I meet a lot of people. if the men I meet in real life are choosing to only use apps for dating, then they are looking for women they can treat poorly. if you meet men through your real life network, it's a less easy choice for them to treat you like shit because they may actually face consequences with your mutual …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:46 PM
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lol I read some other titles on this blog. their self aggrandizing narcissism would be such a paradox if not for their complete lack of self awareness. if you think you're super super special loner alpha male it's impossible to see you're a ridiculous cliche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:45 PM
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its pretty hilarious projection by someone who considers himself a "sigma male." he sees red pill in FDS because he is red pill. he can't step out of his paradigm.he claims to feel "compassion and empathy" for women but can't actually view life from a woman's lens. since he's competing for the attention of women he can't fathom a world or community in which women aren't focused on competing for the attention of men, and so it warps in his mind into a pure fantasy. a platform of strategies for ug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:35 PM
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what in the world would make a man worth hurting for? there is no payoff around the corner, that's a myth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:45 PM
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yup when my self esteem was in the toilet from my relationship, the only way my friends were able to convince me that he had warped my sense of reality and was an abuser was by constantly pointing out that they loved me and they wouldn't be friends with me or try to convince me to leave if I wasn't actually the loving and kind person in our situation. It helped that while he had admirers, he did not have any friends in his life, but ultimately it was patient and constant love and encouragement f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:56 PM
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that's understandable that it could be triggering. if you wanted to start a little slower it'd probably be best to do something with movement or activity, like a museum or a book talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:06 PM
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TikTok is all about being glossy/entertaining/not political so their algorithms prioritize pretty people and posing over talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:53 PM
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I think outside of FDS "pick me" is a more narrow term and is mostly a term used to call women out for being "not like other girls" or throwing other women under the bus. Your advice is spot on and generous, I hope she can get out of her pickme loop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:28 AM
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yup men spit wayyyy too close to me. always feels like a macho display. it's so disrespectful, you do not have special man spit that is harder to swallow than the rest of us. I can't believe they still do it while a novel virus is going around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:20 PM
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yup this one or the insidious "you're actually the awful one for being upset with me how dare you try to manipulate me into feeling bad about myself" it's all trying to take advantage of your empathy. get out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:13 PM
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yo they were not any less tactful than the men. also, these were the women that had been through getting ranked, the men that ranked them never had that side of the experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:42 PM
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they're gonna be big mad when she sells her story to disney and rakes in the dough from ticket and merch sales.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:31 PM
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you're not lazy, that's just negative self talk. if you prefer watching a movie to reading to learn that's okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:19 AM
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queenqueenqueenqueenqueen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:03 AM
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my ex believed red pill ideas but thought he was an "alpha" that excelled in this red pill world so he didn't immediately reek of bitterness like I had come to expect of trped dudes. he was able to straight up lie about his beliefs for a long time. some red flags I missed: ~constantly complimenting my "femininity" or "classiness" - he wasn't denigrating women in front of me but was still subtly comparing me to them. ~viewing the world as hyper competitive, all winners and losers. ~talking about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:16 AM
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haha that I understand. and if they hate women so much that the worst thing you can do is associate them with women then they're miserable misogynists and you might as well piss them off, spike their cortisol, and bring them a few minutes closer to their inevitable heart attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:56 PM
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do you feel like you've severed it from being a gendered insult in your mind? what does it mean to you for a man to be a b****? when I hear women being insulted as a b**** it feels to me like they're being dehumanized, but when a man is insulted as a b**** the stinging part is that they're being seen as woman-ish, and that's the worst thing they can be. personally if I call a man a b****, it still somehow feels like I'm insulting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:47 PM
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you make a great point. the language we use can have an effect on our psyche. being specific and growing your vocabulary can grow your confidence. and there is an opportunity cost in using the b**** word for your friend instead of giving substantial and specific compliments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:35 PM
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yep coincidentally the jokey insults they use on each other are also female gendered. funny how that works. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:13 PM
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you're right. it's one of those libfem things that I've grown up with, which makes it hard to isolate as actually harmful behavior. one of those things that you think is good for you because it "feels good" or makes you feel connected with other women but that's just because you're both victims and you're tapping into shared oppression to connect by revictimizing each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:01 PM
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"battle the world" lol yeah they're real warriors haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:52 PM
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yeah once a man is yelling and cursing I get too stressed out to find anything funny even if a bunch of other dudes are laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:36 PM
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Those subs inspired actual shootings where actual women were killed...and they are whining about having to choose another sub to whine about not getting whatever they want from women on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:38 PM
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so you don't care who the date is with and you think it's only worth $10? I think I've figured out why you can't get a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:47 AM
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bill him for time with the kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:12 AM
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better to go ahead and divorce and get moving on since he obviously doesn't plan to be married into retirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:10 AM
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does one waste time wearing underwear?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:57 AM
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you're a great writer. you've untangled a really relatable tangle here so beautifully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 01:52 AM
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"I have explained to her that she lacks passion" Well...can't see why that didn't get her engine revved...have you tried giving more vague and unconstructive criticism?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:04 PM
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I think it was research from Gottman Institute that found that couples where the man didn't find his wife attractive and show her devotion and affection while pregnant never recover. Though it's pretty obvious without the research tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:50 PM
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best way to avoid cooking a second meal is to not cook the first one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:35 PM
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omg the totinos sketch you're exactly right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:51 PM
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But those groomsmen are gonna expect her to serve them nachos during football games for the rest of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:46 PM
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And if she's anything other than charmed and amused at being humiliated during their wedding ceremony then they get public proof that she was always a humorless bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:39 PM
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"withholding sex" ugh. how about "withholding the compassion to figure out why your partner doesn't feel like they can be intimate with you instead of breaking your vow to them and cheating."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:53 AM
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a marvelous sum-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:10 AM
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a sexist and condescending landlord- what an archetype. I would not be surprised if some Trumpian resentment gets taken out on you. love and luck to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:08 AM
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Are you in the US? I feel like this is gonna get worse with the split of college educated men and women voting more differently than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:42 PM
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Looking for...whatever you wanna hear as long as he gets to use your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:24 AM
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If they'll never forgive him he probably shouldn't be forgiven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:40 PM
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That's amazing! I'm a slower learner lol and only recently found this vision for myself. I've always wanted to be a mom and the idea that I needed to find someone if I'd ever get to have a family had me wasting my time and putting up with too much bs. It seems so simple but when it finally dawned on me that I could become someone who had enough to give an adopted child a good life as a single parent I started thinking about how great the rest of that life could be and it has made me feel so much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:39 PM
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When something "isn't misogynistic but feels misogynistic" it's probably because your subconscious has picked up on a pattern of men who do that thing being misogynist. Please trust your instinct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:30 PM
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I think you meant to put this on a different thread :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:46 PM
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Totally understand this fear. And on online dating there are only red flags, no green flags (because they are internet strangers and anything could be manipulation). I understand the desire for connection but going through these feelings trying to get that will make you miserable, it might be time to disconnect. I have decided not to do online dating anymore. Late next year after the pandemic I'll be back into clubs and activities and making friends. It is a lot easier to get a read a man if you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:05 PM
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Just because your intentions toward other people are always good doesn't mean their intentions toward you will always be good. Don't fall for that "don't complain about your boyfriend to your friends because you'll forgive and they never will" thing. Keep your trusted friends updated and take their concerns seriously. Imagine a really fabulous life for yourself- with no man. Where you want to live, what you want your home to look like, what friends you want to spend vacations with, whether you'd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:54 PM
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There are a lot of men who need therapy and will never get it and probably never actually love a woman. There are also men that are emotionally healthy and can love. I think accepting that you might never find one of those that you also mesh with romantically makes you less likely to suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:35 AM
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yup I can't even stomach how much it racks up to and no matter how expensive the shirt it it's not gonna be heavy and itchy on his eyelids all night and he's not gonna have to peel it off his skin before he can go to bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:16 PM
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He thinks putting on a more expensive shirt is equivalent to full face of makeup and fake eyelashes???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:14 PM
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yeah he raps about kissing cops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:03 PM
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so I'm mostly into sketch comedy and there's not a lot of sketch comedy on tv...and when there is it STILL somehow tends to be a bunch of dudes. But I like "A Black Lady Sketch Show" and Amy Schumer's sketch show had some good ones if you can find it...you might be best off just youtubing that to find the good ones. A lot of them are about being a woman in our society so they can get pretty dark (tw on this one for discussion of sexual violence) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXGJGuH59qw I also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:31 PM
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yeah probably one less night of being prodded and guilted into having her body used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:30 AM
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oooof, well...you did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:29 AM
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She's describing all of the choices she has because of feminism like it's a burden to have autonomy. Yeah, if you have to do all of with no help from a useless husband...that would be too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:53 AM
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I'm obsessed with comedy. I study comedy. I write comedy and perform it. I've been told I don't have a sense of humor by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:58 PM
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if he was a programmer he'd say programmer..or stretch it to engineer. I'm gonna say help desk at most on the "IT" front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:56 PM
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"ethically non monogamous" with three kids. I'm gonna assume that through years of emotional and mental abuse he's worn his wife's self worth down enough that he's convinced her he deserves to go sleep with other women and she's a bitch if she doesn't bless it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:55 PM
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He wants you to catch feelings but it be all your fault because he "warned you" when he does something truly mean or unfeeling towards you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:19 PM
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lolol When I was a barista there was a shmoozy guy who would have a meeting in the cafe EVERY DAY (usually with a pretty woman) to pitch an MLM. He would order on Monday and bring the same cup back every day to look like he'd already bought a drink. But I guess he found a new place when I started telling him he didn't have to bring his cup back and asking him if he'd like to order a coffee today in front of his would be victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:35 AM
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lol you're right NOT ONE MAN has ever showed up to our date on horseback (madface). There weren't examples in either scenario. It seemed more whiny than insidious to me until I heard the same point being used by the NXIVM leader in the HBO doc to manipulate those women. It was just used to make women feel guilty for being humans instead of virginal cartoons that live only for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:44 AM
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My ex (secretly red pilled) told me in one of his "life is easy-mode for women and so distressing for men hold me and make it better" moments that men resent women because they were raised to want to be a prince to a princess and then find out as they grow up that women aren't disney princesses at all. and I've seen that "women aren't princesses" used a few times....umm..exactly. sorry we're whole ass humans and not 16 year old mermaids???They just want you to bend to their abuse like a disney p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:59 PM
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Building a relationship with a man during covid would mean needing to trust them to be honest about where they go and who they hang out with which...I know I wouldn't be able to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:35 AM
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Thank you for posting this, it's super helpful. I had thought about this before- knowing that because my older sister was high strung and anxious being a "good girl" for me was never having needs or asking for anything from my parents. But I hadn't though of it in the context of how it made me vulnerable to my narc ex, and how I can't let that quality push me to settling or never getting what I want and deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:39 PM
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