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I think you are not understanding the tone that this may be said in. The intent is to respond as if you actually had something offered to you but you turned it down initially because you were going out with her. Now that she had to cancel , you get to go with your buddy. There is nothing about it that is inherently mean about it.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 03:49 AM
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Easy, respond with, "actually that works out. A friend asked me to _____ and now I can." Shows you aren't butthurt. Shows you got other stuff going on. Let's her hamster on figuring out your other plans and who it might be with. Doesn't burn the bridge and let's the conversation open about another time that might work.
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:06 AM
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The stuff you pointed out is not basis for TRP. You are cherry picking a few points and generalizing about TRP. Before you post ignorant questions spend the time to read the TRP sidebar reading material. Then post intelligent questions that shows you have done your homework and you will get intelligent answers in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/15 06:09 AM
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This is an important distinction that many outside the RP community seem to confuse. "Picking up chicks and getting laid" is only one aspect of RP. The sexual strategy in this context of the definition is dealing with the difference between the sexes, not the sex itself. One can choose to apply RP principles to gain notches, find a LTR, enhance a marriage, better their work relationships, strengthen their family bonds. Red Pill is not just about sex and those who are against the Red Pill haven't…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/15 06:45 PM
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I agree. WTF does this post have to do with TRP philosophy? It's not even close to RP related.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 08:06 PM
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As mentioned, we don't talk about TRP. That being said, I sometimes feel I can just sit there and bite my tongue when some feminazi destroys every man at the table. You can use TRP philosophy but don't use the lingo, hold frame, don't swear as this seems to make you lose credibility and use real examples around you. Just don't shove it down their throat and don't expect to change everyone's minds. All you are doing is planting seeds of RP truth.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 04:52 AM
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It's interesting to know that it was 14 up until 2008. Now that's pretty young. However there are some well developed 16-18 y/o.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 04:35 AM
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I agree. I will stay subbed to TRP. There is nothing wrong with that space. The mods do a great job and there are a lot of great posts. I guess I am looking for more posts related to LTR, post-divorce, red-pill parenting, day game, "how to not be the old creepy guy trying to hit on the young hotties", "how to manage the pre/post wall but still doable chick", senior management leadership, building a second/third career type stuff.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 04:10 AM
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I would love to be a part of a new subreddit but i would prefer something with red pill or trp in the name. This will allow it to still be somewhat associated with its origins. Something like TRPapex or RedPillApex?
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:14 PM
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I suppose one might be less outcome dependent but there is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself if you have struck out by the end of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 08:48 PM
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There was a experiment done where mice were given two levers in their cage. When pressed, one would give a food pellet and one would stimulate the pleasure centre of the brain. Not surprisingly, the mice began to starve. TRP feels that men are more driven and on their best game when we are not sexually satisfied. It's all about moderation though. Not necessarily stopping altogether. We just don't want to become complacent in life. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pleasure_center
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 07:54 PM
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Read this http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2q582c/a_comprehensive_guide_to_the_red_pill/ It won't take you long.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 07:05 PM
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I am not concern trolling. I didn't ask for it to be changed. I just asked if there was another subreddit that might be more applicable to me. Just like if a married man found his way to the main TRP he might find the "don't get married" mantra unhelpful and therefore be pointed to MRP. I will still stay subbed to TRP as there is valuable posts to be had and the younger people can benefit from us older guys experience. I fully expect a diversity in TRP as we surpassed 100,000 but that means ther…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 07:22 AM
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I have seen a few posts on TRP lately about people being upset that their "Red Pill" comments on other mainstream subreddits are getting shit on. For those of you that still don't get it, please stop. Stop trying to be a red pill ambassador to other subreddits. You know full well it's not going to be accepted. You are spewing what you think is red-pill knowledge but it is obvious you don't know shit. You only stand to further solidify the misunderstanding many have about TRP. Just stop.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 08:32 PM
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I am going to focus on something that the others have left out. Your comment to her in the morning about wearing something nice because you don't want to take off the "old" stuff is a real poor choice of words. Your insulting her, making her feel not sexy. No matter what you do after that, you are going to fail. There is nothing wrong with teasing a woman but your outright insulting her. Go buy her some sexy new underwear (7 days worth) and tell her you want to see her in them every night this w…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 05:05 AM
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What you are feeling is what we are all feeling or have felt. It will pass. You will move out of the anger and depression phase to acceptance. Be thankful you learned this at 19. I am just learning at 39 after a lifetime of getting fucked over. You have learned this so young that you have a lifetime ahead of you to live how you want. I wish I knew what you know now at 19.
/r/MGTOW24/03/15 06:06 PM
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Huh? Everything you have written is an incoherent mess and for the life of me cannot figure out what you are saying. Try rewriting it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/15 08:42 PM
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In the examples they are comparing the faces of secondary male characters to lead female characters. The secondary characters of the men are the evil villains and the bumbling side kicks used for comedic relief. And they are drawn as such. Male leads are always drawn based on what western culture considers handsome. I am sure we could then say the same thing about them then. Maybe the author should compare the witches, cruella deville, the ugly old woman in cinderella and even the background cha…
/r/MensRights20/03/15 08:25 PM
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Yup and add in the white knighting by "protecting the sister". This post screams beta hamstering that he's all alpha.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:09 PM
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It's been said, you need betas to have an alpha. Not everyone can be alphas. I agree that you need to be around other alphas to sharpen your skills but it can be draining to always be competing with other alphas. Betas are easy to be around. They bring around the chicks they are orbiting. As a result you look better in comparison and end up fucking their orbitees. The betas create opportunities to show off your alphaness by helping them be more alpha in front of other women. Being a benevolent a…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 10:00 PM
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My example was just a very simple example to stress my point. There are many differences between my siblings and I. I was just trying to point out that OP is trying to generalize based on how he turned out. It is just not black and white like that and furthermore this subreddit is the wrong place for this post.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 10:57 PM
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Yup and I can find an equal amount of people that grew up not shown affection, told that they should be seen and not heard, etc that came out of it entirely red pill. It's what you choose to internalize and how you respond. This is where modern psychology really fails us. We cannot say one experience will dictate a particular outcome. It can only help to try and predict behaviour. I spent years in school studying this stuff and the research continues to contradict each other. As a final thought,…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:20 PM
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My sister and I grew up in the same house. Now we both have our own homes. Hers is always a mess and mine is always immaculate. If you were to ask both of us the reason why our homes are the way they are, we would both answer, "because we grew up in a house that was always a mess.". Don't generalize because that is how you ended up. It's up to you what you choose to let influence you and how.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:52 PM
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I have also been trying to find male positive subreddits that have the same impact as trp. Unfortunately daddit is just people posting pics of their kid that should be on facebook. Mgtow is just youtube rants by 22 y/o that think they have life figured out. Mensrights is a bunch of butthurt former manginas that want the same bitching space as feminazis. Trp seems to be the only space that is of value. I know i will be downvoted but whatever.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 04:54 AM
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I know many places have laws against polygamy but throughout history it has been done. And as you have mentioned there are now tv shows that exploit this for entertainment which shows that at least there is a level of general acceptance in society for these shows to even exist. What I find interesting is that you would never ever see five men married to one woman. Men would never let that happen. Soft harem or something as official as these marriages, women show that they are willing to share to…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:26 AM
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This post belongs in /r/mensrights not in TRP. There you can bitch about the double standards and equality. TRP acknowledges and even embraces the gender differences and teaches us to use it to our advantage.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 11:07 PM
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I think this is an important conversation we need to be having amongst all men. This is not necessarily a topic for TRP but needs to happen somewhere. I have never agreed with "All is fair in love and war". War-yes, love-no. If we are going to succeed as men and regain control of this decaying, feminazi, blue pill society, we need to start drawing some overt boundaries. If we all took to shaming bitches who cheat and turn down those that want to do it to us, then they will learn this behaviour i…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 06:47 AM
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Look, man. None of us were there. We don't know why. Maybe you are ugly. Maybe you were unintentionally giving them the stinkeye. Or just maybe you were in a shitty mood and projecting your feelings onto them. They didn't say shit to you so you will never know the reason. You are over-thinking this. You are wasting too much mental capacity trying to understand. Bitches be bitches and you are acting like one of them. Move on.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:02 AM
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The part that made me the angriest was the fact that I became the beta bux. My wife and I dated in highschool. We found each other too early. We both needed to grow up a bit and experience the world before settling down together. We both went off and did our own thing until we were 25. We both experienced other people. She rode the CC and then came back to me to get married. 10 years and two kids later, i'm getting divorce raped, my children taken from me and on the hook for $2500/month so she c…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 03:24 AM
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Considering what happened to you just prior to this, I would think you were just over-sensitive and built this up to be a bigger deal than it actually was.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:06 AM
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My kids will always come first. I brought them into this world, I am responsible for them. They don't live with me full-time since by separation. On my days without them, I am going to live for me. I am just not going out of my way to make other people happy. My happiness is now at the top. A happier Dad is a better dad
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:03 PM
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Absolutely. It makes me sick how many years I wasted trying to make other people happy. Put my wife on a pedestal and give her everything got me a "fuck you" and a divorce. I am done with that shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:20 PM
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How do I manage what with kids?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:18 PM
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Sounds great. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 06:14 PM
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I have been thinking about this recently. Young but out of university (23-26). I Don't need a chick who is right in the middle of her gender studies classes. A solid 6-7. Good looking but not high maintenance. Doesn't need to be rock hard. Works out only 1-2 times a week. Firm body but soft lines. Has a basic job that pays her enough so she does't need to mooch off me. I also don't want a chick that spends all her time working. Low partner count. 0-4ish. Feminine but is open to going on outdoor …
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:10 AM
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It looks like there is a good immediate response but none of them actually give in to a definite plan. They all seem to say check back in with me layer this week or weekend. I know the screenshots don't show the whole conversation but I would love to see something that finalizes plans
/r/askTRP26/02/15 09:54 AM
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I'm going to give this a read. Thank-you.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:28 AM
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You are absolutely correct. Just take a look at /r/marriedredpill A ton of examples of men who still want to be married and apply trp principles. Had i found trp a year ago, i feel strongly that i could have saved my marriage. A marriage that i wanted to keep. Women want a rock to lean on, a provider for their children and a god in the sack. This is what the red pill can give you. You can choose to spin plates or have a fulfilling LTR using TRP. It's up to you how you use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 04:52 AM
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Maybe most need to hit rock bottom. Have their heart ripped out by their unicorn. Be completely destroyed as a man before he reaches for an answer. Before TRP really clicks for them. For me, had i had found TRP 10 years ago, who knows where I'd be now but would have I even been intrigued by TRP then? Who knows?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 04:20 AM
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I'm 36. They are all happy until they pop out child#2. Then once they are done procreating they become unsatisfied with being a SAHM. They realize the mamaprenor business is a stupid idea and doesn't make money. They don't want to stay home all day taking care of their family. Then they start looking for adventure with some alpha. Just watch what happens to all your friends. They all got engaged, married and pregnant at the same time-they will all get divorced at the same time too.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 02:17 AM
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There are just too many of them in real life and online. I had to unsub from some of my go-to subreddits because reading everything through a red pill lens is depressing. I know I am still early in my journey but it's getting hard to look the other way. I don't want to sound like an Amway salesmen where everything that comes out of my mouth is about TRP. I also know that we all can't be alpha and many will not even know how to use TRP or even destroy themselves with that kind of knowledge. It ju…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:42 AM
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While there are many times that I can't help but to laugh, sometimes there are just posts that you want to reach through and strangle OPs neck and show him TRP. If we are ever going to eliminate this feminist, blue pill systemic destruction of western society, we are going to need more men who unplug. I know TRP isn't a movement but in the bigger picture, we need to right the wrongs. I have a 3 year old son and a 6 year old daughter and they deserve better than this.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:06 AM
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Oh trust me I will. I am in monk mode right now trying to better myself from being in a bluepill marriage for 10 years. I have zero interest in fucking any more post wall chicks. I'd rather go without than do that. There are a lot of decent wall-approaching and post-wall ones but i don't want to be a daddy to their kids. I have my own. Call it selfish but I am going to finally get what i want in life. I am done living it for others.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:00 PM
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I agree. As a guy approaching 40 and just getting out of a marriage, i am worried that is all I can get. Young guys have a fantasy of fucking a MILF but that's what i have been doing for the last 10 years. I want a hot, tight 25 y/o but fuck if I know how that will pan out.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 07:45 PM
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I agree. This post is something for the betas over in the relationship subreddit. This is TRP. OP, you are spending too much time and mental energy on this chick. Next!
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:51 PM
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Do you know a lot of hitmen and serial killers? Your basing your opinion on fictional characters you have seen in movies, where it makes great story to show a bad guy with a twisted moral compass. I know that is not the point of the post, but come on, man.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:39 AM
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There is no one single recipe for everyone. What you need to do is different than what i need to do. I don't know you enough to tell you what you need to do. I am a white, 6'2 260lbs, roughly 5-6 male (potential 7-8 after i work harder). I have a university education, can play most sports well and have several interesting skills/hobbies. I own my own home, a sailboat, a brand new truck and run a successful business. I am a natural alpha but went completely beta during my marriage. I am personall…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:44 AM
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At the time of writing this, you had only posted your question 3 hours ago. You are expecting a little too much buddy. I can smell your lack of confidence and neediness in your post. You reek of betaness. You are trying to define yourself based on what other people think about you. This is partly due to your age but it also tells me that you haven't worked on yourself enough. Lifting is only a part of it. Get yourself in monk mode and better yourself in other areas. Once that comes, i guarantee …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 02:40 AM
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I originally started posting a comment that was telling you to piss off. This defeatist attitude is something that has been plaguing TRP in the last week. But after thinking about it, you are partly right. I am 6'2, 260lbs and fit. If you and i had the same face but our respective bodies and were standing side-by-side, 10/10 times chicks would go for me first. However there is more to us than that. That is where you need to focus. You have only been doing TRP for a month. That is not enough to c…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 08:35 AM
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Did you smoke the entire bowl before posting this?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 08:05 AM
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Fucking hell. This post reeks of beta, blue pill bullshit. You should have fucked her on the tour and then kept her around for a while as a plate. Hey, you should send her a note in class that says, "do you like me, circle yes or no". Pick you balls up off the floor and fuck off with your bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:46 AM
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"Ad" is short for advertisement, not "add".
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 09:34 PM
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Working out doesn't have to mean the gym. Go running, biking or play squash. Get those endorphins going.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:26 AM
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Look, you are overthinking this stuff, which is the point of your post, i know. It isn't hard. You are overwhelmed by all of the facets you need to change. Start with one thing at a time. If you try to fix everything it will be too much. You are putting sex/pussy on a pedestal. Fix you and they will follow. Get rid of your virginity any way you can. Fuck an ugly chick or pay for it. You will realize it isn't a big deal. Heck most of the time jacking off is actually better. Once you do that, you …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:56 AM
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I have read through your comments and original post. You seem full of excuses as to why you cannot get women yet you are dismissing everything that TRP tells you to do. You said you don't even get past the first contact. At the most basic level you are not physically attractive to them. A commenter told you to hit the gym and you declined because you didn't see what you would get from it. It's not only what you get from it, they get a buff guy. You also said you are not interesting. If you don't…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 05:11 AM
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Yep. His intro is very misleading and is shameless self-promotion. It has a decent point but it is poorly written. OP if you are going to post something please don't misrepresent yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:50 AM
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You obviously have not read the suggested sidebar material in TRP. You have based your opinion on a few posts you skimmed across. There are some people that post their latest sexual conquests but they just don't get what TRP is. They are too young and just like you have not read and fully absorbed the reading material. It's called "confirmation bias". I follow this sub as well as TRP and they compliment each other very well. Before you criticize actually do your homework.
/r/MGTOW16/02/15 06:56 AM
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Sorry, this post screams "butt-hurt neckbeard, alone on Valentine's day, buzzed by drinking scotch and spewing large words to make yourself come off as holier than those who are fucking someone tonight.". Don't take life so seriously-Put down your thesaurus and get out there and have some fun.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:22 AM
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It is not about reading more, its about understanding and believing in the material. I have not been around this sub for very long and i have a lot more work to do, but this sub is split into 2 very different groups. Insightful posts from veteran TRPs and young dudes that just want to brag that they laid this 10 last weekend or people like yourself that wonder why they didn't get laid last weekend. TRP is not about getting laid. Getting laid is a byproduct of TRP. You have a lot of work in other…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 05:08 PM
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You don't get it. It is obvious you haven't read and full internalized TRP. You are looking for an answer that you will find in /r/relationships. This is not a beta bs sub. You need to spend less time worrying about what she is doing and do shit for yourself. Pick up your balls and do your own thing. Leave. Abundance mentality, dread game, next her.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:14 AM
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