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| 1 | For those who got caught up in the Red Piller's non-consentual harem or love cult. The coaches can trick vulnerable and lonely men all they want with repackaged tricks, but a lot of people know what it really is. Trauma bonds aren't real love.Learning about them and what they do is the best line of defense. A few books could potentially save her, if you wanted to assist. He's completely brainwashed her, and she's terrified of standing up for herself. He isn't a grandiose narc, but a covert one. I was raised by one and often they're the scariest. Grandiose ones are at least easy to spot and avoid, the covert ones rely on a mental trap called the F.O.G. (using coersion with Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to trap a good person into a servi… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | I don’t know what to do anymore, almost just want to end itI personally saw both, though I preferred male. I'm a thinker type and I needed someone to just lay out the information and let me process everything with some assistance rather than the "how are you feeling?" schtick (we did eventually address feelings, but I needed to do the data deconstruction first). The thing I learned after seeing them for a while is that most cults use the same playbook and there isn't much difference in terms of one or the other except the main theme of it (self-improvem… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 01:57 AM |
| 8 | I don’t know what to do anymore, almost just want to end itThe problem with Red Pill is that a lot of the coaches and followers use cult tactics to slowly twist up your thoughts processes that keeps you in this place you're in now (I'm dead serious, look it up for yourself). You're not alone and unfortunately lots of men got tricked into this and then they left you alone to pickup the pieces. When I figured it out, what had happened so slowly I didn't even realize, I completely broke down. Life became unmanageable and I couldn't deal. The best thing I d… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 01:10 AM |
| 4 | The red pill are animalsThey're also LARPing. When will people realize that these people can type out whatever story they want and it can be 100% make believe? Genius though, they convinced a bunch of men to mentally abuse their potential mates, then get confused when they kept getting dumped, and leave them completely alone as they deal with the fallout of now being labeled as abusive. Crimes via proxy are killing relationships for the younger generations (and yes, some of these things are crimes in many areas). Men a… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Redpill and narcissistic female partnersI personally love Shahida Arabi. She quite literally saved my life from a group of non-self aware narcissists that were gangstalking (and who had just "seen the truth, maaaaan!") that were projecting their garbage onto me and blaming me for things I wasn't doing (they would not only misread my intentions, but then punish me for their misread, whether it was reality or not). What a massive mind fuck to be gaslit into doubting your own thoughts and intentions from someone not even in your head. On… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 10:25 PM |
| 3 | What are they leading?but this is relatively true from the people I’ve met in my life. Anecdotal at best then. The spectrum is vast, hormones inconsistent, upbringing, cycles, cultures, religions, etc. There are far too many variables to consider and Red Pillers claims are too narrow. Do all or a majority of men only think about sex? Do all or a majority of men cheat? Are all or a majority of men slobs? Same thing, different sex. They're mostly narrow stereotypes that Red Pill perpetuates, then men act on it thinking… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 09:47 PM |
| 3 | What are they leading?Most of us can be better, but most also choose not to. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 32 | What are they leading?In my solid 10+ year experience, they'll lead you right off a steep cliff and laugh at you with their buddies as you fall to your figurative death (and then share your personal info and intimate images that you trusted to them with their good ol' boys club too, which then leads to a gangstalking of epic proportions for years and maybe even identity theft as an added bonus). 0/10 would not recommend. Edit: Tip to those that share nudes with others - hide tiny numbers in the photos (font colour th… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Real reason women divorce most men (sources in the post)Fun fact: they used to try and cure a woman's hysteria with orgasms. Sex fixes a lot more than we think, but it should be done responsibly. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 6 | I hate that Red Pillers expected me to submit and take care of family matters, but simultaneously lorded the relationship over me and making me fear being dumped off on the streets constantly if I didn't do as they expected. The worst part being that expectations would change constantly.Seems to be meaningless cherry-picked garbage now. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 4 | I hate that Red Pillers expected me to submit and take care of family matters, but simultaneously lorded the relationship over me and making me fear being dumped off on the streets constantly if I didn't do as they expected. The worst part being that expectations would change constantly.Thank you! I have since gone through years of therapy and am now just writing about the experience on the side to help the younger ones understand what we elders didn't going in. The toxic coaches must be exposed and weeded out or they're going to create predators with zero liability to the vulnerable men watching them (especially those on the spectrum that have a harder time understanding the grifts). | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 7 | I hate that Red Pillers expected me to submit and take care of family matters, but simultaneously lorded the relationship over me and making me fear being dumped off on the streets constantly if I didn't do as they expected. The worst part being that expectations would change constantly.I'm completely with you until this: The folks in the parking lot who have the self awareness to not enter the disaster are the ones who make relationships work. People just need to think critically more. It's the craziest thing to learn from a professional that nearly impossible-to-resist psychological tricks are being used IN CASUAL DATING to coerce people into things by forcing them into the "reptilian brain" part of human mind without consent. Thereby creating behaviours that are predictable … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 2 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.Thank you but I have found much more accurate and healthier information elsewhere. I have no desire for anymore cult communities. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 10:34 PM |
| 3 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.Yes, I understand this now, but still in the process of undoing all their brainwashing. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Why Does He Do That? Book recommendationThis book saved my life! Recommended it all the time! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 2 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.Unfortunately yes because I was led to believe the lies they told me and tried to do the whole "be a complement to his life" thing as instructed. It was different than how I was raised and believed they would lead me to a better place and understanding, but all they did was use me, lead me off a cliff and to destruction. 😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.I am still and prefer that, but now I have to learn a different way of life completely different from what I was trained for. The anxiety is crippling. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 07:47 PM |
| 5 | I hate had Red Pill caused me to hate myself and beat myself up for years because I was a traditional woman with decent behaviour and ethics but stuck in a body that has faught me for most of my life. I know I have so much to offer and yet they'll always make me feel as if it's never enough.Anxiety over my typos in this post even. Fuck. I can't fix them. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.I know I'm a catch too and that's the problem. These stupid Red Pill coaches brainwashed me into believing a different narrative and that I deserve nothing for it. I know I can make one of these lucky guys a great housewife and I definitely want someone who makes a lot but it's more for security and stability and less about fancy things (I'm very frugal anyways). These guys are ruining love and relationships. Constant dread game and the other "teachings" killed my soul and now I'm too afraid of … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.I wish. I was raised up to be no better than a epic housewife and due to that, I was never able to do college and career things. I wish I got paid as a housewife though! | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 08:07 AM |
| 3 | The Power of Addiction and The Addiction of Power: Dr Gabor MatéDr. Gabor is amazing. This is another informative video. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/22 07:23 PM |
| 4 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.Why don’t you consider listening to his hopes, dreams, fears, and aspirations. If you don’t want to feel like a gold digger than ask him about his hobbies or basically anything besides his money or his job he uses to make money. I do! I love it all. I want to hear everything! But I've just noticed a trend with these men is they go to the very typical Red Pill talking points. I know they're probably just as nervous as I am, I'm just trying to figure out how to help alleviate some of the stress. I… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.I would just move on from anyone assuming things about my character. I have enough anxiety on my own and moments of stress at work to deal with the pressure of constantly being attacked-- lowkey or not-- or tested in my personal life. Dating can be hard, but not that hard. WELL SAID. Thank you. Constantly being criticized is just too much and too exhausting, especially when they're refusing to change the thing in themselves that they criticize in you because man. Ugh. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 15 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.This is so accurate. It seems like no matter what you do, especially if you're a woman who actively tries to be a good woman, that they'll always complain about something. You're too chubby, your butt too dimpley, your makeup not right, your morals are shit even if they're worse behaved than you, you don't do enough, etc. It's so exhausting. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | For those who are actively monitoring the content creators…Seems like a lot of Red Pill creators are either just going with what the others are going with and fighting for views or going purely for shock value now and have nothing whatsoever to do with Red Pill anymore. What a shit show it has all become. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.You're absolutely right. I'm not lying and really do enjoy their company. Thank you so much. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.Haha, that's easy. I got both, but to be honest, I feel as though I can't relax around successful men, but equally don't want to settle for low quality anymore since they're often just not very nice and have questionable ethics. Like maybe I don't "belong" because I'm a girl from "the hood", who has overcome a lot, and has mostly maintained good ethics and morals, but doesn't "fit in" with that crowd (just my preference to wear jeans makes me stick out like a sore thumb next to beautiful made up… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 03:53 PM |
| 8 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.I needed this, thank you. This helped me a lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 5 | I think my girlfriend is just using me for sex, and unlike the red pill promise, I fucking hate it.If you're at a point to marry someone then these are the conversations you shouldn't be afraid to have. You should know a lot of these answers because you've sat down and discussed them as adults. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 02:31 PM |
| 15 | I think my girlfriend is just using me for sex, and unlike the red pill promise, I fucking hate it.At 7 months you haven't even really gotten past the honeymoon stage (6-12 months). At 7 months she's probably thinking you're moving too fast. If you know you want to marry this woman than what's the rush? Let the slow burn happen. But the best thing to do is communicate directly with her and ask her what her reservations are about moving in together. Sometimes we think we communicate things well but actually aren't. Wouldn't you want her to show you she's serious by taking it slow? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | I’m still convinced that women have it easier in dating.You think its makes a women feel special so many men just want to use her as a sex toy? Especially when they gaslight you and convince you that you're special when it's all lies to use you as the sex toy and have zero intentions of even considering sticking around. Future faking sucks when you genuinely like them. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/22 06:46 PM |
| 23 | Ladies of r/exredpill what inspires you to help and advice men here?If we help them become better men, they're better men for other women. They understand them better, she learns to understand him better, they get along better, and then we have less toxic shit floating around Reddit because they're too happy to bitch about each other. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/22 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Literally every red pill podcast 😭😭All these grifters are is just this generation's Jerry Springer show. Nothing new. Only a different platform to increase division of people. Panem et circenses all over again. Same shit, different day. This video is funny as fuck though. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 6 | My life partner and I went to family court due to Covid despite still being together and in love, officially separated in the process, became worst enemies shortly after, realized what was going on, and now back to lovers and life partners and have 50/50 custody. Ask me anything.What was the going on that you realized? I would like a more detailed story. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 11:52 AM |
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