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You know what? I started out with a lot of sympathy for you and your cause on this one. I still have sympathy for your cause. You can fuck right off
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 06:08 AM
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Get a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:21 PM
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Boomers got knocked up, then married, then divorced. Same results, just short interim period of a miserable shotgun marriage is the only difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:30 AM
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“the frequency both genders have sex at”??? I can’t decide if you are mathematically or linguistically handicapped. Wtf does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:25 AM
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Except for some batshit jihadists, single people aren’t causing politics to become more extreme. Extreme politics is causing more single people. The genders will become more antagonistic if we keep listening to extremists on both sides. Ultimately, people will still bang, fall in love, some will stay in love and forget what some retarded douche in some forum said about the evils of the opposite sex. Culturally enforced monogamy? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:31 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 01:07 AM
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Sometimes that’s the case. Other times I’m not sure. Some of the women I know just bowed out after really bad experiences, one woman I know had a physically abusive relationship, followed by one that started out great until the guy got obsessed with anal. O-o She hasn’t dated since around 40. My friends sister has always been an attractive woman, had one shitty early marriage where she supported an “artiste” who was a narcissist prick and serial adulterer. I don’t think she’s had a date since sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:57 AM
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Hey now.....woman here. Got my camper and barista fire many years ago. How about we agree to just let “other people” work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 06:18 PM
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I absolutely agree with your demographic age pools. Older men on dating sites typically post that they are looking in age ranges of 10 to 15 years younger to one year older, women are typically looking for 5 years younger to 10 years older. There is one factor that I see anecdotally and is supported by research. More older women simply take themselves out of the running. I have several friends who are divorced or broke up after LTR s that simply have zero interest in relationships. Some are bitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:45 PM
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I’ve posted this before, but it’s the truest and also one of the funniest observations on the sexual prospects of older men. My ex told me that when he was 20, he complained to his dad who was 70 about how hard it was to find women. His dad told him at age 70, if he could still drive at night he would be swimming in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 11:17 AM
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Yes. Those guys aren’t always the loud, pushy, arrogant guys you described below. To be truly exceptional requires talent, work and practice. They may have been somewhat single minded and self absorbed to become exceptional at what they did, but not loud and obnoxious. If being exceptional is Chadly, then YoYo Ma is an Uber Chad. If being loud, pushy and arrogant is Chadly then Alan Dershowitz is Chad. Neither of the above is particularly known for slaying pussy. Frankly, you seem all over the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:35 AM
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Lol, your definition of Chad is the same as mine and god bless him, I married him. Except my husband got his shit together, quit drinking, went back to school in his mid 30’s, before we started dating. Then he snagged a highly paid engineer. I’ve even stated that his looks actually held him back in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 03:09 AM
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A gay dude with a raging case of hep c.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 02:53 AM
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Not athletic, beta male with girls lined up left and right? My sweet mostly beta husband was easily in double digit n count before the age of 20. He did sell weed and was very good looking in the day, but a totally passive hippy. Had girls lined up. Not Chad? Fwiw, the all American jock holds no appeal to me. A guy in a band AND good looking? That would have been Chad to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 10:34 PM
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I guess if I’m some kind of great prize, then he’s a winner. Honestly I think he coasted a lot between the ages of 20 and 30 because of his looks and in many ways his looks probably held him back some and allowed him to be unambitious. FWIW, his late brother was even more handsome, so handsome in fact when my own mother saw his picture she blurted out “holy cow, who is THAT” lol. Model handsome. Was very much a chick magnet in his day. He committed suicide in his 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 10:09 PM
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Band Chad is the best Chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 09:56 PM
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I called my husband a Chad because he was in the top 20 percent of males having 80 percent of the sex when he was in high school and early twenties. He has absolutely zero game, always has been very kind (as I have also found out from people he went to high school with), and a bit of a bad boy since he had long hair and dealt weed. Totally not a jock, has certainly never “lifted” and I’m not sure he really has a clue how to seduce a woman. He never had to learn tbh. But he still had the girls li…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 09:50 PM
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Feminist Married From ages 28 to 32 I would and did sleep with a few Chads, many more non Chads as well Guess I have some attraction to Chads, married a former Chad. He was no longer Chad when we started dating because he doesn’t have a single shred of vanity necessary to remain Chadly past the age of 30. When I first met him, he was a total hound, had 3 girlfriends at once. I heard about my husband’s Chadly high school past from his homely but sweet male cousin. Apparently high school girls wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 01:38 PM
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Might make mine “vestigial organ iso lusty sinew”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:50 AM
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++ Age, culture, emotional intelligence and class are all at play in who is considered “the best”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:47 AM
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Ooooo no time to answer now, but you,ve given me a lot to think about. Lots of things could change, and over the years have changed about the way I feel about him, but I would still love him. Cheating, I could cope. Child molesting.....oooooo I’ll get back to you on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 02:37 PM
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Old hippie, lots of “free love” in the day, stem degree, feminist, also a believer in men’s rights movement, settled down late in life to a happy monogamous life. Very perplexed by the animosity between the sexes, the general reduction of positive sexual activity and the negative effects of porn on young people. I’m a firm believer in the first amendment, but think something has gone terribly amiss between young men and young women. Came here after reading about the Japanese herbivore movement. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:29 AM
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I am going to take a wild guess and say you are completely wrong. Even if you became a drug addict or killed someone, your mother would still love you. :) Just ask her. She may want to strangle you with her bare hands, but if she loved you before you were a drug addict, she could never love you less if you do become one. If you have ever tried to live with a cranky, but loving old goat for a few decades, you would know that unconditional love is sometimes the only thing that keeps you from killi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:13 AM
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I there was good alternative to getting old I would take it. Unfortunately the only alternative I know is very permanent and highly undesirable. Meanwhile, You do what you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:40 AM
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Nah, once we hit that “wall” life is over /s. Nothing exists but the years between 20 and 30. She is still doing half marathons at 65. My knees can’t take it, but I do swim two miles a week and hike 3 miles with my dog more days than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:20 AM
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No. These incel men are often very normal in appearance and abnormal in interactive behavior. CMV. Show me some hideous looking incels. I know a guy who was in a fire and got his face burned off and got a girl. Convince me this guy just needed more understanding https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&channel=ipad_bm&source=hp&ei=4AMBW7qMCcTR5gLwjauACg&q=elliot+rodger&oq=elliot+ro&gs_l=mobile-gws-wiz-hp.1.0.0j0i20i264l2j0l2.2915.6336..9269...1....85.694.9....3..0....1.......3..35i39j0i131j0i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:14 AM
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TIL. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:04 AM
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Lol, take my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:01 AM
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I would say you are my hero, but my friend ran her first in her 40’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:58 AM
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Huh? Most incels that I’ve seen LOOK pretty normal. They generally don’t seem to me to be neurotypical. If they want to compete in normie land they need to drop “the world is against me” bullshit and learn how to at least try to fake it until they make it. It’s fine with me if they don’t want to compete in the neurotypical world, they just need to recognize it and own it instead of whining. Post “wall” married women get lazy just like married men. Forget “sexual market place value “. People get …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:55 AM
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What’s love got to do with it? Everything. :) Really, at the end of the day, it’s the only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:31 AM
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Try a few decades. And advanced age. The types of love you feel will begin to overlap. Fuck anyone who tries to convince me my love for my husband is conditional .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:16 AM
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When I was 20, I had the attention of virtually every man between the ages of 13 to 90. They weren’t all actively trying, or even wanting to have sex with me, but I could make the young ones blush and the old ones smile and remember when they were young. At age 60,( and I look every bit of 60), I am virtually invisible to 90 percent of all men. And that’s fine with me. I’m not fat, I swim laps and hike, I stay active and my old man still flirts with me. That’s all that counts. If I were widowed …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 04:03 AM
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I just wish I could still bat my eyelashes and get out of a traffic ticket. On the bright side I’m getting to an age where they feel sorry for the poor old lady
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 12:17 AM
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Did no one mention reddit yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 10:41 PM
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Wow, I thought you were butt hurt because women thought too much of their men. Now you’re butt hurt because we think too little of them? Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:46 PM
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You’re happy, but...it’s sad that a woman can’t love you the way you want to be loved.... You’re happy, but...if you let down your guard, your woman will leave. You’re happy, but........ Just a heads up. This is not true for all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:30 PM
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Yeah, sure, okay. If you believe this of your woman, I wonder how happy you really are. But you do you. At least you are less miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:12 PM
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Good for you that you are happy. I’m not discounting your experience at all, nor do I disbelieve your experience. In fact I have no doubt that embracing your sexuality has improved your sex life. Good for TRP But don’t believe that I would cheat just because I can and the conditions are right. Don’t judge the sex lives of perfectly average people based on your own experience. http://www.thefrisky.com/2014-02-13/love-icons-julia-and-paul-childs-legendary-romance/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 07:03 PM
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They are kind of the same problem with differing degrees of severity. But yeah, at some point you might have bigger problems than not getting dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:48 PM
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Not all people who wander over to TRP from time to time are complete aspies, and there are some interesting and debatable evo psych theories presented. Dead bedroom, not understanding breakups,cheating etc are all at least partially due to poor communication or an inability to read your partner (ie human interaction). Everyone at some point in time will misjudge a situation or another person. Everyone at some point will look for explanations of why a relationship failed. A large portion of the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 06:32 PM
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There is increasing evidence that systemic/empathetic thought modes are indeed on a continuum. A strong basis in one indicates a weak basis in the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 04:52 PM
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I agree that you can’t entirely change a persons thought process, but wholeheartedly disagree that it isn’t beneficial to recognize an imbalance and strive for a happier medium. Despite who you believe, (cue Baron Cohen lol), aspies at best exhibit different and disregulation of empathy levels. This absolutely can be improved. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2649842/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201305/compassion-can-be-trained Systemization doesn’t negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 03:40 PM
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But instead of emphasizing to these guys that the way they see the world is the real problem, they tell these guys if they just find the correct rules everything will be fine. Of course systemizing can be an asset. Most neurotics need more of it. But when too much systemic thought is the reason you have difficulty with interpersonal relationships in the first place, is reinforcing even more systemic thinking ultimately the solution? Here’s the biggest problem I see with that. Despite being cluel…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 01:32 PM
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Every species on earth does have some form of sexual strategy and that strategy is intuitive. The red pill tries to make up for the lack of intuitive ability in the people that subscribe to it by looking at the problem through the wrong lens. You take a group of people who have trouble with normal social interaction, and in some ways do help them. This has been stated over and over. Yes, flirting, appropriate touching , etc. all work. But they are typically normal, intuitive behavior in people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:48 PM
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Honestly, the bp advice of take a shower is really and truly is the first step. Maybe that really isn’t the problem, but when it is, the advice to brush teeth and shower outway any and all advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:05 PM
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Unless you actually need to take a shower or get a haircut. If you do need to bathe more often, then take a shower is the very best advice you can get. I think bp just see more people in real life who are updatable because they have poor hygiene, than are undateable because they “don’t lift”. Lots of guys who don’t lift do fine, not lots of guys who smell bad do fine. When you hear hoof prints, don’t think zebras
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 12:02 PM
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I don’t know what crowd you hang with, but women don’t bitch about their husbands all the time. Sorry, if they are happy, they don’t. I have gentle inside jokes about my husband’s idiosyncrasies sometimes with good friends. My friends joke back about their husbands foibles as well. My husband hordes, hers is a sloppy eater, blah blah blah. But I would never would say anything that would reflect poorly on his character as a person, and if a friend of mine said something that reflected poorly on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 02:03 AM
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It was repeated three times Heard yanni laurel laurel. My husband was yelling in the next room. “How in the f@ck did anyone hear yanni?”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:24 PM
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If it’s yellow let it mellow, if it’s brown flush it down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:21 PM
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And 900 is high I’m assuming. But still kind of odd for a guy that started out pretty healthy to be low imho. I wish they had tracked his gf’s hormones as well, that would have been interesting. But if a normal, not overweight, physically in shape guy even starts out lower than average, you wonder where we as a society are heading with our physical health in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:17 PM
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Yeah, that’s the article I was referring to in my comment. He started out in the 400’s and ended up in the 900’s. Is 400’s low? Like I said, it was pretty surprising because except for the prediabetes, he started out pretty athletic and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:07 PM
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Man, I mean I’m sorry for what happened to you, but that is NOT what I am planning on doing. Like I said, I will try to deal with any and all issues. He will only go to a nursing home if he gets “really abusive”. The behavior currently manifesting in his siblings is not something that can be dealt with, even with round the clock care. The worst and most heartbreaking thing is if that time ever comes, he will not understand. He will be very bitter and resentful. It’s called anosognosia. One of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:02 PM
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Do you know anything about plastics causing hormonal disruption? Do you think virtually all of this problem is caused by lack of activity? Has anyone theorized about or studied dietary changes? Speaking of “soyboys”, what are testosterone levels like in different cultures? I’m asking you your opinion since you seem to know a lot about this, and I’m genuinely interested in your take on this. Honestly, this issue specifically is what originally drew me into interest in sex and gender issues. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 11:18 AM
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Yes lol. He’s the one who said if his wife ever said anything like this he would divorce her immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:42 PM
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Lol. Yeah, I’ll run off with his doctor /s Meanwhile other people would divorce immediately if their spouse even vocalized ever putting him in a home. So much for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:38 PM
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Thank you. So far so good. It generally doesn’t have a genetic component, his brothers are identical twins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:26 PM
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To be perfectly frank, we’ve discussed that too. Not shooting each other, but how far we would want medical science to intervene if we became terminally ill. There are some really great things about getting older, but conversations like these are not part of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 08:31 PM
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Ahh, thanks. Both experienced first symptoms at 60. Is pretty horrible tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:54 PM
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When the world always smells like shit it’s time to check your shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:08 PM
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No, but I know exactly what you mean. You mean to imply that I would be a shitty person to put my husband in a home if he became physically abusive. Lol my ass My one bil has been arrested (and released) twice in two years. He currently has a full time caretaker, and his daughter and granddaughter take shifts for the remaining time because he can not be alone for even a second. And even with all this help, yeah, it’s only a matter of time until he goes to a home. Funny you are so quick to assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 04:03 PM
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One of his brothers has hit a paid caretaker. If he gets like this, he will need to be in a specialized ward. Not all people with dementia are docile zombies. Some can be a physical danger to themselves and others. So much for “judge not lest ye be judged”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:44 PM
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? Bogus? As in not real? I’m not a neurologist, just reporting the differential diagnosis both have been given. Both experienced very lucid hallucinations as the first indication of dementia. This was before either had memory problems. Both are now developing Parkinson-like physical symptoms. We told a true LBD diagnoses, as opposed to Alzheimer’s was only possible upon autopsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 03:29 PM
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Hoooo boy. This is a huge one for me. My husband has two brothers with early onset Lewy body dementia and I am not a patient woman. I’ve warned him that if it happens to him, I will take care of him unless he becomes really abusive. If that happens we have already agreed he goes to a nursing home. 😢 He’s not the type of person to let himself get fat or ignore his hygiene. That’s why I married him. I will gladly accept any and all changes that he can’t control. If he did let himself get fat or de…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:39 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:21 PM
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The UMC retirees I know travel....on Carnival cruise lines where they go to Italy and barely leave the ship. People can be boring in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 02:21 PM
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I am well educated living in a lower middle class, rural area. If you think umc people are bland, you should try wc. They are also all the same, name their kids the same (usually an “alternative “ spelling), wear the same clothes (camouflage T-shirt is practically a uniform), eat the same (fast food), have the same opinions (86% vote the same way). Herd mentality is pretty boring to be honest. At least the UMC have aspirations for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:02 PM
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“Parental malpractice “? Because your mom didn’t tell you girls don’t like fat guys? Yeah, sadly I understand a lot. Enjoy the victimhood. Chicks dig that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:29 AM
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Right. You don’t need a handbook to teach you that hot people date other hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:57 AM
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Well I’m a woman who has successfully bonded for life. He’s my friend, my lover and my family. We certainly are able to sustain a 25 year bond without assistance from any relationship theories. I didn’t need my mom to tell me that looking and being healthy is an attractive quality that men would appreciate. Not only is it intuitively obvious, we are inundated with messages from society that healthy bodies are preferable to unhealthy ones. I still have no idea how anyone in Western society could …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:55 AM
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I meant no offense to you, if you take umbrage at being called “delusional “, I apologize, I didn’t mean it to insult you personally, only the idea that it a secret that certain girls always flocked to athletes, certain girls to musicians, the same way males flock to young fit women. Anyone who doesn’t have a feel for human pair bonding has never just sat in a Walmart for an hour and observed people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:19 AM
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Well, pretty much spot on. Birds of a feather flock together. Jocks get fit chicks, smart nerds date smart nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 01:08 AM
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Plus, I got to ask.. what about “the lie” . The lie that I’m probably going to end up with an approximate of my looks/education/social status match? The lie that if I just be myself and be nice that I’ll end up with Who? Captain of the team? No one ever tells guys if they are just nice guys, they will end up with the whole cheerleading squad. They tell you you will find an equally nice girl. No one tells average girls they will marry Chad. You are just as delusional as the dumb ass overweight si…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:41 AM
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Yes. How can you get through middle school and not realize that the captain of the football team dates the cheerleaders? I mean it’s a really trite stereotype, but if you’re saying that you didn’t know the cheerleaders dated the captain of the football team, I am truly dumbfounded. I mean the hilarious thing is we know it’s not always true, but it’s certainly the stereotype. Who was the captain of the football team at your school? You didn’t notice how lots of cute girls wanted to date him? No o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:21 AM
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You have to teach a 14 year old what sexual attraction is? Kids don’t understand the pecking order by middle school? This maybe the oddest statement of the day. Maybe a few weird homeschooled kids, or total aspies don’t understand “sexual attraction”. By early middle school it becomes pretty crystal clear. The cutest kids crush on, hold hands with, puppy love the other cutest kids. Some less cute kids develop an unrequited crush on the cutest kids. The top athlete, or boy in a band may get more …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 10:38 PM
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We boomers didn’t invent divorce! The silent generation did. Enormous post ww2 spike After the dust settled we had the Ozzie and Harriet’s in the 50’s, when divorce was low. these folks married though the 50’s were largely the children born in the 1930’s depression, their parents simply couldn’t afford divorce, despite the wealthy and famous having high divorce rates. When the children of the post ww2 divorces started getting married, they started following the patterns of their own parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 10:10 PM
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Mmmm. I once had a gay man tell me I was a gay man trapped inside a woman’s body. FWIW, one of my husband’s pu lines was to tell chicks he was a lesbian trapped in a man’s body. Lol, maybe that’s why two old sluts have managed to last all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:28 AM
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Don’t forget the overlap, sperg and foreign lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:00 AM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:55 AM
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The ultimate example of Dad bod lol. http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2015/04/30/what_is_the_dad_bod_america_s_leading_expert_explains.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 11:16 PM
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The original battle of the sexes? The idea that woman manipulate men by controlling all the pussy? Lysistrata. Branch swinging? Madame Bovery Hypergamy? Anything by Jane Austin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 10:40 AM
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And why did the men not get vasectomies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:30 AM
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Shiba? That’s a new one on me. Can you move your dog off Your lap first?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:20 AM
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A pretty girl that’s nice? That’s all? What do you want out of life, not much? An okay time that doesn’t suck too bad? Nothing like living the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 02:05 AM
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Funny you should mention that celebrity thread. Did any of the pictures posted show shirtless guys showing off their guns? Most of us don’t really even know what 90 percent of those guys bodies look like. Most mentioned was probably John Hamm http://www.justjared.com/photo-gallery/2744467/jon-hamm-shirtless-mad-men-beach-scenes-in-hawaii-04/fullsize/ You aren’t completely wrong, no women prefer fat, out of shape guys, but look at the other thread where women described their partners. Every singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 12:17 AM
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Really? No disdain ever exists? Ever? I guess this article was written by a guy who understands the trade off a woman makes when she has kids, and understands that if she is going to minimize her own earning potential, she needs a dependable provider. https://www.mgtow101.com/every-woman-selling-price/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 08:16 PM
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If you, as a man, want to have a child, then find some “random“ woman on the street to bear a child and raise it for you. See what that will cost. How about the wife just sending the guy a bill at the end of the marriage for carrying his child (a surrogate is 10 k minimum), breast feeding his child, nanny services etc. This is a specious arguement and you know it. Now if you DON‘T want a child, how about a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 08:02 PM
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Not marriage...kids. This does not hold true for the 1 percent, very high earners who have nannies, maids, drivers, private tutors and personal chefs. Without hiring all the help listed, that work falls on mothers more than fathers. A lot of women intentionally choose to mommy track. That’s why the rp disdain for hypergamy is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 05:27 PM
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I feel like I’m almost too tired to go into this again, but here goes. I’m 60. I have single friends and most are hardly sexless. Older men report 85 % satisfaction with their sex life, older women 69 % satisfied. I’ve been told that just means they don’t want sex, so are happily not getting sex. Sex for older women only becomes problematic around 65 to 70, because of a numbers game. Men die younger. But the ones still alive are on Cialis, testosterone and Viagra, and are having sex. you can bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:13 PM
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It’s not easy to BE a compatible partner for a happy long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 01:57 PM
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I would make sure before I did it. A little domination is fun once in a while, but DO NOT SLAP ME. Like DO NOT FUCKING SLAP ME. My husband can goose me, grab my taint, joke around. I love to be flipped to another position, even restrained. But you will never slap my ass more than once. Ymmv Choking me until I cry? Better learn to sleep with one eye open.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 02:29 AM
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I thought I was alone on that one, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 10:45 PM
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I’ve already mentioned Anthony Bourdain 10 years ago though. Hard living is finally catching up, but he seems so hedonistic and sensual. Wayne CoyneNot when he was young, he looked like a train wreck. An amazing looking guy in his 50’s. (Apparently I don’t rule out dirty old hippies) John Hamm, only as Don Draper though. +1 for Jeff Goldblum, I’m not even sure he’s even handsome but very very sexy Edit almost forgot J. Tillman/Father John Misty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:49 PM
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Well, seriously there is always the real fear of the sexual outlier though. You have to wonder if people who are too extreme either way will end up just going full pervert (Josh Duggar I’m looking at you). Too conservative/prudish, meh maybe just very religious and will make some equally religious girl a great husband. But also maybe repressing some Jimmy Swaggart/Bill Gothard/Doug Phillips sinful, wicked lust. Maybe sowing just enough wild oats before committing to a life of monogamy isn’t a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 12:14 AM
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TIL -I guess something went wrong because I was 35 when I got married. Been working out pretty well for 25 years. Average age of marriage is 27 now for women. Divorce rates go down when age goes up so that’s a good thing. The people divorcing are the ones marrying young https://www.mckinleyirvin.com/Family-Law-Blog/2012/October/32-Shocking-Divorce-Statistics.aspx
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:33 PM
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A woman who is still a VIRGIN at 30, 40? Not misogynistic to think most men would be smart to at least acknowledge a red flag. Could indicate she is not very interested in sex. Never married by 40? Could indicate she isn’t interested in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:24 PM
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Deeply religious, chose to wait for marriage? Twice married , cheated on second wife with his ”hairdresser”. Allegedly took pictures of her while she was bound and blindfolded , and tried to blackmail her? To be fair, and for the record, even though there is enough evidence to arrest and indict, to my knowledge he has not personality affirmed or denied these allegations, but he does admit to the affair. That Eric Greitens? I’ll pass. Bet both wife one and two both wish they had passed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 11:04 PM
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They are getting married later, also millennials are losing their virginity later. http://www.newsweek.com/millennial-virginity-sex-intimacy-university-college-london-next-steps-project-912283 https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/millennials-lose-virginities-later-age-26-a8340156.html
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 10:39 PM
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Paging u/TechSupport1990 See the answer to your question above.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:16 AM
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I’m kind of liking trad com better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 01:46 AM
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In my opinion he is. But then again my celebrity crush is Anthony Bourdain so my tastes might run outside of the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 06:10 AM
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1.yes 2.verY 3.Mmmm, I’m not entirely sure this can be completely learned. Does he have some panty dropping game? Absolutely. Watch the body language of these women. Virtually all of them reaching across the desk, almost touching him. Can this easily be copied? Doubtful. Some social skills can get you pretty far and are easy to learn. But this is good looking (tall, slim. masculine) AND charismatic in addition to funny. You can say it’s scripted, but Fallon couldn’t pull it off. Humor in a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:20 AM
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If you believe being immoral or abusive is acceptable as long as it’s beneficial to you, why even ask the question in the first place? If it works for you and being immoral or abusive has the outcome you desire, then why do you care either way? It doesn’t matter to you how others view your behavior, positive outcome makes it acceptable, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 09:37 PM
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Not going into the politics of the neurotypical vrs the neurodivergent. Can we just define normal as having “a more desirable, lovely personality for attracting other people”?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 09:25 PM
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Look, many of these things work because they are normal behavior, and they are normal behavior because they make the majority of people feel comfortable when getting to know us. Compliment a bracelet/hat/shirt whatever. This is an appropriate icebreaker for all sexes, all ages. It maintains space and proprietary while beginning a conversation that virtually everyone would welcome. The first clue that my friend’s father was developing Alzheimer’s was he would breach this unspoken social construct…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 09:17 PM
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“If done correctly creates attraction for the majority of heterosexual women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:49 PM
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I’ve seen attractive women who are dangerously crazy and who still have guys sticking around through the chaos. Not well adjusted guys or guys with options though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:11 PM
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This made me laugh. It is like some of TRP advice can be boiled down to “be a normal person”, and “don’t be a weird person”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 02:03 PM
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After 25 years, the love I have for my husband is sometimes a different one of those 4 definitions depending on the day, often more than type of love one at a time. As we get older, the love I have for him is probably closer to family than romantic partner. The initial “fall in love “ romantic feeling of love in our early relationship has been slightly replaced, very much augmented, by a different type of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 12:15 PM
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That’s an interesting point indeed. Sorry if 1/4 of all people on dating sites are over 50, despite 2/3 of the demographic being married or cohabiting, is somehow not evidence that boomers are still sexually active. So now you are trying to say that being on a dating site is evidence AGAINST the fact that they have satisfactory sex lives? I cite cdc evidence that boomers had more partners earlier, you say those numbers must be flawed. They just aren’t reporting accurately. The fact that 25 % of …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:20 PM
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http://match.mediaroom.com/index.php?s=30442 26 percent of people on match.com are over 50. https://www.liveabout.com/the-most-popular-online-dating-sites-102198 Match is the #1 most popular dating site. Based on how fewer people 50+ are single, how many more millennials are single, it would appear than single people age 50+ may be online dating in even higher percentages than millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 04:42 PM
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Edit : http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/04/06/number-of-u-s-adults-cohabiting-with-a-partner-continues-to-rise-especially-among-those-50-and-older/ Roughly 2/3 of all those over 50 are already married or cohabiting. Only 36% are even single, compare that to to 18 to 24 (84 % single), and 25 to 34 year olds ( 44 % single). Isn’t part of your premise that millennials are going to be more sexually active than previous generations because of online dating? Given how fewer boomers are single…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:09 PM
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Whoa whoa whoa. First, slow the fuck down. Is it okay for a normal kid to say “you’re weird” to an aspy kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:12 PM
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Diplomacy is lying? Really? Is it okay for a normie kid to walk up to an aspie kid and say “you are weird”? Diplomacy is a kid learning to ask “why do you tap your foot” not to state “I think it’s weird you tap your foot”. To that normie kid, he’s just speaking the truth. He needs to be taught diplomacy. We learn growing up the mantra “is it true, is it kind, is it necessary”. When you are raising a kid who might lack empathy, who has trouble with nuance and context, you definitely need to inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 10:28 AM
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I’m a she, I’m a boomer and you need to speak to the caregivers in that nursing home. There are plenty of old men carting their oxygen tanks to next room over and having sex. They are taking testosterone supplements in addition to Viagra. Older people are on dating sites in huge numbers. I thought your theory was that younger people had more partners, not more sex anyway. And why do you insist, no matter how many studies and surveys you read, no matter how much anecdotal evidence you hear, that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:38 AM
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You might need to stop believing everything you think and visa versa. You think the numbers are in error because pawpaw can’t remember?Pawpaw mighta got more sex last week than you did. Boomers are still, to this day, banging more than millenials. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-and-sex-in-the-digital-age/201403/baby-boomers-gone-wild-seniors-and-stds 85 percent of male senior citizens report having satisfactory sex lives, 61 percent of senior women https://www.bostonglobe.com/magaz…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 09:04 AM
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I believe they do NOT need to eliminate quirks, fixations,introversion, or self soothing behaviors. Yes normies need to just be chill, more accepting, taught that harmless behaviors are just coping strategies for people who are wired differently and are sometimes overwhelmed. But society should not tolerate bullies because they have personality differences. Societies are justified in not tolerating a whole host of personality differences. Sometimes polite society demands diplomacy over truth, im…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:26 AM
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He needed behavior modification to change what he could, but he desperately needed to be taught acceptance that he had some challenges and that his path in life might not look like most peoples. The fact that he tried to join the military makes me think that no, he did not understand or accept the reality of his condition. Lots of aspies “know” and will say they have Asperger’s. But I wonder if the condition itself is precludes a true processing of what it really means to have Asperger’s. Anosog…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 07:00 AM
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Okay with Mother as long as he is never alone in the room with Ofmike. She would insist on holding her legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 05:40 AM
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A. Ah.... okay... B. Even if it’s true, why does it rustle your jimmies so bad? C. Don’t be as stupid as they are. D. Congratulations. You’re a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 04:07 AM
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Yes, it should have been drilled into him that he was different. Not undeserving of understanding or respect, but different. He needed the information that his difference was just that, a difference. A barrier to many, many things that come naturally to neurotypicals, hopefully a potential benefit in other ways. ( He apparently was very bright). It needed to be drilled into him that if he was going to be mainstreamed, he could expect , at best, to be shunned by strangers who might not understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:48 AM
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No consensus? Back to indoctrination camp for you. /s needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:21 AM
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He reported bullying, I’m sure he was bullied, but I’ll bet he was largely avoided. Being shunned and avoided by all of society is just as hurtful, if not more hurtful, than being bullied by a few. But it wasn’t feminism or bullies or politics or society, it certainly wasn’t lack of sex, that made him spit on himself and meow like a cat. What 4 Chan gave him was a sense of normalization and a way to express his feeling to others. It told him the world was the problem, not his own brain chemistry…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:01 AM
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Sorry. A guy who meows like a cat, spits on his own shirt and talks to himself needs more than “a safe space” to discuss his sexual frustration.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:31 AM
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According to his mother, he had Asperger’s. He also spit in his own shirt, meowed in the halls of his high school like a cat and talked to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:30 AM
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This is a great point. The incel echo chamber is toxic, but for some autistic incels, it may be the only human interaction in their lives. I crept around incel.me the day after this incident. There was a suggestion to ban anyone who claimed to have a friend :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:05 AM
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Meowing like a cat, spitting on your own clothes and talking to yourself is not just “nerdy”. Yes, I’m sure he was bullied, yes I have empathy, but his problems go beyond being bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:01 AM
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I have a lot of empathy for the incel community, but the problem is that the incels aren’t as interested in help as they are with revenge. Revenge against Normies is understandable when you been bullied, but the attitude only puts you further from your goal. If you are an incel and are unhappy as one, it’s counterproductive to just try to learn to hate what you desperately want. If you want success, you need to stop blaming the world and acknowledge that you aren’t successful in your social life…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:39 AM
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Pretty off topic. The causes of autism have a genetic and biological component that has little to do with culture. Autism is not caused by Hollywood or teachers or discouraging rough play on playgrounds. Culture may play a part in how autistic individuals can be better integrated into society, but one of the biggest problems lie with AloneOnTheStranges observation that most aspies have non neurotypical parents. Blaming teachers, Hollywood and playgrounds is a stretch at best. http://www.cam.ac.u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 10:58 PM
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I love a beard. I find them very masculine. Had a LTR who looked ridiculous when he tried because it was too sparse. So not having any is certainly not some dealbreaker. But in general, I love them. I did get my husband give up his 1979 pornstache and go full beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 10:35 PM
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Some men with ED report that not watching porn has improved their condition. Look at the comments. Lots of comments that say “I like porn and don’t have ED” , no responses that say “ew gross”. A few comments that say I have ED and cutting out porn has been helpful. Look at the world through something other than your own anger once in a while. Jesus Christ. If porn is keeping some guys from having sex, should they embrace porn anyway? They should go through life with a limp dick just to piss off …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 09:57 PM
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There is a theory put forward by Simon Baron Cohen that most autism is genetic, and the cause of the increase is due to modern technology rewarding those on the spectrum with high paying careers and increased social acceptance. As such, they are increasingly getting married and reproducing. He self identifies as aspie, pretty sure his late wife as well, and has at least one child who is aspie. High functioning, high achieving autism runs in his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 09:29 PM
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Op claims porn causes ed....okay? Might, might not. Genetically engineered wheat is causing an increase of celiac disease....okay? I don’t know if either of these things are true. I mean the vast majority of people are just fine eating modern strains of wheat. But I don’t think the myth of gluten intolerance is some attempt to shame all people who eat bread. Some men on here are self reporting it’s true for them. It’s a myth to shame men? You are just trying to see everything as some nefarious c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 07:21 PM
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I won’t disagree with this comment. Women’s sexual response is not well or realistically represented. I’ve posted on this before. Plumber shows up, says hey lady, your pipes need cleaned. Rough, enthusiastic foreplay commences. Women literally screaming within a minute. This is a male fantasy, because it reflects the quicker response of men. From a male point of view, porn doesn’t waste time on watching the food prep but gets right down to the steak and potatoes. I’m sure if young women spent as…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:45 PM
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Ahhhh.....have you never experienced a woman having an intense orgasm while you are inside of her? Not mediocre for either party according to my husband. He seems to think it’s worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 02:11 PM
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Women’s pleasure gets prioritized? There are a wide range of options, but things literally work better if women’s pleasure comes first. Not on a cultural level, talking now on a strictly mechanical level. You are complaining they just lay there, well if you are getting off first, and they are not at all, yeah, I’m guessing some of them are just laying there. If you don’t like the way the vagina feels when a woman is enjoying what you are doing I don’t know what to say. Stick with a fleshlight th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 01:53 PM
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Elaborate. While it may not be true for the vast majority, read though all these comments. No one is saying the majority of men will get ED from watching porn, they are saying if you have ED, try cutting out the porn. If it’s actually true for some who are self reporting porn is causing them to have ED, then how is it anything but a useful conversation. The vast majority of guys can safely go back to there daily porn. For guys with ED, it seems like abstaining from porn has helped. How is this a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 01:33 PM
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I’ll bite Tough shit. Women don’t wanna perform like pornstars. For some of us, most of what we see in porn will not give us what we want, much less an orgasm. It’s not that we just want to lay there and take it, we just might require positions and assistance that are not shown in porn because they don’t have good optics for the camera. If all your women just lay there like dead fish, that might be on you. If you don’t care if the woman isn’t enjoying herself, then do yourself and womankind a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 01:20 PM
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I think it is not the case for some on here who are self reporting that real women don’t turn them on anymore. Read through. Comments about how real women don’t look as good or do it as well. Fantasy and a greased palm may be getting hardwired results and real life doesn’t measure up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 12:53 PM
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Thank you. I once slept with a guy who thought everything was done like in porn......no..that’s uncomfortable for all involved, ineffective and sometimes ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:20 AM
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Not to be too graphic, but a position I’ve used as a kid to masturbate, before I even really understood what I was doing, is really the only sure fire way I’ll ever orgasm from piv. Sort of a cross between piv and manual. (am a woman) It’s not a problem, but certain positions are impossible and mimicking what I’ve done alone since I was a kid is relatively surefire. Again just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:14 AM
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Maybe because sex everyday conditions the body for sex everyday? Masturbating to porn conditions the body to masturbate to porn everyday? When actually trying to have sex there is ed? I’m not stating that I know this to be a fact, just guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:00 AM
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Top three are pickup trucks https://www.cars.com/articles/what-were-the-best-selling-cars-in-2017-1420698582900/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 12:32 AM
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“When things are easier/safer/more accepted, people do them more often”. Yeah, except when they don’t. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/news/a32367/baby-boomers-had-more-sex/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/there-isnt-really-anything-magical-about-it-why-more-millennials-are-putting-off-sex/2016/08/02/e7b73d6e-37f4-11e6-8f7c-d4c723a2becb_story.html Our boomer tales of free love are not all anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 07:51 PM
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Divorces topped out in the 80’s, (all those people in the 70’s who married their knocked up girlfriends, lol). Unmarried pregnancies are up, but teen pregnancy is way down. Don’t have any statistics, but I would assume many more of these pregnancies are wanted and planned. This is strictly anecdotal, but many of my friends kids are having babies in their 30’s and aren’t legally married, but are in stable, committed relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 07:27 PM
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I grew up in a small community, at the time our high school was certainly bigger than 50, but it was the only high school in the entire county. I lived on a small barrier island and everyone where I lived took the same school bus to high school. It may not have been “Nowheresville” with a capital N, but it was in the middle of nowheresville. I graduated in 1975. My point was that the depiction of sex, drugs and rock and roll were pretty spot on. Despite the assertion that most people in “the mid…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 06:51 PM
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My husband and I currently spend about 25 k a year, and have a multi family, paid off rental that generates almost half of that. When we work, we generally try to save 50 percent, and we also have a lot saved. Yes, we are in many ways, first world very rich, on the other hand we spend about what two low wage workers would make. Like I said though, much easier when you have plenty saved and a single car repair or dental emergency doesn’t send you down the payday loan rabbit hole. Even smart, frug…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 02:30 PM
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Two hours north of Atlanta a house and five acres for $125,000. If we sold off 4 acres, our house would be worth around 60k. If you want to pluck chickens for $9.68 an hour, come on down!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:54 PM
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Head on over to leanfire or google Jakob Lund ERE. You might be surprised. People making 30k living on 15k. One thing that truly does hold a lot of poor people back is that they always are playing catch-up, have bad credit and pay higher rates for stuff they actually need. They just never get any traction. It’s easier to play poor like my husband and I and make/spend less when you have no mortgage, have passive income, and have a relatively high net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:46 PM
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So instead of fighting with my husband over spending, I should just “bend the knee” so to speak? I might have to try that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:37 PM
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As a woman actively interested in the early retirement movement, I can confirm this realm is predominantly male. I can’t comment on who spends more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:33 PM
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I am a women who has been active on Mmm, personal finance and leanfire. You are correct, mostly men. Those subs are also very heavy on STEM types (stem degree here too). Wonder if the correlation between STEM and FIRE is greater than male and FIRE?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:29 PM
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Interesting post. I am the non stereotypical female example, being both the STEM degree holder and the thrifty one/FIRE navigator in my house. Maybe it’s related to general math aptitude? Not only are a lot of FIRE people male, they are overwhelming STEM as well. I also post on personal finance and leanfire. Pretty sure I’ve seen squid racer there too and maybe others. My first interest in message boards was Mr Money Mustache. Bought my first house at 28, a lot of that money came from tending ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:22 PM
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I will say kids are smarter about stranger danger and predators which is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:16 AM
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http://www.health.com/mind-body/this-is-the-generation-with-the-most-sex-partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:13 AM
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Wrong. Grew up in nowheresville. Except for the hazing, Dazed and Confused is like a documentary of my high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:12 AM
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I enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:09 AM
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http://www.health.com/mind-body/this-is-the-generation-with-the-most-sex-partners Boomers are still, right now to this day, fucking more than millenials.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:02 AM
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Totally agree, especially with those trying to skip over the boyfriend level and head straight to being Buddy Love. Telling them to spin plates, to lift, to shit test women just seems cruel. You might as well tell a midget that with enough training and practice, he can play basketball. I predict many would have successful sexual experiences if they only had realistic expectations. The most laughable are the ones who continually insist that men only want virgins, that if a woman isn’t a virgin sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:46 PM
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She was selling sex, he was buying sex. End of story. When both pretend this is genuine, mutual attraction, the interaction is of higher monetary value, it strokes both ego and dick. Hence higher fees for girlfriend experience. His league isn’t about how “quality “ he is, just how much money she can get vrs how unappealing the interaction will be. When she was “concerned” over blatant payment of money for sex, she was just fearing her higher girlfriend experience fee wasn’t coming. I’m sure she …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:20 PM
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Yeah, sex AND and at least one orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 09:26 AM
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Ivanka is pretty and so far, Barron is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 09:05 AM
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Sorry, not so much. Not in that photo anyway. Looks like Eric in that picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 09:03 AM
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He can make less than I do. My husband did when I married him. But he needs to make enough to support himself to a reasonable standard. Yes, fit , financially self sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:35 AM
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I know a woman who always went for bad boy felons. She was a solid 7/8 despite a neck tattoo that said “harder” and a couple of yard children. I run into her now and then, she is now early thirties, working at a gas station, and it doesn’t look like she’s taking care of three teeth she has left. She is still skinny though. If you are a dude, and this is the kind of woman you are looking to pull, I suggest you rob a bank immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:51 PM
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Yes, this is why 10 percent of men have 90 percent of all sex. /s Go to a Walmart for Christ sake. By definition, half of the guys in there are subpar. If they hadn’t managed to pass their genes along, they wouldn’t be in there with their subpar looking kids. Some of these guys are even happily married to subpar looking women. Did their wives ever say “ I cannot wait to find the short, balding, overweight slub of my dreams? One day I will find my Prince Flabby?” Did the men ever say “I hope I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:14 PM
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As much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:54 PM
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Oh please. What the holy fuck. How does it feel when pigs fly out my ass and deposit gold coins on my dresser? I have never even fucking thought about it. I guess uncomfortable to have my anus shredded, but the extra cash is nice? What if Spartacus had a Piper Cub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:45 PM
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Men go to war etc, for ego, money and power. Narcissistic men do this for sex as well, but starting wars for women is not about love, or thirst, or desire, it’s about narcissism. The guy in Toronto did not do what he did because he was horny, he did it because he was autistic or in some other way couldn’t connect with normal people. I will bet he had no friends either. Sadly, he connected with others like him which instead of helping him, only focused his anger in non productive ways. There are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:40 AM
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Healthy man my own age. Now and always. I have my own money. That said, no scrubs. No lazy guys, no fat guys. Not dumb, underemployed or boring guys. No poor guys without intentions to do something with their life, but average income is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:37 AM
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I am a woman. Most women don’t want fucking bodybuilders, in fact bodybuilders look low income. Women want to date the in shape dude who is the club owner’s lawyer, not the bouncer. Bodybuilders appeal to a smaller, lower socioeconomic demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:35 PM
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Lol speak to truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:30 PM
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Where do you live? What socio economic demographic are we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:30 PM
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Jesus. Fucking relax already. A patient partner will get over it if you lack experience. I promise. There are shitty people in the world, there are also nice people. No one comes out of the womb knowing everything about sex. IT WILL BE OKAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 04:32 AM
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http://www.cam.ac.uk/research/news/distance-running-may-be-an-evolutionary-signal-for-desirable-male-genes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 02:49 AM
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If you’re straight, why are you picking the ideal men’s body? Women pick swimmer bodies. Guys and lower class women pick quarterbacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 02:38 AM
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https://www.thegentlemansjournal.com/article/body-type-women-find-attractive/ gym rats look vain ie gay http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3985644/Do-women-REALLY-prefer-muscular-men-fit-10-ladies-eye-tracking-glasses-meet-three-nearly-nude-guys-different-physiques-just-did-look.html Women looked at the slim/lean guy the most, muscle bound the least http://foxhoundstudio.com/blog/fitness-lifestyle/the-ideal-male-physique-%E2%80%94-what-girls-want-want-guys-want-to-be/ Healthy preferred ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 09:39 PM
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Female, non pill. I have it. My older brother has it, my younger brother has OCD, our mother had it and she ate Xanax like candy when she got older. There is no doubt in my mind that there is a there is a biological and genetic component. It wasn’t a problem for any of us when we were younger. My older brother calls it our defective “monkey brain”. It has gotten worse for everyone as we have aged.Mine is significantly worse in winter and better with exercise. I try to swim two miles a week and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:44 PM
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Not a single one of these things is sexual harassment, either legally or in popular culture. If you are encountering women who are reacting to you like you are harassing them after harmless encounters like this, you might need help with your body language and your perception of appropriate personal space. If you have otherwise good social skills and a woman acts like you have harassed her, be grateful you didn’t get the chance to stick it in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:41 PM
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7 out of 10 for comedic effort. Might have to do free comedy show in the home for the blind for optimum sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:13 PM
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Your best quality is your capacity for humor. Become a famous stand up comedian, get at least a one women without extreme coercion. https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&channel=ipad_bm&source=hp&ei=FA7eWsjrBIjZzwKHspWoCw&q=david+cross+amber+tamblyn+wedding&oq=david+coss+amber&gs_l=mobile-gws-hp.1.2.0i13l3j0i13i30j0i13i10i30.2114.9230..12235...1....188.1856.4j12..........1..mobile-gws-wiz-hp.....3..0j35i39j0i131j0i67j0i20i264j0i10j0i22i30j33i160.rV4ILwwX930%3D#imgrc=twxXUvM74YPz5M:
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:48 PM
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Big spike in divorce after ww2, another spike in the 80’s, declining every since. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2015/06/23/144-years-of-marriage-and-divorce-in-the-united-states-in-one-chart/ Single parenthood is up, but teen pregnancy is way down. Lots of people are intentionally having children and raising them with partners without a marriage license.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:15 PM
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Totally 100 percent. Looks at Kinsey’s research back in the 1950’s, before modern feminism. Nobody cheated back then. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:25 PM
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Lifting is great for attracting gay dudes, and lower class, Jersey Shore chicks. So if that’s your target demographic, lift away. Otherwise, look like a runner. A guy who cares about his health and is too busy in his career to lift in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:34 PM
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Lol, my grandma used to say for every pot there’s a lid. Good to know you have options and know your demographic. You’re not a geriatrician or psychiatrist I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:42 AM
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In my age group? I’m a 60 year old woman. If we are going to fantasize on hypotheticals, can’t he be 40? What does he have to do? How about not tell my husband for starters. If I were single? He needs to take Viagra. My ego requires he be able to cut diamonds with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:31 AM
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If she fails to defend herself its a go? 99 percent of women raise their shields and set phasers to creep shame? Can’t stop laughing at this. The only question remaining is what the fuck is wrong with the remaining 1 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 02:21 AM
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Just did, the Festrunk brothers. “The foxes are pretending not to notice our bulges”. (You need to lift) ” I got this hat when I arrived” (and dress well).....I’m sure if I kept on going I could find the entire recipe that turns you Alpha fuck boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:08 AM
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Don’t remember. Just glad someone else is old enough to remember. Of course the punch line was that a bad suit and some Paco Rabonne, along with some proclamations of “we are those hep cats” looking for “hot chicks” and they always left the club with the sexiest women. Yeah, I’m picturing some poor bastard thinking this actually works. “I am now bad boy, dig me hard, hot chicks”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:49 AM
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Huh? I think you are waaaay off base on this one. I’ve done ugly dudes, they totally try harder. Already posted about having sex with a solid 3. I had already been told by my friend that he could groom his eyebrows with his hands behind his back. He was pretty popular for a chubby, homely guy. Some of those pretty boys think you should be ecstatic that he showed up and got hard. You know what couple was famous for boning like monsters? http://www.thefrisky.com/2014-02-13/love-icons-julia-and-pau…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:25 AM
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I think there are women out there who will get guys to buy them dinner who have absolutely no intention of ever putting out. Just like players on the male side, there are users on the female side. Correct me if I’m wrong, I think what op is talking about isn’t about girls who abuse their attractiveness to get meals and attention from guys they will never sleep with. He is saying if you play like you are a bad boy, a world of casual sex will suddenly open up for you. I can’t imagine anything sadd…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:28 PM
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I’m starting to feel a whole “fish out of water” vibe in this thread too. People from very different cultures trying to reconcile their lack of sexual success in their new, adopted culture with convoluted theories. The saddest part is, it always seems very counterproductive . Foreign guy who has one foot back in his old culture who thinks eliminating his boyfriend/husband qualities is somehow going to open up a world of casual sex to him? There might be a small percentage of these rp posters abl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:11 PM
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True. I’m sure there are women who are totally into seeing their lover’s dick pics. I just wouldn’t assume that all women are as visually stimulated by seeing the genitalia of the opposite sex as men are. Playboy magazine was way more popular than Playgirl when I was growing up. Ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:55 PM
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Am a woman. Yes we like sex. Yes, we like penises inside our vaginas so much, some of us even have facsimiles made out of plastic. Some of the shit I read on here.......Lol. Yes we like to look at George Clooney. No, we are not as visual as men are. Some women might disagree, but even though I find George Clooney to be very pleasing to look at, I wouldn’t pay a nickel to see his junk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:35 PM
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And finding a guy willing to let you gradually get comfortable with different degrees of sexual activity. Comfortable with being naked, comfortable with touching parts and having parts touched. If you find that, by the time you get to the actual piv it won’t be nearly as awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:35 PM
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Noooooh impossible! Doesn’t follow the rules! Any girl who would casually hook up is just riding the carousel with Alphas. When she finds a guy to marry, it’s always a beta who has to wait till the fourth date so she can figure out how much she can get out of him. /s In reality, this is story for the vast majority of people in ltrs. Some sexual encounters are perfectly enjoyable without one or both parties involved feeling the need to repeat them. Some sexual encounters start out with high hopes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:28 PM
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Nothing is wrong with this. You do you. Just be honest. I was totally like this when I lost my virginity. My attitude towards sex changed over time, but I was glad the first time was with a guy who at least cared enough to take things gradually. When it did happen, it felt very comfortable and natural. Remember sex isn’t all or nothing. When you are learning to drive, you don’t read the manual for a month and then take it out on the highway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:57 PM
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Interesting. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:43 PM
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This is an interesting distinction I was not aware of. Is this type of cultural female labioplasty generally benign or does it detract from sexual enjoyment ? Are there any theories to how and why the practice developed? At what age is this generally performed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:53 PM
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They are passive, and generally lose efficiency over time because crud has built up on surfaces. I can calculate expected inlet vrs outlet temp based on materials used, flow rates , flow configurations etc,. Doesn’t mean I can get a corroded bolt to budge without a 10 foot lever. Can’t lift it out of place without an overhead pulley to help me either. Easier to just get 105 pound young dude who has more strength in his forearm than I will ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:42 PM
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See other responses in this very thread. Coming from men. “Unsolicited pics aren’t gross”. “Because they know men will love it”. Not because they wrongly assume the majority of men will love it. They do it because they correctly assume the majority of men will not see it as gross, especially if they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:54 PM
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This. I am a woman. Dick pics don’t turn me on. If a man I was intimate with and completely hot for sent me one, I probably wouldn’t be able to stop laughing for a solid minute. Nature or nurture? Biology or Culture? Not sure, but I suspect both. Just not the way I’m wired. Now if he sent a text telling me what he wanted to do with me when I got home, I would probably be halfway ready when I hit the front door. If a random dude sent a dick pic, I would be grossed out and probably even a little s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:45 PM
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I am not in favor of male circumcision at all, but it’s not odd or hypocritical to be strongly against female circumcision and not as vehemently opposed to male circumcision. It’s one thing to multilate a body part for some stupid religious tradition or belief that it is hygienic to do so. Your penis may be mutilated, however it will usually not have any catastrophic effect on the intended function. It is far worse though to mutilate a body part in an attempt to deny that person the ability to u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:22 PM
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Huh? You meet thousands of cute girls, have sex with one tenth of one percent of them if you are lucky. That one tenth of one percent are not irrelevant, they are the ONLY ones who are relavent. Unless of course you want to go through life obsessing about why the rest of the thousands of cute girls you run across didn’t have sex with you. Statistically, one day you have an excellent chance being half of a happy couple. Why focus on the 99 percent? Find your personal one percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:37 AM
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Maybe 99 percent, who knows? Young pretty girls have tons of opportunities to have sex. 99 percent of the time, the dude won’t even get acknowledged. Haven’t you ever seen a guy with a girl and asked yourself “how did he get her?” Isn’t that 1 percent crazy, makes no sense, how that guy get her thing what most of you dudes trying to figure out? Most people meet 1000’s of people of the opposite sex in their life, and out of those thousands, most will have sex with about a dozen and pair bond with…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:44 AM
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The way any humans respond to sex is predictable? You don’t get out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:43 AM
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If you think love, sex, desire and attraction can be defined by hard and fast rules, you must live under a rock and have no experience with living human beings. Attraction, desire, romantic love and lust are some of the least predictable and most irrational emotions I have ever personally experienced. I think a girl who is a virgin, or who has some shyness or is self conscious could easily feel attraction, lust or even love without having sex on a third date. I was 19 the first time I had sex an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:24 AM
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Lol, no they don’t. People are much more than a category. This whole idea is laughable. Had three LTRs, married the last one. He was the only one who waited. We both waited, for several reasons, but had known each other a long time and knew we wanted to get it right. Banged two guys who were cute, but not that bright because I was horny. One was a FWB. Banged a guy who was handsome, smart and accomplished, would have loved him for LTR, but tbh was batting above my league on that one. Banged a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:23 AM
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You think this is something new? Lol. Sweet summer child Read Lysistrata. Written 400 BC. It’s a man’s world, but women have always owned 100% of the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:37 PM
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Yes Lonely Female
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:10 AM
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Tbh, that sounds like covering up for their own insecurities over their virginity, not high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 03:55 AM
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Lol. If you guys only knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:25 AM
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Rp says work out? Nah, stay in shape by working, not working out. Keep in shape, yes, but don’t work out excessively just for the sake of vanity. Not unless you want to be attractive to gay dudes. IMHO guys who focus too much on their physical appearance come off as vain and vain dudes come off as effete. Two words women keep telling you, capable and strong. Capable of protecting me and changing my tire. We are smaller, weaker and more vulnerable. I can make my own money, but I can’t protect mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:22 AM
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Read my post history lol. I was a Mechanical Engineer who married my handyman. (It’s really not that simple OR as tawdry as it sounds, we had been friends for years). But look through the explanations of several women here. The phenomenon is real. In my case, I didn’t need money, I was pulling down decent bank, and didn’t want kids so didn’t need that husband with a high paying job so that I could mommy track. There was, and still is, something completely irresistible about a man who fixes thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:46 AM
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Oh believe me, I get that. I’m childfree because I was on the fence, I didn’t want to be a bad parent, or go into it without 100 percent commitment from both my husband and me. Without an absolute conviction that motherhood was my life’s destiny, I thought I would do myself and society a favor and take a pass. But I’ve seen lots of great moms who flew headlong into the fray very intentionally at advanced ages. My friend’s daughter just had her second at 40. Baby fever didn’t hit until about 35. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:55 AM
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My advice to every incel out there.... LEARN TO DANCE! You will get to touch tons of women way above your grade. Lol. Go to any club, cute girls dancing with other cute girls. If you can dance well, they will dance with you! Line dance, Cajun dance, Conta dance, Swing dance. Any form of partner dancing. Way more women than men want to dance. Women are waiting around hoping you will grab them around the waist and take charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:00 AM
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Nope. Not the same. If you want to see some panty dropping potential, roll up your sleeves and handle that yourself. I’ve got my own money, I can hire the guy to come fix it. And when he arrives, I’m probably feeling him more than you, even if you are the one paying him. I guess maybe there is something to the old porn trope of women getting turned on by the plumber after all :p
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:44 PM
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Some very deep seated primitive, archetypal need for sure. For all our bluff and bravado, modern women are still smaller and weaker. I have the money to fix my own broken stuff, but there is some part of us that responds to being provided for and protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:15 PM
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Over time there is an ebb and flow, but love wins out. In the beginning, desire is essential. Sex is the glue that holds couples together until true love joins up. Not puppy love or infatuation, but deeper love. Loving someone like a lover, a family member and a friend all at the same time. Loving them even when you are so mad at them you could scream and want to divorce them lol. Then they come back with a bad health report, or you see a new wrinkle and realize that one day one of you will die …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:09 PM
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Easily adds 2 points for me. I consider myself a feminist and I worked in a very male dominated field, but a man with a hammer? 😍😍😍 Edit: didn’t really answer the part about why I like it. Honestly can’t explain it, except that feeling of being protected and cared for in a distinctively masculine way. I love Nick Offerman’s take on how he wooed Megan Mulaley by making her things with his tools, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:36 PM
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Not to be rude or confrontational, but if you really are incel why are you so obsessed with women losing their libido after commitment, when you haven’t had a positive experience with a woman’s libido, either before or after commitment? It seems like step one would be to have an enjoyable sexual relationship with a woman instead of obsessing about how it is inevitably going to go bad after you marry her. This attitude by definition is simply sour grapes. “We do fine until commitment “? I mean, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:28 PM
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Tbh, brunching and whoring reminds me of my younger days :) Both included cocktailing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 07:58 PM
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The outcome may be correct, but the cause of the phenomenon may not be accurate. It’s not that these women haven’t ever encountered a decent guy to marry, it’s that they weren’t ready to get married when they met the right guy. A good match also has to have the right time, right person, right place. Lots of women hit an age where they can’t put off the decision to have kids for much longer, especially if they want bio kids. Time runs out. I don’t think they are looking for hooot doctors, I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 07:33 PM
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No, because men occupy a wider spread on the bell curve. I don’t agree with the statement “most men are all sacrifice and little reward” but the spread is not 1:1. Look at any jail, rehab or sex offender registry. You will find more men than women who have no place in society and would be quite ill suited for any kind relationship. On the opposite side of that bell curve you will also find more men who are extremely high achieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:44 PM
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I think this is pretty spot on. A ten or even fifteen year age difference is quite acceptable if the man is older, provided the wife is equally educated and accomplished. If a 50 year old lawyer marries a 35 year old lawyer, I think no one would think twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:33 PM
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I’m 60 and most women who are my age and single date guys in their 60’s and 70’s The availablity of men doesn’t seem to dry up until women hit 70’s, at which point way fewer men are available. Most of these guys aren’t Harrison Ford, but most of my single friends aren’t Helen Mirren either. My first serious boyfriend told me he once complained to his father about how women were hard to get. His parents had him when his mom was 39, his dad 50. His dad told him if he could make it to 70 and still …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:26 PM
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Lol. Stating the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:15 PM
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I agree. Professional men are more and more expected to have professional wives. I think this holds true even in places like Atlanta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:14 PM
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I agree and a lot of this is based on the old biological clock. A lot of women don’t realize they might want kids and a husband until Mother Nature starts to shut down the baby making.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:03 PM
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I don’t really know about most male doctors in my area. This is just my anecdotal observation. My husband’s doctor and my last two doctors are white women all married to similar age white male doctors. My gynecologist is an absolutely gorgeous woman and her hubby is a plastic surgeon, my husband’s doctor is an average/below average looking woman married to a doctor who I think is somewhat older. My dentist is a white male married to a same age white woman, I have no idea about her background. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 05:58 PM
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Yes and no. An older, obese, unattractive woman who is not sexually available? Invisible to all men. An older, obese, unattractive woman who signals high availability? She might have trouble finding a a relationship she considers suitable, but she will get someone to have sex with her. Even someone objectively much much more attractive. Source? I tended bar for five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 05:29 PM
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Exactly. Tell me how my pipes are clogged, panties are dripping and dropping. Rough foreplay commences. My husband and I hug, kiss and cuddle, (at least when we are getting along lol) and it rarely leads to sex. On the other hand however, sex rarely occurs without affection first. I’ve got tons of stories from my youth about guys who had a shot, but blew it with awkward or rapey attempts at seduction. A longtime oneitis crush was one in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:39 PM
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This is only part of the problem. My completely unscientific, unprovable, (but none the less compelling, to me at least) theory is that men think they are learning how to turn on women by watching porn. Sorry, the pizza boy can chew my nipples like he’s ripping into a filet mignon and caress me with all the finesse of a jackhammer, he’s not getting a tip on his delivery from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:26 PM
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True. But wouldn’t the ideal be to try to find a reasonably attractive woman who was an adult and spoke English? OP put the mail order, child bride option as the preferred “strategy “. At some point, if all you want is a young women who will let you have sex with her for money (or green card), wouldn’t escorts be cheaper in the long run?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 02:01 PM
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Hardly an ideal, why not justbeat off? If you have ever had great sex with someone, you would know this is not a good thing. If you have ever had bad sex with someone you would also know...this is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 01:24 PM
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As a woman, I can assure you from the other side of things that this is not how it works. Even when I didn’t think I had any interest in jumping my husbands bone, I have engaged in many fulfilling sexual encounters I didn’t necessarily initiate. Many a cuddle session has ended up happily for both parties with mutually satisfying piv or other activity culminating in orgasm for both parties. If I’m not feeling well, or for some reason just don’t muster up the desire, no still means no and cuddling…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 01:04 PM
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What in your opinion has changed? Isn’t this story as old as history? Isn’t your whole premise based on the fact that women are biologically programmed for sex with the newest, richest, biggest Chad? Hasn’t the skinniest beta dude always has sand kicked in his face until Charles Atlas convinces him he just needs to bulk up? “Oh Mac, now you are a real man” lol Sorry, the vast majority of guys get laid, most guys get married, and statistically, most guys have sex with plenty of women. The vast ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 12:49 PM
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Boiling down the success and desirability of human pair bonding strictly to access of frequent sex is gross oversimplification indeed. Sex for all people is different with age, gay or straight. The importance of commitment is different with age as well. Both men and women respond to novelty in sex, both men and women experience higher levels of sexual desire when a relationship is new, and yet both trade that for commitment routinely. The vast majority of people marry. The trade off already exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:18 AM
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Until you are 45, then get the youngest, foreignest wife possible? Donald, is that you? Yes, there is a lot of sociopathy inherent in that idea. The supposition is that at age 45, most men would rather have the youngest most foreignest wife possible, as opposed to having a wife with relatable experiences and an ability to hold down a conversation. Most everyone wants their LTR to be sexually attractive, but most people are not narcissistic or sociopathic. They want a real connection with another…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:30 AM
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In the animal kingdom, most of the animals that were supposedly monogamous have been proven not to be very monogamous by DNA testing. https://www.nsf.gov/discoveries/disc_summ.jsp?cntn_id=126932 DNA testing has shown that humans too are not nearly as monogamous as once thought, although “covert illegimacy” is relatively low, so despite monogamy being low in humans, the primary and most frequent sexual activity is generally within the marriage. It would be more accurate to say that animals pair b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:08 AM
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When I started dating my husband, I was a Mechanical Engineer and he was my handyman for my rental property and newly sober. We’ve been married for 25 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 01:44 AM
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It certainly isn’t as common as the reverse, but examples exist. It was common at the turn of the century for new American money to marry their daughters, known as Dollar Princesses, to British aristocracy. Americans brought new money and cold hard cash, their British husbands brought titles and social currency. Downton Abby was fictional but based on reality. For a lot of history, women didn’t inherit money, so in some societies there were women with wealthy fathers, but women themselves were n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 01:38 AM
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I AM 60 years old! I used to absolutely hate the fact that no matter what, I had to deal with the 24/7 eye fucking. Now whenever I get a flirtatious look I flitter like a schoolgirl and run home to tell my husband. “A dude with tennis balls on the legs of his walker gave me wink and a leer”. My friend who was easily a 9/10 in her day says age is like a magical cloak of invisibility. But yeah, for most women under 40, the eye fucking is pretty constant. I think for most women just being between t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 09:28 PM
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I’m so with you on this. Yep there are a few good messages that lots of people, both men and women, need to hear about personal responsibility for their own experiences and feelings. There is also a lot of straight up sociopathy with no regard for the feelings or experiences of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 12:49 PM
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Man, I wanted to have a respectful conversation with a red piller on evolutionary biology and gender differences. It quickly turned to eugenics, rape and racism. The statement “men and women are biologically different “ devolved into “blacks and whites are biologically different” and “men are biologically programmed to rape” pretty easily for that particular dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 12:35 PM
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I actually think that is a great point. I had a pretty extended adolescence lol. I am a 60 year old woman and if I had married young, I guarantee I’d have been divorced young too. Married late, have and will stay happily married till I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:47 AM
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Meh, I didn’t get married until my mid 30’s. Husband had just turned 40. This was pretty standard in my social circle to be fair. I had a great career, owned a house, good savings, made bank, so I think my husband got a bargain. It’s lasted over 25 years so there is that. The dating pool does change for women too. The guys I was dating started to get older, the age gap wider. As a single woman, no kids, available guys start to separate into divorced with kids and never-will-marry guys. Not into …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:37 AM
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The only thing I can tell you is use hypergamy in your favor. If you aren’t conventionally attractive, you will have more success with girls if you are special. Peter Dinklage, Steven Hawking plenty others found love. Thom Yorke. David Cross. If you aren’t conventionally attractive, you at least have an advantage over a woman who isn’t conventionally attractive. Play music, or learn to dance. I know two guys who got to know lots of girls by learning to dance. One was a burn victim who learned Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 11:56 PM
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I’m sure there is some feminazi on Tumblr willing to scream at you if you offer to buy her coffee. I also won’t deny Chad can certainly get away with more than the average guy when it comes to being sexually aggressive and flirtatious But if all girls, all the time, think you are being creepy.....maybe you are being creepy. I personally have no problem with guys who want sex, we all want sex. It’s guys who like sex with women, but don’t like women, who squick me out. I doubt that I’m alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 03:26 PM
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For men aged 20 to 24 in the US, 85.7 percent of men have had piv sex. Factor out early identified gays who have little intest in piv sex, religious nuts and the handicapped out of this mix, virtually ALL men who want piv have had piv sex. If you think only “the top guys” get sex, the education system has failed you miserably. It’s simply not a fact, but your perception. News flash, sexually attractive people have more options. The rest are still getting some somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 03:16 PM
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Pussys are meant to be used. Muscles don’t wear out, their tone improves with use. I agree on assholes, they were built by nature as an exit. Anal is fine if you want it, just don’t end up with adult diaper and a prolapse Use it or lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 02:53 PM
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I’d rather have an experienced chef cook my meal than a novice trying to learn from a cookbook. My Danish grandmother was convinced her “Chinese” food was delicious. Trust me, it was not. Just because LaChoy in the can was better than half of the bland boiled meat she grew up with, doesn’t mean it was good. Contrary to popular opinion, pussy does not wear out with normal use. One could argue that barring excessive childbirth, it gets better with use. Muscle tone improves with use. Try the desert…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 02:48 PM
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Really? Asian countries still shame promiscuous women? That’s changing pretty quickly. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexuality_in_China Further more it could be argued that female sex work is less looked down upon in Asia than in the west. While not ideal, it is often seen as a way to help your family if you are poor. Promiscuity bred children who were born with no one to support them. That IS a bad thing. Now that sex and procreation are more easily separated, culture is changing quickly as a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 02:36 PM
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Yeah, A Rod and Kanye who have their pick, they are choosing chaste girls lol. Even Mike Pence and Roy Moore are waiting for virgins (they both married divorced women) What old days are you talking about where people waited for years ?. The most sexually repressed era in us history was the 50’s, also the youngest age for marriage https://www.infoplease.com/us/marital-status/median-age-first-marriage-1890-2010 When premarital sex is taboo, people are willing to jump into marriage pretty quick Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 02:19 PM
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Cascade, don’t waterfall? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 12:20 AM
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I know it sounds trite, but it’s true. The more you give it, the more you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:22 PM
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I’m from a different generation so I might get shut down quick, but I see a lot of narcissism, not positivity. When I see aNy woman who refers to herself as a princess, all sorts of bells go off. No, you are not a princess, and if you were, that would only mean you won the lottery at birth, not that you worked hard to deserve what you have. To me positivity for both genders should acknowledge ones flaws, state ones triumphs and virtues. You don’t deserve to be catered to like a princess. You des…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:12 PM
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So are we naturally monogamous (all societies are the same), or naturally polygamous (pump and dump was a viable reproductive strategy)? I’m confused. If our culture is driven by biology, why are we monogamous at all? No matter how our culture changes, men will always look down on sluts? Why? Doesn’t the red pill movement posit that women like sex as much as men? The red pill moment also posits that like women, men just want to fuck and society shouldn’t shame men for wanting to fuck. Women biol…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:40 PM
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I personally would challenge not just the “ old ways” that no longer apply, I would challenge the very definition of success in the context of the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 02:06 AM
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Absolutely Sometimes examining the old, obsolete mores of society and the reasons behind them help us realize that century old traditions don’t disappear overnight just because the pill was invented, but are deep in our cultural dna (red pill view). They also help us understand which of these mores don’t have to be set in stone in a modern world now that we don’t each need 10 kids to work the land and we can choose when to conceive. (blue pill view)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:35 AM
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I won’t say you are wrong, females do guard their genetics more closely. It can also be noted that in some communal societies and in matrilineal societies, the stigma of a woman with multiple partners is almost non existent. Tibetan women will sometimes have two brothers for husbands, but since they are brothers, the land still stays in the family and this is seen as quite socially acceptable. The Inuit have a communal society and wives are shared as well, provided the wife agrees. There is a cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:03 AM
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This is as old as the hills. In my opinion it goes back to the old “mama’s baby, papa’s maybe”. When your wealth, land, farm, was passed down through patrilineal lines, you didn’t want want your land to go to the son of your woman and the guy in the next cave down. Despite old customs and old beliefs, we are passed the caveman era, we can control our fertility now. Be safe, be careful, use condoms and do whatever the fuck you want when you are young. You have plenty of time to procreate with an …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:29 AM
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We are not that different then. I‘ve been married almost 3 decades, 60 years old, not working. Dh and I have more than enough money to retire, but he keeps working for our insurance. I love and appreciate that he is doing this for us. In return, I do everything else. He had homemade bran muffins for breakfast, will have home cooked pork loin sandwiches before he leaves for work, made with fresh lettuce I grew in the cold frame, and will take a good homemade meal to work tonight. Just got back fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 04:12 PM
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I don’t consider what she thinks. She has basically told the world she is a dishonest hooker. She can look through any lens she wants. At the end of the day she is just using people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:18 PM
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Maybe you need to mention love. Couples even in traditional roles should act out of love, not just fulfilling a job description. I have no desire at the end of a hard days work to fuck my boss. Do that for a decade or so and you will see why so many Mormon and Evangelical women get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:16 PM
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The problem becomes the bleed over from “they are all terrorists. That’s statically inaccurate. No, very few are terrorists. Alot of them ARE sexists pigs. So are some fundamentalist Christians, Jews and Hindus. I’ve met some Turks and Indian Muslims who were not sexist. Fuck Saudi Arabia. They should be boycotted .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:09 PM
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Prostitution is in many ways more honorable than her behavior. If she told the guy upfront, I don’t want to LTR you, I don’t want to casually date you, I’m not hooking up with you, I don’t want to be friends with you... I’m just here for the free meal, okay. If the guy is lonely, bored, and still wants to buy dinner it’s all good. But I’m guessing that 90 percent of guys would bail. At least a prostitute/escort is honest. Dinner will cost you 100, the bj after will be double.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:59 PM
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Sorry, my panties aren’t dropping for this attitude. Maybe you need a maid with benefits. Your language sounds like you don’t even like her, much less love her. Your “wife” sounds more like an employee who has an unappreciative boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:48 PM
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Amen! Who, male OR female, doesn’t find sexual advances from attractive people a little thrilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:44 PM
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:) this has happened in my home
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:39 PM
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What she is doing is being a jerk. This isn’t about feminism, or non feminism. It’s one thing to politely accept a single drink and engage in polite conversation even when you are not looking/not interested/not available, it’s quite another to intentionally use people. Yeah big surprise, some people are jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:33 PM
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I consider myself a feminist and will GLADLY criticize Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:27 PM
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So to be clear, most 30 year old women are NOT looking for a Chad?. I pretty much agree then. Can a successful guy, mid thirties easily find high quality dates in their 20’s? Yes, absolutely. I won’t disagree most women like older guys, provided older guys have their shit together. Older successful Chad +++, older very successful average guy > younger Chad. Older guys without their shit together, even former Chads or aging Chads .....not much to offer and not much promise. They have lower appeal…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:21 PM
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Lol, I ‘m guessing a lot of women are fans of “terrible beta faces with bad ratios”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 12:41 PM
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I’m surprised you disagree with this. I thought when we are all hitting the wall we start looking for a guy to pay our bills? Isn’t that what you guys all think? Chad doesn’t have the job or social status to pay the bills. Some old shlub does though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 12:35 PM
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Depends on the age and circumstance. Prefer 5 plus, no prudes, some experience. Have no problem with 10 plus if he is older. But NO cheaters. If he had some casuals along the way that’s great, If he has always been a cheater, he’s not LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 12:08 PM
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Huh, it’s okay to “shame” as long as you later construct an argument? How about men go to trp because they are sexually frustrated. Because they are frustrated they end up not liking or respecting women. Because they don’t like or respect women, women don’t like or respect them back, then they end up not only sexually frustrated but angry. But, they want to get laid, so they are not exactly winners in the game. Therefore, guys in trp are angry, sexually frustratedly losers who can’t get laid. Ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:59 AM
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For me? What type of men are masculine? Not guys who pump iron in front of a mirror. Guys who can fix my car, change a tire, who jump out of bed to investigate the weird noise at night. I was only one of two females in the engineering dept. at college. I made more than my husband, waaay more than him when we started dating. So in some ways we have had some non traditional gender roles. True story, I knew I would marry him when my street flooded and he waded in water chest high with a pack of cig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:29 PM
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As a woman in her 60’s with a pretty high count, happily married to a guy with an even higherbcount, we settled into monogamous marriage pretty well. I regret one or two, but in general don’t regret sluttin it up in my 20’s one bit. Mormons marry young and often are very inexperienced when they marry, yet despite enormous social pressure to stay married they divorce at the same rates as everyone else. Evangelicals have even higher divorce rates than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:57 PM
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This lol. A really good strategy for fucking really shitty people. For the few who follow and are successful, a total feedback loop. My shallow shitty behavior attracts shitty women. Women are shitty, therefore it’s okay to play shallow shitty games with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:35 PM
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Early 60’s woman. Consider myself a feminist. Have a degree in a very male dominated field. I fell in love with my husband many many years ago when I hired him as my handyman. Something about seeing him be able to repair anything broken, pick up anything heavy, melted my heart and wet my panties. Despite the fact that I made lots more money, we have pretty traditional roles otherwise and I love him for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 09:43 PM
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https://dqydj.com/2017-sp-500-return/ Which means you could have done better yourself with vfinx. Markets have been insane for the last few years.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 01:38 PM
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I think both “sides” shut down the other side at times. I also think it’s a shame to always feel the need to “take sides”. If you find your views always align with a certain ideology it might be time to step back and look at some objective facts. I was banned from the Donald for linking to numerical facts without commentary. I am not going to be so ridiculous as to state that it’s not better to have a dad around. Of course it’s better. And married families are able to provide for children better…
/r/MensRights28/02/18 07:14 PM
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I challenge you to look at the list of shootings yourself and the draw your own conclusions. I’m not impressed with the first article you linked to, where the author starts out with anecdotal evidence and jumps to single parenthood being responsible for increased delinquency. Is anyone surprised that single parenthood causes a rise in delinquency? Of course not. Single parenthood =increased levels of poverty and visa versa. Single working parents =less supervision. And yes, lack of good male rol…
/r/MensRights28/02/18 06:20 PM
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Again, not trying to be a dick, but where do you come up with it being the cause of the majority? Going through the list of recent school shootings I see no pattern of single moms raising kids at all. In fact, kids in two parent homes seem oddly over represented given that half of all parents divorce. I’m not denying strong male role models aren’t important. I’m not in agreement with banning you for polite conversation. Just see absolutely no correlation.
/r/MensRights28/02/18 03:21 PM
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I’m not for censorship or banning for any sort of polite discussion, but wondering if the premise of single parenthood causing school shootings is accurate. Dylan Klebold parents only recently divorced after 30 years of marriage. Eric Harris’ parents also were married, at least from what I could find, when they moved to Colorado. Adam Lanza’s parents divorced when he was 17. William Atchinson was “living with his parents”. Sueng Hui Cho’s parents were married and devout Christians. Jesse Osborne…
/r/MensRights28/02/18 01:47 PM
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