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I guess I'll just do what I did with hotter chicks, and see the results. And yeah, I didn't talk much, but that was mostly because of the loud music. Also, maybe I didn't emphasize it enough, but I was still a virgin Friday. So, I don't know if I'm really better than you in being physical quickly, I guess I just got pissed off from A's behavior and threw as much game as I possibly could. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction31/01/11 08:05 PM
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It's a new club in southern France that reopened at the end of last year. A 3 levels complex, and well known here. Don't know about the bj girl. She stayed a bit in the bathroom after I left, and I didn't see her afterward. I gotta say I didn't really care and did my thing.
/r/seduction31/01/11 07:58 PM
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Yeah, I thought about doing things differently afterward. Damn you effet d'escalier! Thanks for the cheer up, I'll be doing more clubs now that I tasted this level of greatness.
/r/seduction31/01/11 07:52 PM
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Didn't know Danger, thanks for that. Madeon isn't bad either.
/r/seduction23/01/11 12:12 PM
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I like this one better. Not for the actual song, which I think is pretty lame, but the IOI is more obvious in this one. Haha. Edit: BTW, if you like this kind of songs (the one you linked to), check French DJs like Bob Sinclar, Martin Solveig (c'est la vie...), Justice, Daft Punk, DatA (one in a million, I fucking love this song)... The French Touch is great to get amped up.
/r/seduction22/01/11 02:00 PM
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I was in a similar situation a few months back. What helped me? I watched The Pickup Artist (I know...). Mystery teaches an interesting technique in this show. You basically ask a girl "Are you impulsive?". She will get the hint. Then, if she says "usually" or "yes", you can't go back, you have to do it. If she says "no, I'm not", well you know where you stand. I had a "why" answer once, I went for it and it ended pretty well. This technique helps you when you're not sure whether she's intereste…
/r/seduction16/01/11 07:09 PM
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That's a perfect way to amp yourself when you go out. Might give it a try. Btw, I think he's getting chased by the girl he "forcely" high-fived at 1:55 haha.
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:15 PM
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You call that attraction? We obviously don't talk about the same thing.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:36 PM
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Mocking was never my intention. I'm just saying his behavior doesn't attract.
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:30 PM
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Here's my 2 cents : 1 . As Jamba_juice said, he's not even a beta. He doesn't take control. He doesn't lead. She probably said yes because she didn't know what to do, or didn't want to hurt him. Maybe she genuinely like him, but she kind of scared me by saying that I make her nervous some times because she feels like we don't click or have that much in common sometimes. makes me think otherwise. He didn't seduce her. 2 . This : I might go in for a kiss and then right after ask her to teach me ho…
/r/seduction09/01/11 06:21 PM
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Why the fuck is this downvoted? A bit mysogynisticly said, but you really do have to set boundaries.
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:53 PM
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I need to see this grin pal. Don't leave us hanging!
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:49 PM
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Yeah, I can imagine. Are chicks hotter there? (I mean, more than in Paris. La banlieue parisienne c'est pas vraiment le même niveau...)
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:48 PM
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Finally, a good answer on the "How to game when you're a chick" question that keeps coming back. Very nice to have a point of view from the other side btw. Thanks for sharing, even though it's more destined to girls. Nice work!
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:28 PM
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Where in France exactly?
/r/seduction06/01/11 02:28 PM
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Already posted some with this account so... fair enough. Stupid face.
/r/seduction06/01/11 10:15 AM
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Let's say it's for beginners who are afraid the girl isn't really interested.
/r/seduction04/01/11 11:33 AM
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It makes me uncomfortable rather than laughing actually. I don't know what I would look like in such context.
/r/seduction01/01/11 05:36 PM
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I think the most akward is this one. Dude, really?!?
/r/seduction31/12/10 12:41 AM
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"THEN he’d be riding a margin for error so wide he could fart in his cupped hand and share the gas of love with her." Haha, I love this line. This guy's text convo is just painful to read.
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:34 PM
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Pick Up-wise : In 2009, I vowed to at least get better with women (simple stuff), and I did it with much more success than I could imagine. I never even kissed a girl then. Now, kissed 6 girls, slept with two (hey, it's a good start right?). So, for 2011 : I, HITEKK, vow to be the most seductive motherfucker in France. General : I'm the laziest sonofabitch there is, and I'm not sure I will get my diploma with the grades I get currently. So, for 2011 : I, HITEKK, vow to do everything I can to get…
/r/seduction29/12/10 01:08 PM
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Yup! I'll post it today, I have to find it in the Gbs I have. Edit: There you go.
/r/seduction29/12/10 12:29 PM
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Very nice FR! About the whole Tofu entrance, (or reseddit's) you guys (if you haven't already) should listen to David Ds Interviews with PUA with Craig. This guy has hundreds of ideas. The entrance made me think about his, it's somewhat similar. He basically clink glasses with everyone in the room and several good stuff. Check it out!
/r/seduction27/12/10 02:05 PM
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Blocked in France.
/r/seduction22/12/10 05:56 PM
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I think it's LesbianPUA who's to credit for that. She mentionned juggler's conversational jui jitsu. Basically, any story is good enough to be told when said correctly. Meaning, don't hang on on the facts of your story, hang on how you felt, your emotions at this precise moment. here's the book Again, credits to LesbianPUA on this one.
/r/seduction21/12/10 09:03 PM
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My guess is that with a hard book, you'll get more chances of being approached since they will possibly relate to what you're reading. Choose wisely the reading material though.
/r/seduction21/12/10 08:55 PM
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This is a good idea, I agree.
/r/seduction21/12/10 07:57 PM
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Fuck, you make us look like f-ing noobs! I would love for you to take a trip to Europe. Nuff to say to all of this really. I guess gaming in a tougher country (Japan) transformed you into some sort of a pro. Fuck, that was neat.
/r/seduction21/12/10 07:05 PM
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You're just starting PU stuff? If so, hats off. What is this "Hipster Dance Moves" you're talking about? I would recommend a little less booze to be fully aware of what's going on. Nice FR though, I don't understand all the hype about the "Don't tell a girl you like her" thread, and nothing on the good FRs like this one.
/r/seduction21/12/10 10:48 AM
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Half of the guys (and girls) here from what I read. You've never been called cute/hot in your life? So what? Do you think only the beatiful people gets to find a mate? It's a plus, I'll give you that. But it's not that easy for the not unattractive either. I'm attractive, 21, and virgin. It only gets you so far.
/r/seduction11/12/10 01:46 PM
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Renegade summed up pretty much all I had to say. Maybe adding a simple "It's okay, I didn't notice" when she told you she was 22. If it's really bugging her though, don't know if it would've changed anything. Maybe it was also because it bugged you, and it showed. And yes, it is a good exercice to write it all and debrief together. Texting HB9 doesn't sound like a bad idea IMO. Nice FR, and don't beat yourself up when you don't F-close, I don't think even the "gurus" F-close everytime they sarge…
/r/seduction11/12/10 01:38 PM
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Yeah me too. But then I thought he got trolled for a blowjob. Good read anyways.
/r/seduction10/12/10 05:25 PM
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Agreed for the ex. Personally I like to say stuff like "He must be really handsome".
/r/seduction10/12/10 12:55 PM
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Downvote? Why would we ever downvote someone who contributes and share his learnings and practices? No dude, we don't do that. Thanks for sharing, nice first time!
/r/seduction10/12/10 11:10 AM
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Please do a FR if you have any kind of success friday. I'll give it a try when I'm finished reading it.
/r/seduction09/12/10 10:52 AM
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Holy cow! I never gave juggler the attention he deserves. I just read a few pages, and am astonished by how logical it sounds. Gotta try it as soon as possible. Have you ever tried it? Edit : Found a link to a .pdf.
/r/seduction08/12/10 09:00 PM
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Well, there's really a handful of routines and techniques, and it mostly depends on your style but I'll give you some ideas : I personally dislike every canned material in general, but there are a few exceptions. Like the five questions game (I'm sorry, I don't recall who dropped this one, you'll have to do some research). It's basically a game where you bet a drink (or whatever) with a chick if she can answer five questions incorrectly (yes, incorrectly). I really like DeAngelo's Cocky & Funny …
/r/seduction08/12/10 06:56 PM
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All there is to know.
/r/seduction08/12/10 01:00 PM
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finishing Red Dead Redemption is much more fun than going to a conference I'm sorry man, but if it's the way you feel, head over to RA, they will be way better help.
/r/seduction08/12/10 12:56 PM
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Reddit is hosted in a free country, you know that right ?
/r/seduction08/12/10 12:51 PM
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The more you do it, the easier it gets Yup, that's about it. Then I felt this odd social pressure to talk to her more That's where PU material enter the game so you have always something to say or do, but you did really good overall. Congrats.
/r/seduction08/12/10 12:46 PM
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Yeah, maybe so. But I like that mindset, kind of DeAngelo's "You're not pursuing her, she is". Never tried it in field though, just thought it was a good idea. I'll try it when I get the chance. You know, for science.
/r/seduction08/12/10 08:13 AM
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This. This is effing great idea. I've never thought about that "don't worry, I'll take someone else" line, but it's golden.
/r/seduction07/12/10 09:40 PM
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Couldn't read the whole thing, sorry. Read the post in the sidebar man, you did everything wrong. A tiny sample of awfulness ME: what I meant by that was - lets be honest for a second. I could probably not close a girl in one night...and even if I did a) shes probably easy b) not someone I want to be dating,let alone fucking Start by reading DeAngelo. At least his newsletter. You just wussed out here, she was openly talking about sexing you, and you basically said "ow, I don't know, I have too m…
/r/seduction07/12/10 02:42 PM
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I didn't have the chance to answer on the first post, but I agree mostly with capital P (and BTW, I think it's a good idea to differentiate both sides of the mindsets here). I feel like Wygant's and Juggler's stuff are the more broad and accessible stuff there is, along with DeAngelo's C&F stuff. I think we should set different classes for the different mindsets there is around here. Also, I'd like to add, Seddit U is a great idea, and I thank you for trying to move this community onward.
/r/seduction07/12/10 02:06 PM
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Fight club. Pitt is THE alpha in this movie. Also, every movie starring clooney.
/r/seduction06/12/10 11:00 AM
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I don't get if it was sarcastic or not, but I was talking about juggler's stuff, just to be clear.
/r/seduction30/11/10 05:45 PM
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Same as ThrowawayPUA, also interested.
/r/seduction30/11/10 05:25 PM
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It's really tough to explain it all in a few lines, so here it goes.
/r/seduction30/11/10 05:21 PM
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This is another evidence that what we talk about here is effective. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction27/11/10 04:33 PM
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This is some nice game right here, and I guess you know it. If I can give you some piece of advice though : Arrive a bit later when going on a date makes her wonder if you flaked. She'll then ask herself questions ("Did I do something wrong", "I am not good enough". Chicks spend most of their time wondering stuff like this) and gives you "power". You did great overall. Congrats !
/r/seduction27/11/10 03:45 PM
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I'm really interested in the Text Game post. I am really terrible at texting.
/r/seduction14/11/10 09:07 PM
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Are you French? And I agree, MM isn't that successful here (near Paris). Canned material is a no-no, but I've came to the realisation that touch works wonderfully well here.
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:26 PM
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Isn't this the way you're supposed to act with every chick?
/r/seduction12/11/10 08:57 AM
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This is good advice. When I first got in the seduction community, I just started seeing (as friends) a crush I had in junior high. With all the "get your freaking balls out man" advices here, I made a move. It ended nowhere, wasn't ready and stuff. But I still think this is great advice, because at least now I know where I stand. I can forget about it and get her out of my mind. I was thinking very often about her at the time, wondering "what if I made a move". Now I know, and the only thing you…
/r/seduction11/11/10 02:56 PM
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I need to calibrate my "I don't give a fuck" vibe according to the situation or the chick. Some days, I come up as an asshole, some days I come up as a wuss. I didn't find the right amount of this yet.
/r/seduction11/11/10 12:22 PM
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I think the 77 laws of success concentrates everything you need to know. Since you don't get everything he covers when you first watch it, it's hard to watch his transformation series 2-3 times (considering the length of it all). But thanks for the link anyway.
/r/seduction09/11/10 07:52 PM
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ಠ_ಠ You should have read my post again before answering so stupidly. I said : "since "Don't do alcohol if you want to game" is common sense around here now, you should know drugs (especially hard drugs like mdma) are prohibited" as in prohibited in the game, but if you want to game drugged, go on. Whatever, I'm not here to discuss whether a drug is prohibited or not, I don't care.
/r/seduction08/11/10 08:23 AM
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AMAGAD, how'd you do it ?
/r/seduction07/11/10 09:51 PM
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True, it's also the first time I see a FR talking about that. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction07/11/10 07:50 PM
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Yeah, since "Don't do alcohol if you want to game" is common sense around here now, you should know drugs (especially hard drugs like mdma) are prohibited. Next time, be the only one sober, you'll find it way easier. Edit : Just to clarify, this does not imply rape, of course.
/r/seduction07/11/10 06:52 PM
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Well maybe. I didn't want to do anything because of my friend, now it's clear, I'll hit the ball.
/r/seduction07/11/10 10:27 AM
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I don't like the rating thing. When I see a girl, I don't think "Oh, she's an 8" for instance, I just think "She's beautiful" or "I'd bang her". He already told me he was out, so I guess I'll just game her next time I see her. Thanks.
/r/seduction06/11/10 11:57 PM
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Yeah, I try to talk to her, but she just answers "yes" "no" or alike and it's kinda hard to carry the conversation alone for an hour.
/r/seduction06/11/10 11:50 PM
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I have a similar "hack" to make her ask for your number. Whenever I'm about to leave, if I didn't have the chance to get the girl's number, I just say : "You'll have to call me back if you want to see me again" she'll naturally say "but you didn't give it to me !". " Oh. my bad. Here XXXXXXXXXX." Worked fairly well so far.
/r/seduction04/11/10 08:34 PM
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This depends mainly on the way you rate chicks. As for myself, a 19 y/o is more inclined to be a 6 than a 35 y/o. Experience, maturity and stuff.
/r/seduction03/11/10 08:31 PM
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You know the guys of OkCupid did that already ? It's on their blog, I'll search for it later if you're interested. They basically demonstrate what kind of pic are the most successfull, what first messages get the most responses and so on. Edit: Here is what to say and not say in a first message. On this blog, you can also check what kind of pics are the most popular (focus, out/indoor, face/body, etc.). And you're welcome :).
/r/seduction02/11/10 08:42 PM
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You're right, last time I ended up in bed with a hot girl (I FR'ed it on seddit BTW), one of the few things that stopped me and got me chickened out was the fact that she was hot, and I was a virgin.
/r/seduction01/11/10 03:40 PM
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Yeah, if she was ugly, it can be hard to be. But congrats man, you've done what I can't. Maybe I should lower my standards.
/r/seduction01/11/10 03:26 PM
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Yup, crystallised by The XX is pretty good to set a sexy mood (and not so obvious).
/r/seduction29/10/10 09:15 AM
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And it can do exactly the opposite of what you're expecting. So yeah, easy on the text negs.
/r/seduction24/10/10 03:26 PM
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I'm pretty much turned off when a girl say "I have a boyfriend BTW" and it's obvious she's giving IOIs. If you were still attracted though, you could have said what you find out later. I may would've tried to game other chicks though, just as a plan B. Also, I'm in the same situation, I'm 21, above average looking and all, and to me, not runing any game is gaming. Girls that are used to have all the attention can't understand an attractive guy not interested. In most cases, THEY will run game, y…
/r/seduction17/10/10 12:59 PM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction15/10/10 12:19 PM
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It's great practice indeed, but random girls are very boring. With my newfound "balls", I did the opposite. I am much more picky, and it's worth it. I had ways with 16-17s (I'm 21), but I just can't. Also, drunk girls in clubs are really not worth it, and, even if I was still a virgin not so long ago, I couldn't lower my standards THAT much. Instead, I'm raising it, and I land girls I never thought I could. And I just keep raising, and still no rejection yet. Someone once said something like "Yo…
/r/seduction15/10/10 10:02 AM
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Couldn't agree more.
/r/seduction14/10/10 07:57 AM
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Haha, I'll remember the table thing. I kinda escalated to the foreplay in the bed, that's not really my problem. It's to isolate at a party, when you hook-up with a friend's sister who is a pain in the ass (when we were sleeping together in the room, her sister was turning the lights on every 5 mins to see if my hands were not in a sexual spot. We were ~15 people in this room), and you're far away from your home.
/r/seduction04/10/10 05:43 PM
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I agree, this is great advice, but I was 150 Kms from my house (~100 miles) so, a stop by my house was really not an option. Plus, my car was just outside, but some friends were already sleeping in their cars just next mine. But thanks anyway.
/r/seduction04/10/10 05:30 PM
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Finally ! Un Parisien :D
/r/seduction30/09/10 08:05 AM
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Be sure to wear a safety helmet when you unload if you're going for a year fapless/sexless.
/r/seduction19/09/10 08:39 PM
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Are you even certain that it's her "real" number ? They often give a fake number to get rid of you.
/r/seduction03/09/10 03:28 PM
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It is the major idea of DeAngelo, his "cocky & funny" stuff. I like to see women acknowledge that they don't really know why it works, but it does.
/r/seduction03/09/10 12:23 PM
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At first I was like "this guy posted in the wrong subreddit". At the end, I was like "this guy should post more on this subreddit". Nice story !
/r/seduction03/09/10 12:14 PM
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You may not act uninterested everytime you talk to her though, and I'm not aware of any technique on IM game, since every PUA insist in avoiding it. Try to get her out like joffy said, but while you're on IM, keep conversations short and "emotionally charged".
/r/seduction03/09/10 12:08 PM
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There's no such days in the country I live in, but when I go somewhere and don't know anybody (I assume you're going alone) I just try to befriend everybody (ugly chicks, HB, frat bros etc.). Especially Alphas, as they have it, most likely, easy with girls.
/r/seduction31/08/10 02:03 PM
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" I can beat the shit of her if i want " I can't even begin to understand that. Are you afraid that she's gonna fight ? Play with her like she does with you.
/r/seduction30/08/10 03:28 PM
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"How much does the polar bear weight ?" is a great starter.
/r/seduction30/08/10 03:21 PM
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I got it from DeAngelo : Buy the most original lighter you can find, and you won't even have to start the convo.
/r/seduction30/08/10 02:34 PM
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Thepiratebay is good for this kind of stuff, but if you like it and it helps you, buy it. People spend hours developpign and sharing this stuff, and deserve to be rewarded IMO.
/r/seduction30/08/10 01:12 PM
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I guess you're right, but I just love challenges, I can't help it.
/r/seduction30/08/10 10:06 AM
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I've been told by a good coworker friend that before I got hired, she made some guys crazy about her and did nothing. I was just wondering if she would have gone farther with me.
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:00 AM
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The guys I was with never go to clubs, so I guess I was screwed :/
/r/seduction29/08/10 09:57 AM
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She said that to make me say "No way, you look way older" and make me appear as a wuss. It's the same that when she asks "do I look good ?" or "can you buy me a drink ?" to me.
/r/seduction29/08/10 09:56 AM
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You got corones man.
/r/seduction24/08/10 08:47 PM
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I live near to Paris, and foreigners don't really have to do anything to flirt. Just say to a random girl you're an American and you'd like to know some places where you could have fun. I suppose French girls and american's are alike. It's une baguette btw Fred.
/r/seduction23/08/10 09:27 PM
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That's a weird question. You know we have to procreate to sustain the existence of our race do you ? If you find any other procreation process, tell me, I would be glad to hear about it. (I know, it's a troll. So what, I like trolls.)
/r/seduction23/08/10 07:13 PM
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After 10 minutes ? I don't know, kinda short to try such a thing.
/r/seduction23/08/10 05:54 PM
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"I need a female perspective on something..."
/r/seduction23/08/10 05:43 PM
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Thanks, that's helpful.
/r/seduction23/08/10 08:41 AM
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Question out of the blue : Do you think American women find the French accent hot ? This bugged me for quite some time.
/r/seduction23/08/10 08:32 AM
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Well, then it may be a DLV to do the talk in her native language.
/r/seduction22/08/10 11:36 PM
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Yeah, basics in French are all you need, the rest is cerebral masturbation.
/r/seduction22/08/10 11:34 PM
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This isn't what I meant. I'm really pleased when I see some French words on Reddit for example, I meant laughing WITH, not AT a person. We're not that mean here.
/r/seduction22/08/10 11:32 PM
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Nice story man. Yeah apparently, Western Europeans get easily laid in other countries. If you ever go back to Paris, I would be glad to wing .
/r/seduction22/08/10 04:20 PM
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Maybe you weren't fluent enough in French. I always get a laugh when I hear people trying to speak in French but aren't fluent.
/r/seduction22/08/10 04:08 PM
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I'll try to remember that, thanks.
/r/seduction21/08/10 10:03 PM
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You know, the title is self explanatory, you know there's not gonna be any pick-up or anything from that. It's not like I advertised it as the best FR you've ever read. If you find this kind of stuff boring, fine, don't read it. You don't need to be a dick about it.
/r/seduction21/08/10 09:59 PM
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I think I get what you mean like the "You should be Alpha—all the time" myth you linked. I may have tried too hard to be alpha and such advices keep me in the right path. Also, I didn't really sound like a jerk last night, and it wasn't really forced. It's just things that were on my mind but I would've never had the balls to say before. edit : I forgot to say that I don't spit on the PUA stuff at all, just that I discovered I was better than I thought on this. Even if i don't like mystery, I'll…
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:27 PM
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Yeah, I was having a hard time trying to explain that point. Basically, he was chatting the waiter, so when I called down the waiter, the guy thought it was to order. When he came, I said "sorry to interrupt" and he said " no problem, doing my job is the priority, having fun comes after that". And to piss the lone guy off, I chit chatted the waiter, I don't know if I'm clear on that. You didn't sound like a dick btw. edit : I guess I'll have to keep some thoughts for myself in the future and jus…
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:19 PM
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No, it's not reverse or anything, it was basically to emphasize that they were ugly and to not focus on that point. Thanks for taking time to read it .
/r/seduction21/08/10 07:13 PM
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I too, and took a baby step yesterday to fight that shit fuck. Read my last post if you feel like it, it could be interesting depending on your level of shyness.
/r/seduction21/08/10 05:49 PM
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Best response so far. Check those out, and do a review because that question is often asked actually. Even FRs if that works !
/r/seduction20/08/10 06:05 PM
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Well I think it's way easier for you. You basically just have to walk up to a guy and ask him for help on something, I doubt any guy would refuse, and escalate from there. You don't even have to know kino and stuff, since we're supposed to do it. If you have any AA, well I guess it would be basically what we do, talk to strangers as much as you possibly can. And I don't think there's such a subreddit, but I may be disinformed.
/r/seduction20/08/10 05:44 PM
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Well, they may dig only the dark hair.
/r/seduction20/08/10 05:06 PM
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Hmm I may travel there someday. You know, for the view.
/r/seduction20/08/10 05:04 PM
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Amen.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:50 PM
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No, it's suppose to make her question about herself "Why didn't he come" "What did I say to repulse him" stuff like that, which is a DHV in some way.
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:49 PM
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Me too, and I don't really know what a "lul" is, is it some kind of down or something ?
/r/seduction20/08/10 07:34 AM
2

I totally relate to that, and in order to eliminate that, I plan on taking a kickboxing course. How old are you by the way?
/r/seduction20/08/10 07:07 AM
1

Lacoste is a good one too.
/r/seduction19/08/10 07:15 PM
1

I had a friend that used to dress this way, and he was really popular with girls. He even got kissed once in a club by a girl passing by that he didn't know, she didn't even talked to him. So yeah, I guess it's a good one.
/r/seduction19/08/10 07:13 PM
1

If that works for you, it's all you need. Personally, if I go out with a "muscle style" shirt, I'd be really laughed at.
/r/seduction19/08/10 05:28 PM
1

I agree, but these are "special" clubs (and even in those, I've been in a club maybe 2 or 3 times in paris, and black sneackers like this will fit ). Where I live, there's a very few of them, the vast majority being "regular" clubs.
/r/seduction19/08/10 05:24 PM
2

That is actually the exact type of answer I was looking for. Thanks for sharing !
/r/seduction19/08/10 05:20 PM
3

Yeah..no. If you have problems, you know, you can talk about it, there's people paid to listen for that. Don't beat yourself, it's ok if you're not like everyone else, it makes you special !
/r/seduction19/08/10 11:44 AM
1

I didn't know that brand (abercrombie). Do you know if they sell in Europe ? And I like slim jeans, but I don't wear them, I'm a bit too skinny for that. Ed: Ok, they do, forget about my question.
/r/seduction19/08/10 11:21 AM
3

Okay so this is for kids ? Well, everyone has his own point of view, but I don't see myself wearing leather shoes while chilling at the bar at 21 y/o.
/r/seduction19/08/10 11:19 AM
3

It was really not that hard to find, first google result. Thanks for the recommendation though.
/r/seduction19/08/10 08:59 AM
1

It's kinda "regular" you know, I think you have to stand out a bit, like : Replay jeans (most of it is expensive, but you can find some at reasonnable price) A nice belt (not too big) A nice tee, Lacoste or alike Fred Perry shoes, really hype in Europe and simple. But all of that depends on your age.
/r/seduction19/08/10 08:14 AM
3

Nice FR ! Are you planning on seeing her again ?
/r/seduction19/08/10 07:55 AM
3

That's great for you ! You just got rid of your AA by making many approaches of random people ? with canned openers or just observation ?
/r/seduction18/08/10 08:05 PM
1

Yeah, well, that happens. It's good anyway to see a new FR ! Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction18/08/10 07:36 PM
2

If she sees interest in you, it's probably that this guy doesn't satisfy her. Your goal in the game is to show the best version of you to people (especially to women ), so if she likes you more than him, why not ? You may however assure that if you go out or sleep with her that this guy is out of the picture, because boyfriend drama is never good.
/r/seduction18/08/10 08:22 AM
1

yeah, PLANT THE SEED.
/r/seduction17/08/10 08:37 PM
1

Well, thinking about it, I think there's a point on what your friend said. If you come up to a girl and don't expect to turn out into anything more than just talk, you won't be down if there's nothing more to it. And if it's in a place you go every so often, that's good for your social status.
/r/seduction17/08/10 08:37 PM
2

Hmm, if it's a random girl met in a bar, a library, a coffee shop or whatever public place, I don't see how she can pursue you if you don't know her.
/r/seduction17/08/10 07:12 PM
1

This is a really good idea.
/r/seduction17/08/10 03:48 PM
5

A la American Pie, Football style.
/r/seduction17/08/10 02:28 PM
2

Well, it's kinda natural, but if you have no idea, watch movies with confident actors in it (Georges Clooney, Brad Pitt...) or even stand up artists. Your hands should be moving a little bit as you talk, I don't really know how to explain it. If you're near a bar or table, lean on it just a bit, to seem "unaffected". Hands in the pockets, or arms-crossed is a no-no to me.
/r/seduction17/08/10 01:50 PM
3

Or how he chickend out and hide when the guy shows up. Everyone there told him to dump her, and he decided to fight the guy. I still don't understand why.
/r/seduction17/08/10 06:48 AM
1

I also believe so now, thanks to that. BTW, have you read Gunwitch's thing ? I can't really say if it's really good or awfully bad.
/r/seduction16/08/10 08:24 PM
1

I've been watching a bit of DeAngelo's 77 laws thing, and I must admit it's pretty interesting. But it's really not just about pick-up, or just dating, it's more on your lifestyle, or state of mind. Anyways, good recommendation, I second that.
/r/seduction16/08/10 07:18 PM
1

Well, I don't agree about the first question. I don't think you HAVE to cold approach girls but that's just my POV. For the other 2, well, I guess you somewhat opened my eyes. A few girls have shown interest, even told me their interest, and I just backed off. Still don't know why though, so I'm gonna fix that, partly thanks to you.
/r/seduction16/08/10 07:14 PM
1

Yup, and after you've done that, find a niche. Like another country, because US is flooded by PUAs and methods. Europe isn't developped likewise. Just sayin'.
/r/seduction16/08/10 02:24 PM
1

You need more C+F on this type of girl And she needs more cocks and fun for being so bitchy.
/r/seduction16/08/10 02:07 PM
1

The comments on youtube summarizes my thoughts. She could be the best PUA out there, I'll always feel like she wouldn't be there if she was ugly.
/r/seduction16/08/10 12:57 PM
1

I agree, if you're experienced, you can already begin ! Review the material you've read so far or listened and tell us whether it worked or not and how it turned out. I would, if I had field tested any material, which I didn't yet.
/r/seduction16/08/10 12:31 PM
4

Keep doing your FR's man, just skip the useless details, and get to the point quicker. I read every one of them, so keep going !
/r/seduction16/08/10 10:06 AM
1

Seconded.
/r/seduction16/08/10 09:54 AM
3

You're supposed to be in the "Asia" part lads.
/r/seduction16/08/10 09:50 AM
1

yeah, but you have to know that it happens. We learn more from our mistakes than from our successes (sounds cheesy, I know). So next time, you'll know that you can't leave her for a minute when she already "agreed" for sex. Don't let that fail get you down, take revenge on some other hot chick !
/r/seduction16/08/10 07:52 AM
1

Don't understand the downs, so I up :).
/r/seduction16/08/10 07:13 AM
3

Well, I think you know there's only two possibilities : 1°) Your friend fucked you up (I know, you think it's really unlikely, but hey, it's a possibility) or 2°) She reminded something bad about that kind of situation, and like you said, the talk (maybe even innocent) with your friend opened her eyes. Whether it's n°1 or 2, I don't think you're the one who did anything wrong, since she was ready to fuck, obviously.
/r/seduction16/08/10 07:08 AM
1

I see what you tried there. Almost got me.
/r/seduction15/08/10 04:58 PM
8

Reading it, I'll upvote if interesting. Edit : Ok, interesting enough so far, especially the "Why am I thinking sexually about this guy...hmmm I must want him or else I wouldn't see him as such a horny guy." part.
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:52 PM
2

Too bad you don't go to Paris :/. Same as lol', up for exposure. (We're 1 Sedditor away from 7 thousand, Pop champagne !)
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:44 PM
1

Yeah, easy to spot.
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:31 PM
1

I'm ashamed I still don't get it.
/r/seduction15/08/10 08:52 AM
1

The best advice I can give : Go to every eff-ing party you hear about ! Even when you don't feel like it, go to every one of them. Even if it's drunk girls, you should get laid pretty often.
/r/seduction15/08/10 08:30 AM
6

France for me :)
/r/seduction15/08/10 08:23 AM
24

Europe ?
/r/seduction15/08/10 08:21 AM
1

It's actually what I'm "really" looking for, to attract girls I'm introduced to or that I know. I don't really have problems to know girls that friends of mine know, I get along every single one of them, but I don't attract them, so, I guess you're the example I was looking for. thanks man :D. Oh, btw, have you ver tried DeAngelo's stuff ? I read it was all a scam (here) today
/r/seduction14/08/10 03:02 PM
1

Lmao, I don't know if you did it on purpose , but I was talking about Approach Anxiety man.
/r/seduction14/08/10 02:56 PM
3

I feel for you man, I really do. Happened to me once or twice that I couldn't close fast enough, and stuck in the killer fucking friend zone. The only difference is, I have to hang out with her almost every week end since she became really good friend with my buddies. FUCK.
/r/seduction13/08/10 02:53 PM
1

Can you upload it ? I need to try before I buy. EDIT : Ok, I got it, forget that :)
/r/seduction13/08/10 08:38 AM
2

I feel bad for actually laughing at this.
/r/seduction12/08/10 02:32 PM
2

If I could upvote you more, I will. Your story seems to look like mine ( in a certain way, my family when I grew up and stuff ). It's not really about the conversation or the body language that I'm scared of, I am just TERRIFIED when it comes to approaching anybody. It can be a stripper, the president or a regular guy. I will read your book, and try to get my head out of my ass and do something.
/r/seduction11/08/10 09:16 PM
2

Well, the thing that bugs me the most, is that I'm not bad looking. People often tells me I'm attractive and funny and stuff. I often catch girls in the streets checking me out. My ex coworkers ( I worked at a hotline ), all female, told me I was too confident in the way I was walking and talking. That's the sad part, I'm a good looking guy and I can't "enjoy" it.
/r/seduction11/08/10 08:59 PM
1

Guess you're right, I'll try next time I hit the club (I think clubs are easier and you can eject less awkwardly).
/r/seduction11/08/10 05:10 PM
1

Well, I guess then that you don't know about AA.
/r/seduction11/08/10 02:14 PM
1

Well, it motivates me to go out and talk to people, yes, and I've found it pretty effective for now. I just don't see any guy, where I go some nights (clubs/bars) hitting on women they don't know. I'm from a middle size city in France so, maybe it's not the state of mind here. I don't know.
/r/seduction11/08/10 02:13 PM
1

Yeah, I don't expect it to be the magic pill, don't worry about that. And I've seen the show, but I heard some of the "AFCs" in it were in fact actors. (cosmo)
/r/seduction11/08/10 02:09 PM
1

Yeah, I know it's the thing to do, but seems hard to me. If anyone could tell me that it indeed worked on him and how it affected other aspects of his life, i guess that would be a great boost.
/r/seduction11/08/10 09:27 AM
0

I can't find it right now on seddit, but someone posted links to download David Wygant's stuff. I'll upload it if you're interested and if I don't find it back. He overall says that you take 3 weeks : 1st week : you go to a mall, a train station or anywhere crowded ,you look at everyone and try to analyze them (what they're wearing, what they're doing, all of it !) 2nd week : you do the same, and you write it down on a notebook, along with things you could open them with (he gives an example wit…
/r/seduction10/08/10 02:11 PM
1

Haha, like the Apocalypse opener ? Never tested it, but feels rude :o
/r/seduction10/08/10 01:27 PM
1

Actually I'm french, I just feel weird to open with the translation of the casual openers. Just feels weird to say in french "j'ai besoin d'une opinion féminine...". And not all french people hate to speak in english, I don't :p
/r/seduction10/08/10 12:47 PM
1

Juste pour booster ta confiance en toi, voila un classement des "races" qui attirent le plus les femmes ou nous nommes en première position :D
/r/seduction10/08/10 12:16 PM
1

Nice, I lost count on the number of girls but nicely done ! BTW, are you from the french part of belgium ? I just want to know if the "game" works on them.
/r/seduction10/08/10 12:10 PM
2

Well, now you know that we, Western European, are the hottest guys in the world :)
/r/seduction10/08/10 10:05 AM
1

Juggler, hmm. Heard that name already. Wasn't he in The Game ?
/r/seduction10/08/10 09:24 AM
1

nope, I don't mean to be rude or anything, but she's a bit above your league and that's inspiring for me :D
/r/seduction09/08/10 07:22 PM
1

nope, just felt like it. BTW, what makes you think I'm not 12 ? I could be.
/r/seduction09/08/10 06:16 PM
1

Dat gal iz hawt
/r/seduction09/08/10 05:41 PM
3

Alright now to be clear, I understand some of you might ask why I want to go back into a relationship with her in that psychological state. And some might say I have 'oneitis' and should just go out and pick up other women You don't actually give a good reason, it's what you want to do, but seems to me like it's not a good thing for both of you.
/r/seduction09/08/10 02:58 PM
2

Alright, I just discovered I was an introvert, thanks to you. That sucks.
/r/seduction09/08/10 02:04 PM
1

Ouch, that might hurt like a mofo :/
/r/seduction09/08/10 11:39 AM
3

A little bit "too" cocky on your FR, but overall great job !
/r/seduction09/08/10 11:15 AM
2

I wish I had your "whatever" attitude and just talk to every girl that I find attractive. Anyways, I love reading FRs of guys that don't have my AA. Keep on the good stuff !
/r/seduction08/08/10 09:10 PM
1

You need to be more precise if you want an answer. How do you usually approach girls? We could perhaps help you not to say anything boring.
/r/seduction08/08/10 09:03 PM
1

:D de même. Et tes amis la bas sont américains ? Tiens en passant, niveaux ambiance la nuit, c'est quoi le mieux ?
/r/seduction08/08/10 03:19 PM
2

You live in France ? Si oui, t'es de quel coin ?
/r/seduction08/08/10 12:05 PM
4

A shit test ? Well it's pretty self explanatory. Basically, if you play hard to get for example, if the girl says "wanna go home with me ?", it's a shit test. She's just testing if you're like every other guy when it comes to this. For that example, you just have to answer stuff like "what, you think I'm easy ?". You have to play your role till the end. BTW, I don't understand the down votes, that's a legit question IMO.
/r/seduction06/08/10 01:43 PM
1

Dude, you HAVE to tell us the results, think I may try it tomorrow.
/r/seduction06/08/10 12:56 PM
1

Thanks man, that cheers me up to see people interested in my case.
/r/seduction04/08/10 05:01 PM
2

Man, you just described myself. I have the exact same anxiety, you should really try, at least the first day. I already feel like I understood a little bit more about life. Sounds cheesy, but do it, you'll get what I mean. It also made me realize one thing, it's when the conversation, or "opener" is canned that I freeze. I'm listening right now a seminar of David Wygant, and man, I think I'm just going to try and talk to everybody in the streets, or at work, or everywhere, It's way more natural …
/r/seduction04/08/10 04:59 PM
1

That's a good idea. I don't know how to create subreddits though, so if you do, create it, I'll post my everydays challenge in it and my social progression aswell :). Also, It's weird that the poster didn't respond since he created that post.
/r/seduction04/08/10 11:23 AM
1

Yeah, I would rather be anxious about saying a wrong word in that language, but I've never been beyond France's borders so I don't really know.
/r/seduction04/08/10 10:07 AM
1

That's just boosting me up for my day, thanks :D
/r/seduction04/08/10 07:24 AM
1

Thanks man ! And you're right, I need that part handled.
/r/seduction04/08/10 07:21 AM
1

Your first proposition, native French, writing in English. The arabic guy didn't speak french very well, not english. And I think it does matter if you're in a foreign country and don't speak the language very well, because then you have a reason to ask strangers. But then again, it's not my case, so I don't have any excuse for my anxiety :( .
/r/seduction04/08/10 07:20 AM
1

Okay, first day done. Time to field report. How do we do that ? Create a new post everytime ? BTW, milfs are bitches, I don't recommend talking to them in the streets.
/r/seduction03/08/10 11:20 AM
1

And how did it turned out ?
/r/seduction02/08/10 03:00 PM
2

I would love to do it with feedbacks of other people day by day. I was about to start (tomorrow), I've read the game, I saw "The Pickup Artist" and read some David DeAngelo's material. I never did any of the things I learned because, I'm French, live in France, and I just kept saying to myself "this doesn't apply in my country". I realize now it was just an excuse and that I was too scared. I'm not the ultimate AFC though, I know girls, I'm above average looking (don't take this as bragging plea…
/r/seduction02/08/10 10:03 AM
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