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1

You adapt and evolve. Or, you can bitch and moan. One sounds more beta than the other tho
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:51 PM
1

Game over everything. Fitness is important, but not everything
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:49 PM
1

First thing to do is work on not being broke.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:46 PM
1

Why are you letting your “feelings” dictate your actions. A man needs a job. A man needs money to live. If you’re not ready for that responsibility, how are you going to be ready for other things in life?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:33 PM
1

Guys, this type of stupidity is what we’re trying to avoid.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:32 PM
1

Ahh classic shit test. Women will ask to bring a friend along when they are unsure of you or don’t know you well enough. There are a few ways to deal with this one. Best way is to text her something like, “lol why? Are you scared? Don’t trust yourself to be alone with me?” You want to address her concern, but in a fun and flirty way.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:26 PM
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Sounds like you’re stuck in a loop. You’re repeating the same type of behavior and expecting different results. I’d recommend monk mode for awhile to recharge and analyze. How’s your relationship with your mother? I’m guessing pretty horrible based on these experiences you’re having with women. You’re putting out a weird energy towards women. This is what your data(multiple approaches over the years) has told you. Time to fix it.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:44 PM
10

It’s the last little bit of the blue pill wearing off. You’ll never own a woman.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:03 PM
-4

Well done. Good solid game.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 09:25 PM
2

Those all work. What kind of excuses are you getting? In my experience it works better if you invite to something you’re already doing. Like, “hey I’m going to check out this new coffee shop today. Would you like to join me?” You don’t want to sound like your compromising your day/time for her. Instead, you’re asking her if she wants to ride shotgun as you go through your day.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:59 AM
1

Yes. How are you asking them to hang out? What’s your typical approach?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:57 AM
1

Yes. Exactly.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:30 AM
8

If women offer another time to meet up, they are still interested. Keep on going and act like her blowing you off the first time doesn’t hurt you. Also double book dates on the same night. It feels so good to know that if one cancels, you have another one ready to go.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:25 PM
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You’re coming from a place of weakness throughout this whole relationship you’ve had with this woman. You know not to fuck around at work, but you do it. You know she has a bf, but you go for it. The bf comes back, and she picks him over you, and you still see her. You’re nothing but her side piece. No matter what happens, you’ll never be her boyfriend. In her eyes, you’re a bitch.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 05:05 PM
1

That’s the trick. Once you allow yourself to think like that, and realize that’s how it works, the matrix opens up a bit.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:21 AM
1

What kind of energy are you sending out? How long are you talking to these women before they let you know they have a boyfriend? Are you eliminating these women after you find out they are involved with someone else? Chances are if a woman is hot, she is going to have a boyfriend tho
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:19 AM
2

Focus on working out first and losing that weight. Don’t go to the bars if you’re not drinking right now. Why? Because if you meet a girl in a bar, she’s going to want to drink with you and pull you farther from working out. Alcohol is a depressant. So if your fat and going through a breakup, more alcohol isn’t going to make you feel any better. Try socializing with women doing new activities more exercised based. Find a “gym buddy.” Join a yoga class. Just go out and talk to people. Get out of …
/r/askTRP31/12/17 06:07 AM
1

You’re thinking about this all wrong. Why are you allowing women to pick you, why aren’t you out there picking out the women you want? Why are you being passive? Why are you being a little bitch and not going after what you want?
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:54 AM
1

Hahaha fuck yes to this
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:52 AM
1

You sound whiny. This woman sounds like your main goal, your everything. That’s pathetic. You need to focus
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:51 AM
3

No, don’t pay for shit. Invite her out for a drink and show up early. Order a drink and have it in your hands when she arrives. She has to earn a drink from your bank account. She isn’t entitled to one just because she showed up.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:48 AM
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Get her to talk about herself. Ask her questions until you find something interesting about her then ask more questions about that. Give her a little bit about yourself to build rapport. Tell her why you are interested in what she is talking about. Lead the conversation.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:43 AM
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Read the sidebar. This woman is a branch swinger. She’ll go from dude to dude, relationship to relationship. The fact that you wrote this post means you are considering it. It also seems like she is your only sexual option, which means you are not practicing abundance mentality and she is your oneitis.
/r/askTRP31/12/17 05:25 AM
1

Stop being a beta bitch. Become financially independent from her. Work out and get swole. Become an alpha man instead of a kept man. Come on bro. You know all this. You’ll know you’re doing great when she gets down on her knees and submits to you despite her having more status than you.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 09:43 PM
1

Seems like you have anger issues. Anger is always fear turned outward so it sounds like you’re not dealing with what scares you. Don’t fight dads, breakup with her if you feel her sharing is a deal breaker, and don’t worry about the beta guy she is talking to
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:44 PM
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No. Talking about your oneitis with friends only gives her more power. You are allowing her to occupy your mind and talking about her reinforces your oneitis and makes it stronger. Abundance mentality always
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:40 PM
2

Yes. AWALT. Don’t shit where you eat tho
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:38 PM
1

You need to work on your mindset. You need to become outcome independent. 5 approaches ain’t shit. You don’t hit a magical number and the universe rewards you with sex.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 04:53 PM
1

Seems like she’s being the aggressor by pursuing you and not the other way around. Be weary of women who pursue you. They might be in the alpha role and believe you are beta. Sounds you picked up on this and that’s why you eased back. Next time you hang out with her, notice if she’s the one leading and if you’re in the backseat. I personally don’t like these types of women.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 03:13 AM
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This is why game is always number 1. You can have money and looks but if you don’t have game, you’re fucked. I recommend talking to as many people as you can. Start conversations with everyone. Learn how to be social. It’s a skill that needs to be flexed
/r/askTRP01/12/17 03:03 AM
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I tend to stop pursuing these women. These women like to create drama and watch men fight over them. They’re the ones that give you their phone number, and then tell you that they have boyfriends. They’re branch swingers and most of the time I’ve noticed their boyfriends are in a very beta state when their girlfriends are open to the possibility of fucking me. There’s so many attractive and beautiful women out there that I don’t have time to settle for one with a boyfriend who doesn’t know what …
/r/askTRP01/12/17 02:59 AM
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Sounds like a good sign. Also sounds like your SMV may be higher than you thought. Maybe start going for 10s instead of 6-7s. It also sounds like you may have some confidence issues due to you possibly seeking validation by writing this post. Something to work on.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 05:24 PM
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No. You are covering up an insecurity. This insecurity will continue to destroy you until you address it. Padding your shoes is like padding your bras and only bitches do that.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:26 PM
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You’re an orbiter. She’s keeping you close to fall back on if things don’t work out in her relationship. She receives your praise, validation, and time (all those phone calls, texts) and you receive nothing.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:24 PM
1

How does purchasing sex for a night create abundance mentality? It doesn’t
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:18 PM
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She’s playing games and she played herself. You invite her out dancing and she brings 3 of her friends? She gets jealous that you are dancing with another girl when she is the one who is late? She pulled you into her frame by making you feel bad about it and when she knew she made you feel bad/broke your frame, she left. Don’t let a woman break your frame, and if she shows up with her friends, call her out on it.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 04:15 PM
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This right here
/r/askTRP29/10/17 05:17 AM
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Bravo. Handled like a champ. Fuck this girl and her bullshit. You’re taking her out and showing her a good time despite her having a bf. She prob goes home and fucks him after you take her out. She’s using you and won’t even let you enjoy your favorite bar for one drink? Fuck that. You handled it well. I personally don’t go after women who are married/ have bfs but that’s me. Too much drama. If you want to have sex with her, keep this type of frame. Don’t be afraid to have her walk out and you n…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 05:14 AM
1

Is your friend who lives with her interested in her? Or is that friend interested in you? Eh, she’s not interested. I’d prob delete number and move on. She wants to slut it up and for some reason doesn’t see you as alpha. Did you walk her home? Did you engage in beta behaviors with her?
/r/askTRP29/10/17 04:57 AM
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I’d keep walking but tell his friends, “ maybe you should take that guy home. He’s out here sexually assaulting women and he’s probably going to ruin your night.” I’d use the mob mentality against him. His friends will either realize what he’s done and gang up on him, or yell back at you. If they choose to pursue you, keep walking but don’t run. If they pursue, call the cops. Obviously stay in crowded areas that are well lit.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 04:50 AM
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Ignore it. He’s actually doing you a favor and putting you in the “bad boy” category by whining about you. In the mean time, build abundance mentality and stop the oneitis with her
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:28 PM
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Pull her in and give her a hug. Ask why she’s hitting you and tell her that there are other ways she can get your attention.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 12:27 AM
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She’s not ready to settle into her career. She wants to ho it up a bit in her younger years and have a good time. Who the fuck are you to judge? Why do you care? Why are you not addressing your own issues and instead are focused on a woman who is just a plate to you?
/r/askTRP25/10/17 08:43 AM
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I don’t look backward. I look forward. I don’t have any regrets. I accept my faults and flaws and realize that they have taught me more about the world and shaped who I am today.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 08:38 AM
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“That sucks. Not interested in that tho. Hope you find what you’re looking for!” Usually I’ll send something like that and cease contact. It sets a boundary with the woman that I am not interested in her friendship. It also shows that I’m not butthurt at all as I am in abundance mentality. It also allows me to hit on her again if I see her out. I’m not her friend, so she should expect this kind of encounter from me. If she’s not interested, she’ll walk away.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 08:37 AM
1

Holy shit. This woman has you by your balls. Cease all contact.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:58 AM
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You got too close for her comfort when you started sharing personal life stories. When you did that, the relationship dynamic changed from one of just sex, to a more intimate one. You drunk dialing and continuing to pursue her, despite her wishes of pushing you away, also turned her off to you. You became beta. Delete her number and move on
/r/askTRP22/10/17 09:43 PM
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You cut her off. This is an invasion of your privacy. If you stay with her, you positively enforce this type of behavior in her. She will think this is okay, and continue to do so.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 04:02 AM
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It's a metaphor
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:59 AM
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Take a break from her. Give her space. Let her initiate the next hang out. Remain alpha during interaction. Giving space will also give you time to decide if you really are her beta orbiter or, if you can remain friends with this woman
/r/askTRP28/09/17 03:57 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:31 PM
4

Build your social game. Women talk. Eventually it'll get around that your hung and it'll increase your smv.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:44 PM
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It sounds to me like she is eating away at your frame slowly and you let her. Who decided you would only see each other? You? Her? It was it mutual? Why did you stop using protection? Are you willing to accept the possibility of and std from another guy if she is fucking around? Are you willing to have a child with this woman? You also sound a little defensive. All of these behaviors seem like she is calling the shots and she has plated you. How did you meet? Did you bring her into your frame or…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:39 PM
2

You go out and talk to people. It's really that simple. Stop overthinking
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:36 PM
3

Sounds like you're getting too personal too fast with people and not sharing enough of yourself with them.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:33 PM
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You established that this relationship was temporary. She can do what she wants. Why are you looking at her phone? You are acting very beta and insecure.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 04:29 PM
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You wait for them to approach you. Maybe you'll be sitting in a cafe and one day she'll come by and ask you what coffee you're drinking and you'll live together forever and get married. See? This is blue pill thinking. A man goes for what he wants and doesn't wait for it to come to him. You have mentally allowed your age and your lack of social skills to become your handicap. Age isn't that big of a deal, especially if you're lifting. And if you have anxiety about cold approaching or online dati…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 07:11 AM
5

Most likely she just got out of a relationship and is looking for some validation. It sounds like you've had past experiences where this wasn't such a good idea. I vote not texting back
/r/askTRP11/08/17 10:17 AM
0

You can be a nice guy and still "get somewhere."
/r/askTRP11/08/17 10:10 AM
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I recommended for OP to leave it alone because he sounds too much like he's in his head. It also sounds like this is the only women he is pursing at the moment, which means he is not in abundance mentality. Overthinking lead him to a classic beta mistake, and he may create more with this woman if he doesn't take a step back and re-evaluate his game. Of course he should still pursue her, but once he has tightened up a bit.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 10:01 AM
2

Yeah, the word "soon" is bad news. I'd recommended leaving it alone
/r/askTRP11/08/17 02:18 AM
71

Blow it up. She threw you into her drama by saying you'll vouch for her. That's bullshit.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 04:35 PM
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You're not in abundance mentality. Who gives a fuck if she's with some other guy? She's snapping you while shes hanging out with him. Focus on talking to multiple women instead of getting stuck on one
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:26 PM
1

Sounds like you're on track. Go after women for practice right now
/r/askTRP02/08/17 11:38 PM
1

Thank you for sharing this post
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:20 AM
1

Say excuse me and ask her where the nearest coffee shop is at
/r/askTRP29/07/17 02:11 AM
9

Alpha widowed men??? That's an oxy moron.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 07:11 PM
1

It's a cultural thing. Indian culture is more conservative than western culture. Because of this, it is possible that some Indians may attribute their failures to racism, but more likely social cues and norms are the not being understood by either party. Indian culture also has a more overt "caste" system embedded in their society as well. We have it here in the west with how large our wealth inequality varies. Indian caste system is more talked about and honored. Indians also treat their women …
/r/askTRP26/07/17 02:45 AM
3

You're friend zoned. She's telling you about some other guy she likes. He's doing all the alpha moves and she's eating it up. Don't talk to her and continue radio silence
/r/askTRP26/07/17 02:33 AM
1

Call her out on it
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:17 PM
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Nope. She already cheated on you if she spent the night at another guy's house. Do you think that's acceptable behavior for your girlfriend? Break up with her and move on
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:02 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eIho2S0ZahI
/r/askTRP21/07/17 08:21 PM
2

As a man, you must approach first. It is crucial that you bring her into your frame/reality and that she doesn't bring you into hers. It's the first alpha move available to you.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:24 PM
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Practice practice practice. Hot women don't go out alone. Hot women travel in groups. So in order to sleep with hot women, you need to learn how to approach groups. When approaching a group, make sure you address everyone. You can ask them how their night is going, why are they out, what are they celebrating, etc. Dont talk to the woman you want at first. Instead ignore her and learn the dynamics of the group. You want to identify the grenade. She/he is the one having the least amount of fun, ye…
/r/askTRP18/07/17 03:12 PM
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This shows you have no abundance mentality. Imagine all the 9s you passed by on that 12 hr drive
/r/askTRP18/07/17 05:39 AM
1

AWALT
/r/askTRP18/07/17 05:38 AM
2

You create a lifestyle by actually getting off your ass and doing something about it.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:54 PM
1

I will ask a woman out twice before I move on. If she doesn't offer another time to meet up or is always busy, I move on. Practice abundance mentality
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:52 PM
1

Lol. If you haven't slept with either of them then you're friend zoned. Sounds like you played yourself and got tangled up in their drama.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:48 PM
1

A is acting like a beta bitch. He's jealous of you and your accomplishments. This probably isn't the first time he's done this to you. Stop hanging out with him for now
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:42 PM
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Leave her already. Some people with mental illness will use it to manipulate others. She is using you. She is sucking up all your energy and leaving you empty. Don't feel guilty about leaving her. She's not the same person you fell in love with.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 03:37 PM
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Yes. Women will start to touch you more frequently, initiate conversation for once, and other things. Your job is to notice it and capitalize on these instances.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 01:08 AM
1

Stop drinking. You know it's a problem for you
/r/askTRP09/07/17 01:01 AM
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Practice practice practice You can research game and watch all the videos you want, but you won't get anywhere until you go out and practice. Go out there and work.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 12:59 AM
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Nope. It's over. Why go any farther with her? Move on. Stop overthinking/overanalyzing
/r/askTRP09/07/17 12:57 AM
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3rd takeaway: Eh, I wouldn't stress about that. If a girl gives you her number, she's interested. Don't be a chump and go to her bar all the time and tip her fat. Don't ask her what nights she works or anything like that. Remember abundance mentality. Don't let her occupy so much of your mind.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 12:53 AM
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Not a bad texting game. Here's a few notes Tighten it up. Don't text too much. One or two short sentences max. Remember you're a busy man, and your time is valuable. You don't have time to read her long excuses. Don't text back so quickly. You're making yourself too available. Don't be so quick to offer a second date/option if she declines the first (abundance mentality. You should already have other things scheduled) A date that ends at 5 pm before she goes to work is not going to get you anywh…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 05:45 PM
3

I enjoy that women are lurking here and post occasionally. Glad you are seeing through the matrix
/r/askTRP30/06/17 11:30 PM
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That comes down to personal preference. I like women who are independent and have their own lives. Women who aren't attached to my side. More alpha-type.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:04 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:00 PM
1

I'd agree with how you handled this new girl and her trying to make you that guy. Could you have had sex with her? Yeah sure, but also you don't want to reward a shitty woman
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:59 PM
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As much as want. You sound confused tho. If you want LTR then go for it. If you don't, then keep on doing what you're doing. If I personally commit to someone, I'm faithful 100%. But my commitment is very hard to earn and has non negotiable terms.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:45 PM
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Here's my trick I use to change my mindset with socializing with strangers. It's a belief or mantra I repeat in my head. "Everyone is unique and special. Everyone has something to teach me. What can I learn from this person?" With this mindset, you can talk to strangers. Find similar ground and shared experiences.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:41 PM
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Agreed. These guys usually become shunned by other men. It kinda feels like a shit where you eat scenario. Go ahead and fuck with your friends' ex, but remember you'll lose that friendship.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:32 PM
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Not enough information. Too vague of a question. Mr steal yo girl could be a beta orbiter who she's had around who got lucky, or an alpha who picked her up not knowing her situation. The alpha wouldn't know her relationship status at first, whereas the beta would and immediately move. Or the alpha could be keeping tabs on her and see that she's available now. I guess the answer to your question is it depends on the man.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:30 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat. Focus on completing the project.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:24 PM
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Congrats, you've increased your SMV! A side effect of this progress is little bitch betas will despise you. They're jealous of what you've become. You can either stick it out with your job with the goal of reaching a position higher than him, or you can use this new SMV to land a better job somewhere else.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:22 PM
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Ahh, the language of womanese. Women want to define their relationships with men. Youre either in the friend box, the stranger box, or someone she's sleeping with box. Here's what she's really saying: "I think you're someone I'd potentially consider as a mate, but your SMV is too low. Because of this, maybe we can be friends and maybe in the future if I don't find Chad I'll settle for you." Send her a text back rejecting her offer but keep it playful. By you rejecting her offer of friendship, yo…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:16 PM
1

Great post. Well thought out and written.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 09:57 AM
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You're doing everything wrong. You are her orbiter, her back-up plan. Stop talking to this girl and invest your time in women that don't have boyfriends
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:47 AM
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Go smoke weed with some other chick. See how she likes it.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:30 PM
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Orbiter = someone who wants someone else sexually or romantically and hasn't escalated due to fear of rejection or outcome.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 04:41 PM
1

This isn't about seeking proof. This is about you not fully taking TRP and choosing to live in beta land. Why are you choosing to stay plugged in?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 04:38 PM
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Think more animalistic. Which type of man does a woman want? Remember, women think and operate via emotion. Men operate via logic.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 04:33 PM
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Yes, say hello to people. If you'd like to be known as the friendly confident guy then start acting like it
/r/askTRP28/06/17 04:29 PM
1

Congrats, you fell for her trap. That's why she wanted you to follow her on Instagram. She sounds like plate material and less like a gf. Make sure you're in abundance mentality and gaming other girls as well.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 02:34 PM
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Why are you staying away from him? It seems the consensus is women want a strong man both physically and mentally. Why is this grounds to break up with your man? Has he done anything wrong? Or do you just prefer a relationship where the man is submissive?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:20 PM
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You're not gonna get any butt play if you keep acting like this.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:12 PM
1

No they won't hate you. Just be honest that you have some anxiety with it and most men will understand
/r/askTRP19/06/17 03:47 PM
1

Welcome. Read the sidebar and get to work
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:15 AM
1

The Red Pill is not about picking up women. The Red Pill is about improving all aspects of your life. Learning how to interact with the opposite sex helps kickstart this process.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:35 AM
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It's a shit test. Need more context to help
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:26 AM
1

Giving up is a bitch way to go out. You really want that to be your legacy? See a therapist and explore these emotions you have and how they are impacting your life. Chances are more is going on with you than just not getting dates
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:02 PM
1

This right here. Watch how her hamster spins
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:56 PM
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When a woman attempts to dictate the rules of a relationship and the man agrees, he falls into her frame. By her telling you she wants to be friends first, she is friendzoning you and hoping you'll stick around while she decides whether or not she wants to have sex with you. Meanwhile, she fucks other guys on the side. When this happens, the man falls into the beta position. Fuck that. Don't call or text her. She's fucking with you and you're falling for it. You already have friends and you're n…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:51 PM
2

Hahahaha
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:45 PM
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Excellent post. Great insight and presentation. When I first started out and my game needed a boost, I'd go to the strip club. I felt comfortable in that setting with women. The fact that they're already naked and after my money, helped me relax oddly. After doing this, my approach anxiety would almost disappear. The next night I'd go out to the bars/clubs and approach all attractive women with great results
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:30 PM
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Classic shit test. Women interested in you will always try and test your mental fitness. Don't worry about it
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:38 PM
3

Approach everyone. Talk to everyone.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:48 AM
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Some feminists are that way because they have fucked up trauma with men. Instead of addressing their issues, they lash out at all men. They then seek out that type of abusive and relieve that trauma. Sort of like Stockholm syndrome.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:57 PM
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Excellent post. Seeking out new shit tests to destroy them is the best mentality to have when going out
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:07 PM
1

Ask her out again. See if she agrees. This time you have to escalate and kiss her.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 06:48 PM
1

The main problem is that you have made this relationship and this woman your main priority in life. When women feel this in a relationship, they start to pull away. Focus on what you want out of life and aim for it.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:59 AM
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Ghost her. Watch how crazy she gets. Remember why women do this to their partners. They do this because you are slipping. You are becoming a beta and so she is seeking another alpha man. The fact that she did this in front of you means she doesn't respect you anymore or the relationship. Cut her lose, work on yourself, and become alpha again. Don't ever let a woman disrespect you like this again.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:47 AM
3

Feminists are fun to pickup. I once had a woman tell me she was a feminist but that she enjoyed her hiphop music with misogyny. She said in that format, misogyny turned her on. Feminists are also great because they are constantly shit testing you. This is a good experience for a man because it tests your frame. Everything you say is wrong to a feminist, which makes it all the more satisfying when you're fucking her from behind as you choke her.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 07:41 AM
1

I've been on this path for awhile. Seen a lot of divorces
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:13 AM
2

I always respond. If she went through the trouble of checking your name, she's thinking of you. Now if she doesn't respond back and that becomes a habit, she's an attention whore and I usually delete those girls.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:11 AM
0

I'm not going to humor you. We say that for a reason. Do you want to have a girlfriend? Or do you want to play therapist?
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:07 AM
1

Just ask him calmly and sincerely when he's getting all emotional on you, "oh honey, who hurt you?"
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:05 AM
2

My man.
/r/askTRP24/05/17 04:03 AM
2

I like this post. It's refreshing to hear about the relationships you had with past men and if they contribute to your current dating struggles. It is possible to attract the alpha male. Just be the best looking woman in the room. Dress 100% everyday you leave the house. You never leave the house in sweatpants. Keep hitting the gym and being active. Join clubs at gyms for physical activities and meet new people. It's kinda the same advice we give men here. Be the best version of yourself and do …
/r/askTRP17/05/17 04:23 AM
2

Sounds Ike you have a little crush on her if you're taking the time to write this post. I'd say just have sex with her and see what happens.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:46 PM
1

There are some great TED talks on failure you can look up. Make failure your friend. It's going to be your teacher for all of your life. Learn from every fuckup. "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." If you are not failing, you are not learning.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:41 PM
3

Good job on the date. Key is to maintain abundance mentality. Make sure you are continuing on your path. These little moments make men slip back into blue pill mode so quickly, it's comical. Beginners believe after one successful night they are at the top. I challenge you to date or sleep with another women before hanging out with this one again. If you can't because of scarcity, then you are not in abundance mentality and slipping back to blue pill. If you simply don't want to, then you are emo…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 08:37 PM
5

I find these "race" posts to be quite limiting. It allows a man of Indian/Asian descent an excuse (or mental barrier) in that, his game will never be as good as a white mans. I respectfully disagree with this whole notion. A red pill alpha man does not let his race hold him back. A red pill alpha man is proud of his culture and heritage and uses it as an advantage in his life.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:23 PM
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Great honest field report. Took me back to my first days. When the girl brings a male friend but she is clearly into you, take the girl for yourself and focus on getting him a date for the night. It'll show your girl that you have game and are clearly a social person, as well as earn the respect of her friend. In these types of cases, this male friend is a beta. Hesitation can kill you. This is caused by anxiety. "What about her friend?" "What if people are watching me?" "What about her friend?"…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:12 PM
3

Excellent article. In my experience this is truth
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 07:55 PM
4

It's a compliment idiot. Flirt with them back. Tease them back.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:52 PM
4

This right here
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:50 PM
3

Delete all social media. Time to go monk mode. Hit the gym and start to develop other positive habits that will add to your life. You can do it.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:47 PM
1

Sounds like a shit test you failed. By you kicking her out of your apartment, you are showing her that you don't like what she has done and it has hurt you. She will interpret this behavior as you having feelings for her. I'd recommend staying away from this girl. She seems to have some sort of hold on you. At least for a little while.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 11:20 PM
1

You handled that right. Sounds like she may have issues with taking accountability for her own actions if she intended to blame you on the outcome. Watch out for that
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:57 PM
1

BP thinking and sarcasm go hand in hand
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:54 PM
1

She's not "whoring out" her sister for drinks. She's shit testing him and he passed.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:41 PM
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The girl consciously or not, is taking advantage of the man she put in her friendzone. This could be either through resources or time. But remember AWALT. It's a strategy women do maybe at the biological level to ensure that either she or her children have resources.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:31 PM
1

Good job getting out there and trying. 1st, don't approach a woman in a dark theatre. It's not the time for any type of interaction. People don't talk during movies so you can't communicate with her. 2nd, don't let rejection scare you. Let it empower you. Maybe you could have pulled something off without speaking, but you got overwhelmed and worried about rejection. WHO FUCKING CARES? Would you rather live a life full of regret? Next time, try approaching a woman in line for snacks. You can ask …
/r/askTRP23/04/17 02:37 AM
4

Because suicide is the easy way out. And choosing the easy path is beta. I'd rather fight til my last day than run from my problems like a little bitch.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:11 AM
3

"Oh cool me either! We have a lot in common!" High five her afterwards
/r/askTRP09/04/17 07:41 PM
1

You played it well. It was all a shit test she designed to determine how interested you are. The fact that you went through with it with the other girl shocked her. Keep playing it chill and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 04:25 PM
11

Agreed. Nothing pisses a woman off more than ignoring them.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:14 PM
10

Sounds like somebody has mommy issues
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:23 PM
1

Sounds like you already know the answers to your problems. Go out more and meet people. Talk to everyone. Work on your social game. Have a few women around.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:13 PM
2

Take her out. Party it up. Take her back to her place or yours and try to smash. Don't tell her what you want from her, show her what you want.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 07:34 PM
7

Because confidence and charisma beats anything else.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 07:31 PM
2

You should never try again. You should quit. Come on man. That defeatist attitude won't get you anywhere. Keep on pushing and moving forward. Accomplish your goals
/r/askTRP22/03/17 10:01 PM
1

You're in the perfect situation rn.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 07:26 PM
1

So deep inside you enjoy jerking off and video games and no social contact, yet you are depressed and reaching out on TRP for advice? That doesn't make sense. If you were happy with these activities, you wouldn't be depressed and writing here.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:29 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat, dumbass. Now that we got that out of the way, she's fucking with you and attempting to annoy you. This is all one big shit test that your failing miserably. You can't wait a couple of days to get your shirt in the mail until the key turns up on its own? No, you make it a big deal and put her in a position of power over you. You either need to talk to her and become civil, or move out.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:11 PM
1

Sounds like in some way your strong desire for a long term relationship is manifesting in sexual dysfunction. Is porn helping or hurting you? Have you tried practicing lasting longer while watching porn or is 10 seconds what you strive to achieve each time you jerk it? If so, then you are teaching your body to orgasm in 10 seconds and taking that muscle memory into the bedroom with women.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:03 PM
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Go for it tomorrow night but if it doesn't happen move on. Get your logistics straight. Take her to a few different places then bounce her somewhere private. You need to get your mental game on point. Workout the day of your date, relax doing a hobby.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:17 AM
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She's got you right where she wants you. You have no abundance mentality and she knows she's your only option. Cancel the date and game other women. Try again next week. She'd fuck Chad on the first date and Chad is who you want to be. Create an environment where women chase you.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:01 AM
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You can't tell betas about the redpill. They need to find it for themselves. The best thing you can do for him is fuck this girls brains out. He may or may not want to be your friend after that, but when your working on yourself, you will lose some friends from your blue pill days because they themselves are bluepill. Keep on hitting your goals and pushing forward.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:58 AM
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Start slow. Work out. Go to the gym and make friends with other men who you think are alpha. Hang out with them and learn from them. True alphas don't mind helping betas out if they really want to change. Talk to people. Hang out at coffee shops. Become a regular someplace where people know you by name. Hang out with different types of people. Learn how to behave and act in social environments. That comes with practice. After you've done all of this, you should begin to notice attractive women a…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:51 AM
1

Text her back in a few days. Remember abundance mentality. You're stressing and freaking out about losing her because you have no other women in sight. Make friends with a few attractive women or start talking to new ones.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:48 AM
2

In a way, OP is slut shaming. He's calling her out on posting a picture like that and then teasing her that she just did it to display "her smile." The woman then gets defensive and states "you know I'm not that type of girl." Every girl that is that type of girl says that. Watch her actions, not her words. So she is looking for attention by posting the pic. Then she gets defensive, which means OP may be in a rough spot already prior to the picture being posted. Sarcasm doesn't translate to text…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:44 AM
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You messed up. You sound butt hurt in your texts teasing her about the picture. Never forget that sarcasm and shit like that doesn't translate well to text. And if she is posting pictures like that, she is seeking male attention elsewhere. Proper redpill move would have been to ignore her picture and start talking to other girls. Give it a couple of days and text her back but with a new topic. Don't bring up that shit
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:47 PM
2

Shut the fuck up with this Indian shit. "I can't girls because of my race." You are holding yourself back by entertaining that thought and allowing it power in your brain. You can't get white girls because your game fucking sucks. Improve your game and other aspects of your life and you'll have all the overrated white women you want. This post happens way too many times. I'm starting to think Indian men can't get women because they're so insecure in their own skin.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 08:59 PM
1

How can you become more of an alpha compared to him? What are his weaknesses and insecurities that you can create as strengths for you? He may be making fun of you because he is threatened by you.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 10:17 PM
3

Go have sex with a woman on Friday night. Don't spend the night, and wake up early and keep working on your studies.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 06:53 PM
2

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP28/02/17 06:50 PM
7

Something simple like, "hey are you coming?" Would work
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:34 AM
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I'd say you timed it well. Next time you see her ask her if she wants to go for a walk or something. Betas do this shit all the time. They can't open a stranger, but as soon as it's done by someone else, they jump into the conversation. They don't realize that by not opening the conversation, they are coming from a point of weakness which most girls will unconsciously pick up. She stared at you and bit her lip at you because you opened her up and the rest of the group followed indicating to her …
/r/askTRP23/02/17 03:34 AM
2

2 to 3. I'll have two plates good to go and one I'm slowly talking to. If any of the two don't work out, I initiate hard with the last girl.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:48 AM
2

Come on man. You're not showing interest in her. Go have sex with your girlfriend and stop over analyzing.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:44 AM
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Her following you is a good sign. Next time something like, "hey seems we're doing the same types of exercises today. Want to work out together?" might work.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 01:29 AM
2

Badass. Focus on making those goals happen. What little steps can you start taking now to accomplish these goals?
/r/askTRP19/02/17 12:19 AM
2

What's your overall goal in life?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 10:54 PM
3

You shat where you ate tho. There will be repercussions.
/r/seduction18/02/17 10:53 PM
3

You're suffering from depression. There are plenty of things you can try. Exercise, diet, medication, marijuana are all options. Get your shit together and work hard to meet your goals.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 03:58 AM
2

He was a beta male so you left him. This is the type of man we are all trying not to become.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:18 PM
2

Ohh eat me up girl! And keep smoking that green.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:13 PM
3

Cut it off. Why are you subjecting yourself to this shit again? The definition of insanity is repeating the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Maybe you have some mother issues you need to work out. You're in "captain save a ho" mode and it's going to screw up your life
/r/askTRP15/02/17 04:00 PM
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Learn from this post guys. Single mom posting on Valentine's Day how she doesn't need a man on a subreddit for men who are trying to better themselves. These are the type of women you avoid
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:51 PM
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This is a stupid question born from over analyzing and over thinking. Go out and talk to people
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:46 PM
4

You're repeating a cycle. You haven't slept with her yet and you have these feelings. Why do you allow women to use you?
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:44 PM
2

Ask her out. It's her responsibility to tell you if she has a bf or not.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:39 PM
2

A rejection to touch doesn't mean she's not down, it just means that she's not comfortable enough with you just yet. Ignore or laugh off the rejection and try again later after you build more comfort
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:40 AM
1

First half of your game sounds solid. Second half during escalation seems to need some work. How are you escalating? Are you going too fast? Do you build enough comfort first before going for the kiss? Keep on approaching and pay attention to escalating and what works and what doesn't. Try new things. If you're getting that much attention, you should be closing.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 08:26 PM
1

You tried a little too hard with your response. I'd say don't talk to her for a few days and then ask her out again casually.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 11:26 PM
3

You want it to come out as casually as possible. Don't use the word date. "Hey you seem pretty cool. What's your number? We should chill later." Something like that. You don't have to be good looking. Confidence is all you need. Approach as many women as possible. You'll know a woman is into you if she starts shit testing you. She's testing your emotional fitness. Agree and amplify has always given me the best results, but any of the other strategies work.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 11:22 PM
2

Your smv doesn't matter. What matter is that you're in a LDR. A woman's behavior will change once she's found another man outside of that LDR. Why continue such a hard relationship?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:08 AM
1

The gym is for working out. You should be focused on lifting.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:06 AM
3

The more red pill knowledge you gain, the more people will try to undermine you. I'm not saying your buddy did this, but he def threw off your game. You shouldn't have apologized to her or asked her out to dinner. You should have ignored it. It's none of her business. Don't spend so much time with your buddy.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:36 PM
3

Lol she fucked you for an air bnb and you didn't think she'd use sex to get other things from other people? Oneitis bro. Ditch her and move on
/r/askTRP25/01/17 04:37 AM
1

A good leader knows when he's wrong and corrects it to get better. A dictator believes he's always right.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:07 AM
1

This right here
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:04 AM
1

Why? Why would you feel the need to disclose this information to someone you don't know that well? No it's not okay
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:02 AM
2

And if you see her out, go up to her and say hi with a big smile on your face. Don't be a coward. That's not alpha. You say hi if she's around but stick to your business. You don't text her anymore, you don't go out of your way to talk to her. She's fucking with you and treating you like your time isn't valuable. This means she's not interested. Gain abundance mentality. Be the one she fears seeing out at the bar because you got a hot bitch on your arm.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 07:00 AM
3

"I want to get to know you better" You fucked up here. If you want to convert her to a plate, you have to keep treating her like a piece of ass. Like you did the first night you had your ONS.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:56 AM
6

"I know I have oneitis..." You know your problem. You know the solution. Stop spending time/energy on your oneitis and gain an abundance mentality through your actions.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:53 AM
1

Your failing their shit tests. Sounds like you need to go out by yourself from time to time and see how you do with different people.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:52 AM
7

Gym is for working out. Stay focused. If she wants to approach, let her. But your mind is occupied on reaching your goals.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:48 AM
8

Approach anywhere. In any situation. It's time for you to play scientist and gather as much data as you can. What approach works best for you? Review your findings and tighten up your game. This goes for every aspect of your life.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 06:45 AM
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Excellent post. Many men get frustrated and think it's the girls fault if they fail. When in reality it's always the man's fault for not bringing his best game.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 06:19 AM
1

You're back in with her. Just don't make her a priority
/r/askTRP13/01/17 02:16 AM
0

Meditate for 20mins on your bad mood. Either though guided meditations on YouTube or just sitting with your thoughts. Should help you shift moods. If not, light a joint of your favorite strain and kickback. Life's too short to not enjoy it.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 12:59 AM
1

Go for it. Your friend said that because he was jealous of your game.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 05:45 AM
2

So many Indian guys worried about race on this sub...
/r/askTRP27/12/16 10:18 PM
1

Simulate sex. Slightly thrust your hips into her when she grinds on you. Put your hand lightly on the back of her neck. Pull her in close, then spin her away or lightly push her away. This push/pull is important to building attraction. It takes practice. Keep doing joining people and dancing and you'll get better and better at it.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:05 PM
3

I got a big mouth sometimes. I gotta shut the fuck up
/r/askTRP23/12/16 08:30 PM
2

Word. This is what I thought the response would be. Thank you TRP for the honest advice. I'm taking her out tonight and not giving a fuck about her past.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 08:29 PM
1

Black
/r/askTRP23/12/16 08:17 PM
1

Always go for this kiss on the first date if you're feeling it. Reassess how she responds to the kiss and adjust your game accordingly
/r/seduction20/12/16 12:03 AM
1

False. Frame is all that matters. Otherwise we'd be a race of giants with all the tall guys fucking everything in sight. I've seen Danny Devito looking dudes pull girls that would make your mouth water. And I've seen dudes with high Smv stand in the corner all night due to no frame/game.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:22 PM
5

So what's the question?
/r/askTRP18/12/16 11:04 PM
8

Nah being nice and sweet is good man. When she does something you really like, that's when you compliment her
/r/askTRP18/12/16 02:30 AM
1

How can anyone love you if you don't love yourself? Seek counseling
/r/askTRP14/12/16 11:07 PM
2

Another post about race. Yes, it's a factor but not the only one.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 10:56 PM
1

You don't. You move on. Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:57 AM
2

I never really agreed with the whole "monk mode" thing. For me I need to actively be working on a goal. The reading and Reddit help, but what good is reading about approaching women but never going out and trying it? You start to shed that blue pill thinking. You learn little things that you start to see other women do. You learn how to read their energy. And you learn those things by approaching and trying different things. Same way you learn about anything in life really. Fucking trial and err…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 09:12 PM
1

This right here is gold
/r/askTRP05/12/16 08:56 PM
1

Hahaha you're killing me bro. Agreed, I've found this to be true about the intense kiss. For OP A man should continue to push boundaries while on a date. We first push women's boundaries when we approach. We then push it further by texting them and getting them to agree to a night out together. We keep pushing it until we end up in bed together. If that woman refuses sex, then we leave or ask them to leave. We are firm when we say this and we do not back down. Why? Because that woman is unsure o…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 08:53 PM
3

From your writing it sounds like you're an excitable guy with lots of energy. Now that's awesome, but for people who don't know you this type of energy can come off as anxious/hyper/clingy. My suggestion would be to match the energy of the people you approach, then slowly bring them back up to where you're at. When approaching women, be subtle. Instead of "Hey you wanna dance!?" Communicate with body language. Just start dancing next to her and see what she does. If she starts paying attention t…
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:30 PM
3

Nah she's stringing you a long. She's keeping you as back-up in case it doesn't work out with her current relationship. That means you may be waiting a long time for her to become single. Why waste time waiting?
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:15 PM
1

Yeah sounds like she's considering branch swinging to you. Is she involved with someone else?
/r/askTRP05/12/16 06:03 PM
5

What's your main goal in life? Are you currently working hard to achieve that goal? A man needs something to strive for
/r/askTRP04/12/16 10:22 PM
1

Prob just looking for some postits. Who cares? Don't shit where you eat and move on.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 05:50 PM
1

The gym is a place to work out. You must focus all your energy into that when you're there. Say hello to people and be friendly, but don't forget your purpose.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 09:45 PM
2

OP throw in that new A Tribe Called Quest album and chill out man.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:56 PM
1

Your past with her creates a narrative in your mind. She may not share such a similar one in hers. Don't worry about it man. Too much history with this girl. Go out there and get three new ones
/r/askTRP18/11/16 07:54 PM
2

Why hold a grudge? Why let someone have such power over you?
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:39 PM
1

Sounds like you didn't capitalize on the last hangout you guys had. Did you escalate? Did you steer conversation towards sex? Did you invite her over at the end? From my experience it seems women don't like it when you don't take these risks. It pisses them off and they think you're wasting their time. This is the third date and you haven't had sex with her yet??? Bro. Always go for sex on the first date. St the very least, a kiss. Her friend zoning you was also a shit test. If you had countered…
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:35 PM
3

Your first step should be counseling. A good counselor could help with these feelings.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 04:25 PM
1

Nah this is disrespect. She's fucking some other dude who you had a problem with and now texting you this shit? Block her man. She's trying to keep you as back up in case it doesn't work out with that guy.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 09:56 PM
3

"K" works or go with a "no worries! Some other time" both display abundance mentality. Remember, your free time is valuable, so if you ever feel she is purposely wasting your time, ditch her ass.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 09:43 PM
2

Nah I don't. Funny thing is they try to come around again later.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 08:58 PM
1

Ah you're right! That's the one
/r/askTRP15/11/16 08:58 PM
3

She was flirting with you. She's bipolar. Classic push and pull. Push by calling you names and starting shit, then pull by asking you for a cigarette. Don't fuck with these women. They're the ones that trash your shit after things don't work out.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:18 PM
7

If you're truly in abundance mentality you won't care at all.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 04:14 PM
6

Sometimes this is the best way to deal with this type of person. They want to give a show and have an audience. If you decide to keep staying in the audience, you give him a chance to perform, thus reinforcing his negative behavior.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 12:02 AM
3

Size doesn't really matter. Get good at eating a girl out. They love it. Don't let this mess with your confidence brother.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 11:47 PM
1

Go lone wolf. He starts being a dick, go off and explore. Don't stick around energy that is toxic
/r/askTRP13/11/16 11:45 PM
4

"And no one I've ever been with has complained about them." There's your answer right there. Keep on losing that weight brother!
/r/askTRP13/11/16 11:43 PM
1

Eh, honesty man it sounds like a lot of work. Is this the only girl you're seeing? Are you pursuing others?
/r/askTRP13/11/16 11:40 PM
7

For this approach I'd just be really honest. "I'm usually here around this time too and I noticed you. I'm OP. What's your name?" Play it from there. If she's all giggly, get a little more flirty. If she's hesitant, ask her what class she's taking and keep it friendly.
/r/seduction11/11/16 06:23 PM
3

You should get a counselor or therapist. Or maybe you have a possible chemical imbalance like depression making you sad. I struggled with depression for years in silence until my doc prescribed me a low dose med.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:11 PM
2

Tell her you can't do coffee and you want to do drinks that night instead. Take her out to a few places. Relax and just have fun. Then invite her back to your place. It's really that easy. You already did all the hard work. If you don't escalate to sex, you'll get friend zoned.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 06:04 PM
2

Walk around smiling more. Smiles are attractive and show people you are approachable. Studies show that smiling even if faking it, can trick the brain into being happy. Hopefully you'll get some looks now
/r/askTRP07/11/16 11:38 PM
1

Good advice here. Just wanna add don't shit where you eat and remember abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:45 PM
3

Then fucking do something! Be a man and control of your life. Men take action
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:26 PM
1

More corruption, but at least hopefully no nuclear war
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:21 PM
1

You have to showcase some dominance over them. This has to come out in your interactions with her over the course of the night. If you do this right, she'll unzip your pants and start blowing you first
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:19 PM
1

Fucking white knights. These strong independent women don't need us to rescue them. They want to be with the chad thunderfucks. That's why they always choose them. That's why they rush to their beta friends to talk shit about their bfs, but still go home to sleep with Chad after the conversation.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:15 PM
2

Approach anxiety is killing you. We all get it. It never really fades away. But that fear of rejection does. Push through it and go for it. Fear is stopping you. I recommend going out alone and approaching people. Check my post on approaching.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:01 AM
1

Maybe you do love her. Accept it. But also accept that she doesn't feel the same way. Time to dump her and push forward. These women are dangerous. She has a hold over you.
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:56 PM
6

For next time: don't let a woman sleep in your bed if you haven't fucked her yet. This is an intimate act, and she has to earn this intimacy. If you have to work the next day and she's keeping you up, calmly tell her, "is this gonna happen or not? Because I gotta get some rest for work." They usually say no and leave but come back in ten minutes ready to fuck. Hold stronger frame next time brother
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:45 PM
1

You're in her frame right now. She's calling all the shots in establishing the rules of this relationship, while you continue to agree to her terms. Even if you are gaming other girls (which I don't think you are 100%), you have serious oneitis. If you want a LTR with this girl and she refused, it's time to next. This keeps you operating in YOUR frame. Anything else keeps you as her plate. She's telling you she's fucking other guys to let you know this isn't going to get any more serious. Move o…
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:38 PM
1

Just ask her out already. And game other girls
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:25 PM
2

Overthinking/overanalyzing. Wait til you see her in person before you make that decision.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:23 PM
8

"Yes. I always thought you were hot too."
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:20 PM
1

Why do you want to fuck with these women? In my experience, these women chase beta bitches who will help support them and their kid. If they're after you, you're acting like a BP chump.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:18 PM
1

And lift man. It is possible to lose weight and gain muscle at the same time. Don't waste time by making excuses
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:13 PM
1

10 minutes is not enough cardio. Try more like 25-30 a day. Eat healthy and right. Chicken, vegetables, fruits, carbs like rice/beans.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:12 PM
0

I think the best thing you can do is steer the conversation towards sex. It's the first step in escalation. Make a sexual joke and see how she responds. Do something. Always escalate. Always go for the kiss on the first date. It doesn't matter if you succeed, what matters is what you communicate to the date. By going for it, you are showing her you are not interested in being friends.
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:04 PM
1

Agreed. Writing this helped a lot too. A wise man once said, "bitches ain't shit."
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 07:17 PM
20

Damn man. You have some great game and instincts. Don't second guess yourself. If you had told the 32yr old "let's go home now" you could have slept with her at almost any point of the interaction. You played the 20yr old perfectly. Ask for numbers, get bold. You got this shit.
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:08 PM
2

The key is to ask yourself, "what does this person know that I don't? What can this person teach me?" We are all different and have our own stories and life experiences. Once you change your attitude towards people, they will seem more interesting and likable.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:38 PM
14

Starting from scratch might be easier. Think about it. You have the opportunity to become the person you want to be without anyone injected their opinion into your process. Go for it.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:21 PM
2

I've read it. It's great. I had to adapt and change some things in my game due to not living in a big city like NY, but what he says works. Some things are outdated, (use snapchat instead of trying to get a phone number) but overall it's a good guide.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:19 PM
4

Make sure you have a plan already set and a day that works for you. Ex "lets go bowling thurs night." Be direct. Don't ask her if she's free Thursday or crap like that. If she's not free she'll let you know and offer up another night.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 02:59 PM
2

True. This may be the test your monk mode needs
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:13 PM
1

Monk mode, but still gaming? Seems our definitions differ.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 07:56 PM
8

Man here. Good job! Sounds like you learned that you don't want a partner in your life that smokes marijuana. Now with this information, you can "weed" out unworthy suitors in future dates. Also, he should have asked you if you wanted food instead of just assuming.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 07:51 PM
3

When you're kinda close to her and the vibe feels right, glance at her lips, then back at her eyes. Do this like three times. If she reciprocates, go for it slowly. Always go for the kiss. If you're into her, you have to do it. Even if she rejects you, she'll respect you for going for it. Most likely she'll turn and give you her cheek. Kiss her cheek and then play it off. If she's still around, she's into you, she just needs more time.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 07:23 PM
1

Digging this idea better
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:57 PM
1

I don't get this fascination with super hard rough sex all the time. I've gotten more girls to cum going slow and rhythmically.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 05:13 PM
2

Sounds like you see the flaws you're dealing with. Is it possible to work on getting your own car and place right now? Do you have a job? TRP is about changing and improving all aspects of your life.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:55 PM
5

Well done so far sir. Here's my opinion. That date idea although it sounds nice, seems a little too intimate. Keeping that party-type vibe going would be a better idea. Save that cruise date for after you've slept together. Don't think too much about the kiss. But def go for it at the beginning if it feels right. Always take her by her hand when walking. How is she holding your hand? Limp fish? Fingers intertwined? Handshake style? Obviously you want fingers intertwined with her squeezing a litt…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:43 PM
18

Shit tests are a natural thing that women do to weed out not mentally-fit men. I think men take a while to understand this fact because we don't operate this way.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 04:21 PM
3

Ha! Yes! Good man. Yeah she's on the rebound. Try to hang out with her again if not too much time has passed.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:20 AM
6

You fucked up with "I'm gonna stay over that night." "I need to know so I can pack an overnight bag" made me cringe. This is what she hears: "We're gonna get tacos and then have sex and then I'm going to spend the night with you. Do you agree to these terms?" Not very romantic or organic is it? The way you asked her to get tacos was fine, she even tells you that it was. Next time go get tacos with her. If you think it's going good, then she if she'll invite you over to her house. If it's not goi…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:05 AM
3

Seeing way too many of these posts lately. Game over everything. Of course race is a factor. Accept this fact. I had a girl tell me she only dated white guys. I pushed and found it to be true and she rejected me. I had another girl tell me the same thing. I fucked her later that night. I had another girl tell that she went for me because I was different looking. If you have abundance mentality and game, it shouldn't matter. Now are some places in the world going to be easier/harder to game? Of c…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:51 AM
11

Classic shit test. If she's asking you how often you masturbate, then that means she's thinking about you masturbating. In my experience, this shit test is designed to see how comfortable you are with sex and if you can hookup casually. Best thing is to flip this test. "About two or three times a week. How often do you?" Make sure delivery is calm and there is no surprise. It should feel like any other question in a conversation. She'll either tell you how often she does, she'll call you a pig, …
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:37 AM
1

Sounds like you have to decide if you want her or not. Do you want a relationship with her? Usually bad idea to hookup with coworkers.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:28 AM
5

Well done man. Great field report. It sounds like you could have kept gaming the blonde tho. Her bitch shield was up, but you were destroying it with each interaction.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:46 AM
1

As long as it they don't become a distraction from completing your goals. I'd say go cold turkey for awhile tho
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:10 AM
2

Hahaha. Have fun! But don't come crying to us later when you board the feels train.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:06 AM
1

Anger phase
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:04 AM
1

Sounds like your delivery of that line was off. You don't want to be too sarcastic or snarky at first with women (or anyone) who don't know your personality. She was into you, but took offense to that line. Next time turn around and just start dancing up on her. Girls love when you communicate without words. If she's into it, she'll dance up on you back. If not, she'll move away or back off.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:02 AM
1

Read the sidebar. All women will try and get you to commit to them if you're worth anything. "You don't really like me" is a classic shit test.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:23 PM
4

Just end it. The relationship is falling apart if you don't trust her.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:20 PM
1

Just based on the information given here, it sounds like your fiancé is calling the shots in the relationship. Is she doing this so she can get hers on the side and not feel bad about it? Why does she have all these rules for you and why do you accept them? She's not your wife either, yet you call her as such and say your married. Why? To me this sounds messy and full of drama and you sound somewhat blue pill in your logic. That being said, get out of your head and fuck other women. Fuck her rul…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 09:12 PM
2

Get out there and dance. Talk to guys and girls too
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:54 AM
4

Go talk to people. Anybody. Get out of your head
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:31 AM
1

Why are you making excuses? Go try it this weekend and see what happens
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 10:54 PM
0

Confidence/frame is everything. If you think it'll work, it will.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 10:33 PM
1

Solid post OP. I've applied these techniques before and it works wonders. So your opener in this situation is, "how long are you ladies staying?" Are these the first words you approach a group with? Also, what are your thoughts on grenades? Usually I'll introduce myself to the alpha of the group. Get her on my side, then notice which one is giving me bad body language. I'll then befriend that person, before moving back to the alpha.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 10:31 PM
3

why dont you pick up some hobbies? do some things you enjoy. Its a great way to meet people and get you out of your head. Meditate on your issues. Why are you so sad? Has something happened recently to cause this sadness? Are you addressing it?
/r/askTRP21/08/16 10:42 PM
5

no question. just whining
/r/askTRP21/08/16 10:38 PM
1

Why do you hang out with them? Answer that question honestly and realize it's time to move on and make new friends.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:31 AM
2

Go ahead and masturbate girl. Some dudes might be insecure about it and think they're not good enough for you or satisfying you sexually. Def something you disclose later on when the relationship is getting serious.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:23 AM
4

You attract the energy you put out. So it's good for you to acknowledge your part in this situation. On the other hand... why the fuck does it matter? Are you trying to marry these girls? They're not after you for your money, they like you and enjoy spending time with you. Sounds like you're too worried about what other people think.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 12:58 AM
2

Here's what you do. You take a cold shower. You iron a nice collared shirt. You put on some nice jeans and nice shoes. You go out alone tonight with the only intention of having a badass night. You strike up conversations with both men and women. You ask yourself "what can I learn tonight from this person?" in your mind as you speak with them. You smile and stand up straight. You remember life is short, and if you take yourself too seriously all the time, it'll pass you by. You don't worry about…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 03:23 AM
1

Go for it, but she has to help you out as well. In my experience it's usually a shit test. This chick wants to see how you interact with other women and men. Be confident and take someone home or get some numbers. Wing women are the absolute best. Pick out the hottest girls and have her bring them to you. Reciprocate and get her talking to guys she likes. This shows her you're not jealous and you don't give a shit. If the night is one sided in her favor and you're only helping her, she'll see yo…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 03:13 AM
0

Leagues don't exist. Just a bluepill side effect thats still wrecking your system. I don't know how many times I see the big overweight fat dude with the hot girlfriend. This girl will be madly in love with them and faithful as well. Game above all. But whatever, go ahead believing it. Makes it easier for the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 02:14 AM
1

Sounds like a long story :) Just talk shit back bro. And if he has a problem say, "I thought that's how we talk to each other here." If he brings it up, then you have an opportunity to bring it to his attention that he's being a dick. You're at a disadvantage though but no one deserves this type of shit.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:58 AM
0

Not even a full girlfriend? Yeah, fuck that. I'd prob let her go alone and then downgrade her to a plate and pull away
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:44 AM
1

Fuck tinder. I have zero luck and get no matches at all. My buddy gets about 80 a month. We go out and I'll end up taking the girl home while he goes home. Yeah, he'll luck out and get laid once in awhile. But he depends on it too much. You're on a fucking college campus. Why are you bothering with an app to meet women when they're around you all the time? And race is no excuse. Be proud to be black and use it to your advantage. I'd recommend going monk mode, mediating, and getting in a better s…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 01:04 AM
4

Idk man. Seems like a tough one to answer and the community is split. I guess more information is needed. How long were they together? How serious did it get? What type of relationship did they have? When I was in an LTR, I would always flip the question. So if you wanted to go to an ex's funeral would she be ok and supportive of it?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:39 AM
1

I'll address physical attractiveness in my next post. Interesting how it keeps coming up
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 05:21 PM
10

Thanks for the feedback and additions. The devil is in the details and by asking about these as well as pursuing new topics will help keep the conversation feeling fresh and free.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:30 PM
1

This happens. The people you surrounded yourself with reinforced the "old you." As you grow, you'll make new friends. They're probably already in your life.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 10:15 PM
1

"Oh you can have a ride alright, but I'll pass on the talking part."
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:04 AM
13

Cosign. Learn as much as you can from her father
/r/askTRP19/07/16 09:25 PM
1

Is there a point to this post? Or is OP just jacking himself off?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:07 PM
1

Yes of course it's a flag. Read the sidebar. She might make a good plate tho, but LTR is off the table
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:27 PM
1

Ask her if she wants to split a hotel room for the weekend. Make sure it has a pool/hot tub or if it's close by other things so you guys can do that. Take her there and hang out. If it doesn't happen there, it never will.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:23 PM
1

Go get some counseling. You need to speak to a professional
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:21 PM
1

What's the problem? You make music and now your ex has heard it. Sounds like you're still caught up on what she thinks and you're not over her. Move on. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:07 PM
1

Bad first date. Coffee shop or bar is better
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:34 PM
1

I mean, you're here and you're asking the question, but there seems to be resistance. Why not try all the good advice you've been getting?
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:20 AM
1

In my experience, if a girl goes somewhere with other girls that also have boyfriends, they usually keep each other in check. Or they'll all cheat and lie. Guess it depends what type of relationship you have with her.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:53 PM
1

Read the first sentence of your post. Now answer your own question with what your gut is telling you.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:20 PM
1

You are the people you hang out with. Why the fuck do you choose to call someone like this your friend? Sounds like he's using you. Stop hanging out with his douche bag and get friends that add something to your life.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:16 PM
6

This is why we have the rule "bros before hoes." M has violated the rule and can no longer be trusted as a friend. He's in BP land. B is just being a woman. A shitty woman, but AWALT. C handled it like a champ and is lucky he found out before he married her. I hope he gets all his money back. I understand it's a shitty situation for you, but in reality you're not that involved. Keep your head up and learn from this experience. C and K sound like true friends who you can depend on. Don't allow yo…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:03 PM
1

Don't buy them shit. In fact, ask them to buy you drinks. You're the prize
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:14 PM
1

Go for it. Entertain the group as a whole, don't just focus on her. Win over the grenade first, because they're the biggest cockblockers. Flirt with all of them. Put them in a competition for you. Remember, you're buying what they're selling, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 05:14 PM
1

Failure is a chance to learn and grow. Take this as an opportunity to improve yourself. What could you have done differently? Is there another way you could have studied?
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:27 PM
6

Don't let fear guide you or rule your life
/r/askTRP13/06/16 11:52 PM
1

Tldr, but you should dump her and kick her out. You're already her bitch letting her live with you and her friends as well. She immediately put you into provider role. She's distracting you from your goals and she's destroying your self confidence. The pussy is making you regress back to BP. Kick her out and move on.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 11:31 PM
28

"Me either. What happened"
/r/askTRP13/06/16 11:26 PM
2

My brother told me something. "The better you're doing, the more haters you're going to get." Usually because they're jealous.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 11:23 PM
1

OP what are some of your favorite posts on TRP?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:15 PM
1

What's wrong with that? If you're not trying to game her, then what's the problem?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:57 PM
1

Keep asking open ended questions. Try to find common interests and common ground. Always ask for the number at the end
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:43 PM
3

This has been happening to me recently. Talked to my brother about it, and he gave me some good advice. He said the more you work on becoming alpha, the more haters you're going to get. It's actually a good sign and can validate that you're changing. I have a friend who is super into fitness and said all his Instagram posts of him practically naked are in order to inspire other men to get fit. As soon as I started working out tho, he became a huge shit talker and tried to tear me down.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 08:56 PM
0

"Hanging out with you of course!" Works every time
/r/askTRP23/05/16 05:47 PM
2

I've been experimenting with snapchat recently, trying to figure out how to use it in my dating arsenal. One observation I've noticed is its a great way to show women you're interesting. Found a new restaurant with great food that looks awesome? Snap it. Going out to sing karaoke with your buddies? Snap it. Playing basketball with your friends in the middle of the day? Snap it. Out on the town with a hot girl bar hopping? Snap it. Lately I'll add these snaps to my story and keep an eye on who is…
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:00 PM
1

Just let it flow man. Usually they'll tell you if they do. Last weekend I was waiting to order food at a window at a local bar. This cute blond walks up to the window to do the same. We lock eyes and I give her a smile. She reciprocates, which tells me she's open for me to talk to her. I ask her if she's been here before and what she usually orders. We talk for a bit and then I ask her who she's here with. She tells me a few of her friends and her fiancé is coming later. Boom. Questioned answere…
/r/seduction19/05/16 06:49 PM
2

Go to YouTube and search guided meditations. There's a lot of good ones up there. I'd recommend guided ones first. Then start branching out to binaural beats, music, then without nothing.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:42 PM
1

You're thinking about this all wrong. You have someone close to you who can teach you and show you how to be alpha. Watch and learn from him. You feelings of inferiority will dissipate once you start thinking and acting alpha. It's like your own personal Theredpill
/r/askTRP21/03/16 07:50 PM
1

What's wrong with being "on" all the time? If a woman can inspire you to be your best 24/7, maybe it's worth it. Just playing devil's advocate tho
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 09:49 PM
1

"Yes I was. She's really beautiful. Can you blame me?" Try that next time. Don't apologize for your actions. And don't let her fluster you.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:22 PM
2

Yes. Female friends are awesome. They can give you perspective on life. Don't ask them for dating advice ever tho. I have a few that are excellent wing women, some I eat lunch with, others are drinking buddies. They add value to your life. But when you friendzone a woman, you have to mean it. You can't go around catching feelings for her or trying to fuck her, or drunk texting her. Because then the relationship is unclear and women need relationships to be clear.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:11 PM
1

AWALT
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:03 PM
2

Either ditch her or talk to her about having a serious relationship. That's what you really want from her based on this post. You like her and thinks she's worth the effort. I wouldn't keep going back and forth with these petty fights tho. You're losing frame with each one and slipping.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:59 PM
2

You need to go within. Why did you choose to marry an older woman that had kids already? Why were you attracted to her in the first place? The anger is coming up because you comprised your values for her. You gave her everything, and she didn't reciprocate. I'd recommend serious mediation for a couple of weeks. Start off with 10-15 minute short ones, then gradually increase till you can do 45-60mins. Search YouTube for "guided mediations" and find one you like. I usually go for this British chic…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:53 PM
2

Yeah, you go for it. Either way you win. 1. You fuck her. 2. she rejects you, but respects you that you had enough balls to go for it. Or 3. You stay friends. Sounds like some oneitis may be in play tho. If you've known each other for so long, you might be putting her on the pedestal. This will cause anxiety in you. Which she will pick up. If you're not sure of your actions, why should she be sure she wants to fuck you?
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:45 PM
1

You fucking got her dude. Here's what you do. Text her, "I'm not looking for anything serious either. Are you free Thursday?" (Or whatever day you want). She wants to fuck, but you gave off relationship vibe by asking her to coffee. Coffee dates are more like if you're looking to get a girlfriend. Don't let her choose the day. Don't text her asking when she's free. You choose. She's on your time. Don't choose the weekend. Weekends are for homies and going after new girls. You're still in this be…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:24 PM
1

Challenge accepted. Except I'm going to swap video games for Netflix.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 05:35 PM
0

Your negative mindset is destroying you.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 03:46 PM
0

Your mindset is off. You're not intruding on her world, your giving her a glimpse into yours. I'd recommend starting conversations with all sorts of people. This will help you become more comfortable with yourself. You also sound like you're stuck in a negative mindset currently. Lift and meditate to fix that.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 03:30 PM
0

/r/ylp810 you are completely off. He held his frame by telling her she was paying for drinks and she agreed. True, women want a provider, but this throws you in beta territory. OP she wanted to have sex with you, but she was afraid of how others would react. You should have agreed and amplified.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:41 PM
1

Good for you man. Your kids need that good example in their lives
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 10:09 PM
2

Total shit test. Just ignored and kept on
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 10:08 PM
1

Yeah, there's def some anxiety there but it's getting easier and easier to push through
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 10:07 PM
1

the only opinion that matters is your own. I know short dudes that pull all the time.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:40 PM
1

Sounds like you need to work on the issues you have with your mother. It's fucking up your game. You're focusing on all the negatives, when she gave you a lot compliments on your oral presentation, dick size, how kind you can be. Work on your self-esteem and self-worth. She was on the rebound and you fell into her trap. Girls in that state just want to fuck the feelings out of them.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:32 PM
1

Yes this above. Develop new habits
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:06 AM
1

Keep working on yourself. You're defining your self-worth based on how women perceive you. This is bp thinking. Congrats on staying clean and working out. You're on your way even if you don't see it yet. I'd recommend staying away from women for awhile. Just in case you're jumping from drug/alcohol addiction to sex.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 01:04 AM
1

You're playing her perfectly. Keep on doing what you're doing. If you ever want to drop her, start texting her clingy shit and she'll be gone immediately. She's seeking your approval and validation. As soon as you give her that, it's over.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 03:58 PM
3

Stay. You've been given an opportunity to try out new things away from home. A place where no one knows you. Now is the time to push yourself. Talk with strangers. Listen and learn from their stories. Engage with women. Try all those approaches you were too afraid to try back home. Make new friends. Eat the spiciest food you can find. Learn and use all your senses to enjoy your trip and leave the loneliness at home.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 07:28 PM
1

/u/atticusfinch1973 is spot on. Couldn't have said it any better. Lead her and show super strong frame.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 07:13 PM
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First of all, ditch that friend. He's an asshole and not a true friend. Second, I'd suggest you keep expanding your social circle. Meet new people, go to more parties and hang out.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:32 PM
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That's what you should do. So what if word gets around? She wants a relationship and that's not what you want. Own it. She's trying to pull you into her frame and not accepting yours.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:18 PM
2

I would have given a lot of eye contact and reciprocated the touching. Then started making out with her and pulled her into the bathroom for fun. Then as soon as we left the bathroom, act like it never happened.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:01 PM
3

Cut her loose. You are in your prime and her presence is starting to screw with your confidence. Ignore those bp messages. Sounds like you can even plate her if you do this and start giving her less attention. But it might not be good for you right now to do that.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 06:57 PM
4

Next. Be careful with single moms. They're crazy af and looking for a bp.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 06:52 PM
1

Look up binaural beats on YouTube. Try deep relaxation ones first. You're welcome
/r/askTRP31/12/15 12:45 AM
2

Good job OP. I think you had a shot with that ZYX girl. You had her laughing which is usually a good sign. I would have asked her a question like, "so how did you and your boyfriend meet?" Don't ever assume a girl is taken.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:17 AM
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My father used to tell me stories of a man like Mike. Obese, no money, ugly, and balding. Slayed pussy all the time
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 06:26 AM
1

I connect with this. Def getting some "basket case" vibes from a few of them. I was hoping to turn them into wing women later on, and just to get some experience ( just got out of a 8yr LTR). But you're making me rethink that. Time to start working on day game. Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:48 PM
1

Went well. Took her to a nice restaurant and dancing. We split all the costs. She opened up and told me some stuff. Felt like good practice for when I get some plates on deck.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:30 PM
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It's been helping my confidence and it reminds me how different women think than men.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:17 PM
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The first one
/r/askTRP23/11/15 11:11 PM
1

My text game needs work. This helped a lot. I didn't realize I sent that "so are we still on for tonight?" text until you mentioned it.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 04:04 AM
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You even sound chill in the FR
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:10 PM
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