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-3

Your problem is that you aren't 45 and do not want to consider that fathers are also the same horny bastards you are. Because you are likely neither 45 nor a father.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:56 AM
-9

Takes 2 to tango. Sadly, it's not hard for an attractive young woman to seduce a much older man.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:46 PM
6

That's actually an "it's", because it can be replaced with "it is" and still make sense. It is no biggie. LOL. Cheers!
/r/MensRights29/12/15 02:50 AM
4

Hope I didn't sound like a douche. Just trying to be helpful!
/r/MensRights29/12/15 12:48 AM
14

it's = contraction of "it is" so everywhere you can't substitute "it is" since it is inception hide it is true nature ...should actually be "its" Yes, the rule really is that easy. FYI
/r/MensRights28/12/15 10:56 PM
1

Would you then also agree that we should force every profession to employ 50% women and 50% men in addition to giving them the exact same pay? It's equality, right? Double standards are purely superfluous and should not be recognized in any case, no matter what, right? In that case we better supplement all women with as much testosterone as men get to rule out the possibility that it's a factor in any perceived sex differences, right?
/r/MensRights04/07/15 11:17 AM
-1

Would you then also agree that we should force every profession to employ 50% women and 50% men? Just to make it equal?
/r/MensRights04/07/15 10:41 AM
-2

So because of the very fact that 90+% of mid to late teen boys would likely not turn down offered sex from a horny older woman... That woman needs to be punished for essentially indulging them?
/r/MensRights04/07/15 03:42 AM
2

The more insecure you are about this, the more she will be into him. I can say that.
/r/seduction30/06/15 03:25 PM
1

I'm fine with free speech. I'm not fine with ad hominems, shitty grammar ("irregardless" is not a word), and people who think liberal use of the word "whore" constitutes a valid argument. If you're preaching to a male-only choir, you're just jerking off in an echo chamber, in my opinion. Women are not your enemies. Also, for the record, if you're the first to resort to ad-hominem, it means YOU'RE the insecure bitch, not me, asshole
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 11:34 PM
-1

That's not a fucking ad hominem, calling you an asshole is an ad hominem, and not everyone that disagrees with you (or doesn't understand your worldview) is a troll And there was no straw man, just an observation from a guy who has been dating for 22 years, starting when most here were just outta diapers
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 11:29 PM
1

Most men can cum from a stiff breeze and some side boob showing. Some men are probably just a little more discerning (let's call a spade a spade and suppose they have lower T than most guys) and require skill- a deft hand or mouth, a well-moving body, fitness, interest in giving, great dirty talk, etc etc. in order to be satisfied. Countless times I have heard in frustration "well exes always would have gotten off by now" and my usual retort is "Well, guess it's time to learn some actual skill t…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:34 PM
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I actually enjoyed your response, and thank you for taking the time to make it, but the fact that my mere humble opinion got downvoted into oblivion tells me that this subreddit is just an echo chamber of nuclear proportions filled with people who are not actually interested in an exchange of ideas
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 10:15 AM
-27

This entire post sounds like slut-shaming. Fine, enforce your double standards... but just don't expect your proper out-and-about near-virgin to magically know how to drain your balls past the point of mere satisfaction inside the bedroom too.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:45 AM
3

Boob size from the father's mother. It's a tangled web we weave
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 12:30 PM
-2

You guys'll never get laid with an equal this way.
/r/MensRights26/12/14 01:36 PM
-2

Rational thought only covers the mechanical side of life. Anyone who has ever been overcome with emotion knows that emotions are NOT rational. The law even recognizes this, they're called "crimes of passion." And yet I get downvotes. sigh
/r/MensRights11/12/14 08:18 AM
-3

I don't know if you can negotiate with the folks in here any more than you can over at /r/TwoX. These people have made up their minds and worldviews and individual exceptions will be filed away as just that, rare exceptions to The Stereotypes That Cannot Be Challenged.
/r/MensRights11/12/14 03:51 AM
7

You think you're freaking out? Same position, 2 of my friends are having divorces (I would have NEVER seen them coming!) and talking about how expensive it is. WTF.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 11:27 PM
14

Give her an auto-paying allowance (scheduled repeating bank transfer), under the justification that she does not know how to spend money in anything approaching a wise fashion. Problem solved, zero paperwork. Trust me, I hate paperwork too. Dude, you're MAKING the money. How is this even possible? Also, you're sleeping in the bed you made. You married it... At least she's probably hot, because that's the only type that a guy would put up with this shit for
/r/MensRights10/12/14 10:36 PM
2

Really? That's awesome. I love that movie (and that part).
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:14 AM
2

I didn't get it either for some reason, at first That symbol has been overloaded of late. ("hashtag" etc.)
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 11:35 PM
2

I get it and can see this working. Important people in business are usually curt/appear low-effort, too.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:46 PM
2

I get yours too. Smart women can vary in how much trouble they are vs. their satisfaction value. I can deal with smart if she's also kind and open minded and not insecure, but that's already asking a lot lol
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:44 PM
2

Gee, it must suck having to deal with all that interest from the opposite sex. Maybe you should hire a sexretary to help you filter out all the applications
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:21 PM
2

A smart guy who can hold his own once he runs out of statistically significant lines, typically thatsaneg
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:18 PM
1

"compensate" and "bulimia." On that note, correct grammar does pull in some smart, open minded liberal chicks
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:15 PM
2

I think he's asking for her phone #
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:11 PM
16

He's a male model. I'll allow it.
/r/seduction09/11/14 03:57 PM
5

lol are you fucking serious? a religion which at least still pays lip service to the biblical "a wife must serve her husband and is his property" is beta? What the fuck is your idea of alpha, "every man must have a harem of women he beats and buttfucks all night and who exist purely to serve his needs and drain his nutsack"?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:47 PM
3

CC means "Closed Captioned." Now let's play a little Internet Video game called "find the button"
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 03:43 PM
1

I flipped through it, but when the counter-arguments came along, I flipped through those too I think the book is fair. It's surely imperfect, but it makes some strong points. The wiki talks about those points, as well as the criticisms, and the wiki too is fair (IMHO). And yes, it does cite the same conclusion regarding agricultural society and material accumulation being concomitant with the enforcement of strict monogamy instead of... what looks to have been a much more fluid version prior to …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 07:24 PM
1

Or I was a Psych major who actually studied these things
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 04:53 PM
1

Higher love is not selfish or insecure. that entire continent is a shit hole. So you're freely ignoring an entire continent (and a large one at that). Interesting. I'll just leave it at that. ancient Chinese were monogamous lol. It pays to do your homework before you start spouting bullshit. Learn yourself up on "primitive group marriage," "consanguineous marriage," "exogamous marriage" and in particular "antithetic marriage" especially the part about "with tolerance toward a husband or wife's e…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 12:40 PM
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Dude. Everyone. Listen up. We are literally 1 of only 2 genus' on the planet, in the entire history of the world that has attempted to stay lifetime-monogamous (the birds, and only certain birds at that... and us), and that's not even for all time, only in recent history, and ONLY for originally-agriculture-based Western society influenced by Victorian-era morals. There are tribes in Africa who could give a shit about absolute fidelity, one for example raises its kids communally. And don't get m…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 10:12 PM
2

Something like 90% of people eventually get HPV. That's high enough to make it not worth worrying about and just managing. Stay healthy and eat potassium and you won't have outbreaks. If you get one, you can freeze it off yourself, ignore the warnings not to use on genitals, your penis is one hell of a healer.
/r/seduction24/09/14 07:37 PM
5

Possibly related, but Adderall reduces all drives (sleep, hunger, as well as sex).
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:13 AM
6

If I was in that situation as a man (chaperones when I am alone with a woman who is not my SO, etc.), I would feel trapped and I would feel even more like cheating... for some reason. A woman trusting that I will make good decisions that are best for the both of us, gives me good reason to remain faithful (or exercise discretion). there is no honor in going after married women I've noticed that they're pretty much easier than single women... single women have their guard up at all times... marri…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:42 PM
3

My woman humiliating me in front of friends and/or family is literally the worst button that exists on my person. The few times it's happened I've screamed in closed-door closed-window cars at those girlfriends about how fucked up it was and usually broke up with them soon after. So thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:37 PM
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There's a circular logic here. If women in fact are mostly lead by emotion and men, and men are the ones who also therefore lead the commitments (or lack thereof), then most women in relationships have merely gone along with what the guy wanted, ergo, they're less "in love" than the guy, less committed at a deep level, less bound to honor, etc... and therefore fairly pliable by other (leader) guys. It's easy to enjoy the conceit of being "the honorable sex" when you're also "the leader sex", and…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:29 PM
-1

All people are sluts in the right situation.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:14 PM
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I once met an ex-gf's previous fuck buddy not long after I started dating her and I was turned off not by the fact that he was a fuck buddy or that she had one but by the fact that he seemed like a total loser. Like, you'd let that creature get up in there? (Seriously, he was dumb and had fucked up teeth and chain smoked, and she looked like a shorter version of the actress Elisabeth Shue...) I've met other women's exes and when they're intimidating, that is hot. Social proof is a bitch Anyway, …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 12:03 PM
1

I'm really thinking that society would get a whole lot better if everyone just realized that everyone is a slut under the right circumstance
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 12:04 AM
3

Long Beach, Long Island here. I live right on the boardwalk. Good times
/r/seduction21/05/14 02:40 AM
1

OK, true enough.
/r/MensRights19/05/14 03:17 PM
0

Do you become gay by having a coerced gay experience?
/r/MensRights18/05/14 08:03 PM
-5

Honestly, I think the offense should be judged based on the harm it seems to be doing to whoever is the purported victim. If the guy/girl is laughing about it and high-fiving his/her friends, let it go. If the person becomes morose, grades suffer, counseling is required etc... Then it should be punished.
/r/MensRights18/05/14 06:11 PM
1

She also chose other guys over me throughout my childhood. Holy crap. "Why can't you be more like Chris? He is so polite." Etc. etc. Maybe this is a thing?
/r/seduction17/05/14 11:35 AM
1

I have a feeling the problem is us, although I have not identified its source yet Did you have any of the following: an overly controlling/critical mother or one who did not give unconditional love, or an early (we're talking grammar school here) experience with someone of the opposite sex that you liked or had a crush on which was extremely painful at the time? Did you obsess over individual women for a while who were largely unattainable or impractical to date, without actually confronting the…
/r/seduction16/05/14 09:57 PM
2

Thank you. Yeah, it does feel brutal sometimes, but there must be something to be said for compromise I guess. And if you've brought good little peeps into the world, then surely it's not all about your or my personal private satisfaction and all that... The work of raising the next gen has to be done by some people. Honesty is real tough and especially when it comes to men and women, is oft misinterpreted or not very well understood by the opposite sex (and sometimes by one's own sex!) Let the …
/r/seduction16/05/14 06:19 PM
2

I guess that's why I haven't made that promise to anyone yet. I've only had 2 kinds of relationships: Great sex, mediocre person; and mediocre sex, great person. (And at least once, "occasionally fantastic sex, occasionally insane person".) I am unable to compromise. I need both, if I am expected to be with a single person for the next 40-odd years. If the problem is me, I am still trying to figure it out (like, maybe I sabotage the intimacy with great people to maintain control out of some fear…
/r/seduction16/05/14 02:25 PM
2

I suspect I don't feel guilt because it was never done to me (at least with my knowledge) and I generally don't feel a lot of jealousy or insecurity anymore
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:31 PM
1

... What if I wouldn't feel guilt? Seriously, I do want a stable relationship long term but I also get bored and am diagnosed ADD. sigh
/r/seduction16/05/14 12:34 PM
1

See my response to same post.
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:18 AM
5

Speaking as a 42 year old single guy here with a lot of married friends and who a lot of husbands have confided in. There is an entire contingent of married people who hit on (and occasionally hook up with) other married people. Little risk of lack of discretion when everyone has as much to lose. And this is all kept secret in order to maintain the (possibly fictitious) belief that one person is supposed to exclusively sexually satisfy you for 50 years, while our closest genetic relatives on Ear…
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:12 AM
11

Have steak every night, one night you imagine it's spicy chicken, no biggie
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:06 AM
1

Feminists can't even all agree on what feminism is.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 03:09 AM
2

And meanwhile, this woman hasn't upset a single man, just a lot of women. She could upset the same number of women just by being hot and famous. I think she'll do OK.
/r/MensRights08/05/14 05:20 PM
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Hope.
/r/MensRights08/05/14 01:32 AM
2

That escalated quickly
/r/MensRights07/05/14 07:53 PM
6

You know what's crazy, I'm dating a chick who accepts me for who I am so thoroughly that I am getting bored and wondering if I in fact need a woman who I have to keep striving for approval for (with the assumption that that usually starts out very romantic and passionate, which mine didn't, really) I mean, the woman I was most passionate for actually strung me along (albeit sweetly) for almost a year before I got to finally hit that. And it ended up hitting all the dopamine receptors. (I may not…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 09:39 PM
2

It's fairly cool having someone to go drinking and dining and dancing with, to go scuba diving with, to watch Game of Thrones with, to hang out with other couples with. Someone who accepts you, faults and all, and brings you "illegal salt" at the hospital where you ended up for a week after a freak double pulmonary embolism. Not just to get blown by (although that is very nice too, even if she doesn't swallow... Yet!)
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 09:35 PM
1

I'm dating a woman exactly as you describe who has offered to be OK with such a prenup. She's seen me through well-off as well as not-well-off, so I kind of believe her... Now if I only wanted to bang her enough that I think I might not get bored for years and years (unlikely), I could move forward...
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 09:27 PM
1

No-one likes sweaty ball sack aroma It's been my experience that women I'm with either smell/taste good or bad or neutral down there, there is evidence that perceived "goodness" or "badness" of the bodily smell of others is actually biologically-based, and I imagine the experience is similar for women going downtown on men. May or may not be related, but the sex with women who smelled/tasted good was usually great (or perceived to be so; these things may be very subjective for a reason...) In ot…
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:31 PM
1

Fuckin' great movie (Glengarry Glen Ross)
/r/seduction18/03/14 10:20 AM
-4

U mad brah?
/r/MensRights27/02/14 03:56 AM
-6

I never said that. I said that the title insinuated the cops intentionally killed the guy, when that was not the case. Thanks for straw-manning me, though.
/r/MensRights27/02/14 12:19 AM
-6

I believe you do have the right to not provide it, but they don't have to be happy about it. They might see it as belligerence (which I'm guessing they did in this case) and react according to how they are allowed to (which would unfortunately include physical restraining techniques)
/r/MensRights26/02/14 10:22 PM
-7

Was he being belligerent?
/r/MensRights26/02/14 09:35 PM
-10

If I sneak up behind someone to scare them and go "BOO!" and they jump up and have a heart attack and die, am I at fault? If so, how much?
/r/MensRights26/02/14 06:31 PM
-16

Agreed, but this is not the same as shooting someone at point blank, which the title insinuates
/r/MensRights26/02/14 06:20 PM
-40

He died of a heart attack. Still unfortunate, but PLEASE stop with the misinformation! NOWHERE at all in that article does it say they killed him, just that "he died." EDIT: You know what? I retract the above. All of you are a bunch of immature, gullible, whiny, wounded idiots. What a fucking community. Enjoy sharing your soothing lies with each other instead of facing the truths.
/r/MensRights26/02/14 04:53 PM
2

Yeah, maybe. Maybe it depends on how she looked over. Information lost here without seeing the expression. I guess my pornographic mind saw it as the "come fuck me" expression. I'm an optimist, lol
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:21 PM
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"Middle-aged" guy here (dude, did the bar get lower or something? "middle-aged" used to be mid 40's at least!) Basically, what HappyJerk said. Also this: She's absolutely beautiful Was she taller than you? Without hesitation she quickly buys our first round of Beers This may look awesome, but in my experience it's usually a subtle neg when the woman initiates like this. It's saying that on first impression she doesn't want to owe you anything. By this time we're both a little intoxicated. I woul…
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:18 PM
1

Dude, just start Masculinist Mondays!
/r/MensRights10/01/14 03:08 AM
1

The drinking age there is also lower than 21. In the US the colleges often tacitly agree to drinking. The problem is, this leads to drinking-related problems and if they just let the local police handle it they would get thrown into prison for underage drinking. But if the college handles it first they can slap on the wrist.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 03:19 AM
1

Go back to 4chan
/r/MensRights11/12/13 04:16 PM
1

No fucking shit, eh?
/r/seduction21/11/13 01:38 AM
-3

If I was in this situation... 1) pay ex 1/3 my income (to be fair) 2) Buy Bitcoins with the rest. 3) Send Bitcoins to son 4) Nobody can take bitcoins from me or stop me from buying them. Injustice solved.
/r/MensRights04/11/13 09:50 PM
1

I know just such a guy who got divorced. His wife who used to be a very cute skiier started popping out kids and just continued to let herself go to the tune of almost 200 pounds heavier. She kept promising to fix it and finally he said he had to leave (he's still an attractive dude even at 42). Me, I have learned to appreciate some intelligence as sexy and some maturity as sexy but my parts are still more excited by the physical/movement/girly aspects of women unfortunately.
/r/seduction17/10/13 06:19 PM
1

True. Best to be open minded about it. The fundamentals of attraction seem to be a bit more sophisticated than anyone thinks. That said, people get divorces all the time because they've lost all attraction to their partners
/r/seduction17/10/13 02:39 PM
0

But what if you stop finding your wife nearly as attractive
/r/seduction17/10/13 01:00 PM
1

Well technically, although it was upsetting for you personally, she was free and clear that weekend after breaking it off with you, and there's nothing intrinsically immoral about being with 2 members of the opposite sex, heck I might be inclined to seek the same if I just left a dissatisfying relationship and was looking for sex as an emotional salve. At least she didn't cheat on you, but I know how frustrating it is when you're blindsided by a breakup and adding insult to injury is that the wo…
/r/seduction09/10/13 11:44 PM
2

Sounds hot, as an objective horny guy, but yeah I can imagine that smarting a bit. How in the hell you found about the penis thing is ridiculous (I would have called TMI long before that), but the fact is that people out "in the wild" (i.e., "outside your onesie relationship") are wiiild and woolly. ;)
/r/seduction09/10/13 07:52 PM
2

Except that I probably pulled more ass in that dorm room than most married people get
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:36 PM
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It's because it's way too easy for most women to get a "good enough" guy. I had an ex come back to get her stuff a week later... WITH HER NEW GUY. Who she had (probably) been "working on" for some time... WTF.
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:12 PM
2

Wow. That would explain a lot... of the attraction of that for me.
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:11 PM
6

Oh dude. I'm so sorry. Humans don't deal well with long away times from an intimacy source, in my humble opinion. (And in my not so humble opinion, women, especially any of the remotely attractive sort, seem a little weaker at this.) Things at the body-subconscious level can sort of take over. I would never leave any significant other for any length of time more than a month without some sort of don't-ask don't-tell i-better-not-find-out i-don't-want-to-know tacit understanding... but that's jus…
/r/seduction09/10/13 02:21 PM
6

There were a couple of Johns among the casualties, so... ;) Actually the WORST of the worst was the guy who called his wife and his best friend answered the phone (he was bangin her). THAT guy got a whole weekend off to blow off steam which is UNHEARD OF in Basic Training (although this was USAF, so it was probably a little more lenient than the others) I never understood the point of being 18 and marrying someone right before you join the military. You're about to see the whole fucking world (a…
/r/seduction09/10/13 12:27 PM
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I have to tell you, as a former enlisted man, the number of divorces and cheatings-on I witnessed between enlisted folks and their spouses or boy/girlfriends was shocking The worst were the dozens of Dear John letters in basic training
/r/seduction09/10/13 11:09 AM
1

It's funny because this part never bothered me, maybe because the sexual side of things was already so shitty by the end of most relationships that I figured good for her, at least 1 of us has easy access to better sex... For now
/r/seduction09/10/13 11:07 AM
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she broke up with me and was immediately sexually active with another guy This is practically Every. Girl. Ever. Infuriating.
/r/seduction09/10/13 11:04 AM
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I was not trying to compare them. Apparently, by listing a few examples of the differences that stereotypical heterosexual genders have to deal with, I inadvertently implied that I was creating a comparison (ok, some of the wording unfortunately suggested that too). As I replied elsewhere, sorry about that.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 04:10 AM
0

So the problem is that people thought I was taking the offensive when I was merely having a bit of fun. sigh
/r/MensRights05/09/13 03:59 AM
-2

Aware of that. Just carry on :) I should have realized that the possible applicability of http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Poe's_Law here might create a minefield... or comedy gold, depending on what your intent is I mean well, that's all I can say, even though I am tempted to poke at sore spots
/r/MensRights04/09/13 06:59 PM
-5

OK, seriously? I'm pretty sure that at this point, there needs to be a version of Poe's Law for opinionated Internet forums. I will agree with you however that I should not have tried to point out (especially here) that women might have a little more on their plate with regards to conflicting gender-specific expectations. My bad.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 05:56 PM
1

I think the gigantic mass of downvotes actually help it at this point
/r/MensRights04/09/13 05:38 PM
-5

In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is a heretic
/r/MensRights04/09/13 04:29 PM
-15

"Appeal to majority" is a logical fallacy. As many examples in my comment history clearly firmly believe in. :) Fortunately, the upvotes usually win out, although as I said, argumentum ad populum (also in the form of up/downvotes) has absolutely zero relevance as to the veracity of a comment. The truth is that as soon as you try to deconstruct a joke, it basically disappears. That's a funny thing about jokes (pun intended), but I'd rather not digress. Sarcastic jokes or "poke-y" jokes can fail i…
/r/MensRights04/09/13 03:51 PM
-4

Thanks for noticing that both men and women have "unwinnable" social evaluations on their hands that they have to deal with: Men: 1) Defend yourself and be called an abuser 2) Not defend yourself and be called a pussy Women have their own minefield: [EDIT: NOT TRYING TO COMPARE QUANTITIES HERE TO MAKE ANY KIND OF EXTRA POINT, YOU FUCKING SENSITIVE BITCHES. AT ALL. THESE ARE MERELY FUCKING EXAMPLES.] 1) Like sex? Good at sex? You're a slut 2) Don't like sex? You're a prude 3) Career woman? Selfis…
/r/MensRights04/09/13 03:34 PM
-36

Poking at gender roles on a one-sided gender role sub, about subbing, is funny. I'm sorry. You're not actually the authority on funny, but from a sheer joke-framework standpoint, that seems to meet the standard. Maybe I missed this joke the 99 other times it's been mentioned, that's possible. If so, I will happily wipe it.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 03:01 PM
-42

Wow, I was actually trying to be funny. Can someone kindly point out why being funny is bad?
/r/MensRights04/09/13 02:50 PM
-54

Double entendre? EDIT: IT WAS A JOKE
/r/MensRights04/09/13 02:40 PM
1

There's at least a couple of dudes who hate women present here, you don't think? If I was wronged by a series of women in a stroke of severe unluck, I might spend more time here myself
/r/MensRights27/08/13 10:17 PM
1

That depends on what you mean by "good" and by "feminist" :) For example, I'm a long-time fan of Camille Paglia who is a pretty notorious feminist. She was one of the first feminists to push for sex-positive feminism for example.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 12:35 PM
0

It's like the Democrats' "all republicans are closeted gay haters!" vs. the republicans' "all democrats are freeloading welfare recipients!" mentality. Yes, a small percentage of each of those groups, is. You just can't extrapolate to the entire group from a small minority.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:43 PM
-3

Feminism includes some women who have a chip on their shoulder about men. This sub includes some men who have a chip on their shoulder about women. To each their own. EDIT: Go ahead and downvote the truth you don't want to hear, like fucking sheep. I did not say it was ALL of that group, or even a representative minority. I said SOME.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 01:09 PM
1

Thank you for not doing that. Also: sorry if one of us made you feel bad.
/r/MensRights25/08/13 04:14 PM
2

Or /r/TwoXChromosomes :O
/r/MensRights23/07/13 04:52 PM
1

Depends on the state. And the country. Which is part of the problem.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 05:27 AM
0

I had an acquaintance who at 13 was seduced by his 17 year old babysitter when he was in the bathroom. He said it was the most amazing thing ever and seemed completely unscathed. And that woman, in this circumstance, would have gotten life. For giving an impressionable 13 year old boy his "most amazing thing ever" experience. It's a fucked up world we live in.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 04:52 AM
1

Supposedly-educated women didn't know about a famous child psychologist? The irony boggles :)
/r/MensRights26/06/13 07:36 PM
6

"Warren Farrell is the only man ever elected three times to the Board of the National Organization for Women in NYC." Not bad for an author of an "anti-feminist" book :O
/r/MensRights26/06/13 10:21 AM
8

That explains why my psychology ideas (I majored in it) are often downvoted like crazy in certain subreddits. I got into a RANDOM argument with someone's girlfriend at a party simply because I cited the girl-monkey and boy-monkey toy preference study. Seriously! http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/18452921/ Like, she literally became furious in an instant and had to be guided away when I simply described this study. Maybe because of the implications... If you can't take the truth, maybe you sho…
/r/MensRights26/06/13 10:11 AM
2

I would like to see evidence that a 16 year old person having their genitals touched by a 28 year old person, consensually, leads to long-term damage. Separated by sex (male 16, female 28 vs. female 16, male 28). Because I have yet to see any, and legislating around non-evidence is silly and completely speculative.
/r/MensRights21/06/13 11:20 PM
-16

I have never had any woman beg for my dick. And I'm supposedly attractive, with a nice dick. So there's that. I'm a little jealous :O
/r/MensRights21/04/13 02:25 AM
12

I don't understand. By not looking at the photos, you are possibly playing into (and reinforcing) her insecurity. If this was a shit-test to see if you would walk on her insecurity, that's a pretty shitty one long-term. Will she also make a nasty remark when you inadvertently and completely naturally check out a hot woman walking past? I am partly with my current GF because I can send her photos of hot naked women and go "Look at this hot woman!" And she will respond with "wow, yeah, she is hot"…
/r/seduction20/04/13 04:58 PM
1

Supporting insecurity is bullshit and only perpetuates it. Each sex learns from the other and is taught from the other how to treat it.
/r/MensRights20/04/13 02:35 AM
1

Do not get complacent.
/r/seduction07/02/13 01:16 PM
1

It occurs to me that women actually do a lot more "vetting" of guys than the other way around, so this makes sense at least as a labor-saving device
/r/seduction01/02/13 09:57 PM
2

Seen this in women with crippling insecurity
/r/seduction01/02/13 09:57 PM
4

Ross Jeffries attributes this quote to Voltaire: "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the queen of France" I've found it to be (largely) true, though. It's a funny thing about life and people which you realize after a while- The pretty ones don't really have to try, and therefore don't. The rest of us must push ourselves to higher value, and do, and we profit as a result. And I hate to say this, but fortunately, as a male, you are in a better situation than if you were a…
/r/seduction26/12/12 07:39 PM
1

Yes, it might be due to an alcoholic in the family, Asian alcohol flush reaction, American Indian heritage or something else. But most of the time it's due to taste issues.
/r/seduction05/11/12 03:31 PM
5

Thank you so much. Posts like yours make me NOT miss college. It just sounds here like you're whining about not being able to piss with the big dogs yet. Don't worry, your day is coming, as long as you don't get hitched right off the bat at 23. Then you will never get to experience the singular joy of becoming a confident single man with money. (On the flip side, you probably won't be hunt-and-pecking for ass all through your 20's like I was. Ideally.) /40, worked hard, well-off, life is good, w…
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:11 AM
6

At some point, consider learning to drink a little. It is classy. I didn't like the taste either... At first.
/r/seduction04/11/12 03:03 AM
2

This is some real cynical bullshit. Do not buy into this mentality. It is negative, and will lead to negative outcomes that sustain the mentality. If you believe women are bitches, then you will only meet bitchy women. If a woman won't fall in love with you because her iPhone is beckoning her with better options, she is not in fucking love with you. If you want to actually fucking fall in love, then cut out your training wheels and be ready to fall... or ride. That's right, this means tossing th…
/r/seduction31/10/12 03:49 AM
1

When I am single I have a rule- 4 rejections on a night is my limit, and then I'm out and back to my bachelor world of porn and video games. My ego can only take so much before it will start to affect my later attempts. I will say that it is still a good experience, though, if only to make you appreciate the ones who return the interest, more. :)
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:16 PM
3

holy mother of fuck. 4 years being a psych major and this is my first encounter with this term.
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:38 PM
1

I was there. On and off for ten years. I don't know what I was thinking. I think it was the fact that I thought I would never score a super hot girl, which made me get obsessed with her, and when I did get her, I did not want to let go. Also, my fragile nerdy ego was soothed greatly by having a trophy on my arm. After a while I couldn't be around her for more than a day or 2 at a time because the cognitive dissonance would become overwhelming. I came up with all kinds of excuses for why I couldn…
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:35 PM
1

What if he's just dating her because she makes a good beard?
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:33 PM
2

Someone's not an Aphex Twin fan
/r/seduction27/07/12 12:42 PM
1

Maybe they want to escape China? :O
/r/seduction27/07/12 12:39 PM
3

It's intrinsic. I like it myself, but this is like asking my friend why he hates chocolate, which I also found intriguing. There is no explanation that's going to be adequate. Preferences are mysterious in that way.
/r/seduction12/05/12 02:52 PM
1

I have the exact same problem
/r/seduction09/05/12 12:35 PM
1

I have a quote for you. "You have but one life and one brain. Since you have to think anyway, you might as well think big." -Donald Trump
/r/seduction07/05/12 02:52 AM
3

Yes. Cupid fucks with everyone.
/r/seduction20/04/12 04:02 PM
1

Little does anyone realize that the Daily Mail is trolling all of you.
/r/seduction03/04/12 09:20 PM
2

Dude just do her rough and unladylike, treat her like a sex doll and cum in her ass or down her gullet and leave, telling her that that's all she's good for now since the cheating made your heart go away
/r/seduction15/03/12 01:00 AM
2

I'd take you out just on credit of being a Redditor! (if you're close)
/r/seduction06/03/12 09:21 PM
1

Not creepy but if you get hit by a bus tomorrow then one perspective might say that Darwin strikes again, so you're a pretty far outlier.. Most people crave contact with the <sex defined by their orientation> pretty badly and therefore try to make it a priority, also the probability of hangups goes way up after 22 or so I'd say
/r/seduction05/03/12 12:56 PM
1

Do it. It's great. And the chances of you staying with the person who you have this "meaningful" experience with are unfortunately slim. It IS special, though, and you never forget the first. Note that it can permanently alter friendships, though. I've had situations where I banged a friend and then felt this (for lack of a better explanation) low-level compulsion to distance myself from that woman- permanently. Like it's written in our biology. So just be careful.
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:23 AM
3

20-22 is a late bloomer. (I was one.) 27 is spending way too much time in the basement of your parents' house playing video games. Good God, man. Get the hell out there and chat women up! And exercise a little!
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:18 AM
5

Points for making a reference to PIL. Subtract points for saying nothing about using 2 fingers in there while going down on her which pretty much every one of my exes has enjoyed. The comments on that page are SO RANDOM.
/r/seduction04/03/12 04:14 PM
1

ATTA BOY, WELCOME TO THE MAN TEAM!
/r/seduction29/02/12 02:04 AM
1

Lost it at the real bro thing. I would have trouble mentioning that with a straight face. Will have to try.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:45 PM
0

It's pretty fucked up to take your new date to an expensive sushi restaurant on your 2nd date and expect her to pay up. -30something guy with disposable income. Bitches love disposable income whether they admit it or not.
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:27 PM
10

I once got laid at a party because the female party host (who I had once made out with and was still friends with) confided to every female that not only was I a nice guy, I had a nice dick. EDIT: She was a really pretty redheaded nurse from San Diego.
/r/seduction17/02/12 02:52 PM
3

It's a good time.
/r/seduction29/12/11 01:24 PM
1

"Kino"
/r/seduction29/12/11 05:24 AM
13

Getting laid in Cancun is like getting wet in a thunderstorm
/r/seduction29/12/11 05:22 AM
3

I have a girlfriend and am (more or less, long story) happily in a relationship, and I still masturbate to porn at times, so clearly it's probably only destructive if you do it too much with too much visually intense porn. Maybe switch it up to fantasy or porn fiction or something. Masturbation on SOME regular basis is a healthy thing, though (prostate cancer etc.) By the way I'm not disagreeing with the YBOP site. The answer to "masturbating every day ruins my mojo" is not necessarily "STOP MAS…
/r/seduction21/12/11 07:07 PM
0

ah crap. i probably need that subreddit worse than anything, but I can't imagine it working WORLDWIDE. I live in NYC and I have to kick it up a notch here but what I pick to wear here wouldn't fly in, say, Boston
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:51 AM
1

MFA?
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:19 AM
0

In the world of the blind, the one-eyed man is king
/r/seduction26/11/11 12:58 AM
-1

Herb smoking prevents me from forming intelligent and coherent thoughts/sentences. Since most quality women like a smart guy, who is sharp, funny and sounds smart, then yes, smoking up will kill your game. You might be able to score a couple of trashy pothead chicks, though.
/r/seduction26/11/11 12:44 AM
1

Well, I didn't mean to stereotype, but I spent a lot of time chasing really hot tail (achieved it once or twice) before I realized I had to compromise a bit towards "awesome personality" (sorry, but almost all really hot women get so much value attributed to their looks that it spoils their personality)
/r/seduction11/11/11 04:49 AM
1

Maybe because it takes a lot more effort to read a book and I'm often recommending books to women I'm already "chatting up" so to speak, and if they make that investment then they are typically interested in my brain? Women interested in brains rock. (which is the vast majority of them, unlike men who have to learn the hard way that her brain matters)
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:11 PM
0

Well, hard atheist materialism seems to either require that the measurement of a thing is the same as the thing, or that there is some sort of mysterious (haha "god of the gaps") "emergent" property of physical things that leads to qualia and consciousness. I'm not buying it.
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:25 PM
3

The wavelength of the color says absolutely nothing about the experience of seeing green. That is the "qualia" problem in a nutshell. AKA "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (and can't be measured)
/r/seduction29/10/11 05:57 AM
4

I like this guy.
/r/seduction29/10/11 05:56 AM
3

Come to NYC sometime. There are some real HB10's here.
/r/seduction29/10/11 05:55 AM
3

TIL that I have a lot less sex in the city than some guys who lived in the country Anyway, damn. She needed someone she could depend on and you were exactly the kind of undependable superficiality that drove her off the edge. It just happened to land in your lap unfortunately. Maybe fuck around a little less and care a little more next time. I don't think it's fair to expect human beings to do without anyone actually caring for an indefinitely long period of time.
/r/seduction23/10/11 05:04 PM
1

I buy drinks all the time. I have money to burn on it though. Usually it works. I do it without expectations though. Women can detect that.
/r/seduction25/09/11 07:12 PM
1

You must be new around here. And by "here" I mean "the world"
/r/seduction25/09/11 02:00 PM
1

I have to wonder if buying a dance after you closed, tainted it a bit. I think that strippers probably have a fairly clear separation between client and boyfriend material (at least in their heads, even if we're guys all the same) and it's a tough line to walk. But I also think she just might not have liked your personality. It's OK, as a PUA you can't and shouldn't completely control who you are. Lastly, I think her ordering a bunch of food was a shit-test, and you objecting to the amount of it…
/r/seduction18/09/11 09:55 PM
2

Escorts, sir.
/r/seduction18/09/11 09:41 PM
1

I know, but she's just not gonna be cool with it. We've already discussed it superficially. Interestingly however, she's been with a woman once, when very drunk.
/r/seduction13/09/11 06:09 AM
3

OK, this clarifies, yeah sorry about the tone there, I think I just got unlucky with a couple of women along the way and there is a little chip on my shoulder. You've got a good point that guys are not scot-free when it comes to the emotional future string-pulling that occurs to women, sigh.
/r/seduction13/09/11 04:59 AM
0

but found a few pictures of me with other girls instead birthday kiss destroyed any confidence she had became super depressed started dating someone else immediately and then her alcoholism began This sounds exactly like women I've dated who never gave themselves a chance to build a sense of their own security that is independent of either their family or any particular man they're with. I can't even tolerate women like that anymore, it drives me mad (which is sad because it's A LOT of women). M…
/r/seduction13/09/11 04:17 AM
5

Great story. I have no idea how word got out in the first case, but it is disappointing that even after you already decided, a past transgression broke her heart simply because you were perhaps not as immediately smitten. Women in general seem to waste no time in deciding whether someone is a keeper. It seems to me that once they're in, they're in, which is both good and bad. I figure that a lot of evaluation on their part happens BEFORE you get to the sex, while a lot of our evaluation happens …
/r/seduction13/09/11 03:16 AM
13

Is every other guy except for me 100% clear on whether a woman is a wife, a weekly or just a wench, right from the very get-go? I'm dating a chick right now, I didn't go into it looking for any kind of relationship but it's real sweet already (admittedly, the kissing is really nice) and I'm worried because I haven't checked all the sketchy things off my bucket list yet (FMF etc.) so I'm wondering what to do there... After how many times of having sex should you decide you're out because you're n…
/r/seduction13/09/11 12:10 AM
1

I was merely advocating him being careful. You're right, everyone's capable of bad things, but it's my biased opinion as a male (and I'm entitled to it) that the things women resort to are just a little more fucked up typically. Then again, I've had kitchen knives thrown at me by a girlfriend (who was over 30, mind you) who went on the wrong formulation of Pill that turned her already-bad PMS into a psychotic episode. I knew it wasn't "her" so I was able to calm her down and we got past it altho…
/r/seduction05/08/11 01:31 PM
5

17 year olds have a tendency to go bat shit crazy after a while, they are not emotionally mature enough to fully grasp the implications of being FWB THIS. They will slowly start to fantasize about you, then you will start getting naughty texts at all hours that you will only find mildly amusing if ego-boosting, then one day they will show up at your place of work behind you at your desk having talked their way past security and want you to take them out to lunch "just because" after you couldn't…
/r/seduction05/08/11 05:18 AM
1

I only know of one math. Maybe if we brought in an alien math, it might be two maths, but darn it, it's just one math. ;)
/r/seduction05/08/11 05:16 AM
13

Fuck that it's 21. I'm sick and tired of running into women I can't bring into a fucking bar (or club for that matter). (Actually, I can barely tolerate that age to begin with at this point, personality-wise, but there is the occasional mature cool one) /39, I keep getting older, they stay the same age
/r/seduction05/08/11 05:12 AM
1

All the couples out there with ugly dudes and pretty women. The evidence seems to defy this...
/r/seduction04/08/11 01:23 PM
5

I mean, uhhhh... Duh, I already knew that... I mean basically...
/r/seduction30/07/11 06:33 PM
19

I feel like a light bulb just went off. Thanks for that simple explanation!
/r/seduction30/07/11 05:30 PM
1

Do not do your homework in the dorms. Head immediately to the library/"stacks" after class, get your shit done, THEN go to the dorms. Way too many distractions. Also don't expect to get laid as a freshman unless you are an athlete. Enjoy
/r/seduction26/07/11 01:11 PM
3

I agree that there are guys like this. How many times growing up have I stood up to a guy who challenged me and then he goes "You're cool, man." Lots!
/r/seduction26/07/11 01:09 PM
5

It's true. Once you tag your proverbial "hot girl", there's nowhere else to go but fixing the emptiness problem, and that's where girlfriends (and presumably later, marriage) comes in. While I never married, I can definitely say that very intimate, serious, girlfriend sex can be TREMENDOUSLY satisfying on every level. (Also hurts like a bitch when it's over, but you accept the good with the bad.) I'll give you a little thing to watch for as you wend your way down this dimly lit path as a hint- O…
/r/seduction27/06/11 04:31 AM
9

I have been sleeping with the hotties. I have a job that makes meeting attractive women very easy. I just find having a girlfriend more fulfilling. I wish this Zen sort of moment onto every fellow man. I've had it too and it's quite eye-opening. Despite that, I still badly want a chick with butt dimples for some reason. /brain AND ass man
/r/seduction26/06/11 09:50 PM
1

That's what cookies are for!
/r/seduction21/06/11 09:02 PM
1

OK cool :) Link no worky unfortunately. Stupid web designers who tie a product link to a special identifier just for you that they stick on the URL, invalidating it for everyone else. (I'm a web dev, and I would not do stupid shit like that)
/r/seduction21/06/11 03:07 PM
-1

While it's a good story and all (great venue and talk in line), you don't exactly look like an AFC and you obviously have a little charisma. HB10's are well within your achievement window even without PUA techniques (rejoice?). Also, you know how to dress snappy, I've only been complimented ONCE by a woman on something I wore (what shorts WERE those anyway?) I usually depend on far more fashionable girlfriends to dress me... Anyway, would have been a more interesting story if you had a speech im…
/r/seduction21/06/11 12:18 PM
1

All good points, and thanks for the backup.
/r/seduction20/06/11 08:17 PM
1

My solution was pretty solid for my particular situation (divorced dad of 3 interested in widowed mom of 3) Here's the story... Of a man named Brady... /39, I know you grew up with this show too...
/r/seduction08/06/11 05:19 AM
1

Just FYI: This is not you seducing her at all. She went after you first and the rest is just two moderately charming people interacting. She even proposed meeting first. She said "what are you doing with yourself tonight" before you initiated, so she actually initiated. She was initiating all the way, and you passed her tests for 1) couple of things in common 2) moderately charming "live" as opposed to just having a nice profile. So, TL;DR: You have a decent profile, and YOU got picked up, mr. P…
/r/seduction02/06/11 02:27 PM
1

LOL. This was 1984, I guess so lol
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:59 PM
7

I really try to give good advice. I can be cocky though. But I always mean well. Thanks ;) There was a time when I needed the advice pretty bad. I am simply paying it forward. Anyway, this isn't my main account. This is an alter ego of sorts. Or perhaps, simply a side of me and not the whole thing. ;)
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:32 PM
20

Single, decent-looking, very late-blooming, still-fairly-immature 39 year old man who easily passes for early 30's. And... You have no idea. ;) Did you think you would get worse at sex over time? If so, you're doing it wrong ;) [OFFTOPIC EDIT: If you can last until your 30's as a single guy without getting fat, get somewhere in a career and save up a nest egg, you're in for quite a dating treat. And I was a HUGE nerd in HS (that is me, the blond kid on the left, programming sprites on a C-64, su…
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:28 PM
3

if there are ways to create that kind of sexual impulse that I think she is looking for. No. No, there are not. Let's turn the question around. Can you imagine a situation where you're not attracted to a woman in the least, but she does something consciously one day that suddenly makes her extremely attractive to you? If not... There's your answer. [EDIT: I am ignoring massive weight loss and extreme makeovers for simplicity.] I think this is more about you not wanting to realize that she's not …
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:57 PM
51

Drink up and hit the gym. /lawyer omitted due to you having dodged a bullet Seriously though, I've never seen a relationship come back from this point. Cut losses. I'm sorry. There will be other women, and they will have other positives. Right now you're in a position where you can only see hers, though. This will change in time. Source: I'm 39, and you're likely... I'm guessing... 20, at best. Also, /r/seduction is a shitty place to get relationship advice like this (no offense guys, I know you…
/r/seduction24/05/11 02:53 PM
1

In this case you're going to have to hold onto logic in order to struggle against this tide that is sucking you down into a tornado vortex to a shit tank. Believe me, dude, not every urge you experience is acting in your own long-term best interest. And things involving women are some of the worst of these you will experience in life. At least mark my words if you continue anyway. I promise I will not say "I told you so."
/r/seduction16/05/11 08:20 PM
1

Another older guy here. Please try to see past this woman. I know she's occupying your mind currently, but there will be so many other women even if she were to disappear off the face of the earth. And they will all have many unique qualities that this girl doesn't have. The danger here is that the law as applied to "teen sex" in most US jurisdictions is not only very imperfect, but also very brutal (and arguably extremely unfair). You should fear it because the consequences can be lifelong. You…
/r/seduction16/05/11 04:12 PM
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