So a little background information first. About 3 months ago I was let go by my lover after about 3 years of a very intense relationship. I was broken but did my best to bounce back as quickly as possible.

Sadly I've been falling flat on my face for the past 3 months. For some of you that might not be a long time but that is actually the longest stretch of my adult life that I've experienced without a consistent, reliable lover in my life. I was getting flaked, rejected, ignored, past over, friend zones, let down... you name it. I felt like I was doing everything that had worked in the past but was simply not seeing results.

So I did what I recommend ALL of you do. I focused, I hit the gym, I worked on my inner game, I meditated, I PUT IT OUT THERE, I took risks, and I lived as passionately as I could. And I'm happy to say that after a tough lull, the results are amazing.

Let me back up a bit here though. When I say "hit the gym" I mean fucking HIT IT. I've always been lean but I leaned out even more while putting on 10 pounds of muscle. I shaped my body into something that I felt was the kind of body I would have dreamed of having as a kid. And let me tell you, people take notice. It's shallow and silly but everyone respects you more when you're jacked so regardless of where you're at now fitness wise you should be in the gym with the same passion and devotion you'd want from a lover. point blank.

So with the new physique comes new found confidence and the results I'm getting are off the charts. Absolute 9s are fighting over me now and I have the enviable task of picking and choosing which one I want in my life on any given day.

I'm not saying this to brag but just to say that this stuff works and success is just out there waiting for you to man up and take it. I am in no way special. I'm short, I have a gnarly crooked smile/face, even my frame is somewhat deformed since my sternum deviates to the left. I am not the tall, handsome, symmetrical, rich guy. I don't have any of the advantages we all long to have. I am working with inferior equipment and producing superior results through hard work and dedication.

So again I say to you... if you're in a rut, if you're not seeing the kind of results you want to see... push harder. The amount of time it will take is completely variable but there will be a tipping point and it will be worth every ounce of effort you put into it to get there.

Good luck gentlemen, I am rooting for each and every one of you.

  • ez