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DISCUSSIONHWestNewYork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:57 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKHWestNewYork/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:17 AM
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I would definitely ask her if I ever meet her. She and her husband live abroad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:18 PM
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You brought up a great point. I feel like if he did not want this for his party he would’ve spoken up or interrupted me to say no way- but instead waited to see what I said. He used to watch porn. Does not anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:07 PM
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Thank you for your advice! I have talked to him and he said he will definitely not allow strippers/strip clubs at his bachelor party. If someone surprises him with one, then he will leave. I believe him when he says this (partly because one of his groomsman would call me and tell me immediately if my fiancé did not- a really stand up guy that friend). And he did offer to kick the one guy out of the wedding party- but it was more of a thing he would do if I wanted him to. He even offered to call …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:02 PM
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I’m actually looking for one now, just hoping I get a good one! Thanks for your advice 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:51 PM
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Thank you for summing up exactly how I feel. Definitely big decisions to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:38 PM
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Nope! I dumped that guy (thanks to everything I’ve learned here). He ended up getting laid off from his job eventually….likely due to disappearing to watch porn. Either way, I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:36 PM
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Wedding is October 2022 so I’ve got awhile! At least this is consolation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:24 PM
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This is a great point and one I’ve read in this sub over the last few years. You’re right- doesn’t fix shitty character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:27 PM
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Wow. Thank you for sharing this. I’m so glad to hear other men feel this way. This is exactly the type of reaction I would love to have!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:18 PM
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I did not think about it this way at all. Thank you for clarifying this for me. Now I feel more scared than before, but…..if it’s the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:14 PM
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Good point! The question was actually directed at me and not him. However, I should have just looked at my fiancé to see what he said. A missed opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:09 PM
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Thank you! I needed to hear this ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:29 PM
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Looking like that is not likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:22 PM
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Wow I didn’t think of it that way but you are totally right! This is why I ask for advice here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:21 PM
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I actually told him as a warning that if I were in his shoes I would tell the bride. He was somewhat horrified, and his response was that people don’t always want to know about these things- I guess the harm of her knowing or finding out from someone else is potentially devastating to their relationship, and wondered why I would potentially ruin someone’s future? He then said to me that if I did anything wrong he would not want to know about it. Then told me how his ex cheated on him with three …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:08 PM
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This is very true. At this point it’s not even about being into strippers- that would be annoying, but I’m more worried about the lie and disregard for the other bride to be- and also me. In fairness, at the previous bachelor party, there were plenty of other activities. Not just strip clubs and drinking. In our argument my fiancé said strip clubs are very traditional for bachelor parties and I did my own research today. I’m sad to report that even many women’s magazine hold a similar opinion. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 09:02 PM
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Yeah, and I can’t understand this. He was just angry that I’d judge this guy on this one thing. But….why wouldn’t I??? Fiancé said I sound like I think I’m morally superior. But…I actually do, yes. I guess that’s the wrong answer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:56 PM
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I know- I almost didn’t post it because of this, but I figured it might help someone else too. Plus, i know I’m not crazy, but the reinforcement from everyone here really helps. This will be my third relationship I would be ending due to everything I’ve learned here- which is a good thing- As I got out earlier than I would have otherwise, but it still sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:49 PM
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I totally agree with you! However, I’m not interested in male strippers. Like 0 interest. It’s a pity. I’m here for the stories- how do you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:45 PM
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We got engaged at the nine month mark- fast, I know, but we knew each other before we started dating. Which sped things up a bit. I’ve met his friends many, many times. I like all of them so far. This one lives abroad, so I’ve never met him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:36 PM
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I think I would feel this way too. I’m tempted to offer couples therapy- but even with that- I’d probably still feel that way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:26 PM
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Thank god- no. This is a different man! Definitely blocked and deleted that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:25 PM
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Thank you. I’m trying to tell myself this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:24 PM
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I honestly didn’t even look to see. I wish I had and I thought about this as well. I had thought this is almost a joke of a question and so I didn’t bother asking additional questions or looking at him. The atmosphere was not awkward- I think we changed topics. Wish I paid attention!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:23 PM
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Thank you for this post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:58 AM
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All good points. I’m looking for new places now and am hoping to get into a new place ASAP. Have to be nice until then I suppose. As to your question. Why did I feel the need to snoop? He has been barely having in sex with me- last month was only once. This in my opinion isn’t normal for a newer relationship, so I just wanted to see. I figured he had to have some sort of outlet. I was right As for the rent money. That I can’t answer. I know his family has supported him most of his life so I have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:28 AM
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Yes! Please learn from my mistake. I wish I had been strong enough to do that in the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:14 PM
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Thank you! I’ll definitely be reaching out for additional advice if I need it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:20 AM
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We don’t share passwords to log into each of our accounts. No passwords at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:58 AM
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I know, this was a big mistake. To be honest he was perfect in literally every way until just now and thought I’d finally found a HVM (except for him making less than me). So I was pretty excited to move things along. I realize after reading this sub this was a bad idea regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:56 AM
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That sounds amazing! I don’t make enough at the moment to pay for a studio on my own, but I think I’ll find a place where I can live with other women. That sounds nice to me :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:09 AM
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Thank you for this. It’s hard to hear but I need to hear it. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:51 AM
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What?!? I’m so sorry that happened to you. Seriously, how do people sleep at night? Is that most men? That’s absolute garbage. I’m so glad you got out of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:20 AM
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Oh my god I’m so sad for this girl. I’m definitely going to read through all of these. Thank you so much for the post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:49 AM
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I didn’t even think of it possibly being an addition, but that’s a good point. As for the money- I’ll think of a way to confirm. That’s just my suspicion at the moment. He makes less than me but loves to spend. Which was really the one big red flag that’s been bothering me the past month....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:46 AM
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I think you’re probably right. I’m going to start looking at apartments in the area and make sure I have an exit plan. Thanks for your input!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:39 AM
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I found this sub from the article. Now I know what I’ve been missing in my life ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:19 AM
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