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Most women don't have the stamina and conditioning to support high libido lol! In my experience 95% can't last 5min on top or 2min of bj before their jaw hurts. That's why I laugh every time when older women claim they have higher sex drive. Lol, no sweetie, you just got older, more desperate and you are trying to compensate. Your joints are squeaking and you need more libricant than a industrial compressor lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:19 AM
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Give me one example of men or boys radicalized by the "manosphere" who hurt someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:33 PM
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Exactly! How is this the 2nd most upvoted comment? She's completely clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:32 PM
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Yeah, you are moving the goalposts. Poor healthcare - women contribute 35% to US health insurance and take out over 60% of the healthcare expenditure. How is that not inequality? Inequality between rich and the poor - how come it affects men worse? Men treat each other like shit - false. Look up Earl Silverman and how mostly women politicialns, journalists and neighbors bullied him into suicide after opening the first shelter in Canada for men victims of domestic abuse. You can see the same atti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:17 PM
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Draft - it's there, stop denying it. It's an official government policy that obviously discriminates. If only women could get drafted you wouldn't hear the end of it by feminists. Men are choosing suicide over help - wow, what a sexist statement. Education - boys have consistently outperformed girls on SAT scores since records have been kept. Decades research paper from around the world confirm bias towards girls, especially by female teachers. The funny fact is that the more male techers there …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:38 PM
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Lol, the French revolution and the reforms about citizenship were the first major step in modern equality in the western world. It had nothing to do with feminism. In fact the revolution preceeds the word "feminism" by almost 100 years. In the USSR equality was the law of the land in the 1920, 1945 for most of Eastern Europe, 60s in China. It was about equality, not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:13 PM
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Your statement doesn't address the issues and clear inequalities I listed. It's a hollow memorized line that doesn't apply here. It's like I'm having a conversation with an AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:08 PM
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Such women get hurt by a small minority of criminals. If such dysfunctional women blame ALL men they have no business living in a modern society. Such women are free to go live in a cave in the mountains if ALL men are so scary and hurt them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:51 PM
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They have been before feminism too. Feminism didn't change that, it only took credit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:42 PM
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Men get still can get drafted, more men commit suicide, there are more homeless men and less shelters and programs for them, 95% of all prisoners are male and women receiver lower or NO sentences for the same crimes, men contribute the majority of the healthcare and social security yet women get more out of them, judicial bias, educational bias... You've seen systemic inequality against men, you just refuse to acknowledge it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:40 PM
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I'm 34 and in my entire life I've never seen inequality against women. On the contrary - trust women, hire women, vote women, promote women, pay women more, belive women, more women in STEM, more women in management, DEI, support women, breast cancer awareness, more research for women-related deseases, more money spent on women for healthcare, women issues, women problems, women owned businesses, scholarships, more women in college, women bias in the judicial system, women bias in educational sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:35 PM
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This discussion is pointless. Too many feminists are misandrists and will deny, deflect, gaslight, use whataboutism, distract and do anything possible to hide their hate. Feminism was supposed to develop women who are free, happy, productive, creative and an asset to society. Instead it created small women who hate men, fear them and blame them for their own mistakes, shortcomings and failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:13 PM
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Most women here seem to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:47 PM
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You see, you have the small and narrow thinking of a woman. Here's what a man thinks: Chores - don't get married if you can't do them or can't afford house cleaning service. Smart and zero interests - education is not the same as intelligence. It's sad I have to explain this. Zero interests - you see it as a negative, but I see it as a blank canvas that holds unlimited potential. And let's be honest - the overwhelming majority of women have 1 interest - themselves. Social skills with friends or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:31 PM
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Another self-own comeback that does not sound as good as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:16 PM
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> it would be very unmanly for a man to leave his family moving the goalposts, that's not what she said > So do you have a good alternative to therapy for men? Friends and family, pets, support groups, communities with similar interests or problems, exercise, community service, music, arts, dancing, yoga, sports... take your pick
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:10 PM
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There's no loneliness epidemic, 70%-80% of the adults in the US are in a relationship. There's some inbalance among young men and older women, but it's always been like that. The difference is that those 2 groups now have access to the internet and constantly bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:41 PM
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Real men work their asses off so they can afford a house cleaner if their wife doesn't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:39 PM
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You don't decide what's manly. Men do. Couples therapy - waste of time, most seem to hurt more than they help. Stop trying to feminize men and to make them solve issues like women. Our brains literally work differently and process information, feelings and problems in another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:29 PM
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I'll start doing 50% of the chores when she starts contributing 50% to the family budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:25 PM
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That's one of the traits, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:30 PM
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The "gotcha" women though they had with this post completely backfired at them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:29 PM
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If we ignore a couple of traits you are describing most women under 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:49 PM
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Lol, look who's talking about spouses - I'm not the one who needs to constantly tell random strangers online how happy I am with my marriage. Happy people don't need to convince others that they are happy. But thats half of your posting history lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:52 AM
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☝️found another one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:28 AM
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I've actually done my research. Men consistently outperform women in a market economy for a spectrum of reasons. The more basic ones that don't need explanation are more hours worked per week, willingness for overtime, willingness to commute further, less sick days, less vacation days, less paternity leave. The more complex ones - men are far more likely to use "high risk - high reward" approach, especially in performance-oriented jobs. For example men Uber drivers make 8% to 22% more than women…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/24 06:51 PM
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The metro areas - it's only by 2-3% at most and they fall off significantly by the time they are in their 30s. The single homeonership seems to be true -10 mil vs 8mil, thanks for that fact! It seems that more men don't stay single when they buy a home and women tend to attract less partners than men, despite the homeownership. Also the gap seems to exist mostly due to widowed women and inheritance. It also seems to be shrinking fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:01 PM
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OP, there are a few big cities where women can make a good living at the price of higher cost of living. For example $100k in San Francisco is BELLOW the poverty line, while $50k/year gets you quite comfortable living in Kansas City. Also you are confusing median salary with median household income. Those are two different things. Most households have dual income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:28 PM
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Most women in the US are either broke or drowning in debt. So it's a non-factor for dating, but a serious red flag for a long-term partner. Context: small (almost mid-size) trucking company owner, top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:59 AM
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☝️Found one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:25 AM
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Doesn't know what blue, red or purple pill means. PS: notice that almost nobody mentioned sex as important and the women in PPD only talk about that like it's some kind of a "reward" and the only thing men are after. Shows how clueless many women here are. Probably because that's the only thing they can offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:42 AM
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Yeah, 4 RP replies and 30 under the bot lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:06 AM
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So you admit you were full of shit? 50% of of women over 65 are single and die alone and only 21% for men. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ You should be reported to your employer, you reek of hate and you should never be allowed to touch a patient, be that man or a woman. Shitting on elderly people who physically can't take care of themselves? Really? You are disgusting!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:42 PM
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Lol, I love how this is a question for red pillers, but none of them bother with an answer, just bunch of bitter women spewing toxic shit about men lol! Prime PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:31 PM
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There are far more single lonely old women than men, stop gaslighting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:30 PM
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That's a bit femcely take. 1- women don't get "tricked", stop infantilizing them like they can't make their own decisions. 2- same, you are removing all agency from women. They are adults, they can put their big girl pants and make one of their biggest decisions in their life on their own. 3- deep down nobody is happy being single. Some people gaslight themselves that they are, but we all know on the inside they just don't want to admit that they've failed to attract a quality partner and it's e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:27 PM
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It's the only samle size I got and I'd be stupid not to trust my own experience and observations lol. I've been in my industry for 13 years and I know it like the back of my hand. I'm sure you've noticed some trends in your industry as well. Acknowledging those is not mutually exclusive with judging on a case to case basis.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 11:15 PM
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What I've noticed first as a coworker, later as a manager and now as a company owner is that women just irrationally and stubbornly refuse to take responsibility for their own mistakes, faults and actions. Far and significantly more often than men. Everybody makes mistakes. And most men will admit to those and will try to fix & learn from them. But women will act like 8yo children when confronted - they'll lie, deflect, find excuses, "Timmy made me do it", utilize whataboutism, manipulate, gasli…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 10:19 PM
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This is the 2nd time I see clips of this idiot posted. Don't give him any views!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/24 05:59 PM
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I'm criticizing your understanding of how the economy works and the 1%. I put both you and the 1% in the same cathegory, because you sound like a useful idiot for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 09:59 PM
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Please don't go there. Women started entering the workforce in the 50s and 60s and now we have double the workforce and a quarter of the purchasing power. Of course, women should be free to work as much as they want and whatever they want, but please don't tell me it stimulates the economy. It only stimulates the income of the top 1%.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 09:39 PM
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There were 3.1 MILLION more women in college than men in 2021. This means there were 3.1 million men who didn't. That's as zero-sum as it gets. https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaeltnietzel/2024/08/07/women-continue-to-outpace-men-in-college-enrollment-and-graduation/ Also you didn't address the other examples I gave.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 03:57 PM
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Coulda-shoulda. We live in the real world and everything costs money. For example studies have shown that both girls and especially boys perform better in school when they have more male teachers (50/50 ideally). But teaching doesn't pay well on average so mostly women occupy these jobs, because men have more options. But if teaching paid more - more men would be interested in the job and that's good for all kids. It is a zero-sum game on a macro-scale.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 03:51 PM
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I disagree with one thing - it is a zero-sum game. For every woman in STEM - there's one less guy. For every girl in college - there's one less boy. For every dollar for breast cancer - there's one less for prostate cancer. For every women's shelter - there's one less for men. For every dollar a man puts into healthcare - there's $1.65 taken out by a woman. For every girl that got inspired in school - there's one boy who got neglected. For every woman in management - there's one less man. I hate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 03:30 PM
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I'm tired of the race / woman / victim card being played every time. It keeps costing us votes and elections. Kamala lost, because she represents Biden's economy - inflation, high prices, higher cost of living. It's not Biden's fault that Trump pillaged the economy, printed trillions and brought us inflation, but Biden could've done more. And we all know the average voter has the attention span of a golden retriever, the memory of a goldfish and the knowledge about economics of a 7yo. Also Latin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/24 04:17 PM
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Well, at least we can all agree that the Democrat party is out of touch with at least 50% of it's electorate. And also we can all agree that we shouldn't care about abortion rights, because even the women don't care about those. If they did- they would've gotten off their asses and voted the orange pedo out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/24 03:18 AM
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First - I've never hear of "The Skeptic", I opened their page and I honestly just can't take it seriously. Who reads that drivel? 2nd - the left has been hijacked by a loud minority of idiots. Don't let them outshout you and speak up! Don't let complete morons decide what we are, what we should do, how we need to think and how to behave. They don't decide that. We do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 02:45 PM
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Throwing shit at eachother is why most of us are here. This sub is the equivalent of trash tv. Incels vs femcels survivor. Alpha male cucks vs female dating strategy slobs. Forever alone smackdown! Mentally ill people telling eachother to get therapy 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:56 AM
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"1% controlled wage gap is sexism" - lol! Is that it? If that's due to sexism - congratulations, guys! We've eliminated sexism! Let's move on to far more important problems, like public healthcare, closing the loopholes for the rich and making them pay their taxes. "Female-dominated jobs have become devalued, because they are female dominated" - the free market economy doesn't care about your genitalia, but about supply-demand. Most men can do most women-dominated jobs just as effectively, but m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/24 09:48 PM
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About 60% of the women in the US are married. Another 15-20% are in a relationship. The numbers are pretty much the same for men. Do not let reddit distort the reality outside of the screen. This particular sub is the one of the lowest levels of the sewage system of reddit, all the toxic femcels and incels drain down here and create the illusion that their toxic way of thinking is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:37 PM
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Great comment! Just to enhance it - men are set up for frustration and dissapointment about sex. Women are set up for frustration and disappointment about long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:33 PM
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You are confusing the desire for sex with the desire for relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:31 PM
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She was told that she's priority just to make her feel important. It's a sales technique, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:43 PM
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I think AI is still a very flawed technology, you shouldn't rely on it and you should read the data yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:37 PM
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Lol, this guy xD!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:24 PM
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I know what I am and why I'm here. You seem to struggle realizing it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:24 PM
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That's the dumbest post I've seen in a while. It's worse than astrology or card reading lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:18 PM
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Yeah, English is my 3rd language out of 5 and I still write more comprehensively than those two. I appreciate your answer though!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:17 AM
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Lol I just built on top of what he said, continuing his tought 😆 yet you agree with him and disagree with me, you can't make this up lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:13 PM
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This reply is even more incoherent than OP's post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:08 PM
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This sub is one of the lowest levels of the sewage system of reddit - all the toxic shit seems to pool here. It's quite normal that most women and men who coment here are the most bitter incels and femcels you can find. Btw I did said the exact same things as OP. Yet you seem to agree with him and disagree with me. Interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:47 PM
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Prepare yourself for army of disgruntled women saying "i sTilL gEt aTteNtIoN!". They will fail to admit it's from lower-quality men how just want to fuck them, not be in LTR with them. Also I bet $there will be some of those low-IQ replies about how they know that one friend of theirs that contradicts your theory and think their little anecdote is enough to reject & disprove the clear trend and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:31 PM
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Women also live 2 years longer when married. It bothers me that people who mention the fact use it "against" men, but conveniently skip the women part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:24 AM
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Lol, for me this sub is one of the lowest reservoirs of the sewage system of reddit - all the toxic shit pools down here 😆 It's like trash tv, but on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:10 AM
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Nah, mods are a different breed of incels and femcels. There was a big scandal around one of the mods from Antiwork during covid, google their Fox news interview. There was another scandal about a female mod on the gamestop stocks saga - she fell in love with some other woman who she never met. That woman denied everything. The mod called her "my future wife" and got all creepy 😆 Mods on reddit are some of the most disturbed people in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:50 AM
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Absolutely. And many people do - it's the most populated state in the country and has been for 60 years now. The only reason some people leave it is because they can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:11 PM
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How do you think men earn money? - Willingly. It's a choice, not an obligation. If you don't like it you can fuck off to Utah and live in a cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:20 PM
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This. If women get the right of abortion men have the right to deny being a father and all the legal & financial obligations of such. That's equality, anything else is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:18 PM
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You've wasted enough of my time. bye
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:11 PM
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Same? The guy moved the US embassy from Tel Aviv to Jerusalem. He's bought and paid for by the Israelis, among others. Trump is Israel's bitch, now it will only get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:24 PM
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You think it will get better under fucking Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:13 PM
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In reality women are more and vote more often. This loss is entirely on them, because they were too lazy to get off their ass and vote against the pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:48 PM
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I think we should blame women for it. If women were too lazy to get off their asses and vote against the pedo and adjudicated rapist who took away one of their rights - that's on them. Women outnumber men and vote more often. They can elect whoever they want. It's their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:00 PM
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Thats not the only thing I wrote and I believe both the desire for sex and the desire for a LT parter are corelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:27 PM
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And women don't? They hide not only their intentions (until a much later stage of the relationship), but also significant parts of their character and they also hide their real looks - makeup, extensions, heels, pushup bras... About the later stage of the relationship - over 80% of the divorces are initiated by women and women disproportionatelly benefit from them. We all know that there are far more women golddiggers than men. We all lnow women overwhelmingly don't "date down". So tell me again…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:22 PM
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In my experience, both personal as a guy and from observing my female friends and family - yes, they are. And they realize it, but refuse to admit it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:44 PM
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They fail to realize that many men will fuck them, but very few are interested in LTR and the women themselves have the ability to keep even fewer of those interested men in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:22 PM
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This. Many women say "i still get attention", but they get fail to admit that the attention is from increasingly lower-status men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:20 PM
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Debating you reminds me of that saying - it's like playing chess with a pidgeon - it will shit all over the board, knock the pieces and strut around thinking it won the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:39 AM
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Define fedora and neckbeard and apply it to your posting history.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:35 AM
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Honestly, that "who pays for the date" subject is really petty, it's never been a problem for me personally even when I was a broke college student who walked to save money from the bus fare. Do people actually have that problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:48 PM
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It's just a point of view. I do not agree with all that RP stands for, but I appreaciate the different perspective - most of it probably comes from personal experience. In other words - I believe that they believe it. And a productive discussion and debate bring everybody closer to the truth. There's a lot of behavioral psychology in both RP and BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:44 PM
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☝️ whataboutism. You keep pushing the focus onto men. That's not what I'm talking about. I said that women have to take responsibility for their actions. That's the subject, stop deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:40 PM
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Over 66% of the men in the US are either married or have been. I hardly call that "top men" lol! And that's married only, not the ones who are in a relationship. https://www.statista.com/statistics/242030/marital-status-of-the-us-population-by-sex/ That "top men" thing came from the dating apps, not the real world lol. PS: leave who alone? Any woman is free to move to a cave in Montana or in the middle of the Nevada desert if she can't function in a normal society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:34 PM
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I understand, thanks for the clarification. True, some men lie for sex and some women lie for marriage. It's just the world we live in 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:27 PM
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If you are aware that "men who actually get all the casual sex they want tend to not care", why do you claim you've never been pumped & dumped? You are contradicting yourself. Look, I know it's easier to live in lalaland and gaslight yourself, but you'll feel better and function as an adult much better if you admit to yourself some truths - you got pumped & dumped, because the men you were with decided you are not good enough. Start from there and improve yourself. You'll live a much happier lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:21 PM
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It's easy to have sex. It's not easy to build and hold a relationship with a partner. What's so difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:16 PM
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Sure, keep telling yourself whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:15 PM
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I think women infantilize themselves - you just agreed that women get "manipulated" for sex and don't have basic decision making skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:14 PM
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Women suffer from depression far more often than men, I think you are reversing the roles here. The average US woman is 5'4, borderline obese, suffers from depression, takes anti-depressants, drowns in debt and makes 20-30% less than her male counterpart. I don't think that's anybody's "dream girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:11 PM
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I think being single is mostly a stigma for women that they also project on men. I believe that's a common misconseption among women. We men evaluate each other on money and social status, not if we are in a relationship or not. PS: comparing men and women go pigs and cows is kind of disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:05 PM
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☝️ another example of how women often think that an exception disproves the overwhelming trend. l"I did it once so that negates the other 9 times I got pumped & dumped" 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:01 PM
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Women keep failing over and over again to comprehend that many men will sleep with them, but very few will be genuinely interested in LTR with them. And sex is not just sex, but a test that most women fail. Because let's be honest - most women suck in bed and have no idea how to be good at it. Do you think a sane man will pump & dump the next morning a woman who's great in bed? Men are not those who need to adapt and change - women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:38 PM
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I agree that universal healthcare is superior, but the monetary distribution is similar in countries with UH. So I'll ask again since you didn't answer - why is it not a zero sum game?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 01:15 AM
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Ok, care to change my mind? I'll give you a few examples. In education there is a massive push for decades fo girls to do well, get scholarships, stipends, more girls in STEM and so on. And it wored - there are 50% more women graduating college. Meanwhile boys get neglected, have higher dropout rates, there's a massive bias from teachers (overwhelmingly female) against them, despite boys getting higheer SAT scores for decades and massively outperforming women in college and later in the private …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 11:39 PM
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Read about Earl Silverman who opened the first shelter for men victims of domestic abuse in Canada and how he got bullied and ridiculed until he commited suicide. That should tell you enough. Today's feminists see it as a zero sum game (because let's be honest - it is) and will viciously attack anything that doesn't prioritize their views.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 07:30 PM
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Thanks for the correction! I see what a dumb mistake I made and I have corrected it. Also "Oh, it's not 84%, it's only 56% for one of the most important decisions in your life to fail" is really not the flex you think it is. I have to disagree about the older cohort skewing the stats, the higher divorce rate in initial years is compensated by sheer longevity. The risk of divorce is still present and even if it's lower - it persist over 10 years, 20 years, 30... Also according to the trends the y…
/r/MensRights12/11/24 11:04 AM
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The guy you replied to needs to be institutionalized. Don't engage with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:20 PM
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If your first tought when you see a man is "should I shoot him?" - you need to be put in a mental institution or a prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:55 PM
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Men don't really care about the 4b movement. Get off the internet and touch grass. "the American people at large have shown that they are unsafe for women" - if you really believe that feel free to move to North Korea, Sudan, India, Pakistan or 80% of the rest of the non-Western world lol. The man-bear debate - if there are actually women who trust the bear more - please fuckoff to the mountains where we don't have to put up with your hysteria and mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:29 PM
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Agreed! It should've been Bernie, but the average American is too dumb to vote in his/her best interest. The left rejected him because he's white and a man who doesn't fill the DEI quota and the right thinks he's a communist, because he wants to tax the ultra rich just like FDR, Truman and Eisenhower did. That money built roads, highways, schools, fire stations, police departments, public universities and colleges, affordable housing... But every republican voter thinks of themselves as a future…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:55 PM
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"We lost twice against the weakest, dumbest and oldest candidate the republicans ever had. But the third time it will work - all voters want a woman president!" - DNC Kamala was so shit that she received 10 million less votes than sleepy Joe and lost to a convicted rapist and a pedo. I'm tired of losing elections because of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:09 PM
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I like AOC, she's the closest thing we have to Bernie, but she's too far left and has said too many dumb things that will repulse independents. I know the DNC is corrupt to the core by big corporations, but they still are the lesser evil comapred to the republicans. We need a winner who can turn the swing states. AOC is not a winner. Newsom is. Even the republican voters are scared of him since he destroyed Desantis in the debate on Fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:38 AM
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Women's issues haven't been taken seriously even by women. Women outnumber men and vote more often. If women couldn't be bothered to get off their asses and vote against the convicted rapist and pedo who took away one of their rights - that's on them. And now we'll have more inflation and another recession after Trump plunders the economy again 🤦‍♂️ it's time for the democratic party to move away from shoving women candidates in the voter's face, Hillary and Kamala lost 2 elections to this moron…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:15 AM
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I don't think you understand how the legislative process in the US works. What are you talking about? Now it's about stocks? The stock market has been disconnected from the real world since the last republican president's recession (Bush 2008)? I just don't know where you are coming or going with this. And the republicans won all the presidency, house and senate. And all they co do is cut taxes for the rich and bring recession and inflation for the rest of us lol. Citizens in the US won't do shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:55 AM
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He got screwed both by the dems and the bought & paid for media. But we have the internet, the average American knew who he was. And the average American (left, right or independent) rejected him, because he was (take your pick) white / male / communist / socialist / old. Whitout even hearing that what he was saying made sence and benefited them more than what any other candidate offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:10 AM
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This isn't the 1900s British Empire, manufacturing jobs don't matter as much as service sector, IT sector and financial sector jobs. Clinging to those is like asking the country to rejects engines and revert back to horses. There's no fiture in those, especially with robotization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:03 AM
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It's hard to win elections when you spend your political capital on 2%, 3% or 15% of the population when 90% of the population is suffering economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:58 AM
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The denocrats peoposed a bipartisan bill to limit immigration from the Southern border to 100k/year. Trump told his minions in the house and senate to reject it, because they couldn'tgive Biden a win. It was a good bill. "Focusing on social issues over profit will deliver high prices"... What do you mean? Whose profit? Because I think corporations are price gouging the shit out of us - check their stocks, they've never been more profitable. So we should maybe cap their profits and stop the price…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:55 AM
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It should've been Bernie. America got once in a 50 years shot to get a politician like that in power, but the average American was too stupid to vote in his/her best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:45 AM
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Why the fuck do we always have to divide and segregate ourselves into white, asians, male, female and whatever? Can we all just be Americans and unite over the problems we all have - inflation, expensive housing, fix the healtcare system, fix the social security, raise taxes on the ultra rich who have 100 loopholes how to avoid them, stop legalized corruption aka lobbying and cushy private sector jobs for government officials.... But no, smallminded people always have to group themselves into tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:39 AM
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What things did the democrats push for that harm the working class? Can you give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:32 AM
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Women will never take responsibility for their own gender, but will always demand men to do it. It's just how it is. The democrats spent too much political capital on divisive subjects like trans rights instead of focusing on the economic recovery from the mess Trump left.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:30 AM
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I hate Trump, he'll bring another recession. We are still paying off the trillions in bailouts for Wall St, the fraudulent PPP loans and whatnot. I want democrats in power, because they bring stable economy. I'm 34 and in my entire life there have been 3 republican presidents and they always ended their mandate with recession. That being said women got nobody to blame but themselves for this red wave. Women outnumber men by MILLIONS and vote more often. If women couldn't be bothered to get off t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:26 AM
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Everything comes off as a threat if you want it to be. There will always be people who look for a way to present themselves as victim / threatened / offended. We should stop tiptoeing every time someone radicalized, hateful and misandrist starts screeching. I know there will be some men who'll see this as a green light to actually threaten and abuse others. But we men have been policing ourselves for millenia and this won'tchange that. It's the women who do bad job at keeping their radicals at b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/24 05:42 PM
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Women can't easily have kids because the average woman is drowning in debt, makes 20% less than the average man and it's far worse for women in prime childbearing age (20-29). Also I just came back from Spain and people there are far happier than the ones in the US - free schools, free healthcare, extremely low obesity rate, most people walk or bike because huge megacorps haven't destroyed small businesses, the bars and cafes and even the beaches in October were full of people and let me repeat …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:22 PM
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There's always an excuse when it's about them. They are just allergic to taking any responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:41 PM
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Women should boycott women - they outnumber men and vote more often. Women can elect whoever they want. But too many couldn't be bothered to get off their asses and vote against the convicted felon, rapist and pedo who took their rights. Tens of millions voted FOR him too. Women got only themselves to blame. But naturally, they blame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:31 PM
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Good point. Unfortunately the reasonable moderates can't be distinguished from the fanatics, they are outnumbered and/or don't do good enough job to weed out the crazies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:39 PM
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True, the right doesn't do anything FOR men, but it doesn't demonize them either. Unlike the far-left.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:25 PM
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Feminism used to be liberal. Now in practice has shifted far left and repulses people and attracts minority of Karens who fear and hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:24 PM
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Women voters outnumber man and have higher turnout. Women couldn't be bothered to get their assess off to go vote against the certified rapist and pedo who took away their rights and healthcare. So if women don't care enough - why should men? Why should the democrats keep spending political capital on a single group's issues instead on policies that help ALL?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:34 PM
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Women got nobody to blame, but themselves. They outnumber men and have higher rate of voting participation. Naturally, women on reddit decided to blame men for the shit their own gender is responsible for. Shocker, I know. Women fucked up and couldn't be bothered to get off their lazy asses and vote agains the rapist who took away one of their rights. But it's men's fault 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:07 PM
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We already have place like that - Montana, North & South Dakota, Nevada, some depopulated spots around Oklahoma, West Texas, Kansas... and people are free to move in there and do what they want undisturbed. But for some reason the women who complain the most tend to live in major cities where the contact with men is significantly increased. Hmmm 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:02 PM
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More baggage, more miles, more mental issues, more likely to cheat, less likely to want a child, bigger chance for STDs... you can have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:20 AM
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She's losing WI, MI and PA. I don't think we should give her or her staff a pat on the back.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:39 AM
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Kamala's main message was abortion, "I'm speaking", girl power and other stuff designed to pander to women. That repulsed both men AND women. It will probably cost her the election. So yeah, I absolutely believe that focusing on any single group directly opposes others. So the best solution is policies for all, not for any specific gender, race or whatever identity politics BS trends right now. Because of this crap we have another Trump mandate and another fucking recession in the next 18-36 mon…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:22 AM
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Not only they are losing on men, but they are actually losing with women too. Women voters outnumber men voters. And the conservatives will flip the senate too. This DEI indentity politics and pandering to women and minorities is a losing strategy and it's time to burry it. Women don't deserve a special status and priority if they are too lazy to get off their asses and vote against the guy who took away their right of abortion. Fuck this identity politics crap, time to focus on policies that wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 04:59 AM
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☝️Straight to whataboutism, while all men around the world are supposed to take responsibility for the 1% shitbags among us, troughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:28 PM
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So the only thing you had to say is an attack against OP, not the subject? Disgusting!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:21 PM
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This. Women like her are part of the problem and are quite disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 11:20 PM
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And that's the reason this race is close to begin with. Why divide us to men and women? That's what the republicans do. Most men support right to abortion. It's like the democrats try to lose the election. Horseshoe theory in effect.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 12:37 PM
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Human trash. That's who.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:11 PM
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I agree that there are less marriages - 47% of the adult pop in the US is married, down from 70% decades ago. But here's another stat - 69% of those adults are in a relationship. This means men and women marry less. We could argue why, but I think that's mostly men's choice, because there's a far bigger socio-economic incentive for women to marry and they lose more from being unmarried. I'm happy that women have the same opportunity for financial independence and choice as men. But there's a soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 12:30 PM
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We really don’t. You all say this all the time, but every woman has been told since they were little by their parents, their older siblings, their friends, and now social media that men will fuck anything. Most women really do. En masse. Overwhelmingly. You are not bullshitting me, you are bullshitting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:46 PM
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Yeah, we can't agree on basic and common sense facts, this discussion is pointless. Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:43 PM
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Men can choose their sexual partners too. And they overwhelmingly choose IF there will be a marriage proposal in the first place. By your logic this means men have more often have more power over the initial selection than women. If that makes any sense to you - you are contradicting yourself. If it doesn't - maybe you should accept my initial statement makes more sense than your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:35 PM
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Sure, but a few anecdotes and exceptions do not disprove the general trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:56 PM
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So being and boring overweight couch potato is better? You do you I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:38 PM
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You obviously take it personal. Go to gym, find some hobbies, read a few books, spend some time with friends and family talking about anything else but yourself, get therapy - there are many ways to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:33 PM
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You sound like one of the women I described.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:17 PM
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Just like guys here will straight up admit they’ll chase a POS woman just because she’s hot and/or available. Chase to fuck her. Again, like most women, you have hard time distinguishing fucking with interest in LTR. Men like that will lie good women and hot women, so IDK why youre trying to blame women those manipulative men’s behavior. True, scumbags like that exist, I've done it too and regret a few cases. But some women are to blame - they just don't have anything else to offer but sex and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:55 PM
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Most men on those apps don't get enough matches and don't know how bad the selection is. On another hand substandard women get too much attention and get distorted view of themselves. They don't realize most of these men are only interested in pumping and dumping them, very few are interested in LTR and these women can keep even fewer of those men in LTR. OD is bad for society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:43 PM
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I've tried OD, got enough matches to schedule dates whenever I want. The overwhelming majority of women on those apps are losers. It's not worth the effort. Too much baggage, emotionally unstable, immature, broke, posting old pics, using filters, boring, depressed, on heavy anti-depressants... and let's not start the subject on looks in my target age group (25-35). So tell me again why should men bother about what women on dating apps want?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:34 PM
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No, it's reversed. Women equate "men want to fuck me" with "men love me". The reality is most women get pumped and dumped by most of their male partners, very few of the men they meet look for LTR with said women and the women themselves can keep even fewer of those men in the LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:54 PM
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What a low IQ answer. SA mostly happens agains women, true and horrible. Even with that fact in mind, men are STILL more likely to be a victim of a violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:20 AM
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Very good question and I'm extremely amused by the answers here. Because the people answering "I'll help!" are so full of shit, lol 99% of the people either sit on the side and watch or keep minding their own business, especially in scenarios where another person is in danger. Keep telling yourselves whatever you want, but we all know you are full of shit. Source: I've been properly assaulted 4 times in my life, mostly in public places, including when I tried to protect someone else. In 2 of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:53 PM
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Your title, text, presumptions and arguments don't make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:15 PM
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Not really. From my point of view men approached women who where in similar attractiveness to them, while most women were a bit delusional and were shooting unrealistically high. Sorry, but if you are a 4 or 5 you are not getting an 8 or 9. Men seem to understand that while women either don't or they are overestimating their attractiveness and how desirable they are as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:24 PM
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Why do you ask that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:40 PM
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Agreed, better isn't the best word to use. Let's call it more efficient & profitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:40 PM
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Women have advantage in that industry while men are just better in pretty much every other - there's a reason men overwhelmingly outearn women everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:38 AM
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It was organized by a club I'm a member of, not open to the public. I don't know about the rest, but I went because I was curious. But yeah, the women were definitely bottom feeders, mostly over 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:00 AM
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6ft. There were taller guys there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:29 PM
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I went to a private event like that years ago. I was a top guy and I know that by the fact 2 women approached me after the thing was over and I was on my way to the exit. All the women there were just... losers. They dressed well, they had their hairs done but... they were boring, not particularly attractive and flirted like high school nerds. I felt sorry for the other men, because there were some great guys there - engineers, entrepreneurs, a very high income stock investor, a horse breeder - …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:54 PM
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You are starting with wrong presumptions. I'm not a woman and I don't know or care what they want. But men want more than sex. It's a horrible misconception ruining millions of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:15 PM
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I'm sure your children will be very happy when they find out their parent prefers to flip burgers than being their parent. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:02 PM
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Nobody cares about that. Why do you think both republicans and democrats keep letting millions of immigrants through the border.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:12 PM
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You must be very sad and I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:08 PM
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Your theory crashed and burned and now you feel silly 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:23 PM
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Good. Please don't procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:22 PM
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Most of the fathers I know work because they have to and earn more than their wives. None prefer to work over being the SAH parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:43 PM
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No. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:25 AM
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Right. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:25 AM
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I give "employer" vibes to people who are "employees". It's a totally different ballgame. Also I just can't comprehend that there are people out there who prefer to work instead of spending time with their own children. Those people must be really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:16 AM
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I really don't understand people who prefer to spend their time at work instead of with their family either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:14 AM
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This! I'm glad you noticed the "priviledge" thing too! This is is called gaslighting. Women will find a way to complain about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:41 AM
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Raising your OWN children while not working a single day - such a sacrifice! 🙄 The average reddit feminist would rather serve drinks or burgers just so she can say she's iNdEPenDeNt rather than have kids from a millionaire 😆 If we let them - feminists will soon complain that they have to breathe and drink water too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:34 AM
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Nope. Most women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:00 PM
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Lol, harsh and true. Some women just don't have anything else to offer but sex. And replacing their only bargaining chip with easy access to escorts is a real threat. Very good point on the paternity test - they should be mandatory if the government also mandates on child support in case of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 06:56 PM
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Use google, it's not that difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:16 PM
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It's a figure of speech, nobody cares if it is or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:13 PM
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You are wrong about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:12 PM
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Legalizing prostitution liberally does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 05:03 AM
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Lol, true, many relationships are monogamous prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:35 AM
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*Crazy dog ladies. If you open the apps you'll see most single women have dogs and there actually very few single cat ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:59 PM
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This. Women say a lot of things, talk all the time, contradict themselves and even they don't believe their own bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:53 PM
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Women say one thing, mean another, act in a 3rd way and react in a 4th. Trying to find logic, sense and patterns is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:52 PM
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They did. Pre-industrial revolution most were farmers, just like the men. Domestic work, childcare, certain trades and businesses were also not uncommon like textile and garment services, clothing services, various food and cottage production, nursing and healthcare. So there were plenty of options and pretty much on par with the vast majority of men, but people like you always find a way to present women as the perpetual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 11:47 PM
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people are doing it now, desperate or not. Just unsafely, unregulated and under the radar. It increaases human trafficking in Germany where there are no laws against "pimping". It decreased in the Netherlands where there are. It absolutely lowers abuse, violence and deaths of sex workers and that's very well documented in countries who've legalized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:25 PM
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Ok have a nice life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:21 PM
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Lol "seatbelts don't always prevent death, so let's ban seatbelts".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 09:19 PM
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Great! Another positive example. The market has decided that's the price and anybody who needs it that much can afford it. It's still cheaper than seaing a therapists lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:20 PM
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Using states is just stupid - anybody already in the US can cross them at will and lonely Nevada with it's >1% of the US population is hardly a good example. Comparing US states to sovereign countries is just silly. lJust like saying "Chicago banned guns but there are still murders" - idiots who say that don't know Chicagoland spreads over 3 states and 80% of the murders are commited with guns purchased from Indiana.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:16 PM
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Look at it by country, not by state. Both in Netherlands and Germany have 40% lower rates than the US. Naturally that's not all because of prostitution, bit it helps. Read this for example - the government in Netherlands allowes people with disabilities to use their funding for prostitutes. They call it "sex care" and lead to lower rates of suicides and depression. https://www.dutchnews.nl/2022/01/questions-over-state-funded-sex-care-for-people-with-a-disability-in-amsterdam/ About impact - ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:48 PM
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That has me told...🙄 Are you for or against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:36 PM
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First of all - who says it has to help them? 2nd a lot of guys put pussy on a pedestal. Going to an escort or just knowing you have access to it replaces that, removes the need for sex and human contact and leaves you focused on finding the woman right for you, not just the ones willing to fuck you. A lot of men in relationships are miserable, because their partners can ONLY provide sex. They put up with abusive, aggressive and manipulative partners. That's not good for anybody. Prostitution can…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:29 PM
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Lol, move to North Korea, comrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:23 PM
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People who want to be offended will always find something to bitch about. Your trick is neat, but trying to reason with an unreasonable person is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:15 PM
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You do realize this goes for both genders and women also engage in prostitution, right? It's already commodified by overwhelmingly willing participants in it, it's just done unsafely under the radar. Just like alcohol during the prohibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:12 PM
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I don't see any "manosphere posters" here. Quite the opposite - it seems that mostly women are against it and are threatened by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:08 PM
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There's no magic pill for anything and I shouldn't argue with a person who speaks in extremes, but it lowers suicide rates, depression and it's safer for both providers and customers. "BuT iT dOeSn'T eLimInaTe tRafFicKinG" - sure, but it lowers it significantly and having to explain that to a person like you seems like a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:26 PM
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Yeah, I saw a few people saying that and they are full of shit and honestly, they sound treathened by prostitution. Depression rates are lower. Suicide rates are lower. The industriy is regulated and they are safer. Denying the safety aspect is delusional. I also saw way more people from those countries posting that it's beneficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:20 PM
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Lol, the woman in the clip is a misogynist, because she focuses on men's problems??? This is like saying that hearth disease charity is discriminatory, because it ignores Alzheimers🤣 There's nothing wrong with the woman in the clip, there's something wrong with narcissistic women like OP who demand "women first" attitude and perceive anything else as misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:26 PM
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No point, the republicans don't do shit either and every republican presidency in my lifetime has ended with a recession.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/24 01:01 PM
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I have and I'll keep doing it. More men should start doing it too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/24 04:14 PM
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I see the opposite trend. Staying on the side and hoping things will get better doesn't work. There are 4 times more men commiting suicides than women, millions of boys fall behind in school due to bias and shortage of male teachers, women get 60% lower sentences or even NO sentence for the same crimes, there are vastly more women going and graduating from college, more men than women are victims of violent crimes... I believe human nature and self-interest are stronger than moral values and thi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/24 03:16 PM
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Feminism was a good idea - it was supposed to encourage women to be strong, free, happy and productive. Instead it has morphed into mostly hateful movement that attracts and produces women who hate men, fear them and blame them for all their flaws, shortcomings and mistakes. Women have failed to police themselves and are indulging into more radical and hateful views. Many do it on purpose - they know the pendulum has swung past equality (the goal of feminism) and now it's pushing firther and fur…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/24 12:09 PM
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Whiteknights and m'lady neckbeards mostly who never had contact in women lol. In real life most people and more direct and most women can take facts and hard truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:59 AM
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Men with children also do more child care than men without. AND they make more money. Women should do the same instead of making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:57 PM
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Not ONLY because of children. Women just have lower ceiling, less work spheres where they can perform as well as men (physically demanding jobs), choose jobs with less responsibilities and are in general worse performers (men prefer high risk - high reward more often than women). Read this - the more equal society is, the more "feminine" and traditional jobs women choose. For 100 years of equality women still choose the same jobs a they did long ago - education, healthcare, secretaries and stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:52 PM
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And men with children make more than men without. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:18 PM
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There are many factors that influence to a various degree, I don't have the exact causes and their ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:15 PM
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Source on the 2%? It's not in the article. Kids - women in general just make less. Before and after. Kids or no kids. Young women start with 2-3% higher salaries fall off significantly later in career not only because of having children. They choose lower-paying fields with lower ceiling and lower responsibilities. There's a research for surgeons for example - massive shortage, dire need of new surgeons, very high salaries, but women just prefer different specialties and even the few who become …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:14 PM
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No, it's not. Women overwhelmingly choose lower-paying jobs with lower ceiling: Average man's earnings in the US $64022. Women - $52266. 20% difference. https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/gender-pay-gap-statistics/#:\~:text=Women%20earn%20an%20average%20of,for%20every%20dollar%20men%20earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:50 PM
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Well, those few women are suckers and idiots for marrying men who are bums. This is entirely on them for making stupid life decisions and not being able to choose good partners. Again, we are talking about only 13% of all couples (1 in 7 roughly) and those don't stay long together. So the women in these relationships should stop bitching and complaining, take responsibility for their dumb choices and start making better ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:47 PM
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Lol, triggered. First - you don't speak for men. Men speak for themselves, I'm one of them, I've talked to many on the subject and I'm right and you are wrong. Deal with it. No, men overwhelmingly out earn women on average, in 55% of all marriages men are main/sole breadwinner. 29% have "equal earners" which is "$40k or less difference", but in over half of those the man still outlearns the woman and $20k-$40k is a lot of money, especially in rural America, the South and Plains states. So men ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:35 PM
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If you ask them if they want to be A stay at home parent most will say no. If you ask them to be the stay at home parent IF their wife brings enough $ - most will overwhelmingly say yes. The thing is in most couples the woman brings less. Women are just lower earners and have lower earning potential on average. It's a financial decision for any sane couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:27 PM
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Feel free to start earning more money than you husband and I'm sure he'll agree to be the stay at home parent. I don't know a single couple who'll chose the higher-earning parent to stay at home. It's a 100% financial decision. It's far easier to change diapers than to get a higher-paying job and on average women just can't out earn their male partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:03 PM
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Yes, because most men's wives make less than them. It's a budget issue for most couples. Most women just don't earn as much as most men. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:54 PM
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Men really don't care about that. But women really do - in only 13% of marriages the wife is the sole / main breadwinner and those have 3 times higher divorce rate than the opposite (man as sole/main at 56% of all marriages). Also families where the wife is sole/main are overwhelmingly bellow the poverty line or just above it, because the husband is unemployed / with disability / in jail. It's a well known fact that women really don't like "dating down". Which is kind of disgusting since men nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:46 AM
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It happens because we allow the people around us the spew that hateful shit. You need to push back.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/24 02:22 PM
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I think that's best - being open. It's much better for both men and women. Men (the majority) who don't like this behavior can avoid the women who are like that and these women can focus on men who are willing to tolerate it. It will result in far more single people, but I think that's better than getting married and finding out how incompatible your partner is a few months / years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:24 PM
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This. The vast majority of the single women out there can't offer anything more than sex. That's why so many get pumped & dumped. They will blame men for being pigs and never look at their limited capacity as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:16 PM
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On point 2 - I can't say I have the right genes, but I got money. And I can tell you - the less I care - the more women chase me. I can be a complete douchebag and they'll push through the humiliation and embarrassment in hope of that they'll get some of that luxury lifestyle, vacations, cars and so on. Women are far more superficial and materialistic than men, they just pretend harder that they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:01 PM
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In general men don't care what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:57 PM
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Coulda-shoulda. Older women (and not only) constantly give horrible advice to younger ones to keep them single and as miserable as they are. About your break-up - there are boundaries that shouldn't be crossed and your partner should respect them. But it seems like you failed to communicate that and your insecurity took over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:39 PM
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Lol, the examples you give are typical girls with daddy-issues. Not all are like that, but it's more common than people think, I'd geusstimate 30%-40% from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:32 PM
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Same here with the jaw + tearing of the lower parth of the tongue that holds it to your jaw. Yes, in my experience the great wones are 1 in 8 or 9, but I'll never forget those! The rest - I can't even remember their names lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:45 PM
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Lol, people still haven't figured out that the less you play the women's game - the more they start playing yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:06 PM
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Hey, whatever works for you two. But you are sexually illiterate, please don't spread your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:18 PM
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Lol, he faked it a few times for sure, you just didn't realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:14 PM
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Lol, no! I've even faked it a few times just to be over with it. Or even just stopped once, because she was very tight, she was in pain, was not enjoying it and I couldn't enjoy it seing her like that. You need more experience, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:13 PM
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That's what they think, but they don't realize that's one of the biggest reasons they get pumped & dumped - they suck in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:53 PM
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This! Who told this child that "sex is pretty much guaranteed to feel good for a man" lol! More than half of the women I've been with sucked in bed. Women, why do you think so many men pump & dump you and never call back? It's not only that, but it's a contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:52 PM
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Most women are horrible in bed - can't last for more than 60 sec on top, jaw hurts, run out of breath... most women expect to lie there or bend over and be "serviced" like a car for oil change at Jiffy Lube 🤣 Once you've been with a few who are ACTUALLY good and you have a base for comparison you realize how terrible the average woman is in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:13 PM
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Lol, the overwhelming majority of women can't stay on top for 60 sec before running out of breath. Or can't do BJ for more than 2 min before their jaw hurts. Women on average are not only more selfish, they are BAD in bed and that's the hard truth. Men just don't tell them, because it will hurt their feelings. Women will deny and use whataboutism and neckbeards will say "nOt aLl wOmeN aRE LiKE thAt!" and other reddit whiteknight crap, but we all know it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 12:57 PM
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Single women too often don't realise that there are always men willing to pump & dump them, but only a few are interested in a long-term relationship with them. And even fewer that they can actually keep. It's a hard lesson many never learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:08 AM
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" You don't need to sell something to the world if you really believe it." - I couldn't have said it better!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:03 AM
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☝️thats what a femcel sounds like. Only 32% of the population is single, which means the vast majority disagrees with those views. A relationship is not about gaining, it's about sharing - love, respect, trust, companionship, fun, common goals and interests... I've never met a single person who wants to stay single. Many say that, they say they are happy, but if you know them well enough you know that they are lying to themselves to feel better. Some do that out of shame for not being able to at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:01 AM
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No, younger women just have better bodies. All the drive, skills and experience of older women can't compensate for the dissapointment of loose, flabby and drier skin. And that's just one thing. I don't want to get into details, people get touchy about it. But just understand that older women are a step down no matter what. You are being insecure and you are trying to convince yourself in the opposite, not me. Just get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:35 PM
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4% isn't significant - it's quite the opposite of that. But here's the deal - you are not trying to convince me - you are trying to convince yourself. Just stop being so insecure and go enjoy life with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:20 AM
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Keep telling yourself whatever you want, but past 30 it's only downhill for women. The reason younger men would "prefer" significantly older woman is because those are easier to bang and more desperate due to the lack of choices. No sane man would choose an older over younger woman if all other things are equal, just deal with it. And a man who's with a much older woman will just tell her what she wants to hear to pump & dump her. You need to undrstand that for a man the willingness to sleep wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:21 AM
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If you are a man - younger women are superior. Older ones can compensate with those other things I mentioned, but they start with a serious disadvantage. It's just how it is. You can't fight nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:16 PM
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There are many reasons to date older women - they are more experienced, they understand a man doesn't want only sex, they are also better in bed on average, more interesting to talk to, know when to shut up... But no matter what, if all else is even - the younger woman is superior in every way. I just don't want to get into details, seems to be a touchy subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:42 PM
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There's a huge difference between a youn woman and a mature one in bed, I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult 🤦‍♂️Amd I don't want to get into details, because you seem to get it too personally. But yeah, there's a reason the humongos majority of men prefer younger women. A few examples of the opposite can't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:56 PM
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I don't think that men golddiggers are as common as women golddiggers. Most women realy don't like "dating down" - in only 13% of all marriages the wife makes more and those have 3 times higher divorce rate - over 8% chance of divorce per year. Either way - adult people can do whatever they want if both sides agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:59 PM
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I can confirm. I'm mid 30s man and women in their late 30s and 40s compensate with being better and more active in bed than the girls in their 20s. Still, I doubt that any younger men take these relationships seriously, nothing more than FWB and some fun. Women in their 40s who seriously think they have a shot for LTR with a man in his 20s are delusional. Even if they are serious - many of these younger gentleman will want kids and that's something that more experienced ladies can't provide anym…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:52 PM
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On that we can agree - women are horrible at communication, especially in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:19 AM
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Most women are horrible at those signals. They think the signals are clear, obvious and can be seen from space. But in reality most women are scared shitless of rejection and surpress those signals to the point they become indistingwishable from normal behavior to the target or the side observer. You need a team of forensic analysts to decipher them. Girls, don't use "looks" and "giggles", use TOUCH to flirt - we men understand that. We think that a girl that touches us likes us and our presence…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:40 AM
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1 facts. link works just fine for me, feel free to google "do.estic abuse in same-sex marriages". Of course women are more often caregivers and that bumps their numbers. But those are the numbers and you don't seem to have a problem with #1 when they work in women's "favor". In most cases if police answers to a domestic abuse call if the man is profusely bleeding, but the woman has a fingernail broken - they'll arrest the man, even if he shows video proof then and there of being the victim. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:52 PM
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Mmm no. 35% of women experience domestic violence and 28% of men. And men's rate is massively underreported https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/#:~:text=Over%201%20in%203%20women,intimate%20partner%20in%20their%20lifetime. Also lesbian marriages have 3 times higher domestic abuse raate by their partner than gay marriages do. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_same-sex_relationships Women are less agressive to men, because they are weaker than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:10 AM
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The man who's "emotionaly vulnerable" to you has never showed you the real shit he keeps inside. Women want a few manly tears here and there, not the real shit that we actually hold back. He has crafted a second mask to simulate some emotional leakage just for your fucking entertainment so you can think he's vulnerable. If you let out the real shit - women get the "ick". And what's worse - it's your closest women - the only ones you are supposed to trust. Again, you really have absolutely no ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:00 AM
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3x more men are murdered than women, men are the victims of most violent crimes and most property crimes. Not women. What on earth are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:46 AM
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Lol, I'm a big fan of his, it's possible I've watch this special before! Still - he's 100% right, I can confirm from multiple personal experiences. I love the top comment with 8k likes and 155 replies: "Meant to be funny but as men we know this is one of the saddest parts of reality."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:10 AM
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Women say one thing, mean another, act in a 3rd way and react to it in a 4th. I can tell you from personal experience that you have no idea what you are talking about. Not only you are clueless, but your opinion is actually harmful to many men who might believe your nonsense. If you have a son one day - please do not teach him that bullshit, you'll only hurt him and scar him for life. PS: "We don't want men like that." Men don't care what women want - if we did everything you asked us to do we'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:06 AM
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K, have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:02 AM
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If hundreds of people are telling you the same thing - maybe they have a point? I don't dismiss your point of view and personal experience. Why do you dismiss ours?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:27 AM
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You are either a woman or a very spoiled man who never had to deal with tough situations in life. Either way - good for you, I sincerely hope you never have to go through that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:24 AM
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OP, I have newsflash for you. Women, children, even cats and dogs are loved and cared for just for being there. Men are loved, respected and cared for only if they provide utility, are useful and project strenght in some way (intelligence, physical or mental strenght, financial power and ect.). Virginity in a man shows weakness - it means he couldn't get a partner. Now his "usefulness" is immediately lower. There will be people who'll deny that, but pay attention and you'll come to the same conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:24 AM
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Nope, the studies are exactly about fraud and men being misled / lied to about being the father when they are not. "Paternal discrepancy (PD) occurs when a child is identified as being biologically fathered by someone other than the man who believes he is the father."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:03 PM
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Bruh, there are 300k paternity test performed per year in the US. 28% of them come as negative. That's an EXTREMELY high and serious percentage when we are talking about your own (or in this case - someone else's) child. Naturally men who suspect infidelity will request those test more often than men who trust their partner. But if there's even 1% chance the kid is not mine (let alone 28%) - I want it tested. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16686854/ Edit: the false paternity fraud in the US is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:46 PM
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Lol, we are all toxic, that's why we are here. The only difference is that I don't mind admitting it, while most people are lying to themselves they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:57 AM
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"What value is the man bringing in this scenario? The salary? Is that it?" 🤣 That's LITERALY what value means, lol 🤣🤣🤣 you must be 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:56 AM
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I'm married and run a company. You play WoW.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:31 AM
-1

Here you go. For $40k/ year (Chicago market prices, including 1 child) an average man can fully replace his wife's household and caregiving responsibilities. https://beikecelltherapy.com/studies/the-value-of-the-stay-at-home-parent-in-2024.html
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:28 AM
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First - both men and women would HAVE to do those same chores and same maintenance if they were separately. Nobody "owes" anything for the other's "unpaid labor". Second - my point is that women tend to overestimate their contribution to the household and underestimate men's. Example - you can cook 365 days of the year and we still won't save as much as I save you fixing the water heater that costs $3500 to replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:17 AM
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You do realize this sub is the lowest level of the sewage system of reddit, right? All the most toxic shit pools here and it's not the best indicator for what men or women think or say in general. I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult person 🤦‍♂️ On your question - I've lived in Eastern Europe and 13 years now in the US. Most women do contribute proportionally. In the overwhelming majority of LTR they contribute less money and services than the man, deal with it. First - most men ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:35 AM
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I'll give you one for free - once you've fucked enough you'll want those other things I mentioned - love, affection, passion, friendship, trust, partnership, sense of humor, kindness, ambition, compatible goals & interests. But the hard truth is that many women can't provide those things and you'll be miserable with them once the initial "honeymoon" phase is over. You know how women want you to be hot, cute, funny, well-off, not too jealous, not too controlling, well dressed, well educated, have…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:29 PM
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True, those men play their part. But there's the other side of the coin - the women who get pumped & dumped. Many of them don't have much else to offer besides sex. I don't think there's a sane man who'll sneak out at 3am & never text back a woman that made him feel wanted, cared for, showed affection, sense of humor, trustworthiness, is attractive enough, was great in bed, showed genuine interest... do you know what we call women who do that and are like that? Wife-material. And the truth is mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:12 AM
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True. Way too many women believe that men who are willing to sleep with them are also willing to marry them, they get arrogant from the attention, they pick men who pump & dump them, they start hating all men, get more toxic, pick other men for rebound, and the circle repeats. Too many think spreading their legs is a "reward" for the man between them and that's all they have to do. And many are not even good in bed. In reality men need support, partnership, affection, trust, friendship, kindness…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:10 AM
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It's not an idea, it's a fact - many women can't offer anything else but sex to a partner. Trust, friendship, intimacy, partnership - those are things that in my experience close to 1/3 of women I've been with can't offer. There's nothing anti-left about pointing out such people exist in large numbers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 08:59 PM
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Lol, women stick dildos, veggies, furniture and what not in themselves. They can shut the fuck up. My body, my choice, I'll jerk off however I want 🤣 The reason they are agains porn, bots, prostitution, strip clubs and passport bros is because those lower the collective value of women and too many of them lose the only thing they can offer - sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 06:04 PM
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☝️This is a horrible, one-sided, selfish take. A clear example of how most women will always put themselves first, while men are expected to sacrifice themselves. Notice that how she only sees it from a woman's perspective and what's best and acceptable to the woman, not even an afterthought about the child, let alone the man. Men don't need "reasonable suspicion" to verify the children are theirs when the freaking legal system will obligate them to a financial indentured servitude for 18 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:35 AM
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Exactly! That's another way women will gaslight you - they will calculate THEIR unpaid housework, but won't calculate yours whihle COMPLETELY dismissing the money that you bring and afford the luxury for her to stay at the home that mostly you pay for. And again - I prefer to work extra hours or even get 2nd job than hear this complete bullshit about "unpaid housework" some women are deluding themselves with. Girl, you live here too! If you don't bring anything to the table - I'm better off outs…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 12:01 AM
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There are so many stereotypes that you list but are actually entirely false. And all because women just outshout men. Porn - men and women are physiologically and mentally wired differently. Telling men to stop jerking off is like telling women to stop talking to their friends - they can do it, but do they have to? Also women in the West hate that porn and prostitution substitutes them and lowers their collective value. Stigmatizing or banning porn is sexual repression and the "progressive" femi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/24 10:23 PM
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I already pointed out what you are doing. I can't help you further and I don't think you are worth arguing with - I don't care about changing your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:54 PM
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☝️ Gaslighting. There's always an excuse - she must have a reason, she must be joking, she's not serious, it's not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:41 PM
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I see reading comprehension is not your strong side and you can't follow more than 2 replies. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:08 PM
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Funny, but it only distracts from a much bigger problem. Imagine a guy making a joke of SA, workplace discrimination or anything else affecting women only - then you'll be screeching "misogyny", right? Let me throw another statistic at you sing you like making jokes about them - 90% of the SA victims are women and we all agree that's a bad thing and we should do something about it, right? Guess what - SA is less than 20% of all assaults and men actually get assaulted more often than women. I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:49 PM
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"In what way is society exploiting the man" - educational, judicial and societal bias in favor of women, hire more women, vote for women, pay women more, DEI, scholarships, more research, money and political capital for women-related issues... "Who is checking out exactly?" - over 50% of young men 19-25 have never asked a girl out. That's a scary percentage of young men feeling disenfranchised. Imagine the outcry of over 50% of women were in some negative statistics like that. And you are clear …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:32 PM
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This too - the passport bros seem to have cracked the code and women who've heard about the movement seem to be quite jealous of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:57 PM
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True, women don't like openly admiting that nobody's approaching them - it suggest they are not attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:31 PM
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Women who suck and underperform will always use their gender as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:12 AM
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I can't stand Pence and Trump, but Pence made a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:57 AM
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"I'm fine"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 01:55 PM
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Lol, make myself 😆 We've made a full circle - from conversion therapy "curing" gays to "making yourself" gay
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 01:54 PM
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Lol, I don't know of it's sexist, but it's accurate. Google every single statement. I have and more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 05:49 AM
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Read the femcel comments. Directly or indirectly women will blame all their problems on men. They've realized the more they yap, complain, protest, push back - the more things they can get away with. Often at the expense of men. They got equal rights, they keep their priviledges and now they want more at the expense of men's health, public focus, finances, opportunities, attention... The pendulum has swung past equality and they keep pushing it further. They normalize anti-men behaviour, while w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 01:01 PM
0

Talk to your friends and family. I have. They have no problem admitting they'll take anything that benefits them, even if it hurts others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/24 02:10 AM
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"they won't give one iota of ground" - correct, those type of people won't change their minds. But you shouldn't try either - all you have to do is confront them on their bullshit so they can feel less comfortable spreading their propaganda. The silent majority will also notice that - their minds you can change. They have the capacity to accept another opinion or even just understand it without agreeing with it. Don't let yourself be bullied into accepting the narrative. Inform yourself well, re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/24 05:45 PM
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Most women don't want equality, they want to dominate and keep their privileges. Just talk to the women in your family and friend circles and they'll confirm it. Equality has been achieved in decades now, I'm 34 and through my entire life I've never seen or felt women to be "oppressed", stopped from promotion, held back, bullied or anything like that. Some have said say they were, but in my experience and observation as a neutral 3rd party they use it as an excuse for their own failures and shor…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/24 05:00 PM
2

You sound like one of those people who think they know better than their doctor about diseases, more abut cars than their mechanic and more about flying than the pilot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 08:24 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:56 PM
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I said what I said. Educate yourself on the subject and you can either agree with me or you can be wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 11:18 AM
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Exactly! Occupy Wall St was the canary in the coal mine for them - they figured that such movements are a threat and started sowing division. Bernie Sanders was the next one, I really believed in him, but the establishment was too strong, he couldn't handle them, got isolated and never reached the average voter who's incredibly misinformed by tons of corporate media propaganda and layers of misinformation on social media. I think the magas see Trum as their Burnie, but he's a false messiah, a go…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 02:26 AM
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My personal and biased opinion is that democrats are just as corrupt as the republicans. Their corporate donors want the average people to fight eachother over stupid shit, while they keep dodging taxes and keep making trillions in profit. Stupid shit like men vs women, left vs right, millenial vs boomer, white vs black, rural vs urban, pro-choice vs pro-life and so on. And the really fucked up thing is that it works! When you get categorized in any of those way your tribal instinct kicks in and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 01:25 AM
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I think most American men would agree with you. And most women outside of reddit too - traditional roles are better and there's a good reason why they are "traditional" to begin with. More egalitarian societies like the Scandinavians actually revert to those and become more "traditional" and "unequal" - freedom to choose and less social pressure for gender roles actually reinforces them and everyone is better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:42 PM
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As a leftists I hate this so much! In my 34 years on this earth republicans destroy and plunder the economy, shit all over the country just to have democrats come to power until the clean up the mess. Rince and repeat. Bush Sr - recession. Clinton - best economy of all. Bush jr - 2008 crash, worst recession in 100 years and 2 wars. Obama - cleans up the mess. Trump - covid, relentless printing and huge inflation. Biden - has to clean it up. Democrats are so much better at governing, but they spe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 09:05 PM
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Look, half of my family are teachers, I have too much respect for the profession. I prefer not to engage further, have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:57 PM
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Women tend to be far more self-centered on average. My wife and all my former GFs were all like that. When she worked - her job was "harder" and "more stressfull". She worked in a restaurant. I run a trucking company by myself lol. When she didn't work and just stayed home for months - she did "all the work" at home and the "house will fall apart without her". When I hired a house cleaning and we started eating out or ordering takeout - she still found something to complain about. This time it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:59 PM
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No, I don't think you are that type of a woman. I think you are that type of a person. Look, we all have flaws. Everybody told me I was too angry as a teenager in school and later at my workplace. I thought those people are idiots and that my behavior was justified. I was wrong, they were right. I hope you get some clarity one day. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:04 PM
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Look, I'll give it to you straight, as a business owner - you sound full of shit. "I'm always the best", "I always know more", " I outperform everybody" - I know your type. You are never at fault and everybody else is to blame for your shortcomings. And yeah, you sound bitchy and lacking man-management skills, self-awareness and you hide your mistakes instead of owning them, fixing them and learning from them. You don't put a person like that in a position with bigger responsibilities - the peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 05:25 PM
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You obviously work for someone else - what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:04 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:37 AM
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Half of my office staff is women. Mostly in dispatch - purely performance based sales job with average over 6-digit salary. Women on average bring less than men, despite having the same responsibilities, tools to work with and incentive, all trained by me personally. For example men grossed average $535k in sales last month, women are at $458k. And my 2nd best dispatcher is a woman, so it can be done, but most are just not there. Men push for more, wait longer, make more cold calls on average an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:46 AM
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For +60 years of equality laws and decades of feminism and propping up women it's miniscule and insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:37 AM
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Shit, your story hits hard. Especially the 2009 part - the recession caught up to Eastern Europe and hit my country a year later, I was in uni, had to work to support myself and a sick parent, I couldn't get a job even to clean floors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 10:35 AM
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Arguing with numbers and speculation doesn't work here. The numbers proved you wrong. Women work less hours. Period. No excuses. Ergo they have lower income on average. Commute - lower radius naturally mens less flexibility, less options and lower pay. Saving a few bucks on gas for lower pay is a really bad trade-off no matter how you look at it. Women-owned businesses - again, wild speculation trying to argue with numbers. Combine all that and the notion that women should be paid more just beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:24 AM
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What an awesome reply! Thanks for taking the time to write! Have you experienced "glass ceiling", "patriarchy", "boys club" attitude or any crap like that? If yes - how did you handle it? How prevalent was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:34 AM
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Like the public sector? That's even more regulated and egalitarian?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:31 AM
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Agreed, generalization and stereotyping is wrong. It sholluld be on case to case basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:31 AM
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Agreed! That's exactly my opinion as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:29 AM
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"Plenty of women on crews" I have eyes, I don't need to refute anything, but I will anyway: women construction workers - a tiny 6%. I wouldn't call that "plenty". https://www.ceacisp.org/news/construction-worker-demographics-us#:~:text=6.2%25%20of%20all%20construction%20workers,worker%20is%2038%20years%20old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:13 AM
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I've read those studies that women are more productive by 10% at some jobs. My personal experience and ovservations are totally the opposite, but I'm willing to accept those studies despite that. This means that women are more productive and more profitable employees, but they get paid less. If this is true - women have nobody to blame but themselves. I wouldn't tolerate working more and getting paid less, I don't know why women would. And I think this nebulous "patriarchy" is a myth or insignif…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:08 AM
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Ok, so what's your answer to the question? If women are making less overal - should they blem men or themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:57 AM
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Rxactly - it's total ammount of $ earn divided by totall ammount of men and women respectively in the US, data from US Bureau of labor statistics.. As a woman have you ever experienced that mythological "glass ceiling", "boys club" or whathave you? I really can't understand it, I've looked for it at my workplace and now in my own company and I think it's BS and thing from the past. I've seen female coworkers complain that they've been passed for promotion due to sexism, but in reality they are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:53 AM
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Thats a very simplistic and naive assumption for a very big and complex issue. Sorry, I just can't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:48 AM
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You can't argue with that - the free market, supply/demand dynamics and the goal of profit have already proved that the wage gap is not because of sexism, the notion is just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:42 AM
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Don't bother, I've heard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:40 AM
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I agree that teachers are extremely undervalued in the US, it's shocking to me as an immigrant from Eastern Europe. It's one of the most vital jobs in every society, far more important than law enforcement for example. A cop shouldn't be paid more than a teacher. Unfortunatelly I believe the reasons are political, not socio-economic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:38 AM
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Exactly. After a few different google searches I can only find only the opposite of what's she's claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:34 AM
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That's pretty much how it sounds to me. People who lack basic research skills keep bleating "pay women more", despite being less productive, hardworking and chosing on average jobs with less responsibility and stress. That's not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:30 AM
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I own a trucking company with 8-digit revenue for last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:18 AM
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You do know most female doctors prefer to be general practitioners (the lowest paid physicians) instead of specializing, right? Even in their own subgroup women gravitate to positions with less responsibility, less years education and practice and less specialization. Adittionaly female female physicians report higher burnout rate. https://www.ama-assn.org/practice-management/physician-health/new-data-sheds-light-gender-gap-physician-burnout So after all this the trend is clear - women choose jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:17 AM
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Yes, it's absolutely accurate, men in the US work on average 4hrs longer per week and commute 60% more. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ The number of kids for millenials - even less excuses for women to earn less. If your boss values you he'll give you more - lol, such a naive belief 😆 your boss will try to get as much work as possible for as little $ as possible. You have a lot to learn, come back t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:09 AM
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lol, you are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:02 AM
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Construction workers for example - next time there's road construction check how many of the crew are women. At best there will be one - holding the "SLOW" sign. There are hundreds of thousands of construction jobs in the US that most women can't do, but most men can. Those are well paying jobs that half of fhe work force is significantly less productive at. This creates supply-demand imballance and raises the salaries. On the opposite side there are almost no "women" jobs that men can't also do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:45 PM
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In my experience women get passed for promotion for lacking management skills, being less productive and less profitable, not because they are women. But blaming the "patriarchy", the "glass ceiling" and the "boys club" is much more convenient for low-performing women, than to admit that their male counterpart is just better than they are. Thinking that a business owner will make a decision that brings them less profit is just dumb. Companies, corporations, businesses and executives don't care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:22 PM
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And according to this source in the UK women choose not to specialize and outnumber men only as general practitioners - job with less responsibilites, requires less year in med school, lower responsibilites and naturally is lower-paid - exactly confirming my statement that women choose lower-paying fields. https://www.statista.com/statistics/698260/registered-doctors-united-kingdom-uk-by-gender-and-specialty/#:~:text=In%202022%2C%20out%20of%20the,qualified%20on%20the%20specialist%20register.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:16 PM
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"Less valued" by who? Men? Women? Or the market forces and supply/demand determine the value of a job, not the gender. About the teachers - absolutely agreed, they play a critical role in our society and they've been severly underpaid for decades. At least here in the US. I'm from the Balkans originally and I'm shocked how low teachers are valued here - in the richest country in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:11 PM
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You entirely missed the point of this post, pls read again, answer the question and let's have a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:07 PM
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Women do most of the "unpaid labour" in most households, because more often than not they are the lower-paid partner. I think that's fair - you bring less money to the household - you do most of the housework and childcare. Do you think that's unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:01 PM
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It's the most progressive and by far most equal region on this planet, it's stupid not to check the trends over there. Same thing is happening in the Netherlands, Germany and the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:58 PM
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EXACTLY!!! I'm a business owner and I couldn't care less about men vs women, I really care about only one thing - profit. So does every other business out there. Patriarchy, glass ceiling, boys clubs - all that is complete bullshit and excuse for low-performing individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:56 PM
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This is an extremely good point and does make sense. I seriosly doubt that married men promote other married men, it doesnt work like that in private companies - the only thing that matters there is profit. But the rest sounds accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:50 PM
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Agreed, I've noticed that women settle for less and are less ambitions in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:55 PM
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We see 50/50 split among general practitioners and chiropractors only, the rest of the specialized physicians jobs are still male dominated. Meanwhile "registered nurse", "dental therapist" (not dentist!), "midwife" and other support roles are overwhelmingly women-dominated - numbers and percentagewise. No matter how you twist or turn it your own source supports the thesis that women just have preference for support roles and less for specialized physicians and it's reversed for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:55 PM
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Lol, I can only wish you to start your own business some day. Good luck with everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:43 PM
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That used to be true, but it's actually starting to reverse in some countries DUE to more equality. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20190831-the-paradox-of-working-in-the-worlds-most-equal-countries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:42 PM
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You didn't understand your own statistic. Did you see that there are more women nurses than the rest of the specialties COMBINED?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:38 PM
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Why do you think that? I own a business and I don't give a shit about men vs women - I care about profit. And I guarantee you the vast majority of businesses out there think the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:34 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. As a business owner I couldn't care less about men vs women, I care who brings me more profit. I can GUARANTEE you most business owners, corporations, managers and executives think the same way. You are arguments about, history, bias, glass ceiling... they are just wrong, you can't imagine how wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:25 PM
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Have you experienced "glass ceiling" because you are a woman? Can you describe it and help me understand? Have you absolutely eliminated fault on your end?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:22 PM
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Actually YOUNG women in many major US cities outearn men by 2-3% /year now, but fall behind in their late 20s and 30s. Do you you think that can entirely be contributed to motherhood? https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/03/28/young-women-are-out-earning-young-men-in-several-u-s-cities/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:11 PM
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Great reply on the surface, but you totally take away any responsibility from women and blame it on everything and everybody else. I just can't take that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:04 PM
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Well, nobody's stopping women from targeting high paying jobs like STEM or becoming a physician - there's high demand in those filed and shortages. Still, women on average avoid STEM and prefer to be nurses instead of physicians. That's their choice and that's the question in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:26 PM
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You are suggesting that during the tech boom those jobs became more lucrative and less women chose them? That doesnt make any sense. It's way more probable that more men than women started choosing that sphere. Another example is healthcare - women en masse chose being nurses instead of physicians, absolutely nobody's stopping them of becoming physicians, theres a global shortage. Your argument about childcare is weird, it suggest that women are forced to have children, not choosing to have them…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:21 PM
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Exactly this! I have no problem having a female mechanic work on my car - the presumption is that the shop hired her based on her qualifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:12 PM
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I agree, women should be pulling their weight in a relationship, but in most relationships men outearn women and naturally when a child is born the lower-earning partner gets to be the stauly-at-home parrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:10 PM
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Soooo you think a nurse should get paid the same as a surgeon? You think that in market economy men perform better, because of... historical reasons? And corporations and business owners are stupid and hire and pay men more, because it's accepted historically??? lol Here's the "wage gap paradox" observed in the Scandinavian countries - when "empowered" by social trends and support, governmental policies and decades of egalitarianism women actually feel more comfortable in lower-paying fields. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:52 PM
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3 and 5 are a must and common sense these days.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 10:11 PM
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You got it wrong. In your scenario it's the woman who marries above her league. Being rich is far more desireable in life than being hot. Trust me, I've been both at different stages of my life and I'll choose money every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:09 PM
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I can guarantee you from personal experience that women can't sense another date, lol! Most women are just constantly paranoid about anything and even a broken clock is right twice per day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:32 PM
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Do yourself a favor and never listen to women giving you a dating advice. As you've noticed yourself in your post they contradict themselves quite often and have no idea what they are talking about. Try different approaches, see what works for you, what you are comfortable with and focus there. There's no one-size-fits-all solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:18 PM
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Show me the law saying men have the right not to be pregnant please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:51 AM
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Google any of the examples and do your own research, it's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:41 AM
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Defending the rights is just an excuse for feminism to keep existing. Do we need abolitionist movement to prevent slavery to become legal again? No, right? Because as a society we evolved and grew enough to understand it's wrong. Same thing with women's rights - do you think women "earned" those rights all by themselves? On the contrary - it was overwhelmingly men who voted, framed, established and enforced those rights and keep enforcing them since. Every single feminist can dissapear from the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:39 AM
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Recently? Lady, I'm a millenial, not some boomer dinosaur. I've been born, raised and lived in feminism all my life. I don't give a fuck about the thousands of years before that. I didn't live then, neither did you. This is a dumb argument. Your examples about "brood mares" - women have the same right to call men dumb shit. It's called freedom of speech. So I'll repeat the question, because you didn't answer it - is there A SINGLE legal right that men in the US have and women don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:32 AM
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We have school system bias towards girls, scholarships, revising the SAT scores to help girls, DEI, vote for women, higher more women, promote more women, more women in STEM, judicial system bias (women get lower or NO sentences for the same crimes), women-owned businesses priviledges, priority for women-specific deseases, bigger share of heathcare money spent on women, charities for women, mee too, believe all women....... the list goes on and on. But women got equal rights already. And not onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:27 AM
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Wrong again. Women start with higher paying initial jobs and tend to lag later due to socio-economic factors that have nothing to do with rights. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/03/28/young-women-are-out-earning-young-men-in-several-u-s-cities/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:16 AM
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It's already illegal to pay your employees differently based on gender. Also women make less in GENERAL because they choose lower-paying fields, they work less hours on average, they commute less on average, motherhood, less likely to job-hop or ask for promotion and other socio-economic factors that have nothing to do with rights. So your only, single guess is horribly incorrect. Do you have another?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:14 AM
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Ok, tell me one right that men in the US have and women don't? Aaaand you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:00 AM
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Ok, lets debate. Give me one right that men have and women don't in the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:59 AM
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I prefer to stay anonymous online, I'm very active in a sub related to the business I own, aber ich bin fliesend in Deutch, ich habe es studiert funf Yahren. Und die einziges Wort ich weis in Greichisch is "kalimera" 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:57 AM
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Absolutely a red flag. Feminism used to be about equal rights, empowerment, opening doors and creating strong, happy, creative and free women. We all have, mothers, sisters, daughters and nieces. No sane man would stand against that. But equality of rights and opportunity has already been achieved for decades now, it's not 1970 anymore. And feminism now has morphed into a an ideology that produces women who fear men, hate them and blame the nebulous "patriarchy" for all their problems, shortcomi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:16 AM
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Who told you dating multiple people has been around only for a decade? lol Most men I know including myself are not polyamorous. Dating multiple women is not "wasting time". On the contrary - it's quite productive. Usually most women show their true colors only after a while (that's time wasting) and it's more productive to date several. And yes - it's a numbers game. The quality of US women is really low in my biased opinion (immigrant from Europe for 13 years now) - multiple psychological issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:05 AM
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twoxchromosomes - I'm not surprised you are active in the sub that lies at the lowest level of the sewage system of reddit where all the toxic women end up, lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:59 PM
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Agreed, young people from my generation and the following ones are getting fucked, but being passive and hoping better income will just fall from the sky is idiotic. Too many women my age are too dumb and/or spineless to go get what's theirs. They don't adapt, they settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:35 PM
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You are terribly wrong on my perception of feminism. I'm a millenial and I've been born, raised and lived around feminism all my life. I've never seen women being treated unequaly - on the contrary, I've seen little priviledges and small to substantial popping up of girls and women on education, work and society all my life. It's not 1970 anymore, equality of opportunity has not only been achieved for decades, but the scales have been shifted in women's favor now. Meanwhile the propping up conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:31 AM
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Unambitious women who can barely support themselves and working pointless dead-end jobs. I know not everybody can be upper class, but I'm in a major US city - there are plenty of opportunties if you just look and try. Despite that when I was actively dating the vast majority of women aged 25-35 had problems with gas money, some didn't even had cars. Some were stuck at their jobs for 10-12 years without raise or even thinking about looking for a better place. Many lived with their parents or mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:21 AM
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To me women with high body count are icky. Can't help from myself feeling like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:05 PM
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Why is it pointless to discuss the manosphere? I just read this term for the first time, I googled it and I agree with it's fundamentals: While the specifics of each group's beliefs sometimes conflict, they are generally united in the belief that society is biased against men due to the influence of feminism, and that feminists promote misandry, or hatred of men. -most of my male friends and the people I work with would completely agree with that core statement, we've had many conversations on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:29 PM
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Same thing goes for the "blank slate" bullshit - parents who don't understand the behavioral, biological and social differences between their boys and girls and forcing them to develop in ways unnatural to them are sick and spread pseudo-science and propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:09 PM
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I prefer not to engage with you further, your posting history is disturbing. The post was meant for other people who read your ramblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:17 PM
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There's so much to unpack in this deranged rant... If this sub has any bias it's definitely a blue pill one, regardless of gender. Your examples are extreme and not a popular opinion. Single moms - I was raised by a single mom and both me and my brother not only didn't become criminals, but extremely high-earning individuals, despite coming from nothing. Shit parents raise criminals. Crime - most of the crimes are commited by men. Most of the rules defining crimes were also created by men. The o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:04 PM
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Many women don't like it when men have standards, especially when they cannot meet them. They see it as criticsm against themselves and they will ridicule, berate and insult anybody with such standards. But deep inside they realize that it's a zero sum game and those standards limit their options and weaken their position. Passport bros are a growing trend and many US women feel threatened and replaced. Same with legalized sex work. The truth is these women are insecure, bitter and can't handle …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:13 AM
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I think this sub should focus on men-men's rights first and handle trans men later. I think there are a few billion more men-men than trans out there.
/r/MensRights19/07/24 05:16 PM
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Keep telling yourself that. Women choose who to date, men choose who to marry and over 30 most men have way more options than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:31 PM
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Alison - "feels safe" at pride parades and gay bars - sounds too paranoid. Jeanne - too short, didn't read the rest. Katelyn - single mom, no-go. Anita - if the first word to describe her is feminist - pass. And I'm left leaning too. Amelie - poor personal hygene - hell no. Lilith - 5'11 major bonus, OF - no thanks. Rita - sounded ok, until I saw infertile. Kate - lost me at antivaxxer. Heidi - I can fix her. 1st choice. Alexandra - body count of 300 -what a Spartan, lol 😆 She's my 2nd choice, j…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:29 PM
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This! I've never experienced being seen as abuser, but I've been treated like a walking ATM in Every. Single. Relationship! Before I found my wife I loved messing with my SOs with the line "would you date a guy who's struggling financially?". Almost all of the replied "No". And since I was and still am a high-income person I hit them back with "to me you are the one struggling financially".
/r/MensRights18/07/24 03:32 PM
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Yeah, attractive people often have shitty personality, because they can get away with more and develop as a person less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:46 PM
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Anna sticks out both in height and... chest. The rest are too short, I don't want short kids. Her obsession with splitting everything is troublesome, bean-counting is always a red flag, despite me making magnitudes more than all of them combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:54 PM
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These games are fun, but it's pointless when you have clear winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:12 PM
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If you still see yourself as sigma, alpha, omicron or whatever - you are a loser and need to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:03 PM
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This! So much this! It's not only here, it's most women. They reeealy can't stand criticism of any women, because they see it as an attack on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 11:19 AM
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I personally swiped on the hot ones and then check their profiles if we match. Do you think most people have time to read the BS in the profiles and build psychological profile before they swipe? Lol! It's not my fault 80% of my matches are single moms - I establish the fact after I've swiped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:44 PM
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Duh. Of course we pick the most attractive women. Do you expect men to pick the less attractive ones 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:41 PM
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Do you think guys read your profiles? Lol, we swipe on the picture and move to the next. I'm sure most guys who get plenty matches here can confirm that a huge amount of them are single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:09 PM
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The desperation ruins the magic. Probably that's how women view incels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:03 PM
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It's my personal experience, that's all it is. How many single moms have you dated? How many of you single mom acquaintances do you think will admit to you that most men don't want to date them, most of the ones who du pump & dump them and they are ready to fuck anybody on first date? It's embarrasing for them, reality hits hard and they will spin it to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:25 PM
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Nah, I'm sure she's on Match and Bumble furiously swiping right on every man out there. When I was on the dating apps 80% of my matches where single moms who'd do anything to wrap a dad for little Kayden. I made a mistake to go on a date several times with single moms, most were ready to fuck right in the restaurant to make sure you stick with them. I was open-minded back then, I love kids so I was willing to give them a shot, but they were disgusting and desperate. I'm sure OP had a few dates l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:43 PM
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No, apps are for losers, both men and women losers who can't socialize properly. When I was on tinder for couple of years I matched with women who had severe mental issues, depression, on heavy anti-depressants, had history in prostitution, strippers, had God knows how many sex partners, they were all-low income, low-education, low self-esteem... Bumble was worse, there were complete psychos there - one wanted my complete medical history and genealogy (I'm Eastern European immigrant in the US, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:24 PM
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Please leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:02 PM
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Those are shrill single moms who nobody wants to date and they hate all men for it. Do not pay attention to those trolls. They crave attention, even negative one. The biggest insult to them is to be ignored - so let's do that.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 10:07 PM
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Here you go - Number 1 most exposed industry is IT - programmers, coders, data analysts. https://www.businessinsider.com/chatgpt-jobs-at-risk-replacement-artificial-intelligence-ai-labor-trends-2023-02 Please leave me alone. You are objectively wrong and in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:04 PM
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Let's agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:55 AM
3

Yeah, I do. And the far right minority are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:13 AM
2

True, but not much longer. AI is coming for those jobs, and white-collar will be the first ones on the chopping block - accounting, advertising, administration, finance, data analysts, even legal. It's already happening in IT - not even 5 years ago "learn to code" was a thing. Now hundreds of thousands of those jobs got slashed and outsourced. And now AI is coming for the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:09 AM
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Twitter has become the lowest level of the sewer system of the internet, I can't comprehend why people still take it seriously. Social media has fucked society in so many ways that it will take decades and generations to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:04 AM
3

A few far right fanatics do not represent men. And generalizations like that are just as stupid as the far right loons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:00 AM
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As an employer myself I think as long as the owner of the company is ok with that - they can do whatever cringe stuff they want. They are cringe as hell, but the comments I read are far worse. Still, it's only few of them and OP is overexaggerating with the "significant discourse" panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:56 PM
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Lol, the subject of this post is "women complaining". Women bitch, whine and bleet constantly, accept it. Decades and generations of equal rights feminism, more women in STEM, hire women, promote women, women scholarships and quotas, DEI, vote women, believe women, me too, women owned businesses, grants, educational and judicial system preferences, zero priviledges lost, pay women more, more, more, more... And women still bitch. About housework. Lol!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:34 PM
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Good! Let's let women do all the work and men can be SAHP - I'm totally fine with that most men are as well! You can start with getting a better job for yourself and making more that your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:05 PM
2

Dude, go get a hooker. Then another. Until you get it out of your system.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:20 PM
1

Then women shouldn't complain when they are asked for paternity test. But they will anyway and will try to manipulate their way out of it if there's any suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:53 PM
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Yes. Currently in my state if you sign the birth certificate you are legally the father's child and you have to pay child support even if you find out the next day that the child isn't yours. The legal reasoning is that's what's best for the child. But I'm sure we all agree it's morally wrong, absolutely disgusting and obvious gender bias. If the state is interested in the child's wellbeingpaternity test must be mandatory before they force any man to take responsibility for a child that is not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:49 PM
2

Booo! I'll take Ali! Clear advantage in height and weight. Weight suggest good cooking skills. Height comes with longer reach and advantage in 1 vs 1. She can bear big strong babies who'll dominate their peers, she can feed them, protect them and protect me - clear winner and no-brainer!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:41 PM
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Ali - tall and strong woman who can bear big healthy babies and fight off wolves 💪Small skinny chicks need to be bread out of the genetic pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:27 PM
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You are talking about specific cases here. Let's not go there, because I can give extreme examples too: A friend and her husband decided that he'll be SAH dad, since she makes $20k more at the time. She lasted only 2 months, because their baby grew more attached to the dad and cried when her mom was with her. She grew resentful, depressed, angry and even violent and abusive at the end. They switched and everything normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:58 PM
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Agreed, but we are not talking about that. We are talking what's fair, what should be expected and do women who make less get the right to complain about "lazy husband", because they do 5-10hrs of housework more per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:43 PM
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Everything you say is correct. That's ehy I don't see childcare as "work", the reward of creating a deeper bond with your child is exponentially greater for the parent. Do you think most men WANT to work? Ask any dad if he prefers to work, deal with assholes, stress and commute to his work place or rather stay at home and take care of his own kids? Every one of my friends who are dads unanimously answer the prefer to be SAH dads if given those two options. And every single one couldn't because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:33 PM
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Lol, women telling men that they have "victim mentality"? Lol I can't believe I lived to see it!!! DECADES of feminism, girl power, bullshit about the "patriarchy", more women in STEM, equal pay crap, me too, believe all women, DEI, pay us more, give us more, hire us more, more more... Guys, I think that's enough. The pendulum has reached it's peak and it's time to start accelerating it back to our end. u/n_o_inspiration, history will hold you responsible for the fall of feminism and the return …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:48 PM
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Agreed. Technology has changed our society massively. And I think AI will change it further, it's already entering my really backwards and inflexible industry (transportation), I'm sure it's happening at far greater pace in the IT and service sectors. Right now it's mostly costing big (transportation) companies billions rather bringing them profit, but they'll get it right eventually. Once they do I believe most office jobs will be toast - that's where women are far more represented and will hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:36 PM
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"Patriarchy" is an excuse for low-performing women (losers) to justify their shortcomings. The "women earn less" was debunked, the "female doctors are better" was debunked, the educational and judicial system heavily favorites women for the past 30 years and they still complain about anything and everything every day. They even changed the SAT grading system to give advantage to girls and boys still score higher. Consistently. Decades now. And the Dept. of Education is thinking of new ways to "b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:28 PM
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Agreed. "FAIR" it's too dependent on the situation, individuals and the context. My attempt to get a few hundred redditors to agree on a simple definition has failed spectacularly lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:15 PM
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Agreed. Nobody sane would suggest 100/0 split, that's not how real life works. I simply believe that if my wife brings $150k/year anjd I bring 50$k /year it's more FAIR that I do 75% of the housework. Or if I was a stay-at-home dad I'd fee that 80%-90% of the housework should be on me. I wouldn't WANT to do 90% of the housework as SAH dad, but I think that wound be a FAIR ratio and wouldn't bitch about it like some women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:13 PM
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"So in this case is making more money a fair argument?" - yes! I still believe that IT'S FAIR that the office worker should be EXPECTED to do less of the office work. If my wife is the fast food employee and I'm the office worker - I'll naturally do more housework, because I don't want her to be exhausted, I love my wife and I'd do it so she gets some rest. Do I think that it's UNFAIR that I bring more $ and I have to spend more hours doing housework? Yes, it's UNFAIR. But marriage or life doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:05 PM
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You won't see this after I block you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:58 PM
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Nothing suggested that. For example the STAHP can clean the house 6 days / week and the other parent can do it 1 day / week. Those are not mutually exclusive. My point is that even if the "average" STAP "earns" the entire housework amount ($49k/year) alone - it still brings less monetary value to the table compared to the other "average" parent in the example with NYC (who brings $73k/year worth of work). And monetary value is a pretty straightforward measure of the quality of work. Let's give a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:53 PM
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Lol, I'm not getting engaged with your men-hating rant. Have a nice life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:43 PM
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Thank you for the reasonable reply - those are rare here and I appreciate it! You are mostly right about the "weaponized incompetence" - but not for the reason you'd think. It's not because I'm lazy, but because I find it unproductive and unnecessary. Example - she wants us to vacuum daily. I genuinely don't see the need for that, it seems respectably clean to me and and it's waste of energy and time. Vacuuming once every 5-7 days is far more productive, unless you have a an entire football team…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:41 PM
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No, it's not only the cost of childcare, it includes housekeeping, cooking, cleaning and so on - for the entire household. Those expenses are shared among the entire household. The SAHP does not clean only "their" part of the house, but the entire house. The SAHP does not take care of her/his child but THEIR child. You are moving the goalposts. And you are losing the argument. Also $49k worth of labor in NYC that the SAHP provides is juuuust above the poverty line for 3 memeber family (2 spouces…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:22 PM
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LOOOOL you did short-circuit! You are contradicting yourself now! OMG lool!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:04 PM
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That's not the point of this post. You misunderstood it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:00 PM
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Why I'm not SAHP - because I bring far more money than my wife - proving the exact point of this post. So if nothing is stopping you - why don't you make more than your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:59 PM
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Hold on, that's the cost of outsourcing housework / childcare labor for the entire household. They both live in the same household. If she's the one feeding him and taking care of him - he's housing her, providing the money housework, food and childcare and so on... You are doing the exact thing I'm describing in the PS of my original post (in italic) - women here in the comments tend to see it as "me vs him", while men tend to see it as a whole unit. I think that's where the problems stems and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:45 PM
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What's stopping you from making more than your SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:38 PM
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"Women who earn more still do more childcare and housework than men" - AND THAT'S UNFAIR! Right? RIGHT?! That's the whole point of this discussion!!! Their contribution is higher - they shouldn't do more housework, even if they end up doing it AND THAT'S UNFAIR! Now reverse the genders and... your brain short-circuits, because you'll have to admit I'm right lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:35 PM
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Great source, I like the numbers, I like the breakdown... this is top quality research, thank you for sharing it!!! So $4100 / month average between NYC, Washington DC and San Francisco, right? Those are the top 3 most expensive major cities in the US to live, so keep that in mind, but it's still a good reference point!!! $4100 x12 = $49200 per year. This means if you are an average man (who does less house work) in NYC, DC or SF you need to make $50k/year more than your average wife to bring th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:28 PM
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You keep dodging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:07 PM
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They are not. It's not even in the top 10 reasons. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/ Yes, I'll continue to minimalize the far less significant and valuable contribution of housework to the wellbeing of the household. People who think it's equal to the financial contribution per hour are delusional and narcissistic. The same people will immediately flip their views if they are in the "financially superior" position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:58 PM
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Do you not want your partner to feel fairly treated?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:56 PM
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I really like your argument, thank you for keeping it civil! And yes - within reason, of course. Most people here feel offended by being the "financially inferior" side and use extreme examples to argue. Thanks for being readonable!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:47 PM
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So if men en masse start taking lower paying jobs that are also less stressfull but do 50/50 at home - women don't get to complain about the job-switch. And more women should start supporting their husbands and be the main breadwinner of the household (it'scurrently the opposite). Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:44 PM
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I criticize women who bring less value to the table in terms of resources / priority and the wellbeing of the household, but still complain about it. Washing more dishes is far less important than keeping the lights on and a roof over your head. So we must agree hours at work are more important than hours doing vacuuming. A I agree about self reported numbers. But the only self-reported numbers are the hours of household work. Not the actual work hours at their respective jobs - those are accura…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:37 PM
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You see what you did there - you are the perfect example I describe in my PS: "I'm absolutely not going to burn myself out" and "he likes it better when I'm not burned out." It's always centered around you, not "us" or "he". That man is miserable and so are you. Your username is the confirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:24 PM
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Who do you think cleans my house? But most people are not in such position and we should presume we are talking about average middle-class household.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:20 PM
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My post is about what's fair, not how many hours of work and housework each gender does. That's a different subject. You would've know that if you actually read my post and comprehended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:18 PM
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I believe that people who bring less to the table and contribute less to the wellbeing of the household and bitch about washing a few dishes are shitty people, bean counters and delusional selfish narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:16 PM
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Agreed. People who wash a few extra dishes and complain about it are bean counters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:14 PM
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This is a very accurate description! I have similar experience as well. To use your example - I don't find vacuuming daily productive or necessary. I don't value that work that much. My partner does. I'm right for myself and she's right from her point of view. But which one is it empirically? I believe that as a human bein (regardless of gender) you get better return in free time vs cleanliness if you do it my way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:10 PM
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True. But do women do more childcare BECAUSE they make less? Or because they are better at the role? Or is it something else? I have the perfect study case - a freind of mine staid at home to look after their newborn, because his wife made more and she went back to work after she recovered. She lasted only 2 months, because she was growing more and more miserable - the baby got more attached to the father and cried when she was with her mom. The wife became more angry, combatative and she admitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:03 PM
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But you make less than your SO, you bring less to the table and you expect your SO to do the same amount of housework as you. I've noticed a pattern here, not just by you, but most women replying. Most women HERE IN THE COMMENTS see their relationships as two separate units under one roof and tend to be more interested how housework it affects them. Most men HERE IN THE COMMENTS tend to see it as a whole unit under one roof. A family / relationship/ a household. Men seem more interested how hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:51 PM
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Thanks for the answer. It tells me that time is more important than $ in your household or at least for you. Question: let's say you make more than your wife and you are an average middle-class family (in combined income). You work 60hrs and she works 40hrs. You decide to take a significantly lower-paying 40/hr job. Now you are lower-middle class). How would your wife react?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:42 PM
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You just want to have the last word, don't you? I want to have discussion, share stats and make conclusions and you just want to "fuck, I can't win this argument, he's right, I should switch to semantics and "gotcha" answers while I ignore all the data and points he makes!". This is a really sad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:31 PM
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Most men make more money than most women. Fact. This means more men can cover more basic and 2ndary needs than most women. I don't think men behave like babies more often than women. But that's not the goal of this post. The goal is to point out to women who complain about housework that more often than not they contribute less to the household than they think and they need to deal with that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:24 PM
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You are correct about before / after marriage, but we are entering speculation territory. There are no accurate numbers for unmarried couples, but there are for married ones, so we should stick to those for the sake of accuracy. Of course not every breadwinner thinks like me. It's just an opinion and one of the goals of this discussion - to see what people think. It seems to me that my opinion is quite divisive, I'm showing 13% upvote rate so for every 100 downvotes I should get 113 upvotes. On …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:15 PM
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Agreed it's one of problems. But far from the main one. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4012696/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:07 PM
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I am. But the person I replied to wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:02 PM
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Agreed. Nobody ever said 100/0 and I don't think we ever find such distribution in the vast majority of cases. Extreme cases don't count, they are an exception. But for the sake of the discussion there are no children involved. Your SO paid for your tuition. Now you make more and he still works, but you are the main provider. What would be a fair ratio from 100/0 to 0/100? There's no wrong answer, this is not a "gotcha" pissing match, every person and every relationship is different. I'm genuine…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:52 PM
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Nice dodge. And for me it's quite the opposite. I'm comfortably in the 1% and I'd love nothing more than to have my wife to run the company and for me to sit home and take care of my children. And I thought the same way when I was broke as fuck at 21. Not having to deal with bullshit, assholes, idiots and stress at work AND having to stay at home raising my OWN kids, doing the dishes and mopping the floors while wifey brings the dough!? Lol, sign me up!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:47 PM
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So in this particular situation what would you find "fair"? It's a discussion, there's no wrong answer and you can share your opinion as freely and as biased as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:38 PM
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So you expect your partner to make significantly higher financial contribution to the household "for free"? It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:35 PM
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THANK YOU! 100 replies and someone finally someone who can do simple math.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:34 PM
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So you disagree with my opinion in the beginning of your reply, but you agree with it at the end of your reply??? "Healthy relationships are not based on who does what for whom. It’s joint goals about paying bills and keeping your shared environment clean together" - that's exactly what "do more and expect less" means.... (facepalm).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:33 PM
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Lol, it's exactly the opposite. In 55% of the marriages men make more, 29% equal ($40k difference or less, which means in 55% of those "equal" ones the man still makes more) and only 16% wife makes more (and also 3x higher divorce rate). It seems that women reeeealy don't like "marrying down". https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:29 PM
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I prefer this study - it breaks it down by generations and shows a trend. https://ifstudies.org/blog/husbands-with-much-higher-incomes-than-their-wives-have-a-lower-chance-of-divorce- It's not 4% it's 5.5% difference - 8.4% when women make more, 2.9 when men make more. And that's "chance of divorce for 2021" for the selected cohorts. The percentage is cumulative. It means over 10 years and if the percentages remain the same 84% of the marriages where women make more will end up in divorce vs 29%…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:06 PM
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If the man makes less - it's more FAIR if he does most of the housework. Simple. But there's another issue - in only 16% of all marriages the wife makes more and those have the highest divorce rate - almost 3x higher than marriages when the husband makes more. Conclusion: most women will allways find something to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:01 PM
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It's not about who's doing what, but what's FAIR.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:50 PM
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I'm saying it's more FAIR. Yes. Should you do more housework, despite being unfair? Up to you and your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:46 PM
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Ok, sorry if I sounded patronizing, not my intention. So we both agree that time is equally valuable for each partner individually, regardless of who makes more. They are both human beings, time is valuable. We are on the same page here. But the higher income partner has MORE valuable contribution to the whole unit / family / relationship / household. Why? Because having roof over your head, food in the fridge and lights is far more important than washing the dishes more often. And it scales wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:41 PM
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Because the person who makes more has more valuable contribution to the household. Having heat, food and roof over your head is far more valuable for both than doing the dishes more often. Having $ to put your child through college is far more important than doing the laundry. I believe it scales with income, but that's another layer of complexity, let's not go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:34 PM
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Good question! Yes - if you make more after you graduate I believe it will be FAIR if he does more / most of the housework. If he paid for the tuition - I honestly can't answer that without more context and knowing both parties. What do you think is FAIR in that situation and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:30 PM
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Wow, I've never seen it from that perspective. Thanks for writing this! Just to let you know - marriages where the man is main / sole provider have the lowest divorce rate at 2.9%, equal income divorce rate - . 4.8%, wife makes more - 8.4%. So the stats for marriages contradict your logic. But the way you reason and your experience also make complete sense!!! You gave me a lot of food for thought, thanks again for replying!!! This is an extremely valuable answer to me! https://www.pewresearch.or…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:28 PM
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Agreed, often times lower-paid work is more exhausting. And it still has lower contribution to the household. In the case you described of course the partner working 6hrs should do more of the housework. But is it fair? That's where you and me disagree. I think it's unfair to that partner - they contribute far more to the unit / family / marriage / household.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:20 PM
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I don't think you read the full text. $100/hr job is far more valuable to the household than $20/hr job. Those 40hrs that each partner works do not have the same contribution to the household. The partner making less has to do more housework. That's for marriages and LTRs of course, but that shouldn't need clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:09 PM
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Read the original post please.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:05 PM
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Do you bring more $ to the table? If yes - your contribution to the household is greater and it's fair if you get to relax. If you bring less $ to the table your work-hours are less valuable to the household (even if those hours are more in number) and you need to deal with it. Your partner can still agree to do more housework than you, but in my opinion that's an unfair distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:04 PM
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You.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:00 PM
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Lol, it's the internet. And worse -this is reddit. There's no way to know if you are talking to a normal human being, a neckbeard who's never left his parent's basement or a cat lady who's never been in a relationship and hates men for that. About the conservative thing - I'm quite left leaning and I live in a suburb of Chicago - a liberal stronghold. For some reason the vast majority of my matches (when I was actively dating) were from the surrounding rural areas of IL and WI - 1.5h-2h drive ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:29 PM
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If you love him - you'll leave him alone. That's best for him. Like cats - you can't force them to come to you, they have to do it on their own terms.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 02:32 PM
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Yeah, sounds like he's been burned before (just like most of us here - read the comments). Show him the door is open and leave him alone. And don't expect him to go through that door either, just knowing it's there is enough.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 02:28 PM
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This exactly. If you do everything they want you'll end up going nuts or miserable. They,ll always have something to complain about. Put your foot down and establish boundaries. They fall in line when you show spine.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 01:00 PM
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Show him the door is open and leave him be.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 12:16 PM
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Shhhh, you'll ruin it for all men, OP! Let them think that men are losers and they call the shots! It weeds out the shitty ones and the good ones are impressed how "normal" is the average guy in real life. They started the gender war and and warfare has evolved 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:27 AM
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I said the opposite - I disagree with OPs wish for change or whatever. Scroll up and read the text between the ***
/r/MensRights12/07/24 02:18 AM
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But this is a fun post, thanks, OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:40 AM
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My mom was a single mom and neither me or my brother are criminals. And we grew up broke as fuck too, both of us started working at 14 in the summer and after school. This is entirely up to those single mom. Some are good at it and some are substandard parents. Shifting parental reaponsibility from the parent to society is disingenuous and irresponsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:05 AM
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Reverse psychology tricking men into dating single moms and raising someone else's child. Nice try, OP 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:59 AM
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Jesus, what a shitshow! Sorry about that, brother!
/r/MensRights12/07/24 12:58 AM
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I don't know, but I know that lesbian divorce rate is double or even tripple compared to gay divorce rate, depending on the country. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce_of_same-sex_couples#:~:text=As%20a%20result%2C%20the%20corrected,same%20as%20opposite%2Dsex%20couples.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 12:57 AM
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Agreed! Better die early thsn get held hostage and be hurt like that. That's no way to live. But find a way to release, guys! Sweat it off in the gym, find a friend who can listen, get drunk - do something to release the pressure. I have a trucking company and 90% of my job is to talk to freight brokers - those are my customers. When they fuck up or screw me I unleash all the anger I have on them and it feels good! They do the same to me when I or one of my drivers fucks up. And let me tell you …
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:58 PM
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I just learned a new word - extrinsic. I genuinely never heard it before, despite living 13 years in the US!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:39 PM
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Lol, nobody understood what you are talking about, they all decided to target a phrase they didn't like and they picked you apart by 1000 cuts... Everybody's criticizing you that you should be calm, reasonable and extremely in control and any deviation from that means you are a psycho and need therapy (like that's a magic pill for every situation). My question is - aren't these people the real psychopats? Who the fuck stays calm, ballanced and in control during situations of extreme emotional st…
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:32 PM
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Pressuring him to do something he's not comfortable with is wrong. Show him the door is open and leave him be. You are better off this way.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:19 PM
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Wasn't my intention. But I have a question - what do you mean by "inherently weaker"? Physical strenght? Mental resiliance? Productivity at work? Social skills? Intelligence? Emotional intelligence? Something else? For some of those - yes, I think they are inherently weaker on average. In some they are stronger on average. And in one of those it's equal with asterisk. On average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:56 PM
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What do you mean? Are you... offended on women's behalf?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:45 PM
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Your statement that "women under 30 outearn men" was inaccurate. I fixed it and gave it context. Outside of work - They make less = more issues and more problems meeting their basic needs. I agree they complain constantly, but that's exactly why they are so depressed and cry over trivial bullshit all the time. I know it reddit and there there are many weirdos, but reading the comments here they are scared shitless of everything, they are repressed my misogyny, and they are treated with less resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:43 PM
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No they don't. They do in several major cities, probably due to progressive policies and other advantages and only under 30 and only by 2%max. But men in most other areas AND over 30 still outearn women massively. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/03/28/young-women-are-out-earning-young-men-in-several-u-s-cities/#:\~:text=In%20other%20regions%2C%20by%20comparison,range%2C%20measured%20at%20the%20median.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:31 PM
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Jesus, enough with the stupid matches on dating apps. In. Every. Single. Post! Women make less, have shittier lives, live unhappier & depressed, have less confidence, many are scared shitless to go out alone... Just let them fuck whoever they want. Let them have that at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:18 PM
2

You do have a point.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 07:56 PM
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That's disgusting. Sorry about that, brother...
/r/MensRights11/07/24 07:54 PM
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People grieve differently. And it doesn't need to be exactly as described by op with "fetal position", "uncontrolled anger", "rocking back and forth", it's written for impact and contrast. In my case I had "some crying" and still experinced that reaction by 3 different women - my closest. So please don't dismiss it, by the replies here it seems that it's not uncommon experience at all. Just be happy it never happened to you. I'm happy for you.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 06:25 PM
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I suspect the problem is women-specific, yes. To be more precise - women who are close to you. I've never experienced anything like that from a close male relative or a friend, neither I've acted like when a male or female friend or relative was in such condition. I don't think they are evil or heartless, I think it's a psychological thing, an instinct, uncanny valley reaction... who knows? I don't judge them for reacting like that, but they judge us. In my experience they react differently and …
/r/MensRights11/07/24 06:11 PM
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"We have literally internalized the expectations and made them our own expectations." No, we haven't. Most of us have been conditioned since 4-5 years of age to stop crying, shut up and so on. Mostly by women. That's why this part resonated with me and I don't seem to be the only one: "Inside Out is true only for girls. If a boy had been on a tree branch, crying becasue his team had lost... it wouldn't have summoned an outpouring of love and support from the people closest to him. He'd have been…
/r/MensRights11/07/24 05:50 PM
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Nope. It's not "suffer in silence" or "shut up". It's "don't open up to women". Simple.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 05:27 PM
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Ok, Adolf.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 05:26 PM
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You and your boys avoided a big mistake. You did well.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 05:00 PM
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For someone so well-read you absolutely failed to grasp the message of this simple post. Hint: it's in the title.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 04:48 PM
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Don't listen to their bullshit and don't repeat my mistake.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 04:29 PM
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True. Nothing we can do about it, just learn from the mistakes and don't repeat them.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 03:34 PM
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Lol, this is so accurate! You can see the little signals here and there when there's trouble, they build up and they dissapear when you get back on track. You just can't trust them.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 03:26 PM
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It hits hard, doesn't it?
/r/MensRights11/07/24 03:24 PM
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Thanks for speaking up! A few young men will read this, learn from our mistakes and won't repat them. Your reply matters.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 03:09 PM
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Exactly. Most women have no idea what they are talking about. Do not trust their bullshit, you don't know what kind of woman you are dealing with until it happens to you. In my experience even my grandmother and aunt betrayed my trust. And they were good people, school teachers, kind...
/r/MensRights11/07/24 03:02 PM
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Thanks for posting this! More men need to see our mistakes and learn to avoid them.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:59 PM
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Yeah, it does hit hard, doesn't it? And not only that part, but several, at least for me. That's why I saved it, I've never seen anybody talk about it, let alone describe it so accurately.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:37 PM
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You are not alone, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:30 PM
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It's not only there, it happened yesterday to me when I posted in in the purplepilldebate. The post got a lot of traction and it became the top post in a few hours with hundreds of replies. A moderator (female if it matters) got interested and asked me a question and I refused to answer it, because it was biased, whataboutism and distracted from the subject. She kept pushing and I replied that I do not want to talk to her further and wished her to "have a nice day", trying to disengage in a civi…
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:28 PM
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True about the GF, but in my case it was also my aunt and my grandmother - the closest women I had left. And they are good people, school teachers, no sign of that before. Something happens in women's brains that's different from our processes. Don't repeat the same mistake.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:18 PM
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Lol, this is too good, I'm stealing it from now on!
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:16 PM
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And not only don't open to your romantic interest, but any women. In my case my aunt and my grandmother reacted like this. I agree that their brain processes it dofferently than ours - they see you as something damaged after that, something happens in their brain that tells them to stay away. I don't judge women for that, but they will judge me and you. Don't repeat the same mistake.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:15 PM
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This is the way
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:05 PM
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I'm so sorry, brother. My heart breaks for you!!! I know exactly what you are talking about, I haven cried in almost 20 years either, but it still hurts somewhere deep inside.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:03 PM
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Big, hug, brother. You are not alone.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 12:58 PM
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Agreed, not all women are like that. In the previous post in another sub that got removed many men said they didn't have that experience. But I did. So did OP. And the hundreds others who replied to him. And so will some people who read it here. This post is for them.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 12:57 PM
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True, they want father figure and a leader. A man's man. And any vulnerabilty destroys that image. Never take off your armor. It gets easier with time.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 12:52 PM
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Meh, it happend long time ago. The story doesn't matter. The mistake does. And I haven't repeated it since. Bottle up that shit, guys. The alternative is worse. Not all women are like that, but you won't find out which one you have on your hands until it happens. Don't fall for their bullshit about opening, too many have no idea what they are talking about. It's a trap.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 12:50 PM
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The damage is done by then. That's the whole point.l of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:41 PM
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Have you ever lost somebody? People grief differently. Yes, the average women do that, I guess you just surpress it and don't want to admit it. When my ex GF's brother died she wasn't able to function for a week. When my cousin's dog died she was devastated for days. I have many more examples. I was there for them. Nobody was there for me. That's why I posted this and I can relate to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:40 PM
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Thank you for the kind words. You are correct, reading so many replies here did change my mind and I understand now that many or most people are not like that. But some still are and this post is about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:33 PM
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Yeah, again, making this about yourself is narcissistic and not the point. Also anger does not equate aggression, it seems that you are projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:25 PM
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You found 2 words in the entire text and decided "hey, I can make this about women now!" and decided to focus on that? Among 1000 word text? You missed the entire point. This is not about women, It's about men and how not to repeat the same mistake OP, me and hudreds of others who replied did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:23 PM
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My story and why I can relate with the original OP: I had one of those meltdowns and what happened next was worse. I was 19 and my mom passed away from MS. I barely made it home after the hospital and my GF was there. I was trying to hold back, but I just couldn't. I saw how disgust and disdain washed over her face, exactly what OP described. Something in her eyes changed in seconds, like a light that went off and never came back. She changed there and then, in the following days and weeks she t…
/r/MensRights11/07/24 12:10 PM
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Did anywhere in the post me or OP complained that men can't open up to men? No, right? Because that's not the subject of the post. Whataboutism and distraction won't work here. She's wrong and leads the discussion in another direction. So are you. I'm done with both of you, have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:04 AM
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Well... yes, it is. 3 out of 3 of my closest women reacted like that. That's a 100% rate. And reading the hundreds of replies to OP's post - it seems like it's quite common. Just something I've never seen anybody talk about. That's why I saved that post when I read it and decided to post it here - so others like me can see it, to know they are not alone and not to repat the same mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:54 AM
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Yeah, I had a wolfpack of sorts. But the worst thing happened to one of my friends. I don't want to say what. I was the first to arrive at his house, he was a wreck - he was drunk, crying, and taking a piss at his driveway during daytime in the rain... I got him inside, cleaned him up, gave him a hug and he pulled himself toghether by the time more people arrived. But later he stopped taking my calls, he didn't replied to my messages, he started hanging out with other people and eventually moved…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:52 PM
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At work. I take it out on my customers over the phone. I never do that to friends, family or my employees. I own a trucking company and 90% of my job is to talk to freight brokers - those are my clients who pay me to move their loads. The thing is most of them are idiots, quite incompetent and VERY replaceable - there are 10s of thousands of brokerage companies with hundreds of thousands of staff. When they fuck up - I yell at them. When I or my drivers fuck up - they yell at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:43 PM
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I understand why you disagree - you had different experience. But why do you dismiss mine OPs or the hundreds of men who replied? Also you say red pillers are teens stuck in adult body. Yet you are the one who comes across as throwing insults, dismissive an bullying. Your entire reply is a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:36 PM
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I want less people to repeat the mistakes OP, me and hundreds of other men who replied made. Can you show me a single quote of mine where I "complain about the lack of emotion men feel they are are allowed to show"? I think you are putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:31 PM
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I'm definitely happier this way and I believe my life is easier. And I think that men who can relate to the original OP should do the same. I get from the various replies here that not everybody had those experiences, but the ones who did are way better off this way. Emotionless doll - lol, I'm no doll, I can tell you that much. But yeah, it's easier for me to listen to other's problems, small issues, big issues, crying, breakdowns, burdens... I've noticed that my friends and family find me easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:57 PM
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I'm sure. They were not psychopats either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:24 PM
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I'm happy you have someone like that next to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:59 PM
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Bro, people don't "curle up in the fetal position ugly crying" when they have a bad day at work. It happens when someone close to you dies for example. And in those moments you need someone close to be there for you. Jesus, how careless is your life that you think people fall apart because a bad day at work...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:42 PM
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You didn't read the text, did you? It's exactly about how BAD women react when you do it and why men should never open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:39 PM
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The post is about men. And what men should NOT do in front of women. You didn't understand the main goal of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:37 PM
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I really hope you are right and I really hope I'm wrong. Either way, I'm sure your son loves you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:32 PM
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It's not about being tough, it's about never experiencing it again. Nobody deserves that, it's worse than dying and it's hard to get out of it. For your son's sake - teach him to bottle it up. The alternative is far worse, trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:20 PM
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I'll just copy paste this from another reply of mine "I had one of those meltdowns and what happened next was worse. I was 19 and my mom passed away from MS. I barely made it home after the hospital and my GF was there. I was trying to hold back, but I just couldn't. I saw how disgust and disdain washed over her face, exactly what OP described. Something in her eyes changed in seconds, like a light that went off and never came back. She changed there and then, in the following days and weeks she…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:04 PM
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Thanks, I appreciate the compassion. But no need to cry, I haven't cried since - alone or not. Almost 20 years now and I'm better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:54 PM
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I had one of those meltdowns and what happened next was worse. I was 19 and my mom passed away from MS. I barely made it home after the hospital and my GF was there. I was trying to hold back, but I just couldn't. I saw how disgust and disdain washed over her face, exactly what OP described. Something in her eyes changed in seconds, like a light that went off and never came back. She changed there and then, in the following days and weeks she talked to me like I'm her coworker or something. Unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:22 PM
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Agreed, the last part about the change is... meh, but it would be disingenuous to remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:09 PM
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Lol, everybody trying to argue with the original text just proves it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:08 PM
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Women like u/januaryphilosopher don't understand that anger doesn't mean aggression. And her comment is a prime example how uneducated, misinformed and frankly uninterested women are about men's behavior or emotions. In a 5min to read post about MEN's emotions she focused and deemed necessary to comment only on the aggression part - the only thing that might affect her as a woman. Quite telling, don't you think? "Fuck the men, how does that affect ME?!" lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:04 PM
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Nobody ever wants to deal with it, but shit happens. "This movie resonated with me"... Bruh, we are not talking about the same things. Have you lost a pet? A family member? God forbid, a child? Wouldn't you want your partner to support you in that moment? Or at the very least not be disgusted by you? Well, you can't have that as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:00 PM
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Nah, I agree with the original poster. Bottling up and never breaking is far better. How long can I last? 20 years now and counting since my mom passed away and I had a meltdown so brutal that I wanted to break my ribs with bare hands grab my hearth and throw it away so the pain stops. So far so good and I do recommend it to most men. You get good at it with time.You get so good that you can deal with other people's meltdowns and they start relying on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:44 PM
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Yeah, you do. Ask any man who's been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:28 PM
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Yeah, that part about the cultural change is a bit much, but the rest is accurate and I endorse it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:22 PM
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The original post is unedited. And I agree with the anger part - it is there, I've experienced it too. This post is not about women and it's not about sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:20 PM
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The point is you are not "allowed" to be vulnerable, healthy or not, knowing how or not. Since you've been 5 years old. As OP wrote - "it's a social and professional suicide". I guess you just can't comprehend it, because you've never experienced it as a woman. Let alone live your entire life like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:13 PM
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Good for you. But in my experience women have such meltdowns roughly once every one or two years and they do "share" them with friends, partners, family and so on. I've been one of those friends, partners, family and so on many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:09 PM
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The statistics are only for marriages. I'm sure the dynamics change all the time, but that's why statisticians research the subject over multiple years and the results are accurate. They are not even "approximate" - they are accurate at the moment of the survey, for every year of the survey. Open the sources, check the graphs and you'll figure it out. No need to read the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:22 PM
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That was mostly my experience when I was dating too. Let me share the few differences. Point 1 - I live in a major US city, so plenty of fish, right? Well, I somehow ended up matching mostly with girls from the surrounding rural areas, 1.5-2hrs drive on the interstate. Which I found weird - rural girls are mostly conservative and I'm left leaning in my views. But it just... worked. I match more often with such girls and I got along better with them. Point 5 - We do lower our standards, but only …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:14 PM
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Math is not your strong side. I won't even bother replying further.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:33 AM
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How many times have you been assaulted after rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:32 AM
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The problem is the vast majority of women don't want 50/50 relationship. They want to have their cake and eat it. Women are far more mercantile and transactional and they reeeeeeally don't like marrying down. In 55% of all marriages the man is the main/sole provider. In 29% both earn about the same. And in only 16% of marriages the woman is main/sole provider. And do you want to know the divorce rates? The marriages where women who make more than their husband have almost 3x higher divorce rate …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:25 PM
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I don't know how men take it, but women are horrible when rejected. I think women are worse at it, because they are not used to it. But age catches up with them and the roles reverse. It's something new for many of them when it happens and they can't control their shame and frustration. I've been spat at, had my neck scratched, I stopped a slap aimed at me, I've been called gay as an insult (yes, women get quite homophobic when they get rejected), verbally abused, had malicious rumors spread abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:59 PM
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True, younger women (and men probably) are much more boring & dumb, can't talk about anything but themselves and don't have much more to offer than sex & getting drunk. Younger women are more attractive, but older women are much more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:56 PM
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Lol, check mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:13 PM
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That's ok, I appreciate the time you took to reply. Those men are not rare, it's the opposite - pretty much most men make more money than most women. Source: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ Scroll to the charts - in 55% of all marriages the man is the main / sole breadwinner - more than the other 2 options combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 06:01 PM
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It's not the best comparison out there, but there's some truth to it. It's all supply / demand. In general women have more choices in their 20s so they get picky - every man wants a woman in her physical prime. In the 30s and 40s roles reverse and men start being choosy - that's when men reach their financial prime and every woman prefers a man who "has his shit together", "stable", "confident" or whatever BS word they use to avoid saying "he has money" lol! Some women say "but I'm still being c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:39 PM
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I'm in my 30s, worse shape, my hairline has receded almost an inch, grey hears on my head and beard, I have dark circles around my yes and I can't get rid of women of all ages. Even the married ones make awkward attempts to flirt. It was nothing like that in my 20's, I was the one chasing. What's changed? I have money now. Women see that, they see the watch, the clothes, the car, my house, my social media, my company and are coming out of the woodwork. Most might say they are attracted my "confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:04 PM
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Self-reported statistics are horrible, have higher percentage of margin error and should be taken with a grain of salt. Anybody who's ever been in a relationship, in school or at work has seen with their own eyes that women are by far less accountable and less likely to take responsibility for their actions or results. If something is wrong - it's not their fault. And if it is their fault - it wasn't that wrong. If it was that wrong - it didn't matter. If it mattered - someone else made them do …
/r/MensRights09/07/24 12:55 PM
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Ok, agreed. So what about it? The numbers still prove women are far more hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:00 PM
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You read only the titles, didn't you? Couldn't even scroll to the nice graphs at least? I argue with numbers, you argue with your personal bias - it doesn't work like that. The pattern is clear - the more money the wife makes relative to her husband - the more likely it is they'll get divorced. That's a fact. If we can't agree on this simple, proven and clear fact - you lose the discussion and lose my respect as a debater, you just can't argue with numbers. Financial means giving freedom for lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:53 AM
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Would you say that your mom was an employee?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:07 AM
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Check this out: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ In 55% of all marriages the man is the main/sole provider. In 29% both earn about the same. And in only 16% of marriages the woman is main/sole provider. And from this source we can find out that marriages where the woman makes more have almost 3 times higher chance for divorce in 2021 than those in which the man makes more. Check figure 2 for the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:32 AM
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In 55% of all marriages the husband is main/sole provider, 29% equal ($38k difference or less), only 16% and falling (due to the highest divorce rate in all 3 groups) the wife is main/sole breadwinner. Yes, most men marry down for the simple reason most men still make more. Despite decades and generations of equality. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:15 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:08 AM
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Yeah, you are obviously arguing in bath faith and trying to start a "gotcha" pissing match. Go back to your echo chamber, you've wasted too much of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:06 AM
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Those are 2 questions, I want to start with your 2nd one. Lion - the male lion is not a correct comparison. That's another animal entirely (pun intended 😆). Different animals get shaped differently by nature. For example in lion prides the females hunt. In human tribes the men evolved to hunt. Also lions evolved to kill their prey with their teeth. We evolved to kill our prey with hands and tools. Tigers on the other hand evolved to be solitary instead in a social group. So comparing humans' beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:25 AM
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Lol, I used to be one of those young men! You see my username? It means seagull in Bulgarian - a slang for a worker or local resident who's... successfull with the female tourists who visit the beach resorts. I mostly hooked up with younger girls around my age (I worked at the resorts every summer from 15yo to 19yo until I went to uni), but from time to time I did hook up with far older women. Sometimes they did drive me around restaurants, casinos, and what not. One bought me a gold chain, anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:10 AM
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The role of the mother is not a taker relative to her child. The role of the wife / spouce / SO is a taker and net beneficiary relative to her man. All that on instinctive level of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:53 AM
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Men have the instinct to protect women so they can carry their offspring. Women have the instinct to protect themselves so they can carry offspring. Men are build for aggression - height for reach and weight, bigger stronger bone structure to whitstand impact, a brain that flooded with adrenaline and testosterone that reduces you to an animal ready to kill without fear for your own safety... It's just how evolution shaped us. We can surpress those instincts, but they are always there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:48 AM
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Men are natural givers and women are natural takers. That's how we evolved, it's an instinct and changing social norms or regulations will not change that. It's not good, bad or unfair, it is what it is. I've been poor and now I'm comfortbly in the top 1% (mostly in assets). Being rich is like dating on easy mode. All that bullshit that women find attractive - "safety", "confidence", "stability", "acting like a man" - it's all derivative of having money. Women lie to themselves that's is those o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:19 AM
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Theres always an excuse and someone else to blame. They are never at fault! 😆
/r/MensRights08/07/24 11:15 PM
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The more you dig in those studies and statistics the more it seems that men are actually not as bad as everyone is trying to paint them. My favorite one is that over 75% of all divorces are initiated by women. Women say it 's because "men=bad". Ok, sure, let's agree on that, men are evil, the bad guy and worse human beings. Just temporarily, for the sake of the argument. But now we have gay marriage and there's other very interesting statistics - lesbian marriages report the highest rate of abus…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 09:25 PM
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I agree that nobody should be forced to do anything, but if you don't like eating a pussy you might be gay...
/r/MensRights08/07/24 09:03 PM
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It's not women what's changed - it's you. You are maturing, you are more experienced, you see more patterns and connect more dots about human behavior. You are correct that women put a mask on and don't want to show vulnerability. It's a defence mechanism. Men do it too. The difference is when women show vulnerability - they get support. When men are show vulnerability - not only nobody cares, but people also lose respect for such men. Never take the mask off in front of anybody, unless you are …
/r/MensRights08/07/24 04:32 AM
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We don't have the money. We never had. That's why the in the source you quoted Bulgaria adks the EU for more funds. EU institutions pay for those, mostly funded by Germany and France. They transfer the money to the Bulgarian government and it handles the distribution and the details. You didn't show me a source showing a "waiting list" for Ukrainians to enter Bulgaria. Please find one.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 01:45 AM
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Can you show me a waiting list for Ukrainian refugees in Bulgaria? The only thing they need to wait for is citizenship, not to remain as resident / refugee. Lol "they don't want more". I am " they" and many more like me. You are an outsider who has no idea what you are talking about.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 01:14 AM
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No EU country "takes" refugees, they choose where they want to go. That's why I said we can take more. And it's not according to me, but the UN https://www.unhcr.org/bg/16607-un-and-partners-appeal-for-us-43-4-million-to-help-refugees-from-ukraine-in-bulgaria.html And 150k refugees might seem small, but the US has taken "only" 500k. Despite having 50x bigger population and vastly more resources. https://www.google.com/amp/s/abcnews.go.com/amp/US/uncertain-future-ukrainian-refugees-war-enters-3rd…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 01:05 AM
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Words are cheap, the actions speak for themselves.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 12:46 AM
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This! If we have to select only one primary reason that answers OP's question - this is it. Women have much lower confidence in themselves and compensate by feeding eachothers' egos to the point of delusion. And why shouldn't the be deluded? All their lives their friends tell them how great they are and all the men interested in them repeat the same, so they can sleep with them. And that's why many women are so illogically attracted to "bad boys" and men who treat them like trash - it's a novelt…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 11:32 PM
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I'm hosting an elderly couple in an apartment I have in Bulgaria and I don't use. They are the parents of a coworker here in the US. All Ukrainians are welcome. Bulgaria has lost about a 3rd of it's population due to immigration since 1990 anyway, we have plenty of room to spare. We are hosting 150k Ukrainians, only Poland and Lithuania have accepted more refugees compared to their population and we can still take more. And our old weapon factories have been working overtime to make ammo and she…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 08:13 PM
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Do you make more money than your husband? I doubt it, if you were the chances are the you'd also be divorced 😆 Also your husband is smarter than you and can think 2 moves ahead - if he agrees he'll get you upset and probably end up in a fight. If you've been married for over a year he has already figured by now that women like you (the vast majority) see any criticism of any woman as attack on themselves and you'll never admit guit, wrongdoing, fault or take responsibility. It's one of the main …
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:53 PM
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I stand corrected, I found the part you are talking about and we are on the same page now. I'll agree that supported men are lazy partners at home - they do less housework and "caregiving" (whatever the researcher meant by that. Childcare?) and do more WAAAY more leisure. But if I agree with that you also have to agree that women in supported AND equal marriages are worse workers at work - they work less hours and prefer to spend more time on their family. And also you must agree that supported …
/r/MensRights07/07/24 07:59 AM
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The lazy part is so true! I had the misfortune to date a coworker and live together with her for a while. She seriously believed the entire company of 200 people will fall apart without her. In reality she was bottom 3rd in our sales department of 20. I was outperforming her almost double, yet she always had excuses, despite all of us selling the same service. We were all performance-based. At home my cell kept ringing and I kept customers serviced, while she was doing laundry or dishes. She wan…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 06:42 AM
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You do realize that the men and women who divorce can remarry, they often do and the percentage of 2nd and 3rd divorce is higher, right? That's why all sources use "cohorts" and specified range of years. That's why the title of this post is "divorce RATE" not that "80% end up in divorce". You seem interested in statistics - google "statistical analysis" and you'll learn more. As for the REASON of the divorces mentioned in the source you single out that women do 4hrs more of housework and caregiv…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 05:14 AM
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I wish you the best and good luck with everything.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 05:12 AM
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Lifetime divorce rates are below 30% for people with a college education We are not measuring college education, we are measuring income levels between husbands and wives. Example: both have college education, but the husband makes $200k and the wive $100k - 29% divorce rate. But in another couple the man has college ed, but the wive doesnt. He makes $200k, she makes $50k - still 29% divorce rate. My source: https://ifstudies.org/blog/husbands-with-much-higher-incomes-than-their-wives-have-a-low…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 01:40 AM
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Dude, I don't have time to educate everybody on statistical analysis. Village with 100 married couples in 2020. 5 of the couples divorce. That's They 5 percent divorce rate - much more reasonable, right? BUT THAT'S THE DIVORCE RATE PER YEAR! 2021 There are 95 couples left from the original 100 married couples. Another 5 of them divorce. All 5 of them were married last year, but not anymore. Now there are 90 couples left from the original 100. That's still 5% divorce rate PER YEAR, but TOTAL DIVO…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 01:30 AM
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Ok, I'll meet you half way - what's worth living? Children - you need to feed them, educate them, keep them safe, entertain them... it all takes money. Wife - about the same, still takes money. Travel and entertainment - money makes it better. Hobbies - those take money too. I fly helicopters and it's crazy fun! You have a cheper hobby like fishing? Don't you want one of those sonar drobes, a bigger boat or whatever? It takes money. Home - guess what - those are not free either. I get that not e…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 01:16 AM
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Lol, I've actually studied statistical analysis in uni, and looks like you haven't, you are using my sources that I've already used at previous replies, so let me break it down again so we are on the same page. In marriages where men earn more - 55% of all marriages, 29% divorce rate over 10 years. - Equal or close income - 29% of all marriages, 45% divorce rate over 10 years. Women earn more - 16% of marriages, 80% divorce rate over 10 years. The conclusion is obvious - the more money a wife ma…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 01:05 AM
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Same here. Stay at home dad sounds like a dream job to me, lol! You mean to tell me that I get to take care of my own kids AND not having to go to work, deal with assholes all day, stress and commute?! Sign me up! Unfortunatelly it doesn't work like that - a friend of mine was in such situation and his wife went back to work. The baby got more attached to him and cried when his mom was with him. The mom started freaking out, grew more and more miserable until eventually they decided to switch on…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:46 PM
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I already replied to that to another user, pls scroll up. The percentage rates are accurate for 10 year long marriages.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:40 PM
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I agree that's part of the reason for the brutal divorce rate. According to CDC it's 25%. According to to this source it's 35%, so let's go with the higher number. https://www.healthline.com/health/how-common-is-domestic-violence#:~:text=Data%20from%20the%20National%20Coalition,stalking%20by%20an%20intimate%20partner. But 80% divorce rate??? Where are the rest of the 45% coming from? Come on... you mean to tell me 80% of the men are abusive monsters and financial freedom for women has uncovered …
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:35 PM
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Bro, that's the UN. You do realise that women in the rest of the world are really fucked, right? They still stone them in Saudi Arabia and Iran. They still enslave them in many parts of Africa and Southeast Asia. It's sick.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 10:03 PM
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I truly believe the vast majority are. Just like I believe that most men are far more aggressive than most women. Both genders have their good and dark sides and I've seen both with my own eyes. Feel free to disagree and call me disgusting. I'll call you delusional and unexperienced and we both go our separate ways.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 09:12 PM
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Great summary! I'd also add Women-owned Businesses - they get preferential treatment and receive far more favorable credits for far less colateral, which is a huge advantage in starting your own business.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:19 PM
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Does she make SIGNIFICANTLY more than you? If she does - you have 8% chance of divorce every year. And if you never get divorced - congratulations, you are lucky, you are in the small minority of the 3% of all marriages in the US where your wife makes more and you haven't divorced in the first 10 years of the marriage. Math: mariages where the wife makes more - 15%. Divorce rate over 10 years - 80%. 20% of 15% of all marriages = 3%.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:07 PM
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About the WSJ source. For the sake of simplicity lets say there are 100 married couples in a town. Every year 4 of them get divorced in 1990. That's 4% divorce rate, right? Now we are left with 96 couples, but somewhere in the town 4 men married 4 women (they can't be gay, gay marriage is not legal yet in this example 😆) and they replaced 4 divorced couples and we are back to 100 married couples again by the end of 1990. We start 1991 with 100 married couples again and this year 6 couples get di…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 08:00 PM
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You are actually correct. I can't seem to find the original source where I got the percentages, but seems like those percentages are accurate for 10 year long marriages. The ratio is still the same though The actual percentages of chances for divorce rates are (EDDITED): 8.4 percent rate IN 2021! in marriages where women make significantly more 4.8 percent divorce rate IN 2021! in marriages where both earn about the same 2.9 percent divorce rate IN 2021! in marriages where the man earns more Kee…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 07:34 PM
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Ok, I'll come over to your side for a little bit, because you got me curious. Let's say little by little they inch past the middle and into taking our rights and freedoms. Do you think we'll just allow it to happen? There will be a breaking point and we'll have to use our biggest advantage - force. It will swing the scales back in a week. What's your doomsday scenario? What are you afraid of?
/r/MensRights06/07/24 07:11 PM
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I agree that they are trying. I disagree they'll ever be successful. They can't enforce it and men have started pushing back their feeble attempts already. It's not even a challenge. We gave them everything the wanted + a little bit extra and they still fuck up and can't outperform, outvote or outpower us. So let's be compassionate, even when they are not.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:48 PM
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You can have meritocracy AND equality, at least in the workplace. Hell that's what we have now in the US, we've had it at least since the 90s. We have equality of opportunity - everybody can apply for a job. And we have meritocracy - the most qualified usually gets it. Now, you might say that DAE, feminism and policies have given advantages to women, but we still outearn them, we still get more raises, we still choose higher-paying fields of work, we still work more hours, we are still more prof…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:07 PM
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Broski, I came from a shithole in Eastern Europe to the US as 21yo with $300 in my pocket, job as a bus boy at a restaurant in Chicago, no place to sleep or take a shower and broken English. Today I own a trucking company. If a dumb immigrant kid can do it - you can do it too!
/r/MensRights06/07/24 05:45 PM
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Here's the deal - you say "marrying down" is not an issue for you. I believe that you believe it and you are not lying. I also believe that most women think along those lines. But I also believe that your attitude will change once you are in a situation like that. And most women will change too. I've been on the "supported" side several times when I was in my twenties and I've seen it with my own eyes. Various small situations accumulate and resentment and disrespect builds up in women over inco…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 05:31 PM
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Have you ever spoken with any women? Like, truly talk to them? With a GF, wife, sister who trusts you and can speak her mind to you? They are far more egoistical, self-centered and transactional. Their sense for fairness and justice is far less prominent and developed. I don't judge them for it, it's just their biological instinct - to protect themselves first so they can bear a child. It's how we evolved as a species.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 04:55 PM
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Bro, I came to the US with $300, job as a bus boy and broken English. Today I own trucking company making millions in revenue and growing. If you have problem with the word "corporate" - fine, open your own business then. Build, grow, evolve. It's doable.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 04:51 PM
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Interesting take,Equality vs Hierarchy. I'll take a look! I'm a leftie and I don't like Jordan Peterson in general, but I subscribe to one of his takes - equality of opportunity, not equality of outcome.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 04:49 PM
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No. But it does contribute to a degree. It's an economic thing and the US is a special case with history of immigration. The US economy needs growth and there are just less children being born. You need young people to work in order to support the aging retirees who live longer and have amassed disproportional wealth. You can compensate with immigration. Germany is the same. Now Japan is a special case that needs to be observed closely - they do not allow mass immigration. They've had an aging p…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 04:34 PM
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No offence, broski, but that's a loser mentality. If it works for you - more power to you. But most of us can and should aim higher. Money is power. Money is freedom. It's not above your health, you are correct, we need balance. But everything is better with money. Even your health.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 04:29 PM
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You see - your default point of view is that the woman is always the victim and men=bad. Women have won that privilege by their constant complaining, demanding attention and action, demanding preferential treatment, whataboutism and many more methods. They figured out (instinctively or deliberately) that being the victim has benefits and they are pressing that image as hard as possible. Which is disgusting and diminishes the significance and distracts from real victims. Are men more often at fau…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 04:17 PM
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True. Feminism has completely inversed the demographic pyramid. Bu we shouldn't blame women, they should have equal rights and equal opportunities. Equal, not priviledged. But we need a new socio-economic system, the demographics are not sustainable and there are far less young people supporting growing group of retirees who live longer and have amassed disproportional amount of wealth. We need a new system. I have no idea what that system will be, but women are won't be our enemy in that new sy…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 04:05 PM
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Don't pay attention to those online idiots, they fear and hate men and there's nothing you can do about it. They get off on belittling people and playing the victim. Go outside, touch grass, talk to real people. You'll see most are much more reasonable and far less deranged.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 01:51 PM
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Happened to me a lot when I was busboy in downtown Chicago back in 2011 for a few months. Mostly elderly ladies who grabbed my ass. These ladies were all lawyers, accountants, architects, working something related to the Chicago Board of Exchange and the skyscrapers above me. It wasn't pleasant, but I didn't lose any sleep over it either. I was a fresh immigrant from Eastern Europe in his first few months in the US and I didn't want to risk my job and visa, but after the first few times I compla…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 12:41 AM
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Not this again... We (men) make more money, despite decades of feminism, incentives, social push and support for women. We live happier and safer lives. We are stronger and hold the ultimate power - force, most of us just choose not to use it. And after 30 they start chasing you, not the other way around, no matter how much they hate to admit it. Just let women have this one. Let them fuck whoever they want. PS: lol I managed to piss of both the incels and the femcels. You can downvote as much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:02 PM
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That makes more sense for an unexperienced girl rather than an adult healthy woman. Now, I get that every case is individual, but there's something off if there's no sexual attraction from both parties after 5 dates. Sex is important part of every healthy relationship. "Value yourself", "spiritual bond", "appreciation"... you are talking about sex like it's some kind of a reward that the man gets. It's not. It's something that healthy adults want and enjoy, both men and women. If you see sex tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:41 PM
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Yes, there is. Most healthy adult Western women do want to have sex too, you know. And 4-5 dates are more than enough. So if the woman still refuses that far into dating it's probably because of less experience, bad experience, trauma, psychological issue or something alomg those lines. Thise things are not "wrong", bad choice of words, I admit. But they are not the guy's responsibility either. Or she's just using him for a free meal or back up - now that's proper wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:23 PM
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Women are terrible at first moves. For them the first move is giving "signals". But they instinctively surpress those signals in order to maintain plausable deniability in case of rejection. But they surpress them so much that they become indistinguishable from normal behavior. Women think those signals are lod and clear, but they look totally different from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:11 PM
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The woman in the video is a prime example of why social media is bad for society, especially for young adults who don't have enough life experience to smell the BS this delusional person says. But the idiot in the video speaks with confidence, so some other idiots will believe her and spread the idiocity themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:57 PM
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If the lady in the video gollows her own advice she'll never be happy. Eventually she'll have to settle on someone who she's not happy with and probably a "step down" from someone she was with before. But she'll to tell herself and her friends that "this is the one". She'll be lying to herself, because admitting you fucked up is embarassing and it hurts your ego. But deep inside she'll always ask herself "Maybe I should've stayed with that other guy?". I know both men and women who are like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:43 PM
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"Where is it written..." - it's common sense and wildly accepted in Western society. You can disagree if you want, but that puts you in a minority of social outcasts and weirdos, not the norm. Also I can answer your question with a question - Where is it written that men shouldn't expect sex after date? You see - I can play this game of "gotcha" too, but I prefer to have a discussion. "How in the world is not having sex with someone "entitlement?" Entitlement to what - bodily autonomy??" - yes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:22 PM
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I don't know a single man who feels "entitled" to sex on first date. The percentage of men who are like that has to be so small that it should be ignored. That being said sex on first date is way more common that most women would admit, my personal experience is around 40%-50%. And I'm talking about first dates only. I see OP didn't specify if it's a 1st, 2nd or whatever. But yeah, if this is 3rd, 4th or whatever date - the guy has every right to expect sex. If the woman agrees to keep meeting h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:58 PM
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That's true. And your life as a man would be better if you stop caring what women want. They have no idea what they want in a partner, but they want it now! 😆 And once they get it they have no idea what to do with it. The truth is the vast majority are submissive and need to be led by their partner. They want the man to be man. They might tell you they want and prioritize some other things, they might even believe their own BS, but they are mostly full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:39 PM
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I call BS. Some might actually believe it, but they don't know what they are talking about. Subcontiosly they still see it as "marrying down". Proof: the marriages where the woman makes more (about 20% of all marriages) have the highest divorce rate. So be free, make money, marry and divorse whoever you want, but for the love of God stop pretending women have the moral high ground and they are always the victim. Source: https://sasforwomen.com/breadwinning-women-face-an-uphill-battle-when-marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 04:32 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with them, only that many are really bad at approaching and flirting. Just like men. It's a skill that few trully master. I have no problem admitting that I haven't lol 😆 Usually women approach you with "signals". They think that those bullshit "signals" are easy to spot, but they are not, they don't look as clear from the outside as you think they do. Most women surpress them instinctively in order to maintain plausable deniability in case they get rejected.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 02:40 PM
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Sure, there are a lot of losers here who act like that on the men's side. But we are not talking about them, we are talking about women now. And the vast majority are just bad at approaching. No "if", no "but", no "what about men...". Just accept it and move on. Or do something about it and improve your game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:35 PM
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Sure. But my point is that women have nobody to blame but themselves for the stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:21 PM
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Thanks for the reply, you slut! 😆 /s Sorry, I just couldn't help myself!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 06:09 AM
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I'm looking for the ratio. Like this: about 80%-90% of the rejections I received by women were nice and polite. I've never lost my shit because of a rejection. Excatly 100% of the time I was nice and polite when I was rejecting women and around 70% of the time they lost their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:44 AM
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You are mostly correct, but you mean to tell me that you were never rejected just... nicely? Or is it that women usually can't handle rejection well, lose their shit when they get rejected and call us incels, psychos, beta males or gay? Personal example from a birthday party of a friend: - Hey, you seem cool, but I have a girlfriend, sorry! - You are a f*g!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:47 AM
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Meh, it's all supply and demand. I'm a guy who has chased and who has been chased. When you get a lot of options - you get picky and you reject a lot of people. And when you chase - you get rejected a lot. But women are terrible at both chasing and rejection. Chasing - those "signals" most of you think you give? You need to be a FBI interrogator and behavioral specialist with a microscope, video recorder and have a group of analysists in order to notice and decipher them. What most of you imagin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:31 AM
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Maybe you don't, but the vast majority does. And according to the previous statement you can't even get the single moms, loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:18 PM
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It shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:15 PM
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Jesus, enough with the dating BS, you losers! We make more, we live happier, we call the shots after 30... Just let women have this one. If you are that desperate for sex just go for single moms - they'd date anybody and don't have time for BS. Or go get an escort girl or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:00 PM
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Ummm, no. Men are slightly more likely to be a victim of a violent crime. https://www.statista.com/statistics/423245/us-violent-crime-victims-by-gender/ I've been assaulted multiple times, even when minding my own business or trying to deescalate. Even when I'm in a group or with my gf/wife I automatically become the main target in a conflict by being the biggest threat. And here's the deal about fear - sure I can take a punch, I'm not made out of glass. But the ones around me can't. So I gotta …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:28 PM
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The idea of feminism as I understand and support is great - equal rights, equal opportunities, equal freedom. It was supposed to teach girls and support them to be free, happy, creative and productive human beings. I don't think anybody sane can stand against that. But unfortunately I'm under the impression that lately it produces more bitter and spiteful women who hate men and fear them. And blame all their failures on the nebulous "patriarchy". Those ultra radical "feminists" and the incels / …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:52 PM
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