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Sleep is the big one I figured out lately. I just got a new job in the a big city, at a huge company with a good work culture starting next month. I'm from the nowhere Midwest so a big city is pretty thrilling and new for me. I have wanted to live in a modern big city since I was young, especially if I could work at a tech company too. I find sleep in particular makes life and killing it so much easier. Dieting is easier cause your not as hungry, work outs are better because you have energy, and…
/r/askTRP24/10/18 10:03 PM
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I dunno, I think the right guy can be super macho and pull off the word cuddle. "COME HERE BITCH I WANZ TO CUDDLE YOU SO GOOD"
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:36 AM
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Veggies seem to have a repairing effect on livers. They provide the nutrients and fiber to ease up pressure on liver and help it heal itself when its damaged. Honey is another great option for liver repair. Quick google brings up all kinds of information about this.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:39 AM
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Ok your the only one actually posting good science tid bits. I can chime in here. You are entirely correct, the only caution I will add with OP is I have done the Ketogenic diet for years. Ate a lot of saturated fats. My father did it as well and lost 80 pounds. I lost 100. So yes, saturated fats work but they come at a cost. Both of our livers started having issues, and we started producing a fuck ton of acid reflex, painful heart burn, and we felt sick a lot. It seems these fats overwork your …
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:29 PM
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Yeah, I have never had this happen. Good chance OP did something she didn't like to much during sex and just doesn't want to have sex again. Women will fake it a lot with someone new to not offend them, especially considerate women. Give her some space and next her.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:22 PM
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I am turning 30 This year as well. Glad to see that there are still great years ahead after 30. I feel very nervous about ageing.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:04 PM
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"Ya... Good thing my dick's huge"
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:14 PM
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It is probably not like this in say "Saudi Arabia", but Modern West countries, we have very little power to "Handle her". Just more court costs, property damage, or something retarded like that. Best to just move on most of the time. I think you are getting at that women should have some sort of "Fear" of the man they are dating. I agree, this is required but its kinda artificial. They should fear us because we have money, power, status, or excellent psyique. Fear comes from respect of these att…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 06:29 PM
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Wine Weed and Wifi is so awesome though isn't it? Love my Triple W vacations.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 06:04 PM
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Yeah this. You don't want to put her in a box where there is nothing she can do to get affection. Really give it to her when shes doing things for you (Cleaning, cooking, Helping with a bill ect;). I think its just called wife training but this exchange between the two of you is super important to a happy LTR.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 03:43 PM
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Yeah I have met more then enough expats who are very happy with their arrangements. They know whats real and what is not and are smart about their money. It can be a real good situation for older guys who just want to have a slim, sexy and obedient GF/Wife, and don't expect all the romance that western society says they should be experiencing. They already had their first loves at age 19 20, married them and now are divorced. Past that stage. Truth be told if you don't have 10k of burnable cash …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 04:02 PM
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I'm not too surprised to see stuff like this. It can be a good deal if you have a good head on your shoulders about all this. I for one, would never send out money to someone I haven't met in person. Think its pretty lazy and dumb to just send off large amounts of money for a girl you have never even met. I would take a trip there FIRST, find a couple of girls then stay in contact with them if they are interested. Visiting one of those places myself it does feel very tempting to grab the first g…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:51 PM
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I have never been super high SMV despite my best efforts, but I did have a roomate who was 6'4' lower body fat, and yeah you are right. He pulled some pretty good looking tail off Plenty of Fish.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:45 PM
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Yeah common annoying trap. Woman are so bad at knowing what they want in relationships.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:28 PM
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Still true. I first answer do you really want a LTR with this girl. Sounds like you could change it up if needed. Secondly, If you do... I dunno about this needy behavior she is displaying. If you give in it's like "Sure nag me and I'll change". Yes, she is trying to turn you into what "She thinks" could be perfect guy. I think what it is, she might just be getting bored with the relationship, and THINKS this is the way to make it more exciting again. I also think you could do dread game, or mor…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:26 PM
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Wow, read all the other replies. Lot of negativity over something so small. Slow down sparky. You either have a girl who: Generally shocked (Um shes human guys jesus, maybe this date invite came out of no where). Wants to say no but doesn't want to make herself feel guilty or you feel bad. This might be the case if she already friend zoned you. Dude, I don't know why there is so much "Ghost that bitch", Jesus Christ does any one get laid on this forum. My advice is to keep going. Tell her why "C…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 09:33 PM
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Lol I dunno if I would do that. She was drunk when doing all this, these days a woman gets a free pass on anything they say/do/fuck while drunk. OP should just enjoy the feeling. Pretty rare to get attention like this from a friendzone chick. Don't come running back the next day please. Keep working out and working on yourself. You want her to seduce you OP.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 11:01 PM
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It's like he had a huge Genghis Khan complex. Trying to invade as much pussy as humanly possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 08:47 PM
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Yeah I am glad to see TRP isn't trying to downplay or smooth this over. What he did was horrifying even by Hollywood standards. The guy was next to predatory, and you know what was uncovered was probably only the tip of the Wienburg. Kevin spacy and Andy dick though, I dunno about those two, they def weren't near as bad and I don't think Kevin Spacey should get his show canceled for it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:39 PM
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Hey I was 5 once. A five year old way ahead of his time.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 11:37 PM
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I have been in the same situation recently. Lots of us have. I miss the first 3 years or so of college a lot still. So much excitement and wonder in everything during that time. Who was going to be what when they graduated, everyone having these big plans. Oh and sexy young chicks everywhere. Then you get to adult life and find out its a monotonous, lonely grind. You can't date anyone at the office because you work in a field that pays actual money, so its full of men. Even still, you probably g…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:59 PM
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The reason there isn't much advice for High schoolers is really... you shouldn't be doing very much during this age. Your only focus should be getting good enough grades to attend college, maybe working a part time job and having fun. The advice will come in MUCH more handy when you start getting into college, and have total freedom/control over your life. You will encounter so many different types of women that will shock and awe you. It is at that point these girls turn into the women we compl…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:45 PM
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Three ways to be popular in high school Say hi to everyone, talk to everyone and remember peoples names Join a sport/club and get to know everyone in it. Maybe even be good at it. Become talented at something cool. Music, Art, Videography, whatever. This is why being in a band while you are in high school gets you laid more then ever.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:35 PM
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Yeah I have been there, and it is very easy... Uh, maybe OP is black? Or maybe super old/obese? OP if you aren't getting laid in Thailand... not much we can say here. I am interested on how you moved there though, did you get a job or are you a retiree?
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:23 PM
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Do you not go anywhere else where they are chicks?
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:21 PM
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I don't blame /u/_MysticFox . It is very hard to shed old fashioned beliefs of men "Taking care" of women. Those days are long gone now. Takes a lot of anger and thinking to come to the conclusion we all do. What happens, happens. We can't control other peoples decisions and must not get emotional involved in stuff we really can't control. Women have their own lives, they don't need or want your protection. You should never care about someone who didn't care about you when they made these choice…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:17 PM
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Kinda wish I had your problem. My biggest issue has been over eating. I can pack in 5000 calories in a single meal if I am hungry enough. That being said... only thing that comes to mind and this isn't good advice but, have you tried smoking weed? Makes me hungry as fuck. Last thing to check is make sure you don't have a ulcer or some type of medical problem going on. May need to get yourself checked out for safety.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:05 PM
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Is she a plate who wants to be your girlfriend? I dunno man, maybe time to address that. You are going to be running into more issues like this if you keep her around. As for her giving you head, she probably will forget about the bracelet with in a couple of weeks. I recommend taking the high road and giving her mind blowing orgasms then just sticking your dick in her face without asking. She will happily suck.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 10:02 PM
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THEY SHOULD kinda taste like a dirty penny in my experience. But whoa man, dudes on the redpill forum can tell you there are vaginas that smell/taste much, much worse then that, and they found out the hard way.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:55 PM
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lol your name tho...
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:50 PM
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Not sure what you are asking for. Red Pill advice to make her feel better or some type of grand gesture to show her that she was a awesome part of your life. I would focus on the latter. Nothing you say is going to help her too much. I'd take her out, spend some money on her and let her know how great she was and that you will miss her.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:33 PM
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Hmm I was alarmed at this question til I read that you have had a Vasectomy. Now I see your dilemma. It is true that most STDs aren't too serious (But still scary), Permanent dangerous stuff like AIDS, are pretty hard to get these days if you are a straight male. That being said you should probably bag it til you get a feel for a woman's personality. I judge her character as well as her vagina (Smells/looks/tastes weird). If you aren't sure, chances are low you will be fine not bagging it, but y…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:24 PM
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Ok cool good info there man. See you already see there are some issues. Sounds pretty basic stuff to me. It seems like you are working her up for 10 minutes then banging her for another 10. Try some new stuff my man. Don't fall into the missionary routine every time. Start looking up both scientific facts (Like did you know the woman's vagina can extend from 3 to 6 inches during arousal? This allows for better sex for them), and sex positions, dirty talk or fetishes (BDSM, spanking, Role Playing…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:05 PM
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Woah woah. Yeah that is pretty heavy and technical for /r/asktrp. I will try my best. It took me nearly 8 years to get a 4 year degree. I didn't graduate til I was 27. I am very glad I graduated because I now make 60k a year, have 2 cars and can pretty much find a job in any city I want. Don't worry about the age of the other peers. Your head is already in the wrong place. One of the best friends and study buddies I had was a 45 year old black woman. She graduated before I did too. It is increas…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:02 PM
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Hah. Classic attention whore. Two things. When you have good sex. It is never caused you "asked for sex". It's cause you both were drunk, both super horny or just in the moment and couldn't resist. Shes probably fucking other dudes and loves the attention you are giving her. Hope you are having fun talking to a girl who is fucking other guys while teasing your dry dick my man. Be angry about that. If you want to get laid. There are two ways here. Give her ultimatum, and ghost her if she says no.…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:37 PM
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You need to ask yourself WHY am I so afraid my job? You need to take some time to think about this. Are you worried about money? Maybe your reputation? Look deep down and figure that out.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:30 PM
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This is true. On the grand scheme of things, companies really dont give a shit about how hard you are working. Your only two concerns should be am I working hard enough to look into getting a promotion or am I doing a good enough job to not get fired or written up? If you can say yes once, then stop giving a shit about work.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:28 PM
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Yeah first one is the hardest. You are smart to wise up before you run into trouble. Most of the guys on this forum find it because they just got cheated on/divorced. It is good you are looking into this before anything serious happens. It would help if you posted more of your sexual experiences specifically. Like what you guys usually do. I am not a pervert getting off on this or anything, but guys can be doing some things wrong in the bedroom and not know it for years. We all just assume we ar…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:24 PM
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Well it is not bad you are around guys you feel that are better then you. What you need to ask yourself now, is WHY exactly. What is it about them that makes them so much better then you? Need to be specific. Chances are, you probably just think they get laid more, are more handsome and maybe have more money. Which case, eh, those things really aren't your concern. Worry about your own dick and wallet and keep fighting the good fight of self improve ment and being a man. You keep working on you,…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:14 PM
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It was getting in the way of my heroine addiction.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:11 PM
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No /u/rian_Stone is right. Dude go read "No more mister nice guy". Stop hiding behind trying to be polite and say what you feel. You are having no trouble doing it with a bunch of strangers on the internet. THEN be more of a Baller man, make some money, buy a queen size mattress for her, then fuck her silly on it. Even McDonalds workers can afford a couple hundred dollar queen size bed.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:02 PM
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Yeah that wouldn't fly in the states. We are so anti rape, "take back the night" culture right now. If someone seriously released that it be all over the news as the "Date rape" app. That being said if you are gay.....that exists.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:00 PM
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Well you are for sure on the wrong sub. It is not good that you are so into this girl that won't consider walking away from her as a option. Maybe you guys will stay together for a long time though, who knows. That being said. If you want sexual tips to get laid more LTR. Here are some general tips. Get some hobbies, start lifting, or do something other then pay attention to your girlfriend. Women are like cats, if they know they can get it easily they start to care less. Focus on your life. She…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:56 PM
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Toxic friend. Drop him. Man up and start ignoring him. If he presses for why you are acting shitty to him Tell him the truth. College goes by fast, you don't want this guy wrecking it for you. He will probably drop out in the next half year or so anyways. Students can hang on with shitty habits and bad grades for a year or two, but it always catches up with them. Cut him out. Good chance he wont be around next year anyways.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:07 PM
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Pretty common issue these days man. Every dude goes through this. Best get use to it. There are hundreds of reasons, none of which should really concern you. Biggest reason though, she just has other options. Shes just window shopping and probably dating multiple dudes at once. If she is under the age of 25 I can almost guarantee she is doing this.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:04 PM
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Everyone else here is right. Focusing way to much on this chick. If you want honest truth about it. Your either going to sleep with her because of circumstance (At the same party, and drunk or something) or not at all. Nothing you are going to do is going to help that, it will be pure chance. Girl likes to play games. In my experience best to avoid these attention black holes, not worth the time and effort. This girl also sounds like she would cross lines if need be (Fake sexual charges, fake pr…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:00 PM
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/r/seduction Read sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:54 PM
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Most of it, especially if its older then the last ten years. Music is the biggest culprit of them all. Tons of songs about loving a girl who can't/won't love you back. Great songs but it does program us more then we think. Recently, Some strides have been made by shows to give a more realistic dating story with more realistic women. The show "Shameless" comes to mind. The main girl played by Emmy Rossum is very red pill. Cheats/drops on her boyfriend quickly, only truly loves her children, and p…
/r/askTRP07/12/17 12:00 AM
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Yes this. Doesn't seem like a big deal to me either. Ask bitches out, when they say no, give em a good tip and be on your way with your work buds.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:51 PM
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I vote C. But in reality unless its something that could get you fired, ruin a relationship or screw you financially. Best to own up to it most of the time. People respect that way more if they know you messed up and didn't own it. Another note, if you read the 48 laws of power book. It says to never admit to mistakes unless it is unavoidable. Never show weakness rule. I agree with this if you are trying to climb some sort of ladder or something, but day to day, eh just own up to it.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:47 PM
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Yes elegant way to explain this. This is less redpill question and more just human psychology of dealing with our basic fears. Fears of failure, being alone, death, poverty, and the battle of realizing everything you do is pointless and meaningless... giving in is crippling. Big questions that EVERYONE deals with from time to time. But, just like approach anxiety, it's something that has to be overcome mentally to be successful. See it as more of another "Wall" for you to work past OP, and it's …
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:43 PM
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Eh yeah let it naturally happen. If you guys end up spending 3 - 5 days together then sure go with it man. I would make a event out of it. Take her to a hotel/casino/concert or something. Both of you get drunk/drugged up and just have a great time. Though I know this requires money, its the baller way to spend the week, but maybe that is just me. I like me some "messy, sloppy, barely conscious" kinda sexy time. NO hardcore drugs though lol. Don't need another addiction. Though yeah you run the r…
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:34 PM
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My suggestion for today's age is to let the women set the tempo IF and only IF they are going to meet up with you. If she is excited to date you and texting you all the time. Sure entertain her with some witty banter. If you get one word messages and reply's "DON'T JUST ASK TONS OF POINTLESS QUESTIONS". Just set the logistics. In today's flaky world, every man should always double check with the lady if she is going to show up to the date, on the day of the date. I would recommend the morning. G…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:11 PM
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Yeah I was going to mention this too. Picture this. "You have 10 attractive girls all texting you daily. You also have classes, part time job, and your own best friends that need attention. Do you think you are going to reply to all your messages from these chicks with in 1 minute every time? No way, your gonna make a priority list, hottest chick gets rapid reply, meanwhile the lamest can wait hours or days. " This is nothing to do with women specifically, just basic human psychology. Abundance …
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:06 PM
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Yeah I think if you rub a chicks feet before you sleep with her, all respect for you while you are down there on your hands and knees, will go out the window. Just inviting her to take advantage of you in some fashion.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:01 PM
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He is kind of right though. This stuff does work but you may be missing a key piece. Are you fun/funny/talented/rich? It is not enough just to show up looking half way well dressed. That just gets people not to write you off immediately. If you are just fun to be around (Do fun things, go dancing, help community projects, play instruments, ride motorcycles. Something), it makes all the difference. We would really have to watch your interactions to see the issue, and you havn't really posted any …
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:58 PM
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Agree. OP's Dick is pretty much average. No issues there. As some added motivation OP, your dick will probably increase in size if you lose some weight!!
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:32 PM
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This. Real Progress is a hopeless, ugly and demotivating grind. A grind where you feel like a hamster running in circles while everyone else around you succeeds. If you wake up and wonder if anything you are doing is helping your situation, and why you are even trying in the first place. You exactly on the right track. You will finally see progress AFTER everyone else around you has seen it. Weird how that works.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:30 PM
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Yeah least you care enough to give fair warning. Most girls wait til a hour beforehand or worse... "Hey Something came up, can't make it" shit when you were about to leave or waiting at the place.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:14 PM
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Sounds like it got dropped on him though. I mean a N Count that high a girl isn't going to advertise that on the front page. Sounds like she was trying to be (sorta honest) with him at least. Could have lied about it and he probably wouldn't be the wiser. 20++ is a alarming number even if it was higher in real life. I can agree there that he probably needs to keep her at arms length (or ghost) and focus on himself in this case. A number that high... girl just doesn't turn over a new leaf instant…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:14 PM
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Yeah one of the other posters is right though. N-count mostly matters if it bothers you. If it bothers you a lot then maybe something you will want to plate or walk away from. It is like that movie "Chasing Amy" by Kevin smith. Same issue. As for me personally that is a pretty darn high n count at such a young age. Only way you could probably spin this is the girl may just love sex and will do any type of sex with you. Maybe? Probably not though... I myself probably wouldn't be to comfortable wi…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:00 PM
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You know there is a difference between red pill and just being an asshole calling everyone beta, BP or cuck... Still if you got a valid argument I am all ears. Something else besides "You're a pussy, everyone is a pussy but me" You can start by clarifying the difference between LTR and Oneitis? Are they the same thing?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:49 PM
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I also apologize for this user as well lol. Oneities is defined as "Developing a crush on a girl who never reciprocates your affection appropriately." It was invented to clarify when a guy gets friendzoned and keeps trying to change it. It also can mean you are in a abusive relationship where the girl is cheating, or doesn't want to date you anymore but you still want her. Painful time for anyone. Doesn't look like you are in this situation... This and Cuck term get thrown around way to much by …
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:18 PM
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Yeah I am not sure what his issue is. TRP constantly stresses that women should cook, clean, make food and be considerate over selfish. American women are notorious for not wanting to do ANY of this any more. TRP is constantly complaining about it. He is right that its stupid the bar is so low at this point, while the bar for guys seems to get higher (Stable job, tall, good bank account, funny, dominate, big dick ect;). So finding a girl that would do this is a good thing.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:11 PM
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Jesus christ dude. You really have some anger against women. I don't think calling him a Cuck for dating a normal girl in a normal way, is really called for. Still, what are some green lights that you would find ok? I mean we all want Dedicated, perfect 10, 18 year old virgins, but those are more rare then a shiny Charizard.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:04 PM
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Had an on and off 5 year relationship with an abusive ex bf that ended about a year and a half ago. He was very abusive emotionally and basically made her feel like she was worthless and nobody but him would ever want her (note that I've dated seriously crazy chicks before, and she has exhibited zero crazy that would lead me to believe this could cause me problems in that department, but listing it as a red flag in general anyway) Ugh Red flag yes, but I wouldn't believe her to much here. If she…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:51 PM
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Maybe, but I am a firm believer in LTRs are necessary. TRP big argument is that gender roles are biological and traditional, and feminism hopes to wreck that but will never succeed. Women are programmed to always act a certain way and have for centuries. Marriage has been around for thousands of years as well, men with power still often marry. So LTR management is still a important way to live. If you believe in classic gender roles, this is something that shouldn't just be ignored. Can't just N…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 05:42 PM
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Yeah I second this. Being cold, logical and distant are good for early game but LTRs require a lot more then that.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:45 PM
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Nice hire me please. No I agree with you, only way I could realistically make 100k in the next 5 years is probably trying to become a database admin, and that would mean tons of work and being on call 24/7. I really don't think I want that much stress personally, I like my free time. But I remember reading somewhere, average person really only needs around 70k to be satisfied. That is probably all I am aiming for in the next 5 years, maybe 75k with inflation rates staying the same. Life needs a …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 03:28 PM
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I dunno. Personally I am not that against gold diggers. I mean, it is a simpler transaction then love. Long as I keep the money flowing, and she does her part, let the good times roll. I would rather be the man with the wallet then the trophy wife with no direct control, just indirect manipulations. Big supporter of Gender Roles so that may be why.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:42 PM
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No you are starting to drift away and she want to get you back the way you were. I have this happen to. It was when I started losing weight and working out a lot more. She even teased us going out on dates. Like a chump I fell for it and started paying more attention to her. She ended up making out with a guy in front of me at a club we went too. DON'T DO IT!
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:30 PM
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Reminds me of Old Neil Strauss Pictures Totally correct he needs to shave everything. His head, his beard, glasses are probably OK. Get a bit of a tan, some piercing and start working out. Posture looks like someone who never done a back exercise.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:24 PM
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Should have fucked that 18 year old big titted blond that was into me at that wedding when I was 30. We've all been there lol.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:11 PM
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Lack of Goals = Lack of Improvement WRITE YOUR GOALS DOWN. All of them, and set yourself realistic targets. Do not just say "I want to lose weight" say "i want to lose 5kg in 2 months. Probably the most valuable piece of advice for any age. I am turning 29 and I didn't start doing this til i was 24. Since 24 I went from unemployed 310 lbs dude with no degree who got cheated on and dumped and still lived with his parents. To 60k Salary with a Information Systems degree, 210 pounds, 2 cars, and a …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:51 PM
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...hey hey hey, they still got puss right?! Everyone looks the same in the dark bro.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:46 PM
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Yeah all high school students need to be taught what STEM is and how important it really is. I didnt find out about the term til my second year in college... I would even go as far to say if it is not STEM then don't bother. Too many English/art/music majors struggling financially even if they are successful.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:43 PM
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Yeah your right, but when it comes to average 18 - 25 year old, I still say they should do school. It is more of a factor of they need to go to a Junior college first. Spend the first 2 or 3 years fucking around and finding a major they like. Jucos are practically free so if they drop out no big whoop. once they hit the job market with a IT degree they will get snapped up and not be forced to work for minimum wage Tier I calls (I did this) for years before moving up.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:27 PM
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Difficult and a bit optimistic. The amount of mathematics it takes is what holds most people back from finishing a CS degree. 100k? starting pay for a lot of CS degrees is like closer to 60 - 70k. But then I live in the midwest so maybe thats why its lower. School choice Doesn't matter as much as you think. You could get a online degree (Make sure the school is accredited or a state school with online program). And ya your pay wont be 100k, but you could still get IT jobs starting pay between 40…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:18 PM
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nice feminine virgin woman from my culture (And no, traditional Indian women aren't anywhere close to Indian women raised in America). Lol what did you mean by this exactly? My guess is nothing good. Well your English is very good. I am also not sure how much of this forum you have read already. A lot of advice given here is for people who are jobless 24 year old virgins living with their parents. Our advice assists in helping making them independent enough to get laid, have a career and be heal…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:36 PM
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I was for the engineering path in til I read /u/gogetting reply. He made some strong points. A pilot does sound more prestigious and you will have a more interesting over all life traveling all over the world vs sitting at a computer waiting for 5pm like I am doing right this fucking second (lol). I'm a network Engi. Job security is great, pay is good, but work wise, excel monkey is pretty good description. Your passion is to fly, your gonna get paid more doing it, and you are very well prepared…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:21 PM
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yeah those were all great key tips. Only one I would add clarification to is number 4: Keep your mouth shut. Ok this is true. Whether at work, school or club. Better off listening then trying to think of something clever to say, or finding a shortcut to doing work. However, DONT BE SCARED to ask questions. Whether its on here, in class, work or help with women. Always try to be informed about whatever task you are undertaking. Chances are 80% of your peers will probably be just as lost but unabl…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:12 PM
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Yeah this is more the voice of reason. TRP says "NEXT HARD" all the time. But /u/mattyAnon actually took 10 seconds to remember core beliefs and apply them to the situation. No matter what the LTR, you are only renting her. Always have a plan B and defensive's up. I would only caution next her if you were thinking about proposing to her right now and just find this out. You guys still under a year so keep banging that puss and keep it satisfied. You could also start uping security. Read her text…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 08:58 PM
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I dunno, I have heard that from women I slept with too a bit too often... "First time I came" business I think is kind of a lie half the time. Women will often fake orgasms if the sex is bad and then say it was great in order to save face. I personally don't trust what they say anymore. Gotta watch their actions. I honestly believe the only way to know you did a good job is if they come back with in the week for more. Otherwise you may want to reassess your performances. One thing I do now is al…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:59 PM
1

yeah OP's location could play a big part. Some where like Los Angles can be tough as there are so many high SMV men around.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:51 PM
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yeah I only had a couple of FWB, and they were social circles.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:48 PM
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Seems like nonstop buyers remorse. What causes buyers remorse? Slept with them waaaaay to quickly, did not establish enough comfort/rapport. Maybe you taking too many drunk chicks home lol. Jesus man, try to go on a couple of dates with them first, you sexy hound dog. They were in another relationship already. Maybe your town has a high married population? Check your hygiene, make sure you place is clean too. Make sure you not spitting bad breath, stinky feet or head full of dandruff. This stuff…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:46 PM
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Yeah if you aren't benefiting from the friendship in any other way, and the need to bang her is killin ya, just ghost or Hard Gambit her. Just torturing yourself bra.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:37 PM
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In the midwest, they usually stuck to their own men. The midwest is very cliquish. White peeps generally stuck with white, arabic with arabic, so on. I feel like we got more traditional style women here then on the coast. So maybe its a cally thing. Some peeps say don't let the location matter, but I have lived in the midwest and then the west. The west for me has been WAY easier to meet women. Being mexican, white girls were not too interested in me. Location DOES matter.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:32 PM
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High School Game: Get some friggen hobbies / Join Clubs and take bodybuilding classes. Don't be scared that you can't lift shit, no one can when they start. Talk to girls in your class/clubs. Find things you have in common cause you have hobbies now. When dances come up, ask girls to the dance. That should be all the game OP needs to even worry about in high school. That advice alone will put him leagues above his classmates.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:23 PM
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hahaha shit TRP has a long memory.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:21 PM
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Other posters are right, but I wouldn't just ghost her. Are you ok being her friend? Ask yourself that honestly, you don't want to wreck a friendship (She might help you meet other chicks) because you got a boner. Just ask yourself, "Am I ok not sleeping with her and watching other guys successfully fuck her". If the answer is "Hell no", then proceed to the gambit. Text her back "Lol ok, well I like ya, and don't feel like being in your friendzone. If that's an issue..." She will either reply po…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:16 PM
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Keep in mind too. There are two reasons you are so nervous asking a girl out. You haven't done it very much and need more practice. Like anything else in life. You invested so much time and energy into this girl, (maybe even love?) and you don't want to see it go to waste. This is a BIG sign that you don't have much else going on in your life too. If all you think about is her and how you NEED her in your life, your head is in the WRONG place. You need to get more hobbies, goals, lifts, social l…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 11:03 PM
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Yup. "Want to go out ON A DATE (Be clear this isn't a friends thing) this Friday evening? No? Ok see ya" OP give a solid date and time. IF she says "O no, but how is your Thursday next week" Your golden for next week. When I was practicing playing the numbers I would ask multiple women out to the same night. Usually one of them would bail or want to go later. One time it worked out great, and I had two dates in a weekend, as one of them wanted to go the next afternoon. Usually this tactic widdle…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:58 PM
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It depends what you are talking about by "meaningful endeavors". If you are talking about starting your own business there is a solid, very solid chance your first couple of ideas will fail. You better make sure it is what you really want. Usually this means you don't quit your day job and work in the evenings/weekends on your business. If you are unwilling to work on you're endeavor/business after work hours, that is a good sign that you don't want to run your own business that badly. Keep your…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 10:41 PM
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Hmm... Tricky. I would say if she is letting you look at everything and anything you want to look at (Email, IMs, and such), then your probably ok to keep the relationship going. As much as TRP loves to say "Next her", to everything, in this case you should show some more patience. It is good that you are willing to walk away though, there in lies your red pill power. I would say become a bit stalkerish and keep tight tabs on her. Keep checking her texts, emails, and IMs. If she does not like it…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:23 PM
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Only after you become president timmy.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:27 PM
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OP's group sounds young. If she tells him she has a BF, and still flirts this is the only logical explanation. Women start cutting that shit out when they get older, back fires too much. I do believe though, in a moment of weakness (Rebound or shes drunk) he could still bang her though.
/r/seduction22/08/17 10:49 PM
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...TIL OP's Friend's Wife is a hardcore Dominatrix?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:30 PM
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Yeah everything was good stuff. I was getting revved up and agreeing. Started to feel motivation to control my life, turn things around and become the best me... Then OP Gave his friend's wife a foot massage for some fucking reason. Thanks OP.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:28 PM
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Im with u/OGAbunia/ on this one. Not a whole lot of difference between a Reddit post and Facebook/youtube video link as long as the topic is relevant, and I believe this is. Sure it comes across a bit sales pitchy, but looks like he plans to make a small career outta this. Most of all he's just trying to do something out of the ordinary and interesting with his life. We should encourage that.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:20 PM
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Yeah agree with this. His struggle to talk and eyes darting around with the hands are a bit distracting. Reminds me of public speaking 101 class in college. It is like he is half haphazardly presenting a C+ grade presentation. Would be better if he spoke a bit clearer and louder. I would also stand in middle of frame, oddly off center. Smiling on certain points could help too! ALSO some visual elements would go a long way in explaining the video! Like when the tree gets mentioned just a simple d…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:16 PM
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PLUS side: Quiet girls are less sexually experienced far as I seen. Easier to impress sexually. Sometimes they are even grateful NEGATIVE side: Quieter girls usually aren't that kinky, and sexually you probably will just be frustrated if you have had sex with a couple of different people already. They will take a lot of coaching and direction. Sex will suck if you find a stubborn one.
/r/seduction22/08/17 10:03 PM
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Hmm from your writing you sound like you are younger and in school. Sounds like you have a crush too Sounds like you need to take a step back and grow up some man. You can keep trying if your bored but otherwise, soon as you see another girl with more interest in you switch over. This is from personal experience. I was bored, and working 40 hours a week with 12 credit night school at local college. Kept trying to get with this same chick for months. She didn't talk much, thought she was bangable…
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:56 PM
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Well Written post. I am a fan of RSD, but have not spent any money on them. It was cool to see what I get if I had. All in all the free videos from youtube seem to be as good as it gets theory wise. So, unless you are getting a one on one instructor and live in a night life city, I would probably stray away from it in its current state looks like. However, sounds like it worked out pretty well for you. Results are the bottom line, and they helped you with that. That's great.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:46 PM
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I would almost sticky this if you cleaned it up some man. It's a good hard hitting lesson on how /r/seduction is good for both genders. Men need to reach out more and be men. Could have made all the difference here. If she would have rejected you, I think you would have some peace at least, that you tried. Knowing that you didn't even try is what stings the most in the long run. Sorry to hear about her.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:18 PM
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Upvote for secret Belly Rubs. Smooooth. Maybe I was thinking of Online dating, or a situation where shes mostly a stranger. Very hard to do that when you don't know them very well, but your right I have heard of guys pulling it off.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 08:53 PM
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Yeah Models by Mark Manson Preached that. Good advice. If you want a exciting life stop being a boring person.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 07:31 PM
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Very similar to the Cube test or Forest test. I think those are more subtle, less silly sounding and gives accurate results. Old School PUA but I actually still use it these days. Really useful for when you don't have anything else to talk about and it always creates lots of conversation.
/r/seduction22/08/17 05:54 PM
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Obviously context matters here. Situational awareness would be ideal. If its cold out, just say your cold, if other people just hugged go in for some hugs too. Just trying to keep it simple. Honestly doesn't really matter what you say long as its not negative. If Brad Pitt hugged a random woman on the street and said that, would she hate it? Nope. She be turned on. Point being is to get comfortable with her body, and hers with yours. Hugs, and high fives start that. Grabbing arms, holding hands …
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:46 PM
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This is a TOUGH one with a number of answers. Context plays a lot here. Here is the basic ladder I use (Though certainly not flawless). Smiling, and keep eye contact in a flirty way. Usually green light for Kino to start. If you guys are talking about sexual things, this is golden time to start. High Fives or Hugs (Even just random LOL ones). You don't even have to give a reason, just go hug her in the middle of talking or high five. If she asks just go "Sorry, just wanted a hug". Any other reas…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:13 PM
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Pffff Nice work Yeah that's pure ego talking, you still want to be a girls entire world, even if you aren't in love with her. Keep it going, get into kinkier stuff while you can, never know when a dry spell is around the corner. I regret not trying more devious things with past girls. Good for the fap bank.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 05:00 PM
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Yeah This is the hardest lesson to learn "A woman's opinion of you doesn't matter and you shouldn't base your entire confidence and self worth over what ONE woman thinks." But alas, love, strong feelings and weak resolve make this a slow lesson to internalize. But it helps when you can replace her easily, or have a lot else going for you in your life. I am betting OP based his WHOLE world off her. Every week spent was just there to please and help her. So now that she is gone he has nothing else…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:57 PM
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Yeah sounds like OP is coming from a place of "Hating himself" more then just a kink.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:50 PM
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Yeah I am glad I don't have this submissive kink naturally. What are the odds you will find a women who wants to put all that work into being a DOM. Being a DOM is a lot of planning, managing and effort most women don't want to put into sex (Especially those starfish types). I wonder what the ratio of female doms to female submissive types really is.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:47 PM
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Hmm I dunno about visiting a senior home. I was thinking more good friends, uncles, or even someone at your job. Just make sure one thing. MAKE SURE THEY ARE SUCCESSFUL MEN. Make sure they have a decent girlfriend, good job, or popular status before you take advice from them. My recommendation is to start looking into successful men in media, celebrities, self help gurus, and even PUA gurus. Lots of good dudes to take advice from just by watching them on youtube. Here are some of my favorites. D…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:37 PM
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Complicated answer that depends on context. I would go read "How to win friends and influence people" But heres also a quick step by step guide First you must really ask yourself if you want more friends and to be more social. If you can say "I want to have more active social life" then proceed. Read some material like the one I posted. Location/Place/Time matters a lot here though. If you are in college/High School, join some clubs and try to talk to people in general. Asking/remembering their …
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:25 PM
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I had a strong dad and a solid older brother. Because of this I was a little braver and gutsier with women then I should have been (I was 50 pounds overweight, crooked teeth, poor and didn't shower much), but even I had a girlfriend in 8th and 9th grade. First time I asked a girl out was in 6th grade, and we actually went to a school dance. Really its men that DO NOT have a strong male figure in their lives that have issues with communicating sexually (with women) in general. Mothers generally d…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:06 PM
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Wait did you date your cousin or her friend... or both?
/r/askTRP22/08/17 03:59 PM
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Hah, It is good to see all the replies of "crying"," begging", and stalking. TRP is full of burnt men indeed. Including me, I am no better then you guys :( Not fucking girls in general because I tought it's not "right" to have sex with somebody when you are not in a relationship with them. It took me all the way to 25 to figure this one out. I had TWO different occasions at 24 and I passed on having easy sex with both of them for this reason. Wanted to be their boyfriend first. They honestly jus…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 03:54 PM
1

Whats BPD?
/r/askTRP22/08/17 03:47 PM
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Lol wtf. Silly, but I would say that means your mother primarily raised you. Guys are who are raised by their moms generally are painfully nicer, more skiddish, and socially awkward. The good boy points shtick. Hah I always tell women to look how their crush/significant other treats their mother. That is usually how they will treat their wife.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 03:44 PM
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Yeah I would agree with the other posters. I have been over to that area and seen the older gentlemen. You need to take a step back and look at this objectively. You will see a lot of grey areas here ++ Easy Sex late in life when most guys dicks are shut down for good. ++ If he has the money it would be better spent in that country as everything is cheaper (including the women), then on addictions here in the USA (Gambling/drinking being the biggest) ++ 30 or older year old women dating someone …
/r/askTRP16/08/17 06:12 PM
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Three Big Date Tips Text her before hand to confirm the date. My first date was ruined cause I didn't contact the date the day before or the day of to remind her. She just forgot and bailed on me. If she doesn't reply to you then don't freak out and just skip the date yourself. I still do this today often. Saved me a lot of wasted gas and dinner plans. DO have something planned, doesn't have to be anything BIG. Coffee date, walk in the park, arcade pizza romp or a show to go see. Don't go in ask…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 10:11 PM
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Dude I was just listening to DMX last night and wondering wtf has this music disappeared too.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:27 PM
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Pretty big fan of the red pill and you are not completely wrong. A lot of the meta of the forum is a lot of very nervous keyboard jockies who enjoy the theory behind social interaction way more then actually being socially interactive. The forum is usually found by guys who just got taken to the cleaners by a woman (emotionally, physically, or financially). So there is a lot of anger and bitterness towards women and feminism in general. But through it all there is a lot of truth that we see ever…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:38 PM
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Careful with those words. Truth be told, most industries are going to have tedious shit your not gonna like. What people don't tell you is your ability to handle tedious shit will determine how successful you are. I would say keep at it UNLESS you have a strong back up plan. I don't mean not just a "idea" that would be "cool" to try. You have wrote out the plan, have a timeline on it and know step by step what you need to do. Too many times people tell you to chase your dreams but, if you don't …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 03:34 PM
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Yeah I wasn't a fan of the first point. Shes too hot, I am SO SMART staying in my league, but I will keep a eye on her for the semester.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 05:11 PM
1

I love getting drunk with girls. Best thing ever!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 05:06 PM
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I made my way through most of it. Writing wasn't bad. OP just needs to remember that more concise, less filler writing is generally better.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 05:02 PM
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This is less about TRP and just human psychology in general. If you want other humans to act a certain way, its best to lead by example. Once they start doing a action you like, you praise it and make them feel good and important for following the action. This will get them to start doing it on their own, without your support. SO in this case you should have walked over, got her a drink, then kissed her on the cheek. That would have showed that getting a drink is something you want to see more o…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 10:31 PM
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/u/awkwardtouching is mostly right. Only thing I will correct is that you never will "fully" heal. Don't ever try to wake up, 2 months from now and go "Ok I am fully healed now! Time to move on". You probably will just be lying to yourself. It will get WAY easier, and less painful as time moves on. But, you will always carry her with you down the line. It will be 5 years later, and suddenly you just wonder how shes doing, or have a dream about her. Don't ever feel bad about that either. I use to…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 10:15 PM
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Treat women like you would a man. As a individual that makes their own decisions that you have no control over. She wants to cheat she has a million other dicks to choose from. You are not special to her. Don't treat her like she is special, in til she has earned it. In your life, save your empathy/care for trusty worthy friends and family. Women need to work for that level of trust.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:57 PM
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Good Question. This is a issue WE ALL struggle with trying to apply TRP or any type of self improvement plan. I don't know if I have a good answer for you. Best I can do is help you understand it. The issue lies in a couple items: Your brain can only make so many disciplined choices per day. Like a MP bar from a RPG video game. You only have so many spells You "over-all" discipline bar increases over time (as you level up), but you will run out eventually during the week or day. Cheap, easy, str…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:11 PM
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You are spot on about appearance affecting your mind and actions. If you feel sloppy, insecure and ugly. You will do things to hide from the world, afraid of it saying anything about your insecurities. When you hide from the world, you tend to ignore your own problems. Then your problems get bigger, then you ignore those. This is the pitfall countless overweight, unemployed and addiction-oriented people fall into. If you feel like a stylish stud, you will pay more attention to your life/future. …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 08:50 PM
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I did ketogenic diet as well. If you want to do to it on the cheap, baked chicken, canned tuna, and any discounted/clearence raw meat would work. Provided you cook it of course. Fast food wise, McDoubles from Mcdonalds will get you by on the road cheaply. Just take the bun off Check out /r/keto
/r/askTRP09/06/17 04:49 PM
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I can't remember who said this but its a good rule. With online dating, always cut to the quick after 10-15 messages. There are A LOT of attention whores out there, who are not serious about meeting anyone. There are A LOT of fake accounts that will try to get money from you. Don't waste time chatting up someone who has no plans to go out. So /u/robodylan123 is right. Just go ahead and name a specific place and time. I suggest a public place on a Thursday or Wednesday night. Those nights usually…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 04:30 PM
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I will give you some examples friend. A girl doesn't text you back after you just asked her out. It has been two hours. You could A: Text her again, asking "Everything ok??" Then again, then again. With a final "Well fuck you too bitch". B: Go workout cause bitches be cray cray and you will be ok either way. Might as well better yourself instead of obsessing. At work or school, a person is spreading a minor rumor about you that may or not be true. You could A: Obsess about what they are saying, …
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:35 PM
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What is spinning plates? Spinning Plates is the process of dating/sexing multiple women at once without either of them becoming your girlfriend. You do this by staying in the early stages of dating as long as possible, where no talk of boyfriend/girlfriend happens. It is not easy, and you can only realistically pull this off an average of 2 - 6 months per girl. If you are having sex with a girl, they usually start bringing up wanting a monogamous relationship around the 1 - 2 month mark, and you…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:20 PM
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I agree with the replies on this post. Even though they are classic "Ghost that bitch" answers. Only thing I would add is: If you think you can plate her and not get emotionally attached. I could see a win win position. Let her do all the work, give her a shot. Keep her as a plate and drop her when you get bored/find a better woman. If shes trying to prove something to you, shes gonna be a firecracker in bed bro. It is a bit evil, but its a win win situation for you. Just don't get her preggers …
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:40 PM
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Tatted chick whispers in my ear that we should go back to her friends place and to bring my one buddy for fat chick which i then tell my buddy and he is understandably not pleased but still offers to go with me (what a champ). I am usually this guy. It's not easy taking one for the team. Pore one for my fellow martyr. The unsung hero. You are the villain. Your homie goes all Jesus and dies for your sins, then you accidentally anally fuck them sins. SHAME!
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:26 PM
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Tried it. Mixed results. Testosterone does seem to increase. You do feel more Energetic (But not much) Best Benefit is you are much more sexual being, and average looking women become much more attractive. Keeping eye contact, being aggressive and in the moment is easier For some reason I keep getting a ton of pimples suddenly. Maybe T level increase? Having a constant boner in your pants is painful and annoying The urges get too distracting if you are trying to focus on school/work. This seems …
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:13 PM
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This one is honestly a flip of the coin. If it was a STD or she cheated on him, he needs to GTFO. But, HPV is fairly common, and it can be hard to detect even if you have it. I could see her just honestly making a mistake with this one, or avoiding a painful conversation because she isn't emotionally mature enough to be direct. OP sounds like a younger couple. I would have played this more by ear. Every answer on the red pill seems to be "GHOST" her. If everything else was healthy in this relati…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:45 PM
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You sound young my boy. Fact you put in "Boys" everywhere probably tells me you are around high school age. Here are two golden rules of high school game Everyone is as insecure as YOU! EVERYONE If you conquer your insecurity at a earlier age, you will have much more success with girls in the long run Stop thinking so much, and take more action. That's how you beat insecurity. Talk to more girls, pay attention to your physical appearance, and get over yourself! You are not smarter for thinking a…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:35 PM
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I agree with this reply. OP has some deep issues that have nothing to do with her. He needs to get his shit together and improve himself so he gives his girlfriend the tingles again. A reading of "No More Mr. Nice Guy", maybe the fix. OP needs to be more fun, sexier and communicate his emotions clearer.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 10:29 PM
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Wow 19 times... So many red flags in this post. But HERE is the golden answer. Next time you are about to do something similar to do this. ASK YOURSELF, Does this help me achieve my goals or make my life more satisfying if I do this? If you can't say yes within two seconds DON'T DO IT. Always put yourself first, and /u/themeistervader is right. Keep researching IDGAF attitude on the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 10:22 PM
1

Personal preference really. In the past I have had probably two girls flake on me first time, then second date they showed up and I got laid.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:15 PM
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I can tell you have been reading a lot of seduction theory and tactics. RSD Tyler seems to cover these topics pretty well on youtube. Check through some his videos. He explains things very well. Here is one that skims it. In summary, he says get out of your head and just try to enjoy yourself. You are too focused on tactics and not enough being in the moment. More approaches you do in a week or months time, will help your issues for sure though.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 10:08 PM
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I believe in giving girls a chance to change your mind, even if they aren't physically up to snuff. However couple of hours with the girl should give you a good idea if you like them or not. You can't force attraction. A part of becoming a real enlighten red piller is to never lie to yourself. You gave her the time of day, and don't like her. If you slept with her, the sex would probably be terrible for both of you. Nothing but regrets down this road. Imagine if you got her pregnant accidently. …
/r/askTRP08/06/17 09:57 PM
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I have been trying to do this too, to get me working on projects and hitting the gym hard. Trouble is, lot of my anger came from women over the years. Now I am getting laid regularly, have money and lost a big amount of weight. I got nothing to be angry about! Been trying to just listen to hard/fast music and get mad at my desk or keyboard or some shit like that. FUCK YOU MONITOR!
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:46 PM
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Last rule of thumb, if she flakes on you 2 or 3 times. Stop all contact. She is wasting your time. Let her ask you out after that. I have a 2 time flake rule. Some guys have a 3.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:38 PM
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Rule of thumb, if they offer a new time specifically. Go with it. For example, "I can't make it tonight maybe later?" vs "I can't make it tonight, but tomorrow I am free!" First one is her blowing you off. Second one is her being honest about her situation but still wanting to spend time with you.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:33 PM
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Lol These replies are funny. I will give you actual helpful advice and not call you names. Money is the biggest issue you need to take into account first. You should be staying in state, because leaving the state you will end up paying double tuition or more. This will limit your options a lot. Figure out the money issue first though by looking up costs. If your parents are picking up the tab, still be a dick move to cost them double tuition so you can get laid easier. In my experience liberal a…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:26 PM
1

I prefer the old giggle like a mentally handicapped 5 year old and hide under the covers technique. Bullet proof
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:12 PM
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Yeah you maybe a guy who needs a plate system. Not every dude absolutely needs 2++ women dating at the same time to be happy, but for you it maybe the perfect system. On a side note, the average women will seem MUCH more exciting if you stop looking at porn often and jacking off. This is a big killer of healthy relationships that gets overlooked.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 06:07 PM
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Its actually my thing I do too and ya its totally worth it. It could be a nice way for you to flirt with girls, touch them, get close and not fuck up your marriage. Plausibility Deniability! My recommendation is go for salsa or two step. Those two are the most popular at bars. Down the line when your wife is busy, you can just go to those bars and ask women to dance, most of them are pretty happy to have a experienced partner and the ratio is USUALLY 2 chicks for every 1 guy. This has been my br…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 05:53 PM
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The successful but comfortable man. You did it. You won at life. Good wife, good income, and free time to do your own thing. American dream. But alas something is missing. It is unsatisfying. You are getting bored and wondering if you are wasting your life away in this comfort. You reached it too easily and too quickly in your life. You feel you won the basic race and wondering if there is another one starting soon. You are probably a person that needs challenges to overcome. Challenges that bar…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 05:15 PM
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Yeah basically clearly stating you feel you are still too young for anything above what you guys are doing now. And that you would like things to stay they way they are now for awhile. If that is what you want anyways. Otherwise its a question of what would make you happier. Sticking with her for another year or going solo and trying a new lifestyle. I will first warn you that being single is really hard if you can't attract new girls easily. Most of us can't. Its a good idea to have one or two …
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:49 PM
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I get it man. You are emotionally involved right now. Hard to stay logically when you feel so much about it. There not like, a ton of chicks waiting for you either. Do your best to dress nice, and try to have fun. Give it your best shot and see how things go after wards. This maybe just something you have to go through this to really evolve into something better.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:41 PM
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Yes OP. Best option here not to employ any "Ghost", "Dread" or tactics like that. Thats for flaky 20 year olds. This sounds like like a mature adult relationship. In this case you may have to lay the cards out on the table for her. If she accepts them, you bought yourself another year. If she doesn't you probably will lose her. If the thought of losing her is too much for you then you got your answer right there. Sorry bro the good puss doesn't come free forever. No plate lasts forever.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:16 PM
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Shes young. Girls are flip floppy at that age. Don't listen to what they say. Ignore the sex thing for now. Ask her to go out on a Friday or Saturday night 1 or 2 days before hand. Do something she would like to do, then get her horny on the date. She needs to feel like shes not a slut again. So it is up to you to create a classic "I dunno it just happened" situation. Your direct method failed, now try indirect. You have nothing to lose at this point. Ask her out twice if need be, but if the gir…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 04:03 PM
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This. Seems like as you get older, it becomes less about getting laid and more about your health, income and relationships.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:55 PM
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I have one co worker in the past like this. He was a good looking guy, tall, very friendly and nice dude. But the rest of us really didn't like him. He was doing all the right things but everyone found him tiring and annoying. After years of thinking about it I figured it out. Fake Smiling and laughing. His expressions seemed forced, not genuine. He was a talker, but all his stories were boring and not funny. He would go on for a long time about stuff no one cared about. Like his shampoo, couch …
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:49 PM
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Very grey area, but I agree nothing good can come of you telling them. They will take their anger out on you, or you will wreck their relationship and cause major pain to them. If you tell them, you risk everything. If you do not, you risk nothing.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:41 PM
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Oh yeah, if its a piss ant short term job that's probably cool. You can run out the door before it becomes a issue.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:32 PM
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Yeah dude. Pretend you are a badass Video Game/Anime Character. You are just starting to level yourself up! And because you are so young, you got a big bonus XP per leveling up. NPCs don't matter, you will level up, go to the next town (New Class Year) and complete quests there, and get new party members (Your buds!). You will have "Events" (Dances, Sport Games, ect) to increase your skills or even find love interests. If you ever played The Persona Series, your teenage years can be exactly like…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:27 PM
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Yes, you can do whatever you want. Comes down to if it bothers you personally or not. If the new you likes to do girls in relationships, more power to you. My only qualm is do not sleep with her if you work with her, no matter how hot she is. Never shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 03:18 PM
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Its weird how Trojen is the most popular brand, but most guys agree they feel like sand paper on your dick.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:18 AM
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By buy, I mean before you have sex lol. Don't put them on at the store silly.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:11 AM
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This is an issue all of us deal with at some point. Classic to text or not to text. If you guys still have like 2 weeks til your date, I think its best to go silent til like 3 days til the date. Unless she texts you first. You got permission to reply to her if you feel like it. Nothing wrong there. You just want to avoid forcing a pointless conversation with her she. Then 2 or 3 days before the date check in on her. I personally like to build some tension and check in to make sure shes not gonna…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:55 PM
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Not a Indian lol. BUT I am similar looking. One thing I learned living here is Location location location. West coast and east coast women are more accepting of non white races. College towns nestled in remote areas can be great too. Stay away from the mid west, I grew up there and they really don't like Indians. This area is considered the "Bible Belt". Where conservative values still rule. Part of this is marrying your own race. The Bible Belt consists of Albama to Kansas, up to North Dakota a…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:41 PM
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Hah I called it. Alright young sir. You can have as much sex as you want in your life. BUT PLEASE. Go buy some condoms and do research before hand on how to use them. Not as easy as just sticking it on. I recommend practicing by yourself, hilarious as that sounds. You need to find a good fit for yourself. Like hunting for the perfect pair of pants. Gotta try before you buy. Try different brands too. Your biggest issue is location then. Hard to find a quiet place at that age. I would go out with …
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:31 PM
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Only other thing I will add to this is double check your Hygiene OP. Make sure you don't have Boogers, Nose hair, dirty teeth, Dandruff, Body order or Bad breath going on. That crap will snipe you! If you are certain all that's in check chalk it up to fucking shitty ass internet dating shit we all deal with.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:15 PM
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OK firstly. How old is she cause I am getting a underage vibe. Please don't break the law its not worth it. I hope its not a internet trap because FBI will be on your ass. Secondly, you want to have sex with her right? In these situations, its hard to tell if shes serious or just trying to get attention from you. Text her you want to go out with her friday, set the date. She will just reject you of if shes not serious and just playing around. Don't give a girl the time of day texting, messaging …
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:03 PM
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Yeah this is the best scenario all around. Since you dumped her, would be kind of a asshole/dickwad move to pull her aside and say "LOOKA AH MEEEE HEH HEEH". Dance with her, joke with her. Pretend like nothing is wrong or weird. Just have a great time. Best case She will be awestruck. Worst case you just had a good time at a party. Win Win
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:53 PM
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Well firstly. Some women are just strange. I have had my fair share of "Not sure what they want" wishy washy kind of women. Sounds like that's the case with this one. I would follow the basic tenets to guide you through. Assume shes attracted to you. Act as she is attracted to you. If she is not you will have your answer A LOT faster. Don't apologize for being a man. You are a man who wants sex. Don't let her discourage that part of you because shes been used by other guys (Sounds like she was l…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:33 PM
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/u/skimsti is totally right dude. Sounds like you really want a relationship and tried to force this woman into your ideal woman. But 2 kids? Large alimony? And you yourself make a ton of money? Are you an older gentleman looking for a family to be apart of? Nothing wrong with that but I think its giving you rose colored glasses. I am sure in person she is sweet, kind and great towards you but there were so many red flags in that post it looked like a Chinese banner. I think you should move on t…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:10 PM
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/ agree Trying to blindly apply TRP tactics for no reason. Sounds like things are going great. OP is just causing issues.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 10:04 PM
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Yeah this being the early stages, and you have no interest in her outside of dating her, then OP did fine. If she does something weird like that when he asks her out again a 2nd time, then OP should just move on. Younger girls are queens of indirect ways to decline a date. No point in getting your panties in a knot or wasting time doing something you really don't want to do if this girl doesn't want to be 1 on 1 with you.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 09:59 PM
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I wouldn't take the forced sex abuse thing to seriously. Nearly every girl I have been with claims sexual abuse as a child or teenager. More common then not. Makes me wonder how much of it is true. I can't honestly say. You are just running into the down side of spinning plates. It can be VERY difficult to keep a long term plate without getting emotionally involved one way or another. And no plate lasts forever, that's why LTRs are still a thing on here. Who can say what shes actually thinking? …
/r/askTRP07/06/17 09:40 PM
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HAH! Mean, but there is truth to this. Good rule of thumb with LTRs is to picture them doing another man. How does that make you feel? If you get super angry, jealous, betrayed and its painful then you defiantly love her. If its a "Meh" probably should let her go. Only other thing I would ask OP is... Dude how much porn do you watch? Sounds like OP is having some jack off issues. Give up porn for 2 weeks and see if that works. Man it sucks too, in life you will have girls that are just perfect o…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 09:13 PM
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Limits only matter when thinking about your goals. What you would be deep down satisfied with in the long run. Some guys don't put enough thought into the "why" they want to improve themselves. They focus on the how then lose motivation after like 3 days. My point being if you are short, ugly, ect; That maybe just fine if you are happy dude with a 9 to 5 job and a plain looking but considerate loving wife. Now if you want to be rich, and sleep with new women every month. Your limits need to be p…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 09:05 PM
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Yup. OP sounds like abusive chad nice guys complain about, only this time they maybe right. I am anti white knighting but holy crap this is pushing it. I am kind of impressed. OP has a Dark Triad lover. Defys all logic but supports TRP theory.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 08:48 PM
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There will be some back and forth on that here on this forum. On the one hand: Her having male friends may increase the chance she will cheat on you. On the other hand: You getting in the way and being paranoid is unattractive and scarcity mindset. If she wants to cheat, she has tinder, bars, her friends, your friends, and every other dick in the universe to do it with. I find the golden rule of LTRs is be true to yourself and keep one foot out the door at all times. If it really bothers you tha…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 08:39 PM
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God that always amazed me how really, pregnancy is a bigger toll on their body, finances, time and mental state then it is for a man. Yet 90% of the time, they are not on birth control and completely relying on the dude to have condoms. Then when you go in they don't even look down at it, or even offer to put it on to check the condom. Like seriously, how do they sleep at night knowing they relied on a random dude they barely know, to not completely fuck up their life in a half hour time. Its li…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:41 PM
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/agree Don't kill yourself OP!!! Please reply to us so we can talk about your situation!!! What has happened in your life to push you to this point?? At least leave a story behind. Upvoting so you get more replies.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:34 PM
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I sort of disagree with this thread of thinking. Don't overreact OR try to find a "easy" tactic or trick. Keep in mind many of the guys on here have been burnt badly and are magnifying the worst parts of LTRs. All they see is knives in the dark. The girl probably does have some sort of abandonment issues or maybe she doesn't have a strong father figure in her life. Maybe shes just a sweetheart who falls in love too fast. You need to figure out what YOU want to happen. Always put yourself first. …
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:57 PM
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I would say this is the correct answer. I use to work on campus for like 3 years. "Don't shit where you eat" is very true. BUT that usually means don't date someone who works closely with you, or above you. Don't date in your department, or on same project teams. Its a college campus, no one expects you to not date someone on the entire campus. Jesus that's just cruel! Plausible Deniability is important here. Just make sure you are still going out on the weekends once in awhile. Get to know them…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:37 PM
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Yup. I would consider 5' 6" or shorter a tough deal. You can work with 5' 8". For statistical proof. Here is a quick google of average chicks height in USA. The average height and weight of women varies around the world, but in the United States in 2010, the average adult female height was 63.8 inches (approximately 5 feet 4 inches) and 166.2 pounds, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.Oct 27, 2015 That means vast majority of women you run into will be shorter then you. T…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:09 PM
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Yeah there is not ONE thing you can do that will work. Eventually everyone will get tired of helping her though. I worked IT call center for a tech product. If the new guy/girl doesn't get the product down in a couple of months everyone slowly starts helping them less. There will always be sandbags in every department. Just part the industry. Whether shes a woman, man, son of the boss, daughter of the CEO, under qualified minority, or someone who just got their degree in online college with no e…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:45 PM
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Totally agree. Goes back to "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". My guess is porn. If someone put a chastity belt on you and forced you not to jack off for just a week, a curvy piece of driftwood is sexy. Drive my point home even more. Go watch Don Jon with Joseph Gordon-Levitt. He gets the hottest chicks ever, but because of his porn addiction. They always look like shit to him. He gets up at night and jacks off after just doing a chick. That's a pretty deep addiction. Porn is a double edged…
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:13 PM
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I also will attest to this. I just got through my college days and there is some truth to the waste of student loans. I admittedly, gambled, vacationed and ate away a good chunk of my financial aid. I mean, you hand a 19 year old more money then they have seen in their lives, they are going to live it up. My best friend spent 500 bucks on magic cards in a week. Pure financial aid. Luckily I finished college and have a good paying job now, so it worked out. I still see it as a necessary evil in t…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 04:01 PM
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Yeah I would agree with this. 25 is the new 21. A lot of us need this time to dip our toe into the water and create a solid in flow/out flow of income that gets us to our thirties. In order to be successful earlier in your life, you NEED a STEM degree. STEM degrees are not easy for most, especially since you need job experience as well. This process takes 5 years at least for most students. Yes you can do a manual labor job at 18 that pays well, but only a few can do those long term and you most…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 03:33 PM
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Your point seems just as valid, just had a to read it twice to understand what you meant. Got lost in the second paragraph. It's true, there is too much seeing the "Feminism Devil in Parada" every where you look in TRP. The simpler fact is women are no different then men. TRP should be about disillusionment that women are any better or worse then a primal man looking to take what he can. They are out for the best deal in life, just like us. They want a mate that stays physically attractive, just…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 10:58 PM
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Good reminder for people. Only thing is put it in a bit more context. If you are a young - middle aged adult. Approach girls YES, but if you are unemployed, over weight, college dropout, TAKE CARE OF THOSE ISSUES FIRST. They don't need to be fixed before approaching, but you should be a couple months into your plan on fixing them. If you are in College or High school, this is the best time of your life to approach. You should be building a friend circle and getting to know everyone anyways. It w…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 11:33 PM
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Great post. I really like the self motivational/improvement posts on TRP. This one hits the nail on the head for time wasters we all deal with.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 03:59 PM
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"You're so selfish and you think only in yourself, I don't understand this. What about me? All this time didn't matter? So why did you give me an opportunity? For this? There's someone else? ...." That is a hard thing to hear and still stick to your guns. Bully on you for being true to yourself. You may feel better now, but only thing I will add is a warning. A warning that you will want to rebound very badly. It will be 11 pm on a Saturday night and you have no plans. You are going to be sittin…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 09:14 PM
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I totally thought the same thing
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 09:07 PM
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Its true I did. In retrospect diet change and walking is enough for someone that fat... but I didn't know that back then (Whoops). So after dropping about 10 pounds, I started jogging at the gym. It was super embarrassing and I felt horrible as I thought everyone was looking at me.I would only make it 10 minutes around the gym before I felt like dying and had to stop. Other days I would hit up elliptical machine. That is what I would recommend to any other super fatties. For those who don't know…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 02:50 AM
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True. This advice is not given enough here. So much focus on getting laid and anti-feminism. I could list a long list of why, but I am gonna just say this. Being a popular, caring, genuinely cool dude most everyone likes (Coworkers, friends, family and others!) > Getting laid by super hot women, but being a dick no one likes. It's like being Chris Pratt vs Justin Bieber
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 11:43 PM
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Great. Keep going. I starting doing these type of things back when I was 24 and now I am 28. Totally worth every second you put in. Your biggest issue down the line wont be lack of success but lack of goals because you achieved them already. I set out to lose 100 pounds, finish my degree, get my lay number way up, and make at least 40k a year in a career, not just a job. Solid goals for a unemployed, recently dumped, morbidly obese, college drop out. Now that I did all that, and make a good chun…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 06:47 PM
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28 year old here as well. Odd time for us. We are just getting into stride with our careers (Hopefully), and feels weird not being married. Most women you will run into our age will be married as well. If you are decent looking prepared to be hit on by a lot of 30 year olds! I agree. I get a lot of pressure from my family and friends to "settle down". My own older brother who I am living with right now, is on me on daily basis about finding "The one". He is an old fashioned guy. He is going as f…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 06:17 PM
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Hey if you have 10k in the bank to quit you job for a year, and can hit on chicks full time in a party town/college/city. I say it is possible. Theres actually a book I have that is a poor mans nail Strauss story. Entertaining read and it somewhats mirrors my own experiences. https://www.amazon.com/Thousand-Tiny-Failures-Tony-D-ebook/dp/B00F225ZTM/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1490981231&sr=8-2&keywords=A+thousand+tiny Guy who wrote it use to post on seddit all the time to. Just a normal dude who went …
/r/askTRP31/03/17 05:30 PM
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As a fat guy who is also not very tall or handsome and has tried to PUA stuff, I can safely say two things. It is all a numbers game. Those youtube videos you see where this stuff works came AFTER you have been shot down many times. The worse you look, act or smell, The more you have to try too. What doesn't work on 10 girls may (and I have seen this first hand) work amazingly on the 11th. An issue with the PUA community is hiding their rejection rates. Ya you banged a 9, but it took dealing wit…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:44 PM
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Just a bar that has a dance floor set up on certain nights with a focus on salsa/swing music. Other nights they just sell drinks or have normal grinding dance. Sometimes they are restaurants where they clear the tables and host a salsa or swing dance night. There is not enough demand in certain areas for a dedicated full time salsa/swing bar, it takes effort/focus to learn this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:01 PM
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Good replies on this post already. I won't get into the kind, but the why. Usually, when I go to any type of dancing bar from (small to medium size bars), unless some professionals show up, there are only 3 - 6 guys in the entire place that know what they are doing. Most of the time, half of them will be guys are who 50+, as they took lessons later in life. Which leaves you with a couple of younger guys. These guys usually have a couple of girls with them. They look so pimp walking into a place …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:54 AM
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Accepting your situation and trying to improve it. This is one of the hardest things for a person to do, good on your buddy for doing this. Doing this at a early age, you are doing him a bigger favor then anyone else possibly could. The only other important thing I would coach him on is his stupid emotions. His emotions will cause him to fall off the horse more times then he will care to admit. Let him know its ok to fail on his diet, exercise, and to just pick himself back up and try again. Kee…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 07:52 PM
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As you get older, you will start getting more numb to them and able to brush them off easier. This is apart of growing up and is a big sign of maturity in people. Knowing that nothing is ever perfect. Everything has a downside that you will just have to accept. But you keep your head positive and fight on. I like seeing videos/articles of Tyler, Roosh, and getting shot down horribly even after decades of experience. It is good to know that every guy goes through these shots to their ego, and sel…
/r/seduction25/01/17 10:27 PM
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I just don't get it. I kind of agree with you, but I swear the numbers just don't add up. I mean there are more women then men in USA, and men and women obesity rates are close to the same. Sexual desires of women can be just as ravenous as men. Yet online dating says quite the opposite ya know? Always 4 to 1 man/woman ratio on dating websites.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 01:17 AM
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You know I can't give fashion advice very well. I personally haven't redone my wardrobe because everytime I bought new clothes, my weight would start changing again and they stopped fitting correctly. That is a lot of wasted money. I am waiting til I reach my goal weight to go serious clothes shopping personally. Too costly to buy new wardrobes every time I drop 20 pounds.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 04:06 PM
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Hah all the former fatties coming outta the closet on this thread. Awesome. Yep totally agree, never lost 5+ pounds a week but sometimes 3 to 4, and those weeks were such a motivational boost when everything else my life was kinda shitty and boring. They got me to keep going despite cravings and bad habits.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 03:19 PM
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Yes I tried HEAVY lifting for 2 months when I weighed around 260 and then again at 225. Honestly... both times I felt like it was just too frustrating. When you are that fat you do not see the results as well as a dude who is skinny fat. When you go to weigh yourself, your weight loss is slower then cardio, especially in the early months when you are getting noob gains and putting on muscle quick. Not only that, but it made me SO HUNGRY. I found myself stuffing down 900+ calories in a meal and s…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:37 AM
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As a guy who lost 100 pounds, I lift now, but I wouldn't really recommend lifting while 300 pounds. Guys who never got super fat don't understand how depressing, pathetic and fucking worthless you feel while on a diet or exercising at the gym. Yes you could do 100% everything right, but most guys don't do that much and its a lot to ask. Most super fat guys are not super disciplined to do 100% right. On top of that, Lifting makes you much more hungry, and slows down what you see on the scale when…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 09:10 PM
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As a guy who was 310 now 200. I promise you will not regret it. Not even because of getting laid, but everything in life is better/easier: I had severe sleep apnea and needed 10+ hours a night. Now I am down to 6 on average. This has made me much more successful in other areas of my life as I have more time. I got compliments from nearly everyone I ever knew. That felt great. My own family was impressed and I got 3 or 4 of them on diets themselves. They take my opinion much more seriously as wel…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 08:01 PM
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Pretty close to the same story. I was 300++ ham as well. Then lost the weight. I am pretty close to your weight now. Got fat because a relationship and thinking nothing mattered but "love". I got cheated on of course, and she went with a guy in better shape, one of my friends sadly. I like to hear more about how people treated you different. I had not gotten laid in well over 2 years after my break up. When you are THAT fat, people treat you like a elderly person. They do the minimum nice things…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 04:00 PM
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What is your bodyfat btw? I went from 42% body fat to 23%. I feel like I still havn't hit that "Easy Mode" yet, and am not getting much more attention then I use too. Getting hard to stay motivated as I am wondering if I should just stay the body fat I am as losing any more hasn't done me a lot of good on the dating front so far.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 06:24 PM
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I can kind of see where you are coming from. Sure you can lift, study and play guitar but I do all those things too. Our core day to day mindset is pretty hard to change despite doing everything right. The only thing that changes that, is tangible results. TRP makes a lot of promises and gives the inclination that everything will be yours if you just give in to its lifestyle, but end of the day its just another forum full of good advice and bad. Its like the "get rich" motivational speeches. You…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 09:33 PM
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Thanks a lot. This is something I still struggle with too and I feel its hard to put it into clear words but that's exactly what I been going through as well. Rejection will always hurt, but I know there is very little I can do about it a lot of the time. Really its the "over empthy" problem. I don't want to make their night worse by bothering them if they wish to not be bothered. All my family are very considerate nice people, so that was in grained pretty early on. Over consideration.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 12:22 AM
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Yeah its best to work for both. I think part of the "Looks dont matter" thought process is to get guys out to start working on that, and not using it as a excuse. I was out at 270 pounds and getting rejected left and right! hah! The pain still wakes me up at night! Made things easier in the long run though. I think RSD also said something like "You can wait til you are 12% body fat and everything is perfect. But chances are you will never reach that 12% (Less then 20% of people actually lose fat…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:21 PM
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Yeah I agree, but it seems like were splitting hairs on this one. I thought part of game was approach. RSD always reminds people its a numbers thing, and having good game means not ruining success AND not letting failure keep you from trying again. Higher amount of approaches least shows you are trying to improve your game. Only way to have great game is to continually approach and learn really. In those cases I still fit the bill, as my roomate was a lot more nervous about approaching and did l…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:15 PM
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To RSD defense, Tyler has clearly said in his videos that being more attractive certainly makes it to where you have to less work. He even warns short/fat guys to be ready for more rejection and work, but they can still attain what they want (within reason) if they try enough times. I have seen this in my own life as well. Had a great comparison between me and my roomate this last year. Me with practiced game but out of shape, and my roomate who has a 14% body fat but a lot social anxeites and f…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:43 AM
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As a guy who has been 300++ pounds and just got down below 200 just this week. Things have gotten easier, but just not what I was entirely hoping it would be. In general people are a lot nicer and more inviting towards me, but with my bf still like at 25%, I still constantly get friend zoned by average or below average looking girls too often. I still very rarely see any strong IOIs. Getting really sick of it lately, and losing hope it will get better. So I am glad there is still something to lo…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 05:20 AM
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I will probably get downvoted, but I think you could have been just a tad sympathetic? You already had sex with her. Would it really kill you to show a bit of humanity? You seem to come off pretty dam cold. If your best guy friend just got dumped, you wouldn't be THAT cold to him. I mean aren't we supposed to be better then chad not just a carbon copy cause "I wanna smash puss". YOU clearly did the tactic most guys would recommend on this sub. It didn't work. Most replies on here is "YOU fucked …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 05:38 AM
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Its no surprise you are walking around with huge ass friendzone me banner above your head Mutha facker I wear that as a cape. Gently choking my neck like a small angry midget. Such tiny hands... I guess you are right, I'd LIKE to think, at least for my own self esteem, that maybe they like me enough as a person they don't want to lose me totally, I rarely ever get totally blown off, stood up or ditched. Should I be mad that they aren't physically attracted? Hard to figure out if its a bad thing.…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 09:44 PM
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I kinda see it ya. When I was 300 pounds, everyone treated me like a grandpa. Smiled and said very polite things but no one wants to bang their grandpa, or even visit him at the old folks home. Pretty alone most of those days. Least now I get invited to stuff I guess. I just been at this for 2+ years and I am like "Geez when does this turn easy mode, still a struggle. I have done so much already." Guess I wanted some inspiration today. The grind is hard. Thanks for the motivation though, what we…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 07:00 PM
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Hah, you are right about the first point. My only real male friends are all gamers, so we go do that. I have tried having wing men with me sometimes and, I have to say I got way better results with women as wingmen. Most guys will just grab their freaking beer and sit in the corner while I make a ass out of myself. Not once has a guy helped me get another chick. They usually just get in the way cause they drink too much, or are so nervous I have to spend my time talking them out of it. Would lik…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 06:00 PM
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Hah, motivation from a unexpected place. I really didn't know this thanks for sharing. I'll make sure to workout tomorrow now.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:26 AM
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Exactly the same, pretty much average size. been with 7 girls. Only two would let me go full force ever, and hands down those were the best sex experiences I had. The rest I had to be cautious and work angles. Three of them I couldn't even get all the way in not once, and had to use a triangle wedge pillow to prop them up so I came at a angle. Even then they still would have some pain. Actually that's my recommendation if you guys are having pretty short vaginas to deal with relative to dick siz…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 06:20 AM
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Oh nice, if you can find any pub crawls, social dances or any type of social event in that area, surely something you can look forward too. That is my last suggestion, if all else fails just go join a club, workout group, community volunteer, live event or meet up. This is where having social hobbies is great, like ballroom dancing. A mix of doing new things socially and keeping yourself busy when you are unable to attend anything (I can be like this for weeks too), really helps with being alone…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:26 PM
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I have to disagree as the "keto effect" is still up in the air. I can't say you are wrong, but I can say there is more to it then "Poeple are just over eating carbs". Having done keto myself. I do believe the two biggest factors in the keto is: You feel fuller/satisfied off fats way better then carbs (so you are kind of right). So it feels like you are eating more on keto then you are usually. Fats are slower to digest so you stay full for MUCH, Much longer. I usually go half a day before I even…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:04 AM
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I do both lol (Burgers from mcdonalds! So good). Lost 90 pounds doing it!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 11:56 PM
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I have had this issue in the last 2 weeks too. Summer time winding down, vacations and family time over. Got back to my single man apartment, and had to spend month without talking to anyone face to face. I work from home a lot (not a bad job though, gives me free time), so there were days where I saw not a single face. Really started to get to me, I was weight lifting and dieting, doing my hobbies, and taking care of business, but being alone for weeks on end starts to knaw at you. It became al…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 10:25 PM
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Yoyoing is real just not in a week. Biggest issue with keto there are no cheat days, its like eating a chip, you can't cheat just once. Too much carb craving. Your body trying to fuck you over. You are knee deep in cookies and peanut better and fucking up a months worth of work. I have been in this yo yo effect for a year now where I have to lose the same 10 pounds over and over because its a battle between old habits a new habits, some months the old ones win. And when they win they will put on…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:41 PM
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Second~ I did Keto lost 90 pounds and have kept them off for over a year now. Keto is nice because you can eat a bit more and lose weight/ feel full. Personally I hate this "BRO, calories in < calories out BRO, just eat less". Its useless info as telling someone to "Just stop drinking bro", or "Just move on from that chick shes wack bro". Which no one listens too. Usually there is something else going on with a overweight person psychologically. Eat cause they are depressed, lonely, bored, have …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:30 PM
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Second. I was over 300 as well, down to 220 right now and been there for awhile. It was impossible to do most things at 300 and god, forgot about dating unless you like being have soul crushing rejection 98% of the time from un attractive women. Now a days if I go out for a month or so I can usually get laid at least. Really hoping if lose 40 more pounds and get some muscle I can finally play dating on the fabled "EZ" mode (where Direct approach works like, half the time). I have a good career, …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:19 PM
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Late to the post, but I really enjoyed the first half about how it felt to be fat as teen and up. I have been over weight since I was 9, and about the same age as you now. That part was scary accurate, you can't enjoy the normal things like dances, swimming, or picture taking as you hate the way you look. I was so insecure about my weight in high school that anyone who was in better shape then me I instantly felt they were a better person then me. It's sad when you think everyone around you are …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:07 PM
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Piping in here. I lost 80 pounds on Keto. It works for sure, and gets to be quite nice a diet after the first couple of weeks. I will say though that it gets harder as you lose weight cause you cannot eat as much. When you are 300 lbs and keeping below 60 carbs, holy shit u can eat alot and lose. I have been unable to lose more for awhile now and kinda needed to read this post to keep going. Fat fasting and restarting my diet right now. However, everyone I have known who lost weight that started…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 01:13 AM
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FOr sure not unrealstic with what I go for as I don't ever go for super hot women at all. I think my SMV is just below average, I am overweight by like 40 pounds (been trying to lose it for a year now though, at gym every week), but weight loss is slow because I have big over eating issues, I use to be 100 pounds bigger too. I agree something like monk mode is probably what I need to do right now, lose the weight and get some more skills. Only issue is being by yourself for that long (I live alo…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:49 PM
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I have tried NOT to believe this, I tried to give the benefit of the doubt, but that rule just seems to pop up as true the more I go out dating. I use to go out every weekend to bars and social events, for years now, What I find is since I am not in the top 20, getting sex is a fucking shit storm of frustrating, soul wrenching failure, and then maybe I get laid that month, but probably not. I have been cuckold by more attractive higher SMV males already out in the field. Twice at least, my girl …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 10:01 PM
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I am tempted to become a 10 speed bike guy as well~ (Never seen a fat one). How do you guys handle Extreme heat or cold though, I have to dress up for work and arriving in a stinking puddle of sweat stained shirts and breathing hard wouldn't be good for my job.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 10:05 PM
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Great read, still halfway through it but I needed to read this today. Spending holiday memorial day weekend alone and feeling pretty down. This made me keep trying to work through it and make the best of it. Was feeling super depressed that I had no plans and no one around. Positive side though, I ended up gaming with my brothers I never ever see because they have families. We were all off work this weekend! Overwatch!!!! Was so fun.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:35 PM
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I like this advice. Trying to get the motivation/energy to get some sort of tier system set up. I find that 1.Job is covered 2.Diet is covered, I find I am at a loss of what to do. I have hobbies (Music/animation), but live alone and start feeling too depressed to work on them during the week. I work from home a lot too. Starts getting hard to leave my own room, and even clean up after myself. Get in the wtf ever mode ("Whats the point?" mode), even through I never really have zero days anymore,…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 08:04 PM
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Living most of my life in the midwest, can you go into more detail of what you mean. I think I can feel how shitty this area is but I have nothing to compare it too.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:20 AM
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Same. I have to be having a good week and stuff working out for me to really get in the zone. Even still, I open then talk for a second or two and things seems good then of course I end it really quickly and run off again cause I am nervous lol. Espcially with girls who I find very attractive or out of my league (Most 8++). I was way over 300+ pounds now closer to 200 (With some muscle), and I can't get over that hot girls may be interested in me still.Just seems impossible that they would be to…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 12:45 AM
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Actually what was awesome is in Jessica Jones (Who has a super power to be strong) her female friend tries to get trained in martial arts, and fails miserable in a actual fight because of her size. Her character was loaded so she spent years and thousands of dollars on lessons. I think the writers thought the same thing you did! Here's one of her fights:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMntmU-hj6c She would have died even with all that training. He over took her in size. Now don't get me started …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 10:03 PM
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We need a post like this every other week to randomly show up and remind everyone. I just got cut off suddenly on a short fling. We were hanging out every weekend for the last couple of months. Suddenly just texts she doesn't want to date anymore. I didn't even bother asking for a reason, probably just a lie anyways. I just texted back "well that sucks but OK. Your chioce", then refrained from sending anything else even though I wanted too. Still hurts, especially with the weekend coming. I work…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:17 PM
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I am at 26% body fat and only been lifting a month and half. I already feel better and more confident,then I did at the start of the year. I have had people comment I stand up much straighter and look taller++. Won't take too long to see results.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:54 PM
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Zouk is probably the hardest and best looking. The training produces very good female dancers. Because it's hard they also tend to be younger and hotter. I hooked up with this one zouk dancer and dancing with her was damn near transcendental. Thanks for the tip. I have never heard of this but know Bachata and salsa. I will look into it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:40 PM
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One of the most helpful posts I have read in awhile. Really speaks to me as I just starting learning last year and have been taking it seriously since. Pretty close to everything is true. I was going to make a reply to OP about who to target during lesson time, but you said it. The girls on the border of the scene (that can't dance well) are the best options for flings / plates. They look up to you. Very much gold, because it is true that reputation is a thing in tight nit dance groups. You don'…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:20 PM
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Ya don't do it though text like I did too. Just mention it when you guys are walking around or sitting casually. Just let her know that you do find her attractive and that window to date is open but if she rather close it it's not a big deal. Be relaxed and smile when talking about it. Best part is when she's feeling really lonely she may suddenly change her mind and you would be the first person she thinks of
/r/seduction03/02/16 04:47 PM
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Crash and burn situation sounds like. Yep, this happens. You not going to want to hear this, but the problem isn't anything she did, it is the fact you are worrying about afterwards. Who cares she cut you off, awkward shit like that happens and she could have a ungodly amount of reasons to do. The fact that you are so worked up about these situations shows that you are not quite "there" yet. Your the man for even trying and don't forget that. I know after some success you expect to be successful…
/r/seduction21/01/16 09:49 PM
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God you are so right about the shit blog posts. There is always like 3 on the front page.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:28 PM
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On a side note, "I don't know how to pick up girls" is the top comment on this post post right now...... You actually posted a great solution and have no upvotes. This is why seddit is kind of sucking now.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:03 PM
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People give RSD a hard time because of their history and weird stuff in the news. But in reality, they are more motivational speakers then anything now a days. I believe they do their job well, and I found most everything they say is entirely accurate. And like global warming, the nay sayers scream louder then the rest about the things they say. I have been out in the field myself and what RSD preaches, I have seen first hand as so freaking true. Owen in particular, has gotten a lot of flack in …
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:54 PM
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I am not 30 yet but I am getting close. I have dated girls much older then me in their 30s, and yeah I agree. They are a lot more forgiving with your game, and generally easier. Dodging ones with kids/married is the roughest part about this age group. I am not as picky as most guys though looks wise and I find some 30 year olds I am pretty dam attracted to.
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:21 PM
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Yep, Don't be afraid to take your time OP. No rush. That's one of the biggest complaints I have heard about virgin males. Really enjoy her body. Spend time giving massages and kissing everywhere you feel like. Make sure though YOU ARE CLEAN OP! Smell your breath, shower thoroughly that day.
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:06 PM
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Hell ya that sub has great life advice, but I feel its full of just bitter, angry keyboard jockies that need some where to bitch. Lot of angry "Just get a hooker" advice. Um hello thats illegal and could land me in jail or STD... Seriously ever other post mentions how much woman are nazis and others on just buying a hooker.
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:00 PM
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Yeah I wrote a couple last year. They just had like 10 up votes. Only field reports that make it on here are "Im a virgin and I went outside today..." and "I had a threesome twice last week". Pretty discouraging. Weird how those are polar opposites and both get upvoted the most.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:58 PM
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There needs to be more posts like this. There is too much woman hate and anger, not enough self improvement stories. I.E. Too much bitching not enough action. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:54 PM
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This is kind of beta of me, but I still like spending money on poeple in general. Ill pay for things for friends and girls alike just cause I like to do so. While I didn't HAVE to spend money on the girls that I slept with, I still spent a 20 or 30 bucks on them for dinner or drinks. Point being, is for guys to take this the wrong way and never spend a dime on a girl because they think its beta. Just do it cause it makes things more fun or easier for you, not to impress her is my rule. Though I …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 06:18 PM
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Slut shaming just seems to come from a place of insecurity to me. Why is he giving her shit? Her sucking a dick is a good thing! Any true alpha could handle her. Only problem I see is that the reaction to his comments were super harsh, and he didn't deserve to lose his job. Brought it on himself though. Guy fucked up, and messed with the wrong girl looks like. Stay off social media no matter what you do. Too much slut shaming on the red pill. We should not be slut shaming, as it is basically ins…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:48 PM
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Holy shit nice job. Did you weight lift while dieting? How long did it take? I could use some tips, been platued. Sounds like there are alot of benefits still to be had then. I still have that issue when cold approaching most girls. They do not seem into it if they are pretty attractive.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:57 PM
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I'd add that, getting game I think takes less time. If you are in shape, have muscles and good looking all you gotta do is be more reckless or cocky funny and that will take you farther then a guy at 300ibs with solid game. Losing a ton of weight can take years too, so a guy who is already in shape has a huge advantage. They just need to read a couple of books and apply them for a couple of months. I am chubby myself, and go out every weekend solo gaming. I have been passed up over guys who are …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:58 PM
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I went from 310 Pounds 5'9 to 205 currently. I will say I have gotten laid more this last year then I ever have. At 310 pounds girls wouldn't even give me their phone number, and would only use me for shit. I was in school so I was their best friend when they needed help on assignments or something else, and didn't even notice me when they didn't need stuff. Really dis heartining. Couldn't even get a date. I do get hit on by 6s now at least and can get laid if I try (I went 2 year dry spell befo…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:21 PM
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I needed to read this post. I use to be at 40%++ body fat, now I am at 27%. Even still I have gotten laid with average looking chicks more then I have ever in my life. Actually this had made me pretty complicate. Getting laid again kind of made me lazy with my diet. I needed to read this whole post to realize there is so much left to do. Pretty hot girls still ignore me for the most part. When I find a single hot chick she is always on huge defense with me. I guess I am not there yet weight wise…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 06:34 PM
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Good Reply, Nice job man.
/r/seduction09/10/15 05:23 PM
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A very good post. Fat hate goes both ways, and guys are worse about it. Here are my points: I was 300+ Pounds and women ignored the crap out of me. I never even got friend zoned, they just didn't want to be around me. After 2 years of depression and a ton of video games, I finally hit rock bottom and slowly lost the weight. I lost 100+ pounds in a year and half. Women treat me so much better now (I have a date tonight actually!).I am not mad anymore, because it is not their fault, fat hate is at…
/r/seduction09/10/15 05:13 PM
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I was able to shortcut this a bit. I always recommend guys take swing/salsa dance classes if you have them in the city. They usually are not too expensive, it gets you comfortable with touching/approaching women that are strangers and if you are likable gives you a social circle. This advice is not to popular on seddit for some reason, as it is always down voted. I guess too many guys just want to hit on women, lift weights and really nothing else. However, once you get OK at dancing, going to s…
/r/seduction08/10/15 06:05 PM
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"When I get a text saying that not a lot of people wanted to go so they all bailed on it" Lord I have been there. People suck. I just started solo gaming every other week or so myself this last summer. I cheat a bit because I usually hit up two step, salsa or swing bars. The women at these places want to be approached and asked, and it if you know how to dance decently you have a great ice breaker. However, The first time I went out was so nerve wracking and awkward like yours. One annoying thin…
/r/seduction06/10/15 01:39 AM
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The biggest turn on I have had is actually a nerdy girl with a kinky sexual appetite. So Women with thosw hobbies are actually a big turn on for me and most of the women I have dated have played magic or of games actually. However, they really didn't when I first met them. Most nerdy/sexy women are not gonna be found at these places. They are pretty hard to track down as they are usually hiding in their rooms. However, you could be going to things that a nerdy chick would probably enjoy doing (c…
/r/seduction29/09/15 02:28 AM
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One step at a time. Just DO THAT. Walk up and say Hi how are you. She will say I am good or something. Then feel free to walk away. Do that with like 10 more chicks till it feels easy. Once you can do that, then you can try asking for their name, age, what they are up too, If they like the weather, if they are single, if they like Chris Pratt movies, or whatever. Doesn't really matter man. Feels like you are thinking there is some like magical thing you can say to them. THERE IS NOT, gotta have …
/r/seduction07/08/15 08:33 PM
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Read Sidebar Realize you are a pussy Read Models by Mark Manson Realize things about pussy Start small steps you can do today or tomorrow before you get lazy. Working out for example. Find a PERSON (Male or female) walk up to them and Say "Hi, How are you" smile and maintain eye contact. Realize people will not punch you in the nuts and run screaming to the police. Have a good conversation with said person. ??? Start your fourth threesome in a month. Wash your dick in holy water cause that much …
/r/seduction07/08/15 07:31 PM
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That's a rough story. Cool to see you got away with 2 years just being a pull out king. Nice work. That actually helps make me feel better
/r/seduction06/08/15 08:02 PM
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Yeah Its kinda a new fear for me. I have improved myself this last year, and in these last 6 months, I have had more sex then all my previous years (Which is not a high margin mind you). Happy to read this, I just don't have much experience gambling with condoms. I am pretty nervous and have turned down some sex cause of it.
/r/seduction05/08/15 06:24 PM
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Kinda wondering this too. Have almost started 2 relationships in the last year because of this.
/r/seduction05/08/15 05:52 PM
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Dude i was 300 Pounds and now 208. I just slept with a girl last friday and we were both super naked. She didnt seem to care, and she orgasmed more then once. My BF is like 28%. I am probably one of the fatest dudes on here hitting on girls. I would kill to be skinny fat, instead of just fat fat. It's in your head.
/r/seduction27/07/15 05:05 PM
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Yeah I have this issue as well. I get involved with womans lives too easily, and since I have my own shit mostly together, they are usually turned on by it. The postive is the sexy time feels much more fulfilling and intense for me, then for a girl I have no investment in. I have a lot of issues sleeping with women I spent very little time with. Just usually isn't very good. However, the women who want to spent time with me usually have a lot of issues they need to work out of their life and lea…
/r/seduction23/07/15 04:48 PM
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Yeah I think goes against model's advice with polarizing and being honest/direct. Doing that wait 4 days thing just seems like playing games to me. A woman who is annoyed you texted her in the first couple of days seems to be a woman who is kind of immature and plays games. Best to be avoided. A mature woman who who interested in you will be happy you texted right away and didn't play stupid phone tag game. I am not a master but I definatly am a fan of strike while the iron is hot theory. That p…
/r/seduction21/07/15 10:31 PM
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Yeah for sure. I was coming off as a creeper and weird. When it comes to making friends fast. Having good body langauge, listening, sharing and listening some more, will take you a long way. Same goes for game.
/r/seduction16/07/15 08:11 PM
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Yeah bottom line, if you have a choice between staying home or going out alone, go out alone. A lot of us averages joes don't have the social circle (why were here too) to have a person on hand. And most of the guys I have been out with, they only get in the way. If you are super nervous about going out alone, best thing I can reccommend is take some salsa lessons and start at a salsa bar alone. Lotta girls will go out with one friend or even by themselves and expect/want to be approached by you…
/r/seduction15/07/15 06:21 PM
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Yeah, I have seen this as well. Bugs me since the guys give up too, then a new set of guys come in, stand around looking clueless then give up by next month.It is like a rotating door. Nothing more sad then 10 men and only 4 chicks standing in a dance class. The men look so defeated.
/r/seduction15/07/15 04:24 PM
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I always preach on here dance classes are the way to go. Get in shape, get more comfortable with women, and you always have a reason to kino ("I know how to salsa...oh you dont? Let me show you basic moves") Even just making friends with poeple in these instances, I can usually find a girl to go with me to salsa bars to dance with. Which really helps as they can kind of wing for you. Only real issue I run into is that there are other guys who figured this out. I use to feel like a prize, but lat…
/r/seduction15/07/15 12:09 AM
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"I'd sit at home and look at friends from high school on Facebook surrounded by their girlfriends and just feel sick to my stomach." Hit a little to close to home
/r/seduction14/07/15 11:50 PM
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I agree with this too. Some women you will need to take down a peg or too with negs, some really are just sweet girls who really do have some insecurity you shouldn't play on. More important conversation feels natural and fun, does a neg/compliment about her shoes being cheap/great FEEL right if she is asking what you do for a living? Un natural compliments that come out of no where when the guys can't think of nothing to say is what should be avoided. They make her feel weird and on defense. On…
/r/seduction14/07/15 11:33 PM
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Geh Kansas. Probably the worst place to do this stuff haha.
/r/seduction13/07/15 03:02 PM
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Fully agree. Its a wonderland if you are above average looks. If you don't meet the threshhold your gonna be more frustrated then enjoying it by far. Not impossible, but way more frustrating that might be a better idea to forget about it and go solo game.
/r/seduction10/07/15 09:13 PM
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Great~. It is good you are happy and thrilled with the results man. Any type of results is a step forward. You should try to keep that mind set, because after a month or two your gonna want so much more (Like me), and won't be happy with just having a good conversation like you did. I recently just got back into game, and started sarging on my own (Small city midwest, no good wingmen here), these last 2 weeks. Havn't had crazy amounts of sex but man, went from no girls talking to me to have at l…
/r/seduction10/07/15 08:54 PM
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Was scrolling Til I saw someone mention dance classes. These are good for increasing your social circle and meeting the occasional chick too. Got a fun small group of people to go out with now on weekends (to bars or whatever too). Beggining classes tend to have a super friendly and fun atmosphere. Always get invited to stuff after classes are over. Also, most of the time there are more single people looking to make friends then couples. Couples tend to just sit at home...
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:16 AM
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So cool. I actually dropped 45 kilos too! However I was super obese. 140 Kilos SW. I still have a ways to go but I am glad to read this. Needed the motivation to hit the gym tonight bro. Thanks.
/r/seduction07/07/15 07:39 PM
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How much did you lose and did it effect your game heavily ?
/r/seduction07/07/15 04:03 PM
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Lord know I have a looooooong list of women that have turned me down because of looks. I play music, have a good paying job, very little baggage, I can hold conversation well and generally a fun person from what I can tell. But noooooo, I am 40 pounds overweight and that just nixes all the above, as for the jobless dude with 2 kids who has a six pack of abs(This happended to me). He is apprently way better use of women's time.
/r/seduction06/07/15 10:06 PM
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Had to reply to this post. Me and you are very similar. I too, am at this stage where I can dance and approach girls with ease, but getting more then That proves difficult. I usually stick to more swing and salsa type places, where the ratio of women to men is much better. However, I find it very difficult to escalate things after I get done dancing with a girl. I just figured out I give horrible eye contact while dancing so maybe I just need to do a better job at that. I just this last week fin…
/r/seduction06/07/15 07:51 PM
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Did you lose weight in College? I am activily losing wieght, I was 310 pounds now I am 210 pounds. It has taken 2 years to get this far, and I still need to lose 40 more pounds. I am so close to just being average looking that I really am excited to see how poeple change towards me. I don't think I could be above average, but I also want to start weight lifting hardcore when I get to 170. Having a hot bod may push me over. I have had some decent results, and got laid a couple of times since losi…
/r/seduction06/07/15 03:18 PM
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Agreed OP looks James Deanish in those pictures which is tight. The one posted above just reminds all of us of mystery's outfits. He taught outter game more then inner, and probably why don't approve of him anymore.
/r/seduction01/07/15 11:45 PM
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I happy to read this. As guy who was 310 pounds, and lost 80 but still has 50 to go, glad to see it makes a huge difference strengthing your looks. This is widly motivational to me, and a lot of poeple told me that weight doesn't matter (looks don't matter too). I knew they were fucking wrong. I never even got a kiss at 310 last year. After dropping some of the weight I have gotten laid more then once! I even had a girl just leap on me and make out with me at a party once. Never ever had that ha…
/r/seduction01/07/15 10:31 PM
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Lotta guys on here don't like to dance so much, but it has been the best way for me to meet girls, burn calories and have a lotta fun. One sticking point I have with it is going from dancing partners to the next step. I have no trouble touching them anywhere while we are dancing, but as soon as the dance it over, for some reason I have a huge desire to run away and lose to that desire it often. It feels very awkward for me to make small talk after finishing a dance. Thus, getting a girls number …
/r/seduction30/06/15 05:54 PM
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Hahaha I have been in this spot. I generally am just really bad with names. Ask them to add you on facebook xD, thats what I did.
/r/seduction29/06/15 09:57 PM
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Ya, can't just read books. Can't learn Karate by reading about it. OP needs to stop looking for reasons not to talk to strangers.
/r/seduction29/06/15 09:56 PM
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I think the difference between gaming and just being a cool person, gaming means there is KINO escalation going, of some sort. Other wise just be a fun cool guy no matter what, when you see a girl you are intrested in. Start kinoing some, turns it into gaming. Thats the difference. Been said a lot on this forum but it's very true, Kino is King.
/r/seduction29/06/15 09:52 PM
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I would agree that being fit and confident is probably all most guys really. Though I rather use the word "Fun" instead of confident really. Confidence is too abstract a term. Fun just means "Wow, the girl enjoys being around you". That is very important.
/r/seduction29/06/15 09:26 PM
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Story is pretty close to mine. Got away from college for a bit. Moved back in with parents. Got shit together, biggest difference instead of underweight I was overweight with a eating disorder. I was unemployed, obese, drop out, and hadn't gotten laid in awhile. Lived an entire year like this. Til I managed to get my shit together, found a good paying job, moved out of parents, went back to school lost weight, and got laid again. Thus, my whole process is taking a lot longer :(. I still have 40 …
/r/seduction29/06/15 08:17 PM
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The girl I lost my Virginity too I met at a library!
/r/seduction29/06/15 06:23 PM
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Yeah, I feel the true Alpha male treats everyone basically the same not matter who they are or how they look. Friendly and fun no matter who he talks to and he talks to everyone, gets to know everyone. Too much focus on getting the hottest of the hot. Knowing as many poeple as possible will help you get laid and generally keep you from getting too depressed, sitting alone in your room for months. Thats where most of us start at anyways.
/r/seduction29/06/15 06:21 PM
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Gosh I am in the same boat actually. Just not caring this summer even though last winter and spring I was trying every week. Getting kinda burned out. Lotta work, and what seems like a kinda small pay off right now (Didn't see the results I would be happy with, just OK results). Feeling pretty unmotivated too was thinking of asking this same question on seddit as well. Good answers on here so far.
/r/seduction25/06/15 08:18 PM
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Personally, I agree with the other posters, it is a bit messy and the information isn't too new. However, I would love to read some of your experiences this last year that taught you these things. I think that would suit your writing style better too, as your attacking a help guide in a story telling manner. Tell us some personal stories.
/r/seduction24/06/15 02:30 PM
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Very very true reply. I'll add my big piece of advice I wish I had. Get to know every girl you thinks is cool, be direct with the ones you like (espcially at that age when mixed signals are thrown everywhere). When getting to know them, better to ask basic questions at least ("How was your weekend?", "What are you taking this semester?", "Looking for a job?") then NOTHING at all. When you feel comfortable enough with them, Let them know you find they cute, fun, datable or whatever you like about…
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:17 PM
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Make sure there is a hot chick with you that doesn't look too much like your sister, and is also not making out with you in any sense. Make sure she looks happy around you too. Or make it look like you aren't lonly, sad, and kinda lazy enough to do online dating while your online dating... Oh and be very handsome.
/r/seduction17/06/15 07:38 PM
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Yeah I get the vibe (Probably not OP's intention) from this post that we should assume a girl plays games. I just note a remindar about Model's don't play games, don't expect games kind of thing. If you are interested in her just show it and move on if no. A woman who is too bi polar cat like would be very annoying to be around. Avoid the cat and mouse game if you will (lol puns).
/r/seduction17/06/15 07:11 PM
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There is a comment on here already that says jerk off, but I would almost say the opposite. Sounds like you could benefit from /r/nofap. Your wishy washy nature probably is just you jerking off too much and in tern, you don't feel attracted to women, then you do, then you don't for awhile. Wishy washy men or women are a big turn offs so I can see why she is losing interest. I am willing to lay money on the table she will become very attractive after stop fappin for a week. Your gonna be singing …
/r/seduction16/06/15 10:47 PM
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In my experience, I have always been the fatter uglier one, and it has never freakin helped having a better looking guy with me. However, It does help having a guy who knows a lot of girls though. Sometimes good looking bros do have a lot of female friends, but best thing to have is a guy/girl who is worse looking then you that is sociallly plugged in. Sadly, the guys I hung out with who were more attractive then me usually got in the way more then they helped. They relied so much on their looks…
/r/seduction16/06/15 10:33 PM
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Nope getting sexy (Get some abs son), getting brave (tell every girl you think is hot shes cute, always be grabbing at her), and getting some cool hobbies (Guitar, keyboard, dancing) will take you much farther then being a obnoxious jerk ever will. One of the highlights of my life is having my shirt off playing guitar at 1 am for a girl who I just slept with pawing at me. And I am chubby/fat so I hate having my shirt off !
/r/seduction16/06/15 09:59 PM
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Very true. Plus this subreddit is all about the process, not so much the result. You need to face her person to person and stop pussin out. This whole subreddit exists because pussin out happens to all of us, and is very hard to overcome. we should really just change the name to /r/stopthepusstogetthepuss
/r/seduction16/06/15 09:52 PM
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Maybe sweet is code for clingy? My thought he was faking his image that she (Just her really) was attacted too, and then he started showing his true, clingy, insecure self that he sees as "Sweet"? Big turn off there. Sounds like you guys are younger as well, this matters less when your are in the older crowd. Most girls have been through those guys are sick of them after teenage/early twenties years. "Badboy" image just turns into "Jobless/no ambitions/waste of time" image.
/r/seduction16/06/15 09:42 PM
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Ya, though depends exactly which defintion of one ites you are referring too. The worst one being in love with one girl who doesn't love you back, this in tern, prevents you from dating other women because you obessed. That's not ok in any sense even for a couple of months.
/r/seduction16/06/15 08:17 PM
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Posts like this need more upvotes. Kind of annoying but the posts that get upvoted the most are the ones that either follow Mark Mansons "Models" philosphy or stories of more extreme successes. You sound like you had a crazy failed night, but mentally you are in a better spot then some of the posters of success stories on here (Sad moopy I got laid but sex is meaningless crap). Its gonna be epic once you have a crazy fun filled night (Law of averages states you will have at least one eventually)…
/r/seduction16/06/15 07:21 PM
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For me, it was too things that really help the desperation battle. 1. Realizing I am a self sustaining free individual who can do what he wants when he wants. Woman or no, I dont NEED a woman to enjoy my day/weekend. Having a lot of hobbies really helps this mental game. 2. Having no expectations of the work I put in. The "Anything can happen kind of attitude". I could bomb one month straight then meet the love of my life the next week. Who knows... whatever happens it will make a interesting st…
/r/seduction16/06/15 04:14 PM
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Money will! That or get her drunk :S
/r/seduction16/06/15 02:36 PM
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Hate to say it, you are indeed right, but this is a half finished post. There is another side to the coin. We all see guys who are good looking just "Get women" with 0 game. You ask them for advice and they just say "dunno be yourself". Cause they don't have to work for it. Every PUA Guru life story has at least one guy friend in it that confused the hell out of the story teller. It's sad and motivational at the same time. You have two options > Get sexier (as much as possible) and/or work harde…
/r/seduction15/06/15 09:31 PM
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I find this eye contact thing really applies to mostly night game, singles events or maybe social dances/classes. The women are actively looking for a partner to team up with. Most women are just lost in thought about all the crap they gotta do during the day. We can't read too much into it during these times. I don't see it much attention like that during the day either. Why are you so focused on this? Someone who is doing a lot of approaches and talking to every he can wouldn't have been askin…
/r/seduction10/04/15 08:17 PM
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As a guy who takes salsa, swing, and country dance lessons. Don't worry about yourself. Just make dancing fun for her and keep escalating with her. Dance is a great way to do that. Basically for the average club there is a formula to follow. Find the rhythm and just bounce to it with your knees, head and shoulders. Then start with holding hands and bounce together. Smile and have fun doing it. Then pull her close. Grab her hips and move them back and forth to the music, then if she really seems …
/r/seduction10/04/15 08:07 PM
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I am a D and D Dork, Big glasses, and chubby.I greatly disliked them of course, and I am last guy you would see at the clubs. Yet I was the guy making out with two chicks in the parking lot at the last one. Because I pushed that comfort zone. Starting to like them now...
/r/seduction10/04/15 07:15 PM
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I fully agree with your counter post to this one. OP is very well written but I feel this post is a bit over hyped. I feel like its another full circle turn. Like hes kind of just implying you need to just be yourself (A AFC), so forget about everything you learned and "Be confident", kind of advice, which sounds nice and easy but no real world application. Desperation is also a sensitive word on this thread, being the un-said elephant in the room. We all started out reading about this stuff bec…
/r/seduction10/04/15 07:06 PM
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Hah, veeerrrry early stages and you do have a lot of work ahead of ya. Biggest seems to be you have a ton of mental game to work on. Your still thinking about middle school? Jesus Christ! Let that go now. I fell down a flight of stairs in front of 6 girls with my chubby butt crack in the air and I only am the only one who probably remebers that. We all got baggage if we dig deep enough. You probably are bearly average in looks, but personally, being average means you look better then a lot of gu…
/r/seduction03/04/15 06:30 PM
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Hah i went on a date with a girl whos going to be gone for five months , but wants to meet back up as well xD. Ill keep her number around... I say let that seed stay planted and see if anything comes up later, not looking for a LTR anyways right now, perfect girl to have fun and be done with.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:10 PM
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If its a calmer environement, a simple "Hi you guys look cool, whats ur names?" then introduce yourself. You can also find something you like necklace, shoes, dress and tell them you like it, then introduce yourself. This type of intro sounds bland but you are not trying to seduce them, just work on talking to strangers right now. Simple and easy for a new person to remeber. Save the canned lines and advance openers for a more experienced you, those are kind of a crutch anyways. If they don't go…
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:49 PM
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Kid has the right attitude I salute him. Sounds like you and his friend were kinda AMOGing him a bit... his friend sucks ass. Why a poor wingman is worse then no wingman. Not too bad for a 15 year old, though he might have been autistic.
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:27 PM
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I will say props to you, not sure why this is not a more popular thread. It was clear and concise. Poeple need to post there failures as well, and those just don't get upvoted enough because they don't have a magical hollywood ending. Anyways big UPs to doing this in a club, you are ballsy and to be respected. Most guys won't touch the dance floor let alone try to approach on it. And you still had fun, something a lot of sedditors forget to have. Have you thought about taking some salsa or swing…
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:06 PM
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Being you in college man, she probably is a pretty reserved and possible shy girl. One thing this forum is too focused on instant lay and attraction. You really supposed to just be enjoying the experience and don't worry about the result, she's also could have helped you greatly increase your social circle. 4 girls and 1 dude, other guys in the bar were probably jealous of you. I would vote keep her as a friend and be ok with that, stop trying to shortcut it to seduction or gf and just have a mo…
/r/seduction03/04/15 12:27 AM
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Shes showing him other signs, so shes not instantly not interested. Shes on the fence about kissing, but I think pushing her further and getting a bit more aggressive in a playful fun way would work. Maybe shes into the guy forcing himself a bit on her (Playfully of course).
/r/seduction02/04/15 11:23 PM
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I had a girl do this to me too. Sneaking one on her cheek seemed to get things started. We made out later. Sneak one on the cheek! Or keep trying, but try when you two are alone (Not around friends), thats the best time to do it.
/r/seduction02/04/15 11:14 PM
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Exactly grab her back, Tickle, dance in place, Thumb war, grab her hand and sees whos is bigger, bounce your hip against hers, or just radomly kiss her on the cheek (Works better then you think, and if she lets you do it then smiles/blushes thats a great sign). There is a ton of things you can do.
/r/seduction02/04/15 11:08 PM
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This, only thing I will add is nothing you can do over text will convince her to go out with you. Don't waste time trying to convince her too.
/r/seduction02/04/15 10:37 PM
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Unclear, but I think you have a couple of issues. You make it sound like hanging out with these chicks is boring and dumb, are you not having fun? I wish I could go back to freshmen year of college, cause its amazing. You may have a sticking point to one night stands, I have that as well, but honestly, its just something else you need to work past. Don't play the "Knight in shining armor" kind of attitude. You want sex like the rest of humanity You current life sounds exciting man be proud. Don'…
/r/seduction02/04/15 10:13 PM
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I am a guy who recently started getting serious as well. This last month has been very interesting. I have Made out with 4 different chicks in one month, and gotten laid once (2 year fucking dry spell, not a single kiss in those two years as well). There are three things I learned as well. Kino is indeed king. Its better to try then apologize, then to never even touch them.And even if they aren't totally into it, keep trying, I have pushed kino with no clear body language and it has paid off wel…
/r/seduction02/04/15 09:53 PM
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I am running to into a similar issue, only they don't want to have sex or start a relationship, but they love to make out or spend time with me. Dunno what to make of that. Kinda like, friends with minor benefits lol. Dunno if that is a thing...
/r/seduction02/04/15 09:16 PM
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I second this. Dance stuff has been my bread and butter this last half year. I go dancing often. Somtimes we work up a hunger/thirst after dancing and go out together, great time to get to know them. In fact I met one girl last month in a swing dancing class and last night we met up and practice outside in a parking for nearly 2 hours while making out hotly to Jazz music between dances. Was a magical moment that made me feel like I finally made big progress. I should write up a FR.
/r/seduction02/04/15 09:12 PM
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I have gotten very good at this myself lately. Oddly I started in a weird way. I go jogging pretty often and workout at the gym in order to lose weight. The track I jog on is usually full of people. When I see someone running hard or even just keepin up a good pace. I like to tap their arm or elbow as I pass by them and give them a big smile and a thumbs up. I have had NO one ever take that the wrong way so its safe. I usually don't even say anything Just smile at them . People love to see you s…
/r/seduction02/04/15 08:08 PM
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Yeah this is true for internet dating, or FB messaging as well. Why I try not to do any of them, unless its the only way to get in contact with the person. Face to face is way better for me.
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:30 PM
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Sauce?
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:22 PM
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Exactly, go to dance classes, pick up guitar, do an improv class, do yoga or if you are in a really small town pick up writing stories and go to a coffee shop and just write and hit on girls. Talk to both girls and guys in these settings.
/r/seduction02/04/15 03:46 PM
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Only reason I say that is to get people comfortable with that idea that it can and probably will happen. And yep its not that bad, but if you think worst case scenrio and can still approach you are in the right mindset.
/r/seduction02/04/15 02:48 PM
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I half admire him for living the dream of dating multple women, as I am still working up to that, but yeah you are right, says things about character
/r/seduction01/04/15 10:18 PM
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Whole shebang is a "Meh" deal on both sides you are right. Girls get screwed over just as much. My buddy is online dating right now (He ONLY online dates). He got a GF on there, and is still picking up other chicks and sleeping with them reguarly. He is a attractive guy and has worked hard for it, but still... Cheating is cheating I guess. His girls are getting screwed over right now.
/r/seduction01/04/15 09:56 PM
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Nice job man, keep going even though she may have gave you a false number. A heads up if you continue down this road. YOU WILL GET REJECTED horribly and brutally at some point or another. ITS OK, bite your lip and keep trying. Learn from it as well.
/r/seduction01/04/15 09:53 PM
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Worst part, they probably are generally a weak, asshole or generally terrible dudes, but they will get picked over you easily if they are better looking. Sesspool.
/r/seduction01/04/15 09:50 PM
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Exactly, its easy and you can Lie all you want. Attracts the wrong sort of poeple in general. As someone who finally found his balls and has done a lot of cold approaches in the last month, I felt like I have earned my green belt to talk shit about it.
/r/seduction01/04/15 09:47 PM
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You will not grow at all as well. It is a COP out of growth. Why is there so many men on Tinder, and so few doing approaches? Tinder is easy and safe, and any chump can feel like a champion if hes behind the shield of the internet. If you want a more active and fun life, easy and safe is not the answer.
/r/seduction01/04/15 09:43 PM
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The isolate part is my sticking point right now, I have since vastly improved on my escalation. Something clicked, and I realized I should always assume permission to touch them, if they don't like it I'll just apologize. I have no issues touching women if I know they are ok with it. I have been going out since that night and escalating. Last Sunday I made out with a girl I met in salsa class in the parking lot, Escalating is amazing!! Isolation though, I got lucky that time as a group of poeple…
/r/seduction01/04/15 02:38 PM
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EVEN MAH GRANDMA!??
/r/seduction12/03/15 02:23 PM
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Yeah pretty much sums up to "Be as charismatic and physically attractive as you can be".
/r/seduction11/03/15 11:26 PM
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You are steadily selling me on this idea. Alotta good points here. One thing I always do find annoying though is the "Women earn your affections", not really sure what everyone means with that "Make her chase you" stuff. I mean you have to ask her out, plan the date, and invest in her to make sure they do no not flake. Sounds like a awful lot of chasing on your end and that whole strategy gets thrown out the window at the start.
/r/seduction11/03/15 10:39 PM
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So you had 3 years with no success or 2? Can you go into more detail on how many women rejected you? Did you feel like giving up? Have you improved your physically appearance much as well? Got into shape maybe, as I would think this had some effect on your game.
/r/seduction10/03/15 11:27 PM
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Yeah I have a mantra on this as well. I just take a deep breath and say "On to the the next!". Makes me instantly brush off and let go of the bad vibe and get moving on another chick. Maybe OP should develop a mantra to help move on quickly.
/r/seduction10/03/15 11:20 PM
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I go weekly to lessons myself. I defiantly say each Dance class usually brings in new girls for me to get to know. Constantly meeting new ones does help you forget faster. Its when you are alone, depressed and bored is when you dwell on this shit the most. Dance, Improv, Yoga classes and such are WAAAY underrated on this sub reddit. Way better to go to these then bars and clubs.
/r/seduction10/03/15 11:17 PM
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How many and how long did it take for you?
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:52 PM
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Mah don't beat yourself up. It was one simple conversation, and she wasn't giving off many signs. Unless she is young, very awkward and oblivious (Yes all three) she probably was trying to socially engineer you away from asking for her number as your body language probably said you were interested in her. I had this happen now and then in my early college days. Honestly the direct approach would probably have cleared all this unsureness up. a quick "You are cute can I grab your number" (So hard …
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:18 PM
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Lol true. I go back and forth mood wise when rejected a lot. A string of rejection is a harsh mistress. I kinda in this funk as well as I have gotten rejected quite a lot these last six months, even by girls who were NOT even that attractive... I had two dates this last weekend and both of them ended with me alone at the end of the night, right back to where I started from. Last sunday I swore I was done for awhile. But Alas here are am, searching sub reddit for any tid bit on info that could he…
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:03 PM
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Was it only one girl that has said this? Have you gotten laid in the last year (With anyone?)?
/r/seduction10/03/15 09:21 PM
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OP lets be honest now... how overweight or underweight are you?
/r/seduction10/03/15 09:10 PM
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I had a similiar position only it was done in a lot nicer fashion. A girl I had a thing for told me that she thought I was hilarious to hang out with, but she didn't find me physically attractive. Granted, I have an extra 50 pounds of fat on me. I am willing to bet if I lost it and got my arms fucking jacked her opinion would have flipped a 180 on me. I have since then started weight lifting and loving how it makes me feel after a month or so of doing it. And believe you me I have her number and…
/r/seduction10/03/15 09:04 PM
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You be amazed how much can change in a single year, and how quickly a year can fly by. You can completely restructure and change your life around. You can get in remarkable shape, master new hobbies/skills, and completely change your personality in a year. I am very excited to see what will change for me in this next year!
/r/seduction10/03/15 05:04 PM
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Me too. In College, jobless, friendless, dateless, 300++ Lbs and played video games all day. This last 2014 year been turning that around as well. Lost 80 pounds, Got a good job in my major, been going out on dates once or twice a month and have a social life now. But I can mirror this exact experience. Haven't slept with anyone really and just kinda get one date then get rejected usually. I know how OP feels with just ending the night alone every weekend. I am hoping like OP its just a matter o…
/r/seduction10/03/15 04:50 PM
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Ugh I don't know about this post. I feel it will be taken the wrong way by the younger crowd. I call that just beating around the bush with women. Beating around the bush like this instead of directly tell her your intentions sounds like it could amount to a lot of time wasted. I feel you will get too invested in a girl that you will never have by trying to "Escalate" things over time like this, or "Letting her fall for you". Most poeple (not all of them of course) I have met in real life that a…
/r/seduction02/03/15 11:10 PM
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Yah doesn't hurt to put the word out you are in the market to some of your buddies or friends. But chances are OP is more like me.Have to do everything alone, including going hunting. For me salsa/swing classes/clubs are my go to spot for meeting women. Highly reccommend looking some up.
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:16 AM
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You know whats a double standard, lotta guys are ok with a woman not having a job while dating, but flip flopped our value goes down tremoundsly.
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:14 AM
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First and formost, you have to want to change and be willing to do anything to achieve it. Really focus on your goals here and what would you be happy with. Sleeping with 10? 20? 100? Or just finding one girl to hang out with. Second, I reccommend joining a Swing/Salsa dance class or club. It really helps break down barriers, like touching, confidence and ability to deal with social awkwardness. Seriously, your ability to plow though feeling like a complete baby faced noob at dancing directly co…
/r/seduction24/02/15 11:30 PM
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I have this exact thing happening too this friday (hopefully no flake). Luckily I got a nerdy one, and I think she wants to video games or play magic the gathering at our local video game bar, and drink some. I Like some of these drinking converstation games posted here, very useful. Good luck to you fair sir
/r/seduction24/02/15 10:16 PM
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God young girls are just the worst at this. It's unfortunate but you will find girls around your age are notouriosly flaky. Especially if they are online dating. Just imagine how flaky you would be if you had 5 or more chicks a day that are decently attractive constantly messaging you for dates and attention. Plus, if you wanted to have sex with one of them, all you have to do is ask. Welcome to the wonderful world of being a 19 year old hot girl. The only thing you can do man is move on. Find t…
/r/seduction24/02/15 03:45 AM
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I have actually done this (Sept for the ice cream, used fries in my case). It does get you a date pretty quick, and I will attest to it working for sure! Works great for women you do not know very well!
/r/seduction18/02/15 11:36 PM
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Dance classes have been my only way to meet women usually. I am stuck at work all day surrounded by men. I don't like loud bar scene at all. I have been taking dance classes and have met a lot of cool chicks through it over this last year. Plus I am now actually halfway decent at it, and most women find it very interesting that I know how to do this.
/r/seduction05/02/15 04:07 PM
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OK, that is just a pouty 5 year old way to do things. Usually if the girl beats me I just high five her and buy her a drink or french fries as a prize. She super proud the rest of the night usually. It supposed to be fun...
/r/seduction05/02/15 03:45 PM
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This is actually my go to move. I usually set up some sort of "Game" we can play that they are decent at, scrable, air hockey, any playing card games. I don't take it seriously, but very excitedly, usualy just bet some sort of cheap food or something on the game to make it interesting. I make it very dramatic and fun, and if I lose the girl usually is very excited and cheering. After that its somthing to talk about the rest of the night. I usually do this with women to keep them from flaking out…
/r/seduction04/02/15 06:13 PM
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Awesome thanks ,I really needed to read this. I actually do have my hair (no signs of hair loss, its not in my genetics) and make good money and I not even 30 yet. Just need to get into better shape.
/r/seduction23/01/15 05:09 PM
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I always wondered about that, the whole "Age" difference doesn't matter too much if you are a hot 40 year old huh? Like in better shape then most 30 year olds probably.
/r/seduction23/01/15 04:45 AM
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Handicap... Exactly what I would call it. It is like playing street fighter or soul calibur with a opponent who has 10x your life. Feels rigged, no amount of book reading or knowledge building in your life can save you if your opponent has any idea of how to play the game. Why keep playing with such a handicap, just become shapely and the game becomes much more fair. Grew up with a guy, always had girls fall into his lap. Girls I would kill for would ask him out, while I struggled just to find a…
/r/seduction29/08/14 08:20 PM
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This exactly, I have had it in my head that physical attraction and being in shape turns dating into easy mode. Otherwise you have to make up for it with "game", talent, money, or pure depeseration. Never been a fan of "Be more confident" and "Woman don't care about looks", crap that poeple say and don't really know much about. I have been down to 180 pounds, up to 300 pounds and now back down to 225 (Current weight). I will say the whole dating process has become easier (but not easy mode yet).…
/r/seduction29/08/14 07:51 PM
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Hey Tony D, Just got done reading your Tiny Failures book . Best indie book I have read on amazon. Was greatly entertaining while passing time at work. It was The Game sept much much more believable and down to earth. It was like, if some average joe tried to relive what Niel did (except your broke as shit lol, Niel seemed to always have tons of cash). I felt you were honest to the dime, even your sexual performances seemed a tad too honest (Geez, gotta work on lasting longer buddy!). Just bough…
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:05 AM
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Nice dude and you scored a phone number with that weight. Gives me hope!
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:44 AM
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What does that bring you down to now?
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:39 AM
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Hah, just got back from the gym. I went up to this chick and tried to high five her and dropped my phone hard. I lost 2 more pounds this week. Told her how much I lost but I made it so awkward I slowly backed away even tho she was keeping eye contact and smiling. T_T Gonna take some time... Thanks for the slap on the ass though. Needed that pep talk!
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:05 AM
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Thanks, I have been pretty nervous testing the waters. I was 300 or so and getting shot down like a Japanese ww2 pilot. It destroyed my confidence and self esteem. One chick just said "ew no". Least she was honest. No luck for months. Eventually I gave up and starting losing weight, figuring that was the issue. I am now 234 and havnt asked anyone out for like a year. Did u have more luck as you got below 230?
/r/seduction16/07/14 11:43 PM
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How far overwieght are you? I have a theory that there is no such thing as a fat PUA, like 50++ pounds over weight. None of the top pick up peeps are that heavy, usually quite the opposite. It a bit motivational thinking that solving the weight problem will drastically help.
/r/seduction16/07/14 04:30 PM
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Ballsy though, You did it in front of a crowd and you were alone. Everyone is stone sober and may or not may not want to really be hit on. I am always nervous I am making them angry because they are just trying to have some fun or do something productive and you are hitting on them. I got a lot of confidence issues to go over though, since I still have that attitude that it is very unlikely I can make it on my looks alone. Giving a girl 15 minutes to get to know me enough for a date just seems o…
/r/seduction16/07/14 03:29 PM
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I really like this post, its what I would like to do more of. See a girl in a generally public place during your hobby time. Fluff for a bit then ask her out. There is not enough topics on Day pickup but that is where you will find the best type of women, I am not a big fan of the night club party girls.
/r/seduction16/07/14 03:18 PM
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