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No not yet. We have a few things we want to get done before marriage. And even then, we are so chill that it will just happen when the time is right. We enjoy each other so much that marriage is more of a bonus rather than a requirement. Which is nice to feel that way for once.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 02:02 AM
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I am glad you enjoy it! That's all I ever hope to inspire :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 02:01 AM
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Thank you so much :) I appreciate it!!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 02:01 AM
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Thank you so much for your kind words! They mean a ton to me!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 02:01 AM
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Not yet. We are in no rush. We both have been in relationships where we got caught up in the nuance of it. We prefer to just accept marriage when it feels right, versus being bored and wondering what the next step is. It's the first time I honestly don't feel a need to engage in it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 02:01 AM
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I work part time and volunteer on occasion. The rest of the time I indulge in my hobby. I am very active, but my schedule is flexible enough to manage the relationship without sacrificing anything, which is how I would want it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 02:00 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement! And haha, I noticed, based on my history, then when I claim to be taken, I get no inboxes from men. But if I mention I am single, they flock out like its harvesting season. But regardless, it wouldn't mean much to me, luckily :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 01:59 AM
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I appreciate the heads up :) But we have already experienced a taste of life happens, and luckily we smoothed right through it. We are both very communicative. So hopefully in the future, when life decides we haven't had enough curve balls, we will continue to hit them like no big deal. We both know a relationship is a team effort, not a perfect ending. The perfect ending can be claimed once we are in our older years. Until then...we will continue to work together. But thank you for the advice. …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 01:57 AM
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Glad to see you here! And no problem. He owns the house. Literally and metaphorically. If my hamster has ever tried to spin, he literally says, "____, cut the shit. You know you're emotional. I care for you, but I will only talk to you when you are sensical." He also calls the shots monetarily. He calls me out on being AWALT/spinning hamster. He basically calls me out on anything. I have learned to just agree, and say woops! (over half the time I didn't realize it) and he just thinks it's cute t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 02:56 AM
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a man will not love you just because you make his life easier That is very true. But it also can be a beautiful thing. I make my SO's life so much easier. I compliment his life. He comes home from a stressful job, and is still surprised at how stress free I make this house. Sure, a maid could do that. But I personalize it. I know what scotch he likes. I know what food he likes. I know what temp he likes the house. I know when to give him space. I know when to offer a BJ or tell him I am horny. I…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 02:38 AM
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I wanted to make my own comment, but you nailed this. So much. Perfect. I wish every article on being a stay at home parent had this attached to it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 02:29 AM
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Here is the thing to remember - when a man is in alpha mode, pussy is everywhere. Getting laid becomes as easy as it is for a woman with tits. Sex becomes a lot less meaningful. Sure, it's fun, but it's not fun collecting notch posts...because you could do it whenever you wanted. An alpha male will think the same. If you are attractive enough, that's all you need visually. But keeping him goes to a deeper level. You have to be more than a hot chick. You have to be worth his time. He values that,…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 02:24 AM
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Just posted it. Thank you for inspiring me to get it out there.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 02:11 AM
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Hahahaha I have been stewing on it for so long now! I keep getting all shy when going to post! It's been 6 months, and I thought maybe at the year mark it would seem more legit to readers. I want to share it so bad! I am always in awe that we met on Reddit. Soon I am going to buy a scrap book, print out our first messages, and document it. It's just too random to not do something like that! Maybe I'll post a story soon! I am so excited to see it get good remarks thus far :D
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 01:25 AM
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I've learned with men that when they say they are happy and over it, they mean it. As in, don't make a fuss about it. Just drop it. Men respond to actions, not words. And in this case, the only action that will prove you are sincere, is next time he goes out, you don't even make a hint of fuss about it, tell him to have a good time, and when he gets home you give him a BJ or something. THAT will tell him you were sincere. And until then, act like nothing happened and move on. If he brings it up,…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 12:52 AM
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but now you speak for the forum?!?!?!? It's called reading the comments and making an educated analysis on answers based on a reoccurring pattern. I CALL THE MODS TO DETERMINE IF I'M HATED BY ALL!!!!!!!!! ACTIVATE!!!! Very mature debater, I see. Definitely should help your credentials with making a point. Oh god, I took a fairly good sex ed class. I know about the puberty. In grade 6 I watched a childless single 50-year-old man slip a candy bar wrapper over a pencil to demonstrate how to put con…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 01:20 AM
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I don't think you need to even debate that topic. It's common sense. I also don't think anyone here is saying they're all on board and can't wait for their after party. As a matter of fact, I have yet to see one of them actually say that it's completely normal and not disgusting. Everyone was just saying it makes sense. Just because something makes sense doesn't mean it's right. We're just saying that it borders on edge, that in some cultures, people walk on. We know in this country that a 15 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 09:02 PM
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Nope. Happily in an LTR. And you can't debate when you can't even be reasoned with. You said all I do is assume? Yeah well guess what, your assumption that condoms are readily available...now I'm the one laughing. In my hometown, that's not a real thing. I don't think you have an ego. I do think that you have no form of reasoning. You won't even let the other side speak. You let them type, and then regurgitate quotes they said with one liners that don't even address the argument, but rather atta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 08:15 PM
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Will it make me a better debater if I just assume everything about everyone? it certainly would help if you didn't have tunnel vision. You're on the wrong forum. Also, anyone raised in the west was raised under feminism. To deny that is to deny truth, which is what you do. You are someone that gets stuck on something and will refute everything around you, even if that means just turning the argument around with never even having had addressed the original issue. You argue like a feminist. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 08:02 PM
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Then fuck those guys. No one but themselves condones that. Most men that I respect and know would not fuck a ditzy teenager. Any guy that would gets a red flag placed on his forehead and I will watch him so I can know if I need to call the cops or not. You keep saying "this is not what this about". When yes, in fact, it is. None of us want a 15 year old to marry and fuck a 39 year old. But it happens, so we try to reason why it does so we can keep our 15 year olds away from that mess. We can't j…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:20 PM
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I think the question is the maturity of the human, and how it doesn't peek until after 18. Some are more mature than others at 16, but in truth, they are not ready for modern real world applications. Our bodies mature quicker than our culture allows our real world capabilities to mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:59 PM
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I concur and think we are saying the same thing, but I just didn't flesh my comment out as neatly as you did. It made sense in my head when I wrote it. (should have changed mentally to culturally, as that was the real intent) Thank you for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 03:48 PM
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This is simple. For a woman: Her man needs to be responsible, mature, reliable, a provider, masculine, rugged, etc. For a man: She needs to be hot enough to bust a nut in her. And then responsible enough to raise children. Biologically, men are faced with more qualifications that need to be met with than women are when seeking in a mate. But that makes sense. Women have the burden of selection. Men can bust a nut in a different chick every day. But a woman is pregnant for 9 months. She has to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 04:55 AM
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I disagree. With the right dynamic, a woman will respect you and value your vulnerability. If she doesn't, then she is a full blown idiot that hasn't realized that all people are people. The key is to let these moments out while within frame. As in, be constantly aware of when you need to reel in and say you are done and will discuss it later. It tells the woman she just received a moment she should cherish, not take for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 04:52 AM
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I'm too much of a sucker for these things. I would still support the kid. If I were divorced, I'd accept the freeing up in my income spending and use that towards the child. I just know how much an adoptive child needs the love. I would still give it, and be happy that they have some form of loving home, even if it is a little weird. I'd probably go to court and fight the rights of the child too, depending on the circumstances = ie, if I didn't work too crazy of hours a week, if the husband turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 04:31 AM
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I appreciate that. I get downloaded/ignored anytime I admit to being female. I got over it pretty quickly but it's kind of retarded sometimes too. At least there are some people on here that will just read the words for what they are!
/r/askTRP22/09/15 04:23 PM
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I'm going to copy and paste a previous post I made to a similar question, since I feel this is something that needs to be taught more: Going full alpha mode will only get you laid and a plate or two. Try that in an LTR? No, you'll just be called a dick after a year or so. What women WANT from the alpha tree is - security, leadership, a captain, a provider, and a man who constantly attempts to better himself. What a woman WANTS from the beta tree - caring, emotionally available (not tampon, but n…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 03:06 PM
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Bahaha. I hope she has a camera. Reddit needs more humor like this.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 03:05 PM
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Ah - this. This right here. You can have the cock of a god, but if all you do is pump and cum...she will still feel unsatisfied. As a woman...I feel like I can confirm this. It's how we are treated during sex that gets us off. Just play it off like, "You're just so attractive I couldn't help myself...but you're still not allowed to go anywhere...because I am not done with you." Orgasming early doesn't ruin anything for a woman. And if it does, buy a dildo and learn to work her. All women just wa…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 01:02 AM
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Going full alpha mode will only get you laid and a plate or two. Try that in an LTR? No, you'll just be called a dick after a year or so. What women WANT from the alpha tree is - security, leadership, a captain, a provider, and a man who constantly attempts to better himself. What a woman WANTS from the beta tree - caring, emotionally available (not tampon, but not as cold as marble either) loyalty, and commitment. What she does NOT want from the alpha tree - a douchebag, a guy who sleeps around…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 01:19 PM
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Right now the concept of it being misogynist is prominent because it is gaining momentum. And with that, a lot of anger phase is coming out. Mix that with the few veterans in here who are bitter with women, and it can often come off pretty harsh. Constantly berating women from these specific men is giving it a momentarily negative taste. Most recently I have seen a lot of hatred towards women, calling them all sluts, commenting that they good for nothing but plating, they are useless past 30, et…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 01:08 PM
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Sounds like you have a stable women on your hands that doesn't fall into normal, naggy female stereotypes. Everyone shouts AWALT like parrots around here, but seriously...not all chicks are selfish, manipulative succubi that have come to be the biggest bitch you will ever know. Every human being is different. Some are analytical. Sounds like she is. Shes still a female, so she has more emotional sensitivity, but she doesn't thrive off of being super sappy/emotional all the time. It totally happe…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:14 AM
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Sharing an LTR or wife/husband is nothing more than an expression that both parties just aren't into each other. Sure, they may care, but they aren't there for the love at that point. They are either there for religion, societal pressures, or material gains. Any chick willing to share you outside a threesome doesn't view you as something worth fighting for. She values something else in you more than your bond with each other - ie, your status, wealth, stability, or she just plain doesn't care an…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:09 AM
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I agree that people should lead whatever sex live pleases them. However, I don't agree that polygyny would be a fix for anything. Women don't like to share. Being alpha doesn't automatically turn her into an idiot that forgets she didn't liked to share in the first place. Any woman complacent with sharing a man is not after his companionship. She is either after his money, stability, status, or simply doesn't care about him. That's why this type of relationship doesn't usually thrive unless reli…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:00 AM
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You spun your own hamster wheel by going. Your thoughts and confusion right now is nothing but male hamstering. Just don't even interact with her. She wants validation, and you know this. The more you engage, the more your hamster will spin. Unless you want to plate her, you know better than interacting with her.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 06:04 PM
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I remember, being a hormonal teenager, that I definitely had times where I was difficult. But all teens are that way. My dad never had to yell at me. He had this look and this tone that made my blood stop sometimes, because I realized he was pissed and would be willing to come down harsh in that moment if he wanted. He would often remind me that when I am 18, I can do whatever I want. But until then, this is his house. He pays the bills. I only have clothes because of him. I only had supplies fo…
/r/askTRP20/09/15 05:02 PM
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Chicks vaginas change all the time. There is a lot going on down there, and ovulation/being close to period/just getting off period/not cleaning well enough/using a dildo, etc will change the slightest things. You're just paranoid, I think.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 04:43 PM
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Aside from the obvious - she is a stripper, she begs and asks for money for a living - let's go in the opposite route. She could be totally serious. Strippers are humans too, and at some point they also like to date. No one likes to be lonely. But, I haven't really known a stripper to being the best LTR material. Meaning, she could be serious, but it will be a RP bullet point list of AWALT traits. The downfall - well...you didn't exactly meet her under the best circumstances. More than likely sh…
/r/askTRP20/09/15 04:38 PM
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So much this. If the relationship was great, but timing was off, then that's not a bad sign at all. That's just two people needing to settle in their life before merging into another's. Some are patient with this, and some are not.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 04:03 AM
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Who gives a poop. This chick is entitled. She is what RP doesn't respect. If someone can't respect others and be happy for them, then they are suffering somewhere in there. I don't know why RP struck a cord with her, but something happened in her life that annoyed her and it ran in the vein of RP. And instead of being mature, she decided to stick it up her butt and feel entitled to this opinion. Prejudice against these choices don't affect me. I know I am happy, and that's all that I need. If so…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 04:00 AM
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"the biggest day of your lives" That's the key though. It's not really. Every day should be the best. If you have kids, it will be the best. You might go on a vacation and have a day more romantic than your wedding. Your 25th anniversary might be your happiest. Understand that this day is nothing more than a celebration of a new family being created, and everything after that is more wonderful than the past (Obviously it's special, but if you obsess over how special it is, you are ruining future…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 03:54 AM
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Not particularly. I'm sure things would be easier if I were. That's not good. Not criticizing you or shaming you in anyway - you can't help attraction - but that's your problem. Nothing else is. You can't get horny if you aren't attracted. If you are really attracted to him, then you shouldn't need a day to plan for sex. You should see a marriage counselor. I think you need to communicate to him that there is an attraction problem, but it might be best received from a marriage counselor who will…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 03:44 AM
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Well..I am American.... 'Merica through and through. 23 Years of my life and counting, I only have 3 men to count on my hand (all long LTRs) It happens in America. I am proof of that. And I have friends proof of it. But I do agree that America lacks in its morals. I got so damn lucky that my dad refused to let me a part of the CC. It exists, but I would be a fool to admit it is in the rare numbers. Best of luck to any man. I just consider myself grateful to have found my captain. Because trust m…
/r/askTRP19/09/15 03:17 AM
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Nah, women are compassionate. We are by nature. We are meant to raise children. And thus, we are intrinsically inclined to be compassionate. However, understand, that this is directed towards our children. Not our spouse. Love is complicated. When entering a relationship, we either enter full submission or withhold some form of our self. Most women will withhold, naturally, as most men will too. When we find someone that is masculine, our tendency to let go is on hyper drive. We love when men ta…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 02:57 AM
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I hate to admit to it - I may even get downvoted- but who cares. It's the internet. I left my previous ex who was so beta...that I became the beta "male" and he became the bitchy female everyone complains about. Yes. That got weird really fast. But he was going through some stuff. So it makes sense now. But at the time, I understood that where I gained a boyfriend at the the beginning of the relationship, he turned into a girlfriend that ate off of what I had to give. And so the breakup? I blame…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 02:39 AM
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Most women are married to a beta bitch. If she senses an alpha, her vagina tingles like no other. Just remember that when you enter full alpha mode- you'll get a lot of CC bitches coming at you for stability. They crave the masculine energy. Most women willing to plate are either cheating, or are so early into the CC they don't even know what's happening. Most chicks are not down for sharing, so if she is, she is either cheating, or so pre-wall that she can't even imagine the post-wall life.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 02:24 AM
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It's because women now have to adhere to a sexy image - which is the antithesis of feminism. They'll complain as if it will save their lives, or something. In reality, if a man resorts to fucking a robot...it's probably because natural women suck ass. If she was awesome to begin with, then sex robots wouldn't even be a thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 02:19 AM
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As a chick that was raised with a RP dad...I feel like I can answer this one. My dad has been a huge influence on me. My partner is always vocal on his appreciation for how I am - which goes back to my dad. Don't mis-understand...my mother is also red pill. So she did an excellent job at raising me, but hearing certain things come from my father helped tremendously. So here they are: He treated me like normal. He never let my "female" status change things. Sure, he understood I am feminine and n…
/r/askTRP19/09/15 01:43 AM
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You're living with a chick that you don't have any control over - ie, she is not a plate nor an LTR. But she still has a hamster that loves to spin. Hamsters get fit as fuck around alpha personalities, because they always spin to find shit tests to test his leadership. However, where a guy roommate would just apologize, get his shit sorted out around the house, women won't. They are spoiled and entitled. They are used to using baby voices and puppy eyes to get away with things. When this is met …
/r/askTRP18/09/15 12:19 PM
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You're not special. And the world does not revolve around you. The whole "prize" mentality is simply to ground you when approaching women. It's so you don't forget your time is valuable. Not in a cocky way, but in a true sense. Everyone's time is valuable - to them. The idea is spewed out because guys tend to give a lot in relationships, and that gets taken advantage of. The key of the "prize" mentality to ensure you don't forget that she should be grateful you are choosing to spend your time wi…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 12:04 PM
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A part of becoming strong in your identity is learning to be happy while being alone. It's not to propel you into a life of loneliness, but it helps prevent developing oneitis since you eventually develop an ability not to be desperate for other people's attention. You become more stable (thus desirable to women) and become less dependent on others for happiness (so when your woman is getting on your nerve, you don't break down to beta mode to keep her, but rather develop a natural dread game of…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:33 PM
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Might be he is working hard to increase his SMV, and still having a dry spell. Then he sees a guy like you, who might not lift as much as he does, and yet you still aren't having a problem finding hot chicks. He was just angry that you were out with a hot lady friend and he wasn't, so to make himself feel better he sniped your night. Literally like a chest beating from an ape that is trying to collect his own ring of females. He sees another, who is inferior in his eyes, having women and he frea…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:55 PM
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Often times, in relationships, people confuse love with attachment. More than likely you just miss the familiar company, hence attachment. That attachment to having a familiar face in your life can keep a lot of relationships chugging along that were meant to crash long ago. Sounds like you're just lonely. You know your ex, so it's comforting to think of her since there are less dating hoops to jump through. Realize that, and realize that relationships don't last for a reason. So don't try to re…
/r/askTRP17/09/15 04:49 PM
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The key is you never thought about her or what her physical pains are. Cramps are not comfortable, obviously. It'd be like if someone was tightly squeezing your balls and twisting every now and then...so obviously she isn't going to enjoy that all the time. IUDs are known to have complications. She didn't say she was off them for forever, but when switching BC it's sometimes healthy to take a break from all those hormones being injected in the body. It's hormones. Those things can make people fe…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 04:42 PM
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OP can totally spin plates if he wants - I don't care. But if OP wants a serious LTR with someone...then putting his career before her is committing LTR suicide. I don't care what OP does. I just want him to know that if a woman feels like she is undervalued...she will seek that somewhere else. IF OP wants to value work over and LTR...great for him! But he shouldn't expect a doting wench at his doorstep. Also, a RP women's perspective can be something valued. We see women's perspectives on thing…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:20 AM
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I agree - but OP needs to realize his role in this. He blatantly put his work before his GF. Which is great for him, but his GF is going to feel screwed over. Wouldn't you, if your SO worked 70 hours a week? I don't care what OP values. I just want to let him know that if he plans to LTR a chick, she has to feel valued, or chad is in the crosshairs. Just like when a dude is cuckhold - he looks at other women with desire because they offer something he's not getting. All in all, OPs GF is NOT get…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:11 AM
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he openly tried to cheat on him, and as others have said here, the fact that she cried and hid her messages means that she knew what she did was very wrong and that she has more to hide, now or in the future. As a chick that had a male LTR, I was left in the sidelines. We lived together. I wondered if he remembered I existed. There were times where it felt he literally forgot about me - even when I would make his favorite dinner for when he came home. He'd eat it, barely talk to me, work on his …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:02 AM
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Eh, if you are going to be fully black and white with things, you will never survive in an LTR. At the end of the day, there are things to consider: What was done? Why did this happen? Was I at fault? Did I not give them enough attention?? Was she desperate and I failed her? The fact that nothing happened should be emphasized here. They both got lucky. They have a chance now to move forward. OP acted harshly in putting his career before her, so she put other men before him. That's life bro. If y…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:29 AM
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I disagree. I think she was genuine in feeling like she wasn't worth his attention. He works 70 hours a week. She barely gets to see him. She misses him. Her hamster lets her know her BP ex is still there. She just wants attention - as all humans do. I don't think she wanted to cheat, as much as she wanted to feel loved/worth someone's time. I don't know her enough to gauge what would have happened, but truth is, nothing happened. OP needs to realize his career is taking front seat instead of hi…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:22 AM
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I don't know if she attempted to cheat as much as she just wanted company. Who best to give it than BP ex boyfriend? We have a social media culture that forgets ex's are ex's for a reason, and we continue contact when there should be none. Often time the interaction is innocent, but the extended contact re-ignites the old feeling. I think his GF is annoyed that her BF is never home. She wants attention. Her hamster took over and sought her ex, mostly because she knew he was more than likely to r…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:07 AM
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The only thing I would proffer up is that this question has actual sustenance and story. It can offer a lesson worthy of the red pill. Most of the askrp is really stupid, honestly. I like questions like these because for BP men, it helps them transition and keeps veteran RP men on their toes with the ever changing whore culture of western women.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:02 AM
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I don't deny that she handled things wrong. But I do know we have a generation that are just shitty at communication. I think she feels like OP doesn't care. And she thinks her ex does. So she goes to the guy that actually care (in her mind, anyway) Makes little sense, but as a woman that used to hamster like a professional, it's a real thing. OP needs to realize his girlfriend sucks at communication. If she wants this to work, she will fix that. Her hamster is full throttle right now. OP still …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:47 AM
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Poor white knights. They make things worse when they think they are valiant. They are the ones that will hit this RP truth harder than most. And more power to you for focusing on your career. My partner did that for a while until we met. And it's worked great for him. He continued his career and monetary value until we met, and now we have a plan for the future. I support him and take care of the home while he works his butt off establishing who he is so we can raise a family one day. Don't make…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:42 AM
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Yeah, the ex thing was just the hamster finding a male that she knew would respond. His GF is desperate for male attention. It wasn't right by any means, but today we are horrible with communication. If I were OP, I'd tell her she's damned lucky her ex didn't show his face. And that next time she asks for his comfort, she can keep it, because OP is out. But OP should show a side of understanding, admit that he knows that she sought comfort in someone she knew would give it (since she was lonely)…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:36 AM
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I agree. It's more than disappointing. Although, the look on their face when you don't give them the time of day is priceless. In that one moment they question everything, and will never forget that cold shoulder. As a chick (I only reference this when applicable), I notice this more than guys do, I think. I interact with these females on a different level. I date dudes, so I only friend women. Ergo, I hear the real shit that goes through their mind. But since most chicks suck today, in college …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:24 AM
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She first blamed me, then began crying. Then told me "how hard it is" since I'm not home alot of the time. She basically broke down, I even kind of bought into her shit. I was convinced it was my fault for not taking care of her right. I went to work and seriously thought about ending the relationship. Alright dude. Re-read this right here: unplug after a 70 hr week You're trying to manage a relationship where you don't live in the same house while working 70 hours a week. I don't care about AWA…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 01:03 AM
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I think this should be a top post worth consulting frequently. We often forget that we are a society that puts pressure on a woman's looks, while men feel an almost heavier burden to be successful. It goes back through our DNA - women attracted a mate by being attractive. Her success was derivative off of that, and then followed by her ability to be a mother and a wife. A man's sole contribution to his family was providing. If he failed, he literally could kill the family by not ensuring there w…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/15 11:46 PM
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This. So much this. If a woman ages gracefully, she exits her 'sexy era' that her husband thoroughly enjoyed and enters an entirely new one of sophistication, wisdom, and beauty in her own light. The CC culture forgets that there is power in that, and just wave their feminine youth around like a bug net trying to catch as many lightning bugs as possible. Social media, I would argue, did a lot of this damage. Hopefully the few RP women left will prevail, marry good RP men, and continue a lineage …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 11:37 PM
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The entitled bitchhood that has formed is truly an annoyance. As much as I wished this was mostly made up, I know it's not. I had many situations like this happen in college as well. I just learned to walk away and leave them in the dust. No female is going to waste my time if she behaves like that.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 11:14 PM
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to invisible within a decade. I think one's visibility is up to them. At that age, you are liberated from sexual attention and can now do other things with yourself, while still being a sharp dresser and hitting the gym, so you don't have to go down hill with looks. You're not sexy as you once were, but that doesn't mean you can't hold pride in yourself. For both genders, mind you. Sounds like this lady just decided to focus on family and grandkids instead. Women that climbed any ranks because o…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 11:04 PM
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Nah. That's not fully correct. If you continue to act like all you want to do is fuck her, she's going to think that's all you want. It will confuse her. And she will put you out of serious LTR material. Don't push that stuff. If she acts like a hoe when you first meet - sending nudes, wearing a mini skirt to the first date with her boobs spilling out of her shirt, touching you in ways that only a person skilled at sleeping around would - then you have your signs on if she's a slut. If she dress…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 02:13 PM
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I disagree. There is a truth to looking in the right places for anything in life. Your surroundings influence you. If you only hang out at clubs and meet people on Tinder...you're going to feel disconnected from life. Everyone will become a shallow, ruthless asshole to you. If you remove that from your life, spend your energy on hobbies, sports, being around good friends, going to the gym, cutting out the negativity, etc. then your life will see improvement. That's not blue pill, mate. That's ac…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 02:08 PM
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I feel you on that. As a younger person raised in that environment, I've felt it full force. It's a depressing thing. But allowing it to impact yourself (royal you) is a choice. Which is why I hope this subreddit doesn't lose itself to the anger phase wave. Men will need a place like this to find comaraderie where it doesn't exist much anymore. I find solace in RPW. The fact that those ladies are serious, critical of their hamsters, and truly enjoy becoming RP shows me that there are just as muc…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 05:05 AM
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Sigh. facepalm. No. Unicorns do not exist. However, being LTR worthy doesn't make a chick a unicorn. Where is that logic coming from? It's like when a philosophy becomes a dogma - all free thinking is gone and everyone keeps jumping on one bandwagon to the next. Right now the bandwagon is AWALT and Unicorns don't exist (in reference to chicks that are LTR material. Not your perfect little princess that isn't AWALT. Those don't exist). u/fembotbuttplunger says it nicely. There are no unicorns, bu…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 11:29 PM
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If you choose to not play the game, that's totally up to you bro. But just know, that while you can't lose if you don't play, you also can't win. No one said it would be easy, but it definitely can be worth it. If you are fine not being in an LTR, then continue on. If you enjoy LTRs, then don't be surprised that they keep failing you with that mentality. No chick, with genuine interests and decent morals, is going to stick around long/be happy if she's treated like a damaged good. You don't see …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 10:41 PM
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And believe that if you so choose. But recognize that's a filter you're putting on yourself, and is not the truth. But you are choosing to believe it's the truth. So your reality will be shaped on that. The ones that aren't on tinder/sluts are rare, I'll give you that. But you'll appreciate them more when you do meet one, just like if she's a good person, she'll appreciate a good man when she sees one. There are a lot of broken/hoe seeking/cheating men out there too. But if you choose to view li…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 10:25 PM
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Dude when you have it all, as he claims, it can feel very lonely at the top. And that feeling is very real. And left to fester, it can consume someone. Don't doubt the severity of one's problems. Yes, he shouldn't be this depressed over it, but in a culture where we value money over love, and where women seem to be more promiscuous then men...it can hit someone pretty low. We are social creatures, living in a world where being social has changed to something entirely different - over a screen. I…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:25 PM
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I truly agree a lot with this. I think, in the end, you just need to do both. Keep looking in the right places for a good woman, but don't hinge your happiness upon it. Find happiness within yourself, while always being aware, and then you'll be in a much better place of dating. It's like trying to dance with someone when you have never danced on a dance floor. To get the best result out of the dance, you need to learn to dance alone. And then partner up. You need to be happy first before you ca…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:16 PM
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You have to remember a lot of recent posts submitted here have been about women that were found on Tinder. Of course them bitches be crazy. It's like real estate - "Location, location, location." If you find a chick on Tinder, there is no fixing her. No matter how much you "re-model". She's still from a bad location, ie, tinder. You can never make that presentable or work. You are always stuck in a bad spot. When you find a chick through other means - the gym, a class, happen stance at a car dea…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:10 PM
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It's been severely lacking it lately
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 08:02 PM
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You gotta look for women outside of the hookup culture. No woman found on Tinder will be worth any LTR time. Join a sport. Take a dance lesson. Eye a few girls at the gym that you can talk to. Find a new hobby. Join a class. Keep yourself out there, but do it in environments where people aren't solely there to get laid. Visit Red Pill Women. This will help your cynicism and let you realize that not all women are sociopaths/liars/whores/human degenerates. They are still AWALT and emotional, but n…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:35 PM
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I would also proffer up that if she truly seeks a real LTR, she is going to grow agitated in your relationship dynamic. She wants something from you that you won't give/taking longer than she is comfortable with. It's going to make her make more "mistakes" because she is frustrated, but doesn't know what to do. And being younger, she is going to be less mature in her reactions. Some women don't want to be plated for forever, and truly want to grow into something more. Keep that in mind with her,…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 05:42 PM
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a ho's Exactly. A hoe. You have to realize the type of woman you are referring to. Don't let the loose, slutty ones get under your skin. That is literally pointless. You would never make that hoe a LTR. You would only plate her. So her POV on things should never matter. The whole thing is you learn to take advantage of the hoe, as she admits how to take full advantage of her. If you are looking to LTR a woman like this, then that's your fault, not her's.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 05:18 PM
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RP seems to be more and more sensitive now a days, and very negative. Definitely taking an unappealing turn for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:58 PM
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So...you explained the aging process. Good job?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 08:51 PM
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Oh well then you're in the perfect condition to tone! And I promise you - you won't look manly. I workout and strength train. My partner can't keep his hands off my but after 6 months of dedicated squat and butt exercises. Women don't bulk. The only and I mean ONLY time women even begin to enter man territory is when you workout 3+hours a day and take steroids. Otherwise all you're going to do is tighten your body. Muscle takes a while to gain. If you have a larger top the that means you just do…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 03:53 PM
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First off - I'm sorry to hear that. That's not a fun situation and it will take time to get through this. Now, leaving him is a good option if after talking to him he continues to behave this way. Now. If you want to fix this. You need to talk to him. That's the first step. Tell him everything you are feeling. There are things he is not doing properly as a husband, and you should not suffer in silence. You also should get into working out. It does wonders to the body. And a lot of squats. Squats…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 02:16 PM
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I would say that the alarming things can be this sub, at times, feels a bit cultish/worshiping your man, rather than re-learning to show appreciation in a generation where everyone is selfish.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 01:30 PM
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I think the key here is an alpha can validate a girl however he wants. The difference between him and a beta is the alpha's validation is limited and conditional. If the chick gets too spoiled/becomes annoying, the validation immediately stops. A beta doesn't stop. They keep going until his validation begins to even annoy the girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:50 PM
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I'd argue that the fact that TRP focuses so much more on plates instead of LTR that the community can often come off negative and strong. With plates it is ill wise to let emotions get involved. For LTR you have to. But this subreddit doesn't discuss LTR stuff except for every now and then, meaning it's easy to get the wrong impression. It also doesn't help that there are some people here that are burnt out by women, thus creating an atmosphere of angst that takes some of the teachings a little …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 12:47 PM
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Whether you viewed yourself as an orbiter or not, that's how she viewed you. Hell, she might not even know that she viewed you as that. But her reaction says it all. She wanted you for validation. A lot of girls take any male attention as validation that they are hot shit. Males and females don't make the best friends unless sex is off the table from the get go. Otherwise, someone is always thinking on the lines of romance - whether it's positive or negative.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 08:18 PM
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That's red pill to the core, bro. Alpha game is gonna be so strong with this advice. It's surely to work.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:53 PM
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It sounds like she likes to lead by stirring up drama, and then "being the bigger person and walking away from it," and gets a power high off of it. Women can sometimes be really, really weird. We have the oddest social interactions, and a lot of times women superimpose these idiotic female social rules onto their relationship and treat their husband/LTR like a chick. When a guy responds, she has unequivocally stole your pants and stapled them onto her. The best way to handle this? Let her look …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:21 PM
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You broke the orbiter ring, and she is an attention seeking planet that needs as many orbiters as possible. Completely ignore. She just wants your validation. You stopped giving it. She almost lost her mind over it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:13 PM
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Social media prevents a lot of us from letting go of partners. Get rid of her friends on your social media. You're being forced to think about her when you don't need to be. We often can have a terrible time getting over an ex when we never truly stop seeing/interacting with them. Anger will rise on the hurt feelings, good times are remembered to combat the bad times, loneliness of not having another partner definitely doesn't help as you remember recently you did have someone...etc. Until you c…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:02 PM
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No. He wasn't just committing "curious" conversation with her. He lied to you about where he was going...to meet up with a girl he clearly still had feelings for. I'm sorry but you two might be forcing something that might not be meant to be. People don't change. I mean they can, over time, but usually not with cheating. A cheater has more issues going on that require a lot of aid, or perhaps never getting over it. Sorry to hear about this. Next him.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 03:32 PM
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I've never used tinder, and frankly don't use social media. Way too removed from the human interaction I enjoy. However, it influences my life tremendously at the same time. People are different. Women can seek validation without ever leaving their own home. And they abuse it to the point where it's completely destroying social interaction. Even some men get swept up in it. Truthfully, the dating game is made much easier to obtain plates, but I agree that it's destroying LTR potential all across…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:00 AM
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To be honest I forgot this was a thread. Haven't visited the original post since this convo. Which means it's probably time for me to back out to keep it from bumping. As a closing remark, I agree that this turned into me talking about myself, and since I imagine no one cares, I apologize for my blabbering. I appreciate the attempt to enlighten me, but honestly, it's all mostly negative and destructive from your end. I understand you have a terrible view on women, and I don't think an Internet s…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 11:34 PM
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Validation at its finest that she's marrying the right man. Not a good way to start a marriage at all. The only time old flings should be met up with is if you have kids together and literally have to for their sake. Otherwise, someone always has feelings. And clearly this chick did. She even called Chad "the one that got away." She just wanted "proof" that Chad was not the one for her. But if Chad had shown up, it's obvious what would have happened. If people stopped settling for marriage this …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:38 PM
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I may have just misunderstood the intent of your comments. They just came off in a negative way that made it seem like I am doing my partner a disservice by being in an LTR with him. Perhaps that is just the AWALT side where women tend to internalize things. Sorry if I took it the wrong way. My mistake. I need to also remember that I am on the female side, so I am in control of these actions. Therefore I don't fear them at all, since I know me more than anyone. But trusting a woman in today's wo…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:26 PM
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It's a re-conditioning process. We have to re-condition people to not stand down just because their opinions are met with opposition. We have a 'fee fee' centric, PC culture that has a generation being raised to be sensitive to every thing. That's why RP exists - as an outlet and awakening to the crap that is feminazis. They have softened our culture, convinced our women that they are to be selfish and doted on, and made our men to be their beta boys. It's not impossible to change it by any mean…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:21 PM
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I don't know how much weight I put with a craig's list ad and its ability to use it as a legitimate teaching tool. I mean it's clear this chick is either a troll, or just throwing this out there for shits and giggles and seeing if anyone is silly enough to actually respond. And if she is serious, then we are doing humanity a disservice by giving her this attention she clearly wants. Next the crap out of that and don't look to the extreme aggregates for solid advice for legitimate relationship ma…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:09 PM
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I argue that virginity is not the key. Finding a woman who has a history of LTRs is. Now that means not 10 men...but the true 1-3 guys, depending on her age, and were all serious boyfriends with serious intentions. Virginity doesn't mean much. Sure it might help bind a woman to man a little more, but it is not, at all, what makes her stay. That is in the man's hands, and in the personality of the woman - not her V card. However, a woman who rides the CC is to be avoided, because it suggests her …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:34 PM
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Alpha and Beta can be translated to Leader and Follower. And yup, there are two kinds of people in the world - Leader and follower. Even rogue people are leaders of their own selves. This is stuff tumblr does - takes things too seriously. If someone's fee fees are hurt because they are being called alpha, and whines about it because that actually means asshole...then the male hamster is starting to undergo a sex change and turning into a female one. And before you know it it's calling itself Cai…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:14 PM
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I have always said that LTR and marriage is a fantastic option - full of support and love and great opportunities and many advantages and no downsides. For women. That you want this style of life is of course in your nature. That you are capable of actually doing it and living this life, is statistically incredibly unlikely. But worry not - divorce is profitable! (For you) I don't care about money. Again, I would never intend to enter a marriage unless it was a logical, thought out decision. I p…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:41 PM
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Well I can most certainly see that you have swallowed maybe too strong of a dosage of RP. Thankfully my partner has more hope in me that you do. And I can argue that I have known, from a very early age, that I wanted to find a partner that I could grow old with. My family favors the red pill, and divorce is non existent in my immediate and extended family. We do not commit to a person, male or female, unless we know this is a person is someone that we would be more than happy to be with 30+ year…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:04 AM
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I appreciate the input, and while I don't agree with it, I guess we can just agree to disagree. I guess instead I should just be happy that I found my partner and that him and I seem to be as good of a fit as I'll ever find. Not in a settling way, but in an exciting way that I found someone worth sharing my life with. Perhaps something to be aware of, for anyone reading this, is that we women go through the same issues and bitterness towards men. A lot believe that men are forever cheaters and w…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 08:01 PM
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If a chick can't be trusted to go to a funeral without looking for a cock to ride...that's the problem right there. What kind of relationship would that even be? That'd be a horrible one of babysitting her constantly. No one has time for that. "Oh sorry, my wife can't go to a funeral because I can't attend. Lord knows that bitch is gonna be on her knees looking for 'comfort' if I'm not around. She just turns into such a whore around dead people." No one deserves to be LTR'd in any form if you ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:23 PM
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A lot of it is related to make-up. Almost every chick I know always gets asked if she is tired when she doesn't have make-up on. And only when she doesn't. Ergo, they translate that to being ugly since they are only being called that without their make-up. That's kinda their fault for putting on fake eye lashes and crap. When a woman can work make-up and have it enhance and not be a mask is when I think it's used properly. Half the time the make-up is used to outdo the other, rather than enhance…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 04:19 PM
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Yes, but not nearly as much. You reach a certain age and realize all your young years of freaking out over things was pretty stupid. Which is why sometimes old people give bomb advice - they're too tired to hamster. Some still do hardcore, but my older relatives just don't want to deal with it anymore.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 12:51 PM
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Also, some food for thought that is being thrown out for curiosity's sake - is it not apparent that the negative attitude some hold here is clearly creating their own issues in mating strategy, versus every single woman is evil and soulless? A unicorn, in the sense of an age-less woman that isn't AWALT is what I consider a unicorn, or a sex robot (but we'll talk about that in the future when it's here). The traits you described that you wanted? Already totally exist dude. Here's another red pill…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:44 PM
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Fair enough - to each their own I guess in those mentalities LTRs are beyond pointless. But some people enjoy this lifestyle, so if they choose to percieve the world in that way, then I bid you good luck in your search endeavors!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:25 PM
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The only thing to look for is "can I control this situation, can I get out as easily as I get in, is she at least moderately trustworthy and not going to get all stalker on me and call the cops on me later and can I fuck other women and keep my options open so I don't get totally fucking screwed by this situation". Hence, the screening. Whatever you think are qualities that your partner should uphold to is what I consider screening. Don't settle for less. I also don't get the fascination with a …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 01:15 AM
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I don't think you're giving enough credit to the ladies that truley seek a LTR while being cognizant that they can indeed hurt/offend/annoy their partner more times than they realize. There are women out there that truly enjoy the old fashioned dynamic of a man leading it all and a woman following and supporting him. It's just rare these days since women are told to work, work and work instead of embracing her submissive side that just wants to support her man. That doesn't make her a unicorn. T…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 12:18 AM
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I think there are probably attractive ones in the mix. Not all women are totally blind to the world and how it works. Just like there are more young gentlemen waking up to the RedPill...there are women that are younger doing the same thing. Usually it has to be an external influence to get her mind thinking on that track, but it still exists. There truly are some that are just looking for a partner, and have known that their whole life. I know some women who ride the CC like they're glued to it,…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:17 PM
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Nope. It's the exact opposite. Women with higher SMV than another woman is an immediate threat. Especially if she's really attractive. Women know they are expendable to men, and know this is all based on looks. An attractive woman that walks by is an immediate threat if her man suddenly decided to ditch his current to go "play around". Especially with the new pump and dump culture and tinder. Women fear being cheated on just as much as men. It isn't until you meet a secure woman will she learn t…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:39 PM
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Never sleep with a woman the first time without a condom. Never. IF you plate them/LTR them and hate using condoms, then you need pretty direct evidence this chick is on BC...and even then, it's best to use a condom. Only in a serious LTR where you trust her can you rely on the BC method. And even that trust can be crossed if you dread game her too much and she thinks she needs to do everything she can to keep you. You made the right move. This chick is about as clean as a whore house. You don't…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:19 PM
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Going into an LTR is basically the difference from sleeping with anyone you want to going to exclusivity. Which means eventually to something similar to co-habitiation and even marriage - although you don't have to do that. Basically LTR is saying "I want to try not sleeping with anyone other than this chick, same goes for her, and let's try to build a life together." Basically someone you would think would make a good mother for your kids. You don't need to want/have them, but if the thought of…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:11 PM
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Either she is playing around with you, or just seriously wants to let it grow on its own. Which means she has experienced an annoying beta that wanted to practically wife her on the spot. She's looking for a natural progression, for the alpha to lead but not force anything. Relationships work best this way because then it all just feels "natural" versus looking for anything they can settle for.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 02:18 PM
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Women fear men cheating just as much TRP fears with women. Both genders right now have major, major trust issues with each other, and thus a lot of bad relationships. Prove to her you are not going to cheat by reinforcing it and handling situations well. And you don't prove this to her because you are desperate for her, but because you have better integrity than that. If you really wanted other women, you would just leave and go find them. But let her know that she is the focus at the moment, an…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 02:14 PM
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Women want committment. Then they see a guy who doesn't want that. And that said man actually has the audacity (in their minds) to screw multiple women all the time. So they call you a derogatory term to make themselves feel better. It's the same as if you call a chick a whore. It also might make them feel better interacting with you, because you're "just a fuckboy" instead of real potential. But again, they don't like that, so to make themselves feel like the better person, they call you someth…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:06 PM
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That's not a bluff. Women are not succubi that have no heart. They are filled with hamsters, so yes, they get confused often and forget to use their logic. As long as your GF uses logic often, you are probably safe to believe her when she says she's not interested in the CC culture. Not every woman wants that. Just like not every guy wants to spend his life moving from woman to woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 10:02 PM
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People cheat when they aren't satisfied in a relationship. And they also cheat when they are too ignorant to realize that communication can solve a lot of issues. When someone isn't satisfied, they go into selfish mode and don't care about the other, because they are now in emotional neglect. So the key here is - no, if your woman is happy, mature, and you two practice communication, then you'll be fine. And keeping her happy will be solely dependent on who she is. A majority of chicks don't wan…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:54 PM
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I've dated none - but being literally attached to a vagina, and thus a hamster, I understand more than any man that dates a women, what a woman feels. Thats like me going to a female friend for advice on dudes when I had a dude friend that was literally from that mindset. Truth is women want love - they just feel the same constraints as men do. I'm pretty sure I know how a woman's mind works compared to a man's perspective. I literally live it every day. And I accept it's bullshit. Which is why …
/r/askTRP30/08/15 05:51 AM
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Ha! Yup! In hindsight, a lot of things are obvious. But in the moment it's so confusing and obscure. I'm trying to apply that to today - when I feel confused or unsure, to recognize there is an answer and to not worry so much. One day this will seem silly. It's helped a lot with taking things less seriously.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:34 AM
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As a chick that used to think in that vein - hardcore mind you - all my friends did as well (we often talked about why men are whores) and it's held pretty true that this is a universal thing being discussed in most female group circles. Women get over it though eventually. And the ones that don't are best to be avoided. Good luck with RP!
/r/askTRP30/08/15 02:01 AM
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Ah- the challenge all post-college students face: What the fuck happened to my social life? I've noticed so far through colleagues/groups you hangout with. Everything at this point is an effort. There's no "party happening at Joe's tonight" anymore. It's all organized down to what shoes people are wearing (not true, but I hope you get the point. There's usually more structure involved). But that makes sense. Real life sucks free time away, thus parties are infrequent. Your group of friends will …
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:53 AM
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A lot of women out there now are equipped to work full/part-time. Make enough that you could support a family. Even if at minimal, that is going to be enough to attract a vast majority of chicks. If she works, then it will only help. I'd honestly say that 100k-150k is where you want to be at one day. With or without dual income...if you want kids, that is. Without kids, this can be lower, as money spreads easier.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:34 AM
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Women mature as much as they're going to at 18 I'm not so sure about this. That's a very far fetched statement. Most women come to maturity in their early - mid twenties. 18 year olds could go in any direction. Because they're 18. Culture is evolving to allow children to mature slower. Go back 100 years and your statement is true. But many, many women go to college at 18 - prolonging maturation. Becasue all high schoolers go to college. So that mentality is maintained for many. When a woman hits…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:30 AM
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You're not trusting her - you're cynical. The RP guide says not to come out with your gender, but I feel like this one time where it's actually relevant. As a female (I know, I sinned), I have the same damn struggle with men. I was worried, all the time, that no matter what I did, I would get cheated on. Because men are men. And men are pigs. And because all a woman is is a trophy. And I got cynical. It wasn't in my nature. I hate being negative. In my current relationship, I had the same feelin…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:22 AM
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There is no guideline to this. It's however much time you want. Once you begin to grow jealous, you know you're giving her too much time/actually developing real LTR feelings for her. If that never happens, then you two are just two really awesome friends that also fuck each other. But the chemistry for romance is missing, which means be very cognizant of keeping jealousy purged. If you can do that, then eat that up while it's still being served.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:10 AM
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You're with a chick who has a history of sleeping around. Of course you're worried. Either be the alpha this chick needs, which if she sleeps around, that means extra attention to alpha attitude, or just accept that she like to play the field. Best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:09 AM
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She is legitimately confused as to why men like to sleep around. Just like RP tries to figure men out, women do the same with men. A lot of women wonder this often, and genuinely believe a man would choose multiple women over one if given the choice. She is doubting the opposite gender based on a bad experience, same as men do when a woman goes AWALT. And so she shit tests anyone willing to listen. Because she wants validation that this is an action that is not practiced by all men. Leave it alo…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:06 AM
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She isn't happy with her relationship. She was attracted to you. She's clearly looking for a replacement (it's college, people are still learning about themselves and what they want) and she's making sure you don't play league. Is it serious? No. She's just trying to feel better about herself. And wondering if other guys play league like her BF, to see if she's judging against him fairly. You are trying to swim in a pool that's already full. Keep her in orbit but don't take her seriously.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 01:04 AM
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They do, in truth. Some women break the female molds, as is with everything. There are always exceptions. But women are nurturers, and men are leaders. Men, on the surface, have all the power, as leaders often do. But feminists forget that there is power in being the supporter/nurturer, which is in their nature. In an ideal relationship, a woman truly makes a man strong if she does her job in supporting and taking care of him. That there is power, and feminists for some reason decided that that …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:56 AM
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Didn't read the text yet - but I'd still argue it's because their hamster wheel is on turbo and it needs something to complain/fuss about. Rape seems like a good place to make them look like victims.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:52 AM
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Very true words. And often I have learned the less you care about what you're "entitled" to, the richer you become. Literally. Things seem to go your way once you truly let go of thinking life is always rainbows and butterflies. Either it's just how the universe works, or you don't care so much that you begin to appreciate everything on a different level. I argue it's both. But it helps in the dating game. People are attracted to this mentality - everyone seeks it. If you have it, then women wil…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:51 AM
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Same can be said with women. If a woman gets fat, sometimes even when she ages, a man leaves her. Or if she becomes lazy and no longer herself. Both parties are not conditional with their love. However, that's not a bad thing. Because that means both sides need to always work on being the best versions of themselves. That's why they fell in love in the first place. However, over time, a bond is built that creates a form of unconditional love. We need to teach our kids that bonding love is built.…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:19 PM
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The only counter to that would be now is the time for the man to shine, or so the woman sees it. Truth is a man has some time to get himself back together. If he truly got to where he was based on his prowess at the game of acquiring resources, they'll be back on track. It's the atitude he carries with it that she recognizes. Although it's sad that the love becomes conditional at that point. Maybe the same can be said for when a woman gets fat. Her partner isn't going to find her attractive any …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 02:42 PM
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That's very true, and should be the majority. But sadly it's not. And those women that truly do give so much time and effort get overshadowed by their lazy counterparts. I counter that if one is to marry and have no kids, the wife should at least have a part time job/hobby that takes a lot of time and skill so that her energies are used properly and keeping her engaged with the world. I think the main benefit of a housewife is that the husband knows that someone is there to do something for him …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 04:45 AM
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Creating a society of victims leads to a ton of scapegoats that get burned at the cross just for even existing. We have to purge the victim mentality before anything is fixed. Some rape charges, I'm sure, are legit and need real attention. But I also know that there are many where men are getting destroyed for no reason. It's just so immoral. Our children need to be raised understanding how serious these accusations are and how to defend themselves, rather than letting the lawyers handle every c…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 04:40 AM
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It makes sense in a way. Women are programmed to find a provider. In today's world, that means having money. So she loves the man she is with, if he has a lot of money, not only because he is able to supply her her needs, but because to be in top game of obtaining resources one needs to be displaying some level of alpha tendencies. A man with a lot of resources is doing something right. I think that's what attractive to many women. That she can flaunt the prowess of her man and his ability to pr…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 04:36 AM
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It's about what you say and the confidence behind the words. A guy from high school had a very feminine voice and could only fall under the "cute" category instead of handsome. From the outside looking, he was doomed. But that dude had charm. And swagger. And confidence. I mean he just owned his actions, and sarcastic to the bone. He acted like he was the coolest kid around without ever being too arrogant. He was basically just so content and chill with himself that he was a natural flirt. And e…
/r/askTRP29/08/15 03:48 AM
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Here's the thing about being true alpha - you do you. That's it. As long as you own it in a masculine way, go for it. If you spend too much time worrying about other's opinions, you're not alpha-ing good enough.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 01:53 AM
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After 2 months of extended contact she knows if she wants to date you or not. She is friend-zoning you. Don't even bother.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 01:50 AM
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You're welcome. I agree with blerks too - people change. I guess my point was the earlier the age the more obvious/rapid changes will be. So you both just need time to feel each other out, live a little, and just be happy before committing to anything too serious. You can still be a couple, move in together one day, etc. but don't rush it. Often times when it's rushed, especially at young ages, people freak out and have an early mid life crisis and have a need to "see the world". Hope the best f…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:11 PM
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That's basically the core to every healthy relationship, though. Or so I believe - constantly improving oneself, which pleases and motivates the other, and then you just have this couple that is just kick ass and a total match for each other.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:07 PM
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Many RP advocates chant that Virgins are your only solution. They just did what they declare not to do - put any form of a woman on a pedestal. Yes, after losing your virginity your curiosity in sex increases. And there's always a chance someone will break up with you to explore the world. Which is why you can not rely on a virgin to be your unicorn. No one is perfect. That being said though, just because you're her only partner doesn't mean she will break up with you. This is all going to be de…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 09:55 PM
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Leading my relationship based on what a sidebar says might not be the best direction to steer things in. And it's simple - if you own the relationship, then she isn't your partner. She is your maid. And unless you want just a maid, then it's 50/50. The whole point of how this works is the captain leads. They make the decisions. The first mate stands by the whole time and supports the captain. But that's the key - they support the captain. You want to LTR someone who has the same goals/values/ide…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 09:41 PM
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Haha well then it sounds like it's fine. Her shit tests are second nature and right now you're reconditioning that for her. Sounds like she has the chance to come around and accept it. It might lead up to one day you just straight up saying "this is me and I'm not changing. I don't know why you won't accept it. I need you to or this will just become too annoying for me to keep up with". It'll be annoying for a bit with her old habits, but part of being leader is showing others how to follow you.…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:38 PM
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Well it's her first time with sex. Don't supply her the stereotype that all men are pigs and want sex. They're going to require special warming up. All virgins are. They've never done this before but have been told so many different things so many different times that they might draw back at times. Has nothing to do with being a slut. Just has to do with they'll either remember it as a fantastic experience, or feel like all men are douches and just want in your pants. It's a sensitive moment. Be…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:02 PM
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I agree. And it pains me a little to see so many getting so burned and taking some RP philosophy too far. I see it happening to a friend in real life where he is struggling with how far to go with RP ways. But that's a part of learning. As long as everyone gets through the bitter stage, I think they'll all be alright. Truth of the matter is everyone has the capacity to get bored and leave. LTRs are awesome when done right, but it just takes so much effort on both sides that it's so rare to see.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:21 PM
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From both sides, I'd argue. But in a way, that's what makes a strong marriage so strong- if you accept that, then both parties will work hard to maintain their value, which will always excite the other. And over time that will create a bond that approaches unconditional love. I have seen it, up close and in person. I have seen some marriage face horrible tragedies, but the bond they built kept them working together. Because they always said, "We have each other." LTRs are one of those things whe…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:16 PM
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He's Justin Bieber. Any woman that needs that kind of validation would screw him. Even though it'd be one of the worst awkward after-sex feelings ever. That bro has some growing up to do if he wants real swagger. He's still young. Maybe this isn't his final form...
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:59 PM
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She'll be playing for a while too with the VS model tag next to her name. It'll swoon many men for a long time who are too blue pill to see the greater picture. This bitch knows what's up. And she's enjoying her time. Hopefully karma is still planning to make its appearance with her...
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:57 PM
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With the sister molestation thing on the back burner, and looking at the relationship from an objective POV... Both parties got screwed. We have to be realistic here and realize that they formed a marriage that was put onto them, versus true dating and figuring themselves out. Anna was told to be a doting wife/mother. Maybe that's not what truly makes her happy. Maybe Josh truly was never meant to be a married man. Many marriages that fail and exist with the premise of getting married for more t…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:40 PM
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That's why screening your partner is so important. VS models are more than likely not going to make the best wives/mothers. Of course there are exceptions, but these women get paid to be pretty and ogled at all day long. That's an obvious sign right there that she was going to keep riding the validation train. Poor bloom. Celebrity dating would kind of suck. Most, I bet, are always looking for the next best thing, especially if they are on a fame high.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:30 PM
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I don't see how this works as a good example for AWALT. She's a VS model who makes millions. I'm sure the premise of being a model is wanting to feel pretty/have validation. Of course she's going to have more of an inclination to see who all she can slay. I think a simple truth is celebrities are probably not the best role models to look toward when trying to find examples for things like TRP... None of these people got famous on morals. Most of them just should never be known for anything other…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:19 PM
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You're just angry. Never blanket statement. They don't work. Not all women are cold hearted sucubi that will leave you the minute a "better" alpha unleashes his dick. That's just kind of silly, in my opinion. Clearly those women are placing value in things that are shallow, rather than realizing the awful nature of her actions. That's like saying once a woman hits 30 she better get the divorce papers out because it's inevitable her husband will be leaving for a new 18 year old because AMALT. Lov…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 02:09 PM
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I think that's a fair point! I agree that while perhaps finding happiness in yourself, by yourself, is a good motto to have, it doesn't cover the entirety of RP. Maybe just a good bullet point of many things to accomplish while learning the dating game.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:01 AM
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A part of having the perfect sexual strategy is to be so pleased with yourself that your confidence takes over your charm and you no longer have the try that hard. The most confident/happy people have no time impressing others - there's no need. They're already happy. And that's alluring, to both genders. Women will dig a guy that truly is so happy on his own that he doesn't need her. So becoming the best you is simultaneously increasing your game
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:51 PM
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She's pissed that she got got lying. But she's rationalizing that nothing serious was found, so she has a right to be pissed because you "didn't trust her." She's turning the table on you in any way possible. Power is all in your hands bro. Don't for a second give it to her. You two are in a LTR. Honestly, something as simple as texts should never be 'secrecy' when it comes down to it. Don't even get mad once in front her about this. Show her how trivial her actions are by displaying this throug…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:23 PM
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This is the real question now....
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:00 PM
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Yes. It's cheating. RP is getting a little too serious lately with thinking in such extreme ways. You're committed to her. You owe her precedence over any other woman. Even if she's being a bitch. Same with her. She owes her man precedence over any other man, no matter what. So the moral thing to do would be confront her, let her know withholding sex is a one way ticket out your front door. You'll probably suggest breaking up, but I don't see how this benefits society; the frigid person doesn't …
/r/askTRP27/08/15 09:58 PM
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Would prefer to avoid that so I don't feel like a deceitful scumbag If you're worried about that, then you probably are actually being that. No one worries about anything unless there is truth to it or they have a hamster wheel. Truth is I don't think you're plating with the best strategy. They shouldn't care, because plating is not dating. Plating is having fuck buddies with multiple people. These plates need to know there is no relationship potential. Otherwise, you're just a dude leading 3 ch…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 09:52 PM
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I don't think wanting to be concerned for your partner is hamstering - that's just being in a relationship. The rest of your comment applies to OPs, which I agree she was disrespectful for thinking sex was a bargaining tool. Never ever should be. And honestly, I think silence is always the best way to get a message across, no matter who you are dealing with. It shows you aren't going to talk unless they are ready for a serious, adult conversation that doesn't involve any hamster wheels.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 09:24 PM
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Hey it's all good. That's why you're doing this - you're learning. And I give you props for admitting that. Not a lot of people do, but a major part of RP is about virtues. A lot of people are taking it a little far and reading it more as a rule book rather than a philosophy. In the end you are the prize, but you have to convince her to compete in the competition in the first place. A lot of this is more about being assertive, not mean or a jerk. Women in the end respect leadership in a man. It'…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:15 PM
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I think it'd just confidence. It's attractive when a male puts out the kind of confidence that shows he's not phased by you one bit. Then it's about unashamedly loving and wanting sex. I know quite a few dudes who show they unashamedly want sex but they are terrible at their confidence game. And they fail all the damn time. It's the bros that exude confidence like OP that "get away" with wanting sex. Confidence is just attractive. Women swoon over it. Because it's what leaders have, and that's w…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:59 PM
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You're acting like you're entitled to sleeping with her without even having any reason to be. Which is how feminists think when they see a hot man - "I'm entitled to him because reasons and vaginas." Don't do that. You didn't even warm her up properly. You gotta make her want it. Make her feel comfortable, not like you're a total dick. If you're too douchey, then a chick will leave. The frame you're looking for isn't 'suck my dick or leave' but rather is actually 'you're hot. I wanna fuck. So I …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 05:28 PM
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The problem here was this - This tactic was improperly used. You were trying to establish that not having sex with her is not the end of the world. You instead made it sound like you were just really into sex and would find a way to screw someone at the end of the night, regardless of her feelings toward it. The proper tactic was instead: "First off - sex is never a bargaining tool in this relationship. Secondly - don't think for a second that I would bend to anything just because sex is off the…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:45 PM
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Well...I'll play devil's advocate and say that if you're living together, and someone goes missing for extended hours that are completely against behavior...then that might raise some concern. Not psycho bitch concern, but just...'hey...where'd they go...are they okay?" I'd be concerned if my partner went out for milk and was gone for 4 hours. We live next to the grocery. Clearly something else happened. I wouldn't jump off the deep end with it, but I'd at least appreciate some courtesy of "hey,…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:34 PM
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Seems like an odd way to raise your children, especially when trying to combat a society with poor morals. But I guess as long as the mother seems decent enough. I would venture to guess though that a healthy marriage might be more useful to a child than a separated mom and dad. But there's exceptions for everything. To each their own.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 11:52 PM
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You're forgetting you now have to pay for all those children with different women. Good luck. Finding a complimentary fit for a monogamous relationship works out just as well. You don't have to like it, but it's got its perks. You just rarely see successful marriages anymore
/r/askTRP26/08/15 11:06 PM
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Not an old dude, but know a few. They are just people that don't get enjoyment from LTR like others. They enjoy the company, but they are often very busy people that are "married" to their hobbies or work. They often are just happy as can be. Only one is bitter. He didn't play his cards right though.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:58 PM
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With TRP you need to be careful not to be too hostile when you really think you're being Mr. Suave. Women are people too, contrary to what some think. Most are conniving but there do exist genuine ones. Everyone has been late to something. You'll know if she seems legit about being sorry/was truly held up with something out of her control. That also means you can tell when she is being flaky with it. If she's flaky yhen drop the "missed your chance" move.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:27 PM
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Short and simple version: The Red Pill is the embodiment of being a better you, for you. Everyone else should be honored that they were invited for the ride.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:36 PM
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It's gonna be boring for a while. Until she gets used to sex and comfortable with her partner. You have to go slow and make sure she is into it or it's uncomfortable. It's a new sensation. She'll learn to enjoy the full show at some point. It's definitely not like porn.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 08:34 PM
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I'd counter that with many virgins actually have incredibly high expectations. They've yet to know the reality of the world, living in their fantasy land of how the first time will be, freaking out when they have their first fight, etc.. Not that they are to be avoided, but they're definitely not to be put on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 08:31 PM
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You're thinking less in terms of plate and more in terms of "keeping her" which is reaching outside of plate territory. She's just a plate. Who cares? The mentality of plates is they exist for your pleasure, not to please them. Treat her like she's he lucky one to be on the date, without crossing into off-putting douche territory, and it'llbe fine. Act like its her honor to be there but that you enjoy the company. Company that you could live without, mind you. It'll make her chase for more.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:08 PM
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Who cares? Alpha doesn't mean you're a leader of a wolf pack. Alpha is just a state of mind. If you're not going to commit to her, then she has no obligation either. Otherwise it becomes a giant double standard. You either let women be hoes, and use that to your advantage, or you ask for them to be moral and not sleep around, but you better do the same. Just because you own the 'alpha' game doesn't mean your multiple partners will automatically be okay with everything. I've never heard of men wi…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:16 PM
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For women to secure and maintain a partner, she has to look stellar. Forget her personality or what she contributes to the relationship. If she isn't on some level of hot, then her SO better be low on the SMV ranks, or she's not lasting long. Men are the opposite. That guy better be a leader and charismatic. Just like many men can overlook some bitchy/whiny qualities in a woman (ie put up with her hamstering, because they will always and forever do it) a woman is expected to put up with average …
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:10 PM
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I'm so sorry man. But don't call the guy. Why would that make any sense? He's not the enemy here. He did nothing wrong. That mistake is on your partner, not him. Calling him won't make you feel any better. It'll just make it worse. Either A - decide you can't hack it. And try to work it out with her. However, this does not bode well for you. But if you believe in it enough, it's at least worth a shot. But don't throw all your cards on it. Just do it for the sake of knowing you did all you could,…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:03 PM
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I read her background in the comments. Seems legit. And everyone was a virgin. Some turn into sex freaks after and some don't. Don't make a big deal of this. If you're looking to plate her, I'd question that. We already have an issue of women with horrible morals - breaking a woman's virginity to plate her is surely going to feed to cynicism. Women's hamsters jump on that wheel at every chance. Don't place a wheel right in front of her. Unless you just enjoy that kind of stuff. But don't then qu…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 01:40 PM
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She's post wall? She's looking for LTR. No matter what. Even if it's not obvious to her. It's in her brain to keep her options open. Remember spinning plates is like playing with a snake. You can't get pissed when it bites you...because you were playing with snakes. But some are more tamed than others, and some are more venomous. You're playing with a hungry snake, it sounds like. And I wonder - A girl who says that sex is just sex all of a sudden realizes that now she wants a LTR. What the fuck…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 01:34 PM
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Red pill is not a rule book. It's a philosophy. Do whatever the hell you want. As long as you don't lose your identity in staying in their orbit and are using them just as much as they use you, then I see no issue. Take advantage of that system. And when they look to you for more than sex, drop them like a fly. They won't ever see it coming.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 01:26 PM
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Just sounds like you two aren't a match. It happens. I'd say nip it in the bud before you spend too much effort. Some people just don't blend well in the bedroom. At least you've got others to enjoy sex with. Depends on how much you want to keep her around.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 01:22 PM
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And there lies the complication to the military - you work for them. Never for yourself. It's a risky game. I was fortunate that what I was about to do was a heavily needed job - and terribly hard to fill - at the time, and with a high enough ASVAB, they would have been misusing he opportunity to fill the position. But I got lucky and had connections to IT work. Someone I knew was high in the ranks of IT and supplied me with a job (no training in it, but have an aptitude for it) and so I took th…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 01:08 PM
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If you're looking for a hookup, it's just made your life a hell of a lot easier. If you're looking for anything serious to abound from there....that's like using a spoon to cut a steak. You can't missuse tools and complain about it. Sounds like this guy could handle tinder very well and collect many plates. If he's hoping for a girlfriend...well...he's going to be cutting at that steak for some time.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:59 PM
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If it's a plate - you don't need much. You're rotating them out anyway. If it's a partner you seek, then of course. Why is that even a question? Do you seriously want to be with someone, for potentially the rest of your life, if you two only have two things in common? My partner and I spend a ton of our time together. Not because we are forced or are dependent on one another, but because our hobbies happen to be the same. We end up bonding a ton over them. We have separate hobbies too, but they …
/r/askTRP24/08/15 08:07 PM
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Honestly - don't bother using Tinder unless you plan to avoid a LTR. Tinder is a joke. If she is pushy, then she either wants your attention/is fat and desperate/or is just looking to have fun over the phone and won't actually commit to seeing you (kind of the same as attention seeking.) Don't take Tinder seriously. Unless you just want to get laid. If that is that case, just meet up with the chick regardless and feel her out.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 07:57 PM
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I don't know if that's AWALT or just someone being treated like shit and ditching the dead weight. Same thing men do when their wife is a bitch, unless that's classified as AWALT behavior for a man as well
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Not every chick is the same. Yes, women love strong assertive men, but they still aren't the same. It's similar to how all straight dudes love boobs. Boobs won't make them come crumbling down and worship the woman...but if she shows of her boobs...well then that's going to at least distract him for a moment. She might genuinely not like the alpha thing. I know a few chicks who just don't respond to it. Just like I know one guy who doesn't like to lead in the relationship. People are varied. It's…
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Just maintain frame. She's probably unsure as to where this is coming from, and her hamster is spinning on multiple wheels of scenarios. I don't know why you can't be honest with her if it's a good relationship - tell her you entered a new way of thinking about how to be a better man, and so you are doing things that make you happy and feel good. Tell her it's how relationships maintain themselves - both parties do what makes them happy and up-kept. She's either on board or she is not. It would …
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Scaling back commitment might be harsh. He agreed to a relationship with her - why break that commitment because of a moment of dis-respect? That's what men complain about all the time with women - they see a moment of weakness in their man and are off on the CC. Can't do the same thing and complain about it at the same time. What OP needs to do is set the boundaries. Clearly set the boundaries. Obviously his GF thought sex was a bargaining tool. Whatever, don't punish her harshly for it, ie go …
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I've not known a healthy marriage/partnership where it wasn't 50/50. If it's none committal, then yeah, it's YOU in charge. But when you agree to be a team, it's 50/50. And 50/50 is defined differently in every relationship. As long as both parties are giving in pre-arranged ways, then that's what matters. No one should be fully "in-charge". This isn't a parent/child relationship. It's an adult/adult thing. One usually wears the pants, but for a healthy relationship to work, the one in the pants…
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Dating strategy broken down to simplest terms: Women = the hotter the chick, the more chances she has of getting in his bed that night. Bitch or not, if she is a 9 or 10, she has high chances of getting laid. Men = Looks no where near as important. Personality and charisma. Confidence, confidence, confidence. A woman wants to sleep with a leader, not a follower. That's why most powerful men aren't that attractive and still sleep around - they don't have to be. They just need to be a leader. Once…
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Well, I guess it all depends on what you want to accomplish. I was eyeing the airforce when I had no idea what to do with myself. The military is truly a good option for wanting to figure things out. I know a lot of lifers that love it. I know people that hate it. It's all about finding the right job. So onto that - I was going to join the AF for crypto linguist. I was planning on doing government work once outside the military. Things changed though, so that's not my plan anymore. But the point…
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MOS is basically what your actual job in the military is. MOS is a term the army uses. Some branches use different code for that. So a mechanic, a pilot, a doctor, infantry, etc. It's just basically being a part of a large machine - each piece has a purpose and a name. Hopefully I explained that clearly!
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Join the military. Be careful with your MOS because that can steer you toward a great or crappy time in the army. It will give you free schooling, a place to live, nice income, a direction for yourself, and chicks love men in uniform. You also get a chance to travel the world, depending on your MOS. Be smart and picky about that decision - choose something applicable to civilian life or you're making yourself even more bottle-necked to a certain job.
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