Came too quick last night

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2015-09-21T23:00:01+00:00

so i went over to her place and came within like 5 min without being able to stay stiff for second round.

A woman's satisfaction during sex is mostly related to your keeping a strong frame. That is, being dominant, aggressive, and making her your plaything. The more deeply you make her submit to you, the more satisfied she will be. It doesn't really have much to do with your penis, so stop focusing on your erection and dial up your mental game.

But if you're worried, learn to eat pussy like a champ. Learn how to massage the G-spot. Look her in the eyes and tell her her pussy belongs to you for the night, it does not belong to her any more. Tell her she is there to do everything to please you.

If she complains, tell her to calm her tits down.

stickfiguresk · 2015-09-22T00:00:47+00:00

Orgasms are mostly psychological. The more exciting the situation, the faster you'll finish. Be selfish and be happy that you got to fuck an attractive woman in a comfortable setting. You're doing it right, so don't be self conscious about it. Win hard, cum hard.

If you want to last longer, fuck her with a condom on, 5 more times, and in a less comfortable setting. It'll take forever.

Given men's relationship with testosterone, it's not uncommon for us to focus on our dicks too much. Masturbation may play a small part in how long you last, but it isn't the problem or the answer.

BJayJay · 2015-09-22T03:33:54+00:00

Try fapping once a week. I usually have the opposite since I can barely cum with a condom on.

blacwidonsfw · 2015-09-21T23:24:12+00:00

when your about to cum start eating her out then when you calm down go back. rinse and repeat.

Flash7475 · 2015-09-22T00:00:51+00:00

As soon as you are about to cum just pull out and start to finger her or do some more foreplay on her so you can calm down in the mean time.

Also next time you jerk it just go till your about to finish and just stop. keep doing that quite a bit and you'll build up a tolerance.

tillybb · 2015-09-22T01:33:54+00:00

Fap before you go. Or get used to cumming several times. I cum 3/4 times in an evening. When masturbating or when having sex. It gets progressively more difficult though.

0kool74 · 2015-09-22T01:38:31+00:00

Like another said, learn to eat pussy like a champ! If you can make her cum with your tongue, she most likely won't give a fuck that you lasted 5 minutes or even 2 minutes.

Another thing, if you can manage to time it right, before you start scouting a score, go jack a round out....probably an hour or two beforehand. This will ensure that you can last longer to an extent. I know for myself personally, no matter how much I try to hold back the first pop is always relatively quick with each subsequent one lasting much much longer.

turkalurka123 · 2015-09-22T12:29:32+00:00

like I get 30 seconds but 5 minutes? Thats fucking good or it wasnt 5 minutes of banging and something else?

MightyTaint · 2015-09-22T13:59:49+00:00

You're still adjusting to no-fap. Think of it as a transition period and not a problem developing. Your dick is confused.

Funk54daba · 2015-09-22T17:29:25+00:00

Kegel exercises and experience. Don't stress over it, that'll make it worse. But given my libido at a significantly older age than you, I can't imagine being your age and not having to tug one out routinely to keep my sanity. Could just be b/c she was much different than other girls you've been with. When I've stepped outside my race or age bracket my stamina decreased for all the right reasons.

Title	Came too quick last night
Author	shadada
Upvotes	5
Comments	19
Date	September 21, 2015 10:50 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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