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Hannubal/r/PussyPass14/06/20 12:34 PM
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Social IssuesHannubal/r/MensRights11/07/20 07:10 PM
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DiscriminationHannubal/r/MensRights19/07/20 07:51 AM
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Social IssuesHannubal/r/MensRights16/06/20 01:16 PM
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DiscriminationHannubal/r/MensRights20/07/20 12:47 PM
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ProgressHannubal/r/MensRights28/02/21 06:03 PM
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DiscriminationHannubal/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:44 AM
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CMVHannubal/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:33 AM
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Social IssuesHannubal/r/MensRights02/08/20 04:20 PM
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FeminismHannubal/r/MensRights20/06/20 07:59 AM
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Hannubal/r/AntiFeminists19/06/20 10:02 AM
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Hannubal/r/AntiFeminists19/06/20 10:01 AM
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False AccusationHannubal/r/MensRights26/07/20 10:10 AM
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DiscriminationHannubal/r/MensRights02/07/20 02:08 PM
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DiscriminationHannubal/r/MensRights04/08/20 11:00 PM
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Not that I know of, and I would be surprised if there were. I think you are better of listening to academics and political figures who criticize Feminist ideology, as they are often good sources for information that disproves Feminist assumptions. You could begin with figures like Christina Hoff Sommers and Jordan Peterson, and the Intellectual Dark Web in general.
/r/MensRights28/02/21 07:06 PM
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Women haven't been called out for toxic behavior in decades, so many of them don't realize the double standards they have. We need to keep highlighting behavior like this, and ignore the shaming that will follow.
/r/MensRights08/09/20 11:05 AM
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Sorry to hear that your friends have been abused. I think it's reasonable to tell women to be careful at night, because there are many violent men out there. There is nothing unreasonable perpetuated there. However, that doesn't justify saying that all men are bad. Encouraging women to be careful is more about being safe, rather than indicating that all men are evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:55 AM
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It's one thing to assume, for safety's sake, that any man might be a rapist while out at night. It's another thing entirely to go out in society and say that all men are bad. The first is an attitude based on prudence, the second is just prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:45 AM
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Yeah I know, it was my way of agreeing with you :)
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 11:19 AM
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I truly don't care if anyone has physical preferences. It's perfectly normal. The problem is that men are shamed for having any, while women are empowered if they do. The discrepancy is the issue.
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/20 10:59 AM
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These women seem unhappy.
/r/MensRights03/09/20 07:33 PM
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She's addressing an argument that isn't being made. How delusional is she?
/r/MensRights02/09/20 02:24 PM
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I know, it's awful. I can't believe the people questioning the validity of what she's saying. In my experience, children throwing simple tantrums don't sound like that - she's on the verge of hysteria.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 12:37 AM
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This girl is going to be traumatized for life because of societal misandry. Here is a video showing more of Sophie. I have only watched a minute of it but it's one of the worst things I've ever seen. This girl knows that she's being destroyed.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 12:09 AM
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So just because women have it harder, men can't complain about anything? Not that women do suffer more, but his leap in logic is strange.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 12:00 AM
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Hahaha Jesus Christ, you're going to get this sub banned.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 09:44 AM
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If we're going to talk about arrogance on the part of men, we'll have to talk about emotional manipulation on the part of women. We both have weaknesses when it comes to intellectual discussions.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 12:07 AM
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It's simply an easy way to rationalize their hatred for men.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 09:09 PM
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It's honestly scary how deeply deluded FDS'ers are. They genuinely believe that men are a collective hive-mind, which can thus be held responsible for what a few do. Apply that logic to Afro-Americans, Muslims or Jews and suddenly, it doesn't sound so empowering.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 09:08 PM
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Disgusting behavior by those women. Sorry you had to go through that.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 08:55 PM
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It's exhausting to see movies where overpowered women deal with clumsy and weak men. Ironically, it's as if they're saying that women can only prevail if men are absent or incapable. That's what they did in the new Star Wars - in order to give space for the women, they killed off the strong male characters. Misogynistic, in a way.
/r/MensRights30/08/20 11:42 AM
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Aba and Preach are not exactly anti-feminist, but are great at calling out the BS of toxic women, if that interests you. They also talk about men's issues.
/r/AntiFeminists29/08/20 11:18 AM
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It's good that you try. However, be prepared for many Feminists lacking respect and patience. In my experience, it is better to work on yourself. As we MRA's become more disciplined and educated, Feminists will be forced to meet us on equal footing to avoid looking bad. From there on, it will be easier to have conversations with them. Right now, they can get away with being disrespectful because most of society doesn't care for the Men's Rights Movement.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:47 AM
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Focus on making yourself a better person. I think this is the solution to many of the problems men face today. We have to become stronger, so that we can deal with societal misandry. It is easy for Feminists to bully and crush men who lead irresponsible lifestyles - it is impossible with men who are disciplined. Feminists simply have no power over men with self-respect, because they can't use their sexuality to manipulate such men.
/r/MensRights27/08/20 12:42 AM
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"Did research for literally five seconds" I completely believe you.
/r/MensRights26/08/20 01:29 PM
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Perhaps I was unclear - English isn't my first language. I mean that her statement is just as evil as racism, and OP should treat it as such. I would cut out a misandrist just like I would a racist.
/r/MensRights25/08/20 07:45 PM
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I personally don't care when women express attraction to famous men, but it's good to point out how outraged many would be if the genders were reversed.
/r/PussyPass25/08/20 05:32 PM
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If someone sent me a video justifying the statement "Kill all brown people" then as a brown person, I would kindly ignore that person and get on with my life. Good on you for debunking her argument, OP.
/r/MensRights25/08/20 03:39 PM
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Feminist: *Dismisses all cases were men are abused by women* Guys, at the very least provide some evidence that men are facing discrimination/harassment? I mean lol come on.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/20 12:56 AM
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It works because your girlfriend doesn't understand that she's being oppressed. ​ ​ /s
/r/MensRights23/08/20 03:43 PM
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Repeating what someone else said is a great way of making them feel understood. Unfortunately, it doesn't work with people who have decided beforehand that you're a misogynist.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 03:41 PM
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Exactly. In my experience, men are far better at protecting women from violence, than women are at protecting men from manipulation. Society doesn't teach girls to protect boys from their crazy sisters.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 02:46 PM
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I see what you mean. Though I feel like there is always going to be at least one area in which partners differ. If she finds a man who is more 'cuddly', there is probably going to be something else about him that displeases her. Better to compensate, and overcome differences instead, I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 10:03 PM
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Is it necessarily the case that they are incompatible? Perhaps she can simply communicate her needs, and he can put in a few minutes extra every day of physical affection (cuddles etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:46 PM
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It's actually impressive how they make men into the villains no matter what. The creativity involved is unbelievable.
/r/AntiFeminists22/08/20 12:54 AM
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You can be completely sympathetic to someone’s situation without allowing them to leverage that sympathy as a rhetorical device. Very nicely put. I completely agree.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 05:09 PM
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In that case, I hope she doesn't mind when men say "I hate all women!".
/r/MensRights21/08/20 12:33 PM
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To disagree with someone's hatred is not the same as dismissing their trauma. OP is clearly at a point where he/she wants to express that they do not agree with this girl's hatred of men. If they do not express it, the girl might assume that OP agrees with her prejudice. She will then continue talking about her hatred of men, which will make it all the more difficult for her when OP finally makes clear that he/she does not agree. Better to get it out of the way now, so that there is no misunders…
/r/MensRights21/08/20 11:05 AM
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I definitely understand. If I were you, I would not try to convince her, but simply make clear that I don't agree with her prejudice. If you don't do this, she will assume that you agree, and your friendship will be founded on this misunderstanding. That will be even more uncomfortable for you. Like another user said, focus on the things on which you agree. You can say, for example, "I don't agree that all men are bad, but we must certainly do something about rape/abuse etc.". That way, she won'…
/r/MensRights21/08/20 11:00 AM
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Ask her if she would punish all Muslims because of terrorism. Ask her if she would jail all African-American people because of drug-crimes. Ask her if she would like to persecute Jews because of Palestine. Then, explain that you can't group people based on their race, religion or sex. By punishing all men, she would be hurting those men who would love to fight the injustices that have been done to her. Be soft and empathetic, but be also clear that prejudice isn't acceptable. Trauma doesn't just…
/r/MensRights21/08/20 08:54 AM
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Imagine how many more male teachers there would be, and therefore male role-models, if men like you weren't treated with prejudice. It's so wrong.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 08:49 AM
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It's such a disgusting form of sexism. If people took for granted that I'm a terrorist just because I'm Middle Eastern, people would be outraged. However, it's completely okay to treat a man like a pedophile based on the slightest suspicion. We need to start calling people out over this.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 08:47 AM
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By reacting with disgust, they are essentially accusing you of pedophilia. They're not your friends.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 08:45 AM
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Unjustified pedo-suspicion causes significant damage to men. It forces them to keep a distance from children, which reduces the amount of male role-models available to them. Awfully destructive phenomenon.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 08:43 AM
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I would take it one step farther - can we discuss the fact that trees are phallic? No wonder girls feel so oppressed. Everywhere they go, they see a bunch of penises lining the sidewalks. They're essentially being prepared for being sexually assaulted. /s
/r/MensRights20/08/20 09:43 PM
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White academic women began by raising minorities up as virtuous saints. Then, they started to define themselves as minorities. Methinks their worry about us brown people isn't entirely genuine.
/r/MensRights19/08/20 09:27 PM
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I honestly don't care that she's being nasty. My issue is that no man would get away with this. Either both men and women can criticize each other, or no one can.
/r/MensRights19/08/20 11:56 AM
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Meh, it's common to say "Motherfuckers" to address friends :)
/r/MensRights19/08/20 09:38 AM
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From two different comments: I think two prominent criticisms are its treatment of women of color and of trans women. I can totally have a conversation about how a lot of feminism excludes women of color, trans women, etc, ​ Notice how they pretend that they don't have a huge problem with misandry.
/r/MensRights19/08/20 08:43 AM
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I'm not sure I understand the question. Are you asking why MRA's hate feminism, as in the Women's rights movement? I don't think they do. Most only dislike/hate those Feminists who are hateful towards men. I personally don't hate anyone, but I'm strongly against the misandric rhetoric by certain aspects of the Feminist movement.
/r/MensRights18/08/20 01:15 PM
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From the article: The big problem with talking about any kind of sexual assault or double standard towards men is that it so quickly turns into some kind of anti-feminist tirade. If you talk about it online, Men’s Rights Activists will come swarming in to derail the conversation into a rant about whatever some prominent controversial feminist said this week. The conversation can so easily turn into a men vs feminists debate. ​ It seems disingenuous to say that MRA's derail conversations about se…
/r/MensRights18/08/20 11:34 AM
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To me it seems that those in the extremities sweat a lot - both those who are fat and fit. Is it possible that your fat friends are extremely fat? I live in Sweden and we don't have a lot of morbidly obese people, so maybe my experience is skewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:26 PM
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The pattern I've noticed, is that men who are quite fit tend to sweat alot. A muscular friend I had would sweat more than anyone I ever knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 05:09 PM
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That's a good representation of their view. The reason why that argument doesn't work, is that women aren't being forced to take more custody, or to recieve large amounts of child-support. That's entirely up to them. The way I see it, it would only be misogyny if the system forced mothers to take a larger parental role. And yes, how they make it into men's fault is astounding. As if all these fathers are happy that they will rarely, if ever, see their children.
/r/PussyPass17/08/20 02:46 PM
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I came here to point that out. If men are being discriminated in favor of women, that's not misogyny. Funny how they make everything out to be about women.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 02:38 PM
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The strange thing about that thread, is that everyone claims this is misogyny. Isn't it misandry when men are being mistreated in favor of women?
/r/PussyPass17/08/20 02:36 PM
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It's typical of weak women to rely on men for everything. She's the exact opposite of a strong and independent woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/08/20 01:30 PM
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How is it not sexism for her to assume that he might end up abusing her, just because he's a man? Also, she has to acknowledge how brutally biased divorce-courts are in favor of women. I don't see the justification for hiding what's essentially their money from him.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 10:52 AM
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I don't completely understand the point the woman in the first picture makes. What benefits do I, as a man, reap from the violent abuse of women? And can she substantiate the claim that most men do nothing to protect the women that they love? That sounds completely insane. Maybe she should take a look at the four men who protected their partners with their bodies during the Colorado shooting. Also, Notice that Feminist ideologues, in general, use anecdotes to prove the existence of Patriarchy. T…
/r/AntiFeminists16/08/20 03:39 PM
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I definitely get that it still hurts when people criticize you. We're social animals after all. There might be specific topic that men care less about what people think, but I think the general pattern is that they care less no matter what it is, although certainly every man does care to a degree. We all worry about how we are perceived, like you say. You're definitely on the right track :) I think the problem for men is that they aren't in tune with their emotions - the problem of some women te…
/r/MensRights15/08/20 10:39 PM
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I couldn't say, to be honest. I focus more on the culture and politics of Northern America. However, I wouldn't be surprised to hear that many Swedish men's lives have been ruined by false accusations, whether through legal consequences or social ostracization, or both. Our country is a nest of Feminist ideology, after all.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 11:54 AM
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They support Feminism because it gets them an enormous amount of votes. I honestly think it's as simple as that. Women are more agreeable and empathetic, and this makes them superb organizers. This helps them to vote in unison, which causes politicians to adapt. The moment the majority voters organize in the name of men's rights, politicians will become equally fervent for MRA.
/r/MensRights15/08/20 01:24 AM
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Man, what an awful story. I'm really glad that the charges were dismissed, but like you say, she has caused you some significant damage. What does your attorney think about suing her for defamation/libel? I have no grasp of law, especially not American law since I live in Sweden. However, it seems that if you can successfully prosecute her for her crimes, it can help to exonerate you when future employers look at your record. In other words, you will be able to show that she was lying, without l…
/r/MensRights15/08/20 12:33 AM
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Well it sounds sophisticated so it must be good. Come to think of it, supercilious might also be a good word for women like her.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 11:48 PM
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She probably got pumped and dumped for the third time this month. I usually don't like to make assumptions about people, but it's worth to acknowledge that insecure women don't post hateful material unless they are trying to patch a bruised ego.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 10:11 PM
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How does that post even make sense - I don't hate women, so in what way do I hate women worse than they hate me? Are they somehow claiming that there is a battle between me and my mother? What a bizarre bunch of people. The entire point of that post is to say that women are pure angels even when they hate. Her point is that women are superior to men. I'm honestly getting tired of the unashamed misandry of these female supremacists.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 10:08 PM
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So if she's frustrated with men who kill women, why not say "Kill men who kill women"? Why do the rest of us deserve hate?
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/20 12:13 PM
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How much younger are we talking? If a man looks for women who are just a few years younger, I see no reason for why that's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:24 AM
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It taught me that I had a lot of issues that needed dealing with. I was too quick to become infatuated, to hesitant to take what I wanted - completely unsure of what I wanted. I was too desperate for other people's approval, which prevented me from being able to have a healthy relationship. These realizations drove me to spend more time working on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:21 AM
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If we use the left's broad definition for what constitutes racism and sexism, that woman is a racist and a sexist.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/08/20 11:32 PM
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Sh-sh-she's a strong and independent woman! Leave her alone!!!
/r/MensRights12/08/20 11:16 PM
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I definitely understand that trauma and negative experiences with men can make it counter-intuitive to be on the man's side. It's also an interesting what you say about women being fed a negative image of men - I also think that women are told so many awful stories, that before they meet a man, they are already frustrated with him. This causes a lot of imbalance. With regards to the compassionate-unattached woman, I've seen women like this. With women putting much importance into relationships, …
/r/MensRights12/08/20 11:05 AM
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In my understanding, aspects of Feminist ideology sells the idea that women can do no wrong. It's all on patriarchy. Andrea Dworkin certainly does not say that men over 6'2 can hit it for free, but she did help to purport a view of the world which presented women almost purely, if not fully, as victims. When you tell an entire demographic that the problems of society is no fault of theirs, you inevitably encourage them to act in a way which lacks self-awareness. Hence, women acting like the lady…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/20 05:38 PM
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Right? People here don't even try to hide their blatant prejudice. God, no wonder our society is so messed up #Cancelpatriarchy
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/20 04:37 PM
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You shouldn't apologize to someone who insults you like that. That guy went way overboard.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/20 04:11 PM
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I think she's worried that tall men don't like her. That's why she made that video - to manipulate people's perception of her as someone who gets all the tall guys. Toxic women do things like that.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/20 04:03 PM
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What a trashy lady. It's sad how Feminist ideology encourages women to humiliate themselves in this manner.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/20 03:59 PM
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Auntie looking like Uncle.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/08/20 02:22 PM
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There is the problem where women only complain about ugly men who look. The sexuality of unattractive men is considered creepy. I don't think this is healthy.
/r/MensRights11/08/20 10:33 AM
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Very true. We need to talk more about how some women use their social and emotional intelligence to significantly hurt others. They tarnish people's reputations with false rape accusations, they dominate good men by exploiting their unwillingness to beat women and they use their legal privileges to separate fathers from their children and financially ruin them. The damage such women cause is less visible than the physical destruction caused by men, but it can be just as devastating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 10:06 AM
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No doubt that they've done much harm to virtuous feminists. Female supremacists is not a bad term actually, I might start using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:48 AM
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Well, we don't disagree that those people are unpleasant. However, there are enough of them that it's worth talking about. If they're not Feminist, which term do you think people should use to describe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:42 AM
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I'm not sure that OP is surprised. I suspect that he is trying to go against the claims of some Feminists that women are superior - that they would make better leaders and CEO's because they are supposedly less evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:30 AM
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I think it depends on the context. For example, I'd rather have a rumor going around that I secretly listen to Justin Bieber than to have someone break my nose. On the other hand, I'd rather have my nose broken than be falsely accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 09:28 AM
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This is just insane.
/r/MensRights09/08/20 11:51 PM
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Yeah. Also, 75% of women in Balochistan-province are analphabetics. It's even worse in Waziristan in the Northwest, where close to all women are illiterate. That's oppression against women.
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/20 07:42 PM
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To anyone claiming that Pakistan isn't oppressive: Just read up on what the Pakistani government does to its Baloch minority. Kidnappings, raiding villages and killing innocents.
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/20 07:37 PM
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I see your point, but I don't fully agree that MRA's turn it into a competition (with exception for a few). The idea behind showing that men suffer as well, isn't to say that we are the bigger victim, but to battle the theory that society is tilted in favor of us. It is to counter the ideological idea that women suffer more rather than as much - because this thought is used by many to justify neglecting men's issues. Utopic Feminist ideology has been a destructive force for men, which makes it i…
/r/MensRights07/08/20 10:30 AM
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Agreed that women will try to step in with whomever they sympathize with. I think my focus tends to be more on the instances where women unjustly side purely with women, but that's of course not representative. I understand what you mean about women not wanting men to see them fighting. Correct me if I'm wrong, but it's almost as if women want to maintain a strong front in the eyes of men. That way, men won't be able to spot any weaknesses that they can exploit. It's as if women are each other's…
/r/MensRights07/08/20 12:14 AM
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I can see the logic in that - any man stupid enough to date her deserves a beating. Good to see that she's so self-aware :)
/r/PussyPass06/08/20 05:33 PM
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Unfortunately you're not wrong.
/r/PussyPass06/08/20 02:49 PM
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This woman is exploiting men's unwillingness to hit women. Unbelievable how nasty she is.
/r/PussyPass06/08/20 02:19 PM
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They make themselves more masculine than they otherwise would be, which scares away the type of masculine men they are actually attracted to. Because of this, they end up with weak, effeminate men. This in turn makes them resentful, and therefore more ideological. It's an evil, downwards spiral. I've come to realize that feminism is just as hurtful for women as it is for men, because of things like this.
/r/AntiFeminists06/08/20 11:10 AM
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It's good that you provide counter-examples. It's rare for me to get a chance to hear about a woman's perspective in a way which isn't accusatory or filled with Feminist rhetoric :) I definitely see the points you are making. Women have a sisterhood because you have shared experiences, so you are likely to step in for another woman who seems to be suffering under a man. I think this is perfectly fine - however, the problem arises when some women immediately assume that the man is in the wrong. T…
/r/MensRights06/08/20 12:29 AM
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Very good point, our thighs are more muscular than those of women. I come from a family of thick-legged, Middle-Eastern men (our ancestors were nomads), and I exercise on top of that, so I have to sit with a pretty large spread.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/20 01:23 PM
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It's a good point that women don't seem to learn a lot about men's bodies. As a matter of fact, I think a lot of misunderstanding could be avoided if men and women were taught more about each other's anatomy.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/20 12:18 PM
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Haha! Always glad to educate people brother :)
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/20 12:16 PM
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I actually use a body pillow for that purpose, it also loosened up my hip-flexors by quite a bit. This has helped a lot with being able to do leg-exercises.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/20 08:32 AM
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I think "manspreading" is simply a term used by women who have such a weak sense of self that they feel humiliated at every small thing men do. By congregating with others who are similarly fragile, they can harmess the power of social hypnosis to convince themselves that men are indeed conspiring to oppress them, when the truth is that men are just trying to be comfortable.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/20 12:55 AM
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I love your enthusiasm brother, but I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/20 12:49 AM
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True. New problem to be discussed: Ass Filling. It's when a woman's ass is so fat that it takes up undue space. Get on the treadmill, you sexist whales.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/20 11:16 PM
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Brb right back.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/20 11:14 PM
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It's also the fact that our hips are more narrow. It naturally causes the legs to be splayed, so keeping them together adds an unnatural pressure not only to our package but also our hips.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/20 09:55 PM
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I'm a man, but Romaarmy on Tiktok gets called one constantly.
/r/AntiFeminists04/08/20 03:22 PM
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I'm assuming you mean that instances where girls start crying and saying they got hit or whatever just to get guys in trouble? This is part of it. It is also that women simply know how to rile men up. We men, when we get the slightest bit upset, go into fight-or-flight mode. This causes all the blood in our brain to go to our arms and legs. When this happens, we obviously become less capable of forming eloquent sentences and expressing ourselves properly. I think a lot of women have figured out …
/r/MensRights03/08/20 11:10 PM
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Look at her behavior in general. Does she lack impulse control? Does she constantly talk about frivolous things? Does she talk behind people's backs? Does she have a tendency to drink too much? Obviously, these aren't necessarily signs that a woman sleeps around a lot. However, they can be - especially if they are all combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 05:30 PM
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Haha yes, to put it simply.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 11:16 AM
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Hello, thanks for this post. It's always nice to see people reaching out in this way :) I can't say that I've experienced anything particularly horrible due to being a man, but there have been many disadvantages. Mainly, I was circumcised at birth which, as far as I'm concerned, should have been my choice. Even though I suspect that some might be exaggerating how severe the effects can be (unless we are talking botched circumcision or scarring), I still think it's awful that this is done to us m…
/r/MensRights03/08/20 09:27 AM
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If she said it because she believes that men are inferior and deserve to be treated that way, then it's sexist. However, it could also be that your sister is equally evil towards women, and just disrespects people in general. It depends on the intention :)
/r/MensRights03/08/20 09:18 AM
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Poor guy.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 09:13 AM
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Really good point. By continuing to make sex out to be the definition of your worth, they encourage men to view women as nothing but potential sexual conquests. Also, why would a man take seriously a woman who defines you by your amount of sexual partners? They create the sexism they claim to fight.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 09:04 AM
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I fear they would say stuff like go get em sis or you gotta do what you gotta do. That's the thing. I feel the Sub is partly dominated by women who are lashing out from the hurt caused by abusive ex-bf's. It's really unfortunate, considering that some people actually listen to them.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 11:23 PM
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Men are taught to define their manhood by their amount of partners. Feminist ideologues use this to silence them, knowing how much some men hurt when women insult their masculinity.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 10:49 PM
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I think we avoid the problem of gaining a majority that doesn't hold democratic values by limiting immigration, and setting up policies that ensure assimilation. Proper integration causes those who arrive to, through the generations, adopt the same values as the surrounding society. Further, by being strict on those who arrive and break the law, or who preach radical values, we will discourage those who don't plan to respect democracy from immigrating here. And I should have been more clear what…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 10:21 PM
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But people seem to not understand yet how these rights and freedoms we have are a direct byproduct of the past strenght we had at a colective level and the ability to make great sacrifices I agree. We have lost our belief and our national unity - something that was crucial to our well-being. However, I don't know that immigration would necessarily prevent us from being better. My family has never lived on welfare, and we have worked harder than most ethnic Swedes. We are all upstanding citizens,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:08 PM
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I think it's incorrect to present Saudi Arabia's attitude towards sex as simply a promotion of chastity and matrimony. The sheer oppression shows that they are overly fundamental. In my view, it's more about finding a balance between Sweden's overly loose relation to sex, and the Middle East's overly rigid attitude towards it. Kids should be educated about sex, but also be taught the importance of self-control and about the inevitable intimacy that sex entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:02 PM
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Well, I'm glad I could change your mind :) It's good that we can have open discussions like this - it's one advantage we have over many other Subs.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 07:51 PM
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No doubt. In my view, as long as it's a good intentioned, it's fine. It shouldn't matter if it's turned towards men or women. I think we should be careful about falling into the same thought patterns as Feminists. Just because they are very sensitive about jokes pertaining to women, doesn't mean that we should be sensitive with jokes about men :) We should be the bigger man, so to speak.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 07:39 PM
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These teenagers are kind of based. Good for them.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 07:37 PM
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Eh, it's kind of funny.
/r/MensRights02/08/20 07:36 PM
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I see. I think we can still stop the decline. Parties and politicians are arising which are against SJW-culture. Much damage has already been done, but our country is strong. If I were to bet money, I would say Sweden will still be better than Saudi-Arabia in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:35 PM
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Personally, I think the BF was in the wrong. However, I can see why he would become manipulative. People feel miserable when they don't get any sexual attention from their partners. How many movies haven't we seen were the woman goes out of control because her man won't give her any attention? People in the comment section are right to criticize his behavior, but I think their reaction is disproportionate. They claim that he doesn't respect a 'no' for asking if he could give oral sex, when she w…
/r/MensRights02/08/20 04:24 PM
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I'm not Saudi. And, to be honest, I don't understand your line of reasoning. Could you go deeper into what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:18 PM
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Well, my parents are from the Middle East, and I'm glad to be here instead of there. Even if our immigration policies are catastrophical, we are still doing infinitely better than the Saudi's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:05 PM
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How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:52 PM
1

Did Demi Moore make actual porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:47 PM
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Ah, true. However, I wonder what the chances are for actual pornstars. For Anderson and Kardashian it was only a one time thing. Kekilli only made a few pornographic movies. I think actual pornstars would have a difficult time entering the mainstream. I could be wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 03:46 PM
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What do you think the percentage is? I'm curious as well. The only pornstars I can think of who transitioned from pornography to mainstream media are Sasha Grey and Sibel Kekilli. The former was barely successful in her transition, and the latter was barely a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:23 PM
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I don't see a problem I either as long as the tax revenue is used to fix infrastructure and important stuff that society needs at the moment. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:18 PM
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The policy to decriminalize only purchase practically originated here in Sweden, actually. Studies have shown that the results have been damaging for Swedish sex-workers. The same goes for France, which adopted our 'Nordic Model'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:17 PM
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We might be going off topic here, but I honestly don't see much problem with society benefiting from the tax revenue of sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:13 PM
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Good point. No doubt that many porn-producers are shady and genuinely corner women with various tactics. However, at some point, we have to acknowledge that many of these women know what they are doing. There is no "Ops, I guess I have a dick in my ass! Might as well just go with it!".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:09 PM
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I agree with this. I think that the stupidity of young people is a big part of why these women do porn, although there are certainly cultural factors as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:05 PM
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It is. I was part of the class she talked to, but I transferred to another school before the lecture. Yeah, Sweden is very liberal in this sense. Some schools have even shown pornography to students to educate them. A sister of my friend's said that they showed her class a German movie called "Anal Kanal". I don't completely agree with this type of sex-ed, but it's better than what's going on in Saudi Arabia, at the very least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:59 PM
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No doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:47 PM
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I think any woman who wants kids should probably forgo. Their peers will likely humiliate them when they find out. She should also be prepared for her parents to react negatively. I agree with this. My friend knew the son of pornographic actress Puma Swede, and he made it sound as if it was difficult on her son. She even came by to hold a lecture on pornography at a nearby high-school, talking about how to prepare for anal-scenes and the like. Can't imagine what that must be like for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:45 PM
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No disagreement there. Each person should have the right to do what they want with their body. I think OP is justified about being worried about any possible propagation for people to make porn, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:40 PM
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I agree with legalizing sex work, though. I think prostitution is wrong, but criminalization only makes things unnecessarily difficult for sex workers. It increases the risk of rape, for example. Decriminalization/legalization, when done correctly, seems to have the effect of enabling us to reach out to, and help, sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:38 PM
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I agree that the stigma will reduce, but I wonder if it's desirable for people to make porn? I know that I personally wouldn't want anyone I care about to become a pornographic actor/actress.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:36 PM
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I completely agree with this. I think a lot of Red-Pill men are setting themselves up for failure with their callous attitude. It's really unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:30 PM
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I think some of these girls use Feminist rhetoric to avoid having to reflect about the consequences. The idea that they shouldn't is sexist, because it stems from Patriarchy which tries to control women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:20 PM
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All right, so I think we both agree that those men are not necessarily intimidated by you. When it comes to not treating you differently because you are woman - we agree there as well. As I see it, helping to lift objects and opening doors should be done regardless of gender.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 07:16 PM
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As far as I know, that has nothing to do with feeling intimidated. Us men are told in our upbringing to help women carry heavy objects. We are taught that it's shameful not to do so. They are not intimidated by you being female, but they are made uncomfortable by having a woman lift things for them. I'm sure that some of them look down on you for being a woman, because there are many bastards out there. However, most of them are most likely decent human beings who are concerned with doing the ri…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 06:32 PM
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True. However, the fact that women are just as flawed as men, makes it safe to assume that they would not have been either better or worse.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 05:45 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 05:41 PM
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There is definitely a progression of radicalization with every Utopic ideology. Very few of SJW have intentions to mass murder, but I think Utopic ideology leads there independent of what the majority of its followers desire.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 02:21 PM
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I think insecure people model insecure leadership. If women had always had equal rights, they would have done as bad/good a job as men modeling leadership. I think we're seeing that today.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 02:20 PM
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Sounds very Auschwitz-y.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 01:49 PM
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For sure.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 01:33 PM
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I've had experiences with such individuals. It's really unfortunate, because they unnecessarily create a very hostile work-environment. Since they themselves are aggressive, they tend not to care about other people, especially women, who are aggressive as well - unless the hostility is directed towards them.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 12:56 PM
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"Feminasty" I'm definitely using that word from now on.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 12:50 PM
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Very true. Truly strong women don't need to complain about men being intimidated, because men actually respect them.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 12:49 PM
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One of their mods must have read the thread and just decided to ban everybody involved in it. Those mods really have a lot of time on their hands.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/20 12:46 PM
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Men without healthy role-models grow up with a weak sense of self. This makes them very impressionable. So, misandrist rhetoric adds to this weak sense of self, doing the opposite of teaching them to love themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:24 AM
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No, I claimed that misandrist rhetoric is part of why young men without father figures are set up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 05:12 PM
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No. Stop blaming everyone else for the lack of strong male role models. We're not. Both me and u/carlsberg24 clearly state that a lack of male role-models is the main problem. This is not about blaming people, but about figuring out what young men need to become virtuous and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:58 PM
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They're not 'bad people' but they are lacking in social skills / general observations quite poorly. Of course they lack social skills. I don't think anyone is denying that. I think the reasons why they don't copy the Chads are multiple. First of, they are sold the message that they should be gentlemanly and soft by many aspects of society. Secondly, to become a 'Chad', or simply a disciplined and virtuous man, is quite difficult and requires much effort. Having been poorly raised, nice guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:21 PM
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That's an unfortunate attitude. I don't think there is anything wrong with those men per se. I think that these men lack healthy male and female role-models, that they haven't gotten the attention and love they need - and so, they are made unstable. This is not something that can't be rectified with self-reflection and a continual struggle to become stronger as a person. They just need guidance, and in many cases, empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:08 PM
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I was just going to put this up. I believe that the girl was completely in the wrong, and I'm not mad at OP for having slapped her. However, I don't think it was ideal. It would have been better for him to have left that group of friends after she first poured alcohol on him, rather than sink to her level by retaliating. The fact that they kept trying to goad him into a debate despite that first incident, goes to show that they have little or no respect for him. And let's recognize, that if this…
/r/MensRights31/07/20 02:50 PM
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Very true. Add to that, most teachers are female, which only increases the deficit of male role-models, and society is filled to the brim with misandrist rhetoric. Young men without fathers, or with negative male role-models, are set up for failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:37 PM
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Why should they point out something that is is obvious ? It's not about telling women to point anything out, but only to talk about the misunderstanding that can arise. Since a lot of young men don't understand the value of masculinity, it's worthwhile for us to talk about. That way, we can help them become well-developed individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:30 PM
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They're not. However, a misunderstanding occurs when women only talk about wanting men to be sensitive and kind, when in truth, most are also attracted to men who are masculine, independent and risk-taking. So, it's important to teach boys to have those traits, as well. Otherwise, we end up creating a whole bunch of 'nice guys' that many women won't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 11:27 AM
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True. White Knighting is literally dangerous - who knows how many men could have avoided serious injuries if they hadn't been afraid of defending themselves?
/r/MensRights31/07/20 07:20 AM
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I think many women, especially young ones, don't know what they actually want. When they say that they want men who are kind and sensitive, they still picture men who are masculine and independent. That's where much of the misunderstanding comes from. Part of the solution is to talk more about this, so women don't keep accidentally selling a false idea to men. However, the most effective thing would be to raise young men to have self-respect and to embrace their masculinity. A properly raised ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:08 AM
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Well, it doesn't have to be funny to be a joke. It's obvious that she's expressing genuine anger, I think that's why she repeated that phrase. Her whole thing is to express her opinions with a mix of anger and comedy, so I would view the video in that context. I don't know, I don't think many people who actually beat their children would publicly boast about it, unless they are absolutely insane. Romaarmy doesn't seem to fit into that category. I have to add, as well, that people who are genuine…
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/20 09:58 PM
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Thank you. I find it difficult to believe she would literally do it. She's simply expressing outrage in a comedic way. I know many people who were beaten as kids, myself included, who joke in this manner all the time - none of us actually would. It's simply a way of speaking, and I wouldn't be surprised if she too comes from a working-class family.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/20 09:49 PM
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Could you link to that video, please? :)
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/20 09:26 PM
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The problems you mention, though, are intertwined with aspects of Feminist ideology. Some of the most ardent misandrists in Western society are feminists.
/r/MensRights30/07/20 02:17 PM
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With that logic, false rape allegations, lobbying against men's rights and blatant misandry in culture and politics don't count as men's issues.
/r/MensRights30/07/20 02:15 PM
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Please, forgive me. I think all women are fiery goddesses, and I would be lucky if my partner considered me worthy enough to cheat on. All men are pigs.
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/20 12:52 PM
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True. And to be honest, I think she looks nice. Definitely not the type of girl I would usually go after, but she carries herself well.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/20 10:30 AM
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she is a chameleon, How do you know? As far as I'm concerned, none of us can really know her true intentions. But based on the facts that her arguments are good, and since she encourages men to leave behind abusive partners, I would say she definitely seems genuine.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/20 10:29 AM
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The hate against her is really strange. We've got a woman who openly stands up for men, why not be happy?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/20 08:49 AM
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Oh yeah... Forgot about that. Sorry.
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/20 08:02 AM
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So by that logic, the movie "Lion Queen" would have been sexist for implying that men can't be leaders - because if not, why wasn't it called "Lion King"? Their logic goes in circles. Best to ignore it.
/r/AntiFeminists29/07/20 09:40 PM
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I'm honestly confused. What did she think the outcome would be? And why did she decide to film it? What a crazy girl.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/20 08:45 PM
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Glad that I could help :) Come to think of it, this video might interest you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:24 PM
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It definitely makes things difficult when people are willing to bend their morals whenever they meet someone that they are interested in. Some will pretend to be more modest than they are, and only give up the illusion if they are desperate enough to attract someone. I have no solution to your problem, but maybe you could filter out such women by looking at the values of those who set you up with dates. If they are the types of people who themselves participate in hook-up culture, most likely, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:35 AM
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Right. No man has ever bought groceries, cooked, cleaned or provided emotional support. To be honest, if you're a woman who keeps marrying irresponsible men - realize that you are the common denominator, not us.
/r/MensRights29/07/20 09:40 AM
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I think it's mainly the latter. We grow up in a society where so much focus is put on women's issues, that we forget men completely. The reason for this is that we've been spoon-fed the idea that men as a whole perpetuate war, so therefore their deaths don't truly count. Men's suffering becomes second to that of women, since the idea is that society has already revolved around men's interests too much.
/r/AntiFeminists28/07/20 05:39 PM
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Well the Radical Feminist idea is basically that men as a whole are perpetuating warfare, so therefore their deaths don't really count.
/r/AntiFeminists28/07/20 05:37 PM
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We men should appreciate it when our women are so passionate about our relationships! If your girlfriend hits you, consider yourself lucky because you're in a relationship with a fiery goddess! Either stand by her as she liberates herself from Patriarchy or kindly leave, sexist! EDIT: /s
/r/MensRights28/07/20 04:50 PM
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Unless you actively hunt down the loudest gender study feminists ​ I didn't. I studied Social Anthropology, Psychology, Political Science, Global Ethics and Egyptology. Of course some of these are the more infested by SJW-ideology. Still, many students were radical and Radical Feminism was even part of the course literature in Political Science. Simply put, I'm surprised that you don't realize just how common Radical Feminism is in Stockholm. Do you live here as well? Our government, being seate…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 05:45 PM
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I think it might depend on where you live and in which social circles you move. At Stockholm University, I can't pretend that my experiences with Feminism weren't negative as a whole. Then, at the same time, reasonable Feminists tend not to be as loud-mouthed as their radical counterparts. So, my experience might have been skewed because of this.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 05:34 PM
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That's the thing. We have to realize as a society that women like this attract abusive men for a reason. It's not victim blaming, but only a recognition of human psychology.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 05:31 PM
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Oh for sure. I can think of 2 feminists I've seen on youtube that I don't consider to be completely irrational, Megan Murphy being one of them. Basically all proclaimed Feminists I've met in real life have been impolite, and unwilling to have an open discussion. Still, it's important to recognize that reasonable Feminists exist, so that we don't stoop to the level of generalizing like the Radical Feminists do.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 04:39 PM
2

Hahaha almost brother.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 02:47 PM
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Yup. Completely unreasonable that you can take millions of dollar just because you gave 'emotional support'. Some money is due, but this is excessive.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 02:46 PM
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Well, that's how you gain power. Make people think that your voice is synonymous with that of all women, and it becomes dangerous to criticize you.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 02:38 PM
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Funny that they say "What women meant". They should just be honest and say "What Radical Feminists meant", then it will be much easier to understand their definition of equality.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 01:57 PM
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Good idea, will join.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 09:31 AM
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Jesus. That woman had no right stripping him in front of her friends - that's something she should have done by herself. And if she couldn't? Leave the guy alone and let him take a shower in the morning. It's disgusting how some women feel themselves privileged to treat men like this. That Sub can be really awful.
/r/MensRights27/07/20 06:56 AM
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True, people would be cheering the woman in a reverse situation. Now, in either case, that is an excessive amount of money. Just because you got in a relationship with someone successful, doesn't mean that you are entitled to so much of their finances - man or woman. I guess her hiding the assets changed the situation, but still.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/20 06:44 AM
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For anyone who's interested, read about the Women are Wonderful-effect. Basically, studies have shown that both men and women have an inherent bias towards the female half of the species, and that the bias is strongest within women themselves. I think this explains why we are so ready to explain away horrendous deeds carried out by women. Just look at Subs like Relationship_Advice, where men are immediately vilified for their mistakes, and women are given much more understanding. I think this al…
/r/MensRights26/07/20 07:29 PM
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I think you make a good point. The importance is figuring out who is genuinely striving to become better, and who is drowning in their misery. As long as you're doing all you can to become better, then you're well on your way to becoming non-damaged goods. That's the only important part really, because we are all messed up because of childhood traumas or failed relationships. Of course, there are some people whose problems are so severe that you might lack the experience/maturity/willingness to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 06:47 PM
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Feminist ideologues will lose power once the mainstream recognizes discrimination against men. Naturally, they will have to fight us every step so that they can keep getting away with acting like monsters.
/r/MensRights26/07/20 10:27 AM
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Agreed. The argument that forced child-support is about the child's welfare is faulty. Abortion-rights puts that responsibility on the mother's shoulders - if she does not want her child to grow up without the father, she should not keep the baby against his wishes. That's why a father should be able to legally opt out of parenthood while the mother can carry out an abortion. That way, the mother is able to make a responsible choice, and the father gets to choose whether or not to become a legal…
/r/MensRights26/07/20 09:51 AM
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What's the context? Have you called the police again, called a lawyer, tried to start up some sort of investigation to find her location?
/r/PussyPass26/07/20 07:21 AM
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Whenever I see a woman say something bitter like that, I just assume that she's lashing out because she's unhappy. When you assume this with Feminist ideologues, it becomes easier to predict their actions.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/20 07:15 AM
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This makes me think of a Feminist author whose name I've forgotten. Towards the end of her life, she admitted that Feminism was behind her three failed marriages. Basically, every small imperfection of her husbands was used as proof that they were part of Patriarchy. Because of this, every small issue was blown out of proportion. Her ideological fervor destroyed her life, and she knew it. These Feminist ideologues, like your ex, are setting themselves up for failure.
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/20 08:02 PM
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Well, France is the home of Feminist ideology, after all.
/r/MensRights25/07/20 02:34 PM
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This is pretty common. Boys are supposed to stoically take it while girls do whatever they please with them.
/r/MensRights25/07/20 12:06 PM
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Yeah, his text, unfortunately, comes off as an overflowing of edginess. I don't think there's anything wrong with criticizing religion - but if you are going to, you should do so in a constructive, respectful manner.
/r/MensRights24/07/20 10:03 PM
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Well Patriarchy is the source of all evil, so naturally Covid stems from Patriarchy (and therefore men). Duh, you f*cking sexist.
/r/AntiFeminists23/07/20 08:01 PM
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No doubt.
/r/PussyPass23/07/20 07:47 PM
6

What the hell was she thinking?
/r/PussyPass23/07/20 02:01 PM
2

"What the hell did I do wrong?" You expected for Feminists to be capable of self-reflection.
/r/AntiFeminists23/07/20 10:10 AM
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The problem is that they believe that the problem of rape is social in nature. Studies show that rapists are more likely to suffer from personality disorders, and to have problems with impulse control. It's obvious that rapists are often troubled individuals, with mental instability and rough upbringings. We can't talk about this, because then we would be accused of justifying rape. Feminist ideologues only leave room for an ideological interpretation of this problem.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:43 AM
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This woman is great. I really dislike the people who accuse her of being a 'chameleon'. She's a decent person who uses her power as a woman for the greater good.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:37 AM
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This is one of the biggest issues in our society. The fear of being accused for pedophilia causes men to distance themselves from children - because of this, many grow up feeling that men are unapproachable and untrustworthy.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:33 AM
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Yes, let a majority of reasonable individuals represent women, and a minority of hateful brats represent men. Honesty has always been a Feminist virtue, hasn't it?
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:30 AM
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Man, that's really sad. People don't realize how important it is for boys to have male role models - good on you for filling that role. Do you think you could maybe mention this to his mother? Obviously, it's a sensitive issue. But you could talk to her about how he really seems happy to have some male, adult presence in his life. A male relative who lives nearby, or a martial arts trainer, could easily fill that role.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:28 AM
1

...Maleinist? No idea. I think we could simply call it Men's Rights Activism, or the Men's Rights Movement.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:25 AM
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Agreed. We need to have more conversations between MRA's and feminists who are willing to discuss men's and women's issues.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:11 AM
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Looking through their Subreddit, they seem to strawman a lot of ideas. I also see the same old pattern where they see sexism in everything. Perhaps they are patient and tolerant, but they also seem ideologically possessed. Also, looking through your history on that Sub - they keep downvoting your comments even though you are perfectly polite. The usual problem with feminists disliking open discussion still seems very prevalent on that Sub, even though some of them are more open.
/r/MensRights22/07/20 07:10 AM
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They're completely disconnected from reality. No matter how much you give them, they will hold on to their delusions. Matter of fact, giving in strengthens their fanatical beliefs.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/20 06:04 PM
29

Our country is a nest of Fundamentalist Feminism, but sometimes we do things right :)
/r/MensRights21/07/20 06:02 PM
1

My stance is that they should say that "many feminists" suppress such discussions, because they do. When they simply say "feminists", however, this can give the idea that all feminists are against MRA. This is simply incorrect.
/r/MensRights21/07/20 10:31 AM
2

Honestly I would let someone like her go. She tried using your insecurities against you, by saying that desiring payback made her lose attraction. She's a manipulative individual.
/r/PussyPass21/07/20 08:45 AM
2

Hello, thanks for taking the time to express your opinions. It's always good to see people reaching out in this way. The question of social media is tricky. Some healthy skepticism is needed. We regularly get falsely accused men on this sub whose lives have been destroyed. If people waited until a sentence was made before drawing a definite conclusion, such instances could be avoided. This doesn't mean that women who were truly raped shouldn't go to social media. They specifically should - this …
/r/MensRights21/07/20 08:31 AM
1

Of course, I wasn't claiming that they all lash out, but talking about their complaints and frustrations. To be fair, I could probably have worded it better.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 09:45 PM
1

You shouldn't apologize to someone like her. Just state, succinctly, what your motive is, and let her react as she pleases. Apologizing and writing long explanatory texts gives her the impression that she can get away with mistreating you.
/r/PussyPass20/07/20 09:09 PM
1

I agree that the anger of incels is understandable, though I wish they would put more energy into working on themselves rather than congregating with other Incels. It would solve many of their problems. It's true that one should call feminists out. The only problem is that most of them are too emotional to understand the point that you would be making. The use would mainly lie in pointing out their hypocrisy to nearby listeners. I personally don't like talking about the language of unstable indi…
/r/MensRights20/07/20 08:29 PM
4

Jesus, that law makes no sense. It's just pure misandry.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 08:25 PM
224

Yup. That's sexual harassment.
/r/PussyPass20/07/20 06:24 AM
6

For a friend.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 05:40 PM
7

Exactly. It's where women go to instruct men on how to think. We should start calling it r/tellmen
/r/MensRights19/07/20 02:13 PM
16

I just think this is sad. It's not how a confident person acts.
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/20 12:02 PM
7

It seems that this happens to many Subreddits. They gain many followers, and sooner or later they start imposing their ideology on everyone.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 11:49 AM
2

No, their male ancestors oppressed women. So, naturally, they deserve to suffer /s
/r/MensRights19/07/20 07:16 AM
4

It's because men get oppressed everywhere. It's just that young women are more indoctrinated by Feminist ideology, and TikTok is used by young people.
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/20 07:12 AM
2

Do you mean that society as a whole is more accepting of male infidelity? I haven't seen signs of this. I think the fringes of western society are in some cases more accepting of male infidelity, and in other cases of female infidelity. But that does not represent the majority, which sees all forms of infidelity as egregious. When it comes to women giving men more chances, I think it has more to do with biological differences. Women are by nature, in general, more agreeable. Agreeable people are…
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 07:59 PM
1

True. But incels don't have any real power in Western Society. The 'screeching harpies', or the Radical Feminists, do. If they decide that they don't like me, they can make life extremely difficult for me. Incels can be more easily ignored.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 07:49 PM
2

I agree. I think he was just being cheeky.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 06:25 PM
10

What if a man questioned women's inability to orgasm quickly? A horde of screeching harpies would attack him.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/20 06:14 PM
1

Sorry to hear this, man. Recovering from narcissism is extremely difficult, but trust me, it can be done.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 10:40 AM
2

Unpopularopinion has been bringing up a lot of men's issues lately. Good to see.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 09:46 AM
8

I honestly agree with this. OP, you're right that college campuses tend to be misandric. However, this is not a case where they are being unreasonable - women do have to be careful with these things.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 08:12 AM
8

I think men are encouraged to accept the insanity of unstable women. Somehow, it is considered virtuous. Just goes to show how men are seen as punching bags - to be used in war, and to attack because you feel 'frustrated'.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 08:09 AM
6

I think it's funny how the SJW's tend to hide when a good argument is made. Only when they can find a hole in your text will they come out in masses. They're so cowardly.
/r/MensRights17/07/20 04:19 PM
27

Of course. The only reason that men could dislike a family of narcissists is because of Patriarchy.
/r/MensRights17/07/20 12:08 PM
7

This just keeps getting more bizarre, doesn't it? This woman is a total wreck. I wonder how long before mainstream media acknowledges her insanity.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/07/20 02:14 PM
4

Great post. I think a lot of people on these communities do themselves a great disservice by refusing to acknowledge that good people exists among the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:48 AM
0

Jordan Peterson said that relationships where less than 1 out of 7 interactions are negative often fail. People want to be challenged. So, this makes me wonder - is your definition of a good man my definition of a weak man? A man who does not challenge his woman to become stronger will not be respected, and she will move on. At the same time, an unstable woman will despise a strong man for challenging her. She will want someone who helps maintain her illusion that she is a mature individual. So,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:07 AM
2

Saying that men should open up enables people to seem virtuous. Telling men to "man up" enables them to avoid their obligation to help. They're hitting two birds with one stone.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 10:44 PM
3

Good example. Having enough self-respect not to sleep around is attractive to many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 05:38 PM
0

I think it depends on what women we are talking about. Women who are insecure, and who lack a set of values, will employ Reality A. Women who are properly raised and posses self-respect, will most likely go through View B. Some of the latter might not even have an initial phase with bad-boys, but will wait until they find a high-quality man. It all depends on their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:42 PM
1

Thank you, and ugh. I just managed to find the clips, and I can't believe how unashamed she is. Even Will Smith seems to try to play it down. Bizarre folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:28 PM
5

but I think the key thing is that he chose not to. This is what I was saying. No disagreement here :) Being attractive to many women is a sign that a man is doing something right. The moment he starts sleeping around, however, I think he loses something. Sex can't be casual in my view, and I wouldn't trust a promiscuous individual to be emotionally mature enough for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:44 AM
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I think a lot of people both admire and despise them. They don't agree with promiscuous men's lifestyle, but at the same time, they are self-conscious that they couldn't partake in that lifestyle if they wanted to. Plus, promiscuous people are often very charming. Because of this, many people find it hard to remain resentful of them. When it comes to long-term relationships - I think it varies. Women who are emotionally well-developed will desire men who could be promiscuous if they wanted to, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:35 AM
37

Could you give some background? I live in Europe and don't know much about what's going on with American celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:18 AM
6

It's different because men are stronger than women... Wait, what?
/r/PussyPass15/07/20 06:05 AM
3

Fair enough. We need to be precise about what we say so we don't create a prejudicial environment. However, to say that this Subreddit has become a sexist echo chamber is an unfair depiction. Every now and then, some sexist opinions are expressed, but as a whole, the tone is civil and rational.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 02:27 PM
13

I think it's about bringing light to an issue which is rarely talked about. Violence against men is sadly neglected.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 02:05 PM
27

I think what he means is that some women have such an attitude. Obviously, the majority of women are decent enough not to act this way :)
/r/MensRights13/07/20 01:24 PM
115

This whole thing, where we laugh when women abuse men? We really need to change it.
/r/MensRights13/07/20 01:16 PM
3

Exactly. Man, I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you find a girl who's mature enough to be with you during the bad days. It's really crazy how much empathy some women lack.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 06:15 PM
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I disagree. Seems pretty obvious when you look at positions of power and the lack of female representation is glaring. No doubt that disparity exists. But do we have proof that it is because of sexism? Women work less hours and choose jobs that aren't as lucrative. It is because of their own choices that they aren't in positions of power, as I've come to understand it. No doubt that sexism exists, but I haven't yet seen proof that it can explain the disparity in power. You can read Dr.Lippa's st…
/r/MensRights12/07/20 03:14 PM
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It’d be more accurate to use the word also I don't agree with that, since I was addressing the problem with Feminist ideology. To be fair, I could probably have been more precise about that.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 02:34 PM
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I see your point. Some things affect women negatively. But the idea that there is a Patriarchy which conspires to oppress women and minorities? I don't buy it. Feminist ideology itself is a source of oppression, in my view. This is what I mean with what is actually going on.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 02:31 PM
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I'm not religious, but God bless those women. They have all the reason to let themselves be caught up with Feminist-hysteria. Still, they have the strength to realize what is actually going on.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 02:01 PM
7

To be correct, even though many women might exaggerate their emotions, they are also more emotional than us. If you look at Big Five studies, they have a higher level of Neuroticism than men. This means that they have a greater tendency towards negative emotion. One problem which therefore comes in, is when they expect us to be just as sensitive as they are. What many of them don't realize is that, due to their sensitivity, they actively seek out a stoic man that they can rely on to balance agai…
/r/MensRights12/07/20 01:46 PM
4

I think it's because many women are attracted to men who are leaders. A leader does not show vulnerability. As such, a lot of men try to hide their emotions to make themselves attractive. This in turn creates the expectation that men are almost less human. Of course there are also many other factors that play into this. Historically, many men have been raised to fight. Because of this, I think people have taught men to repress their emotion to nurture a personality which is able to kill.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 10:59 AM
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I get your point, but I don't fully agree. I think war mainly gained us respect rather than sympathy. I believe men have been given a certain status throughout history as a compensation for conscription. I don't see much sympathy in this. Instead I believe many women, throughout history, gave men respect to gain their protection. This, instead of respecting men out of concern for their suffering. The fact that many 'joke' that men have become obsolete strengthens this idea, in my view.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 09:16 PM
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Because many women adopt Feminist ideology out of hate for men. The ideology justifies the idea that men are corrupt - men's Patriarchy is the source of all evil. Naturally, the followers of such a movement would not care about our issues.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 04:59 PM
10

Haha!
/r/AntiFeminists11/07/20 11:58 AM
43

Leave brother. For her to attack you when you've made yourself so vulnerable? It shows that she is a pathological individual. I know that you're young, and that you want to express yourself. However, be more careful in the future about who you open up to. Especially with people your age, it's difficult to know who you can trust. If you feel a need to talk about it, definitely turn to a therapist instead if you already haven't.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 07:52 AM
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Women are virtuous angels, and when they say "kill all men" they are just expressing frustration, you know? You guys should back off. Women have a lot to deal with, things that you could never imagine. Maybe if your lives as white cis-men weren't so easy, you would have some empathy. Guess not. Oh well, maybe some day :) ​ ​ ​ ​ I gotta say, writing like a male-feminist made me a little bit nauseous.
/r/AntiFeminists11/07/20 07:43 AM
24

As many people point out, there are plenty of examples of men saying similar things about women. However, there is no current societal movement to punish women for saying such things. There is for men.
/r/MensRights11/07/20 07:39 AM
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He's not wrong, but I don't believe he's making that statement neutrally. This tweet is part of a wider cultural tendency to bash men, and as such, I despise it.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 12:13 PM
7

Don't forget that Radical Feminist Simone de Beauvoir signed a petition to decriminalize sexual relations between adults and children below the age of 15. Supposedly she also helped groom a girl who was a minor, since her partner Sartre had a predilection for children.
/r/MensRights10/07/20 06:15 AM
2

"It's not the same because men can defend themselves"
/r/MensRights10/07/20 05:27 AM
1

You're absolutely right. It's understandable that life fills some people with so much hate that it impedes their moral intuition. However, the ideological dishonesty of how she was portrayed still remains. That's where my problem lies. And yes, like you say, you would never see a similar movie with reverse genders.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 10:08 PM
7

The unfortunate thing is that she's right. Probably the first time I've heard a feminist speak the truth.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 07:38 PM
7

Haha, sorry if it was unintelligible. u/mcavvacm explained my point well though :)
/r/MensRights09/07/20 05:49 PM
38

Patriarchy is the source of all evil. If it can be destroyed, everything will be perfect. Be very careful with Utopic ideologies - they all end with mass murder.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 04:50 PM
1

Is it such a big problem that they need to fraternize on social media to discuss it? But of course, anything that annoys women must be of patriarchy. So, they have to make a big deal of it. Jesus.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:40 AM
1

Is there something we can do to call this judge out, to hold her responsible for her misconduct? I don't live in the US so I don't know how your institutions work.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:36 AM
24

"It's not a documentary. I mean in no way is it," said Wyman. "It is a dramatic portrayal searching for kind of a greater truth rather than a … a factual truth." They distorted the movie to convince us that even when women are evil, it is because of men. You guys should watch it. She shoots an innocent man, but her execution is still presented as a tragedy. It's one of the clearest example of societal bias towards women.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:34 AM
7

Women would have built these platforms if men hadn't prevented them from achieving their fullest potential /s
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:30 AM
10

I don't see a strong, independent woman. I see someone who is lashing out because they are insecure.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 11:29 AM
23

Take it easy brother. If we get angry, they win :)
/r/MensRights09/07/20 10:51 AM
168

Because women are more peaceful and so they should have a say in military matters to prevent war and oppression... Oh wait.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 08:56 AM
12

I guarantee you she wasn't shamed because of her name, but because she acts like a Karen.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/20 08:48 AM
16

Yes. There could be no possible reason for men to have discussions with other men, other than to oppress women. How egomaniacal are they to think that our entire existence revolves around them?
/r/MensRights09/07/20 08:23 AM
4

Why do Feminists keep claiming that we stand peeing to prove something? It's just easier to stand. Everything doesn't have to be a political statement.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/20 08:21 AM
20

I think that the bias against Johnny Depp will be the foundation for increased awareness on men's rights. People will reference back to this case for years as the MRA-movement grows.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 08:12 AM
445

T'was was a day of immense feats of mental gymnastics for the Feminists.
/r/MensRights09/07/20 05:46 AM
16

To indicate that I don't already know that rape is wrong... How is this not bigotry?
/r/MensRights08/07/20 09:05 PM
12

That's an interesting perspective. I have not even thought of questioning the idea that a stay-at-home mother 'sacrifices' for her husband. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PussyPass08/07/20 06:57 PM
8

Very good point, and elegantly formulated. My core belief about bigots, whether we are talking racists or misogynists, is to understand their humanity. When we correctly address the root of the issue, we can begin to solve it. To hate them is to fall to their level. So I absolutely agree. A lot of men have been so unfairly punished by society and women, that they cannot think clearly. We have to do the thinking for them, and solve the injustices that caused them so much pain. Any anti-misogynist…
/r/MensRights08/07/20 04:41 PM
1

I wish I was smart enough to understand this. I'm quite sure I would be impressed.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 04:35 PM
5

This is a very real problem that we need to talk about. The fact that men can't give affection to children who aren't family is creating a serious divide in our society. It causes people to grow up feeling that men are aloof and uncaring. This bolsters misandric ideas spouted by Feminist ideologues.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 04:32 PM
31

Agreed. We have to build underground buildings, to resemble the inside of a vagina. ​ Wait, wouldn't it be rape for a man to enter such a building? Underground buildings are sexist #CancelUndergroundInfrastructure
/r/MensRights08/07/20 04:28 PM
2

It's the best. You should do it.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 04:26 PM
14

Agreed. He isn't accusing any individual, but bringing attention to a very real problem in society. Good on him.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 04:25 PM
3

Don't let it consume you. Our ancestors went through much, much worse and they still prevailed. Just work on yourself. Train your body and mind, and stay calm in the face of misandry. You'll be fine :)
/r/MensRights08/07/20 02:06 PM
9

Absolutely true :)
/r/MensRights08/07/20 02:00 PM
38

Fair misunderstanding. A lot of people hating on white folks nowadays, and this is coming from a second-generation immigrant.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/20 11:25 AM
10

It's so satisfying to see that more posts highlight men's issues nowadays.
/r/MensRights08/07/20 09:22 AM
331

"You fucking white walker" Oh lawd.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/07/20 06:56 AM
3

Well think about how the girls must be feeling! They're bravely and independently putting themselves out there, only to have their statements questioned by men (sarcasm, of course).
/r/MensRights07/07/20 05:41 AM
2

I don't think it's a coincidence these feminists always have an... Unpleasant look, to them. They always seem untrustworthy.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 09:19 AM
11

This is why we always have to wait. I googled for definite, conclusive evidence in the beginning, but there wasn't any - still, everyone acted as if he was guilty. People allowed themselves to be dragged into the vortex of me-too hysteria. Let's wait and see what the evidence tells us, before we draw any conclusions.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 09:18 AM
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That's why any ideology is so destructive. Not talking about simple political philosophies, but Utopic worldviews.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 09:11 AM
2

In focusing on sexual harassment by men, we have neglected the same from women. Therefore, toxic females have been able to exploit the lack of attention brought to their behavior. Add Feminism into the mix, and suddenly, women are 'empowered' for groping gay men. And of course, it doesn't matter because women are physically weaker than men.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 09:08 AM
1

I see. Well, I'm an idealist. I believe that it's worth trying :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:52 AM
1

Agreed. Forcing children through bullying would only make things worse. I can't see why it can't be reproduced on a large scale. Even if it can't, if it is the right thing to teach self-restraint, then the individual should do so, independent of what the majority does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:44 AM
1

So, it seems that we don't really disagree, but you have a more pragmatic view. You are focused on the fact that many who are against casual sex couldn't if they wanted to - I can agree with this. Some are insecure, and hide it by adopting certain positions. When it comes to modern raising, I don't know if that's true. I can only speak from personal experience, and from a Swedish perspective, but I see parents directly and indirectly encouraging their children to be promiscuous. It's quite commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:28 AM
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True. Your personality and sexual past are not separate things - a woman who has self-restraint will show it in other areas of her life. Men need to become better at seeing through people's facades by improving themselves. A well-developed individual is much better at sensing when something is wrong with a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:20 AM
1

We don't disagree with one another. The point is to be factually correct, so that those who believe that the wage myth is real can't get away with straw-manning our arguments. It is true that a gap exists - but it isn't because of injustice. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:15 AM
1

Apologies for the misinterpretation. So, if I understand it correctly, in order to have casual sex, a person needs to have certain characteristics that would make certain people involve them in their cliques. The presupposition is still that there is no genuine reason why a person would abstain from casual sex - that they would if they could. I see no reason why this is true. The fact that you don't reject the argument that well-raised teenagers can control themselves makes it almost seem that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:13 AM
2

The assumption is that people lack self-control, so therefore, only those with low-libido would have a low count of sexual partners. I think this is completely unrealistic. People have immense capability for controlling their emotions - just look at anything from those who fast, to monks who can suffer immense pain without reacting. Further, based on your earlier statements, you seem to believe that being sexually skilled requires sleeping around/having had several partners. I honestly don't see…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:45 AM
1

What you say is technically true. Teenagers have an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex, and a well developed limbic system - this causes them to have intensive emotions and urges with little ability to control themselves. However, that is why they need adult supervision. A properly raised teenager, with a stable emotional support system, can resist their urges. It is up to the adults to teach them why they should refrain from certain behaviors, so that they can build a good life for themselves. To…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:28 AM
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They have a right to decide the kinds of partners they want. I agree with this. There is too much shaming of men who want women with a non-promiscuous past. They are branded as man-babies with childish fantasies about 'virginal brides', with sexism being clearly implied. Or, white-knights will come with sad statements like "but man, she chose you". I would never marry someone with a high count of sexual partners, unless they had made some genuine commitment to solve whatever issues caused them t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:22 AM
3

Thats a weird way of looking at it. It's not, really. Women do make less on average - he is just pointing out that it is mainly because of other factors than gender bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 05:18 AM
1

I absolutely think that women, in many respects, are held to a lower standard. And like you say, it only serves to make them miserable.
/r/MensRights05/07/20 09:52 AM
12

Women are considered strong and independent for being lewd towards men, i.e. grabbing their asses and making sexual remarks. No need to mention the reverse.
/r/MensRights05/07/20 09:48 AM
4

First of all, what says that women's bodies serve as the 'text of their femininity'? Second, your self-image isn't necessarily determined by society's values. You can establish your own self-image. Therefore, it isn't necessarily the case that women's self-image would be particularly vulnerable to self-harm. Feminists are masters at building theories on vague, non-factual ideas.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 08:23 PM
2

I think casual sexual encounters are dull, and slightly repulsive. But that's my experience. I think I belong to those people who are more sensitive, and so I can't really disentangle sex from the emotional aspect. Some people, however, seem to be less agreeable/sensitive, and so they don't mind hook-ups that much. So, I think it has much to do with personal temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:57 PM
3

I think we are slowly seeing more and more women wake up to abuse against men. The only thing getting in the way is Feminism, which denies the existence of, or trivializes, female abuse of men.
/r/MensRights04/07/20 08:51 AM
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It was a good thing that we woke up to the problem of men beating women. However, it has now gotten to the point that women can act however they please towards men. They know that most men would never hit them, so many women exploit that to humiliate them. If he doesn't hit back, he is a coward - if he does, he is a bastard and other men will beat him up. This creates a discrepancy between men and women, because unstable women have no incentive to treat men with respect. Obviously, the solution …
/r/MensRights04/07/20 08:42 AM
4

You went through something awful, and you still didn't let hate consume you. Many don't have that kind of strength - I'm impressed. I think one of the worst things about Feminist ideology is that they exploit victimhood to spread misandry. They co-opt the voices of those who have suffered injustice to spread their ideology. That's why they become so furious when survivors of abuse, or minorities, refuse to become mouthpieces for their movement. Their entire power-structure depends on us repeatin…
/r/MensRights04/07/20 08:26 AM
4

Like the others say, the problem is that so few from the other side are willing to have a discussion. I think we are better off talking to people who are willing to listen. Meanwhile, we just have to make sure that we do not allow the feminist ideologues to make us angry. Anger will turn us into radicals, just like it did with them. We have to be the bigger man by staying calm and respectable, without bending over for ideology.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 07:57 PM
1

True. All of the hate against pedophiles is directed towards men. For some reason, when a woman expresses attraction for an underage boy, it's 'cute' or 'wild'.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 03:29 PM
1

I don't like seeing people sad. However, the sheer contrast of confidence between the first and second part is... Kind of comical.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/20 12:50 PM
7

That's seriously shocking. This statement is at the Nazi-level of ideological possession.
/r/MensRights03/07/20 12:30 PM
56

Subreddits about human interactions tend to be somewhat dominated by misandry. The man is always assumed to be a secret racist and/or sexist. And by the way, for that woman to come to that workplace and immediately start reporting everyone's behavior? OP handled it the wrong way, but I would have fired her if I was him. A workplace is already dreary, why make it worse by sterilizing every interaction?
/r/MensRights03/07/20 11:33 AM
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It's not internalized misogyny. She desires men who are masculine, who have too much self-respect to worship someone based on their sex. It's funny how these women have no idea what they actually want.
/r/MensRights02/07/20 05:41 PM
4

That was so satisfying to see. One thing. The first question by the teacher really irks me "You talk a lot about men and women. What about those who are transgender, or who don't identify with gender at all?" They do this all the time. Instead of directly stating what they find wrong with your statement, they will dress up their opinion as a question. It makes the conversation more difficult, because it puts them in the position of interrogators. It puts them above you, while at the same time, e…
/r/AntiFeminists02/07/20 05:55 AM
5

When talking about the wage gap stops being lucrative.
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/20 09:10 PM
2

Good to hear, I hope it turns out well :)
/r/MensRights01/07/20 01:46 PM
3

Ah man I'm sorry to hear that. How's the prognosis looking?
/r/MensRights01/07/20 12:47 PM
4

Your message was a bit of a challenge to read brother :) But yeah, I can imagine that most are okay with it. That minority of neurotics seem difficult to deal with, however.
/r/MensRights01/07/20 12:09 PM
22

That's insane. But at the same time, I'm not surprised. A lot of people who are warriors against discrimination turn out to be awful individuals.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 09:33 PM
3

I'm glad that I could help to change your mind, and thank you for your honesty. It's easy for both sides to judge each other, because we rarely interact. Hopefully we will see more interactions like this in the future.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 08:28 PM
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No doubt, cooperation is the way forward. I think the problem for many MRA's is that they have grown up in countries where women's problems are used as an excuse to bully men. So, they have kind of developed a distaste for women's issues, you know? I have been guilty of feeling this way myself. There are weaknesses on both sides that need to be overcome so that we can help each other. I just meant they can have moments of weakness without being shamed, because everyone should be allowed to have …
/r/MensRights30/06/20 08:07 PM
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Man, I think you are going into it a bit hard. I'm not denying what you say is true, but she's obviously trying to start a discussion. Be polite, and show her that MRA's aren't going to employ the unnecessarily aggressive tactics of radical feminists.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 08:01 PM
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Thank you for this well thought out and polite post. If what you present here is feminism, then count me as an ally. I think society is constantly in the process of shedding of unnecessary norms. Things that worked before, or were necessary, can lose their utility with time. I don't agree that it's fine for men to be weak - I believe that society should demand that everyone be strong. But other than that, I'm on board with what you say. I wish we could have more conversations like this between M…
/r/MensRights30/06/20 07:57 PM
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I agree with the underlying sentiment that Radical Feminism is hate. I don't agree with silencing people who express hateful opinions, as long as they are not directly trying to incite violence/other forms of crime. A cynical part of me thinks that Reddit is only banning a lot of Radical-Left Wing subs in order to appease us. Thus, they can get away with implementing limitations on free speech in general, which I think is the real issue. We should not try to silence Radical Feminists and Misandr…
/r/MensRights30/06/20 07:41 PM
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Haha, that was satisfying to read. I think gay men can do a lot to further the cause of MRA because of this. Women can't overwhelm them with their sexuality. I think it's usually difficult for straight men to argue against radical feminists, because the latter knows how powerful their sex is to the former.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 06:51 PM
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I agree. It seems like many young women's dream to have a gay friend at their side, like a chihuahua in their handbags. Plus, they're not exactly going after the gay men who are masculine. They go after the feminine, sensitive gay men. I think there is something going on there. It's like they want a man that they can dominate so they can feel good about themselves.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 06:40 PM
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Ah, I misread. I thought he said that no consent from the partner in case of female sterilization. My mistake.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 02:36 PM
0

That's legitimately messed up. If the situation was reversed, people would be borderline rioting on the streets.
/r/MensRights30/06/20 01:43 PM
2

Good on you for standing up to her. However, in my experience it is impossible to reason with these people. It's like running up against a wall. In the long run, it makes you so frustrated that you become similar to them in temperament. Best to just leave them alone, and talk to those who are willing to discuss and listen.
/r/MensRights29/06/20 09:11 PM
12

Douglas Murray also talks about this. He says that the current method of the left is 'overcorrection'. The only problem is that there is no way of telling when no more correction is needed.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 05:47 PM
4

That's the wonderful fruit of Feminism. Everything has become an opportunity to insult men - and don't you be a sexist patriarch by calling them out on it!
/r/MensRights27/06/20 05:45 PM
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To be fair, Andy Warhol sucks. Jokes aside, many Feminists seem to either believe that violence against men is unworthy of attention, or that it is to be celebrated. They think that a woman is strong for 'getting back' at us.
/r/AntiFeminists27/06/20 10:05 AM
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You're absolutely right. Men who improve for women only develop enough to get laid. They always stop halfway to reaching their fullest potential. A man needs a higher goal than that. A partner should come as a positive side-effect of a higher struggle - she should not be the struggle itself.
/r/MensRights25/06/20 11:16 AM
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That's great to see. Awesome initiative on your side :)
/r/MensRights25/06/20 11:06 AM
2

Clementine Ford looks like a sad version of Naomi Watts.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 07:08 PM
1

It's not a big deal for me. As long as I know that she is genuinely interested and she's not stringing me along, and as long as this rule has nothing to do with me specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:51 PM
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I think it's because many men are emotionally disconnected from themselves. They have a poor sense of who they are, and how well they are doing. Often, they live inside their own dream world, i.e. a Peter Pan-complex. Many women, however, can be quite intuitive about the worth of the men they interact with. In this way, a man can see himself as he is through a woman's eyes. For a man who is disciplined and attractive, this won't be a problem. A woman's appraisal of him will be positive, and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 11:52 AM
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I've been seeing this justification a lot lately. Feminists think that women can act in abusive/creepy ways towards men because the threat of rape isn't there. Of course, men are stronger than women, so the dynamic is different when a man acts sketchy. But that does not mean that women get to act however they want towards men. That's just twisted.
/r/MensRights22/06/20 08:30 AM
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I don't know anything about this case so I will make no definite statement. But Ansel Elgort seems like the last person to sexually harass someone. Honestly, it's getting to the point where my first reaction to any accusation of sexual harassment is that the girl/woman is lying. I don't want for this to be the case.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 04:46 PM
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Haha, that's fully understandable. Seeing all the mysandric Feminist material on social media is enough to make any man see enemies everywhere.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 09:48 PM
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Yeah my grandfather was like that... and it was mostly because he worked his fingers to the bone his whole life for his family It's usually that way. My friend's father, a refugee from Iraq, worked hard to take care of his family - and the man could fall asleep in the back of a truck while riding through rough terrain. We'd laugh about that, while never losing our respect for him. So I see what you mean. However, I honestly think that this joke is still mild. It's common for men and women to jab…
/r/MensRights20/06/20 09:42 PM
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To be fair, that joke is somewhat innocent :) I've known plenty of men who have a ridiculous ability to fall asleep wherever, and there is something comical about that.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 09:31 PM
1

Someone actually took the time to create that fake-torso :')
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:57 PM
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I do think we should protect people we love, but I don’t necessarily think that burden should fall on a guy more. I agree with your sentiment. However, we men are naturally stronger than women. Our bone density is greater, our amount of red blood cells higher, and our ability to build muscle significantly superior. Because of this, a mans advantage in physical strength is quite large. Even if a woman has a more protective personality than her man, the chances that she could protect her partner f…
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:44 PM
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I think it's about finding a balance. A man has to possess a certain toughness, because he might someday be put into a situation where he will have to protect his woman. Plus, since there are abusive men out there who might exploit other men's weaknesses, you will want to make sure that you can protect yourself as well. But what you describe is obviously too far. I think many men, in learning to build this toughness, use it as an excuse to flee from their emotions. They conflate discipline and m…
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:22 PM
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"Women and children suffer disproportionately" The reason why some believe this, is because they think that men desire war. They think that war is something we enjoy. That way, men cannot be counted as the victims of war, since we, as a whole, are the perpetrators of warfare.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 08:11 PM
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No I know brother, just talking about the risk considering how much flak we men take from women in general. Haha I would not be surprised if that was the case. Plenty of men trying to look virtuous for the ladies.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 07:53 PM
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I'm optimistic about these things. People have virtue in them, and you can appeal to that virtue by talking of these issues in a respectful and educated manner. At the same time, more people are waking up to the dangers of Feminist ideology. We just need to have patience, and ensure that we do not start hating women the same way that Feminist ideologues hate men :)
/r/MensRights20/06/20 06:01 PM
2

Jesus, that's awful. Thanks for sharing, we don't hear often enough about stories like these, especially not from people who are directly connected to them.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 05:11 PM
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I think this is common. Men are subtly put up as the enemy in various ways, whether it's in ads or schoolbooks. It's presented as an innocent joke - but seen in light of the wider pattern of socially sanctioned misandry, it is obviously something more than that.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 05:08 PM
2

Part of the problem (as I see it), lies in the fact that any large institution will have a dedicated team with the sole function of throwing up walls, laying land mines, digging trenches, etc. That's a good point, I did not even consider that. The only problem, though, is that the more people give in to them, the more confident they get and the more power they gain. I guess it's about finding a balance. Fight as much as you reasonably can. And if you have it within you, turn that fight into a ca…
/r/MensRights20/06/20 05:05 PM
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The bizarre thing is that she is crying as if she's the victim.
/r/PussyPass20/06/20 02:45 PM
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These people are perfectly comfortable making up lies to in order to sell the idea that they are oppressed.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 02:44 PM
3

Feminist ideologues lack originality. They just spout these slogans because it makes them feel good about their own failures. Society excuses their misandry, and so they indulge it.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 10:49 AM
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You should tell us. She seems awful.
/r/AntiFeminists20/06/20 08:12 AM
3

I don't know how such things work, but he should never have resigned. If you concede even one inch to these ideologues, they will continue digging at you until there is nothing left. Even at the slightest insult or breach of conduct, you stand your ground and you badger them with arguments, facts and lawyers until they have no energy left to keep going. These people are savages despite their innocent, bureaucratic demeanor, and you need to be harsh with them.
/r/MensRights20/06/20 07:37 AM
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Notice that they only use the phrase "some men" in the headline, and then move on to simply say "men" in the rest of the article.
/r/MensRights19/06/20 08:55 PM
6

I wonder how many British men died because they were bullied into volunteering by women who would never have sacrificed themselves in battle if given the chance.
/r/MensRights19/06/20 05:05 PM
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Feminism believes itself to have monopoly over equality, the same way religion thought itself to have monopoly over morality. Feminism has become dogma.
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/20 06:44 AM
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First of all, I think you should let this post stay up. It's a good story which exposes a common issue throughout the world, namely the unwillingness of many people to take seriously sexual harassment against men. The idea is that, because the harassment men suffer is often less serious (not always), that it's not worth talking about, and we should instead focus all of our resources on women's suffering. Of course, this is a faulty idea. You can focus on both issues without neglecting either. I …
/r/MensRights19/06/20 06:10 AM
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Thank you! That's a good system. It asks both of you to meet each other halfway. I'm going to keep these strategies in mind for future relationships :) It's interesting what you say about STEM-industries. I think that the industries that we men lean towards in general demand from us that we explain as if nobody knows, and with a large amount of assertion.
/r/MensRights19/06/20 05:52 AM
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It might be that she is a narcissist. They usually lack a sense of other people's boundaries, and are willing to go to bizarre lengths to manipulate you. Honestly, simply break off contact. Block her number, and ignore her when she comes by - if she starts going too far, threaten to call the cops. If she continues, call them. There are two possible interpretations for her behavior, the way I see it. Either she likes the drama, and so she will continue as long as you give a reaction. Or, she is c…
/r/MensRights18/06/20 08:26 PM
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Good breakdown of the topic. I think that mansplaining is real, in the sense that we men are more aggressive so we tend to express ourselves rather assertively, and women often don't know what to do with this. I think that when women discuss topics, they do so in a very emphatic way - every step they take in the conversation is done with the complete and communicated assent of the other person, and they never make their points assertively because... Well, they are just not as aggressive as we ar…
/r/MensRights18/06/20 08:06 PM
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This is the way I have understood it - when Lyndon B. Johnson initiated the War on Poverty, a welfare system was set up which, among other things, made it financially undesirable for women to get married. Specifically, as single mothers they received more welfare than if they had been married. So, the system incentivized having children out of wedlock. People like Thomas Sowell go deeper into this question, if you are interested in reading more. And it's true that it's a shame that this issue is…
/r/MensRights18/06/20 07:43 PM
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No doubt about it. Feminists will always ignore the unreasonable demands put on men in favor of a worldview which puts women in the position of victims. Like Lethn talks about, however, I would just ignore women who put ridiculous demands on men. A high-quality woman will appreciate you for the things that you have done - building a career, muscles and a decent set of values - and not for the things that are out of your hands, such as height. Obviously, there is the biological factor that women …
/r/MensRights18/06/20 07:17 PM
2

I'm sorry that you went through this, man. It's a common pattern among narcissists to play mind-games, so that you will be too busy questioning your sanity to notice what they are up to. Gaslighting is very real, and its unfortunate that they water the term down.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 07:11 PM
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It's common for Feminists to conflate everything. If a Feminist's boyfriend insults her, she feels as if something worse than that has happened. So, she has to convince the rest of us that it was mental abuse, so that our outrage will be proportionate to her pain. It's an attempt to distort our perception of reality, so that we will not question their neuroticism.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 07:09 PM
1

So, basically, a man would only be worried about having a daughter who ends up becoming promiscuous because he is a rapist.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 07:04 PM
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I think that you have an obligation to try to influence them, no matter how your parents react. Circumcision has an effect on sexual pleasure, and in a few cases the procedure can go horribly wrong. The choice has to be up to the boy when he becomes an adult. Your uncle's emotions might be hurt, but that is nothing next to genital mutilation.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 06:59 PM
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It's a corrupted version of empathy. She projects her own interests onto you, so that she can feel that she is taking care of you while actually fulfilling her own goals. It's quite common among agreeable people in general. Sorry to see that you are dealing with this, by the way. If she keeps trying to influence you, I suggest breaking off contact. The ability of some people to influence your feelings is immense, and I would not underestimate it.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 06:55 PM
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I would like to see that study, if possible.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 12:17 PM
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"8% to 41% of rape allegations are false" I somehow suspect that the truth lies in the upper range of that scale.
/r/MensRights18/06/20 11:06 AM
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"I'm not saying that men are rapists in general. It's just under patriarchy." This is a fine example of the Feminist Retreat. They will make a sexist statement about men and when you confront them about it, they will say that they don't mean men in general, just under patriarchy.
/r/AntiFeminists17/06/20 03:07 PM
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I've seen some of them make claims that they're being told constantly to treat incels nicely. This seems to be a common pattern - they will use a few anecdotes as evidence for larger patterns of behavior in society. And what you say about framing issues so that you will think it's real - this is absolutely correct. What they do is that they talk about things which cannot really be investigated. Their claims are so vague, and far-reaching, that there is no way that you could actually study the is…
/r/MensRights17/06/20 07:21 AM
1

First of all, does everyone say that we should care about men's mental health? I really don't think that this is the case. I feel that we constantly talk about women's mental and physical health, though. Female anorexia and breast cancer gain enormous attention in Western society. Meanwhile, prostate cancer gets far from the attention it needs. Second of all, men wouldn't make fun of and take advantage of traumatized girls. Some men, who are sick and twisted, would. Other than that, her message …
/r/MensRights16/06/20 07:53 PM
1

But we were going to talk about sexually harassing women who are strong and confident at the next Patriarchy-meeting! :(
/r/MensRights16/06/20 04:31 PM
6

It's the Olympics of mental gymnastics hearing them talk like that.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 02:22 PM
1

Great initiative. Signed.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 02:20 PM
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I agree with this. I mentioned in the text that you can use violence for protecting others, but obviously, you also can do it to protect yourself. Anything else would be unreasonable.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 02:09 PM
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I see the logic in what you are saying. Hitting a pregnant woman could have a unique repercussion, because you might accidentally end a life. Because of this, you need to take extra care not to beat women. However, the same goes for people with a multitude of medical conditions. There are people who have suffered so many concussions, that one additional hit to the head might be the thing to give them permanent brain damage. There are people whose blood can't clot, and so a punch could be extreme…
/r/MensRights16/06/20 02:08 PM
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How did we even get to the place were misandry is socially acceptable?
/r/MensRights16/06/20 01:45 PM
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I would say that it is a rule, a value, or whatever have you. Violence against anyone = bad Yes, and this is the point that I want to make. To me it seems that society is so focused on the wrongness of violence against women, that it has forgotten in many ways the wrongness of violence against men.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 01:38 PM
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Not everything is directed at everyone I agree with you. I think that the problem is, however, that since this rule is given so much attention, with nothing to balance against it, it seems to have communicated to people that women are worth more than men, that their pain is more awful than ours. It's as if as a society, we have become so focused on preventing women's suffering, that we have completely forgotten the suffering of men. I don't know of many who are standing and shouting "Don't beat …
/r/MensRights16/06/20 01:28 PM
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This attitude is deeply detrimental. I see it in myself even - I will almost start laughing when I see women beating men, and it seems pretty common among Western people in general. Think about what that means. It means that we don't value men's personal space. We see men's bodies as something that women can use as punching bags . It's damaging that we teach our boys to accept such treatment. It creates a society where, inevitably, women are seen as more virtuous and pure than men, because we tr…
/r/MensRights16/06/20 12:53 PM
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That's a fair point. We men are not taught to understand our emotions, and at the same time we are treated like second-rate citizens in some regards, and because of this our emotions usually build up until we explode. I guess what I was trying to say is not that women's emotions are more peaceful, but that they usually have an easier time experiencing and knowing their emotions. This is both because as a society we have greater respect for women's emotions than we do those of men, and both becau…
/r/MensRights16/06/20 12:39 PM
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Good to hear from you again. I hope you are doing better now. It's shocking to hear that this girl is actively spreading this lie even further. Trust me, an attorney is absolutely necessary at this point - this girl is threatening your personal safety. She is weaponizing men's willingness to protect women from violence, and that is a sign of deep pathology. Be firm with your mother about this if she shows any doubt, but don't be disrespectful. Explain how this is affecting your life, and how thi…
/r/MensRights16/06/20 08:25 AM
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Great post. People need to be made aware of the misandry in the Feminist-movement.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 08:14 AM
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That's the best one so far. "A Tantrum was spotted painting period-art on walls yesterday afternoon. They left behind droppings showing signs of heavy intoxication, and a diet consisting of Caffe-Latte's and noodles. Local citizens are advised to stay inside until Animal-Control has the situation under control."
/r/MensRights16/06/20 07:16 AM
2

That made me laugh more than it should have.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 07:12 AM
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I honestly don't think that punishment is enough.
/r/MensRights16/06/20 07:08 AM
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I think as as society we have become numb to men's suffering due to our history with wars. For all of human history, we've been forced to send our men to die in battle, and as a coping mechanism, we've learned to numb ourselves to men's suffering. Just think about it - we all grow up hearing about the tens of millions of men dead in battle during the 20th century. How do people deal with it? Either you can let yourself feel the anxiety and horror these facts evoke in you, or, you can learn to no…
/r/MensRights16/06/20 07:07 AM
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Men are often leaders, and leaders can't be showing weakness, like you say. I think there are some women, especially feminists, who are also clueless as to the nature of men's emotions. Our feelings aren't the same as that of women, in my experience. For women, emotions seems to be this thing that they are united with, which flows through them peacefully. I believe that for us men, emotions are more like a raging torrent. We have to be much more careful about how we let ourselves experience them…
/r/MensRights16/06/20 06:55 AM
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Good, keep on fighting :)
/r/MensRights16/06/20 06:21 AM
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It does, doesn't it?
/r/MensRights15/06/20 08:06 PM
3

Haha it just might work.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 08:05 PM
2

Ah, thank you :)
/r/MensRights15/06/20 08:05 PM
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A mass nagging. I've started thinking about what you could call a group of Feminists. I mean, when you have a group of fish, you call it a School. I'm thinking that a group of Feminists should be called a "Complaint". I.e: A Complaint of Feminists was observed at the BLM-protests this afternoon. Possible alternatives: A Nag, a Screech, A Scream. What do you guys think? I would be very interested to hear your thoughts.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 04:54 PM
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I think you are making the mistake of conflating non-aggression with complacency. The thing which made Gandhi and Martin Luther King so particularly virtuous, was that even though they were quite critical of those they fought, they never allowed anger to take hold of them. They realized that anger and fear was what caused their enemy to be so oppressive, and that those emotions would cause them to become just like their enemy. He who fights with monsters should be careful lest he thereby become …
/r/MensRights15/06/20 06:16 AM
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No doubt, you would expect more from people who are so high up in the social hierarchy.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 06:12 AM
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I should have expressed myself more clearly. When I said empathetic, I meant specifically agreeable, in the sense that women are more likely to avoid conflict and to seek harmony with those around them. Such people tend to naturally be drawn to those who have similar mindsets, because otherwise conflict might arise. This is basically one side-effect of being very agreeable, as I have come to understand it, that you might seek out people who are just as agreeable in order to avoid any conflict. S…
/r/MensRights15/06/20 06:10 AM
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Exactly. It's like saying that I hate black children simply because I'm donating money to a charity in the Middle East and not Africa.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 05:01 AM
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It's such an effective way of preventing any conversation on men's rights, because Women's Rights Groups barely do any research on male-issues. The best they usually come up with is that "By fighting patriarchy we are also helping men", which is so vague that it doesn't mean anything.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 04:59 AM
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No problem at all, thank you for being open-minded.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:10 PM
1

Very true.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:06 PM
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They absolutely do. I think what Carl Jung means is that, since women are usually more verbally and socially intelligent, their 'walls' are much more effective, and therefore much more frustrating. Add to that fact any sexual tension that might be there, and the fact that as a man you wouldn't use physical aggression on a woman the same way you might a man, and the emotional dynamics become much more different. At the end of the day, however, I'm sure that there are holes in this concept, and th…
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:02 PM
1

He was exaggerating I believe, though I also believe there is some truth to it. The frustration which can come from talking to someone who is like a wall can cause you to become emotionally overwhelmed, and I think that this is where the risk for Anima-possesion might come in.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 01:53 PM
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Basically, the Anima is the female part of a man's psyche, the Animus the male part of a woman's psyche :)
/r/MensRights14/06/20 01:14 PM
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Good on you to recognize your own responsibility. That's an important part of being a man. Just make sure that you are not too harsh on yourself - it's obviously understandable that you are going through some difficulties. There is nothing strange with you still feeling attached to her. It's obvious that you were emotionally intimate, and it's never easy to just separate like that. I'm sure that she did love you, and perhaps still does, but from your description it also seems that her insecuriti…
/r/MensRights14/06/20 12:11 PM
1

I think its true that women care for their own kind, so to speak. Due to women being naturally more empathetic, they are much more likely to help each other and organize. We men are much more disagreeable, and tend not to care for each other - usually because we are too busy competing against one another. Due to this, we don't organize on certain issues even though we should. As a result, women tend to get more of a say in many areas of societal problems than we do, simply because they are more …
/r/MensRights14/06/20 11:55 AM
2

Unfortunately intelligence and education is no guaranteed antidote to anger and ignorance. I would have to know more about them as individuals to know how this happened, but it doesn't surprise me. It happens to people all the time - life becomes difficult, and then some ideology comes along which promises them an easy way out of their troubles. I believe that this is what has happened with celebrities like Brie Larson and Elizabeth Banks.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 11:46 AM
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Interesting comment in general but this para doesn't resonate with me. I don't approach female characters while harbouring my grudges. So maybe your generalization isn't quite right.... I don't either. What I mean is that it's easy to feel frustrated with people of the other sex, considering the intensity of the experiences one shares with them. Due to this, the human mind, which seems to naturally categorize everyone into groups, can come to associate the other sex with so much suffering and in…
/r/MensRights14/06/20 11:44 AM
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Haha I had no idea this was a thing! Thanks for showing me it.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 11:39 AM
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You listed the facts, and she ignored you. You cannot deal with her because she is unwilling to let herself be dealt with, so to speak. Focus on just educating yourself, and talking to people who are willing to hold a polite and rational debate. When it comes to Animus-possessed women like EvaLynn, don't waste your time. They are a wall of emotionality and rhetoric that you will never be able to break through. Only they can help themselves.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:34 AM
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Just focus on building yourself up. Exercise, eat healthy, sleep well and stop watching porn. And foremost, educate yourself. Study Buddhism (or other doctrines that you might prefer), Philosohy, Psychology and History. Learn to understand the human condition, and the motivations behind people's actions. Learn to not give in to your anger and fear, and to be a respectable citizen. From there on, you will find that it is much easier to hold your own in conversations with people who hold opinions …
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:28 AM
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It's about the disparity. It's part of a wider, growing set of ideals which tells women that they get to do to men, what men could never do to women. Just read some of the comments here to get an idea of how unjust it has become. But as you say, most of these things aren't a big deal. I would never take offense at a woman just looking at me - my reaction is always the opposite, really. It's more about the instances where women get to do things which are obviously disrespectful, that most men wou…
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:23 AM
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Good on you for calling her out on it, even if they reacted unreasonably. We need to be willing to take hits like this, to make it as difficult as possible for them to treat us like second-rate citizens.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:21 AM
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Well, first of all don't forget that some people can't be reasoned with. When it comes to those who are willing to listen, just make sure that you are well-educated and that you present yourself properly. This includes being well-spoken, well-dressed and fit. By acting and looking respectable, and by being knowledgeable, people will be more willing to grant legitimacy to the things that you say. And never give in to anger. Anger makes you stupid, and it gives people an excuse to dismiss you.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:15 AM
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Men have basically evolved to rape and kill and male children are already practicing. And these days, they start watching rape porn and calling women "sluts" and "thots" online when they are 10 or 11-years-old already, anyway... This comment had 9 points. I feel sorry for these individuals, because only someone who is intensely anxious and insecure could have thoughts like these. Hopefully, they will solve whatever issue it is that's troubling them.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:12 AM
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And those who have to pay the price are the children of our society. As a society, we really need to come to acknowledge that women have just as much evil within them as men. It's just that the evil of women isn't as obvious and visible as ours. The evil of women is more hidden, it expresses itself behind the scenes, where no one can see it.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:11 AM
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I think that both sexes have some inherent prejudice against each other, because we both have such intensely hurtful experiences with each other. Every man will be significantly hurt by a woman sometime in his life, and vice versa for a woman. However, we learn to keep this hate in control, because we are raised not to be prejudicial, so we understand that this anger towards the entire other sex is unfair. However, nowadays, women are being encouraged to let this hate roam free. They are specifi…
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:08 AM
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This product is kind of funny, though. I don't think its something to be mad about, because we men do joke about feces quite alot. But I appreciate your underlying sentiment that we need to call people out on disparities, on forms of disrespect towards men.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 08:00 AM
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It's because people assume that boys already have more than they need, so the focus is on encouraging girls to make up for the supposed disparity between the two sexes. This trend which you are pointing out has its roots in Feminist ideology.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:59 AM
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I'm so sorry that you are going through this. At this age, it's difficult to live with people mobbing on you like that. I would say what others have said - get an attorney. Yes, the girl will be hurt, but there are consequences to things that people do. Add to this, she will never be as hurt by you calling out her lies as you have been by them. Society is infinitely more forgiving towards girls than boys. And I get the sense that you are an empathetic, caring person, and this is why you are worr…
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:53 AM
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No, unfortunately it isn't. All you can do with these people is to not let their hate infect you. Focus instead on reasoning with those who are willing to listen and have a genuine discussion.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:42 AM
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We need to support Egard, and buy their watches. We can use the free market to pressure companies into abandoning their misandry, namely by hitting them where it hurts - their profits.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:40 AM
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You're absolutely right. We must be the bigger person and end the circle of hate. In addition to this, Feminists have much more power than we do - they can get away with doing anything. With us it's much different, because people already hate us. The slightest misstep we take will get people to discredit us.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:38 AM
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I think we also need to focus on how women humiliate themselves by laughing at such incidents. As a human being, you should be sympathetic to other people's suffering. By laughing at something so serious, you abandon something crucial within yourself. In a way, I feel sorry for those women who are laughing, because they are destroying themselves by doing so.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:37 AM
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Giving Women free passes has become an easy way for politicians to gain votes. It's just like in previous decades, where waving a Bible and quoting scripture would get you votes. Feminism has become a trick, a gimmick that politicians use to gain power - and not power for the sake of building up our society, but power for its own sake.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:34 AM
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That's a fair comment. My problem isn't really these women being hateful. Bigots exist everywhere, and always will. My problem is that their bigotry is basically sanctioned by Western Society as a form of virtue.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:27 AM
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Usually when Feminists say things like this, I will change the target-group of their comment just to see what it sounds like. Here goes: Underneath the sheep's wool of a Muslim who has never committed an act of terrorism, is a wolf who thinks about how he could get away with it. Suddenly, it doesn't sound so progressive.
/r/MensRights14/06/20 07:24 AM
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Yeah, growing up as a man was also traumatizing. To realize that women looked at me differently than at my sisters? That they found me sexually attractive? Soul-crushing.
/r/AntiFeminists14/06/20 07:16 AM
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People don't take abuse against men seriously enough. I even see it in myself - I'll react much stronger when I see a woman hurt than when I see a man get hurt, even if the injury is equal. We've been conditioned to not take men's suffering as seriously as we do women's.
/r/PussyPass13/06/20 08:31 PM
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Really? That's absolutely bizarre.
/r/PussyPass13/06/20 05:48 PM
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