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CMVG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 12:18 AM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:47 AM
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CMVG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 05:52 AM
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Question For WomenG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:52 PM
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Question For WomenG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:51 AM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:37 PM
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Question For MenG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:58 AM
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Question For MenG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:16 PM
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DiscussionG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 05:31 AM
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CMVG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:09 PM
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DebateG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:01 PM
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DiscussionG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:09 PM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:50 PM
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Question For WomenG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:54 AM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:19 PM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:25 PM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 09:53 PM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:46 PM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:50 PM
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G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:11 PM
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Question For WomenG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:23 AM
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CMVG77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 05:46 PM
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G77R23D/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 07:37 PM
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NYE Purge Post!G77R23D/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:06 PM
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Short, thin women are fine. Not sure what you're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:34 AM
-2

I'll certainly do that if it's allowed, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 08:05 PM
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I've flown out for dates all the time, not a big deal considering how important the matter of finding a lifelong partner is.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 08:05 PM
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You need to consider therapy to move beyond the incident. If you keep dressing that way, partners that would have been perfect for you will always keep walking. Its up to you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 06:00 PM
1

Consider that your obscure overlapping is part of the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 04:20 AM
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What do you do and what do you want to do next? If you're taking action, small steps toward the next career you can be positive about that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 01:36 AM
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These are good questions your ex should have taken care of.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 03:41 PM
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If this is all that happens, hes secure and you're anxious or vice versa. Avoidants literally demean their anxious partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 12:21 AM
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I think what you're describing are dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 03:06 AM
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They're bible verses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 01:03 AM
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Don't give up. Mrs Midwest gained 150,000 subscribers in 15 months. Traditional women or those that want to be one are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:31 PM
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Keep thinking that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:30 PM
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It's his view based on his experiences with women, what else do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 09:29 PM
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Read that first comment, It's too broad. Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:32 PM
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It's too broad. Can you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:26 PM
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That just about describes myself. What do you want to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:29 PM
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In the mean time, wrap it up every time and dont date feminists. Easiest way to hold onto tour own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:12 AM
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All you need is to be thin, a basic walmart makeup routine, long well kept hair and a big smile. That's attainable by basically all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 04:21 PM
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I disagree, women have it pretty easy until their 30th birthday, after that things get much more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:33 PM
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Looking forward to all masks being in the trashcan in 2 more months or less. Any young man wearing a mask at a bar who cant prove he's caring for his 102 year old grandmother will be a total pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:04 AM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 12:25 AM
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Yes it's a platform kids use to bully each other these days and for girls to get on the attention carousel when they're 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 05:31 AM
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Best of luck with that chum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:21 PM
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My loose definition of chad is a man with a long, consistent track record of winning in his life, creating unshakable confidence. He had great support as a developing child. He was a winner in high school. He was a winner in college. He's a winner in his career. Add good looks, being fit and athletic, and a fun/social personality, and you've got Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:23 PM
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Every man can choose his own path, so this topic is a little silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:19 PM
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lol. Not even going to dig into this one other than saying fucking of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:56 PM
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30m in florida. It's a total dealbreaker for me. If she wants to keep her last name, shes got 30 other feminist inclinations that I dont want to deal with for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:52 PM
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What rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:48 PM
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What do you think "risk" is? I encourage you to take economics if you're still in college. Anyway, this is my last post, it's been fun. I have to go fuck my bisexual wife who definitely won't leave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:43 AM
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"Dating someone bisexual isn't risky." Says Punk_Pegasus. Do you know any straight friends that have had a partner leave them for a member of the opposite sex? I know a few, so what is this "truth" you speak of? WE'RE NOT EVEN TALKING ABOUT CHEATING. A straight man's wife could ask for a divorce, execute the divorce, then marry a woman. That still falls in line with the "risk" I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:37 AM
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If you want to make a topic with the title, "LGBTQ Community, have you ever been emotionally hurt by a CISGender male?" I'd love to stop by and say, "I'm a CIS male and I've never hurt anyone." and I'd be downvoted and probably banned. I'm just astonished by your narcissism that you feel you need to have a say in this topic when your opinion just doesn't fit what's being asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:30 AM
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Yes I don't want to hear what bisexuals think in this topic, so you're correct. See? We're agreeing already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:25 AM
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What point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:19 AM
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You're bisexual yes? This topic is for straight people to give their thoughts on the matter since the topic is "As a straight person, is it risky to date a bisexual?" Your opinion isn't relevant to this discussion, as I said two replies ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:14 AM
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Yes, they have the ability to be attracted to twice as many people, so more opportunities to cheat. It doesn't mean they will, this is about risk, my original term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:07 AM
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Refer to my original post. Do you want me to be more specific in some area?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:04 AM
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It shouldn't, but it does bigly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:02 AM
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No, this topic is discussion surrounding the context of straight people dating bisexual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 12:44 AM
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Way to go ignoring instructions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:50 PM
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No, you're incorrect. You should lift more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:44 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:30 AM
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I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:15 PM
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It's not going to help in most cases when shared early on. Leave it to the third date when she's into you and if she walks after seeing some of your nerdy side then it may be for the best. Or hide it entirely and slam top shelf pussy. Or tell her earlier and save yourself the dates. It's all about what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:52 AM
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Yes, it's bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:42 PM
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Yes, they'll have much more difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:33 AM
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Yes I understand that, Hence its a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 12:47 AM
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Values first, looks second.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:52 PM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:35 PM
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As you touch on, raised religious is not religious. They were faking it as a kid and once they're out of the house they drop faith off at the nearest recycling center. I'm talking about real believers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:34 PM
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I have honestly not thought about this but it makes sense haha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:05 AM
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I know it's really got me torn up, I'm thinking about buying 8 cats
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:04 AM
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Again no. The 20% of values that make 80% of the difference do not change. Your worldview is not the truth and neither is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:41 AM
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That's not true. Marriage with the right person with excellent values is not extremely risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:43 PM
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I'm on your side of this argument why would I need to trust you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:42 PM
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Thanks for phrasing it that way, the gender preference changing over time is what o was going for with the "locked in" comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:16 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:11 PM
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Valid point. I feel we're not in the same place on defining bisexuality in the context of marriage risk, but that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:14 PM
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You're looking a little soft. Time to cut summers around the corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:39 PM
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Change how? Let's get some examples going here of the changes you purport to be inescapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:49 AM
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Bag of sand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:19 AM
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mmk pumpkin. So revile them...more? Can we focus on something actionable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:16 AM
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You're wrong. Get better at meeting, vetting, and choosing, and being chosen by the right man. A man with the correct values that are planted so deeply in his belief system will provide a level of certainty that you can bank on. And the guy who's ditching child support payments like Neo? Your friend didnt see or disregarded yellow and red flags but chose him anyway. I guarantee it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:12 AM
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I'm sure it has weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:50 PM
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No. Dueling dragons RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:05 PM
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Yeah throwing your life away through wallowing in your own self pity while seeing illusions of the sky falling down is def a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:17 PM
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Or it's just users fucking around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:13 PM
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You have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:07 PM
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https://imgur.com/t/bugs_bunny/6vszftE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:53 PM
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You're about to hit the wall. Why were you with these men that you didn't want? How long did you stay with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:58 PM
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Read "Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr Good Enough" if you want to see what women deal with in post aged 35 dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:54 PM
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Yes. We've all done it when we havent had sex in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:21 PM
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RPW is what you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:07 PM
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Values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:56 AM
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Values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:45 AM
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Troll account.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:44 AM
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How old are these men taking an interest in you? 50s/40s? Or 30s? I'm just wondering who you judge worthy to give a chance. And what are you doing with your 20s and what do you want for your life going forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:42 AM
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You should rephrase your question as, "Do the majority of people still even want families and children at 30 years old?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:21 PM
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What do you find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:17 PM
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I'm only referring to men being shamed for dating young women. No woman is being shamed for not liking older men, which I'm amazed I have to state something that obvious to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:12 PM
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Ok. What's next for you and your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:13 PM
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Stop projecting, what is your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:58 AM
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I found the book to be underwhelming and the ideas pretty luke warm. I put it down after a few chapters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:07 AM
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Ok just checking. How did you meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:47 PM
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What's going on, why hasnt this happened for you yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:17 PM
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You're not being specific. Are you discussing dating or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:09 PM
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Man is jealous when woman is in SMV peak years. I mean its true, atleast for me, I dislike how tough it is sometimes. But I'll have SMV peak years too so it balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 02:57 PM
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Outwardly Masculine women are pretty gross. Everyone balances the masculine and feminine within themselves but for a woman to enthusiastically give herself over to masculine ways of being and acting without finding some sort of balance is very bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:57 AM
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My guess is men pay for the small amount of attention they get and the illusion of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:55 AM
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Yes. You're already seeing it with men applauding their girlfriends for opening onlyfans accounts for the "extra income".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:54 AM
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Of course not. And the income argument is ridiculous since my wife wont be working anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:27 PM
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It's the man's job to initiate. Communicate the pace you're comfortable with but that's about the extent of it. So you're saying every man is moving to fast for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:58 PM
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Yeah it's best not to consume so much debate that it makes you cynical. But men who dont heed the warnings taught here will marry a poor choice and regret it in silence like millions of men out there now. Get just enough to keep you on your toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:56 PM
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It's fun when you produce a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:53 PM
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You're discussing two different groups of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 04:51 PM
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Where was your dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:20 PM
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No, it's not that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:17 PM
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What is the point of exchanging rings if you dont wear them? Do you only show up to Church on Easter too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:44 AM
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Don't be so hard on yourself. Have you spoken to your priest about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 05:32 PM
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Better in the past is an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:28 AM
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thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:19 AM
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Let's cut out the 70 to 80 percent of women who are fat first, then we'll get to this supposed group that you purport to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 02:51 PM
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Her word alone obviously, where have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:18 AM
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Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 04:13 AM
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No, I liked your list.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 10:03 PM
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Ok pretend you are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 10:03 PM
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I am pretty much Chad so no it doesnt bother me. It's mostly a joke term anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 09:08 PM
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That's not the question I asked you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 09:06 PM
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I dug it when I was younger. Now at 30 I find unnatural colors outside of blonde, brunette, black and red to be gross. I don't mind if a blonde wants to go brunette etc. but doing that too many times is a big no as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:54 PM
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This is not a bad start. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:48 PM
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How about a little list for a general high value guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:47 PM
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Hi, it's me Mr. man of value here writing. Can you participate in good faith and answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:45 PM
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I see what you're saying, can you give us a list though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:44 PM
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*Places science fair award ribbon on post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:43 PM
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Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:41 PM
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Or you could answer the question. I'd like to know too so pretend I asked instead of OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:40 PM
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I award you no points.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:39 PM
1

Can you give us an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:30 PM
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Sounds like a good idea to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:28 PM
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You're discussing outliers and trying to map those characteristics to the rest of the bell curve. The only applicability I'm seeing here is the "reformed slut" who gives it up for good as she readies to pair off with a guy for marriage. You also gave no info about your slutty virgin friend, elaborate with a description of her looks and behaviors. And ages please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:27 PM
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We've got a few things collapsed on top of each other here. There's a big difference between helicopter parents of kids pre college, in college, and post college. Honestly go tell your folks that you love them and to please fuck off. What if that was your future husband? Tell them that their actions are killing romantic opportunities. Helicopter parents have a negative influence certainly, but it's better to have both parents helicopter than to be missing a mom or dad or to deal with divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:21 PM
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How old are you OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:46 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 01:27 AM
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Hitting the wall means the woman can no longer compete against other younger women like she used to, it's all about the comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:14 AM
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I'd feel totally betrayed and she'd be in hell. Her ability to lie wont make it any better when its found out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 03:13 PM
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There is no truth, just ways of looking at the world that work in the pursuit of an end result.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 11:47 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:54 PM
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Why are all these married and engaged women here in PPD? I honestly dont see the point in debating this sort of thing after tiring the knot. Shouldn't you two be spending time working on the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:00 PM
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Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:36 PM
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Nice going. Although I'm confused, theres nothing in your post that's really a high standard. Wouldnt necessarily say desiring tall men is a high standard. What's your fiance look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:31 AM
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So why did these long relationships end? Why wasnt one of these men, who you picked, the one?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:20 AM
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Maybe some of them will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:49 PM
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Choose to be alone? What are you, high? They wasted their best years to find a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:52 PM
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Well definitely not the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 09:51 PM
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Yes, check out Lori G's book Marry Him which goes into this in great detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 06:22 AM
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Mate guarding isnt bad at all. But the term is mate guarding not date guarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:34 PM
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Yes sometimes it is easy. A girl can like a well built guy's vibe and things all fall into place without a lot of game. Sometimes it's pretty hard. It all depends on the girls at the venue and your perceived status at the venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:01 PM
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Ugh so sexist comparing women to cars how could you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:22 PM
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No I dont think I'd hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 02:16 PM
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I dated someone who knows girls that live off the cashapp donations they get from their instagram followers in exchange for clothed and sometimes naked pictures. That's the future of empowered women. Boys will get really good at Fortnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 02:39 AM
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Yes. If she's feminine, dresses girly and is excited to see me, I'm interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:33 AM
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Yes we know this, women are "living a fun life" AKA participating in their party years. What happens when the party ends? Have you considered it may be a good idea to leave the party a little early?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:27 PM
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Men being uncultured does not make women cultured. It's plain as day that they're not. Now you've got to make a little definition of "cultured" but it comes down to 2 attributes: Appreciation Participation In culture. So what's culture? It's music, dance, languages, opera, ballet, theatre, art, literature, poetry, film, and sport. There's no minimum requirement, it's up to each individual to feel out what "cultured" is. But if there's practically nothing there in the first place with this girl, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 04:18 PM
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No I dont think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:30 PM
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This article gave me cancer.
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:39 AM
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I agree with you, most of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 11:23 PM
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No. RP isnt "outraged" that hypergamy exists. Anger phase men are outraged, late stage RP men accept it and work around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:38 PM
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It's basically harmless. Use a word you find the most unique. I call everyone Miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:11 PM
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Dont women purport to say that they're not affected sexually like men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:09 PM
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Speak for yourself bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:04 AM
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You dont want that pumpkin D? So sad
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:18 PM
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lol no. High N women are amazing in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:01 PM
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It is if you're a woman older than 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:00 PM
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My first girlfriend freshman yr of hs was adorable. I'd think we'd be pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:59 PM
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This is nonsense. Red Pill basically says, "Society told you to develop these skills and you'll succeed with women." Which was a lie, so we go to work on the real skills that make success happen. Men who are lashing out and blaming others are still in their anger phase, pure and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:57 PM
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Whoever says I love you first likely enters into the frame of the other person. It's not risky at all if it's a great long term frame for life for both people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:11 PM
3

Why would you leave when you love them? Dont listen to society's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:08 AM
1

Social science is total garbage. They should have studied chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:07 AM
1

Suit yourself. Thanks for your take anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:09 PM
1

It's not impossible to answer, kinda sounds like something a girl would say. Brag about yourself a little, what have you accomplished since leaving home?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 06:07 PM
1

Good. How did you turn out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:59 PM
1

Unless your dad shouts at you to go ride your bike. No father, no shout, no bike ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:34 PM
1

No. Have you ever tried to water a plant only on the weekends? It doesn't turn out so well. Same goes for seeing Daddy at his new "kicked out" condo on Saturdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:01 PM
1

What is "structure"? It's a value. The father teaches and gives the child values, he exemplifies them so the child sees that they're beneficial and they want them for himself. Mom provides lots of values too. If a high schooler had their way, they'd drop out, play fortnight all day and eat taco bell for every meal. They don't do that because it won't create a healthy or happy life, and that's taught to them by their family. No family; no father, no values, weak child turned weak adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 02:08 PM
1

Nah. I played so many video games as a kid I would have been on Dateline. I was on the internet all the time. I still turned out fine. My father told me to go outside and I picked up some actual skills before college.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:56 PM
1

You're right. And also women should stop dismantling their families through divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:54 PM
4

I believe society and fatherless homes are hand in hand producing incels at an alarming rate. An ounce of red pill and a pound of self development are the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:34 AM
1

In a marriage mindset I'd like my future wife to have 5 or less when shes 25 or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:19 AM
1

Taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:17 AM
1

How has your safety been put at risk? Give us a few examples so we're really clear on this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 03:07 AM
0

Normal people don't do what you do. How are you ok with filling your life full of these little lies? I get it, 20% of guys don't react well to the rejection. So you lie to the other 80%? Have you ever experienced what it feels like to think you have a chance, only then to realize you've been lied to and not even worth the common decency of a simple no thank you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:13 PM
1

Yes. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:41 AM
-1

Because we dont have a choice, so why hold it against us? I dont blame women for their hypergamous ways, its nature, I just work around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:09 PM
0

You're all so silly sometimes, always looking for the exit strategy. Have you considered that for some groups the word divorce doesnt exist? And yes I'd support her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 04:29 PM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 02:35 PM
1

How is a man uniquely equipped to provide this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:53 PM
1

Read Lori Gottliebs book to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:51 PM
1

Can I have my 5 minutes back please?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:51 PM
1

No obvi.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:41 PM
1

Most women certainly do this. Some marriage minded women who have learned how to judge character will pick lieutenants who they believe will become generals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:40 PM
1

No I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:12 AM
2

You're again delusional. Rights removed? You'll make a great spouse some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:59 AM
1

You posters are so silly. You're not an individual anymore. You're a family organism. All the money is our money, not any persons. You're all looking for an exit when this is a life long commitment. If you dont trust the person for life, dont make the commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:36 AM
1

Why do you feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:37 PM
1

Well there's your problem. Keep learning and just stay off the carousel for your future husband's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:31 PM
1

Nah, just get better at picking and get better at reading people's actions not words. People's value systems are very much ingrained by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:23 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:00 PM
-1

Why not just improve your ability to pick good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:59 PM
2

Feminism. Fatherless homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:05 PM
1

Men offer value in ways other than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:50 PM
1

Are you a journalist? Who is us? Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:12 PM
3

One or two women I used to be very fond of had an average face, but were thin and had a very elegant sense of style.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:27 AM
3

Knowledge of music, arts, dance, poetry, dressing well, being a hostess for company. That sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:10 PM
1

Why be top tier? Are you asking why improve at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:08 PM
1

I'm just going to step right over your silly comment and ask you directly, how are you improving yourself? Do you see nothing that needs work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:07 PM
1

"As a woman one is usually good enough." I'm sorry, no. Based on what I see you're not good enough. 70 to 80 percent of you are overweight. Another 70 to 80 percent have no manners. Another 70 to 80 percent have no home skills. What is it, do you think, that guys want?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:49 PM
4

That's wrong. We're experiencing one twentieth of the hardship our grandparents experienced. Isnt finding a man to spend your life with worth a few small sacrifices?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:46 PM
2

Let's keep the conversation pointed in the original direction please. And as I said above they're working on it if they're following basic TRP sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:44 PM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:41 PM
3

I dont see women improving at all, no matter the reason, so your point doesn't hold a lot of water.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:37 PM
6

If this is the case, which seems plausible, why are you girls so fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:35 PM
3

No, they're not. Men have always had discussions on internal game, which is still game.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:21 PM
4

Please offer examples because I dont see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:19 PM
4

Why are they separate? Dont women in FDS need those types of posts, or is it perhaps separate so women on FDS dont have to be bothered with seeing those types of posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:19 PM
1

But are you a princess?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 02:12 PM
1

Practically all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:05 PM
1

No, it's just nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 01:37 AM
2

They get married and love the man the best they can. They may not succeed of course because of all the dick that's transformed their brain but hey they've got to give love a shot. It might work, but it may not work. The man has to keep up the dynamic nature of the relationship with married game, which to be honest is the worst part of the entire arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:01 AM
1

So what changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:58 AM
-1

You've said nothing about the real indicators of marriage performance: temperament, values and moral code of conduct. You're not going to find this guy. I encourage you to try something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:49 AM
1

Listen. I love cuddling. I adore being intimate with a woman. Slowly caressing her thighs as I whisper poetry into her ear as she giggles and tells me not to stop. But this has never. ever. happened before the lay. It comes off as creepy before a woman gives her full self to a man, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:41 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:18 AM
1

Why would queer men need red pill? They seem to be doing just fine with finding sexual partners easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:23 PM
1

He danced the laendler with Maria, along with any dancing he did in the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:04 PM
1

When dating, I'd say I'd be a little curious if a girl has more than 30 partners. When marriage focused, I'm out after about an N of 5 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:29 PM
1

Batman animated series Bane or Christopher Nolan Bane?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:24 PM
1

Yes it has, considering women are less happy and fulfilled than they ever have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:23 PM
6

Sounds about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:32 PM
1

Yes they are. I have multiple colleagues in their fifties and sixties who have sons that live at home in their mid twenties who have failed to launch. Its pervasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:32 PM
0

Well we don't want you deluding yourself if you're a low value feminist psychocunt, but a beautiful, feminine, sophisticated, cultured, healthy woman is a prize. So is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:10 PM
1

If someone's psyche is damaged with emotional trauma, yes they do like pain and they will seek it out to continue the cycle of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:08 PM
1

What is your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 08:27 PM
1

Let's hear your results or kindly get lost.
/r/seduction05/02/20 05:26 PM
2

Why did these women choose these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:59 AM
2

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:01 PM
1

OK, please link your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:53 PM
0

Lol not at 35
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:13 PM
1

Mhmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:53 PM
1

"Also a lot of dudes will at least say they'd get with passing transwomen." This is straight up false. And to answer your original question, that's also false. Guys are very straightforward. Dont be fat, wear a dress and a little makeup, Smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 05:58 PM
2

80% of american women are fat, so no. I think the average on both sides is pretty bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:47 PM
2

I got a flat tire on my way to the movies with a girl in high school. It took forever to fix, and when we got to the movies her parents were there to pick her up due to some kind of family emergency. I was left alone on the curb and we never saw the movie. That one has never been beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:45 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:43 PM
1

Pull yourself together. Are you going to give up like a baby left in the woods? You're a man, you can get better and overcome anything. Learn game and get better at interacting with thots, or go to church and get better at interacting with niche women. Just pick a plan and start working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:00 PM
8

Queen you've been here a while. What do you say we get hitched and turn in our boxing gloves. We'll have 5 kids, I'll remember our anniversary. Sound good?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:54 AM
1

Dread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 03:07 AM
1

Well yeah I got that :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:55 AM
2

It's of certain value to the people you're being nice to. To women you have to be valuable and show, demonstrate or communicate that value as well as be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:49 AM
1

Hmm self destructive? Sounds like what a man does to himself when the woman he loves breaks up with him for her career even though she loved him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 01:45 AM
1

You seem to have a good head on your shoulders so I'm going to cut you some slack. Society has told you it's practically guaranteed that there will be a man for you in that 3 to 4 years time. That is a lie. Your beauty is your biggest asset. Dont let it go to waste. Think about it. Inviting a man into your world comes with a lot of constraints. Hes going to be most open to being with you on this ride when youre young and beautiful. It's unlikely that your amount of practice will significantly re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 09:24 PM
1

Ok, I see what you're saying and I disagree. Just introduce me to your friends and we'll get the ball rolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:53 PM
0

Why would women need to apply game when meeting men? It makes no sense. They need to be pretty, dress well, and be inviting. That's it. To answer your question, if they were to start gaming men, a lot of men would be confused, but would then proceed to fuck them anyway. Similar result.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:45 PM
1

Then you're totally full of it. What do you think love is? How many men have fallen in love with you and vice versa? What is so important in your life that you aren't considering a permanent future with any of these men you've "fallen in love" with? How many hearts have you broken? Give. me. a. break.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:42 PM
1

Are you now married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:38 PM
-1

My statement is correct, so why don't you counter with a little reasoning of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:30 PM
1

Nah. Have you seen Moonstruck? That guy liked opera too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:55 PM
0

First off, I'm 30 and If I got married today I could support the both of us with a few lifestyle adjustments. It sounds like you've been hurt, more than physically that is. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:50 PM
2

It's very simple. Their ability to be happy with one man long term is impaired. I believe men also are affected by this multiple partner impairment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:24 PM
1

If you're a dime piece and can land a man who wants this arrangement, you do you. Will you love any of these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:21 PM
-1

You're welcome to that opinion, but consider there's another way. Just make enough for two and your spouse can focus on raising the kids, growing a garden, volunteering, and participating in local community groups. Chicks working in a marketing department their whole young adult lives is so 2010s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:17 PM
1

Let's not go that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:51 PM
23

She needs to offer more than a vagina. Enjoying opera is a plus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:11 AM
2

It's just not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:47 PM
2

I see my significant other once a week minimum so if I were doing this with something who's saving themself for good reasons I'd say its about 10 to 15 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:09 PM
1

I have never heard of this. Someone is into everything. This is like saying, "Why are some people sexually attracted to bees?"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:08 PM
1

You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:04 PM
1

Batshit crazy is your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:28 PM
2

Why did you work 27 days in a row?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:40 PM
2

Join an adult kickball league.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:39 PM
2

No. Why would I want a confident woman? What does that add to my life? I want her to be cultured, well read, gentle, warm and caring. Confident? In what? You can have confidence on your ability to do something, but most of the time confidence translates to being a nag in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:08 AM
1

Yes. But without being proactive, you wont find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:31 PM
1

With the hottie? If she says no soon everyone will know she said no. Make your intentions known discreetly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:42 AM
1

I don't believe in giving respect for no reason, but I do believe in treating people with dignity. As long as you're not ridiculing the man for his attention, you're fine. Be reasonably polite when you say no thank you and be on your way. Much better than ghosting or laughing at the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:19 PM
1

I appreciate their interest but tell them squarely that the feeling is not reciprocated. If they ask why I squarely tell them why. Then they can go to work on those things if they choose. For example, I met a school teacher at a party and we had a great chat about early development for special needs students. She had a friend call me and say she was interested in a date but was shy. I told the friend thanks but no, she was charming but way too big for my tastes (probably 75 pounds or more overwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:15 PM
2

Don't create unnecessary rules in life. Do what you want. Just don't ask the hottie if she wants to fuck when you're at the BBQ, not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:01 PM
2

Your daughter is already amassing a pretty major following on Chaturbate and she's just 19. Better check those parental controls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 08:28 PM
1

Option 3 obviously. If you were a man, what option would you take?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:51 PM
2

Are you gay? Why are you treated like a woman? Can you tell us why you "want to be able to provide that for someone but at the stage in my life where I am I'm not able to"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:48 PM
9

Are you in college? Sure go for it. Are you over 30? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:46 PM
3

Tell us how it turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:17 PM
1

It's a coping mechanism for those that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:54 PM
23

Be careful, this sounds like you're going to get hurt. If the guy doesnt want to be seen with you in public or around his friends, the relationship has no future. Be more than a good fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:41 PM
1

Why dont you go read some TRP sidebar before giving us a lecture? Spare me your request to clarify your own confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:38 PM
-1

It's clear that you're just not ready yet. Your goals? Give me a break. In marriage you're a unit. You're not just an individual anymore. The goals of the union now outweigh the goals of the individual. I love skydiving, but I'll love my wife and kids more so I'll eliminate a lot of that risky activity for the sake of the union and the future we're building together. You've been totally sold on a fempowered view of a traditional marriage and you're acting like a victim. You are responsible for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:24 PM
0

Who said your opinions and desires are worth less? Who said you're not free to have your own interests, opinions and dreams? Just what is a marriage in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:50 PM
0

She cannot compete with an under 25 year old by age 30 in 90% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:50 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:49 PM
5

If she's warm, gentle and feminine, she's good to go. If she's feisty and feminine, that's fine. If she's a goofball and feminine, A-OK. If she's too masculine, that's where I draw the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:48 PM
1

Date? Yes. Marry? Definitely No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:46 PM
2

Go live your life. If you're happy with your results with women by being yourself, then great. Lots of men aren't happy with how things have turned out for them so they're making changes by: 1. Learning game to be with the women they like 2. Reading red pill to avoid women they may think they like, but are in fact a poor choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:43 PM
-2

But was she fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:39 PM
0

You're half the union, and you help form the rules of the marriage at the outset. All of these concerns are easily resolved through a little communication upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:37 PM
1

Username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:32 PM
1

I've had a sub once or twice and it was mostly a game. I didn't care all that much about bossing her around but she loved it so I went with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:41 PM
1

No one has a claim on your behavior. Do what you want to do. I'm happy that you're happy with plain women. I always think of Charlotte from P&P. She wasn't a looker but would provide a lifetime of love and affection to the right guy. I don't know if you're still just slamming pussy but treat them with a little respect mixed in with whatever game you've got and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:40 PM
1

That term doesn't exist in the minds of a large population of women, so yes. It's all about context and the nature in which you were raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:37 PM
1

It would be nice to have a long term dance partner. I'd like society to take down all the billboards, they're an eyesore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:36 PM
1

Exclusively? Only if she's saving herself for marriage, otherwise no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:17 PM
1

You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:16 PM
1

How is delisting all of his game books and voluntarily reducing his sales income by 80 percent "having his cake and eating it too"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:40 AM
4

It's all you need. And a good financial plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:22 AM
1

Not anymore. Where have you been?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 12:21 AM
1

Read Lady by Roosh V and keep trying. You can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 05:07 PM
1

Very Easy. Introduce them to women youd think they'd go well with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:44 PM
0

I dug it at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:36 PM
0

FDS being marriage minded is a total joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:36 PM
1

I'm pretty amazing, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:36 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 05:02 AM
2

Because work makes many women ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:00 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:59 AM
1

Yes. I make a little over 135 a year and I'm 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:22 AM
1

He'll be ok. Hes been through a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 04:16 AM
18

Men are being taught that saying hello to a woman they dont know is rape. Could have something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:04 PM
1

K bro I'll get right on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:24 AM
-1

Yes. It occurs when they hit the wall and the party ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:21 AM
1

Why is this relevant to the men who cant find a single girl, let alone lots of them to cheat with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:18 AM
2

It's her values.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:47 AM
1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:26 AM
0

Because you're the best choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:36 AM
25

Men mold themselves to attract the women around them. If men are making themselves mentally ill, consider that the women are also mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 03:26 PM
5

I've been doing BJJ for a few months and I did well at my first belt ceremony. Since I'm only doing this to learn how to protect myself and my future family, I thought PPD might want to know that I worked hard for this first small step. For all of you out there that have recent small accomplishments. Maybe they've gone unrecognized. Good job. Keep going. Share what you've done here. That's all, Carry on with what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:18 AM
1

No. I wrap it with fresh condoms every time and I stay away from hoes as best I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:19 AM
3

Ok, why not join a coed hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 05:08 AM
2

Teach her good values and make sure they stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 04:20 AM
1

Hey more jargon to muddle the narrative. Back in the day you didnt need all these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:42 AM
1

Fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 03:41 AM
1

Rules for thee but not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:33 PM
3

Lol. Go to class and focus on your future. Join a frat and goof around if you fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:28 AM
1

Weak mind. Weak body. Weak values.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:33 AM
1

For the next 10 years, I would say Yes, but only when its too late. The 33 year old marketing director will finally date a carpenter because its now or never.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:47 PM
2

I understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:04 PM
2

Depends on who is assessing the value of the man. Feminized younger women don't value stable men, and stability is one of the major areas older men excel in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:47 PM
2

Yes, social circle game is one avenue to making it happen with women. All other avenues you must play the clown these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:18 PM
1

Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:54 PM
2

I encourage you to find a priest and give yourself over to God before you die young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:21 AM
3

I've done it, and it can end up with the social circle exploding and reforming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:20 AM
1

Again no. Girls don't want to feel like shag dolls. You can't call up any girl after three weeks of no interaction and ask to bang. Might work for nymphos but not everyone. You need to invest atleast something, hence spinning the plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:05 PM
2

Stop projecting. Lots of men who spin plates tell their women, "I'm not exclusive with you, and have no intention to be, maybe ever. Take it or leave it." and the girls choose to stay and be apart of the harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:41 PM
7

I think OP knows that something could happen and she could be tempted if she were in wrong place wrong time and got swept up with some chad at a work happy hour, she just doesnt put herself into those positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:33 PM
1

What makes a good man in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:35 PM
1

Yes this is perhaps the case for some women. They'll ride the cock carousel until they cant anymore if they have no desire for support.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:03 AM
1

I see what you're going for. Ashamed is not the right word. I think it's a bit silly. But some men wear the number 32 Jersey because it reminds them of their father, who also always wore the 32 Jersey when watching Steelers games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:02 AM
29

I do acknowledge this. They're called the 80% of the female population who are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:59 AM
14

Dont be a fool. If a woman honors her commitments or speaks and maintains her word every time, that's a good indication you can trust her. And being human, we can all stray because we're sinners. So add a dash of mike pence rule and you're covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:57 AM
2

Fair point. OP get your head out of your ass. This is how weak men are made.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:55 AM
3

You go teach your sons that way, feel free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:56 PM
1

It takes me less than 10 interactions with someone to understand 80% of their red and yellow flags. It's not rocket science. Do they speak one thing and do another? When you ask a fairly basic question at the appropriate time, do they deflect? Do they show up on time? Are their stories adding up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:23 PM
1

You seem upset. Can you point out on the doll where the statement touched you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:30 PM
3

It's not that we dont think this. We just know that female nature, driven by easily swayed emotional states, will override your logical brain when making decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 12:46 PM
1

Why are you ex red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 12:43 PM
1

Why is this woman having constant negative emotions? Is she bipolar?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 12:40 AM
6

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:19 PM
3

"Even then, fertility isn't nearly as valued as it was 50 years ago so I would argue a women's smv is only slightly lowered." Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:54 PM
7

Are your friends succeeding in securing long term commitment from the men they want or are they just still getting good dick from guys that wet their panties?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:58 PM
1

Why would I want to be with a woman long term who's more interested in her career than me? I make enough for the both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:30 PM
7

It's not in a vacuum. The wall also signifies a woman's inability to compete with women younger than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:28 PM
7

They might exist in some communities but I've never seen women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:12 AM
4

What makes you think everyone deserves my respect? Respect is earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 03:22 AM
3

Also an option, kind of what I was going for when I said "significant time"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:31 AM
8

From a man's perspective Blue: be yourself, respect women and you will be rewarded. Red: Women are romantically opportunistic by nature and you need to use their biological impulses against them in order to succeed Black: Sexual dynamics is in a downward spiral and is unsalvageable. Purple: a cocktail of red, blue and black that varies from person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:28 AM
2

How old was she?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:07 AM
2

Does that opener actually work?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:06 AM
1

Masculine: outspoken, firm handshake, extra opinionated, bossy, nosy, argumentative Feminine: gentle, amiable, shy, not quick to reveal personal beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:05 AM
1

Would your husband give his life for yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:26 PM
1

Hey that's the risk you'll have to take. Do you admit that you're taking a risk by not having a plan?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:44 PM
1

So you'll end up as a news story in the next days paper? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:35 PM
3

What's the game plan for you two if you're attacked on the street? Will you tag team the aggressor WWE style?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:34 PM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:33 PM
7

Sugaring will be entirely socially acceptable and out in the open and in some cases encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:51 AM
1

I understand. What kind of man are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:15 PM
1

What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:10 PM
1

Ok, but why are you single?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:09 PM
1

Can you share a little more as to how he affected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:57 PM
1

Go live your life, noone is keeping you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 04:51 PM
2

This is false. Most women still very much do care about their man making more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 03:46 PM
1

Really instantly? What made it an instant feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:29 AM
1

But what about love? Isnt it worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:28 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:27 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:27 AM
1

Why did you fall in love with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:26 AM
1

Would you be open to sharing those incompatibilities so the men viewing this thread can correct them within themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:25 AM
1

Long ride. Happy to hear you're happily betrothed. Would you have done anything differently if you were to go back to being a 22 yr old?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:24 AM
1

Frank Sinatra fucked a lot of army wives thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:49 AM
1

Were you ever married? Sounds like you have children. Why didnt you accept one of those proposals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:48 AM
3

Now theres two sets of fingers crossed. Keep us posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:23 AM
2

How are you feeling? Any news on that medical conversation we had?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:17 AM
2

How did you two meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 02:09 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:58 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:22 PM
2

You're a garbage human.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:28 PM
2

Your last statement is entirely antithetical to how adult men operate for LTRs. Men have to invest in a woman in order to value her and commit to her. This is for real women of value only of course. If he's getting the milk for free, why would he buy the cow? I just assume you're 22. You'll grow out of this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:21 PM
4

Incels and Black Pilled individuals are not mutually inclusive. Bluepill does not work for the majority of men in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:14 PM
2

If it's not physics or a math proof, be skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:25 AM
1

I use Tiege Hanley, good value for 45 a month
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:58 PM
3

Yes true in part. I assume they do this to attract women who want those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:14 PM
1

Definitely the asparagus
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:13 PM
2

I laughed at this one. Hey if that does it for him then just learn new recipes for yourself I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:13 PM
1

Cooking is cooking, happy for the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:10 PM
1

Logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:05 PM
1

In all seriousness I'm happy for you. How did you two meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:05 PM
1

Unfortunately I dont think that's the case anymore. How did it go teaching your daughters?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:03 PM
1

I already spoke with him about it, he's fine with polyamory. It's all the rage these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:02 PM
1

That's fine. How did it go when the chicks were still in the nest?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:01 PM
1

We can fix that. Pick you up at 8 for our first date? I know a great hole in the wall café
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:57 PM
1

That's really something special. Did you learn from your mother/grandmother?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:56 PM
1

That's definitely one strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:55 PM
1

I'm earnestly happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:54 PM
1

Hey gotta start somewhere. I can respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:54 PM
2

Snake, here's how you climb a ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:14 PM
2

Ok what's your chatturbate account ID so I can go buy some coins
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:13 PM
1

Sorry I don't speak British, which I'm assuming is where hot chip is from.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:12 PM
1

That's great! How did you learn to cook in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:11 PM
1

Sex bonds you to that person. It definitely changes behavior, and I'm sure excellent sex has a more dramatic effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:10 PM
1

Better climb in the oven then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:09 PM
1

If the captain makes a call, that's the call. First mate brings problems to the captain, not solutions. First mate offers their input on a decision when asked for it. First mate trusts the captain to make good decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:40 PM
2

Perhaps they feel keeping the family intact is more important than the indiscretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:50 AM
1

What would you have done differently if you could start over?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:50 PM
1

RP simply reveals the nature of people and society, and you make decisions with that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:17 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:17 PM
1

Mansfield Park is pretty good. Fanny is treated like dirt and has to work for everything she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 04:49 AM
1

You're just getting started. What is it that you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 04:20 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 08:49 PM
1

You will attract the opposite energy you put out. If you want a strong masculine man you need to be feminine. If you want a more feminine man, be more masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:33 PM
2

Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:33 AM
1

Gonna have to step my game up at BJJ to overcome stronger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:22 AM
1

Why do you want a job OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:54 AM
2

Big difference between a man wanting to smash and a man wanting to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 02:50 AM
1

While I cant relate to the kind of man that would go for an arrangement like that, it works for some people. Live your life I say. Would be interested in seeing how kids turn out, probably fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:09 AM
2

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:54 PM
2

Your position is that of a crazy feminist psychocunt. The idea that I'm ok with rape for certain groups of people is ridiculous. When did your father walk out on your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:42 PM
7

I feel all positions are allowed and discussed but the community is much more blue than red.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:30 PM
1

Why do you feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:54 AM
3

No. Men and women in the real world mostly suffer in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:42 AM
2

No hard rule, it usually happens somewhere near the end of the first 8 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:41 AM
2

You gotta replace that one black belt you wear every day, it's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:33 AM
1

No difficulty here, I'll take the gamer son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 03:22 AM
1

No, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:06 AM
3

Ugly girls working hard? That was before the attention marketplace transformed. 4/10 girls get plenty of attention from thirsty guys so their energy is not going into reading and skills, it's going into building an instagram following. Unless, as always, strong parenting is present, which it usually isnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:53 PM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:44 PM
1

What within your life do you want to control?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 05:23 AM
1

How did you two meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:40 AM
0

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:39 AM
1

What info do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:35 AM
1

What if she does?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:34 AM
4

Ask the cutie before touching the booty
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 09:48 PM
1

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 08:40 PM
2

Do you make all the rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:51 PM
1

It's really something. I'm riding across Kentucky on it next year. Might do a little bit of a neighboring state to beat the record those Australians just set in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:49 PM
2

Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:32 PM
1

Hmm I suppose so. Is a hotdog a sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:31 PM
8

Skidaddle skidoodle your dick is now a noodle
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 07:30 PM
1

So in this situation, if she doesn't do that, no sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:35 PM
1

Assume you open the cabinet and to your surprise she bought bread. What do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:34 PM
0

But she doesnt want a burger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:33 PM
1

See my definition posted somewhere else in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:28 PM
1

Why would he wait to be asked if he's hungry now?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:26 PM
1

What is your definition of demand? I wrote politely ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:23 PM
1

Some do so happily, some do so willingly, some do so grudgingly and some do not, as we see in other responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:30 PM
1

Ok. You're not destined to be without those traits. What do you want for your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:16 PM
2

I dont see the connection. Lots of great opinions in the thread so it was a great success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:15 PM
0

Why would women avoid you if you're a man of value. N count doesnt matter as much to women, unless they say so when you're dating them. Women have the right to care or not care about the number, but in most cases they dont care. Go out and accomplish something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:08 PM
3

Perhaps excited and warm, but you dont turn feminine on and off, you are or are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:01 PM
1

My definition is Someone who embraces womanhood and rejects acting in masculine ways. Wears dresses. Gentle, soft spoken and polite. High self esteem. Someone who holds joy for the world in her heart and smiles often just from experiencing that inner love and joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:45 PM
1

So your answer is no you wouldn't make it if he asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:34 PM
5

This is totally wrong. Go see a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:22 PM
2

Wouldn't the sandwich fall on the floor?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:09 AM
1

There's no hidden agenda under this basic, classic question. I want to know where the women of PPD stand on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:06 AM
2

What are you insinuating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:55 AM
1

Fancy. Are you being sarcastic or do you hire an in home chef? Would love to know how much those cost since I'd be on the market for one soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:34 AM
1

Sounds like a good set of beliefs to me. How are you doing in the process of finding your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:17 AM
2

I dont blame them entirely. They're being brainwashed and without strong parenting they'll get fempowered every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 03:13 AM
1

What have they said is necessary to succeed in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 01:04 AM
58

Enthusiasm is the most effective and least expensive cosmetic ever invented. If a woman is thin, feminine, warm and excited to see me, that's most of the battle right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:04 AM
1

Curb it? Yes. Moderately so for the modern woman, greatly so for a virtuous woman. Kill it? No, not for any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 10:57 PM
2

I've never hesitated to ask a girl out in a social circle, I do my best to be discreet but it has backfired, and the repercussions of the rejection do show up in the group. So it's best to be careful and only ask if you're confident shell say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 10:55 PM
4

Can you explain what you said in more detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 10:53 PM
1

You're not ok. You're fat and you're fine with it. That makes you doubly not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 10:30 PM
4

How do you define success with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:43 PM
6

Fair point. Men should focus on finding other characteristics they find attractive and all you have to go on is looks on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:43 PM
12

You're right, it is never for some guys these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:41 PM
2

Well we already know the answer, it 100% is. You should post it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:28 PM
2

I'm not getting laid all that often due to dating for marriage. Yes the girls I'm with are lovely people. Yes if its serious I usually introduce them after about a month. When I get home I like to watch classic films and ride my Lacroix Lonestar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:15 PM
1

Men should at first, then figure it out between the two of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:08 PM
23

Dont make me laugh. Young men want to love, but when women communicate that their love has no value, only his looks and status opens the door to being with her, does he decide he has to change himself into what we see in TRP. It's only after his looks, status, and game are in place can he make it work with the modern woman and then his love can be expressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:07 PM
5

If you're fat, you're not healthy. You're lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:02 PM
2

A man can choose not to share that information, and so can a woman. But no, lieing is the best way to destroy a relationship from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:01 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 05:59 AM
1

Found a better term for my stance, thanks for your help! Now regarding what you just said, I agree that yes these men were not in a good position and applied married game to make things better, but was that because they married the 34 year old used up woman? Who are the women these men are marrying? If your position is AWALT and there is no differentiation, then why did they marry in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 11:17 PM
1

I disagree with your married red pill comment. Those gents in that sub believe in applying game within marriage, and that honestly sounds exhausting. If dread appears through normal masculine behaviors that's fine, but strategizing how to game your wife is probably a reason why those guys are as hardened as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:54 PM
1

I asked you to help me find a new label instead of red pill And you've deflected to something else for what appears to be the 3rd or 4th time. I understand where you're coming from, I don't believe in a number of fundamental red pill ideological positions. But I do believe in others. So be a good girl and answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:37 PM
1

Ok, help me find a new moniker, let's work together on this. I am not buying society's plan for me to marry a used up, 34 year old single mother or career woman who will divorce me in 3 to 8 years. I'd like to marry a 22 year old who wants to be a stay at home mom, and have 4 to 5 kids with her. Then I'd like to grow old and have my kids fill my life with meaning in my older years. What label do you put on that? And also, I'm not making this personal, I'm just curious how you're a what appears t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:28 PM
1

I'm sorry, that's wrong. A woman with a strong fatherly influence in her life who protects her from the degeneracy of modern society can come out clean as she enters adulthood. It's difficult but not impossible, especially when faith and god's grace is present in her life. You're right. 90 percent of women or more are not good candidates for marriage, so I simply don't go out with those women. You're a woman and you didnt divorce rape your husband. Why didnt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:09 PM
0

Ok. I'm personally not buying music ed as being a particularly stressful major. Theres no math, physics, chem etc. so what courses are you struggling with? What's the specific source of this stress?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:29 PM
1

How does having out of wedlock children work better than being married with children? Why would a virtuous woman accept that arrangement when the man can walk out the door at any time? Do you have out of wedlock children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:22 PM
1

What if the man wants a family? Do you recommend he just cohabitate for 40 to 60 years? What about your husband? He married you I'm assuming, is he a blue bill beta for doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:13 PM
1

Ok. So a man wants to get married and stay married. That requires a virtuous woman. High n count isnt an absolute certainty that a woman wont be happy in marriage, but its raises the odds of that happening significantly. Why would a man who is sleeping with a woman without commitment consider her a candidate for marriage when she is fine with that arrangement? He called her a plate so if hes spinning ethically hes told her they're not exclusive. She's fine with that. That's a red flag to me. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:04 PM
1

Ok, what about my past comments has you say that? I'll clarify my position on particular points you bring up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:53 PM
1

Ok, what's your major? Are you dropping to 15 or 12? I suggest you consider dropping to 12 for a semester or two. Unless you really need to keep the expenses low, your health and well being is more important than one extra semester to wrap up the degree slightly off schedule. You're way too young to be taking these meds. You deserve to be alive, excited and having lots of relationships in college. This is the time to do it, you'll never be around more available women the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:50 PM
1

I'm very sorry to hear that. This is why we ask questions. How long have you been dealing with this? Am I allowed to feel compassion for you? Or should I not feel anything per our earlier conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:47 PM
2

Ok theres your answer, your medication is majorly altering your desire for the opposite sex. You need to get off of the meds. What's going on in your life that you have to take anti depressants at 21 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:43 PM
1

It's all about what the kid wants. We keep butting heads in other threads so let's get to know each other. What do you want for your life right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:40 PM
3

How often do you masturbate? If you dont have a strong desire to be with a woman romantically or sexually, your testosterone is likely to be low.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:38 PM
1

What's your goal right now? What are you out to accomplish, are you really ready for marriage or are you dipping your toes into the possibility of getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:34 PM
4

I'd never begin a relationship with the woman I want to potentially marry by making her a plate. That doesnt compute. How about find the woman that could be the one, drop all the plates while you're dating her, delay sex so you can see those red flags earlier instead of focusing on the lay, and if it doesnt work out let her go and go back to plating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:29 PM
13

Haughty? That's your word not mine. Stop projecting onto me. I'm a member of the human race and no one is above anyone else. Being fat is an awful way to live. Am I supposed to "feel nothing" when that decision will alter the course of their life? It's not about being better than someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:26 PM
3

No, they're not. But if you hold relationships in your mind as suffering then that's what will appear in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:11 PM
11

Is it that astounding to you that a stranger can feel sadness for another stranger? Think of Romeo and Juliet. Their lives were snuffed out too soon by circumstance. It's a tragedy because the life they could have had together is now gone. That's what fat people are, tragic. Their life will be one fifth what it could be if they were thin, healthy and full of life and energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:09 PM
16

No. I dont feel disgusted, I've seen much more viscerally disgusting things. What I feel is deep sadness for the life they're not going to have, the opportunities, romantic or otherwise, that wont occur because of their choice to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:56 PM
1

Yes, to the right woman and to have a family, which is the most important thing in life next to god.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:32 AM
1

Ok sport. Men leave the sub and go out back into the world with the beliefs and skills they have. Women ignore 85 percent of them and date the top 15 percent. What do they do now? They need to work on themselves by acquiring new ideas and skills. Most of that is learning game and improving their character. Some of it is understanding the marketplace as it is. That's what happens here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:31 AM
2

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 05:22 AM
1

If you like slamming old lady go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:26 AM
2

Lol, it's a party not an exam. A high school educated woman cant hold her own at parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:23 AM
2

It's totally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:21 AM
1

Yes you caught me, I just want to dominate another human being /s. How about you ask with an open mind if you want to learn the motivations of another person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:20 AM
3

Please keep your apex fallacy stowed in the overhead compartment. Yes they're usually quite ugly on guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:10 PM
1

Kids from past relationships History of Bi Polar disorder Gender Studies degree Calling themselves feminists Wanting a career
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:35 PM
1

You're wrong. They do on occasion. What if two people love one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:31 PM
1

Yes I meant they dont commit and dont have a family either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:51 PM
1

Men reject 80 to 90 percent of women, it's just a silent rejection. Women do the same thing, just slightly more often it's a vocal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:00 PM
4

Hundreds of thousands of men dont commit because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:58 PM
2

Nice work!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:18 AM
3

What fascinates me is that even Lori didnt take Lori's advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:56 AM
3

It pollutes her sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:47 AM
1

Ok. What's the plan? I found Crossfit to be a hellishly good time, made working out easy and lots of very smart lifters there who taught me how to make it happen. I had a lot of help. What's it gonna be in 2020 for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:41 AM
1

Nice, what's your field?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:19 PM
3

Yes. Read "Marry Him, the Case for settling for Mr. Good Enough" by Lori Gottlieb for a primary source on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:18 PM
2

Well, what are you looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:13 PM
2

🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 11:04 PM
0

Ok. So you're not a looker. Big deal. How's your physique? How's your testosterone? When have you last had it checked? How's your wardrobe? Are you shining your best pair of black and brown shoes once a week? Woman notice shoes. There are a thousand ways to step your game up and look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:50 PM
2

I chuckled at this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:38 PM
1

Javascript? That's cool what do you intend to write with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:30 PM
0

Try me. Women notice lots of things. If you read more this year, you probably spoke more of what you read and all those intelligent women who read the same book heard you. If you were more social, women noticed. If you did challenging things, your confidence and self esteem rose and women noticed. Don't believe that what you do doesnt matter, everything matters to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:28 PM
1

Let's see. What did you do this year? Just separate them out based on my post, there must be something that men would appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:16 PM
2

I'm proud of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:03 PM
1

What language are you learning?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:02 PM
2

Not too much. Went from 165 to 180 in one year, then to 200 in another year. Olympic lifting all the time so it packed on pretty evenly. I've since scaled back the lifting and I started BJJ so now I'm just bruised up all the time haha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:59 PM
1

That's not true, I'd notice if I knew you. I've also started using daily sunscreen this year, good job. What are you writing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:45 PM
2

You just have to lift the rear of her car to help her get out of a tight parallel park and shell respect the DL gains :P
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:44 PM
3

Nice going, big year for you! What's the goal for next year?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:43 PM
2

That's great to hear. Keep it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:42 PM
5

We dont have to fight all the time. We can applaud the efforts of all of us if we're willing to open up just slightly and share.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:41 PM
1

Dont put it off. This is your new life we're talking about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:39 PM
2

Yes in part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:38 PM
5

You're probably thinking too conceptually. You can improve your attractiveness 50 different ways that will get noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:14 PM
2

Ugh I feel you. So your comp is changing, what's next? You've gotta get that weight off to improve your knees.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:11 PM
1

Can you give us another example? I see where you're going with the ring example but I dont feel it's a great one to start with, those rings are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:30 PM
1

Why are you resisting answering my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:27 PM
1

Ok so you've been married for some time, nice going. How did you meet your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:24 PM
1

How old are you? How are you doing in the search for that woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:59 PM
1

Why did you want me to guess if I should be minding my own business? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:51 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:30 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:38 PM
1

Ok. If no relationship, what are you doing with your life? How do you want to spend your later years?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:33 PM
2

You've got lots of time to get this straightened out. Your earning ability will continue to rise. I encourage you to check out Game, by Roosh V for a non psycho game program. Just study that one resource and avoid TRP until you've got lots of approaches done. What's your squat, bench deadlift and shoulder press one rep maxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:33 AM
1

You're right, theres not much benefit to girls. So why do they do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 02:01 AM
1

When the desire to possess someone lives underneath a supposed friendship, that person is a total con. A man cannot suppress his desire for a woman. They can be together, then choose to not be together in that way anymore, I think that's one way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:54 AM
4

No, I dont care about the world's view of my wife's looks. If I like her then that's what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:28 AM
3

Former obvi., male
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:16 AM
26

I dont ask, I just observe her behavior and it gives small indications of her history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:07 PM
3

Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:00 PM
2

10+ year age gaps happen every so often. As it turns out, love can shows up in unexpected places.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:43 PM
6

Nope. Women who take care of themselves, use daily sunscreen, stay thin, dont mess with their hair too much, can be very charming post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:35 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:33 PM
2

I'll say a prayer for the union. You'll do great
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:32 PM
1

Im happy for you. How did you meet your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:32 PM
1

I'm getting my ears pinned next year, 3500 under local anesthetic. You should go for it! You sound cute, are you in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:29 PM
2

How did you meet him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:30 PM
1

Do you have a plan to get that weight off? 40 lbs is a good amount, would definitely point you towards intermittent fasting. I dont really believe in women exercising anymore. Unless you're passionate about something of that nature, just skip it and modify your diet. Something like cardio kickboxing once a week plus a few serious lifestyle changes and that weight will come off. You can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:59 PM
0

I'm G77R23D your friendly neighborhood red pill tradcon poster. I enjoy record collecting and french film. Who are you? Ps you haven't answered my question. We can do this one step at a time if you want to break it down into career, charitable giving, family etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:54 AM
0

Wow that was quite a write up, I'm honestly impressed. Now, setting what you said aside for one moment, since I asked you first, what have you done? This is your chance to toot your own horn and show Trump that you didnt need corrupt friends and Daddy's money to do great things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:44 AM
1

A woman I'd date would never consider doing this, so I wouldn't know. If for some reason she did propose, I'd have a reason for not proposing to her by then, and I'd tell her that reason when saying no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:37 AM
1

What does 'blunt as fuck' look like to you in your average day to day settings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:24 AM
4

If she gave it up easily and quickly for Chad in the past, but makes this man wait much longer, that's where I can see guys getting upset. If the woman is entering a new phase of life and now wanta to marry, and holds ALL men to the same waiting standard to ensure they're serious about potential marriage down the road, I feel that's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:21 AM
1

I can appreciate a woman being honest and speaking with candor, but tactless? Why do you want that? Do you want her to behave that way when you're out in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:18 AM
1

There are two phases of a man's life. Men who want fun and men who want marriage. They dont mix. Men who want marriage truly aren't interested in the easy sex thats available. They're focused on forming a marriage, building a family, creating a future, and ensuring someone is there to help care for them when they're older. If a man is divorce raped, he often returns to the fun phase for the rest of his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:16 AM
1

Abrasive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:04 AM
1

High status men dont want to possess more status, they want to possess beauty. A womans money isn't adding more to their life, they have enough money for the both of them. They want something that only a woman can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:42 AM
0

Yes. He has 5 kids and none of them used their name to get a job in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:38 AM
41

They're ugly. Wow what a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:37 AM
2

Strange men may approach them and say hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:36 AM
-2

You're a moron. He's a billionaire, he's slept with probably a hundred women, married a supermodel and had 5 kids. He's written 20 books and was top of his class at Wharton. Oh and he became the first president without political or military experience ever. What have you done?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:29 AM
1

What's your plan to find a woman like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:24 AM
1

I hear what you're saying, but creepy how?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:36 PM
1

Why disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:51 PM
0

Let me fill you in on why I said what I said. It's 4 PM on a workday. I've been wrestling with our team from Germany to send over their financials to the buyout of our soon to be subsidiary and they want to slow roll us because of one tiny line in GDPR that says a certain line item could compromise privacy. I'm on deadline to present to the board of directors next Thursday. Our VP of infrastructure just got poached by Oracle and all of his projects are teetering. Its tough being the boss. I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:32 PM
2

I like the 'family of achievers' bullet, good way to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:22 PM
2

I'm in Florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:58 PM
0

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:58 PM
2

Yes thats also a way to go, people can always come back from bad circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:38 AM
1

So you're fat and you don't have a problem with that? Can you tell me a little more so I can understand the mental inner world of fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:53 PM
1

Right now. Although it would have been fun to experience the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:20 PM
1

Make friends, and have them introduce you to their female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:18 PM
7

I bet you a dollar you had a father in your life and he raised you right. You sound like a woman who has a pretty good sense of self worth. You get that growing up with an intact household.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:25 PM
3

Women wont date and marry men who make less than them, so yes. Ps what's your job title?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:21 PM
9

40% seems way too low. Where do you live that only 3 of every ten women you see are obese? It's like 6 out of 10 in Florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:19 PM
17

I will swear on this till the day I die, its starbucks and the consumption of refined sugars. Sugar in bread. Sugar in drinks. Sugar in everything. But seriously, its mostly Starbucks. Basic bitches have 500 calories of frappuccino every day, and that's 80% sugar 20% fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:17 PM
0

A woman that has a liberal arts or social sciences bachelors degree being "above" a tradesman like a plumber or carpenter is a total illusion. They're not smarter than a tradesman and they definitely don't make as much as a tradesman. So yes I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:59 PM
8

Saying I'm interested in a relationship when I'm only going for a notch isn't apart of my morality, so I haven't done it. If you just want to get it on, don't lie. You don't have to come straight out and say that, but if you see them getting attached and you're not moved at all, the right thing to do is eject and let them find someone who is into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:51 PM
2

Some men may do this, but I dont. The women that do frustrate me are those that destroy their beauty, fat women in their 20s. Pro tip ladies: it's the daily starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:24 PM
-12

This is like a puzzle piece asking, "What do I need this other puzzle piece for?" Men and women are incomplete without each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:39 PM
1

I agree. What happened in your marriage? What would you have done differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:39 PM
5

So you'll be spending your life with someone that doesn't like you for who you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:31 PM
5

There's your answer. When your eternal salvation isn't at stake, why not blow a dude in the woods with your husband is close by?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:14 PM
3

So quick to point a finger. You can always ask why I say what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:10 PM
2

How many of these couples attended service together for a religious institution every week?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:53 PM
1

What would that take?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:18 PM
3

The big problem I have with MRP is: If you used game to enter an LTR/Marriage, you'll need to keep using game to maintain it. Better strategy would be to choose someone who likes you for who you are, with red pill filtering of women who won't make a good long term choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:18 PM
0

You're right. Being well dressed and having a personal sense of style also goes a long way. And guys, shine your shoes and replace that black belt you wear every single day because it's disgusting to look at. Buy 3 black belts and wear them on alternating days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:14 PM
1

At all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:04 PM
4

Yes, men are dropping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:04 PM
3

Youre right. We are responsible for our own mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:33 PM
1

Tips for doing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:33 PM
1

Air travel was incredibly expensive and very bumpy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:19 AM
4

I am, is your sister available? I'll make an honest woman out of her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:16 AM
1

No, father was present until I left for college. They separated the day I left.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:06 AM
1

How's he doing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:48 PM
3

The benefits of red pill are avoiding hazards like marrying a 31 year old passed around born again mother of 2. You need to learn game to enjoy access to hotter women. If they're already good looking they'll just need less game to make it happen. There are no benefits to black pill ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:46 PM
1

I post here because I find the debates amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:44 PM
0

No one does this. You're taking that thread way too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:42 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:31 PM
2

She was miserable as a teacher for 20 years. Now she's retired and happy. Loves to travel. Took care of my sister and I the best she could.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:23 PM
1

What sales roles are you talking about? The hand cream example? Wouldn't these men be buying this cream a woman ie their wife or girlfriend? The logic on that one example just doesn't check out. I could see a little of what you're saying if she was selling time pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:22 PM
1

For all the guys shitting on this thread, one time I was in bed with a woman and when she came she said "omg marry me" So you have to just look on the bright side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:54 PM
1

I already addressed salespeople approaching men, they want a sale so that doesn't count. Can you share something else? What do women want when approaching the men you're seeing out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:31 PM
1

Ok, what are you seeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:20 PM
5

How about every show on TV and every opinion publication? What are you made to feel insecure about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:14 PM
4

Ok, why is that? Women are being told every day that they can do anything, they're marvelous and they shouldn't settle. Why did she settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:58 PM
3

In the second example, why is that woman with that man? Is it because he's projecting dark triad traits? Of course a man would criticize her for that pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:53 PM
0

Per Roosh, paraphrased: "When a man steps out of the door of his house and into the world around him, he could walk around all day and nothing will happen to him. No one will approach him (unless they're selling something) and no woman will talk to him. He must act in order for something to happen. For women, this is not the case. If a woman walks out in to the world, its very likely that a man will approach her." So there in lies the answer to your question. A man who doesn't approach and initi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:48 PM
3

Your post title is "Are men uninteresting?" but the body of your post reads like you saying "Men are totally and unequivocally uninteresting in most cases." So are you asking a question and looking for input or making a statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:45 PM
1

Can you give us an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:44 PM
1

Talk is cheap. Women love to talk, but talking doesn't deepen your understanding of the human experience the same way participating in it does. If a woman says she has art appreciation as a hobby, I ask her if she's been to any galleries lately. If she says she hasn't been to a gallery in over 3 or 4 months, that's not very compelling to me. You have to participate on a deeper level. I enjoy opera, and I've seen 5 or 6 of them, but I can't call myself a "big fan of opera" if I'm only participati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:37 PM
4

Ok so you're not a looker. Big deal. Let's set aside the fact that there's alot you can do to maximize your handsomeness that you probably haven't done yet. What are the skills god has given you and how are you using them? What actions are you taking out in the world? What are you accomplishing? If you become a man of value a woman somewhere out there will want to live that life with you, period. So get moving. Are you in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:27 PM
1

Yes. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:23 PM
1

Yes, it's real. But it's not just ignoring women, it's ignoring life. Some men are choosing not to participate in the game of life and its effects will be felt in society more and more greatly in the decades to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:43 AM
1

Accurate. A lot of things live under "nice". Ingratiation, low self esteem, ulterior motives, and your standard beta social programming indoctrination. Detaching from a desired result works here. Roosh has a mantra, "I care about getting laid, but I dont care about getting laid with this individual woman." Something to that effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:00 AM
3

I dont know anyone who do these things. You're projecting the freaky behaviors of a few men onto everyone, and that's not nice. Cut it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:10 PM
1

I feel It can hinder healthy sex and intimacy, but not pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:09 AM
1

Is your position that to be mature you must be cynical? Doesnt sound very pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 02:55 AM
1

A truly pleasant woman holds joy in her heart. She smiles outwardly not because of someone or something, that happens certainly, but when there is noone or no thing, she still smiles because she has love for herself and for the world she lives in. She sees beauty all around her, not a racist sexist society. That shrivels women up as we know. She lives her purpose and that provides great satisfaction. That's what pleasant is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:00 AM
1

It's usually happening for a reason, but the reason is not always consciously known by the cryer. Alligator tears are more difficult than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:57 AM
0

And your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:25 PM
1

Educated does not mean sophisticated. Most girls go to college but are as sophisticated as a cup of yogurt. I prefer non college educated women so I'll add my two cents. I appreciate when she's well read, enjoys classical female hobbies, has a great relationship with her parents, has faith, volunteers, likes animals, and likes to cook. Added bonus if she likes my hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:30 PM
3

It helped corporations reduce their labor cost that's for sure. It hurt families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:26 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:25 PM
17

Consider requesting a transfer to a lateral role in another department.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 04:17 AM
1

All of this exists on the conscious level. All these wants can be totally overridden in most women by a reasonably good looking guy with reasonably good to great game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:03 PM
1

Values.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:38 PM
1

How old are you and why did you choose to go your own way?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:06 PM
2

Yes this happens. Get off of apps and approach in real life in venues you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:22 AM
1

Yes. Some even go so far as to correct their partner's poor behavior by telling them to cut it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:19 PM
3

Heaven forbid a wife wants to look good for her husband and have him be proud of the work she's putting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:51 PM
7

Heroes have weaknesses, that's the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:59 AM
1

A smaller lighter man can easily take down a larger heavier man with training in BJJ or other art. Your husband uses social shame and embarrassment? I can see why you feel the way you do about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:54 AM
2

Looks are practically everything for a man when considering a woman until he's ready for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:33 AM
1

Yes I've done ok. Yes most men dont know what they're doing in the beginning, become a man of value and show yourself off in venues you like to be in. All women drinking the societal koolaid are like that. Game works well on many women. Red Pill is a philosophy of gender relations, not the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:31 AM
1

Game is amoral. You apply your own ethics to the process. If you use game to enter an LTR with the goal of marriage, you'll always have to apply that game to keep the relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:19 AM
1

She may dump you for slightly better dick when you're dropping off your son to kindergarten. Not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:09 AM
1

If he wants this relationship to lead to marriage, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:48 PM
1

Yes. If you have beauty inside your heart, we see that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:41 PM
2

No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:20 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:18 PM
2

I can see you're still a child. Besides top shelf pussy, what do you think the real values in life are?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:01 PM
4

I didnt say anything about women in my comment. I define failure to launch as being dependent on parents after about 22 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:15 AM
5

Yes, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:13 AM
1

Its like working and keeping the home are two jobs in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:40 PM
15

Yes, much of what you say is the case. Millions of men are disenfranchised and just don't launch their life because it doesn't seem worth it to them. I have a colleague who's a high performing consultant, and his son didn't launch. It's happening everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:32 PM
1

Young boys have much better things to be focusing their energy on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:50 PM
1

Yes, some of us wait because we're not as interested in sex as we used to be. When you're focused on smashing you miss small subtle yellow and red flags that are important indicators of long term compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:53 PM
1

It depends on what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:50 PM
1

I am a tradcon, thought the whole single income household thing gave it away. You feel free enjoy the decline. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:49 PM
1

You think the above statement isn't red? It very much is, it all hinges on which values you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:24 PM
3

I'm not dragging her by her hair, some women want to stay at home. Back to my original question, who hurt you? Were you in an abusive relationship that has you call this clearly neutral language abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:11 PM
4

I haven't heard that big of a projection in a while. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:40 PM
4

Yeah I dont know what loser is paying for his girlfriends college but he'll learn from his mistakes. Wives do support their husbands, to a point. A year is about the limit. If you're out of work for over a year, you better have long term disability insurance. Otherwise you didnt plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:38 PM
1

This may be good advice to some men, but not to me. My wife wont work because I know how careers drain the life out of them. And I want my significant other to be happy, joyful and full of life. And as far as education goes, I don't care. What's more important is values. If she has good values, given to her by her parents and from her own experience, and a love of God and country, that's all you need to start building a life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:33 PM
9

Go to church and ask out women there. Ask out women in low end jobs like supermarkets. Lift, read and learn some game. Improve your ability to vet women. Enjoy your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:56 AM
0

Maybe when most women were thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:13 PM
1

I didnt ask you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:11 AM
7

Would have to take the kids. Monks exist, so life wouldn't be impossible, just a little more uncomfortable than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:54 AM
2

So no marriage or kids for you hmm? What will you be up to when you're old?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:53 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:40 AM
1

Sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:39 AM
0

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:36 AM
2

Is the pussy really that important to you? Have some self respect. Who cares if it doesnt happen. She obviously doesnt like you if she's pulling away so let her go and get someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:53 PM
1

Why not get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 01:48 PM
5

Theres no problem at all until the prospect of marriage comes into play, then it's a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:55 AM
1

So what's next for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:26 AM
2

Very simple. If you're not running competent game on the average woman you'll be beaten by someone who is or an Arab sheik.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:24 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:55 PM
2

Our 'mental loads' are nothing. People used to work back breaking jobs 6 days a week. We have it five times better in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:08 AM
1

What's your son up to now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:04 AM
1

No, it's not. My colleague is a high school math teacher. Kids are so tied to their phones they wet their pants if they are away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:51 AM
1

Are you the mother or the father? Was your significant other present during the upbringing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:48 AM
2

Let's say you're not in a relationship. Yes, they're a total stranger and you dont know them. What do you define as an appropriate environment for flirtation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:43 AM
-1

I didnt ask you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:40 AM
-1

I didn't ask you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:18 PM
6

If you like someone, why not give them a small sign that you'd like them to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:29 PM
0

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:41 PM
2

You're going to have a tough lonely life thinking that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:23 AM
1

I don't debate autistic people like the author of that post and neither should you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:13 AM
15

I'm 30, and many women around me seem chronically exhausted due to 7 to 10 years of career under their belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:28 AM
6

It's lonely at the top. Many beautiful people are pretty unhappy because no one knows their inner world and accepts them for more than the beauty they have on the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:14 PM
1

One big lie of society is that being rich is a pursuit of utmost importance; its not. I'd rather be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:13 PM
5

To some women it does. Since I'm only dating for marriage, if she asks I answer honestly. If she's not interested anymore and my other qualities don't justify taking the new information in stride and continuing anyway, that's the cost of living life. I do the same thing for women so the road goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 04:11 PM
1

Vet your women better and you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:25 PM
1

Something I'm not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:05 PM
1

Are you a DJ or club promoter? If not, I've got bad news.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:50 PM
4

There have always been spinsters so it's nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:11 PM
2

Unfortunately the relationship would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:21 PM
1

Your position is wrong, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:16 PM
1

Be thin, grow your hair out, wear a dress and smile. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:06 AM
1

To me yes, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:04 AM
2

Your skill of choosing quality women with values is low. Work on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:51 PM
2

The goal of third wave feminism is the total subjugation of men and boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 08:49 PM
1

Well we're back to square one then aren't we. Find me a woman with hobbies and we'll start the debate over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:18 PM
1

Yes I was triggered. My only hobby is streaming myself playing visual novels to my 4 subscribers 6 nights a week. Joking aside I do know a full time blacksmith in Texas, she also does metalworking for art installations, its a cool hobby for sure. It pares well with the fencing and larping. If you would, tell all the women I've been seeing to get their act together and improve the use of their free tim. I'm happy that at least one man out there in the world is having a good date (with you) talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:08 PM
17

I just want to know what their end goal is. If its getting a ring, those techniques are not a good way to start a life with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:57 PM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:27 PM
1

First off, are you trying to shame us or ask a question? You can't have both. Yes, women mostly don't have hobbies. I see the same thing on dates all the time, they like the Office, travel and partying. It's mostly not their fault. Pursuing a career will drain all the energy they have to pursue classic hobbies or new ones. So OP, what are your hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 04:24 PM
1

28, One of my ex girlfriends that I still keep in touch with, now 30, looks significantly worse than when we were dating and she was 22. Women in stressful jobs and those who dont wear daily sunscreen age especially fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:21 AM
1

You're correct. Men can't have it both ways. Acting masculine attracts women of that hyper feminine nature but to be a match the values have to match. So the guys shape up and keep it in their pants for longer or they lose the chance to be with this very small group of women. It's not an impossible feat, just not typical as we've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:15 AM
2

Nah. It's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 03:02 PM
5

Fathers raising their kids would solve a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 09:36 PM
2

If you want sophisticated portrayals of women, watch foreign film.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 04:52 PM
2

I can totally control the birth through the use of a condom every time. I can have a say in what happens in the event of an accidental pregnancy by talking to them about it in advance. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 03:31 PM
1

Infeel they put in place some strategies that might be helpful to them in getting a relationship, but are detrimental to a man putting a ring on it. But hey opposite energy attracts, so I'm sure lots of wimpy feminine guys want these masculine stuck up chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 03:29 PM
1

Sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 03:15 PM
2

My desired traits are looks, femininity, gentleness, desire to be a mother, no career and no debt. Sharing hobbies is a nice to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 03:13 PM
0

You're welcome to keep living in dreamland sugartits, but men will always desire to possess that which they do not have: beauty. So its gonna define women in the eyes of men forever and ever amen. We live in the 21st century and you can do whatever you want with your life. The one thing you cant do is control other people and how they think and operate. So cut it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 11:24 PM
3

They're not lesser men, just dont take their advice on how to attract the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:38 PM
2

Many of them dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 05:49 AM
1

Can you give us an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 05:49 AM
1

Great, how's it going so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:19 PM
1

Ok, so Aaron got what he wantsd for 8 years. Why was Betty ok with giving 8 of her best years to a man that wouldn't marry her? Now she's almost 30 and dating and has to start over again. She should have broken up with Aaron at the end of year 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:06 AM
1

How old are all of these people? It's only been 4 months. If Claude lasts as long as Aaron, then we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:55 AM
1

If you're an adult at 19, why is pairing off at 19 wierd?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:44 AM
1

Stop acting like a man. The man forwards the process, not you. The man arrives at the door that says "relationship" over it and knocks. You make the choice of opening it or not. You are not the one who knocks on the door, it's like a gazelle chasing after a lion. Be so valuable to them that they want to lock you down. Also, are you attracted to weak liberal men or strong conservative men? There are fuckboys in their 30s and they still dont do girlfriends, so keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:07 PM
2

Why is pairing off at 19 wierd if they love each other and the parents support the union?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:58 PM
1

What better are you talking about? We're all equal under God's eyes so exercises like this mean nothing depending on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:55 PM
1

All of us feel validated when possessing or being possessed by someone of high value. Nothing to be ashamed of, just cant take it too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:53 PM
4

I disagree to a degree. Our grandparents were one of 13 children in town and married their next door neighbor, the union of which lasted 50 years. It's about shared values and temperament. We do not have to date lots of people long term to find the one, just need to filter better, approach more and be more approachable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:49 PM
1

There's being hurt and healing, and there's being hurt so badly that it causes trauma, which never heals without help. So what happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:38 PM
1

You're dont have to be a cynical rock to be red pill. I certainly hope you're not in your 20s because if you are your life will be full of suffering with that mindset. Have you seen the average american and what they choose to do with their life? The world expects very little of them. The world also gives very little to us, just the chance to make something of ourselves. And as far as taking more than what you give, that doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:36 PM
2

Nah, you're beliefs are wrong. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:49 AM
1

Logged hours of community service Clean criminal record Total check ins at 24Hour fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:47 AM
-2

Not gonna armchair psychiatrist this one. I'd suggest spending more time with dad, more time practicing faith, reading more, and keeping her off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:44 AM
15

No. Getting your dick wet is fun, but becoming a man of value that gives something back to the world is what's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:39 AM
1

Bumping into your true love is a trope that people definitely lean on. They think it will "just happen". While I do believe we cant force a relationship into existence, a woman must put herself out there and be open to being approached, and a man must put himself out there and approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:59 PM
3

They're welcome to act that way, but I won't date them. It's a huge liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:56 PM
3

Society tells them they shouldn't want it too early and they believe what they're told.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:55 PM
1

It's accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:52 PM
1

No, I dont think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:46 AM
1

I like the way Roosh puts it. There are 3 areas of attraction: pre minute attraction, post minute attraction, and reputation. You need solid attraction in 2 out of the 3 areas to succeed. Not lifting handicaps you in pre minute attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 10:23 PM
2

In most cases women will defer to other women when vetting a man, avoids the hard work at looking at the man's values themself. If she sees the man getting attention from other women, he must be a good catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 05:47 PM
2

To answer your main question, I'd find it curious but wouldn't deter me or think less of you. Some girls have fathers that swat every fly of a guy that tries to get close. Some men value inexperience, so dont worry too much about it. Just maximize your natural beauty and act feminine. You'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:07 AM
1

Not very long. Gotta stack the deck with a few more values to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:23 AM
1

I get called a racist for being a Trump supporter but that doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:21 AM
2

Or maybe it's Gillette ads telling men that they're rapists if they try to talk to a woman on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:20 AM
1

I'd like to think that single women in their 40s are spending their time finding a real partner to avoid the upcoming 40 to 50 years of loneliness, not trying to get laid, which, in some cases, is why they are in their particular circumstances in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:06 AM
5

My wife will be stay at home, and the exchange for doing so along with the other aspects of forming a life together is I would trade my life for hers and our children at any time. Being a mother is totally uneconomic, it's not a job in the marketplace. The value of a mother is not monetary, so I dont ascribe a value to that role with dollars and I dont compare it to other roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 12:03 AM
1

The only "mistakes to avoid" should be life altering ones. Like losing a finger or knocking up a 16 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:21 PM
1

You're a swinger, it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:32 PM
2

Yep. Just dont choose those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:15 PM
2

I don't mind an upgraded rack done by a solid surgeon, but stuff like botox and other facial enhancements make a woman look plastic, and its a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:23 PM
2

It's a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:19 PM
2

Resources just means the necessities of life. If Unga had control of a cave and a dead buffalo, those were his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:58 PM
2

Some of the major points of the book: Materialism is a major deterrent to true life success in the long term, which is rooted in finding the right life partner. Women should not follow the same timeline as men, who dont have a biological clock to deal with. Women should consider going to college and having a career after they've had a family. Women attract a man by shedding masculine characteristics, letting a man be a man and being feminine. A man that doesn't chase you wont become invested in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:09 PM
1

Girls will say they like it, but in reality it's a big turnoff for them until they're deep into a relationship with that individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:01 PM
1

It's not. It doesn't. They're not. I agree, the sexes are totally complementary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:59 PM
2

It would probably look like sparta, very militant but high functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:58 PM
1

It wouldn't bother me at all. "Do that crap" to you is support my family, chart the course of the life ship we're both on and keep it in our pants until marriage, which is tough but doable when you follow God's will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:54 PM
1

Ok so he has some opinions on things. Are you ok with them? If no, tell him that that would never be ok with whatever you object to and if he wouldn't be able to give it up, then it's not a good fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 08:48 PM
1

I'm ready to get married so I only date women I meet at church and church functions. I say hello, we chat for a while, and I ask her out. Then we date and we meet each others families around date 5 or so. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 12:32 AM
1

I'd marry a beautiful, feminine, gentle woman who works in a supermarket in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 12:29 AM
2

When I put my MAGA hat on in the middle of intercourse she usually doesn't appreciate it so I know what you mean
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