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lol oh shit. I tried to copy another link from RSDtyler about accepting that you are enough as a baseline mindset. And that every time you're working on being more confident, that implies that you're natural state is not confident. Or if you're trying to be better looking that you're natural state is that you're bad looking. He talked about how you should be bettering yourself but at the same time realize that you're enough as you are.
/r/askTRP22/07/17 10:26 PM
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Keep the momentum going. I had braces for four years because I kept skipping appointments to go party(well sleep in) and my ortho was only in the office like two days a month so that kept delaying everything. Go to every appointment, do what they tell you to to make it as quick and painless as possible. If you're in college or younger you can still get pussy, it doesn't matter that much. Got em off in college so I can't answer for post grad. And keep the ball rolling... after you start lifting a…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 02:22 AM
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Have interesting and funny things to say. If you're around other high status guys they're going to be trying to get the spotlight too. Go in with a couple of funny stories that you can tell with bravado and intrigue. You also just have to have better social skills to know how to interject and get your piece off without being interrupted or drowned out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0
/r/askTRP21/07/17 10:42 PM
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What are your goals- aesthetics or strength? Just healthy? Depends on that. If you hope to be bulky and big someday, just eat a little above maintenance and train a PPL split. Increase reps, focus on contracting and stretching the muscle slowly. If you want strength, keep grinding out starting strength and again eat a little bit above maintenance, and give it time. You won't always see strength gains because your diet, sleep, rest, stress etc. all effect your ability to move weight. If you want …
/r/askTRP20/07/17 02:05 AM
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If you want to approach women without hesitating... approach women without hesitating. You really think not touching your dick for a week is gonna give you some weird social skill super power that you can unleash on the 7th day? Just do it. Why wait?
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:42 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkoKtDirvzI That is for you, my friend. It's not the exact same situation but the lessons should be consistent. Go to 1:25 for the key message. Also- Trickle truth. Did she spend the weekend cuddling with him, or kissing and touching. You don't think she at the least touched his cock if not swallowed his kids and then called you on the phone after? It's done dude. I know it. You know it. We all know it.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:30 AM
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You liked this girl and she betrayed you by having sex with your friend. Retroactively you're thinking she wasn't "worth it" because you likely imagined your first time would be with someone that loved you. But alas, it was just a slut so you feel like you wasted this "special" moment. But, keep your head up. You'll have awesome sex with a girl who you have great chemistry with and it'll be like what you imagined. Where you went wrong is being a sulky little girl about it. Worrying about giving …
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:22 AM
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Wow.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 12:08 AM
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A girl cheated on her boyfriend with me and he's all over her profile. Pictures of "her love" all over her SC and FB. Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks
/r/askTRP17/07/17 10:58 PM
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Nah man. Idk why you thought it'd be easy to just nonchalantly fuck a hooker. Like anything else in life the first time is going to be awkward and uncomfortable. Plus its sex- the most intimate thing you can do. Thats why a lot of escorts go out with their clients first- to build comfort and provide a good experience. Personally I can't fuck a girl I don't like and have good chemistry with. I've tried to with a few different girls but it's just harder to get aroused and really into sex with a gi…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:14 AM
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You're full of shit. Unless by "you ate a lot" you mean that you weigh 300+ pounds each then you MIGHT have a chance to lift that kind of weight at that age. Unless you guys just happen to be freak athletes who can be elite by training like jag offs. (hint: not happening)
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 11:16 PM
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Difference between attention whoring and charming a group of people with story telling and engagement. Don't even an attention whore
/r/askTRP13/07/17 10:07 PM
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Breh, one girl rejected you. ZERO reason to change course or mindset because ONE girl rejected you. If 10 more 4s all reject you, then come back.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:03 PM
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Good luck sleeping after taking 300+mg caffeine and getting a sick pump and your adrenaline flowing.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:23 PM
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Ah gotcha, saw your tag said 98 so assumed you're in college/ just graduated. She obviously has some personal issues with sex and intimacy if she barely even made out with guys before you and she is in her 20s. I think you're realizing this girl is really old school and doesn't want to be a plate but LTR. And I totally agree with you. Now you have a decision to make. You have two other girls you're fucking, is this girl worth the effort? Do you really want the attachment that this girl is going …
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:26 AM
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Should I ask for more context of this trip? Not if you're going to be probing to see if there is a certain guy she likes or that she met last time etc. I'd just call to check in with her and see how the trip is going. It's business, she has to go. If she was going on a trip on her own accord with some coworkers for 4-5 days I'd be concerned. Don't be paranoid unless you have reason to be. A girl going out of town for work shouldn't bother you. You're awake and aware of how women can behave and t…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:13 AM
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Jesus dude. I'm guessing this girl is like 18. She has barely ever had sex in her life and you're treating her like the only thing she is good for is sex. If thats how you feel don't try to plate a virgin. She wants to hangout with the guy she likes.... the audacity!
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:05 AM
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When you stop giving her tingles and somebody else does. Just like every other girl...
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:01 AM
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Nothing. Enjoy your 4-5 days with your friends and have fun! If you try to control her and act insecure she'll resent you for it. If she wants to fuck a coworker she's going to do it. Hopefully you LTRed a girl you trust and not a ho.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:00 AM
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Just listen to your body. Everybody has something wrong with them. You're never going to feel "100%". Use weight that you can move safely. If it's light, go super slow and contract hard as fuck, then expand super slow. If a movement is uncomfortable, don't do it. Don't force it. you're obvi new to lifting and you don't want to break the habit. Do what you can do and work on the recovery. And no. Do not cut... you weigh 140 pounds...
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:44 AM
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The fact of the matter is this is a tinder chick. Plate material at absolute best. Don't take it personally! Women are fickle as fuck. An ex could've texted her, she could have arbitrary requirements like must work a white collar job, must be 6'1 or taller, hairy arms gross me out, etc . etc. Hell, she could have just been bored and thought you were cute. You made out a little bit and had a good time. On to the next one...
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:41 AM
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He sounds like me at that age. Granted I'm only 23 now but the fundamental issue is mindset. If you look at yourself in the mirror and you're already thinking "I'm ugly, look at all this that is wrong with me..." Your RAS (Reticular Activation System) is going to focus on the 'wrong' parts of your face which leads to a negative feedback loop. And you can't just say, "Hey Jimbob, theres nothing wrong with you, you look fine," because as you learned, it doesn't connect. It's real to him. And hell …
/r/askTRP10/07/17 12:39 AM
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She was likely using sex as a trade off for a relationship/commitment, but without commitment, the man got what he wanted from her without "giving up" anything.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:26 AM
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I'd just wait it out honestly. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:24 AM
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If 154lbs is overweight at your height, you have to be like 5'5". And I can promise you that nobody is changing their behavior due to a 5'5" "bulky" 139lb guy lol. It's a good thing. You don't want to rely on looks. And again you can be a little more muscular but it is likely your mindset and inner game that has changed. http://bonytobeastly.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Shane-ectomorph-transformation-muscle-building-weight-gain-skinny-guys.jpg He has ten pounds on you and he is still super ski…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 02:34 PM
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139 pounds is tiny. 150 pounds is the cutoff for my little brothers 8th grade football team.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 02:16 PM
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These normies man... I'm with you. There is ZERO chance his physique is whats responsible for these results. It's his mindset and confidence from it though.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 02:14 PM
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It's all in your head. I hate to break it to you but you weigh 139 pounds. Thats small as fuck. People you see in public didn't know you when you were 114 pounds. You feel and look better to yourself which has a huge impact on your inner game and confidence. I'm telling you, you have only been lifting for 7 months. That is almost nothing. You might look fit since you have super low body fat but I doubt your physique is causing people to change their behavior around you. Your mindset has changed …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 02:11 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkoKtDirvzI Check that video out, he does a good job of expressing the situation you're in. I've been single for a minute now, but thats because I know what I'm worth and have principles. I don't tolerate a lot of behavior that most guys would put up with just to get laid. Some times I think I cut girls off too quickly but that comes with the territory of having boundaries. As a "consequence" I haven't had a girlfriend in a few years. I've just been fucking girls …
/r/askTRP18/06/17 01:37 AM
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No. Never look back. You don't need a bitch like that in your life. Besides for letting you stick your dick in her, does she improve your life at all? Does she make you a better person, is she excited to see you and spend time with you? Cause to me it doesn't look like it. It looks like she spends time with you because nobody better is available. "You have a shitty body, you're not smart, you're not fun, I'll fuck that guy if I'm horny..." That is just complete disrespect. Patience, my man. You …
/r/askTRP18/06/17 12:55 AM
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Nope. Impossible
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:19 AM
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Would you say its fair to tell a woman to be cautious of a man cheating? If so, this is the same thing. Women are not special, angelic, pure, more loyal, or any other mainstream myth. They're people. And you know what? People can do some pretty shitty things. That doesn't mean every person is going to do shitty things, but that does mean that we're all capable. If you found a perfect 10, 23 year old blonde who is down to earth and relates perfectly to you and you guys just get along awesomely, y…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 11:11 PM
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Online dating apps like Tinder are huge too. Before you if you wanted to get some poon you had to get your boys/girls together for a night on the town. You had to have balls to approach because there was ZERO other option. (Unless introduced by friends, but even then there is a huge social component.) Now you can just download Tinder and trick yourself into thinking you have options. And if it doesn't work for you its because girls are sluts who only want the top guys. Well no shit, hot girls ge…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 01:12 AM
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Society teaches you how to be a woman, not a man. Throughout school, you're taught to be quiet, sit still, respectful, while feeding you lie after lie about life. Men and women are different. If you don't show boys how to act like a man and let boys be boys, then they end up dysfunctional, confused, and unfulfilled . There used to be traditions and rights of passage to teach boys how to become men. We have lost that along the way. Not to mention guys have access to porn, internet, video games, m…
/r/askTRP08/06/17 12:57 AM
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Sleep with women you actually like
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:47 AM
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You can peep the comment I left too for how it felt to me.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:38 PM
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I have a theory, from experience, that when you're on hallucinogenics your "frequency/vibration" increases. Not only do you become more perceptive to your environment, but your environment becomes more perceptive of you. For example, have you seen the movie inception? When the chick is in her dreamscape with Leo and she starts to realize shes dreaming, the fictional dream characters start staring at her and eventually attack her. The best way I can describe it to those who haven't tripped is hyp…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 11:37 PM
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Well you are an outlier.... Thats insane.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 05:28 PM
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This is some shit you should have learned at a young age. People are only going to give you shit if it gets a reaction out of you.if you start getting all mad and worked up over some jokes, they're going to keep fucking with you. You don't have to ignore it but you can't show it bother you. Join in on the fun an make fun of yourself too. Agree and amplify. Or just be unfuckwitable like me. I really don't give a fuck if people try to throw shade at me. I dont have anything to proveand I know who …
/r/askTRP15/05/17 12:46 PM
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Arbitrary number. You might think that's nothing if you weigh 150 but if you weigh 215 it's going to be tougher.
/r/askTRP15/05/17 12:34 PM
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Bro, if all you're doing is fucking her you don't get to be mad if she doesn't text you back. You don't get to say she is being disrespectful. You text her, you fuck her, she leaves. Thats the vibe I'm getting from your post. If you want more out of it then you're going to have to do more. FFS all she did was not text you back and you're getting all worked up and stalking her social media to see if there is a reason she didn't answer. She dates other guys. You're a plate for her too. Both of you…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:27 PM
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Well its too late for you. You're fucked. But too everyone else let this be a lesson not to fuck around
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:57 AM
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Some girls are sexy and can pull off the short hair look but most can't. Long hair is almost always sexier and more feminine than chopped.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:07 AM
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Obligatory don't shit where you eat comment. With that out of the way, you now have a perfect thing to tease her about if you want to pursue her. "Hey X, I know walls are tricky and tend to just pop up out of nowhere. You gotta be more careful next time." If you have any charm at all she will laugh about it and it will lead to a conversation where its up to you to banter with her and establish some connection. You don't need to get her number, you don't need to seduce her, you just need to break…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:05 AM
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Do cardio earlier in the day. Seriously. You need to increase your heart rate which triggers some biological mechanisms which leads to better sleep. Sounds stupid but my physiologist friend explained it to me but Im not him so tough titties. Just do some intense cardio earlier in the day and you should sleep better. Give it a shot, worse thing that can happen is you exercised.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:00 AM
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To find friends of value you have to be a man of value. You're not going to make friends with your headphones in at the gym nor with your coworkers! Well you can but you'll be lucky to find one that you would actually like to be friends with outside of work. Starting from scratch is tough. Even if your friends are "bluepill" they're at least a foot in the door to meeting new people. How old are you by the way?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:49 AM
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You didn't build enough attraction at the start to wait two weeks to setup a date. It'd be one thing if you guys were making out, fucking, etc when you met and THEN you waited two weeks to go out but you merely just got her number. Thats it. She has zero investment in your relationship and has no reason to be interested after two weeks. You have to strike while the iron is hot. She was interested at first and you should have setup a specific date and time when her buying temperature was high. Wa…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:45 AM
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Online dating can be a supplementary tool but is completely unreliable. Don't have any expectations from it. Maybe something will turn up but the amount of messages girls receive is just stupid. Stand out. Approach in person. Give a girl your number. Ask her out. Literally any IRL approach is better than the most perfectly crafted message online.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:38 AM
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You have to look at your social life as part of the work. There are nights when I don't feel like going out and go anyways. If friends I haven't seen in a while are there, I know I may not get an opportunity to see them again for a long time. You have to put in an effort to maintain relationships and build a social circle. Cool, you make gains and some income but people don't give a fuck about that if you aren't sharing your value with them. Do you want to be that old rich person who didn't live…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 01:34 AM
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her: :( definitely the one that got away him: I am? her: Yup. him: People used to think we were married. her: Yup! her: He's on his way over I'll call you later. . Look- regardless of how much she likes you right now she is clearly not ready to be in a relationship with somebody other than her ex. She called him the one that got away. He knows about you. Shes not hiding you from him, shes hiding him from you. After you go and hang with her, hopefully you smash at the least, shes going to call th…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:27 PM
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You're the rebound homie.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:59 PM
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No masters degree in the world will make me want to fuck a woman. The occupation is mostly irrelevant to my attraction to a girl. Her physical beauty and femininity, however, are 90% of it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:46 PM
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You're 100% right. A lot of guys dont close simply because they get performance anxiety and dont want to disappoint sexually. Even if a girl is obviously into them they make excuses for why they cant take her home, go to her place, etc. instead of sealing the deal. Whats that meme with the black dude... Cant disappoint her in bed if you never have sex with her
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:43 PM
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Its all about taking ownership over your actions and behavior. You may be depressed, have anxiety, bipolar, etc and you are at a disadvantage to thosd without. You are still conscious though. You need to learn to become aware of your body and mind to "fight" those battles. "Fuck you depression, Im going for a run today because I know if I lay here today, Im going to lay here again tomorrow and its going to worsen." "Fuck you anxiety, Im going out to meet this girl for the first time and even tho…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:15 PM
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Wait until Friday and if she doesnt initiate anything its likely she wasnt that into you. Sure you can try again but dont have any expectations.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:11 PM
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Its the same thing when trying to answer the question of why we sre here, whats the point of life. Usually reaching the conclusion of there is no point of life, we all die is scary and disconcerning. It used to put a pit in my stomach and make me feel sick. But Ive come to terms with it. I cant control it so why worry about it? It sucks but it is what it is, whether you accept it or not.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 12:06 PM
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Right, it has to be lifting specifically. Cardio bunnies and yogies don't follow this law lol. But thats been my experience
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 11:40 AM
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Think youre right. Girls who lift typically date big ass dudes. Never really see em with the skinny and lean guys.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:06 PM
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Calories in calories out is king. Everything else is supplementary
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:03 PM
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Sorry to hear that bullshit. Hopefully others will learn from your experience.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:37 PM
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I know that experience. Everything that made me... me, was gone. I no longer played football. My gf of 2 years broke up with me. All my friends went to other schools. I didn't know anybody going in. I lost my identity. And I wasn't exactly prepared to deal with that. I got through it though. It doesn't sound "tough" but it is from the other side.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:36 PM
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