Hi Seddit !

If you'd like to be spared the cheesy thanks part, begin to read at [FR]

I'm writing this to thank all of you. I don't use the PUA "techniques" (cube, negs etc.) and before knowing Seddit I never had a girl whatsoever (21 here...). I was really awkward around beautiful unknown women, I was often going to clubs and bars but never had the balls to talk to any women that I didn't know (this was maybe 3 months ago) despite being told that I was handsome. There's only one thing that helped me, and it's talked about in pretty much every post, it's the basic "Be confident ! Fake it till you make it". Which implies also to take risks.

Like I said, I hadn't kissed a girl before, nor slept obviously. Since I came here to read all the advices and stories and FRs, my life is so much more fullfilled (sounds cheesy, but it's true). It's not just about getting laid, it affected almost every aspects of my life. On to my Mini-FR from last night.

[FR]

Last night, I was attending a birthday party of a classmate's girlfriend (18 y/o). Before going, one of my pal asked me if I was interested in a bet. It was stupid, I know, but there's nothing more motivating than a bet to get things done. The winner will be the quickiest one to "get" a girl. When we saw the crowd of 16 to 18 y/o chicks, we both looked at each other in a "not tonight" way. Since we're 21/22, I find it pretty awkward to hook-up with 16 y/o, but that's just me. So we drink, dance, have fun all together with her friends when she told me I was thought attractive by her friends, especially 2 (They were damn hot for 16 y/o). I was kind of avoiding the 2 at that point when they both came and dance with me. I had the "balls" to bail and get out to smoke a cigarette. I saw a girl ouside that I didn't see earlier. She seemed more mature than the jailbaits inside. I went and said "you're waiting for your boyfriend ?" (she was looking at the road). She said "Nooo, I'm single for 2 weeks now. what a shame." (I've been told later that she was the sister of the BDay girl).

I don't remember every bit of the conversation we had, but I asked her to dance; she agreed. A few minutes later, I asked her if she was an impulsive person, to which she replied "Usually, yes. Why?" And kissed her. For once in my life, I can thank mystery. Fast forward the kissing touching, my buddies apparently heard about the bet and told her to stay away from me for her sake (can I still call them buddies after this ?!). For some reason, I'm seen as the Playboy now, and trust me, it's not that appealing. I had told her about the bet before she heard it from anybody else, I guess that's what saved me this one.

At one point, she said "you wanna play ?"

Me- "yeah, why not."

We went outside but it was crowded so we got back in. A bit later I asked her the same thing

me - "Wanna play ?"

her - "hmm, what do you have in mind?"

me - "You really have no idea ?"

To which she didn't replied. We slept on a matress together, in a room full of people, implying touching discretly (also, her sister was keeping an eye on me).

My question, how do I escalate/isolate in such situations ? And thoughts on the FR would be appreciated.

Edit: Format