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What did you guys talk about for 20minutes if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/seduction10/01/26 03:08 AM
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Yeah, no.
/r/seduction27/11/25 05:21 AM
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So how do you start? I’ve always based myself on the context.
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:32 PM
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It’s going to depend on what you do (that he’s bored of) and think outside the box. Have you ever done foreplay with a massage? How frequently do you communicate while doing the deed? What haven’t you done?
/r/seduction14/11/25 02:14 PM
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Nope. The only thing you’re doing is that your fine with flaking and will then do it whenever she pleases.
/r/seduction23/05/25 06:58 PM
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I’d say yes, but no. Start with something to make her laugh or smile and then compliment that laugh.
/r/seduction20/04/25 04:08 AM
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There’s more. I was simply generalizing and meaning that I listen to too much to pick a favorite. In this case I pick an artist that also is in a really positive position. Singing about not caring about appearance, singing about just enjoying yourself, singing about how great you are. What’s your favorite?
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:08 AM
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Honestly couldn’t answer that question myself given that I always listen to music with over 1300 songs in my library. I hate making playlists now because of it. From rap to soul to rock to reggae to hip hop and just a wee bit of country. If we’re here in seduction context, I would bring up my favorite artist Michael Franti. I really can’t tell his genre as he makes different songs and sounds. There is hardly a single song I will skip when people are around. Some songs will be friendly if you wan…
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:35 AM
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The Boomhauer method.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:36 PM
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Unless you say something stupid, the only gossip there is will be “he asked me out.”
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:26 AM
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Keep it simple and direct. I say that because you may come on too strong with these feeling you’re showing right now. She’ll cook for you. Ask her to her favorite restaurant to know her style of cooking or flavor. Know that, worst case, this lovey friendly relationship may fall if it doesn’t go the right way.
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:25 AM
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Being curious can help; hence all my questions. You could begin with a simple “hey there” and ask about her work. What’s most often thing she sees? Like asking a nurse what’s the most common issue she sees. What’d she do before? What’s the most annoying thing in her department? What outside thing do you enjoy the most? I could talk about music forever. Ask her something you can provide an answer to. Something you can identify with. Like you both like soul and bring up an artist or a song (contin…
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:04 AM
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What do you know about her? What is her role in your workplace? Is there a break room? You haven’t seen her for 2 weeks because of how large this place is, or just your nerves of meeting her?
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:55 AM
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Almost anything in face to face customer service. Somewhere you can be asked for something. I would recommend niche retail because you get actual questions for help beyond “where is this?” You can recommend just as much as you can learn from them. Things like style mixed with those shoes, your preferred camping equipment, their preferred camping equipment, and so on. Just as much as that hobby interests you, the seduction target also will. It’s getting to the point that I hate my job even more b…
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:36 PM
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But that’s not empathy or respect. It’s more like insecurity.
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:54 PM
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If you just want a pretty number with only a “lie” of half an inch, I don’t see why not. It’s not like people go to a date with a tape measure.
/r/seduction03/01/25 04:41 AM
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I’m a 26 year virgin. Calm down and simply work towards it. Don’t let the amount of time it takes to get to the finish bother you. Everyone has their own time. Make friends, enjoy yourself with them (as friends), and learn to recognize attraction.
/r/seduction31/12/24 03:50 PM
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No.
/r/seduction27/12/24 05:06 PM
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Yes. It shows confidence and certainty and as a guy many people become uncomfortable around, I find it very attractive.
/r/seduction15/12/24 12:56 AM
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I mean, you might approach the wrong women and have the manager speaking to you. Though, if your fine with potentially getting written up… If this is a niche store, like a sporting goods or hardware store, get into it. Wether it be fishing, camping, carpentry and so on. This way, you know what you’re talking about and have plenty to talk about. This could lead to you offering to show her a trick you might’ve picked up or how to specifically do what she’s shopping for.
/r/seduction13/12/24 11:30 PM
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Just do it.
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:06 PM
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Not a single clue on how to begin. Covered in vitiligo (my resting bitch face certainly doesn’t help) so I’m used to people too scared to look at me. Even then, still no idea how to start. Can’t pop up a random question (I think) and it feels strange to suddenly greet someone. Even if the greeting is a normal thing that I’m just too afraid to do, don’t know how to continue.
/r/seduction30/06/24 11:14 PM
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Damn, you’re good.
/r/seduction09/06/24 02:48 AM
2

If you order at a restaurant and they keep getting it wrong, are you going to keep eating there?
/r/seduction06/04/24 07:19 PM
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Stop caring and move forward (not to be confused with move on). You mention getting along within a group. Use what you’ve learned of her to spend time with her. Maybe she’s into music. Are there any concerts around? Maybe she’s into movies. What’s one you believe she’d be interested in? Make opportunities to be with her and depending on her reaction will be what she thinks of you.
/r/seduction19/02/24 07:37 PM
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It is extremely specific so I’m guessing no one can replicate it without acting it. Anyways, I get panic attacks/seizures (docs still trying to get to the bottom of it) which causes me to basically get extremely forgetful. It happened after I said hi to a girl. It was obvious I forgot where I was going and was very confused. The next day, I explained myself and told her to not worry if it was her eyes or hair that did that to me. The next day, she gave me her number; just friends, but still pret…
/r/seduction31/05/22 08:32 PM
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As the kid with the skin condition, I can assure you looks matter a lot. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t win. From experience (sometimes I have a terrible personality coming off as distant and bitter, sometimes I don’t coming off as eh) I notice when people are attracted and repelled. I definitely repel when I’m being lazy or uncreative and stay quiet. There was this coworker and we were just coworkers with a hi every now and again. One time, I had an anxiety attack in front of her (random,…
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:27 AM
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Simply curious. It appears you start the contact with all these people. How did you?
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:48 AM
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It’s not that I don’t have something to talk about, it’s that I don’t know how to begin. Like I said, all I do is wait for an awkward silence, or an opportunity, and start. An example is work. With everyone doing their own thing, I don’t really know how to jump in. I mention the shyness because I think I’m bothering them by spontaneously jumping in.
/r/seduction16/02/22 06:58 PM
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If you want to throw cash for stimulation, get a prostitute. Take advantage of this by “practicing.” Try to make her laugh, be friendly, and so on. If you don’t really know what to do, be blunt with her and tell her you want advice. Or simply bang her and be done with it. Either way, you’re getting more opportunity (practice) and/or stimulation (sex) with a prostitute.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:52 AM
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With vitiligo, I’m fucked. Don’t worry, I don’t.
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:31 PM
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I was about to say bite the hook, but yeah, no. That worm is rotten.
/r/seduction23/10/21 04:51 PM
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Not give a shit. Plain and simple. If they disagree with the way you think, who cares?
/r/seduction17/09/21 09:03 PM
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If you’re into her, I’d say expect something back. Take her on this date and escalate. Expect something back. If she isn’t responding, she obviously wants a date, not you. If so ditch em.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:54 PM
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You don’t avoid them because there isn’t really many signs of a gold digger unless they’re prideful about it. The only other sign is when you already know them and they start obviously using you for money like tickets to this place or this one piece of jewelry. Don’t avoid them; get rid of them. Hold your money to your standards and if she gets angry for not sharing, ditch em. I wouldn’t recommend “shit testing” with your money. If you’re fine with it, then allow it. If not, then let her know yo…
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:06 AM
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I would take it as a “yellow flag.” Simply keep an eye on it if it continues. Was it a simple mention of her being more attractive, or was she wanting something? If it the latter, it appears to me as manipulative. As in it is a privilege that your with and you better please her for it.
/r/seduction03/06/21 06:21 AM
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I would say just go with something that fits. Not too tight, not too loose. Don’t show off, but don’t hide either. Just wear something that makes you feel good. People can notice a good body through clothes that fit. You don’t need to work harder than you have to.
/r/seduction22/05/21 02:19 PM
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It mainly depends how well you know her. There’s hardly a way to beat around the bush when it comes to sex. You can go with the quantity route and after a little of getting to know her, let her know you find her sexually attractive and want to be closer to her. You could go the quality route and get to know her more closely and, most importantly, gauge her comfort with you. Talk about something that tends to make one nervous, it doesn’t even have to be sex, though you’ll get more accuracy with i…
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:03 PM
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I would say try bringing sex not a conversation and see how she reacts. Is she pulling away, or staying quiet? Or is she perfectly comfortable?
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:24 AM
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Where does this problem originate from? Who said you’re not fun? Why do you think you’re not fun?
/r/seduction07/05/21 01:41 AM
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Watched so OP don’t have to. I’m guessing it’s one of the first scenes where actor Ryan Gosling approaches actress Emma Stone at a bar. One must be able to get information quickly and use it in an extremely smooth manner. The frame of the cold approach is to directly state your intentions; you are interested and wish to further speak together. The decking and decoration on this frame is flattery and compliments in form of a pickup lines. Bonus points if you use the previously spoken information …
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:59 AM
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Simply, it makes people nervous. When I can get a good joke off, I get suppressed giggles. It doesn’t get in the way, or at least people won't show me it gets in the way, but it sure as hell does not help. The one good thing about it, is that it has taught me to not give a shit. I still get nervous like a schoolgirl trying to talk and ask out, but I’ll still try.
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:15 PM
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As a guy who pulls jokes of his skin condition (can’t and don’t do it that often). It’s not really a good idea to suddenly pop it out. My “deformity” is obvious and it still makes people nervous when I talk about it. Granted, did you suddenly let her know? Or did you introduce it like, “I need to let you know something.”? A date is a place where you get to know each other, but she’s not really expecting that. Maybe start a conversation about your bodies like tattoos, piercings, or this one weird…
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:12 AM
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Being nice will get everyone else what they want; not what you want.
/r/seduction01/05/21 12:45 AM
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My response to the age thing would’ve been, “Could’ve fooled me.” Is that any better out of curiosity?
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:58 PM
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I’ve found I like many shapes and sizes of girls, but I focus on the face the most. That is what will initially attract me, but the most important thing to me is confidence. Speak up, don’t be afraid, look at me. I’ve met girls who have given me their number, and that’s about where it ends. Keeping up and having a talk over a coffee is just too serious for them.
/r/seduction24/04/21 11:33 PM
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The saying I’ve always heard is if there is no talk about it, nothing will change.
/r/seduction04/02/21 02:39 PM
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Can’t say I’m experienced, but what has caused me to stay away from a girl is them not being able to talk back, or start a conversation. I just assume their not into me and walk away.
/r/seduction22/01/21 03:24 AM
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You’ve got a lot of free time I’m gonna guess? What happened has happened; there is no point in thinking about it, analyzing it, contemplating it, or whatever. If You feel you did something wrong, apologize and move on; if not, then simply move on. Live life. Your life.
/r/seduction08/12/20 05:41 PM
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I would say this is more of a toxic woman. My first thought at insecure woman are this fresh out of high school (22 btw; I’m not a 30 year old chasing 18 year olds) girl who is terribly nervous. Always giggling, looking down, and terrible at talking.
/r/seduction30/11/20 04:31 AM
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I’d recommend you let him know of anything you’re doing. Maybe you’re going to get a drink at Starbucks or a sandwich at your sandwich place. Another thing is ask for location recommendations. Maybe you’re looking for a place better than just Starbucks or Subway. The point is to get him to bite the bait and see if he offers to go with you.
/r/seduction19/08/20 04:47 PM
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How often do you speak to him? I know I always have to start the conversation because no one will start with me. I ain’t too good at that. Regardless, I think I’ve noticed girls fidgeting around waiting for me to talk to them. Don’t do that. Maybe she’s just fidgeting around for no reason and has no interest in me whatsoever (seems likely because I am not too bright at this socializing thing). The point is that it annoys me to see a person want something so much and do nothing to get it. I can t…
/r/seduction19/08/20 02:56 PM
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That’s what I meant on bringing it up. Should’ve clarified. I won’t just blankly mention that I have a skin condition as it is obvious enough. I would usually make a joke like that. I’ve come up with pinto bean and Dalmatian. Never thought of zebra. Except, that’s where it stops, I make the joke and everyone looks down in discomfort.
/r/seduction17/07/20 06:44 PM
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What would be good examples?
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:43 PM
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I would say simply make an effort to get to know me and get closer; at the very least. Nothing gets me more interested than a woman so confident she can take initiative. At the very most, be direct and tell me you’re interested and would like to spend more time with me.
/r/seduction06/07/20 10:46 PM
2

At the end of the day if the “trolls” can point out what’s wrong, they’re still learning.
/r/seduction20/01/20 08:51 PM
1

You’re overthinking.
/r/seduction28/11/19 10:10 PM
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Regardless of wether you passed it or not, asking her out will be the only thing to answer your doubts. Either you stay quiet and suffer in silence or you ask and finally find out. The first thing I do when a girl rejects me is smile because I finally found out instead of just standing there torturing myself wondering “what if” or “maybe I should’ve done this.”
/r/seduction22/11/19 06:44 AM
3

If you two went to school, when she brought up the study and exam day excuse, is that typically a time when exams happen? I know various classes have similar test dates to within about a week. If so, then yeah, it was a good excuse where she was busy. So far, there has been one excuse and a whole lot of different friendly gestures. Either you stay quiet and suffer in silence, or you ask and finally find out.
/r/seduction21/11/19 07:24 PM
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Don’t worry, it’s not because I feel bad. It’s because I’m hoping to minimize any awkward quietness or thought that I’m still trying to go for her when I say hi the next day.
/r/seduction03/10/19 02:40 AM
1

What if they say no out of honesty or just extended discomfort? I don’t want to come off as presumptuous.
/r/seduction05/08/19 08:27 PM
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Hell, I have a very obvious skin condition all over me, and just pisses the hell out of me that I’ll never know if it’s getting in the way when I reflect on why I don’t have many friends or why a conversation didn’t go smoothly. Judging from the fact that I have never had anyone ask me about something so obvious and uncommon on me; sometimes, even going out their way to ignore it (by extension, me) I’d say it borders on uncomfortable for some.
/r/seduction05/08/19 05:56 AM
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