So I was escalating with a plate yesterday. She was a virgin before me and this was gonna be our second time.

Things were great, she was getting all giddity and shit, but when it came down to business she kept on bringing up how nervous she was (but still giggling and smiling).

I tried some push pull - when she bought up how nervous she was (despite my words of reassurance once or twice Ie "Don't worry, it's just us" "Our little secret") for the third time, I got up and left for about 10 minutes.

Came back like nothing happened, tried escalating again... Same result. At this point I just said "I think imma go sleep, bit tired" and left.

Tonight she came back over and was in the mood, but I turned her away ("You had your chance yesterday" in a light funny tone & "Maybe next time")

Was this a good move on my part? Or was I being a butthurt ego bruised asshole?