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-13

Is the lesson to become abusive so I'm not left in her unread dm's lol
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 01:23 PM
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Unfortunately, doubt I have anything around me like this. Will just have to do improv with myself haha. Not the same, but better then nothing.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 05:33 PM
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I did improv in high school! In hindsight can't believe I was able to do it haha.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 04:23 PM
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above all, when the time comes. focus more on relaxing, connecting, and being authentic, rather than being funny. do all the work to internalize the humor, but at game time just let it go. ​ Lots of good stuff! I resonate with letting it go, just trying to not get in my own thoughts and be comfortable with myself. Letting all the negative thoughts go and almost be like a bag in the wind. Not concerned about the past, present, or future, just spontaneous me and whoever I'm talking to.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 09:35 PM
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Be an active listener, by asking good questions that get them to expand upon what they were talking about or steer their story in a more humorous direction. Once you have them adding more to the conversation than you, you'll have more to play off of. Be disarming, not self-deprecating: What I mean by this is tell a story that shows, not tells, of your vulnerability. For instance: if you think that you are a lovable loser, don't tell them you are a lovable loser, tell a anecdote that shows how ea…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 09:29 PM
-1

Because you're wrong, women and men alike in the younger generations think a lot differently then you, or a lot of people say they think.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 12:30 PM
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Dick gains value based on the subjective feelings a woman has for that man. This is where looks come into play
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 12:38 PM
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why are most men able to get relationships Do most in 2022?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 12:32 PM
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Because dick has no value, and unless a man is super modeled attractive, women wont even bother to look at a man?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 05:19 AM
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You start by forming friendships And that's a part of the problem
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 08:30 PM
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You see this a lot with white fragility - "what do you mean white people have it easier, nobody gave me anything, I've had to work hard all my life and I'm barely scraping by" - and they can be right! But if that same person had to go through everything they did, but also with dark skin, would it serve to make things easier or harder for them? Almost certainly harder, given our culture and society built upon racism. My life is just as shitty. Really don't get this at all lol.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 05:09 PM
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. I didn’t start dating until recently at the age of 25 and I managed to get 3 dates set up within a week of each other. Because you aren't at a disadvantage like you said you're.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 12:08 AM
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You sound like the woe is me, guy.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 11:20 PM
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I am often assumed to be dumb and a bitch, Is it because your attractive?
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 12:54 PM
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You're complaining about not being able to get dates despite being tall and white. Being tall and white is a huge advantage. Disagree. You need to be attractive or have other qualities.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 09:16 PM
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Who am I talking to here? Why would I obsess over getting a certain race?
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 09:02 PM
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Otherwise why are you so obsessed over black guys? Being a tall white male is dating on easy mode. Not true
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 08:49 PM
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What does this have to do with anything?
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 08:21 PM
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So, to clarify, you took the pretty neutral idea that "you look younger than your age" Well let's not beat around the bush here, she basically said I look like a kid who's not even 18 yet. Makes sense because I have barely any masculine traits at all. Didn't even win on the scratch off 😆. Overall an awful experience.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 02:20 PM
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Well clearly they have something I don't, wonder what masculine trait they have and I don't 🤔
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 12:24 PM
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I'm not attractive, and doubt a thicker neck or extra muscle will compensate for that.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 12:22 PM
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Literally every person in this sub is trying to help you and have offered helpful advice and tips. You've shot down everyone and dismissed their suggestions and ideas. I've already tried everything you suggested, and none of it worked, or isn't possible.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 08:56 PM
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Like, what does "success in dating" look like to you? What do you think it looks like for others? Garnering interest
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:39 PM
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not for me yet, at least lifting. Will see if this changes over time.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:14 PM
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No. You're only telling me this because everything you said, either I've tried improving, or can't. So instead of admitting my situation, you cast me off to therapy, what will they do? My concerns are real and valid, not something made up, or trauma that a therapist would guide me through.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:13 PM
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Crazy if that's true. I would have thought it would be around 20%. Live near Duluth, so maybe that's why I see more mixed people, not just white dudes and women lol.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:33 PM
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Why are skin bleaching products some of the most commonly owned products by African and Indian men around the world? Not in the states, right? Never heard of black men bleaching their skin. Well in my life, I'm a white guy and have no chance. There must be other days other then whiteboywednesday lol. I've never watched the bachelor. Assuming none by the way you worded that. If anything I would want a skin care product that makes me darker looking, rather then pale skin that makes my cystic acne …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:31 PM
-1

Who knows, you might meet someone gaming. Women do play videogames, just not the stuff I'm into.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:20 PM
-1

Easier said then done. As of right now, only have 4 hours in the morning for gaming. I don't have the time to do a lot of this.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:46 PM
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Well because there only 6% of the pop, only so many are available.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:42 PM
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Imagine if it was a higher percentage! Even on tinder women put "No White men" on bio. The fact that it's only 6% and yet still see it all the time proves my point. Times are changing, 30 years from now Black men and white women might be the new norm. Especially growing culturally.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:14 PM
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Even last week I drove by our local bar and a blue haired women was holding hands, walking out with a black dude.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 03:33 PM
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Rarely do I ever hear praise for blonde hair. Women's attraction to men seems to me to be all the same looking men, like on R Ladyboners.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 02:44 PM
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Majority of women don't like blonde hair on men and prefer darker.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 02:27 PM
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Now! All this is hard! (I know this personally - as I said, I'm pushing forty, and I've barely got this shit together myself!) It takes sustained effort over a long time. But it is possible. So, step zero: do you have what it takes to grow yourself into someone who is relationship material to women in your local peer group? Well I have no friends, so probably not. Reading everything you wrote made me realize how fucked I am. Still live with my parents at 23, caregiving, and that won't change any…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 01:02 PM
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Do you see the pattern? These factors do not rigidly determine outcomes, they simply tilt the odds one way or another. These aren't laws of nature, they're statistical regularities within human cultures. So even tall, white, handsome, rich, charismatic, able-bodied, educated men can strike out from time to time - and short, black, ugly, poor, awkward, disabled, uneducated PoC can also find fulfilling relationships. What does it say about me that I can't, even with the 'positive modifier?'
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 12:52 PM
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Looks fade. Personality doesn't. If you're banking on your looks, you're in for a harsh reality. Nobody would ever date me with this logic " Oh I will date this ugly man because someday both of us will grow old and looks will fade" Said nobody ever lol. Unless said makes up for it in other ways, which I would also come woefully short in lol.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 12:45 PM
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I live in Minnesota. I don't know what that means, but everywhere I go I see white women and black dudes 😆
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 12:42 PM
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But yeah girls love black guys That's what I'm saying! Look who Adelle is dating lol.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 12:40 PM
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Have you tried: - facial hair (maybe coverage isn't good yet, but you will eventually get the hair to cover undesirable facial structure) - clean skin (can achieve with good skincare, healthy eating sunlight) - glasses or contact lenses (change the shape of your face and some suit different people) - haircut (makes a huge difference) - teeth (can you get them fixed?) - lips (applying a natural balm (wax, pawpaw) will get rid of cracks etc) - weight loss (will change the shape of your face/neck) …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 12:38 PM
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To keep blood flow going (a true help in the bedroom) Makes sense, also definitely not a top priority for me lol.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 12:29 PM
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I'm ugly facially, even with a mask, I'm ugly lol. You would have to see me in real life to understand. There's no shame in it, but it affects me all the same.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:09 AM
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unless you also have a good face and/or a V shaped torso, it really doesn't attract women by itself. Exactly! This is what I've been saying all along. Only people who are in our shoes can understand.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 05:04 AM
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🤣. Wtf lol
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:46 AM
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I know plenty of women who like dad bods majority on reddit do, that's for sure. Have no idea what the point of the gym really is honestly.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:45 AM
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From a nonwhite believe me being White and 6'0"+ is a big advantage for you in the dating market. I don't believe this
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:43 AM
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what a strange hill to die on
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:41 AM
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I don't like, or care about basketball
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:26 AM
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Why do you say you're ugly? Trust me I am. Been around long enough to know.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:12 AM
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Personally I'm not attracted to tall or white guys, but what evs. It takes all kinds. I don't think many are. It's like how women don't find muscles attractive and appreciate dad bods.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 04:01 AM
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Nfl is better
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 03:58 AM
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No I'm not able to seek out counseling. I've already on depression meds, and don't have the money for good therapy.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 02:04 PM
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People have suggested lots of options and strategies to you on this post and others, but you reject them all categorically. Are you actually looking for help, support, and advice or are you just looking for people to reinforce your existing worldview? All the advice I get is stuff I've heard before. If any of this would help my situation I would already be doing it.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 02:37 AM
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As someone who has been treated on and off for 20+ years for depression and anxiety (a lot of which is the fallout of a lifetime of undiagnosed ADHD, which really wailed on my self-esteem), knowing that I was actively engaged with something that was going to make me feel better about who I am and what I have to offer did way more to boost my confidence than a makeover or somehow getting the "perfect body" ever could. That sounds like a lot of work. Don't think I have the will power or want to go…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 12:33 AM
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Your time is so much more valuable than to be wasted on thoughts that benefit you not at all. You're right, but being happy and hopeful never got me anywhere either. It set up me up to be what I am today. People would say stuff like "I bet your not that ugly", "penis size doesn't even matter", etc. Took me far too long to realize this is internet slingo that means nothing. Penis size does matter, and so do looks. People in real life value these things, and shame others who are different.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 11:53 PM
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What do the lives of strangers matter to you? Because I want to be them, but I never will.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 11:19 PM
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In spite of all that, I work at making my life happy. Happiness isn't a place, it's not a relationship status. It's not a career or an education. It's a feeling and it takes effort to cultivate. I appreciate you typing so much, and telling your past. What you typed here I don't get. I personally don't enjoy life as much as you do. You've dealt with far worse stuff then me, but yet it just doesn't click. If I died right now, would have no regrets because I couldn't have changed anything. My looks…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 11:16 PM
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Partners I literally see in Walmart and online? Is the argument that those dudes don't get women? I've heard a lot of praise for big dicks all over the internet. Men and Women alike put value into things, this is why Diamonds are valuable.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 09:51 PM
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Have you ever been in a relationship? You seem to enjoy life, unfortunately I'm the opposite.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 09:45 PM
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Ya, I don't have access to a high paying job, nor do I care to slave years of my life for something I don't care about.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 09:08 PM
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Yes, yes, heard this all before. I work out. Personality? That's harder to change then looks, and I will block the next person who tells me "Socio economic status". Luckily the mods at suicide watch removed the comment of the last person who advised me this lol. Humans are pathetic, putting so much value into something as shallow as money. Our skeletons 100 years from now will look the exact same, our earthly possessions mean nothing in the end.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 02:09 PM
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You see these other men for a brief moment in time, a tiny sliver of a fraction of their lives. In that moment you speculate about the women that may or may not be attracted to them, women you do not know exist, and will likely never meet if they do. And you hate the man for attracting these hypothetical women, and you hate the women who might not even exist for being attracted to him and not you. And now you are angry about a story you have made up in your head about someone you do not know. Th…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 12:19 PM
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Although growing a beard Unfortunately I can't
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 12:09 PM
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I look worse then this guy does lol. You really think it's over for him? Doubt it.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 03:32 AM
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Some do, and a lot don't. No one ever gave a shit about me, that's for sure lol.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 12:55 PM
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Is this supposed to be comforting? Women don't care about our problems, why should we for them.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 04:16 AM
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Do you really think any of that will help lol.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 04:12 AM
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Because people tell me the blackpill is wrong and looks aren't the most important thing lol. Thanks for downvoting my post btw 😆
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 09:38 PM
-1

It's just people telling me how I should be, when I'm not.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 05:50 PM
-1

for this is to be really outgoing and become a social butterfly. Easier said then done, holy shit 🤣. Next your going to tell me to grow my hair a darker color because it's blond, or get a long jawlined face.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 03:08 PM
-2

Improve your looks as much as possible, Only so much anybody can do, take me for example.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 02:49 PM
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Either I have optimism and get disappointed, or I embrace it, and women will look down on me, as a Minnesota Viking fan, it applies to this too. Lose either way.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 09:36 PM
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Is that how you made friends with the men you know? Walked up to strangers and talked to them? Because that is an unorthodox method, I'll give you that. No, this was back in school. I haven't made any friends since then. Actively haven't bothered though.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 02:17 PM
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Good news, women are also people, so you're most likely perfectly capable of forming friendships with women. You would think, right? Something about me is a turn off to only women, but men are totally fine and I can have an engaging, back and forth conversation with a guy. I can't say I've ever met a woman who I got along with, or didn't look pissed off and angry 🤣. I got resting bitchface too because of my overbite, but damn. I'm not sure how people expect me to walk up and talk to these people…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 02:10 PM
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I've only with guys before, but I'm sick of men 🤣, been around men my entire life. Clearly something is wrong with me because I've never had a woman as a friend before😆.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 02:01 PM
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, it's a good idea to find things in life alongside bonds and connections. I don't get this. I literally can't form bonds and connections.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 01:56 PM
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To give up. Find other things in life besides bonds and connections.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 12:34 PM
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it can only be fixed by taking responsibility for yourself. Responsibility for what? I take responsibility for things around me, mistakes I've made, or stuff that needs to be done. Not for being ugly, treated like trash, having autism btw "But whatever, just sounds like an excuse on my part". This limits my social skills and my intelligence. Tell me how I should take responsibility for that?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 02:24 AM
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What are examples of helpful "copes" that these pills teach you, Give up
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 09:35 PM
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People are complicated, and to conclude that you would never have a chance with anyone romantically suggests incredible predictive power (that people dont really possess). I will never have a chance.
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 08:59 PM
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over a supermodel, assuming you had many perfectly cool, smart, nice supermodel women willing to be with you. I don't find super models attractive 🤣. Like, they almost look like aliens to me. The only person qualified to be called a model, that I find attractive is Serena Williams, probably because she's athletic lol. I'm not like other dudes in this way, I get your point though. Many men would want the super model thing over what you said. Don't know how what you said is supposed to help me tho…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 07:48 PM
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Now think of it this way: If you were a "high quality man," handsome, rich, charming, confident, and you could have any woman you wanted... can you look me in the eye and honestly say that you would give an "ugly," overweight, dorky woman with no achievements in life a chance because she's a "nice girl"? You would honestly choose her over some supermodel? Would you really? Unfortunately weight is my only standard. It completely goes against my lifestyle, and no way would we match. I do find chub…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 06:57 PM
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They are usually warmer towards white men as compared to black men In my experience it's the complete opposite?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/21 08:32 PM
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Online dating apps should be the solution, but because I'm ugly, and women are picky. Online dating apps are marketed as the solution, but have turned into a market-place for people that have good photos (regardless of the reality). To view it from their (women's) perspective lots do get lots of messages per day, which can artificially inflate their ego, making them more picky than they should be in terms of the real world. Ya, this point got me scrutinized and called Entitled and selfish. I wor…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 09:11 PM
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You're very understanding and get what I'm saying! I just need to get new hobbies and become a more fun person to be around, also find my own crowd. You're right that friends happen first, so I got to get over wanting to cut people off, and enjoy other peoples company. I would like to have a woman as a friend, but like you said, and me before, don't want to grow feelings for them because that's not right. Though this is probably me getting into my own head 😅. Happy I'm not the only confused abou…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 09:03 PM
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Years ago (seriously, like 15-20 years ago at least) I read an article about women who fall in love with men who are serving hard time (and often life sentences) for seriously violent crimes. As you might expect, lots of these women have extremely low self-esteem or may have experienced enough trauma at the hands of other men or partners that there is something appealing about a man who will have limited access to her. What really stuck with me, though, is that for some people, loving a monster …
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 05:57 PM
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Whatever, bite me lol. The last thing I am is selfish, you don't know me or my life, piss off.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 03:48 PM
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So a random girl on the street owes you a conversation, because all the women you saw before her, didn't give you one? You're doing what a lot of Redditors do, which is twisting my words. I let it slide the first time, don't call me entitled again. I'm not entitled. I don't expect anything anymore. Fuck off with that condescending shit. All I'm saying is nobody in the past extended an olive branch to me. So its really hard for me to want to go out and do for others, what never done for me. Maybe…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 02:36 PM
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And that is what women are doing also. Why are you allowed to be discerning, but women are just "playing games" if they are also discerning? I and women can be discerning. Why do I have to start conversations with woman, or men for that matter, especially when they never did for me? I'm not bending over backwards for others, being nice, or kind like I used to. I've tried eliminating that part of me that does this, but sometimes my old self shows threw. Like I said "Thank You" to some nasty old m…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 02:23 PM
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Picking up women takes work. Making an effort to pick up women sucks. I don't want to "Pickup women". I must be in the severe minority, considering the downvotes this post has, and your upvotes. With your mentality it sounds like women are a commoditiy that we men must "Pick up". Unfortunately for me, the only way I will ever get a lover is probably from a long established friendship, especially when I'm comfortable knowing the person. I suck at making friends, nobody wants to talk to me, so tha…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 02:14 PM
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Are you swiping right on the "ugly" girls, or just being "picky"? I'm picky, but in a way where I screen people over there personality, and if I would want this person as a friend or a lover. I don't believe in swiping on everybody, because I could match with someone who I don't get along with, or vice versa. Well it would be nice lol. Never had a woman my age past high school start conversations with me. Even in hair salons woman cutting my hair rarely want to talk to me. I think it's all just …
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 02:06 PM
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You guessed wrong. The most important part of dating isn't really to self improve, is to actually try and chase women. Like, it's so obvious and yet so few guys do it. You're supposed to be actively chasing women, playing the numbers game, getting rejected repeatedly. Actually making moves and shit. It's how it works. Unless you're that fugly, there's really no excuse for a guy playing the numbers game with reasonable standards to not having a date. You like to give pickup advice, don't you?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 12:36 PM
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Now I do also agree men tend to be the more visually driven ones but I have seen some people on TRP just flat out claim all or majority of women don't find men visually stimulating / arousing.. but we definitely do. Ya, the attractive faced ones 😂. Your post and comments make me a little more redpilled/Incellish, believe it or not.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 12:28 PM
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I don't care about sex lol. At least not to the extreme of getting a escort.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 04:01 AM
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I hope you find the answers your looking for. I hope so too. Have a feeling, will be searching for something my entire life, wonder if I will ever find it.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 12:31 AM
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Not yet, skeptical it would solve my issues though, not including the cost even. Also would be local, don't want to tell someone here all this stuff 🤣
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 11:25 PM
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Probably
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 11:22 PM
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We met and got to know one another as friends from nerd activities in college. Ya, I never went to college, really didn't like high school. I relate with the overstimulation! Went to Walmart today and there was so many people 🙃.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 10:40 PM
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How do two shy people meet? I believe opposites attract.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 07:26 PM
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An autistic woman is a bad match because both of us wouldn't be able to communicate like nt people can, the only benefit would be having something in common.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 07:12 PM
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I mean it goes for men too, like I can just feel that they don't want to talk to me. You would think if I was attractive, or had attractive qualities people of both genders would for once just say anything to me. Something is clearly wrong, and it's probably me being fucked up physically and mentally that makes me avoided and invisible.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 06:34 PM
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Tough match. Unfortunately my best match would probably be an extroverted, open, passionate woman who would enjoy the counter balance, highly doubt that type would be into me 😆, then again, no type is.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 06:29 PM
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A vast majority of women are just as nervous to talk to the opposite sex as men are. Everyone is afraid of rejection rather that romantically, work, friendships. It's a basic human fear. Well I'm the one who gets the worst of it, have to approach, and get blamed for not trying if I don't 😆
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 06:00 PM
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which passage makes you say that? This isn't the bible 🤣. His tone reminds me of the gym bro type that likes to give me advice on reddit from time to time. He's also pretty attractive, which makes him even more unrelatable for me personally.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 11:46 PM
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I started reading the don't give a fuck book, and it just read as macho mumbo jumbo to me. It felt like I was reading a post on R Redpill or something lol. Not sure how others could even read the entire book.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 09:19 PM
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What?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 09:01 PM
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reading Mark Manson, People always talk about this guy. Isn't his takes basically just a lighter version of the redpill, or am I missing something here?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 05:42 PM
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Started applying it irl... barely got laid, What did you change after this failed?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/21 04:24 PM
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