How to take rejection?

MTVJordanTaylor · 2019-10-03T02:29:04+00:00

Tbh when dealing with rejection, keep your head high it's her loss. And walk away. If you know her personally it wouldn't be a bad idea once you've better yourself to go around an area she likes to vacate and hang our over there. Once she sees you doing better she begins to get interested and starts to think 🤔 maybe I should see if he's still interested.

applexpi · 2019-10-03T03:22:51+00:00

Just don't give a fuck. Stop thinking what she'll think.

AFL-NOEL · 2019-10-03T04:30:03+00:00

I always smile and say have a good day.. check out this new daygame video in Miami Beach, there’s several girls in this video who “reject” me.. all good I’m always on to the next and my advice to anyone is after every “rejection” expect the next one to potentially hookup with you that day which of course is the complete opposite of rejection.. this gets me really excited for the possibility and it has actually happened way more times than I can count.. have fun with it all, sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/nzrtBhvBUGk

wawakaka · 2019-10-03T05:16:47+00:00

just say...alright thought i'd take a chance,,,cool anyways.

act like you got six other girls to proposition that day.

if this girl rejects you, who gives a shit cause you got more chances later and one of them is a sure deal.

abundance mentality.

rich_god · 2019-10-03T05:44:56+00:00

How would you react if you proposed chocolate to a girl and she says she’s not hungry ? You probably would t think about it more than 5 seconds, and move on with your life.

There is no rejection, your proposition has just been declined.

judahman8 · 2019-10-03T08:37:26+00:00

First of all never go on a date. Just trust me if it's possible. Your problem is that you are putting yourself in win lose positions instead of win win. For instance the classic kiss close "do you want to kiss me right now?" If she says yes you win if she says no you preserve value by saying "I didn't say you could, you just had that look in your eyes." The rejection basically never happened.

You can do the same thing with just about everything. If I want to invite a girl to do something I'll say I'm doing so and so, do you want to come too. If she says no then she isn't rejecting me she's missing out on fun that I offered to her. The next time I see her I'm going to let her know how much fun she missed out on and I can easily ask her to do something again. They always say yes the second time, that is if they don't end up inviting me out. I'm not giving away all of my leverage by showing too much interest which is what you do when you ask a girl on a date. A lot of guys literally lose girls that already liked them just by asking her on a date for no reason.

asherpayne93 · 2019-10-04T18:01:50+00:00

If you are getting rejections through cold approach, understand that the rejection often has more to do with your method. Women give a lot more leeway to guys who've been presented to them through social circle than through day-game, which is a much more cut-throat venue since you're coming from a place of having little to no social validation. While I encourage guys to try cold approach if the opportunity presents itself organically, it's also worth appreciating that you are operating from a significant disadvantage as a random guy trying to pick-up women, and that your success rate will thus be relatively low.

luckyladylucy · 2019-10-04T23:27:28+00:00

Like a person who respects other people.

Title	How to take rejection?
Author	GEEZUS_956
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	October 3, 2019 2:25 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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