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| 5 | Mental stability decreased through narcissistic abuse by redpillerI lived this life for far too many years. I am so very sorry you're going through that. You're trauma bonded to the abuse cycle which is like an addiction to the highs and lows he provides. The ONLY way to recover is to leave. Your brain needs rest and it's very likely you have some degree of what's called Complex PTSD. You need serious TLC and love right now. Do you have anyone you can stay with until you get back on your feet? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Does gynocentrism even exist?https://www.marieclaire.com/politics/news/a15652/gender-inequality-stats/ "Almost 90% of Men/Women Globally Are Biased Against Women:" https://www.undp.org/press-releases/almost-90-men/women-globally-are-biased-against-women | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Does gynocentrism even exist?He's not though. He's literally making a point. Why are you avoiding it? I thought you were fighting for everyone's rights? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Does gynocentrism even exist?He did make a point. It's there, clear as day. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Does gynocentrism even exist?Unfortunately, it doesn't break down cleanly along gendered lines like that. Reality is not so simple. This is why I enjoy playing the reverse uno game. This is a bias. :) Plenty of women have voted against men's rights. How many? What are the stats? And there are more women voters than there are men voters, so women hold most of the power. Where? What are the stats? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Does gynocentrism even exist?He's asking you to though. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Does gynocentrism even exist?Please vote for women's reproductive rights. Thanks for supporting our fight for equal rights in healthcare! ✊🏼 Get involved. You likewise can get involved in men's rights. "Don't rely on people to give you things. You have to work to get what you want. Vote!" -You 😘 Keep in mind, men's votes are very likely the reason you don't have equal rights as a man. Just sayin'. It's a depressing, dystopian thing in our governments, but is very much the biggest reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Does gynocentrism even exist?Maybe debate some facts? I did, which you ignored. Here's a reminder: You can see anything if you cherry-pick enough things. Debating loaded and baity statements aren't in my interests, especially when others are ignoring your points. Dirty debating is a solid, Grade A waste of time Got anything other than personal attacks? They're not personal attacks; it's constructive criticism. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Does gynocentrism even exist?Brother, you have a lifetime of blinders and biases you should work on. It's obvious in your comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 03:08 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?That IS Red Pill though. Maybe not what you got out of it, but there is still a heavy amount of talk regarding these points from "mentors" proclaiming to be 'official' teachers of it. Basically a similar point you brought to me. If you're here to shill though, you should probably not. It's against the rules. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 02:52 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?And what about the grooming and trauma bonding they teach? Is that what we're calling "increasing your chances" now? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 02:41 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?It may not work for you but do you think it does on other women? To me, it's literally the same argument we get from most Red Pillers: there will be an element of truth at some point because what they share is merely just relabeled from science that already existed before RP was created. It's rarely the full or even mostly full truth. It's technically not "the red pill". Nobody is a monolith (which means only with reductionist thinking can we make these non-facts work; it's flawed science). So y… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 02:34 PM |
| 3 | How do you/did you cope with all the dishonesty that's required to be Red Pill?Though I was doing the lady "game" instead of the man's, this was my issue too. I literally became a better person because some of the people that raised me. They had shitty morals, sketchy ethics, couldn't tell the truth about certain things to save their souls, were addicts, abusers, etc. I had one set of guardians that were great role models for me, I became that. When I had one of my own mentors seemingly try to lead me in disastrous places, I became very skeptical and noped out pretty quick… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 02:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?Is that not just the Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 02:14 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection?This is where I find it funny because I have the opposite experience. If I have to 'fight' for others because that man is only good looking, I already know he's not for me. I've 'fought' for very few men in my life, but it wasn't because of their looks, money, or status. It was because they made me laugh until my sides hurt, they loved the same music as me, we got along really well, we had the same values, etc. I would Hella date me, I like to have partners that I can get along with rather than … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 02:11 PM |
| 3 | How do you/did you cope with all the dishonesty that's required to be Red Pill?That's good you left. That's sad they fed the "it's your turn" garbage. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy in a way because of course it's only going to be "your turn" when she can tell you're not in it for the long haul or aren't as invested. Like duh. Who goes all-in on a bad bet? Reckless people. Nobody wants that in their life, man or woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 11:08 AM |
| 4 | How do you/did you cope with all the dishonesty that's required to be Red Pill?That definitely sounds like my Red Pilled exes. It was wild how much I got accused of things I didn't do or intentions I did not have though. I could be talking about the color green and they'd both would accuse me of talking about anything but green. It was a mental rollercoaster from Hell. Are you still like that or have you grown out of all that? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Does gynocentrism even exist?Again, cherry-picking. It's like the people that see things in clouds; some will see an elephant and some will see a hippo. You can see anything if you cherry-pick enough things. Permanently give us our healthcare back and then we'll talk. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 10:35 AM |
| 13 | Red pill friend went full psychoYou should not give this validation. All you're doing by staying friends with him is enabling him to never get better. He's a bottom of the totem pole type guy. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Does gynocentrism even exist?You also conveniently ignored doesn't mean you need to be willfully ignorant of actual men's issues These are the very stigmas you are shaming me for. I'm here trying to understand, ask questions, tell you what I have been taught, and you seem to think it's this intentional thing I'm "conveniently ignoring". Now I don't want to talk about it. Learn how to teach these things better without passive-aggressive zings and people might be more receptive to what you're saying. Not everyone knows everyt… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 02:16 AM |
| 10 | Does gynocentrism even exist?The US draft ended in the early 70's though. The military is filled with voluntary members, usually because there are lots of bonuses to do so. Again, cherry-picked data isn't really helpful for this discussion. There are also A LOT of women serving in the military now. The talking points are used to incite heavy emotions but don't really apply anymore. Ukraine is at war and don't really have enough people to take on Russia. Women have volunteered there though too. It's kill or be killed. Who wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 01:50 AM |
| 22 | Does gynocentrism even exist?Right but a small list of specific things where women benefit doesn't make it "centrism". It's a lot of that kettle logic. If men are the "better" and "stronger" sex, then society will protect the "weak". We're not always cared for and are often heavily abused too. It's picking and choosing points to make a somewhat false statement. Context is important. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Men who left Red Pill, did you ever go back and apologize to the ones you hurt? What did you do instead if not?Once you realize what it really is, you have a 'real' Red Pill moment. Makes it really easy after that. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who left Red Pill, did you ever go back and apologize to the ones you hurt? What did you do instead if not?It's not "hate" to tell you that you'd be better off focusing your attention elsewhere. Actual "hate" is soooooo much worse. People get killed with "hate". I'm giving you constructive criticism. It's not the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Men who left Red Pill, did you ever go back and apologize to the ones you hurt? What did you do instead if not?Eh, not everyone is a piece of shit. I still have feminists here that pick on me occasionally too even though they can't really defend their position to. Let it roll. You're trying to change and that's what matters. She sees something in you or she wouldn't have taken to back. You don't have to go hard on yourself all the time. Take a break every once in a while. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Men who left Red Pill, did you ever go back and apologize to the ones you hurt? What did you do instead if not?Any therapist that attacks you should be fired and you should find a better one. They're there to help you create a safe zone with expressing those feelings. My Red Pill partners found benefit in going to an anger management therapist. If you have trauma that triggered all this (like not getting enough attention from a woman), then find someone who does things like ACT and CBT. You can process this, you just need some help. No biggie. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/23 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Men who left Red Pill, did you ever go back and apologize to the ones you hurt? What did you do instead if not?You should stop following Red Pill and go learn how to spell. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/23 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Men who left Red Pill, did you ever go back and apologize to the ones you hurt? What did you do instead if not?I was hurt by guys like you, but I learned I could use that anger towards something constructive, 7-years ago I started my Gamergate-fueled Anoning and I've had a lot of amazing people I've teamed up with to send y'all resources and get help in. Please be gentle with yourself. These people do this on purpose, they're good at it, they don't care who they hurt, they profit from it, and it's pretty advanced 'mind control' shit. You'll get there. You learned. Despite everything I'd still like to hug… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | "She's toxic."Everyone projects to some extent, but as we grow and mature it becomes less prevalent as we learn to get to know people, ask questions, discover the differences in people, etc. There was definitely an issue with it in bulk in those communities for sure though. I can't tell you how many times I got blamed for the strangest of intentions from Red Pillers in my life; it was certainly a lot of traumatizing situations. Lots of projections, plus denial of obvious things, a lot of trying to pin a lot o… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Paternity fraud.I think "consequences" is a really slippery slope though. What do people consider reasonable "consequences" for these kinds of things? I've been exposed to absolute moral and ethical treachery, abuse, and betrayal. Just because I want "consequences" for my abusers, doesn't mean I want them to rot in prison, you know? Language is very versatile; we need to be careful what we ask for. :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Paternity fraud.I think things get better when there are even a basic level of consequences for these things. Even if they don't get jail time, which is unreasonable for most of us (I think it should be reserved for serious crimes like murder and whatnot), especially how the economy is these days, but one should be able to easily sue and legally force them into a long house arrest (like at least 1-2 years). The more house arrest they have, the more they learn about how much freedoms they abuse, the less trouble… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Paternity fraud.This one person was a walking disaster and waste of air honestly. They're a disgusting excuse for a human. Lost respect would be a massive understatement. 😅 | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Paternity fraud.I honestly think it's terrible anyone has to go through this. One of my ex-friends tried to do this and I disowned them forever because of it. I hate them for doing this and everything else they've done to others. It's a dark sickness than consumes them. This is why I'm so supportive of getting DNA tests. The better option if your local laws don't have this written in them is to contact the government about it, lobby it, show up with signs and protests. Make a stand, even in the court hearing. ✊… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Don't feel masculine because of my average penis sizeWomen who are actually realistic don't really think about this as a main selling point at your size. I saw your size in another comment and that's not that bad. There are other ways are can get pleasure too, like vibrators. Use them at the same time you're fucking her and she'll probably finish anyways. Be fun and creative with toys, make it hot. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Paternity fraud.Yes, I think it should be a crime if she's truly being fraudulent. I do acknowledge that not all women are being these devious little creatures from the depths below that Red Pill and MGTOW would have you believe. Sometimes it truly is a mistake and we have a moral and ethical duty to not think everything is intentional, especially with what we now know of psychology and neurology. In a lot of countries, DNA is already taken before they even make him pay for anything though. I know several peopl… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 09:39 AM |
| 3 | How to escape red pill ideas when your entire life has been the redpill image of a single mother raising a child ? M17Its like that one theory that talks about once you get a certain car, you start seeing that car everywhere. Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon! One of my favs. These things are sooo hard to battle out of our minds. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How to escape red pill ideas when your entire life has been the redpill image of a single mother raising a child ? M17Even with your autism, a lot of the recovery info can work for you. Usually it's just slower or a bit harder to implement, but nothing will be completely useless unless you're suffering with an severe version. There is nothing wrong with learning about your situation from a book and I think it'll give you much-needed validation that you're most definitely not alone. I highly recommend "The Body Keeps Score" for you at first to learn how your trauma is affecting your body. A lot of those who are … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How to escape red pill ideas when your entire life has been the redpill image of a single mother raising a child ? M17Okay, well that seems like a strange arrangement that I've never heard of before. If you have a local library, most of the books regarding a lot of what you need will be free there. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How to escape red pill ideas when your entire life has been the redpill image of a single mother raising a child ? M17Have you actually gone to a group meeting? There is special ones for teens. I know this. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | "She's toxic."Feel free to state exactly where, in detail. Otherwise vague non-points and baseless opinions regarding my mental health aren't really constructive use of anyone's time. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzI can’t hope to compete with the likes of Chris Hemsworth or Jason Momoa in the looks department. Just try to remind yourself that us women get those same feelings. I still think it's strange when a man loves up on me despite my chunky thighs and plump "curves". I'm like, "Could you pleeeease just go find someone who is worthy of your love?!" But they don't. They want to love me still! Weirdos! JK 🤭 have been unable to walk out of the prison of my mind. “the doors to hell have no locks.” We can … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How to escape red pill ideas when your entire life has been the redpill image of a single mother raising a child ? M17Are you located in a place that has the free group sessions or online groups like coda.org? r/AdultChildren is another great and supportive place for those similar to how you were raised. Try r/CPTSD and r/EmotionalNeglect too. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 11:22 AM |
| 9 | "She's toxic."Frankly nowhere do I say all men do this or it's all men's faults, so I cannot accept your baseless opinion of this post. ❕️ At the same time, I'm very sorry that you went through what you did ❕️because I know myself how utterly soul-crushing it can be for people who say they love you to do these things to you until you finally do snap, which everyone will eventually if pushed enough. This is a fact about human emotions. The ones that used abusive strategies learned from online grifters is the b… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/23 10:27 AM |
| 3 | If women want their male partners to be more vulnerable, why is it that there are so many stories of men who opened up and were ridiculed/dumped/cheated on soon after?My latest jam has been Ghostwire: Tokyo. lol | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Are most women really attracted to dominant "alpha males"?A lot of men fantasize about getting that perfect-bodied woman with the perfect tits who will deliver every one of your kinks to you on a silver platter; we just fantasize about different things. Men still do it too. How are you not self-aware about this? Of course people fantasize; doesn't mean we've "settled". I fantasize about hooking up with Ryan Reynolds, but it doesn't mean I feel like I've "settled" the one I have. I'm just realistic too. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Are most women really attracted to dominant "alpha males"?So do men. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 08:43 PM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzIt's definitely a hard battle that I know men go through in different ways (be "masculine" enough instead of "pretty" enough), but a woman either escapes that jail understanding that jail door isn't even locked or she doesn't. I thankfully focus more on my intellect more than my "beauty" now, but I also am still very cute "for my age" and don't have to try as hard (not tooting my own horn, just understanding my place is higher than some). I wish we'd all just kick the beauty industry off the pla… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzI understand. I watch these things as a woman and it kills me because I know how utterly insane it is to have to achieve all that knowing they've got full access to dieticians, makeup and hair team, professional clothing designers, etc. "Normal" women don't have access to these things and are often expected to achieve similar results. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 01:06 PM |
| 21 | If women want their male partners to be more vulnerable, why is it that there are so many stories of men who opened up and were ridiculed/dumped/cheated on soon after?Gahd, this shit makes me want to throw fisticuffs sometimes. I've definitely been some confirmation bias for a few men, so I think I can take a very honest stab at this: 1) Shamefully Hiding Vital Context Ex: I've been the victim of pretty mentally insane smear campaigns from people who know they'd probably want to die from humiliation if their withheld context were also revealed to those who they told I was some form of "evil", "bad", or whatever creative, colourful language would be used to de… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 12:27 PM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzEr'body lies homie. Keep up. lol jk | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzWestern beauty standards are absurd. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 08:29 AM |
| 7 | The red pill is false my stepfather is a piece of shit. He’s a racist and homophobe etc. but according too all these red pill YouTubers I should love him simply because he’s a man fuck that!First, I'm very sorry you've gone through that and continue to go through that. It's not okay for people to treat you like that just to compensate for their own negative feelings or inferiority. I know your battle very well and it's possible for you to disconnect from all this mentally and break the cycle if you choose. Don't let "The F.O.G" sway your decision. Secondly, choosing to hate someone simply because their sperm won in someone's womb is just stupid honestly. Judgement of character shou… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzAre you someone who was Red Pill? Maybe it's just left over self-esteem issues? They did a great job at abusing the heck outta you guys. I'm sorry you're going through that and that they wouldn't judge you. It does sound like you're too reliant on external validation more than internal right now. The source is definitely a fascinating mystery. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 09:57 PM |
| 3 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzOh hey! Fellow glow up here too. Good on you for doing what you wanted out of life and away from the church. That is a HARD battle. And I think you're bang on with the reasons for the porn usage. I had never really dissected that, but it's a very valid point. TMI ahead... I find that when my partners and I share videos with each other, I'm very interested in what he sends because it tells me what he likes; I can navigate 'dirty talk' better based on that, however when I'm alone, it's not the sam… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzSounds like maybe you rely too much on their approval. What culture is your main culture if you don't mind me asking. Sometimes it's a cultural thing and sometimes it's because they're emotional abusers. Sometimes it's because they're authoritative and that's a side effect. Would need to know more to dissect. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzAlso see "Trust Me, I'm Lying" by Ryan Holiday. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 01:33 PM |
| 3 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzI love data stuff like this! I'm totally reading this soon! Edit: Obviously I will take everything with a grain of salt. I just find these things fascinating to think about. I just love data stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 11:10 AM |
| 6 | "People don't date who they are attracted to. They date whoever would impress their friends and family" - Seth Stephens-DavidowitzThis is right for me as well. My family would hate on everyone because it took more time away from me serving their needs, but they're energy leeches like that with no concept of your life outside of them. I go with who I like and enjoy for sure. I enjoy the chill, backyard BBQ kinda life. I don't want dumb drama over who might be impressed or not. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/23 10:34 AM |
| 3 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?Yeah, my ND friends and lovers got into it too. I'm sorry you had to watch all that. I think they give one of many possible reasons why people do things, but they frame every woman as some soul-sucking narcissistic Borderline monster Hell-bent on abusing everyone; that's just not the case, but it can feel like that when they take advantage of people's lack of knowledge on basic psychology and human behaviour. It's sad honestly. There is so much potential to teach the right things to help million… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 11:25 PM |
| 4 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?Women's mental illnesses are very rarely seen as "cute". I'm not sure where you'd even get that. Even crying is seen as bonkers. We're very often called "crazy", "psycho", "hysterical", "brain dead", "broken", "maniac", "bat shit crazy", "sick bitch", "nuts", "insane", "bonkers", etc. I don't treat men intentionally badly and I very rarely start it. I am a kind woman. This is just who I am. I have no interest and have a healthy respect for karma or the universal balancing (that's dished out by i… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 08:53 PM |
| 2 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?Free thinking atrophies in religions and ideologies like this. I was raised strict Roman Catholic and I used to get massive migraines just from my deprogramming treatments (it's really a thing). It was like my brain was coming back to life. It was awful honestly and made me feel stupid even though it wasn't my fault. While I don't think it really atrophies physically, I think that critical thinking and free thinking is a skill that, if goes unused, doesn't become even a basic level skill. They d… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 07:26 PM |
| 6 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?One whole side of my family is Latina woman. He's in for a biiiig surprise. They can sass and scrap like nobody's business. 😅 | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 07:22 PM |
| 3 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?Such broad, overgeneralized statements that aren't always true. That sucks that you don't have one caring and compassionate woman in your life. Women get autism as well and we're more likely to understand autistic men (and be more patient with them). The women in your life must be terrible. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 07:20 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill made me feel isolated and unattractiveIt's okay, I totally understand. I had a self-esteem recovery period too. I'm sorry you're going through all that. I think a big thing to start trying to internalize is that Red Pill isn't the be all end all definition of who is "worthy", "masculine" enough, "attractive" enough, etc. They are ONE opinion in a sea of many. They basically abused you, told you that you were garbage unless you do X, Y, and Z. Then they said women were shit unless they were X, Y, and Z, effectively closing you off to… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 04:26 PM |
| 4 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?"Create the sickness so you can sell them the cure" I think is what you're looking for. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 04:13 PM |
| 13 | Red Pill made me feel isolated and unattractiveYou ever heard of the "create the sickness so you can sell them the cure" sales strategy? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 04:12 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill made me feel isolated and unattractiveWhat's your attachment style homie? You sound like fearful-avoidant maybe? https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/ | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 12:08 PM |
| 16 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?TL;DR: Neurodivergent people are more likely to be abused and taken advantage of: https://www.spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/how-abuse-mars-the-lives-of-autistic-people/ and https://www.thearticulateautistic.com/why-autistic-people-may-be-more-susceptible-to-abusive-romantic-relationships/, and therefore more likely to fall for varieties of grooming of which these groups have a heavy influence in, and literally teach. 'Leaders' are more likely going to be higher on the narcissism spectrum (… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Is there hope??I'm not OP, I was just validating your reply because it is often a forgotten aspect of these men. I get it. Here's the comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/1305tjw/is_there_hope/jhvd761 I looked and the post history and then I understood a bit better, though I'm not there; I don't know what everything really looks like. My own partners got into it for other reasons, so I can't relate to her issues, though I get how painful it can be. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 07:57 AM |
| 5 | Is there hope??Steve Hassan is a leading expert in these kinds of things. Try to get him to read his work. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 07:25 AM |
| -1 | Is there hope??She admitted above that she's been abusive. This is likely his entry into it, among other feelings. I don't know why you're being downvoted though. Your reasoning and explanation is very valid. This sub is on the decline again. Ugh. Like how hard is it to consider the feelings of those being reasonable? 🤦♀️ | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 07:24 AM |
| 8 | When's the last time you heard something positive?A predatory program will not have "positive" things to neurotypicals and those with morals and ethics. To those who follow this and truly believe it's okay to do to others, especially vulnerable people like autists, ADHD, and other mentally vulnerable individuals, it will be positive. It'll help for people to look at this as it really is instead of trying to project morals into it. It's a deception-based 'program'. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!Same to you if you were affected too. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Why would women want to be monogamous?I think I've made peace with my little bit of jealously in my veins. I feel like a weird woman sometimes because I'm very territorial over my guys if we're bonded. I want to say it's something along those lines, but who knows honestly. I already did therapy and all that and they've told me it's pretty normal for some women. I've made peace with it and they don't seem to mind (or think it's "cute" lol). We can't all be perfect. lmao | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!I actually understand you! I had many of mine try to make claims that I was Borderline and I actually believed them. I couldn't believe it! They made me seem like some like of monster. Then I went to the pros crying and begging them to fix me. Turns out it wasn't me at all. The gaslighting I guess is what was making my brain all mixed up. Once I got rid of them and basically made it to where they couldn't get to me as easily, I started to get better again. Thankfully no personality disorders at … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!Yeah, did therapy and all that and basically just try to help others see what we saw many years ago. We've gotten hundreds of thank you DMs. Seems like the most popular assumption was that they knew something didn't feel right but they couldn't put words to it, so what I was showing was helping them learn the words. Not sure if that made sense. I thankfully had a lot of pros on my side teaching me a bunch of stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Why would women want to be monogamous?I have strange arrangements, but it works out fairly well after a few rounds of figuring things out. I'm poly, but I only get with mono men. I prefer to have very deep and loving relationships with them, but I also don't like to share. 😅 Everyone so far has been okay with this because they sorta get me all to themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!Makes sense why they'd all say certain dog whistles too. This is all so sad. Too many of my friends got sucked up into this and I just kept telling myself, "This will blow over just give it time" in 2015 and it didn't. It got so much worse in every way. They messed with my life so badly. I have so much anger. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!Wow. This is my exact experience. Left school too after trying to go back. I couldn't think or distract myself enough. Got diagnosed with CPTSD too and a dissociative disorder. I broke. I am so sorry you had to experience all that as well. I know how badly everything made me feel. It hurt so much. 🫂 | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!Great analysis honestly. Thank you. I get you now. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!I now have to work much harder to prove to a woman that I am not one of those red pill Menstrual Clots LOL "Red Pill Menstrual Clots" 🤣☠ And yeah, I can only imagine. I was just so traumatized by it all that I pushed away all my male friends. I couldn't breathe around them after I found out most were Red Pill. I was always carefully listening to every word, dissecting every text looking for dog whistles and making sure I left as soon as I did. I was never like that. My own behaviour over it made… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!Some a very good at tearing their women down and gaslighting. Yeah, that perspective thing is so shitty. I think eventually it can tear anyone down after a while. I was pretty okay before I met mine. It just gets exhausting after a while. It's a good thing you didn't go through much of it! | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Women who were directly connected to a Red Piller (not through 3rd party info), how did they affect your life, career, mental health, etc. Please tell us your experiences!They moved to an off-Reddit sight, but it doesn't mean there aren't still their victims here. I do not believe this is related to Q Anon. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Growing up, what do you feel informed your perception of masculinity and gender roles the most?Exactly. It's the same way with these "coaches" like Andrew Tate, Julien Blanc, and all the other ones that took advantage and broadcasted their crimes everywhere with little accountability. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Go to my page and look at what somebody said to me on a dating app) should I just buy a sex doll since I am a virgin at 26 and objectively unattractiveBrother, you can't do much about it if that's true. When we're not able to change it, we can do other things to try and compensate, but you can't be "ugly" on the outside and allow your self-hate to be you on the inside too. It never leads to anywhere healthy. You need to take care of your self-esteem too. Do this for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Go to my page and look at what somebody said to me on a dating app) should I just buy a sex doll since I am a virgin at 26 and objectively unattractiveShe's dumb. She can't even use the right "you're". All she has is to tear others down to feel better about herself. Tell her that and then block. Ignore dumb girls who can't spell 3rd grade words right. lol | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Exredpill = antiredpill?Yeah, I mean I guess you can say it in different ways. Finds, attracts, gets with, foolishly frolics with...LOL. All of them acceptable. He's top tier Red Pill and now look. He can't resist temptation, which arguably is something Red Pill should teach and they broke him anyways. The world won't forget the evil he is inside: https://twitter.com/cobblecola/status/1631925240467972096 | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Exredpill = antiredpill?There are a few people to come here every month who try to get others to say, in some form, that Red Pill has some elements of good. It's always very baity like you're clearly being. However, it's intellectually dishonest because almost everyone here says 'hit the gym' basic mentality is not bad. This is obvious. Duh. The only people who might say strange things like this are fattness enablers or whatever. The 'hit the gym' basic advice is not theirs. They didn't create it. They didn't populariz… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Exredpill = antiredpill?The social pressures over women are like a paradise for men. None of what you said is a social pressure. The fact you mentioned "dont wear skirt" as social pressure says how much you don't have any pressure in 2023 as a female. I just wanted to read you say what I knew you were going to first. Thank you. You will never get it because clearly you genuinely believe that we don't struggle at all, but at least I'm here trying to understand every single speck. I listed off a few of hundreds. You 100%… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Exredpill = antiredpill?Even if that were true, doesn't it mean that you likewise don't know if the social pressures of women? That we get told we're not "feminine enough" if we like computers, don't where heels, don't wear skirts, avoid talking too much our partners (I loved my last lover and loved talking with him, damn it!), and literally everything else men also have issues with, but flipped. It's not that hard to see that we all have our own. The best we can ever expect is to come like places like this, learn what… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Exredpill = antiredpill?I was a Red Pilled woman. Made me a broken woman, then I had to fix myself and everything Red Pill destroyed in my life. I have personal experience; it doesn't matter if I'm a woman or not. Stop devaluing other's work when you're not even here with good intentions. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Exredpill = antiredpill?Drama. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Confused about hypergamyYou can absolutely still be "alpha" and not be those things. Red Pill is not the sole decision-maker of the definition of "alpha". Even if you were more submissive, there is still an element of strength in you because you recognize that and you're making peace with who you are. Many don't do that. They fucking peacock everywhere because they're so uncomfortable in their own skin. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Confused about hypergamyAdding to Medium's comment, now that I understand my own autism: the power of autism lies in finding where your super power is (not all cases, of course). In many cases our hyper-focued interest was something that was conditioned out of us, sometimes with strict punishments that made our brains associate that interest with pain, ostracization, loneliness, fear of not being "normal", shame, guilt, etc. When you can face that conditioned fear or negative emotions that someone likely forced on you,… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Exredpill = antiredpill?It would behoove you to read more posts. Then compare it to how it was 2 years ago before it was massively cleaned up. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 11:37 AM |
| 5 | Exredpill = antiredpill?Can you prove that? Do you have the data or is this just your opinion? This sub has helped thousands of men with alternative advice like healing their trauma with info that professionals would provide, resources on how to attract women with honesty rather than mind games, and the like. Just because you're here trolling, doesn't mean nobody has been helped to leaving. Many have come back to share their successes. Many are now married to wonderful women and have the family they wanted. Many are ha… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 11:36 AM |
| 4 | Exredpill = antiredpill?There are much better masculine role models than Tate. A very subjectively broken woman loves men like Tate. Those women are more likely to be the ones that get you in a lot of trouble. He is a perfect example of a man who finds the wrong type of women. Red Pill attracts those type of women as they can see dysfunction written all over you. If you want smart, educated, and yet can still be very sexual women, you don't follow Tate's advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Exredpill = antiredpill?I think that you're trying to bottleneck answers using dishonest ways and it's not a good way to truly teach yourself things on how the world really works. If you truly were Red Pill or out for "truth", you would not be saying the things you're saying. Just sayin'. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the black pill Chanel Tails?I don't do DMs anymore, sorry. :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 10:11 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of the black pill Chanel Tails?this sub helps Awesome. Glad you have some healthy resources to come back to. dating is more difficult when you are autistic Yeah, I think there are just a lot of things we see and do differently that can intimidate a lot of people. I'm fortunate enough to have had access to a form of treatment that helped me a lot, but many men find me "interesting". 😅 Do you have any awesome strengths that NT might not like that ND women might like? I've heard that introverted women can enjoy ND men differentl… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | A serious questionlike a walkthrough that guarantees you a GF if you just grind your player character enough. LOLOLOL! As a gamer, I appreciate this witty retort. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Former Red Pillers, how lonely did it get when you took on these beliefs?It's very difficult when society at large reinforces and praises dishonesty. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the black pill Chanel Tails?I am autistic and went through that phase, but no longer want that kind of negativity in my life. I actively stay away from it as much as possible, but like to help others that were in my position who might be struggling to process. Sometimes when you're in the thick of it, it's hard to see around things, see around the destructive algorithms, etc. I will never forget what it all felt like and how much damage it did to me though. It's awful. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the black pill Chanel Tails?"Tails Cures Autism" 🤨 "Nobody Cares About Masculinity" That's what I notice at quick glance. The title of the video in photo doesn't match the title of the video in words, which is possibly deceptive depending on the content. Though he does pad the blow better and makes it easier to digest, this is still a lot of info based on just studies. They're not all peer-reviewed, duplicatable, etc. A study doesn't mean it's real and that's what a lot of people don't understand. He also uses a lot of Bla… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 06:08 PM |
| 15 | On the scale from 0 to 10 how much is redpill dangerous ?The entire pipeline now survives in what's called a Paradox of Tolerance: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance The seriousness of it before, over a decade ago, probably not worth really doing much about except prosecute isolated cases. It was a niche group of like-minded and dysfunctional "strategies" that honestly probably hurt very few people. However, after it became a clear pipeline to dangerous PUA "strategies", the Alt-Right, Black Pill, a wave of sexual assaults, exploitat… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the black pill Chanel Tails?Please post the direct link to the channel. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 04:56 PM |
| 8 | What are some real examples of the "kettle logic" that Red Pill uses to confirm all those "theories"?Make that make sense. I can't. This gives me a migraine. I think my brain is going to collapse. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?Interviews with whom? So essentially you're extrapolating partial information and applying it to not only your life, but the lives of others without actually having read his complete work? I don't want to assume. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Former Red Pillers, how lonely did it get when you took on these beliefs?Thank you so much for your raw honesty. I'm sorry you had to go through all that. It was rough experiencing this on the other side as well and watching a lot of my male friends and a couple of my lovers go through this too. Sounds like it was rough all around. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?Okay, so here's a really important question that I'd like an answer to, but at the very least you should answer honestly to yourself: have you actually read his work or just an online interpretation of his work? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Recovering from RPI think the most frustrating thing about relationships is to find compatibility with how you would like the relationship structure to be. I can only speak for myself, but I was raised on traditional gender roles and was 'trained' for that (I cook, clean, sew, etc.), so that's what I prefer, despite egalitarian being fairly common as well. They're both very valid options. I prefer to be at home, taking care of the kids and/or him, making his meals (breakfast, packed lunch, and dinner), and helpin… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?If they weren't trying to keep things a secret, they would use common-use terms so that you can make informed decisions on how you're not only affecting yourself, but affecting others. Mental abuse literally affects the brains and mental health of the women you use these 'tactics' on, sometimes permanently. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 09:29 AM |
| 1 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?Muh dude, Red Pill is pure "crazy making behaviour". Wait until we tell you "the secret" that "they" have really been keeping from you. Ooo-eeee-oooo, The Matrix is coming... https://liveboldandbloom.com/06/emotional-abuse/crazy-making | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Is Female Chastity REALLY An Evolutionary Advantage??Adding to this, a lot of cultures that perpetuate these myths still use the presence of the hymen to "prove" that a woman in still a virgin, which has already been scientifically debunked. The hymen can 'break' and wear down over basic physical activity. If this was "evolutionary", then "evolution" would make a hymen that was stronger, but it's not. It's just left over tissue with no purpose other than being left over from fetal development. People like this make our laws and strip women of righ… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 09:01 AM |
| 2 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?By all means, come back when you find his name. Until then, your "trust me bro" comment is useless. "Income" isn't evolutionary; it's a created construct that has little to do with evolution. All Red Pill feeds you is a reconstructed idea of what used to be known as "The Rat Race". It's how they keep this monopoly, fiat BS going. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rat_race What do you do when you lose your positioning in that social totem? Is it then okay for her to leave you despite it not always … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | How male self-objectification makes it hard for women to create bonds with themReally?? Haha, I don't really look at people's usernames. It all just sounded on point with everything I've learned and experienced. It sounded like you not only "got it", but were also in tune with your emotions as well, which is a great combo. And Hell yeah, relationships are wonderful when you find someone who is the Yang to your Yin! Keep it up, you're doing great. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 08:30 AM |
| 15 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?I'm being genuine here, but where do these truths come from? Anyone with say a PhD, or who is licensed, or trained in human behaviour, psychology, mental health, or anything relevant? Or do they assume these behaviours have that meaning? Do they assume what women are thinking that or do they record women and take those conversations out of context using a strategy called Contextomy? Do you think that Red Pill's failure to launch could be because they don't have actual trained people spreading it… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 12:42 AM |
| 13 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?What "truths" do you feel are unappealing? Do you think it's possible that both men and women can have thousands of reasons why they do things, both subconscious and not that Red Pill might be assuming and isn't actually correct? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/23 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Why you think that the LMS theory it's wrong?I'm not worried. Honestly I think it's sad that's all you have around you to choose from. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Why you think that the LMS theory it's wrong?Telling a person that an already debunked cognitively distorted/black and white theory is a form of truth isn't how they treat people. I was not there, but he's not helping you if this is what he did. This isn't what they teach. Telling you to stay in school is not the same as confirming that theory. You should find someone else if you truly want help because he's perpetuating your distortions and biases. You do you though. But you sound VERY inexperienced. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Why you think that the LMS theory it's wrong?is true to an extent. You attract what you put out. If you value LMS as the ONLY determining factor of someone's worth than you will get someone on the same level as you i.e. Can you read? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why you think that the LMS theory it's wrong?They do. He's a troll who is trying to be shady about their attempts to get others to confirm his biases. A psychologist won't be confirming these dysfunctional beliefs; that should have been your first clue. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Why you think that the LMS theory it's wrong?Ironically enough my ex psychologist was also in favor of the LMS theory... Sorry, but I'm calling bullshit. This isn't what they teach. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Why you think that the LMS theory it's wrong?It's not a closed question that you should be asking and this black and white thinking is unfortunately what a lot of men in Red Pill have an issue with, which causes a lot more issues in their life than they realize. The LMS "theory" isn't theirs at all. "LMS" is reworded from former beliefs that have been around for a very long time. It's a derogatory belief that's meant to devalue. Unfortunately that belief can become toxic because it's not the ONLY thing women are after. Sure, some make it a… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How male self-objectification makes it hard for women to create bonds with themThis is honestly beautiful and this is genuinely what I'm like in relationships, though I understand it from both sides. When you don't know how to love yourself (say you were abused or exploited by your loved ones for most of your childhood), relationships feel like torture, especially when you DO want that love. They're hard, we want to give up easier, be alone, etc. I don't know where you were at the beginning of your detoxing, but it sounds like you're really starting to understand that mutu… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:24 PM |
| 34 | If redpill is what women want, then why do RP men hide that they are RP?I believe that's it's an intentional thing designed to get their followers to "us vs. them" their loved ones, friends, etc. and isolate them to where they become lonely enough to accept the groups as their only means of support. This is very common within cults as it keeps their "re-education" strict. Doing this keeps them in the groups longer as well because then it makes them afraid of leaving because then they'll also lose what is likely their only support structure left. I think the "fight c… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | help dismantle unhealthy beliefs I got from RedpillThe biggest thing to focus on is actual rates these things happen and to remember that Red Pill focuses less about the actual statistics and more on the thing itself. Say we use Canada for example (not sure where you are), you can pull up the last almost 20 years of data and see that it's actually gone down (https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/t1/tbl1/en/tv.action?pid=3910005101&pickMembers%5B0%5D=1.1&cubeTimeFrame.startYear=2003&cubeTimeFrame.endYear=2020&referencePeriods=20030101%2C20200101). Though … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/04/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | What are the most absurd things you've heard from Red Pill influencers and who was it?This direction is so sad. They took vulnerable men, made them feel terrible about themselves, and sold them this crap. All they needed was to be an inspiration and yet they feed a bunch of delusions. :( | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/23 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Why are you not based anymore?No u. 🤠 | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/23 12:26 PM |
| 6 | Why are you not based anymore?No u. 😜 | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/23 11:49 AM |
| 6 | (epiphany) phaseRed pill almost destroyed me.I think a form of Red Pilling (with actually correct information) is vital to protect oneself from detrimental harm, but this biased, distorted, and one-sided bullshit caused much more harm than it should have. There are many professionals online, with actual PhDs and licensing that teach wonderful information online to help with all that. Random chucklefucks on the internet who can't even be bothered to give their real names, are just LARPing as successful, are secretly trafficking and beating … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/23 11:22 AM |
| 6 | Why are you not based anymore?I find it increasingly fascinating that the trolls and now this OP that come here continue to double and triple down despite having loads of "scientific" evidence to debunk the garbage, loads of "scientific" knowledge of how their very biases and cognitive distortions affect their own lives and other's lives, and this is still all the depth of the arguments that they have left. Indeed, why you mad, bro? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/23 11:08 AM |
| 2 | What are the most absurd things you've heard from Red Pill influencers and who was it?Ugh, gag. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/23 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Redpill content creators are just stupid"You guys" doesn't involve me. I'm not a mod. Feel free to provide an examples so they can be discussed. Too many come here and say exactly what you've said and try to claim "it's only about self-improvement" without any forms of actual rebuttal. So forgive me for not taking you seriously until then. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/23 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Redpill content creators are just stupidYou should probably read Detox's page about it homie. There isn't a whole lot of gaslighting that people will accept here. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ho4cvx/red_pill_detox_first_aid_kit_start_here/ Sure there might be some stupid people that will still fall for those lines, but a lot of it has already been exposed. Red Pill is not only isolated to "discussing female nature", so please... | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/23 08:16 PM |
| 14 | Redpill content creators are just stupidFun fact I learned after going through an intense treatment to heal from multiple Red Pillers was that a lot of it is what's loosely referred to as "crazy making behaviour" (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/traversing-the-inner-terrain/201910/crazy-making) by pros and recovery groups. I just couldn't understand why I was suddenly suffering from terrible mental health issues! I think you're bang on as to the knowledge being passed around without fully understanding the "why" behind why the… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men don’t need women to survive while the opposite is true?LOL, I'm not bragging. I'm not the only woman in the world who has decent spending habits. "Most cases" is still a broad generalization and it's on a post where someone feels devalued based on broad generalizations. Why do you feel the need to be derogatory? There is a reason why you're being downvoted and it would behoove you to consider alternative opinions, but you do you. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/23 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men don’t need women to survive while the opposite is true?Lol, this is dumb. I'm a woman under the age of 40 who almost has my house paid off, no debt, 2 cars paid in cash, and the works. Got there with hard work and frugality. You just sound dumb when you make broad generalizations like this. Be smarter. Get off the internet. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/23 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Is crying out of happiness unattractive?I don't mind crying of any sort. Stop thinking Red Pill is the be all, end all of "truth". It means you're in touch with your emotions, can control them better, and therefore are less of a liability from a safety perspective. If you were my lover, I'd see it as you being Hella happy and OMG I am blessed enough to be around this man while he shows me his creamy center nougat (not for real, I'm just trying to be funny). Men crying can be amazing sometimes. 🤍 | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How much should socialization affect behavior?I've written a lot about my experiences. There is a lot of pain there. I'm so sorry you had those experiences. I think it was easily the most traumatizing experience of my adult life. One of the Red Pillers ended up blackmailing me and trafficking me, then turn around and told everyone I was a cheater (they knew I was polyamorous). It was baaaad. I feel so much sorrow for the other women they bulldozed through too. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How much should socialization affect behavior?Did you do it back? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How much should socialization affect behavior?Fuck, this is gonna be long too because this is a main gripe of mine with Red Pill. I was taught to not approach men and to wait for 'my picker' to come to me by my grandparents. My parents were both addicts (even the fosters), and so I really clung to their behaviours as a kid. While I couldn't exactly describe it then, I just knew their success was because of how they were, whereas my addicts had a failure to launch, or succumbed to their addiction and became unsuccessful after a fall from gra… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men don’t need women to survive while the opposite is true?They're often men who don't understand how influential women have truly been, are, and will be. Sure there are garbage women, but I'd bet there are more garbage men than women. Men are responsible for more wars, violence, atrocities, abuse, etc. Marie Currie faced near constant adversity and discrimination throughout her career, as science and physics was such a male-dominated field, but despite this, her research remains relevant and has influenced the world of science to this day. Currie was t… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with the red pill even if I do not agree with it?You know what's wild? I didn't even think anything adversarial about the sexes until Red Pill. I had so many of my gaming friends fall into it and start randomly attacking me over piddly shit that I don't even do, or I did do that's completely effing normal (like defend myself against bogus attacks), or having my intentions completely misread. It was like they all became animals Hell-bent on attacking my mind and soul. They became their own self-fulfilling prophecy. Now I can't stand those types… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Reading the sequel comics of fight club. It's a goddamn warning.My comment about why religion and philosophies teach its followers to reject those primal desires was more of a general statement to defend my opinion rather than something towards your words. Tyler is hedonism personified. There is no way out of this. He loops around to what he hates. He praises men for reaching in and utilizing that inner supressed "masculine" rage (you should read Soraya Chemaly's "When Rage Becomes Her" if you want a deeper understanding of women's rage; it's very similar). … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Reading the sequel comics of fight club. It's a goddamn warning.I'm honestly not sure what your point is. I didn't say he was pro-consumerism. He's egotistical, cynical, thinks anarchy will solve world problems, loves violence, etc. He's a mess. Why the Hell would anyone want to live like that? Might be good in fantasy, but it can't work "in the real world". | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with the red pill even if I do not agree with it?The people who know brains and how they behave better than you are taking advantage; plain and simple. There are parts of our brain, when not worked out and strengthened, that are malleable, gullible, etc. These mechanisms are exactly why brainwashing still works even though we've been warned about it throughout history. It's there, we just forget, move on, etc. Being warned about things can only get a surface level of comprehension from most of us. A lot of us can't conceptualize things until w… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Reading the sequel comics of fight club. It's a goddamn warning.When people say history repeats itself, a lot of it is because we as humans rarely do anything truly new. Like sure we might get faster processors and stuff, but what we're fueled by is still the same: money, ego, power, control, etc. That's why a lot of religions and philosophies teach to gain control over those selfish desires and you won't be controlled. There are people like Tyler and Marla, but they're really basic. Almost everything about them is hedonistic. When their resources dry up, wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill normalized a lot of abusive and dysfunctional traits. Dating has become so toxic that it's unbearable for a lot of people.Yeah, same. I'm really old-fashioned, prefer traditional relationship roles for myself and my partners, would love the simple life, I enjoy cooking meals and being there for him, but it's like hardly anyone appreciates that lifestyle anymore. I like finding those that have similar beliefs so I don't feel like I'm fighting it if that makes sense. I want us to agree on a lot and do what's expected of us so we can be happy, enjoy each other's company, etc. but everything just seems so toxic, confro… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/23 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill normalized a lot of abusive and dysfunctional traits. Dating has become so toxic that it's unbearable for a lot of people.Very true. I only have a few people I hang out with in person because I moved away from most of my friends, but yeah, the world has been very isolating for many years. Even my favourite Meetup groups have stopped, I can't find DnD groups, hardly anyone just wants to chill together and watch movies...ugh. Sorry you're going through that as well. :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill normalized a lot of abusive and dysfunctional traits. Dating has become so toxic that it's unbearable for a lot of people.Yes! This is what I enjoy doing and can do well. I genuinely like getting to know people and ask a lot of questions from curiosity anyways. I am thankful I always know who my core self is and this isn't an issue with myself, but I feel like I want a partner that's also like that; one that will tell me hard truths (though I prefer it be done privately and gently of course). I want someone who can actually confront themselves, weaknesses and all. One that wants to grow better, stronger, wiser, and… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill normalized a lot of abusive and dysfunctional traits. Dating has become so toxic that it's unbearable for a lot of people.I've asked directly about it only to be lied to and then confessed later after they realized they liked me more than they originally thought. They're taught to lie about it, which only makes it worse in my mind because now I feel like I can't get a genuine feel for who these men are without investing a lot of time before only to be let down because of their beliefs. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Warmer weather makes it impossible to avoid the blackpillThe locus of control and the stoic view isn't Blackpill. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/04/23 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill normalized a lot of abusive and dysfunctional traits. Dating has become so toxic that it's unbearable for a lot of people.For real. I have some, but most are exhausted by week's end from being overworked. I feel like social media and Covid has killed a lot of the regular hangouts. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 07:21 PM |
| 14 | Red Pill normalized a lot of abusive and dysfunctional traits. Dating has become so toxic that it's unbearable for a lot of people.My friends group was those people. 😅 I'm slowly trying to escape it. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?Agreed! | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?We are definitely not in zoos, kept as worker-slaves or pets, nor are subjected to "testing" beyond our will, all for a reason. Arguably we are, we just call it other things. 😅 | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?Ohhh, I see your side now. So it likely affects more multi-lingual cultures instead. I'm only Portuguese by nature and don't know anything in the language, so that makes a lot more sense. English is just kinda messed up anyways. Haha! Thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?It's just wild to me because it doesn't affect how I view women at all. I still see both men and women (males and females) as different people. I still see that were all on a spectrum of behaviours. I still live in the grey areas. I find that controlling things like this is just seemingly unnecessary, which is why I bought up the topic with my honest options. The word, to me, doesn't matter as much as people make it out to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?No, I'm just not bothered by a word. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 04:27 PM |
| -2 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?What's written on your local government documents, doctor's records, etc.? Edit: this is a genuine question. This sub is so invalidating. lol | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?I'm a woman and it doesn't make sense to me. I just translate it in my head and dismiss it away. Who cares if someone calls me a "female"? They're not calling me a "femoid", "cunt", "bitch", or any other societal actual dehumanizing term. I don't understand why we're getting so nitpicky on these things. "Female" is on official government documents, doctor's records, and basically everything else I can think of, so why the incessant need to correct everyone? This isn't insulting to me in the slig… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?"Female" isn't the counterpart to "penis wielder". | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Just out of curiosity what is the purpose of girls night out ?This isn't entirely true. The fears aren't unfounded and I don't want you to feel gaslit, especially with autism and OCD (I read in another post). There are women who aren't that great of people, but they will often make a series of other awful decisions that will help you determine their baseline for their core morality and ethics. But it's far from all or a majority. There are women who will use these as excuses to do bad things, but their morality will be very apparent early on. You shouldn't… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Fresh And Fit brought what seems like a proud rapist on their podcast while denying rape culture.Just look up Real Social Dynamics and go down the rabbit hole of doooooom. It's awful. Everything in that documentary I went through and I'm over these guys. Enjoy. See you in a few weeks. 😅 | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Fresh And Fit brought what seems like a proud rapist on their podcast while denying rape culture.I don't know why we're surprised. The sub and other "coaches" used to tell men, even very young impressionable men, that women secretly want to be raped. That if they did it anyways, she wouldn't really understand what was going on as long as you were nice to her afterwards (hence the great Red Pill info cleanse many years ago), which the symptoms they describe were pretty damn close to Rape Trauma Syndrome instead of whatever they called it. The PUAs (not all of course, but what can you expect … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | how big do you think the redpill cult is?It's been pretty big in the gaming world with those 20ish to 30's. But yeah, it's a gigantic stupid thing that I can't believe still has a platform. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 03:58 PM |
| 1 | how big do you think the redpill cult is?Offline population and online population is very different. Online, a very large percentage is being subjected to this propaganda. There is clearly a lot of money behind it. There is clearly a somewhat hidden MLM functioning behind the scenes just like the Real Social Dynamics drama. It clearly did not die and merely changed names. It's hard to quantify that though without looking at some numbers though and most would just be pulling numbers out of their asses by trying. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I existencailly hate redpill (vent)Since you are so insistant on this. Do you know what redpill actually is ? If it´s not these content creators I am talking about ? I would like to hear what is the original "brand" or ideology of redpill. I'm interested too. We'll be waiting. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | I existencailly hate redpill (vent)I didn't think it was "official". But hundreds of thousands of others did. They even branched out, created a site which says it is when it isn't, with God knows how many others who think they know what "it" is. Red Pill, "the bad version" created massive issues for millions and you're still here being combative to one experience? Weird. This whole comvo is weird. Definitely time to block you. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | I existencailly hate redpill (vent)I didn't say it was correct. I shared experiences of how openly Red Pilled men in my life hurt me. What does this have to do with anything you're trying to say? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I existencailly hate redpill (vent)Because that's not how these things work. Found the Red Pill shill though... | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I existencailly hate redpill (vent)Thanks for proving my point and invalidating my experiences just like they did. Keep in mind on their sub, the official one, they said to ignore women who say they're suicidal. "She's faking it" most of them would say. Any deviation, they'd just ban them. They'd teach men how to get away with pushing past her boundaries and her "no", because women "secretly want to be raped" or "they don't know what they want". But let me guess, to you it's just "self improvement", right? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/04/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I existencailly hate redpill (vent)You say it really well. The reason why I left all my Red Pilled friends (and even my "safe" FWBs) because I've never felt so invalidated, unloved, unsafe, abused, etc. than I had in decades than when they turned Red Pill. One friend I absolutely loved with a big part of my heart just couldn't respect that I chose my recovery from horrific abuse over him. I was broken, but "good". I asked myself, "Wouldn't someone who respected me and loved me feel proud that I was caring for myself? Making mysel… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys help me outAnd? A lot of people supported Hilter. 🤨 | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys help me outOh yeah, he's a trip. Literally asked someone if they were autistic because he told him what they were teaching was abusive. Never forget after that. He teaches a hedonistic lifestyle. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | My redpill induced misogyny led my ex to leave me, and rightfully so.Honestly reading Steve Hassan's books would be really good for you to regain some self-confidence. The tactics used against you are VERY hard to combat on your own. Red Pill did and still does use most of the cult recruitment tactics against you. You didn't have much of a chance, they flooded social media, bombed YouTube, etc. There was A LOT of money behind it. I know it hurts, but his books will really help put a lot of it into perspective for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Help! My best friend and roommate of 8 years is starting to take the red pillMake the woman jump through hoops to increase her value.... and start the psych abuse cycle to destroy her self-esteem and lock her into a trauma bond to a man. This is EXACTLY what it's like being with them and they do it to her, "trauma-based conditioning", right after "love bombing", "selling her a dream", and intentional abusive use of "memory anchoring", without her consent (even if they're not naturally an abuser. I hate what they did to me. The therapy bills have been insane. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Currently detoxing from the redpill. I unsubscribed from all the YouTubers I used too follow. Unfollowed all there social medias aswell.Hell yeah! You got this. If you can, it's best to just delete those accounts and start over. Those algorithms are designed to sell, not with your best interest at heart. It'll be hard, but just try to come here when you're weak and we'll see if we can help you out, find some resources, find better alternatives, etc. You can do it. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do certain things trigger me so much?I think the rate of which Red Pill preys on men who are Autistic, Depressed, Anxious, broken attachment style, abused, traumatized, etc. is astronomically high. Resources that professionals would provide them to care for their mental health is vastly different and wwaayy healthier. Those people I consider "vulnerable" because they're the same ones that scammers prey on too. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do certain things trigger me so much?Oh, I see. I understand now. I think it might be triggering because they're projecting their generalizing cognitive distortion outward at not only you, but other vulnerable men. It's used as a form of gaslighting and our minds will often fight back against that at first, but it can be exhausting. Try to go do other things ("touch grass") for a while to reground yourself. If you don't have that distortion, then it can seem like a mental attack sort of. I'm guessing you might be someone who can se… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do certain things trigger me so much?They're trying to promote part of traditional values that you do not hold, but it shouldn't really be triggering. A lot of men still prefer this because they want a woman who is okay with staying at home, raising the children, cleaning the home, cooking the food, making the appointments, etc. while he goes to work and earns the family's money. My main and I've been doing it this way for a long time and it just works out for us. Though I am polyamorous, I'm also not opposed to being this woman fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | I feel like it’s too late for me too leave the red pill. Even though I want too believe it’s false and not trueThe thing with Red Pill is it takes advantage of cognitive distortions and biases. This was actually confirmed to me by a pro when my 2 Red Pill exes and many Red Pill friends quite literally drove me insane in 2015 and forced me into therapy. He explained A LOT to me that I try to assist others here with as much as I can. One of the biggest ones you mention sounds like the Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon. It's not you personally, but just a human thing and how our minds trick us with our non-perfect … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Getting over somebodyLike I said, the healthiest way is to accept those feelings, because it's okay that you had feelings for her. It's okay they're not reciprocated, though I deeply understand how much that can hurt, and then try to counter those thoughts to avoid the dreaded loop. You can get stuck like that, so try. Journaling how you feel can help too. Try those for 2 weeks and come back if you're still struggling. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Getting over somebodyThis can be really hard, but I rarely have issues like this unless I was really bonded with them, so apologies if I'm not hitting the mark here. My remedy that was offered by my therapist was basically to counter those thoughts with ACT-based ones: "It's over now and that's okay", "I can't control that we're no longer together", "Some people are only meant to be in our lives temporarily", "It's okay that I felt a little something about her, but we both need to move on", etc. Basically you want t… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Obsession with being seen as desirableBefore I get into this further, please tell me to which definition you're referring, because Red Pill and the related pipeline likes to change definitions of things to confuse people. I generally want to have this discussion, but I'm limited on patience. I want to assume "direct one's libidinous urges into another direction" but there are several. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Obsession with being seen as desirablewomen in no way experience desexualization. Wow. Just wow. That's a therapy issue with you; or comprehension. The chances of society being fixed at large is massively unattainable, especially with the Boomers and religion still alive. We may have a chance after that, but be real with yourself and you won't go Red Pill. I'm sorry you can't see that yet. Red Pill fed you a bunch of backwards malarkey that twists up healthy thoughts. Psychiatrists, therapists, actual worthy dating coaches, people w… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Obsession with being seen as desirableIt's all about that supply. It's the oxygen to many of them. Imagine the Hell living like that though. Never being able to rest because you're constantly in search of this invisible idea in your head about this. Mine kept reminding me he existed. Even to the point where I was getting followed around online so he could drop 'hints' he was around. Infuriating. He wouldn't do anything about it, just remind me he was there. Even contacted my abusive parent to have her deliver a 'message' to me when … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Obsession with being seen as desirableSociety does this to women too. Worse than men. I guess some live with it and have sex anyways, and some don't. Sex is just generally bad in a Christian and Catholic-dominated society that's changing the laws based on their rules. Red Pill isn't needed for this. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/23 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Progress and boundariesThat's great honestly. You're one less person to participate in toxic conversations (and hopefully teaches the other person when others disengage from them). Sexism and racism just takes so much energy to keep around in hater's mental space. I'll never understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/23 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Progress and boundariesThis sounds like an amazing game plan. Not only are you practicing traditional self-care, but you're practicing in a way to not spend your time with conversations that don't serve you well. Obviously don't forget to not close yourself off to other points of views completely, but you don't have to absorb it. Good work, keep it up. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/23 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Obsession with being seen as desirableWhat in tarnation? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Post From Chris Perry About SubmissionAgreed! | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Post From Chris Perry About SubmissionAbsolutely understand and agree. That's definitely my life trajectory from now on. Thanks. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Post From Chris Perry About SubmissionThis is pretty much what I was thinking as well, so I'm glad there is a decent logical aspect to this as well. I definitely prefer this type now, but I know having several Red Pill relationships did some pretty decent damage to my thought processes as well. Thanks for some validation! :) | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Neville Goddard related content let me out of redpill.Just be careful of those who use his name to create their own groups that don't talk about what he preached. Red Pill was a stolen concept too. Read the materials for yourself, come to your own conclusions, and just be aware of the wolves dressed like sheep. He was a great philosophical teacher but it's rare when people can comprehend everything these leaders teach without bastardizing a lot of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Post From Chris Perry About SubmissionCare to elaborate? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 08:18 AM |
| 7 | Lost the love of my life to the red pill.Yuuup, been there and was there for way too many years of my life. The lack of being able to defend myself was the garbage that just made me grumpy and mean occasionally. I hated what they turned me into, but I'm thankful they're gone. I miss the good, happy, and fun men they were, but they all got mean, cruel, and egotistical. They used to compliment me on the good, but then they just tore me down constantly. The kicker was I don't mind being the traditional women, I prefer it honestly, but I a… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Size insecurityI mean, sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest thing to do, when it come to things that we can't change :( And being a perfectionist does not help too, haha. But, honestly, thank you for the great ideas, when it comes to shifting attitude! I completely understand. I have some chromosome mutations that are weird, so I get it. I had the worst self-esteem and still struggle occasionally for the same reason. Perfectionism is insanely hard to get over. Just take little baby steps. And yo, I would n… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Size insecurityI think working on trying to work yourself out of the black and white thinking would be really beneficial to you. It helps your insecurities relax a lot because you don't see them as 'OMG, this is all bad' and start seeing it as 'I'm definitely good here and not everyone will like it, but that's okay'. Big difference! One of my partners is large like you and it's great. Literally no complaints. Work on your rhythm, stamina, and all that and you'll rock her socks off. Combo it with letting her us… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Size insecurityYeah, you're fine my dude. 7.5" is far better than average. Don't compare yourself to porn. Those dicks are either great genetics or they use pumps and stuff right before. It's part of the show. I think average was something like 5.5" or 6" if I can remember correctly, so you're golden for a lot of women. 👌🏼 Easier on the jaw anyways. lol | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Size insecurityI think you should come here to ask whatever you need to heal and move on. I wouldn't sweat it. Also, are you talking 7.5 inches or centimeters? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/23 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Glad I left the "manosphere" when I did (rant)I read this and started tearing up. I was forced into Red Pill Women by multiple men and it killed me. I 'left' in 2017, which was still 4 years after I realized it was bullshit. I was that scared because of how men in my life were becoming and not seeing. It was like watching a train wreck in slow motion. I finally got mine to see the light recently and I'm so grateful for men like you that not only leave, but write it out for the others who are still on the fence. These stories are needed. I w… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Are there any ‘universal laws’ to dating at all?Not really. 'Back in my day' pheromones were all the rage. These trends in dating change all the time. We all want to have success, but most often, starting as friends is one of the best ways. A lot of women are slow to open up and men are slow to trust. We all have our baggage and there are just too many variables. Sure, you can probably brainwash a woman into liking you like Red Pill wants, but it's not really good long-term and deeply unfulfilling. Universal rules now are making sure your men… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone explain? I was downvoted because I dared to criticize Gerbert Johnson's content. Something, that this subreddit should be actively against (red/black pill). Why?some people wouldn't know what harmful content is if it slapped them across their faces. They'll learn when they start breaking laws because of that advice. Just try to stay away from it yourself. Work on your mind, become smarter by looking at high-quality education, go get random certification of things you love... "Loving yourself is bad advice". Which translates to, "If you love and appreciate yourself, your time, your dignity, then we can't control you as well." 😅 | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone explain? I was downvoted because I dared to criticize Gerbert Johnson's content. Something, that this subreddit should be actively against (red/black pill). Why?Did you post links to his YouTube before just doing photos? You should be able to do that here, but this sub is staunchly no recruitment, so links to their channels even get flagged. Otherwise all criticism should be fine here, I think? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Is 26 too late to find love/relationship?Do you have control over that? Or is this something that is completely out of your control? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Is 26 too late to find love/relationship?Speaking as someone older, your best years have yet to come. Sure your body may not be as spry, but your personality, thoughts, and all that, it gets better because in your 30's is often when people start figuring their shit out. In our 20's we're still a bit out of place, things are really confusing, and generally you have a lot of growing room left. The partying becomes less useful, you want to ditch all your toxic friends, and you start making truly meaningful connections. Red Pill and all th… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Study uncovers a “particularly alarming” link between men’s feelings of personal deprivation and hostile sexismI think a big factor would likely be what was done with that vulnerability when they were in prime development stage. Did they try to be vulnerable around abusive/invalidating parents? That would likely lead to negative associations to vulnerability. If their vulnerability was validated and used as a strength instead, then it might lead to those men who have a good balance and don't require that sexism/violence/negativity to be vulnerable. I'm sure a lot of variables are at play, but I'm persona… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | There's something off about the red-pill, but I can't put my finger on itThere are a lot of them who have literally been caught editing studies to change the outcome of the study to match what they say. When it gets that bad and normal people they're trying to recruit can't actually access the 'real' study (usually they're behind a paywall), then it's lost all respectability as any legit program to assist in anyone's life. Most importantly, they can't even get anyone who is trained, licensed, or degreed in their respective fields to even validate the info given. If t… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 07:02 AM |
| 1 | husband got red pilled?It can still work. I have a very dark past with people who should arguably be in prison and it still worked on me before I wised up. I think we can detect it faster, but we're not immune. Don't get too comfortable. It triggers us, weakens our walls, etc. As for the love bombing, I meant that towards them; the ones pulling him in. That's how it works. Love bomb and isolate from loved ones. I didn't mean to imply you did. Sorry about that if my words got misinterpreted. Steve Hassan will be a life… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | husband got red pilled?He's already too far. He's going to have to want to leave or you can push him in further. That was one thing I wish someone told me. I spent so much time trying to be there for mine and I just ended up being the overly-sensitive freak they just ended up bullying and laughing at. You can't make him do it. You need to work on you now. You can tell him you're Red Pill aware, but you do NOT have to participate. You'll be used as what's called a "proxy recruiter" without your consent, so you just nee… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | husband got red pilled?Please cry. Let it out. This is a hard and scary time and you need to not hold it in. You need to learn how to deal with this because you have to. There is unfortunately no other choice. If it means you sell the house and go move out on your own, then do so. Mine got involved because I was working 14+ hour days for years. I was so exhausted, but it was the only way we were able to stay in warm homes and fed through all of the financial crashes. I made it work, but it took a lot from us as well. … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | husband got red pilled?Yes, he's been Red Pilled. The parts about the suicidal thoughts/behaviours as well as they're taught to completely ignore it because it's "only for attention". Years ago when mine got Red Pilled and a lot of my guy friends got sucked in, literally none of them cared when I was there. It's like they turned off. It was hard to get out in the first place because I had been so suppressed my entire life from a past rife with abuse; it was one of the first times I was trying to learn to have trust fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women?That's the down side about humans; we all have our own preferences towards things. When a pickup artist approached me when I was on vacation, I sent him home with blue balls for a light punishment (mostly because he wasn't listening). I prefer someone to actually try to get to know me. Yes, I have a vagina, but so do escorts, whores, and other women who don't care. I have standards thankyouverymuch. It's just so much better when you start as friends, in my opinion. You have to escalate though or… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | For our recovering rp guys who we love xo: men who fall into the manosphere cult, do so because of attachment disorders. This article discusses the roots of attachment disorders and offers advice for trauma healing. XoxoxoOnes that demand to be in control don't deserve to be in control. Such thing is earned. Preach. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 12:14 PM |
| 3 | For our recovering rp guys who we love xo: men who fall into the manosphere cult, do so because of attachment disorders. This article discusses the roots of attachment disorders and offers advice for trauma healing. XoxoxoAnd a lack of empathy when they do evil tactics like “dread game”. As long as they are doing fine then it doesn’t matter who else is hurt in the processes. After getting groomed by several, I can say this is spot on. It's absolutely nothing when it comes to empathy. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 10:02 AM |
| 2 | For our recovering rp guys who we love xo: men who fall into the manosphere cult, do so because of attachment disorders. This article discusses the roots of attachment disorders and offers advice for trauma healing. XoxoxoThe point they're trying to make is that there are a variety of reasons why they get caught up and we can't dismiss the strategies they use to get them sucked up into it. This sub tries to focus on scientific findings to help them learn what was done to them. Opinion pieces can be just as detrimental to their recovery as getting recruited. The place between cult brainwashing and recovery is very difficult because your reality is in flux, trust is almost non-existent, and you become desperate to … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 09:10 AM |
| 3 | What makes women attracted to the Red Pill?In my opinion with some exceptions. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 11:50 PM |
| 4 | What makes women attracted to the Red Pill?Fun fact I learned in therapy: revictimization is a symptom of abusive relationships. It causes a person to loop things, like mistakes, thoughts, nightmares, etc. Especially the ones that cause us to continue to return to the abuser. Trauma bonds don't work how the general public thinks. I think it's a learned compulsion if I can remember correctly. One that cost lots of money to fix. One that you're stuck with if you can't afford treatment. It's a scary thing to endure while also knowing that y… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 04:55 PM |
| 6 | What makes women attracted to the Red Pill?Sometimes smart people do dumb things. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 04:39 PM |
| 17 | What makes women attracted to the Red Pill?TL;DR: Red Pill isn't the traditional role lifestyle. It's that life with abuse and non-consentual behavioural conditioning hidden inside of it. The traditional life is the cover for the abuse. It's designed to tear the woman down so she'll break and become subservient through trauma, insecurity, and desperation. I loved it because it was how I was raised. I had all the 'marks' of being a successful wife if I checked all these boxes. There were rules to follow and those rules would rarely deviat… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 09:28 AM |
| 1 | What is ya’lls opinion on the fact women file for divorce 70% of the time, 90% if she is college educated. The vast majority of the time for financial reasonsFeelings aren't facts of the situation. Reality will always prevail, but it's still up to interpretation that is still filtered through our feelings which can still vary. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?Not always. Sometimes it can help thrust us forward later, it's just delayed. But yes, you should focus on goals that help stabilize you with an end goal in mind. Probably shouldn't always be there. Some people though are the only men in the house left, so they need to stay. It's not always bad. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this RP statistic true?They're not all hopeless. This I know. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?PPD is for the debating and the recruiting. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?Omg, I relate to all of this. I'm so very sorry, ladies. This is painful stuff to move on from. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What is ya’lls opinion on the fact women file for divorce 70% of the time, 90% if she is college educated. The vast majority of the time for financial reasonsIt's easier to invalidate a person's feelings with propaganda like this though. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What is ya’lls opinion on the fact women file for divorce 70% of the time, 90% if she is college educated. The vast majority of the time for financial reasonsmen are usually socialised to have lower emotional intelligence than women, this can lead to female partners feeling unsupported and doing much of the emotional labour in the relationship. This emotional intelligence also means women are more finely attuned to problems and relationship “red-flags”, and their tendency to be the primary communicators and empathisers means that they may also be the first to raise issues Women also tend to gain fewer emotional benefits from marriage they bear the br… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that on average women have less dating options once they are over 30 while men have more dating options as they gain wealth and status??100% yes. I was awkward, weird, hadn't figured myself out yet, couldn't control my emotions very well, was still pretty wild, etc. I've calmed down A LOT and so I get the guys that like that type. I got it out of my system, got my destructive years done, etc. 20's are terrible honestly. You guys miss so many things in your 20's and dating now is a super weird process. It's like people sell themselves on these apps and you guys choose partners like you're shopping in a catalog. It's all just so s… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Is this RP statistic true?You should use your god damn brain. Someone who posts this and apparently makes use of 0 critical thinking, I would say is 100% a red flag. Preach. It. Brother. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that on average women have less dating options once they are over 30 while men have more dating options as they gain wealth and status??Hell no. Men still want me and now I get younger guys because they like women who know what they want and are more 'trained'. I'm like a 5-6 or so, am a nerd, don't wear much makeup, don't do fancy shit with my hair, have crazy anxiety, and still dress in jeans and funny referenced tees like I did in high school. My last quest on dating apps gave me 89 options in only 2 days and I'm poly which a lot can't deal with. The guys still love the attention like I do, they just don't want to talk about … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Is this RP statistic true?Are you a redpiller or effected personally? Was and very much yes. But I'm done no more talking to the little hitlers Only light can drive out darkness. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Is this RP statistic true?There are a lot of things you don't understand about the darkness that brews. Good luck on your path, but there are plenty of naysayers for a reason. If you knew what these things really did to both men and women, you'd be less inclined to ignore it as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Is this RP statistic true?Ignoring it is how it became the monster it became. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 09:09 AM |
| 5 | Is this RP statistic true?Oh, yes please! | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?Same, except the drugs and partying a lot. haha | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?I honestly wish I never discovered it. What everyone says when they finally take the real Red Pill and figure it all out. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/23 10:24 PM |
| 20 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?I'm not Red Pill prime but still young. I have dumped multiple men for being Red Pill (used terms, parroted beliefs). My first one (bad boy, faked being the good guy) hurt me so badly that I had massive Red Pill man PTSD. I couldn't even hear the terms without bodily and mentally recoiling. It was very bad. After some time, I found several more but they were all different, so it helped me see the differences in who absorbs its content. Some were still good men inside but got sucked in and some w… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/23 10:15 PM |
| 22 | Has anyone woman that is in her early 20s or prime as the red pill would call it ever dumped a guy if she found out he was redpill or find men who are redpilled repulsive?Every woman will have her own reasons for wanting a man with money. Some will always be frugal but feel safer with the security net, some just want to party and do drugs all day, some just want to travel around with someone they love, some will be able to be more philanthropic...the reasons will be different for everyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Young women using Instagram as a dating app.You think I'm thirsty for attention? lol I'm an introvert that enjoys my peace. I never once said it was all bad. I stated one opinion: Social media is great for those who require constant attention and praise. Then I stated this: For others who are capable of going a day without external validation, we tend to not like it. 😅 Because those groups are still for external validation needs. That's literally what you're doing by using it. This was meant more for those who don't use them at all for ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Young women using Instagram as a dating app.Social media is great for those who require constant attention and praise. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/23 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Is the blackpill real? The truth? Nothing more, nothing less. Please tell me.All of the pills are one of many perspectives for you to consider. Red Pill is one way. Black Pill is one way. But they're just that, perspectives. Opinions. Half-shared and cherry-picked studies. Some even edited from their original form. Nobody is 100% "right". Everyone can be "right" many times a day and still come up with some wacko cult that hurts people deeply. Is it "right"? Yeah, probably some of it. Should you absorb it and allow it to affect your mental health? No. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | i have escaped the redpill and black pill communitiesI miss the days of being fought for honestly. Seems like people just replace others so quickly now. Makes you feel like only a cog to someone's life checkboxes. Like sometimes we have fights and get back together. Sometimes fighting for each other makes us better people and a better couple. One wrong move and you're replaced. Bam. It's done because you didn't have energy one day, or had PMS, you know? It makes it hard for some to keep up. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | i have escaped the redpill and black pill communitiesI know, me too. That's what I'm trying to explain but I think I did poorly. He was hot to me, but he was average generally. Sorry about that. He was just so gorgeous to me that I assumed he was swimming in women. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/23 05:28 PM |
| 2 | i have escaped the redpill and black pill communitiesI feel bad. I used to be the woman who said those things. I honestly had no idea it was like this before I Red Pilled myself. I assumed you guys could get anyone and kept pushing away this hot friend I had who kept trying to get with me. I entertained it for a while, but then would push him to go 'find someone' better. I'm like this thicc nerdy chick who is awkward AF and it'll likely never get better (issues with my brain). I didn't get it because he was so gorgeous to me and kind. He kept comi… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/23 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Give me perspective?That would be a lack of empathy, my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Why are we confused why men find validation in sex?PUAs like to say what they do is consentual. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are we confused why men find validation in sex?In my mind, if you have to lie, misrepresent, manipulate, coerce, and fake to get a woman into your bed...you've essentially actively agreed ahead of time that you as a man, by which I mean the real man that you are, is not truly a viable sexual partner. Yaaasss! 👏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Why are we confused why men find validation in sex?I don't have any problems with men seeking validation in healthy ways. I have a problem with the dishonesty of it all when you have ones that go out and learn PUA shit and lie, coerce, and manipulate me into sex. It's basically theft at that point. Go get validation from ones that are fully informed and consent to whatever kink you need to get off your chest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 07:00 PM |
| 6 | How much pleasure do women feel?Orgasms are my medicine. Saaaame! Here here! 🍻 I use it for my recurring migraines, headaches, cramps, as a sleep aid...the list goes on forever. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?Yeah, I'd be cool with it depending on everything he's got and offers. I wouldn't want a loser obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Women are happiest single, therefore their dating issues are irrelevantOhh shots fired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Is sex better when you’re older?It's not, some just don't want to work through it. It takes a lot of training and practice as it doesn't come naturally like other things do. NT's thrive because these things are natural to them, but our natural state is often putting more emotional and mental load on the things we enjoy over socializing with others. It's very hard work. Harder than many realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Single men have the lowest use of antidepressants of all groups categorized by sex and marital status.Exactly. Not taking medicine can mean many things, including not going and trying to suffer through. Depression is brutal and trying to navigate the mental health system is not easy, especially with a depression debuff. Even more if they're too proud to seek help. Even more if they're raised in an environment where their emotions and struggles are invalidated. [big deep breath] Even more if he was abused for expressing them as a kid/teen. Even more if he was parentified by immature parents. Even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:45 PM |
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