GreySafet Archive

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2	STD testing - what type of clinic setting do you prefer?		GreySafet	/r/seduction	28/04/19 02:35 PM

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1	STD testing - what type of clinic setting do you prefer? Thanks!	/r/seduction	29/04/19 02:50 AM
1	Ever since I started doing well with hot white girls as an ethnic guy, my experience with hot ethnic girls has changed dramatically! A few thoughts. As women get into their 20s (and definitely in their 30s), they become much more open to dating men of different racial/ethnic backgrounds. This is amplified exponentially in big cities with highly educated, multi-racial/ethnic populations, where women are overwhelmingly liberal, well-educated professionals looking for someone who is upwardly mobile and socially successful, rather than a match to their racial/ethnic background. It also helps tremendously that there are far more b…	/r/seduction	02/01/19 11:11 AM
2	I've gotten this question a lot... I actually take a slightly different approach. I specifically don't talk about sex while messaging unless they raise it first. I do that, because my experience is that even the most sexually adventurous women want to be desired for more than just sex. They see hard-ons everywhere they walk, so why should they want you. I set myself apart by NOT raising it when we message, but bringing it up fairly early on during our first date. I fold my sexuality into the conversation, expressing my sex-positi…	/r/seduction	02/06/16 02:47 PM
1	I've gotten this question a lot... The approach that's worked best for me is to be direct and forthright about sex. Very few guys do this, and, for those women craving sexual adventure (of which there are a lot), it's an incredible turn on. For those women who are extremely conservative and want to only be with "the one," it probably turns them off (I rarely meet them, so can't verify), and is a good way to rule out someone from your dating pool. By being direct, I mean answering the question the way you want it to be answered. I…	/r/seduction	01/06/16 06:51 PM
4	29F never getting second dates from guys We're going to need more to go on to help figure this out. If you had to guess, what would you say possible reasons are? (I definitely agree with one of the others who noted that following up with a "Thanks for the good time. Look forward to doing it again" text can help and I don't think it ever hurts.)	/r/seduction	11/05/16 06:24 PM
84	Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20? 1) Always follow through on what you say. If you say you are going to call back, do so. 2) Always be dominant in life. Don't say "I'm up for whatever." Say (politely) "I'd prefer to do this. What do you think?" 3) Always be dominant in bed and learn how to spank an ass, pull hair, talk dirty, tie rope, apply cuffs, and take control. Take the lead (it should go without saying that no means no, physical signs of resistance or discomfort equal 'no,' and never force someone to do something they aren…	/r/seduction	27/09/15 07:26 PM
6	Race? Much as people don't want to admit it, race still continues to dominate a lot of social interaction. Asians (East and South) have to contend with persistent and powerful prejudice that they are less sexual virile than other men. Blacks have a prejudice in their favor about sexual prowess, but are up against massive amounts of ingrained and systemic covert racism. My conclusion is that "it is a big factor" -- even if women don't want to admit it -- but, like everything else, you can overcome it, …	/r/seduction	26/11/14 02:34 PM
1	[FR] Went on two dates with a hot Tinder girl, She's a tough nut to crack and might be a player This FR reminded me of some basic points that I think don't get stated enough: (1) Initial greeting. Always greet her with a kiss on the cheek, not a hug or a handshake. When done purposefully, it's seductive and sophisticated (it's a uniquely American thing to hug vs. kissing on the cheek; just act as if you always kiss on people on the cheek), (2) Good bye. Always kiss on the cheek goodbye at a bare minimum, (3) Asking for a kiss. Just don't. Wait for the awkward pause, and go for it. If you f…	/r/seduction	23/09/14 07:02 PM
1	Why do I see so many interesting and reasonably attractive older men with unnattractive women? My wife and I have done a lot of swinging and dating (we're in our 40s in a long-term open marriage), and I can tell you the opposite is generally the case. The vast majority of couples we have met and know involve a reasonably attractive (sometimes hot) woman with an unattractive, unfit, unstylish, and/or all of the above guy. I think a lot of women are willing to settle for a guy that offers other qualities -- all the 'nice' guy qualities that got you nowhere in college and your early 20s turn…	/r/seduction	16/09/14 07:39 PM
3	46 years old. Help. You'll only get to where you want to be when you absolutely commit yourself to that goal, including giving yourself enough time to achieve it and, most important, giving yourself only positive feedback along the way. Can you say to yourself every day when you wake up that you're going to get to be a confident, sexy guy in 1 year? Then work for at least a year (it's going to take that long) to get there. This is going to take serious internal coaching and, if you can afford it or have a great com…	/r/seduction	06/09/14 10:09 PM
2	Sex God Method - Legit? Excellent point, and it's not just you. I think there's a fallacy that having lots of one night stands makes you good lover. Indeed, the best lovers are those that have had one or more consistent, long-duration relationships AND an abundance of experience with other girls. Like anything, it's the combination of consistent practice (having one girl for a long period) and lots of game time experience (one night stands are the ultimate 'performance' opportunity) that make you a great lover.	/r/seduction	22/08/14 02:08 PM
1	Open Relationship --> Tinder --> Should you tell girls before hand or in person If your objective is just to get laid, agree that not saying anything maximizes your chances with minimal harm. If your hope is to add this women to your harem, then disclosure at the very beginning in best; while it greatly reduces your chances of a date, it guarantees that you won't be dropped because of dishonesty. In my experience, the women who are OK with your open relationship, then, are even more into you, because they immediately assume you are an honest guy, which I've found both turns…	/r/seduction	13/08/14 03:04 PM
2	Open Relationship --> Tinder --> Should you tell girls before hand or in person It depends a lot on the level of commitment in your primary relationship. My wife and I have been a couple for 20 years and opened our relationship 3 years ago. Given that we're married and have kids, I have it up front in my OKC and Tinder profiles. I could get way more dates if I hid this, but why do so? It's dishonest, since (for reasons I'll never understand) most women that even just want hook-ups still want you to be single, even though they have no intention of a committed, monogamous rel…	/r/seduction	13/08/14 02:53 PM