| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 22 | In honor of women's day, a quote by Charles Murray. | Rant/Venting | GraphicSeniorNudity | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 11:49 AM |
| 12 | The importance of being earnest. | GraphicSeniorNudity | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:48 AM | |
| 7 | Red pill sounds so extreme to some because it has to be. | GraphicSeniorNudity | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 11:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | American girl breaks up date when I don't pay for drinksAt every turn in this story you deferred to her authority. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 11:24 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 22where would I go to read about it? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 12:01 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 22You could stand to lose 3, 5 and 6 on that second link. I think the first 3 pics you direct linked are good. Not feeling the about me section at all. I don't really have anything better to add, but what's there seems... idk just odd. >implying women read those anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 11:46 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 22I won't go out of my way to hunt married women but if given the offer no effort required I can't say I'd decline. It's not my responsibility to maintain a relationship I'm not involved in. I do not give a fuck about anything less than married however. It's all fair game. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 11:40 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 22Both. Part of the process is the bitter stage. This serves as a constructive place to rant about things like feminism or slut behavior without being dismissed and downvoted to -78. I couldn't care less if people think we're misogynists. If you want to see directionless woman hate go to r9k or something. Here we at least focus on moving past it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 11:36 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 22searging what is that? google gets me nowhere | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Lay Report: Take the Phone CallProfessional photography is something I'm seeing a lot of these days. What exactly is the process there? In my mind I'm imagining those mall studios that take baby pictures and stuff, I wouldn't even know where to go to find a professional photographer, much less how to take pictures that don't look obviously professionally done. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 11:10 AM |
| 2 | [FR/Question] Women can see right through "fake it til you make it." How to gain authenticity? And more...End up meeting where she suggested First mistake The whole ketchup thing Second mistake oh, are we not splitting this one?" Third mistake So, there may be some debate about this but my personal theory is to never let her chose the place for a first date. Admittedly tinder has altered the game slightly, but I still stick by it. Have multiple places in mind when you ask her out. Have a reason to decline her suggestions. The idea is that you are the one making the plans. The ketchup thing was just … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Girl tells me people close to her just diedI am sure the pain is gonna hit her hard sooner or later. Don't hold your breath. She just used her friends death(s?) as a way to win emotional reassurance and sympathy from you. If something does eventually hit her it will be pain from her loss, not sadness at their passing. As for what you should do, don't do anything. Don't bring it up, don't ignore it, just go with the flow, as they say. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Is Zen Blue Pill or Red Pill?Buddhism is a red pilled religion, if you look at the source and not the mental gymnastics modern progressives do to fit women into it. According to the Buddha Women are incapable of enlightenment, full stop. Buddhism said the same thing a thousand years ago that red pill says today, women have a nature different than men. That nature prevents them from attaining enlightenment. As for the destruction of self and ego, it's something you have to determine for yourself. But cultivating compassion f… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 08:14 AM |
| 2 | I'm in a Women's in Sports history class in my catholic university and I'm wondering how I can voice my opinion without coming across as a jerk.Don't say shit unless your argument is water tight. Building a water tight argument is a lot of work, so I say just shut up and fulfill the requirement. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 07:52 AM |
| 51 | The Roosh meetups are also happening in the States, and people are VERY aware of themThe old red pill switcheroo. The single greatest surge in red pill membership history came as a result of the EveryManShouldKnow subreddit making a post about "why the red pill will kill your soul." I was part of that surge. The feminists, SJWs and blue pillers gilded that post 70 times over. (not an exaggeration) And it was the greatest contribution they have ever made to our humble little subreddit for lo these many years. The best way to get the SJWs to do what you want is to direct their vit… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | No energy for school, reddit-dependent, how do I get out of it?I struggle with the same shitty feeling and procrastination. I had to quit cold turkey and I couldn't trust myself to have the discipline to do it willingly. For reddit I got a weblocker/timer thing. An extension for Chrome called "StayFocused." You can set a timer on it to only allow you X amount of hours on "bullshit" websites. I've got reddit, facebook, your garden variety time waster websites on it. And the nice thing about it is it counts redirects from bullshit websites, so if I follow a r… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/16 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Roosh and his "meetup" PR stunt now driving German media apeshitI've spent the past few days "arguing" with feminists about this on yikyak. It's hilarious. I'm fairly certain there are like-minded trolls among me because they keep posting intentionally butt-hurt things about it to drum up publicity. They did such a good job the posts are now half intentional publicity and half enraged feminists. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Holy fuck, TRP/MRA mentioned in a marvel comic.So, those black bits are the actual text? That's not some shitty tumblr edit? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 10:13 AM |
| 9 | Just found out wife wants divorce and I need adviceShe claims that she just wants to get out as quickly as possible and isn't interested in a prolonged battle over splitting our assets Disregard this, acquire lawyers. She's probably bullshitting you. If she's honestly being sincere her lawyer is still gonna do everything she can to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatI demand morbidly obese barbie. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 07:03 PM |
| 2 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatthe problem though is that most guys tend to fuck anything that lets them. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 07:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you find people/groups that love throwing nice wild parties and drinking when you're out of college?Friends, friends of friends, coworkers. Concerts, specifically of the EDM variety are a good way to get in with the party crowd. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Guys I'm about to give in and call her. . . please talk some sense into me.That will undo everything you have done. All your work up to this point will be for nothing. If you're the first one to talk you give her power over you. You probably know all this already. So distract yourself. Go play a video game, jack off, watch porn, eat, cook, workout, do something that demands your attention. Delete her number. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/16 07:11 AM |
| 2 | PUA's Australian via revoked, due to feminist campaignI can't get my head around what Australia is. On the one hand they hate violent video games and sex, they ban all manner of "controversial" people, and just in general sound like a country run by leftwing nuts. On the other hand there's the whole denying global warming, hating immigrants, and other crazy stories I keep hearing. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on video games?I can't handle them. They are drugs to me. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Flatmate trying to sleep with my girlfriendI recommend you calm down and think about this like an outside observer. You want to put a drug dealer who lives with you into the hospital because he hit on a girl. I'm not even going to try to speculate on the ways this could go wrong for you. Tell him not to do this anymore. Stop living with drug dealers. And for fucks sake take the girl off the pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 08:11 AM |
| 5 | What is the long-term goal for a male red-piller?I think red pill completely overhypes the horror of divorce. It's common as all hell and there are plenty of divorced dudes out there who went on happily living their lives. This is just my philosophy, but I don't like living in fear of what might happen. If I want to do something, have kids, have a family, I'll do it and deal with what might happen when it happens. I'm not gonna let the fucking feminists keep me from having kids if I want to have kids. Plus it's not like you're some idiot love-… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 08:04 AM |
| 7 | what to talk about with girls ?Literally anything. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Horribly off-put by forward women, is there something wrong with me?This is a normal response to "unwanted sluts." It's a cultural response to forward women. Them throwing themselves at you runs counter to everything you've been brought up to believe, and the only conclusion left for you to draw is that this girl is a massive slut. This is another reason reddit is full of idiotic advice because all these nu-males tell girls to ask them out more because it's never actually happened to them and they haven't experienced that visceral feeling of disgust you get in t… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 07:12 AM |
| 2 | How to approach a day at private uni?Anonymity is the crutch of the insecure. Dive headfirst into your new persona and damn the gossip. I can tell you that you vastly overestimate your own importance as concerns other peoples lives. If you do the ass dance and sing the russian national anthem in front of the whole lecture hall while asking out some poor girl in the front row you might become a talking point. Outside of that people have their own shit to focus on. Well connected universities are great for developing social circles. … | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 06:58 AM |
| 6 | Why is TRP so obsessed with feminism?doesn't even impact them Bitch it's the reason this sub even exists. If you can't figure out why that is I don't know what to tell you. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 06:30 AM |
| 2 | What do you do to qualify women on dates?Playfully implying incompetence or leading the witness is my favorite tactic. It immediately sets them on the defensive, they have to qualify themselves, and it counts as a bit of a neg. It's situational and you generally have to be led to it by them, but it's not hard to get a girl to talk about herself. Make fun of something she says or does. It's a bit of an art to not be an autistic asshole about it, but it works wonders once you get a feel for it. More importantly it's not a dry "tell me ab… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Best reply to not look butthurt after rejectionIt's not a big deal unless you make it one, so don't make it one. Treat this like someone saying they don't want to go see a movie tonight. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Us vs ChadIts like the difference between the person James Franco thinks he is and the person he actually is. What Chad ultimately boils down to is "douche." You know it when you see it but good luck defining it. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Looking for advice in career switchI'm gonna need you to clarify as much as you can on the crimes or severity. Being arrested is not a death sentence for a mental health career, especially when you're still in school. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 05:50 AM |
| 2 | My mother is going crazySounds narcissistic. Maybe it's been mild till now if this is a new thing. Regardless, she's alone, scared, clinging to life through people she knows, like you. She's desperately seeking emotional stability anywhere she can find it, seeking familiarity in a new and probably terrifying situation that she brought upon herself. My advice is to button up and ride the storm out. Turn your phone off or silence her calls. Designate time when it's convenient for you to talk to her and call her during th… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Other than TRP, what other subreddits help you?My productive account is only subscribed to the red pill network and fitness and I still spend too much time on here. This website is not conducive to improvement. It gives you good feelings about life because you read some advice or life plan and you think "hell yeah I'm gonna do that" and then you don't do it. It's like talking about going to the gym without actually going to the gym. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/16 02:24 AM |
| 371 | Observed my daughter using/abusing a Beta: She's 11Jesus christ dude get your daughter in check. This isn't a "it's not ok to hit other people sweetie" moment. This is a "your party is cancelled everyone go home" moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 02:16 AM |
| 6 | Gym time is supposed to be my time.She isn't asking for help lifting, she's asking for your attention. Let her touch your penis. Once that's out of the way this will probably stop. If for some reason it doesn't, just stop giving her so much attention in the gym. Wear headphones, get into your lifts and stay there. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 08:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you remain a good person without being pegged as a provider?All "awws" are not created equal. Your "aww" is a good one. A fantastic aww to have. What you don't want are sympathetic or pity "awws." | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Any tips for highschool?Fish for friends with a wide net and sort them according to size. Catch everything you can, but make sure you're keeping good ones. You want to have an "in" to the social events and benefits. Find friends to lift, go to parties, and chase girls with who will challenge you to be a better man, don't just float around in your comfort zone. Lift. Play a sport. Join a club. Go to athletic events. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Fucked upI regret it now. Why? Something better come along? Assuming some other girl that you are more interested in asked you, here is my advice. Honor your commitment to the first girl. Tell the second girl you're already going with X, but ask her out sometime later. Ditching X to go with Y is an ego orgasm for Y and makes you look like a chump, in addition to just being an all around shitty thing to do that'll likely sully your reputation. On the other hand, denying Y in such a way is a massive boost … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 09:38 PM |
| 12 | "I don't suck dick"Celebrity rule. If you were Ryan Gosling would she tell you she doesn't suck dick? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Everyone needs to check out Jocko Willink...rule zero has nothing to do with formatting. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Is crying a shit-test? How do I react?What the shit is wrong with this girl? Is she 9 years old? You did what anyone would do and I think it was the right thing to do. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Should I sit next to her or in front of her?If there's just 2 people I sit across because I need space to eat and move. If it's a group of 4 or more I sit next to her. People who sit next to each other on 4 person tables when there's only 2 of them freak me right the fuck out. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 09:59 PM |
| 3 | How do i respond to something like this, and let her know this is the attitude i want out of her.It's not because I'm trying to impress anyone..or at least not for selfish intentions. Ok but it is. If she was worried about looking good for you she wouldn't look like shit around you. She's giving you a little so she can take a lot. "I just want to make you look better." Which makes you think, "Fair enough." But this is her peacocking for other people. So you dress up for strangers and put on that shit when its me? Good move. Stick with it and if this happens again suck some of the funny out … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Carrie Fisher complaining loudly and fatly about being judged and hitting the wall- "Youth and beauty are not accomplishments"Funny because I just saw her on the "news" saying she lost a lot of weight for this movie because she didn't want to look shitty. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 09:45 PM |
| 8 | Black Knighting as being Deliberately Selfish and Thoroughly Unfair in PublicDeliberately going out and being what you've been led to believe is an "asshole" should be a requirement for the red pill journey. Learning that in almost every situation being the asshole comes with no consequences and gets you what you want. The social shame we've been conditioned to feel is a comically large hurdle made of tissue paper. It looks scary but breaking through it is easy and painless and gets you closer to that thing that you want. It's like getting into a fight and losing in figh… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Musings On The Fiasco Of "Affluenza Boy"his dad's truck. Felony is pushing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Is learning to be a natural a contradiction?It's like sports. When you're first learning you have to be coached and think about how to do it right. Eventually with enough practice it just becomes natural and you can "feel" when something is off. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 08:12 AM |
| 4 | Musings On The Fiasco Of "Affluenza Boy"Cool. But then there's this 20 year sentence from her to a kid who killed 1 person. http://www.star-telegram.com/news/local/community/fort-worth/article3840394.html | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Depression when deviating from routinesI struggled with this for years. It got to the point that I got a prescription for ambien and visited a therapist. I found out about "delayed sleep phase disorder" and before you get excited that's just a fancy name for shitty habits, it doesn't mean you have a sleeping disease. Nothing seemed to work. Now I've got it under control. Here's what I learned. Camping is the best cure. Especially backpacking. But it's the middle of winter so that's likely not an option. Eating is your second best opt… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 07:06 AM |
| 6 | I've started to consistently become the butt of jokes among a small group of friends. How do I change the dynamics here?It depends on the dynamics of the group. All guys give each other shit to some degree. But there can also be a "fall-guy" and you don't want to be him. The first thing is to give as good as you get. Don't just laugh with them, or ignore it. Have a comeback that flips the shit on them. Take time out of your day to give them extra shit. Guys are much more "show, don't tell" when it comes to status. You have to have the status to back up your actions and the best way to do that is to be alpha. Pull… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Beta friend of 7 years tried to beat me up over the honor of a girl he doesn't know.Sounds like he has a serious anger problem more than he has a serious beta/white knight problem. It also sounds like he was drunk, and that he's a violent drunk. I don't think this has as much to do with the girl as it might seem like. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 06:35 AM |
| 5 | Friends Ex-gfI'm confused as to why you contacted a fat, spoiled, crazy, buzz-kill out of the blue. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Holding frame? Mole hill being made into mountainIf she wants to keep bitching about it I would go silent. Reward good behavior, punish bad. Good time for dread game if she really needs to make this a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Holding frame? Mole hill being made into mountainJust keep doing what you're doing. Maybe mention the insignificance of 3 dollars. This raises some flags for me though. It's really weird she would care, even weirder that she'd bitch about it, and distressing that she'd feel it was her place to question such a move. I'm guessing this is about something else, especially considering she said... I'm afraid this is gonna be a problem in the future Moving on. and I think you did it just to spite me. That right there is what this, what all, shit test… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 06:44 AM |
| 2 | The Grade- hilarious feminist appIf they're hot and on dating sites then they're crazy. I stand by my statement. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Mary Sue Awakens *Spoiler Alert*The assumption that a male is incapable is never hung out there simply to be smashed for fan service. I take no issue with capability so long as it isn't used as a soap box for fan service. Lara Croft, the original not this new remake, was a capable woman. She got shit done, without having to prove herself every 37 seconds. She didn't narrate how hard everything she was doing was, she wasn't thrust into circumstances which forced her to overcome or die. She went out and did badass things like a … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 06:19 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your unconventional ways of boosting SMV?no one will ever look positively about your level of knowledge on things like dungeons and dragons or video games This just isn't true anymore. Times have changed. I personally know plenty of successful alpha dudes who openly enjoy things like MTG, anime, and heroclix. They just know to not talk about that and only that all the time. They are well rounded, in-shape individuals who have other things going on in their lives. If you're just spitting game at some girl in a club, yeah, telling her yo… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 06:00 AM |
| 5 | What are some of your unconventional ways of boosting SMV?"Nerding out" on a topic you know a lot about is a great way to establish a sort of power dynamic. Don't be autistic about it and drown people in facts, but showing you know what you're talking about boosts your internal confidence, you're playing a game you know. Plus it gives you the chance to teach the other person something, which puts you in a position of leadership/power. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:35 AM |
| 1 | How to let go of friends?High school friends are like single serving friends from fight club. They serve a purpose in the moment, but most of them die off once you get out of high school. This kinda thing happens to us all. I'd recommend not being so hard on yourself. I've drifted away from tons of friends for no specific reason. I didn't actively dislike them or try to stop being friends with them, it just sort of happened. One day I looked around and thought "whatever happened to that guy?" I've also been on the end o… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:31 AM |
| 2 | AMOG'd at a partyThere's not much I can add that you haven't said. He won, you lost. Reset and try again next friday. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:24 AM |
| 2 | What is the best thing to do if you get doxxed and linked to this sub and other places like it?this is feel good bullshit that doesn't help in the real world where corporate laws are founded on feminist ideals. Good luck climbing that ladder openly admitting your subscribe to red pill philosophy. That's like saying you're a white supremacist, it does you no favors and ruins tons of opportunities. Not caring if your boss thinks you're a dick doesn't change the fact that your boss thinks you're a dick misogynist for being a red pill mens rights activist rape apologist. You have to distance … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:17 AM |
| 11 | Mary Sue Awakens *Spoiler Alert*Queen Amidala, Princess Leia My post from another thread regarding this lazy argument. She wasn't ham fisted. She (Leia) was a woman who could give as good as she got but she was still a woman. She didn't have to prove anything to anyone by doing it all herself or refusing to hold someones hand. She wasn't an awesome pilot or Jedi #2 despite being Anakin's daughter. She was secure in her own skin, she didn't feel constantly victimized by the patriarchy. Rey was at combat with reality 100% of the… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 09:11 AM |
| 75 | Mary Sue Awakens *Spoiler Alert*I like to provide an example of a realistic and awesome depiction of a powerful female character that was not forced into a masculine superman role. Bioshock Infinite. Elizabeth. In the vanilla game she is essential to the plot and makes the entire game possible. She holds remarkable power, but at the same time retains feminine characteristics. She's optimistic, emotional without being a useless crying woman. She Retains her feminine qualities without being a helpless little "princess." She's no… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Shy girl has multitude of orbitersI can't tell if you're asking a question or celebrating your non-sexual conquest. All girls have orbiters. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 07:39 AM |
| 6 | The Grade- hilarious feminist appEverything that isn't tinder is populated by the bottom 10% of the female market anyway. Fucking brilliant marketing strategy they've got. Take 96% of your users and make them invisible. At least Ashley Madison had the sense to send guys fake messages and make them feel wanted. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 07:37 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with a girl that CONSTANTLY gets hit on by other guys?Comedy. I worked retail with an HB10 and this was a daily occurrence. Everything became a joke, take nothing seriously, don't show you're threatened. If you're with her when it happens it's remarkably easy to make the approaching guy's life difficult. If not, there's absolutely nothing you can do to prevent it and showing that it irritates you will not help you at all, so just deal with it best you can and crack jokes at their expense when you can. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Relatively new reader seeking 'oneitis' adviseGive yourself some time to think about her realistically and stop hating yourself for these thoughts/feelings. Meditate on her, rant in a journal, just get it out. But stay grounded and focused on the point of it all. Explore these feelings instead of fighting them and work yourself to a point where you can see why things went the way they went. Don't fantasize, idealize, give in to nostalgia, or scheme, just be present in the moment and explore your thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Advice for a 16 year oldTalk to people in class. I can't remember if high school works on a semester schedule or not. In any case, talk to the people you sit by, especially in new classes, and treat it like a fishing net. Catch everything you can, weed out the useless ones after you've caught them. Don't try to only talk to the "cool" kids and ignore everyone else. Just rate them on social utility and don't actually spend time around the useless ones. Some will catch, some wont, even fewer will be useful. This is why y… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 07:12 AM |
| 0 | What is the best thing to do if you get doxxed and linked to this sub and other places like it?Deny everything you can, delete everything you can, and claim you were just there to troll/investigate the "madness." | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 07:04 AM |
| 3 | "Carry yourself with the confidence of a mediocre white man"What do you think it means? I've pondered it but I'm not sure. Hurr durr durry hurr. I think you're trolling that's what I think. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What if my SMV is so low raising doesn't help?What if I have so little money that making money doesn't help? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 05:27 PM |
| 2 | A plate texted me "I'm thinking you can do better than me." How the heck do I respond to this?Shit tests, as I have come to understand them, always come from how a woman feels. They are the language of emotion. It's how they learn to get someone's feelings out of them without being blunt about it. This is why you'll so often find her getting upset at something you thought was completely unrelated. Some are obvious tests of someones worth like "What kind of car do you drive?" Others, and the far more sinister, are not tests of your worth or character, but tests of your emotions. They're a… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Where do I stand on this Tinder date?From what you've told us in this post it sounds like you were doing great until you closed with a hug and imploded into a small helpless puppy. Escalate. In addition to the basics like don't text her about bullshit, don't get clingy, have abundance mentality, and so on, just escalate. Have some confidence. You're dripping with insecurity even through my computer screen. Stop doubting yourself and give in to the arrogance for a change. In addition to helping you seal deals, taking that jump and e… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Dumbshit GameI kinda thought this was a given and understood. I don't believe 97% of shit tests are intentional "tests," they're simply emotional statements seeking stimulation. Stimulate them wrong and you fail the "test." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 06:59 AM |
| 37 | New York City Tax dollars at work: Study Shows Women’s Products Cost More Than Men'sThere are a ridiculous number of women out there who think tampons should be free. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 06:54 AM |
| 1 | What's the TRP consensus on smiling?Don't do it on purpose. Don't not do it on purpose. Grinning idiots are laughable, people who walk around deliberately looking pissed off all the time are laughable. If you wanna smile smile. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:18 AM |
| 5 | Got STD, confronted her, then got msg that "she had found out herself and had been treated, she just didn’t tell me because she was worried how I would react". To sue or not to? Question inspired by other topic.Unless this has set you back with expensive medical bills, good luck building a case. Wrap your dick up next time. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Situational. If she has a boyfriend? (Need openers/transition advice)The idea is not to trick her the idea is to bang her, and you cannot fool someone into sleeping with you. Let her think something is up and do with that information what she will. She might surprise you. "I have a boyfriend" is not important. Those are words not actions. Let her stop talking to you if she's so concerned about her boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Feminist overtones in Star Wars: The Force AwakensShe wasn't ham fisted. She was a woman who could give as good as she got but she was still a woman. She didn't have to prove anything to anyone by doing it all herself or refusing to hold someones hand. She wasn't an awesome pilot or Jedi #2 despite being Anakin's daughter. She was secure in her own skin, she didn't feel constantly victimized by the patriarchy. Rey was at combat with reality 100% of the time. Always on the defensive, cocked up like a spring just waiting for someone to challenge … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:03 AM |
| 8 | Help handle current gf!You're too attached to do anything effectively. Get comfortable with losing her or nothing we tell you to do will work. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 05:46 AM |
| 59 | A plate texted me "I'm thinking you can do better than me." How the heck do I respond to this?Insecurity shit test. A good way to break these down is to ignore the words and determine the meaning/goal. Here she feels insecure in her plate position. She wants you to give her validation and security by saying something emotionally reassuring like "No way, I am the lucky one! ;P xoxox" Obviously don't do that. Tell her you're dating taylor swift or miss columbia but they're away so often you need someone closer to home to pass the time with. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Rule Zero: The MissionI agree for no other reason than it can sour the comments and opinions offered by contributors that would otherwise be respected. Red pill knowledge is red pill knowledge, but knowing that someone swings for X candidate alters the readers perception of them to such a degree that the idea itself can fall into question, not because it is a bad idea but because of the person who said it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 05:29 AM |
| 35 | I swear, every day I'm more amazed by how dead on TRP is. Holy fuck.b-but this isn't a hookup! She said so right there in the text! She wants something more! /s | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 08:52 AM |
| 3 | SPOILERS GALORE: Red vs Blue in Star Wars: The Force AwakensI have to believe that she was training with Luke when Ren went bonkers and killed everyone. But for whatever reason survived and lost her memory, thus her whole dreams/visions thing of waves and parents who are supposed to come back. So she had some rudimentary understanding of the force and saber combat, thus her "innate" ability in this shit. Otherwise it's just stupid how easily she found not dying and flying ships. Her knowledge of the falcon makes me lean towards the long lost daughter tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 08:48 AM |
| 2 | We outgrow our mothers, but not our fathers.Spot on man. Right around the time I hit my 20s I realized every time I asked my mother for advice or help I got the opposite. My dad was right about everything and I wish I'd listened to him earlier. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 08:24 AM |
| 60 | I swear, every day I'm more amazed by how dead on TRP is. Holy fuck.k | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 08:14 AM |
| 3 | What to do for winter break and the second semster of freshman year in college.My next goal is to have people around me everywhere I walk, that way I don't have to be the fucker eating alone in the dining hall. Another goal is having a group of friends I can go to places at night with so I don't have to go alone. This is why freshmen get laughed at. The dining hall is not your high school cafeteria, nobody gives a fuck if you're eating alone, walking alone, going out alone. Once you get off the training wheels of freshman year you will start to see why. It stops being a ch… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Why is this girl with this guy?Why do women stay with pussy whipped husbands? Red pill doesn't claim to be the only way to get a girl. I see beta relationships all the time where the woman holds all the power. They're not rare. They're just horrifying to look at. Also, you're looking at this from far outside their relationship and making a lot of assumptions. Doing some simple goofy shit like walking her to her class could stand in contrast to how this guy behaves normally. Lack of what you think is style might mean he is bos… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 07:24 AM |
| 3 | What sort of dudes get these kind of top girls?Maybe I'm just completely pedalistng them. Yep, you are. I get where you're coming from but high SMV women are still women, and women are sexually malleable. Men on the other hand are not. For example, women don't have fetishes, men do. This leads you to believe that women have the same unchangeable requirements for a mate as men do. But women adapt to their sexual environment, and men stick with what they like. If you observe high SMV women you'd see how crazy it seems. "Is she really going out… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 07:16 AM |
| 10 | Coworker trying to amog at work.Don't do it. Completely fucking ignore everything this guy says and get your duties from an actual manager. When shit doesn't get done it'll be on him. He'll either have to say "I told X to do it" to which management should say something like, "that's not your fucking job." Or he'll have to take the fall for it entirely. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 08:50 PM |
| 38 | How do you get the woman to split the bill?Last night drinks cost me $33 and I didn't even get a kiss. Stop buying shit for women who haven't earned it. You have to be willing to accept being called an asshole and never seeing her again. Once you learn to live with that, you can tell her she's paying for her shit and not give a fuck what she says or does to get out of it. If she's worth your time she'll happily split the bill. If she gets upset you know it's better that you avoid her. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 08:45 PM |
| 4 | France Bans "Excessively Thin" ModelsOn a slightly related note, has anyone else noticed how being "not fat" is now a desirable trait in women when it used to just be normal? I'd have to say that about 45% of the women I see on a daily basis are deal-breaker fat. You know what I don't see? Women who are deal-breaker skinny. So I think we might be fighting this war on the wrong side of the scale. It's like banning body building because of a skinny bitch who can't bench the bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 08:38 PM |
| 1 | "How old are you"Yeah they do it's called talking to the police. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 08:06 PM |
| 0 | "How old are you"Dance around it with your common shit test responses. This happened to me in a situation where I couldn't lie/deflect it and it really hurt my chances. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 10:13 PM |
| 3 | I think I've made a huge mistake. Planned a trip with my family and LTR's familyAre you like the guy everyone picks on in your family or something? What's the problem with holding frame around them? I'd try to get away from them as much as you can, keep conversation light and uninvolved. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | LTR got in a physical fight with her ex's current gfMy first thought is , that facebook post is retarded, grow the fuck up. Tell her this. She might yell and scream but it needs to be said. Don't be mad be disappointed. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Physical oneitis symptomsThe reason I say this is because when oneitis is bad enough to show physical symptoms it means your head is in a fucked up place, and it doesn't know that because it's in a fucked up place. I think taking the holidays off to reset is a good idea. I wouldn't contact plates, feel free to respond if they contact you but I'd say I'm busy with holiday stuff or something. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Physical oneitis symptomsSame damn thing happened to me man, it's crazy right? I can't recall anything that really fixed it. It just sort of went away eventually. I did make horrible mistakes while this was happening though so I would strongly recommend going monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Your personal opinions on Mark Manson?Isn't that the guy who's ex got fucked by that other guy while he was in spain and he sent him a picture of her on his bed and it was a whole thing for like 3 maybe 4 hours? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 11:03 PM |
| 2 | How to keep friendships during/after a break up?Stop involving her in the activities you do with the group and establish yourself as something beyond an accessory to her. In other words, cut her out and put yourself in. Separate some group members from the herd and do stuff with them. Go to bars with guys, invite smaller numbers of them along to things, don't hang out with them all at once. Do what you can to build a relationship with them beyond the group level. Get on good terms on an individual level with as many of them as you can. Keep h… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 11:01 PM |
| 199 | LPT gives Blue Pill advice on "What to do when your partner has a crush"Yo listen up here's a story about a little guy who lives in the blue world, and all day and all night and everything he sees is just blue like him, inside and outside. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Coworker issue, I am unsure how to proceedI think you're doing ok now. It sounds like you pulled yourself out of orbit which is good. You shouldn't be flat out ignoring her but you also shouldn't be orbiting her, and that seems like right where you are. If you had to lean one way or the other, ignoring her more often than not is the safer bet. Just keep doing what you're doing. She might try to get you back into orbit by being overly nice or something, so be prepared for that. Stick to the red pill tenets and you'll do fine, you might e… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Utterly confusedTL;DR. Try boiling this down to one or two problems you want advice on and come back. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Am I missing out on something by not drinking?What are you mormon? "Bad rep"? Nobody becomes an alcoholic from one night of drinking. It's hard work and you have to be committed to it. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Opinions on the current front page post about your partner having a crush on someone else?Let's take this same advice and apply it to something easier to understand. How to fight a fire. 1) Make sure nothing is on fire. 2) Don't set things on fire 3) Don't set fire fighting equipment on fire. 4) Set off some fireworks. 5) If there is a fire, don't fight fires with gasoline. Let's break it down a little more. 1) The first step in fighting a fire is to make sure nothing is on fire. Since you're reading a guide about how to fight a fire this is redundant advice that does not apply to yo… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 10:06 PM |
| 36 | [FR] Beta white knight set on fireYou've misunderstood. Obviously he's wrong. But from the context of blue pill society he's been conditioned into, in no small part by the very women he defends, he's right about everything he says. If OP posted this story anywhere else he'd be labeled a player, a douche, a pickup artist, an asshole, etc, etc ,etc. Reddit would guild 9 times over the first poster who said "don't be like this guy." | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 08:37 AM |
| 10 | Wife blames Husband for cheating on him, and getting pregnantGood luck kid. Here's hoping you get a decent male role model in your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?I'd send them in the same text if you absolutely feel you must send one at all. Asking her about the weather isn't gonna do anything for you that just straight up asking her out won't. She didn't give you her number to make small talk, and you didn't ask for it to make small talk, so stop bullshitting around. Small talk is for the first date conversation anyway, best to keep it in you pocket. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?Well depending on what you said and how you said it, it still might not have warranted a response. This is why the no bullshit, planning only rule is important. Having a directionless conversation more often than not leaves you in the waiting room. I'd ignore this incident and just start over with a direct planning message at some point in the convenient future. Like, at least a few days. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 08:07 AM |
| 2 | After TRP, I realize how Beta I really was..My logs and journals went so far back I could compare blue pill me with red pill me and actually see when shit started working. It was incredible to see and the cringe became so much more apparent. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Confused by girls actions. What can I learn/conclude?I hope we hadn't distracted her too much That text doesn't really warrant a response. Especially if it isn't noticed until later. Everything seems to be in order here. You done good. Don't overthink it too much. Think of it as one less opportunity to lose frame. Immediately after getting the number is risky business, you're excited and want validation. It's lucky she forced you to slow down, I think. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Parents' relationship falling apart after decades. Standard TRP. I need advice to weather this storm.Get him involved in some productive hobbies with you. Exercise, sports, outdoorsman stuff, woodworking, something that gets him out of the house and is beneficial to his health, be it mental, physical, spiritual, or all three. Retirement is hell. My parents have a similar problem except it's my mom who retired and blames how bored she is now on my dad. But in the end you can't live his life for him. If he'd rather do what she says than fight about it, let the man. Also, never underestimate your … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:47 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Beta white knight set on firemost salmon die before mating. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 07:31 AM |
| 6 | sending an hb10 a message. is this good enough?hope your exam went off well, so when would you like to schedule coffee. hahahahahahahahahaha. What's funny about that? Delete every single fucking "haha" you ever think about sending from this moment on for the rest of your life. If she sends you the funniest joke/story/snap you've ever seen say "that's really funny," or "I can't stop laughing" but never ever send another "haha" text. It is doing nothing but projecting insecurity. To begin with you've given her too much power by asking "do you … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill limbo: How to deal?In other words you read all the things, understand the philosophy, and you know what you have to do, you just don't do those things. Do you have you gym and nutrition game up to par? Do you make an effort to practice game and spin plates? Have you cut shitty habits out of your life and replaced them with productive ones? What are you not doing that you really should be? Go and do that thing. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Growing upPretty standard "well what the fuck do I do now?" feeling. I don't know man. All I can tell you is I never found an answer to that question. I've been seriously asking myself what I was doing for about 8 years, made pretty much no progress in that regard. The only way I've managed to accomplish anything is to stop thinking about it. Just pick a direction and go. Stop thinking about what you might do could do should do and just do something. When I fall into a "wtf am I doing with my life?" state… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I am well into TRP but sometimes get bouts of intense rage. How do I control it?I've been through the anger phase but never had anything like this... I don't really know what to tell you. What exactly is your rage projected at? Where does it come from? What aspect of your personality is fueling it? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 06:50 AM |
| 83 | [FR] Beta white knight set on fireThe best part is he's not "wrong." He had you pegged from the minute he saw you and he feels like he's taking crazy pills because he's so conditioned into blue mentality. You are everything "evil" and he is everything "good." It's fucking magical how socially retarded women are to this shit though isn't it? I still, after all these years cannot determine if they're legitimately that fucking oblivious or if it's all an elaborate ruse. In some cases it's pretty clear women are just using a guy as … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Help Me Nail the Hottest Match I've Ever Gotten on TinderThe same way you would handle an average girl you don't really give a shit about. This is red pill 101. Do not, under any circumstances, give her special hottie treatment. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop being annoyed by the perceptions of The Red Pill everywhere else on Reddit?Eh it's ok. It's like life pro tips with a bit of man spin. Most of it is that stupid "internet advice" clickbait that's o so popular these days. But every now and then something interesting comes along. The comments are pretty worthless and generally people arguing about why they don't need to know this. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Ex-lazy fucks who are now hardworking, how did you do it?How did you kick video games? I really need to but I've invested so much fucking money into this habit that I feel stupid just throwing them out. I quit them from time to time but always end up coming back. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop being annoyed by the perceptions of The Red Pill everywhere else on Reddit?/r/everymanshouldknow | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Proper way to handle being stood up by friends?Being in that position is poison to you. You have no control over your social future. Get out of social welfare and start working for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop being annoyed by the perceptions of The Red Pill everywhere else on Reddit?There's no such thing as bad publicity. I was brought here by an EMSK post about how horrible this place is. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Turn on Read Receipt on your Smartphone.This is accomplished without read receipts and looking needy. Not responding already accomplishes this. She sent it, now let her wonder if you read it, or if you're doing something more interesting than talking to her. If she gets a read receipt right when she sends it and you don't reply for 3 hours it kills that illusion. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 09:03 PM |
| 1 | White knighting is gradually decliningI agree to a certain extent. I think the advent of social media was a serious wake up call for a lot of dudes. Our generation was the first. We went through our awkward myspace and facebook stages where we didn't know what to do. Here, for the first time in ever, women we knew and were interested in were posting photos and thoughts on this network where we were encouraged to like, comment and talk with them. So what did we do? Try to get their attention in every way possible. It's still around, … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 08:55 PM |
| 2 | i have fallen in love with a hooker. what do i do?You know what you have to do, it's just a matter of doing it. Stop it. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl, was rejected, moved on. 6 months have passed, she got back in touch and seems interested, but I've been hesitant. Help?Without knowing the particulars, that "rejection" sounds more like a shit test to me. Escalate. Don't give up at the first "wait, wait slow down." If she keeps playing it dumb flip the pressure on her and tell her you have better things to do. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Curious to hear your thoughts on this situationWhy not? It's a casual meet up anyway, best to keep it social and fun, and a night out drinking with friends is exactly that. Maybe she'll bring a friend for your friend. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/15 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What's something simple and concrete I can do every day to improve my chances of success?Initiate a conversation for no reason with someone every day. It doesn't even have to be a hot girl. Just be person A in the A-B conversation. A - "Hey, how's it going?" B - "Pretty good, you?" A - "Great. (insert topic of conversation here)" This does a few different things. First it gets you out of your comfort zone and talking. Second, it puts you in control of the conversation. Position B is a passive position. Most of the time they are at the mercy of person A if they care at all about not … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/15 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Shit test or no? and how to beat it4chan is wrong. She is comfort zoning you. Your dick is compromised and is making you think she wants to invite you over and fuck you. That is not what she's doing. Don't give in. Don't hang out with her on her terms because you entertain some fantasy about fucking her. She wants emotional comfort, validation, attention, but not dick. She has dick. She's talking about throwing dick away. Clearly this is not about dick. If this was about anything other than crying on your shoulder she would go ou… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/15 07:50 AM |
| 6 | Discipline and the Value of DogsIf I didn't live in a shitty little apartment I would get a dog this instant. You can tell a lot about a person by the way their dog behaves, they behave around dogs. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 07:31 AM |
| 2 | "You're a misogynist!" Using Verbal Judo to counter a common and usually unjustified attack. [FR/Theory]You're getting a lot of hate in these comments and I don't know why. I think this is great. It's not always the best play to just ignore these kinds of conversations. It usually happens in a group of people when one woman decides to pick a fight with you for whatever reason. Clamming up, ignoring her, or shifting the conversation is not holding frame, it's jettisoning an escape pod and the people you're with will notice. If it's just some random cock blocking friend, then yeah who gives a fuck a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/15 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Girl at club said "nice shoes" to me and laughed to every joke I told. Does it mean IOIs?If you're left asking this question you've done something wrong. If in the moment you think something could be an IOI you should be pursuing that and getting a definitive answer. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Do I say anything else or hard next?Is this over snapchat or something? I'm guessing as much since you know she hasn't seen it. If so, it is within the realm of possibility that she doesn't know you sent another message. It happens to me all the time in chat. Maybe it's just because I suck at snapchat, but I miss messages all the time. The reason I say this is only because you say she hasn't read it. Flaking is a reality, but I wouldn't think she'd flake on something she doesn't even know about yet. I'd wait until after the weeken… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 10:14 AM |
| 6 | RP Advice for high school.If you haven't already, develop a lifting/nutrition habit. High school is a good place to practice game. Most people are still awkward and unsure of themselves so in a lot of ways it's more forgiving than "real" life. And don't talk about red pill with anyone. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Women are getting paid to sign up for TinderSounds like bullshit to me too. Who paid her? How? Why? I have no reason to believe her. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Brothers, need some tough love.Low T maybe? I don't think you'd be able to do all of that if depression was the cause. Maybe it's some goofy medical problem. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 02:44 AM |
| 1 | "I love you", it's coming....Read this. Read it again if you've already read it. Determine what her SMV is. What your SMV is. And where you both are relative to one another. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I feel bad about getting rid of my cat.If you can't put up with a cat how will you ever put up with a woman? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Plating the former affair partner?Jesus OP take her to a bathroom or a parking lot and fuck her silly. This is the shit romance novels are sold on. You don't need 45 minutes of loved soaked passion on a bed covered in rose petals. Make it raw and gritty. Fuck in the broom closet on your lunch. This is a real life fantasy. You're living the dream. Take control and I promise she will follow. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Sometimes the pill can be a satisfying DISGUSTbit of blue bit of red you get purple. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 01:56 AM |
| 14 | Contradictions in TRP philosophy or not?Oneitis is a warped vision of reality. This is like saying "Buddhism is concerned with happiness, so shouldn't you just do what you want when you want and be hedonistic?" That does not bring you happiness. Just as oneitis does not bring you the girl. Wanting a girl is not a bad thing. Obsessing over her is a bad thing. Playing Fallout 4 for an hour is not a bad thing. Playing Fallout 4 for 12 straight hours is a bad thing. Not to mention the fact that giving into the mindset of oneitis will ruin… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 05:58 AM |
| 1 | No excuse is okay; Things need to change - Feedback pleaseThis sounds like the song of modern civilization. You're alive, now what? It seems to me like you need a goal. A clearly defined, achievable yet difficult goal. "Do better with women" is not that. So for the sake of example lets refine that down into possible goals. If doing better with women is the result you want, what do you have to do to achieve that? Standard red pill advice, boost confidence, improve body, practice game. In order to boost confidence you have to accomplish things which make… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 05:39 AM |
| 8 | Hormones, not just a female issue.I've wanted to get this done for years now. I'm utterly helpless when it comes to medical shit. Is this something I can just walk into any general clinic and request? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Two lessons: Never change because of a woman dumping you, and never take advice from women either (FR)Because best case scenario it's like using a screwdriver instead of a drill. Or a hand saw instead of a table saw. Still gets the job done, but not as fast, can't handle as high a work load, but demands the same labor costs. Not to mention the additional annoyance of maternity leave, workplace relationships, sexual harassment cases, the much higher turnover rate due to women wanting to take care of their kids. More often than not they are terrible managers and not well suited to leadership posit… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Every job I want to do is traditionally for women, but I am a straight man. Why am I like this? How can I retain my self-respect and respect of peers? How do people realize the fullest potential of themselves or deal with never figuring out what that looks like?It always does, but I guarantee you'll be surprised what an effect it has. It won't solve all your problems, but it will make you feel more capable of solving them. Physically and mentally you will feel better. I also wanted to tack on that the world needs more male teachers. It's a real shame it gets labeled as "Women's work" because it's really important. I much prefer male teachers, even clear back in elementary I recognized this. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Every job I want to do is traditionally for women, but I am a straight man. Why am I like this? How can I retain my self-respect and respect of peers? How do people realize the fullest potential of themselves or deal with never figuring out what that looks like?This is a thick post. There are a lot of issues here so my advice is to prioritize them. She wants me to be more masculine but it's not like she likes muscly dudes or sports or anything like that. And you think sports illustrated models are hot but don't require women to look like them to date them. But would you complain if one did? Hit the gym. You'll feel better, you'll look better, you'll have more energy. This is step 1. Everything else comes after. Secure your oxygen mask before helping ot… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have a link to the documentary entitled "the red pill"that documentary has nothing to do with what we here call the red pill. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 08:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with flirting ex's in public?He was right. Walking away without acknowledgement is probably the greatest acknowledgment you could give her. Don't be a bitch about it. Don't give her emotional power over you. Be polite and talk for a second like you would to an old coworker or schoolmate. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 12:51 AM |
| 11 | How to escalate? [Middle School]First of all, let me just say I envy you. Having red pill knowledge in middle school would have been amazing and life changing. How about "hey" or "hello, this is your name here"? It's not that complicated. What escalation means is not spending 45 minutes chatting about nothing and dancing around the fact that you want to take her out. Don't get lost in meaningless conversation. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 12:47 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with insults that cut right to your soul?Let it burn. Bask in it. Think about why this insult hurts so much. What does it represent or threaten that concerns you so much? Boil it down to the basics, and you'll see it is trying to tell you something. For example, "I felt bad because I crave social acceptance and this took me back to a time when I was completely rejected by 3 different groups." Maybe you do maybe you don't, just an example. Then you can focus on detaching your self worth from social acceptance. Basically, mindfulness. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 12:34 AM |
| 1 | I'm a young kid working at my father's office, how can I be taken more seriously?Well the first step would be to define your position. What are you? Where do you fall on the pecking order? Do you have authority over anyone? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 12:17 AM |
| 3 | My wife tried to eat my food and I defended it, WTF just happened?Depriving themselves of something in protest is a common tactic. It's hunger strike mentality. She'll say "watch whatever you want" and be pissy that she can't watch her show, the silent treatment, "I just wont participate." It might have a red pill term associated with it but I can't recall one. Basically it's a bet that their participation in the event or their happiness is important to you, so when they sit on the ground and pout you will give in and say "alright, watch your show." Or apologi… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | LTR having 21st birthday. Do I even want to be around?Isn't going to a birthday party something that's kind of required in a LTR? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/15 12:03 AM |
| 2 | How do I respond/hold frame to Insults on my appearance?They're just intimidated by your beard. Invite them to touch it. What I'm saying here is take nothing serious. Give as much as you get. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Schedule maker for monk modeSchedules can be helpful but don't overdo it. I find it's a lot easier to have a daily requirement for a lot of things rather than a set schedule. Go to the gym whenever rather than go to the gym at 4:30. You tend to settle into a natural one anyway as everything lines up with everything else. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl I hooked up with last night hit me with an unexpected question."Well your (sexual position) is better than hers, but she gave the best back rubs..." Agree and amplify to the point of absurdity. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 04:07 AM |
| 5 | My (23m) ex (21f) that never appreciated me is posting interesting things on Facebook.Realize that if you ever have any chance with this girl nothing about what you think you should do will ever win her heart. You're motivated by wanting her around right? So stop doing shit that ruins your chances. Obsessing over her, responding to her bullshit, crying, all of it is effectively castrating you. Following red pill is your only hope of being with her again. And it's what you need to do anyway. Win-win situation. If she wanted anything to do with you she knows how to contact you. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Girl I'm gaming got sick pretty bad. Should I show concern? If yes, to which extent?Reply to her at your convenience (aka deliberately wait a while) provided she contacts you first. Don't message her some shit like "Awww fell better soon XD xoxoxo" Does she have ebola? Is she in ICU? I'm beginning to get some thoughts like texting back with a "holy shit" shouldn't be done because the message I'm supposed to send to the girls is that I've been around the place and seen some shit. Am I on the right track? I don't know what the fuck this even means. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 02:42 AM |
| 12 | My (23m) ex (21f) that never appreciated me is posting interesting things on Facebook.Jesus. Defcon 2 man you need to delete her number, block her on any and all social media, cut all contact, stop lurking her profiles and move the fuck on. You know it, I know it, she knows it, anybody who reads this post knows it. Rip that bandaid off fast. Is this girls an alpha widow? Who cares. Should I contact her now and ask how she's doing? Absolutely not. Is she an attention whore? Yes, always. Am I an idiot for being in love with her? Your words not mine. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Is prior rapport really that significant?am I just making this up? Pretty much. This is the language of anxiety. Stop dwelling in the land of what if and go out and get shit done. Don't plan every word, have an overall strategy and do what you can to achieve that goal through action. Don't try to manipulate emotional reactions and lessen the risk, let emotional reactions happen and wade through them. If she thinks it's weird that you're suddenly so forward let her tell you that, don't try to guess, and then keep going after what you wa… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 02:27 AM |
| 2 | GF told me that her best friend told her that "I'm not going to age well" (20M) after a discussion between the two of themMen age like whiskey, women age like bananas. You're way too invested in what some random bitch thinks. And you're hearing this second hand, out of context. Think about why she would say this. It's never just about saying words, it's about conveying emotions. She said this to your girlfriend, is she being jealous is she trying to steal you, is she being a crab in the bucket, is she trying to raise her own value? This could mean any number of things none of which are "he won't age well." | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Monk mode or improve approaching game?You sound like you have a good understanding of where you're at. I can't really answer this question for you. Both are important goals. But I'm leaning towards getting over approach anxiety first. The true effects of "monk mode" might be lessened if it becomes a way to just avoid approaching. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | sore muscles, shouldI train?To your original question, it's all about range of motion. If you're so stiff that you can't raise your arms above your head or do a pushup without feeling like you're gonna tear something, then chill for a day. But you should be working alternate muscle groups every day as it is. So if your arms are sore, you work legs, and vice versa. Consistency is more important than intensity when you get back on the horse. Once your atrophied ass gets used to moving again go crazy, but hitting it hard on d… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | All Ads Lie. All Ads Deceive. - "Truth & Advertising" on South Park.A male or genderless robot would not have been able to pull off the same thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 01:22 AM |
| 7 | Girl coming to my house with friend, how to get girl alone?So your plan is to what? Leave his girl sitting in your living room while you go fuck her friend? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Girl coming to my house with friend, how to get girl alone?Well the first thing I would do is tell my friend the plan so he can help me out. Assuming he is that kind of friend. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Looking for some RP opinion on my situationMy dilemma is that I don't want to be the one to trigger her down the path of the CC What I heard It sounds like you're trying to be captain save a hoe. You're still putting her on this pedestal like she's some precious thing that has to be protected. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Best friend's girlfriend keeps reading his messages, answering his phone. Do I do something?Watching your friends fall into the beaten down beta position in a relationship is fucking rough man, but there's not a damn thing you can do about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 01:16 AM |
| 10 | A history with escortsThis is a secret you take to your grave. Nothing good will come of it. Even if you're dating the most amazing wonderful understanding unicorn woman to ever live, telling her can only harm your relationship, not better it. There's no reason she needs to know. There's no reason anyone needs to know. And even if it wasn't about hookers... Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual exp… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 12:59 AM |
| 1 | How to keep frame in family gatherings? Need advixe and help.Family frame is really difficult to change because these people are closest to you and will likely be crabs in the bucket when you try to change. The old you is the you they know so when you suddenly start acting a different way their gonna think it's weird. My advice is to go overboard with it, be exceedingly obvious that you are changing as a person. A big lifestyle shift and time away from them is ideal for something like this. Going to college, spending a summer away from them, training for … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/15 12:54 AM |
| 1 | All Ads Lie. All Ads Deceive. - "Truth & Advertising" on South Park.They pulled this directly from the movie Ex Machina. So I don't think so. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 12:44 AM |
| 2 | All Ads Lie. All Ads Deceive. - "Truth & Advertising" on South Park.This whole "Leslie is an ad" thing is a direct parody(?), use(?) of the somewhat recent movie Ex Machina, which I cannot recommend enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 12:43 AM |
| 2 | How Blue Pill thinking turned me into a misogynistYou've nailed it. There is no better way to lose respect for someone than to watch them fail to live up to what you think is a standard of behavior. This is a deeply ingrained social behavior. You see the same thing culturally, when cultural norms clash the tendency is for people to look at the weird shit "they" do with apprehension and disgust, because of the way we look at the world. We assume other people are similar to us, when they fail to meet a standard we think is important or basic we l… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 05:11 AM |
| 16 | Y'all Need to Watch Bill Burr.The whole idea of "sleeping in the doghouse" was always baffling to me because my parents were never that way. If my mom was upset she'd sleep in the other room, if my dad was snoring too loud she'd sleep in the other room, if someone was sick she'd sleep in the other room. He didn't give a fuck and never had to tell her what to do, it was just known that he slept in that bed every night regardless of anything else. But this isn't something you can just one day start doing or you're likely to ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 05:09 AM |
| 2 | How to deal, IRL and online. with people(male and female) who aren't humble/brag?If it's in your wheelhouse talking to people about these things they bring up is a great way to expose insecurity. If you're jockeying for status or something and somebody humble brags about their gym experience start talking to them about their routine. If they were serious about it they wouldn't feel the need to humble brag like that, so it's only a matter of time until they slip up and try to lessen the sting by being self-deprecating, admitting their own ignorance, or throwing out a shit tes… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 01:27 AM |
| 3 | U.S. military ignores Marine Corps studies and press forward with allowing women into direct combat rolesWatch this The event itself is largely unimportant. Her behavior in this video is what's important. It starts around 2:18 Keep in mind she is a member of the military. And combat role or not they all still go through basic. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 01:12 AM |
| 2 | "The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1"Shit tests are tough for me. I never feel quick enough on the uptake, but here goes the first thing that popped into my mind. Player is not a big enough word. I am the golden god! Well, I mean, it is pretty hard to talk to somebody without saying that… Shit. I listened to Drake today… If I get two more the next one’s free! I can’t lie to you. I’m having an affair with Taylor Swift. We’ve kept it hidden for so long but I don’t care anymore, I want the world to know about our love. Are you not? La… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 12:15 AM |
| 6 | Plate asked if I'm banging other girls, I said yes and she's admitted to banging other dudes. No worries, we're not committed, but she wants to know how frequently? Should I over or under exaggerate this? (it's not that often)dread game ≠ telling her how many girls you're fucking. Let the implication be made that you do work, but don't get specific. Her imagination is your best friend. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 11:06 AM |
| 61 | Woman doesn't understand why her boyfriend wouldn't want his future daughter to be a slut because she found it 'empowering' to have threesomes in her 20's.Of course the lesson here is not to get into these kinds of discussions with women. "Do these jeans make me look fat?" "How would you feel if our daughter sucked 37 dicks?" Neither of these questions are seeking an answer, they are seeking emotional reassurance. She doesn't care about the daughter, she cares that you don't think she's a slut for sucking 37 dicks. The daughter is just a delivery method for the question. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 09:57 AM |
| 2 | An honest question regarding anger and notions here... If I may.soon everything will become clear If you try harder I'm sure you can get the whole rainbow in there. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Status anxiety; can I do anything to minimize it's effect while on the RP path?Can't speak for anyone else, but quite often I'm screaming inside. Nobody knows this though. They can't read my mind and unless I shit myself they'll never know. Maybe the time eventually comes when every situation is within my comfort zone, but until then I stick to my training and project what I want, while my brain starts screaming and running around in circles. Do I slip up? Absolutely. There are some intimidating people out there that I'm not gonna be able to hold frame on simply because I … | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Just found out my new girlfriend has pretty much been alpha widowedListen to this Then realize you must be doing something right because patterns repeat. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Unavoidable meeting while on No Contact - how to handle?No contact is no longer possible, but that doesn't mean this can't work to your advantage. Treat her like a woman you know, but have no romantic history with. Don't even put her on your radar. flat out reject the hug? (Guess this might reek of beta butthurt?) He can be taught! If she hugs, casual hug back. Rejecting a hug gives her an insane amount of power over you and communicates that you give a really big fuck what she does and who she does it with. Bad. The whole idea is to not give a fuck.… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 09:21 AM |
| 30 | Plate asked if I'm banging other girls, I said yes and she's admitted to banging other dudes. No worries, we're not committed, but she wants to know how frequently? Should I over or under exaggerate this? (it's not that often)"Well Sarah's supposed to be her around 5 so..." (The implication being someone's coming over soon so if she could get out that would be great) Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Talking on the phone with women? Should we talk for anything other than plans to meet up?What I'm imagining. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Redefining female beautyThis is from the "legendary" pirelli calendar. And no, they haven't changed shit. Taylor Swift is still really hot. Amy Schumer is still really not. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 09:56 AM |
| 5 | One of my plates is having sex with other dudes. I don't really care cause I'm not dating her, but what bothers me is that she is lying about it. What's a better idea, I just fuck her and immediately walk out or cut contact with no explanation?Did you not read my post, I AM trying to get out, I'm asking what fashion I should do that in bro. Fuck her and leave with my cum dripping out of her pussy and tears out of her eyes, or just cut all contact? Does it matter? She's not your girlfriend, there's no commitment here. Don't be passive aggressive about it, just move on. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Is there a TL;DR for TRP? And how can I beat the information into my stubborn head so I can make use of it?1% better every day. There is no instant gratification here. Don't nuke yourself with information or try to cram it. Read a sidebar article a day, hang out in the community, lift, reflect. Don't surrender to ADHD and use it as an excuse for everything. Grab your balls and fucking get it done. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:21 AM |
| 1 | 1year redpill swallower moves to new city, gets frustrated, needs advices.Where did you come from? Honestly it sounds like you're doing everything right but there might be a cultural disconnect. Something in your rhythm or behavior could be throwing women off. Women aside, give yourself some credit man! You moved to a new city, state, country, continent. That's fuckin incredible. Get settled in, make some friends, get some stability before you expect your game to be back at 100%. And for being in a new area, you're doing really well. It's gotta be stressful enough wit… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:15 AM |
| 8 | One of my plates is having sex with other dudes. I don't really care cause I'm not dating her, but what bothers me is that she is lying about it. What's a better idea, I just fuck her and immediately walk out or cut contact with no explanation?I was getting oneites till I saw another dudes toothbrush in her bathroom Then get out and get out now. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Someone slap some sense into meSounds like you might have kicked the anxiety can down the road. Talking at the bar is part of work, maybe you're good at it, but there's no perceived risk. Messaging means it's real. I see the same thing with tinder a lot. It's really easy to swipe, but when the match comes and it's time to message a lot of dudes don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Women and statusYeah, but status/boobs isn't the only thing. Legs, tits, ass, face, etc, all add up to create an attractive woman. In the same way that status, personality, physique, etc, add up to create an attractive man. Tastes and preferences vary a bit, but there's no argument over what's generally attractive. We all pretty much agree that Taylor Swift is hot, even though we might all have different preferences for certain body types. Same way with guys. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:56 AM |
| 2 | What do men value... in other men?Whatever the opposite of being a pussy is. I can't abide pussys. They're some friend of a friend who for some reason came camping with your group and they bitch the whole time. They're afraid of the ball in whatever sport you're playing. They can't put their own comfort aside and get shit done. They're unreliable self centered fucks. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Feminazi Celebrity Hamster hits the wall: Sinead O'ConnorWhat better way to prove you deserve custody of a child than to attempt suicide and write a note blaming your entire family? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Is this stupid idea?At least try not sitting by her before this. Odds are she's just attention seeking or scared to sit alone in class and has latched onto the nearest thing that will feed her attention. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:38 AM |
| 1 | How do I convey TRP mentality to my father?My advice to any and all "How do I make X see the light?" posts is lead by example. Telling someone how to do something is rarely if ever effective. This is especially hard when the target is your dad. It's entirely possible to red pill your mom/step-mom/sister/cousin/boss whoever, dominant behavior is not strictly sexual. Obviously the strategy shifts a bit, but the same basic principles apply. Bringing plates/LTRs around family might also be effective. Idk what the age dynamic is here, but you… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:33 AM |
| 3 | Does being overly touchy/feely with a girl I've already slept with a number of times sub-communicate weakness?My gut reaction to "fixing her hair, rubbing her shoulders" is yes, this is beta behavior. But it's all about how you frame it. If you do it because you can, because you want to and not in place of some more intimate connection, then I see no problem. For the sake of analogy, imagine it like a dog. You pet it when you want to communicate affection, praise, or whatever. If you deliver these things constantly or at undeserved times because you love your fluffy poopsikins so much the dog is spoiled… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Is there any middle ground with trp? or is it all or nothing?Just because you want a secure LTR marriage style relationship doesn't invalidate red pill. Don't think that "getting married" or finding "the one" makes any of this go away. Especially in todays day and age where religion doesn't count for shit anymore and divorce is nothing more than a legal inconvenience. If anything, red pill is most important in a LTR like marriage. It's hard, everyone has always said it's hard. Why is that? Because it's fucking hard. Imagine spinning a plate or holding fra… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:04 AM |
| 1 | What type of guys would you say do particularly well in the USA and are highly sought after by the women here?Every time I go anywhere black guys are raking it in. I think this is because traditional "black" culture is basically red pill 101. Hispanics seem to do quite well, but they're much more likely to keep it "in-race." Also a pretty decent red pill cultural background there. All else I haven't noticed much, it's probably tougher for them. I don't see a ton of asians in clubs/bars doing anything tbh. White I see an even mix of all. Some do very well, some can't get shit going for them. White dudes … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:48 AM |
| 1 | What are the real reasons prostitution is illegal?These laws stem from a time when men ruled society so I don't think it's fair to blame feminism. Nowadays when sex means nothing and everyone is doing it as much as they can they are nonsensical. But not so long ago they were a legitimate drain on society. It's illegal for the same reason nobody likes sluts. Civilization taught us not to have sex with everyone all the time. It's hard to raise kids, rampant sex spreads disease, pick a reason. But at the end of the day it is still, despite feminis… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Is meditation an alternative to...It can help, but don't expect to just be able to shut off from day one. In the beginning it's like any other activity really, it's just something to distract you and give you something to do so you don't go grabbing your dick. Once you get good at it you will increase your ability to ignore thoughts like "I should jack off right now." So in a roundabout sort of way yes. But don't just do it instead of jacking off, do it for its own sake. As your practice gets better you can use it to fight those… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Over Thanksgiving break, should I remain radio silent or try to keep them interested by initiating conversation?Radio silent. You're on vacation, with your family, seeing old friends. You have better things to do. Then when you get back you can do the whole "how was your thanksgiving" thing, and work in date times. Don't overthink it man. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 03:24 AM |
| 3 | What would you do if a plate gave you an STD?Kick myself for being stupid, get it cleaned up, and never talk to her again. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 03:20 AM |
| 1 | I get to give a lesson to my class regarding gender equalityMy advice to you is to distance yourself from the facts you present. "According to..." should be your most used phrase. Present it like a reporter, not an activist. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 03:15 AM |
| 1 | It's begun. [Rant]The beatings will continue until morale improves. The decisions will be made for you until democracy picks more diverse leaders. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 03:12 AM |
| 10 | Flashback Post #2: Women are Children & Treating Women like Children by redpillschool, GayLubeOilI was on a vacation with my parents a few years ago. I was driving and we were trying to figure out how to navigate a complex series of roads/exits in order to get where we needed to. We were using google maps to help. Since I was driving I couldn't look at the map, my mother was in the passenger seat and my dad in back. It was a "high pressure" situation in so far as trying to navigate fast moving traffic in an unfamiliar place can be. I forget what my dad was doing, I think eating something, r… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Americans, have you actually, with your own two eyes, seen or known Indian guys that had success with hot white girls?Yes. He is one of the best examples of a man I have ever known. I've known him since high school. He was popular with everyone. No one had anything bad to say about the guy. He won the "Mr. My High School" award. He was smart. He went to university, graduated, and is currently in graduate school. He's doing quite well with the ladies. He is currently dating a good looking white girl. I'd rate her about an HB8. He's not jacked, no heavy lifter physique, but he's in shape. And he's as indian as in… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Taking a year off after a redundancy (heading overseas)What would my possible future Aussie wife think? Who gives a fuck? This sounds awesome. What women think should not be a factor in your making this decision. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 10:36 AM |
| 5 | How does TRP feel about the push for people to talk about their depression and mental illness?Easy way to sweep a bigger issue under the rug while still sounding like you give a fuck. Everything complicated is thrown into the "mental illness" pile. Mass shootings, PTSD, depression, suicide. Did anything change about the nature of war in the last 3 decades? No, war is still hell? Ok. So then why is the veteran suicide rate on a rocket to the moon? I'm sure it helps those who need it, but I think it's like putting a bandaid on instead of looking for the thing that cut you, and making sure … | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Tips/Resources/Books about holding frame with other men and deescalating potentially violent situations?Step 1 is know what to do if it turns violent. Lift, learn how to handle yourself in a fight if it comes to it. This will give you the confidence to be able to project your will on the situation. That doesn't mean use threat of force to deescalate. This is just the foundation that gives you something solid to stand on and not take shit. Being able to operate without being terrified is a prerequisite to maintaining frame. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 10:12 AM |
| 6 | What does PUA, MGTOW, MRA's and TRP's have common ground on and what do they strongly disagree on?PUA: Looks at what works. Copies that behavior. Turns it into manipulation. Lies about how awesome they are. MGTOW: 98% of the time it's incel guys who would fuck if they could but find it easier to give up than try. (apathy) 2% of the time it's legitimately guys who stop giving a fuck and live their lives independent of pussy, be they able to get it or not. (unplugging) MRA: Meninism. Sees Women getting all this help, they want help too. RP: Looks at what works. Asks why it works. Tells you wha… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 09:57 AM |
| 135 | California girls demand to join the Boy Scouts ("Our group sucks, let's take over yours!")The year is 2025. The boy scouts and the girl scouts have merged and become one super organization known simply as "the scouts." Girls who want to learn how to gut a fish gut fish, boys who want to sell cookies sell cookies. The Professional Flag Football League or PFFL has amended their rules to include that when a woman is quarterback she must be given at least a "3 Mississippi" count before the defense is allowed to cross the line of scrimmage. A local man is dead after he recently approached… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 09:30 AM |
| 12 | More evidence of the disposability of men; Canada's refugee plan includes women and children, unaccompanied men are rejectedIf all these able bodied young men fought for their lands instead of fleeing them maybe we wouldn't have this problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 08:55 AM |
| 2 | This week in invading male spaces/jobsThe boy scouts lost my respect years and years ago. If someone would come along and start an organization that trimmed the fat and went back to the 1911 handbook standards I would sign my theoretical son up immediately. But as is they have incompetent leaders and bullshit badges like computer programming and video game design. Plus they're far too cosy with religious organizations. I learned more from my dad than I ever would have in scouts, without suffering all the bullshit. I fully expect the… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 08:51 AM |
| 8 | This week in invading male spaces/jobsMost of us HAVE our own. I don't think that's true. I think there's a serious crisis that the majority of men are going through and will continue to go through for the foreseeable future. They don't have male spaces. The "man cave" trend came along and showed us where our place was in the home. I can't think of a place to go in my town that would be a "male space" short of a restroom. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have successfully quit porn, how did you do it?It's pretty ridiculous how widespread it is too. You don't really notice how much sex there is in advertising, television, and all forms of media until you start actively trying to unplug from it. One minute you're just watching the game and the next you see an ad for dancing with the stars or something and you're off to the races. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone with experience being alpha, losing it, and gaining it again?This is what brought me back to TRP. I was beta, found RP, worked really fucking hard for about a year and a half. Started seeing results, thought I'd "made it" let RP slip to the back burner lost all my good habits, mentalities and new found social glory, fell back to beta behavior, fucked up entire life. Thought about life one day and realized RP was the best thing that ever happened to me, and that letting it slip from my daily life was a horrible mistake. On the road again. Already pulled my… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 10:27 PM |
| 1 | On building a social circleCast as wide a net as you can and pick the good ones from that pile. That doesn't mean keep the rotten ones, but an average guy is ok to be not-so-close friends with. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Swallowed the pill, lost 50lbs but can't lift due to injury. Can anyone suggest an alternative fitness program?I would strongly suggest getting professional assistance from a trainer or physical therapist. You don't want to fuck with your back unless you know what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Date with high-value girlFirst of all, you have a date with a girl. Not a date with a high value girl. The more thought you put into her value the higher you raise her pedestal, the less able you are to make good plays in the game. This is where abundance mentality matters. It's easy not to give a shit when you're dating average tinder sluts. You have to be ready willing and able to not give a shit with high value women too, or it all falls apart. This is where RP game matters. Refresh yourself with it over these two we… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have successfully quit porn, how did you do it?Nicotine patches. That is, I deescalate from "hardcore" porn down the ladder. I stay away from porn sites, and don't mindlessly surf for porn. When I have a serious craving I use something like "gonewildaudio" to give myself an out that isn't completely visual and won't lead to a total relapse of watching porn all day. As I climbed down, visual stimulation became less and less necessary. I try to keep that usage down as well, but when I get that familiar feeling I use this as a safety net so I d… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being scared of rejection?I wish there was a formula which I could follow to just recognise the signs and then use it as a basis for acting. Good news! There is. But not in the way you mean. The next time you see a girl and feel anxious about talking to her or getting rejected, go and talk to her. Experience it. Let the rejection flow through you. Sooner or later you'll come to realize that the anxiety your brain is putting you through is baseless and unnecessary. It becomes like getting sad for not winning the lottery. … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Beating computer addictionI'm limiting myself to 2 hours of bullshit time on the internet with an extension for chrome called "StayFocused" I still need the internet for productive stuff but I block time sucking websites like reddit. After 120 minutes of time spent on my flagged websites this extension locks them down until my reset time. It's really helpful. It's made me more aware of how I spend my time and stopped me from binging uselessly. I spend most of my newly free time reading, learning, meditating, or exercisin… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 08:06 PM |
| 2 | overcoming feeling pity for othersI think I need to switch from pity to compassion bingo. This was what I came in here to say, but you've got it. Pity is a gross emotion. It's really closer to disgust than anything else. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What does "I don't have any friends" mean?I'm such a nerd. I'm a gamer. I'm forever alone. I'm so random. why is anything anything? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 02:05 AM |
| 18 | What would you do?Do you respond when an employer sends you a thanks but no thanks rejection letter? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 02:03 AM |
| 4 | Are women turned off by the act of lifting (seeing a man struggle)?Sounds good in theory. This is the same thing that happens in other aspects of life. This is where men learned to mask emotion. Be sad, or anxious, or struggling, but for the love of god don't let her know you are having any trouble. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 01:58 AM |
| 0 | What is the best way to deal with falling outs with classmates/coworkers?Tell him to stop being a selfish bitch. Something like... You don't have to like me but there are 19 other people in this group you are a part of. This isn't about your personal grievances with me, their grades are affected by your work here. So either pull the lead out of your ass and get over whatever problems you have with me, or you're out and the professor will get to weigh your story against mine and 19 others. If he wants to set fire to four months of his work fine. Don't get into a power… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Honest question for this communitydo you see your mom and/or sisters in this same view point? Yes. This is something that reinforces my belief in TRP actually. My mother went to college, she has a degree, she's smart. She doesn't care for most women, dislikes feminism, thinks the wage gap is bullshit, doesn't think motherhood is "the hardest job in the world," she's RP as fuck. She's why I started to realize the "strangeness" of the world so early. She always scoffed at the incompetent husband commercials for example. She realiz… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 01:39 AM |
| 2 | I recently got one of those two wheel segway/ hoverboard things, and recently my friend scratched it up. What should I do?No, I understood perfectly, it's still not his fault. If you want to ruin a friendship over a 100 dollar repair you need to reevaluate your priorities in life. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Do we have a TRP dating profile review section?That's a good way to get doxxed. Be exceedingly careful | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Pre-SelectionUsing photos with girls in them on things like tinder or other social media screams desperate. If it's a good photo of you, shows you doing something you enjoy, and there just so happens to be a girl in this photo, by all means use it. But don't let the determining factor be "there is a girl in this picture." This kind of thing works much better in person anyway. So long as the girl you're with isn't hideous or enormous I wouldn't worry about it. Competition knows no point scale. It's why hot gi… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 10:35 PM |
| 5 | What's with the hate on FB on TRP?It's the embodiment of everything disgusting about our culture. Self centered, narcissistic, disconnected, gratification granting, dick measuring contest. A time sink and addiction for most people. You're correct in saying that used correctly it has advantages. But "Facebook" is an easy way of saying this social media. All of it. Instagram, snapchat, twitter, facebook, pinterest, selfies, ego inflating bullshit that has produced a generation of self-centered "like" whores. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Why is it better to be a guy?Consider the following. Say you live in a super socialized country where everyone gets a basic income of 30,000 dollars a year. And according to this country's cost of living, this is enough to comfortably exist in your day to day life, but not quite enough to do much else other than buy food, pay bills, afford rent/utilities, and the occasional modest night out. The option is there to get a job and improve your income, but there are no part time jobs anymore. It's full-time or nothing. You migh… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 12:10 AM |
| -12 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.What the fuck does a comic author know about terrorism? Just because the guy disregards the gender wage gap doesn't mean he knows shit about what he's talking about. This is nonsense. Sexual frustration is not the singular motivation behind extremism, it's not even a big motivation. "Hate that I'm alone and sexually frustrated because of my culture, look to west and its over sexualization and moral decay, declare war on that"? Maybe he's sexually frustrated to the point of fantasizing about viol… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Comfort Test"I'm free at 10, come over." If she cuddle zones you and nothing happens, then cut her off and let her flounder. If she complains about coming over then just don't respond. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble integrating red pill mentalitiesKnowing is half the battle. The other half is being able to afford such a mentality. You have to have the confidence to truly believe you are a buyer in the market. You're still seeking validation from them. You have to find a way to be "good enough" without their validation and even with their rejection. What do you do well? Let's pretend it's woodworking. If someone walked up and criticized the way you do woodwork would it ruin your day and would you try to prove you know what you're doing? Or… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/15 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Where to begin?I encourage you not to take it all on at once. It gets overwhelming and you can burn out relatively quickly. Make lifestyle changes, but stagger them. Start with basic building blocks. The gym is a great place to start. It has everything you need to facilitate a mental shift. Depending on how bad your anxiety is, put yourself through behavioral therapy. Go out of your comfort zone, then reflect on how it went. Here's a decent list of questions to ask yourself after an anxious social encounter. … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Drawing a blank on this shit test, should be easyAssuming you're in shape, send her a pic of you and tell her to send it to him. Don't have a conversation about her and him, you don't give a fuck about this guy. Bring the attention back to something you care about, aka you and her. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 12:52 AM |
| 2 | I still feel like a little kid?I know how you feel man. Here's the best way I have found to combat this feeling. Go do something you know nothing about. Go put yourself in a situation that forces you totally out of your element. It could be anything from rock climbing, to a martial arts class, to spending a weekend backpacking by yourself in the wild, be it urban or forest. It doesn't matter what it is, but find a way to put yourself in an uncomfortable situation, where you can't fall back on some guide or teacher, where you … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Got a number, sent one text. No response, should I text again at some point?What's another text gonna do that the first one didn't? If she saw it she chose to ignore it. If she saw it but was busy, she forgot about it. Or she gave you a false number and never saw it. None of these are good signs. Forget about it. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 12:32 AM |
| 4 | Potential LTR how to tell if shes lying about being a virginIt doesn't matter. Why are you so worried about it? Whether it's 2 or 10 or 37, your approach should be the same. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 12:28 AM |
| 3 | "Mixed signals"Good thing, also kind of a shit test. Don't engage. Shrug it off with humor and redirect the conversation. If she didn't enjoy it you would not have received a message. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What to write in a journal?I typically start out with what happened that day, how I'm feeling, what my goals, plans, to-do lists are. Then I just sorta rant from there. It's definitely not a "dear diary" thing. I use it as a log to refer back to and assess how I handled situations from a distance. Like watching tape of games to see what you did right/wrong and what you need to work on. It's difficult to be objective about something in the moment. But looking back on it you can see, here's what I did right, here's where I … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Is She not interested in me? What do you guys think?Not interested. Why'd you show your hand? Play the game, don't show your hand. If you don't want to get stuck in the friendzone then don't put yourself there. But that doesn't mean telling her what you're up to. Play it like you're interested in her and things naturally progress one way or the other. You shouldn't be sneaky about it, niceguy, but you also shouldn't blurt out that you would like to be in a romantic relationship with her. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Need help ASAP! Send ass shot or regular response??Is this your first time texting her? If so, I don't think it's a test. More likely she knows a couple brandons and doesn't know who this is. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with how to be RP with online datingIntro her Response her Interest in date expressed her Number obtained/date set. Or you move on. The more you fuck around the more chances you give yourself to fuck it up. You don't have hours and hours to dick around playing message tag like some 13 year old jr high kid. You both know the reason you're there and she's either interested or she isn't. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I meet guys at lots of places, but I can't seem to transition anything into a solid friendshipInvite them to do something. Ideally a group activity like fishing or a barbecue. But if you're starting from scratch just jump on it. Casual conversation is the best place to do this. You ask about interests and when you hit a mutual interest like golf or something, you express interest in doing that thing with them. If you see them regularly like at the gym or work this is easier to do. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Tinder's new update confirms RP truths in a big way.Well I guess it's time to update my facebook profile. The last time I put employment information on there was may back at my first job. That needs to go. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Date question. Cancel or see it through?Learning experience. There's no need to walk on the first reschedule. A good rule to follow is A, B, A. Suggest a time, if she can't make it and suggests another, you can't make that and suggest another. It's a lot like compromise on a trade deal. If you give in too easily on the deal you're getting the shitty end of the stick. In addition, your weekends are prime time. Don't turn them down explicitly, but these are peak business hours and should be treated as such. You're only 2 dates in though… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Need advice on hard nexting a plate-gone-wrongHonesty is the best policy IMO. Just tell her it's not working out and you're not interested what she's looking for. It's only the truth and you can even save face by not leading her on. When is up to you. Personally I'm not a big fan of "breaking up" or doing anything "serious" over a text, it smacks of avoidance. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 11:02 PM |
| 8 | Help me understand why this girl behaves this way?She might be the flirty type. Their way of interacting with almost everyone is to flirt constantly. They leave paths of destruction everywhere they go because guys get confused and way too invested, while they're just "having fun." It's not impossible to hook up with them, just don't get attached and expect any serious commitment. In college. Boyfriend for 5 years. How old is she? If she's under 23 this means she's been with this guy since high school and is probably tired of being limited. If y… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Date question. Cancel or see it through?How did you handle the first reschedule? What was said, how easily did you reschedule? This exchange frames the second exchange, and tells me/you want kind of ground you're standing on. Act aloof, play it off as no big deal. What does this mean? Rescheduling should be a big deal, it's your time, which is valuable. What isn't a big deal is spending that time with her. If your time is valuable, and you chose to spend it with her, she must be important. Tingles. If your time is not valuable, you ca… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 10:48 PM |
| 4 | AWALT The story of Stinky StanI want to believe. But second hand sex stories are dubious. Especially in workplace settings. She may have just been a common whore. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Roommate situation (social, non sexual)Ah ok, makes a bit more sense now. This is all conspiratory bullshit. They might even be feeding you and him false information about each other to inspire you both to move out. By all means connect with him on this issue and get the details. One of them is on the lease though right? How annoying can you be without getting kicked out? Do they have any say in whether or not you can stay? | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Dying Slowly; The State of The Average ManI've noticed it changing in just the last few years. Women, yes Women, on my facebook feed are posting about fathers rights. Emma Watson gave a feminist speech about why feminism shouldn't be "man hating." Even reddit is drawing a line in the sand. People are fed up with this social justice warrior bullshit. The tumblr warriors are their own worst enemies. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Dying Slowly; The State of The Average ManSeeing a couple who bucks this trend is so god damn inspiring though, it's like meeting a hero. It's what keeps the dream alive in me. I was lucky enough to witness such a relationship from both sides of the pill. In my early blue pill beta days I was amazed what the guy got away with, I considered him an asshole, "but muh nice guys," and so on. Then as I started to wake up everything made sense. It was literally a cucked relationship too. She was technically still married, and the husband, soon… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Roommate situation (social, non sexual)I thought he told you he was planning on moving out? My concern is that once he leaves you're gonna be left with 3 shitty roommates who don't pick up their shit, since he's not around to pick it up for them. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 09:31 PM |
| 1 | How long does anger phase last?Practice > theory. 1.5 years of theory isn't gonna do much to your anger. You need practice to put it in context, to really get it through your head that this is observed theory, not deliberately practiced evil strategy. It's like getting mad at your cat for catching birds. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Roommate situation (social, non sexual)Set him free. You're on month to month, gtfo if you want to get out. Don't leash this poor chump to the table just because you don't want to live with 3 girls who can't get their shit together. I've seen what that life looks like. You don't want that life. Start looking now. Shit, offer to go with the guy. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 08:05 AM |
| 3 | How do guys that get good looking college girls while being in their 30s actually do it?The same way you meet any women. College girls are not confined to campus, they still go out and do things beyond house parties and school events. Plus there's tinder. The "jacked guy" on the football team is basically a celebrity. Women swoon after brad pitt but he doesn't fuck them all. Women are attracted to older men. If it's a choice between a guy with his shit together who can give off a vibe of being in control and wise 10/10 times he will be chosen over the local frat idiot wearing a sna… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Why do women always talk trash and pretend to move on from alpha guys on social media?Women are never responsible for their own feelings, it's always someone else's fault. If they say something awkward or stupid, everyone else is weird for making it awkward, or you didn't support her enough. If they can't do something, the people in charge of the something they want to do are wrong. If they break up with someone, he's an asshole she put up with, and nowhere will you ever see it mentioned how the fact that she's been dating an asshole for 4 years is any reflection on her character… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Can declining respect be harmless?Don't confuse comfortability with respect. As you get to know someone better of course you're gonna be more open with them and give them a little bit more shit. But underneath all of this is a level of respect. This is why disdain is considered the killer of relationships. You can fight with someone and still respect them. But once you lose that respect and step into the realm of disdain for them, I don't think there's any coming back. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Being "blackout" drunkIn the lamest way possible, yes. I was drinking alone and playing halo. Pounding back tequila and listening to music on my laptop. The next thing I remember is waking up in my bed at 8am and wondering how I got there. My xbox had shut itself off, but the TV and computer were still on. I had apparently watched a movie sometime in the night because it was in my recently watched list, but I had no memory of it. I had a bunch of drunken posts and comments to yikyak that I did not remember making, an… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why quit porn?Doesn't the fact that it's difficult to go without it by itself make you want to quit? If I have a habit that I can't put down, I am not in control of my own behavior. I like to play video games, but I can live without them. I like porn, but I try to go without it and really struggle. That alone independent of any other input or output tells me I need to get control of this habit. I don't even need it. It's just something to enjoy. And in my own personal experience, when I'm cut off from it my n… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Any advice/good books on how to give your life purpose or find your true inner motivators?I love this blog. When I have free time I browse through it and many articles have helped me a lot. Here's one of my favorites, I think it might be right up your alley. http://www.artofmanliness.com/2009/05/31/30-days-to-a-better-man-day-1-define-your-core-values/ This podcast is short and sweet. Often has little gems here and there. It's not perfect, but what is? The episode descriptions are great for finding exactly what you're looking for, unlike some other ambiguous podcasts. http://theartof… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | FR: Total Protonic Reversal or That One Time I Had a Front Row Seat Watching a Woman Hit The Walljoking about women drivers, but humorous seriousness about all else. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 11:59 PM |
| 0 | The Purple Pillwhy would anyone want to do that | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 08:35 AM |
| 2 | FR: Total Protonic Reversal or That One Time I Had a Front Row Seat Watching a Woman Hit The WallCrashes into wall (women drivers amiright), alone, no phone. No man their to help. Goes to hospital alone and scared. No man their to comfort. Mother shows up, freaks out. "Ohgodshewasright I'm gonna die alone." Don't fall for it man. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 08:33 AM |
| 3 | The Purple Pillit's a whole subreddit if I recall correctly. A blend of red and blue pill. Which is like being a vegetarian who eats meat. You are not a vegetarian you are an everyone else aka blue pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Why don't I feel any better? And help with a decisionMaybe. But don't count on dorms to just make you friends. It still requires a lot of effort, but in slightly different ways. Think about it objectively, what effort are you putting in now that hasn't worked? Why hasn't it worked? Why would that effort work in a dorm? What changes would you commit to to facilitate this change? I felt like you back when I was starting college. I didn't like where I was living and expected everything to be better somewhere else. I moved out of town and lived in the… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Random pool selection: Amount of women that can overpower men in a random population sample v.s. amount of rape accusations in a random population sampleI've never met a woman stronger than me and I've been skinny all my life. By the age of 12 I could over-power my mother without really trying. I'm sure some olympic athlete or UFC fighter could kick my ass, but rare is the day I might run into one of them. Rape isn't as endemic as the common cold but that has nothing to do with how easy it is to over power a woman. This is probably the worst possible thing to research to discount the rape epidemic. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Going out in highschoolLie. This is something you should have figured out by now but your helicopter parents have you convinced they can see all and know all. Trust me when I say for your own good you need to start bucking the rules. Conflict might occur, but conflict is good. Conflict forces change. You don't want to be the guy who has to check in with mom before you do anything. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 12:44 AM |
| 1 | "Dates" for college students?Do something you enjoy, which you hope she might enjoy too. Lead, don't follow. If you take her to do something you love to do and she just sits in the corner and pouts, you'll know she is boring and selfish. If she has a lot of fun then you have something in common that you care about and not some meaningless shit like coffee. If she's not super into it but at least puts effort in, then you know you've got a soldier. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Why don't I feel any better? And help with a decisionHows your social life? Friends, plates, relationships, anything going on in that department? Hobbies? Depression follows you. Moving to Florida or Amsterdam isn't gonna magically make you happy. Moving somewhere that allows you to pursue that which makes you happy is the only reason moving works at all. If where you currently live is somehow preventing you from pursuing happiness, then by all means move away. If it's ambiguous and you're just sort of banking on this "grass is always greener" ide… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 12:25 AM |
| 18 | Dan Bilzerian Sleeps With Bodybuilding.Com Founder Ryan DeLuca’s Wife...and posts it on instagramTL;DR I found in the BB thread. Cliffs: -Ryan Deluca broke up with gf -Gf goes to Cali and gets smashed by Dan Blizerian -Gf and Ryan Deluca get back together -Ryan Deluca finds Dan Blizerian's number in gf's phone while on vacation in Spain, and texts Dan Blizerian -Dan Blizerian posts pic of sloot on his bed with sniper rifle, with caption saying I smashed your sloot in ***** sandals, and tags Ryan Deluca -Ryan Deluca's IG is flooded with lulz -Ryan Deluca deletes recent IG picture with sloot … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 05:07 AM |
| 11 | Raising a generation of pussies and betas [Yale University speech SJW protestors]Missouri football team just threatened to stop playing because of the university president. What he did or did not do I have no idea. Something about racism. They would have had to pay BYU 1,000,000 dollars if they didn't play the game. He resigned. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Hairloss treatment: yes or no?I tried minoxidil for about 6 months back when I was around 21 years old. It stinks, it's an annoying thing to have to do twice a day. It slowed my hair loss, but didn't create new growth or make it thicker. It's like fighting against aging. I stopped caring and shaved my head. Anecdotal evidence, people immediately took me more seriously. People who knew me said they thought I looked dangerous, or like a skin head. People I didn't know got out of my way and listened when I talked. Plus I don't … | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Vowing to change my life for the better after I just finished jacking off to a photo of my EX. What can I add to this list.Big lists look sexy but don't over-do it. Discipline can be forged from 1 menial task like digging a hole, you don't need a million things to do, that will just burn you out. Focus less on "to-do" lists and more on mandatory behavior changes. Wishy washy goals like that german one aren't gonna help you. Doing something every day, something as simple as making your bed in the morning, is what it's all about. Abstaining from something is a great goal, but it has no tangible benefit, no sense of ac… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 07:48 AM |
| 3 | How to feel again?What's the likelihood that you might be depressed? | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Going back into anger phase?Nothing about red pill is ever over. Half the battle is taking the hill, the other half is holding it. This is not some program that you follow the steps to and eventually finish. You don't suddenly get a badge that makes you immune to all things beta or bitch. It's like exercise. Getting fit is only half the work, staying fit is just as important. If you reach your goal and stop going to the gym you're gonna lose that body. Like exercise, it absolutely gets easier as you get more experienced an… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 07:37 AM |
| 1 | making friendsBefore you can make friends you must first have something to do. You can't just ask a guy to be friends, you have to ask him to come to some social function, like out for drinks at the bar, to poker night, to the ___ game, frisbee golfing, partying, whatever. You can't be a boring shut in and make friends. This is why starting from 0 is so god damn difficult. You gotta start with who you know. Coworkers, group members, whatever. Once you have a solid foundation of people to do things with you wo… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 10:02 AM |
| 1 | I scored someone way above my SMV and now I am in a dire situation...What do you mean? If you're gonna break up break up. LDR drift is to be expected, but don't throw in the towel before the first punch is thrown. First things first you're way too attached. This is a good example of the difference between red pill theory and red pill in practice. It's like boxing, everybody has a plan until they get hit. Knock down that pedestal. Second of all, your self esteem is shit. Nobody falls backwards into a 9 month relationship with a girl out of their league. If it was … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:27 PM |
| 2 | I'm a male virgin (24) and I'm only attracted to women out of my leagueIn my experience this is anxiety manifesting itself in risk vs reward. Talking to women, interacting with them in any way, makes you anxious. That anxiety raises the reward you have to get in order to justify the risk you take. If talking to average Susan makes you anxious and talking to bombshell Betty also makes you just about as anxious, you're obviously going to chase Betty. The reward begins to justify the risk. Decrease anxiety, decrease these artificial standards. Saying you don't find X … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:08 PM |
| 1 | The importance of being earnest.Good catch. You're absolutely right. My social circle was in flux. Long story short one of my best friends died, and that sort of woke me up to how shitty a lot of my other friends were so I cut them out of my life. And I was left with a much smaller, but higher quality group of friends. That was around the time I first started reading red pill. And when I moved to university I guess that bad taste was still in my mouth so I wasn't very good at making any real friends beyond in-class acquaintanc… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 01:59 AM |
| 1 | The importance of being earnest.it was an intended similarity although not a direct reference. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Balanced Lifestylemy fitness pal app has a free calorie tracker that is good enough for me. Plus you can track workouts, and it gives you a decent calculation of your calorie intake/burned ratio. I use a chrome extension called stay focused to keep me from wasting too much time on web grazing sites like reddit. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 10:04 AM |
| 2 | When will I be ready?You won't. There's always something that could be better or something that's not quite right. Feeling nervous is good, it means you care. What matters is how you deal with that. Do you curl up in your foxhole and hide? Or do you realize you're nervous and fight anyway despite it? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you act more Alpha when abstaining from orgasms?Testosterone. Nofap does not reliably give me this boost. Sometimes I get it from excessive fap, sometimes from nofap. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Overcoming the "I'll be happy once... " mentalityYep. Funny because it's often adopted by such a liberal progressive section of the population but Buddhism itself is no friend to Women. It's changed with time, but as it was (is supposed to be) Women could not become enlightened, couldn't become monks. And generally speaking were viewed in much the same light as TRP views them, responsible teenagers. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 09:30 AM |
| 3 | Advice for the youngins?High school is the tutorial. Especially senior year. There are no meaningful social consequences. Whoever you were whoever you are, break that mold and experiment with socializing. You will never again exist in an environment more suited to practicing game. This is your chance to develop skills that will help you the rest of your life. If you fuck up, it's high school, you're supposed to fuck up. Where you don't want to find yourself is graduated and having to practice basic game on cold approac… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Has the internet, smartphones, etc... made society a better or worse place?So much worse. I think I use this shit too much and I am never on my phone when I'm out and about. I grew up in a very anti-technology house. I've lived life before and after TV, video games, internet, smartphones. None of these things have added to my life satisfaction, they have subtracted. But it feels like something I can't unplug from. There is no way to disengage without fucking up important parts of my life. I need it for school, I need it for work. It's just not possible to live a normal… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Men would appear to be better at creating more interesting fictionJK Rowling abbreviated her name because she knew female authors don't sell as well. The feminist would have you believe that is because their is an innate sexist bias against all things women. More realistically I think it is because Women are generally not as good at it. What's more plausible? That there is a grand anti-women conspiracy running back to the dawn of human civilization? Or that this is a markets reflection of an inferior product? The success of Harry Potter and the success of To K… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Trailer for "The Red Pill" MRA documentary posted on /rvideos. TRP misconceptions abound.Not necessarily. I just think it means that as the community "matures" they downvote those posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 04:46 AM |
| 12 | Trailer for "The Red Pill" MRA documentary posted on /rvideos. TRP misconceptions abound.The problem I have with this movie, and this idea as a whole is it's gonna be seen like ancient aliens. In this trailer, almost nobody on the mens side comes from a credible source. It's always "Guy who wrote a book about it" or "guy who is president of the yay for men club." Whereas feminism has monopolized higher education in the western world, so we have "PhD X," "sociologist Y," and "credible university professor Z" on their side. Because nobody in a position of authority is going to risk sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 07:40 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Keep your feelings to yourself, and especially away from women.Can confirm. Lost best friend to the war on terror. Stupidly vented about it to plate. She evaporated. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 04:25 AM |
| 8 | #NoNothingNovember 2015 ChallengeI'm giving up porn, video games, and internet/reddit binging. I'm taking up meditation. And I'm also gonna add a weekly goal of exercise. Everyday at the gym is just not realistic for me. Those of you giving up masturbation, be warned, it is really really really difficult, especially if you don't have a woman around. I suggest giving up porn instead, and making a conscious effort to reduce how often you jack off. But going cold turkey straight out of the gate might be setting yourself up for fai… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 03:50 AM |
| 54 | Trailer for "The Red Pill" MRA documentary posted on /rvideos. TRP misconceptions abound.All things considered though I am amazed at the comments in that thread. A year ago it would have been nothing but shitting all over everything RP and MRA included. I honestly believe we've made a lot of progress. Especially within this sub. The number of bitter stage posts is down way down from where it was a year ago. As the SJWs take over the internet we start to seem a little less crazy everyday, and I think you can sense that in the community. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Just a tip for all the newbies.It's only a matter of time until this place gets banned. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Forbes sacks columnist over piece saying 'drunk' female students pose 'gravest' threat to frats; writer responds, 'I stand by every word'I should be able to be naked and unconscious surrounded by drunk college frat guys without fear. I should be able to carry all of my money around in a briefcase and not worry about getting robbed. I shouldn't have to lock my front door at night. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Just a rant about Ray RiceThe entire point of this sub is that the genders are not equal. You don't get to claim male superiority and then fall back on equality because you're still bitter enough to need to violently retaliate. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:52 PM |
| -1 | Just a rant about Ray RiceThat's big of you. Have fun being an out of control Neanderthal. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 06:12 PM |
| -1 | Just a rant about Ray RiceIgnorant pussy? This is exactly what I'm talking about. This is why trp has such a shit reputation because of idiotic ideas like yours. If you can't control yourself when someone weaker than you hits you then that's entirely on you. You don't fly off the handle and beat your kids when they piss you off, you don't do it to your girl either. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Finding and attracting an RP manYou sound like a troll. Go to rpwomen if you're not. I have nothing for you. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/14 06:19 AM |
| 1 | The Death of AdultsFor my mens studies class... Kidding. But for the fuck of it, it would be interesting to keep a running tally of the number of times in a week the man in a commercial/tv show/movie is portrayed as an incompetent, overconfident, retard. It's like 3/4 commercials. Dude tries to do something, epically fails. Wife goes and does it easily because she is so smart and pretty and interesting. Gives man a glance like "bless your retarded soul, I don't know how/why I put up with you *LOL!" | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 05:40 AM |
| -1 | Just a rant about Ray RiceIf the nuclear argument is all you have, you don't have an argument. 99% of the time, hitting a woman is just a guy flying off the handle because he lost control of the situation, or is an asshole. Trying to defend it just hurts our cause and makes us all look like idiots. Stop it. We don't get to have it both ways either. We can't say the sexes are not equal and then scream equality when it comes to hitting people. "But what if she's an MMA fighter, or is killing the children, or is..." No. Use… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pill saved my life!The closest thing I can think of to a "blue pill success story" is a guy who gets broken and is submissive all of the time. We probably all know, knew, maybe even were that guy. He doesn't get to watch football on sunday because she doesn't like it. He doesn't get to have a different opinion than her because she is always right and he has to support her. He's a different person when she's not around. Whipped is the everyday word for this. Maybe it works for some guys. Maybe they consider the sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 04:56 AM |
| 0 | How do you deal with those days where you feel like a social retard?Not caring. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/14 07:29 AM |
| 18 | I can't shake this rape accusation...Your friends from high school are gone, move on from them. It would have happened with most of them anyway, this just accelerated the process. Be glad you're not in court. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/14 07:56 PM |
| 1 | "What are you looking for in a woman?" - How to answer this?tips fedora | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Can you help with my text game? Got a "this week is bad for me" reply.Relax, I really don't think it's time to panic. There is such a thing as a Woman with shit to do, not everything is an excuse to avoid you, especially since you already know she's willing to make out with you. I don't think this is a shit test. Be accommodating, but don't go out of your way to make it happen. Your text game looked good until the "Free to talk for a bit?" and the invite to dinner from out of the blue. That seemed needy, overeager. So don't do that again. But as for where to go fr… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/14 05:57 AM |
| 1 | New school, new cityClimb the social ladder, don't latch on to the first person you sit with at lunch because it's easy. Being the new kid in town is a remarkably easy stereotypically "difficult" social situation. You have every excuse to just walk up to someone, introduce yourself, and ask them questions about the area, what there is to do for fun, classes, teachers, locations, and so on. Whereas if you're an oldfag making the change from beta to alpha, you have to break through peoples negative perceptions of you… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 08:23 PM |
| 3 | How to make sure you're the alpha and not the beta she's using for validation and/or dinner?If you are, stop paying for anything and everything, and don't be too available to her, make her work around your schedule. She's in a winning position. She has the security of a LTR and the bonus of you on the side. Stop paying for her shit, and make it an equal relationship based on fucking when it's convenient for you. The way she reacts to your changed behavior will tell you where you stand. If she gets pissy when you split bills and don't come running when she beckons you, then you're not i… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Tried to spin a plate, (ex)girlfriend found out (in college) now I will have both of them in one of my classes.You lost frame with your ex. She sabotaged you successfully and talked enough shit to gain an asian ally. While you know you don't care about the asian anyway, your ex sees it as a victory. Drop them both and move on with life. Especially when the ex comes looking for academic help. Don't sit next to or near them in class. Sit next to someone else, ideally a new girl. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How to make sure you're the alpha and not the beta she's using for validation and/or dinner?She's been dating the same guy since she was 15? Holy shit man. She's gonna ride the carousel until the wheels fall off. Anyway... You can test this by changing your behavior slightly. If you are, stop paying for anything and everything, and don't be too available to her, make her work around your schedule. I really wouldn't expect much out of this girl other than casual sex. From the looks of it she's just out of highschool and sick of this premature LTR. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 08:03 PM |
| 5 | What kind of clothes should I be wearing?Whatever your comfortable in, within reason, aka socially acceptable. No fedoras, velvet, or trench coats. It's largely situational. What works on campus doesn't work at work, and so on. The important thing is that it fits well. Malefashionadvice is a cesspool of groupthink and personally I would avoid it, but that's up to you. What you wear depends on you. Suns out guns out works if you can pull it off and that's your style. I don't like tanks but some people do and I don't begrudge them for it… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/14 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Bitter/anger phase is getting worse for meYou still feel like you're owed something. You're not. Focus on your overall mentality, your world view. Examine it, reflect upon it, and try to change it for the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 08:14 AM |
| 1 | We were brainwashed from childhood.Sex Drive. That movie is funny as fuck and it gets so much right. But the ending and overall message of the film sucks. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 08:08 AM |
| 2 | First Rule of TRP and BP friends. You do not talk about TRP!I think the terminology is stupid as all hell and only use it online like I would LMAO, LOL, IRL, and so on. Using full terminology makes it sound too much like a cringey self-help pickup-artist bullshit seminar. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 08:02 AM |
| 2 | First Rule of TRP and BP friends. You do not talk about TRP!Lead by example, don't proselytize. If your words and behavior work, you'll consistently pull girls. If you're successful, the guys around you will notice. Help them if they come to you, but don't go to them. If they don't come to you, sooner or later they'll have an asshole vs nice guy crisis. Just as Morpheus offered Neo both pills, this is not something that can be forced. Someone has to be willing to listen in order to hear any of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 07:59 AM |
| 13 | Guy sends wife to Vegas for a "girls weekend": Trickle Truth ahoy!Should've played it cool with the texts and seen what happened. Ah well, sucks. Always trust reddit to give full retard advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 07:41 AM |
| 1 | My conversation with a prosecutor regarding false rape claims; an anecdote that sticks with me over the yearsIt's fucking terrifying to me that simply asking for evidence in a rape/sexual abuse case has become socially unacceptable. Asking questions or displaying skepticism is immediately labeled victim blaming, and anything you say is held against you in the court of public opinion. Innocent until proven guilty is apparently victim blaming. Every suspect in every crime is supposed to be given the benefit of the doubt. The burden of proof is supposed to be with the prosecution. I won't deny that there … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 07:34 AM |
| 4 | Last Minute Tips for College StudentsIf you sit next to someone, oh wait, sit next to someone. So after you've sat next to someone, introduce yourself and start a conversation. Simple as that. Don't try to determine value beforehand, some people might surprise you, in both good and bad ways. Don't expect to be awesomealpha 3000 from day 1. Consider this semester a tutorial. Talk to people for practice, hang out with people even if they kinda suck. You want to cast a wide net ASAP. Trim the fat later as your network expands. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/14 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Women catch you reading RedPill...The only women who will even recognize what you're reading are the worst kind of women anyway. Tumblr whale warrior 9000 womens studies major offended by the word "retard." I've never had anyone ask me what I'm reading. Nobody cares. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/14 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Disney and TRPThose aren't really blue pill though. Those are movies that gave women unrealistic expectations and princess complexes. But, they did what RP expects, married the alpha male. Frozen is a great example of a Blue Pill movie. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/14 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Can a shit test. Come in the form of a compliment? Some examples please.When you're on equal playing ground, yeah, but as the saying goes, shit rolls downhill. Guys will give low ranking betas shit tests just for fun, I've seen this happen all the time. Sex questions, relationship questions, it's almost like a lawyer. They ask questions they already know the answer to just to fuck with dudes. If a really timid guy gets asked when the last time he had sex was, the question is not about when the last time he actually had sex was, it's to see how he reacts and fuck wit… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/14 05:47 AM |
| 5 | concerning how many men in general are red pillEvery guy I've ever known who was successful with women followed red pill game without knowing what red pill was. Every guy I've ever known who struggled deeply with women was blue pill beta nice guy. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/14 01:15 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with an LTR who won't tell you how many sexual partners she's had?She just red pill gamed your shit test. Think about that. And then don't give shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 01:58 AM |
| 6 | What does it mean to be truly outcome dependent?Do you mean outcome independent? Outcome dependent is bad. It means you care way too much about what happens. It's like playing the lottery and getting depressed when you don't win 30 million. Outcome independent is the opposite of that. You play for the hell of it. If you win, awesome; if you lose, oh well it's fun to play. Maybe not the best example as the odds of winning the lottery are pretty low, but the point remains the same. Don't play the game to win, play the game because it's fun. Yes… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 01:53 AM |
| 1 | I'll be going on a solo trip to Europe for one month. My girlfriend and I are taking an indefinite hiatus (possibly not getting back together after I get back). I know there will be certain points in the trip will I will be lonely and miss her, how do I man up and deal with it?Fuck European girls. How is this even a question? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Club bouncer denies free entry to a girl because she's not hot - says that she has to pay the $50 cover like everyone else. Girl proceeds to throw a tantrum on r/TwoXChromosomes.Ahhh I love the club example. It sucks to be turned away from a club, and it happens to both guys and girls. When it happens to girls girls have to pay full cover, there's something inherently wrong with the universe. The bouncer is a dick, the club sucks anyway, it's not fair, we have to change society. When it happens to guys we complain to the bouncer, then we go to a different club and don't wear that outfit to the club again. I've never seen a girl get refused entry. I've seen them have to … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 01:42 AM |
| 1 | One of my good friends keeps trying to hang out with my girlfriend-- "Why are you texting my girl? Stop" Don't avoid confrontation. Don't put it off until you get super pissed about it. Don't try to control it through the girl. Word it how you want, but get the point across that the race is over and this is not cool. It doesn't mean the end of your friendship. Maintaining frame is about more than not giving a fuck about anything ever. This dude needs to know what's up, maybe he thinks she's fair game, it doesn't matter. He'll probably try to downplay it, don't… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Advice on getting a number.Talk after class. | /r/trpGAME | 11/08/14 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with One-ItisBut, I don't want too. And I don't really want to go to work tomorrow, but I'm going. Delete her. Cut all contact, move on with life. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/14 01:16 AM |
| 1 | College starts in a little over two weeks...Good luck. Uni is what you make it. Spend 30 minutes on reddit and you'll find plenty of dudes who were majorly let down by everything not being awesome. You have to make it happen for yourself, talk to people, make friends, join clubs, find parties, and get your tired, hungover, stressed out, sleep deprived ass to the gym. Focus on quantity over quality. Freshmen friends will come and go but the bigger your crew the more options you have. The first 2 weeks are like everyone's on ecstasy. People… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/14 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Have a nagging feeling that my physical appearance is my limiting factorOnline dating is the toughest arena on looks. If you're pulling girls from tinder and okc then it must not be that bad. And even if it is, some fucked up looking dudes get girls. Obese guys, Steve Buscemi looking motherfuckers, skinny ass hipsters. Dudes get a pretty generous pass on looks if they've got their shit together. This mentality will kill your game regardless of how good you think it is. Get a handle on it, accept yourself, develop your self confidence. You're not in the right place t… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/14 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Should I buy her (A Russian Girl) flower/s on the first date?When in Rome... If the rest of your game is solid this shouldn't be a problem. | /r/trpGAME | 10/08/14 08:55 AM |
| 5 | One of the most obvious shit tests, shot down quite easily.If you're not trolling you've gone a bridge too far. Reel it in. | /r/trpGAME | 09/08/14 11:40 AM |
| 6 | #FeministsAreUgly trends on Twitter, feminists immediately rush to show how beautiful they are.Guys who are bottoms in the relationship. People pleasers. Yes dears. Betas. There are the early white knights who think they'll get laid, but not nearly enough to account for the numbers we see. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/14 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Plate admits hooking up with professor, drop or keep spinning?It's not like she accused him of rape or something, what's the problem? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/14 11:24 AM |
| 10 | Implants: Red Flag or not?I'm all for a woman who is willing to improve herself. It's certainly better than those who declare themselves to be perfect as they are and shun models and Hollywood. Not that all women should get breast implants. The desire for improvement at all... fuck it you know what I mean. Let blue pill take it and run if they want. I vote no correlation. Some women with breast implants might be nuts, not all women with breast implants are nuts. Look for something else to base your decision on and see if… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/14 10:34 AM |
| 3 | Canceled date because I believe in dating equality....Great story, but a month? What the fuck man reduce that down to like a week. You wasted way too much time with such a ridiculous girl. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/14 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Male Friends want me to be nice.People like stability. This is the crab in the bucket thing. People will hold you back from attaining something awesome because they're worried you will leave them behind or change into something that's not compatible with them. Ever see the family guy episode where Joe gets his legs fixed? He becomes a badass, does awesome stuff, and gets bored with his shitty life. His friends literally break his legs to keep him around. And the audience goes along with it because he gets painted like an assho… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/14 03:41 AM |
| 12 | Why are (western) women so concerned about how men react to periods?I don't know Sheila, how do you feel about penis acceptance? Why does society make me wear pants when I have this glorious dick? Why should I have to hide my boners, I like my boners goddammit! This seems like a lost cause, why not have some fun with it? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 10:40 AM |
| 3 | pregnant wife abandons her husband over his troll accountIn a way I'm happy for the guy. Lord knows what horrors await the poor fool who ends up with this... benevolent goddess. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 10:21 AM |
| 1 | TRP and college adviceI'd give advice if I had anything to work with. This post is basically "How do I approach women?" That's way too vague, and TRP is about so much more than that. It's like asking /r/fishing how to fish. Where... where do I even begin? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 10:12 AM |
| 22 | How to deal with a girl who'll let me feel her up but not fuck her?Try to fuck, if she won't, go do something else. Move on, focus on other things. The fact you've devoted "a couple of months" to this shit is already bad enough. Don't let it get worse. If your newfound lack of time for her doesn't change how she feels then you've lost nothing and gained whatever else you devoted your time to, plates, lifting, or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 09:09 AM |
| 2 | TRP and college adviceWe're not here to hold your hand through this. Read the material and figure it out for yourself. This is basic level stuff. Come back when you have a field report for us to work with. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 06:57 AM |
| 5 | Contradiction in TRPWhere does it say this in any reading material? I'd be quite happy with a stay at home wife if she didn't pretend it was the hardest job in the world. The "shaming" is in response to the idiotic complaints that are so common from both sides. Housework isn't the hardest thing in the world. Balancing a career and a family is not impossible. What most people are complaining about is the tendency that Women have to move the goal line to suit their situation. Whatever they're doing on a daily basis i… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/14 06:53 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with shit tests from women in a position of genuine power over you?It's all about frame. Do what you would do with any other woman. Handle the shit test in whatever way best suits it, and do not deviate from that, ever. If you maintain frame, that will just be how you are. That will be your personality. If you drop frame you'll get called out when you try to deviate and it can lead to trouble. Obviously you still have to do what your superiors outright tell you to, but don't snivel. Same rules apply really. TRP isn't disrespectful if you use it right, it's all … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/14 05:50 PM |
| 4 | I'm new here, and I just want to hear all of your reasons for being subscribed here.What's funny is I've known of red pill ideas and theories for quite some time, but I had avoided this subreddit because I thought it was what reddit said it was. I thought it was nothing but a bitter stage circle jerk. Woman this and woman that, men should be able to this and men should be able to do that. The EMSK post that told me why TRP would kill my soul or something actually made me check it out and see that it was not about that at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 09:20 AM |
| 74 | I think I broke her...the ugliest girl I know is a single mom who complains about male privilege and unrealistic beauty standards. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with "Alphas"If you want to completely destroy the guy say everything you just said to us to him in front of everyone else. Ask him why he does what he does right after he does it. And stay on target. He'll try to change the subject or deflect it, stay on target, stay serious. If you just want to carry on living your life, ignore him. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 11:54 PM |
| -1 | How to respond to 'you're too quiet'You should never get asked this question. If you do get asked this question you're doing something wrong. It's less about the quietness and more about how someone who asks you this question perceives you. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 11:50 PM |
| 2 | LIVE: Michelle Obama just said "Women are smarter than men, and men can't complain about it" (1-2 mins ago)How is education that close to health? That's legitimately terrifying. They must lump everything under the sun, like nursing, and pharmacy tech, into that category. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 11:46 PM |
| 1 | LIVE: Michelle Obama just said "Women are smarter than men, and men can't complain about it" (1-2 mins ago)This is purely a political move. Men don't care if Women say this because why should we? It's like being white, people can come up with all kinds of racist names for white people but nobody gives a shit because white people are on top. You can call men stupid all day long because we are the ones who make shit happen. If your teenager calls you an idiot do you get upset or do you just sigh at how annoying and predictable they are? Playing to the feminist demographic is a fantastic way to generate… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Dread Game - WTF do I do now?!She's been secure for years and now suddenly she sees your SMV going up and is terrified. I'm gonna go with hurry up and wait. See how the situation develops. Don't make things worse by putting your foot in it. Don't react to her shitty behavior. If you change your routine that could be seen as caving to her demands, or as proof that you're fucking around on her. Keep doing what you're doing, keep your nose clean, don't focus your dread game so heavily anymore. It's done everything it needs to. … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 11:35 PM |
| 10 | In marriage, if the woman doesn't work because the man wants her to watch the kids, is that not a good reason for her to get alimony/child support if they divorce since she's been without a job for so long? Please explain.This argument is rooted in what well have been taught is normal. Take care of women, for they are weak and helpless. If she can't support herself without my help she shouldn't get the kids. What it all comes down to are the choices we make. It isn't 1950 anymore, Women have careers. With that increased economic mobility comes the responsibility to take care of themselves. If they make the decision to stay home and take care of the kids, they should know that they are putting all of their eggs in… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Guy asks his girlfriend to wash his car in a bikini. The white knights of r/Askmen conclude: it is hateful misogyny.A few voices of reason shone through early on before the feminists got there. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 10:44 PM |
| 3 | "Perhaps land whales are native to hamplanets, gingerly trotting about the vast and fertile bacon prairies"... I just give up.Oh what a surprise, it's a nerdy looking fat guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How do women that you know actually use Online dating?They don't. Around here, only desperate women use online dating. Fat, single moms, autistic, you get the idea. POF, okcupid, they're full to bursting with the bottom of the barrel. A lot of normal girls use tinder, but for some reason this is not classified as online dating. Just like how playing candycrush isn't nerdy but playing Halo is. Anyone who's not desperate probably uses match or eharmony or one of those expensive sites. A lot of which are probably either free or heavily discounted for … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 11:32 AM |
| 6 | Hypergamy. If women want a guy who's basically better in every way, then what's in it for him?The 50s had it right. She takes care of my house, raises my kids, cooks me food, and I get to fuck her? Sign me up! But now with all this career bullshit. No wonder the marriage rate is plummeting. Nobody sees any benefit to it. The role of breadwinner and homemaker made marriage a logical thing. Now it's just a bet that you'll be in love forever and the stakes are half your stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Single Moms Are The Only Thing Worse Than SlutsMaybe #notallsinglemoms are like this. But that's a risk I'm willing to take in order to avoid raising someone else's kid. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Street game: After getting a compliment opener, girls say "thank you" and walk away. What's the solution to this?If you open with a compliment, don't just leave it at that. Ever seen the Simple Pickup videos? One of them uses a fairly reliable line. He tells a girl she looks adorable, and that he had to meet her or talk to her. A compliment isn't a conversation starter, it's there to lower defenses. Follow it up with a question, or some other line that almost forces conversation. Rejections will seem more awkward, but that's because it is much, much more awkward for her to just ignore you than it is to jus… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 09:47 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop seeking the affirmation that I so desperately look for?We all want some level of attention from women, otherwise we wouldn't be here talking about strategy to deal with them. What exactly do you mean be seeking attention and approval? Trying to impress a Woman is one thing. Changing your personality or something about you in order to fit in with a Woman is another thing. If you really want to be rid of it entirely, look into MGTOW. Red pill is more how to deal with them, MGTOW is how to move beyond them. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 09:24 AM |
| 0 | My gf does this shit test every so often, and it never leads to sex. Obviously. How to handle?I think this is more drastic than you're making it out to be. She's saying she wants sex, but that you suck as a person and are no fun to have sex with. You should be pissed, you have every right to be pissed. First of all stop responding to this bullshit. Continue watching TV, or whatever it is you were doing before she demanded attention. Dread game, go. Ignore her, do not pursue her, make her literally jump you if she wants it. Go do something with your friends or by yourself, don't check in … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 09:12 AM |
| 3 | FWB That I Want To Keep Around, Just Asked Me If All I Want Her For Is Sex.Looks like you already solved it. But for future reference this is also a great time to agree and amplify. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Paid for a vacation with ex-LTR and mutual friends. Can't get a refund. Do you still go?Define "mutual friends." I'm assuming the mutual friends are really more my friends because I wouldn't be going on a vacation with a bunch of her friends. That sounds like utter hell and breaking up in order to avoid it is not out of the question. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 05:39 AM |
| 2 | according to this University of Chicago paper, feminization of society and reduction of testosterone in males is the result of 200,000 years of evolution thats necessary for social tolerance, cooperative culture, and modern civilizationMaybe it is and maybe it isn't. TRP isn't political theory, it's sexual strategy. But I'll tell you that any political theory worth anything is not based in the realm of cooperation. War is common and normal, peace is not. Assuming otherwise gets you killed. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 05:31 AM |
| 3 | I am the Sexist at work. How do I handle this without losing frame?The workplace is quite possibly the most dangerous place to challenge the feminist ideal. Sexual harassment, discrimination, it's insane how quickly the weight of the world world will come crashing down on your head if you get reported to management. Don't talk about TRP, don't talk about things TRP would talk about. Watch your mouth, and help them with the sale. You are a blue piller at work. You blend in with the crowd, you do not draw attention to yourself, you do not look at the Woman in the… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 05:27 AM |
| 15 | I notice a lot of men who gets fucked over by feminism are also the most militant in defending feminism....why?Read this backwards and you have your answer. The guys who believe in feminism do what feminism tells them to do. And what feminism tells them to do is fucking stupid. They don't know feminism is telling them the wrong thing to do, because that's all they've ever been taught was right. That's why you get so many guys saying girls like assholes, complaining about the friendzone, and not knowing how to flirt or attract women. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/14 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Female cops fail to arrest a man whose pants are falling off.Yeah, let's totally let Women into the Marines. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/14 11:33 PM |
| 1 | SO childishly tells me something is wrong but won't tell me what.No one ever presents actual bad news or crisis by opening with "omg this is horrible." If something actually terrible has happened they take a serious tone. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What's a realistic timeframe to see benefits?There is no finish line. Strive for improvement every day and changes will come in time. Eye contact used to be a really difficult problem for me, as recent as a year ago. Now I look people in the eye without even thinking about it. I don't remember there ever being a day where it suddenly happened. It was just something I started doing without realizing it. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/14 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How respond when she sends hot pics?Legendary. I don't know why you got downvoted. You've got it down man. Don't respond with praise, playfully tease her. Personally I like the not bad/I've seen better responses. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/14 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Sitting down stairs while my previous oneitis is getting nailed upstairs, extreme AFBB, need helpThat "dark triad hack" is bullshit. It's narcissistic and not alpha at all. Being alpha isn't about inflating your ego being better than anyone. Being alpha is about being comfortable with who you are, your strengths and weaknesses. Thinking you're better than everyone is fucking crazy and is destined to fail because, news flash, you aren't the greatest man who ever lived. Don't seek to inflate your ego, don't seek validation from others, don't pretend you're awesome when you're not. If you can'… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/14 03:22 AM |
| 6 | I'm 21 Year Old and Still a Virgin. What Should I Say When This Topic Comes Up?Don't fuck an ugly chick. Adopt the binary scale system. Yes or no. Fuck the yeses not the nos. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/14 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice on my text game.That's a heavy multistage shit test. First stage is the fact that she replied 2 fucking days later. Second is the "(maybe)" which gives her an easy out. Third is the play dumb oh this was a date? response. Fourth stage "but it's hot" almost sounds like a rejection right? She never answered your question and changed the subject negatively. I'll be honest, this looks like a difficult uphill battle that you deserve a medal for if you conquer. I think you should ignore the first question. As for the… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/14 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Shit Test?My best guess is she's trying to suggest sex but maintain plausible deniability. She doesn't want to be a whore, but the landing lights are flashing. A drive-in movie theatre would be great, if there's one near you. Ignore her words, escalate, if she's telling the truth and tries to snuggle-zone you then move on. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/14 01:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Know your value, push the limits to the point of being borderline arrogant. Do NOT play safe.Sure is chivalrous in here. She's the one who's married, not like he took advantage of anything or tricked her. If my moral high ground is the only thing keeping a married woman from fucking me that's a pretty sorry excise for a wife. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Business School - Next StepWhat are you expecting to get here? A step by step guide to dating? Know your fundamentals and play it as it comes. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/14 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet? Can we get a guide for this?What are you asking? Where to go on first dates? I don't know, that depends what's around you, what kind of date it is, and how well you know the girl. Go to a cafe, go out to lunch, go get some food at the park. First time you meet you want it to be quick and casual. Don't go to dinner and a broadway show. "Drinks" are not the answer to everything. Most people don't meet for a first date at a bar or club that cards at the door anyway. There are plenty of places that serve drinks but also serve … | /r/trpGAME | 01/08/14 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Response to "You suck at responding" shit test.This is a good thing, it means she is hanging on your words | /r/askTRP | 31/07/14 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Need encouragement as I get into the lifting/red pill lifestyle.Take a starting picture of yourself in the mirror and refer back to it occasionally after a period of time, idk like a month or so? You'll notice improvements that might have otherwise gone unnoticed. Going to the gym is the hard part. Working out once you're there is easy. Do what you can to make yourself go. Set an alarm, do it instead of something shitty like cleaning. Try to make it a fun place where you can escape everything else and just lift. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/14 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Should you tell a girl if you're a virgin?Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 11:19 AM |
| -5 | Take Women Off the Hate Pedestalclick on the relevant flair at the top of your screen to avoid this. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 10:29 AM |
| 3 | So let me get this straight...Kinda. It's really not that complicated. Don't do anything. Don't try to do these things. Don't do it. The less you do, the more you do. You can't just go through the motions and fake this stuff. Why it works is because the way you think about the world changes. You see that women are not diamonds in the rough, but apples in the orchard. Most are passable, some are rotten, and a few are really fantastic apples. But even the best apple is still just an apple in the middle of an apple orchard. If … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 09:05 AM |
| 2 | After accepting the pill, I find it hard to enjoy the music I used to enjoyBut... Your hair, it's everywhere. Screaming infidelities! IDK man, outside of super emo shit like that I have never had this problem. Sounds like you are deep in the bitter stage. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/14 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Joe Rogan: Excellent example of a strong alpha frame. He embodyies TRP principlesTosh makes rape jokes, and is a misogynist for comedic purposes. I've yet to determine if he actually believes anything remotely similar to TRP or if he just plays an asshole on tv. But I guess either one is good enough for feminists to complain about. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Joe Rogan: Excellent example of a strong alpha frame. He embodyies TRP principlesHis podcasts will give you a better example of the kinda guy he is. His standup is just standup, but his personality really comes out in his podcasts. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Strategy for talking to a woman with hovering guysUnless it's obvious, treat all guys like they're just her cousin. If they are orbiting her they will try to scare you off. They might hug her, dance with her, give you the face of death. Disregard them until you get an answer from her. | /r/trpGAME | 28/07/14 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Should you tell a girl if you're a virgin?Read the rational males iron rules. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 05:26 AM |
| 2 | If you can do these without being "beta-shamed", you truly understand the game.Yeah, but it's all in how you do it. Any schmuck can take a drink but 8 times outta 10 it will end in disaster because it's about everything except taking the drink. How you walk, talk, move, look, behave, it's completely nonverbal. If you're meeking around the bar and try this it's just perceived as rude. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/14 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with female 'haters'Take nothing seriously. Assume everything is a joke. Consider the jackass movies. What's funnier, when the victim of a prank takes it seriously and gets his jimmies rustled? Or when they laugh along with the situation and don't take it seriously? The reason the air horn at a golf course prank is so funny is because the golfers get so pissed off. The ones that ignored it or laughed along with it didn't make the edit. Same concept here. They throw shit at you to see how you react. If you ignore it… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 08:47 PM |
| 19 | Female seeking advice from male PUAsOpposite gender advice is generally completely useless. But then so is a lot of "cosmo" style advice. With that said, all I can say is stick to the basics and don't try too hard to make yourself available. By basics I mean eye contact, smiling, light touching, that kinda thing. But don't overdo it and come on too strong. Be slightly more friendly than your friends. | /r/seduction | 26/07/14 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Out of nothing she texted me her groter had cancerGive her a sympathetic line and hope or whatever, but don't go running to her rescue or become an emotional tampon. See where it goes. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 01:30 AM |
| 1 | After I caught her about to cheat, the flood gates opened. Need some advice.Her behavior isn't because of anything you did. You seem to think you have the advantage here but you don't. All these favors are because you caught her and she's trying to puppy dog her way out of it. In the same way a guy buys flowers for the girlfriend he just beat. Do what you will, but reexamine your interpretation of TRP because there was a lead up to this, and your reaction obviously was not strong enough. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/14 01:27 AM |
| 4 | 5'1 shy guy in high school. Got anything?Don't wait till college. Stop asking girls out for the time being. Take some time to get your shit together. Go to the gym, perfect a hobby, work on managing your speech, become the leader of your friends, whatever, just focus on improving you for you, don't do it for the girls. Your height is your height. Ain't shit you can do about it and it's definitely not a death sentence so you can either keep using it as an excuse or learn to deal with it. Talk to people. Everywhere, anywhere, for no reas… | /r/seduction | 25/07/14 10:38 AM |
| 1 | TRP literature for men - women's reactionNawalt Misogyny card Calling this emotional manipulation/abuse Beta shaming us. Saying we wouldn't be here if we weren't all loser, beta, bitter, purple-shirted eye-stabbing virgins. I've yet to see an actual argument against TRP, it's all just shaming. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/14 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Do women use "No Contact" as a shit test?I've got an app sms scheduler or something like that | /r/trpGAME | 25/07/14 09:58 AM |
| 11 | I think I learned this from you guys. Married life field report with a cool storyIf you change a few words around this could be posted to parenting. Now if only I could somehow get my friend to read this sub. Maybe his girl wouldn't come up short every month and spend all her money on stupid shit like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 09:52 AM |
| 20 | The deeper I go into this rabbit hole, the more I'm growing a resentment and hate towards women. What do I do?This is part of the process and will fade in time. What you have to realize is they're not doing these things on purpose with malicious intent. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/14 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Wherein a guy's GF suggests cuckolding, and he drops her instantlyWelcome to r/askmen I remember seeing this a while back and my jaw hit the floor at some of the responses. The majority of the guys who hang out there seem to be somewhere between blue and red. They regurgitate the same feminist crap they've been fed, but at the same time are often receptive to TRP ideas, if worded correctly. They'll hate on TRP all day long, but upvote you when you tell a guy to get his head out of his ass and stop worshipping a girl. Most people hate TRP because they're told t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 02:00 AM |
| 9 | The New trailor to "50 Shades of Grey" is the most blatant Red Pill example I've ever seen in film. (Link included)Anyone who criticizes what we promote here just needs to read this book and look at how insanely popular it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/14 01:42 AM |
| 3 | What can I do today to get my co-worker more interested?One of the core teachings of TRP is to judge Women on their actions, not on their words. If you want to pursue this pursue it. Just be smart about it. | /r/trpGAME | 23/07/14 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Messed up a while backYou're not responsible for her mental health. She totally overreacted and you got screwed. Unfortunately it probably could not have happened at a worse time. Sexual assault on campus is in the top 5 things to be angry about these days, so I'm not surprised you received no mercy. All I can say is get your story straight. If you're going to claim innocence claim innocence. What I just read was very wishy washy and awkward. Maybe she did feel uncomfortable, but that was not your intention. Figure o… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 08:51 AM |
| 7 | Subtle TRP techniques to use on my gflike I said, I say it again with even more emphasis. You don't understand what TRP is. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 08:38 AM |
| 6 | Subtle TRP techniques to use on my gfread more, you seem misinformed as to what TRP is. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 08:29 AM |
| 0 | I didn't really believe this TRP stuff worked as well as you all claim, until two nights ago.Rock on man. The beta in me is like "that's fucked up man" but honestly I think it will probably help this guy in the long run. When shit like this happened to me it's what made me question the way I saw the world and eventually led me here. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 05:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I make myself enjoy acting like a Red Pill guy / alpha male?Being alpha isn't about being a loud cocky asshole. That might get you laid from time to time but it's not alpha. Being alpha means being a zen master. Not giving a fuck. Being happy, comfortable, and so sure of yourself that you can make a mistake without being embarrassed. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/14 05:04 AM |
| 12 | What is The Red Pill and Why does it existClose, but lacking I feel. I grew up with a father who was very much involved in my life. My mother hates the feminist movement, and for that matter generally dislikes other women as well. She is ultimately submissive to him, although she does put up a fight from time to time, which is to be expected. My father is a mans man. Hard working, masculine, dislikes what for lack of a better term we call the feminization of society. If given the choice he would much rather work a blue collar job then t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 04:46 AM |
| 3 | so.. I was banned because a Mod from OMC doesn't like TRPFunny thing about TRP is if you avoid the lingo and actually mentioning TRP, your advice is generally well received. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 08:35 AM |
| 5 | I understand the Red Pill, but still dont know how to use itRead more. Read the Rationale Male Iron Rules. Read all the sidebar links in trp. Then practice. Talk to Women. Start on tinder, okc, pof, if you have to. Even if you suck at it you will pick up on the nuances, the shit tests, what works what doesn't. At some point you have to throw yourself into the fray. You can read about being a better soccer player for 600 hours, and spend 5 days a week doing leg presses, but until you actually kick a ball you will not understand how to play the game. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 07:51 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is literally the kryptonite of alphasMean what you say and do. It doesn't matter how much a girl knows about the tactics you use, you're still gonna use them because the point is not to develop some shitty PUA facade you play in the club. The point of rpgame is to free you from dependence on women. It's a change in you mentality and behavior, not some formulaic approach to picking up women. For example, if she blows you off and you play some dread game, the point isn't to make her come crying back. The point is that you don't need … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Is this "stage" normal after swallowing the pill?Kinda, though nowhere near as serious. I just looked back on what worked and what didn't and saw beta behavior that ruined my chances and redpill game that made shit happen. Take it as a learning experience, a real life example that this stuff is not bullshit people make up on the internet because they're angry. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/14 07:27 AM |
| 7 | How does your post advance the discussion of sexual strategy?go to /r/alreadyred if you need nothing but sexual strategy. Personally, I think guys need a place to talk about this shit without getting downvoted into oblivion, if only to know that they aren't insane. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 04:51 AM |
| 1 | keto vs atkins - someone explain how keto doesn't involve eating eggs 3 times a dayCan't speak for keto. I've known several people who have done atkins and it worked for them. I don't see it as a long term diet though. If you can lose it fast with atkins, then switch to a regular balanced diet go for it. But long term atkins seems... not good. Ymmv. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 11:38 AM |
| 30 | Never ComplainCareful now. Never complain ≠ never speak up. If you're in a shitty situation or don't like what's going on speak your mind. Don't be a timid church mouse who never takes issue with anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How would /r/TheRedPill suggest writing a casual encounters ad?Tinder is going to have more women on it than craigslist. The weirdest of the weird will be on there. All you're going to get is spammed into oblivion by scammers and maybe get an actual reply from a crack whore or 2. Regular girls already think online dating is sketchy, craigslist is infamous for serial killers. You do the math. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/14 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Feel like this girl is trying to make me an orbiter/teasing me. How to respond?Fuck her | /r/askTRP | 20/07/14 09:23 AM |
| 3 | r/OkCupid, redpill theory confirmedOkc fucking sucks in my area. Every girl within 50 miles is a fatass weirdo. I shit you not I was talking to a one eyed girl. On topic... am tall, hasn't helped me. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 09:20 AM |
| 1 | TRP, when did you "get it"?I can't remember it being a single sudden moment of realization, because it wasn't. I made it through high school being a frustrated foreveralone virgin warrior beta. In my most frustrated moments I turned to the internet for help. Social anxiety, self-help, PUA, Simple Pickup videos, I picked up bits and pieces as I went; but none of them really fit why I was struggling. As I explored the PUA community more I decided to give the things I learned a shot, and managed to pull a 10/10 for the first… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Match Profile made me chuckle, see the irony?traditional patriarchal values this makes me skeptical. Does anyone outside of the feminist movement actually use this term seriously? Seems like a biased research troll. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 05:02 AM |
| 0 | So, when does it start to get easier?Friends, social circle, status. You need a social circle to work from. Let's say 5 friends, those friends have friends, have parties, all kinds of things that will get your foot in the door and you can build out from there. Focus on having a solid social foundation. Work on the acquaintances you have, or try to make entirely new ones. Whichever you feel suits you best. Meetup, couchsurfing, etc if you need online help. Beyond that, cold approaches should still work regardless of your social situ… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 04:59 AM |
| 9 | TechCrunch groups TheRedPill with Stormfront as a "misogynist hate site"Whatever. Part of the red pill process is hatred. You have to hate something to seek out this advice. Be that women, yourself, the disney movies that lied to you, feminism, or whatever. When you recognize the way the world works and it isn't at all how people told you it did, your natural reaction is to get angry. "Well what the fuck?" I remember when I first started realizing what I was doing was not working at all. I stumbled across the Black Phillip show, and it was like adding a spark to kin… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Critique my text chain. New to the idea of TRPYou started strong but then got lost frolicking in the enchanted forest of feelings. You let her control the conversation and it was about her past relationship, which you really don't, and shouldn't, give a fuck about. | /r/trpGAME | 18/07/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Help my friendI've tried, and failed, to talk friends out of it. There's something to that line you know, "Unfortunately, no one can be told what the matrix is, they have to see it for themselves." | /r/askTRP | 18/07/14 08:02 AM |
| 1 | How come women are obligated to sleep with you?They are?! Holy shit no one told me. I've got some back-pussy coming my way. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/14 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Slutzone Moral DilemmaYou gotta diversify your portfolio. You wouldn't invest all your money in one corporation would you? Keep their numbers in your phone, but focus on your main girl. She sounds like a champion btw. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/14 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Why Gym toned men are a huge turnoff.Not really. I think they're saying they prefer this over this. If I could be bothered to find it, somewhere out there is that makeshift chart of bodytypes that I feel explains this well. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 05:23 AM |
| 0 | Virgin here, need help.If you don't feel confident enough in your game to lie about/sidestep/keep secret your sexual history, then why would a hooker help? Losing it to a hooker is as much, if not more, of a social stigma than being a virgin. They only thing that you could gain from it is sexual experience. And if you manage to get that far with some tinder girl it doesn't matter anyway. But if you think you're hung up on this enough to need to get it over with just for your own confidence or mental health, then shit,… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 03:25 AM |
| 1 | A Man's Job is to Make Things HappenI think implying they do it intentionally to remove themselves from responsibility is a bit harsh. I'd call that a symptom of their behavior. Learned, taught, evolved, who knows. But it all does boil down to the point that the man is supposed to make it happen. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 03:06 AM |
| 5 | [Discussion] Why do women deny their desire to be dominated?Domination implies loss of control in a society built upon personal freedom. I think it's simply cultural. Dominance has become an ugly, savage, almost animal word that has no place in free society. And yet behaviorally, everything about relationships from top to bottom is centered around it. Try going on a date without a plan. You don't decide where to go or what to do by asking her, you just take her there. And if you do try to get her input the night will crumble because she'll think you have… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Germany's World Cup hero and his supermodel girlfriend can teach men a lesson about social valueholding the trophy no less. It should be illegal to touch that unless you are on the team. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/14 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Study: Young women with sexy social media photos seen as less competent (x-post /r/science)Weird Al is much better looking than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 03:09 AM |
| 0 | My use of Dread Game in a LTRyeah I guess I worded that poorly, but I intentionally included the terrible "talk about it" advice you so often hear. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/14 05:57 AM |
| 6 | My use of Dread Game in a LTRWhat makes me laugh about the people who criticize this place is that this kind of behavior is inevitable regardless of your redpill knowledge. Sooner or later the relationship would become strained, distance would emerge, and the person who cares more would cave to the pressure in one form or another. But recognize this behavior, write it down and share it with the world, and you're literally the worst kind of person. You see this story in every advice column out there. "He/she's become distant… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 11:55 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter