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| 1 | Approached and got told to F offhttps://bristollair.com/ultimate-opener-collection/ | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F off“Hey I thought you were cute so I wanted to say hi..” = WORST OPENER EVER. GUYS NEED TO STOP USING IT. Be more creative. You need to approach within 3 seconds of you noticing her. It's an old rule but it is important on levels even the people who came up with it at first didn't even know. Here's one. She can feel you. That's right. The entire time you're standing there creeping on her planning to get your nerves up to approach at "the right time" she feels something - like that feeling of being … | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessBut what I said was true. That's literally what she did. She didn't REALLY believe people were after her when 1. She wasn't even near where everything was going down and 2. The Trump supporters were peaceful. The only violence that happened in the entire scenario was a Female Military Veteran who was shot in cold blood by an unhinged cop. So how does she go from NO DANGER to "I was going to be raped!"? Dude that's all inside her mind. It's not uncommon for women to think like this. Don't get mad… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessI actually do but some of you need some tough love. I know guys in their 50s who are still single because they have this simpy attitude of thinking they need to white knight for women. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessHey, what a novel idea. People talking about people's sex lives in a subreddit completely devoted to people improving their sex lives. Who would have thought? Next you'll be telling me how weird it is for people to be talking about mixed martial arts in an MMA group. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessYou have a fascination with obsessing about what my penis looks like too... Also another indicator of why you don't have any women in your life. Maybe you're gay and just need to accept it. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessCrickets chirping... I must have hit the nail on the head. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessyou do realize there's a correlation of you being a beta male and you not having any women in your life, right? | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessI gave you the best advice. The problem with Reddit seduction is that the worst advice gets the most attention and the most upvotes because most people here are crabs in a bucket who are terrible with women. Ignore all these popular upvoted comments which are basically going to keep you stuck where you are now, and just go read what I said. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessWhat part made you angry? The part where I talked about how online dating is for Simps, and you're one of those guys who's afraid to go out socially and meet women, and all you do is try and use online dating apps? Is that what triggered you? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessHey bro, make another Adderall joke. Sorry I offended you but the truth does hurt. Let's just call it tough love. Being Big Mad at me is not going to change your simpy behavior. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessNo problem, your critical sense is not working for you at all. Do you need a study for everything? You don't have critical thinking skills where you can notice these things on your own? Here. Not a study but maybe we'll give you an idea of where I'm coming from: https://youtu.be/C5h43t1AQ4I He does cite a couple studies in there by the way. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessAnd yet all that anger and vitriol won't help you and your inability to attract women and take away your sad and lonely life. Hey, but chalk one up for team snarky. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessYou sound like a millennial chick. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessHell, I can see evidence in these other comments, where white nights and beta males are throwing temper tantrums and their supporters are downvoting my comment and upvoting the incel who got mad that I dared speak out against his spank fodder AOC and tried to play it off with a meaningless snarky remark. The state of men these days.. is so pathetically sad. What's more sad is it's so normal to you you can't even see it. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:03 PM |
| 0 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessThe sources are all around you. You literally just need to look. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessShe's not though. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessTranslation: "I have nothing helpful or positive to add, and I'm a little jealous I can't come up with write anything inspirational or useful because of my lack of experience with women,. I'm pretty angry that I'm the type of guy described in his comment, so I'm going to try and take my opportunity, as an incel, to try and take this person down a peg with a snarky comment. Throw in that white knight thing and voila!' And yet AOC still will never have sex with you, nor will she even see your comm… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessEvery one of these men who commented on my comment, seem to be the beta male, soft pancake simps that I'm talking about which unfortunately have infested this sub and dragged it into the mud. The community died a long time ago when it got overrun by these kinds of losers.. Sad days. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:49 PM |
| 0 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessYeah dating apps are for male simps who are willing to settle for fives. If you want to get good at social interaction you have to go and start becoming a social animal. I saw someone say take a dance class, you could also take a yoga class, you could also spend more time at a coffee shop doing your homework after the gym, and noticing the people around and chatting them up, you can walk around places, real quick to grab one thing like a trader Joe's or a Whole Foods and take maybe a half hour t… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | A girl clearly wants to fuck me but I am scared. What to do?https://youtu.be/feeIOZH7wr4 THIS | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 09:57 PM |
| 0 | How would you compliment an older woman?I don't even know what that means. Is that some Nickelodeon show or something? | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How would you compliment an older woman?If you learn the gift of Gab you can say anything to a chick and have her into you. Really this was me being a smartass with this post and just imagining a conversation on the fly from having so many conversations with women I could imagine how it could go in my head. I didn't expect it to get upvotes either but I guess people see where I was going with it. You'll get there one day. Keep at it. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 2 | I think she's intimidated by meMaybe don't start out by telling girls you're overpowered. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 9 | How would you compliment an older woman?Man, for an older lady you sure are a tall drink of water. How about we get together some time for A no strings fling thing? What? No.. I didn't call you Older lady..I said bolder lady. Colder? What about shoulder lady? Shut up there's a bar right across the street.. I'll buy the first round if you get the second.. Let's go! It's freezing out here and you're going to catch your death! | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 11:56 PM |
| 22 | Having male friends is absolutely KEYThis is called Fools mate or Fools gold. You got lucky. This is not something you did or from some skill you developed. Developing a repeatable skillset is what "Game" is. From reading this story it could happen to any Average dude. Grats on getting laid, but this is hardly a teaching moment. "I am 6'2" and fit, so that might have some effect as well." Probably that is more to do with you getting laid than anything you said, or did or some amazing game you developed. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | In my late 30s and never had a gf. Am I doomed to being single for the rest of my life?But at times I don't go ahead with the conversation because I feel like the girl knows that the reason I am talking to her is because I need to get in her pants. Good. https://librachronicles.wordpress.com/2014/10/21/risk-creepy-by-60yearsofchallenge/ Oh and watch this entire thing: https://youtu.be/Wcv6OiEc-ao | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 01:29 AM |
| 3 | In my late 30s and never had a gf. Am I doomed to being single for the rest of my life?Stop it.. The "Compliment stage" when I taught was training wheels just to get a guy used to going and talking to the girl + past AA. You're past that now. Time to be creative. Movie moment. Spontaneous. Create that movie moment. Giving compliments is boring. If she's cute she knows it and has heard it from every dude on Earth that wants to bang her - since she was 14. Maybe 13. Think: 1. What's interesting about what's happening around her? 2. What do you think would be fun to say to her? 3. Wh… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 07:49 AM |
| 7 | Girl who assumes we are exclusive?She thinks you're exclusive because you haven't told her otherwise. Yes it's up to you too lead and tell her. I used to tell women I was dating when they brought it up, "I like being with you. You're a really good friend." Making sure to always remind her that we were friends not dating. Eventually it wore off and the girl after several months might pressure you "We've been together 6 months. What do you think this is now!?" But it works for a while. But at this point you kinda need to tell your… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:34 AM |
| 3 | In my late 30s and never had a gf. Am I doomed to being single for the rest of my life?Get on it. I even put the stuff in a decent order to start. Report back and ask me any questions through DM but only if you're actually studying and applying this stuff. Good luck | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 4 | In my late 30s and never had a gf. Am I doomed to being single for the rest of my life?Dude none of that stuff you mentioned has anything to do with getting a woman in your life. You don't need to go to the gym, you don't need to have an amazing job, that's all social programming. Back in the day when the seduction community was still underground, we used to talk about how stupid social programming was but nowadays it's made its way into the dating in seduction community again where a bunch of imcels are spreading that to try and sound cool when they don't know what the hell they'… | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I didn't even start learning game and going out until I was 31. And I met and knew a lot of other guys that liked to go out. If your friends lame out don't hate them for it, just chill and find some wings. That ok and if itself is a process because some wings you will vibe with and others not so much. Finally. I got probably 90% of my lays when I was out by myself. Learn to go out alone, do some daygame or whatever. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 12:55 PM |
| 0 | How many here are tall, attractive, successful, but still struggle to land the girls you want/target?It's more common than you think. When I was coaching a LOT of dudes who came to me for help were way better looking than me. Like model looking some of them. I still like to tell this story of a dude who was mid 20s, good looking, probably had a perfect body because he was a gym dude who has his diet and "supplements" dialed in, was an Airline Pilot... I mean the dude was essentially Captain America ffs. And he was a Virgin. Not after working with me lol. I mean Jesus. I'm Mr. Average dude. I ha… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?I'm not sure what any of your blathering means but I know for sure you never have sex with women and I have. As a matter of fact I'm positive that I've had more sex with hot women in a year than you will go on dates with in your entire life. I like the fact that you got pissed that I've had a lot of sex in my life and for whatever reason you being a foreveraloner you think that gives you the high groud like a homeless guy who thinks he's better off than Elon Musk. And AOC STILL won't have sex wi… | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?Keep scraping for karma and failing peasant. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:34 AM |
| -2 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?I barely post in this sub and have MULTIPLE posts that have more karma in one post than your TOTAL post karma and you post here CONSTANTLY ya fucking dweeb. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:17 AM |
| -1 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?Says the incel with a mask on his profile. Low Testosterone much? | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?Oh you're the wanna be coach that gets threatened and insecure anytime anyone puts up information that you feel might compete with your scam to make money off students who are probably better off with women than your sexually frustrated ass is. So you go into posts with the intention of trying to see what you can attempt to "take down". And after all this AOC will STILL never have sex with you for white knighting for her on the internet and you'll still remain a involuntarily celibate fraudster … | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?You're a perfect example of the 99% of men who don't get laid. I'm not surprised you got triggered. You even have a gay fucking mask on your avatar ya beta male weakling. HAHAHAHAHAHA | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?You didn't listen | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:41 PM |
| -1 | Dating Chat 2 - When Are Men Going to Throw the Hammer Down?Listen to the clip. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplayOkay, I'll bite. but just one more time. There are also psychological discussions and theories that suggest that if you're getting this emotional around me, it's because you're on the edge of Attraction versus hate and there's really no middle ground at that point. I think the old saying goes, there's a fine line between sexual arousal and being creeped out. I'm 90% certain that if you didn't know who I was ahead of time and we hung out we would have sex. 90% and maybe 75% chance on a bad day. I… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplayYou're so mad that a guy can have sex and women find him desirable and be with women who aren't frigid and uptight about giving blowjobs to the point that you're having a melt down over it. There were studies done, by the way, that show that women act like you are now around men that they are sexually aroused by, but can't figure out a way to express that sexual desire so they get all frustrated and lash out. I'm sure the prospect of my sexuality excites you and I'm sorry you don't know how to a… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplayTLDR "I'm a young girl and I want the world to know I'm sexually active and it wont be long until I have an onlyfans account and yell from the rooftops to everyone I see that I'm a Sex Worker! because I think it makes me special and I can attach my empty and meaningless identity to it. Then by the time I'm 30 my vagina will be an elephants graveyard of past guys smashing it into goop and dirty diseases and I will be alone and lonely and be forced to reinvent myself as a "Good Girl" and marry the… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplay"Poopy poop pop" is what you have written on your profile and a 3 second scan of your profile says you're 19 years old and sleep with a Bratz Blanket. Calm down, Child. You need to get back to something you have experience and knowledge about like Sponge Bob and Adventure Time. Where are your parents? Do they know you're talking to strangers on the internet about adult topics? They allow that kind of thing in kindergarten? 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 07:59 PM |
| -1 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplayI haven't met a woman who doesn't give blowjobs. Ever. I never even have to ask. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplay"If she has indicated she is ready..." Ewwww. So Cringe. Who has sex like this? | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplayFalse. Just like when girls say, "I don't like when guys do xyz," they're really saying, "I don't like when YOU do xyz." Same with intercourse. When they say, "Most women don't come from intercourse." to you it's them really saying, "You can't make me come from intercourse." They might even say, "Many guys, can't make me come from intercourse," but there's always guys who can make them come from intercourse. I have maybe been with 1 girl ever who I couldn't make come from intercourse. "Girls don… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplayThis guy again. "I just had sex for the first time and did you know foreplay is a part of sex? Let me write a novel about my discovery!!" | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:40 PM |
| 31 | I’ve been a good girl, a slut and everything in between: tips from a different perspectiveI was honestly thinking the same thing when I read it | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Thank God.. Me neither. See you tonight for Netflix and chill. You bring the wine I'll take care of the noms. Probably won't work because you set the precedence of non sexual friend dude. Even she started seeming frustrated you needed to make a move. I remember this one date I was on with this chick, same thing, she started to seem really frustrated and annoyed. All I did was grab her by the shirt or something, gently and leaned into her a little bit and said, "Come here." Oh man I went in for t… | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 01:07 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]He can't treat her like she wants to be treated because he's afraid of losing her. Ironically him playing it safe is why he's losing her. All that shit he's afraid to do or say because he might offend her is the exact shit that would keep her attracted. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Read. It's a little bit different than the circumstance you're in but the same rules apply... Q: “There’s this one woman (I’ve been chasing for X days/months/years)… how do I get her to [like / love / sleep with me]?” A: This is called “one-itis“. An AFC who doesn’t realize he’s an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) will never understand why nobody can answer this question for him or why he will never be able to get this woman with his current mindset. First, you have to realize that if you’re think… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You didn't say you were dating her. You're not, by the way, if she talks to you like that. You are fuck buddies it sounds like. I would anyway . Say, "Thank God." But get out there and go find more women. Yours is broken. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]They don't teach anymore that we're the prize that she's trying to win over. Everything she does is her trying to get me attracted to her or her trying to seduce me. Like that mindset is so key and looking at most of these comments it's also completely lost.. You're right, I went out with a girl and we went and had drinks at this sushi bar. I was sitting there, and the cool looking bartender dude kept trying to flirt with my girl and also AMOG me at the same time. I played it off, ignored it, su… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Dude I've banged girls LITERALLY texting guys she is dating or that want to date her who are telling her at the same time to buy hang out with me. Girls who say they have boyfriends. Girls who literally call me creepy right after making out with them and then continue to sex. The only way any of these effect you is if you let them. Bald?? That's funny. I was about to say the same thing about you. Talking about guys in her phone messaging her. Ignore it and pretend it didn't exist. Attitude: She'… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Most guys on Seddit. Don't take her shit! Don't let her disrespect you. Get emotional and butthurt and let it sit by not talking to her again. Me: Haha!! Let's play.. Give her shit back but never lose my cool.. Make fun of some of her attempt to shit test me, completely ignore others. It's only a matter of time before she gets naked. . . 😆 | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out.but... | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out.Baby steps. RSVP RSVP just remember the map and implement. Make it yours. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Pick Up Coaches are BastardsYou'd probably like my post history cuz I make fun of those guys. No you're right, when I was coaching, dude it's actually pretty amazing when I'm on Facebook and I see pictures of all the dudes that are now married or in relationships that I worked with. I learned the ropes the other way like you're talking about and I did realize how goddamn unfulfilling that was, so when I started coaching guys, which I don't do coaching anymore so this is not some sort of goddamn sales pitch I'm coming from … | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 03:54 PM |
| 5 | I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out.How do you know? Practice makes perfect. When you're out and about and you're with a girl and you start making out even just a little bit do little things like push her off, playfully. "That's all you get." Then after a few minutes mention something about being hungry. Then you know play around a little bit more, go on an adventure, get her the f*** out of wherever you're at if you're in a bar or a club, invite her to food. Grab an uber, vibe a little bit more, if you go get food, sit next to he… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 11 | I got approached at a bar last weekend, and after a few hours of making out and talking it just fizzled out.Never make out until you're 100% certain you can take it the rest of the way. I used to have a student with that problem, getting make outs left and right and Mr make out guy. I told him the same thing, stop f****** making out until you're in a position to take the interaction further. Even if you have to keep a little teasing going, do that, but unless you can transition into sex and she's willing and ready and able, and she wants to go there with you, don't bother to make out. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Pick Up Coaches are BastardsPerfect example of how bad the community is these days. You ever go to the gym and use weights and machines? What are you some creepy loser that can't gain muscle and get in shape on your own? All that shit you talk about was TRAINING WHEELS. You can't expect a guy with ZERO social ability and even in some instances social anxiety to walk up to a woman and be Don Juan DeMarco without a Map to get there and some tools to develop the abilities. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Pick Up Coaches are BastardsWhich is sad. Because most of these guys these days learning this stuff have ZERO frame of reference like we did when the teaching and information was still soild. So they mindlessly gobble up all the SHIT information that they are drowning in because they really don't have a choice. Someone needs to SELFLESSLY make a MODERATED community that thrives and only allows the sharing of Field Tested, Solid Information - not this upvoting by clueless noobs model that perpetuates blind leading the blind… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Pick Up Coaches are BastardsI don't coach anymore since covid and other things came along in my life that occupy my time currently... But I can tell you that in he previous 2 years before the lockdown I was batting 100% success with my students. Every one of them came to me with nothing, every one of them ended up dating women - and I mean in the sense that they wanted. Some are out playing the field and having fun, others are in long term relationships and many more of my students from my overall coaching career are now m… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexI feel like your lack of originality forced you to parrot my insult like a puppet. I also see that you frantically spammed a bunch of my comments in search of attention that I will never give you. No one is going to read all that, I certainly am not, so you wasted all that time for nothing. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Why can I get hookups but not a single relationship my entire life?I'm not going to get in a details but and I'm not trying to actually tell you it's easier said than done or anything it's not, but I've had to learn in my life that gratitude for what we have sometimes we got to be thankful cuz we're not going to always get what we want. That doesn't mean give up on your dreams that just means chill out and be a little bit more accepting of the current situation and allow things to unfold naturally | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 09:42 PM |
| 7 | Why can I get hookups but not a single relationship my entire life?You know.. I literally was just talking about this with a buddy... Gratitude. Be thankful for what you got. You know how many guys out there in the world live their lives, and would pay to be able to sleep with all sorts of different girls and not have to be in a relationship with them? Some guys, many guys even go and pay prostitutes. Many guys in single relationships with one woman that they've been in a relationship for a long time, even married. I've talked to some of these men. I have heard… | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?Lol. I saw your other comments where you're trying to figure out how the fundamentals of game are. Go to that fast seduction website I talked about in the other comment, and start reading their players guide you can get a rundown of pretty much every style and type of game out there, you'll just get snippets but those snippets are a lot, I literally back in the day read the entire thing and that's where I started and then from there I had a better idea what direction I wanted to go in. If you wa… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:51 PM |
| 3 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?Especially these days. There's no standard, and most of the advice is really bad. There needs to be a website like Masf again. That's a website where all the best of the best were posting and they even had a section for women. It was moderated and the information had to be field tested and based on real experience. Not too many guys these days are just posting about theory and nonsense, or trying to play pretend seduction master for other guys on the internet. This page ALONE http://www.fastsedu… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?David X explained it best. And some others have as well. A woman will continually test you long after you are in a relationship. They never stop. But these terms that people use, then they misunderstand them and think that they're just kind of cheeky terms and give them bad connotations. It's not. You have to still play the game. But if you learn the game correctly it doesn't have to be like this circus clown on acid shit. It becomes a natural part of who you are and you become the type of man a… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:11 PM |
| 25 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?If a guy learns pick up correctly, it is no longer gamey. Nobody learns it correctly these days. | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]"...I would say my n-count is low compared to maybe a Chad natural...""I'm older now so I don't give a damn about numbers""I've only had 4 first night fucks in my life and 2 of them have been long term girlfriends." That's from me scanning your history real fast for about 2 minutes because you fake fucks always leave a trail. That's you. Not only have you not had a lot of sex by your own admission but you still refer to guys who have a lot of sex as Chads which is something only the most Involun… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No I'm talking to the guy, I think that this is a discovery post and he just worded it weird to make it sound like this was some sort of salad game. Really, he was just discovering that if he has a certain mindset and attitude that will increase his chances of at least opening the door to attracting women. So it's a very basic post, but unfortunately the way it's written and the way guys are taking it, you're going to have a bunch of guys going around standing against the wall trying to feel and… | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 02:52 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]THAT'S better. Context. I think guys need to clarify. You need to put it into the post maybe next time, something about no guys this is not the end I'll be all of me getting laid but this is a great stepping stone and I've learned something new about XYZ. Because inadvertently, when newer guys read this post you know what it's going to tell them? They're going to go out and try and pretend and think they're confident and no women are going to approach them and they're going to wonder what the f*… | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]At least your honest. I don't think the problem is so much your post even though I called it Garbage. Rather it's that the sub is so filled with inexperienced guys they always vote information that they can identity with to the top which actually creates a space of perpetual inexperience. So when I say garbage, I am comparing it to the time when the seduction community was at its height, and was moderated. There's nothing like that now. It's sad for you guys out there trying to get better. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dude I've had more sex with hot women in 1 year then you'll go on dates with in your life. I've GOTTEN more guys laid then you'll ever have sex. Try again. Your comment screams virgin. I'm beer I've ever gotten more guys MARRIED then you've had sex so far. Game is not, "They come to you if you're cool enough." That shit doesn't work for all but the best looking dudes. I had so much sex with women, quality women, strippers, ceos, fitness instructors, yoga instructors, women in their 20s, just all… | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]He also said in another comment that 5 of the girls were ugly LOL. This is a shitpost for real. It's sad what kind of posts get upvoted in this "seduction" group. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 06:30 AM |
| -10 | [deleted by user]It's a garbage post. It's not goiong to happen to most guys unless they are really really good looking AND this guy won't have sex with any of the chicks. Just sad what people upvote in this sub. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]..... I can't even stomach these posts. Where's Formhandle to move this post to the reading impaired section to be ridiculed when you need him? Masf - RIP | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Need help with my first-ever crush...An answer to this from even the seduction community was in it's golden age instead of the shit mess it has become today: http://www.fastseduction.com/asf-faq-2/#q001 Q: “There’s this one woman (I’ve been chasing for X days/months/years)… how do I get her to [like / love / sleep with me]?” A: This is called “one-itis“. An AFC who doesn’t realize he’s an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) will never understand why nobody can answer this question for him or why he will never be able to get this woman w… | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Needs adviceOriginal advice from back in the golden age of seduction knowledge. (PS the seduction community is CURRENTLY in the Dark Ages) Q: “There’s this one woman (I’ve been chasing for X days/months/years)… how do I get her to [like / love / sleep with me]?” A: This is called “one-itis“. An AFC who doesn’t realize he’s an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump) will never understand why nobody can answer this question for him or why he will never be able to get this woman with his current mindset. First, you hav… | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Should I keep seeing a girl I don't like for the experience and to get better at sex?No. Go find better girls. Leave women better than you found them, don't string a girl along and then risk breaking her heart or pissing in the pool for the next guy. There's already enough jaded hateful feminists in the world we don't need anymore. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | She asked me for my number and never messaged me ever. What's going on?She isn't interested. NEXT | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:35 PM |
| -1 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.Man, the fact that this comment has over 500 up votes and two awards is exactly why most guys in this subreddit never have sex with women. Total example of blind leading the blind. This sub is so cringe. The above comment belongs in r/foreveralone or at the very least r/incelexit DEFINITELY not in seduction. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 4 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.Man reading this cringy advice. The game must go on! You know what you do? You immediately go sexual. IMMEDIATELY. Fuck the goddamn feelings and the heartbreaking all that sappy shit. Do like one of the best Old-school coaches suggests (Swinggcat) and IMMEDIATELY take things sexual. Don't play her game, play yours. "Why don't you come over dressed as a sexy nurse with a sexy thong on so you can bend over like you're trying to give me a shot and I can spank your ass." That's THE way to handle thi… | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I created the boobs blowjob -~As the real ultimate Master of Sex I have a lightsaber penis that if you go against me I will use to demolish your rectum. So you better watch out! Other guys have tried to go against me with their inferior knowledge of sex and I have made them pay with the penis force! You better not mess with the Real Ultimate Master of Sex Penis Force or you will fail like all the other average Masters of Sex. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Go get it!!! I'm a DM away if you need me lol. No one gets to be in pain and frustration for long on my watch | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]One More. Probably one of the only coaches left today, from the old school, who I would EVER recommend.Sex, Seduction, & Sexuality | Steve Mayeda | Full Length HD | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Answered. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qcr7jc/comment/hhizh0b/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Oh and if you haven't watch the movie Swingers. https://youtu.be/nWCct8XbQD0 Ironically (because many times women give bad advice to men about how to get women) u/radenoughyet gave you better advice than the highest rated comments in this thread (those of which I would tell you to COMPLETELY ignore) I gave you a couple pretty awesome resources to get started. Spend the 5$ on … | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 07:23 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Dude in my 30s having virtually the same build as you - same height and weight and average looks, I was pulling 20 something ass like nobodies business. And that's not even talking about women my age or older. EVEN strippers, Fitness instructors, yoga instructors etc. If you want to get in shape do it FOR YOU. But don't fucking let these assholes tell you that women won't like you unless you "Gym Hard, bro!" It's pure shit. I ain't the only guy I know like this either. Hell this is basic 101 bac… | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 8 | I created the boobs blowjob -~I created theAss Scorcher! It's where you take a bottle of ghost pepper hot sauce and stick it up her butt while you give her anal. Not only does it burn the hell out of her butthole but when you stick your dick back in it's like being in a tunnel of hot molten love. Since I'm the u/realmasterofsex (more masterful than OP. So I am the Master of Masters of Sex) I know how to do this so neither me or the girl end up in the hosital emergency room. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 3 | IN romancing you can't go from the basement to the ceiling. You need to establish a respectable FLOOR first. Then you jump off your floor to a sky high ceiling.Baby steps. Slow and stead wins the race. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Also dude DM me a mirror selfie of you dressed like you would when you go out for daygame and nightgame or just one if you dress the same for both. Thanks! I promise I won't share it. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Bullshit! There's an ass for every seat. I knew this dude called "Thundercat" - why because half his face was burned and made him kinda look like a Thundercat. That dude scored. Read this story. The Iranian from Hell <<< >>> by Maniac High (http://www.pickupguide.com) Last year, I was in a Tokyo bar with one of my GFs. And, we spotted on the dance floor, the Iranian from hell. He looked like shit, was fat, ugly as sin, wore clothes that looked like it came from the salvation army, and a worn out… | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.i just wrote LRs and FRs back then. Never kept a count. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Seriously. Answer my question. It's the posts I have seen from this group popping up in my reddit feed that PROMPTED me to write this post because of how bad some of the advice being given is. After answering my question maybe you can give me some advice on how to write completely original posts like "hmm... u/Specialist-Kick-1387 hasn't posted anything" | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Yessir. Not-So Humble brag. When I used to coach guys I usually steered them towards a healthy mindet about sex and relationships, not this "BRO YOU GOTTA GO FOR THE BIGGER BETTER CATCH AS MUCH AS YOU CAN!!!" Like that backwards scarcity mindset (meaing pretending it's an abundance mindset but really it comes from desperation) and instead become NORMAL dudes who women liked being around. Most of the dudes I coached are now married or in long term relationships. I see their pictures on FB all the… | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.elaborate. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.No - It's not "no shit" because most of the shit I read in this sub when I come here is guys all hyper spazzy about laycounts and keeping spreadsheets on getting laid which is something only the most desperate guys would ever even consider doing. It's about helping guys put it into perspective that when you see guys all super fired up about scorekeeping, or rigid thinking etc when it comes to dating that despite what they're telling you, they probably aren't having the success they want you to b… | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.STOP it. You're at less than 10 FOR SURE | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.I used to post more but I think I'm all posted out after YEARS of posting on different groups and forums. I should have saved all this shit an wrote a book or probably 2 with all the shit I wrote. Anyway once in a while I'll just have something to share and there you have it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Have you been reading the posts in this sub? At all? | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.You'd have to be there. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.No | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Elaborate. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.You want me to give you the details of when women have sex with me? I used to write LRs back in the day but that was for learning and internalizing. I don't write them so much anymore. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Yep that's EXACTLY what I was saying to that Captain Canadian of Seduction or whatever his name was. I think this post flew completely over his head. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Doesn't have to be. Make it an adventure. Do what you love to do, but in a more social way and meet girls along the way. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Experience builds upon itself. Every guy by the way who HAS slept with a lot of women has had sex with a number of warpigs. Believe that! lol | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.That's why I like listening to Steve Mayeda when I'm in the mood to listen to seduction shit (not so much anymore but back in the day I absorbed myself in picku and dating advice). He literally says being social has NOTHING to do with all that other shit. YOu don't need it. On another note whatever works for you. I know a dude who studied zero game, was average, old, goofy, and he dated chicks for SURE out of his league. He would freind up, start doing shit for them, maybe take them for some din… | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.I don't know honestly. I get a thought and I go with it. Maybe that when you guys are newer everything looks like a sportscar. Once you drive a few awesome cars you will then begin to know the difference between a Porsche and a Pinto. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 01:37 AM |
| 7 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Like the guy that when he's still alone wants to "go have sex with married women or women with boyfriends" as if he wants to punish people for having something he doesn't. Then maybe (hopefully) down the road after he meets some girls who are not married and some of that pain subsides he doesn't feel that need anymore. Good comment. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.You got this! Anything in particular you feel stuck on? I'm bored. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.What I learned in Chicago and What I was told years ago is that my game was right up there with the best coaches, and from people who have let these coaches stay with them, or having them stay a week or whatever at the same place I was you learn pretty fast - it's not what you think. They aren't out pulling broads left and right like they tell you. If you're studying and applying the best you can that's what matters. If you're not happy with your results you may need a couple of tweaks to your g… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.I really hit your sore spot. Sorry. You're see through. I hope you calm down and get laid soon so you can unplug from spending all day larping on the internet. Moving on. You're boring. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Game works. But here's the trick. Every guy is already seductive. A GOOD coach can take the guy as is, and strengthen his strengths, elimiate or lesson the guys weaknesses, and use the guys natural ability to become more attractive. Game like MM and other stuff is TRAINING WHEELS. Like Weights and Machines at the Gym. Unfortunately there aren't any good coaches anymore except for maybe Steve Mayeda and the MAJORITY of guys posting like they get a lot of ass are full off desperate creepsters no b… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.I've been at this a long time. I just mean to say he's read a lot of material and it shows. It doesn't mean anything beyond that. Lots of guys in the seduction community historically know a lot of material but can't apply it in real life. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.I did not see that post lol. It's not suprising though. This subreddit was taken over long ago by frauds and hucksters or just a lot of guys who are faking the funk, talking big shit when irl they are worse off then the guys they are trying to impress. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet."You're obsessed with me!" says the guy spamming all over my post. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.haha formulaME: grew up playing video games. Socially awkward. >>> Spent time learning to become social and self improvement. STOPPED games altogether for years - gave up something I loved. >>> Got abundance - so many women I can't even remember all the names and faces. >>> Started realzing I STILL loved videogames and started playing them again because they are fun! Why not? Even started streaming DESPITE no one watching really except a couple freinds because FUCK IT it's FUN! One day we're all… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Dreameater is WAY more spot on that you are trust that. Every post and comment you make is FILLED with desperation. Let me ask. You've slept with hundreds of women or whatever you want people to believe. You and that other clownshoes I've been talking to... You mean to tell me you haven't been able to keep 1 single solitary girl around? You haven't liked one so much that it took the edge off and you were like, "fuck it. I'm gonna chill with her for a while?" Because THAT'S fucking NORMAL. ABNORM… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.EGG ZACKT LEE! (Bruce Lee's brother) ((Shitty Dad Joke)) | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Honestly part of the reason I stepped away from coaching is I couldn't stand being associated with these fucking clowns any more. There's more to it than that but that definitely played into it. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.You're ahead of the pack then. :) | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Dude it's not just you. You're so paranoid. You need to get laid and let go of some of that beta male energy you got all pent up. This ridiculous sub has been showing up in my feed lately and some of the posts in here are just so CRINGE. The seduction community has gone straight down the toilet since the Masf days. You freaked out on my shit when you felt threatened of being exposed, probably trying to start a coaching business or something. Some other dude (alot like you) and I have been talkin… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 06:56 PM |
| -1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.... | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.You keep letting all that adrenaline overwhelm you like that and you're going to have a stroke. One more example I'll add to the post. "I need to protect my reputation!! Scorched earth damage control GOGOGOGOG!! I just had a great week with Connie and Malorie, I got a date tonight with Jennifer. What the fuck do I care what some random dude on the internet thinks? I'm gonna grab something to eat and maybe go grab a bottle of Beaujolais for when she comes over later." | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.You're like this LOL. REVVVVENNNNNGGGEE!! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 7 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.He's mad cuz I called out his bullshit and his desperation has caused him to go into full damage conrol overdrive even to the point of following me around lol. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qam79c/comment/hh4gv8e/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 06:12 PM |
| 0 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?Gotcha | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?ok | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?More desperation. Your so threatened by an anonomous guy exposing your shit on the internet that you're in total damage control mode. Dude no one cares. Very few people are going to even see this. Meditate, calm, drink some chamomile tea or something. As I said in my other comment I'm sure a lot of dudes on here do believe you. Your "secret" is safe LOL. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.Game recognizes game. Sorry. Certain things just line up across the board. You won't understand until you actually do start getting a lot of success. You have to kind of backwards engineer the "Feeling" of "oh this is what that dude was talking about." I hope you get there. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?LOL!!! You're so defensive. Dude you can be mad at me. Changes nothing. Sorry the truth hurts. You don't need to damage contol me. I'm sure a lot of cluless guys on the anonymous internet believe you. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?I dabbled on your breakdown post of 10 dates in 10 days and yes. CREEPY AND DESPERATE AF LOL!! You just can't see it. Like I said, one day if you get there EVERYTHING I'm saying will make total sense. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?So there's that desperation mindset again. You think me having a discussion on a DISCUSSION group is obsessing. No normal person who isn't paranoid would think that. I rest my case. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?Key Word: Desperation. Abundance of sex ELIMINATES desperation. COUNTING women = Desperation. That's why it's so easy for me to see you're not getting laid. Chill out and stop faking the funk and enjoy the experience. It's not a race. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?Anyway this is what I was telling someone else. You guys who want to come across to other people for whatever reason like you get laid a lot, but haven't experienced it try and put yourself in the headspace of dudes who really do get laid. The problem is that since you've never been in that space, you come across socially awkward and clumsy. You overcompensate. One of the FIRST guys I met in this community talked just like you. He claimed to have over a 100 girls or some shit. We met in person a… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?LOL!! Come on dude. Calm down. No one is that desperate. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?Guys who answered this in the affirmative are probably realistically around the less than 10 women mark. No guy who starts sleeping with a lot of women keeps track after you hit a certain point of abundance where sex becomes "normal:. There's the irony. The guys who claim to have lots of "Lays" and especially those who have a "lay count" or an exact number are VERY LIKELY not getting laid at much at all. Once you start having a lot of sex you calm down and forget about all that nonsense. key wor… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.They both are shit. Like if I Was in a cow pasture and someone asked me which pile of shit was better. I would be like, Uhhh they're both shit. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.Ohh he's paying. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.Dude stop. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.BOOM! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.Honest Signals is also a joke. I think I watched one of his videos where he was creeping desperately on these chicks who were literally just using him to wait for a cab or something, and he was trying to act like it was some teaching moment. It was pathetic to see. Once more what is even more pathetic is the amount of guys praising him. But that's why right now onlyfans sales are off the charts, China and Russia are heavily FIGHTING against Simpism, Countries like Japan have women litertally dre… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.YEP! 100%. One GIANT tell of these fraudsters is when they are keeping "lay counts" No guy who starts having a lot of sex even bothers to care at some point. I lost count at like 40 and honesly stopped caring. That desperation just sort of goes away and now it's like, "Sex is normal." NORMAL means, why the fuck would I bother to count? | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.You know there is one. HAHAHA That's all I care about. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.How many women you've slept with? I'll give you a hint. Once guys start sleeping with a decent amount of women they chill out and relax about counting and keeping score. The only people who think that guys who have a lot of sex keep a "lay count" or whatever are guys without a lot of sexual experience who are trying to fake the funk and so end up overcompensating. I lost count around 40 and had no interest keeping a friggen nerdy backlog of how many women I'd been with. No one does that. As a ma… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.Let me ask. How do you know? | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexHe has a big tell that let's me know he's just a KJ and not out applying. It's HUGE. But I don't want to share it on here because he may read my history and then start making corrections to his posts - however it may still be hard to do because he's have to fabricate a lot of stuff to pull it off. I can DM you what that Tell is but I'm not sharing it so he can learn and correct it. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.Nope. I can read your stuff and see that you have studied a lot, and you do get points for your Dislike of RSD. You know the right material and yet, there's a big tell in your posts that I can easily see that shows me you're just Jockeying, not applying. I'm not going to tell you what that is because it would naturally express itself if you were pulling even 1/4 of what you say. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Hi, y'all. I'm new and I'm hungry for knowledge.Probably the same as you. Almost none. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexOr are you talking about someone who replied to him? | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexI used to coach. Fix guys like these desperate nerd's messes with students who came to me. They all end up with women, relationships, married. It's not hard to spot these clowns. A guy with 1000 "Laycount" or whatever he says doesn't ask quetions like this: "Hello, Should I be asking girls for numbers or Instagrams, based on your experience? I recognize this could be hard to say for certain, but just in your experience." OR ""Excuse me, can I get your number?" opener success rate?Just wondering,… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexYea we used to call those dudes Keyboard Jockeys. The only action their Jock is getting is on the Keyboard. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWhat do you call a guy that keeps a Laycount? A virgin. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWell it's good to know we both agree no one, including you, knew what you were talking about. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexNow then just for fun, instead of you blathering on with gibberish that makes no sense, what specifically did I say that you disagree with and why? So far the most sense I can make out of your temper tantrum is: Men who are terrible at sex are worthy decent men and I'm angry that I can't be a sex deprived male that has no idea how to please a woman. I have a bad personality because I'm great at sex and have had a lot of amazing sex in my life with an abundance of women... Or am I a bad man for p… | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexIt didn't though. So there's that. Did you want me to teach guys to go out and approach women when the world has been practicing masking up and social distancing? I should take on more clients when they can get in trouble by breaking covid mandates? Are you even aware of current events right now? Fun Fact: People can get arrested for breaking Covid Mandates. Police will even violently assault them if they do not comply. So that's the kind of person you are? You want me to endanger people just to… | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexUhhh. Sure. That's what I'm secretly mad about. You got me!!! | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexYou know who would care about that so much that they would take the time to whine about it? An Angry virgin. What are you 12? Look at your wierd pedo-style icon. Really creepy. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a Dating/PUA coach in Kuala Lumpur MalaysiaIf I had the time and energy I might take you on, but unfortunately I don't. I wish I did, I was Amazing at what I did and the epidemic of not only desperate guys but BAD information (some of the comments even in this post are so cringe) is off the chars right now. I will give you one for free though and I promse you will get results... Look up Steve Mayeda. You don't need an in person guide. I've worked with guys remotely I have never met in person to this day and Many are Married or in Long Te… | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a Dating/PUA coach in Kuala Lumpur MalaysiaReminds me of an old joke. "What do you call a guy who only dates super-models? A virgin." | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 06:05 PM |
| -1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWell neither are you so... | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex"Harassing women". Spoken like a true soygoblin Beta male. I bet you also think that by "rescuing" this "poor damsel in distress" there's a possibility she may reward you with sex, you desperate creeper. Dude you're a loser and everything wrong with teaching guys to become attractive men. You can't even get laid to the point that you're bragging about learning forplay for the first time like you've discovered the Atom. Oh and leaving comments? I'm not supposed to have discussions on a DISCUSSION… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 04:02 PM |
| 0 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexLOL. I totally am. Anyway are you only interested in raging your sexual frustration or did you actually go look at my stance on why I said what I said about this post in the first place? | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:38 PM |
| -1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexSo I was right. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexYou missed the part where I explained that. It's literally because you, as a woman, thinks sex is normal. For MOST MEN sex is NOT NORMAL especially these days. So it really isn't that men are out there en masse having bad sex. it's that (used to be about 80% and I think these days it's probably up to 95%) of men are NOT having sex on a regular basis. A post like this is an EXAMPLE of that. These guys think this is a slice of fried gold. The OP himself is so inexperienced with women HE thinks thi… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexAlso 100% you're a mousy, shy quiet girl in real life. You are the type who are always hyper aggressive over text and internet. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 09:47 AM |
| 0 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexDude, I answered this already with someone else. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/q1bitx/comment/hfkbou8/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 And https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/q1bitx/comment/hfkcnrd/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 09:46 AM |
| 0 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexMore reference.. This plays into why you are meeting guys over and over again who don't know how to have sex. You think, "Oh guys go for me a lot. Sex is normal.. why am I meeting so many guys who are OBVIOUSLY having as much sex or more as I am and yet they are all so clueless?" http://www.fastseduction.com/why/ | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexLet's get serious. The reason I make fun of posts like this is more about the state of this Sub than anything else. It appeals to the lowest common denominator. The most useful posts that can help guys succeed get buried due to crabs in a bucket mentality and the most useless posts get jammed to the top because of "we're all in this together.. YAAAAAY!!" Dude I figured out foreplay when I was 15. MOST guys I knew who were sexually active did too. Why? Because it's NORMAL. A post like this is an … | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexYou're proving my point about the OP being clueless and sexually inept. He literally was like, "WOW! I need to post this!!" as if forplay was completely alien to him. You want to know why most women end up not being satisfied with guys? Because MOST guys are getting laid enough or even that often at all. The women end up sleeping with a bunch of sexually inexperince guys then when they meet a guy like me who can make their eyeballs roll back in their head they really appreciate it. It's not abou… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexDude I've made more women orgasm than you and the op will go put together will ever go out with. This post, to a normal, sexually active person seems like some 15 year old kid would write in a "coming of age" sub about discovering forplay for the first time. You misintrepreting what I said shows you're in the same sexless boat the OP is in. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWhy are you virgins getting so mad that this post seems ridiculous to normal people with normal sex lives? | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexI agree with your take on the OP | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:14 AM |
| -5 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexI bet the amount of Guys I worked with who are married or in relationships long term now are MORE than the amount of women you've even gone on dates with. FOR SURE more than you've had sex with. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 12:23 AM |
| -5 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexYou care so little you stalked me on the internet? That's weird. Making Fun of you. Look up the definition. It's usually from finding something funny or being entertained by someone ridiculous. There is NO anger involved. The Anger is you throwing a nerd rage temper tantrum and doing searches on the internet to find out a tiny bit of my history and then making angry assumptions about the little you know. That makes you even more ridiculous and entertaining knowing I LITERALLY controlled several … | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexHow old are you, dude? Really. I think you thought this sub was called, "Coming of Age" or "Things 15 year olds discover" | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 12:17 AM |
| -4 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexYea, that's why I'm making fun of your post. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:33 PM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]It took you 38 years to get over your virginity? | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 11:00 PM |
| -5 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sex96% Upvoted - by 100% virgins who didn't realize forplay is a normal part of sex, and that this guy who obviously just discovered it was very likely a virgin just like them until very recently. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexThe OP is obviously a until very recently virgin who just discovered forplay and got a little over excited is all. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 10:56 PM |
| -31 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexDepressing more that the OP thought this post was some amazing discovery he needed to share with people. It's like DUDE you got laid, HOORAY!!! You don't automatically become some Tantric Ascended Master just because you discovered foreplay for the first time... | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 10:55 PM |
| -4 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWritten for Virgins by a guy who sounds like he just discovered sex... Why would someone EVEN NEED to write this post or THINK that one like this was necessary? Oh I know. Because he just had his first sexual expereince like a week ago and realized it's not the same as the porn he's been watching.... | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.The terrible "we're all in this together" lowest common denominator, no one is getting women posts that are so popular in this sub. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.They're really needs to be hardcore moderation in this community. How do these posts even survive? | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 02:30 AM |
| 2 | If you are ignoring the basic responsibilities of your life and seeking external validation from women, no amount of women will make you happy."We're all in this together! None of us get laid!! Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy!!!" Seddit Jams Upvotes | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 04:15 AM |
| -2 | Don't blindly trust what you read. Think about it. Compare it to your own experiences. Remember that in today's internet world, anyone can write anything. A guy who has never been on a date, or even made eye contact with a girl, can write an ebook, website, or forum post."We're all in this together, bro. Yaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy!!" 💩💩💩💩💩💩💩 | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself.Seddit community: "We're all in this together. None up is are successful with women!" Jams the upvote good content gets ignored or buried... | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 4 | The number one thing that women are attracted to that no one talks about, and very little guys pay attention to.I can't stand these kind of posts. These posts are so cringe, this is why this seduction group is literally a joke on itself of a bunch of incels, circle jerking each other. And also, man. I don't understand why so many of you guys who don't have any success with women at all, barely ever have sex, are so fired up and obsessed with making people on the internet think that you have all the answers. I totally Miss masf where people like you would have been tossed to the wayside and made fun of. I … | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.Yeah, basically it's just overly wordy way of saying just be yourself and be genuine bro and women will like you and for 99.9% of guys who need to develop a personality that's useless advice, but it makes them feel good that they're good enough! "I'm good enough. Yaaaaaay!" No one wants to ever hear, "hey dude, you're not good enough, you need to really work on yourself and make changes and it's going to be difficult and challenging, so you better get to work." | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 03:00 PM |
| 4 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.I'm high value. But that doesn't mean life is all ice cream and puppydogs. It's about being real and sometimes life is fucking HARD. Sometimes it is brutal and unforgiving. What's high value? A guy with a lot of money and success? is that guy high value when he's on TV crying because a bunch of people on the internet fucked up his short sale? Is it high value to be a celebrity with a lot of money and fame like Bruce Springsteen and they get pulled over driving drunk? Is it some sort of perceived… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouLol. Girls reading this post: "I get red flags from reading this." Cluelsss guys reading this post: "This is Gold! I'm going to jam the upvote and comment how amazing it is!" And more numbers are added to the army of guys who are terrible with women. More casualties in the war against masculinity. Meanwhile, the clueless author, is creeping out women in other subs and getting his posts removed. Another example of how bad the seduction Community has become. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_a… | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouYou get red flags from this guy, because he's talking out of his ass and he's rehashing a lot of bad material, none of his thoughts are actually original. He just went on the internet, copied a bunch of stuff from other people, and posted it all in one post as his own advice. And, it's a marketing funnel if you notice at the bottom, he links someone in to Facebook group and then tries to sell them stuff. The problem that I and others have discovered from this group has a lot of the bad informati… | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 05:26 PM |
| 3 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouIt's just marketing gobbledygook. He's got a link at the bottom, this is AD copy he's using to try and funnel people to his Facebook group and then try and sell them something. I've had at posts removed as spam for far less spammy nonsense than this. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want YouThis is basically ad copy for a marketing funnel. Rehashed advice that has been talked about over and over and over again on the internet for about 20 years or more. Nothing original some of it just had info. Then he puts a link to his Facebook group, then uses Facebook group to sell stuff. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want Youit's definitely rehashed material, he basically went and probably copied someone else's post on the internet or maybe a few other people's posts, maybe changed the words a little bit and made his own list. Absolutely nothing new, and some of it is actually bad advice. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make A Girl Want Youtldr, basically repeat everything that everyone else has said in the seduction Community for the last 20 years, and then pretend that you came up with an all on your own. Post absolutely nothing new, and get a bunch of votes and attention. By the way, nice marketing funnel. Why this hasn't been removed as spam I have no idea. | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Memories of being clueless with women.What's the problem? | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction Communityweak. Loser. If I wanted to sell the product I would have mentioned it probably in the first or second comment not 8 comments deep where no one but you and I are reading it, you f** moron. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityThen if seduction is not important to you, go build a good life, get rich, be famous, do whatever you need to do to do that and stop worrying about seduction. But what I'm telling you, and this is not just my words, or my expertise, but the words and expertise of so many guys who have come before you and we're actually already successful with women before you were even interested in dating women.... I'll even put it into perspective for you, I started learning this when you were six years old. A… | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | My Ex-Girlfriend invited me to her house. How should I act?(How to escalate with an Ex)I'm just calling you out for another fake guy, who's fibbing to people and yourself. If you ever, and I mean this, if you ever want to start having success with women, you're going to have to start being real with yourself, and you're going to have to start being real with others. Until that point you're just a f****** loser lying to people on the internet to try and get attention. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | My Ex-Girlfriend invited me to her house. How should I act?(How to escalate with an Ex)That's all you got? You're a loser. You're a loser and you're a liar. I don't mind telling you that straight, and if you're so sensitive that you get butthurt and think that's anger on my part, that's even more evidence that you're a loser. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityYou're not successful, stop lying to people. Go back and look at your post history. You don't even know what to do when your ex girlfriend invite you over. Stop lying. Also, your sensitivity is causing you to confuse passion with anger. This is what happens in a generation of millennials who have grown away from masculinity. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | How do I text woman?With your phone. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | My Ex-Girlfriend invited me to her house. How should I act?(How to escalate with an Ex)Exactly the type of post I'd expect from you. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityYou don't know what attractive is, you're absolutely clueless, you couldn't be more clueless. Every time I come to reddit I see you sad sack of guys who are absolutely off base as to what attraction is and being attractive is. I try and explain it to you guys over and over again but you want to remain s***. You want to remain stuck and unattractive and a loser with women. You want to have your stupid, dopey excuses as to why you can't have success with women. This board, this subreddit, is calle… | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityI don't believe it I know it from experience and the experience of myself the experience of a lot of other guys, the experience of a ton of my clients... You can go on believing what you want and remain stuck and unsuccessful, and that's fine. I know what works and I'll stick to that. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityThis is terrible. I'm not saying that to be harsh, but, the idea behind having a community that teaches men dating and seduction is for them to improve their dating skillset so that they can go out and meet more women. That's the point behind what they said several times in the above. If sounds to you like, well I guess I'm just not good with women and I need to be proud of something in myself before I can deserve women. That's a terrible attitude, you're using external things as a way to put va… | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What Can We Post About?Tl;dr: it's all a numbers game, the guys who study get laid more. Yea that's the point. And I'm my maybe experience the guys who don't study are creepy disasters. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 02:47 PM |
| 0 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityLOL those near literally are the names of posts that will have 1000 votes. I miss Masf where posts like that would have been unapologetically ridiculed. | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What Can We Post About?Now you're putting words in my mouth and saying that I proved your point. Weak. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The answer to "There's this one girl I'm trying to date (or have sex with)" from some of the Founders of the modern Seduction CommunityIronically I posted this because I'm a bit lazy and next time I come across someone who's asking me, hey there's this one girl, I can just throw this thread at them. But yeah, there should be an entire page or something with a lot of these frequently asked questions answered. Also, maybe there should be a advanced section on the sub that saves all of the best posts, and not just the best updated post, because some of the updated posts are garbage too, but the best posts that are tried and true a… | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | What Can We Post About?You're playing the numbers game called, getting lucky. I don't know how many dozens of guys I've seen who play that and are absolute disasters with women. Even after 10 years 15 years I've known guys who have been playing the Just approach and grab your balls game and they're absolutely terrible and even creepy about women, and then they pick up a bunch of weird toxic behaviors to boot because of how much lack of success they have. Meanwhile, I can take a guy and start coaching him and he'll be … | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What Can We Post About?You misunderstood my original point. I'm not knocking a guy trying to grab his balls, I'm saying that when a guy posts a blanket post like that, acting like that's the end-all-be-all of game, that's where the problem is. Because it's not, not even close. Yes getting out approaching is the first step, it's the very first step so it's natural that it needs to happen, but acting like that is the cure-all fix-all, like so many of the posts I see, completely off base. It's literally the beginning lik… | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | “I’m too fat” is not an excuse to be lazyI've been chubby all my life, even working out like a f****** horse and eating the right Foods, doing my best. But also, I love beer. I'm actually thinking about going and getting beer right now. But I'll tell you what, you don't know how many times this message has flashed through my head ... "What the fuck am I doing all this working out, eating right shit for? These girls ADORE me." When I just got done having sex with a stripper, burlesque dancer, ripped fitness instructor, yoga instructor, … | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | A cold read example for you to tryThat's a recipe for failure dude. You're basically telling her, instructing her, "put up a wall and a barrier between me, and, just so you know if you let me in I'm probably going to f*** you over." I know what you're trying to do, you're trying to act like if you tell her this you'll become that one person who's not like that, but really you're actually bringing up a lot of negative thought processes in her mind while you're trying to communicate with her. No bueno. Here's the BEST way to do co… | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | You're worth more than what she offersTl;dr | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | What Can We Post About?I can't speak for this group, sometimes I'm confused by things that they delete, and other times I agree. There's been a couple of posts of mine that got deleted or whatever for reasons that I thought were ridiculous, what am I going to do? But other times I've seen the moderators remove posts from completely ridiculous sources of guys who are trying to act like to have a lot of experience, are talking complete nonsense, and if you go back and read their history what they're preaching is definit… | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | SEX AND - The Sexual Abundance HeadspaceWhat have you studied as far as escalation? Programs, coaches or authors in the topic etc? | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | SEX AND - The Sexual Abundance HeadspaceWell the tips are sort of in the article is there anything specific that you're confused about or that you have questions about? | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Signs that's she not into youWhere's my cookie, motherfuker? | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I will be having a drunken AMA over Facebook chat in about 20 minutes.As long as you bake them motherfukers!! And I don't want any weed in my cookies so please avoid that part. I'm high enough on life as it is | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | I will be having a drunken AMA over Facebook chat in about 20 minutes.Oh. Didn't know this was a rule. probably more qualified to teach people about dating and seduction than anybody who's done an AMA in this group and I mean that oh, and if you got any names that you would like to throw at me, I've probably had students who took their s*** and realized that one they took my stuff and that I'm a hundred times better. | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Public Health Service Announcement Re: CoronavirusEhhh. I'm a coach and I'm not taking any stances like that, I'm definitely not going to have someone pay me money to go risk their life or endanger themselves and others. There's plenty of inner game stuff that people can work on, and in my experience and I spent thousands and thousands of hours working on myself, there is a lot of things people can do without going out. A LOT. Sure that's not going to be much help for the guys that say, "bro, just go out and approach hundreds of women and you'l… | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Public Health Service Announcement Re: CoronavirusTl;Dr Now is a good time to work on your inner game. | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How to text girls 101. Only guide you'll needI wouldn't call this a guide, but it's generally good advice... But you're going to make a lot of people mad when they come here expecting a how to guide and instead they're just getting a general tip. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Amassed a bit of a collection of RSD materialThat's like saying I went through the neighborhood and collected a bunch of my neighbor's garbage and put it all into one garbage can. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What Happens if Being a Player and Practicing Seduction and Pickup is all you want to do??Thanks, glad you enjoyed it. | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Quick Lesson on Logistics and Escalation (In comments)Roger that. I just wanted to make sure people saw the image so they understand where I'm coming from. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Quick Lesson on Logistics and Escalation (In comments)Does anyone know how I can add text to a picture? Is there a magical way to do that? Anyway on to the lesson. This is a guy who I have been coaching for probably only a month or two at this point... He's taking a bunch of other boot camps including RSD where he spent about $5,000, worked with Tyler and Julian, didn't really learn much. He was very hesitant at first to work with me, because he got burned by other coaches. But he signed on, and we started to get to work. This guy was in the milita… | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Moral of the story YES YOU CAN! I haven't met a guy yet that can't Improve his Dating and Seduction Skillset.I'll message you. I deleted this thread, because I wanted to make some changes to it so I'll just private message you. | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 03:54 AM |
| 0 | YES YOU CAN! A Case study on why EVERY GUY can become Seductive and Start Scoring with the Ladies.Why is it always you guys with your fake accounts and almost no Karma that have the most negative or useless things to say? | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Moral of the story YES YOU CAN! I haven't met a guy yet that can't Improve his Dating and Seduction Skillset.What's the issue? | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 11:59 PM |
| 3 | This sub only for men?You'll probably find that a lot of the guys here probably can't answer questions from a woman's perspective but they'll at least try. I tended to coach/mentor both men and women, and I'm very effective at what I do, so if you put a post up, and I see it, I'll try and chime in with my thoughts. | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Sex & Dating shouldn't be your solution to emptinessYhese guys that say things like this are saying it to actually make themselves feel better rather than trying to be in a teaching moment. This coach probably isn't getting laid which is why he wants everybody else to think it's okay. | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Sex & Dating shouldn't be your solution to emptinessThe so-called coaches that say things like this are the coaches that aren't actually getting laid. from experience, hell yes. Getting laid a lot with a lot of beautiful different women, can be a hell of a thing in your life that will bring some happiness, and feelings of peace, even in difficult times. This guy isn't using this as a teaching moment, he's using it as a nonsense article to reassure himself as to why it's okay that he himself actually doesn't have any success with women. By the way… | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveCuz those the guys that will keep you spinning your wheels and keeping you stuck. If you want to get women in your life, people have to make instrumental change to their overall skillset and attractiveness. That takes work, that takes change, that takes self-improvement and effort. If we could all "just be yourself" around women and everybody was in abundance, the Seduction, pu, or dating communites wouldn't exist. | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | SEX AND - The Sexual Abundance HeadspaceYou're at the red part of a pyramid | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | What is the one thing holding you back in your dating life?You're probably not spreading them from toad to toad. I'm sure you're safe. | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | What is the one thing holding you back in your dating life?What would be different if you had money? How is money going to help you attract women? Also are you saying that money is related to your confidence? Is it possible for you to be confident without money? What if I were to tell you that I have dad broke at times of my life and still was able to score beautiful women and have sex with them? | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | What is the one thing holding you back in your dating life?Probably stop jerking off with toads. | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 05:18 AM |
| 2 | What is the one thing you learned from PUA's that got you the most "bang" for your buck.That there is no one thing. | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In FieldWell you don't really know microcalibration so using negs haphazardly, using routines and different mystery method style, tactics and techniques are not going to work unless you have an absolute basic fundamental knowledge of microcalibration. You can't just wing it. Also, the way I teach people when I coach, is that you really can't use mystery method and use indirect method, until you have a solid direct approach. Direct approaching at your beginning stages will help you pull the trigger so th… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In FieldYeah, I want you to put this into perspective and think about this. *Critical thinking time." You see guys hovering around these pick up groups talking about guys liked ivy and Mark Manson and yet they're still hovering around these pick up groups. I'll give you a big hint for your critical thinking. When I coach guys, they don't hover around pick up communities anymore. They're done and they move on. In other words, once a guy gets the results he wants, especially in a field like dating and sed… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In FieldExactly. That's exactly what I'm talking about. I haven't had students back in the day who took RSD and then came to me and I had to get them through that shit. One guy would come to the boot camps dressed like a pedophile in a white T-shirt, and a long trench coat, and one of those gross peach fuzz beards on his face. I would instruct him, try and get a cool avatar for yourself, make things easier. He said, it doesn't matter bro, as long as I'm in state. That's what I learned from RSD. But then… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In FieldSo I guess that means you have an opportunity to go out and sharpen your game. You can learn your skill-set and improve it quickly by going out, and practicing the material that you've studied, hopefully. That's the idea. So while your buddy is good looking and he's attracting girls or whatever, you, can learn how to be attractive with your vibe and attitude and overall. I'll give you an example. I keep seeing posts by people saying, I can't get laid because I'm an Indian or girls don't like bro… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 2 | [TEXT breakdown] how to frame first dates directly to your placeYou're talking about a *double bind *. http://ericksonian.com/double-binds However I'm not necessarily sure, that the text that I read is going to be very effective. It sounds a little bit too weird and creepy in some way. Like something that a grandmother would say to trying to reassure her little kid grandson. "How about Grandma puts on a nice movie for you?" So my take is, theoretically you have the right idea, and I think it's something that you read somewhere and that's cool for starters. B… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In FieldWell that's why we learn to be attractive. If you mean just physical looks, dude I'm a walking example of why that's nonsense. If I put my picture up on any dating app on Earth, or one of those websites where they rate your looks or appearance, even my best pictures will get probably not even that average. Probably like a 6 if I'm lucky. But I've had more ass than a donkey and the reason I have, is because I learned to be attractive. To be a cool, fun, sexy, interesting, seductive guy. It takes … | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In FieldI actually like that. I agree, that purpose is probably going to be more handy than something like state or flow. If I have a deep passionate sense of purpose, then for sure I'm going to be able to go out there and have fun, get the job done, do whatever I need to do and not worry about how my state fluctuates from moment to moment. For the guys who are beginners, maybe there purpose could simply be, I'm going to go get over micromanaging how I feel with every girl that I talk to you and I'm jus… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | The Easiest and Quickest Way To Get Into STATE In Field"I couldn't pass her shit test, bro, I'm not in state yet." | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 6 | How to seduce on the dancefloor...This one is pretty simple, either learn how to dance, like literally go take dance classes and learn some of the old classical dances where you can spend girls, control their body movements and all that kind of stuff, or get the fuck off the dance floor. Even Mystery said back in the day the dancefloor is a death trap. It's not always the case. But unless you can dance really well, or fake it till you make it.... That's the other thing, like I wouldn't consider myself a really good dancer unless… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 02:41 AM |
| 1 | When do you take casual flirting seriously?Who cares about what they're doing with everyone else, focus on you and focus on her and be the guy that takes her home. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on alcohol?Alcohol is unreliable, and if you think that you need to drink in order to get into a seductive mindset or place, then you're always going to want to drink in order to get there. That's the beginning of being an alcoholic. I do like to drink. I got s***-faced yesterday seeing karaoke at a bar with almost no people, unfortunately it snowed a lot so it wasn't that busy. But, more often than not if I want to actually meet women, I'll actually meet them during the daytime, because I know that I won'… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | When do you take casual flirting seriously?It depends on what you mean by serious. Flirting should be fun, flirting should be sexy and seductive and cool and an adventure. when you say seriously, it makes me think that you're looking at seduction as a job or a task or work. If you mean, should you take someone who is flirting with you as meaning that they're attracted to you, absolutely! Always assume attraction. Anytime that a girl even is somewhat remotely interested in me on some level, even if she isn't outright flirting, I assume th… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls always cry when they are the one dumping you?I don't think that's ever happened. Girls know that I'm a pretty Alpha dude and if they're going to call it off they don't really care because they know that I'll go find another girl. I think maybe it sounds like, perhaps you're coming across a little bit beta male and sensitive and so when they break up with you they feel like they're hurting your feelings which in turn makes them want to cry and show remorse. Either that or you keep going for the same types of girls, but ya know I've never re… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | The Rise Of Thot Culture Is Destroying The American Woman's ImageAll the women are unattractive Trash? | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Going out with a very handsome friend wrecked my stateFUCK STATE! That's all guys do when they talk about State. How their state is fucked up because it's this that or the other thing. You guys have to stop listening to RSD or whoever told you to focus on state. State always sucks with every single guy who I ever have met who talks about state. My state is off tonight, I can't approach. This music is ruining my state. That set didn't go well because I can't seem to get in state. Never Not once have I ever heard a guy talk about state in a positive … | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 05:35 PM |
| -5 | Best respond when she ask this question?"This attention whore?" Yeah, you sound like a real prize. No wonder you're still at such a beginning stage you can't figure out how to answer a question like that. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.Oh, so she flaked? She never showed up? | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.Just let me know if you get the date or not. Thanks | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 04:21 AM |
| 1 | 3.5 hour date at 1 bar, no kiss.Ask Chael: Fast Forward to 2:55 and watch and listen. https://youtu.be/tBIEnkMVl98 | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Getting into state on a solo night out?Fuck state! Lol. It's just something guys use that is supposed to empower them and actually makes them f***** up more than it helps. especially RSD guys. When I meet the RSD guys in field in places like Chicago, you commonly hear these catch phrases that they like to repeat. "My state is off.." "I can't approach yet, I have to get into state." "That's set didn't go well because I'm not in state yet." "I don't know what's going on, I just can't seem to get into state." "This bar is ruining my sta… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | What sort of fake or real stories, routines, occupation about yourself are you telling to the girls for the social proof in text game?Text is not game. Text is for logistics, setting up dates, where to meet, when to meet, that kind of thing. You don't use text as a conversational way to try and escalate the interaction. You do that in person. If you do it well enough in the initial interaction, then text game should just be incidental and used as a logistical tool so that you can escalate more in person. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you game when out of state?Fuck state! Lol. It's just something guys use that is supposed to empower them and actually makes them f***** up more than it helps. especially RSD guys. When I meet the RSD guys in field in places like Chicago, you commonly hear these catch phrases that they like to repeat. "My state is off.." "I can't approach yet, I have to get into state." "That's set didn't go well because I'm not in state yet." "I don't know what's going on, I just can't seem to get into state." "This bar is ruining my sta… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Direct v/s indirect game?Asked and answered. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/een7hl/the_difference_between_direct_and_indirect_game/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 31 | 3.5 hour date at 1 bar, no kiss.For brevity's sake, I'm not going to give you the whole class because if you listen to the video I'm going to put down, and you actually follow it next time you're going to have success. Number one your first date, interview mode? For 3 and 1/2 hours? Yeah you're not going to end up having any sex. A date should not be sitting there in one spot for three and a half long hours, like half of work shift, just talking about stuff and not escalating at all? Are you kidding? You said yourself you want… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 10:17 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"You're still looking at the short-term. So the Lost art of Seduction and pick up that was on point about 15 years ago, and has since been washed away, we used to talk about the concept of delaying your instant gratification, for the long-term payoff. You're saying that you're doing one set, one interaction and you're not getting the reward from that one interaction is still focused on the short game. The quick fix, the instant gratification. You guys are supposed to be building a skill set. Yes,… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"No that means you're introverted and so am I. However, unfortunately for guys like us, this game takes practice. I had to go put myself out there and learn to be social and it was tiring. And yes lots of alcohol was involved at times but other times I would not use alcohol at all to really push myself outside of the comfort zone. Now I just go sing karaoke and because I'm a good singer it will start conversations naturally. I can warm up the entire room just by singing. and lucky me, there's a k… | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.Interestingly enough, average guy game is what most people want to have and that seems to be what predominantly is spread around the seduction community these days as solid game. It's as if all the good stuff has been forgotten and unapologetically replaced with average guy game. Just basically be nothing special and you'll have amazing results. That doesn't work anywhere on Earth. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.Mysteries outer game is phenomenal but he's a train wreck. so if you try and just study mystery method yeah, eventually going to come across a little weird and creepy and not be able to have natural attraction towards women, however as training wheels, I believe that his stuff is excellent. But at some point you got to take off the training wheels. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.The old stuff is the best stuff. The stuff guys are sharing now is garbage. game in the beginning, the mystery stuff, the Swinggcat stuff, the Steve Piccus and David Deangelo and Ross Jeffries, Captain Jack, 60yearsofchallenge, David X, IN10SE, Zan etc That's all the stuff that actually works. The stuff that guys talk about now, this watered down, "go up and just talk to girls" and in this case give her my phone number, that's the stuff that's going to keep guy spinning their wheels and never ge… | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.I think you need to be honest with guys and tell everybody if she actually shows up for the date or not. And don't lie. If you go to the date and she never shows up, I would like you to post that here for everyone to read. The reason I'm saying that is, because I don't believe you did anything special and a lot of times these girls will give you their number and be polite just to get rid of you because they don't want to say no -- that makes them uncomfortable. As a matter of fact, if you repeat… | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.100% | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.I'm actually interested to see if she even shows up or not. Because unless she really really likes him, she probably won't even show up to the date and was probably just being polite. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.Are you going to let guys know if she actually shows up for the date or not? And how it went if she does? And be COMPLETELY HONEST about it even if she doesn't show up. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"Haha, I know a couple of guys who love to sing this at karaoke | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"Yes, but the key is transformation. Allowing yourself to evolve and transform and not staying stuck. You're actually a very likable person when you're not being Mr. Contrarian. 😉 | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"Dude, you still are. But you're trying to hide from it by overcompensating. You're like a scared little boy who's trying to shout and saber rattle and flex your muscles, so hopefully show people that you're not afraid. I don't have to analyze you. It takes no effort to see. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"It's not just the way you like to talk. It's your overcompensation of what you think an alpha male sounds like, without actually being an alpha male or having enough experience to know the alpha males don't actually act like you. It's the same concept of a girl who's like a 7, or maybe even a 6.5, but she wants to be perceived as a 10 like a hot girl, so what she does is she acts overly bitchy as a way to try and make people think that she's a hot girl. like you would go up and be polite and tal… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"Yeah I was just messing with you. I thought it was a pretty good article... | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 06:27 PM |
| 0 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"Thanks... Did you actually read the article? Or did you just want to focus on that? Would you like to discuss how me accidentally putting her mom's name instead of her name as the author made you feel? 😁 | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"Learn to. Sounds easier said than done, but this should be fun it shouldn't be a task. it's not supposed to be work. Going out and meeting women and interacting with them is supposed to be fun. That's why we used to talk about outcome Independence a lot back in the day. You have to be detached from the outcome. go have fun, see what you can learn, screen her to see if she's a cool girl to hang out with, that kind of stuff. If you can get yourself in that headspace, you're going to let's go of al… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 0 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"I can tell by your comment you're not getting laid LOL. You're at the angry stage which is usually right after a guy starts and learns a little bit about this stuff and maybe gets laid once or twice by low hanging fruit. Like you get lucky just by going out. But you're in that angry stage, I bet you go around yelling at everybody in discussions - trying to overcompensate for what you think an alpha man is, when really it's just showing someone who has experienced at this game that you're a beta … | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the Process" or "Are You Being Too Hard on Yourself?"Yeah man, the more that you can enjoy the process and have fun with it, the more that it rubs off on the women. They can sense these things. When guys are going in their desperate and angry and hungry, the girls smell it a mile off and they drive women away.. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I have good intentions for building my YouTube channel so we'll see. There's a few videos up right now. Mostly podcast type stuff. Building a website, writing articles, real life, women, students... I just don't get a lot of time to do videos. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4YC0fwrdWlZSDqAXCALJK4JOyDyatiso | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:57 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.you might want to read it again. I always edit my stuff because I think of stuff after I write something, when I go back to edit and I'm like oh yeah I forgot this that and the other thing. So I added a bunch of stuff to that comment. To answer your other question, I coach everywhere. I'm a mentor so a lot of times guys will come to me and will Coach remotely (messenger/calls etc) and then if we need to meet up and do field time we do that too. A lot of times I don't even have to meet guys in th… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.You know, people are going to think I'm bullshiting when I say this and I don't really care because I'm an honest dude and I tell it like it is. I do not candy coat shit. RSD is a lot of conflated mumbo-jumbo, what we used to call back in the day mental masturbation. Ironic because I remember Tyler back when he was actually writing a good stuff way back when, and I mean around 10 years ago or more, where he would actually check guys for putting out mental masturbation in their material. What tha… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What audiobooks did you find most useful? I vaguely remember enjoying listening to 60 years of challenge's audiobook years ago. Does Chase Amante have any audiobooks (not podcasts) that you found helpful?Swinggcat I'm not sure which one but his first audio course where you go is really into detail about push pull, frames, being the prize and all that stuff. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 04:39 AM |
| -2 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareNo, my man. I'm not mad. I think it's awesome that you learned something from me and decided to share. maybe next time just give credit where it's due, like I do when I post about stuff that's not mine. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 09:46 PM |
| -3 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareYou almost verbatim copied and posted what I said changing the words not even that much. Come on dude. you've been here three years, and you now just discovered this only a couple of months after I've been posting about it frequently? https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eeti76/the_mediocrity_magnet_why_most_of_guys_on_here_or/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Well that's cool, maybe you can get some karma and attention off of other people's work. Lol. you're just as bad as the shy… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 08:53 PM |
| -7 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareWow, This post sounds really familiar as if you're reading my posts, copying them and then trying to act like you came up with this all on your own... Well at least I know what what I'm saying is making an impact. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. But that's probably why it took you three years to get the same amount of karma that I have in 3 months. surprising that it took you three years to discover this post and it just so happens to go up after I've posted about this topic several… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Approach anxiety is going to be a thing for you as long as you want it to be. I'm not going to keep going into this over and over again with different guys, you'll have to go read my replies to other people. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Yep, we can start a whole new generation of awesome men to make up for the last generation of pussy millennials 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.I got lucky, my father played sports growing up and he was the first one, when I was very early on, super young, and I was going into like my first game. He said, you got that feeling right now? You feel a little bit of butterflies in your stomach? He said, that's a good thing. That means that your body is ready. That was from day one, I didn't know it was anything else... So every time I had that feeling, I figured it was normal. I thought it was my body getting ready to do its best, and guess … | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.You can fight to believe!! Do you believe in life after love??? https://youtu.be/nZXRV4MezEw I'm making fun, but the reason I'm making fun is because it's true. You can literally believe what you want to believe about this. You can believe that I'm wrong, you can cling to it and say, "no bro anxiety is real and you never know when you go up and talk to a girl. It could be anxiety it might not be anxiety but definitely half the time it could be anxiety for real, bro!" If you have a belief and you… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Haha, yeah exactly. You know what's funny? I want a national martial arts championship back in the day. This is way before MMA so it was just like sparring and stuff like you could kick the person or punch him and get points kind of like karate kid. And because I had that mindset, that that adrenaline feeling I would get was completely normal, I always felt like I was just supposed to win. I got in the zone very fast. And then the final fight I remember the other dude kicked me pretty hard. and … | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.I would remind myself, "My body just gave me a signal that I like that girl, my body is now entering peak performance mode so that I can do my best in this interaction, let's go go go, Mr Smooth has just arrived!" Say it enough times, practice it enough times, and your mind will align. Google "reframing". You have the right idea already. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.It's not renaming, my man, it's reframing. "Reframing is a technique used in therapy to help create a different way of looking at a situation, person, or relationship by changing its meaning. Also referred to as cognitive reframing, it's a strategy therapists often used to help clients look at situations from a slightly different perspective." "The essential idea behind reframing is that a person's point-of-view depends on the frame it is viewed in. When the frame is shifted, the meaning changes… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Anything and everything that I talk about and post is absolutely field-tested. I've had more ass than a toilet seat. And I teach guys and my students, right now pretty much all of them are out getting laid by the time I'm done with them and having girlfriends, relationships, some of them are married now... This is shit is absolutely field-tested that I'm sharing. I think that's the big difference between some of the things I talked about and what I see guys posting or commenting on in this sub. … | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 07:18 AM |
| -1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.If cancer is real how come you don't have cancer? Just because anxiety exists, doesn't mean that you apply at the everything you don't like or understand. I think the responses I'm getting, the negative responses in these comments, are exactly the dynamic that I'm talking about. Guys who didn't understand what the butterflies were, as a motivational go signal, misinterpreted it and created armies of guys who are now clinging to fear instead of being empowered. I don't know about you, but I don't… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Sorry, it does take work. Not everybody is cut out for that. | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 01:54 AM |
| -1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Pot kettle black | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.So true, if you go through some of these comments from people who are actually angry at me for posting this and writing huge comments defending having approach anxiety. Even going as far as putting words in my mouth so that they can justify it. I would think more people would actually feel encouraged by a post like this. "Wow! you mean I can actually apply a positive belief to something that has been holding me back? Nice!" Instead there are people who are die-hard against that philosophy and wa… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 10:48 PM |
| -5 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.You're putting words in my mouth and making arguments against the words that you're putting in my mouth. Nowhere in there that I say anxiety doesn't exist. I simply said people are putting the wrong label on something and it's causing more harm than it is doing good to people. If you want to spend time giving yourself scientific explanations To validate your excuses to hold yourself back you are more than welcome to do that. You can make them as real as you want. You can give yourself hundreds o… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Is there a peak to pickup?Seduction and the art of learning to be seductive is a journey, not a destination. Don't shut your mind off to always being able to learn and discover new things. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.I edited the post for comments such as yours. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.Thank you. On point! | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 09:10 PM |
| 0 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.This is what the nerd said at the beginning of the community. I get that, But when I was playing sports growing up, competitive hockey, competitive martial arts, I was told from the get-go get that was a power signal it was a go signal and because of that I was super competitive and did very well. Maybe that's not the only reason... But I actually started to get worried if I didn't have that feeling. It's a feeling of high performance, not a feeling of "it's time to stop and not do anything or r… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.it's not really calling it something else, I was told time and again when I was growing up, by my coaches and mentors, you feel that feeling that you have? That's called the "butterflies." That's what I was told from day one when I used to play hockey growing up and martial arts and I took it and I owned it and from now on when I got that feeling I knew it was there, and actually if I didn't get that feeling before a game that's when I started to really worry. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 08:56 PM |
| -3 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.I think you need to go back and read it one more time. Nowhere in there did I say that real anxiety does not exist. Yes people have anxiety disorders. Some of my students came to me with massive anxiety and once we reframed the meaning, and also work with a few tools, those same guys were out there killing it. One guy in particular who came to me and had massive panic and anxiety in field when he would try to talk to women, like he literally had to leave the room he was having breathing problems… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.I actually agree. So it'll be the same thing when guys get into competitive situations, their body is alert probably going back evolutionarily to the fact that if you're hunting this f****** Mammoth, your body has to be on point because a goddamn tiger could come along on the side and kill you while you're trying to hunt the other prey. Perfect sense. But again, that's the body entering a state of high performance, not to be wasted. But to be encouraged and embraced!! | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Late bloomer?Haha so true. especially the part about guys having less than they say and girls having more. Girls routinely say things like, well that guy didn't count I was drunk. That guy didn't count I was on vacation. That guy didn't count I just broke up and was on the rebound. Guys are like, "my friend says he has 10 girls, so I better at least: say I have 11". And both of the guys are lying LOL. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Late bloomer?I didn't even start learning anything about this game until I was 31. Definitely a late bloomer, my thirties were amazing and filled with hot 20 something year olds to older women to everything in between. I still know guys, and I mean successful people, who are older than I am now and hooking up with girls who are 20. And they're not even in the pick up or Seduction community. I'm not even sure if I got it out of my system yet. But I'm open-minded to finding the right girl for me, so every once… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here self improvedIt's more common than you think.guys were successful in all spheres of their life but can't figure out how to meet women, right now pretty much all of the students that I've had over the last 10 years have been those guys. It's not weird it's not abnormal. It's more normal than you think. Perfectly good looking, well put together, successful guys, able to afford apartments that are $1,500 or more a month in a high-rise in downtown Chicago,... Business owners, CEOs, IT, programmers, scientists, p… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirtingSend me a private message. I'm going to bed since it's about 2 a.m. here, but if you send me a message we can figure something out, and I'll see if I can give you some basic pointers for free 😁 | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirtingAre you in one of those places where if you flirt with the wrong girl at the wrong place at the wrong time you can end up in jail? Or is it a little bit more relaxed where you're at? | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirtingAre you still living in India? Where are you living now? | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirtingWhat's the anxiety phase? Let's figure out a way to get you out of that... What's going on? | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Game is really just flirtingI haven't put the article up yet, but when I do I'll make it here for sure. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Game is really just flirtinga lot of guys miss the point of what all these things are used for. Partially there used to help a person become more attracted to you, and that there is a psychology behind it and studies that have proven that these things work. but, further than that they are used as training wheels like going to the gym and using gym equipment to become more fit. You can do the same thing with the methodologies and philosophies and the tactics and techniques and routines, etc. You can use them to go into inte… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:47 PM |
| 6 | Game is really just flirtingMan I literally just wrote about my game works and my post is too long so it won't go up. Tl;Dr No, it absolutely is not just a numbers game and a guy can learn to be way more attractive and get those girls who are neutral or not even interested. Yes, there is a definite amount of girls who just won't like you and there's nothing you can do, but other than that, a guy can absolutely get girls who are lukewarm, or even just neutral to become attracted by using game. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirting+1 | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Game is really just flirting+1 | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Game is really just flirting+1 I might add to this however, that if a guy is saying that he's having success but he's still hovering around the pickup community looking for answers he's probably not as successful as one might think. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:23 PM |
| -2 | Game is really just flirting🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What happens if I just skip game altogether?And then start "singing take my breath awaaaayyyy." https://youtu.be/Bx51eegLTY8 I don't think there's anything wrong with your opener. Game Works. I'm kind of trying to write an article on that right now but there's absolutely nothing wrong with you saying what you said. Remember, though. An opener is just your way to start the conversation. That's it. There's no magic opener that's going to get you to have a date or have sex with her. That's all part of a process. I think we used to say, "the … | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | StackingThat's a gigantic article, with a lot of workable steps that a person can take to improve themselves and their communication skills and your mind is so set on being negative that you went through the entire article to try and find one thing that you didn't like and that's all you're focused on? That's why you're still stuck. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?This video is not from me. I can tell, look you can be mad at me right now so I'm going to be genuine with you. I'm f****** seriously not trying to take the piss right now. because I care about guys and when they get mad at me I know that that's because it's coming from a place of f****** pain that they have in their own life. And I'm telling you right now, you can f****** change and you can have the f****** success because there was a time where I was just as in the s*** as you are now and sad … | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/e5oiua/does_anyone_else_feel_100_cold_fear_inside_of/f9ly4g3?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share There's you talking about how you're forever alone and that you're frustrated and you can't find a girlfriend. Dude, you think it's over if you can't find a Girl by the time you're 20? I didn't even start this dating journey and learning about seduction or pickup or game until I was 31 years old. And at this point I've seen more clam than a seafood r… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?I have a lot of students that I work with who are married now. Married. These are guys who came to me some of them with very bad social anxiety who would have to leave a social venue because they were having panic attacks.I have clients that I worked within the last few months who now have long-term relationships with girlfriends.. I have current students who have been on dates and even had sex already, and I am still working with them to make sure I can install in them consistency. You are righ… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?You didn't even go through any of those links. You replied seconds after I posted that which means that you didn't even click on any of the links whatsoever. You're just one of those guys who sucks and you want to believe that because you suck no one else has an opportunity to improve. You're full of shit. Every one of those guys is verifiable. If someone is ever serious about taking my coaching, and they want to, I will let them talk to those guys if they want. You're the perfect example of cra… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?I never said that guys all want to be experts. The point that completely flew over your head is that if a guy knows very little to nothing, it's still likely in most cases going to take him a hell of a long time even years to do it on his own whereas if he got a good coach, he could probably get it done in a couple months or a few months and be done with with it and move on with his life instead of gravitating and hovering around a pick up community for fucking years. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?I love it when guys say things like that. Because then it gives me an opportunity to post testimonials. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eeti76/comment/fbx2vt1 /r/seduction/comments/drron2/my_coaching_experience_with_geesectm/ https://creatingtheman.com/testimonials PICS of a few of my students https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=849873262135855&id=100013395661826&sfnsn=mo https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eeti76/comment/fbyzqop Anyway, thank you for giving me the op… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Alpha Sub-CommunicationCan you explain to me why it has to be an either-or approach? Why couldn't you combine learning something like subcommunication, but also learning routines? Why would you throw out one way to improve and learn as if it's a contest? Isn't the idea of learning a new skill, having a well-rounded approach and using whatever works? | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?You don't need a coach to get better at anything. You can play basketball with your friends, and never have a coach, and you can get to a decent level of skill. You can play football with your friends and never have a coach. You can start a business, and you can plug away for years doing trial and error and going and finding a bunch of free information, and you could probably get a decent amount of success. You can be an artist, and just read free stuff, and you can develop abilities. You can be… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?No. Have not. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | StackingHere you go. I don't know how long I'm going to keep this up, but you can read it for now. I would learn routines and instead of stacking keep them in your back pocket and learn to communicate fluently. Use routines to fill in the blanks, but learn how to riff. Here's an article on how... https://creatingtheman.com/blog/f/i-dont-know-what-to-say | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?LOL. Sorry I can't take your response seriously, it seems like something I said in my reply to you got you angered and riled up. There's plenty of information that people can go through in my comments and past posts that have a ton of workable advice that's not just inner game. Literally in this exact discussion in another comment thread, I gave guys workable advice that was both a combination of a little bit of inner game and some outer game. That's how all guys should learn. It's a balance of … | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?You know there are people who are married and are still extremely social individuals. Some of these people will throw cocktail parties and things like that, and have people over for dinner parties or whatever. If you ever watch the show curb your enthusiasm, they make it seem like it's pretty much a normal everyday thing. As far as learning and improvement, life is a journey and you will always, always be learning and the day that you stop, well hopefully that's the day you're dead. But we shoul… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?I'm not sure what you mean by this exactly, can you please clarify? | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?I have to ask, and if you don't want to answer this question that's fine cuz I'm not trying to put anybody on the spot. But when you took coaching with Tyler, did you get laid? Did he make sure that by the end of your coaching you at least had a woman in your life? Like I said, it's a hypothetical question, you really don't have to answer it here. I say this because, when I coach guys that's like my priority that I set for myself. Unless the guy is out getting laid and being sexually active, I'm… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?If it was that simple, I wouldn't have gotten more ass than a toilet seat but I have. Routinely I would ask girls what their type is and I'm nothing close. Routinely I ask girls what they like about me, or what it is that they find attractive about me, and they say, "I don't know it's the whole you." and I can ask those girls to show me what their type of guy is and they'll pick something not even close to me. Game works. When you guys limit yourselves by saying, I'm either the girls type or I'm… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?I like this question. So the idea is to make it a natural part of who You are. But that again in and of itself is a wishy-washy concept without having application. However, being a social person, is something that is completely acceptable and necessary if you're going to navigate through places especially big cities like Chicago, LA, New York City. The funny thing is many people move to those places because they want to be in a large community where there are plenty of people and plenty of oppor… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?You're completely misinterpreting what I'm saying. I'm saying that if people are listening to shysters and filling themselves with a bunch of nonsense, it keeps them stuck for years. This is not about my student or some bias towards my student (whatever that's supposed to mean), I'm speaking about reality. My goal is to help guys steer away from things that will keep them stuck and in a place of pain. my goal is to get them into a place of healing, prosperity, abundance success and happiness. Gu… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?I don't know why anybody would listen to Mark Manson LOL. You do realize that he studied mystery method for minimum 10 years and applied it to himself and his game before he started talking about just be yourself and be genuine, right? The guy literally was known as EntropyPUA.. Another example of a popular shyster. Anybody can go out and learn and practice a skill set and train themselves for almost a decade or so, and then go out and tell other people to do the exact opposite as a marketing gi… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Alternative Paths to Mastery for pickup Super Powers?Tyler says a lot of things, but one of my current students that I just started coaching spent $5,000 on RSD, and didn't learn a thing or improve. I get so mad when I hear stuff like that. And this is not the first guy who came to my coaching after taking RSD. one of the other guys, once said, spending a few hours over two days with me was like taking 3 RSD bootcamps even though one of them was with Tyler. The newer student said that RSD has a group of minions that follow them around for years, a… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 2 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveAsked and answered. Thanks. basically I think what you guys tell yourself, the stories that you give yourself and the questions that you ask yourself - mindset and determination, far more important than the physical characteristics that you may have in most cases. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Wife Out of Town - Been Years Since I've Touched A Different PussyWhat a loser lol. Wrong sub, dude. Go be a creep somewhere else. Also you're a douchebag for cheating on your wife. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 6 | My last couple of dates haven't really gotten anywhere and I'm getting so fucking depressed.Chin up, dude. You're probably going for the kiss and it's probably coming across forced. The Kama sutra talks about looking at a woman like a pomegranate. If you pick a pomegranate from the tree and it's not ready it's going to be better and gross, if you let it fall to the ground it's going to be mushy and rotten. So you have to actually go to the tree and literally just put your hand on the pomegranate and if it almost falls off on its own, then it's ready. So it seems like you have to work o… | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:39 PM |
| 18 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveThat's called anecdotal evidence. He's talking about the rule, not something that happened once. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 20 | You won't get laid just because you're attractiveI'm not that good looking, and I've had more ass than a toilet seat. You got to learn the communication skills, you have to learn how to escalate, you have to learn body language, kino, and study and apply a lot of material... The list goes on and on. And definitely do not pay attention to the guys telling you to just be yourself, be genuine and just to approach. Those guys are going to keep you in the shit This game takes a lot of work to learn and become attractive. The good news is, you can b… | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Moving to Downtown Chicago in JuneI got a few guys who were my students in Chicago, If you hit me up on Facebook, I might be able to connect you through messenger... https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100013395661826 On another note, streeterville is probably pretty good, I'm not sure what you mean by Clybourn. Are you thinking West loop? West loop has a pretty solid nightlife. There's a lot of bars and clubs there. The closer you live to Halsted & Randolph, the better. But that's expensive. You're going to be spending mone… | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Are there actually people on here telling people not to pay attention to IOIs?90% of the infields I come across are complete garbage. I tell guys to avoid any feels like the plague because most of those guys are complete shysters. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)Ok. Alt account guy with 2 karma. Suit yourself. See you back here under another alt account in a few years when you're still stuck, lonely and frustrated and you want a bitch about how you haven't had any success and it's not working and "what do I do now?" | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)You mean to desperate keyboard jockeys who aren't having any success or results, but want to feel good about it. But you want yourself and others to think you're on the "inside track" while you're screaming to people who actually are good at this and know very well how this game works that you are very new and have little to no experience or success. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Are there actually people on here telling people not to pay attention to IOIs?There's a lot of guys on here that are lazy. especially the guys who seem to be the loudest and talk the most, and they tell people basically just be "yourself and be genuine, and just go do more approaches, bro! None of that game shit works!™©" And then people follow their advice and come back and say, "This game shit doesn't work. I've tried everything and I'm still stuck." No, they didn't try everything. They tried the nonsense bring shared by guys not having that much success telling people … | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)Good too at least know yourself. So maybe that's also why you think this sham artist is giving good advice to people. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 06:00 PM |
| 3 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)*you're | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl without being creepy (raw footage + no gimmicks)Okay cool, I'll give you your audio or video or whatever it is a listen, and see what's going on. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl without being creepy (raw footage + no gimmicks)It's a sad day indeed when people don't know the basic on how seduction operates, and they spread it to others and create a cycle of failure. Priority Sex -. If not Instadate - If not Timebridge - If not Last Resort - Phone number Guys who would write reports or make posts bragging about getting phone numbers used to be made fun of back in the day. Times have changed. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)I said it in the very first sentence of the very first comment, you're just not very good at the English language. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 10:09 PM |
| -1 | How to approach a girl without being creepy (raw footage + no gimmicks)If you're still going for phone numbers, you need to improve your game yourself. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)Apparently English is not your strong suit. Mark Manson and EntropyPUA is the same person. if you can't figure out what that means by now, I suggest you take a course in English Grammar. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)It's the same guy, I didn't think it would be that difficult for me to have to explain. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)Small talk and banter are easily teachable. If someone is giving me money, that's what they're paying me for is to teach them even if they have almost no social skills whatsoever. And you're right, you have to change the inner and the outer. It's a balance, so in order for a guy to succeed there must be both equally, fixing the inner game, the mental aspect that you're talking about, but you also have to help him fix the outer stuff with tech (what I call, gambits, routines, tactics, techniques,… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)Unfortunately what EntropyPUA teaches guys now doesn't work for most guys. What it does work to do is keep guys as Fanboys for years, remaining stuck and never improving, but feeling like to have the right answer. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)"gotten a lot from RSD through the years..." I got a new student that just started up and has taken RSD and spent about $5,000 on their coaching and said it's complete garbage. He talked about how guys would study their stuff for years, and I said and he agreed, why are they still there years later? Think about that: It's the same thing that's true about Mark Manson. The exact same thing that's true for him is true for these RSD guys. Why are they still floating around the community years later?… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 05:37 PM |
| 0 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)Tl;Dr overly wordy advice that's pretty much useless to help anybody improve. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How To Attract Women by Mark Manson(Models: Attract Women Throug Honesty, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck, Everything Is Fucked, MarkManson.net)EntropyPUA (Mark Manson) studied PICK UP "lines and routines" for probably at least a decade. Used them and applied them often and built a personality based off of that. At some point, it becomes unconscious competence. "Unconscious Competence: In unconscious competence, the individual has enough experience with the skill that he or she has learned that they can perform it so easily they do it unconsciously. The model helps trainers understand the emotional state of their learners." Like a guy w… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Starting to approach, and staying accountable? Should I hire a coach?I absolutely agree with the guy that says invest in yourself. I've been at this game for 17 years I want to say at this point, and back in the day I was in a frenzy to try and find a mentor and I could never find one. I couldn't find anybody else who had better game than I did after a while, and it was one of the most frustrating things. So I had to go through this tooth and nail, and scrape through this thing in order to learn what I learned. I learned it well, I learned it really well, and now… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | With RSD And Tom Torero Gone, Who Are the BEST Dating Coaches Of 2019?Me... | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Who do you think is the best PUA coach?For sure. Me. Not kidding. not my words, students who come to me who taking other people's bootcamps routinely tell me that I'm on another level. There might be a couple of other guys out there, like Steve Mayeda knows his shit. I like DJ Fuji as well. Captain Jack but he's not around anymore. I think you could learn mindset from people like Zan, and David X. And then Juggler aka Wayne Elise. I would also say guys like Mystery, and Ross Jeffries, but both of those guys are missing specific skill… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Manwhore Coaching Review - When your coach becomes your biggest foeLol Jmulv for sure was hiring prostitutes for his in fields. As far as manwhore, I definitely would not put it past him. I don't know much about him but he just seems kind of like this weird kind of creepy guy kind of like you said with anger issues, and I'm pretty sure that girls don't like him. After a while you can kind of just tell these things by looking at certain guys. Men who are successful and socially savvy but have a lot of women in their life, they will have sort of like this oh, wel… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Manwhore Coaching Review - When your coach becomes your biggest foeI'm not sure what happened, but if he's getting angry and calling you out for having success with women, if that's what this is about, then what you have to probably assume is that he's jealous and envious of your success cuz he's not having it himself. In other words, as a coach myself, I want to make sure my students are getting late and having success as quickly as possible, great! Because then they're going to go out and tell other people, holyshit this guy knows what he's doing. Then I got … | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Baltimore Confidence or PUA Coach?He's kind of right because there are a lot of scam coaches out there, the good coaches are few and far between. However, some do exist, just very few. I just had a guy sign up who before he got to me spent $5,000 on RSD who is considered one of the best coaching outfits out there, and he said he didn't learn anything from them. That it's just a bunch of wishy-washy feel good nonsense. dude, to play with people's money like that, and not provide them anything back but just a bunch of horseshit, n… | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 02:50 AM |
| 0 | Baltimore Confidence or PUA Coach?I'm sending you a message. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Do white guys make fun of Asian guys who date white girls?+1 | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearAsked, answered and updated. https://medium.com/@igorgurko/three-experiments-that-change-everything-2bc578480d34 https://medcraveonline.com/MOJPB/dna-the-phantom-effect-quantum-hologram-and-the-etheric-body.html DNA Phantom Effect - is what you would search for. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without Fearas long as you're being a cool guy, maybe you know a little bit mischievous but be an all-around good guy to her, yeah, I don't see why playing off the bad boy roll is a big deal. a Also, you never know, also just tried being like a cool guy without worrying about whether she's going to go look you up online or not. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearHow do you know she's not a girl that likes bad boys? | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearHow do you know she doesn't like guys that dress like s***? I've gone out and got numbers that turned to closes while I was dressed absolutely like s***, like wearing a city t-shirt, and jogging shorts. train yourself. Say things to yourself like, I see that girl over there, and what if I don't hit on her and I go home tonight and on my way home I get hit by a truck and die? what if this is my last chance ever to talk to a beautiful girl and possibly get a date? Lol I've even gone to places wher… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearWhich is my focus. Exactly. Challenge the frame. Challenge the message that our minds are giving us to keep us stuck. Right on man! | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearThank you. It's interesting that certain people hate what I write and think I'm too wordy, and other people appreciate the frame that I'm setting which is exactly what I'm trying to do. I feel like the best lesson learned is one that can give people many real world examples so that their mind can click in the rest. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 6 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without Fearhaha, yes you're still going to get rejected because not every time are we going to know why we actually approached a girl. If we cut and dry it into something simple it can be whether we get the girl or we are rejected. But what if, there was something completely different going on but like we just saved her from walking too fast down the street and getting hit by a truck? LOL. I think the purpose of my post here, what's the dis give guys a positive mindset and why, when our minds relentlessly … | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearWhat "an advice"? Do you mean a word of advice? Do you mean some advice? Anyway thanks for your words of encouragement. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearHaha, maybe it's no coincidence that the word Grinch is in your name. 😁 | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Synchrodestiny – Your Excuse to Seduce Without FearThis is called, missing the forest for the trees. What I'm doing in my post is illustrating because sure I could just post a small quote like you did, and then people will simply debate whether that's true or not. The deeper lessons are what's important & some of you guys just want quick answers, and I'm not a quick answer guy. I'm a guy that will teach someone the ins-and-outs of everything so that they understand it completely, and even a guy who has no idea, can learn. By the way I did give y… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overYou could always shuffle them out and keep us separate collection somewhere else. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overNo worries. Actually what I'm doing for fun with you, is the exact same thing I would do with a girl on a date when we start talking about sexuality. So I'm actually just sort of reliving a natural process with you, how I guess men and women communicate in my experience when they feel open in free with each other. You when conversations can get long and deep 😁 But that's because I have a healthy passion for learning about sexuality and sharing my sexuality with others as well and I know other pe… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overLol. well, I better tell the girls who pull out my coloring book and start coloring that they're not allowed to do that and use crayons anymore. The first person that I ever went to whose house had coloring books, was two years older than me, and a female. You do know, they actually even make adult coloring books these days with like abstract art and things like that in it. Some people like art, some people like actually having fun things to do and not everyone is obsessed with trying to be in a… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 04:27 AM |
| 10 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overYeah, they probably can take your advice, the guy with almost no karma on a two-day-old account, that's obsessed with fisting yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?That's cool. Just don't kill any innocent chickens in your fit of rage. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?I was just making fun of you. 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overclear, different colored condoms, have to be like clear clear, you can get one that is maybe like a blue or red hur or whatever, but yes clear | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?Clubs are training grounds, so maybe going with the idea that you're going to fail anyway, accept that you are going to fail, go in with the complete expectation that you're going to suck completely, and then just don't say f*** it and have fun. Go learn. Go fuck shit up and play. Like a kid in a sandbox who built a castle and then five minutes later destroys it and builds something else. Except you're not going to destroy anything or anyone, we're going to go experiment with lines, tactics, tec… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?Thanks, man yeah hopefully guys like us can start reaching some of these younger whippersnappers lol. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overSo basically, tldr, you are the submissive type. You like that sense of power when you're with a guy. Interesting, because in another thread we're having discussions about some guys thinking that looks of the only thing that matters and girls only go for good looking dude. I'm trying to explain to them that's not necessarily always the case, that there's certain things that will turn girls on that might not necessarily have anything to do with looks. Sure, looks help, who doesn't like a good-loo… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 02:12 AM |
| 4 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?Game. Lol. I don't remember everything these days because I don't write the field reports like I used to. And I was a bit tipsy, In the beginning, we can keep track of several things like that, but sometimes after a while that s*** just happens. The four stages of like this. Unconscious incompetence. Conscious incompetence. Conscious competence. And finally unconscious competence. The only thing I know I did for sure it was a little bit of push pull and I used an neg on her asking what Suburb wa… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?at a certain point you just have to play and say f*** it. I don't know what's going to happen, I can't read a chick's mind, and I know that many times my mind is just going to automatically say, she doesn't like you she doesn't like you, she's not into you. That's the lizard brain or the ego response. And, I'm in the business of saying, "well if that's the case oh, she doesn't like me anyway so I may as well play and see what happens." But here's the thing. If she's standing there and she's resp… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overWait a minute! You have to explain this one to me, cuz that's a new one. So a girl sends a guy nudes, and in return a girl wants to see pictures of his hands and forearms? And that's hot??? You got to explain that one, love. https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/e8ru0w/how_do_you_tease_a_girl_with_photos_of_yourself/faecffe?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Is that like something where you're imagining what his hands and strong forearms would do to you kind of like some romance novel? | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?To a certain extent. 60yearsofchallenge did kind of break it down and I see people have a mishmash and watered down explanation of what he was trying to say. There are green light girls, there are yellow light girls, and there are red-light girls. Sure, it's going to be a numbers game to a certain extent and there are just some girls who are not going to like you. There are going to be some girls who are indecisive. Maybe they're going to give you a shot, maybe they're going to listen to what yo… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overI may not be a lot of things, but if there's one thing I love it's to give women that glow they can only have after a healthy roll in the hay.. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overDamn it! Now you got that song in my head. "Let's get in onnnnn.." https://youtu.be/x6QZn9xiuOE | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 09:42 PM |
| -1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?No. You're misinterpreting. I don't know if you're doing that on purpose, or if you're misunderstanding. There are a lot of things to learn, there are so much things to learn that even these days I will still go over books that I haven't read yet to see if there's something interesting or new for me to learn. the way to get better is by learning things, reading material, this is what we used to say back in the day. You need to read the material, and then you need to go out and try it in field. W… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 09:28 PM |
| 10 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overHaha I got to get another one since I just moved into a new apartment, but at one of my old places, I used to have a shower curtain that was actually like $50 or something from bed bath & beyond... Like that it was like this really cool shower curtain that had all this european classic art on it. Add to that, that I had art all over the walls as well. So that no matter where the girl went in my apartment, she would feel or like I was a classy guy, not a sleazebag. I am a classy guy but that's be… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?There's where you guys get stuck. There is no method. There is what works. You got to read what that guy said above about how much time he spent studying and being in field. I've read so much, I've studied so much, I've tried so much, all from different schools or methods or whatever you want to call them, that I developed my own style. But when I teach guys, I'm not teaching them my style because my style is based on my personality. Because that's what I decided when I started learning this. I'… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?Haha. Thank God. You see what I did there? | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 08:03 PM |
| -2 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?My only agenda, is to help guys succeed whether they take my coaching, or they do it on their own. And if we go back and look at your history and I'll be happy to start linking them, you're asking questions that show that you are an absolute beginner at this and haven't had much time in the field or much success for that matter. you even talked about how you have bad social anxiety. I'm not trying to throw shade so I'm not going to link anything. but what I am trying to do is tell you that you c… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 2 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?Haha ok Rorschach... https://youtu.be/GFEfWa6GNGk However you're right. And I hope this guy gets it because there's a lot of people telling him the easy feel good answer which is, "bro you're right looks do matter and there's nothing you can do about it. All this game stuff is bullshit!" | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 07:42 PM |
| -1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?I'm not sure why you say things like in my experience, because looking at your history here on Reddit, you don't really have much experience. I'm not saying that to be mean at all, but I am seeing in a couple of threads you keep sharing your ideas from very limited experience as if you know what you're talkin about. How about giving yourself an opportunity to learn before sharing what you think you know. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?Is it? Is it a good point? Because looks don't matter to women as much as they do to guys. How many photos do you think I could pull up in a very short. Of time not attractive guys with stunningly hot women? Go to a search on Google... https://lmgtfy.com/?q=ugly+guys+with+hot+women And I'm not a good-looking dude, I'm not a bad looking dude, but I would say that I am definitely not photogenic, and can't get a date to save my life on any of the dating apps. But I have been with more women than mo… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 5 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?I don't want to discourage you, but looking at your history it looks like you're very new at this almost brand new. You're still asking questions that are beginner and super basic like, does game work? Do looks matter? "A guy is trying to tell me that if you have inner game, are the price at cetera and all this other mumbo-jumbo that that will bypass looks." Stuff like that. I have an idea for you. You may not like it, but even if that's the case it might help you in the long run. There's the co… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?Let me guess. You're an atheist. How do I know, because just like the vegan, or the crossfitter, you have to take every discussion that has nothing to do with it and inject how you don't believe God exists. 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Be careful with being vulnerable on reddit. Some redditors may or will use it against you.You have to understand, there are a lot of great guys here. However, there are a large handful of guys, who are here, and they're filled with toxic ideas and toxic energy. it's called crabs in a bucket mentality and they just want to drag you down. I get this a lot too. And I know what I'm talkin about as far as the dating game goes, but if I post something, there's a good possibility that I'm going to get jammed by downvotes and slammed with hate mail by that core group of frustrated and angry … | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?That's weird, because a couple nights ago I was actually hanging out with the hottest girl in the bar after approaching her and she didn't know me from a hole in the wall. And we hung out pretty much all night. And that's not even a best case scenario I'm just giving you the most recent. But hear me out. More guys kept trying to approach her and many of them were better looking than I was, because I'm definitely not the best looking dude in any room. And yet she kept rejecting them and not payin… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?Mystery method is probably 1/100 of anything, as far as learning this game goes. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:42 PM |
| 147 | Ideas for fun stuff to have at your place when inviting women overAs a guy who has brought plenty of women over my place, and some of them really, when they got there, we're probably not at all even thinking about having sex at first, I can give you some pretty good pointers in my experience. +Red Wine +Basic Bar Set Up (helpful but not necessary if you have a bottle of red wine. however since I believe in stacking the deck, there's nothing wrong with having a basic bar setup and going online like YouTube and learning how to make one or two pretty awesome cock… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it?No, looks do matter. I've been in the game for over 15 years, and I can tell you looks absolutely do matter and the people that say they don't are shysters. But, the idea is to not get hung up in thinking that your looks aren't good enough and that's an excuse to not go out, to not practice, to not study and improve your skill set. So in other words, what is you focusing on how looks matter or they don't matter doing to help you improve? | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:25 PM |
| 14 | how to flirt with shy guy updateGrats. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?And finally in this sub I come across another one of the very few guys ever that actually makes sense and seems to know what he's talking about. And it's not just talking a bunch of bullshit. That's the thing though, the community these days has regressed into a Dark age of nonsense and there's way too much of it so that good stuff that we were learning back in the masf days, as well as methodology on how to learn it has been buried under mountains of trash. So these poor guys are exposed the ho… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?What that makes me think is that your experience is very limited. No offense. I actually explained this already, here in the comments below: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eh61fp/are_we_fooling_ourselves_or_are_pickup_coaches/fcg8nqg?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Are we fooling ourselves? Or are pickup coaches misleading us?Yeah, I'm not in the business of misleading anybody. And I have one a 90% success rate with my clients, and I take it as pride in what I do knowing that if I fall below 90% success I shouldn't be actually coaching anymore. And, if anybody ever wants to talk to my past clients, to find out that I'm not bullshiting anybody, I always welcome them to. **Fuck man, don't believe me, talk to my last guys. All who are sexually active with women right now, and my current "newest guy" is on his second dat… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Okay I get it nowThat's at least a start. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Do I look different and worse than 5 years ago to not meet a a girl again?Gotcha | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 12:29 AM |
| 2 | What will you do if you ask your partner to give a pose and she poses like this in public ?I guess I'm just trying to figure out if you have a problem with the way she's posing or you're okay with a? I think it's okay with me if that was my partner | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | What will you do if you ask your partner to give a pose and she poses like this in public ?Wait, so it's your partner though, right? | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 10:05 PM |
| 2 | What will you do if you ask your partner to give a pose and she poses like this in public ?What's the problem? | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Let's talk through p.m. I'm not trying to offer you my coaching or sell it to you really, but I want to see if we can work out a few tweaks to get you started and find out where you're at. | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Here's what you never want to say to yourself. I went through that already. There's a difference between reading something and a difference between applying it and using it and becoming good at it. So there's going to be a difference between the guys that sit there and read material versus the guys that actually go out and try it and apply it | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Good luck. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Free? Start out with Double Your Dating Advanced - (Theory and Introduction) Ross Jeffries Unstoppable Confidence - (Inner Game Starting Point) Read everything in the masf players guide - http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/ (tactics, techniques, schools of thought) All of this will be a solid introduction to you having a basic foundation of where to go after that and what to learn and study. There's a whole lot of stuff but this is going to keep you busy for a while. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Interesting question but you kind of start out acting like I'm ranting. I don't think there's anything that I've written anywhere that is a rant. I break things down very specific and factually and I do that in such a way that even if someone has zero experience on a topic, they will get the point by the time I'm done. so sometimes, things I say are lengthy, like this paragraph that could have been shorter, but I want people to understand exactly what I'm saying when it comes to the topics I'm d… | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 7 | Bickering/ playful arguments and teasing"Haha. Are you fight flirting with me?." Throw and go. Don't let it linger and get awkward. Continue. See how she reacts. But at some point you're going to have to pull the trigger and escalate or else it could grow stale. Yea. She likes you. Way back in the day when I was about your age, there was this girl who I hung out with who was a friend of my friend oh, and when we were riding in the car, her and I were fighting about s***. But then next time I saw her at the bar we ended up grinding on … | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 07:09 AM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Lol that someone got mad and downvoted this because I shoved their conspiracy theory up their ass. 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Yeah, confidence confidence confidence confidence confidence. As a short guy you can even overdo confidence, sort of like that Napoleonic complex, and I think people will respect that if you can carry it well. For instance, six foot four, really good looking dude if he's overly confident he's just going to come across like a fucking asshole. But if you're a short dude and you pull it off well, girls will dig it. You got to act like you're the shit. Like you know you're the man and women want to … | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I think their best book is Venusian Arts Revelations. But the one thing that I think everyone on Earth should know is microcalibration. If nothing else that you should get from Mystery method, everyone needs to know what microcalibration is and how to apply it. Mysteries course has solid routine based game. I recommend routines to people who are having trouble in conversations in the first place, maybe they're shy, they don't know what to talk about or they're Having trouble getting their mouth … | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Yeah, I wouldn't expect you to know Matt savior Johnny savior. They were just his coaches. I don't think they were very active on masf. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Boom! You are f****** on point. It's almost like many of these guys look at women as the enemy or some mysterious creature that's trying to harm them in some way. For the bad rap that the seduction community took because of a lot of the shysters, back in the day when masf was around it was actually a lot more of a healthy environment. Now, our worst fears have been realized, and a lot of these guys have become exactly what people in popular media stereotyped pickup artists as. Maybe I'm just bei… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I actually took one of their boot camps years and years ago, had Johnny and Matt savior as my coaches. Oh yeah, and me and Juggler and a couple of other guys, probably was Johnny Savior and a wingman of mine back in the day actually sat down and had dinner with Wayne. I'm from Detroit and those guys were from Ann Arbor. And at one point Johnny Savior was living in Birmingham Michigan. I think the only two coaches I ever hired, actually no three. Juggler, I did a couple of coaching sessions with … | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Haha. Gunwitch and Ray Gordon would be proud 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Oh. So let me guess, this is me talking to myself. https://youtu.be/QCxXq6LBlCc Oh wait. No. It's Vamp! | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:03 PM |
| -1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.No, that's what I'm saying, me you and Bobby can maybe do like a quick podcast or something one of these days soon, and we can have three voices, and then this guy, and all his infinite wisdom, can say that I'm using voice actors or some nonsense. Who knows... 😂😂😂 Oh wait. Almost forgot. This is you: https://youtu.be/QCxXq6LBlCc | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I think that a big part of it is definitely the inner, but sometimes there are ways that we can use the external stuff to help change the inner stuff as well. I believe that there's a balance. Maybe that's a Libra thing or maybe that's just some way that I am as a person. I don't know. But I believe that everything should be balanced and especially in this game, the inner and the outer cyclically feed into each other. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Don't hate the player, change the game. I keep hearing guys complaining about how this sub is not that great, well wouldn't it be great if we can get a bunch of quality guys posting here and change that. Because it's not just this sub, the entire pickup and seduction community took a big hit over the last six or seven years. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Oooh. if not you can start where I started and it's a jumbled mess but it will still give you a basic breakdown of all the basics and then from there you're going to have to filter in and out what makes sense to you and what works for you through trial error, experience and a little bit of common Sense hopefully. http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/ | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I kind of miss it. It's too bad that got bought out by the what's his nuts. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | The DIFFERENCE between Direct and Indirect Game and What They Are For? What about Hybrid Game?At the risk of coming across and talking too much about my coaching, as you can see there's already people freaking out that I even dared mention it, I'm going to p.m. you. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Oh. It's you. Lol. Dude, someone called your review that you did fake and said that I wrote it myself. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eeti76/the_mediocrity_magnet_why_most_of_guys_on_here_or/fbx1v80?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The DIFFERENCE between Direct and Indirect Game and What They Are For? What about Hybrid Game?Thank you very much. It's good to hear that people support this. I hope it helps you, and if you have any questions about specifics let me know. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Oh, they did and are they pissed. Lol. like I've been saying some of these other comments. Mass approaching is supposed to be training, not an end-all be-all. It's supposed to be a way to learn so that you don't have to do Mass approaching later. Apparently somewhere along the line people forgot that. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I'm actually not saying either or. But I was kind of vocal about one dogmatic belief and it seems like a lot of people love what I have to say but if you have flown off the handle about it. To me, I believe it's a combination of both. You've got to be well evolved altogether. And when I teach the tactics and techniques or tell people to learn that stuff, that's all as a way to help improve yourself like going to the gym and using weights and treadmills and things like that. You're not going to h… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.How so? | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eeti76/the_mediocrity_magnet_why_most_of_guys_on_here_or/fby4bk5?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eeti76/the_mediocrity_magnet_why_most_of_guys_on_here_or/fby4bk5?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I don't ever want anybody ever calling me Messiah for any reason. I guess I probably did come across a little preachy, but my intention was really just a steer guys and a better direction. And, like when people call themselves gurus or whatever...? Jesus.. Oh wait that actually kind of became a joke and that's not even what I intended. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Boom! | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I actually agree with you, but what I'm saying is that so many are dogmatic about trying to say that's all you need to do. And that couldn't be further from the truth. Getting out there is great, but then get out there and learn and improve. don't just spin your wheels over and over banging your head against the wall playing the lottery. Use it what it's supposed to be used for oh, and that is to help yourself grow and evolve into a more attractive awesome guy. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Thank you. I didn't even think that this post was going to get this much traction. and apparently I feel like maybe there's just a lot of people who have been dying to hear this for a long time. Yes I pissed off the core group of fantasists, but that's fine. I would rather do that and be able to speak the truth. This post has been nagging at me for a while and I said f*** it let's do it. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and you figured it out, that you at least are willing t… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I upvoted your comment because at least you're not throwing a temper tantrum and you're making your argument clearly and without throwing a bunch of emotional nonsense around. So back in the day the original people who talked about going and doing massive amounts of approaches all said the same thing and all agreed upon it. And I'm talking about the best of the best. They all said, the reason behind doing Mass approach is to learn a skill set and apply, and practice, all the things that you have… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.LOL. Yeah me too I'm actually pleasantly surprised. Yes a small Fringe cult of the haters have made their way here to defend that "all you have to do is go out and do approaches, bro." I feel like for some reason you always have to put the word "bro" at the end of that statement. But for the most part it's good to see that a lot of people can identify. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I've heard about that book for a long time and I've never actually checked it out. Another one is that one guy, David Daeda - Way of the Superior Man I think those books may have similar content but, like I said I haven't read the one that you talked about. Eventually I should get to it. I still like to read and study the stuff. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Oh, maybe just do a search for "senor fingers weapons of Mass seduction" | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:57 PM |
| 3 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.like I said above, the guy spent at least a decade in the pick up communities studying and applying pick up tactics and techniques, never once deciding that you was "just going to be himself and genuine." | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Gamey techniques if that's what you want to call them are a means to an end. They're like going to the gym and using equipment to get more strength, and get more muscles. That's what so many people seem to have completely forgotten or maybe they just never learned. The reason behind learning the tactics, techniques, routines, pickup lines, and things like that is for guys who have a very difficult time trying to communicate and flirt with women, and it's a way to get their mouths moving so they … | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:49 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Exactly. The idea is, like some of these other guys are saying, who the f*** wants to keep doing approach after approach after approach after approach after approach for the rest of your life? The idea of seduction is learning to be seductive and attractive. So each approach should be a learning experience not just a means to an end like a sperm trying to break its way into a vagina. down the road we should be trying to improve ourselves so that we don't have to go out and do mass approach anymo… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Haha. and they seem to forget, or maybe they just don't know, that all the best experts back in the day, like David DeAngelo as an example, said, you can take all the tactics, techniques, and how to advise that we give you all day but unless you fix your inner game, all that's going to fly out the window and be useless. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:42 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Boom!!! | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.👋👏👋👏👋👏👋👏👋👏👋👏👋👏👋👏 I wish we could post gifs on Reddit so I could do like one of those applaud gifs. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.At least you're level-headed and you're not throwing a temper tantrum like some of these guys. The quotes are used to give people an idea that there are other like-minded experts out there in the different fields you are saying the same thing. That doesn't necessarily mean that you have two hands down agree with them, as a matter of fact I would encourage you to go do your own research in a situation like that. It's meant to illustrate. It's funny, because it reminds me of an article from years … | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:18 PM |
| -1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Thank God that so many of you have a good head on your shoulders. The difference is, yes, when you go out and experience this stuff, you'll start to actually understand how it makes sense. But the guys that stay home, and they just read a bunch of feel good theory, these are the guys that get outraged that people like me for saying what happens when you actually do go out. And all it takes is a guy that actually goes out and applies, to realize, "oh yea... This makes sense." But on another topic… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.True dat | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.😁😁 uhhh. Thanks. And I just learned what NTA means. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:40 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.You're doing very poorly at trying to keep putting words into my mouth and things that I'm not actually saying, then arguing with yourself. Good luck to you. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:30 AM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Hey one more than I remembered for anybody who wants an answer to this question is this book that used to be very awesome and was sort of a good conglomeration of all the different concepts bound up into one. https://www.scribd.com/document/31080906/Weapons-of-Mass-Seduction-by-Senor-Fingers like I said, it saves me time not having to rehash a bunch of material that's already out there. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:20 AM |
| -10 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Okay guy who never posts or comments on this sub, and I must have hurt the feelings of one of your friends who called you in here to help. Thank for your input. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.oh that's interesting, where did I hear that before? There's no such thing as an insta trick that will give people quick results? Oh I know, from this post you didn't read! after finding out it went against your dogmatic beliefs in just approach, bro, and everything will be okay. "We used to say this all the time back in the day. There is no Magic bullet. There is no magic pill for a quick fix in this game." ↑↑ ironic. Dude, it's one thing if you don't like what I have to say in my post, it's an… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:09 AM |
| 5 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Actually, go find the comment from the guy asking for what should I do? in short, I believe all the information is out there, and I don't necessarily like to reinvent the wheel or rehash material that's not really mine without giving credit, and it's really just a lot easier to send people to advise that's already out there that's fantastic. So I gave guys a couple of links to go follow up with. Here: I'll dig one up. This one is from way back in the day and at the time was widely known by a sma… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Man, it's bedtime in this post is blowing up my phone so let me get a quick answer in here. You're right, there's nothing wrong with simplifying things, at all. However, a way to be super proficient at simplifying game, is to learn the advanced stuff, to get out there and experiment with some of the tactics, techniques, methods and philosophies. That way, you can know when to go all-in, and you can know when to chill and lay back a little bit. So all it offers is a more dynamic approach as oppos… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:56 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Correction. It's real talk meant to motivate people to steer away from bullshit and propel them to being their best. To not settle for mediocrity, but accel and rise above. It kind of looks like most people get that. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:24 AM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.You got to say, man, that dude is a brilliant marketer for using the exact opposite of what the dating and pickup and seduction community taught for over a decade, and was able to sell it and popularize it. He literally took the worst piece of advice and was able to make a lot of money from it. Advice that he himself didn't even practice. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Maybe we should all do like a audio podcast together one of these days. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:19 AM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I think someone in this place somewhere can accuse me of being like a cult guy or something like that? I thought that was weird. So basically if I share information that goes against someone's preconceived dogmatic belief, and they throw a temper tantrum, that makes me the cult leader. I thought by definition, that if someone has dogmatic beliefs and someone else's beliefs differ and that causes them to be outraged and offended, wouldn't that be more like someone who belongs to a cult? I literal… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.For anyone else reading this, David DeAngelo said it best back in the day. He said, "I can give you guys all the tactics, techniques, methods and pick up lines you want, but without changing your mindset and your inner game, none of that is going to make a difference." So if you read posts like this, they are meant to help shift your mindset to something that's going to help work for you. Inner game. My last post that I wrote I think is a combination of inner and outer game talking about how you… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:13 AM |
| -7 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Thank you guy with a fake 20 day old account and almost no karma. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Funny, since there's links to videos of podcast that I did that are literally over an hour long some of them that I posted as well. As well as very detailed post that people really like. So, all you are doing right now is proving to me and anybody else reads this comment that not only are you full of s***, but you're a bad liar. I'm sorry but I'm not here to argue with someone just because you're pissed off that you're going to have to put in some work and effort to improve yourself, and the b**… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:57 AM |
| -2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Way to be the adult version of I'm rubber you're glue. Maybe save yourself some time and just right, "I know you are but what am I?" you're not here to learn or actually even have a discussion, you're just here to take a s*** because you don't like the idea of what this post represents which is you having to work hard at something that you wish was easy. You're one of the dogmatic types that believes that only way that you can do it is your way or the way that you've bought into. I can't speak t… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Social dating code as understood by an autistic person who gets aroundSee, there's the real you. You're a dick. A manipulative little asshole. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Oh, you went through all my material that fast. And in a half hour, you went out and tried all of it, after reading all of it. Not only are you a speed reader, but you know how to actually study, Implement and apply things with the speed of quicksilver! Well thank God that there are people like you who can do all that so you can discover us charlatans. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Social dating code as understood by an autistic person who gets aroundAnyway, yeah it's not just you. Sorry you're getting the brunt of my frustration with s*** like this. but when I see it I call it out. No for every guy who I get to actually intercept I guess there's probably a thousand more who are spreading garbage as well. so it's nothing personal to you or against you, but I feel that you guys need to learn to be a little bit more ethical and responsible with the information that you're sharing to make sure that it's 100% field-tested, 100% legitimate, is ba… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Social dating code as understood by an autistic person who gets aroundYeah, of course I'm taking it personally because I have people who have called me who have been in the s***, they have called me desperate, borderline suicidal asking for advice because of people like you who feed them bulshit that never works. And what do they do? They blame themselves. They think there's something wrong with them. I think the problem is, you aren't taking it personally. You would rather feed your ego for a stupid internet fix than actually do something to help improve people's… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:40 AM |
| -7 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.That's what you're getting out of it, but unfortunately that's not what I said. At all. What you're using as some way to try and twist my words to make it seem like I'm saying something to discourage people, what I'm actually doing is encouraging people and motivating them. Seems like a lot of people are noticing that, but you can be the contrarian. Congratulations. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Social dating code as understood by an autistic person who gets aroundActually there's a huge danger behind Guys without The experience sharing what they know. Let's put it in perspective, if some guy never performed the surgery in his life, but then he went around teaching people surgery, how do you think that would affect people who were going to get treatment from the people he gave information to? From the people that he "taught". So why am I making a big deal out of it? Because guys come to this game in pain here they come to this game looking for an answer t… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:34 AM |
| 2 | The DIFFERENCE between Direct and Indirect Game and What They Are For? What about Hybrid Game?Let me actually see if I can f****** dig up this book which I think was a great beginner book back in the day. https://www.scribd.com/document/31080906/Weapons-of-Mass-Seduction-by-Senor-Fingers You're welcome. I can't believe that's still out there somewhere. Very very very underrated ebook. Actually feel like reading it again and just because I was able to find it LOL. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:14 AM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I'm not a young pup by any standard. I like to think I am though 😁 | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:12 AM |
| 32 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I keep hearing about EntropyPUAs book called models. EntropyPUA = Mark Manson. Something about, just be yourself, just be genuine, by a guy that spent at least a decade learning, applying, and using pick up tactics, techniques, and Material and wrote about it widely all over the internet on private forums related to pick up. But that vanished all of a sudden one day, then as a marketing gimmick he decided to try and be mr. Genuine, nice guy, just be yourself and models will want to have sex with… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:10 AM |
| 7 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Yeah, and you want to know what the funny thing is? Back when I started studying that stuff they weren't even laptops yet I don't think. So I literally printed out pages upon pages and put it into a binder and studied it that way so I could do it on the go. 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 04:45 AM |
| 5 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.no, Implement reading all of that, and getting a feel for what makes sense to you both through trial, error and experience and maybe what matches your personality. So, this is a difficult discussion that I'm going to have to write a whole other post on eventually. But the way that I learn in a tldr format, was I decided that I'm going to study everything that I could come across, and use what I could that would compliment my personality, remain the same me but only enhance the me that I already … | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 04:14 AM |
| 3 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.I guess you'll have to decide that for yourself. If you want to call b******* on what I'm saying, and you if want to be the contrarian guy, feel free to do that. Or, you can go through my history and read some of the post articles and so on that I have to say and if it rings true, maybe go out and give it a try for yourself. And see if it works. My guess is, because I have a lot of experience in the field, that you'll find by trying what I say, it will actually work, because it worked for me, an… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Thanks, yeah that's an interesting breakdown. About 3% of guys here know what they're talking about and are being legit and that's probably pretty accurate. I actually would say it's not just here but probably across the entire keychains of dating, seduction and pick up and that means mainstream and I guess more underground if you want to call it that. I would say literally out of even all the coaches and people who are teaching this probably only 3% are legit. Evenif they are wildly popular on … | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 04:00 AM |
| 9 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.There's no way I can answer that question without knowing what you need to work on. I know absolutely nothing about you. So for each person, the challenge is going to be whatever is holding them back. For one person that might be going in your conversation and getting over their nervousness or their fear, for another person it might be emotional issues that we need to work on before they even get into an interaction, for another person that might be what they have to say or the words that come o… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.A lot of this stuff will be confusing at first but what I always keep people is balance. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, but you have to balance it with intent, and also not being afraid to escalate and let her know that you are interested in her. So there's a fine line between being a guy who tries to be friends with her so that you can have sex versus a guy who is cool, friendly, but also is expressing intense and being a sexual guy. But also you don't want to just be the desperat… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 03:12 AM |
| 2 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Ironically, you may actually be thinking the opposite of what is reality. So now we're trying to sneak into her like trying to be friends with her, when you want to make things sexual may actually have the opposite effect and make you end up falling into the friend zone over and over again. there are a hundred reasons for that. Maybe when you get a chance do a YouTube search for a guy called David x. He's a big chubby dude but he knows what he's talking about | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 03:05 AM |
| 14 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.cool, my advice to you or anybody else reading this is, no matter what you learn, no matter how good you get, always always always remember, don't piss in the pool! Always leave the girl better than you found her. Don't be the jaded dick that makes the girl hate dies and f*** it up for all the guys him in future which is what I mean by don't piss in the pool. This is supposed to be a way that we can learn to connect with women and give them awesome experiences and of course share and get those s… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 02:40 AM |
| 4 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Hey man, no problem. Check out the other reply where I gave a guy a link, where he asked for where to get started. That may help you as well | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 02:28 AM |
| 21 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.Getting a lot of private messages asking the same thing. And you're going to either like this alot or you're going to think it's a bunch of bulshit but I will tell you straight up where I started. But this stuff I'm about to share is tack heavy. It's not the wishy-washy feel good s*** that you're going to hear these days. It's the real stuff that works. When I started reading stuff it was eye-opening. The good stuff is the old stuff when it comes to this seduction. There are a a few flaws that I… | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 02:27 AM |
| 6 | The Mediocrity Magnet - Why MOST of guys on here (or in this game) will continue to fail.LOL, your first paragraph for sounds like I'm reading something I wrote. Actually, I'm glad to know it's not just me that has noticed haha. There is hope! | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 01:16 AM |
| 1 | My opener was just a joke but she ran with it...You're learning something that most of these guys that are in this subreddit we'll never figure out. And that is, the art of flirting! You'll see all these guys saying, just be yourself, just go direct bro, just be genuine bro, girls don't like guys who use pickup lines! And you'll see those guys get hundreds of votes enthusiastic comments in agreement. And you'll be following the herd if you would listen to them into the realm of mediocrity. So yeah man, I actually like your message and the fac… | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Social dating code as understood by an autistic person who gets aroundI don't understand why posts like this get upvoted other than the fact that you're repeating the same thing that has been repeated a thousand times by people who are probably not that good at this game but read a lot of beginner material from other guys who are doing the same thing. We call this rehashing. This post could be written by anyone whether you're autistic or you're not autistic because it's been written by hundreds or more likely thousands of other noobs at this point. And just like t… | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 11:04 PM |
| -2 | A friend is using vulgar openers like "I would suck your cock if you would wear a strap-on" and gets laid. Why?Nothing new. Grand Master Style he might not purposely be doing this specific thing but he's doing the exact same thing. Read: Contributed to ASF by Nathan Szilard, this is the description of the technique used by a PUA acquaintance of his nick-named Grand Master Flash's. Hence the name GM technique. The key here is smutty sex jokes and continuous humorous sex-talk with keen attention to how the girl reacts, so as to forestall any negative reactions (and you can be sure, there will be plenty in … | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | The DIFFERENCE between Direct and Indirect Game and What They Are For? What about Hybrid Game?Fuckin A, Bobby! | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | {FR} still suffering from AANow, on another note. I just wrote a post actually that you might want to read, I'm not going to link it cuz I literally just put it up look for my name. It's called "A Primer - how to properly use direct and indirect game." Something like that. You're going to have to go through a little bit of a pain period THEN GO BACK to what you're doing now. Spend a couple of weeks only going direct, you something a little bit more creative than I think you're gorgeous and I want to meet you. Maybe try, "H… | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | {FR} still suffering from AATake the pressure off. Someone said you a lie, and I know it's a popular lie, and I know that a lot of people believe in the lie, but unfortunately a long time ago some nerds came up with a theory that gives people an excuse to hold themselves back and believe in a fairy tale dragon. They didn't deliberately lie to anybody, they just didn't know any better. Here. Listen to this and RETHINK what's really going on. https://youtu.be/B8ZCBnxCHOg ↑↑ Goes for anyone else who is caught up by so-called … | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Indirect vs direct openers if you are not typically considered attractiveThe reality is, that direct only works for a very small percentage of guys, the rest go up and bounce off of hundreds of checks and have a very low success rate. but, it's the easiest most user-friendly answer, and it makes guys overcompensate for feeling insecure and frustrated by making them believe that they're taking action and being powerful when it's actually just being extremely lazy. There are definitely benefits, chew going direct, but it is super limited in scope. The best guys I know … | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 07:12 PM |
| -4 | Indirect vs direct openers if you are not typically considered attractive🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ I'm just not even going to bother.... | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Indirect vs direct openers if you are not typically considered attractiveThis argument is as old as this community (older than the actual Reddit seduction group) and the answer is simple (yeah right.). You're going to find a lot of guys especially these days telling you, just go direct bro and be genuine and be yourself. And then you'll find that those guys really aren't having that much success anyway, unless they are extremely good-looking and exactly what most girls consider their type. The truth is, that going direct is only going to work consistently for probabl… | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with the social stigma around using PUA/game websites ? And what are your own thoughts about using it?He's using a saying that's older than you are. And he also is way more successful than you'll ever hope to be. So, you can get all virtue signaling and social justice warrior about it, or you can learn from it. My guess is that you'll just be the social justice virtue signaling warrior GoGoCancelCulture | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 01:32 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with the social stigma around using PUA/game websites ? And what are your own thoughts about using it?If you go around feeling guilty about studying and learning seduction, you're going to come across as a f****** creepy bastard.there's nothing wrong with seduction, it's that there is the thing that we used to talk about like 15 or 20 years ago, social programming. Social programming makes you believe that there's something wrong with being seductive and seducing. Social programming is the thing that tells you it's bad and you shouldn't talk about it and you shouldn't embrace it and you shouldn'… | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Overcompensation - How the EGO tricks you into remaining STUCK while telling you you're progressing.Part of it. You definitely have to do the approaches. But as I say all the time. It's 50% Field Time and 50% learning studying and applying the things that you've learned and studied. You can't just go out and do approaches. I'm sorry, that works for 20% of the guys maybe 10% of the guys who are just good looking and maybe inherently they have some social abilities but they just never really tried to use them. I got lucky a couple times and had some perfectly good students who came to me who wer… | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffIn all seriousness, and you may think it's stupid or pathetic or a waste of time, but I really I'm in the business of helping guys succeed at this. S*** on it all you want. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffDon't forget your bag of dicks when you decide to have lunch today. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking Offit's probably not for you. The difference that you're not seeing is that I'm trying to help guys avoid a disaster and this guy is just full of s***.. Your ego is making you want to be the guy who's above everybody else so you want to try and s*** on both sides, when that really just makes you weak and self inflated. A man of courage, strength, and Truth is willing to step behind what's right. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffHere's your hero. A guy who literally said he doesn't get out much and doesn't even know how to set up a date with a girl. The reason I'm a coach is because I can see through this s*** because I have enough experience. Unfortunately many people do not have the experience to see through b******* because they haven't been out there enough. To me is EASY to see. To new guys, they fall for a lot of garbage. And you're mad at me because you don't like the truth and you would rather believe some shyst… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Overcompensation - How the EGO tricks you into remaining STUCK while telling you you're progressing.This post was actually written before you even started dating, Junior. Can you tell me more about how you don't know how to follow up with a girl and get a date, or that you don't know how to get out of your house and meet women? https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/eav212/am_i_over_thinking_this/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/eb7ivs/how_to_ask_a_girl_a_out/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking Off840 likes almost from people who don't even have enough sense to go back and look at the guys history and realize that he's completely full of shit. 💩💩 This is called blind leading the blind and is a major reason that the dating, pickup and seduction community is in the toilet and why so many of you guys end up frustrated and angry after following advice from so-called experts. 4 days ago the guy doesn't know how to get a date. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/eb7ivs/how_to_ask_a_girl_a_… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffLike your entire post and existence. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffThe difference between you and drevil here is that you actually went out and did this and drevil is a keyboard jockey who's sitting on his ass writing from his mom's basement who's never actually gone out and did any of the stuff he's trying to pretend he knows about in his post. The good news is, keep your thinking cap on and your b******* filter high, because just by seeing through guys like this you're going to be a hundred times better off at growing and having success. The bad news is, so m… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Overcompensation - How the EGO tricks you into remaining STUCK while telling you you're progressing.Thanks, I've probably been in this game for over 15 years, and I keep seeing the same kind of posts or attitudes from certain guys from time to time that are just so far off. I wrote this article, I would say, over 7 years ago but I rehashed it here because I thought it was useful. It seems like so many guys fall for the same nonsense, so if I can help a few avoid the major mistakes, then hell yeah. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffBecause he's full of shit. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 07:07 AM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffYou just spent a whole post raging about how women are whores and sluts, yelling at guys, obsessed with porn addiction and jerking off, and typing in all-caps like some 9 year old kid nerd raging over a video game, and you're calling me bitter. 😂😂😂 You're drowning so much in your own bullshit you can't see how ridiculous you sound. Look up irony. That's you. Have a nice life of being lonely and alone and having to pretend to other guys on the internet for attention. | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffI thought you were gone already, go back to your porn addiction. I'll tell you one thing for sure, the amount of girls that you had in your entire life, I'll run circles around in a year. the reason why you're calling me a white knight is because you're a guy who has had almost no success and you want people to think that you're a big swinging dick. And you're reading into what I'm saying and trying to say that I'm saying things that I actually never said. Nice try, loser. You're a waste of f***… | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffI'm having this discussion with some of my clients right now from the past, and it's an interesting one. My point isn't that he's telling people to do stuff. My point is he's coming from a place of inexperience. I'm pretty sure by reading that he's not even doing what he's telling other people to do. You can go out and do hundreds of approaches you can do 20 approaches a day.... first of all. Let me just say no one is doing 20 approaches a day, no one is holding down on normal job, having a norm… | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 09:26 PM |
| -2 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffThere you go again, overcompensating for trying to communicate what you thinking alpha sounds like, and you just sound like a corny, angry teenage kid. Thanks again for proving my point. I just used you as an example of what not to be to my alumni students. | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 06:09 PM |
| -2 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffAgain, it's actually the art of communication that can be broken down into basic psychology, however because you misunderstand the concept of what all these things are taught for, you blame them. It's the mark of a guy who doesn't actually get laid, but talks loud about it. That's you. My advice to anybody who reads your garbage, is to completely ignore anything you have to say. You just want attention, so you're actually the guy who probably sits at home all alone, doesn't have women in your li… | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 05:47 PM |
| -7 | The Paralysis of Analysis and the Fear of Rejection- Why You Are Lonely and Jacking OffStopped reading after you don't know what a neg is or what it's supposed to accomplish, and you try trying to act like you know what you're talkin about and that's "why you're trying to trash an neg." But what it's actually showing is that you have no grasp of the fundamentals or the basics. Usually the guys who are terrible at game, but want everybody to think that they're awesome at game, do things like nitpick the technology that works because they actually misunderstand it, don't know how to… | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually improve your personality?My pleasure | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 12:49 AM |
| 3 | How do you actually improve your personality?also I use talk to text which is good, because I write stream of consciousness anyways so I would be literally saying the same thing if I sat there and typed it all out. But then sometimes I go back and read my posts and realize certain words are garbled and I have to go back and change it because doesn't make sense. 😔 | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually improve your personality?I'll take as many of those as I can get LOL | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you actually improve your personality?One of my clients right now is a brain surgeon LOL And he says the same thing. Inside that I have an amazing gift for breaking things down I'm making complicated issue seems simple. I've been told that in different ways by different people which is why spend time coaching now. Well, that's one of like a hundred reasons but it's still a good reason LOL. I'll think about posting it as a standalone. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 07:09 PM |
| 9 | How do you actually improve your personality?It's a quote by someone called Louise Erdrich, take it up with her. It's meant to be motivating. Not meant to be a science class. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 4 | How do you actually improve your personality?Good man. You got this. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you actually improve your personality?Watch those two movies dude. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 18 | How do you actually improve your personality?You're so you're heartbroken and distrustful. So I've had that happen a bunch of my life before I was in game. I would find girls who were sexy as hell, and they would crush my heart. Literally destroy it. But guess what? instead of letting it defeat me, I use it as a way to motivate me to learn everything I needed to learn to become successful with women and since then I have met so many sexy and awesome women, but I had shared experiences with, it's just been amazing. But here's the thing you … | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 04:44 PM |
| 4 | How do you actually improve your personality?So you've never enjoyed the company of anybody ever? Is there ever someone in your life that you've ever been with or hung out with or a figure could be a friend family member oh, whatever, that you felt genuinely comfortable around? | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | I need inspiration! Which films have a focus (or a few good scenes) on men practicing great seduction?Watch:.Swingers - a really young Vince Vaughn is in it. And the guy who directs all the Iron Man movies. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 03:54 PM |
| 48 | How do you actually improve your personality?If you were my client, and you felt the way you do, I'd immediately tell you to sign up for some charity like working at a soup kitchen or something for a month. I'd also tell you to tell me about a time in your life that you legitimately felt happiness, joy, peace and oneness with the people in the world around you. Maybe even if it was just for a short time. Then while you were working at the soup kitchen for a month, we would explore your motivations. What causes you peace, love and happiness… | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How To Overcome The "Butterflies" And Approach That Beautiful GirlHappy to have helped you come up with a concept. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Got « rejected » yesterday. Let it go or try again?And you'll think that and you'll still not have success, and you'll keep spinning your wheels doing what you're doing, and this is why you don't have women in your life. Do what you want. I don't care, I just gave you a map that works for a ton of people. I have a huge track record of success myself, and, I have a huge amount of clients that are successful as well. Guys who came to me clueless, virgins, social anxiety, whatever you name it. And now some of them are married or have long-term rela… | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Got « rejected » yesterday. Let it go or try again?Priorities in order. Close the deal. Have sex. Can you have sex with her? Is she turned on enough to want to have sex with you? Then do that. If NOT then... Instadate - go do something NOW with her that's fun and interesting. Ice cream, cool coffee shop, cocktails, bubble tea, whatever. Make it fun. Make it an adventure! If not... Time Bridge! (Look it up if you don't know what it means. EVERY GUY LEARNING THIS SHOULD KNOW WHAT A TIMEBRIDGE IS.) Phone number is your LAST RESORT You explained why… | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?Haha. I am a dating coach but we're not really allowed to advertise on Reddit. But if you were to search for "creating the man" on fb that you can find our page. It's got a blue background with a white c as the profile picture right now. I've been coaching for years, but we really haven't taken it serious like a marketing product or branding until this last few months so now we're re-launching with a serious face so to speak. But at the risk of coming across spammy that's all I can say. If you o… | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Don’t be like Bob: how to succeed with women by Ron Louis and David CopelandI can vouch for Bob, as he was one of my students, and we are thinking of filing a defamation lawsuit against Louis and Copeland. Haha. The first part is true, this particular Bob definitely started tearing shit up. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 11:26 PM |
| 2 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?Let me know this is pretty good. Pretty good but still very matter-of-fact and not a lot of emotion. You're getting closer though I would actually tweak it and try and put more feeling an emphasis into the feelings. Remember, sights, smells, colors, like I want to feel like I'm there. And like I told the other guy who just wrote his story the second time, I want you to make me feel like I was there. As a matter of fact, it seems like you just wanted to get the story done because the actual most … | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 06:43 PM |
| 3 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?Okay. I would make a couple more tweaks, because of what I'm about to have you do. The next step I would do is maybe add a little tiny bit more color. Cuz I think this is really good this is a huge improvement over the last one, but let's see if you can remember band names and things like that and specifics. Also take out the sentence with the kino practice. You can change the words, like we were reviving so well, "we kept touching each other and just vibing awesome" or "we just cocked so well, … | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?Cool. I'll take a look. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?Come on man, don't give up now. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?I don't really have much help for you. Sorry. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?And that's what you're passionate about getting Stoned and almost blowing yourself up? | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 02:05 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?But I don't really like to explain this exercise, because I think part of the exercise is not explaining it until I have guys do it. but another guy is taking up the challenge of looks like so you can follow along with him if he sticks to it. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 12:38 AM |
| 4 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?Try again. You just gave a rundown of events. Like you basically summarized events that happen. Not enough. I don't even know what concert, I don't know the bar, I don't know your friends names, I don't know what kind of music it is, I don't know who the f*** you are, I don't know what the environment was like, I don't know if there were any girls around or all your friends are guys, I don't know what city I don't know what state I don't know the color of the scenery I don't know the feeling I d… | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 12:37 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?Actually there's an exercise involved. Gratitude works wonders by the way I'm not trying to discount that, but there's an actual exercise involved that I was trying to get the original poster to do but it seems like he's not interested? I haven't seen or maybe he's just not checked this post yet. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 11:57 PM |
| 11 | How to seduce people when you are shy and boring?The question isn't, that you're boring... the question is, why are you letting your mind feed you a loop of a fear-based b******* over and over to the point where you're actually believing and listening to it. Because I'll tell you something. The most interesting people that you talk to, the people who can captivate an audience, the people who can Get people into lively discussions, they don't always have the most interesting lives at all. They just believed in their own b******* well enough to … | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 07:49 PM |
| 6 | Escalation - So Simple A Baby Can Do It (more in comments)Let's talk about something important! Put that coffee down! Coffee is for closers only! LOL, anyway no I just wanted to kind of comment on this. This is the simplicity of touch and kino and escalation, from the wisdom of a child. As a matter of fact we can break this down to the essence of Seduction itself. Because what happens? When we are small, when we are little, our mom's, relatives, relatives friends, everybody wants to hug the baby or hold the baby or touch the baby, and with the simplici… | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | DROP ALL LIMITATIONOh Jesus... 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Where to find abundance?I just gave him great advice, and you're trying to ruin it by whining about me making a comment meant as tongue-in-cheek. Calm down | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Where to find abundance?Well you can keep giving yourself reasons why you can't succeed and why you're going to fail. "I can't do this cuz I don't like that! I don't want to do that because I don't like that either!" Nobody takes has the basics are fundamentals anymore. No one likes going to the f****** club to meet girls dude. Even the guys that say that you don't like it, they just made themselves believe they like that because they're not really sure what the hell going the club is for. But back in the day we knew t… | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 04:24 PM |
| 2 | What are the few " disqualifier " statements you've used that made the girl invested in you?Lol I get gas on 8 Mile all the time because that's where the cheapest gas station is. Eight Mile right off of i-75. And I used to live two blocks from 8 Mile in a town called Ferndale. I used to live there probably for, I don't know, 3 or so years. And I have driven up and down 8 Mile. 8 Mile goes all the way from St Clair shores, all the way to f*** over to Farmington Hills and all that stuff. So, there's nice areas, if you're getting towards the water like Saint Clair Shores, and then Farming… | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | What are the few " disqualifier " statements you've used that made the girl invested in you?Yeah, Detroit is actually on the upswing and he's becoming a very cool city as well. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Confusion on direct vs. indirect openersI suppose. It's funny, I was watching something on voice acting yesterday, and it's almost like the same thing mirrored over here. You got these guys who are coaching, and they're talking about how most of the gurus are coaching experts in the voice acting community are full of s***, you've never gotten a voice acting gig in their life, but that's who most of the new people gravitate to LOL. So I guess it's not just the dating and seduction and pick up community that has that problem. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Confusion on direct vs. indirect openersLol Premise is garbage. I never heard of it until I just read it, but that's got to be the most nonsensical thing I've ever heard. I don't know much about this Todd guy other than the fact that he's an RSD reject, but when I hear guys say that a girl doesn't know what you want when you go up and talk to her, she most certainly does. As a matter of fact I am certain that one of the first things that crosses her mind when a random guy comes up and starts talking to her is that he wants to have sex… | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Confusion on direct vs. indirect openersYour first problem is you're listening to Mark Manson about anything. The next problem is you're listening to some RSD guy tell you what to do. The answer to the question is, what situation are you in? Be flexible. Where are you at, what time of day, what's going on, what are the surroundings like, what's she doing, what are you doing, like use common sense. Some situations indirect is going to work better, and other situations direct is going to work better or, may just be the only thing that m… | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Cannot think of an indirect daytime indirect opener that doesn't feel try hard or sound cliche like 'whats the time/directions'Not everyone gets it. I've had clients come to me, who had been studying pick up for 10 years, five years, whatever and were not getting results, and what they needed was direction and a map to get where they need to go. They needed a few tweaks, and I had them having success and no time. Not everyone is able to kind of figure out this stuff by just trial and error, as a matter of fact, I would say that most guys can't. You got a few guys here and there who will say they are having success, and … | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Cannot think of an indirect daytime indirect opener that doesn't feel try hard or sound cliche like 'whats the time/directions'Depends on where you're at. Are you in a coffee shop? Are you in a bookstore, is it on the street? Where are you during the day. That's going to make a big difference. I have used situational indirect for a long time and got pretty awesome results to be honest. Who gives a f*** if you're telegraphing interest? Let me tell you a secret right now. I'll tell you a secret so you can get it out of your f****** head and not worry about it anymore. If you're going up and talking to a girl during the mi… | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 05:11 PM |
| 8 | What are the few " disqualifier " statements you've used that made the girl invested in you?This is only going to work on the hotter girls and if you live in a big city and you see this girl in a big city. You ask, "What suburb are you from?" Or if you're in a suburb close to the city the has a popular bar/club area where lots of girls and people go out, then you have to scale it back a bit. Now you're going to ask her what part of the most hickish area, (Tattoos, Vapes, ICP fans, white kids wearing rave pants sagging and crappy dreads or mullets - every metropolitan area has one of th… | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 7 | What happens if game is all you want to do? (Deep discussion about game and seduction)So, there's nothing wrong with being passionate about what you like to do. A lot of people will disagree with what I'm saying here. Football players, especially when they are playing sports at younger ages, and when they go pro, their whole life revolves around football. Hockey players, basketball players, people in theater, they hang around with other people who are in theater and talk about theater all the time, talk about their favorite productions and artists. People who are in business, the… | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 04:32 PM |
| 3 | The best way to say "I Want to F You"Creepy af and will simply keep the most guys stuck, expecting that these over inflated reactions are going to happen, when in reality you don't even have to get even a tenth of a reaction like this for a girl to want to have sex with you. and as a matter of fact, only the real desperate ones are going to do this. The girls who want to have sex with you, probably won't even let you know other than in certain subtle ways that you're not going to pick up if you're looking for this kind of nonsense. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..This is a perfect example of why posts like this should be moved to like a sub board for noobs. Because here you are, and this guy too, thinking that this is some sort of forward progress, when in reality it's just pure bad advice to give other people and you don't really have something to share. Doesn't make you a bad person, that just makes you new. And it's okay to be new, but in order for guys to improve, this subreddit and other groups like this should be focused on trying to get the actual… | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..I hate to be that guy, but I will be. Posts like these are my guys stay stuck and don't improve. It's that simple. "Hey everyone that's not improving and not succeeding, we're all in this together! You're not the only one." And then guys enthusiastically upvote Because they're all in the same boat. I'm not taking away from the fact that you actually decided to take action, that's good. But it's all so no big deal. It might be a big deal in your experience, but as far as overall success goes for … | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Anyone see a way out of this?Intent is KEY! KEY! And the purpose of my dates are to get naked and have fun with her having a lot of fun with me. It might even be giving her an orgasm that has her lying there in a fetal position for 5 minutes or so, glowing and then having her thank me while I pour us another glass of wine OR maybe go get that dinner we were planning on going to get BEFORE ending up at my place naked first. How are these concepts so alien these days? But this guy here has a LOT of work to do before he can ev… | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Anyone see a way out of this?Mark Manson is a scam lol. you're not going to get anywhere reading his book and trying to apply it to yourself because he was a pickup artist way back in the day who studied and learned and practiced for years and years doing all the pickup artist stuff in order to get success with women, and then turned around and told everybody else, "No you don't need all that just be yourself and be genuine." Like a guy who studied and practice mixed martial arts for years, speaking of which, and then you s… | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone see a way out of this?Ever consider coaching? Haha. You're the kind of challenges i like to overcome. Even took complete virgins with your M.O. and got them consistent action. My current roster of students except for the newest guy I haven't had a chance to work with yet, they all have gotten women in their lives sexually. I'm probably above 90% success rate and I love the hard cases because I like to Solve Puzzles. Me clients are all successful people already. Doctors, Surgeons, CEOs, Finance, Business Consultants, … | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Does my skin color screw me over?you're 17 so you still got room to grow, but I'll give you a hint. It's not your skin color, it's your goofy Avatar. The short of it is, women can tell what guys have women in their life because women seem to leave a little bit of a stamp on men, in the fact that men who have been around a lot of women develop a really good sense of style. What you want to do when you're in the game of trying to attract women is you want to develop a really good Avatar, something that tells women that you're a c… | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsNo. You don't. | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Me and BF have been together for 1 year and haven't had sexNevermind that... You're not old enough for wine. Hmmm. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Me and BF have been together for 1 year and haven't had sexWait, how old are you guys? | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 04:19 AM |
| 4 | I will give myself 2-3 hours, 3 times a week to approach. Whatever happens, happens but I will push myself to my limits little by little. I will sit in the discomfort.Here, I'll help you with that. Flip the mindset, because you're reading garbage that dumb people told you and they created something that now you feel is a demon that you need to conquer, when in reality it's actually a normal thing there to help you. Listen to my podcast. I've been so busy lately that I haven't had a chance to put up more podcasts but dude let me tell you right now, Approach Anxiety is a Lie | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Me and BF have been together for 1 year and haven't had sexHe's BEYDA! lol. It's his job to escalate. Meet him at the door in hot lingerie and a bottle of Cocobon from Trader Joe's and if this don't happen he's got some issues that have nothing to do with you. Or he's a good Christian with values and is saving it until Marriage. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 04:14 AM |
| 3 | My Coaching Experience with GeeseCTMHaha, Vamp. I will Wonderboy Thompson your ass with a spinning heel to the face and then straight up DC slam your ass. By the way, Diaz was robbed and fight of the night imo for the real BMF belt should have gone to Wonderboy. I think Masvidal should have literally refused the belt and insisted on a re match. Nate would have come on strong in rounds 4 and 5 as usual. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I buy the SYSTEMBYTODD?Anyone ever associated with RSD is likely a scammer. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What are some signs that a girl wants to be left alone and not approached?Unless you're psychic there's no way to know. Stay out of your head and just go go go. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:21 AM |
| 2 | My Coaching Experience with GeeseCTMOh hey, that's me he's talking about... 😁 Let me read this real quick. I have no idea what he said... | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:09 AM |
| 8 | WARNING: Don't give RSD your credit card!RSD are now and have always been scammers. When will guys wake up to that? | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 04:08 PM |
| 12 | Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your ProblemsGoing to the gym will not solve your problems. Making money will not solve your problems. Eating healthy will not solve your problems. Living life to the fullest will not solve your problems. These kinds of posts are dumb and usually are appealing to people who are not having sex in their life and want to feel good about it. I'll tell you what sex will do, it will give you a lot of cool memories to hold on to even at a point in your life where maybe you can't have sex anymore and you have to loo… | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | The High Cost of Staying HomeNo, I just think there's some people on Reddit that are kind of weirdos. | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 04:27 PM |
| 0 | The High Cost of Staying HomeLol, Bobby. Someone got mad and downvoted our discussion 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | The High Cost of Staying HomeGood eye! I don't think he's active anymore but if you can find more stuff by him I recommend it. | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | The High Cost of Staying Home3 or 4. That we both know? | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 10:47 PM |
| -1 | The High Cost of Staying HomeShut up, Bobby. You know who it is. Take a guess. Assuming you know that there's not too many people that I have met whose articles I will rehash. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?Dude, I can promise you this. I have gotten more tail in one year than you have your entire life and probably will have the rest of your life. especially with the attitude that you're clinging to. And I can see right through it and see that you don't like yourself, you have a deep self-loathing of yourself, and no. You're not using negs properly. Have you even read Neg Theory? I'll answer that for you. No. Mystery, the guy who created negging said it's for the nines and tens only. And in those c… | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?Yes. She will still not have deserved it. Dude she's got major insecurities and you're trying to f****** make her feel worse just so you can have sex. There's such things as push pull and negs but you're going about it all f****** wrong. You're being a low self-esteem, insecure, manipulative douchebag. if you have problems thinking that people are going to leave you alone, then you need to fix your f****** self. Because that means you hate yourself. You have a gigantic self-loathing, and because… | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 03:08 AM |
| 2 | This might sound unethical, but how do you play on a girl's insecurities to get her to like you more?You're pissing in the pool, and by bringing darkness deliberately into someone else's life, you will suffer. Guarantee it... I'm the farthest thing from a white knight you will find. I'm just being honest. You're going to suffer dude. You're bringing all sorts of bad juju into your life. You don't even have to believe in karma or anything spiritual, it will still come back to bite you in the ass and its going to be hell. Seduction is meant to enrich people's lives on both sides of the fence. Not… | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullhttps://www.reddit.com/r/hardstyle/comments/btjhh0/going_to_a_hardtyle_festival_alone/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share You literally admit that you don't have any friends. Where's all your women at? What about friends? Dude, instead of trying to get mad at me because you're alone and lonely, and lashing out, maybe take a look at yourself. Maybe take a look at why you're writing posts why you care so much about what other people think and why you're alone and you can't find a date or frie… | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullI wasn't fighting. I literally was giving you good advice, you're just sensitive and angry and need this to be a contest so I am toying with you. I imagine when girls present a challenge your emotions get all bent out of shape as well and you react the same way towards them. You're literally helping show your own inexperience with women through your lack of emotional control. If you can't handle me then women will eat you alive at the clubs. I'll leave you alone. 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullHere's some links to DEFINITELY not check out and make sure to avoid. My website: www.creatingtheman.com A few recent podcasts: Creating The Man Podcasts - stay tuned for more And here's a couple of my scammy posts right here in Reddit that got rather popular in my short time here: How the EGO Effects Your "Game" And Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success Everyone DEFINITELY don't check any of this out and make sure you upvote this guy's post so more people can see what a sc… | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullUpvoted. 😁 | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullI'll just add this.. Anyone interested in my coaching can talk to my Alumni any time before dropping that cash. I actually ENCOURAGE it! This month alone I have one current student who just got a new girlfriend, and one alumni that ended up getting married and is currently on his honeymoon at Disney. 😁 I have the pics to prove it and I'm pretty positive that guy will talk to anyone serious about checking out my coaching about his experience with me. Definitely not my first client that ended up m… | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 11:26 PM |
| 0 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullSo thanks for the example. You're stuck in that competition pua mindset. It's funny how I called you out for being that way, and then you try to write this long, somewhat unreadable diatribe where you just try to throw it back at me. Nice try. This is why I said good luck to you earlier because I really didn't want to get in this beta male pickup guy contest that you're stuck in. "I'll show him who's boss." Now that I tried to give you a heart felt reply, here you go with all your pick up compet… | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullThere's one thing I'll agree with you with. 99% of the advice on most of the pick up forums anywhere is garbage. That's because what has happened is that most of the inexperienced guys, want to start sharing what they think is quality advice. It's sort of a natural human reaction, people want to feel like others are looking at them as people who know what they're doing. so you have a combination of the blind leading the blind. You got guys who are honest about wanting to get help, and those are … | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | what is your biggest barrier preventing you connecting with women?I feel your pain. Been there done that. | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I CAN'T TOUCH A GIRLI feel like this is more of a "I don't know how." Take baby steps. It's all on my talk on my website. | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 07:50 PM |
| 2 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullI don't understand. I feel like this is an ego trip for you. You're here on this sub complaining any being here on this sub... 🤔🤔 The only reason that you posted this as far as I can see is that you want to make yourself feel Superior to everyone else here, and float your ego. That's the whole purpose of your post look at me I'm a success and everything else here sucks compared to what I know and what I do. Just be yourself, bro. Ok good for you. However it is a common occurrence for new guys wh… | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 07:40 PM |
| 0 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullThe funny and ironic thing that I think is that when I read posts like you where you're just saying be yourself, I find that guys like you are too lazy and afraid to try out new things out that could help you improve so you just go out and do the same thing over and over and hope it works. On occasion you might get lucky but read these groups, dude. That approach simply does not work for most people, at all. Imagine if you could allow yourself to learn the ins-and-outs of game how much better yo… | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Screwed up first date by being too forward - any hope of recovery?You can't fix it. Something you did or several things you did on the date killed attraction. Pop I'm not sure if the first kiss was spontaneous or you trying to make it happen. But just by reading that part makes you come across as needy specifically the follow up. Rule of thumb. Learn microcalibration If you got the kiss on the lips and you tried for more and she didn't go for it you need to Pull Away in some way. You have to make it seem as if that was YOUR decision not hers. I personally woul… | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | i feel like the mindset of this community is not helpfullAgreed. I also COMPLETELY disagree that telling a guy what to say or do in a specific situation is not helpful but the caveat is that the guys who are sharing that information SHOULD HAVE SUCCEEDED IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS several times to the point that they can easily see what could actually be helpful for a guy to do. Unfortunately that's not always the case.. Many inexperienced guys like to share what they would do or tell you why what you're saying is wrong (I don't get the latter so much but … | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Any pick up books or coachs who specialize in relationships!Me. Lol. Just had another client get married a week ago and another one with a new girlfriend as of this month. Most of my clients seem to end up with girlfriends long term or get married. Some of these guys started out virgins or worse. Example the guy that just got married was having straight up debilitating panic attacks in social settings before I started working with him. I'm not an easy coach by any standard and I give guys a lot of work, push and challenge them, but if they do what I say … | /r/seduction | 21/10/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Street approach to instant date - I think I might've really messed up here...Practice makes perfect, and you're on the right track. The old saying is, unconscious incompetence, conscious incompetence, conscious competence, and then the end game is unconscious competence. I think you're on the right path after reading this post. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Street approach to instant date - I think I might've really messed up here...Even though you're a douchebag I'll still try and help you. Seeing how you lashed out here at some guy who's trying to improve an actually making improvements, and how you had a meltdown at me for trying to help him, AND after reading your post about how you can't be yourself and are controlling, manipulative and women can't stand being around you long, I totally think this advice applies to you. It's a start. You have A LOT OF WORK TO DO https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dgzssm/how_th… | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 10:02 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Street approach to instant date - I think I might've really messed up here...How much money? Because not only will I have plenty of people vouch for my success, but I will also have plenty of people who started out hopeless, alone, single, social anxiety, you name it tell you that I helped them have long-term relationships, and even get married. Why don't you look at my history, dummy. Before opening your mouth. You're forever alone and angry and frustrated and you hate life and you hate people who you think might be having more success than you, and that chip on your sh… | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice.Good luck. Let me know how things turn out. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 09:47 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Street approach to instant date - I think I might've really messed up here...Says this guy https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/cm6s23/how_do_i_get_back_to_being_myself/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when a girl send u nudes?sure, there are many pathways that will lead to success, but in my opinion I like to pick the strongest one that will have the best possible outcome. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Street approach to instant date - I think I might've really messed up here...Right at the beginning, I would have tried, not seriously but playfully, to shut her phone down. In other words, I would have said, it's rude to be on your phone when you're hanging out with someone. Or, it's bad table manners, something along those lines. I would have told her basically to put the phone away. Her brain was on autopilot trying to figure out how to get home.. You needed to snap her out of that headspace and become more interesting. I think you were doing okay overall, but I feel … | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when a girl send u nudes?Where she you from? You don't know what stack the deck means? | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when a girl send u nudes?You can. Sure. My approach is more stack the deck. 😉 Stack the deck means to cheat or to fix something so a desired outcome is achieved. An example of stack the deck is when you slip an extra few aces into the playing cards that you deal yourself. https://www.yourdictionary.com/stack-the-deck | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | What do you say when a girl send u nudes?Different scenario. I know where you're getting at but I think in this case, when it's already like sexual, bring out that raw animalistic s*** instead of trying to over game a little bit & comment on something that doesn't make sense. Why? Because this is the time not to be cheeky, but actually to reward and encourage her sexuality. you want her to feel good about being sexual and expressing herself sexual with you, so definitely give her a reward for it. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | I need some advice.Send me money, bitch! Haha. Just kidding. I'm glad to hear it worked out. There's something magical about making out in the middle of the street by the way. Been there done that and it's always awesome! Grats! | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 06:45 PM |
| 11 | What do you say when a girl send u nudes?"I'd send you my dick pick back but that's too cliche. You should just come see it in person." "By the way, Damn your x is hot!" X being whatever the pick was or what you liked best in the pic. | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Friend said I'm appearing quite obvious when at a karaoke bar with friends and crushMaybe write some details so sometime knows what you're talking about. | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I am 25yo and never really had a sex life - any advice on how to change that?Sent you too. I'm trying not to spam on here but at some point you guys who are stuck may want to consider getting some coaching. I've had guys just like you that I took from virgins to getting their first girl and beyond. A lot of guys look at this like it's all about getting laid. I take it beyond that. Getting laid is the easy part. Becoming a kind of man women are attracted to and want to be with? That's more what I'm teaching. Anyway like I said. Not trying to spam the board so if this comm… | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Don't get along with people in small cityI get that. But they're probably thinking the same thing about you. Like I said. That's how you're coming across to me. When you say 300+ again. Just sounds like you're making shit up. And if your not mating it to your coming across as weird that you even know that. How do I know? Because unless you're keeping some sort of weird checklist ... I mean dude, I lost count around 40 or 50. And that's WITH having breaks for dating guess long term. There literally no way I could count up to 300. So tha… | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Only attracted to a certain typeYea. Once you start having sex with different girls and the sex is awesome your brain will add those girls to the list of what you're attracted to. At least that's what mine did. So allow yourself to play until you come across that ideal because the practice is necessary for you to get better anyway. During my coaching sessions I would send my clients to go talk to girls. Kind of like what they do in pua bootcamps but I'm WAY different in how I do things. Anyway, some guys would say things simil… | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't get along with people in small cityCountless lays - translation. 5 girls or less. 😁 I only say that because guys who have had a lot of women in their life usually get over that whole thing of calling their experiences with women "countless lays". You sound like a robot. Maybe your problem with your new town is that you don't have much of a personality and come across like a weirdo creepster and people don't like that. Because that's how you came across to me when I read this post. Ijs. Countless lays... 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Guy : "Most, if not all, girls are always polite. They won't be hostile when they reject romantic advances" Me : ( Shows evidence of the immediate female hostility ) Guy : "Doesn't matter she is a bxtch & other girls are different"Whoever said girls are nice are virgins. Do yourself a favor, mate, and watch the THE ENTIRE 6 hours of this. https://youtu.be/ZphmbdW6ugo | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Guy : "Most, if not all, girls are always polite. They won't be hostile when they reject romantic advances" Me : ( Shows evidence of the immediate female hostility ) Guy : "Doesn't matter she is a bxtch & other girls are different"Whether they are or aren't what does that help you with as far as getting better at meeting/attracting them? | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Guy : "Most, if not all, girls are always polite. They won't be hostile when they reject romantic advances" Me : ( Shows evidence of the immediate female hostility ) Guy : "Doesn't matter she is a bxtch & other girls are different"What's your point? | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Is this a shit test?No, no no no. No. Why are you taking her to an expensive steakhouse? That's problem one. We need to start with the basics of where you're screwing up before you can start moving forward to where you think you're screwing up. | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The "secret" society of Pick-Up Artists and The Wizard of OzI'm not sure. What do Jews have to do with anything? | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 10:21 PM |
| 0 | The "secret" society of Pick-Up Artists and The Wizard of OzStopped reading after you said Style knew something i didn't. I already know from people who know me and him both and have hung out with both of us that I would run circles around Style in field. You do realize that he got 99% of his success from swinger parties right? And that he actually married his last wife that he met at a swinger party AFTER she cheated on him and she ended up dumping and cheating on him again. I can imagine him going up to a girl that just got done being banged by a train… | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness - that is life” - Jean Luc Picard😂😂 | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness - that is life” - Jean Luc PicardHe was banging girls all over the Galaxy. Kirk philosophy: "If she's hot fuck her no matter the consequences." "Alien life? Blow that shit up!" | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 06:48 PM |
| 3 | “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness - that is life” - Jean Luc PicardKirk got laid. Picard didn't. | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of daygame outside of meeting women?Other than women? Maybe the ability to learn how to be naturally social, and gregarious, and attractive in any situation because if you can learn to approach women during the day, as opposed to having your remind me in that state where you feel like you're in a nightclub scene and that's when you have to go play, like GAME ON! In other words, you teach yourself to always be naturally attractive and social when you're out during the day. Also, the skill-set 4-day game is quite a lot different tha… | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I need some advice.Good luck | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | If Not for the Sex Would Men Have Anything to do With Women?Why not? | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 11:07 PM |
| 3 | I need some advice.No, man. She's being indecisive as girls are apt to do in these kinds of situations, and you just need to chill. invite her to something fun. Say, how about this? No pressure. "Let's just go get bubble tea." Or something similar that's near you. Take her to an area though, where there's a lot of s*** to do. Like a downtown area with lots of shops, bars, coffee shops, and all that stuff. Maybe to a mall since you're 18 and you still can get away with that and it's kind of cool. Make the date an a… | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)No for sure. Attraction Blurs someone used to say. So many times a girl can like you or vice versa but if nothing happens over time it all turns to nothing. Good perspective. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightyeah, that's the spirit I'm trying to bring out of you. You're whining about how you're a f****** loser and so, I decided to put you in the corner and let you understand that in your mind there's a part of you who doesn't believe that that's true. I don't know the purpose of this post other than there's a part of you seeking to try and rectify and improve upon where you're at right now. So, you have to choose which side you want to fight on. You either fight on the side that says that you can im… | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 08:14 AM |
| 4 | Didn’t know where to post this but....Lol. What's the question? 😁😁 | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 08:11 AM |
| 2 | I am 25yo and never really had a sex life - any advice on how to change that?I sent you a private message | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 08:09 AM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightOn another note, I want you to prove me wrong and fight for the rest of your life to prove to the world that you're a f****** loser and there's nothing you can do about it. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 07:09 AM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightBullshit. Stop whining. maybe, like 90% of people out there who suck, you're just studying and working on the wrong shit. Let me ask you, name the top five or even ten sources, coaches, or whatever that you've studied in depth and practiced in the field? | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 07:01 AM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightI mean, maybe spend less time trying to get inside the head of a woman and figure out what she's thinking, and just focus on becoming the most charismatic, attractive cool, successful whatever guy that you can be. When I go out, I try not to focus on my competition, because I have no control over that. I can only focus on being attractive and myself. I can only focus on interacting with women I find attractive and letting them see that I'm an awesome guy and screening them to see if they're the … | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightNo, dude. I'm trying to help you get out of your shit. I know people who are shorter than me who get laid all the time. You don't have any excuses but the b******* that you're feeding yourself. You got this millennial victim mentality. Why are you even here? Need a shoulder to cry on? Because this board is actually for teaching guys to take hold of the issues and setbacks that they have and challenges in their lives and overcome them. That's the purpose of this sub. I'm pretty sure there's a for… | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Have you had success with Tom torero's London day game model to get laid? Did you have to make any changes to the structure to be successful?I mean, that's a weird question. You're basically saying, yes, the guy got caught being a fake, but do you know whether his stuff works or not? Just the fact that he got caught being a fake is enough for me to ignore anything he has to say. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Have you had success with Tom torero's London day game model to get laid? Did you have to make any changes to the structure to be successful?You know a few years ago that guy got caught hiring and paying chicks to be in his videos and pretending he was picking them up, right? | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Question to people who are good at seduction on SnapchatLet me just get yours means she's not interested. Move on. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | I wish you were rightSo you can be a victim and say that looks are the only thing that matter, or you can accept that and say now what? Because I can tell you that I've always been average height, five foot 10 in. And not necessarily good looking at all, not bad looking but not good looking, and I've always been a bit chubby, and I have scored so much hot tail it's ridiculous. Sometimes I even surprise myself. Get over wanting to be right about you suck. Read that again if it doesn't make sense. Get over wanting to … | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | So stuck with AA I can’t get over it feels impossible don’t know what to do. All I want is to experience a girl and maybe even get in my first relationship.LISTEN: https://youtu.be/B8ZCBnxCHOg You've been told a lie. It's a reckless lie. Maybe after listening to this, you can allow yourself to think things differently, and offer your mind A New perspective on what's going on. Perhaps after thinking about it for a little while, you may begin to realize that you are becoming unstuck, that you are shifting into forward action, movement and momentum. But just give that thing a listen and let me know if you have any questions or thoughts. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)Get it! | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)Great fuckin movie. Great for dates too. actually I'm pretty sure that's a movie that I was introduced to by a girl I used to date | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)Haha I was kind of stealing that line from this https://youtu.be/JuhTQwzizDI | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)Np, bro. More to come | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)Thanks, brotha. Hope it helps you notice more of these... | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)Exactly. And like i said, it can totally be conscious but other times it can be completely unconscious. Like my ex from back in the day. Did she post on FB about visiting the keys on purpose hoping I'd respond or was it totally just, "Marathon's fucking boring," it is,"and I may as well go hang out in Key West on my day off?" Or maybe, I just popped in her mind as she was writing it briefly. Who knows? But the key is I made it into a good thing. And I know for a fact that guys miss these all the… | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Stepping Through WINDOWS to Massively increase Your Success - (Med-Adv "Game" topic)Step through those Linux's.. Linuxces? What's the plural for Linux? | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | This question is equally about seduction as it is about communication. How can I start working past previous experiences that have scarred me a bitSedona Method EFT Therapy You're welcome 😁 | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Yeah, I can find a study for everything these days. You have to remember that studies usually are done with the intent of proving an outcome that they already have in their mind. The so, likely whoever did that study wanted to study to actually have the results that they got. I'm sure if I'd look hard enough I can find somebody that will say the exact opposite. Anyway, you do your thing. I already gave you my take. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"I honestly don't recommend any drugs for any of this stuff. I'm pretty spiritual though so I feel like drugs can really f*** someone up. I've been reading a spiritual book about this exact thing, and also have other things about the topic saying that if you're using drugs to try and overcome these kinds of issues you're actually opening the door to invite a lot of bad s*** in. Even though we'd these days is so bad that there are hundreds of reports coming out of places like California of people … | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | What to do with bitches that text you like crazy but they accept your dateOk . Just making sure | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 12:43 AM |
| 2 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"It could be that. I know a lot of times in my life I've always felt like the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. However, I can say that I did live in the city of Chicago for a very long time and I didn't actually ever feel at home there. Now where I live I do feel at home. I feel like I'm in the right place. I don't think there's anything wrong with exploring and seeing if you can find a place that clicks with your personality. However, yes sometimes even though I feel like … | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 11:58 PM |
| 2 | What to do with bitches that text you like crazy but they accept your dateYou're the one whining about wanting to get better with women, I'm telling you, if you want to get better with women, and maybe have sex a few times in your life, don't walk around thinking that trying to mimic some douchebag rapper from MTV is going to make you cool. Because it's not. The number one problem I see with pick up artists or people trying to learn how to get good with women in this day in age is their toxic attitude towards women. I don't mean that in a white knight way either. Back… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Settling Down Vs. Establishing The RelationshipNo, I'm just seeing through your nonsense and I'm trying to help people understand that when they're getting that gut instinct that you're full of shit to trust that gut instinct because they're right. I have nothing against you personally, but I have something against guys who do not have the experience trying to teach guys things that they don't know anything about. The reason why is because you are taking advantage of guys who are trying to heal in their life, and end pain and frustration. So… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Settling Down Vs. Establishing The RelationshipBe careful of learning from guys who seem like they're a little bit too jaded. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What to do with bitches that text you like crazy but they accept your dateProbably get over your hang up about women thinking that calling them bitches is cool when in reality it just makes you come across as a try-hard nerd. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Settling Down Vs. Establishing The RelationshipThere was this guy at the beginning of the community called Ray Gordon who would always get in arguments with Mystery. Mystery would call him out as a KJ. This dude totally reminds me of that Ray Gordon guy. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 4 | Settling Down Vs. Establishing The RelationshipWe used to call guys like the op keyboard jockeys back in the day. I can tell and see through all his posts, that he's actually not walking the walk he's just talking The talk. That's why a lot of the stuff that he says comes across weird and uncalibrated as if he read some books on the topic but hasn't actually lived or experienced any of it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Settling Down Vs. Establishing The RelationshipI think it's funny how you get so mad and bent out of shape anytime someone criticizes your BS posts. I imagine you do the same thing with women and lose your cool on a constant and consistent basis. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 07:04 PM |
| 21 | Settling Down Vs. Establishing The RelationshipYour bullshit detector is spot-on. I can promise the op has never been in a long-term relationship in his life. The last post I read from the guy was super creepy. And people are sensing the weirdness in this post too, but there's a difference between a guy who write a bunch of theory and tries to rehash it and it sounds like he knows what he's talking about versus a guy who has a lot of experience and actually has done the things he's talking about. This guy is the former not the latter. unfort… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"I meant it in a good way lol. That's after beer and whiskey. I do go out on weekends haha | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"I learned myself, and I always taught my clients that, if I ever get the invitation in my head on a date that it's time to kiss a girl, I don't care if you're in a movie theater, I don't care if you driving a car and you at stop light, I don't care when or where it is, even if it doesn't make sense, but if I get that invitation it's time to kiss the Girl. That's my rule of thumb. And it's been pretty effective so far. Even if the girl denies you, I still feel like it's the right time, which mayb… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Conversation Camp Part 1 - The Art of Attractive CommunicationYes. We, I don't want to say we ever dated, but I guess we were friends with the bonus plan on and off for like 6 years. We couldn't date because I knew all her b******* and we would end up hanging out & end up having sex and it was awesome, but eventually she would try to pull the same s*** with me that she would pull with other guys, and it wouldn't work, but this was before I really knew a lot about game in the technical sense, so we would just end up fighting and then we would go our separat… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Love that movie. Actually can't wait to see Guy Ritchie's new movie with Matthew McConaughey | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 11:42 AM |
| 2 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"In my world all of that stuff ties together. It's all about, Seduction, dating, philosophy, spirituality, self help, pua stuff from back in the day, salt pepper and onion. And a shot of whiskey. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Whether you agree, or disagree, all that matters is the ending. So if what I said makes sense on a certain level, but you have more in-depth information in your mind that makes it work, and then I'm cool with that. I'm not trying to be mr. F****** guru or whatever oh, I'm just trying to have this help people make sense of the voices in their head. maybe you have some studies of other ship and that makes more sense to you and that makes it whatever I said I would have absolutely in some areas, bu… | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 06:25 AM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"LOL. Such a great movie, Lock stock and two smoking barrels, rocknrolla, snatch, and the rest. And this one is definitely still on par, and not should be discounted just because it doesn't have the same exposure. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 06:23 AM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"You know, it took me going to a different field in order to align acceptance. of the 12 steps I'm not going to go into more detail unless you know what that means. 😁 Some of these guys will become a what the f***?!? But sometimes we have to take a detour in order to realize where we are at in our well-being and sometimes the best times is just outside of what you're used to. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 06:21 AM |
| 4 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Ask and you shall receive. Stay tuned. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 04:32 AM |
| 6 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"you're confusing the meaning of ego. I don't mean ego as an egotistical. That's not the meaning. Ego is a separate entity that attaches itself to ourselves. I'm really busy right now but check out some of those videos that I posted and it will illustrate what I mean | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 12:30 AM |
| 0 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"It's too bad that he got f***** up on benzos because of a shity doctor. As a matter of fact the same f****** thing happened to me about 2 years ago. That s*** ain't no joke. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"https://images.app.goo.gl/WL9KHFqrqmHB1iCTA | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Sure, it was really just a meme I found but here https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dgpyqe/ego_is_just_a_small_three_letter_word/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 10:09 PM |
| 3 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Yeah, I kind of feel like the old stuff was where everything was laid out and it was already working, and now what we have these days is a lot of the information is reinventing the wheel. All the best stuff is already out there. However, it's easier said than done to know where to look. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 09:30 PM |
| 6 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Thanks my friend. I hope this stuff helps and like i said, those videos in the links are super helpful. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 09:23 PM |
| 12 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Yea thanks for elaborating. You got to remember to, the ego can be overconfident, it always wants to be in control. So if you actually go down and watch the talk in the links with Aubrey Marcus and Joe Rogan he talks about the overconfidence of King Xerxes back in the day. Interesting stuff. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Not perfect at wording stuff, would this come off as too needy to you?Haha after she corrected you I would have said, "That's what i said. How's Kentucky treating you? 😁" | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 08:42 PM |
| 16 | How the EGO Effects Your "Game"Haha. Awesome. if you get a chance check out all the links to those videos I put below, a lot of mind blowing stuff just in those alone. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Ego is just a small three letter word....https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dgpyqe/ego_is_just_a_small_three_letter_word/f3f9gh7?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Ego is just a small three letter word....Interesting how a meme became a case study on the ego itself. Many people got this. But some peoples egos got offended and launched into defense mode, and those people unaware that that voice prompting them to act was exactly what this meme was discussing, marched to the egos defense. Listen. I posted multiple sources. This isn't a Freud discussion. And even put a Google search link to multiple articles on the topic. But what did the ego do? It ignored the information that didn't serve It's caus… | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Ego is just a small three letter word....Maybe if you smell like eggs, or you throw eggs at a girls house or car. Or you're hanging out and she lets one of those egg farts. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Ego is just a small three letter word....Haha. Speaking of spiritual there's a ton of spiritual elements to a lot of these things. It's just interesting that you mentioned it because even though I do practice I guess what you can call seduction, I try to do it in a way where I am giving them a positive experience too. It's not taking. It's sharing. It's dancing. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 06:33 AM |
| 5 | I stumbled through reddit onto this page and figured I’d give my advice to anyone who wants it. Let’s treat this as sort of an anonymous AMA.Why are you seeking the approval of other dudes you don't even know by posting videos that may or may not even be you having sex with chicks to the internet? Anyone can hire prostitutes and film The sex and say anything about it. I guess that wasn't a question. 4 isn't a very large number by the way. And no. I'm not encouraging you to post more because it's kind of creepy in the first place at my opinion. The only guys that make a big deal about getting laid to the point that they film it and po… | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad that I feel less confident because I don’t have certain things?Gratitude List Before bed start writing 3 to 5 things down you are grateful for. You sound like a pretty awesome dude, you're spending money and taking care of your mom, You have a job, you have a little bit of money in order to be able to take Uber or Lyft, it's just going to take some time and practice and patience most of all. So for right now start a gratitude list. Start helping your mind focus on the positive things that you do have. Here's some Wayne Dyer. https://youtu.be/tb-5HftuYNU - W… | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Failed....yet againGet off the dance floor immediately. Move her to a quiet location in the club, even if it's loud find the place that is quietest. Then relax with her whether you're standing or sitting and put your arm around her and you lean in, yes I know that you're not supposed to lean in some say, but this is a whole different scenario. You lean in and you talk normal tone about 1 inch or so below where her ear is. This will give you an opportunity to escalate, get intimate, and also hold conversation, and … | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Ego is just a small three letter word....Not only does it have awesome lessons on the ego but it's a great movie. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Ego is just a small three letter word....I like that. Sometimes I just tell people to watch the movie by Guy Ritchie called Revolver Great movie. People even broke down clips of the movie on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Where to take a girl on first date?Listen and learn.. This call is responsible for getting one of my clients laid and a new girlfriend. (The guy on the call.) | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 04:34 AM |
| 13 | Ego is just a small three letter word....“The ego is the actual seat of anxiety.”SIGMUND FREUD Neurotic anxiety results from the ego feeling overwhelmed by the id, which threatens to express its irrationality in thoughts and behavior. Freud made an important distinction between a more primary automatic anxiety, triggered by a traumatic situation in which the helpless ego is overwhelmed, and signal anxiety, which can be activated in the ego response to situations of danger as a kind of warning that a traumatic situation is imminent, so … | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 04:29 AM |
| 7 | Ego is just a small three letter word....Anxiety comes from the ego. Anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, many of these things are voices of the ego. Interesting thoughts: "“The ego is the false self—born out of fear and defensiveness.” ~John O’Donohue The ego is a prickly little thing, with a hair trigger reaction, ready to go off at a moment’s notice. The soul is incredibly calm and resilient—not touchy and reactive, and yet capable of taking effective action when needed with a minimum of fuss. The ego’s self-appointed function is… | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 04:21 AM |
| 12 | Ego is just a small three letter word....Ego is a gigantic part of Seduction on all levels. Ego is the enemy that hides in your mind and hijacks you at every opportunity. Ego is that voice that gives you fear, doubt, second-guessing yourself, all in the name of protecting itself. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel nervous when approaching a girl and people around watch or hear usAwesome. Let me know how it all works out | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Half the Major Pickup Channels Have Just Been DeletedIt's like you're echoing the words that I have written and said a thousand times. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Men; how to follow up before non-confirmed 'dates' as a girlGive what I said a shot and report back. Good luck | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:57 PM |
| 2 | I feel nervous when approaching a girl and people around watch or hear usGuess what? One out of maybe every 1,000 interactions you're going to run into a crazy feminist or a white knight who will get in your business, but, I used to have the exact same fear as you. After doing it I don't even know how many approaches in my life, I can safely say that probably nine out of every ten girls you talk to are going to actually be friendly. 1 out of 10 may be weird or bitchie or who knows. And, and 99.999999 percent of the time, no one is even paying attention or gives 2 shi… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Men; how to follow up before non-confirmed 'dates' as a girlJust be straight up. Send him a text saying, hey, I'm not really sure if I feel like hanging out with my friends tonight (or whenever) and I might have some free time if you want to do something. (Use your own words if you want) It's his job after that to follow up but also you didn't 100% commit to revolving your whole life around him. So if you don't get a response or he declines or whatever, you still don't lose out because you have other options. It's like a soft invite vs "I totally would r… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:48 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Half the Major Pickup Channels Have Just Been DeletedI agree. And fields are all garbage and most of those guys doing in fields aren't getting laid anyway. They will actually make men worse and then they will make them better. I am anti-censorship, but in an ironic way it's almost like YouTube is doing men everywhere at favor by getting rid of those garbage channels. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:41 PM |
| -7 | PSA: Half the Major Pickup Channels Have Just Been DeletedI'm pretty sure you nobody on those channels were actually getting laid and just teaching men to be more creepy. So yes censorship sucks and it shouldn't happen, but at the same time it's almost like YouTube is doing men a favor. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl refused to kiss me, now...?So, getting denied a kiss is no big deal. I am too lazy to explain it in here now but I go into detail about this in my talk on getting sexual located below. It's an hour and I'm not selling anything other than maybe put in your email. But let's just say I've been denied a kiss by girls I don't know how many times and still ended up eventually kissing them AND closing the deal sexually. It's not that you're getting denied that kiss. It's that you're not Escalating properly. Check this out. I can… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:35 PM |
| 0 | How to not get demotivated while sarging even if sets go well with number closing?First off, getting a phone number is not a close. I know the new school pick-up artist community has a thousand different closes. Hand holding close, number close, Instagram close, Facebook close, hi-5 close, hug close, kiss close, you name it but the only close is when you pull her all the way to a seduction location and end up having sex. Why am I harping on you about that? Because, the reason you may be getting tired as because you're playing the same old game spinning your wheels and not get… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Men; how to follow up before non-confirmed 'dates' as a girlUnless we are already seriously dating, and I mean like we really hang out a lot, and the girl asked me to hang out with her and her friends I'm going to decline. Hell no. Some people love that social shit and want to meet new people, I honestly have no interest. Put yourself in the reverse situation. You and him are supposed to hang out, and he tells you later that he's going to have a bunch of his friends there and you're all going to hang out. If some girl puts me in the position of, "Third w… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:24 PM |
| 5 | I'm calling upon the masters of seductionFuck Instagram. Ask her to bubble tea. If you don't have bubble tea near you ask her to ice cream. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I want to love and feel lovedThe magic words are in this song. Listen to this song for 8 or 9 minutes and PAY ATTENTION to the words the chick is saying. https://youtu.be/lCFo8Gjwl3s | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:10 PM |
| 14 | I have failedYou tried for a year. Wow. You successfully got to the point where you were able to consistently hang out with girls, but you haven't had any sex yet. You're working out, you got a job, you're going to school, sounds like you're taking care of yourself. All these positive things and yet your mind focus is looking for the negative. And guess what? That one thing that you want so badly that you can't have, is pushing it away. You wanting it so badly that you have no gratitude for all the other ble… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceWell your post was pathetic in the first place | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:38 PM |
| 2 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's Confidenceu/magnetradio serious question. Do you wear a cape when you go out? do you take eyeliner and darken your eyebrows to make them more pronounced and then try and give women serious dark mysterious gazes when you start talking to them? Then you say in an ominous voice, "You are mine now!" ? Asking for a friend. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceI think you're spot on. I have a feeling that this is the type of guy who would go around and try and find women who are mentally disabled or something like that and try and hook up with them, and then he's going to come home and write a big long post about what he thinks worked to "seduce" her. You know who this guy reminds me of? The Zach Galifianakis character in the movie Dinner with Schmucks. https://youtu.be/MVRR0XlqA4g | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceBy the post that you wrote and the replies that you're writing, you are only filled with frustration and hurt from women who reject you on a consistent and regular basis. it seems to me that no woman has ever been a source of your confidence, because you don't have any in your life and haven't probably had any in a long long time if ever. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 3 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceLOL, it's funny to see this guy who obviously has a disdain and hatred and anger towards women, most likely because he lives his life alone and women abhor him, trying to tell other guys the best way to have a relationship with them and he's so far gone that he can't even see he's spreading this weird, creepy, toxic nonsense that will ONLY make men creepy as hell to women in their life. There needs to be a cringe wall of advice somewhere so people can know exactly what not to do and this would b… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceNo, I pointed out your post is garbage and gave you reasons why, and because you're such a beta male involuntarily celibate loser who thinks that you want a trick people on the internet and making them think that you get laid for whatever reason, you decided to try and ignore the information that I shared with you, despite the fact on how many people are obviously agreeing with me that I'm right and you're a f** moron. I even tried to be nice, but it's obvious to me that you are a clueless noob … | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceWell, I can tell you that I am far more of a man than you will ever become in your entire life. If this were the animal kingdom, you would be the food that my food eats before I eat them. You're hopeless at this point. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How I went from a failure with girls to getting any girl I wantI already know your program. I've heard of it before. You call it the Hand Solo method. With your program any guy can become a Jedi at getting any girl he wants. With the Hand Solo method guys don't even have to leave the house, talk to women, no phone numbers or dates or any of that needed and they can STILL get whatever girl they want, and she won't even KNOW IT! I vouch for this guy. Sign up for his Hand Solo method now and become a Jedi with the women you desire! Just get a few gift cards fr… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Can get numbers....But dates are getting hard to come by. Tips?Yes absolutely. Use the same model for night game. Bounce for food.. Bounce to the cool later night coffee shop. Bounce to your car to listen to this cool song (if you guys got into a cool music discussion).. Who knows. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceDo me a favor and never try this. You may do everything wrong because you're gonna do it in a weird, creepy, manipulative and controlling way. Because that's how you described it. Don't worry. I'm not going to spread the sleaze to the women around me. I think I'm a bit beyond all that noob overcompensation type game. At this point. Last me ask you this? What part of you is afraid of women and what part of you is angry at them and finally what part of you had been hurt by women? Instead of feedin… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Can get numbers....But dates are getting hard to come by. Tips?1 I'm surprised Uber hasn't deactivated you yet. All it's going to take is one to simply report you to Uber for harassment and you're done. I will tell you it's not a matter of if it's only a matter of when in this case. but if you don't care it's not that big of a deal. 2 I don't do tinder game, I'm not a big fan of online game at all, but I can tell you my buddy does it and he pulls consistently. 3 I am someone who enjoys day game, and I can tell you where you're screwing up already. You sort … | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 05:50 AM |
| 5 | The 5 Most Desirable Male Entities used in Female Porn 😂🤣😂Lol. I'm going to start dressing like a pirate. Already have traits like a werewolf LOL. At least a big fluffy beard. Girls seem to like that. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidencePS. Saving this post as an example of guys on what Not to be. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceDude, I read your entire post. It's just uncalibrated, weird and creepy and shows that you don't have a lot of experience with women and need to get out more. You're still in the place where you feel you need to overcompensate for your insecurity around women with what you think is alpha behavior that in actuality is beta male behavior. David DeAngelo said it best back in the day. There's a HUGE difference between being dominant and domineering. Dominant: Confident, Self Assured, In control Domi… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:16 AM |
| 3 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceWell said! | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 11:09 PM |
| 4 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's ConfidenceI read your long post. I gave you respect by being honest with you about your post being irrelevant to attracting women. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 10:56 PM |
| 16 | How To Be The Source Of A Woman's Confidence...Until you find an actual confident woman. Then all this goes out the window. This whole post is written with the assumption that if you're a guy you're going to be shooting for low self-esteem women. It also kind of reminds me of the guys who write posts like, "If you fuck a woman right you'll make her your slave." Usually in these cases all it does is expose the guys inexperience with women. If you find a quality woman and you're playing this game with her, where you think that you're contro… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me booty pic last night drunk. How do I address things now?same response | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me booty pic last night drunk. How do I address things now?You literally are talking about how you're a virgin in another thread. I don't know that you're a good judge of what person knows or doesn't know anything about seduction. Read the advice that I gave you in the other thread, get mad at me for a while, wish and hope that what I'm telling you about my success with women is not true so that you can make yourself feel better, then once you get over all that, seriously consider what I said about your attitude and your energy keeping you stuck where y… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me booty pic last night drunk. How do I address things now?If I were you I would do a lot of brush up on escalation. If you go around thinking it's good to make girls feel guilty or punish them for expressing their sexuality, then you're cutting your own throat. Tldr white knighting is not going to get you laid. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Natural game vs technical game which is best?This is like saying which is better in mixed Martial arts, stand up game or ground game? The answer is both. The answer is, calibration is the key you are able to calibrate well, you can figure out on the fly which one you need in what moment. Sometimes you can vibe and have a natural discussion, other times topics or situations may arise where a routine is perfect. Sometimes natural vibe is awesome, other times you may throw in some push pull, or takeaways, bait/hook/reel/release so that you ca… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Girl sent me booty pic last night drunk. How do I address things now?That will kill all the attraction more than it probably already is. If you make her feel guilty about being sexual around you, she's not going to be encouraged to get sexual anymore in the future. Girls will avoid feeling guilty like the plague. Once she associates guilty feelings or uncomfortable feelings with you, even if it's not your fault, the attraction is done and you have lost her. The key is to normalize the behavior early on and reward her for it, not agree with her that it is stupid b… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Girl sent me booty pic last night drunk. How do I address things now?I'd be interested in seeing the text exchange. You messed up in THAT part. The after effect is damage control from something YOU likely screwed up on. Women have sent me pictures of their asses, boobs, vagina, you name it. Not only did they never feel guilty about it, but we ended up usually having sex. When she sent that you failed to escalate in some way and make her: Feel cool about it and Escalate the vibe. If you didn't escalate or played it poorly then she likely backwards rationalized tha… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:37 PM |
| 0 | If you find it “weird” or “creepy” to approach women, READ THIS! If you want to successfully approach women, you must normalize the fact that approaching others is entirely normal. This first step starts with YOU.I have a better question, what out of everything that you wrote in both the Twitter post and your post here, is original material at all? I'll answer that for you. Nothing. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | If you find it “weird” or “creepy” to approach women, READ THIS! If you want to successfully approach women, you must normalize the fact that approaching others is entirely normal. This first step starts with YOU.By you asking that question only relates to me how clueless you really are about any of this stuff LOL Everything in there is just cheesy rehashed material. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If you find it “weird” or “creepy” to approach women, READ THIS! If you want to successfully approach women, you must normalize the fact that approaching others is entirely normal. This first step starts with YOU.Different scenario.. Same thing happening here though. Common denominator info gets attention where the helpful info gets largely ignored. New guys gravitate towards what they feel comfortable with but avoid the stuff that makes them feel like they have a lot to learn. Thats why they never change. Armys of clueless guys continue to go creep out women. You know how many times your post has been rehashed over the years? I'd be willing to bet thousands by now. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/com… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:16 PM |
| 0 | If you find it “weird” or “creepy” to approach women, READ THIS! If you want to successfully approach women, you must normalize the fact that approaching others is entirely normal. This first step starts with YOU.This post is a perfect example of what I've been talking about lately... 😔 | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys actually pull from day game?Tl:Dr to all these comments I'm reading, the art of daygaming is obviously an obscure art that most guys don't know. And because of that, many guys think that it's not possible when in actuality, it absolutely is, and you don't need a Social circle, you don't need to meet these women through friends... none of that. You just have to have the proper skill set, and unfortunately it seems that guys are not being taught the right way. PS To the guy that said normal guys are getting laid more than an… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you guys actually pull from day game?Repeat of comment to other guy cuz he asked the same question. I don't think age really has much to do with anything. I'm definitely not what anybody would consider conventionally good-looking, and I happen to live in the United States. I've been in big cities for a while, but even when I wasn't that really didn't seem to make much of a difference. You just got to know where girls are. Then you have to work out a system of using what works. I currently coach and have been for a while. I didn't t… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Do any of you guys actually pull from day game?The other guy asked the same thing. Wanting to know my age country of origin and all this kind of stuff. I don't think age really has much to do with anything. I'm definitely not what anybody would consider conventionally good-looking, and I happen to live in the United States. I've been in big cities for a while, but even when I wasn't that really didn't seem to make much of a difference. You just got to know where girls are. Then you have to work out a system of using what works. I currently c… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Whats wrong with me 29M?No, you don't go around talking about how your life is vulnerable I'm not telling you to turn into like an emo kid. But at some point in an interaction You can let one fly. Do this. Try it and see what happens. Report back. write down one thing you are passionate about and write down one thing that you may feel vulnerable about in your life. Create a story about each in your life and write it down. After that, memorize it. At some point in an interaction with a girl, like these girls that you're… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think 'game' works in the traditional sense?That's the thing, man. after developing a quality solid skill set, there is no favorite. Sometimes I'm direct, sometimes I'm in direct, more often than not it's going to be a combo. Sometimes I do mostly ripping and on the fly game, and occasionally I'll drop a routine that I have developed or something like that but there's no rhyme or reason To be honest. That's what I mean. When I decided to learn game around 2:15 or so years ago, I made it a point that I was going to study and learn and appl… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys actually pull from day game?I am reading these comments and thinking to myself, seriously? dude, most of my pulls are from daygame because I like to go to the bar and sing and get drunk when I'm at the bar, and though I like to flirt with girls, my attention span is usually nil. and yes I do pull from bars too, but my bread-and-butter game is the daytime. Because I had to develop that skill. Grocery stores, coffee shops, several several girls that are just walking down the street, walking my dog when I had one, festivals, … | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you guys actually pull from day game?Seriously? Jesus, I must really be an anomaly. The amount of women that I've hooked up with on daygame is astounding and ridiculous. I love meeting women during the day time! | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Whats wrong with me 29M?I'm just taking a wild guess, I read your original post and so I'm just coming up with this on the fly so bear with me. How is your douche factor versus real guy factor? What I mean by that is, if you're tall, athletic, good-looking, successful, money and all that, if you are coming across a little too overconfident with women, cocky, borderline arrogant, self-assured, then they are only going to look at you as that guy that they want to have sex with but can't take seriously. Women, in all thei… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I keep seducing people accidentally. need advice.I don't know. I'm not Asian so I can't comment. Perhaps Asian culture is a lot different. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I keep seducing people accidentally. need advice.I can't stand autocorrect lol | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I keep seducing people accidentally. need advice.I have no idea why it says that, that's some sort of Auto f***** correct bulshit | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you think 'game' works in the traditional sense?Game works. The technical stuff has amazing application on does absolutely work. Infields are all bullshit. Unless a guy has massive experience with women, in a successful way, where he's gone through and had a lot of successes, failures, and everything in between, dealing with rejection, plan bs, trial and error one cannot see the intricacies of what good and bad game really is. So all the infields look good to guys who are inexperienced while guys who are very experienced look at all the infie… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:39 PM |
| 4 | I keep seducing people accidentally. need advice.I doubt this story. I doubt seriously straight men are coming up to you and just wanting to have sex with you. Unless men have become that beta in the younger generations, I honestly don't see it, sorry. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | The BBC are showing a hate peice on pickup culture tonight in the UK. On their top channel, at prime time. This is unheard of.Haha, I don't think it's just this sub. Every Facebook group I've ever been to, you name it. The symptom is that guys are attracted to the dancing clown because he's doing all the goofy, pseudo-alpha shit with women that isn't working but looks funny or cool or cheeky to the guys with little to no social skills. They think, "Haha! He sure showed her! Wow I wish I could be like that." In reality, if they were to see a guy who actually was good with women, they would grow bored quickly and not und… | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | is it normal to dance with a guy for over an hour?Anytime. | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | The BBC are showing a hate peice on pickup culture tonight in the UK. On their top channel, at prime time. This is unheard of.Thank you. Glad to know it's not just me that noticed this. There is hope after all lol | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | The Seduction GameI don't disagree with you, but what I do disagree with is a guy that is that bad at reading signals trying to teach other guys. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 11:01 PM |
| 3 | YouTube terminates Addy A-Game and Street Attraction channels - YouTube has deactivated two channels run by "pick-up artists" after a BBC investigation into the online industry.You know what, there was definitely some good stuff back in the day on masf. And some of the guys we're teaching some good stuff, but you had to be able to have a really good bullshit filter and be able to figure out quickly what worked and what was didn't. Now most guys are just repeating all the worst stuff and for whatever reason the WORST "coaches" are the guys who have been getting the most attention. If you read the BBC article one girl is talking about how she was in a video with the guy … | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:34 PM |
| 7 | The BBC are showing a hate peice on pickup culture tonight in the UK. On their top channel, at prime time. This is unheard of.Part of it is that creepy orwellian society has taken over the UK. The other part is just so much BAD content out there flooding the internet. I would like to call bullshit on what this girl is saying below, but I saw the pua community years ago enter a dark ages. What she describes is what i see in pretty much every infield video I've ever watched. Guys think they are gaming the chick when she CLEARLY is not interested, bragging about it on video, getting THOUSANDS of likes from other clueless … | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 0 | The Seduction GameDescribes pretty much every infield video i ever watched. "A friend of Ahmed secretly filmed him as he approached 20-year-old Emily, a Glasgow-based student. Ahmed then uploaded the video to his YouTube channel. Emily (pictured) only found out their conversation was available online when I told her. Her experience is something I’ve heard from many women who have experienced street harassment. “The ridiculous thing is, in that entire conversation I’m sitting there trying to figure out a way to le… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Was this a bad thing to say?No, the way to f****** is when you feel weird about about something that you do or say and then she feels weird because she can sense that you feel weird and then it just makes it weird. Confidence is King. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 9 | How to get over the fact she is dating other guys?Don't hate the player hate the game. Or CHANGE the game. But yea.. Sorry. It doesn't have to be trashy. That's just a mindset thing. You can go out and meet women, have fun, date women, maybe even find one you like better. You never know. But if you obsess over a girl that doesn't even like you enough to be exclusive with you that's just a plan for failure and frustration. I'll tell you what. I'm currently coaching a client that when we first started working together he was CONVINCED that he wou… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Was this a bad thing to say?It was a great thing to say. Don't over think it sometimes the best shit is the stuff that comes out without thinking about it. I told a girl the other night that I just like to get drunk and fingerbang. She loved it. Girls aren't as innocent and sensitive as guys think they are. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Age gapI think 46 now lol. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Guys who sleep with 20+ girls a year. What's your secret?Study, learn, apply, practice. 50/50 learning and applying/practicing what you learned. Once you get success start experimenting with your own ideas. It's not a quick fix. Eventually you'll go from conscious incompetence to unconscious competence but that takes a LOT of practice. Get in the field and Approach. Don't hide behind online game. It takes face time to get good. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Age gapI feel young. People think I'm way younger than I am too. Change your mindset. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Age gapNope. Not in my opinion anyway. I routinely had sex with girls in their early 20s when I was in my 30s and now I'm in my 40s and nothing has changed. I even have younger girls openly flirt with me lol. Do what to feel. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | YouTube terminates Addy A-Game and Street Attraction channels - YouTube has deactivated two channels run by "pick-up artists" after a BBC investigation into the online industry.Yea. You didn't understand what I wrote. You're literally making something up, putting words in my mouth then complaining about it. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 05:32 PM |
| -2 | Don't know what I'm doing, don't know what to do next...Too try hard for a hopeless noob. 😁😀 Dude you have no idea how many times in my life I tell people what to text to get a date and it works. Why? Because I have been out with so many girls and have done this shit myself. You guys get stuck in this fake alpha shit and miss out on so many opportunities. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | YouTube terminates Addy A-Game and Street Attraction channels - YouTube has deactivated two channels run by "pick-up artists" after a BBC investigation into the online industry.I never said cold approach is wrong. But then you got guys that have no business teaching other guys always getting the most attention so that an army is created of weird creepy guys following their example because they don't know any better. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 2 | is it normal to dance with a guy for over an hour?I did this s*** when I was younger,. One time I still remember this girl who totally danced with me all night and her friends even with the ones who suggested we danced together at this place. Unfortunately back then I was clueless, and a scrub nub so I didn't make any moves. No, the guy liked you and he just didn't have the balls (or knowledge) to take it further. That's a big problem with guys these days as they don't know how to escalate or how to make things happene when they like the girl. … | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Girl from tinder wants to come over wednesday, how to make sure I don't mess up?Go here and listen to this audio I did. Escalation and getting things sexual all the way from point A to point F. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 02:25 PM |
| -6 | Don't know what I'm doing, don't know what to do next...Wait a couple days, text: "So I didn't tell you I'm a pro at City exploration. Apparently they were even thinking about making a travel channel documentary about my life. I'm going to this snazzy little joint tonight for a glass of something AMAXIN! Your presence is requested. 8:23PM sharp at XYZ spot." Then listen to this call I did with a few of my students and this will give you some great ideas of how to make the date awesome should she accept. | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Who should pay for the first date?By the way that anger is why you don't get laid. Ijs. What I mean by that is, you threw a temper tantrum when I legitimately took the time to try and help you and give you a detailed answer, because you feel you need to preserve your alpha status (in your mind) in this discussion instead of letting it go and learning. That's exactly the tryhard alpha coming across as beta that I was talking about. My response and the article I was reminded of by you TOTALLY applied to you. I cared enough to try … | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Flatmate used to make sure I was not home before bringing a guy over but not it seems like she doesn't care if I'm home before bringing him round - does that indicate she is repulsed by me?Sorry dude. She's not into you. This isn't her gaming you because secretly she's trying to make you jealous. Definitely she is not thinking about you when she's having super loud sex with that other dude. There problem as I see it, is that you decided you have a female roommate, as a way to try and get in her pants, Which honestly is kind of sloppy game. Instead, you should be out trying to meet and attract other women in the world and getting good with women on a regular basis instead of pullin… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 01:45 PM |
| 10 | YouTube terminates Addy A-Game and Street Attraction channels - YouTube has deactivated two channels run by "pick-up artists" after a BBC investigation into the online industry.Pickup became toxic years ago. I'm not saying this in a SJW sense either. It's reality. All the guys at the top, coaches, thought leaders etc became weird, creepy, frauds, hucksters, teaching guys to be over the top parodies of men instead of actually teaching them to become attractive. So in this world gone crazy with SJW nonsense and ideologies, it's no wonder some of these guys are getting nipped. If you notice there are LOTS of main stream style dating videos on YouTube. I never heard of the… | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Who should pay for the first date?Okay | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Empathy, Emotional Intelligence, and Being NormalYou tried.. I think it can be taught. But it would take a LOT of work. And then it would still be something he can't feel but has to act out kinda like Data on Startrek. But yea. I'm sure it's frustrating. | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | She showed all the signs of interest but then said shes busy when I asked her out. Is she still into me and should I ask her out again?I like your question, sorry I am busy, give me a little bit of time and I will answer it. | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Who should pay for the first date?It's because you're thinking like a beta male You think everything is a points game, that you need to make sure that everything that you do somehow implies that you're the alpha male. But that makes you do things unnecessarily that make you come across as a beta male instead. Like, an alpha male wouldn't really give to shits about whether he paid or he didn't pay. It would be irrelevant. Like David X once said.. If he takes a girl or for dinner and buys her some food. He could give a shit less i… | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Just do it alreadyWorst advice ever. | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | best shit to take before hitting the clubsTry 200mg L-theanine with your coffee. But only drink 1 cup. How to Biohack Your Coffee with L-Theanine and Alpha GPC to Boost Personal Productivity I'm not a doctor. This is not medical advice. Consult a professional yadda yadda yadda. By the way stay off drugs. They'll fuck you up later. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | People with a bit more experience, what are things to avoid on dates ?The Itis! | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | People with a bit more experience, what are things to avoid on dates ?Overgaming Interview Dinner Dates Not Escalating Staying in one place Playing things safe Trying to get her to like you vs Trying to get things sexual Spending lots of money Not trying to get her to your place or a Seduction location Not touching Letting little "rejections" during the interaction throw you off, make you uncomfortable Not stepping through windows when they open (big topic) Letting her bring a friend Not having your place clean and ready to go with drinks etc in case you get her b… | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Who should pay for the first date?I noticed that too. I actually think it's some of super beta pua who is doing that. They heard someone say, "Don't buy girls drinks," so that think that means, "Don't pay for anything ever for a girl even if you literally ask them out to something that costs money. Make the bitch pay!!" Big problem in with the pua community is so many guys use these rules which are supposed to be helpful as ways to screw them up more. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Who should pay for the first date?Did you ask her out? Don't be a creeper and expect her to pay. I know some of the PUA types confuse buying a drink for a random in a bar with taking a girl on a date which are TWO COMPETITOR COMPLETELY different scenarios, but trust me. If you make paying a big deal you won't come across as alpha or cool, you'll come across as a broke joke loser. But also be smart and don't break the bank. In other words no f****** dinner! Repeat that, no f****** dinner! You're not taking her out to eat to some … | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 05:56 PM |
| 3 | She showed all the signs of interest but then said shes busy when I asked her out. Is she still into me and should I ask her out again?I know it's just one girl you really like, but all the attraction triggers remain the same whether somebody you've known forever or whether it's someone you just met. I only said no don't do that other guys comment, because putting it all on the line, might come across as desperation and weirdness and kill the attraction that she has for you now. It could work, but it's like taking a 3-point shot and you're not really sure if you're good at taking three point shots. You might score big, but you … | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | She showed all the signs of interest but then said shes busy when I asked her out. Is she still into me and should I ask her out again?No.. Don't! | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | If she already has a boyfriend what is the best strategy to get the girl invested?Just be yourself, bro! 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How to close the deal?I've started a podcast series on this. You have a bit of work to do. But by the time I'm done guys should have a healthy tool box to get conversation flowing in the field. Maybe I'll do part 2 today. Is there an easy fix? Depends on what your issue is. For most guys it's several things. Even IF you know the right words to say for one conversation, will that work in others? Is it fear based? Are you shutting down because you're afraid of what she thinks? Can you riff on the fly? Do you fall into … | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | When trying to get a girl to open up and you're asking questions and all that, how do you sound interested without sounding like you're just agreeing with everything she says?Sounds like you're just following the conversation and not leading it. If you want to create a different outcome you need to create a different Pathway to the conversation and know exactly where the conversation is going to lead and take it where you want it to go. I would start studying everything you can on escalation. I got some good stuff on my channel and am uploading all the time. I connect theory with real experience. Steve Mayeda is a good teacher on this as well. The Sexual Life. I don'… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | How to teach her how to treat you after a flake (Indirectly)Let me add actually one tactic that you can use, and that is that next time she does it, not this time. Let this one go. But next time she does this, you're going to want to send her a text or a follow-up or something where you basically tell her "Sorry about last night, I had a friend in town that offered to cook me dinner 😁😁 I promise I'll make it up to you." In other words, you actually take the frame that you were the one that forgot about the date and not her. Also, you are sending her some… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 07:29 PM |
| 4 | How to teach her how to treat you after a flake (Indirectly)You're fuck buddies. Her behavior is acceptable. It sounds like you're trying to make her your girlfriend. Any attempts to try and punish her will simply be seen by her as you being butthurt. If she gets in the habit it's probably more about her losing interest in you, and less about what tactic or technique you can use to teach her a lesson that flaking is not acceptable. Remember, if she's just a f*** buddy is probably likely she's out dating other guys and if she finds one she likes, you're p… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 07:21 PM |
| 13 | How to Imply Escalation for a 3rd DateYou: "Check this out. I found a cool deal on an air bnb because I had to be this way anyway for work tomorrow and I figured since we were chilling anyway, win/win. I think I found a bottle of red wine that someone left there." Create the fantasy. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Casually Explained: Is She Into You?I was about ready to go off on this dude after the first 2 but then was like.... Waitaminnut! | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone *not* use bars/clubs as their main method of meeting girls and still yield acceptable results?I'll give you a hint. I've been in game for about 15 years and didn't start till I was 31 years old. Kind of hard to avoid sleeping with older women at that point. But the funny thing is, even still to this day when I sleep with an older woman, because a lot of the women I sleep with are about half my age, I still feel like it's an older woman fantasy LOL | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone *not* use bars/clubs as their main method of meeting girls and still yield acceptable results?Nothing wrong with a little mom action from time to time | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone *not* use bars/clubs as their main method of meeting girls and still yield acceptable results?Haha. Do it. https://youtu.be/K4eScf6TMaM | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How to give off a fuckboi vibeI'm in bed already and I'm not going to give you a long answer, because it's a huge topic. And I'm not even going to promote my own coaching. I'll promote another guy lol. http://thesexuallife.com/ Oh look. What do we have here? A 30 min podcast that answers your question... https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/start-the-conversation-get-laid-tsl-podcast-207/id901194285?i=1000411844656 | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Just finished models. Can’t decide between 3% man, or Mystery Method.Mysterys (might be Venusian Arts) Magnum Opus for night game 100% That's ALL his stuff revolves around. Then find and read up on some Captain Jack if you can find it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | DislikeActually, the funny thing is, it doesn't matter whether you agree or not. It's the law of the universe. Do your thing. Think about what I said later if you find that your life keeps repeating the same negative experiences to the point where they seem uncanny. Let's hope I'm wrong though. I don't wish ill will on anyone. Good luck | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | DislikeI don't know what it means for seduction, but in the spiritual realms it's a bad way to live because you open yourself up to a bunch of negative juju. If you go around judging people and not liking people, you're putting negative energy at them even with just thinking about it. By doing that, you also open the doors and bring it so if people are thinking that stuff about you, you're unprotected about the negative energy that they are sending your way. Will that affect your ability to be seductiv… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | College Bar scene approach anxietyI'm going to post this podcast I did until I'm blue in the face. This is not tactics. I don't do a lot of college game, because well, I'm a little bit above college-age, but definitely if you can grasp this mindset you're going to be way ahead of the game. It already sounds like you kind of know what to do, just have to get out of your own head and stop overthinking. I imagine that a college bar is probably like any other bar though.. Loud, crowded, drunk girls with no attention span. That's a H… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone *not* use bars/clubs as their main method of meeting girls and still yield acceptable results?LOL I'm going to steal this from Lewis and Copeland. They are old school, I even think pre pick up or very early on in the pickup community they were dating coaches and they don't really teach pick up as much as they considered themselves normal mainstream dating coaches. Kinda like me 😁😁 Well sort of. I do have a heavy pick up background, it's just that after masf disappeared everything changed and not for the better. Actually I would say after Style released the book The Game, and they had tha… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Haven’t been on a date/flirted in 7 years. Need some major tips on how to pick girls up at the bar.Oh and to clarify. I posted my own video. Not Todd whoever. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Haven’t been on a date/flirted in 7 years. Need some major tips on how to pick girls up at the bar.Uh, no. I don't recall posting any videos of some guy named Todd. Go back over your argument. You literally just said that you read the game, which is by Neil Strauss and your argument is that mystery method works. Mystery method is not Neil Strauss' book."The Game". Also, saying "I'm one guy who did XYZ" is not an argument. We're talkin about the rule, not maybe an exception to the rule. Most of the guys I know who have read the game are nowhere nearer getting success then they were before they… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Haven’t been on a date/flirted in 7 years. Need some major tips on how to pick girls up at the bar.Anytime. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone *not* use bars/clubs as their main method of meeting girls and still yield acceptable results?75% of my successes all came from being alone during the day lol. No wings. Sidewalks, coffeeshops, bookstores, grocery stores, festivals, working as a server at brunch lol .. you name it. And I've had a LOT. Bars are where I go to drink and sing. Yea sure I get girls from bars too but that's not my priority. You can do it. It may take adjustment. You have less time in some circumstances and need to just go direct (Streets) and other situations it's better to use more finesse like grocery stores… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Haven’t been on a date/flirted in 7 years. Need some major tips on how to pick girls up at the bar.It's a long process to learn if you're just starting out. I'm starting to take my coaching public and putting up podcasts that will help guys both beginner and advanced. I'll put one for you before but first let me give you some quick reality. My 2 sense. Don't read the Game. It's by an author that actually made up a bunch of stuff, met girls at swinger parties then tried to act like it was from cold approach. Couldn't ACTUALLY approach women because he had terrible anxiety about it. Married gir… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it me or these last years society is going through a romantic recession?I don't really care about alpha. Alpha doesn't necessarily get one laid. Beta definitely does keep guys from getting late however. To your point, it really doesn't matter if this is a board of mostly guys that are learning and all the success guys stay away. There are still a minority, and a vast minority of alpha males especially, left in Western society. So if they aren't here, and in most parts of society they are hard to find' where are they? Another point. I'm on here. And I've been success… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 07:00 PM |
| 3 | How NOT to EscalateYea he's hilarious. And i like that he's on board with trying to get guys laid 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | This thread I found contains so many cringe things that pickup tries to avoid...I disagree. There's simply no other way to change that guy for the better. It has to be 50/50 for new guys even if they're socially awkward. If you give them the right map and they do apply what you're teaching them then they will improve EVEN in their personal and family life. I've had clients tell me that their family and friends noticed a TOTAL difference after only a month of coaching with me. I've had a student who had such bad social anxiety that he had to leave the room when he tried talk… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | This thread I found contains so many cringe things that pickup tries to avoid...Then a good rule you should learn before you head off any further into the wrong direction is, "What women say they want and what they are attracted to are TWO TOTALLY DIFFERENT THINGS." | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 2 | What are your goals here and what are you doing to achieve them?My goal is to share the massive experience I've had in this game, and the outstanding success I've had with coaching guys to get that same success, with men who are wanting to improve this area of their lives. Pretty simple, cut and dry to be honest. There's so much bad information being passed around these days, as well, and I'm trying my best to steer guys away from that and in the right direction. Creating the man, one dude at a time 😁😁 | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How long do you have to flirt and spit game until you can be your actual true self with someone?The real stuff happens after sex. that means once you have sex with a girl you should relax and allow your true self to emerge. However, another thing that you want to keep in mind is overtime, anything that you will learn as far as seduction, or game, or whatever you're learning, they should all be training wheels and overtime you should incorporate these things into yourself and start dropping away all the nonsense down the road so that you can become a man that is truly attractive to women. I… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | What are some good tips for Flirting?This is the best place to start if I do say so myself 😁 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL4YC0fwrdWlZSDqAXCALJK4JOyDyatiso And I'll be adding a lot more soon. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys control your fear?Explained. https://youtu.be/B8ZCBnxCHOg | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Is it me or these last years society is going through a romantic recession?No, you're not wrong. Younger people aren't having sex because most of the young men these days are beta males and most of the women are looking for manly men but have been mired I'm the politics that they are taught that masculine men are bad somehow. But that's STILL what they want. But if you want any indication of this, you can look at groups such as this, and you can notice a trend. It's the most common denominator trend. If you noticed the posts that get the most upvotes and attention are … | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Dating Conversation Hacks 101 - The Open Loop aka the Art of the TangentHey I started an account to use on Reddit I guess since I don't use it much. You were talking to my man with the plan, Ethoex. This is Geese.. I did the Video. Maybe we can do a little free coaching with some basics to these questions when I get time. DM me here and we can exchange contact info and set something up. | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 06:27 PM |
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