Fuzea Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	"What next?"		Fuzea	/r/seduction	15/03/15 04:56 AM

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1	How am I supposed to date if OkCupid, Tinder, and Dil Mil have failed me? The thing about Tinder and, frankly, any other form of online dating is that looks are pretty much the only thing that matters. Looks get you in the door, and looks have an enormous weight on the willingness of a girl to meet up irl. I consider myself an attractive guy, let's say I swipe right on 10 pictures, 3-5/10 will swipe me back, and 1, maybe two if I'm lucky, I'll meet in real life. Furthermore, conveying your personality online, at least for me, is like trying to text a girl after a real…	/r/seduction	12/06/15 08:09 AM
3	In College where do I meet up with girls? And what to do when I get them into my room? A hang out spot is anywhere where you want to hang out. It can be a Starbucks, a restaurant, the side of a freeway, literally anywhere. Decide what you're into, decide where you want to go, and ask her to hang out with you there. Just invite her to sit on your bed with you. It's only uncomfortable if you make it uncomfortable. Get some blankets, throw them over the both of you. Cuddle with her. Just make the moves. If she's feeling you she's feeling you man, if she's not she's not. No one can fa…	/r/seduction	14/03/15 07:35 AM
2	Anguish and Confusion - How do I defeat them? Start by just talking to random strangers with no intent of getting anything out of them. Just have a conversation to have a conversation. Go to your local downtown, ask homeless people to share their story. Go find some old guy out on a walk, talk with him. Just TALK. Become a person that knows how to carry a conversation. Once you can manage a conversation well enough, switch up your intent. Start talking to girls with the intent of dating/banging/whatever you want to do with them. Your conver…	/r/seduction	14/03/15 07:28 AM
2	Can't get past first base. Among other problems. It's better to make a move and get rejected, than to just not make a move. If you make a move and get rejected at first, this girl knows your intentions, she knows your interested in her, she knows you aren't a pussy. The interaction that you had with her is going to be playing in her mind, she's going to be entertaining the idea of at least kissing you. This is when you start escalating and building tension with her. Make everything you're doing with her feel like she's gaining something out of…	/r/seduction	14/03/15 07:14 AM
13	Went to Major Frat Party. Got completely rekt by friends whom I got into pick up. Might give up pick up. You're being a fat girl right now. You're looking at your friends and saying "man if only I was a little more like them I could be having so much fun right now." Now you're sad and depressed because you're not getting the results you want, when it's completely plausible that you could make a few simple changes and become better than your friends. First of all, you can't do pick-up inconsistently and expect to improve. You need to get out in the field and get results, both good and bad. Every sin…	/r/seduction	13/03/15 10:02 AM
1	How to approach waitresses/shopkeepers working at the counter? These people are busy, so you have to keep that in mind. Your approach should be very quick, state your intent, get her number, get out. You can get to know each other later.	/r/seduction	13/03/15 09:46 AM
1	Is it better to text her first OR hangout in real life and then start to communicate via text? When I was first starting out I got a lot of quick number closes so this is somewhat my roundhouse. If you haven't ever really talked to her, then I would play some sort of texting game like 20 questions to get to know her a little bit, sometime while you're playing just ask if she wants to go out on a date somewhere. Normally by then they'll be comfortable enough to meet you somewhere and you can take your relationship from there. Here's some texting tips because I feel like getting wordy. Don'…	/r/seduction	12/03/15 01:11 PM
2	Any tips for being "clingy"? 16M I didn't learn how to not be clingy until a girl broke up with me for being too clingy. At the moment I thought that I needed her, but after the break up, I realized that she really wasn't all that important to me and that I was doing pretty good without her. I think the key to not being clingy is being able to enjoy yourself without the company of others. Get a hobby. If you're doing something you genuinely enjoy you won't feel obligated to respond to this girl or even to talk to her.	/r/seduction	08/03/15 08:29 AM
2	Attractive girls and their attractive friends. How to not put them on a pedestal? Have you ever seen an ugly dude with an insanely attractive girl? It's not because he's rich, or he has a huge dick, it's because he brings a certain personality to the table that whatever attractive guy that attractive girl might have been into at one point, did not. You do not need looks to get girls. The quicker you learn this the better. Looks certainly help, as does money, but they are not requirements for getting laid. That's kind of off topic though. As for not putting attractive girls an…	/r/seduction	08/03/15 08:09 AM
4	How to turn a conversation sexual without it seeming inapropriate? I don't think you really need playful examples on this one. You already have it in you to do what you need to do. You said it yourself "playful segue". It's just another type of flirting. If you can be playful in a non-sexual manner, you can be playful in a sexual manner. Just be natural and in the moment, don't be outcome-dependent.	/r/seduction	28/11/14 09:52 AM
2	How do you get girls to take pictures with you? I'm pretty sure that the problem here is that you have no clue who these girls are. Have you ever hung out with them in a smaller group setting or 1 on 1 outside of school? No? That might be why they don't take pictures with you. They don't know you. Get to know them better. Hang out with them more. Ask them if they want to take a picture. (really take that last line to heart if you want pictures to happen) If you want something you can't expect it to fall into your lap, you work to obtain what …	/r/seduction	17/11/14 06:51 AM
1	How to start, what to talk about, how to keep it going? In a Jam, or Large house party scenario /u/recyclablebantha put it pretty well. Typically you go to parties, concerts, and raves to dance. If you still want that interaction, dance with people. Your energy and body language can say a lot about you to a girl. In a lot of larger concert scenarios there are often places where people can go to get drinks and other things, if you want to actually talk to someone, that would be the place to do it. If you really need to talk to a girl please do it in a place where there isn't a lot of commot…	/r/seduction	12/11/14 05:13 AM
2	Talking about sex If a girl said that to me, I'd take that as a sign that she's DTF right away. Don't shake off her comment as a joke, you can be playful, but remember to escalate. If your goal is to F-Close, you should consistently be escalating. If she's talking about sex, talk about sex, get your check, go back to your place and seal the deal. Please, for future reference, don't shove off talking about sex with a girl. If she's comfortable enough to talk about sex she's almost definitely comfortable enough to …	/r/seduction	12/11/14 05:00 AM
1	Particular Situation... High school for me seemed pretty average at the time, a few relationships here and there, nothing too significant. Although I knew I was going out of state for college and none of the girls I dated wanted to go out of state, so I kind of knew how things were going to end. I'd say I was like you, easily the best gamer in my peer group, but not so aggressive with the volume. Now fast-forward to college. I basically pump and dumped my freshman-sophomore years of college. I hit on a lot of girls, I …	/r/seduction	12/11/14 04:48 AM
4	When your first date is much closer to her place than yours, do you tell her to meet you or that you'll pick her up? I always offer to pick up, even if it's out of the way. You meet her at her place, then you get all the introductory/casual stuff out of the way. By the time you get to where you're actually going she should already be comfortable with you and you should be well into the zone. In my opinion it just speeds things up and makes things easier.	/r/seduction	11/11/14 06:02 PM
1	How to find someone when you're really ugly? Okay, looks matter, but looks can't guarantee a lay (for the most part), and looks also can't guarantee you won't get laid. Confidence, as cliche as it sounds, is the most important part of picking up girls. If you have an insane amount of confidence and are completely comfortable doing absolutely anything, I'd say that's far better than only having good looks in your repertoire. How to get confidence is always the problem with beginners though. Asymmetrical face? Own it. Going bald? Go all the …	/r/seduction	06/11/14 02:59 AM
1	Girls think I'm a player but... Just own your "player persona". Eventually you will become what you and others think you are. When I first started doing pick-up, girls used to say the same thing to me. I learned over time that either playing it off as a joke or just affirming their assumption is the best way to go.	/r/seduction	06/11/14 02:45 AM
2	Approach game weak. I lived in the 626 for a while so I get what you're saying about the girls not really appreciating the outdoors as much as you and I. It's not really about them being fond of the outdoors, it's more about you having things that you're passionate about. If they really see that you're crazy about camping, they'll go camping with you just to see what the buzz is about. It's rare that a girl will go camping with me on the first date, but if she does she always has a great time. She didn't even have …	/r/seduction	12/10/14 08:11 AM
2	Approach game weak. First you have to ask yourself what you personally think is fun. What do you spend your time doing? I don't know you at all, so I can't really tell you what to talk about. Personally one of the things I really love the outdoors. I go camping frequently, when I go out to eat I like to sit outside and watch people as they pass by, my house has a lot of windows so I can see outside. I could talk about the outdoors forever. Really all you have to do is just start talking. It's okay to start talking …	/r/seduction	12/10/14 07:08 AM
21	How to "make your interest known"? There's a few different ways that intent can be shown. Words, actions, and body language. Words are, in my opinion, the best way for beginners to show intent. "Hi my name is X and I'm here to flirt with you." That's expressing your intent, you want to flirt with her. You can stay along the lines of light flirty conversation from there, or you could escalate through words like "What would you do if I kissed you right now?" Actions are the best way to express intent, but they aren't necessarily fo…	/r/seduction	28/09/14 10:02 AM
3	I am apparently guilty of being one of these "nice guy" idiots who seemingly had girls taken from him by an "asshole". How do I flip the bill here? When I was in high school I asked my dad why he thought that girls didn't like me. He replied to me with a question, "Would you date yourself?" This really hit home with me. At the time looking back I was a fairly normal kid. I played sports, I was attractive, I cared about my education, but I was boring as hell. I only knew how to have short conversations. I didn't have any hobbies that I could talk about for hours. What did I do? Every day I woke up and thought, "Would I date me?", I kept tryi…	/r/seduction	28/09/14 09:40 AM
4	dear r/seduction, please help me learn to flirt-text!!! "wow had the logest day at work and i'm so tired now stuck in traffic how are you?" "seems like I'm doing better than you! maybe you could come over later and I can make you feel a little bit better? ;)" You just have to express intent in a playful way. This is ridiculously easy over text. The other day a girl texted me and said "I'm bored, talk to me." I responded with "Oh we're gonna be doing more than talking." Just be playful, but also know when to turn the playfulness off. If for whatever r…	/r/seduction	24/08/14 08:30 AM
1	Help fixing my highschool rep Just talk to people man, join in on conversations. Talk to people outside of school. Make plans with people. People at your age aren't always busy. There's always someone looking for something to do during the weekend. Even if you're hanging out with other guys, just do it. Expand your social circle, that's how you meet new people.	/r/seduction	24/08/14 08:21 AM
6	Seddit: What's your schedule like? I work for myself and I don't really need to work most of the time, so I have quite a bit of free time. Weekdays (Monday-Thursday) tend to look like this: Wake Up, and go to my computer and do whatever it is I need to do to manage my business that day, by that time it'll be lunch (I've never eaten breakfast, just not my thing). After lunch I'll hit the gym, then after the gym I'll go home and work on a hobby (reading, cooking, music, meditation, and I've recently gotten into thrifting for whatev…	/r/seduction	24/08/14 08:00 AM
1	How many guys here that actually improved themselves had a much better time with women after high school? I definitely saw improvement outside of high school. I went to a private school, and the selection of women was... scarce, to say the least. I had to game outside of high school if I really wanted an interaction with a girl, and that worked for me pretty well. The transition into college? Damn, what a relief. Girls would just kind of come to me, but it also had to do with my evolution as a person. In my beginnings of high school I wasn't a guy who would just go up and talk to women, I was just a…	/r/seduction	16/08/14 05:22 AM
4	How to make out/get with girls at parties etc? I can talk to them and flirt, but I don't know what point to kiss them? (17, UK) Just grab them and lead them away after you've spoken to them for a while. They'll follow if you do it with purpose and positive intent. Then just kiss them. It's really that easy.	/r/seduction	16/08/14 01:35 AM
2	Time Constraints I like the gun to your head warm-up technique for quick closes. I'm trying to hash out as many sets as possible looking for a result. Honestly man, just go for the number as soon as possible. Work on your text game, sometimes I get the number without actually really saying anything other than "You're cute, not a lot of time, number?". So the first time I text her we'll play 20 questions just so I can get an idea of what she's actually like and just go from there. If you feel like you're rushing …	/r/seduction	14/08/14 08:27 PM
2	Cant seem to initiate kino at all...any advice? What's worked consistently for me and become a habit is the stomach touch. As I'm starting to say something I'll just touch her stomach slightly with my hand, I do it to guys too. Even people that aren't used to being touchy feely can deal with a light stomach touch. It's pretty easy to escalate from there. Leading by hand, hand on the small of the back, kiss, sex, etc.	/r/seduction	14/08/14 07:56 PM
1	Why the hell do people think I'm gay? You buy the basics. Plain white tees, black tees, solid colored button downs, dark jeans, lighter jeans (no pre-fades and raw denim is my preference but to each their own). Basics never go out of style, and you can get some high quality designer basics that people who appreciate fashion will definitely take notice of. Once you have the basics down you can start to branch out. Find what you like to wear that looks nice. I started off wearing the basics but I've found that I like streetwear more, …	/r/seduction	14/08/14 07:43 PM
1	Why the hell do people think I'm gay? The other day I was in Bath and Bodyworks, because I like candles and I like my home smelling nice. I'm also a germaphobe and I was running low on my precious soap and hand sanitizer, so I was in there picking up a few things for my home. There was this cute asian girl in the checkout line and I opened her with "Hey! Whats-up? My name is Fuzea, and I'm not gay, I promise." It made her giggle and we hit it off. Of course it was in the right social context (In a feminine store), but I can see how …	/r/seduction	14/08/14 07:36 PM