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1

If you're planning in the heat of the moment you need to MEET UP in the heat of the moment skip the number. Meet up within 1-2 days.
/r/seduction26/01/15 05:59 PM
1

This has worked for me every time, sooner or later. "Maybe? haha" nothing else. It forces them to clarify or let you go. Time saved, either in meeting up or not meeting up at all with someone who isn't down.
/r/seduction26/01/15 05:56 PM
3

PROTIP: Sexual skill isn't about actual sexual skill, it's about dominance I've gone down both paths, and as counterintuitive as it is right now, the best sex most women will have is when they are being dominated by a guy who is almost selfish in prioritizing his own pleasure, not when someone skillfully goes down on her and then uses their expert fingers to get her off as he fucks her. The only real stuff you need to have is basic cardiovascular skill (go run and stuff), and the ability to put …
/r/seduction26/01/15 05:54 PM
1

if her friends are dicks to you or in general, i really wouldnt make excuses, id just leave and be straight up if asked.
/r/seduction24/01/15 01:50 PM
2

You're not the only guy she's seeing
/r/seduction23/01/15 04:44 PM
3

This^ Touching them with a reason IS NOT sexual intent. Sexual intent is doing it because you find them attractive and fucking want to.
/r/seduction23/01/15 01:51 PM
6

if there's no physical contact you're going to need some heavy sexual overtones.
/r/seduction22/01/15 09:25 PM
2

best answer. I do the same thing.
/r/seduction22/01/15 06:14 PM
16

This is certainly interesting but try to avoid being too friendly without showing enough sexual intent.
/r/seduction22/01/15 06:12 PM
1

All of these are honestly much too obvious and useless for anyone who has been here over a week.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:16 PM
3

28 dates later....
/r/seduction16/01/15 10:21 PM
3

most people work for money not fun, so my point applies to the majority. even for those with an interesting job, talking about work is very common theme, you will get prepared answers and will not make you stand out in the slightest. talking about work will also not make her sexually or romantically excited in the slightest. complaining on either side, your or hers, is not attractive because, as you said, negativity kills the mood Sure, you can change the subject, but you're just killing time at…
/r/seduction16/01/15 02:25 PM
12

I'd say stay the hell away from Occupation. in most cases it will be boring. EDIT: Everyone fancy-pants job exceptions don't make the rule! Stop being so fancy!
/r/seduction15/01/15 08:05 PM
2

Cool FRs As a side point, I'd add that even if it's considered rude, you sticking to your guns and not doing it anyway will help cement your confidence and frame. And there is no need to explain.
/r/seduction14/01/15 06:40 PM
0

Right, but her role should be moreso supporting you, not necessarily initiating and leading. You'd feel emasculated if she led even half the time.
/r/seduction14/01/15 12:03 AM
8

Men and women being equals doesn't mean that everything is split halfway.
/r/seduction13/01/15 10:30 PM
2

Man, I've had multiple concurrent relationships in the past and it honestly gets kind of stressful. Not to mention if you actually want to move emotionally forward with one it's either super slow or impossible while also emotionally investing in other women.
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:23 PM
1

Possibly, but like ANY red flag, you need more red flags to be sure (just like IOIs)
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:20 PM
12

You don't You have sex. Repeat many times Avoid relationshippy behaviors (don't see them if not for sex) And it will simply occur.
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:18 PM
36

Can. But you can bet 99% of the attractive ones won't. Not to mention you look far more attractive and confident when you are the one initiating.
/r/seduction13/01/15 07:06 PM
44

why then should I have to do EVERYTHING?? Because you are a man, not a woman. Deal with it.
/r/seduction13/01/15 06:53 PM
7

The only dinner dates you should do should be you cooking dinner on the second date at your place
/r/seduction08/01/15 08:36 PM
2

honestly, your story isn't even that bad - I've seen way worse, and experienced a few worse myself. that being said, totally on board with your points, watch the fuck out
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:59 PM
1

Don't excuse your behavior. You didn't kill her puppy, you just got pissed once. Feel free to contact her as if nothing happened. Also, reconsider being exclusive if she keeps telling you no.
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:57 PM
1

Ah si? Como ha cambiado el Peru. Yo no vivo alla hace años, pero visite recientemente por unos dias y fue muy sorprendente
/r/seduction07/01/15 09:30 PM
1

Dale Peruano! que suerte, cuando yo vivi alli nunca tuve la suerte de conocer turistas
/r/seduction07/01/15 07:51 PM
1

how'd it go?
/r/askTRP07/01/15 06:27 PM
1

I agree, but given the question he's asking, I don't think he would understand. You can't teach a man who can't physically hold a fishing pole to fish.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 02:02 PM
3

You're god damn right it does. She can be physically into you from the get go, but if you're not confident then it will only be a matter of time before that attraction fades, due to how incredibly unattractive a lack of confidence is. And that's ignoring the fact that when a girl is "into you" it usually means she's into you as a whole, including the behavior she has perceived of you.
/r/seduction07/01/15 02:00 PM
2

It doesn't matter whether she was telling the truth or not. She did not want to hang with you. it's that simple. good try tho, keep it up
/r/seduction07/01/15 02:50 AM
2

If it's brought up, which it likely won't be, play it off with humor, doesn't matter what kind or how funny it is. What does matter is that you do NOT take the question seriously.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 02:48 AM
-2

good points here but seems overly complicated for the question OP asks...
/r/askTRP07/01/15 02:47 AM
1

Any casual venue near your place so that you can hang out, go for a walk, and pull her back to your place casually. some examples are a coffee shop, a park, or a bar.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 02:46 AM
1

It's not about "compatibility" Sure, it matters, but the thing that stands out the MOST to me from all that you wrote is this: I'm not exactly the most confident person, in fact, I've been dealing with depression for several years now. Lack of Confidence trumps all other possible causes here by a long shot
/r/seduction07/01/15 02:44 AM
11

every time you apologize for your behavior she becomes less attracted in you.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 10:06 PM
0

sounds about right nowadays.
/r/seduction06/01/15 09:04 PM
3

this is a real controversy and IMO the topic in TRP that has the most bias from its own members in both directions. I'm still not so sure myself. We can all agree on this though: treat red flags like IOIs, one might mean something, but a lot definitely mean something
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:39 PM
1

Asexuality by definition is an ABNORMAL condition, so the rules of a NORMAL relationship would not apply.
/r/seduction06/01/15 07:08 PM
2

these are awesome. particularly http://dilbert.com/strips/comic/1998-03-16/ http://dilbert.com/strips/comic/1998-03-18/
/r/MensRights06/01/15 05:54 PM
0

There's no point to number closing on tinder. Plan and confirm dates on the app so that no momentum is lost during the medium switch.
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:31 PM
3

i love that woman more than i love myself, there's your problem.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:24 PM
2

Every guy IS technically in the game for the sex since that is what they are genetically programmed to WANT. Even if you consciously want a relationship as a guy, sex is a REQUIRED part of any normal relationship, not to mention required for kids. Being "in the game" for the sex is being direct with your intent, and that is always good. That being said, being direct would help you as well, so you avoid accidentally falling into the friend zone with girls, since they will first perceive you as a …
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:23 PM
6

The best second date after a good first date is dinner at your place. Invite her over and cook for her. Escalation will be a breeze since you're ALREADY isolated at your place.
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:46 AM
2

Damn dude, you are going to have a shitty damn time if you keep pretending like nothing is wrong. There are more red flags here than at a red flag factory
/r/askTRP05/01/15 11:09 PM
2

I would really like to know if im the placeholder. It sounds like you are. i dont want to suffer myself. if you value yourself over her, which i damn well hope you do, you will let her go.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:57 PM
1

being in love with her does not excuse her actions. if you are looking for marriage/kids soon, then do not continue on this path. if you just want to enjoy your time with her, feel free.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:49 PM
1

is english not your first language? this girl isn't LTR material....
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:26 PM
6

trolling skill needs work 6/10
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:23 PM
1

the Ego is strong with this one
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:21 PM
1

Making a cheating hoar feel bad for breaking your heart isnt in that catagory lol. you're literally doing it for the sole purpose of making her feel bad. that's the definition of negative behavior. functionally, you gain nothing, and the fact that you need that validation from seeing her pain shows immaturity. Plus a bigger man doesnt point out other peoples flaws you asked for feedback, and you got it. you know what you want to do is functionally useless and immature, otherwise you wouldn't ask…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:19 PM
27

Thrill of fucking a new chick is a bad bad addiction . Yes, but logistically speaking, the temptation will never be as high for you as her, simply due to the ease with which it occurs for women vs men,. thus, self control is more important for her.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:08 PM
1

She got in touch now 26. I was thinking of shitting all over this whore. Sounds like you're not done developing yet if your first instinct is attempting immature revenge
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:05 PM
3

this is exceedingly supplicative. Treat her nice, sure, but damn, the fuck is this over the top shit? Just be welcoming. Your gift to her should be your company and allowing her to tell you how much she missed you and a gag gift of skittles would be funny/cute, but i highly doubt with the way you talk you could pull it off without coming off insecure. I also do not understand in the slightest why she deserves a gift of a huge welcome for having taken a vacation
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:56 PM
2

short of being worried about STDs, this is completely irrelevant for a PLATE. Now if you're talking an LTR, that's another story.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:53 PM
1

Having given her the reasons is very nice of you, and that's not always a bad thing. That being said, you don't ever need a reason.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 08:52 PM
1

Obviously that's stupid, and obviously not the point I'm making. A lot of men consider sex without a condom merely "risky behavior" That is who I am addressing.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 03:01 PM
1

this sounds good on paper but life isn't a fairytale. If you get an incurable STD in your 20s it's gonna piss you off for decades.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:59 PM
2

Just stop contact. It's not childish, it's a societally acceptable way. USe it. PS: She's definitely fucking other guys Me: No. Have you? Her: Well, uh, I've been tested so that doesn't matter. In the beginning she asked me how many girls I was dating, as in dating at one time
/r/askTRP31/12/14 08:56 PM
7

If at ANY point during this exchange you had completely switched gears and told her that YES YOU WANT TO FUCK HER, you would have been fine. If she's really into you though, I'm sure she'll forget. MORAL OF THE STORY - be direct with your desires as a man, NOT ASHAMED
/r/seduction31/12/14 08:42 PM
1

The "limit" you speak of only applies if you literally do not know how to progress.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:27 PM
1

yeah definitely don't confront. especially if she asks you whats wrong or why you haven't seen her.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 01:26 PM
2

I agree. This is a great indirect tinder game writeup but one could just as easily write up a tactful direct tinder guide that would be just as effective. There's no one perfect way, and there's a million in between ways. Often times, a direct cheesy and slightly sexual opener does all you need it to, showing sexual intent, humor, and value. There's no reason to say it's never useful. But it definitely requires the right persona, so if being direct isn't your style, I can see why it wouldn't wor…
/r/seduction30/12/14 01:23 PM
1

This isn't about just kissing. I'm saying that the right sexual attitude and entitlement trumps sexual skill by a long shot, for the first few encounters. And even then, it's still sustainable short of her having a terrible time each time. Obviously having both is useful. No one would argue with that.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 01:07 PM
16

February 13th lays are only trumped in ease by Halloween lays and NYE lays, in that order.
/r/seduction30/12/14 02:39 AM
1

the idea is that she will keep kissing regardless of how bad he is. Honestly, in my experience, what women find most attractive is the attitude and the dominance, not the actual sexual skill, particularly in the initial encounters. I've had FAR more vocal positive feedback during sex and comments after the times that i was essentially SELFISH and dominant than when I was making more of an effort to please her and make sure i did things right.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 02:20 AM
1

Agree and amplify. If she's seriously making an issue of it, tell her to leave. I wouldn't put up with that shit. I don't care if I'm terrible, you're here, you fucking deal with it, or leave.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 09:14 PM
3

This is the progression: You were her provider backup You fucked another girl Instant preselection and jealousy sets in She temporarily sees you as high value and the window where you can fuck her opens You dissuade her and follow her wishes and agree to "talk", decreasing her attraction for you Window where you can fuck her closes She no longer is attracted to you, treats you with disrespect (flakes etc) Coming up: She lets you fall off, since you're no longer good provider material (your resou…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 08:19 PM
1

I would say that RP applies particularly well to poly relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/14 12:54 PM
1

I thought Vasalgel just blocked it via a gel? Some others in the thread said that's RISUG, which is which? I wonder too how it would affect the experience of sex if it's fully blocked, or shredded, just functionally.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:15 PM
1

Might be due to the social backlash that large companies would get from funding it,
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:14 PM
1

this is a stupid question. If this happens, you are either incredibly drunk or can't read women for shit or refuse to calibrate. In all these cases, TRP advice would not help you.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 10:05 PM
1

you say it's "we" and yet you also make it sounds like she is the one making the ultimate decision. That's your problem.
/r/seduction22/12/14 02:18 PM
4

Guess I'll be the one to say it. I was told by my ex girlfriend (I'm still deeply in love with her) that I can have another chance with her. You are letting her frame herself as the prize. Even if you start dating her again, this will NOT end well.
/r/seduction20/12/14 02:26 PM
1

honestly im assuming this isn't a real "friend" because if he was, i would have already established boundaries with him long ago.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 03:03 PM
-4

why confront him? the OP is the one here that's failing.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 02:43 PM
1

nope.
/r/askTRP13/12/14 02:43 PM
1

the correct answer was: We are not sleeping yet. Back to you, Bob.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:28 PM
3

I've heard of the other two, but what is Manual by W. Anton like?
/r/seduction11/12/14 03:31 PM
4

One other truth that you won't often hear: One of the most important factors in how good you were in bed is how dominant you were during sex. Girls have screamed far louder for me when I was dominant and essentially selfish (not even trying to get her off). Those were also the ones that always re-initiated contact with me and wanted to see me again.
/r/seduction11/12/14 03:10 PM
4

This girl sounds like terrible LTR material.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 08:48 PM
2

I'll take it.
/r/MensRights03/12/14 06:55 PM
2

when you're generous to male friends, they will appreciate it. when you're generous to female friends, the same won't apply, since men in their lives usually do it with other goals, and either way, they will come to expect it.
/r/seduction03/12/14 06:50 PM
1

I tend to only call girls over 25, and text under. I'd prefer calling but it's served me better to text
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 05:20 PM
2

yeah pretty much treat her like the other plates.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 09:53 PM
1

damn good rewrite. +1
/r/askTRP28/11/14 09:12 PM
4

My problem I think is, I try to show I care about someone by helping them. Need a favour? I'm on it. Be it friends, or potential girl friends I'm giving to the point of excess. I used to be like this. I kind of still am, but now I only do it for those who are worth my time and CLEARLY appreciate it and are thankful for it (like my parents or really good friends, sometimes my siblings), and instantly and completely stop regardless of progress once they turn sour or entitled. This isn't a bad qual…
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:45 PM
3

theres a lot that can be said here, and a lot of things you need to learn but i'll answer your question simply: NEXT.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 08:40 PM
1

definitely good guide, but tbh i never asked for numbers, just did all the messaging in the app unless i wanted to see them again after we fucked. i feel its better this way since you avoid the momentum lost of a platform transition to texting
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 06:30 PM
3

Related: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happier-marriages-men-play-field-without-worry-study-finds.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 04:09 AM
2

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happier-marriages-men-play-field-without-worry-study-finds.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 04:08 AM
2

there's been a few that show the opposite actually - they're better for LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 04:07 AM
2

it's easy to avoid the forced positioning by picking a bar with couches. then that's the only option. alternatively, move over next to them after a bit
/r/askTRP25/11/14 06:01 PM
1

Sorry, nope. You can't possibly know that without experience.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 05:05 PM
1

Anywho I do not have oneitis for this girl, after all what you've said, and particularly how you've said it, i find this hard to believe.
/r/askTRP21/11/14 07:44 PM
2

dat ghost post tho
/r/askTRP12/11/14 03:02 PM
14

Very good point. Long term shit requires comfort in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:24 PM
1

Using the word date is dangerous for new newbies since it easily gives off provider vibes without the correct frame.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:46 AM
4

Using the word date is irrelevant if you give off the provider vibe - you'll just be a free meal / drink
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:45 AM
2

Nope. Nope nope. Full sexual intent + no formalities + being cool and friendly after sex = multiple friends with benefits
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:42 AM
1

No need to respond. Move on.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 04:40 AM
6

I can never seem to pull the trigger with girls. This is your only problem.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:37 AM
10

Balance is the most important thing. This sub teaches alpha qualities since it largely assumes the beta qualities are the the default and that you can figure them out on your own, but if you don't, a relationship is not sustainable
/r/askTRP01/11/14 01:24 PM
1

Some of the best guys at picking up chicks that I know are short Indian guys. They did not use to be social by any means, but with practice they're now some of the best.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 01:17 PM
5

ITT - overnanalazing entirely too much
/r/trpGAME28/10/14 06:35 PM
2

One example is all the programs and scholarships to push women into computer science, and engineering. If they like it, great! If not, stop trying to force them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/14 04:02 PM
4

I'm no expert, but this has worked for me in the past
/r/askTRP23/10/14 01:40 PM
1

That's what i meant - so women can request them for a man but men can't request them for a child. Ridiculous.
/r/MensRights23/10/14 01:36 PM
1

So then who is named the father on birth certificates? What if the man named disagreed with the woman naming him?
/r/MensRights22/10/14 01:31 PM
1

Can women get them?
/r/MensRights22/10/14 01:31 PM
1

so no one can get paternity tests period? how are child payments determined without proof
/r/MensRights22/10/14 12:28 AM
2

Again, totally agree that the guy is an ass and their relationships sounds fucked up, but to take away that her theme of pranking is a light one and something that we should be allowed to joke about sounds ridiculous to me. Though I think we agree on that, so that's coo
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:55 PM
5

Women should still be allowed to do them, however! all for this. But there should not be programs to force them into said jobs or fields though, at the expense of those better suited me. and yet there are. tons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/14 11:48 PM
0

we all lie but it appears the caliber or the lies of women is much greater.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 11:46 PM
1

honor is a thing of the past with shit like this happening.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:32 PM
0

far too much of it.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:31 PM
1

....seriously? Please clarify if you don't mind
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:31 PM
2

....seriously? Please clarify if you don't mind
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:31 PM
2

Best response.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:30 PM
2

The guy is clearly an asshole in that story. That being said, this obscenely past the realm of pranking. Any sensible guy would break up with her on the spot.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:29 PM
1

nah, he's implying not all women are like this. which is true, but men certainly can't do it.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:26 PM
3

sounds like you got a keeper.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:25 PM
1

freakin flag this
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:25 PM
1

Family is literally the only reason, and it's a very valid one. That being said, if you think marriage is required to prove your love to someone, you're gonna have a baaaaaad time.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:25 PM
2

double up. i like it. Can't wait for Vasalgel
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:23 PM
1

Here's a thought - If you have nothing to hide, what do lose by this being a common practice? If it was, then it wouldn't be any additional hassle as it would be the normal expectation. Why isn't it? The only losers are those lying and cheating
/r/MensRights21/10/14 11:21 PM
18

Trust, but verify. Paternity tests should be the next logical step in any birth.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 01:15 PM
6

To make a long story short, we ended up talking for 3.5 hours, just the two of us. Nope he offered to pay for my meal/drinks definitely nope
/r/askTRP20/10/14 06:31 PM
1

I honestly don't know if this is the right way, but if I want to see a girl again, nothing changes up front before sex, but afterwards I will always hang with them a bit and perhaps grab some food or something. Or if it was a ONS send them a positive text the day after, and later plan the next date at a location still near my place but something simple like a walk.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 06:24 PM
1

manipulative people arent the kind you'd want to be around if you don't have good experience and control of your own emotions
/r/askTRP20/10/14 05:47 PM
1

Can i change this relationship Nope. This isn't even an issue of her personality traits - by getting back together with her, you are saying that what she did to you is okay so she will likely do it again
/r/askTRP20/10/14 05:46 PM
1

I don't intend to ever get married though.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 01:45 PM
6

fair enough, but if your base assumption is that having an exclusive partner is what you want, which isn't too uncommon in TRP, then cohabitation is a logical next step.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 10:25 PM
1

Everyone here assuming that just because they are women they wouldn't drug you and that these guys both don't know how edibles work is sexist as fuck. women can be predators just as easily as men, and men never report it due to the social stigma.
/r/seduction19/10/14 09:41 PM
5

not ever living with your gf seems really impractical IMO. agree with all the other stuff though.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:35 PM
2

I don't.
/r/trpGAME17/10/14 06:47 PM
2

“Consensual Non-Consent” – When a person intentionally chooses to say “yes” to experiences that feel non-consensual to them. seriously?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 01:47 PM
-3

this.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 02:33 AM
3

She can join in and have fun or she can get the fuck out. As you described, this is pretty much a breakthrough and no one really understands the extent of this until they see it happen to them. Women just want to be in your world. How can they do that if you have no world to share with them? Own your shit.
/r/seduction17/10/14 02:20 AM
0

I've been talking about how to get laid the most over the long term, for which online isn't good. You're talking immediate gratification Online, be it tinder or OKC, is good for getting laid more over the short term, at the cost of the experience you'd get to otherwise get you laid more and with more versatility in the future.
/r/seduction15/10/14 10:16 PM
0

It's not ridiculous, since it's accurate regardless of your success with online game, because by the nature of online game, you are skipping the initial interaction and getting less practice with approaching strange new people. It's as simple as that.
/r/seduction15/10/14 09:06 PM
0

Not in NYC, might be a city thing, but numbers for me and everyone in my city says the opposite. And they do full closes, not all the other bs. It it ain't broke, don't fix it.
/r/seduction15/10/14 08:16 PM
0

You think there isn't competition for girls in the sheer volume environment in NYC in real life? Yes, which is why real life is better - you can easily talk to multiple girls and they will SEE that, creating preselection, whereas online its all private and girls dont know if you're talking to other chicks at all. Also, there are considerable imbalances from what I hear with more women than men online Lol what? Did you just totally make this up? The complete opposite is true. Women as a gender ha…
/r/seduction15/10/14 07:48 PM
0

There aren't that many factors at play in NYC - it's pretty much easier because of the culture and sheer volume, that's about it. Similarly, on OKC that same sheer volume is a negative, and single-handedly the reason why it's so inefficient for two reasons: Women receive a nonstop stream of hundreds of messages a day, giving them an inflated sense of self worth (hell, same would happen to us if the roles were reversed). There is so much volume that even quality is lost in between the "weirdos an…
/r/seduction15/10/14 01:54 PM
1

Game theory makes doing so more efficient, which is why some guides say to do exactly that.
/r/seduction14/10/14 08:55 PM
1

I've succeeded many times on OKC, and about ten times as much on Tinder, with probably a tenth of the work. Even on Tinder, where you pick each other, it's a hassle - for the most part, any guy a girl swipes right on she gets a match, so they have easily over a thousand matches in a medium size city. Now let's assume they also get messages from a million guys they don't even want to entertain - now you have OKC. What's clearly more efficient?
/r/seduction14/10/14 08:53 PM
1

If you are witty and have a good first message (impression) like you say, youd be a lot more successful IRL since it takes far more confidence and you can more easily calibrate and take advantage of her being "in the moment" Not saying you cant be successful online, I'm saying you'd have better luck IRL, because by definition online dating involves being more shallow, since a girl can easily decide not to even look at what you say based on your looks, while IRL that's far harder to do since you'…
/r/seduction14/10/14 08:52 PM
1

Just because you find them attractive doesn't mean you couldn't get more attractive girls IRL, particularly if you are less than the ideal as you label yourself.
/r/seduction14/10/14 02:45 PM
0

You must never have seen a a girl's inbox on OKC or tinder. There are so many messages constantly coming in that even if she WANTS to talk to you, she will have a hard time finding you in the stack.
/r/seduction14/10/14 02:44 PM
6

IMO all online dating except simplistic swipe to match services is worthless. Women get so many messages that you end up with girls far below the quality level you could attain in real life.
/r/seduction14/10/14 02:27 AM
9

no.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:48 PM
10

You are a man - use the logic you're equipped for, not emotions to make a bad decision.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 09:47 PM
1

post history definitely paints quite the picture this girl does not sound like LTR material.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 06:58 PM
1

I didn't specify the car make for a reason. I can have a ferrari with 80,000 or one with 10,000. Why would I pick the one with 80k? Transmission is probably not worth fixing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/14 05:35 PM
7

yeah definitely agree with this, the strongest frame is always willing to walk away, and the words should reflect that.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 08:44 PM
1

This isn't even a RP or BP or PP debate. The simple analogy is, for the same price would you buy car A with 80,000 miles, or car B for with 10,000 miles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 08:40 PM
1

and that's relevant how? this article isn't tailored to the ordinary asshole.
/r/TRPOffTopic08/10/14 08:28 PM
2

you're interpreting it completely different than I. If your default is "being boring" as he calls it, I'm sorry but you're gonna have to fucking change. It's not for her, it's for your own damn self.
/r/TRPOffTopic08/10/14 07:27 PM
2

you're asking for help on "closing" but you haven't even talked to her yet, seriously? Step 1 - talk.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 05:17 PM
3

The concepts behind 3 and 4 are incredibly accurate. The suggested tactics are classic PUA stuff that's overdone, but still works better than completely ignoring said concepts. The advice on #3: AMUSE YOURSELF! is some of the best advice you can get, regarding dates, sex, women, hell, even life.
/r/TRPOffTopic08/10/14 04:51 PM
1

I guess making it legal to essentially remove consent retroactively wasn't enough - they must kill some history while they're at it
/r/MensRights07/10/14 06:18 PM
2

Unless you're exclusive, you should ALWAYS be pursuing more than one girl. Doesn't matter how hot your newest chick is, and whether you're fucking or not - the way you stay on your game is by keeping things fluid.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 04:16 PM
1

This is a relatively complex question since trusting just for the sake of it sounds foolish, but checking their phone just for the sake of it harms your inner frame. There's a difference between checking their phone often and on schedule and taking a peek when you're changing the music as she drives. Of course the above analogy changes if you suspect something - trust your gut. But if you check and find nothing, or hell, something good, then you know your frame is lacking.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 04:11 PM
1

not sure if trolling....
/r/askTRP06/10/14 04:03 PM
3

agree. saw it with my little sister and found myself making subtle parallels which made it all the more entertaining.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:49 PM
2

obligatory terrible advice.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 04:53 PM
3

I think she is oblivious to his intentions They're never really obvlious.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 07:20 PM
1

i guess it's wrong to assume everyone has the basic human calibration required to tell the difference
/r/seduction25/09/14 08:41 PM
17

have done this with multiple successes. Escalating and isolating to bring them home is the same, but there are a few points i'd make: make a profile together, using her account (so it's a female acct) first picture - her next two pictures, in order: together, you more pictures optional, keep them fun/sexy brief description that playfully says what you guys are looking for when messaging, either let your girl do the talking or talk like a girl would (which is hard tbh, but doable) make sure to us…
/r/trpGAME25/09/14 08:26 PM
1

Next time is irrelevant. There is never and always a next time. Live in the moment. Act now, every time. And keep in mind her saying "no" doesn't always mean "no", it can mean "not yet" - persistence is an attractive, masculine quality, accepting defeat is not. EDIT: Didn't say always. said doesn't always mean no = sometimes doesn't mean no. Chill out.
/r/seduction25/09/14 07:42 PM
4

and I expressed how badly I wanted to Actions speak louder than words.
/r/seduction25/09/14 04:00 PM
2

The fact that she mentioned sex with you means she's thinking about it. It's pretty much a variation of her saying "no sex tonight" - what's that actually mean as far as what she's already thinking?
/r/askTRP25/09/14 03:53 PM
0

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happier-marriages-men-play-field-without-worry-study-finds.html
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 03:04 PM
1

Alright, so you're not friends, but you should still be civil and accept that she's a part of your friends group. That being said, you still sound pretty bitter. And what you said about "what she should have done" sounds logical, but you seem to be forgetting that women are not logical, so you might want to consider that when you judge for the same way you would a man.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 08:01 PM
1

We are all different. She might be enjoying it and want nothing more, or she might want more and you're depriving her of time with someone meaningful. That's up to you to decide. Relevant: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/09/09/leaving-her-better-than-you-found-her-not-likely/
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:35 PM
2

Unless you blatantly hate her, which it seems you don't, i would talk her up while you hang with your friends and her, in between hitting up new girls of course. No reason you can't be civil. Treat her like a guy friend.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:19 PM
2

porn is bad, but nofap is stupid IMO. do it once a week on sunday so you get the highest testosterone peak on weekend nights and reset for the next weekend.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:14 PM
1

Some terrible advice ITT. I'll just say this. In more anonymous environment, ie, cold approach, there's pretty much zero consequence to hitting up a ton of girls. You can literally laugh it off and walk on to the next chick. in your social circles, it's different, and you're better off building value there and escalating things without actually formally asking a girl out.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:09 PM
1

It's fucking wednesday. Why the hell are you texting for hours, especially on a weekday night? You do know how loudly that screams desperation, right?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:58 PM
2

if you finally understand by now that shes not LTR material, then at this point you're just using her for a place to crash. If you want to continue doing that, cool, but I'd use a damn good bit of protection if you're still fucking her, and definitely avoid getting more attached or committing to anything. Don't you have any friends to crash with instead?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:56 PM
2

I met a girl at a bar a couple weeks ago and completely fell for her Aaaaand there's the root of your problems. Nothing wrong with liking a chick and wanting to hang and not just fuck, but damn dude, you JUST met her. What has she done to EARN your undivided time? Check your standards.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:40 PM
23

full body condom....
/r/seduction24/09/14 03:35 PM
1

Not sure where you are deducing that my options are not "limited". If I want to sleep with another girl, I will. If this girl doesn't like it, she can leave. End of story. You say this, but you certainly don't communicate it in your actions, seeing as you fumbled at the question and answered no directly.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:28 PM
6

While i hate the wording and blatant insults, the last line is very true.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 06:23 PM
1

You've been dating and never at least casually mentioned that you believe long distance relationships are bullshit and/or that you'd never do one? She can't know and respect your boundaries if you NEVER SET THEM. how did you expect her to magically know? That way, when and if the time comes when she says she is not coming with you, break up with her without hesitation.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 01:13 PM
-1

There was a whole thread about this less than a week ago. http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/2go296/are_red_pill_men_wrong_in_treating_women_like/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 08:47 PM
3

laughed for about 2-3 hours straight and really made me fall for this girl uh, what I didn't want to make a move on her that night (I still have something going with my ex and we have a mutual agreement of no sexual stuff with other people and I respect my word) uh, what
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:25 PM
1

http://www.pressdemocrat.com/home/2853678-181/man-held-in-reported-el
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 03:56 PM
2

You are the man, you set the rules 1) Hang out with them several times without sex, and tell them you guys can only be friends now if they ask why you're not fucking. 2) Accept that if and when the exclusive one finds out, she may lose her shit. Do NOT be apologetic. Use it to keep your sexual value high. Preselection is a scientifically proven fact,.
/r/seduction17/09/14 07:48 PM
1

There are so many red flags in this relationship that I'm not even going to address them. Fucking run dude. Not fuck and then run, fucking run. Not worth the sex, the time, and much less the relationship. Dayum.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 07:42 PM
2

definitely wouldn't eat out a girl i just met....
/r/askTRP17/09/14 07:40 PM
0

deflection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:38 PM
4

You seem to think that men can be accused and convicted of rape willy nilly. There's plenty of cases where it boils down to "he said, she said" and the woman's voice trumps nearly every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:35 PM
2

A lot of this is really subjective, since what a lot of people would consider "dread game" is just that person's natural way of acting due to the way they have gone through life. For example, what's the difference between a man who naturally is busy and interacting with others ignoring a few calls/text, and a man who actively chooses to ignore a few calls and texts despite being free since he's largely introverted and isn't that busy? One could make the argument that intent matters, but in reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:32 PM
2

From this description, it seems that being permanently PP would then be lack of commitment to either side, or in other words, paralyzing indecisiveness. It would seem more practical to commit to whatever side you find most successful and call it a day, otherwise you spend a lot of time without moving forward in your life, whatever you may consider that to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 02:15 PM
1

Transmission via oral is much lower than through regular unprotected sex, though still possible. Might just be mono.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 03:45 AM
1

Certainly some good points, but your experience seems really narrow - why focus so hard on the party and sex lifestyle while ignoring all the other amazing things life has to offer? Of course you would get tired of it without diversifying your time.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 08:36 PM
1

Cool. Might take this and split it
/r/askTRP15/09/14 08:11 PM
1

Didn't know high-school me had a reddit account Echoing everyone else here, escalate!
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:39 PM
2

by accepting that arrogance isn't always a bad thing. that being said, i wouldnt do it everytime. switch it up
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:38 PM
1

holy fuck, a ~1500 cal shake? how much volume is that?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:37 PM
3

Not sure what you have against the gym - it will make you both LOOK and FEEL more masculine There's a ton of guys who clearly have a babyboy or effeninate face who (successfully) compensate by working out and getting in shape. I don't know why you'd pass up that resource.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:35 PM
19

You are asking the wrong questions. The right question is, why would you put up with behavior like this from a girlfriend, hell, a FRIEND? It's time to ditch her.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:30 PM
1

bing rewards botssss and buying company stock whenever its matched. id like to get into investing but im going to finish paying off my car first
/r/askTRP12/09/14 08:31 PM
2

ive tried this general attitude. didnt work for me. good luck.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:36 PM
1

What's a good way to internalize this concept and better act in the moment?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:22 PM
2

Dominance over Debate. As someone having studied in the STEM field, this is literally the most difficult TRP concept for me to get through my head, as logic is my go to for any discussion, be it physics or sociology. I've definitely seen this occur with women I've been with and also friends, and even tried to point out how it was occurring. It doesn't change the outcome, as is expected. What's a good way to internalize this concept and better act in the moment guys?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:20 PM
2

honestly, didnt watch the video since im at work. just read and got the gist of the challenge, which i assume is gaming without verbals, meaning only body language and actions, which is a great way to learn.
/r/trpGAME11/09/14 06:02 PM
3

Body language subcommunicates far more than words often do. A challenge such as this would essentially be practicing that in isolation, which would then improve your normal game significantly.
/r/trpGAME11/09/14 05:20 PM
2

keep in mind that she opened you. make sure you also learn to initiate interactions yourself.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:36 PM
1

How exactly is she a plate if you have't fucked her yet again?
/r/askTRP10/09/14 05:20 PM
2

First part right, second part not necessarily. She can easily talk herself out of texting. He'd be better off starting it off
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 01:55 AM
5

wait a second, did you post another thread under another username? i specifically remember a guy posting recently mentioning the girl he was seeing saying he should get a truck since it's manly. again, why the hell would you change yourself for anyone else, man or woman? i feel the need to say this since you obviously are taking it somewhat seriously, at least enough to mention it (potentially twice) the common ground between your OP and this post is that you don't sound very confident in yourse…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:34 PM
3

dick size is irrelevant. your physical traits are irrelevant. what is relevant is your behavior towards the woman you have, both in the long term and how your initial exchanges were. alpha qualities increase attraction and sex drive, and beta qualities increase comfort and trust and her willingness to stick around. In the example you provided above, it sounds like there is a lot of alpha but since its his wife, there must also be a lot of beta, and it often overlaps. that being said, to optimize…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:10 PM
2

as a history lesson perhaps.... it's pretty outdated and there's far better material out there for both self improvement and pickup
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:47 PM
1

Jumping in for a sec, read this recently and thought you might find this interesting/relevant: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happier-marriages-men-play-field-without-worry-study-finds.html
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/14 02:09 PM
3

There you go. What are you going to do different next time?
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 10:51 PM
3

It sounds like you're hamstering away your inaction
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 10:24 PM
13

and I basically laid it out for her So you're saying you communicated with words instead of actions. Why exactly did you do that?
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 01:07 PM
3

That seems like a dangerous path. I may be wrong, but it sounds like if her accessibility ever eclipses the sex you get outside of your LTR, you will likely settle for her.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:03 PM
5

so much pettiness here man. why not just find another girl? you want vengeance on this guy, yet if hes a chump, how did he do what you say makes you want to do the same to him? youre trying to fuck a girl with a bf while you have a gf.... by way of a coffee date? and you have a gf but are weakly evading breaking up for the time being? man up.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 05:32 PM
0

have. more. sex.
/r/seduction02/09/14 06:05 PM
9

Hope you learned that this is why you don't get fucked up.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 05:00 PM
0

this is like playing soccer for years and then wearing your lucky rabbit foot before winning the big championship.... the rabbit's foot (your "line") is completely irrelevant. She's already there, because of shit you did before. That is what made her willing to come up. Not the random line.
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:51 PM
2

/s
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:50 PM
1

Outcome independence =/= social apathy
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:53 PM
1

Outcome independence =/= apathy
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:52 PM
1

the alchemist Siddhartha Conversations with God Outliers
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:51 PM
2

So you're telling me you were really into it and enjoying your progress and pushing yourself and you let one simple college girl break you and make you double guess yourself? Get a fucking grip. You were doing fine, nothings changed. Not every girl will like you, some might fucking hate you. Move on and keep learning
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:49 PM
2

It's not a huge deal for women. or men. The more you play that up the more hesitant she will be
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:45 PM
1

slow up, you were in the hunger games? damn, leverage that shit.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:41 PM
2

Good, sounds like you've got the logistics down. Just keep that lover mentality on and escalate, you got this.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:32 PM
1

You are PASSIVE. You are LETTING everything happen around you and HOPING for a good opportunity. TAKE CHARGE and MAKE things happen if you want them. In this case, I would have taken her with me wherever else to isolate myself EVEN IF nothing had happened before. Not sure how you expected anything to happen if you refuse to lead.
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:18 PM
2

if you were playing the perfect boyfriend so well, they'd be pegging you for only a relationship, which would delay sex to force you to stay around. You're doing it fine.
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:14 PM
3

A relationship is a mutual decision. You are not in one unless YOU also agree. You are not being a douche. And contrary to what several here are saying you do not need to have a serious relationship intent conversation before sleeping together
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:12 PM
1

Keep at it. You will quickly learn to project your voice and increase your volume, and in the meantime, your subcommunication via body language will improve.
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:10 PM
2

It's always better to ask forgiveness than permission. This isn't all hope lost though. Invite her over your place and escalate as any normal person would (read: without asking for permission)
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:09 PM
1

provider frame vs lover frame sounds like you're already coming from the latter, just keep it that way, and make sure to escalate consistently since that is what she will be expecting from someone interested in casual sex. I'm sure that since you're looking for casual, you've got your date logistics down and planned the date near or at your place....right?
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:06 PM
1

disinterest creates interest. That being said, enjoy your time and if she isn't down, see if there are any other cools girls at the party. talk to other women at the party and hit on them and grab their info if you're interested. Do not shy away if the host comes around, and if shes interested in you, she will.
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:03 PM
1

with an unapologetic boner pushing up against her when you're laying together, with the optional sexual talk about how she turns you on. ....Notice how it's nearly the same strategy you used? The only difference is the attitude. If she calls you out on being sexual, you agree. Stop pussyfooting around what you want.
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:00 PM
2

Always kiss on the first date. Kiss whenever the thought comes into your head, don't bother second guessing. If you see her looking at your lips, you should already be kissing.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:56 PM
2

If they're into you it's even easier to leave and return since they'll welcome you. That being said, leave and talk to other girls and literally just say "come meet my friends" to bring them together, which you can do anywhere from immediately to after a few minutes. Bringing groups together shows social prowess and will raise your value in the eyes of both parties. Do it enough and they'll likely introduce new arriving friends to you. Stop assuming their feelings will be hurt. You literally jus…
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:40 PM
2

Kudos on your fitness progress, and it's good you're seeing some social returns on it already. That being said, you settled by focusing on them and not trying for better girls. You should have instead used your new friends to meet more girls and enlarge your temporary social group to have a better pool to pick from who to pull back to your place. PS - driving two hours to meet up with her sounds pretty desperate. Keep this progress up and keep getting more and more options and you'll see what I …
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:43 PM
1

Good starting plan.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:05 PM
0

red flag?
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:15 PM
17

calling her out on not hanging out with you repeatedly makes you seem incredibly desperate Desperate -> disinterest
/r/trpGAME20/08/14 03:27 PM
1

going for a walk at the park is a great date, as public or as private as you want to be, depending on what part of the park you're in. This is pretty much 100% of my date locations when I am back home - never failed. Pubic restrooms are great for a quickie. Or 3.
/r/trpGAME01/08/14 03:25 PM
0

In theory, you can disclose as much as you want as long as you have the emotional control to pull it all back when necessary.
/r/seduction29/07/14 06:43 PM
0

dat tell
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:15 PM
1

Plausible deniability is a thing, you'll just have to accept it. That's why you hear girls say "it just happened" all the time
/r/seduction23/07/14 08:55 PM
1

(Relative) physical attractiveness eclipses bad openers in many cases, so accounting for at least the looks of the other side is necessary.
/r/trpGAME22/07/14 07:50 PM
0

Don't shit where you eat. ....literally.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 06:08 PM
2

Reading two words tell us all we need to know about your feelings towards her - fear of loss. Her feelings toward you may be ideal as you describe, but you need to control your own. Try to accept that everything is temporary, and realize that you WANT her but don't NEED her.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 02:25 PM
1

not for novices. easy to fall into caring too much and/or being insecure and trying to overcompensate by joking about it
/r/askTRP16/07/14 09:31 PM
1

If you'r the one initiating the subject matter of her being hit on, directly or otherwise, by definition you will be the one that sounds insecure and/or jealous. Think of it this way - would the ideal confident aloof guy ever mention that?
/r/askTRP16/07/14 03:23 PM
9

I may be wrong, but this will very often come off as insecure/jealous if you are the one to mention it first, despite attempts at laughing it off.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 03:05 PM
0

There's countless things you could be doing with your time instead. Like hitting up girls in your town and seeing them nude irl
/r/askTRP15/07/14 11:44 AM
0

mind providing a link?
/r/becomeaman15/07/14 01:16 AM
0

This, gentlemen, is what we call a layup.
/r/seduction15/07/14 01:14 AM
1

Not sure why everyone's suggesting keeping contact. Let me put it this way, what would you tell one of your friends who told you he met a girl once and she lives someone else but he keeps texting her? Scarcity.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 01:07 AM
1

An offer while seeding a flake isn't an offer I'd agree to.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 07:52 PM
2

Don't play into her frame of sex being a reward from her to you.
/r/trpGAME10/07/14 03:13 PM
1

Remember that if you don't push the boundaries, someone else will
/r/seduction09/07/14 10:18 PM
2

I have found that it is best to always escalate as far as possible, unapologetically, while paying attention to their reaction and calibrating, every time on dates. They will never fault you for trying - but they will if you don't. In this case, you didn't even try to bring her back to your place, or even isolate her. If you're new, this is understandable, but either way, the best way to learn is by making yourself try. Make it a goal to try every time, regardless of how you think it's going. Yo…
/r/seduction09/07/14 09:25 PM
5

You are definitely overanalyzing. Also, why didn't you try to escalate further if she gave no resistance?
/r/seduction09/07/14 09:16 PM
-1

Would be nice in theory, but usually doesn't work out. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/09/09/leaving-her-better-than-you-found-her-not-likely/
/r/seduction09/07/14 09:09 PM
2

is there a woman deficit going on that I'm not aware of? You both need to meet more women.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 09:05 PM
6

honestly you're probably overcomplicating by planning so much over at your place. I've had several "dates" where the plan is just to check out this wine I got, or check out my view, or check out a piece of art i have. Nothing more. Simplest thing is invite them over for one single activity and wing it from there with constant escalation.
/r/trpGAME09/07/14 08:37 PM
0

Planning this far out ahead isn't going to end well
/r/seduction09/07/14 05:43 PM
1

you're new in town, this is normal. it's also very easy to fix. put in the time, go out, talk to everyone, and rebuild your social life.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:57 PM
4

Don't think of physical escalation as a script (do this, then that, then that) Don't hesitate Do escalate consistently Do have a plan for logistics (like you suggested that you're near your place, so perhaps go for a walk and end up nearby your place) Do watch her reactions and calibrate your escalation speed accordingly (ie, if shes into it, keep pushing it and escalate further)
/r/trpGAME24/06/14 07:31 PM
0

Cost benefit. if you enjoy it and dont mind spending the money on your own ticket then go. if it's not worth it to you, but shes willing to buy the ticket for you, then im sure you'd go. this is more of a cost benefit question, not a trp question
/r/trpGAME23/06/14 07:20 PM
0

agree and amplify
/r/trpGAME20/06/14 12:48 PM
1

From: The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida Damn, the more I hear about this book, the more I realize how good of a read it would be. This is such a well phrased concept.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:17 PM
3

if she hasn't replied she hasn't complied.
/r/trpGAME18/06/14 07:31 PM
26

This is a good newbie guide, but I would still recommend everyone to kiss on the first date, and to at least try to isolate to your or her place on every date, including the first. If you don't push the boundaries, someone else will.
/r/seduction18/06/14 06:47 PM
2

My model works for all the friends I've advised too - there is no perfect way to do it, just more and less efficient ways. And their efficiency depends on how you frame yourself as well, which leads into your second response about texting - you see it as a seedy sex app and frame yourself as such to jump out of it, while I show my intent directly and embrace it. That being said, if you excite them due to the way you look and/or talk, it's not gonna matter if you pause for a second to switch to a…
/r/seduction12/06/14 02:53 PM
2

Originally crafted canned openers that don't sound at all like canned openers and that are direct, playful, but not sexual are very effective, and far more time efficient than original message every time. Tinder, like cold approach, is a numbers game. If you send a shit message to a girl who was already attracted to you based on your looks (as is the obvious premise), then she's gonna be down regardless of your opener. Edit: You don't need to break momentum and get a number most of the time, esp…
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:29 AM
3

Never add any woman, Tinder or otherwise, on FB, IG, or SC.
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:25 AM
2

It is not your responsibility to ward off guys that are trying to fuck her - it is hers.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 10:51 PM
1

Bad decisions were made.... You can't really be angry with anyone but yourself. I may be wrong, but it would aid you to reconfigure your expectations of women
/r/askTRP11/06/14 02:16 AM
3

I may be wrong, but a more positive mindset might help you. I too think about frame control and all the different aspects of how I carry myself but I don't think of it as work or as something that's emotionally draining, I think of it as an awesome opportunity to continue kicking ass
/r/askTRP11/06/14 02:06 AM
1

Relevant: http://rs.io/2014/06/01/prolonged-eye-contact.html
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:19 PM
2

Of course I may be wrong, and this is just my interpretation with the given information, but it seems like a feasible reason. As with the words of anyone, it is an opinion and should be taken with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction05/06/14 07:06 PM
0

These quotes are great in theory, but I would say for most of us they do not work well in practice. Even the result of the plot from from Her was actually a good example of this, showing how it only worked for her (a computer, ideal conditions), but not for him (a human, average, akin to us). I would add to this that it could work for very few enlightened individuals.
/r/seduction05/06/14 06:31 PM
3

your username is pretty ironic
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:54 PM
0

Act like you would act anywhere else, and treat them like you would treat anyone else.
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:54 PM
1

I may be wrong but, one issue you might have right now could be due to your EXPECTATIONS of women. You cannot expect the same of both genders - they are very different. For example, they are often more emotionally driven, and that isn't a bad thing, it's just the way things are. Accept it. Some reading: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/ http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/11/of-love-and-war/
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:51 PM
4

verbal ultimatums are never a good call, they make you appear reactive and outcome dependent. that being said, I would act one out, without telling her.
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:40 PM
1

A move like this clearly moves her down on the totem pole, I agree, but if she reinitiates and is willing to accommodate to you, I see no reason to turn her down. Let go of your ego, and accept that your expectations for women and men cannot be the same. Oh, and enjoy the fucking ;)
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:39 PM
0

I notice the face first, definitely. That being said, I make no effort to hide my intent. Either I'm not like normal guys...OR...other guys don't express themselves like I do because it's not culturally appropriate for guys to be "softer". I'd say the OPPOSITE is true - you don't feel comfortable expressing yourself with real desire because it's not culturally appropriate to do so. Be a man and show your sexual desire and intent - hiding your intent will decrease attraction.
/r/seduction05/06/14 05:21 PM
1

Only if you're the one wearing them.
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:38 PM
1

I'm not sure where we disagree. I haven't heard Corey Wayne's material, but I agree with all your points and would advise the same. My middle paragraph is just a warning to those guys already seeing a girl exclusively or trying to, who then suggests an open relationship.
/r/seduction05/06/14 12:37 PM
1

there always are.
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:18 AM
2

Creepy is just like awkward - it only exists when you label it as such.
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:17 AM
1

Dallas is awesome. Uptown's got the best volume, and knox/greenville are pretty decent too.
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:17 AM
2

If you're new to the game follow the rules. Once you are well versed, you realize these "rules" are just suggestions, and can succeed regardless of what you do. This only comes with experience. Since you need to ask, I'm going to say stick to the rules.
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:15 AM
1

Lead them like they want to be led.
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:13 AM
2

"lol"
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:11 AM
2

This is definitely something to watch out for in the community. In my experience, it's been easy to tell who those types of guys are, but again it's only once you have experience that you can really see it, so this is a good thing to keep in mind if you're new and out with the community. That being said, there's no reason to be paranoid. Do trust your gut though if someone seems off. At least online here in seddit there's no motive for competition so we can usually get some decent advise threads…
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:10 AM
0

In my limited experience, open relationships are pretty emotionally difficult, and can make you a bit emotionally distant even if you really like and trust the girl. Some inner feelings just can't be easil stopped, and honestly are there for a reason. That being said, if you're in an exclusive relationship with a girl, or looking to start one, and SHE is the first one to suggest an open relationship, then realize this is a flag that she is not exclusive LTR materia, now or in the future. You sho…
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:06 AM
3

Make it a game - I did this in college and that's how I got rid of the same issue. As soon as a girl (or fuck it, anyone) is within ~30 feet of you and in your line of sight/direction, make eye contact and HOLD it. Feel free to smile or say hi if the mood strikes you. You'll be surprised how many people that you have never met will: Hold it as well Smile back Smile FIRST Say hi back Say hi FIRST Stop when you say hi Stop YOU to say hi And yes, I have have 1-8 happen to me many times, the later o…
/r/seduction05/06/14 04:00 AM
-1

Scarcity mentality 101
/r/seduction04/06/14 10:43 PM
-2

1-2/weekday 2-4/weekend Keeping all dates under 3 hours, ideally 2.
/r/seduction04/06/14 08:08 PM
-4

At peak - I don't do that now. Shit was exhausting, and I hated rushing my workouts. Decided to do less and focus more on self improvement a few weeks after reaching that. But for some of the advanced guys still in college 10 dates a week is pretty easy, so I wouldn't advise spending so much on them.
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:54 PM
-7

Principles I'm not about to drop $50/date when I'm going on ~10 dates/week Principles
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:09 PM
7

killin me smalls
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:06 PM
0

Let's assume you're doing most of the inviting for your dates with women, because honestly, if the opposite is the case and nothing happens, you're doing it wrong, so that's a moot point. Why would you always be paying? So just because you have "decent money" the other person has no obligation to pay? That's not exactly fair. This is all ignoring the fact that paying tends to put you in the provider role of the spectrum, moving you further away from the necessary sexual intimacy required for any…
/r/seduction04/06/14 06:48 PM
8

Adequate username...
/r/seduction04/06/14 05:12 PM
44

so you'd pay if sex was guaranteed? lol
/r/seduction04/06/14 04:21 PM
4

You might be over analyzing.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 04:22 AM
1

You already know the answer to this, developing yourself further is your only mission as a man. It sounds like you want to half ass it and take your time away but keep her as your long distance GF though, which I'm sure you know is a terrible idea. http://apocalypsecometh.com/absence-makes-the-heart-grow-fonder/
/r/askTRP02/06/14 08:23 PM
1

You're being pretty unclear, but I'm gonna guess that you're asking if "a little soft side" will help you close - no, it won't. Treat her like any other woman.
/r/trpGAME02/06/14 07:59 PM
1

That works. It can also help to carry the mood through the conversation past the initial humor while moving the logistics forward
/r/askTRP26/05/14 08:14 PM
1

It really depends on the context - this could easily be a shit test from a woman you're already sleeping with, or on the other end of the spectrum, a frustrating remark from a girl trying to meet up with you while you're too busy following a script to text her. On a more related note, check out this article. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/an-analysis-of-text-game/
/r/askTRP26/05/14 07:53 PM
3

Yep, this is applicable whether you're in an LTR or spinning several plates, and yes, mundane conversations are unnecessary, but it's not that simple. If we're gonna break it down, some of the things that matter more are the overall tone and the volume ratio of the conversation - you want her to do more of the talking, and you want to keep it light and playful and tease her, just like IRL. Think of it in a less scripted way - how would you talk in person? Would you censor yourself because you "d…
/r/askTRP26/05/14 07:44 PM
8

Good advice for short term, terrible for long term. Before you know how to text well, texting less helps you avoid mistakes that could otherwise kill attraction, but once you learn how to and have some experience, you will find that it is very helpful, if not necessary.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 07:28 PM
1

It's not game. This is me. Own it.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 04:20 PM
2

Life isn't about taking care of others
/r/seduction22/05/14 09:37 PM
2

Good philosophy, but difficult to implement in practice. You can't literally stop for every person you meet - you have your own life to live.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:36 PM
1

you put the ball in her court. That was a mistake.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 03:37 PM
1

With girls that are a bit older that have their own place he could also isolate there, but there's no reason those aren't up for sex in the car as well. It's part of making things exciting and taking them on an adventure.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 03:37 PM
2

you don't need one.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 03:34 PM
1

He mentioned he is home, as in with his parents.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 03:34 PM
1

And I don't wanna look creepy or disturb someone for that. You only look "creepy" if you're hiding your true intent. I just get nervous when I'm being lazered by a pair of eyes. This is the real reason you don't want to hold it. Sounds like you need some practice: From now on make and HOLD eye contact with everyone within 30 feet that you run across in your line of sight. Only look away at least 3 seconds after they do, or when they are immediately next to you.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 03:30 PM
15

You're treating her differently because you think she is special. How would you treat any other woman you want to see again? that's how you need to act.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 03:27 PM
1

Efficiency = 5 pairs instead
/r/seduction22/05/14 03:08 PM
1

Yes, you really do "jump right in" as you put it. Currently it's not natural to you, so you need to make it natural, which is done by practice and experience, there is no way around it. YOU have to make all the moves, because women are the passive gender and despite how much they want it or are receptive to it, they will usually never initiate, or even escalate to the next level once started. I assume your fear is due to fear of loss, as in, fearing that she won't like it and you'd lose her from…
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:58 PM
2

Why would you console someone you recently met, with the ulterior motive of wanting to bang them? Not very ethical, and not very time efficient.
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:50 PM
1

Exactly. She might be going through something serious or just saying it as an excuse, he doesn't know that. Either way though, it's not time efficient for him to waste his time
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:49 PM
-1

he recently met her - she might be going through something serious or just saying it as an excuse. Either way, it's not time efficient for him to waste his time
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:48 PM
7

These are the only two options.
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:07 PM
-2

Are you seriously suggesting he friendzone himself and later attempt to hook up with her?
/r/seduction22/05/14 02:07 PM
4

I don't like to drink and clubbing/bar hopping is totally not my thing. better start making it your thing - it's the highest volume environment available on a regular basis, and carries a certain level of anonymity that makes it the perfect place to practice. I'm in college but my school is tiny and I'm in a program, in class with the same people every single semester.. All colleges have social events. go to them. ALL of them.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 05:19 PM
0

Hmm, this tidbit might actually be pretty relevant to other trp users since on Tinder this type of game might need to be slightly modified for the 20s girls since they get significantly more matches than the demographic you're messaging
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 04:49 PM
10

switching platform makes you lose momentum
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:06 PM
1

definitely agree - befriending male obstacles is the best way to hold your frame most of the time. It looks good to the women around, and it makes the men question whats going on, and perhaps befriend you.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 05:49 PM
1

it's a good thing you act well and held your frame, because if she felt any of the emotions she would have been gone. You're doing fine, her phone is none of your concern, be in the moment and enjoy your time with her.
/r/trpGAME16/05/14 05:23 PM
2

I know this is an example of someone else, but for your own relationships, this should NEVER come up, as you should be establishing boundaries early on. Personally, I always make it a point to women to never slap or hit my face, even jokingly. I take it very seriously, and they all know that.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 03:01 PM
2

Gradual change will be good but it will still be met with resistance - hold your frame and pick your battles wisely.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:59 PM
1

The difficulty of using these "lines" that the women suggest is in that they seem to start from a permission-seeking frame and/or are indirect in their intent. If you're an expert already, your body language and tonality could easily overcome the words themselves, and likely worse, but for most people, these are indeed terrible suggestions.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 02:39 PM
1

Not sure how your statement came off, but perhaps you broke your frame in your tonality or body language
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:35 PM
1

As such, 'seduction' is not something that's really compatible with my personality. You assume that your "personality" is your identity, and that it cannot be changed through discipline and desire for self-improvement. You are wrong.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:33 PM
1

The detail here is great. I would simply add on the topic of it is your house that she is welcome to leave whenever, so you shouldn't be afraid to escalate.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:31 PM
1

You may want to consider your reasons for marriage being a necessity when the time comes. What are the roots for that mentality?
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:29 PM
1

TBH, this equates to the classic newbie question of PUA, "how long have you guys been doing game?" It's not necessary to learn or apply the concepts, and isn't necessarily correlated with one's skill in it. The best way to see if this works for you, like anything in life, is to try it.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:27 PM
1

but eventually I'm going to have to answer. Not really. Gradual change is normal.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:24 PM
5

It's really not that simple. And at his age, even if it doesn't play out well long term, he'd still be in his prime.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 06:05 PM
1

Best choice (soft next). If she reaches out to you, feel free to try again, but if she again does nothing then don't bother further.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 02:06 AM
1

Honesty is not always the best policy, with regards to holding your frame. You do not need to explain why you act the way you do.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:53 PM
1

Compliance first. Why are you still seeing her? Every time you see her and don't have sex you are showing that you are not willing to walk away, and that she has the power over you.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:52 PM
1

Option A is the best choice, since it seems you've obviously already tried B enough times. Every time you see her and don't have sex you are showing that you are not willing to walk away, and that she has the power over you.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:50 PM
3

dropping in beta behavior is the exact opposite of what you should be doing.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:47 PM
2

Men and women are not equal in behavior.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:47 PM
1

Men and women are not equal in behavior.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:46 PM
2

if she's not official, then by all means have fun. just don't be apologetic. also, she should be the one bringing up exclusivity and wanting a relationship, not you.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:44 PM
1

not necessarily. with good frame control he could go - it's not like he's choosing to go with her INSTEAD of his GF. The more justifying he does, the worse he looks.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 08:38 PM
3

You are right, that part of you is causing these thoughts. Do these things for yourself and make the right choices that you already know are right. Closure never makes you feel better.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 06:46 PM
1

Hold your frame, and don't discuss or rationalize your actions to her.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 05:20 PM
1

Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP12/05/14 04:56 PM
2

Not sure why you wanna go, although it could create some interesting dread, assuming you hold your frame well. However, if this is a big deal in your head, and it sounds like it is, that will project upon you telling your GF, so you'd just come off like asking permission for something that you feel is wrong to do.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 04:49 PM
5

Vasalgel 2015!
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 02:12 PM
1

Do you know how to transition a fwb to a friend?
/r/askTRP08/05/14 12:29 AM
0

A simple "yup" would have sufficed. She would inevitably ask for details, to which you could not reply, or jokingly reply "i don't kiss and tell :)" Then she would likely have hit you up in a few more days. point being, ambiguity is better than not. Someone else said they want to ACT slutty, not FEEL slutty. This is largely true.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:15 PM
1

When texting plans, ask only for availability - after that, text assuming she is coming, if she does not want to, she will say so, or stop responding. PS - maybe, probably, if I'm free, I'll let you know, and all similar conditionals usually mean no (or are seeding a flake) regardless of affirmation, but sometimes its just people's (stupid) way of responding. In either case, address the conditional, ie "let's grab a drink tomorrow at 7" / "sounds good, I'll probably be free!" / "probably? lol" /…
/r/askTRP07/05/14 04:06 PM
1

if your FWB is clingy then she isn't a FWB. This is your primary issue.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 03:38 PM
2

while this is true, it would likely seem a bit desperate on his part unless he seeded the idea to her and she suggested they try it.
/r/askTRP07/05/14 02:52 PM
1

Don't act apologetic for your desires as a man. If you felt you were "too pushy" when she resisted, you probably reacted as such, and her seeing that is likely what made her shut down.
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:47 PM
2

+1 on the Sex God Method. Be selfish. There is nothing wrong with wanting to please her, if that is what you want. If you don't want her to get off yet, don't let her. If you want to get off, fucking do it, unapologetically. Sex is better for her if you have higher value, and you have higher value when you are dominant.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 08:08 PM
5

You can keep her as a plate, but you'd likely gain more discipline and confidence from knowing you dropped her
/r/askTRP06/05/14 03:25 PM
3

if you've seen her multiple times sleeping over in nude and it's not happening, you've likely already set a pattern and it's unlikely to change with your current skill level. At this point, pretty much go for it, and if not, politely ask her to leave, and soft next.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 02:30 PM
1

Ah. Well that being said, you can act as you like, but keep in mind she isn't material for a relationship. Also, if you move forward, keep in mind you have all the leverage since she's got kids and is married - if she gives you any shit at all, soft next every time.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 06:16 PM
4

her interest for you is eclipsed by the fact that she is a coworker. don't shit where you eat would be my advice.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 04:58 PM
1

planning logistics like this is how it's done. if shes into you, you dont even need location 2. just "go for a walk"
/r/askTRP24/04/14 08:15 PM
5

TL;DR: Become naturally aloof by improving your quality of life. This works, I myself did this. Nowadays I'm "aloof" because I'm too busy with either other women, or self-improvement (the gym, networking, etc)
/r/askTRP24/04/14 08:07 PM
3

You are asking her all these questions, and "letting her get back to you" she is leading the interaction. Also, everytime she says "maybe" or "ill let you know" or "i have to check" that's all bs and you should send her to the bottom of your list, in lieu of girls that are actually compliant. there's nothing wrong with shooting the shit and talking over text a bit, but when you're planning something, do so directly, and you dont need to worry about transitioning into it, ie: you: oh yeah that co…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 07:57 PM
1

I am not saying they do not also have a choice in the matter but the sales analogy gives them all the power since they are the side making the purchase decision. Between men and women, the choice is mutual, unless one side has little or no standards, whereas in sales any purchase is good Maybe I am overanalyzing this...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 03:49 PM
1

The sales analogy is very accurate and I agree, but doesn't framing it in this manner imply that they are the ones choosing, which is the opposite of what the right mentality should imply?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:17 PM
-3

Did you handle it well? That fully depends on your congruency
/r/askTRP30/03/14 01:11 PM
2

Learn to value your time
/r/askTRP22/03/14 04:31 PM
1

site appears to be down, FYI you can Pocket it and read it that way,
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 05:23 PM
1

i'd say 11 is pretty good, "let them order takeaway at yours or her place" - perfect plausible deniability
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 03:22 PM
1

PUAcurveball always ready for those common pitfalls!
/r/seduction17/03/14 07:21 PM
1

Baby steps - take her for a walk first, then maybe another venue (coffee, park, random place) then walk more, then end up near your place and have her come in "for a second" to see something using plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP26/02/14 03:34 PM
0

Several people ITT are getting the BF deflection. You guys should consider proceeding as intended and ignoring it unless the guy literally comes and sits down next to her. Very often its an excuse, or a test. Either way, escalate to figure out which - if it's a test, you pass, if it's an excuse, she doesn't like you anyway (bf or not) and you can leave.
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:30 PM
1

Yep, definitely agree. I lived in a similar spot before (15 from bars, 10 from nearest date spots, and gated family community), and i brought girls back from first dates with simple plausible deniability like seeing my shot glass collection or a kickass painting.
/r/seduction05/02/14 10:36 PM
1

Live by this.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 09:26 PM
1

Surreal
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 08:42 PM
1

However I want.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 07:21 PM
1

almost is an understatement given your writing and actions. Walk away.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 06:27 PM
1

This doesn't even apply to women, it's as basic as friend relationships. You need to give value for her to want to invite you along. You are currently only taking it.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 06:08 PM
5

The more writing there is the more clear it is that the main issue is ONE-ITIS. Even when other plates are involved, which is the funniest part.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 06:02 PM
1

Soft Next
/r/askTRP03/02/14 06:28 PM
1

"I'm looking for a relationship. Sex can come before or after, doesn't matter to me. That's probably pretty beta of me, though." Sex always comes first. Otherwise it's called friendship.
/r/askTRP03/02/14 04:40 PM
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isn't a recording device in private not legal as a form of evidence?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 09:56 PM
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agreed.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 09:07 PM
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emotionally unloading on her was a gender reversal, there was your main problem.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 07:15 PM
3

I could give you advice for this specific girl..... or I could point out the heavy "special girl" vibe you're giving here. You sound like you're on the path to one-itis... even if you sleep with her, you're pretty heavily invested.
/r/askTRP31/01/14 05:09 PM
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Alpha and beta really isn't black and white. It's not being alpha or being beta, its your actions that we can label alpha or beta. That being said keep your actions alpha for the most part, because a real "alpha" person would primarily have alpha actions but give zero fucks about some of his actions being beta.
/r/askTRP31/01/14 03:44 PM
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if you're learning RP then you will want to know not to focus on any one girl. Deal in compliance. Understanding is fun, but compliance is what matters.
/r/askTRP30/01/14 10:31 PM
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"and I will do everything in my power to protect her" I don't understand why guys spinning plates "play the protector card" there is no need to do so.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:56 PM
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Care to elaborate on this?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:53 PM
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you have no idea if she was reserved or not, you were leading and escalating and stopped right before sex, and that is why it did not happen for all intensive purposes. You cannot know if she would have been open to it or not. You have to be the one either taking her clothes off or TELLING her to do so. Even the girls that directly tell you to take them home will not lead you o sex. And either way, most of the time you have to lead the whole way.
/r/seduction21/01/14 11:46 PM
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this is the only way. inviting her two days in a row implies you have no one else to see. bad place.
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:46 PM
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completely dependent on the situation. no right answer.
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:43 PM
1

run<sup>37</sup> read throaway's answer
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:35 PM
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be direct.
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:34 PM
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Good job leading to that point and having her on your bed. If you had led her all the way, this would have been an easy full close. She isn't on your bed by accident.
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:29 PM
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sex comes first. unless you just want a cuddle buddy.
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:12 PM
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you may want to not make online chicks your primary method.... youll miss out on a lot, both in terms of learning and women. that being said, keep it simple. assuming youve already been talking, I'm gonna be in X for business, let's meet up
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:07 PM
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hot girls dont deserve special treatment. when they feel that your value decreases. Treat everyone the same.
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:57 PM
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Girls will likely never get back to you. you must always initiate, even if they say they'll get back to you, even if they are interested. You should have followed up once or twice more after several days. if after those two times shes still "busy" then shes out.
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:56 PM
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neither, via commands. remove conditionals from your vocabulary (should, maybe, could, etc) and don't ask, state. Ask for availability, the suggest specifics "when are you free", "xday sounds good, let's Activity at Ztime" try to avoid setting up so far ahead. if necessary, send a feeler text (not questions) and maybe text back and forth a bit a few days before. always confirm the day of >5hrs before date
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:55 PM
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Women largely don't initiate. They will likely not. And asking again one or twice more takes you off the position of power.
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:51 PM
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don't hide your intent. you can share things with men and women you're not interested in. you date for sex and intimacy. that being said, no need to state that much. just keep your intent clear.
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:50 PM
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on scheduling - suggesting specifics every time without screening for availability would make it pretty hard to meet up with chicks who actually have a busy schedule and (like you) are seeing several people. thoughts?
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:04 PM
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Sex.
/r/seduction22/08/13 05:57 PM
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Check the other recent thread about a guy also about to start college
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:42 PM
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Terrible mindset - you'll be waiting for IOIs to verify attraction while I'm already talking to her.
/r/seduction18/08/13 02:15 PM
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Assuming this is a girl local to you, use texting for LOGISTICS ONLY. Don't bother having conversations on it, plan meetings only. The mindset you want is: You're a busy social guy and you shouldn't have the time to be texting. If she wants your time she can meet up with you. /thread.
/r/seduction18/08/13 02:13 PM
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force yourself to talk to EVERYONE you are near (guys and girls) and make friends. Especially the first week everyone will be willing to hang out even if they don't know you since everyone wants to make new friends. Being in the same school alone gives you some social proof, so use it and cold approach any girl you want to talk to. Walking to class? Eye contact, smile, stop them and say the sky is blue. In class? Make commentary on the dude's shirt in front of you. Having lunch? Sit yourself dow…
/r/seduction18/08/13 02:10 PM
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You really have to weigh the consequences. If you know her or her boyfriend well, then you probably shouldn't, since you're in range of the fallout. If not, then you'd be fine, and to be honest, their relationship is over before you do anything anyway if stuff like this is happening. No one is a seduction mage - sex is always mutual.
/r/seduction13/08/13 11:02 PM
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what about some examples?
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:04 AM
3

What are some ways to sexualize a conversation? Not necessarily lines, also topics or etc
/r/seduction12/08/13 11:32 PM
1

It's a bit better than the ABC's of sales....
/r/seduction07/08/13 03:05 AM
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ok so i've read this a couple of times now but i don't get what you mean. what are some other examples in a different situation?
/r/seduction07/08/13 02:53 AM
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why bother?
/r/seduction06/08/13 12:28 AM
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Hmm, I'm a bit late to this thread. I just moved to Dallas myself! You guys still go out? PM me, I'd love to join you guys.
/r/seduction23/07/13 01:05 AM
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Intent matters, and your intent is incredibly shallow as you yourself stated. So, nope.
/r/seduction05/07/13 09:59 PM
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TBH, if it's your ex, you're just moving backwards.
/r/seduction06/06/13 03:49 AM
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Read about the eye contact game when i was 18 - I'm 24 and have been doing it ever since. I love how often people say hey with a smile or even stop and talk to you. Gonna try the numbers game just for fun.
/r/seduction12/02/13 05:21 AM
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this. touch makes you memorable - it is the first thing and last thing you do.
/r/seduction10/02/13 08:07 PM
1

Good fr, with good detail. Why do you keep saying k/f-close instead of saying what it is? "Close" implies that it's at the end of the interaction...
/r/seduction03/02/13 01:16 AM
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I have an issue which i suppose is also AA, but its completely unjustified. I feel weird and dont want to approach, but the times i make myself do it, i find it incredibly easy to make the woman like me, and even get her into the conversation. its just the making myself go thats the problem for me. how can i deal with that?
/r/seduction27/01/13 12:11 AM
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Steve, I saw your longer analysis video on the video where you kissed, and I was pretty amazed - I already know that backing away but staying means try again later, but you try again within THIRTY SECONDS AND IT WORKS. eye opener. Thanks.
/r/seduction26/01/13 11:42 PM
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Time goes by, and everyone leaves around 12:30PM, and she txts me asking if we were all still hanging. I tell her everyone's gone, but we can still hang if she wanted. She agrees and comes over This point exactly is when she decided it was going to happen. Token resistance is a given regardless, but she had already decided.
/r/seduction26/01/13 06:15 PM
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pretty long article, but has pretty sound advice...
/r/seduction26/01/13 05:46 PM
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Is the server up right now? I'm trying to connect from Android but I keep getting an error saying I need to identify via sasl. Is there a password or am I missing something besides the address an channel?
/r/seduction23/01/13 01:56 PM
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IMO there is nothing wrong with a girl staying the night. Then again, I like casual relationships with mild connection, but thats just me.
/r/seduction01/01/13 06:39 AM
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I got the idea the other day, and I was almost surprised to see a post with the same thought. In my case though I would use it to throw a sexual vibe into a less sexual conversation, do you think that would work?
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:05 PM
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Did you specifically say "get together and bang" as opposed to another wording to have an easy way to turn it around or neg by saying you meant "hang" or am i reading too much into it?
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:49 PM
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