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Fu_Man_Chu/r/seduction04/09/10 04:28 PM
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Well it sounds as if he's a single male (so he doesn't really have a family of his own, unless he was divorced or is acting as caretaker for an elderly family member) and if he's living out in the boonies a move to the city is probably good for his career.
/r/seduction04/07/14 10:30 PM
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Your framing is really off. I get why you are coming from the viewpoint of "scarcity" but I assure you that is not the case. I don't know where you live but it's possible you may just need to move to a more metropolitan area (or maybe even another country if you want to really make it interesting). I've lived in numerous cities across the US and if anything I've had TOO many attractive options. Beautiful, intelligent women abound my friend, the only real question is are you up to the task of bei…
/r/seduction04/07/14 11:17 AM
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well I've had the dubious fortune of being born ugly and poor. So the qualities that attract women to me are skill based and tend to gain in value over time. So no you could not say this about men and certainly not about me. I have an altogether different set of problems. I suspect you wouldn't understand them though.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:13 PM
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While you have a much nicer interpretation of the quote, it is specifically referring to the phenomenon that occurs after you've had the "hot" girl for a while. Even the dimes lose their luster after a while, unfortunately. Although the older version of the quote was, "for every hot girl out there, somewhere there's a guy that's sick of her shit." Which of course has a whole host of other nastier interpretations about women but perhaps more matches with the spirit of what you are suggesting.
/r/seduction18/05/14 11:02 PM
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Moved to Honolulu when I was 27 without knowing anyone here. Not easy at first but possibly the smartest thing I've ever done.
/r/seduction11/08/13 10:31 AM
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First off, you aren't "putting on moves" you are either building a connection with a women or not. Being concerned with other men while you are doing so is actually quite Beta and will fuck your game. If she was happy she wouldn't be receptive to building a connection with you. Plain and simple. Now a lot of people might come in here and tell you it's a dick move. Well so what? In the game of mating and reproduction there are no fucking rules. You either get access to a high quality mate or you …
/r/seduction04/10/12 10:37 AM
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Well I am an expert and the worst thing a guy can do is take dating advice from a woman. It's nothing personal, that's just the way it is.
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:15 PM
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I explained it already. I fixed my lifestyle habits, I got in shape, I started to eat right. I did what psychologists refer to as "over compensation" in the face of my problems. Once you are in shape things start to take care of themselves slowly. You feel more confident, you look better, you're healthier and thus you start to send off the right chemical signals to women. Looking beyond just that it helps to do some serious personal development. Aside from hitting the gym, I spent weekends in se…
/r/seduction07/07/12 01:41 PM
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You man up, that's how. You hit the gym, you clean yourself up, you eat right, you develop healthy habits, etc. I've been pretty darn ugly before too. I'm short, have nasty crooked teeth, a genetic deformity in my chest that makes me asymmetrical, and had really bad skin for most of my life. I remember all too well what it was like for girls to reject me without so much as giving me a second thought. Now I date girls most men would kill for (2 of the last 4 were runway models, the other two coul…
/r/seduction07/07/12 03:55 AM
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You have to just learn to let go. In relationships people develop these big "stories" about what happened. We hold on to them, we cherish them. The real truth is that physical reality is often much simpler and easier to get around. Like a messy break up might have some crazy story attached to it but the cold stark truth is "You had a relationship and now you dont". Simple as that. This applies to almost everything though. A girl who cheats on you, isn't hurting you, she was unhappy and had needs…
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:39 AM
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Let me put it this way, EVERY major relationship I've had in my life has started with making love on the first night. Even over looking those I still tend to sleep with women whom I have chemistry with almost immediately. It's all about framing the issue and just letting it happen. Women love passion, they love feeling out of control. You just have to lead them there.
/r/seduction30/06/12 09:56 AM
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The two most fundamental things a wing should do are: Big each other up. It's much more effective if your wing says something positive about you then it is when you say it yourself. As a general rule of thumb, if I'm winging for someone I never just introduce him as his name. I introduce him as something interesting like, "This is my good friend Tod, he saved my life once from a drunken midget, so be nice" Block. This is one most wingmen seem to understand but still seem to execute poorly. If th…
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:28 AM
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pre-selection and social proofing. You're already a member of the hot girl dating club, as it were.
/r/seduction20/04/12 09:24 PM
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Okay... okay... New rule for you, No more "dates" and make your intentions clear somewhere around the time she has earned your attraction. If you have to take a girl out on a date it damn sure better be someone whom you already have some kind of physical connection with. You don't take prospects out on dates, those activities are reserved for women who already have a place in your life. Got it?
/r/seduction19/02/12 12:29 AM
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Question, are you yourself an over weight person who often drinks? If so we may be on to something. Seriously though, stop focusing so much on the women and looks (yours or theirs). Just spend more time working on yourself, go to the gym, think long and heard about REAL human interaction. Stop going into situations WANTING things from someone and maybe, just maybe somewhere along the lines you'll figure it out. It's starts internally though.
/r/seduction26/01/12 02:05 AM
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Because your social value is inherently lower than a women's by default. It's as if a homeless stranger asked you to sleep over your place. You by default are in the position of power there, much how the woman is the one "giving something up" in hers. The other issue is that you are thinking backwards. Sex comes after attraction and comfort. By skipping those two steps you essentially ruin not only your own chances but any chance that the girl might have a enjoyable sexual encounter with you too…
/r/seduction30/12/11 01:30 PM
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Some moves do and some don't (some are stationary in fact). If you are a good dancer people will sometimes make room for you as you start moving but part of what separates "betas" from "alphas" is that the latter takes up space because he knows he deserves it.
/r/seduction19/12/11 12:59 AM
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In my opinion, the coolest shit you can do in a club right now is learn to house dance, especially since it's a better version of shuffling (which is becoming super popular) and because House styled beats with a 4/4 count are becoming SUPER trendy. Like every fucking club plays nothing but 4/4 now it seems. For that, you have Jardy to help you (one step at a time, nice and easy): Jardy: basic house steps tutorial You want a fly ass, sophisticated honey to fall for you while you hit some relaxed,…
/r/seduction18/12/11 11:43 AM
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It's also a bit unfair to compare some random girl on youtube to one of the greatest living House Dancers of our generation. There's dancing most people see and then there's the dancing that only people who are obsessed with dance, to the point of it becoming their religion, get to see. In those circles, we don't hand out ez props though. It can seem to be a bit mean spirited to outsiders but really we are hard on one another because we all wish to see the artform elevated beyond what came befor…
/r/seduction18/12/11 02:11 AM
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I prefer whacking or locking over Tectonic (which is just a watered down version of the two): http://youtu.be/DSVp5RaHxJE
/r/seduction17/12/11 02:05 PM
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You silly kids. That's not footwork. This is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSF5YTQmx7s
/r/seduction17/12/11 02:01 PM
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DO NOT DO THIS. We call people who mimic sex in the club "air sexuals" and all it really does is make you look desperate. DO learn to count the bars in a song and move in time, DO sing along with the song if you know the lyrics but do not desperately thrust your hips in lude sexual innuendo. The idea is to sublimate your sexual energy into a container (IE- a dance style). The style of dance you get good at is less important than the fact that you have enough energy to get good at it. There was a…
/r/seduction17/12/11 01:35 AM
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I've been a world class dancer for the better part of 15 years and I approve of this message. Although I will say that women often look for cues on physical/sexual fitness when you dance. So while you don't NEED to be excellent, I'll be damned if it doesn't help.
/r/seduction16/12/11 08:12 AM
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Watch Vicky Cristina Barcelona and put yourself in Javier Bardiem's shoes, then go sarge. You won't regret it.
/r/seduction11/12/11 01:34 PM
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She's also getting in sync with you, which not only means she's looking but to at least some degree, she likes what she sees. Protip, make it seem like the two of you are in sync for a while and she'll assume you have a connection.
/r/seduction10/11/11 01:30 AM
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You'd have to at least play the part right. I'd talk a bit about how I perceived this first meeting as an interview. How I wasn't interested in entering into an agreement with a woman that wasn't genuinely sexually attracted to me. Then I'd simply sit back and see where it went. If she spurred my advances I wouldn't take it as rejection but more as she was failing her interview. I think that would be enough to make most of them take action. As long as your "framing" is solid and believable the r…
/r/seduction02/11/11 09:25 PM
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The real question is, did he get any of them to sleep with him under the guise of perhaps giving them what he advertised on the site? I don't need to do it (I'm very fortunate when it comes to the women I get to date) but if I were desperate... I see a very clear avenue for getting these girls to sleep with me under the pretense that I was rich but wanted to see if we had a real connection before moving forward (Ie- sampling the goods as it were). It's dirty but honestly they seem to deserve it.
/r/seduction02/11/11 05:17 AM
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what he said. Also it helps to relax and not really have a stake in what happens. You might be coming off as kinda needing it to happen, especially if you are letting the past times LMR has struck impact you when you are along with a woman. Another hypothesis is that you haven't built enough of a comfort buffer with these women. If they don't feel connected to you, then it's going to be a lot harder for them to sleep with you. You might be jumping right from attraction to seduction with nothing …
/r/seduction01/11/11 05:32 AM
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I'm in the same boat as you and have been for most of my life. It definitely works against you but it isn't something you can't compensate for.
/r/seduction04/09/11 07:06 AM
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He was in Hawaii a while ago making a fool of himself in one of the local night clubs with a camp of students he had with him. They were basically standing in a corridor all night attacking girls as they came by with trite, over used openers.
/r/seduction16/08/11 11:17 PM
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No, that would only set you up for failure with that attitude. If you haven't been to counseling I suggest you at least try though. That doesn't mean you are going to be together during the counseling process but it may help you find out if it is even possible for you to give it another go, in the confines of a healthy space with a trained professional there to guide you through the process. You owe it to yourself and your kids to give it the old college try. As a man though you also need to be …
/r/seduction30/07/11 08:52 AM
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If it's about the kids... Go to couples counseling. You have kids. They deserve the chance to grow up in a stable household with 2 loving parents. The flip-side of that is those kids don't need to be put into the center of your shit relationship (assuming it has deteriorated to that point). So if it's done, it's done. Do your duty as a father but recognize that you aren't her lover anymore and need to look out for your happiness instead. The last thing the kids need is to see their parents argue…
/r/seduction30/07/11 08:46 AM
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Ummm, some clarification needed... are you suffering from actual erectile dysfunction or do you just not know how to get it in!? There's a solution to both thankfully but you need to figure this out ASAP. Act entitled all you want, if you can't deliver as a lover you're not going to enjoy a very many fruitful relationships with women.
/r/seduction22/07/11 11:19 AM
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It's wrong right from the start, "If she wants cocky and funny you better be cocky and funny." No that's not how that works. It isn't about what she WANTS it's about what works. Cocky funny is a frame, it isn't something you give her. It's perfectly reasonable to also fit who you already are inside of the frame "cocky funny". The author of the article keeps making the mistake of thinking it's about giving girls "what they want" which leads me to believe whoever wrote this is a failed PUA. Someon…
/r/seduction06/07/11 12:33 PM
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absolutely true. The quality of women I attract has been increasing steadily as I get older (I'll be 31 this year).
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:54 AM
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Vicky.Cristina.Barcelona. His framing in that movie is just so on point. Some of my best nights out have been after I took the time to watch that film.
/r/seduction07/03/11 04:43 AM
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exactly. teaching will almost always improve your own skills.
/r/seduction03/03/11 07:21 PM
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When I'm just out of position and any attempt to kino would be too "try hard". It doesn't happen often but on occasion an obstacle may get in the way too (a friend, a personal obligation I might have at that moment, etc). Sometimes there's just too much physical space between us (I'm across from the table in one group and she's on the other side sandwiched in between another). You can usually get past any of these problems with a simple adjustment but sometimes in the field events conspire again…
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:05 AM
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exactly this. If I've got any kind of kino foothold from which to build upon it almost invariably goes well. The only times it doesn't is when I'm blocked from ever starting the kino in the first place.
/r/seduction02/03/11 10:23 PM
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You are spot on but I would add one caveat. It is important to know where you invest your energy as well. Just keep that in mind as the network you build grows. In the past I've gotten carried away with myself and spread myself too thin. If you are onto this by the time you are 18 though you will be just fine.
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:40 AM
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If you stop befriending girls who were interested in you, you are creating a serious roadblock for yourself. Just continue to be yourself and let her be interested in you, it's not the end of the world, in fact her interest changes very little without your reaction to it. Letting a woman's intent impact you is in of itself very AFC. As to whether you can use her as a pivot, there's nothing morally wrong with the idea of pivots regardless of whether they like you or not. It's like asking if its w…
/r/seduction21/01/11 08:56 PM
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It's all true... however I will never forgive women for the seemingly culture wide misconception that being nice equates out to weakness; especially in light of the fact that it is often much harder to be nice than it is to be an ass. In fact all women of society should be thankful that we, the physically stronger and more athletic gender, don't simply completely subjugate them but then again... that's what they want anyway isn't it?
/r/seduction21/01/11 03:10 AM
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The best part is, he's absolutely right. It's a son of a bitch to calibrate but caveman has gotten me laid more times than anything else.
/r/seduction08/01/11 11:37 PM
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"I don't know, are you any good?"
/r/seduction08/01/11 04:41 AM
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I've ruined MANY an otherwise solid interaction by doing this. It never happened AFTER sex for me but I've definitely fudged it up big time on the way there by texting too much.
/r/seduction30/12/10 02:30 AM
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I use it on the reg. It allows some sense of deniability for the woman yet at the same time suggests that you two are going to be getting affectionate anyway.
/r/seduction24/12/10 06:14 PM
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You'd have to hit them with the gnarliest false disqualifier you can think of AND be super pre-qualified by having like 2 bad ass chicks all over you already to pull it off. The thing is, these girls rarely have anything resembling character or a real personality (I've dated my fair share of runway models). Life has been WAY too easy for them so even when you do bag one... it's kinda shitty in the end.
/r/seduction21/12/10 09:27 AM
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It's 3 digits with the center digit being binary. First digit is face, second is a binary for would fuck or not, and third digit is body. So, for example 818 (Face = 8, yes I would fuck her, and body = 8) is pretty standard affair. This stuff starts to get fun when you have friends who will do a butterface like a 516 or so.
/r/seduction08/11/10 10:27 AM
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Just don't really mean it man. Don't say a neg with venom or with the actual intention of being mean. It's supposed to be far more lighthearted than that.
/r/seduction30/10/10 03:06 PM
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What style of dance would you like to delve in? I'm your man but I need more info.
/r/seduction21/10/10 05:02 AM
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I make them approach me. I get to know the bartenders, the bouncers, the owner, the DJs. I dance up a storm. I basically run the place and have a blast. I don't need to approach then or if I do it's certainly not forced.
/r/seduction20/10/10 10:47 PM
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came in to say exactly this. although I see someone modified the middle digit so it's not just a binary 0 or 1. works.
/r/seduction18/10/10 10:23 PM
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She's assuming on a subconscious level that you're not into her actually. Here's the thing that you need to wrap your head around. She doesn't think like you when it comes to attraction. She doesn't say, "wow he has X and X qualities, I really like him". Instead she doesn't have a single clue what she likes, what happens is someone fun loving and confident comes in, kino esaclates with her, makes her FEEL (not think) attraction, and then she tells herself, "wow I'm attracted to him, it must be b…
/r/seduction03/10/10 07:56 PM
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KINO- ESCA- LATION If you're not touching them, they assume you're not interested. Point blank. Start being sexual, start physically making move, put it out there like the idea of being rejected never even entered your mind.
/r/seduction29/09/10 04:35 PM
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DON'T ASK! NEVER ASK!!!
/r/seduction26/09/10 09:54 PM
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Been there. I was actually clever enough to even bed a jesus freak or two despite being rather non-theist myself. Even got one of them really hooked on me but religiosity is a very specific kinda crazy and it's tough to deal with over any expanse of time. I recommend looking off campus for women if thats the case with your university.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:59 PM
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Next Door
/r/seduction16/09/10 02:56 AM
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Yes and in the most recent case regretted it as it was someone I genuinely wanted but the fact that I didn't make a move on her when the opportunity arrived made her view me as very beta. Ruined out chemistry...
/r/seduction15/09/10 02:00 PM
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Stopped counting a long time ago really. I had a lot of early success as a kid in a rather hedonistic scene which definitely skews my numbers higher than most I would think. Sitting down and trying to recall all of the women I've slept with in the past 4 years or so and there are over 20 that I can recall. The longer I think about it the more names I come up with in fact. Lovers long forgotten (it's a little saddening actually) I'm also one one hell of a run right now thanks to two bisexual girl…
/r/seduction13/09/10 07:21 AM
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I see the measuring stick for success as someone who is bedding women who are of higher value than what they would be able to bed without the skills they acquired in becoming a PUA. Inner Game is what MAKES a successful PUA though.
/r/seduction13/09/10 05:16 AM
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because it is
/r/seduction08/09/10 04:03 AM
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it's always going to be contextual. Like reading someone else body language and then commenting on it or even better yet noticing her body language and commenting on it. For example, if I see someone approach a group of girls poorly I'll mention it to the group of girls I'm talking to at the time. I'll say how he's doing it all wrong, I'll say what he should have did and have a good laugh with them based on the girls reactions. Sometimes it's more personal though, like I may notice something abo…
/r/seduction08/09/10 04:02 AM
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Oh I am simply in a transition phase right now that makes me... less desirable on paper than I'd like to be. Like I said in my man post, I'm not physically attractive (at least not compared to the members of the social circle I mingle in), I'm very much a pauper, and I did just go through a rough break up which left me in a bit of a haze about myself. The thing I am happy about is that I am getting results DESPITE all this. The bottom line is I have value but everything is relative. You are like…
/r/seduction06/09/10 08:47 AM
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My dad always said, "use it or lose it". So getting started is the hardest, especially the first week or two as your body gets into gear but if your diet is really on point (think ~1 gram of protein per pound of body weight for example) you're recovery times shouldn't be so bad. If you can afford it I'd go to a doctor to get my HGH levels tested but if you can't you can get HGH secretagogues from a place like "The Vitamin Shoppe" at fairly reasonable prices.
/r/seduction06/09/10 08:40 AM
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Chasing a woman of this caliber results in an automatic fail, that's why. The level of game required to date this far above my pay grade simply demands a more subtle, complex approach. Don't get me wrong, I'm direct, I kino-escalate, I claim her whenever she's in my presence but I'm competing not only with other high value men (and women in her case since every bi or gay girl I know wants her too) but also with her career and ambitions in some ways as she's so driven towards them that if you app…
/r/seduction06/09/10 08:35 AM
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beign 52 does make a world of difference however my father is in his 70s and still looks amazing, works out 4 times a week and stay generally active so while your margin for error is smaller you can still very much improve your overall health by working out hard. Have you looked into thing to boost your recovery? At your age I would be looking into HGH supplements and other sorts of hormone boosters to get my body to simulate the recovery time of a younger athlete. Not having access to a gym is …
/r/seduction06/09/10 05:49 AM
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I completely agree. There is one that I want above all other but I know better than to get one itis and focus on her, especially since she is out of state right now and even when she is around she is very busy. I've made a point to become close with her best friend (another beautiful girl in her own right) and I've expressed how I feel about her while also still living my life and dating other girls. I would settle down with this one, no doubt but I know it cannot be forced, only coerced; and ev…
/r/seduction06/09/10 05:21 AM
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Your PH balance mught be fucked but honestly what I do to get results isnt that complicated. I weight train in 2 day blocks (a day of all pushing followed by a day of all pulling) do something fun like surf or dance on the third day and then start the cycle up again. I eat 4-5 hardy meals a day, eat a protein shake within 15 minutes of working out and another before I go to bed while snacking on fruits and almonds throughout the day. I can maintain that pace almost indefinitely. I sometimes skip…
/r/seduction06/09/10 05:17 AM
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You definitely fucked the diet part up. As a general rule of thumb I eat MORE when I work out not less because I know adding muscle will lean me out in the long run anyway.
/r/seduction05/09/10 08:49 AM
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man I wouldn't believe it either. I actually just got off the phone with one who asked me if it'd be okay for her to come over with her friend (I had plans for her friend to come spend the night after going clubbing). She literally said, she had "dibs" so they were both going to be cool with sharing. I honestly don't even know what I did to make this particular social group want me so much expect that they've seen me dance and they all saw me making out with a girl in public, who just might be a…
/r/seduction05/09/10 08:45 AM
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Learn how to do a 4 count (count the measures in a bar) and 2 step to it when you're not interacting with the girl but generally you'll want to take the girl by the hand, twirl her around once, dip her a bit and then ask her "having fun yet?" while shes over. It doesnt need to be complicated. I do it the hard way and put on a god damned show sometimes but its not necessary.
/r/seduction04/09/10 10:05 PM
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I agree that it isn't the only way there but if you know of a more surefire way to boost your confidence, improve your overall energy level and make yourself more desirable, I am ALL ears.
/r/seduction04/09/10 07:56 PM
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If you utilize your time right by not sitting around between sets it should be yes. Part of what is motivating me right now is that I'm training two friends, one who is just trying to level up and another who is a disabled war veteran who had to have his shoulder reconstructed after getting hit with an RPG in a bunker. So I spend about 90 minutes in the gym but only because I'm pushing two other people. If you CAN try to do the same for someone else. Don't find a "workout partner" find someone w…
/r/seduction04/09/10 07:16 PM
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I needed it these past three months. Came home from an epic night and said, Seddit deserves to share some of what I'm feeling now, somehow, someway. I know it can get dark and lonely out there. I know you can go to some pathetically sad places (I was honestly suicidal at some points over this past month, asking questions like "maybe I'm just too old now", "maybe I'm unlovable", etc). What I say to you who might find yourself in those places is that this is where you find your true self, your cha…
/r/seduction04/09/10 06:36 PM
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I do 4 days a week and I'm really on point about my diet. I also dance and just basic partner dancing (spinning the girl around and dipping her at least once) will win you a girls heart faster than anything I know. I polished my gambits pretty well (the cube is still very strong IMO) but try to be genuine and talk about the subtexts that I think will be sexy and lead us where I want to go while avoiding the subtexts that are week and can lead us astray. I think for us nerds out there this is whe…
/r/seduction04/09/10 06:31 PM
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Pics please? I'd like to verify exactly what we're working with here.
/r/seduction02/09/10 01:38 AM
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If you communicate what you're doing up front, it'd save you a lot of trouble and only make you seem that much more attractive to them.
/r/seduction26/08/10 10:37 AM
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Dancing is the key to nearly all of my problems
/r/seduction25/08/10 02:15 AM
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This was a few years ago, so it was still around.
/r/seduction17/08/10 02:03 AM
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Oh THAT Tyler Durden. Yeah I remember him having a seminar over here and seeing him bring an actual group of guys into the field at a local nightclub. I was with my sister and told her that if a guy walks up randomly and asks, "Hey can I get your opinion on something..." that she should probably laugh and walk away. Sure enough 20 minutes into having fun at the club my sister walks over to me laughing her eyes out because not one, not two but three people opened with that same intro just on her …
/r/seduction16/08/10 07:57 PM
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I'm trying to picture Tyler Durden in Hawaii... nope not working.
/r/seduction16/08/10 06:22 AM
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Honolulu, HI
/r/seduction15/08/10 10:46 AM
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Oh I know it's better to get out of there early. Problem is she's the lead singer in the lead band that was playing that night. I'd like to think I can be quite charming but I'd yet to get good enough where I can make an artists skip out on a packed gig to come back to my place... I imagine that would take finesse and charisma on a level I have yet to witness.
/r/seduction13/08/10 06:02 AM
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yeah, I MAY have been able to work that but my window of opportunity was too small. We got back to my place at 4:30 am and both of us were very tired. She was out like a light in 15 mins. I'll see her again soon though. not worried.
/r/seduction12/08/10 11:28 PM
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Im experiencing something very similar. Went 2 months cold and then hooked up with 5 girls in one week, slept with 2 of them and have a third on my bed right now (she's on her period, so no joy for me tonight). Something is amiss but I like it.
/r/seduction12/08/10 05:20 PM
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Since when does being "Metrosexual" = Modest? Those fuckers are arrogant as all hell.
/r/seduction04/08/10 01:56 AM
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SuperAIDS, EXTREMELY bad taste, knowledge that she hath fucked something you refuse to share a sexual history with, etc
/r/seduction24/07/10 09:32 PM
3

Best I've seen is the 3 digit phone number method. Face, would I fuck her, Body. So for example an 818 means: face = 8, would I fuck her = positive, and body = 8 If the middle digit is a zero that means no you wouldn't fuck her. I often forget to use this system but it's the best one I've seen to date.
/r/seduction24/07/10 10:59 AM
3

I've been a competitive street dancer for 15 years and almost any dance is useful but some basic partner dancing, some Salsa, some swing, etc goes a long way in seduction. I don't take my own advice mind you in that I do cypher styles (popping, bboying, etc) but even those dances can be played properly to get you laid on the reg.
/r/seduction04/06/10 06:45 AM
1

stop masturbating. If that doesn't do it start exercising more or taking something to mildly boost your sex drive. It all starts there though. If you don't have a stirring in your loins to make it happen, than you're only going out and going through the motions because you think you're supposed to.
/r/seduction28/05/10 01:45 AM
1

Trying hard is never really all that advisable either. That said, if you're not opening from a good place though, where your sex drive is pushing you to be high energy and interactive you're kinda of done before you've begun. I mean, of course it didn't go anywhere; you weren't steering the boat. Women want a man who leads not one who sits around and waits for them to dictate where the night is going to end. You do that and someone else will take girls, from sets you've left dangling, home every…
/r/seduction27/05/10 03:14 PM
2

It was only offset by the fact that she was really, really beautiful and to this day one of the best lovers I've ever had (why are the crazy ones so orgasmic?). If she just could of been faithful and didn't fuck around on me I might still be with her crazy ass today. I mean she was obviously crazy about me... lol
/r/seduction04/05/10 06:52 PM
11

I had an ex follow me around for a few months even though she was seeing someone else. That was weird... for example I was about to make out with one of the most attractive girls I knew at the time in my bedroom, looked out my back window and noticed my ex girlfriends eyes looking back at me from my backyard (note she had to stand on a tank in my backyard to even see into my room). Yeah... that was a mood killer...
/r/seduction04/05/10 09:34 AM
0

All's fair in love and war but you take your life into your own hands when you knowingly fuck with someone else's lover.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:34 PM
1

Hells yes I can relate. I'm going through a tough breakup where the object of my desire is a women who has in many ways removed my ability to return to an infantile state with her... and so I started self medicating with weed a few times a week to deal with the stress. It only works temporarily though and ultimately hasn't helped me resolve the main issue that I haven't made any real attempts to find a new way to satisfy my libido.
/r/seduction13/04/10 08:53 PM
1

Oh, I only think about it for like 3 hours a day everyday. Too expensive right now though. Talking about 5k with a minimum of around 2k up front to get started. 2 or 3 years ago I would of laughed at that but now when I actually need it... broke as hell....
/r/seduction21/03/10 04:45 AM
2

I have horrible crooked teeth. Def a game killer. :(
/r/seduction20/03/10 05:12 AM
1

I'd probably just freeze out momentarily on this one but if I had to say something, "I wasn't aware that we were fishing for responses. Is that what men you encounter normally do? Seems a bit disingenuous, no?"
/r/seduction01/02/10 12:12 AM
-1

"Well we wouldn't want you to fell left out now would we? Why do you have something against socializing? I thought that's what we were here to do"
/r/seduction01/02/10 12:08 AM
1

He's coming in too high value and blowing himself out of the water. Very commonly happens when new PUAs get all excited and overzealous about using disqualifies/negs too. Most PUA stuff was designed with the notion that the women you will be talking too are high value targets who you couldn't get otherwise. If you fail to calibrate for lower value targets you end up pissing off a lot of ugly chicks, lol.
/r/seduction25/01/10 11:27 PM
1

If she's only a 5, it's likely a self esteem thing. You'll find that with even minor PUA abilities you'll be very threatening to a lot of girls. Don't dwell on it, as someone already said move on past the psycho hose beast.
/r/seduction25/01/10 07:29 PM
1

nothing new under the sun my friend, particularly when it comes to mating rituals. Being unique isn't so much as important as being comfortable with yourself; which not surprisingly is the best part of game you can ever possess (inner game). My advice, is to learn to take things in stride. Yes it is one-itis if you put so much focus on one girl that you're devastated when she can't hook up with you inside of your "free time". That's just not how life works in general, least of all interactions w…
/r/seduction14/01/10 09:31 PM
1

well I use a few gambits that have me holding their hands very early on. I also know a lot of guys that get girls to kiss them very early on in their interaction but they always run the risk of the girl getting buyers remorse, triggering her slut defense, or creating "player vibe". There are no concrete rules here of course but I've found it easiest to get to full monty if you don't jump up in steps like that. I assure you swapping bodily fluids via a kiss is a bigger compliance hoop than holdin…
/r/seduction13/01/10 09:42 PM
3

You should be prepared to caveman it if necessary but only as a near last resort of course. For me escalation always happens when I'm mindful about kino. The talking, the comfort buildign strategies, the DHV gambits, etc; all of that is just to keep her close enough and occupied enough to be okay with me escalating kino as far as I'm concerned. So touchign the back should become hand holding, hand holding should become an arm aroudn the waist or over the shoulder, which should become hugging, wh…
/r/seduction12/01/10 11:39 AM
1

Forgot "Vicki Cristina Barcelona". In my opinion the best example of how to model yourself.
/r/seduction27/12/09 07:46 PM
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