I’m slowly fixing my POV and here is what I’m doing. I’m going into more female only spaces and I am no longer open to debating with men. I have spent more than enough time listening to and debating men. I need a break.

I gave myself the OK to walk away from discussions and triggers. I used to think I had to finish things out and be the bigger person. I’m not doing that anymore.

As far as sex goes- more “self love.” It seems to be working.

I am much happier now than I was before . It’s so freeing not to care.