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| 1 | Man up! | Gamecardz | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 01:06 PM |
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| 1 | How do I open a girl staring at her phone?Haha, yeah I totally get what you're saying. I don't think they would even get what I meant when I'd say that in my town. But then again, it's funny for me and i dig it, so mind aswell use it sometimes just for my own amusement. :) | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 08:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I open a girl staring at her phone?Hahahah i laughed hard reading that, that shit seems gold! Where did max say it? | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | [REQUEST] Meditations alternative(s)?The daily stoic is great, and it's set up in 365 entries, hoping that the reader reads a chapter a day. So it doesn't get overwhelming and you can have it for that 5min reading at the start of every day. | /r/RedPillBooks | 01/04/17 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Paying for drinks/dinner/stuff- can someone talk about these logistics?I think of that rule a bit different. When in a club setting(night game if you wish), I never buy girl a drink, unless she's a friend. I let them take a sip of my glass, but i never buy them their own drink. But when asking a girl out, or better put, going for a walk and getting a coffee to go/ice cream I normally pay, unless she's really trying hard to pay. Bottom line is, if you can't afford 2 ice creams on the first date, you should be looking for a job not learning PU. | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 02:51 PM |
| 1 | =) ;) =P - Emoticons: Yes or No?The answer to your question, whether you should use emoticons or not, is really not so simple, and should not be taken that way either! It all breaks down to which social group is the girl you're gaming fall. I can't stress this enough, really, consider it! If you are gaming a younger girl, you should use more emoticons. Younger people have grown up, using cell phones, and chatrooms, internet slang and emoticons. Texting them without emoticons is not a bright idea. You'll seem like a stuck up gu… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Just started my transformation and shit's starting to get realAs you should be! Keep that flow goinggggg! :) | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 11:11 PM |
| 5 | What's your initial txt to a girl after you get her number and its like the day after you met?That's right, also the inside joke is a big factor! You should get one, or at least give her a silly nickname. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 09:23 PM |
| 0 | You're out with friends at a club and meet a girl and briefly speak to her, she's a little drunk, you're a little drunk, you get her phone number and then part ways. How long do you prefer to wait to text her and what do you usually say?Barney Stinson won me over with his 3 day rule. But the girl has to be attracted. She has to wonder what the heck is wrong with you and why don't you text her. If you don't build up enough attraction you'll get flaky numbers and unanswered texts. | /r/seduction | 31/05/13 08:31 AM |
| 3 | What are some good ways to kino/build attraction on a first "coffee" date? (or dinner)Get a coffee to go, and walk in a park or something, sit on a bench, anything that's a little more active. If you can't chose that and you really have to sit across her and not by her side, there's also a way. Look in her eyes ALL the time, except like when you're taking a sip. Add some palm reading if you can, or just admire her jewlery and talk about that. As you've built attraction change location, take a walk, and try to kiss her at the beginning od the walk. Another thing at the table, have… | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 08:33 AM |
| 1 | How to Maintain Attraction en Route?True, it's also the reason why horror movies work. | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 07:00 AM |
| 1 | How to Maintain Attraction en Route?I am almost every time in a car with a girl at some point. But i love my car. And i love showing off in a car. My driving is already a bit agressive, most when I'm alone. Still found out you can do anything. Hold hands, talk, play some games, shuffle through songs and have a little karaoke, basically just fool around. :) What I've tried is that "Stare and drive" from 2 fast and 2 furious. Not aa long as he did in a movie, but long enough to get her hot. She then wanted me to pull over i it all l… | /r/seduction | 30/05/13 06:14 AM |
| 1 | The 5 Kiss RoutineThis thing could work really well.. What i've noticed with this routines that help you kino, girls also think od them as a dhv. What if we would add some push with every kiss: like when you say I adore you, you add "but you're not gonna hear this from me, since I'm the adorable one" with a smirk and just go on with your script. What do you think, could this work? | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What is the general opinion of facebook?What's your age group? I've had a girl pass me their phone on few occasions, fb app opened, and saying add yourself so we can talk. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the general opinion of facebook?True, it's still one of the most common things to do. So asking for a number is one of the easiest ways to be different. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it a good idea to kiss a girl to declare yourself to her?You have provided 0 backstory whatsoever. Anyway, I'd say no. | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Australians, a threesome, and the ounce.Kudos brother! Nice to hear a story like this! I have just 1 question.. What do you mean with "dancing like crazy?" :D | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 10:00 PM |
| 3 | What is the general opinion of facebook?It depends, how much time do you waste on fb? It can be a good thing, for social proof and network as you've said. You can also game on it, or just keep in touch. You can get a lot od information on a girl from facebook also! But all things listed above vary in every age group. I have deleted facebook not so long ago, when i read an article(can't really remember the name or URL). There was this one line that blew my mind away. "Are you getting money from facebook? Are you getting laid because of… | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to kiss a girl to declare yourself to her?Do you mean a girl that you have never met before, or someone you've been trying to get with? | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Some tricks "proven by science"Well sitting opposite makes you more like an enemy, or better more like an opponent in this situation, plus kino is a lot harder. | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Hard cookie to crackActually i have succesfully got a date and later on a make-out with persistence when i was trying it out. I kept asking the receptionis if she wanted to go on a holiday with me for a few days(seaside style), been doing that for aroundtwo weeks, then just dropped; wanna grab a coffee in 2 hours. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 01:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Failure is Fun #1 My first day in the field, a whole lot of failure, a whole lot of learning.Yup. Especially since you can ran out of hot chicks in one bar. :D Also like I've said. Get in the zone. Plus, some of those 5's and 6's might surprise you. She might be the coolest freakin chick you've ever met, with 30friends that are 9's and 8's. Now why wouldn't you want to have her as a friend | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Failure is Fun #1 My first day in the field, a whole lot of failure, a whole lot of learning.I can see the way you think. But I'm not necessarily aiming for opening sets in romantic way, merely soccial. Let them be your social warm-up, just to get some ego boosted and familiar faces in the club. It'll work wonders, trust me. :) | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 09:24 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Trivia night failure/learn (first ever field report)"and she then gave in, smiled back and ended up kicking my butt with her odd finger bending skills." Hahaha this made me giggle :D You should escalate harder when you were walking to a bar. Like catch her hand and start holding her, or hand on her back when you were leaving the first bar as a guidance. The problem i see is you've stopped. You should never stop when you're halfway there. Just be bolder next time! :) | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 09:13 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Failure is Fun #1 My first day in the field, a whole lot of failure, a whole lot of learning.It's not as much as proving other people, let alone strangers on seddit, as it is proving yourself. You're doing this for you, that should be all the motivation you need. Even though i know proving someone wrong/vedetta is sometimes the biggest motivation you can get. Try to get in the zone with 4's and 5's, start your day with not so attractive girls and move on to hotter. Check her out for any interesting jewlery or something like that, but you have to e genuine interested in that, and ask her… | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Half of getting good with women (and in life) is being honest about fear and overcoming it. What are you still afraid of, but haven't done anything about? (VIDEO)Well done, I like this very very much. Spot on with the fear and courage muscle! | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Going out tonight, alone. I don't drink. I will not know anyone. Any tipps?Sorry but, what's too much? | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 11:41 PM |
| 2 | She's getting back together with he exSome people just don't want to be saved, remember that. There are tons of people ou there whos life you can make better, trying with a lost cause for too long would be selfish haha. Anyway i suggest you move on. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Can't get over one-itisTake that huge smile of yours and go for a walk in you city. Use that smile, and look at the girls. You'll probably walk like you own the world. Then, check the girls out, you'll see how many good looking chicks are in your city, how many stones unturned so to speak. Don't you wonder what they're like? And you'll see, they're checking you out too! Their heads will go numb cause of wondering who are you, why are you walking down like the biggest MoFo. Anyway, that's what I do when i have a rough … | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Men with guitars are more attractive to women: study - LifestyleDoesn't mean anything. At least i don't see anything worth of any money in this study. Ok yeah maybe as a peacocking accessory? I mean, don't start playing guitar cause you think you'll pick up chicks with it (again peacocking excluded). Pick up guitar if you like it, if you want to play it for yourself, if you are passionate about it. Start playing any instrument for that matter. Passion helps, it does, but playing an instrument just to score some more #'s is shallow. And most of the time, the … | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 10:41 PM |
| 2 | She's getting back together with he exGirls that have been victims of someone manipulative and even hit, are damaged, at least from my experiance. It takes a great deal for them to get over, they are so used of all that they fall in cycle. They have to put up with things so big through whole relationship that they don't know when to draw a line. It's hard with chicks like that, and most od the time, they will have to realize for themselves. What I'm trying to say is, you can get her for a one night fling, be her knight charming, but… | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 10:31 PM |
| 18 | Humor is a bulletproof vestKudos to you my man, that reply was awesome. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number, was too drunk to remember her nameThis thing right here.. If you're looking for smth else, i'd say get her a nickname and just use that, then what i like to do is whenever i meet up i sort of play with girls wallet/bag, you'll get name, surname and her DoB on her I.D. (That really helps me since i don't have a fb) | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Who else lives with their parents?I have never actually brought a girl home when my parents are around. Even if your parents are like that, you can always get laid anywhere else, specially now since it's summer. Every field should work, just get a blanket or smth. I still don't see how parents can or should not allow you to bring home someone you've been serious with. I can see how they don't allow you to bring home different girl every day, but a serious gf? You're 24 years old, state your boundries, be a rebel or smth. It's no… | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 04:38 PM |
| 15 | Who else lives with their parents?Erm if you are looking for a something longer like you say, and if I get that right you mean an actuall gf not just FWB, why wouldn't you let her meet your parents so you can both crash there. Or crash at her place. If you ask me, it's hard with FWB than gf, since the latter is(or at least should be) an understanding type. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Initiating a low-key summer thingSo basically if I' seeing this right she's in your social group, which os the reason you don't want to date her, but you just want to fuck her? That's confusing bro, I'd say don't shit where you eat, but she seems to want you so bad, and if you're attracted to her, give her the D. I'd just make sure you state your intentions clear, tell her you don't want any strings attached, only a summer fling. I'd tell her that asap. Afterwards use imagination. Buy a cheap wine and get a blanked, it's summer… | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 05:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Raised HB9's buying temperature, guy stole her at last minuteHave you used any kino? If I'd have to bet I'd say you were focused too much on talking, when you should really be escalating... To clear things up you were probably a good talk in her eyes but not a sexual object, otherwise she wouldn't shift so easily. Btw, what is love versus in love? | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Need help from the community..Good job, kudos to you my man! :) About emotions, they vary from age groups if you ask me. Since you're in the same as me, I can give you a hint. I use " :D " all the time, it's my fav and most used smiley face ever. Second is a version od :P / :p, and i use that when the conversation gets kinky or something like that. I just hate the conversation without them, feels like i'm texting emotionless robot. But hey, that's just me, and i bet it's different than others since i'm not keeping it slow al… | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Need help from the community..Well the way i see it, only interaction you had after clicking, is text game. Is your text game good? I actually assume it is. If you have no problem in the first inning, i don't believe you have any in text game. It might be just smth in your head, from now on assume that she is not losing interest. And yeah, what can she do when she is flying home, try to reschedule. | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Need help from the community..Which gap do you mean? :D | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Need help from the community..Country house seems gold! Just hope it's not too long of a ride from your location, since you won't normally get the whole day on the first date, well you can tell her to take a day off but people have other commitments. If you however build up enough attraction to make her go on an adventure with you, country house is gold. I also love active dates like minigolf, walking, and i'm about to try rollerblading soon as i get blades. About sit down 101, I know how you feel. but it's kind of a normal … | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I close when I get home with girls?Are you acting needy when you get home. Cause the way i see it, and have experienced is, she invites you home and your drunken brain immidiatelly tells you, hell yeah you're getting laid and you forget to escalate slowly and start acting all needy. While she thinks that this handsome and cool guy she brought home is really just like every other guy she met. I mean, she likes you man, she invited you home, she wants you. You are the prize so act like one. Guide her, make her feel good like she fe… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Need help from the community..Yeah try it out and you'll see, if it doesn't work for you then throw it out of your head. Find what suits you best. What you must not become is a passive listener, don't stay quiet all the time, if you see a chance for a good comment just do it, be active in the conversation, you wouldn't want to zone out and fantasize about her while she talks. just smile and look her in the eye and listen. You'll get tones of good material for future interactions from her story. Also, i use this mainly for da… | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Exciting dates that get the heart racingMini golf is also gold. But normally i do what i want to do. Even when I'm in the mood for coffee which is not favorited on pick up community. I just spice it all up by taking coffee to go and going for a walk in a park, and then just chill on the bench. Then whatever's next on my mind. I've recently just went on a date that started out with a coffee and ended with 2hr belt chase, cause i've decided that i need a new belt during our date. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Need help from the community..Telling a son that he is handsome is every good mothers part time job :D On other note, most of the times i failed in maintaining was because of talking too much of myself. I've learned a lot from that and now I try to keep the information about myself to minimum. Talk about her and let her talk about her passion, it feels good to get that out. Also look at her in the eyes while she is saying that, you'll see somewhat of a spark in her eyes, and a smile on her face. On normal day dates i try to … | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Simple technique that can help a tonHaha, i can relate to this big time. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I compete with others for the attention of a woman?This! If she is getting regular attention from others, she'll wonder what the fuck is wrong with you, when you give her none. Also if i'm already in, i am sometimes mean to her, like when she'd say a bad joke and all the other guys laugh, i'd just go with "that was a bad one". And don't be afraid to say it, for all that matters you're just speaking the truth. Also if youget the chance to flirt with other girls in front of her, that helps. From what i've experienced this helps cause she will, as … | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Simple technique that can help a tonWhat about when you like your look, do check yourself in the mirror everytime you get the chance but you're just not photogenic. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 04:12 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Haha, thanks man! Also, you know how it is, more people, more ideas, never hurts to ask :) You keep up the good work yourself sir! :) | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!I am ignoring the night, don't worry, I try not to think about things like this, keep the mind on the positive stuff. What about decreasing the amount of attention she gets from me? | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 09:39 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Great post my man! I totally approve, plus it's great to see an organized post in here :) I'm having a little problem right now and thought i could post it in here. A little background, joined a group(5f and 3m including me) of people in college, got a status of a leader in about a month or so, and i really think of them as my good friends already. Another girl joined us, HB8, and i've started doing my thing on her, she has showed affection, her body language was showing that as well, but then i… | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 07:49 PM |
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