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DebateGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:01 PM
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DiscussionGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:27 PM
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DebateGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:32 PM
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Question For WomenGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:48 AM
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DiscussionGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:24 PM
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DebateGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:05 PM
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DebateGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:57 PM
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DebateGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:40 PM
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Question For MenGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:34 AM
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DiscussionGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:20 PM
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LogisticsGoodgoy6969/r/seduction23/05/24 06:03 PM
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Question For WomenGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:01 PM
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DiscussionGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:46 PM
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DebateGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:05 PM
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DiscussionGoodgoy6969/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:03 PM
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How long have you dated him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:52 PM
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Just to be clear , you don't have kids? Man, what you wrote hit hard. It's sad that relationships reach the point where excitement falls off and cheating is contemplated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:32 PM
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That's what I mean. Infatuation is the best phase. It can't be replicated for its excitement and intensity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:27 PM
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I'm glad people disagree with me. I want that feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:58 PM
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But I am attracted to her. In fact, shes the most attractive partner I have been with. I love everything physical about her. Her size, her shape. Her face, her bad skin, her health issues, her smells. I even love her morning breath. I've not remembered being as attracted to a person before. And our sex up until recently was extremely exhibitionist (without including other people) I don't know why my sex drive has recently fallen off a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:56 PM
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I'm not over her. But I fear the longer it continues, she'll be over me. I don't want what we had, to end. The honeymoon phase has been great until this point. But now my libido has dropped and I feel she may be experiencing a decline in desire like I have. I worry that our flaws will start to gain surface and we'll grow to dislike one another in ways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:02 AM
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I wasn't dumped. I'm in the relationship currently and feel the spark dying out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:53 AM
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What does this even mean? All relationships have a honeymoon period. It's an infatuation phase that always wears off. How do this tie in with being her first choice or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:52 AM
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Yes. It is. I agree. Though life isn't simple. You don't know why that person is under-employed. People's lives are all different. Some of the smartest people I know, I worked alongside in dead end jobs and some of the stupidest people I know, work the corporate ladder. People benefit from being brought up in households where education was strongly pushed and had financial resources assisting them provided by parents. Business connections through family, friends etc You're gonna tell people to n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:46 AM
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You were just asking in another sub, ten days ago, 'is it a red flag if a man doesn't have a job' Now you want to make a claim that guys that are 'under-employed' shouldn't date. Don't worry about other guys and what they do, who by the sounds of it, are doing much better dating women than you are, regardless of how career-stable they are. I can't stand shite like this. You have absolutely appalling self-esteem and you want to lecture other men on how to conduct their dating lives. I'm by the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:31 AM
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What's your count?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:48 PM
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Her respect for you is completely lost if you forgive her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:56 AM
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That's just you being a simp and making excuses for it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:53 AM
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This is great behaviour and I respect you for it. I would like to say I done the same, but I found out a girl I dated previously, was kissing other men when she was in a relationship. Changed my view of her but I can't say I broke off with her over it as it was her past and she didn't do it on me. And I was falling for her. However, it was other traits on top of this that eventually lead to me becoming uninterested in the relationship any further
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:53 AM
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That's one instance of a girl in a position to flirt blatantly and unashamedly with a multi-millionaire There has been other instances with other girls where I notice how they act when another man (6ft tall, handsome,) enters the room/bar and the girl I'm with either cant take her eyes off them, will preen and signal attraction in his direction, and act distant conversationally like her mind is pre-occupied as soon as the guy has entered the vicinity I also notice this when in social settings of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:15 PM
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So 6ft 4 Chad, avoids the exclusivity conversation with you until you bail out and go for a beta male....woman story checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:47 PM
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I experienced it first hand. It was disgusting. My cousin dates a millionaire. And we met up with them in holidays as me and my girl at the time were staying in the place he rents out. She had never met him before So we go to the bar, and met my cousin and him (he's in his 50's)...girl I'm dating is early 30's. First time meeting. After 5 minutes of small talk...the conversation is solely between them for what seemed like the longest hour ever. She was preening her hair, brushing her neck while …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:17 PM
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Absolutely ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:39 PM
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Why is your reply so hostile? I'm merely pointing out how wrong red pill Manosphere influencers are wrong in what they are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:16 PM
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Kinda Interesting here. Thanks for posting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 05:06 PM
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"well at least I get fucked regularly" Refer to the point made in my post that says men DON'T CARE about downgrading...haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:43 PM
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Your opinion doesn't matter at all to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:33 PM
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Aren't you the girl that has no issue with single women sleeping with married men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:27 PM
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What culture is this? Are they American/European? Why is the wife ok with her husband having a side woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:57 AM
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I would agree with this completely. Talking shit behind your friends back, is something I do. And I am 100% certain they do it behind my back also. I don't judge them for it. Everyone does it. And I'm a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 08:44 PM
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Because she's your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:35 PM
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This seems wrong to me. I don't see how you can hold one party accountable and not the other. The woman knows she is actively engaging in having sex with another woman's husband (and mother to his children also) - how does this not create a scenario where you view your friend in a different light morally? If a woman slept with your husband, knowingly sleeping with this man behind your back, and was engaging in the lies and cover ups, you wouldn't judge the woman at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:18 PM
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Who says this? I'm not asking the question to single out either party. I'm asking to gauge what the reaction is of women and their social circle if they come to find girls in their circle as sleeping with other women's men. There is a common belief that women hide and make apologies for their friends behaviour, regarding how wrong it might be. I'm just trying to understand if women hold contempt for these friends or genuinely care but try to guide them on the right course of action. I know many …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:14 PM
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Why did you not have judgement against a friend who was engaging in an affair with a married man? Why was her age dependent on where you held judgement or not? Have any of your friends had affairs with married men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:11 PM
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You can't be broke and have status
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:29 AM
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Option 2, unquestionably
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:43 AM
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I think you could be right. Especially since this girl's previous relationship is a grey area, as she was adamant that guy that she was seeing was separated from his wife. But the more I learn, I think it may have been an affair and this ties in with the thrill seeking she is now finding with exhibitionism and being bad and not giving a fuck, despite being a very reliable and dependable person in society. You honestly would not think butter would melt in her mouth. Everyone loves her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:18 PM
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You just said the same thing twice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:02 AM
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What deeper psychological problems are you meaning? I'd agree that it could be a bad road to go down to start engaging in this type of behavior where there is more risk involved each time. Like where would it stop?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:58 AM
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LMAO ok brah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:57 AM
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Your comment would make more sense if I suggested these things and she didn't go along with them. She did, and she enjoyed it as much as I did. So what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:49 AM
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What's odd about it? You could say that about anal sex. You could say that about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:29 AM
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How's it over? I literally just said, it doesn't even bother me really. If she is turned on by exhibitionism, that's entirely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:23 PM
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In one way I do see how it is wrong, but on the other hand, we didn't hurt anyone, they didn't know we had done it. Plus it's not like we went and I had her spray her sex all over the bed. We left the bed clean. I think it's an over-reaction. If someone had sex in my bed I would be mad yes, but not feel like I was violated. That's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:06 PM
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I didn't expect to judge her. And I don't really. It was kind of a weird thing. In the moment it was spontaneous and hot and it turned both of us on, but partly the reason why I had mentioned it is I wanted to know if she was attracted to the idea of being watched and how slutty she was willing to be. Also, when we had sex on the stairs fully naked, and in her roommates bed, it made me wonder was it the act of doing it in another person's bed that turned her on, or because it was this particular…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:02 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:49 PM
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Woman reply
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:38 PM
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I appreciate you seeing me as better quality, but I thought of myself as anything but. I don't think that was the reason she was with me. She was with me because she got dumped and couldn't get with the guy she wanted to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 03:08 PM
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Are you a high value male? What do you do for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:56 PM
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Because I seen how attached she was to this guy and she wouldn't admit it. She loved him. I didn't treat her badly, and so I ended it. Why waste time in a girl that sought a guy that treated her like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:52 PM
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How did she settle for both if the previous ex had been bad to her and I didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:48 PM
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Who did she settle for? Her ex, or myself? I'm confused
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:42 PM
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The girl never had Daddy issues. She had a great relationship with her father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:39 PM
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What is trauma bonding to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:25 PM
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Treating them with disrespect while love bombing them the next minute is a different matter. It's emotional manipulation and causes an intensity of emotion in women akin to the "Rollercoaster of Emotion" phenomena
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:23 PM
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I don't disagree with you at all. I guess I didn't factor the age thing into the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:13 PM
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He never abused her. They had a "casual set up over a 2 1/2 period "
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:38 PM
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I didn't think it was age dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:37 PM
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Why's this more worrying? Out of curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:21 PM
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This girl was 35, myself 33
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:45 PM
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See, that's more of the reply I was looking for. And yes, you make very good points. And it could have been I was a little jealous and insecure at the time. There's no reason for me to be mad per se, but it annoyed me when I suspected it could have meant she still had feelings towards him, especially as he was the one that ended it. I felt like I was only/could only be second best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:11 PM
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I would agree. It didnt bother me. I just found it a bit odd. Considering she was dating me a year and called this guy an asshole previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:33 PM
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Of ex's that they're hung up on potentially. Not saying she was, but it's likely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:14 PM
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Ok. Thanks for that helpful insight...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:00 PM
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No it was 2 teddy bears and a book with a formal note declaring his love for her. Still think it's sketchy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:04 PM
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This is deliberately hidden out of sight. Top shelf, way at back, behind clothes. It was intentionally hidden there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:50 PM
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What do you mean by Trojan Horse gift? I'm not fully sure what you mean or what this is - could you elaborate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:49 PM
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Because I know women doing it, and I see women consistently attracted to young men in bars and checking them out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:28 PM
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A lot of women find it gross. A lot of women are attracted to it and live young male attention. I witnessed this myself as a younger man. Was hit on constantly by women in their 40's. Crudely hit on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:59 PM
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Sorry which one is older? You or her? Genuine question She looks young and not old
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:36 PM
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Manipulate? They want sex. Why are they going to be needing to manipulate young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:32 PM
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How? If the guys are legal age? I don't particularly like that they do it, but how is it wrong? You sound bitter about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:28 PM
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That's the whole point of my post though. Older women are more than happy to sleep with guys barely 20 years of age, for sex, despite the popular widespread belief women want 2 years within range or older than them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:13 PM
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Most women wouldn't admit it but it's definitely prevalent in the last few years. I know several women who would be scared to admit finding young men attractive or 'Hot'...but they do and some women act on it unashamedly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:08 PM
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But the point is they do seek these guys out for sex, and it's becoming increasingly more common for late thirties women to seek sexual relationships with young men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:07 PM
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Never thought of it this way. I guess it could be the case. I am dating someone who makes me a better version of myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:08 AM
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I am though. Not sure if you're saying that to mean well, but I'm a guy and I can take the truth. I am. My social circle is very small, with friends I barely see. She has a massive social circle, full of people in professional jobs and high earners in the corporate ladder. She is recognized in her field. I'm not. I think there is an even bigger disparity in status between us than there is in income.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:39 PM
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Brags about dating? Are you a fucking clown altogether?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:45 PM
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I am attractive, people may say I am more attractive than she is but she is still an attractive girl, very much so. This is why I'm unsure as to why she is seeking a committed relationship with me. She no doubt has options available if she wanted, more successful ones with higher status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:49 PM
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Fair enough. You could be right. You might not be. Not really sure what to make or it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:47 PM
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How do you know this without knowing anything about the men she dated prior to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:40 PM
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And what does that have to do with hypergamy when she is a higher earner with much more social status?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:38 PM
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This is not in any way, what I said at all, you fucking clown. Re-read my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:37 PM
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I'm not equal status though. I'm below her in all aspects of status
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:34 PM
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I think a lot of men do yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:12 AM
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I'm not out here trying to get a girl more attractive than me. I'm quite handsome and I'm happy to date a girl on my level. That said, I do realise that women focus more on money in a man. I feel like an exception to the rule of the men wanting the best looking woman they can get. Compatibility is more important to me at this stage of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:55 AM
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Is a man dating up if he is handsome in looks but a low earner, and the girl is less attractive but a high earner? Who's dating up/dating down in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:21 AM
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So true. I'm sorry you've been hurt bro. I feel your pain. Have a virtual hug my brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:16 PM
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Yes they are getting used because women use sex as a means of sealing the deal. Why do you think sex slows way down once a relationship becomes exclusive? Sex is a way of buying a man she wants. So she is using it, and in effect, being used because the guy is getting what he wants, while she is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:12 PM
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This is generally only true after a woman has been in a relationship for at least 1.5 years. It was one of the main points that Mystery and Neil Strauss made in their book The Game. And I fully believe it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:00 PM
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True. Women don't love average men. They put up with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:59 PM
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I would disagree with point 2 also. I was much happier in a relationship than I am now. My long term relationship ended when we both agreed it wasn't going to work anymore. But since I've been single, all I've done is look at my career/status/income/social life and think to myself, apart from my good looks and good body, what else do I have to offer women in my age group that they can't get off another average guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:57 PM
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Exactly correct. Monogamy is a joke. It's forced, and neither man nor woman will ever not want to cheat. It's inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:55 PM
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Maybe. Doesn't help my self esteem. Find it very intimidating that she's dating me rather than a guy in her income/social level
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:54 PM
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Would you agree she's punching down though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:16 PM
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I don't think this is the case. I hear people say this a lot. The girl I'm dating currently is definitely dating down. Yes she is older and people would say I'm more attractive, but she's a high earner and of a different class, I'm working class and she is middle class. For this reason I consider her to be punching down. Women definitely do punch down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:13 PM
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So you're saying essentially women do not date men who they don't see as their equal? I find this incorrect. Many women date down or equal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:36 PM
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That's a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:36 PM
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The same women who will say at the start of a relationship "Does size really matter though?"...have head big dicks in the past and found them of great pleasure. They always follow the above question with "it doesn't matter if the guy just uses that and no kissing" or some other statement They'll also be the ones to say "Does money bring happiness though " as if to say money isn't important. Yet put the same woman in front of a man with women and see how they act completely differently in compari…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:38 AM
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Even if their fathers were there, generally women are daddy's girls. So they even have their father's having a hard time saying no to them, which in turn, makes them feel they are right about everything. Thank you for the support.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:53 AM
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Here comes the "you need therapy" crap. Why can't you just admit that you need married men in your life? You need the drama, the excitement, the tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:00 AM
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Lmao here we go with the extremely rare exceptions. No man I know, who is married, doesn't wear a wedding ring. Unheard of in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:55 PM
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Women love affairs. Women technically are not cheating. They are sleeping with married men. It's the man doing the cheating. In their eyes, they're not doing anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:54 PM
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Men do wear wedding rings. Single men have even begun to wear wedding rings in lads holidays as it will increase their chances of One Night Stands. Mate poaching is absolutely real and it's only prevalent on the women's end. Women line preselected men. Guys don't give a shit if a girl is pre-selected. Also, married men aren't typically any better looking than single guys on average. They just have a home, a car, a secure job, a family...signs of status and stability. Women desire this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:52 PM
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Those groups are malding women who know that they won't take the married men from their spouse. They know they are being played and eventually they reach boiling point so go off on social media saying "he's a cheater" blah blah. Women play stupid until the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:48 PM
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No, I'm not in some weird circles. These are middle class women engaging in this behaviour. I myself, am not yet middle class. But my dating circles usually consist of middle class women, and from gauging their circles, this goes on, a lot!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:46 PM
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Oh please, those groups are created by women who knew what they were engaging in until realisation set it that they weren't for leaving their wives for their asses. Women aren't stupid. Women know men are lying early on and continue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:42 PM
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No, I fully believe that women will tell themselves the guy is separated at the start of they like the guy. But as you would know, it doesn't take a genius to quickly figure out the guy isn't separated at all, and is engaging in an affair. This seals the envelope and then the affair continues. Women aren't stupid. They know separated men, are not separated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:40 PM
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They don't admit it. They wouldn't ever admit it. Affairs are exactly the type of rollercoaster women aspire to have in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:38 PM
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I would agree with this 100%. No woman wants a boring man. A cheating man gives her drama and tingles. It touches into her emotions, exactly what women crave. I myself have had my best success with women when I was dubious about my whereabouts a lot of the time and they had reason to believe I may have been off sleeping with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:33 PM
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I'm not into casual sex. However, I have an avoidant attachment personality where I don't feel good enough to be in a Long Term relationship with a girl so usually I will find reason to end it even if it's going well. The only reason I have casual sex in the rare instances I do, is for intimacy, as in watching TV on the couch with someone cuddling, or sleeping together spooning. The actual sex is low on my list of priorities. I was one of the most popular kids in my primary school. Once I reache…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:20 PM
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But if you're getting hit on by women this easily, how are you still a virgin? All it takes is to go on a few dates with one of these women to sleep with them. Generally you don't even have to talk on the dates, just ask questions and listen and you will get laid. Or maybe you're a virgin through choice? If that's the case, that's cool. I dig it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:07 PM
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But the guy you're replying to is a 32 year old virgin. If this is the case, he's definitely not better looking than 90% of men out there and most certainly isn't a chad. I would give myself a 7.5 out of 10, I'm 5'10, very introverted, not shy necessarily, I just have trouble being social in groups. But even I get laid quite a bit. I'm very confident on dates, but I generally have very low self esteem with regards to my social status/career
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:02 PM
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I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:36 AM
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So what are you saying? Women likely would cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:48 AM
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This is also true in how you made your money Women don't care about morality. They don't care if you're hardworking and making honest money through a respected job, or if you made your money selling drugs to children ruining communities. If you have enough money and status from drug dealing, and can afford her stability, she will let all bad character traits slide and will favour this over the honest man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:18 AM
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No she wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:03 PM
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No. We don't like high body counts because they're fucking disgusting. It's amazing the loopholes you people will make for this disgusting activity. We simply think it is disgusting. We don't want to have the thought of the girl we are doting on and spending money on, to have slept with a whole football team of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:02 PM
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I like this advice. You make a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:24 PM
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Strength, security, and confidence are things that come from inside- if you only feel strong, secure, and confident because everyone around you is weaker, insecure, and less confident, that’s a house built on sand This is a fantastic quote. I really like this. And sums up how I feel about things sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:23 PM
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I guess ours was too. She was a lot different to me. But she was the most mature and kind woman I've ever met. It was my first grown up relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:21 PM
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But women say this. And it's only because she was very attracted to me she was willing to let the money thing slide. All she ever did was talk about money. "My sister's house is huge", "my sister's bf makes so much", "he's loaded, they're loaded"....she evidently cared about having nice things and keeping up with the Jones. She was used to Middle Class living. Its true, I did care. A lot. It affected my self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:18 PM
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No. I would be proud to look after my sick partner if she depended solely on an income I could provide to her. I would consider it an honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:47 PM
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Kinda funny NGL lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:43 PM
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Yes I meant a teacher who dates a white collar office guy. And what you say is true. A girl I dated recently was a teacher, and I, a white collar office worker. We both come from working class backgrounds in regards to our upbringings. However, her social circle was full of other teachers, Vets, small business owners and she was very much exposed to a middle class way of life. She herself had her own home also, and had two solid means of income. Frankly, while she never made an issue out of mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:52 PM
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I said women as a whole, not you specifically. There can be exceptions to the rule ya know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:37 PM
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Yes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:34 PM
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Now you just want to justify why it's okay to be insecure. yes, you are allowed to be insecure and have insecure relationships with women who don#t care that you are fucking isnecure I guess all those red pill millionaire men are insecure then huh. At the end of the day, you can flair it as insecurity all you like. I don't care. This is a boundary I have and I spell it out for anyone woman I will/have dated. If you want to act single, go and be single. I'm not locking you in a room or forcing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:32 PM
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Depends on how you define class. If someone was brought up through a working class household, and went onto become a teacher, are they now middle class even though she comes from and is dating a working class white collar guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:20 PM
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Again. Ridiculous. It's not insecurity. It's risk aversion. Why should a man let his woman behave like she is single by going out to bars dressed up knowing she'll be hit on, with alcohol involved? Why would a woman want to even entertain doing this when dating. A man can lay out his boundaries and it's down to the woman if she wishes to adhere to them or not. If she doesn't want to, she can hit the road. But men are protecting themselves first and foremost. Women need to respect that it's a bou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:12 PM
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Great outlook on things. I don't resent women for making more money than me. I hate that I can't be the lead provider in a relationship. However, if many more women think as you do, then it's definitely refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:48 PM
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Interesting perspective. How much is enough money for a guy to have for it not to be a problem for you in the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:26 PM
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Stacy's do chase the top 20% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:12 AM
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I don't agree with this at all. It's not that the men feel entitled to a lifestyle. It's simply a case where they don't earn as much as the woman and they struggle to keep up with her standard of living. I don't know any men that are out there that are wanting to leech off their woman. They want to pay their way in the relationship. But in even doing that, they are still feeling emasculated and she out earns them and has much more freedom with her money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:21 AM
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Yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:54 AM
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Ok. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:50 AM
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Where is the stats to back this up? Not arguing it's incorrect, however I read only barely 3/10 relationships have the woman earning more than the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:47 AM
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Yet you're ignoring the fact the vast majority of women still wish for the man to be the economic provider in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:40 AM
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It's been that way for hundreds of thousands of years. The men were the providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:14 AM
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On paper it sounds better than it is. As a man, this is demeaning. Again, I don't blame women for earning more. All the power to them. They done the work, they reap the rewards. However, if that woman had to take time off due to sickness or maternity, then the man needs to provide on his much lesser salary and this will inevitably lead to conflict and resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:13 AM
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What do you mean? You're assuming the man is qualified to earn that kind of money? Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:59 AM
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Because men want to look up to a guy and him to take the lead. Women naturally want to follow their man. How can a man lead a relationship when he makes half her income? Women want a provider ultimately. It's their nature. A man earning less cannot be the provider if she is the main income earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:30 AM
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That's a flawed argument. There is men is the top 20% who get many women due to their looks alone, who would earn less than a lot of women. The chads you see on Tinder who clean up, aren't necessarily making bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:06 AM
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You sound like you hate men. You're saying men in the bottom 80% have nothing to offer women. That's just bitter to say something like that. Not even most men would say that about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:57 AM
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You're lumping together men who are broke, with men who earn less than women. Id agree with you that these relationships are doomed to fail, but please don't say men who have a decent salary and savings are broke men, just because they earn less than the woman they are dating. They are two completely different things. And how is your friend's lives an example here? They were the ones to have gotten cheated on. Your argument would make more sense if it was your girlfriend's who cheated in their m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:51 AM
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Pussy starved ...I've slept with 4 women in the past 12 months. Hardly pussy starved. Secondly, women do cheat on girls nights out. Third, yes women do get hit on a lot, but do they get hit on by the men they desire a lot? I would say not, so this is what the point of the experiment would be. To have a man she desires to hit her up and see if she would crumble under temptation. People are missing the point with this. They keep saying that women get hit on daily. This isn't the point of the post.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:40 AM
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This situation is a chad even she would desire
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:17 AM
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So this girl I'm dating, (has asked me to go exclusive with her) you're saying, has thought about these things long and hard and decided that I would be a good long term partner for her? Is this the thinking process?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 10:43 PM
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I wouldn't say guilty, no. I know what women tell me is lies s lot of the time. So why should I believe what they say? If a girl tells me her body count is half what it actually is, or if she has never engaged in cheating yet associated herself with friends who cheated with married men...just because she hasn't done it, doesn't me I'm not allowed to distrust her being an angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:48 PM
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I operate under the assumption, guilty until proven innocent, when it comes to women. Saves me the heartache. Sad, but true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:45 PM
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I have no desire to cheat. But I don't rule out the possibility of cheating if the opportunity presented itself under strong temptation. However, your post is a great analysis. And gave me a new perspective. I always subscribe to the belief that a bigger and better deal is more handsome/rich/higher status. But the reality is maybe I don't account for people placing high emphasis on personality. I guess I subscribe to this belief as hypergamy dictates it. And status/wealth/looks outshines persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:44 PM
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Good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:42 PM
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Because I'm romantic at my core. I dote on girls I like. Life is pretty boring being single having casual sex with people I don't care about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:49 PM
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I cant get my head around this either. I've been seeing her a while and I just can't fathom why. They seen each other 2 years. He was separated apparently and was wanting to reconcile with the wife for the sake of his kids. I suspect the story is not all she says. However, it still doesn't change the fact, she's a hard 7 and he's a 4 on the looks scale. Maybe lower. I can't make sense of it. She's intelligent, feminine, sexy, cute, kind. I usually don't get smitten by women but this girl ticks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:46 PM
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Thanks for your honesty. Do you believe all people are only as loyal as their options?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:43 PM
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I worked a bar and I seen so many women in relationships, flirt and get heavy handed with other men. This is why I agree that you shouldn't let your girlfriend go on night outs with the girls. If she wants to wine and dine with her friends during a day, evening, fine. However, there will be no 'going to bars' or any of that shit. I am grounded in reality. Women will take their opportunities. They can preach all day that they wouldn't, they would. The guys that tell me that women don't cheat, are…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:42 PM
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It doesn't mean I don't want one. I'm not interesy in casual sex partners. I always desire more, an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:38 PM
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Appreciate your response. It's give me something to think about. I actually do want an LTR. Even though I am a good looking guy and make decent enough money, hearing that she was with an unattractive beta bux who wouldn't commit to her affected my confidence a little. It's almost like I got the leftovers of a beta bux in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:37 PM
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Yep. You either trust her or you don't. If you believe opportunity is the only impediment to her cheating, why are you with her? Because humans are social creatures and need intimacy. I don't know why people ask "why are you with her?"...I don't trust anyone. It does mean I disassociate myself from the world. I date/socialise knowing the risks as I am realistic on the nature of people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:33 PM
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Self interest isn't always moral. In a lot of cases it involved engaging in immoral practices
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:20 PM
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I'm reasonably grounded in reality also to the nature of people and how selfish people can be when it suits them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:17 PM
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That's sad to hear that it's common practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:16 PM
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I think you've said it the best. However I would maybe disagree with one small point. Would women really prefer to settle for the beta bux over the orgasmic high of a sexually attractive partner? Do you feel IF women do this, they will never be sexually satisfied and will yearn for the attractive partner while settling for Betabux? I say this as an attractive average income earning male. The current girl I am dating was doing that, dating an unattractive beta bux who ironically wouldn't commit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:14 PM
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No, this would be a guy that you know she's very attracted to and admires. He's not some random chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:55 PM
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I would say it's the same for both men and women in terms of disloyalty. Women have their reasons to cheat as much as men do. However, I believe men are more honest I admitting that they would cheat, than women are. It think the old addage "Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does" rings very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:54 PM
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Would you agree that most women would cheat if given the opportunity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:07 PM
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If he was a chad, he wouldn't have to be blatantly doing it. He could express interest and see if it's reciprocated. Women chase chad, chads don't chase women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:06 PM
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I never thought of it this way. While you might be correct that it's insecure on my part, I would be interested in taking part in such an experiment. I value your opinion though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:05 PM
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Then most posts are the same. This is an experiment many men would not agree to participate in, as they themselves would know the outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:02 PM
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Does Marriage still give a woman a status boost if the man she is marrying earns a lower income/is below her on the looks scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:47 AM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:22 AM
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They settle. Preferences don't change. Their realisation that they can't bag the guys they wanted becomes apparent, so they settle for fat slops that bag 100k a year and don't have sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:18 PM
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But what if you're better looking than her, but she's smarter, and has a better career/high income? It evens the playing field and you're just her equal at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:05 PM
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I would say having a social circle is a +1 regardless of the group. It shows you have been accepted by a group of people and have connections. I myself am pretty much a loner. I don't have friends I see often. Was part of a small social group in school. Now those friends have moved on/away. I realize I'll always be a loner as I just don't connect with a lot of people. Was never socialized properly as a child. I don't have trouble getting dates on OLD as I am good looking and independent. However…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:12 PM
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What age are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:58 PM
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Have any of the girls that aspired to get into a relationship with you, earned much more money than yourself? Would you be comfortable dating a woman who makes a large salary and you make a low income?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:35 PM
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Wrong. They're based on both looks, physical metrics and financial/status metrics
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:33 AM
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Finally something I agree with you on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:06 AM
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What is your RMV? Do you think women aspire to get into a relationship with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:32 AM
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Or it would be worth commenting on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:54 PM
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She absolutely cares if you have a large social circle. The whole point of hypergamy is for women to aim to get into social hierarchies. If a woman sees a woman doesn't have a group of friends or are relatively unknown he is 1. Boring 2. Weird If you don't have friends, a social circle, women find that unattractive and they will say that unanimously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:31 PM
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I think the PUA community and Redpill community are vastly different from one another. PUA community seems to love women who are promiscuous, Red Pill hates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:22 PM
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I've never heard any red piller say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 10:19 PM
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I've done this. Scored a 4.0. I think it's a little critical tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:53 PM
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This is probably the reply most akin to my situation except I'm not black and I'm 5'10. I don't aspire to have a degree a great deal which holds me back. I feel I do well as a fling, and not as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:43 PM
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I disagree strongly. Status can be situational. For example, semi-professional football players and police officers in my area clean up on nights out. They have status. They are well known in their communities despite not being 'famous'...this is status. Status means being recognized for being part of a large social group/leader of people/ Having a brotherhood Football players are part of a large brotherhood of men as well as police officers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:30 PM
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You sound like you've your head screwed on. What age are you if you don't mind me asking? Do you own your own home?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:58 PM
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It's insinuated that an SMV is how you're seen on the market. People will rank on the basis on what they believe other people would rank them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:04 PM
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I get what you're saying. That comment makes it more clear to me I should have maybe phrased the Question 'What do you think people would rank your SMV as' or something along those lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:02 PM
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What age are you? Women SMV/RMV is rated differently to that of a man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:00 PM
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Do you workout? What would be a rough guess as to your own SMV in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:54 PM
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Seem like you're definitely set up in life and going places.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:50 PM
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If you don't want to rank, don't take part in the thread. Simple. It's asking a person THEIR OWN opinions on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:49 PM
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You can literally say that about anything ever. I can give myself 10/10 in looks and someone will say I'm a 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:47 PM
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Very nice. Do you own your own place?n
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:45 PM
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Are you happy with your life situation overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:45 PM
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Cool you own your own home and have a good social circle. These are things I lack despite ranking myself high in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:42 PM
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It's just a question. Why do you overthink it? We rate looks all the time on a scale of 1-10. Why can't the same metric be applied to SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:40 PM
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What's your line of work? Do you feel your career has given you a big advantage dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:39 PM
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What do you consider short? What is your height? Are you college educated with a stable job/potential for career growth? You have savings? What age are you also btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:33 PM
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This is a good point too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:34 PM
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Well what about the statistic that 30% men aged 18-30 have not had sex in the last year? Men in the prime active sexual years of their life and they're not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:01 PM
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I don't agree at all with this data. You mean to tell me 8 out of 10 men are having sex once a month out there? I look around me and all I see is guys who aren't having sex with women. I know you referenced a study, but people lie in statistics also
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:34 PM
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The idea that there are no good women in the 30's dating market is nonsensical. The dating pool is heavily saturated with dud women yes, but there is great women if you know how to vet for them. Some are just single due to other circumstances. Some may be single due to low self-esteem, shyness, failed long-term relationships. There is a multitude or different reasons why someone is single, myself included. I'm not usually the guy to sing the praises of women as I'm one who has trouble accepting …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:55 PM
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Very interesting stuff. Have an upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:22 PM
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Yes but women will fuck broke guys in their 20's a lot more as young women don't care about a guy being broke as long as he's hot and pre-selected by women. In your 30's, women definitely care and move the goal posts a great deal
/r/seduction04/06/24 12:06 PM
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I was joking with the hateful reference lol Seriously didn't mean to. But I can how people would see it that way tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:21 AM
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I disagree. And yes. Same one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:55 AM
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Upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:54 AM
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Why you gotta be hateful?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:52 AM
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They said "hot" and "he's a ride" I changed the dialect for here as it seems to be a predominantly American audience so I gave the equivalent in US speak
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:48 AM
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Good point. But I don't feel my confidence was affected at all by them commenting on me. I've insecurities like everyone does, but none are related to my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:47 AM
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There's a difference in complimenting and saying "he's hot" and "He's a ride" is another thing altogether. I don't think most women would say their friend that their new partner is hot to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:45 AM
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Is this true?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:41 AM
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No. I don't see sex any differently. Im a confident guy looks wise anyway. And I find her very attractive, at all times. Upon hearing this, it didn't make me want her anymore than I usually do. However it was clear she was on another level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:40 AM
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I'm not bragging. I can't say I had sex without bragging? Sex isn't even my priority when seeing someone. Intimacy and values are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:37 AM
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So why are so many men not sleeping with women? It's not true that almost all men have this potential sadly. A work friend told me recently that he hasn't had sex with a girl in 4 years. And he's not an incel neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:29 AM
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Lol I think subconsciously women/girls/females night get off on the fact their man just slept with another woman. It's said that women can sense that a guy has been sleeping with women recently, and it makes him more sexually desirable. Not sure how much truth is to this though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:21 AM
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I marked it debate as my last post got banned and removed as it wasn't a discussion when I marked it apparently. It's not a brag neither. It's refuting the fact that money and status are the most desired traits in a man. Genuine sexual desire is only accessed through preselection of other women. I'm not saying that money and status doesn't help ignite desire sexually, but if that man is not sexually desired by other women then sex will never be that level of intensity and passion than to sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:48 AM
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Unproductive methods such as..?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:56 AM
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What's boring about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:08 PM
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Why do you always have to make negative comments? It's literally all you do in this sub mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:06 PM
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The issue isn't that I can't socialise or chat up women. I am pretty successful dating. I guess you could say, I get insecure on keeping women interested because before long, they might seem to get bored with my daily life goings on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:04 PM
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That's much better explained and I can accept that, if that is indeed what they mean when they say this. I never make a woman the center of my life. Nor would I. I'm not clingy. I like my alone time (a little too much) and I like to have my own hobbies/interests to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:03 PM
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What has my post history go to do with this? It's completely unrelated? And that's kind of a dickish comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:01 PM
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I have no problem arousing women. But I do become insecure a little when a girl has a much more active social life than I. I start to feel like she would be bored by me not having as much as her going on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:00 PM
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That's fair if it works for you. I don't want to tell anyone how their relationships should be. I just can't do more than twice/three times a week. When we aren't seeing each other, I don't want to text/call as I feel it ruins the interaction when you finally see each other again. Just feels like there is so many loops you gotta jump through to keep yourself seeming "fresh and exciting"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:58 PM
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I feel it's a problem if you meet a nice girl and want it more long term as I'm sick of spinning plates. I don't want the "boring" stereotype labelled on me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:56 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:54 PM
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I would agree with you. But I'm curious as to what they want average men to do exactly...socialising takes time and money. And most people don't have a group to socialise with in their mid 30's...also, the usual means of socialising is drinking.. which a lot of guys don't do. So, in essence, it's hard to have "things going on"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:54 PM
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I never do, nor would do that. I limit seeing a girl to 2 times a week, 3 absolute max. Yet when she asks what I'm doing ok the days I don't see her, she would say "you're only walking your dog, why can't I see you?" Or along those lines...makes me feel boring
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:52 PM
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The thing is, I do date. But I'm always thinking "am I boring as I don't socialise much?" I simply don't have the time and it's harder in your 30's My dog is a little Labrador
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:51 PM
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I know that. I'm just curious as to what these red pill leaders want men to do more as it seems men have to go through hell to please women. And the juice isn't worth the squeeze I'm finding
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:46 PM
2

I didn't tolerate it. I ended it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:13 PM
0

I don't agree. A woman will always take an opportunity to move up the social hierarchy, hypergamy dictates it. It's a requirement for her survival
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:13 PM
1

You can't be the highest value man to her, in a social setting where the guy sitting opposite you makes 50 times what you make in a year. No matter how much she thinks of you. You're the beta in that scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:53 PM
1

Which one is most likely out of the ones you have mentioned above?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:58 AM
1

It sounds like a reach. She knows the gf of this guy is bored. Women love money, why would she not throw out signals and take a chance to see if interest is reciprocated?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:42 PM
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I don't believe it's a shit test. I believe it's a girl trying to gauge the attention and interest of a man with plenty of money and power, right in front of his girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:49 PM
2

And what if you're not? Most men are not the highest value man their woman could get, if thats the case most men are always shopping for a better deal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:56 PM
2

How exactly did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:55 PM
1

So depressing to read this man. I share exactly the same sentiments
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:10 PM
2

Great piece of writing. Very well said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:58 AM
1

I'm in 2 at the moment, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:33 PM
2

"touch grass" blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:30 PM
1

Because I had drinks, so wasn't sure if I was seeing it clearly. The partner of the other guy made no issue of it so I wanted to see if I was over-reacting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:58 PM
4

Absolutely ridiculous to say this is only 25 and unders. This is a natural female flirting trait
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:28 PM
1

It's behaviour women do when attracted and wanting to appear attractive to the person they desire
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:25 PM
2

Twirling your hair and gazing at him like a puppy dog, asking him a lot of questions, flipping your hair to one side exposing your neck, caressing your neck slowly with your fingers and playing with your earrings constantly isn't just being just nice - or acting unintentionally. I can see the difference in not being able to help it, and actively doing it and knowing you're engaging in it consciously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:22 PM
2

Twirling your hair and gazing at him like a puppy dog, asking him a lot of questions, flipping your hair to one side exposing your neck, caressing your neck slowly with your fingers and playing with your earrings constantly isn't just being nice - it's flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:21 PM
1

This guy wasn't hot. At all. It's just that he had money and power
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:19 PM
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This wasn't just watching attractive men. That part I wouldn't even mind too much as it's natural to stare and check out attractive people. This was intent. This was body signals towards the man in discussion. And she knows it was. No matter how much she tried to deny it when I confronted her over it, and the crocodile tears she laid on me. Pathetic. And shameless behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:22 PM
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But a little bit of teasing with nothing coming from it except some smiles and laughs is harmless. I would argue this is nothing harmless about this. You are flirting with an attractive person. You are actively sending signals that you desire them, and that you want them to desire you. Everything is "harmless" before it isn't. Flirting at no stage is acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:20 PM
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I'll do this in the future certainly. However, in my ten year relationship previously, I never once had to take my partner to the side and check her on being flirty with other men in my presence. I've seen this girl 8 months and this is what I had to do. This is why I'm so certain I haven't read the situation wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:54 PM
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But on one hand, you agree that a woman will be wise to do this, to flirt and sell herself to another man of higher value while in an relationship Yet on the other hand, you're saying that women have the ability to not act like low value women...which is it? Either their actions are terrible or completely justified?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:22 PM
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Which is why women can get away with flat out denying they were flirting. You can conclusively prove and have them admit they were, and even if so, they would never admit to it. I was told not to mention it purely for this reason alone. Whatever way I asked her, she would disagree or deny it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:56 PM
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And it's annoying to think, I'm an attractive 33 year old guy, in shape, abs, good body, confident And she was doing this across the table at an average looking 54 year old fat guy, purely because of money he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:55 PM
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This is why I'm done with dating. Having to prevent social occurrences from happening in the off chance your partner can't contain herself around another man she finds attractive. A relationship is essentially a gated community. Why would I have time for this nonsense? I'm not saying you're wrong neither. Your solution is ideal probably, but it's disgusting that prevention is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:52 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:50 PM
3

I don't was a FWB. I wouldn't want her anywhere near me after this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:43 PM
1

This wasn't banter. It was blatant signals sent across the table that women do on first dates to say "I want you to notice men, to touch me"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:26 PM
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I'm not unsure of my decision. I'm just extremely disappointed. I'm sure of what I seen 100% after reviewing it from all angles. This girl had so many values I look for in an long term partner. I was strongly attracted to her and we had a very mature short relationship in the time being together. That's what made me try and convince myself I didn't see what I seen. But logically looking at it, and discussing it online and with real life friends/family, I'm more sure of it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:24 PM
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The difference was this guy wasn't hot. He was mid 50's, out of shape. He was just rich and had common ground with her, and my friend who he is dating, is very attractive. So this girl I was with seen an opportunity to display her attraction to him to fuel her ego and chance her arm. Blatantly shameless behaviour. Sickening
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:21 PM
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And who's to say I didn't act like a dominant man? Men can say this, about how you need to be Dominant and it won't happen. Yes I'm sure Vlad Putin, Brad Pitt, Tom Brady...all these multi-millionarie male role models with massive power never had that problem...wrong. they're all divorced. All their woman decided to end the relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 03:14 PM
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I'm 33, she was 34. The guy was 54, and not very attractive. You couldn't even say he was physically attractive. I know flirting when I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:47 PM
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But what parts of flirting are conscious and subconscious? This was the reason I delayed saying anything and wanted to analyze it thoroughly. Was she aware she was doing this, or was it her subconscious primal instincts acting out? As when I confronted her, she said "I wasn't flirting and if it came across like I was I apologize but I don't know what way I was playing with my hair or showing my neck?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:34 PM
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I just listed them in another comment reply. And with your logic, flirting can never be 100% confirmed so instead, just sit back and say nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:32 PM
4

Sure. Woman speak
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:29 PM
0

Ok. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:26 PM
12

Being flirty, isn't friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:24 PM
2

Interesting. Thanks for sharing your input. I find the whole thing sickening to be honest. I would never go out of my way to do that to someone. I actually did think this woman was different, but bringing her into that social setting, I was already in the mind of what to be looking for as it was my first time having this particular girl around a multi-millionarie established man, and it played out exactly as I thought it would. And the nerve to do something like this, right in front of his girlf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:24 PM
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You're entitled to your opinion. However, I disagree that I am soft and permissive. Not at all in fact. And from day one she said I was the only partner she had ever had when I laid out boundaries at the start. This girl also would run to the end of the world for me a lot, asking to see me much more than I see her, bringing me meals and homemade deserts all the time. Always offering to pay on dates. Offering to help out. She was even talking about having my child at a point most recently. Her se…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:21 PM
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That was the decision I had to make. And I had multiple people telling me to say nothing as it will make me look insecure and weak, but fuck that. What is insecure and weak, is sitting idly by and putting up with it and saying nothing. Calling her out and ending it showed I'm not a fucking doormat and have the ability to walk at any time. Bad behaviour will not be excused at all. I knew when I confronted her about it also, on the night of the break up, she knew what she was doing that night. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:15 PM
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No. I believe whole heartedly I made the right call. I really liked this girl, and never seen any behaviour from her before this event that would indicate she was a flirting type. Until that night. I was in a 10 year relationship previously and not once, in all my time socialising and drinking with other men, die I ever have to check my ex and tell her she was openly flirting in front of me. Gut instinct, is an instinct for a reason. I'm 100% sure of mine. I only wish you could be so confident i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:11 PM
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And do you see this behaviour a lot, as a woman, around other women? Would you say it's a large scale issue, or blown out of proportion? Have you been on the receiving end before, where a girl has flirted directly in front of you with your partner? Have you engaged in this behaviour before? What does a man do, in the instance, that he notices it happening in front of him, where his gf does this around another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:06 PM
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I get it. Flirting doesn't exist. Gotcha! What a moronic comment... You'd be exactly the type of person a partner would walk all over
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:03 PM
-1

Exactly. The energy in the room was completely off and it felt like a two way conversation between 2 people. Then came the body language cues from her 'long eye contact, short glances across when no-one was talking, flipping hair over the shoulder and caressing her neck in the direction of the guy, and when she was speaking to him, twirling her hair with her head tilted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:58 PM
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I can see how this could be an effective way to deal with it. But if I hadn't of called her out on her actions, and dumped her, she will just do this again and again in front of the next guy she's with. Women need to be checked on this behaviour as soon as it happens (as well as men) I can't help but feel there is a degree of accepting hopelessness in that Sun Tzu quote. It's akin to saying basically, 'it is what it is' in a roundabout way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:56 PM
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I would agree with certain parts of your post and would agree the RP community can be overly cynical and apply double standards. However, in this instance I know what I seen. I know when a woman is chancing her arm and trying to gain the attention of another man. This girl I was dating wasn't a bad person, she was one of the most mature and reasonable women I had ever dated. And I, was much better looking than the person she was flirting with. But she was flirting, I know flirting when I see it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:52 PM
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No. Any YouTube video or studies in body language attraction and all the cues were there. These were all the cues given to me by females on first, second and third dates before sleeping with me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:41 PM
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This guy was not HV Chad. He was 21 years my senior, and had a gut for a belly. But he was a multi-millionarie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:40 PM
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I disagree. I explained to her that Exactly what she was doing, which she denied, and I dumped her. How is that not a high value move? I showed I have boundaries that I wasn't having crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:38 PM
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These don't sound like actual flirting. I'm talking full concentrated attention, in front of you, directed at another man. Flashing of the neck and caressing of the neck, glances at the other man, asking him a lot of questions about himself. Twining their hair in front of him as he speaks giving puppy dog eyes, hanging on his every word. Actual, primal flirting intent to show sexual interest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:24 PM
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I don't buy this 'naturally flirtatious' when I hear people say this. It's completely disrespectful to your partner and shows you have no concern for their feelings or respect. What makes a person naturally flirtatious even anyway? Be chatty? Touchy? No-one can really elaborate when I ask them this, what is naturally flirtatious behaviour. Flirting is a conscious effort to appear more attractive and gain the attention of someone you are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:11 PM
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Let me explain. It was me My gf My friend (female) And her bf (male) I think our wires are being crossed here. My issue was my gf sending flirting signals to her bf right in front of us
/r/seduction24/05/24 09:07 AM
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And the issue wasn't her liking him, it was displaying preening signals right in front of me towards him. A girl preening herself is basically saying "I want you to caress my neck"
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:54 AM
2

Why would you say it was unintentional in that case? What difference would that make?
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:49 AM
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but I couldn't help but feel angry and embarrassed a little in the situation. Why ? She can like whom she likes and you are not her mother . Why? Because she was flirting with the guy in front of me, right in front of me
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:09 AM
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Yes I know, but is non verbal body language always subconscious? I'm trying to determine what parts here were conscious acts
/r/seduction24/05/24 08:07 AM
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No it's not. This is a contradiction if they believe hypergamy is real (it is) Women will always be on the lookout for another man more desirable than the one she has
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:30 AM
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Yes I agree. I had to examine the situation afterward instead of saying anything and showing insecurity on my part. On one hand, there was times where I couldn't gauge if it was disrespectful or I was being too critical of it. Not a nice thing to see regardless. I look at those situations as, if I wasn't there, what would happen if the signals persisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:11 AM
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I understand that, but it puts to death the notion that "all men become invisible to a woman when she is with a man she desires" It's bullshit that is spouted constantly by leaders in the RP circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:44 AM
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Now you're just debating in bad faith. That's a complete strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:31 AM
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Playing with your hair is fidgeting, however fixing you hair to display the part of the neck that faces the person you're speaking to, and self caressing the neck/shoulder while twirling your hair is obvious attraction signals. Men do not do this, this is a woman's attraction signal. The same way men will stand upright and form good posture to be seen more masculine and attraction. It's body language. Playing with your hair is something both sexes do out of nervousness/boredom. There is a clear …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:23 AM
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I never brought it up as I believe that was show insecurity on my part and show the other man in a better light. I know you say there should be a line, and I agree, however when you see blatant attraction in front of you play out, and it's not something you can lay the blame on the person for as it's subconscious, it is frustrating as it's all you think about in that situation, and as a result, your dialogue and presence in that conversation suffers making you appear Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:15 AM
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I take your point. I guess it's a dent to the ego because this scenario, the girl I was dating was displaying all the obvious attraction cues to this man, the same way any woman does to me on the first date. For example, when a woman exposes her neck by fixing her hair to one side, and playing with her neck, it's a subconscious mating strategy signalling to the man, 'I am comfortable with you to submit and be vulnerable' There is scientific backing to this, as it's a behaviour. It's not somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:10 AM
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I'm not a beta buxxer though. I am confident, handsome, in great shape and maintain masculine frame. However in this particular scenario it was a dent to the ego to see her showing these indicators of interest to another man, the same way a woman shows me on our first date. Bear in mind also, this man was 20 years older than me, is very average shape, average looking, however he did have a lot of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:06 AM
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How is it an imaginary problem? If I see the subconscious signs she is putting out that she has sexual interest in another person, how is it a problem that is not there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:03 AM
1

The women here are deplorable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:23 PM
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I've never heard anyone say this, and it most definitely is not true. Women do everything in their power to secure a guy they desire at the start of a relationship. 6-12 months in and then they start to slack as always. Don't cook, don't clean, don't wash themselves daily...par for the course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:20 PM
1

I dated a girl who ate her peas one at a time. Had to dump her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:02 AM
1

In Ireland, policemen clean up. They're sought after. Believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:38 PM
1

Hi, You're right, and after reading back over this post, I realise I was very tired at night and wasn't actually thinking straight, was writing in frustration not really knowing the point I was trying to make. Arguments were poor. Points taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:00 AM
4

That's for gays and broke ugly guys imo. Sounds like Andrew Tate wrote this nonsense. Women do leave HVM for fucking other women. Albeit there is probably a minority of women who leave, but they still leave. I have options, I'm not a HVM by any means as my income is average and status is low , but I can spin plates. I don't. I don't believe it's moral or in good character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:48 AM
1

It's not an imaginary count. I know the number is high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:01 PM
1

She's not a friend. She's a girlfriend, sexual partner. I have no problems with my friends going on whatever vacations. Girlfriend is a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:53 PM
0

I don't even know what this is supposed to me. Are you saying them going on vacation is a stupid decision. If so, I agree. I will not however, let it slide. She will get DUMPED
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:52 PM
3

How will you know the answer to most of these IE; cheating, N Count, Hoe Phase ..most women will lie and cover these up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:22 PM
0

Ok buddy lol I don't even know what to say to this. You're completely deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:53 PM
0

And you're a cuckold
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:22 PM
1

What the hell has this got to do with anything I just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:34 AM
2

Great point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:53 AM
-6

Dumb rule
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:02 PM
0

I wouldn't call it a relationship. More FWB's
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:00 PM
4

Most men are idiots with no balls to say no to things they don't like or feel they have no power over
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:49 PM
-2

I just said she would cheat if she got the chance. Did you even read the post? I'm listing girls vacations as an outlier because it's obvious women will cheat. When the cats away, the mice will play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:48 PM
3

And how exactly do you screen a cheater? You think a girl is going to show you signs or tell you she cheated before? I know all cheating doesn't happen on vacation, but if your girl is going away to a place where you are out of sight out of mind, and there is vast amounts of alcohol and attractive men at her disposable, this is case for worry, especially with her being away from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:45 PM
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Yes, I fully allow my person to decide if I am able to go on a lads holiday. If she doesn't like the idea of it, I won't go.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:41 PM
-6

Yes, it sounds cucked to NOT allow my partner to go into situations where the availability and temptation to cheat will be right in front of her. Guys are deluded. You are letting your woman go to bars/clubs where you know sexually motivated men will actively be hitting on her, while she's drunk/drinking with the intent to sleep with her for a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:38 PM
-4

If you're in a relationship, as a woman, you shouldn't want to go on an all girls vacation where there is sand, sun, sex and alcohol. You're committing to a relationship, and with being in a relationship, comes boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:36 PM
-9

He's probably cheated on you, if he got the right opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:32 PM
2

This is a boundary that would be set. Both sexes are required to adhere to boundaries in a relationship. This is nothing out of the ordinary. Most men don't like their women going away on all girls trips, but they never have the balls to say no for fear of being tagged 'insecure' - bullshit term women give to men to appease their rule breaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:31 PM
0

No. I don't. We're talking about girls trips here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:26 PM
-7

Yes, Let
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:25 PM
1

Agreed. Men don't seem to understand, women are expert liars. They are so good. And their female friends will have their backs always. Women would choose their friends over their partner's in most cases. They would cheat on these trips the first time it becomes available to them with a guy they deem good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:25 PM
-2

I would. If she was intent on going, I would dump her. I make the clear from hereon in to any girl I will date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:23 PM
-6

Or we as men, can exercise caution and prevent these instances from occurring. It's called Risk aversion. And the people that make excuses for it are usually the gullible people getting cheated on, left right and centre
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:22 PM
3

Exactly. They cannot be trusted at all. If you say you don't want her to go, and she goes anyway, dump her. She's not worth the hassle. There would be a drastic shortage of girls trips being taken, of girls had to share their locations at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:21 PM
2

If you ask about body count you'll never get a truthful answer. So I gauge of their stories and recounting how promiscuous they were I don't think this is something that will ever be fixed. I have done as much self improvement as I can, but the lack of social skills has done irreparable damage to my life as a result. I've gotten past the honeymoon phase yes. This is when I think relationships end. The older I get, the less I believe in long term monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:11 AM
7

I could give a list. The girl I'm dating is great. She's attentive, caring, kind, sex is great, she's great with children and would be a great mother. But I have now met her in her 30's and she has had a lot of partners I would guess. This is what prevents me from committing. I want a child but I never want to have a child with someone who I see as tainted. People will say that's unfair, but it's how I feel. I want the mother of my children to have a low N-count, and this girl doesn't have it. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:49 PM
1

What age are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:31 PM
2

Point 3 - why? What are your reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:29 PM
-1

Why does seduction have to mean pulling as many women as possible. You're effectively contributing to damaging women as when these women turn 30+, and they're used up and have no pair bonding ability left, you'll be crying where all the good girls are to be the mother to your kid. But it was you in fact, that took part in it.
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:17 PM
0

Yes. Men and women are not the same though
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:37 PM
-5

I think it's more sad that the woman has had to go through multiple different men without clearly vetting her potential sexual mates for long term relationships. It says more about the females lack of reading good character
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:31 PM
-7

It's not good. It's borderline acceptable in my view.
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:20 PM
-7

I consider anything over 5
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:04 PM
5

What is a high body count for a woman in her mid 30's? More than 20? More than 10?
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:48 PM
2

Ok TRTGymBro...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:25 PM
1

Cry more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:05 PM
-1

You get good sex with one person. These women don't have to have sex with random people. It's validation they are looking for. Not fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:00 PM
0

I disagree. They're the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:12 PM
0

I didn't say promiscuity wasn't a big deal. It is, very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:37 PM
0

What do you look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:47 AM
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I refuse to believe a large amount of people, if any, are calling your worthless, ugly, subhuman on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:26 AM
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When she's had amazing sex with A, she won't settle for 'good enough sex' with B
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:13 PM
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Female ejaculation when she's never done it before is one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:07 PM
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Point taken, but there is exceptions to every rule. I don't doubt your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:01 PM
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How do you know she's telling the truth. You yourself have said your partner has had a vast number of partners previously. What makes you her best?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:48 PM
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I don't use her like a flashlight. In the instance that she ejaculated, that was more through her own clitoral stimulation while I was penetrating her. However, she climaxed that way because she was relaxed and trusting of me in that moment, and was aroused as we were having unprotected sex, knowing I was going to ejaculate in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:46 PM
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The best relationship usually to females is the ones with the biggest highs and lows, where there is drama and it's exciting. This leads to the best sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:01 PM
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This is half truth. If this was actually full truth, then women wouldnt pine for the guys that treated them like garbage and fucked them with the best dick of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:58 PM
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You're not a woman. I'm talking about females here. Women don't get over it. They will always miss it. Regardless of what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:56 PM
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An emotional connection is a powerful weapon. Lots of women can't let a guy go because they have strong emotions involved
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:32 PM
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Now you're back-tracking. And no, even with you changing the conditions of your original comment, it still isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:09 PM
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They wouldn't be. But it proves that women sleep with guys for more reasons that wanting to fall in love. That's a ridiculous assertion I would be more forgiving and it would be an easier pill to swallow if your hypothesis was true, rather than just women being horny and fucking someone that 'will do'..but even women who have had one night stands and hookups will tell you that. They just wanted sex because they were horny. If women went into sex with the intention you're putting forward, I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:02 PM
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How about he had a lot of money, and a career and financial security and status, or purely just an emotional connection with that man? There's a multitude of reasons women run back to men. It's not about sex in a lot of cases. Women will jump at the chance to get with a high earner over good dick
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:52 PM
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Yes. I'm the one who has no idea what he is on about. Let's just deny the fact that so many women wake up the next morning thinking to themselves "what the fuck happened last night"...when they realise they have fucked beta bux losers. Yes these girls were having sex with the intent of falling in love. Or middle aged women going after young men purely for sex. But you're right I guess. These old women want to fall in love with these young men who have zero life experience or financial security, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:47 PM
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This is completely false. I see so many instances of women screw beta bux losers on One Night Stands or hookups with these guys because they were horny and it was convenient for them. Women in this day and age, hold little more emotional connection to sex than men do. An example would be the girl I'm seeing on/off.. She has had many more partners than me (which I am disgusted by)...yet it's plain to see that from listening to her, she was not fucking these guys because she was willing to fall in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:38 PM
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How do you know that they have trouble walking away from good sex? Who has told you this? I don't believe good sex to a woman is the same as good sex to a man. Women prioritise what the man provides to her life and security much more than what a good fuck does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:32 PM
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Don't apologize for it. Why would you apologize. Simply said "I don't do social media"
/r/seduction03/05/24 11:05 AM
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How do you know the sex was great? Women can fake Not saying it wasn't, but it's likely it might not have been as good as you thought it was.
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:27 AM
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What's your point? I am a good looking dude. I'm not Robert Pattinson or George Clooney but I'm at least a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:36 PM
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Ok, you know me better than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:38 AM
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I can have connections with people and not trust them. I don't trust anyone. It doesn't mean I don't connect with women. The girl I am currently dating, she's emotionally mature and we connect on a lot, but would I trust her? No. Absolutely not. But she doesn't know that. That stays with me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:33 AM
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And if I make myself available to you, you'd find the excitement fades quicker and it would become boring. This is what I want to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:29 AM
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These girls are asking to see me more, and I tell them I can't, as I'm busy. I'm doing that to keep the excitement of seeing one another. Anything more than 3 times a week and there is no excitement in seeing one another anymore. This has nothing to do with me not wanting a connection to these girls. The connections already been established
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:21 AM
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This is the kind of nonsense that moron Jay Waller comes out with. I think men needing variety when in an LTR comes from a place of insecurity and they want the validation more than anything. When men say they need variety, what they want actually, is validation. If I'm in a relationship with a woman I like, I don't feel the need to have sex outside it. I want to have sex with the girl I'm dating. The only reason I have casual sex these days and don't commit to one girl, is because I don't trust…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:11 AM
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The girl I'm dating currently has very active social life. Always doing something, a Bachelorette party to go to, a friend to have coffee with, an event to go with the girls to. I like this about her. She has a strong group of friends, and gets along great with her work colleagues also. So I'm sure she is weirded out by the fact I don't have anyone to have stuff like this going on with, and it comes across as unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:06 AM
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That's hard to do without a social life. You don't have people inviting you to hang, inviting you for a coffee, visits etc I do occupy myself with training in the gym and going to Jiu Jitsu a few times a week in the evenings. Even taking language classes in the local college, but it's still pretty odd to women that none of these are social events. I never get invited to weddings or have stag nights to go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:45 AM
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Sounds legit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:13 AM
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Ridiculous thought
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:12 AM
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I don't have a hard time connecting with women when dating. I mean people in general, mostly men to form friendships with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:11 AM
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Being a criminal is not low status. The person is usually well known in the streets and has notoriety. Plus being 'dangerous' is a massive turn on to women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:59 AM
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Ok I don't. You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:19 PM
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I have pussy and get pussy. Stay being a simp for used up women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:05 PM
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Past is the past yes. "My boyfriend told me he used to kick cats in the past, but doesn't anymore" "My girlfriend had massive amounts of debt before I met her, but now she wants me to trust her with my credit card, past is the past so why not"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:51 PM
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These would be 'situationships' and while I've engaged in them myself, I wouldn't want to date a girl who has had them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:35 PM
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Why is the last point a sticking point? The FWB, Situationship reason. Have you never had one? Not judging, just curious to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:17 PM
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Ok Hun, see ya at synagogue!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:56 PM
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Those girls loved my username
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:43 PM
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Absolute nonsense and something only a woman would say. Women see this as more value than men do. Women LOVE seeing another woman is interested in their man, nevermind a whole bunch of them. It literally drives them wild with sexual lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:35 PM
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What's anti-Semitic about it? Am I not a Goy, according to the book of Judah? This account is 5 years old, so I was in my 20's when I made that username. So yeah....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:31 PM
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I would bet I do more constructive things with my time than you would. Yet, you base the personality off someone through some dumb username I made up off the fly, which I found funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:11 PM
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Get a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:06 PM
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No it is actually very insightful and rings true. And you're right, it is glossed over. People will say "a girl will like you for you, not your friends"...but this is a half truth. A woman wants to see her man is accepted by a group of men around him and has an active social life. It's a survival trait on the woman's part. If a guy like me, who is pretty good looking, but has no social life starts to date a girl frequently, and things are going well, it's almost always hindered by the fact I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:57 PM
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I never have issues socialising. Just an issue making strong friendships or wanting to pursue more with people than a casual conversation. If the girl I was dating wanted me to go to friend gatherings, I'm not against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:49 PM
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Would you date a guy who is quiet and introverted, but still good in social settings?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:18 PM
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What age are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:47 PM
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See we rarely text and never speak on the phone. It's a good morning text and at tops a goodnight text/brief text convo before bed with typical how was your day etc I don't do text convos . I like to have stuff to talk about when I meet a girl I'm dating in person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:43 PM
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So who is defining you as clingy if you're only seeing a person you're dating once/twice per week?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:37 PM
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Me personally, I like 3 times per week. But I sometimes do 2 only. It's just a bit hard to pretend you have so much going on to not see her and create that artificial distance. I mean I work full time, have a second job every second Saturday in Weekends, spend 3 nights out of 5 training after work in Jiu Jitsu/gym and even then, I find I have a tonne of time left over that could be used seeing her. I just think anymore than that and she will start to lose interest, however I think the lack of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:25 PM
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2-3 times a week is extremely frequent. Even when I was broke and unemployed I would see girls I was dating 1 once a week max. Twice if there was some special occasion. 12 hours a week is frequent? What reason did you have for seeing her only once a week when unemployed? The girl I'm seeing ideally would like to see me much more, only I stop it from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:53 PM
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Being a 6 figure code monkey doesn't mean you're social.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:04 PM
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But you make it sound like Isolation is chosen. It is to a degree but I don't want to be this way. I see much more benefits to me not being a loner and would preferably not be one. Self isolation is a symptom of Schizoid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:40 PM
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2-3 times a week is amounting to 12 hours per week usually, each visit 4 hours. We live half hour away from each other. I don't think this is anywhere near too much. A lot would argue it's minimal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:58 AM
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I was social at work, I'm now WFH. But I had no problems socialising at work. It's one of the aspects of work life I miss. Banter in the office
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:57 AM
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How's it cheap and pointless? Most of the posts on here are from the lived in experience of people. Why can't I give my conclusion? And why must I be a woman for the opinion to register?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:42 AM
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I'm a 5'10 guy, and slightly balding with a nice face and good body. So I would say, if Im not average, I'm only very slightly above it. Average men have dating lives. The ones that complain average men do not, are usually neckbeards or out of shape and want to make excuse after excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:41 AM
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This is not my experience with high school at all. Girls in the popular social circles, only dated guys within their league in terms of looks. They never got with chad, if they were ugly/below average The conventionally prettier girls were never overlooked. They were just quieter. A girl having a large social circle of friends has no bearing on my attraction towards her. It would actually make me attracted to her less if she had a large friend group as that would mean, more opportunities for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:39 AM
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What? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:28 AM
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But it's not clout chasing. It would just be odd to a woman, that the guy she is dating has no friends, no social circle and no social media presence. It would lead her to suspect something is wrong with him and if he can't have a group of people around him, who want to be around him, how would he make a good partner? These are legitimate concerns women have. I don't call them clout chasers for it. And most people have low social status in comparison to celebrities. However, social status and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:49 AM
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Well to start off with, I wouldn't suspect not having friends would have much impact to the relationships initial stage. It's after she gets to know you and more about you, it becomes evident that it's going to be an issue, as a lot of peoples conversation, is based around the lifes and conversations they have with others. You ultimately become a guy who's quiet with not much to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:40 AM
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Who doesn't care? Women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:30 AM
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33
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:24 AM
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Why do you always post images of text chats, out of context. What does the pig farmer look like? Who is sending you the above text? Your comments make no sense most of the time bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:38 AM
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How so? Why is it so easy for men of high social hierarchies and famous men to have mountains of interest from women? It shows he is a leader or men and part of a higher social pecking which women see more attractive and beneficial to their survival
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:21 AM
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I'm curious, did this women actually say that the thing they don't like about you is that you have no friends? Isn't there maybe an underlying reason why you don't have friends and women break up with you? They never said directly, though they did ask me and it gets a bit frustrating. I don't choose not to have friends. I just don't form connections that great with people. But if you met me, you wouldn't think I had any social awkwardness or bad social cues. I am very conversational.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:51 AM
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Average looking guys can date good looking women too. It takes confidence, and self care. Charisma and charm with a social circle can get you relationships, a good looking guy with no social circle will struggle more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:46 AM
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2-3 times a week is a good amount to keep the relationship fresh. I find if you see each other anymore than that, you lose the desire to see one another. I have after work activities on these days I don't see her so it's not like I make it up to not see her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:33 AM
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Maybe read the post as I never said I didn't have hobbies or interests? I don't know why your post sounds so hostile towards me. I said I have hobbies and interests. No, I'm not boring. Maybe to other people or women, they find the fact I have no close friend circle boring, but I don't consider myself boring. I have a range of hobbies and interests. I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:31 AM
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I don't understand your point. You're saying guys have no right to care about a girl's N Count if they're unattractive? Why? If a guy doesn't want a girl who has slept with 20+ men, what difference does it make whether he is attractive or not? They are free to discriminate if that's a trait they do not want their partner to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:41 PM
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I would class casual sex as mutual of both parts that it's strictly FWB scenario. Situationship is a term made up by females who wanted committment and didn't know where they stood with a guy they were screwing (deep down they knew he didn't want her)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:15 PM
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When a woman tries to say she was involved in 'Situationships'...these were effectively pump and dumps. The guy had no intention to use her for other than sex when she was looking committment out of it. He didn't want a relationship, and her referring to it as a situationship is a way to slap a bandage across her ego, when she knows deep down, that the guy was a chad and didn't want anything to do with her other than to sleep with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:56 PM
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Think I'd rather die alone at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:26 PM
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Absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:18 PM
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Do you consider 20 a high number for someone who has been sexually after almost 20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:53 PM
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What's your problem with asking a question like this? Why is any question asked? To gain insight. Why are you so defensive of potentially promiscuous 30 something women...has it touched a nerve? Did I say anything about morals in my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:46 PM
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What is the 3 months before sex rule? You mean 3 dates? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:04 PM
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Are you 6ft+?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:44 AM
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You have good success with women then. Do you mind me asking, height, weight? Are you a good looking man would you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:24 AM
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Lol I see what you did here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:59 AM
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What are you basing these numbers off? Experience, friends telling you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:56 AM
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I don't think the number would be that high, but I do think that it's definitely 4+ for a lot of women per year, if single. Dating is just way too easy for women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:47 AM
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Why care about anything? Honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:45 AM
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And has learning that affected your marriage? Do you think you'd have married her still, knowing this before tying the knot?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:44 AM
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Most One Night Stands happen when parties have been drinking/are drunk, statistically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:43 AM
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Single women in their 30's yes. 30-40
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:32 AM
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I think American college culture is different to UK culture. In America it seems to be accepted girls will run up high numbers in college, however back home here girls are somewhat more conservative I find. Most girls I knew who went to college were sleeping with one guy, 2 tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:32 AM
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So why comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:27 AM
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I'm a single woman with an FWB. My number of dicks per year is one. I know him and we're sexually compatible. There's no need for me to seek out strange dick after strange dick. So you're essentially partnered. I didn't say women seek out dick after dick neither. You're making it sound like I make women out to be starved of cock. It's reasonable to believe that women can date multiple men a year, 4 is not unrealistic - this doesn't mean to me she is wanting to go out and have sex constantly. She…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:25 AM
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I would argue body count increases after college. They are now in a paying job, able to live on their own in a lot of cases independently, have a vibrant social life now that they have a wage, and will spend the rest of their twenties partying and going out each weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:12 AM
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How about an actual answer to the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:09 AM
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You're using stats of a year in the midst of the COVID pandemic. This is baseless. Most people were still in and out of lockdown and everywhere was shut down. They had nowhere near the same amount of opportunities for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:06 AM
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What would be the average amount of men she is sleeping with per year? One or less since most women over 30 are partnered I said single women. Women around this age range also are getting desperate to tie a man down for marriage and children That's why the birth rates are collapsing? This reply is a moot point, as you're arguing birth rates are collapsing in a society where it is easier to have sex than ever, and more people are having sex than ever and with it comes unplanned pregnancies. Of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:02 AM
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This is a good observation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:07 AM
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Most dildos are average length to be fair, as women use dildos mainly for clitoral stimulation from the vibrator. They only insert a partial amount of the dildo even, as it's the buzzing on the clit that brings them to climax mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:45 PM
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Are you 6'4? You should have no problems dating even if sub-par in the looks department. Height rules all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:23 PM
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When I hear a girl has feelings for someone from having sex, it usually means that she is developing a chemical bonding and a desire to see this person in a monogamous arrangement. I don't hear of girls having sex, having feelings and not wanting a relationship with the person. If a girl usually has sex it's done purely to get off and scratch an itch, but they have no romantic feelings toward the male at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:20 PM
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Do you think the next guy who you aim to get into an LTR with, will enjoy hearing that you were in multiple FWB's at the same time? Do you think he will be a man of value, one that accepts that his woman was riding the carousel and able to do so without any emotional attachment? I'm legit asking these questions because I'm interested. If that's how you choose to live, it's not me to tell you it's right or wrong. I'm just telling you what I think and trying to gain insight. You've never caught fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:12 PM
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What do you gain from it? What does one gain from sleeping with multiple different men at the same time? You're telling me there's no downsides to this and it's healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:05 PM
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Women say this and then, one year down the line, complain that things have gotten stale and boring. Then go and have an emotional affair with a co-worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:02 PM
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Something being consensual doesn't mean it should be accepted, in the same vein people engaging in watersports and gang bangs shouldn't be accepted even if it's consensual. How is sleeping with multiple different people at the same time an acceptable way for society to function? If a woman does this, it just shows to me she could never be trusted and enjoys being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:00 PM
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Multiple FWB at the same time? That is disgusting in my opinion and a reason why society is in the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:56 PM
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Everyone would cheat, given the right circumstance in the moment if they knew they can get away with it. A lot would do it knowing they wouldn't get away with it. Everyone! Anyone who says otherwise is a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:49 PM
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Good luck finding women with less than 10 partners. Again, dependant on age no doubt but I'm sure many 20 something girls have 10+ partners. 30 year old women have 30+ body counts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:57 PM
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How many is too many?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:51 PM
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Oh she definitely did. But I think when people say they want a FWB, a lot actually mean they crave intimacy more than sex. They want the intimacy of a partner without having a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:24 PM
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Man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:59 PM
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Yea, tbh man, this whole FWB thing...the benefits for me are Intimacy mainly. Yes I like sex, but I place more value on cuddling and sleeping together at night, having someone to watch TV with and stroke their leg, laugh together. My FWB's set ups were more about this than meeting up all the time to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:32 PM
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Yea..you're probably right man. But who's to say, they don't catch feelings, but wish to prioritise their career and daily life activities instead of changing them for a relationship? Having a FWB doesn't mean the girl doesn't have feelings for you, but it does mean there is many boundaries. It suits some people fine and I wouldn't say they are fucked up on some level. I wouldn't say I am fucked up when I engage in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:25 PM
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You mean his FWB, not girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:22 PM
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Why's it not healthy? If the woman is too busy, what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:20 PM
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How is being in a relationship doing something you know you shouldn't be doing? I don't understand this at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:13 PM
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What's a Situationship? No-one can explain this to me in a way where it doesn't sound exactly like a FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:06 PM
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This is a great point. Even though I had this arrangement and she technically fell for me, if I walked into a bar and seen her flirting with someone else, they wouldn't even have to be kissing, I'd be extremely jealous and honestly it would hurt me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:03 PM
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Are you laughing because what's described isn't any longer an FWB arrangement, or laughing because FWB's can't be monogamous to one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:57 PM
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That's fair enough. How long have you been seeing this girl currently in this set up? I agree that having that space and lack of time together makes you appreciate the time together more, that's why I prefer living alone, but I think seeing one another even ×3 times a week is plenty of space personally. If I seen her anymore than that, I would feel the boredom of each other would kick in and we wouldn't enjoy each others company as much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:23 PM
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This is the type of arrangement I have with the girl I'm seeing, but calling it FWB at this point seems a bit... childish or immature. I'm not ridiculing you at all. I was doing the same until 4-5 months in where I felt I was begrudging the girl of what she believed was a relationship, so felt it was time to drop the FWB term. We still live separate and will continue to do so. Also, again not judging. I just don't see how single people can be too busy for a proper relationship. Unless you've chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:56 PM
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This is a relationship, not an FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:25 PM
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So you're saying a FWB set up is better than a relationship... What if your FWB is sleeping with other people also? Are you fine with her sleeping around? What if you develop strong feelings for this person - does it cease to be an FWB? FWB will end in one person falling for the other. Thats why I don't believe these set ups are a thing, or should even be a thing. They're bad for society. You can be in a relationship with someone, and not meet their family, it's no big deal. Also I don't current…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:24 PM
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What makes you better than them, in your opinion? Career? Looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:45 AM
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Hold on, are you saying the biological clock, a woman's fertile years are not limited and it's made up or exaggerated? Because most professionals will attest that a woman's chances of conceiving after 35 go down drastically. Women are most fertile and their bodies best suited for having children in their late teens/early 20's. It's true most women would not be financially ready at this age, which is why it's been so common throughout history for women to marry up so that they have a safety net w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:42 AM
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You can have that opinion. I'm just being realistic. It's like others have said and studies show, when a woman is nearing the end of her biological clock, she is much more willing to settle instead of waiting it out for the man of high status/income I'm not putting myself down here as I am an attractive well rounded guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:38 AM
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I'm not considering breaking up (if you can say we are even technically exclusive)...but her parents are working class, however all three daughters are university educated and very successful and part of middle class social circles, whereas I earn an average median income and everyone I know is working class. For this reason, I feel there is no longevity in this relationship as time will soon show class differentials between her and myself. And to another commenters point, this woman is nearing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:17 PM
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Is he a good looking guy? Where would he be on a looks scale on a 1-10?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:04 PM
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I'm not saying people in trades are dumb??? Some people I know, who are trades men are some of the smartest people I know and make more bank than engineers, but they are generally class as working class
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:13 PM
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Profession, social circle A man who is unskilled or trade skilled from a working class background who's social circle comprises of people along the same lines of work or unskilled professions. Middle Class...usually someone with a Batchelors in education, social circle comprised of people with higher education and high income... teachers, vets, doctors etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:03 PM
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Do you make a tonne of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:11 PM
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When the smile starts to disappear upon seeing them and the effort starts to wane to impress one another
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:53 PM
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Good point. I would say this is probably fairly accurate. From experience 5-7's have had a high amount of sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:46 PM
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I don't think a honeymoon phase last 9 months, even for chads. Average Joe will have a honeymoon phase of 3-5 months at best, where the girl will be on her best behaviour. After that, she's very quickly seeing and acknowledging she's the best you can do, even if you try to pretend otherwise. Chad will get another month or 2 out of her tops
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:44 PM
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Simple. The guy you married was the best you feel you could have done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 12:05 PM
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You don't know the women I associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:53 AM
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Ehm...because I don't choose a career path solely to improve my dating life? I'm not desperate. I do fine with women, I'm simply stating my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:44 AM
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A soldier is a man of status, as is a police officer. They are held to a degree of importance in their community and are usually well known within the community and earn a solid wage also. That is status by definition. It doesn't mean you have to be a celebrity or known on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:40 AM
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It's a realistic attitude. Men who don't have this attitude enter into relationships and have their hearts broken. I prefer to educate myself and remain grounded on the realities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:38 AM
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That's not the point I am making. You're saying most men don't care about a woman's sexual past and I'm saying this is completely false. They most certainly do, but have to accept their woman has engaged in ONS, FWB, being pump and dumped etc There is nothing modern men can do about it, women control the dating scene. Not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:36 AM
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I don’t think you have a healthy outlook of relationships I don't, because most relationships end in break ups
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:31 AM
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women especially love telling each other about how they'd never date each other's partners in good fun, Women do this? This seems kind of fucked up. I don't know any guys that do this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:30 AM
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I think 5'9-6'0 is wrong, I think anything below that, one undesirable trait and I would agree, you're having to make up for that bigly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:27 AM
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'This is a defensive mechanism when your with someone you don’t agree with but their very forceful with their opinions so you politely agree then look for reasons to leave and hope never to see them again' Well if this is true, it certainly takes them a long time to leave and never see me again. Plus, I'm not forceful on my opinions, I state them and leave them there. It's them who come around and suddenly change tune. 'Without being rude, what do you think people in relationships do? Do you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:25 AM
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But you care about status, as these are men of status. And are excited to tell your friends you're dating a guard, cop not because you get on with them, but because you can say "I'm dating a cop"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:16 AM
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No need to be sarcastic dude. I'm simply starting my experience. I'm saying I don't think it comes down to height as much as you think, unless you're a shorty. 5'7 or below But height is definitely strongly desired
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:11 AM
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Actually, most men care. It's just, this day and age, with modern Hookup culture being so rampant, they have no choice but to accept it as reality if they want to have a GF. They have to accept she's had a bag of dicks in her, but they don't like it and DO care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:08 AM
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Do you think a woman is more excited to tell her friends that she really gets on with the guy that she is seeing, or that the guy she is seeing is accomplished and has a lot of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:03 AM
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I don't agree with this all but do to a degree. I'm 5'10, good looking, muscular, dress well but I have many undesirable traits. Shit car, only rent my house, don't own, no large social circle, yet I feel I can say anything I want to a girl and she will agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:02 AM
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At what age do you find this tends to not be relevant? Because I'm mid 30's
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:53 AM
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And this is my problem. I don't want any woman who has had a whole football team of guys. People say 30 isn't a high number as it works out of just over 2 per year. And I say to those people, go Google the image of an entire soccer football squad, or a 30 man royal rumble, and now imagine your woman slept with every single one of them guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:09 AM
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I would do the same. In fact, it's much more important to me that a girl is loyal and sincere, attentive and kind. I prioritise that well above looks, as in my eyes, a woman becomes more beautiful when she is there to serve you and be your rock. I guess that's why I am more attracted to 'average' looking girls. The conventional pretty never appeals to me as those girls are high maintenance and always looking the next best deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:48 PM
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The men believe these women will be loyal as they as the best they can do. Men do not marry their ideal woman, they marry the woman they believe will be faithful and easy to live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:33 PM
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I would say 40-50 is probably about right. People say that's a lot but it works out at just over 2+ per year if she lost her virginity at 17
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:24 PM
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This is what men don't get. This whole "women in their 30's are fucked" is bullshit. Women have a plethora of options to them if they are even average looking or slightly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:09 PM
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Is that high? In this day and age, I'm expecting a woman of 35 to have 30+ body count quite easily
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:29 AM
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It's a good mindset. One I wish I had instead of being overly cautious. I wish you and your spouse all the best! Hope it works out for yous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:51 AM
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What would you say is a rough body count for a 35 year old single woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:42 AM
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Warp it with pessimism and cynicism?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:41 AM
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I don't think that's fair to say. I'm a mid 30's man in a relationship at the moment with a lovely girl. I would say the only thing I feel frustrated about is modern dating culture (hookup culture) and the only available women to me for the most part, are women that have had a long list of previous sexual partners and emotional baggage. The girl I'm dating currently is at the wrong side of 30 and time is running out. I'm also frustrated that I wasted time in my 20's not taking a career seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:39 AM
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Why do you say it's made you a worse person?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:34 AM
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If you don't mind me asking, what age are you and how long have you been with your partner before you conceived? Do you have any worries that your marriage won't work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:28 AM
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You don't feel your life will be hollow and empty by 45 when your friends all have kids growing up and you don't have any?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:02 AM
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They are both childless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:56 AM
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This is complete nonsense. I hear men say this all the time on the internet, yet not once have I ever met a friend or colleague say anything like this. In fact, I've heard the opposite many times, that dating a woman in her 30s is better as they have more life experience and will be less trouble. I'm not saying I agree with this neither, I'm just saying that I never have people tell me, or the people around me, to avoid a girl because she's in her 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:55 AM
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No. Men do not typically have more sexual partners overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:53 AM
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I didn't say they could change it easily, I said they can change the situation easier than a man can, due to a much higher number of potential dating partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:41 AM
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Very good points. I think you may be right. A woman has the potential to change her situation much easier and quicker than a man does. And any man who hasn't been married by this stage is derided as a weirdo and that there must be something wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:50 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:16 AM
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I see this all the time about men only starting to reap the benefits of their life in their 30s and I feel this only applies to men who had their shit together in their 20's. Those men that did, in my experience, had a partner during that time and in many cases go onto settle down with that partner. I know more single men in their 30's that don't have a solid career, or life figured out, than men who do, by a large number. I feel guys get a bit carried away when they say stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:09 AM
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Feigning low interest at the start of the dating phase, first while...2-3 months After that period, I found love-bombing workings but not as you describe. You shouldn't be constantly showering her with messages and telling her she is amazing, beautiful, etc. Do that, but limit it. A manipulative way to love-bomb is to say casually "I could see you as a lil baby momma someday" or "I didn't think I'd start to feel towards you like I have begun to" I have found with multiple girls, the mere talk of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:40 PM
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How do you not get enjoyment out of it? Have you ever had sex with a girl you've had a strong emotional connection with? I think sex can be the best feeling in the world, other times it does nothing for me. But mostly, when I have sex with a girl I care about, the sex is great and feels amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:10 PM
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Do you believe all women are engaging in Hook-up/ONS?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:49 PM
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I'm the same. The idea of casual sex disgusts me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:45 PM
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No. I don't condone it, but there is more roadblocks to a man getting sex as he has to convey value in order to get casual sex. A woman doesn't. Pretending it's different is ludicrous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:42 PM
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As in..?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:06 PM
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We'll, I'm not ugly. And I know a few guys from my town who aren't interested in it neither and they certainly are not ugly. So your comment is kinda void.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:03 PM
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What age are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:02 PM
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Would you have an LTR with a woman who has engaged in many hook-ups/One Night Stands?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:58 PM
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200k per year
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:12 PM
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Being known in a community. Having a social media presence, albeit it smallish. But known by people in both social and business groups
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:39 PM
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Let's say a few who he rarely sees, but for most part no social life. Just hobbies of his own
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:28 PM
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Average height, 5'10 Guy 1 - dog or cat Guy 2 - no dog/cat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:27 PM
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The first guy is not a woman's dream man. He has an average income in a boring job and no social life. These are not traits sought after by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:24 PM
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Neither of them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:55 PM
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No social status. Doesn't go out at weekends. Has his own hobbies but doesn't have a social life. Not weird, not uncharismatic. Confident in who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:49 PM
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Introverts tend to be the most interesting people I find. Deep thinkers, have their own interests that no-one else shares. Different views on things to the majority... Though a lot of people would agree with you, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:47 PM
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This is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:45 PM
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Hypergamous women do usually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:43 PM
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His job allows him to travel. He has to travel for business purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:35 PM
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I would argue the good looking introvert with no social status is less able to live life, due to having no social connections/less social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:32 PM
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Why neither?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:29 PM
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What's makes the second guy a sleazebag? All I have given info on guy 2 is that he is fat and bald with tonnes of money and business connections. He might be a nice guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:25 PM
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A guy with an average income with no social status over a high earner with business connections? I say the second guy has first guy beat in most women's eyes (women 30+)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:19 PM
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But in terms of red pill space and the idea of a high value man which women perceive to be more attractive, on paper...which would be a more HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:09 PM
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What?? It's nothing to do with finding other people attractive. You can find people attractive and not sleep with them. I don't even see the point you're making.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 04:56 PM
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How's it cheating if they are actually separated though?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:26 PM
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How am I contradicting myself? I can have engaged in casual sex and in turn, realise sex isn't 'just sex''. I can experience something and find it's not for me. I held these beliefs before trying and testing and it hasn't changed my mind. It just reaffirmed my beliefs. I do have a problem with casual sex. I don't want to hold hands with a woman, take on her dates, invest time and energy into her, to then find she was sleeping with a heap of guys casually. It's disgusting. And while I have issue …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 01:08 PM
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I'm Irish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:15 PM
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I truly wonder how much "Sex is just sex" was said, prior to the sexual free love revolution of the 1960's. Not much, I suspect. The notion that an intimate activity between a man and woman that involves pair bonding and pro-creation is 'just sex' never fails to astound me. How do people actually believe 'sex is just sex'? People are open to have their own opinions regarding hook-ups and casual sex, and I'll have mine. But if I find out a girl I have been seeing, engaged in hook-ups or One Night…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:42 AM
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"Sex is just sex"...yes. It's only the activity between men and women that involves pair bonding and potential for pro-creation. This "sex is just sex" is the stupidest comment I come across in this sub on the topic of hook-up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:31 AM
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I see people say they don't care about N-count..but prefer not to know about who or how many the girl has slept with. So you do care about N-count essentially. You just want to ignore it, as the repercussions of finding out about her N-count means you finding out who and how many she has slept with. And these will likely be people you know, and in turn, will stop you taking her serious as a potential LTP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:15 AM
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How do you meet these women typically? OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:00 AM
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Ridículous statement. If that where the case, why so many fat married men in dead bedrooms? Financial independence is a more appropriate answer to why these men are married, rather than how they can fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 11:00 AM
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Why is it always perceived as single men being awkward loners who live in a basement? I have my own place, car, pretty good paying job for my area, muscular, handsome, 5'10. I'm not socially awkward, quiet yes. But there is so many men like me who aren't married, sometimes through choice, other times because of other circumstances. I see more married men who fit the bill of fat and lazy, than I do of single men who fit the description of incel loners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:49 AM
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Men naturally want to spread their seed to as many females as possible. This is biology. Marriage is a means of ensuring the woman doesn't go promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:40 PM
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Your wife is allowing you to date other women? Are you allowing the same for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:37 PM
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First off, I never said the vast majority do this. Perhaps large minority. Secondly, I'm asking on what's people's take, based of what I'm seeing on my rea life experiences. Third. My 'crew' I hang around - what the hell does this mean? These are girls I have met through social circles, work and OLD. Fourth: women will say one thing usually and do another. So while they will say they don't want to get involved with married/'separated' men, they will do the opposite as it's pre-selected men they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:34 PM
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For the most part we all are. Its not a case of having or not having high regard. It's a case of realising the biological imperatives of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:09 PM
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This doesn't just refer to HMV's who are married though. I seen the guy my ex was involved with. He was short, fat, bald. Admittedly made a lot of money but not a high value male by any stretch. On a looks scale, she was a 7.5/8 out of 10. He was a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:56 PM
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What do you mean 'blow up her spot'?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:48 PM
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That doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:38 PM
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The post is not condoning married men stepping out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:37 PM
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Because the post is to gauge the mentality behind women chasing married men. We know why men step out, as given the option to, almost all men would. Any man who says he wouldn't is lying, or hasn't had the option to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:36 PM
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I couldn't tell if she was a scumbag as she said he was 'separated', yet ended up trying to reconcile with his wife apparently so she ended it before it became an affair. However, I don't know why she said her friends/family never knew about him if she was dating a man that was actually separated. Why was it kept on the downlow? I suspect she was lying entirely. But can't prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:21 PM
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Have you had one?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:15 PM
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I don't think this is correct. I see even the most educated and self sufficient women engaging in affairs with married men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:14 PM
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Because they ask me about my sexual past, so I ask theirs. Plus, there isn't much a girl won't tell you once she's drunk enough. All you gotta do is sit back and let them talk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:13 PM
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I suspect a large minority of women actually want this. An affair is undoubtedly more exciting, than dating someone voluntarily wanting to date you. And women thrive off emotional rollercoasters. These situations lend themselves to satiating their need for emotional highs and lows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 08:11 PM
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What height is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 04:48 PM
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These are not daddy issues. Daddy issues is having a troublesome relationship with your father. These girls see their fathers positively. Completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:55 PM
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I don't agree with this. I see many women with strong father figures around me, who they had great relationships with, and they date fuck boys and losers. While I think it's definitely better to date a woman who has had a strong relationship with her father, I think some people put too much into this theory also.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:52 PM
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Have you done a facial symmetry test online to see how you score? Take a full frontal picture of your face and upload and it will score for you. Completely confidential and will give a good idea of how people perceive your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:43 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, what do you look like? Do you have stats IE; weight, height, hair etc A lot of guys undersell themselves on looks and you may not be as unattractive as you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:28 PM
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Good analogy. I like this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:09 PM
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Ridiculous statement. Women control the dynamic up until they give out sex. Then depending on the guy, they catch feels and it's then they, who are in the passenger seat. The guy they want controls the dynamic and decides if it becomes a relationship or purely casual/FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:23 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:01 PM
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This is a great take. I think you're correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:37 PM
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So true. It's a code female term for 'I was willing to be pump and dumped'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:52 PM
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So true. So bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:51 PM
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A woman not wanting to commit to a guy is much much less likely than a man wanting to commit. Generally, women do not continue to have sex with men they do not see relationship potential with. Guys will happily engage in these set ups because they get sex and can keep the girl on her best behaviour hoping he will change his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:49 PM
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Thats £100000, not dollars. And in UK the median salary is £34k
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:37 PM
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Which is exactly the point I made in my post The woman wanted to tie the guy down and couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:24 PM
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Interesting... ....the girl I'm currently non-exclusively dating has said she's had a few Situationships and that's just sounded to me that she was pump and dumped. But I don't know what these guys looked like. I do know what her ex looked like though, guy was a 3-4 on the looks scale, but made over £100k a year. I'd be very curious to know what these Situationship suiters looked like though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:15 PM
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Many women, and men, will have casual sex they don't deem that physically attractive and just a case of right place, right time, right circumstances. A lot of the time it has nothing to do with looks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:34 AM
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I find it kind of lame that you put a date with a girl you're not seeing, on your Instagram stories. Seems try-hard . Corny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:14 PM
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Lmao so true!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:44 PM
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I just said I don't do it, and have the option to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:36 PM
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You're not addressing my main argument. You're talking about another thing entirely. "The best way to get over someone is under someone else" - this has nothing to do with validation or self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:23 PM
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These women who say this usually have had multiple ONS's
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:20 PM
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I can, and don't. I know many guys who choose not to and they have options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:20 PM
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It's not a valid concept, because the "I only did it for validation" argument is usually followed by them saying "I didn't enjoy it" or "I regret it"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:10 PM
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Never be emotional with a woman if you want the relationship to continue. Don't believe any of the women on the sub saying they want an emotional man. It's bull
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:35 PM
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You're better off in that situation. Your life becomes a lot easier than falling for a girl. I've too become more like this now as I've gotten older. I see nothing special about women anymore, though occasionally I do find myself getting annoyed hearing about a girl's past that I like. That's when I just cut ties as I feel I'm getting too emotionally involved at that point.
/r/seduction13/03/24 03:43 PM
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A woman who engages in Casual Sex is not relationship material. I don't care how feminine, agreeable, non-argumentative and loyal she appears to be. If you have let more than 10 guys inside you without finding a suitable LT partner in any of them, it shows you haven't vetted the men properly or got involved with chads who you knew ultimately would pump and dump you, but you loved the idea of securing a high value man for a FWB/Situationship set up A man engaging in casual sex is different. Men k…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:08 PM
2

Love doesn't exist. The hardest thing to accept as a man, is knowing that the Disney movies you watched as a kid, were a lie. Yes, there is a very small percentage of people who grow old together, love one another and die months apart due to not being able to live without one another. Though, for the vast majority of people, they will not even like their spouse a great deal throughout their lives. Even the virgin who married her first love. Eventually she will grow to hate him. The best part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:49 PM
1

Can you give examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:28 AM
3

I don't understand your post at all to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:15 PM
10

I don't. I only date girls who intend for monogamy. However with the modern women, you can never tell how many they have in their DM's
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:48 PM
0

Fair point. Thanks for the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:39 PM
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But a girl, who had you as her second choice, could act this way around you as you were the second best option. She just couldn't get with the guy she actually wanted but settled for second best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:35 PM
0

Can you give some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:22 PM
1

If she didn't ask what you do for work and agreed to go on a date with you, I'd consider that a positive sign. Shows she doesn't care that much about your income
/r/seduction03/03/24 10:07 PM
1

And with this, comes the issue where with every guy she sleeps with, the less and less chance that guy has of becoming the best she has ever had. Not to mention her decreased lack of potential to pair bond with that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:06 PM
1

Maybe to have multiple partners who have genuine burning desire for only you. A woman who has been ran through won't have GBD for a guy if he's had 20 guys run up in her previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:48 PM
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I don't understand how someone can call themself a red pill man and say they don't care about N-Counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:56 PM
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Bro. This is the game. Play or be played.
/r/seduction02/03/24 05:46 PM
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I don't get involved with those women. I only do this to women I like
/r/seduction02/03/24 05:45 PM
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When you're having sex with them, make it slow sex, look into their eyes, and tell them "you're so beautiful, it's crazy but lately I've been thinking how beautiful you would look with a little round tummy" Watch them melt. Instinct kicks in and they starting falling for you. This only works on girls you've been dating a few months, otherwise it looks creepy and insincere.
/r/seduction02/03/24 05:43 PM
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Like women like about their body count in order to tie men down and mis-lead them? You could argue it's bad behaviour, but modern women are not trustworthy. This is the game bro
/r/seduction02/03/24 05:41 PM
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I've done it before. The pregnancy one. It works. With two girls. It is bad to do but honestly, they get hooked on you and can't keep their hands off you when you mention the possibility of having a baby
/r/seduction02/03/24 05:40 PM
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You can say, I'd love to get you pregnant but I don't feel you're girlfriend material. Mix love bombing with avoidant attachment
/r/seduction02/03/24 05:39 PM
1

Both. Neither are acceptable. High body count is a big red flag to me, as well as others.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 10:54 AM
0

The problem is, I suspect her count is much higher than she is letting on. I don't see how her notch count isn't 25+ with her being mid thirties, attractive, regular girls trips and constantly out partying when she was younger.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 10:46 AM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:05 AM
1

How do you differentiate between realising you're in a girls 'Hell Yeah' category compared to the 'Maybe' category?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:40 PM
1

Drunken and a drink or two is two completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:19 PM
1

Why is a FWB the truest form rather than a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:41 PM
1

So explain the instances where women have 100+ body counts before they are 30
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:36 PM
1

Didn't address any of the instances in my reply where women do sleep with the intent of once-off sex. Go and take more Adderall. Dopehead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:25 PM
2

Bro you're literally saying women don't go out with the intent to have One Night Stands. This is completely false and ridiculous to even think so. Many women in the replies even advised they wanted a ONS for validation/horniness. I also just noted the many instances where they do this, you said they NEVER engage in without intent. Do girls sleeping with random strangers on holiday/weekend getaways have the intent to pursue more with these men? The answer is a clear no. I don't see why you're als…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:13 PM
1

I don't hang around many women. But the ones I have slept with/dated have told me this. And I see these play out in my time working as a bartender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:57 PM
1

This isn't true. Women will go out with the intent on having a One Off sexual encounter in many instances. In particular, on girls trips/ weekend getaways, weddings. These are common instances where girls will go out with the intent to sleep with the guy and never see them again. They are also fond of doing this with married men as a men's of self-validation. The validation they get with sleeping with a married man as a once off is a big turn on to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:54 PM
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Don't agree. Most women have a low body count? Most 18-25 year olds now have had more sexual partners than women in their 50's. Most women aren't having one night stands, but a large amount of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:40 PM
1

I get what you mean now yea. I suppose you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:47 PM
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I've heard women literally set eyes on men and drool at the mouth for chads/alpha males. How is this not burning sexual desire for a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:31 PM
1

Sorry, can you explain the libido of women spiking 2-3 times per year? I've never heard this before. Genuinely interested if this is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:29 PM
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I guess you're right. I suppose I am just grossly turned off by the act of a woman who I possibly invest time and money in, who has had instances in her past where she just opened her legs to a guy she knew literally that day. It's disgusting to me and if I hear a girl has had a ONS before, she is automatically struck off as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:24 PM
1

A man should go to bars or clubs to engage in sex with drunken women who will admittedly lower their standards for ONS's? I don't think men want this type of casual sex tbh. Men want to feel valued. It's not a win having sex with women who only fuck you because they're drunk and horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:15 PM
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But I'm not talking about FWB situation as I have met girls who have openly stated they arranged a one time sex encounter through tinder. It wasn't a recurring sexual arrangement. It was a once off thing and then they never spoke again. I feel this is what's being lost in the debate here a little. Maybe I wasn't clear enough, but I don't interpret ONS's as drunken sex only despite the large amount of them being so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:10 PM
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I think people on here are not accounting for ONS that happen as a result of hooking up on tinder and pre-arranging a no-strings sexual encounter. When you mention ONS to most people they are thinking of drunken sex. ONS can also be sober and pre-arranged by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:21 PM
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I think people on here are not accounting for ONS that happen as a result of hooking up on tinder and pre-arranging a no-strings sexual encounter. When you mention ONS to most people they are thinking of drunken sex. ONS can also be sober and pre-arranged by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:19 PM
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Do you believe any woman who engages in or has engaged in ONS's in the past is easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 02:17 PM
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"Alcohol doesn't show us our true selves, makes us bypass parts of our brains that are there for a reason." I'm too much sure how much of this rings true to be honest. The saying 'A drunk mind speaks a sober heart' comes to mind. People become much more open and honest with alcohol, and I think their actions which they wouldn't engage in sober due to social backlash/scrutiny, will be willing to engage in when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:52 PM
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But with them being drunk, that would be a lowering of ones own inhibitions and allow them to act upon their sexual desire without care, one could argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:37 PM
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Try not to beat yourself up. It's all a part of learning. Never let your feelings be known to a woman. Don't 'open up' Always show you have options Always show you can walk away at any time without a care Don't put women on pedestals. Don't be agreeable. Have your own opinions about things. No matter how strong or radical they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:34 AM
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You have ruined the attraction by saying that no-one finds you attractive. The best thing to maintain attraction with women and keep interest high, is to be able to show you have other options, you are sexually desired and are willing to leave the relationship at any point without a care. You've essentially cock blocked yourself and tbh, you won't recover from this as she will have this in the back of her head from here onwards. An example of this would be, the current girl that I am seeing, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:27 AM
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Good question. Firstly, I'm dating this girl. But I'm not in an exclusive relationship and have made that much clear, I don't want to be tied to a relationship. However, if in the event we did go exclusive, then yes, I would be more than happy to interact with them socially. I'd be happy to go to events and dinners with their friends no issues and could see myself having a good time. Generally, I also seem to get along with women moreso than men. It's not that I don't want to have friends, don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:44 PM
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For dating women, this is a big red flag I would agree. When a girl asks me why I don't go out with friends or haven't gone on stag weekends/lads holidays previously, it's a little hard to tell them that I am introverted since I lost contact with my old friends as they only ever drank or partied. Neither of which I do anymore. But, I wouldn't look down on someone who doesn't have friends. I am quite easy to talk to, charming and confident with women when dating, but the problem with being in you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:39 PM
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