I have been debating writing a small post about this for a bit now. Other posts have said it, the best way to be more of a boss with women is to go out and actually meet women. Every guru says simply being in a setting and reguarly approaching women will do more for you then any amount of reading/theory ever would. The three A's "Approach Approach Approach".

But if you are like me, you probably have no friends, you played PC Games most of your life and generally aren't to great looking. You going to a bar alone is like you sticking your cock in camp fire. You try to avoid it at all costs. The one trick I have to say that got me OK with going out alone, was taking salsa/ballroom dancing lessons. I spent a month or so taking lessons at a local univerity and then at a dance studio. I met a lot of cool chicks and a month or so later I picked up the skills to be half way decent at it.

These last 4 weeks, many months after lurking and trying to force myself to go out more with no success. I went out to a salsa bar and I was amazed...

Story time Bitches.

It was friday night at 10 PM and it was starting to get busy. I got to the bar and I gulped down some water, I looked around with aprehension and waited for eye contact like any good sedditor does. I was still nervous and sweaty as a guy masturbating in a church bathroom. "I dont belong here, What if they find out I am a lonly basterd who is here to touch women?". I breath heavy, as thoughts of someone calling the cops fill my head.

I decided that walking around the place in circles is the best way to sort this out. Standing at the bar was making me feel nervous. Jesus be praised so many hot chicks just sitting and staring into space. I walk around and around and realize no one was giving me eye contact. So I decided to just bite my lip and walk up to the first girl and take the plunge. First one is the hardest right?

"Uh... Dance?" were the only two words I uttered. "OH um no thanks".

Shit balls fuck.

That happended 2 more times and I felt like running out the door. I sat down in the corner, thinking of something that could both kill me and get me out of here at the same time. But, instead of diving out the nearest window and into on coming traffic, I thought about what I was doing wrong. I suddenly realized I wasn't smiling, or even using full sentences, and my posture was terrible. I coached myself and the next girl I walked up too gave her great eye contact, a big smile and asked her name before I even asked her to dance.

"Hi! You look cool, whats your name"

" Im Blah blah" giggles

(O shit she giggled, I am totes in).

"Sweet! Lets dance!"

"Oh, yeah sure!"

This did wonders and the rest of the night no one said no~ I danced and had fun with over 10 girls in a hour or so. Had even one girl compliment my dancing! I found a couple of girls from class as well and danced with them. It was a fun first time solo night gaming.

Since then I have been out about 3 or 4 more times soloing. I meet new girls every night. I just got 2 numbers last time I went, so I am getting better. One of the numbers wants to meet up tonight~~ So if you want a tip to make things a big easier with night game, take some lessons, and you suddenly have reason to be at the bars alone. Anyone asks why you are alone, give a "Im just here to learn!" type of reply. Makes you seem like a cool person whos trying to get out more, less like a creeper.

TL;DR Take ballroom dance lessons. Go to bars that have that dancing to start with. They will make you feel much less awkward, and allow you to have a goal when night gaming by yourself.