Greatguy5566 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Confused during the date	Field Report	Greatguy5566	/r/seduction	02/08/21 04:12 AM
6	Need some pointers and advice	Fundamentals	Greatguy5566	/r/seduction	01/07/21 08:26 AM
4	Advice for first dates	Outer Game	Greatguy5566	/r/seduction	19/07/21 03:08 PM
1	How has your game changed during COVID-19?	Outer Game	Greatguy5566	/r/seduction	12/07/21 02:35 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Confused during the date So how can I tell she wasn’t interested from the start or whether it was because I didn’t make a move at the end? If she wasn’t interested, I presumed that she would only play along with the plans I suggest. Why would she initiate the plans and suggest seeing her cat, telling me she’s free tomorrow, asking me to watch a drama with her etc?	/r/seduction	02/08/21 01:01 PM
1	Confused during the date Yeah I realized when she set the date and all the plans she suggested, I responded without much enthusiasm and didn’t seem too into it. I think she can tell near the end of the date that a) I was either going along with it and b) I was too nervous to make a move and escalate This is for some reason a problem I’m having. I am fine with escalating during the day or doing night game but for some reason all my skills/confidence and natural urge is lost during dates from dating apps.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 12:55 PM
1	Confused during the date How would you have escalated during the date? I usually don’t do dates sitting opposite to each other at the table for extended periods of time. I somehow find it very difficult to escalate on dates for some reason even though I have no problem doing it during daygame or night game. At the very end of the night. We were waiting outside the restaurant and for her uber. She offered for me to be on the same uber ride since she’s close to where I live so I’m wondering if she was signaling me to go b…	/r/seduction	02/08/21 12:52 PM
2	Confused during the date At the very end of the night. We were waiting outside the restaurant and for her uber. She offered for me to be on the same uber ride since she’s close to where I live so I’m wondering if she was signaling me to go back to her place and make a move the entire time after the dinner instead of awkwardly standing there waiting without talking lol.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 12:49 PM
1	Confused during the date At the very end of the night. We were waiting outside the restaurant and for her uber. She offered for me to be on the same uber ride since she’s close to where I live so I’m wondering if she was signaling me to go back to her place and make a move the entire time after the dinner instead of awkwardly standing there waiting without talking lol.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 12:49 PM
9	Confused during the date Lol, I didn’t text her that I got back. I texted WHEN I got back. She didn’t reply to me suggesting the time to meet tomorrow. So I’m assuming it’s called off. I just don’t understand why girls go to such great lengths to make it seem like they’re interested if they’re not.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 04:47 AM
2	What happened to my approach anxiety after 140+ approaches in 1 month. Man this is great progress, good on you for sticking it through! I’ve realized how many naysayers and haters there are on this thread alone, makes you realize what you’re doing takes willpower and effort. In my book, taking action already makes you a winner regardless of the outcome. Imo, you should forget about the numbers and stats, it makes you impatient, outcome dependent and neglects the process. Just have fun, enjoy the moment, keep pushing your comfort zone and eventually whatever you wan…	/r/seduction	27/07/21 07:05 AM
1	Getting back into the game Hey I think I might be going on a diff road than you haha. I’ve been cold approaching for a while (hundreds of girls) at this point. I know what you mean about not being interested in girls. I find that for guys like us (sounds so cheesy but bear with me), because we’ve gotten so much validation from girls all around. We start to have this false belief where we need to have chemistry with all the hot girls around us. But in reality, you are not going to be interested in all the girls, even if sh…	/r/seduction	23/07/21 04:40 PM
1	Getting back into the game Hey man, I’m in the exact same spot. Same age as well haha. Used to have the hottest girls in high school, university residence, gyms wherever come up to me. Missed out on so many good opportunities because I told myself I had to focus on getting good grades, and I did get to where I want career wise but relationships suffered. Now I’m not sure if you are trying to get into cold approach or just date within your circle etc. But I will give a few tips specifically to you and your situation. Be pa…	/r/seduction	23/07/21 02:24 PM
1	Advice for first dates That’s true, no harm in shooting your shot. If it’s not you it’s someone else	/r/seduction	21/07/21 03:16 PM
1	Advice for first dates That’s true, no harm in shooting your shot. If it’s not you it’s someone else	/r/seduction	21/07/21 07:33 AM
1	Advice for first dates That’s true, no harm in shooting your shot. If it’s not you it’s someone else	/r/seduction	21/07/21 07:33 AM
1	Advice for first dates That’s true, no harm in shooting your shot. If it’s not you it’s someone else	/r/seduction	21/07/21 07:32 AM
1	Advice for first dates Thanks! How do you know when a girl is not feeling it at all vs she’s shy or not ready yet but wants to continue?	/r/seduction	20/07/21 06:04 PM
1	Advice for first dates I see. Thanks for clarifying! The odd part is I have had experiences with quite a few first dates where we had no physical contact or escalation at all but somehow kept getting more future dates and more. So that has made me assumed that escalation is not needed or in fact the norm. Additionally, a lot of times when I make moves on girls on a date, they tend to shy away and act quite awkward or uncomfortable. Disclaimer: (a lot of attractive girls do approach me and many have told me I am good l…	/r/seduction	20/07/21 06:04 PM
2	Advice for first dates They weren’t bad looking per se, but Ive found that there’s this threshold of attractiveness for girls where my natural urge would kick in and I don’t need to feel like I’m going through the motion on to flirt/escalate etc. unfortunately, she was one of the few ones who were pretty but just not enough to make me feel like I wanted it on the inside. Hence, I’m trying to figure out whether the problem I have is because of attraction or because of my expectations for first dates in general?	/r/seduction	20/07/21 06:00 PM
1	Advice for first dates I see, so just go for it no matter what? If they say no or reject, just tone down and try again later?	/r/seduction	20/07/21 06:25 AM
1	Advice for first dates I see, so what’s the sequence to escalate? Maybe hug at the start, tap on arms/hands, play with her hands and then hair. Later in the night go for a kiss? Do you think not escalating would make the girl write you off if they think you’re disinterested or too shy?	/r/seduction	20/07/21 06:24 AM
1	Advice for first dates I meant I approached her from behind so I didn’t realize she was someone I matched with on apps until I saw her up close. By disappointed, I mean most of the girls I’ve been out with are people I’ve met from online or from cold approaches of people who had masks on. I know it’s shallow to say this, but they just seemed a lot prettier in my head compared to when I see them in-person.	/r/seduction	19/07/21 05:07 PM
1	How has your game changed during COVID-19? How do you feel about flirting without seeing their full face? I’ve talked to so many girls who with their masks taken off end up being pretty disappointing that I find myself not being able to muster up energy to even genuinely compliment them anymore	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:16 AM
1	Need some pointers and advice I see, I definitely need to work on actively maintaining those silences instead of shutting it down with a new topic right away. Also I just wanted to ask if you are doing these approaches now with mask, and how your normal approach dynamic has changed during the pandemic?	/r/seduction	02/07/21 03:48 AM
1	Need some pointers and advice Can you give an example of how you implement this during your convo/interaction?	/r/seduction	01/07/21 10:50 PM
1	Need some pointers and advice Yeah I’m leaving the city back to where I’m from so I guess it doesn’t really matter as much anymore but still trying to do some post-mortem to improve my game. The city is definitely quite wealthy but there are a lot of homeless people and a large street drugs culture. With that said, I also come from an investment banking family background so shouldn’t be doing too bad in that front although none of the girls rly know who or where I’m from from the brief interaction. The people I’ve noticed ar…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 10:49 PM
1	Need some pointers and advice Thanks for thorough reply! I think what you suggested would be great on a date and with a girl I’m seeing but not committed to a relationship. However, I am having trouble even getting a date from these cold approaches in the first place, so I wouldn’t have time to ask them what they want. So how can I increased the odds that they are willing to come out and meet me again after the brief interaction we had during the cold approach?	/r/seduction	01/07/21 08:25 PM
1	Need some pointers and advice I see. So how do you end up approach these girls. Esp for the ones that you meet while walking on the streets and they are right in front of you. I can’t imagine stopping them without a valid reason and not telling them your intent from my exp usually just leaves an awkward air as if you are too shy to admit you are hitting on them and their defenses are up	/r/seduction	01/07/21 08:19 PM
1	Need some pointers and advice Hey, in terms of the non-verbal escalation I mentioned. Does it matter if I had already explicitly stated my interest from the start, ie does it take away from the tension? If so, is there a way to approach, on the streets for example, without being direct and still be able to escalate and have tension since it’s hard to stop girls without being upfront?	/r/seduction	01/07/21 06:50 PM
1	Need some pointers and advice Hey could you clarify a bit more? I thought fundamentally women wants the same things (a guy who is confident and fun), but why is my approach not working in this new city if it worked in where I lived?	/r/seduction	01/07/21 06:48 PM
1	Need some pointers and advice What do you mean by the last point?	/r/seduction	01/07/21 06:46 PM