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2

I concur. But they always seem to be the ones with the flair next to their name.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 08:07 PM
1

If there was one thing I could eradicate, it would be grown-ass men playing video games. "It's a hobby," they say, yeah, so's building a house or volunteering in your community. Some hobbies are just more valuable than others. Some aren't valuable at all. We're at the point where we have to get on the computer and ask others what our hobbies should be. We don't know your interests dude. Find out what they are and figure it out.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 05:33 PM
2

It's possible. Maybe she'll confirm. I know she reads my posts, it gets her excited.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 06:19 PM
1

It's your seed, man. Every man wants to continue his lineage. Seems like you've been around the block, so it's time to point the family jewels at the woman you want. You haven't mentioned anything to think any part of this is out of your control.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:27 PM
5

If you don't want to be her friend, then don't allow yourself to be.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:20 PM
2

One of the biggest head-scratchers for me is when people make comments like I've had it easy or had things handed to me because I generally have my shit together. The more you work, it seems like the more some people think it's luck. I'll never get it and frankly I stopped caring about what those kind of people thought about a decade ago.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 08:22 PM
2

You just listed what you expect. So I guess now you have to go find one that meets your criteria. Bring your checklist with you on the first date, that mindset always goes over well. But I won't go as far as others on here, already accusing you of cheating or "divorce raping" your phantom man. That's bullshit too.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:07 PM
4

You'll need a beta or a pet like the other guy mentioned, because no capable man would put up with your nonsense. Really, 28 demands?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:29 PM
1

I hope this is finally your wake-up call to stop doing stupid shit like intentionally fucking up your brain. There is no, "What the fuck do I do now?" You know what to do. You've always known. You just have to actually do it.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:31 PM
1

There'll be another chance.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 08:03 PM
23

I think you're being too hard on yourself. She sounds like she kinda fucking sucks as a partner.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 03:47 PM
1

So why does your career/finances suck?
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:30 PM
2

I don't need to discuss feelings, but I do expect them to do things: Find ways to be useful or temporarily take over tasks so I can be freed up to handle my shit. But if they insist on discussing feelings, I get almost physically ill. It's an odd combination of 1) Doesn't matter how I feel, 2) I don't talk about that shit with women anyways, and 3) My cock loses all interest. It's like I'm only attracted to women who expect me to handle my shit independently of them and not become their "girlfri…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:15 PM
5

Get a rough idea of when they're available and then set the date. If they're "busy" and don't propose an alternate time/date, then they're sending the message they're not that into you. My boss just talked to me yesterday about a girl I dated a couple months back who has recently mentioned she really enjoyed being with me (she knows my boss), however this woman was typically "busy" and I found myself spending more time trying to predict her schedule than I would like. After a few good dates I qu…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 06:07 PM
8

I dated a girl briefly last year whose father had died when she was a little girl. She made sure to discuss it at length on each date and would routinely post poems and similar things on her FB about never getting a chance to have a relationship with, missing him, etc. On our last date she mentioned one of her "supposed friends" told her she needed to get over it and of course, that's not an option in her world. Needless to say, I drifted away from her.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:15 PM
1

May be another election where I vote for my dad. Or libertarian. I do find the match-up fascinating though. Trump is feeding off an undercurrent of hostility from men who think their roles as providers/protectors are being taken away by "The State" (which it is) and also Americans of both genders who sense they're getting pushed around by other countries. As an opponent he has Hillary, who needs to successfully absorb most of the Bernie fans. I'll be curious to see how many Bernie fans jump to T…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 07:43 PM
1

Work on moving out, if she doesn't deserve to live with you.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 05:12 PM
1

Tell her if she wants you to put a baby in her, just say so. No need to beat around the bush. When a woman starts doing what you describe, it's pretty obvious what they're up to.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 05:23 PM
1

I don't know who Dan Bilzerian is outside of knowing he posts pictures surrounded by beautiful women, but I think the bottom line is that when someone appears strong and capable then others expect more from them. If they have more value, then they're expected to spread the wealth and not be frivolous. So some people evidently think Dan is high-value and he's pissing it away. I think that this mindset is similar to any other form of wealth transfer. "Well s/he has it, so they're obligated to shar…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:05 PM
1

I got my first smartphone about 10 months ago at the age of 31. It was fine over the years in my LTR, but after our split and entering the dating scene....when in Rome.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 08:09 PM
1

Wow, Tom Hardy is only 5'9"? So hard gauging the size of people unless you see them in person.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:24 PM
4

1) I'm going to institute a policy where if the woman checks her phone, then I'll play with mine until she figures out what's more important. I've been known to call someone across the table in group settings if they're buried in their phone. That was a group of friends, but still...put your fucking phone away. 2) Don't ask her, just do it. If she doesn't like it, spank her.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 06:28 PM
15

Submission without respect is worthless. Men MUST feel respected. The caveat of course, is that they have to earn it. Otherwise they're just a punk who wants something they haven't earned. If he has earned your respect, then nothing will enrage him more than disrespecting him. High-value men don't want pushovers, but they won't tolerate a power struggle either. He expects you to balance him out and provide a lot of value as well, while he takes the reins for the both of you. He wants to lead bec…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:26 PM
2

This will only bring your horror if you pursue it. There are other women out there.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:56 PM
1

I like the stuff from Theralogix. Pricey but high-quality.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:20 PM
7

personalfinance
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:00 PM
1

I don't think you'll find the answers buried in a book. You may find it more beneficial to get out into the world and do something interesting so you have stuff to talk about.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 08:24 PM
12

My company command is going well, and I'm slated to make captain in a month. Finally get that captain's pay.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 07:34 PM
18

Haha, naps reset the count.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 07:33 PM
0

Are we playing Poke-man?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 11:29 PM
1

Because they want someone they can walk on.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 12:53 PM
1

Pretty damn relevant....
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:16 PM
2

Does she think of all the pussy you've eaten?
/r/askTRP31/03/16 01:49 AM
1

Make a game of it and she'll likely track it for you.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 01:15 AM
2

Why do you care? You were a hooker, so I doubt he's thought much about it. Seems like you just want attention, which I doubt you'll find here.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:36 PM
1

This post wouldn't exist if you were firm in your values.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 04:05 PM
0

Eh. I'm over the "I'd better not do anything because I might get in trouble" mindset. No one went to prison, so I won't "hamster" that topic. We can debate what ifs all day.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 12:11 PM
3

You're welcome brother.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 11:04 PM
4

But it worked so I won't be questioning his situational awareness. I wasn't there. And sometimes it's not about winning it's about the message you send by fighting. I think it's okay to risk "sensitivities" and test boundaries, especially when unnecessary because that's the only time that matters. It's called having some balls, imo.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 09:06 PM
1

I second this.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 08:32 PM
34

Nah. I know that's a buzz phrase around here but I think this is something different. In all areas of life a man must set boundaries and enforce them. Including women. Giving a shit is not weakness, that's holding others to your standard. And it's not about what the girl thinks. Who gives a shit? It's about respect. In this situation it appears OP played it cool until he decided some d-bag crossed a line and the OP quickly re-asserted control and even had his buddy largely do it on his behalf. A…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 08:19 PM
35

I think you did. I don't understand why a lot of "redpill" advice centers around this notion that men should tolerate disrespect because doing so somehow makes you seem "above" it. Fuck that noise. Reads like closet feminism.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 06:06 PM
1

Damn, if you were smoking daily until until a couple months ago, that could be a huge factor. I'd put my money on that over your T count. As a 20 year old your T count is likely fine, it's just in the past few years with the clinic explosion that now "low T" seems to be the new epidemic.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 08:31 PM
1

If it's open and she's in a different state, it's barely a relationship at all. She's just slutting around. Take zero risk in knocking her up.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:28 PM
3

You should go to the office and see what's going on. I've found that when someone isn't communicating the way you'd like, then you escalate. So move away from a passive text message and go look the guy in the eyes.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:36 PM
9

I love them.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:08 AM
93

I was going to bag on you pretty hardcore, but you know what? Fuck it. It works for you and you like it. Take your lessons learned and apply them to your life. You clearly put a lot of thought into something you've been a fan of.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 03:16 AM
1

I used to think no, then yes, now no. My standards got pretty low there for awhile...
/r/askTRP18/02/16 09:01 PM
1

The gym. It's all been done before. A lot of gym rats love sharing their knowledge. We don't need the internet for everything.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 09:08 PM
9

Thank you for your post. This reminds me of a class project I was a part of back in high school that was really the first time I understood how the game is played. Our social sciences teacher stated we would learn how treaties worked. He had us split into three teams, representing countries, and we each drew up treaties and negotiated with the other countries. Then he walked over to one country and whispered something to them. Their next turn, they broke their treaty with us and crushed us, symb…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:11 PM
4

Nice. The notion of "might is right."
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:43 PM
0

I think it's perfectly fine when stressing the fact you're making one last attempt. You're just stating your intentions and then you follow-thru. Nothing wrong with that. I wouldn't have suggested it if it I hadn't gotten a couple flings out of it. I wouldn't refer to any text messaging situation as "overkill" or "messy" because it's just a stupid text message, basically the lowest form of communication.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:29 AM
0

You can be more hardcore about it, but I haven't found it necessary. There's more than one way to word things. I could make the same argument about being desperate when insisting on a date the night-of...but at the end of the day it's just a text message and they'll respond if they want.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:26 AM
0

Something like, "I'd like to get to know you better and I'm available Friday evening. If you're not interested, let me know so I can focus my time elsewhere."
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:29 PM
0

Send them one last message explaining your intent to cut contact if they don't respond. You can write something that's inviting but still gets the point across. I've had a couple girls come back around after that message was sent. Women are weird with phones, I don't put too much stock into the dynamics of text messaging etiquette but at some point you have to get down to business.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:05 PM
1

A recent ephiphany of mine came from the phrase, "Treat others as they SHOULD be treated." I take that to mean, "As they deserve." That bridged some gaps in my personal ideology. Before that I was hung up on treating everyone equally according to what we consider being polite. But as I've matured, I've realized some people are incompetent, or assholes, or psychological vampires, and frankly, that's not my problem. They've done nothing to deserve my best, so now I treat them accordingly. Others d…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:57 PM
2

Create an abundance. The mentality follows. And it's not just about sex.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:20 PM
1

What is that phrase? All it takes for bad people to win is for good people to do nothing? Pacifism is not a part of my ideology. There are things and people I want to protect and it's my decision how to do it. Sometimes force is necessary when lesser methods, namely "law" don't work. That's why societies have "law enforcement."
/r/askTRP22/01/16 11:29 AM
2

No fucking way. First of all, if she gained weight, then it's a statement of fact. She needs to get over it. Secondly, to pay for someone else's gym membership seems lazy in itself. She needs to get off her ass and do it herself.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 09:17 PM
2

Treating my dick better is my new years resolution. Dudes obsess about size but it seems most dicks don't even work right anyways. Take care of your dick and it'll take care of you.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 02:31 AM
2

You able to go spend some quality time with him? I'm sure you understand how difficult the transition can be back to civilian life, and your buddy is having a brutal time right now. Maybe he has a great social life and lots of buddies, but if not, he needs a pick-me-up.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:10 PM
-1

Ask the guy.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:49 PM
0

You're not taking her if you ask permission. That's not how you take things. If she's taking the lead on this then you're not being the aggressor. I would suggest making another safe word besides "no."
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:47 PM
0

I don't even have to read the post. Based on the title, cut her loose. Time is your most important resource you can give someone else.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:49 PM
5

This is what happens when RP becomes a religion for people.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 06:31 PM
2

This what I like about this subreddit. If you wrote that in other subs, they'd ban you.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 04:52 PM
3

I don't know man, there's always going to be an excuse why someone may not be attracted to you. Don't concern yourself with the ones who aren't attracted to you, focus on those who are.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:55 PM
3

There are plenty of attractive women under 5'6". Go after them.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:51 PM
2

It's marketing. Another guy already mentioned it, but advertisers know that the dudes into this stuff will salivate over the tough, mysterious female lead while women can identify with a strong independent woman. And dopes can identify with the new male lead. But I didn't see any new male badass in the movie....Personally after seeing this one I've come to realize the franchise is mainly about a bunch of teenagers with daddy issues. This one seemed more obvious, like "And now, the next chapter o…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:42 PM
1

Working jobs we hate to buy shit we don't need.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:32 PM
1

You should really acknowledge that you're going to die. Embrace it for a while and see if it changes your perception of things.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:31 PM
1

At its core, it's our time. Because we know our time is valuable. Of course, it has to actually be valuable, as demonstrated by the kind of person we are and what we can provide.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:25 PM
1

Congratulations. Use it to your advantage by developing your "command" voice. You can essentially learn to set the tone for a conversation based on your voice inflection. Work on utilizing it the same way you would with body language. Hair falls out, abs soften, your face will get wrinkly, but an authoritative voice is forever. Count your blessings for sure.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:14 PM
1

Doesn't matter if you're not able or willing to do either. I think the focus should rather be on putting in the work to improve your leadership skills. I'm tired of labeling things, as if a label gives something substance. It's not about labeling, it's about doing.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 03:51 PM
0

There was this guy I met in college. Pretty respectable dude, smart, mature, reserved, in shape. For context, he was a graduate philosophy student and we both attended philosophy society gatherings. During a discussion someone mentioned he was on probation. He sighed, acknowledged it, and then gave the story. He was in a doctor's office waiting room with his wife and his wife is a talkative person. She's latina. Probably gorgeous. Some guy told her to shut up. He basically told the guy, "Look, I…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 08:40 PM
1

I got blocked pretty quickly from "relationship_advice" and from "sex" for stating some pretty common, traditional masculine opinions. I was bizarrely unwelcome. It was worth it.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:59 PM
4

What in the world? Is there a term for male "hamstering" around social media chess moves? This is why you don't game people. Because then if the tables are turned, a person's brain may short-circuit. Focus on talking to her face-to-face and don't get any more committed until you've been together longer with more opportunities to evaluate her behavior.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 07:44 PM
3

I've arranged plenty of dates without telephone numbers being exchanged. I agree with them being confused, because they typically are in the dating world, but I don't think it's necessarily a sign of no interest.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:15 PM
2

I don't know, I can't read her mind man. If I was OP, I'd just go with the flow. Women are weird with phones.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:04 PM
3

I agree. I haven't been around long but I can't make sense of this shit. What do I care about natural alphas? And what the fuck is a zeta? Is this like world of warcraft or something? I'm going to go wash my truck.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 08:49 PM
20

That's pretty much my childhood in a nutshell, up thru high school. Even in high school when my buddies were chasing girls I would have rather ridden my 4-wheeler. Girls practically had to beat me with a stick for me to even notice how interested they were in me. God I miss that 4-wheeler.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 08:45 PM
6

Why is this a thing? Seems like a reasonable standard to me.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:12 PM
3

I tell the truth. I don't know why people attempt to game this. But, thinking about it...I've never been asked that question by anyone other than the girl I spent 10 years with. The rest prance around the issue but never directly ask me. My first instinct would be to respond as to whether they're interested in being exclusive. Seems like that's really what they're asking. Sometimes I think the one who will snatch me is the one with the confidence to actually ask, because that implies they're hig…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 08:27 PM
21

That was brutal to read. I bet you needed an icepack to reduce the swelling from her kicking you in the nuts repeatedly. Sorry brother.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 09:31 PM
1

You need to decide if you have the lifestyle you want already or if there are goals you want to achieve before you settle down with a woman. If you're not living the life you want, a SO can get swept up in the mix because they're a part of what you think is holding you back. But that's on you, for dragging her along while being indecisive. I think this is what can go wrong with this subreddit. By all accounts, you have a good woman. But you're not treating her very well and I don't see how it's …
/r/askTRP24/11/15 05:50 PM
0

It reads like a terrible relationship. I'm not convinced "alpha" even factors into the equation, it was just dysfunctional.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 09:23 PM
2

A good way to start leading more is to decide what you're passionate about. You have to look inside yourself and basically decide what motivates you, what your interests are, what you want to improve. When you commit to orient your interests with how you spend your time, it's like building a house on a strong foundation. I think it will naturally give you more opportunities to lead because you actually care about what you're doing. Plus you'll have more willpower to follow-thru. I think it's fin…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 06:07 PM
6

I'll rebuke anyone who thinks leadership, or relationships in general, should involve "gaming." I dislike the connotations of that word. If one is gaming, then they're not being authentic and I don't see how anyone worthwhile has time for being inauthentic. I recommend "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius and "Civil Disobedience" and "Walden" by Thoreau.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 02:43 PM
2

More mature but can be just as wild as younger women. Quite refreshing.
/r/askTRP15/11/15 11:28 PM
4

Be direct with her about what you're noticing and explain calmly what your expectation is for her behavior. Then respond accordingly. Some women think games and deception are fun, when really they're boring and likely to blow up in peoples' faces. Call her out on it and see what happens, because currently as your "girlfriend," she's your problem.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 08:08 PM
1

1) Around town or online. 2) I don't compete with anyone else. 3) I look/act/feel very healthy and young. Add in a tremendous amount of life experience for my age and, on my good days, I could hang with the guy in the Dos Equis commercials. People notice.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 08:01 PM
3

As another man said, women are everywhere. Just never pass up an opportunity to talk with one, regardless of location. Why wouldn't I want to talk with a pretty girl for a few minutes, at least? Success breeds success. Hell I took my realtor out for a few drinks. I read a lot of essentially, "How do you get an abundance mentality?" That language is bullshit. You build an abundance and the mentality naturally follows. So this magical 38yr old? He's out there flirting...with your mom, with some ba…
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:54 PM
2

Of course there is responsibility with authority. But don't assume that just because you're a man, that you've been given any authority. You have to earn it. I think you earn it by being responsible, so I don't think there is authority without responsibility. In the end we all get what we deserve. If you're not responsible, you lose authority. Love and care for those who deserve your love and care, regardless of gender.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:48 PM
1

I don't hide anything I've earned.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:25 PM
1

I understand. I've had a lot of upheaval in my personal life as well the last 18 months. Getting back on the horse is a good feeling.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:16 PM
1

Sorry to hear about your recent difficulties. Based on what you've written, it appears that not only do you have a lot to offer, but you're interesting and intelligent. The woman you're mentioning appears to be practically begging you to ask her out. If you really like her, take her for coffee but establish you're not her buddy. I think asking her to your dorm immediatly to drink seems desperate. Texting is just a way to communicate, but it can become a circle-jerk if it never leads to anything …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:48 PM
2

I agree. I don't even bother trying to date any woman who describes herself as "career driven."
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:01 PM
1

I gave considerable thought to this when my ex-wife and I were trying to conceive. Emphasis on "ex." I plan on being a father, so I have no time for a woman who doesn't want to be a mother. I should caveat this by saying she demonstrated over a long period that her job would always be primary in her life.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 05:59 PM
1

Tell the truth.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:01 PM
-1

It's on your terms, so no, I don't think you did.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 06:09 PM
1

Leaders help others without having group-think override their moral compass. I think this subreddit serves as a way to mentor others and I enjoy that. If the recipient doesn't want to listen, that's fine. It's their decision. No man is an island. Except Darelle Revis, as the commercial goes. Part of self-improvement is acknowledging that there's always someone out there who can provide useful perspective. So I don't think there's anything wrong with anyone asking the community for guidance.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:24 PM
2

I've never met a sex toy that replaces a good woman. I think if anything the outcasts will fantasize themselves right out of the gene pool because they will fixate on shit like this instead of seeking the real thing. Replacing women with technology isn't an "alphafication." It is weak.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 03:04 PM
1

I agree with you, as a divorced man who has made some online dating profiles. I wasn't even on Facebook. I now understand how many people develop the mindset you describe. It's chaos. I take it for what it is, but I think if I find another LTR it will be with a woman who is as detached from social media and the internet as I'd like to be. But until then, when in Rome....
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 04:22 PM
4

Why not just tell the truth? If there are others, say so. Unless you guys are discussing being exclusive, then it shouldn't matter. If she doesn't like it, tough.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:01 PM
5

Nice catch on post-humous fame. Dude didn't even care if he was honored, which in my mind makes him even more respectable.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 06:10 PM
18

Every man should read "Meditations." Marcus Aurelius, a true philosopher-king. When I find the right woman to have a child with, I'm naming my son Marcus. No pressure, kid.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:21 PM
3

I agree with you. I try to focus on the self-improvement parts of the subreddit, as well as the pro-masculinity threads. Men should strive to lift others to their level while treating others as they deserve to be treated. Some threads and comments get extreme.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 08:18 PM
3

I was that guy. Tied the knot because I was comfortable and it was expected. Quickly realized how much I had sacrificed over the years, much of it before marriage, while she continued to demonstrate a pattern of behavior that made me realize she didn't care about what I wanted. I got out before I was locked into children or moved further from family. Clean break. Modern society is confused with outdated rituals that were based on need.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:37 PM
2

Interesting. Thanks for taking time to write that.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:16 PM
1

What did you learn from the books? Seems like they should have had suggestions. A lot of times I think I should read, "Don't be such a dick" (I don't think that's a real book) so I am curious what these books say.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 07:01 PM
1

No idea. I used melatonin for awhile and it worked, crazy dreams though.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:07 PM
1

Kegel exercises and experience. Don't stress over it, that'll make it worse. But given my libido at a significantly older age than you, I can't imagine being your age and not having to tug one out routinely to keep my sanity. Could just be b/c she was much different than other girls you've been with. When I've stepped outside my race or age bracket my stamina decreased for all the right reasons.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 05:29 PM
2

It will. The secret weapon for a lot of elite athletes is sleep.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 05:21 PM
2

There's a difference between swinging and polyamory. Swinging can be fun, polyamory is silly. In one case you just want some strange, but the other demonstrates your partner either isn't enough or isn't right for you. Take it for what it is. Get a few girlfriends then you can be "polyamorous" too. I don't see a difference between polyamory and dating.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 06:37 PM
2

I'd have more respect for them if they would just say, "I'm fat."
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 04:54 PM
5

Tell her what you want her to do.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:32 PM
2

/r/personalfinance
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:27 PM
2

Brazilian jiu-jitsu. There are more groups than you think and everyone is very cool b/c if not, the group beats their ass and they never come back. I used to travel a lot for work and me and another guy would find the nearest group and join in for a class or two.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:10 PM
0

In my opinion, you maintain your own attraction by finding women worth more than a few fucks. Comes down to compatibility.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:30 PM
2

Tell her that if she comes over, she's going to be fondled. It's just a statement of fact.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 11:03 PM
1

I didn't delete anything. They're well "under threshold" so I think they were condensed and don't show unless you open the "+" icon.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:29 PM
2

One still has to want it and there's nothing wrong with saying so. "I want this, and I'm going to take it." But I agree with embodying the role. If you have to say, "I'm in charge," then you're not in charge.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:48 PM
2

And then the man says he doesn't want to. I try to wrap my head around, but I never will.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 08:13 PM
16

I got crucified on there for posting a few comments. You guys can check my post history if interested. I basically wrote, 1) There's always a leader in a group, "equality" is just fairy-tale. Most on there, who likely have no leadership experience, seemed to believe that this means heavy-handed, enforced obedience of mindless drones. Those posters simply don't get it. 2) If he truly does not want to be the head of household, then there appear to be significant issues if she came to him with thos…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 07:48 PM
4

I'm not a complete proponent of "never get married," but I do think marriage should not even be considered until a baby is on his/her way, and even then, I like the idea of having to wake up every day and earn the commitment of my S.O. Point being, you can have a family and not be married.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:34 PM
-1

I asked abdada a question which he answered. I did not ask you anything.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:55 PM
1

You're preaching to the choir. And "lifting" does not necessarily make women available.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:48 PM
2

How is this blue pill when a common theme I read on here is the clique of "lift and get pussy?" Personally, I find that to be ridiculous so I think you and I agree on this topic, but I'm referring to the sub as a whole.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:16 PM
1

I would structure your social media use toward continuously engaging with reality and conveying reality, meaning nothing should be on there to contribute to the time-wasting cyber circlejerk that Facebook can be. For example, if you don't have a relationship with the person in real life, don't friend them. Sorry, girl I talked to a few times in high school. Use updates and posts to schedule things and congratulate on real accomplishments, meaning not the latest meal or shopping purchase. Only jo…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 03:08 PM
1

I wholeheartedly agree. I worked two summers at a lumber mill as a teenager stacking large pieces of lumber on top of each other. Heavy lifting, 10-12 hour shifts, noisy, 10 minutes breaks. And I was about 150lbs soaking wet at the time. Nothing but kids, broken men, and first-generation immigrants who worked their asses off and never complained. Couple that with the fact I was this close to enlisting after 9/11 and would have likely been crushed by a Humvee in Afghanistan, I sure as hell approa…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 06:31 PM
3

God, I was born in the wrong decade... Is it really a text situation? Or can you write out a longer, electronic letter that answers the burning questions like, "Who are you?" and "Why are you contacting me?"
/r/askTRP09/09/15 04:50 PM
10

Good for your sex life too, because you'll be bringing the firehose instead of the squirt gun.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:54 PM
5

I'm not sure how you can give off a "vibe" thru a snapchat. Snapchat is not real life. If I were you, I'd spend as much time analyzing this as I would wondering what Bruce Jenner is up to these days.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:22 PM
3

Did you actually meet her or is this a snapchat relationship?
/r/askTRP08/09/15 02:50 PM
3

You don't owe her anything. Dwelling on your inability to perform just drags it out. Invite her out, limit the alcohol consumption, and go from there. Not a big deal unless you make it one.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:19 PM
1

I'm going to the Indy show to see what this dude's all about. I know a lot of comedians but I've never followed this guy.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:24 PM
2

This should be the moment you climb out of it because this is really weak. This is not what enlightenment looks like. In fact, this appears to be the exact opposite of that. Too many excuses, too many feelings. I wonder whether your friends are doing as much nothing as you are. May be time to shake up your social circle.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:01 PM
1

Ah ok. Sounds brutal.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:58 PM
0

I don't know what the "PUA era" means but it must have sucked. I scratch my head at some of the advice or the "strategy" I'm reading. I'll stick around and post and see what happens.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:44 PM
1

Tell her you want her, not her friend. If you wanted her friend, you'd go after the friend.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:39 PM
3

No one is that busy. I'm no expert, but I don't think we're into promoting parlor tricks around here. Hang out with her Friday evening and take lead. If you're not enjoying your time with her, then cut the evening short. Too easy.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:32 PM
1

To let that which does not matter, truly slide? I think the first step is to decide what you value the most. Time to be your own man, instead of following the herd.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:29 PM
10

Those are some great lessons learned, and the fact you're reflecting on what went right/what went wrong demonstrates you have the mentality for self-examination and personal improvement, necessary to build yourself into an effective leader. I definitely agree. It's not part-time. No one has ever followed the person that's not leading them.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 06:01 PM
1

I read your post and my question is, what have you really earned in your life?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:36 PM
1

Great post. I think that the traditional rite of passage into manhood has been joining the military. There is no lifestyle more masculine. It has a way of making a kid grow-the-fuck-up by realizing it's not about them and they're not a special snowflake. The world doesn't owe them anything. Personally I think we've lost something as a society when we don't force men to defend their community. As anecdotal evidence, the vast majority of men in my family joined and served, and there has never been…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 01:13 PM
1

This one of the more bizarre comparisons I've come across.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:00 PM
1

God, I love that first paragraph. I'm still laughing about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:22 PM
14

Is the woman to blame, or is it men who enable this behavior?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:14 PM
3

There are different ways to be fit. One could argue that having a fighter's build is more primal and alpha than the typical bodybuilder shape. I would continue to focus on your functional strength. If bulking helps, then go for it. But I wouldn't concern myself with the opinions of the types of dudes who strut around between sets of tricep push-downs.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:28 PM
1

For a wife and mother of my children? Without hesitation. For my mom? Absolutely. For a girlfriend? Probably.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:06 PM
3

I'm much like you in a similar situation at 30. I don't even like the term "divorced," because it seems to imply one has baggage and "will never be the same." That's why I don't refer to myself as "divorced." It was a clean break. I'm "single" and when/if the topic comes up, I discuss it. Part of my past, no reason to hide it. I matured thru it and it helped me realize what I really want. Easier than having to actively avoid the discussion and watch my language. I'm too simple-minded to guard my…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 06:51 PM
1

Just think of Ron Swanson from Parks and Rec. I'm even staring at his "Pyramid of Greatness" on my office wall. "Stillness: Don't waste energy moving unless necessary." "Frankness: Cut the B.S."
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 12:48 PM
5

"So funnily enough, it feels like 90% (luckily not all) of women I get to know are absolutely fucking empty; no skills, no hobbies, no interests, no opinions, no knowledge, no streetsmarts, no plan, no clue etc. " That's what I'm seeing in the dating world, after leaving a marriage with a woman who didn't bring anything to the table. Looking good isn't enough. All I've found so far are women who "want to travel" and are "going back to school" for some shit degree so they can go further into debt…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 02:29 PM
1

There is nothing weaker than someone trying to be tough thru email.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:47 PM
8

Let's chalk this one up as strictly an enraged rant. Like a drunk buddy who just had to say some crazy shit because he wanted to.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:10 PM
3

I've found that I can't escape being the "fatherly" figure with women. They're definitely looking for the man described in the paragraph. Now if they'd just have the guts to be real women...
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 03:22 PM
1

I don't mind this. We should strive to be this dude.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 03:19 PM
10

Good for you man. I'm meeting my ex in a few weeks after work, with my new lumberjack beard and 15 more pounds of muscle. I'd never thought of making her a "plate" until you mentioned your plan.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 03:14 PM
2

This is spot-on. It's nice to see a post with a perspective other than "lift to get pussy." I think this is why I've been so successful after my divorce. I've traveled the world and the USA and I'm always going somewhere. Women are intimidated by travel and many I meet always "want" to travel but have not done so. Or, they've planned the trips and they sound like they were all fucked up b/c they didn't do it right. There's just no substitute for being adventurous and interesting. If you want int…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 01:51 PM
1

These lessons sound like something I'd hear on a frivolous rap song. Personally I think having meaningful work, a good woman, being physically fit, and having two friends that would help me move on a Saturday afternoon are a good barometer of one's success as a man. And if getting "pussy" is harder after college, you haven't put in the work to develop yourself into a capable, attractive man. I know that guy who peaked in college. He sucks. Just now I'm realizing just how little life experience o…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 03:36 AM
2

She didn't change, so I left her. Best decision I ever made. (Young, no kids.) So my follow-thru ended the marriage. This was before I stumbled onto this subreddit and all its fancy acronyms and slang. Some women refuse to be women, but they don't want to be the man, either. They don't want to lead, but they don't want to follow.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 07:37 PM
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