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If I only had a dollar every time a fat guy said "got a lot of muscle underneath" I could retire. Fat + muscles better than just fat - not as good as lean with muscle. Yeah there is always that girl that goes for the monster biker guy at 275 who can lift - you can have them. If your the big guy with muscles and it's working for you - great. Get back to me when you pass 50 years old and let me know how its going.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 03:23 PM
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Also using "autistic" to let everyone know "It's not my fault I was born this way it's like being born with 3 toes I can't change it look how brave I am waking up every day!"
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 03:20 PM
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This is one of the reasons I come to TRP - off topic convos with value. When you have a bunch of guys who actively think about shit you get some viewpoints that you hadn't considered. Of course you've got to wade through the "after my 3rd hitch with the Navy Seals I started my own company which IPO'd and now I travel the world only banging Japanese twins between 19-24 who can know who to treat a self-made millionaire with a BMI of 7"
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 03:14 PM
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Wish I could vote more than once - I'm from Chicago so I think I could make that happen
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 02:01 PM
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This times 1000. Guy is hooked on porn. Guy gets off on the woman getting off. Guy gets into LTR and misses porn. Gets to watch live porn with his girl. Since he is conditioned to cum when the woman cums in porn now he can do that in person. And he relates to his LTR as the pornstar getting off. Since he isn't in the porn he's watching he is used to not being the guy fucking the woman he's getting off to.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:00 PM
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One of my ex's was the beard for a gay friend she had since highschool. She went to a couple of weddings with him to cover for his family. She said something like "I'd never go with a straight guy - weddings are to hormonal and every woman their wants to have sex that night" Weddings are female Viagra. Road trips = crazy porn quality sex - banging on the hotel balcony, kinky shit, etc. Mix the two and you've get a recipe for a good time if your going with her - and a good time for her and someon…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:33 PM
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I'm out shopping for potential new dick. See you tomorrow.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:28 PM
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Alcohol is a bit of a truth serum. It can reveal who someone is or who they want to be. It's also the permission slip to behave badly with less guilt. "oh did I do that? It must have been the booze - I'm really not like that believe me I would never do that i'm so embarrassed i've never done that before. trust me". And co-ed drinking with coworkers often = sex. Nothing like the day after in the office and making eye contact with her and with everyone else.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 01:27 PM
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Shit logistics with each year I tolerate this less and get better myself. Concerts, going out, lunch everything - most people have no sense in this area. I've got friends and family that I need to treat like a child "did you bring XXX? Do you have money\ID? Do you know the address?" I used to go to dead shows in my 20's with a large group. One guy in particular had his shit together and I learned what doing it right looked like. The first time we head back to his car around 2am and he's got a co…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 02:12 PM
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If you can just accomplish this you are miles ahead of everyone else. My 50-something self would love to go back in time to my 20-something self and knock some sense into his dumb ass. Guys - do not neglect your skin\teeth.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:52 PM
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Drop the insurance. She's an Ex and keep it that way. He didn't do you a favor but the event did - she dumped you because she thought she could do better, wanted more, etc. How about if you had married her and this happened 10 years later? I don't mean you should feel grateful towards this guy - but his&her behavior at the time saved you a shit-ton of grief you would be having now or in the future. No one has as many options in life like a 20-something woman - even an average looking one. You're…
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:33 PM
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Here's one of the reasons why you struggle with RP/BP conflicts- there are BP truths. There will be a happily married couple. There will be a "nice girl" that treats her man right. There will be a woman that is sexually attracted to a man who rescues puppies. Now you tell yourself with your new RP wisdom your next LTR will be totally different and you won't make the same mistakes. So you can get constant sex and not get your balls or your heart broken. Good news is you're having the struggle so …
/r/askTRP02/02/19 01:26 PM
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Read the sidebars, learn. What you see "treat them like shit" is usually- What some people call treating like shit is often just being confident and being able to kid around Don't be weak and submissive Respect yourself and don't tolerate being treated badly Women like a little teasing and kidding around
/r/askTRP02/02/19 12:50 PM
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It's not that I've found happiness nor am I sunshine and roses 24/7. It's that I've made a conscious effort to not expect happiness in any life altering or long term sense. Using the Christmas toy as an example instead of convincing myself that once I got this thing I would be happier instead I remind myself that I will enjoy it but I don't expect it to change me or my life. Remind yourself when you get that toy that you're no different than you were the day before My grandparents grew up in the…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 02:31 PM
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Remember when you were a kid and you asked for that toy for Christmas that you desired and knew would make you happy? When you got it your head exploded. Two week later it sat on the shelf and you were devastated. Yes I have felt as you did. You've been telling yourself for years how insanely happy you will be once you reach your goals. Before you were certain you were not happy or not as happy as you should be. Now you have all or almost all of what you wanted and it's not as big a deal as you …
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:17 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:09 PM
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You know the pitfalls and you know the answer. You want to have the girl whose the center of attraction - it's your big trophy. Look at me I've got the one everyone likes who is always a lot of fun and makes the party a party. While I hate to give absolutes I would say no - unless your looking for liver damage and a few lost years.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:09 PM
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I had a work buddy when I found TRP. He was married - I was in a live-in LTR. Having someone to bounce and talk over stuff with was great. The hard part would be having someone you can trust that won't shit the bed. See if you have another guy you think wants to improve and knows when to shut his mouth. Otherwise yeah you might be flying solo - which even with a buddy will be the case 95% of the time anyways.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 02:06 PM
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accents are king works. After watching a series on TV I was able to do an Irish accent pretty good - or good enough for Chicago women. I went out shopping and would just walk into the store, start with the accent, lie about in town visiting family for a month, etc. Never picked-up a woman with it - can't maintain the accent for a long time - but the amount of attention I got was insane.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 02:02 PM
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I'm in Chicago and I see couples where the woman has the MBA\stem-ish degree and is climbing and the guy has some hobby-career. I know a couple who married, had a kid and divorced. She manages a large hotel. He is the 2nd assistant manager at a old-style hobby store selling model airplanes and plastic battleship kits. She was about 40 and he was over 50. I see guys doing the chick hoby-business "who cares about money? it what I love and it makes me happy" meanwhile she's climbing and he is still…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 01:59 PM
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I'm in my early 50's. Never married, no kids, on my 4th live-in LTR. Being alone and lonely are two different things. When I was in my 20's I was in the bottom 50% of my age group SMV wise. I'm now probably at the top 10% - if I want a LTR with a woman my age I'm the hot property. It will be easier to get women as you age and IF you stay fit, don't fuck up your life you will have a buffet to pick from when you want to. Unless for whatever reason you want kids enjoy your single life. We all die i…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:31 PM
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Key words "the first day". She's already signalling day 2, 3 should be good. Think of day one as foreplay - and do all you can to make her want to touch you. Play it right and she will be crawling the walls before day 2 arrives.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 02:22 PM
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"TLDR: A women will never love you unless they respect you. " Everyone needs to keep that in mind when they start to slide into "nice guy(tm)" mode. You really want to make her happy? Don't make her regret her choice. Reminds me of another saying I heard here - "If he won't stand up to you he won't stand up for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 02:15 PM
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There is no ego like a hot or close to hot girl in a small town. We have a saying - "She's a Green Bay 9 but a Chicago 5"
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 03:49 PM
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I thought this post was about chick flicks. Then I read it. Then I realized that I'm probably 20 years older than most of the guys reading TRP. And glad I don't have insta- FB is enough drama.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 03:44 PM
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What if I just want to eat the muffin top and leave the rest alone?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 03:42 PM
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Amen brother - and while I think too many here see every woman they have had a problem with think they are BPD until you've experienced one you have no idea of the level of pain someone can inflict on you.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 03:42 PM
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Everything is state-controlled I'll give that 50% - maybe 49%. I'll go higher if we can agree that the state includes or has wall street as the majority shareholder. SJW's, the Evangelicals and other special interest groups get a bone thrown their way every not and then to get their people to the voting booth. What 1984 got wrong was the idea that everyone will be an unwilling subject to an all-powerful government. People in the US and elsewhere "opt-in" and get enough (or think the get enough) …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 03:28 PM
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known for a rich crowd and gaggle of cougars I know exactly the kind of place you are talking about. You write well. Sometimes when people write well they get the "OP made this shit up" thrown at them. Maybe it's not a FR but still a good read. "OP wants validation" seems to be applied when someone says "I fucked up" but makes the read too entertaining or can actually tell a story without using only nouns and verbs. Good post
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 02:25 PM
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If someone keeps saying to me "I'm Conservative" I take it as they are presenting a membership card to a club they put themselves into. The label conservitive or liberal is only marginally usefull. You're for gay marriage, smoking pot and don't like tax-payer funded tuition vouchers for religous schools - you must be a big liberal. Nope, he is a libertarian and votes GOP 99% of the time. Against abortion, wants taxes to send his kids to a Christian school and thinks gay marriage pisses god off- …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 02:19 PM
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"but if you don't give a fuck about her leaving, she will never break up with you." Should be on the list of "TRP iron-clad truths" Good post brother.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 01:57 PM
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That's some good wisdom - took me a while to get to the "That's fine" part.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 01:55 PM
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There is a lot of good info at TRP and a dose of BS- it's the internet. Finding out about BPD was one of the most eye-opening moments of my years on r\trp. I can speak from experience here. I've lived with one. You have no idea how it can be. No amount of mental toughness can prepare you for this. You will not have the stamina to engage in the level of verbal combat that will happen on a daily basis with no warning. You will have trouble repeating or remembering what she says to you due to the f…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 01:52 PM
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Sorry about the late response- I don't come here as often as I used to. I got better at telling when someone was using me or was an advesary. I learned to keep my mouth shut and not let on that I knew. I got better at working towards protecting myself and taking them down. In the past if someone at work was a problem I would tell people about it or call them out in weak ass manner. Now I see what my real victory conditions are and I am better at making sure others don't take credit for my work, …
/r/askTRP22/12/18 01:11 PM
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Good update and thanks for your words. "happiest I've ever been in my short life (27M)" speaks volumes - you know you're young and have a long road ahead. You seem to have a sober optimism- that will be a big factor in your success in ways that will surprise you 20 years from now. "Fourth Picked up my fashion" appearance matters. As a young man I thought my appearance did not matter much and purely by my intellect and personality everything will go my way. Where it does not is entirely due to th…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:37 PM
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"why do females get mad when you dont accept their bs of a consolation prize of "friendship" The same way lonely men cry "why do I sleep alone every night". People expect you to want what they want. How dare you not want the relationship she wants. Don't you know that what she wants is what you should want - and not wanting what she wants is personal affront to her. Look at it like buying a car. She says she has a car for sale. You tell her you drive 700 miles a week for work and MPG is critical…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:19 PM
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Gave me the tools to look back on my past understand and own my mistakes. Took away some of the hurt I had over women in my past. Honestly owning your shit helps you stop kicking your own ass. Better all around at relationships. Detractors of TRP see the hurt guys bitching, angry, incels etc. frame the community as angry misgonist pickup artists lying to each other about their lives. In the office I'm better at building alliances and dealing with assholes. Personal business - the mechanic, home …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 01:12 PM
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I'm a little older than pollsterblue and boys his words are gold. Pay attention to his words - especially "consciously and unconsciously". Just because she doesn't know she is doing it, thinking about her motivation or desired outcome does not change its impact. No matter how close you think you are to unconditional love I assure you love will come with some conditions.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 12:48 PM
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Money - being to passive to often in the area of salary negotiation. Not saving enough and being lazy with the money I save. Settling for financial comfort instead of going after financial growth. Women - in my younger years thinking I needed woman in my life (LTR) in order to be socially acceptable and not be labeled as a looser. Chasing women below my level with the idea that they would be grateful to have me and thereby treat me well. Friends - being to tolerant of people who were really bad …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 12:40 PM
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I don't see as much value in the label as I used to- libertarians vote GOP and are down with legal drugs, gay marriage, keeping religion out of government which all seem to run against what is considered conservative these days. And you see a couple of consistent DEM voting blocks running the other way. I just don't see the value in the label like I did when I was younger. Here is where I think we are going - you'll have one bloc from big cities and surrounding suburbs. That's where much of the …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:35 AM
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I've got a couple - it's never going to be like your guy friends. It's still enjoyable and useful. She's also a good translator for when you are trying to figure out what another woman is saying, thinking and doing. I got her a job where I worked and it was valuable to get insights into how the women in the office operated and how their tribes\circles lined up. She got info and dirt I never knew. The backchannel politics that move only though the women at a corp HQ of a Fortune 200 company were …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:01 AM
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You might not be an alcoholic but you may be a drunk. Also you're around other drunks so laughs, camaraderie and fucking are not too hard to find. Your ass is young - too much of that shit will give you the "40 going on 55" look if you keep it up.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:52 AM
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Some of that is you not worrying about what others think and not worrying about embarrassing yourself. That's why they call it "liquid courage" Some of it is drunk you thinking your more interesting that you really were. The trick is to get the confidence without the slop. Practice- take a drama class - start talking to strangers.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 10:48 AM
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I'm about 50 - I had my own place right after high school. Here is my take on upsides & downsides. Upsides You will start to learn a new level of responsibility as to taking care of yourself. Caveat - that can only happy if mommy and daddy don't give you money You can party like a madman, live like a caveman and not get grief 24/7. My life from 19 to 25 was like a bad college movie without going to college Chemical recreation at noon on a Sunday. Not having to hide your porn. Automatically eleva…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 10:43 AM
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I've got to ask - since when does 2 months = LTR?
/r/askTRP02/11/18 10:26 AM
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It can also make her angrier- at you and herself. You look weak, she feels stupid for picking a weak man. It also does nothing to change her mind. I've taken to just kissing her - not a peck on the lip or cheek but a full-on "lets start making out and see where this goes". Shockingly effective and sometimes leads to sex.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:39 PM
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Dunno - I was in Eindhoven a couple of years ago and it seemed full of damn hot women - tall, leggy and fit.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 12:36 PM
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I don't miss it with women - it's actually made me happier being able to predict behavior and by doing that avoid drama. I don't miss the innocence - I never had that. I miss some of my optimism regarding women I get close to and people in general. I thought I was gifted in my ability to find the "good ones" Now that I better see what people do, and more often before they do it. Sometimes its a drag but mostly its good. No I don't miss it - it's lowered the amount of times I get disappointed and…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 12:25 PM
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Considering some of the truly creepy subs out there - just check out one of the "tell me about some of the wierd subreddits" askreddit posts - you would think we would still be down the list. It's amazing that we have no porn, no violence and still get shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 12:23 PM
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Even if it's a guy posting - someone from TRP, wishful thinking or trolling - it still has validity. Since I've been paying more attention into when she wants it I do notice it's often after I've crushed something. I used to think that was her rewarding me - I now see it's her getting turned on by my success. The follow-up post is the one that most makes me think it's a guy- the first two paragraphs in particular read like a man's voice. The only thing I still rarely get is her initiating when I…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 12:13 PM
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Good post - and something guys often don't think about. Best advice I every got - still sticks in my head 20 years later- ​ Cologne should be discovered and not announced
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 11:52 AM
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It is silly phobia - I grossed out a former GF who watched me cut myself pretty deep to get a long broken splinter out of my left arm. It's not the pain - if I could I'd probably be able to do it to myself. It's just someone else with a knife on my nuts that gives me the willies. Did you have kids before you had it done? Did you have them put some on ice in case for whatever reason you decide to have kids later?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:39 AM
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Keep in mind many of them were bar skanks. We had a waitress living with us - she had 2 kids, one partial custody, full on the baby, her ex was in jail etc. Another one would start with vodka every day right at 2. Another smoked pot from when she woke up until she went to sleep. The one he brought to my graduation he lived with for about 10 years, they broke up. His boss moved to another state and my dad went with. Dad comes back. I'm driving to pick-up some parts and I see her in her driveway g…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:33 AM
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It's not about the pain. I've taken a knife to myself to remove a insanely deep and bad splinter. I've re-attached - successfully - the chopped off tip of my thumb. I'm not squeamish about me doing something - it's someone else having a knife by my nuts that makes it a nope. Do you know if they can knock you out before?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:21 AM
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"Daddy issues are a trope" Yeah if you think about it almost everyone has daddy\mommy issues. Call it what you will but it does seem to be young women who go for older guys. I had a sales rep for a couple of years - pretty hot. She had just broken up with a guy about 40, then got an "ooops birth control fail" and married a guy whose 50 or so. Hell yes HBO Rome - you've got to get the box set that has the full versions. The ones shown the first time were edited down about 30% for maximum sex\viol…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:18 AM
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"See how valuable I am? She how much I'm worth - I've got this" Its one or all of below You f-ed up I'm the one in demand. See I'm totally over you Look I got a better one Closure or I can't move on without trying to hurt you Sure you don't want me back (if you dumped her) See I was soooo right to leave you - I traded up (if she dumped you)
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:51 PM
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"She was constantly trying to lock me down for a relationship as she sensed value in me" She wanted to have a steady BF for status and be able to bang any guy she fancies. By having a steady she can project her "good girl" status. Having her BF be below her in SMV makes her feel comfortable you won't step out AND makes her look like a good girl "oh see her BF isn't super hot, she must love him for who he is, how sweet" Just my 2 cents. You're young you''ll get over it. Gave you an upvote because…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:07 PM
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Don't know if he's alpha or just her oneitis - in this case it looks like the effect is pretty much the same.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:03 PM
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Just passed 50 - been thinking about it for a few years. Would stash some swimmers just in case. Been on the Vasogel email list for years. Bottom line is I'd just like to not have to worry about it. Hard to get past volunteering to have a scalpel on my sack tho.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 12:02 PM
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Also over 40 here and only the last few years getting good at who paying attention to me. For a few years I went out with the same bunch to a couple of local bars- about 1-2 times a week. Blue collar bar and we came from work so dressed sharp. I got more attention from women in their 20's than any other age bracket. Once I had a woman my age come over and chat me up. 20-somethings were far more common. Had one say - no shit- and I quote "you've got salt and pepper hair and kind of skinny - I usu…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 11:57 AM
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Younger years fairly good looking. Keep in mind he also spent a lot of time in bars. We were in a bar - I was about 14-15 when he gave me the "I just walk up, talk to them for a bit and say "wanna fuck". As to what he looks like think 50's greaser\gangster type that morphed into Frank from Shameless (American version). Did a highly physical trade, fit, just drank a lot for about 30 years. Wer're from Chicago - Shameless is spot-on in a few areas. Fun fact - the 20yr old he brought to my graduati…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 11:42 AM
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Women don't often know what they want, but they almost always want what another woman has. In this case, you. Nothing makes her want you more than someone else having you.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 11:50 AM
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You summed it up - guys if you only do one thing right with a woman you are in a LTR with this is it. She'll loose more interest over failing in this area than if you gained 50lbs or went broke.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 11:48 AM
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Spot on as to "I've won the race time to chill". I've done that as well. I think the hardest part is not opening up when something bothers you. You do it once and she makes you feel better, treats you extra nice, etc. Then it becomes a habit - you have a shit day, she makes you feel better - and you slide down the chart from man she adores, respects and will be her rock to man-child dependent.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 11:46 AM
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Likewise on both - and when the TRP sub became widely known it got a lot of Internet Tough Guys(tm). The toolbox concept holds a lot of water. And it's pretty easy to spot the basement dwellers from guys trying to improve themselves - but still annoying to wade through it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 11:42 AM
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Money post - I had a co-worker say "Authority isn't given it's taken" and that has stuck. You''ll never truly own your world if you have to ask for it. There may be items your negotiate. One of the things my GF in my current LTR (15yrs, cohabiting 12yrs) brings up is "I hate that you have veto power over everything. You give on on the small stuff - but the big things are always your way!". She's been saying that for years and hasn't left. I'm still bluepill in many ways and have no delusions abo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/18 02:13 PM
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Your young - get some practice. You just got over your unicorn - why get another so soon?
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:49 PM
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I had this with a former LTR - her is what I did. I tuned out - read a book. It caused a couple of minor fights. It also lead to "what do want to watch" being asked of me and her asking "do you mind if". 2nd thought - two LTR red flags One of them is on the low IQ scale and what they find interesting is vastly different. She just wants the comfort of an LTR - your friend just happens to be there. He's a pillow she can snuggle with - she really doesn't find him all that interesting. He's a pet.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:48 PM
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In a few of my LTR's I've done this - never caught anything. Not saying your caution is unwise - staying safe makes sense. One LTR really liked anal - would ask for it in the most adorable way possible - and one of the reasons she gave was that she liked feeling me cum inside her. Even with the "side effects" which can make for her having a very loud bathroom visit shortly thereafter. But there is nothing like blasting inside her ass and knowing she feels it. It's an ownership dominance thing - …
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:42 PM
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For me its a few things - you can agree or not I get bored easily - if I find a woman who holds my interest it makes me happy and I want sex more. Family and work - having a steady date for events and social obligations She doesn't break your balls - or at least not yet - like all the others. And you want steady sex and companionship without getting your nuts crushed 3x a week. Most important - its what you want and you truly know what you want. DO NOT be the guy that says "I want a LTR" and the…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:36 PM
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If your interesting your attractive - the trick is making that attraction sexual. Her "discovering" your hot will be a turn-on. Everyone likes to think they found something valuable no one else could find. Buzz your melon, get some decent clothes and get fit. Think about it like this - I'll bet you've seen a woman who you don't find too attractive and after talking she gets prettier. And I've seen a woman who looks good and after talking with her for 5 minutes she got ugly real quick. Bonus poin…
/r/askTRP22/09/18 01:21 PM
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This works when you don't have anything. To the guys here who have jobs, some money, whatever - do not see this a Redpill Bootcamp. You'll get an edcuation - you might also have a few things that make the rest of your life not so great. There are a lot of TV shows and movies that go something like this - middle class regular guy mixes with criminals and becomes the best one of the bunch. Tarxan_ (correct me if I'm wrong buddy) had success in part because he didn't have things that could be taken…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 01:12 PM
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If your answer can't be understood easily you don't have the answer. Yes there are times when you need a lot of words to deliver your message. Yes not everything can be boiled down to a twitter post. Much of the time if it takes you a long time to get to your point you don't have a point
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 01:00 PM
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Start small, go ask some stranger that what time it is. For the shy guys here this is great practical advise. At 14 I had thick glasses, fat and a brutal speech impediment (I stuttered - still do). Choosing my classes sophomore year I took competitve speech and drama. Ended up taking drama for two more years. I was still chunky with shitty glasses and stuttering. But I had the confience to talk and dominate a conversation. It's like anything else - you're not going to paint a masterpiece the fir…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 12:56 PM
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Took me along time to realize women they're own framework for sexual & romantic conquests. It's all about the chase - once they reach the finish line - you actually caring and being invested in them - they often switch off. One of the regular's here once said men are the true romantics and that has really stuck with me. It's kind of dumb - it's not the case all of the time - but it seems to keep her happy and interested you need to deny her what she wants. Once she gets what she wants she no lon…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 12:43 PM
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You got that all wrong What you will have is a friendship permit. It'll go something like this- "Oh you want to go out with your buddies? You know you've got only 4 points left on your permit - does this involve beer or watching sports? I can't come - you know you need 5 points to go out without me". "Tell you what - if you will let me yell at you over something that's not your fault without saying anything to defend yourself because I had a bad day at work I'll give you three points for that. I…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 12:29 PM
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-And most settle, and then BLAME THE MAN. Took me a while to get that one - how angry they are at their own choice. He becomes their daily visual reminder of how they didn't get what they really wanted. Also how often they think it's just because they are not attractive enough - when it's the attitude and personality that kills the relationship almost every time.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 12:20 PM
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My Dad - blue collar guy without much money- was a womanizer and had a lot of women. Brought his 20yr old girlfriend to my 8th grade graduation. Had women left and right. When I was older (18-19 or so) he told me his trick. He just walked up to a girl in a bar, talked for a couple of minutes and then said "wanna fuck". I didn't say anything. He says "just ask them if they want to fuck. They all want to fuck. They may not want to fuck you, or fuck tonight, but they all want to fuck." I watched it…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 12:17 PM
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An old friend of mine now passed - true alpha guy. Born poor, died fairly wealthy. Women, good times, etc. On more than one occasion would say "When I die I want to come back as a broad. I want they golden pussy. I want to get all of this stuff I had to work for just by being willing to fuck. I don't think I would even have to be that good at it."
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 12:03 PM
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About 30 years ago a good friend of mine used the "golden ticket" analogy to describe women in pretty much the same way. My dumbass young and overly optimistic self said something like it's different now - women want to work, she'll love me for me and "Even if you're right it doesn't matter because I found the good one who doesn't think that way. And in the affluent suburbs of Chicago I see boatloads of trophy wives driving 100k SUV's. When you encounter them with their husbands sometimes you se…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 11:28 AM
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This feels like if The Onion wanted to do a satire piece of TRP they might write this as a mock editorial. Governments collecting revenue = promiscuity and no taxes = monogamous bliss? The nuclear family ideal of the 1950's is a bit of nostalgia. Much of what we call the decline was going on- it's just that no one talked about it. Divorce rates went up, spouses cheated, we drank did much of what we did now. Back then nobody talked about it. I'm in my 50's. I have\had boomer friends. When women\s…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 10:50 AM
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Talent comes with conditions I've been trying to express that to myself and the women I've been with. Usually takes 1000 words and I still never really expressed or summed it up as good as your four words. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 11:17 AM
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You didn't want the fiction - as long as nothing happens you stay safe and can tell yourself I didn't fuck up. You got what you wanted - years of a woman you were attracted to letting you know how much she wants you. And as long as you never did anything about it you could safely have it. You got what you wanted at the time - a woman other than your wife letting you know that wants you. One of the biggest reasons you didn't do anything about it was if you start having sex you risk losing that wo…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 11:07 AM
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Yeah when it gets to she is doesn't get aroused being around you - I don't mean 24/7 I mean she can get turned on being around you. Everyone gets horny and she'll still have sex with you even if the attraction is waning - basically masturbating with you as a live sex toy. It's when you're the object of desire that that her mind switches from "I need to scratch an itch" to I need what only you can do to me right now. Which may\will stop\slowdown each time you make her think she made a bad choice.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 11:01 AM
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Yea I meant anything - I had just woken up when I wrote that.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 10:40 AM
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Holy shit dude - this is Lifetime Channel (tm) movie of the week. You can't write this shit. You gave her 10-15 years of foreplay which she never had and will never have again. The worst oneitis is over the ones we haven't had.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:21 PM
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80/20 for the win - and if your in the 20 there is still a range of what she will do early vs. what she will do in a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:15 PM
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Had a LTR with a girl a few years younger than I and she was super quiet painfully shy. Took a while to get her to be able to even talk about sex before, during or after. One time I asked her "tell me about a time I did something that got your excited when we weren't having sex" She mentioned the time we were at the mall and had walked into Fredricks of Hollywood. We looked at clothes, make jokes etc. Then without saying anything I got a bottle of lube and we checked out. As we left the store sh…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:14 PM
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You already have an open relationship - what you are really trying to do it lock her up with the hope that she will stop drinking and stripping once she sees what an awesome life she can have with you. I'm not telling you to dump her - but she sounds like a bad movie. A traditional alcoholic stripper? You "make out with bitches and still sticks around".
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:52 AM
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This came up a little while ago - check out another thread about dating\sex with women you work with in asktrp. Below is my take. Keep in mind I'm 50 and a lot of this happened a while ago - it's different now. I'll admit my actions are stupid and you should not have sex with a woman you work with - co workers customers whatever. Don't take the following as advice to do this - just what I've done and experienced with what I admit is a dumb short-sited weakness of my own attraction to the thrill.…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:47 AM
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Check out this thread - https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9cb9xx/did_someone_breaks_the_rules_dont_shit_where_you/?st=jm1xpvtf&sh=b322ba71
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:44 AM
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A set-up date usually means she wasn't interested in you - she was interested in going out on a date. You happen to be there - and after accepting she then thinks about you. Stop asking why - it happens. It happens more to you because you're not a top choice and\or she has a lot of options. Also a set-up date usually means she wasn't interested in you - she was interested in going out on a date. You
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:40 AM
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Figure out what your game\persona is. And give more of an example than what you're telling us. ADHD man is high energy, loud and thinking 24/7 so is a non-stopping stream of entertainment. He's the TV set changing channels every minute until something good comes on- then everyone watches.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:37 AM
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Start practicing being the sober version of drunk you when your out shopping and running errands. Do this only when there are no women around that you might be attracted to. It will build your confidence and give you practice. Your not as self concious or inhibited. Also keep in mind you're probably remembering yourself as being better as much or more that how much better you actually were. And all the drunks around you also remember you better than you were. You're all drunk and having a good t…
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:32 AM
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Attractive or not she probably thinks you and every guy wants to fuck her. She'll think of you as a pussy if you act like one.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:03 PM
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I'm no Chad - probably at the top 15-20% of guys my age now but in my younger years my SMV was low. Been thinking about this for a couple of days now and I think I have a "work game" that works well for me. Work is where I own - my field, office politics, etc. It also helps that I work in IT which seems to have a high percentage of guys with poor social skills, bad health and terrible grooming skills - exception being those in a sales\customer facing role. But I've got my formula for what works …
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:01 PM
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I also made the mistake of bringing women around friends too soon. I also used to think women only thought of other women you might be interested in as competition - took me a long time to get that anything or anyone you care about can be seen as taking away from how you feel about her.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:29 PM
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I tried had to convey how good it is and how dumb it is. One item I didn't cover was how women see it- you become their rom-com with x-rated sex. How many movies have the couple flirting at work for a year and then - through a crazy set of completely random and not intended by her in way unforeseen events - she wakes up in bed next to him. The sex is so good because she is living out one of her fantasies. And like owning a Jaguar seeing and driving are one thing- having one is another game entir…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:26 PM
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It's never ended well for me - just some that don't end in a total car wreck.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:04 PM
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Keep in mind I'm 50 and a lot of this happened a while ago - it's different now. I'll admit my actions are stupid and you should not have sex with a woman you work with - co workers customers whatever. Don't take the following as advice to do this - just what I've done and experienced with what I admit is a dumb short-sited weakness of my own attraction to the thrill. Drinking is\was often involved - and I have gone out with a co-worker who I was already flirting with telling myself "don't do it…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:02 PM
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Just played that - read the lyrics - spot-on gold in those words.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 05:34 PM
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How do you know you're with a great woman? If your sex life isn't that good she must be awesome! Quote from her below- "I promise you I’m not here to promote the gay agenda and undermine heterosexuality, but I’ve got another alarming report to really top things off. A recent study, published in the Journal of Sex Research found that “men whose partners had less emotional stability reported better sexual function”. Sounds really healthy, guys."
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 03:11 PM
1

Women define "father" differently then men do- for us it's biology, for them it's a service rendered post-conception.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:15 PM
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Man puts a woman first and does something thoughtful and caring for her = Sweet romantic nice guy Woman puts a man first and does something thoughtful and caring for him = Patriarchy brainwashing he's a pig for expecting it
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:12 PM
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A woman believes women cheat because they deserve it, they have emotional needs, it was an accident, he made her do it etc. The hamster is getting an IV drip of steroids whenever you discuss men and women cheating with women. Most women believe men on the other hand do it solely due to the fact that the are faithless disgusting pigs.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 09:01 PM
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Romantic for a woman often means others sacrificing themselves for her. Nothing makes a rom-com like the woman with a hot but clueless or cruel BF falling in love with the guy who picks up the pieces when the hot guy dumps her for another guy (or gets caught cheating so she can dump him and get that "you go girl" vibe started. Romance for a guy? Doing for a woman. Romance for a woman? Having things done for them.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 05:39 PM
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I wear a tinfoil hat when I eat my GMO veggies thereby thwarting the Illuminati's plan.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 08:12 PM
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Agreed. When I was in my 20's I had friends in their 40-50's who gave me all sorts of advice. Much of the time I said something like "things are different now and that doesn't work anymore, you do understand how it is now" or I just thought that to myself and ignored it. And most of the time they were right. Every generation is sure of this- that only people in their age bracket truly get it, and that no other generation ever had it as bad or good as they do.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:04 PM
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Took me a long time to realize that treating a woman like an equal kills a relationship. Think of it this way- you're treating her like one of the guys and putting you into a mindset of thinking about you as one of the girls.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:32 PM
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For me it's also their head. Women are already a handful. Now your jaded and depressed about being single in your 50's. There are some striking women in their 40\50's in Chicago. It seems to be too often they have a bad attitude about life. Menopause anyone? Picture being around a woman PMS'ing\sad\angry\horny\depressed a lot of the time.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:28 PM
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That was pretty good . . may need to start calling it AFS.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:17 PM
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I've got my family spread around the country (and some overseas). It's one of the ways we keep in touch. Facebook has become for me a way to stay connected to my roots.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:07 PM
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I totally moved a girl from pumpkin spice lattes to chai mocha. I have yet to be with a woman who does not move much of her tastes and views to mine. Even when I was fairly clueless. When her next guy has 11 piercings and majors in aztec pottery she will dye her hair blue and start protesting something, anything.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 07:04 PM
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Skip the "parents murdered in the alley" bit tho
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:45 PM
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Women fight with each other more.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:30 PM
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Rathadin I don't think there is any way you could be more wrong. I'll bet anal adds at least $500 a month.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 07:00 PM
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So fucking true- one of my biggest leaps I've made in the last couple of years is admitting to myself my ego is the biggest factor in some of my worst decisions.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:21 PM
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Taste is something you need to start developing. Have a clue as to what you like, what's tacky and what shows class. Don't fall prey to "muh personality iz all i need" and think that once you start talking the shitshow that is your personal appearance, the way your place looks, the buffalo wings and 90oz lite beer will all be ignored and they will only see the wonderful you. Have taste and you come off the starting line ahead of everyone else. You still need the rest- but why handicap yourself a…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 04:10 PM
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Any woman I've ever been with sings along with the Eagle "Lying Eyes" and tells me what a sad sweet song it is because the woman in the song has it so bad. It's a song about a young pretty girl who marries an older wealthy but unattractive man and how she fucks younger guys on the side. Only a woman could claim victim hood by marrying for money to someone you don't find attractive and returning the favor by fucking other guys on the side and not hiding it from the man you said "I do" to.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 04:06 PM
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Part of your internal conflict may come from the need to suspend critical thinking and skepticism in order to sincerely embrace your faith. If I told you that if you would believe in something and by beliving in it at a later date you would get a very large finanical reward (I can't tell you when or what it will be, but trust me) you would think me a con artist. And you would be right to do so- I'm asking you to believe in something that science tells us is highly unlikely and cannot be proven w…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 03:53 PM
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I'm male, in my 40's and born\live in the USA. Women seem to ignore science in larger numbers than men here- several of my female relatives have fallen prey to vitamins\magic potions that will cure ailments and think by eating pomegranates they can cure cancer. We still have a large male contingent as well who discount science in a different way- I still remember my uncle who thought smoking was OK and a lie by liberal college guys to control him. He's the same guy who never wore a seatbelt beca…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 03:41 PM
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You missed one- 5- She is horny and you are "good enough". You know how most guys will fuck almost anything if it's easy and they're horny? Plenty of women the same way.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:55 PM
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Can we just start calling "rocky passages" side fuck(s)?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 08:32 AM
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You get your the orbiter and she likes the attention but doesn't want you, right? You're not going to move her off that- if she wanted you you would be together.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 07:28 PM
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Almost 50yr old guy here. Figure out a way to keep them safely but keep them. Back before digital cameras we had to either do polaroids (instant, low quality) or 35mm (looks great, have to take to lab). The last time was over 15 years ago. I worked in a film lab and had taken pictures of some of my ex's. I hid them in the house and would look at them about once a year. Your memory only works so well. It was nice to see them (and sometimes us) as she\we looked 25 years ago. Also was good motivati…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 07:26 PM
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If I'm hearing you right are you asking why your friends (men) behave differently around an attractive woman vs. an average or unattractive one?
/r/askTRP22/07/16 07:13 PM
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Well thought out response- good job.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 07:08 PM
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You don't have to change or improve as long as you lower your standards. Almost any woman can get a guy for one night at any time. For men it's not as easy. If you are a low value man you need to sell hard or accept a low value woman. Improve yourself become a higher value man. You won't have to sell yourself as much. Reach the upper 10-20% and you'll become the one whom women pitch\sell themselves too. Stay low value and you'll have a smaller pool of women- many of whom are in the same place as…
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:38 PM
1

Yes. Keep in mind if you spend to much time you will move from potential sex partner\boyfriend material to friend material.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 09:21 PM
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It can be worse. I rarely think about times I got my ass kicked. I do remember far to often the batshit emotional abuse I was handed out. I have yet to meet a woman who understands this. I have had two women tell me (paraphrasing) "Men are bigger and stronger and can beat us up, therefore it's ok for us to be emotionally abusive." Um yeah when I can call the cops because a month after my mothers death you use that during a tirade then we can talk.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:27 PM
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I've gotten laid because I am funny. I pulled women in my 20's who were out of my league because I was funny. It's how and what. Don't be the clown. Have a quick wit. Know when to stop. Also, know when to stop. Skirt the edge of what's acceptable without going to far past it. Know your audience. Know how to break balls the right way. Don't make being funny your only thing. A quick wit can be sexy. Make it part of your persona. Practice with strangers - grocery store, shopping, gas station etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:15 PM
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** "Only the strong can be kind"** is something you need to truly understand if you are to improve and get to a place of strength and leadership. The Nice Guy (tm) is often not only physically but more importantly mentally weak. He uses "niceness" as a way to rationalize his own weakness and how little he brings to the table. It's cowardice masquerading as good manners. He thinks he is choosing to be a Good Guy (tm) as a heroic sacrificial gesture when it's usually fear. In the end that person w…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:09 PM
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I got the same vibe and started reading the comments. I'm not dumping on all of it- it just feels like a fictional account\bio of a James Bond knockoff. The bar he describes seems like a high-end venue in a very large city. There are different rules for different places. The "Don't be a dick" is all well and good and you have clueless assholes in every place you go. I still feel The Fedora Is Strong With This One OP- don't bitch out and stop writing because you got some shit for your post.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 04:23 PM
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My take- She doesn't like sex that much and early on did it mostly to make you happy. If you want a woman who wants sex more you need to move on. She is no longer interested in you like she was because she is attracted to another guy. Time to move on. She is no longer interested in you because you have become boring. You can try to fix this (not through words but action). Or you could move on.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:33 PM
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In my 20's I was a woman's chroreplay plate. She was about 10-15 years older than I, fairly successful formerly pretty hot woman now a single mom approaching 40. This went on for about a year or so. Interrupted for 3 months or so in the middle when she had a guy. Here is how it worked. Her- "What are you doing xxxday I need to fix\install xxx" Me - "sounds good" Her - "Ok I take care of dinner get a couple bottles of wine" Later - Work followed by wine the shower followed by sex then shower agai…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:45 PM
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So from "DWB" (driving while black) we now have "WWF" (walking while fit). Come to think of it I do fit the profile of a guy who might do stuff or have a car. That being said the guy did have a ton of drugs. I don't care that much what kind of drugs you do but perhaps if you are selling steroids it's time to think about a low profile. It's like driving the cheech n chong van with Grateful Dead blaring out the windows as you pull up to your tie-dyed home.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:31 PM
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"I don't think you'd care if we even broke up. I want someone who would be DEVASTATED if we weren't together and wouldn't be able to handle it" Don't worry there are a lot of others out there who feel the same way. I have had similar lines handed to me by more than one woman. My ex once said "well the real reason I should break up with you is because you wouldn't do whatever it takes to get me back". Comprehend this- most woman equate conflict with resolution and commitment. When you make her th…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:04 PM
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So fucking glad I'm in my late 40's right now and shit like this is never even on my radar. I had a grammar school reunion and of the girls in my class now lists her occupation as "a personality". I should start an Instagram account where I cook gourmet meals in a gorilla suit while jerking off.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 03:56 PM
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Thanks good idea. I'm still a bit lazy so I think this improvement will come a little more down the line.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 03:27 PM
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This is a case where men use this logic- She will treat me well because I am giving her what she wants. She will love me because I don't treat her like the other guys. I will finally be happy because the woman I have wanted for so many years will finally be mine. It's a case of completely relying on logic while negotiating with someone who is functioning a primarily emotional level. Yes she is making a calculated decision but it comes from fear and depression not excitement and desire. You may h…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 04:38 PM
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I see ATRP as the holding ground for newbies and shitposts. I don't expect a ton of quality there- I see it as a mechanism to keep things out of TRP that don't add a lot of value. It's an 80/20 of shit\actual solid questions. The 80 doesn't bother me that much.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:40 PM
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This needs to be pounded into all men's heads. The woman caught cheating needs to make up with you to make herself feel better. Once she has done that she will bolt - telling herself whatever she needs to in order to make it not her fault.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:36 PM
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Seriously this is one lucky man. He got a pretty cheap education- no mortgage no kids. Too bad it didn't happen in his 20's. I'll say this about myself- so many of the important lessons I have learned have happened the hard way. Hope your guy comes out of this stronger.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:34 PM
4

This 100% - only one person can actually be driving the car.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:30 PM
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In my 4th live-in LTR and I can tell you most women do not want to lead. They want you to come up with ideas and options and then they play "thumbs up\down". Go ahead and ask a Modern Woman(tm) the dreaded "ok what do you think we should do" and you will not get a plan of action - you will get a description of a desired outcome and the emotional needs\motivation driving the desire for such outcome. What I have experienced is the need to approve\disapprove of your choices. What that renders is th…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:29 PM
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Good post. My late-40's ass has been making my own food since my teens and still learns something new. Here's another thing for your kitchen - decent spices. -Get some frozen\tube based spices. Often more flavorful than old dried ones. -Learn what to always have on hand like good canned tomatoes (BPA free liner, Red Gold my go-to brand), chicken and beef stock, good ground beef in the freezer etc. -Start making things you like to order out at home. Make it once following the recipe and then star…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:08 PM
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Woman (and a lot of men) think this- "what's mine is mine and what's yours is ours". Think of your busted friends who don't try to better themselves but still expect to be able to pass on the tab when it shows up. I bet one of the reasons she's so flipped out is that she's probably complained or tried to start an argument over it and he has not given in. My first live-in was quite broke (in government subsidized housing when we met) and over time slid further down the track this woman is talking…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 01:54 PM
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I don't do the fake "hi-im-happy-have-a-nice-day isnt-it-wonderful" look. That being said you need to be able to look people in the eye. When I see someone rubbernecking to avoid eye contact it shows me they are socially awkward and lack confidence. Looking a stranger in the eye or say hi to someone you don't know is part of being a confident man.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 01:34 PM
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This could be the MVP post of the week. Possibly one of the most important concepts to grasp.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 08:36 PM
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I'll call a little bullshit here. Working on not having your feelings run your life or make you do stupid shit is a good idea. Keeping your head when the shit hits the fan is a good idea. While feminists seem to have an idea that an overly emotional man is a good man I think that's mostly their insecurity and need to have men act more like them and therefore somehow less scary. I also have to blame in the last 20 years one more country song after another that has some guy crying his eyes out for…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 09:40 PM
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Those posts where someone talks about fictional characters in film or book and cites them as examples of how success was due to TRP skills or failure due to BP thinking? This is very close to that. You ready? Feels = Reals All three of these people are emotionally manipulating people to win them over and keep them in their camp. Obama is the positive thinking motivational speaker who gets you excited but you're still not sure what you should be doing. Like Bill Clinton and Ronald Regan he's got …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 03:06 PM
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I'll just say this - how are her social skills? You sound a bit like the guy who says "I'm nice, why don't girls like me". Doing a good job usually means you get to keep your job. Advancement is mostly based on social skills - make friends, put together outings, be the one others want to be around. Yes being a good looking woman gives her an advantage. Those random offers may not be so random. Start building your professional social circle and stop assuming that your ability and effort are all y…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:41 PM
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Bitter Confidence Issues Sales guy is a bad investment. And one of the less successful Saturday morning cartoon shows.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:37 PM
1

After multiple days of 4 hours or so sleep a night I noticed I was thinking differntly and sometimes had trouble doing things like picking up my keys, forgetting how stuff worked etc. Motor skill stuff. Also issues with memory - forgetting names. All of this time I was awake and in many ways alert and fine. I was able to do my work. I did notice I would get through a lot of things (driving, fixing a machine) and once done have no memory of doing it. One Saturday night I got in about 2am (Sunday)…
/r/askTRP19/06/16 01:44 PM
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Con men are con men. Those same guys chase 12yr old kids and fleece old people out of there money. The run a great con game and get a shitload of tail. Keep in mind the people that are sucking his dick are already suckers when they buy into his bullshit. It's like saying you are great with women when you go to conventions of morbidly obese bankrupt homeless single moms and think you really got game. Also if that's the measure for Alpha then L Ron Hubbard is one alpha mofo as well as other quasi …
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:11 PM
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That's what I did when I turned 20 - moved downtown, tiny place, bike. Went from a 38" to a 32" waist. And got a lot of interest and got laid. Had them chasing me (which had never happened). This mans story is a useful tale - young men should think about this.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:05 PM
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But if you are going to subscribe to an elitist hyper masculine ideology that calls 90% of men beta cuckolds, you are obligated to be fucking better than those men. Grinning from ear to fucking ear, holy shit that's beautiful man.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:01 PM
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I have long ago come to the conclusion that one of the most emotionally damaged and mentally unstable people are female K-8 teachers. HS can be a bit sharper, college you should have some game but damn man if I even meet a grammar school teacher who is not touched in the head I'd be shocked.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:43 PM
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Religion is BP in an RP wrapper. Filling that one away for later use.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 10:35 PM
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Still cheaper than college- move on you will never see it. You can take time to file yourself (or use prepaid legal - they can do a lot of the paperwork for you). But do not fool yourself that you have any kind of decent chance of getting paid back. She conned you, move on. Look at is this way - you're not paying alimony.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 10:25 PM
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The White Knight thinks "If I can get this guy to fight me then she will fuck me. That being said where are you hanging out and haw are you behaving for this to be what appears to be an everyday occurrence for you? Take this statement with all due respect- You will encounter assholes from time to time. If you seem to encounter assholes everywhere (or most of the time) it's very possible you are the asshole.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 10:22 PM
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A buddy of mine has a phrase "she's a why not" which basically means ONS. Trouble is I think your a little young and what happens if you meet the fat girl on the way down (Think a 2/3x that now can get her ass into a size 10/12. You'll see the before and after and go "shit she is going to be hot and treats me like a king - I should LTR this one" She's doing that to land a man (most likely). I LTR'd a former size 16\1x who really got in shape. She got back her old shape two years after we moved i…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 10:19 PM
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You are a classic introverted young man. You don't have any practice and are still not used to\talking to people. I'll bet you this- you don't know when to stop. When you think its going to get "weird" stop talking about yourself\your thoughts and ask someone else. Bonus points if is the low man in the group. It's very likely getting weird because you are talking and everyone else is having a conversation. The good news is this will get better. The even better news is you can get better at it th…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 10:08 PM
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You need to define what you mean like "good at" exactly how. The most consistant and best sex I had was with a girl who was a virgin when she was 25 and met me. Introverted, not very attractive and beyond nervous for the first few months. But she wanted to make me happy - and that's made her better. It was a lack of selfishness. Went from lights off under the covers to taking pictures over a couple of years.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 10:03 PM
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Physical issue - sure broken leg, sick, diabetes etc. He is talking about a mental weakness and very well may either see him now as a weaker man and\or use this as a pretense to start taking over the relationship. Even if she has a very kind loving response and she starts mothering him it's still not good. I never saw one of my LTR's more happy than when I was laid up in bed for 2 weeks - she got to take care of me and dug it. I also had another LTR got south right after I started therapy\SSRI's…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:59 PM
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Young men heed this advice - any lack of mental toughness will be a black mark on her confidence in you.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:56 PM
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Sorry to say you will have to tell her to get out. If she is cheating and you do catch her she will put the blame on you and I think you might fold, take her back, it's great again yadda yadda yadda. It's going to suck but if you want out you are going to have to do something. What you need to do is find someone or somewhere she can go to. Also get anything you care about out of the place and somewhere safe and when you do have the "it's over" talk make sure you are recording at least audio. Kee…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:54 PM
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She is probing for weakness and wants something on you. It's a possession thing. Consistently state that you really don't have any. Keep in mind "opening up" is sometimes bullshit - it's an open-ended Rorschach test question designed to provoke an emotional response that she can use to get you to agree to things that you normally would not. The secrets I throw out are "when I was little I wanted to be a fighter pilot" and "XXX used to really bother me""
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:49 PM
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If you must try one of the "afinils" (see the modifinilcat subreddit). You also might try some of the nootropics. Keep in mind you cannot keep that up for a long time without some loss of mental and physical capability. I did that for a while and I had to learn just because I was awake and not sleepy did not mean I was mentally and physically fit.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:46 PM
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LTR = TRP on hard mode. You lost the girl that made you happy. You can't change that. You can get your shit together and improve and learn so if you meet another you can increase your odds of having a decent LTR. Keep in mind I said increase your odds not guarantee
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:04 PM
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"Don't worry honey, she only platonically sucked my cock." My only regret is that I have but one upvote to give. I'll be saving this for later.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:06 PM
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Let me translate that for you- "He's such a pig, he is just rude and gross" = "His DGAF cocky attitude and off-color humor is turning me on" Keep in mind you need to assess what kind of "repulsive" she is talking about. If it's his behavior there's a good chance its a turn on for her. If its his 400lb landwhale mass (or picking his nose in public) then she really means it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:03 PM
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That's one thing I've finally got through my head . . . a woman's mouth can raise or lower her SMV to a pretty amazing level.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 08:11 PM
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You hit the nail on the head stone - there is no point in being pissed at this one. It's like seeing those ads on TV targeting seniors and getting mad at some old person being conned into buying a magic bracelet that will make their arthritis pain go away.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 07:51 PM
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Was the VAN down by the RIVER?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 02:45 PM
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I call bullshit. I think it's always been 50/50 - the difference is now more women are willing to admit it Tell me I'm wrong brothers
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 07:17 PM
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It's the trap I put myself it- it's our ego and arrogance. I can take this, I don't bitch out, I got this, BTFO I'm the one in power because I'm the provider. Then my bitch ass woke up. This was before I found TRP. I went on strike no grocery shopping no dishes and I ate dinner almost every night before coming home. One night with both sinks full I come home to my live-in GF eating heated frozen mashed potatoes out of a bag with 2 foot long novelty spoon (only clean one in the house). Our eyes l…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:37 PM
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TRP involves giving up on myths and falsehoods you have been told. It also requires critical thinking skill and the abandonment of magical thinking. So if you are not an atheist when you get her it's easy to see why the idea suddenly occurs to you. I was an atheist long before coming to TRP and I think it helped with the "no it can be true!!!" phase.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:29 PM
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Or she is some dingbat early care\primary school teacher. I've yet to meet a teacher at the primary school level who wasnt a bit nuts.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:23 PM
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You are that which she was attracted to - to many time I feel prey to the "you need to mature\change\the next level blahblahblah" each time the relationship hit the shitter. The only change you need to make is doing better at the things you care about.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:21 PM
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Fuck can you imagine being her current husband and reading this shit?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:13 PM
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I've only had a few fuck buddies but the best two were single moms. One had moved back in with her mother so she would come over, sex, maybe food\round 2 of sex then leave before midnight. The other one lived on her own and I would usually go over to her place as the baby daddy rarely got his kid. Again no "dates" she might have food, we have sex, I leave. Neither lasted very long but was nice to have in my 20's. Both were willing to get fairly kinky and one let me do video\pix (35mm when you ha…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 09:11 PM
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I didn't look at her pictures. A few months ago I was out with a large group and listened to a woman go on about how much it sucks because men want a 25yr old size 2. Mind you she's about 35-40 and in pretty good shape. She is convinced she only gets jerks (pump and dump) due to her appearance and competition. In that evening she made fun of people in wheelchairs, mentally handicapped joked about killing dogs and cats. She also told us one time she knew she wanted to break up with a guy and was …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 08:43 PM
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Consider this - it's her idea that he didn't pursue purely based on looks because men are so shallow, etc. etc. This makes his going dark a lack of virtue on his part due to being shallow which allows her to rationalize the fact that he went dark as being a flaw on his part and not hers. I would bet it may not have been a picture but the content she was posting.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 08:21 PM
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Don't kid yourself - It may not have been (or just been) her looks. Women will post\say some pretty revealing and horrible things online. He may have read some of her stuff and said "no thanks". Women like to think it's just looks - the idea that it might be their personality doesn't come into play too often.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 08:09 PM
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It also scares them that you care that deeply about something other than themselves. Narcissism in action.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:51 AM
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FNG PROTIP - The first person (or persons) to approach you and try to impress you with their knowledge, expertise and guidance will most often be the ones on thin ice or perceived as being at the bottom of the food chain by others. They see the FNG as potential recruit to gain traction in the office. The will lead with offering to help and that will quickly move into getting you to do PR for them.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:37 PM
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I know someone in that spot now - just took over a 50% pay cut and new he's working security in Vegas. He's in his 40's and just got tired of it. He did have the brains to start saving a few years ago so he is ok but in the same space - has skills that are no longer valued once you reach a certain age.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:21 PM
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Keep in mind she's describing qualities she wants herself to be attracted to. Kindness could be the buff former track star now a successful businessman who does a lot of charity work. Humor could mean she like a quick wit and someone who calls her on her own shit. In my experience when women tell you what they are looking for they are telling you what they want you to think the are looking for and what that want to convince themselves of what they are looking for. Kindness and humor - like Tom B…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:12 PM
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Which I think shows just how dangerous a LTR can be - it's damn draining to be on your game 24/7. And when you spent 10 hours at work running full speed, driving getting it done when you are done with your work day you just want a break. And one day you cave at home - you get pissed at yourself and you don't do it again for a few months. Then a few weeks, a few days and you get conditioned to the cycle of 9 to 5 confident leader and after-hours man-child trying to stay out of trouble and do what…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 04:20 PM
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It's fiction so you need to take any fictional character with a grain of salt. You know who was a true alpha - Bugs Bunny. Didn't take shit from no one, stared down a guy with a gun and never blinked once.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:53 PM
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I always agree when the check shows up at dinner
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:31 PM
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Keep in mind it's written by guys like us who dealt with a lot of what we deal with. Only without flushing toilets.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:31 PM
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I went below my SMV in my 20's rationalizing that I would get treated like a kind due to the gratitude she would feel having a guy who was above her on the SMV ladder. Turns out not so much.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:29 PM
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Part of this is the fact that most young men are terrible at getting a woman to take an interest in them. Whereas a young woman has a lot of men taking an interest in them - many of whom are quite good at the task.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:21 PM
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Women require both a carrot and a stick This is one I'm finally getting better at. Can't be a pushover, still need to hand out treats.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 09:11 PM
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"whom I thought was mistreated by other guys" = "picks bad guys and treats good guys like shit" There is a saying - everyone now and then you will be around an asshole. If you seem to be around assholes almost all time you're the asshole
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 09:09 PM
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Good job holding your frame and letting you provoke you into a fight. While I have never gotten physical with a woman (meaning a fight\hit her) I have far too often taken the bait and got into an argument. In the future keep calm like you did - no matter what they will try to get you into a fight with the goal of getting you off balance and doing what you would not if you were calm and thinking rationally.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 09:06 PM
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I've been doing this more - when I'm alone and with my SO. It does make a difference as to what is discussed and sets a tone for the space. Also it's a good idea to just listen to your car - helps prevent a minor issue from becoming an expensive major one.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 09:01 PM
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Every single romance that women eat up - they are looking for a man to tame them.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:48 AM
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And ok you can come back to my place but we ARE NOT having sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:45 AM
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They want the answers to the test - they don't want to understand or learn anything. And they think once they get the answers all of their bad behavior will go away. You hit it on the head UrsusG
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:23 PM
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Holy shit that was funny. We ran the HOEFAX on this one. Femail claimed 4 LTR's and 2 ONS's. Actuals includes 7 additional ONS's and 9 other dating and sex but only for a short time. No major frame damage but 2 STD's reported. 50% cheat ratio on LTR's = approach with caution.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 08:01 PM
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I should have said "neighborhood thing" instead of "neighbor thing". In Chicago it works like this. You're hanging with your buddies and you need something- a car, plumber, roof doctor anything somewhat major. You float it our to the group. Everyone who has someone goes "I gotta guy" and give details on their guy. Conversation takes place and you pick who you use. The following is understood- If things go bad the guy who recommended the guy should help but it's not his fault if you have a bad ex…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 10:35 PM
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More than likely it's a guy
/r/askTRP26/01/16 09:57 PM
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Why? Arithmetic" So you can either change or hope that everyone else will. So either you change or become the life coach and project manager for the rest of society.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 08:52 PM
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Great post with a detail and actionable advise. This is part of a neighbor concept which is "I gotta guy" A lot of the time it's good not to go into a place cold. Getting your car fixed etc. This is when you ask around for advice on who to use. You know what's also good- being the guy who gets asked. If you want a place to take care of you a good way to make that happen is to bring them other business. Make sure that when you recommend a place that they let the manager\owner know. A lot of this …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:33 PM
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I put small dog owning women on notch lower than cat women.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 11:17 PM
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Don't. Next thing you know she is wearing sexy lingerie to bed, talking dirty to you, you're watching porn together. Sex all over the house, taking pictures. If your not careful she may end suggesting getting another woman for a threesome. I'd watch out if I was you.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:41 PM
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Let me know when you hit 100 so we know you're serious about trying. Seriously tho don't stop and it will improve over time. Get your act down now and your post-school life will be amazing.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:39 PM
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Or when you get a physics moment when you can't bang her in a certain position because of her size. Yes my 20's had some painful bottom feeding moments.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:32 PM
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How about when they are living with you in your house? That is always tough. My new rule include at least audio and getting the items I really care about out of the house.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:29 PM
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I think you're being insecure. Guys break balls all the time. Sometimes I don't break the balls of weaker beta guys because I know they can't handle it and it upsets them. It's possible you were given a pass when your ass was weak and now you are being included and you don't know how to handle that.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:27 PM
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This needs more upvotes. You get a lot of "NEXT" here but I'll tell you I also feel bad almost every time. Getting through my head that dragging it out is not an honorable thing has helped. So has looking back at all the wasted time I spent in shitty relationships.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:15 PM
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You now have to trust what she tells you as to partner countcasual sex. You now must pass on some fun recreational sex You may regret this later ifwhen you settle down You will never truly understand women until you bedded across the spectrum. The only women worthy of having sex with you will be thought of by you as elite or top shelf. I suspect this has led to some oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:01 PM
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I gave her an ultimatum = You gave her the power. Never hand down an ultimatum -it makes you look weak and you are setting yourself up to fail. Now you have no choice.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:57 PM
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Be very very careful - she may treat you well. That's what happened to me and it ended badly. And by that I mean she may see you improving and want to screw your brains out. And with two kids she needs to try a bit harder to make herself attractive for a LTR. And that means she may behave above and beyond her normal self. And maybe she looks pretty good. I was 22 when a pretty cute 28yr old hit me up. She had her friend arrange the first date, send out signals. The first couple of years were gre…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:52 PM
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We need more humor in TRP - it can be a depressing process and having a laugh or two helps the medicine go down.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 06:45 PM
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My LTR #2 to a "T". And never again.
/r/TRPOffTopic19/01/16 09:31 PM
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Good post - allow me to define my idea of FWB vs. LTR FWB does not come with me to Christmas. LTR does. FWB gets a cute token birthday gift and I may come to her party if invited. LTR gets something nice and I will plan something for her. LTR gets handyman services. FWB will get advice, maybe some help. LTR does not get to go MIA. I understand a FWB may and will go MIA. The idea of FWB being a tryout for LTR has some good points. It also gives you a window to her friends and her past with a litt…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:05 PM
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Same here - Dad took me fishing\hunting when I was young but didn't do a good job as to women, career etc. Made a friend about 20yrs older and got the rest of my real education. I would not be where I am now without that. As to mrmeemaamer_87 start with something you need now (car is a good idea) and keep this in mind- Older is not always wiser Even the best make mistakes There is value is listening to someones failures as well as successes.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:55 PM
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Gold here "thinking she is the prize" This is so true - you should understand that you should be grateful that she is now willing to settle for what she didn't want as soon as she can no longer get what she wanted. Good post newbbe1
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:51 PM
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Shit yes- other ways to say the same thing- "I'm not a Barbie doll" - no your a beach ball with a head on it. "I'm a real woman" - I can only get clothes at the big girls store - even a 16 won't fit this frame "if you can't deal with a real woman's body then don't bother contacting me" - You will need a snorkel to go down on me.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:48 PM
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They are not redpill. The fantasize about their cuck shit because they are masochists with a giant inferiority complex
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:02 PM
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Here is the good news. It's always been that way and never was going to be any different. The only thing different is that you know it now. More good news - go get your bagels and watch TV with that girl. Just do so with your TRP mindset and have a good time.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:00 PM
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It looks like lo mein Gonna have a hard time eating lo mein again. Was thinking that
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:40 PM
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Hypocrisy exists across all political boundaries. You are encountering a group known as regressive liberals The premise is this - any group who is not a part of those who largely make up the elite and powerful cannot be oppressors. In other words if you are oppressed it is now impossible for you to oppress others or at the least is the excuse for why your behavior should not be held to the same standard as those in power. In the USA (and Europe) most financial and political positions are held by…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 07:03 PM
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It's called breaking balls and its what guys do. It will take you a while to find out what's acceptable. If your friends don't do this to each other every now and then find new friends.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 10:27 AM
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Get yourself together. If you lay down "do this or we're finished" you've just put yourself in the position of yet another time when you tried to lay down the law only to give her another reason to not see you as a leader.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 10:00 AM
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The light in her mom is more than likely penis shaped.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 10:32 PM
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You can never be drunker than her in her presence I didn't figure this out until my 40's - this is gold. Never be sloppier then your woman when you are out together. You totally abdicate leadership in that situation. For those that ignore this think back and how many times did that situation turn out shitty for you. Solid gold post Countpudyoola
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 08:55 PM
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Using it 2x a day due to being a lazy cheap dumbass and not seeing a dentist for most of my 20's\30's and now having gingivitis. Without I have the worst stink and my gums are swollen\bleeding. Take care of yourself
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:36 PM
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Establish a dominant frame - have dinner with him on Friday and bang him before she does.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:33 PM
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You know who never has any insecurities about their LTR? The guy who is 10 seconds away from having it go to shit (divorce whatever). Show me a someone who never sees a problem and I'll show you a guy with a metric shit ton of problems.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:19 PM
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" I also changed my haircut and went out with a personal shopper and stepped up my wardrobe. " In my late 40's and have seen the level of interest I get go way up with this as well. It's amazing what some truly good clothes and shoes can do - and I have to admit it does give me some swagger.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 09:45 PM
2

Still get a sweet camaro, lift, smoke a joint in the garage.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:40 PM
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"You don't get any special treatment in here for having a vagina or a religion" Actually you do get a lot of special treatment here in the USA (and other places as well) for either one. This sub is all about dealing with that as it relates to the vagina by rational discourse, sharing our experiences and data. It's all about applying reason to dispel myths and untruths. Religion does get a pass here - and that includes modern day mysticism like The Secret and other current spiritual fads. You can…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 07:26 PM
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The reason why I continue to see the LoA as pseudo-science is the idea that the thought is the primary cause for all reaction in the universe. You need this to get you motivated, great good that it works for you. You start to think that the the #1 reason for things happening is merely you thinking about them then we have a problem. Keep in mind if LoA was valid this means the Jews wanted to go the the gas chambers, the crew of the Challenger wanted it to blow up and every failure is a result of …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 07:01 PM
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While you should always use condoms you should never ever ever fall prey to "Don't worry you don't need one" The time you always need one? When she says you don't need one.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 06:36 PM
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I Like Smart and Nerdy Guys = I like handsome fit successful men who happen to be wearing glasses.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:27 PM
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There are a lot of power structures so it helps to know which one you are talking about. At the top you have money and much of it is old money. Multi-generational wealth in the US is pretty much European Americans (white). New wealth (entrepreneur class) is a bit more diverse. Over time we will see a more diverse genetic mix as to multi-generational wealth. We are also moving towards a more complex class system with regards to income and influence. Now if you want to talk about power structure a…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 08:32 PM
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Real Female Characters = All of the cliches that male roles have minus the penis part Good comment Thotwrecker
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 08:18 PM
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That really cut The_Junto and yea when you have the movie star looks woman (especially when she's got the social skills to match) it's tough to end it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:15 PM
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She gave you a tremendous gift. This is the kind of thing that often happens to a guy about 40 with 2 kids and a big mortgage. You just got a college level course in real life. Sorry it hurt. Many of your most important lessons will hurt as well.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 06:37 PM
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Advertised on the Alex Jones show so looses a few points in my view.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 06:34 PM
1

Been the story since the dawn of time - women and lyrics. You can have a song about a serial killer who eats kittens alive while setting piles of bibles on fire and if it's sung sweet by a guy she's attracted to its "So romantic".
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 06:29 PM
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Big shit test telling you that you can't be a player or date around any more - you have to get married up and start cranking out some kids.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 05:39 PM
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We see events like this in movies, television and other form of writing because it's what so often happens in real life.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:47 PM
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Too many religious fundamentalists and anti science types. Plus for a party that talks about fiscal responsibility the GOP does a damn fine job of spending money we don't have on things we don't need.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:37 PM
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Good for him he got off cheap Hopefully this will sink in and lead to him not getting screwed later in life. Men often learn best when the lesson is taught the hard way. I'd rather screw myself out of a bigger paycheck at a good company than my home and children.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 12:23 AM
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Calling bullshit on all this. Here's what I think it is - She's in her 20's and all women at that age get a ton of attention - the HB7's up 100x more. And they can pick and live royally. And then they get a little older. And all of a sudden they are like everyone else and has to work and compete for it. And they cry out "unfair" get meds, boxes of white wine and cats. Welcome to world of 90% of men since they ever got interested in women.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 12:10 AM
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I've known a couple of Indian guys in the US who fit this. Mind you they both had game, fit as fuck with light accents. The game was incredible and the one guy had his approach down pat - I'd watch the girls face go from "ewww" to "ohhh" in about 2 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:43 PM
1

This is a conversation that can go on for days. You know what I think a TRP man should believe - That it's Vegas, the house usually wins do what you can to get yours GOP believes in self-reliance except when banks want money and football stadiums need to be built. DEM's believe in the working class and the poor - except when Wall Street sends them some $$$ for the election campaign in which case the poor and middle class can go to hell. At the end of the day I pick the guy who scares me the leas…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:18 PM
1

Question and don't take this the wrong way - were you drinking when you wrote this?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:09 PM
6

I'm also getting some "men are the real romantics" vibes from this. That's because most of the time it's the truth. One of my biggest TRP awakings was coming to the realization that men are the true romantics in most cases. She wants to marry him because he will make her look good - it's got nothing to do with what she will or can do for him. And in most cases a guy getting married knows he has to provide for her and their children. In most cases a husband is a fashion accessory they can show of…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:08 PM
1

Agreed - women take pretty much everything personally. They actually believe that rejecting meeting one of their friends with the goal of romance is a rejection of them. There is a reason why they cry easier at sad moments in a film- when something happens to someone else they feel like it is happening to them.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 10:43 PM
1

"for the love of god just don't be an evil cunt to me, my friends, and/or the person waiting on us" It's amazing how hard this is to pull off. And now in my late 40's I look back on how many women can't do it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 09:46 PM
1

I did at a place I was at - I was a long-term consultant (about 3 years). 1st one dumped me, 2nd one I dumped her, 3rd one was a FWB\plate situation and we both knew it. Problem was the relationship with #3 was pretty hard to hide (as was #1) so things go weird in the office. It's hard to eat in the cafe when each site line has a woman you have had sex with. It's hard to be a boss and manage your team when they grin when one of the women you have had sex with walks by. It will totally change the…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:50 PM
2

Also seem to be eager to please with extra freakiness in bed. Also helps the short-term thing in that kids = less requests to sleep over, short dates that go right to sex etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:03 PM
1

Men need to stop equating "good guy" with "pushover". A good guy would tell his friends to get their shit together. A pushover supports their shitty behavior - and really isn't a good guy as they continue to be dirtbags. Your on the road to being a truly good man - you used to hide behind "good guy" so you would have friends and your feelings wouldn't get hurt.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:45 PM
2

Raised Catholic\Christian currently atheist. Not the militant type (most of the time).
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 07:41 PM
2

Enjoys breathing, eating and anything fun. Doesn't like angry mean people. If a woman was ever able to go 24 hours around me without stating the obvious I think I would try to lock that shit up so fast it would make your head spin. I'm safe because I know that is not going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:13 PM
3

You are being so negative. There has to be a ton of attractive men in their 30's who are wildly successful and are looking for an LTR only they just can't seem to attract women in the real world. Up next - dogs who don't like bacon.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:52 PM
1

I remember when someone took a picture of her at 54 with her legs up and no underwear on. I think he lost the next election. And still guys in their late 40's wife-up a hot 20-25yo with the idea that "she will settle down for me".
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:41 PM
1

I have always thought the same thing. At one point in my low beta early 20's I got the idea that single moms would treat me like a king due to how much baggage they brought to the table. Lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 09:21 PM
1

Disagree somewhat there - have been around women enough to listen in on the "who was your best" (great fun when drinking) and they do remember who was a great fuck and who was bad in bed. They'll remember the celeb they banged. They'll also remember if it was rockstar sex or just a rockstar. Don't think they don't hand out report cards to each other when they get together for a few drinks.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 08:39 PM
12

Sex God Method - keep in mind the guys that came after could be lame regular joes who really are not good in bed - and her AF clearly was a guy who knew how to light a woman up. This is why it is my mission to be the top level lay of her life. Yeah it part my ego and competitive BS but I want her 2 5 10 20 years from now thinking "that was ok - still not as good as headingred"
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 07:10 PM
4

In a LTR now (10 years) and bringing every ounce of game I have when we are out with her girlfriends. It drives her nuts. Had one say "I can't believe you're the same guy she talks about". I never saw that one again. Good post
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:08 PM
1

"Betas go the abusive way. Alphas walk away." So true - it's those without options that go batshait.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:00 PM
2

Good post. Hurts a bit like that many of the good ones do. Thanks PIT
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:29 AM
2

Me and a buddy who spends some time in TRP were having a few drinks and started goofing on how "everything" is blue pill\feminist etc etc. The New Testament? Total blue pill! Look how much the talk about helping loosers and not embracing business (not to mention that whore riding the carousel who gets the so-called AF JC to take her in. Bill Gates? blue pill! The GUI is so feminine - men use a CLI. After a while you need to take a deep breath. Agreed as to hammer\nail theory.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:23 AM
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You are a man who thinks sinking down to a low enough level will solve your problems with women. Young men listen and learn on this quote. In my late teens\early 20's I had low SMV and decided that the best move for me was to chase the truly low - not only unattractive but neurotic pains-in-the-ass. I thought "Hey, they'd be so happy to have a regular guy they'll treat me like a king" Learn from my fail - RP-Doctor speaks sooth.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:10 AM
2

A couple points on what you did right - Displayed a passion for something. Doing that for almost anything will often eventually gain you some kind of status\recognition. Obvioisly something really creepy will only attract creeps, but you choose a good one. Baking -with all the cooking shows\chefs becoming kind-of rock stars - shows off skill + creativity. That will always have appeal. Not taking money or caring who you gave it to = outcome independence. Nothing shows confidence or dedication lik…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:05 AM
1

I don't think we have too many "real" liberals or conservatives anymore. We don't have a intellectual salon culture where this kind of discourse can take place and the merits of ideas can truly be discussed without too much rancor or negative impact. It's that kind of culture that spawned many of the ideals that the US was founded on (and to be fair many of the reforms that did make life better all around the world). The internet could have been this kind of place but it has turned into a WWF wr…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 05:41 AM
2

*But man, if the Republicans were right and gay was a choice, I CLEARLY made the wrong one. * LOL'd
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 08:07 PM
1

"I suddenly saw my beta thinking as being purely feminine." Same here. For some time now whenever I hear a woman complaining about a man I will go "don't take this the wrong way but he sounds like an unhappy woman" and so far I have got nothing back but "yeah, you're right"
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 07:58 PM
5

Confirmed have had 3 horse girls nothing can prepare you for this. Sex pretty damn good tho
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:54 PM
1

One more - every time you have a girl flirting with you and can't do anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:02 PM
3

OK here's a few In each case (including the current one) I have made changes or given things up. I don't mean going out drinking with the guys every night, I mean pretty standard stuff. You also end up with the tab most of the time. You tell yourself that's so you can stay in control - but it still means you pay for all of yours and at least 1/2 of hers on any given occasion. Within XX days\weeks\months\minutes you will get marriage pressure. That convo you had about not wanting to get married a…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 08:03 PM
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Never cohabitate. In my 40's on my 4th cohabitation. Never married. I wish I had not done this one or any of the others. It's set me back more than anything else in my entire life. Don't do it. Learn from my fail.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:54 PM
3

By not looking like most 40-something guys. Knowing how to tease\flirt Almost all women in their 20's have "daddy issues"to some degree. I'm in my late 40's and get more interest from women 25-30 than any other group right now.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 03:51 PM
4

There was also a study where women rated most men as below average or average while men rated most women average or above average. For all the screaming women do about men only wanting some "supermodel barbie doll" it's them who are the most picky.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 10:55 PM
1

" Right around the same time we started counseling, my wife’s friend (who, mind you, is a licensed marriage and family therapist) suggested she sign up for Ashley Madison, whose tag line is, “Life is short. Have an affair.She said having affairs helped her marriage, so I decided to give it a go,” New rule - if she has a therapist for a friend move on
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 08:14 PM
3

Great way to explain that. Had a GF who seemed to be stuck with almost every family member, coworker and retail clerk was a total asshole. The odds - wow - poor girl.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 09:29 PM
3

This is why I don't ask "what do you want to eat" instead I say "do you want chicken or streak". She gets to feel like she had a choice. I don't have to play 20 questions.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 08:31 PM
1

Can't begin to tell you how guilty I feel about this and how much it keeps me up at night.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:29 PM
1

A hot girl on your arm that has the hots for someone else (whom I assume will be there) is not the way I would go.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 07:29 PM
11

got a new bf within a month of our breakup = Had him on deck when she broke up with you
/r/askTRP19/08/15 07:47 PM
0

Do not go with her. Go alone if need be.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 07:45 PM
10

Except lesbians have a much higher divorce rate then gay men. You know, because of hetrosexual male societal constructs.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:02 PM
0

Rarely are women stylish. They are often fashionable. That's exactly it- I see many running around wearing the same "latest got to have it thing" but seldom have style. As a guy it's a great way to separate yourself from the pack.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:09 PM
1

You just can't handle a REAL WOYMN with CURVES!! Check your fitness privilege .
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:41 PM
3

Wrong - is a young hansom as fuck billionaire. If has a dead wife, even sexier.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:38 PM
1

I didn't make my point. I have been around many "independant" career driven women who still expect a man who earns more, pays most of the tabs and gets most of the heavy lifting done. It's not that I wouldn't want a women who was willing and able to carry the load- it's just that I have stopped expecting it. Been in 4 live-ins and every one had drama when I said "you owe me for xxx"
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:09 PM
1

Example of follow the sex god method - some reputations are good to have.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:53 PM
1

They say they hate those things - but still want it. It's a "I don't talk the talk but I do expect to walk the walk".
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:52 PM
3

Tugging on that thread until she's tugging on your belt buckle Need to make a list of the top 100 TRP catchphrases
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:40 PM
1

Current GOP primary is the best show on TV right now
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:36 PM
4

What retro said. Here's a couple more rules for a young guy. No more bragging about how much you drank, wild weekends, etc. Don't be the "office bro". Dress like the people 1-2 levels above you at work. You can get many people on your side by simply asking for advice and help. Everyone likes to think they know what they are doing. Having someone ask for advice is flattering and they will want to do you favors. Do not have retro's books on your desk (maybe 7 habits). Do have books on your desk - …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:35 PM
1

I don't want it to be mainstream- why would I want additional competition?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:28 PM
1

Keep on electing religious fundamentalists to office and we can finally have our own version of sharia law here in the US.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 06:32 PM
1

Impressive file.
/r/ThankTRP28/07/15 08:30 PM
1

I leave when my SO gets bitchy and she is being what I consider to be unreasonable. Almost always I spend no to little time thinking about the fight itself. I wait for her to calm down. If she is not calm and she is needed I will say what is needed to fix the situation. If she is calm I will attempt some wisdom.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 07:56 PM
1

I've got a cousin, he's much older than me about 70. He forwards emails on to everyone he knows with a ton of tinfoil hat sky-is-falling stuff. Just a couple of weeks ago he sent me one stating the election of 2016 will decide the fate of the nation with 900 points for it being so. I still have the one he sent in 2004. Point is RoK stating to sound too much like my cousin. I know in TRP circles I will get a certain point of view - but it's starting to feel like a SNL sketch.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:36 PM
2

" the idea that the cop is the bb is classic" Totally agree, seen many times single mom ends up with cop, fireman or soldier - always a heroic stud flying to the rescue who takes no shit from anybody- except her to whom he is a puppy.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 10:28 PM
3

Current GF is a fairly well paid professional currently leading a multinational team of 100+. Nothing makes her go off like when I get her into a pined down\can't escape position.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 10:25 PM
5

What about me? Well 37.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:43 PM
3

"When will women realize that men are not just vending machines you put sex in and get relationships out of." Getting t-shirts made with this right now. Also how about "I want to be healthy and don't want to be in a LTR with someone with unhealthy habits"
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:30 PM
3

"I'm gonna be an owner, and I'm gonna be rich." Don't give up on education - what are you going to own? Lots of money in STEM in the small\midsize businesses. As a business owner you will have an advantage if you can know when your talent is snowing you.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 09:37 PM
2

It's why I keep my phone out of my pants.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 07:23 PM
7

"“I enjoy eating pussy, not because I like giving women pleasure but because I like temporarily denying them the pleasure of my dick.” Holy shit laughed. The Onion comes to TRP
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 10:00 PM
1

I will say the guys with the light-saber sized vape blowing a giant cloud for all to see look like douche bags.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:55 PM
1

I smoked for 20 years, gum, pills, e-cigs etc. Couldn't quit. Started on the vape and now pretty much down to minimal nicotine and have my cardio\lungs back. It may look goofy (I got a smallish flat-black one so I don't look like I have an arc welder in my hand) but it has me in better shape and doing more.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 09:54 PM
1

A lot of people in my life criticize me for being in the state I am in. They expect me to be broken, depressed, and defeated. I got that as well and when I convinced one person in particular I was relieved they thought less of me. Funny that - people need you to be unhappy about no longer being unhappy.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 07:35 PM
2

The same way cheeseburgers have diners at their disposal- if your the product the customer is in charge.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 07:16 PM
7

the pussy is out of the lululemons I need to get t-shirts printed with this. Gold my brother just gold.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 07:09 AM
1

The next time you are anywhere - store, whatever - just talk to whomever is next to you. Start doing this whenever you can. Pretty soon you will find you are good at having a conversation with anyone. Start with listening more talk about yourself only when you have "dead air" and nothing is going on. You will find you are far better at this than you think. Then later on - women, business, your family etc. will all come easier. Your life will improve and there will come a day when you don't remem…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 07:06 AM
1

That was me - devil may care DGAF when attracting and landing them. If I actually cared and made it a relationship I quickly slid.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 07:58 PM
5

Get in the habit of talking to strangers - the store, restaurants, etc. If the only time you ever try to start up a conversation cold is when you are trying to pickup a girl it wont be easy or natural. Get used to talking to everybody. Everybody becomes anybody. Anybody will often be the woman you want to go out with tomorrow night.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 07:47 PM
2

"also to minimize drama and the possibility of a woman doing something insane to ruin your life." Correction - hopefully minimize in some way a woman doing something insane to ruin your life.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 09:27 PM
3

Al Bundy - when that show was on there was a ton of truth hitting the airwaves.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 09:15 PM
1

"But the system does not give a fuck about you and you should not give a fuck about the system." I see three classes in my life - targets, civilians and those with immunity. Targets are people who have wronged you, known to do wrong or "the system". Little to no rules. Civilians are everyday joes, small businesses etc. Be on your guard but it's no open season. Immunity applies to family, friends who are known to be trusted. They get pretty much a pass until they prove otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 09:05 PM
5

I had a woman get pissed at me and trash some stuff in my house. A couple of weeks later (after she went to a shrink) she apologized and then waited for me to apologize as well. The shrink had told her I was partially to blame for letting her get that angry. Yes, the shrink was a woman but you already knew that.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:58 PM
1

Let's see- Dad - some, sparse Mom - some, but larger does of criticism Grandmother - plenty Grandfather - none, occasional criticism
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:21 PM
2

"And...he kept working" And that will be the result most of the time. When we (men) hit a wall with a task we have to walk away for a bit to see it in a new light. Getting negative input when that happens - and being threatened with unwanted anger - only amplifies the feeling of failure. We also then shift our frustration to you as you are now the source of current frustration. It's one thing to be angry at an appliance that's broken - it's another thing entirely to be getting angry from someone…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/15 07:12 PM
1

Tech has helped me. I use my calendar to set reminders for lots of stuff. It acts like a timer as well on the task I need to do. I also use fitbit - keeps me moving and motivated.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 08:04 PM
2

Upper 40's here
/r/askTRP19/06/15 07:22 PM
1

In America everybody gets a trophy just for showing up
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 06:13 PM
24

No you will hurt the feelz, you need to respect a woman just for her being a woman not anything she does. In the meantime for you my man get fit and ripped, earn big, learn the guitar, acquire property, be a complete badass, be sensitive, take no nonsense, be patient, be driven, don't focus too much on your career. Once you turn into Ryan Gosling with a nice 401k and the right house your almost there!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 04:00 PM
2

Its a new relationship (you are intimate now, the early days were a different dynamic) so she is seeing if this will be more than just casual sex. You gave her friendship in the past - she is seeing if she can still get that. So- Say no and she may fade\seek others. Say yes and you could be a couple - but be wary of passing all comfort tests 100% of the time. You still need to occasionally remind her that you have options and she needs to earn you. A great counterweight to this is social proof -…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 03:55 PM
1

The implication that married people are supposed to let themselves go is incredibly depressing. As marriage is currently mostly a women's benefit having a man who becomes less attractive to other women increases her feelings of security. Having been in 4 live-in LTR's I can also tell you all of them get jealous of anything that you enjoy without them- hence the apprehension and fear around any new hobbies\friends\interests.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 03:51 PM
1

You're also a status symbol to them - like a guy with a younger women on his arm. And it's validation - "see I can still get a hot young guy".
/r/askTRP19/06/15 03:47 PM
3

You have very high odds of getting hurt here. The new you has a pretty good chance of being the old you if you hookup. And if you do hookup I bet you will try to get into some kind of a LTR\serious relationship. And no matter how rosy your glasses are you will think of that love from your past banging every Chad you know while you laid in bed miserable. That will make you weak and even if you want to stay with her you won't be able to keep frame or forget the past.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:34 PM
4

2 years? When I was in my 20's had interest and closed on 30's\40's. Would have had more but I was fairly clueless then. Had two late 30's divorced women in a row. Don't know what it is but I was in. Did not do well with girls my age at that time due to low SMV and horrible clueless behavior. At different times the following happened with 2 different women. The go "I need some help, are you handy? Come over and hang picture\paint\fix this thing and I'll give you $$$. Come over, do work get paid …
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:31 PM
2

Agreed - also don't need social circles as much. If you keep yourself together, dress well and earn you can do fine. I'm in my late 40's and I get more attention now than in my 20's. Granted its women up to my age - but the ones close to my age tend to be tight and 25-30ish women in particular seem to open me up when I go out.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 06:13 PM
1

It's like real estate - location location location. A Green Bay 9 will be a 6 in Chicago. No offense to my brothers on the other side of the cheddar curtain.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:45 PM
1

"She doesn't take my brother's shit and she doesn't give him any shit." That, in my opinion, is the hardest to find. Easy to find one of the other.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:54 PM
1

You value goes up and it's a bit easier. Hopefully you learned something in your 20's. Watch out for how you handle this - I started getting fairly hot women and would quickly go to lock-up in LTR mode being so desperate to lock-in what at the time I thought were the only really hot women interested in me.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:43 PM
1

Drinks and dancing Have more drinks (preferably something unusual\expensive back at your hotel room. This is the excuse for going back - and helps them rationalize saying yes. Have music keyed up when you get in. Pre-game with the LTR if your are very sure she is down with making this happen. If not you need to make it appear like a lot of this is her idea and that you are gong along with you. Pile on a little praise here.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:35 PM
1

Whenever a woman starts to shame\humiliate you over something you do she is afraid and jealous of that thing
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 06:51 PM
1

Protip- no Mumford and Sons songs, ever.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:55 PM
20

Don't forget he had moved away and was on a trip so it's like she was somewhere else too.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:46 PM
1

2nd question first- it's probably not worth thinking about but a good reminder to not use TRP words when talking with others. Penny trick (or dimes). Let say you want to see if something got moved or opened. Take 3 coins (same denomination) and stack them in a patter you will remember. I do oldest to newest with alternating heads\tails. Place them at the edge of that book and the one next to it- they will fall and even if restacked will not be in the same order. You might get someone who moves t…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 08:44 PM
2

Recently dumped is the most likely. Sees you as the opposite of they guy she just left.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:00 PM
1

My LTR noticed some TRP reading material on the nightstand. I said its self improvement\career stuff. Let it pass. A couple of days later put it in the bookcase using the pennies trick to see if she takes it out when I am gone.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:48 PM
2

About 1 woman gets turned down for sex for every 10,000 men. They do not know how to handle no. She is going to be thinking about this for days. Either you will get the full-court press stalker-y version of her or she will tell everyone that you wanted her but she said no.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:42 PM
12

"She's 8 and a very red pill mentality girl" I'd wait until she was at least in college
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:39 PM
15

"She's really sensitive" = You better understand that I'm the center of your universe. Women (and some men) pull this to insure that they are always the most important thing in the room - or at least the most considered. It gives them power without the guilt of taking it as their perceived "sensitivity" is something they cannot control and therefore not their fault. Stop playing into this and see what happens. If she gets a little sad and then stops it's a bit of an act. If the going massively d…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:32 PM
1

Well Xenu is a woman after all don't believe the lies the patriarchy told about Xenu being a man.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:10 PM
1

Tumblrina wants you to know that men and women each having strengths and weaknesses is just a construct of the patriarchy to keep women down. All we need is social change and men will be popping out babies while the comp sci\engineering classes fill up with women.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:57 PM
2

So what's stopping you now from looking for a woman in her 20's?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:53 PM
1

I bet the women and tried and failed don't have a lot of outrage going on. I'll bet there are millions out there who see this as a great injustice.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:09 PM
1

Wall Street does not want this. Elected officials don't want this. You would have a tough road ahead of you my friend.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:09 PM
3

When I was in the 6th grade in 1979 I was selling playboy's to the rest of the class.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:08 PM
1

Agree with most of your thinking but change does not mean adapt. Sometimes change means extinction or change for the worse.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:06 PM
1

It's not just nowadays- old country people expect to share in everything. Dated a girl from the Philippines for a couple of years. It was expected that if you were doing well you would help out those who were not. At one point it was hinted to me that when\if we marry I will have to join in in "sending money back home" and helping out the odd uncle who never seemed to be able to hold a good job.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:42 PM
1

No. Emm ok well let me think about this again for a minute or two. No. Will hurt them - strip club is nothing like the real world. Start talking to everyone - start with clerks at stores. Say hi to anyone walking towards you. Get comfortable with talking before you decide to use your conversation skills to get a date.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 07:39 PM
1

Good story - you also get some of this from old country families who expect you to pay for stuff if you have the money.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 09:22 PM
3

So the guy who was sexing her just dumped her. Exactly - don't fall for it. If you fold now it just means a few months of "the new her" and then back to the old bad habits.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:54 PM
2

Can we call part #2 to this story "Maybe it's you?"
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 03:04 PM
1

If she think rocks have magic powers she is not Secular nor Rationalist. It's no different than thinking we all really came from Adam and Eve.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 03:03 PM
4

Saying "that's bullshit" is just fine. Thinking your well thought out argument as to why it's bullshit is wishful thinking.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 03:01 PM
1

I think there is a character limit here so I won't start.
/r/TRPOffTopic20/05/15 09:42 PM
2

ShervinMthe1 spot on. Having been down the BPD path I can say it's a game\challenge not worth taking. Look guys like to challenge themselves to see what they can do and what they can handle. Building an addition on your house, fixing up a car, taking on a really tough job all good. Having a fistfight with a grizzly bear not so much.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 03:58 PM
1

Holmes is a good one - the "crashers" shows I think are a little misleading. It's easy to knock out a project in a weekend when you have a skilled 10-man crew.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 03:43 PM
2

"crying is also a shit test 99% of the time" seattleron is spot-on for this one. Most of the time it comes after she does something mean or stupid and wants to get sympathy rather that take ownership for her actions.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 08:35 PM
3

Spot on 303 - it's doing all the things the lower classes do that people turn their nose up at (look at them drugs drinking screwing anything that moves) and then they get a plane ticket and since they are paying for it that makes it all ok.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 08:13 PM
2

"When your woman tells you to do something or fix something or handle something that, honestly, you really should have already done, fixed, or handled on your own, you are now the woman." That's was a tough one for me to admit to myself awhile back. Good post - you have to own your own shit if you want to be a leader.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:59 PM
2

Or having the furnace die that week when it is in the -10's. I dumped a cord of wood in my living room and used fans to circulate heat throughout the house.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:41 PM
1

And the worst thing is the clothes they send over for the clothing drives - can you imagine starving AND having to wear last seasons shoes?!?! No wonder they are all totally terrorists or something.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:40 PM
1

True - and I have done that. Had two majors in 6 years one about 4k one about $5500. Still cheaper than a new Camry - and no one says "oooh a Camry"
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:52 PM
2

Your kind of wrong - for these spoiled children of privileged sustainable means apples for $9 a pound and $5 for a cup of coffee. As long as the bag says it's good for the environment and costs enough money it's all ok.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:33 PM
1

If it's a special salt lick intended for bison then I could get behind that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:28 PM
1

It's not about being backwards - it's about abject poverty and being about 1-4 generations behind things like indoor plumbing. It's about kids dying by the 1000's due to bad drinking water but instead of doing something about that let's go ahead and make sure nobody claps at a conference because applause is a trigger. The comeback is how come you don't give a shit about dying babies? I have actually used that one, stirred the pot a bit too much but did shut down that topic for the night. You kno…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:28 PM
5

Many do. I don't ride but have a few friends that do and a couple of those are wrenches. So is about 50% of the Subaru owners I see around town. Your house is the same way - ton of stuff in there that is done wrong means fire, flood, roof caves in on your ass. Best to learn how to do that shit yourself- even if you get some help. I got a couple of young guys around 20 I can give $100/day to that are smart enough to follow directions. With them I can take on big projects without wrecking myself a…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:34 PM
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Also as I am not in my late 40's and have owned my own place for 25 years I can tell you the pro's you give $$$ too don't always do a better job. Looking at some of the work I paid for 15 years ago I see now I would have done better myself. Also fixing your own car is a great way to step into the luxury car bracket cheap- you want to drive a current corolla or a 12 year old SL550?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:30 PM
2

Exactly - first date sex never. This is because it's a date. Ask them "have you ever had sex with someone you met that day" and you will get another answer.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:55 PM
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This this this this Upper 40's guy here - start fixing your own shit. Toilets, appliances, cars everything. You will suck in the beginning. Installing my first toilet took about 5 hours and 3 trips to the store. My last one took about 15 minutes and I had all I needed at home. This is a primal man need - to take that which is broken and make it work. Get that shit done.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:28 PM
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"your vision of feminism is the upper class woman's sense of how the world works" Holy shit yes. Only those raised with every need never in doubt and a decent (or more than decent) spread of luxury can think like this. I assure her outside the West (and some areas of the West) your view of privilege, equality and responsibility would not survive the physics of your surroundings.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 05:24 PM
1

Yes there is It's the late 30's to early 50's woman who just got divorced. Go to any big city and hit the right places after work (not too late). Full of divorced single women. The higher $$$ the place the better in shape they will be (physically and financially).
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:50 PM
3

as far as she is concerned, it's your fault she cheated. True words - it's one of the hamster's most powerful kung-fu moves.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 09:23 PM
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In this case the grain is often about the size of a Buick Roadmaster
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 07:44 PM
10

Don't forget they always want what another woman has.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 05:37 PM
1

Not so much on the gravy train (although clearly feeling out how successful one is) but more of the "angry out the gate" attitude. It just seems to be a lot more anger issues and demands while you are just talking about nothing.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 05:38 PM
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The more I pay attention the more I come to the conclusion the wall is in her head and her mouth. I live in a very large city and there are ton's of women in the 35-50 bracket who are in amazing shape and attractive to this 40-something guy. Then the attitude shows itself and internally I go "not again"
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:09 PM
1

"We seem to have pretty wild swings in our physical relationship, but more often than not we get along pretty well." Which equals her saying- "I like you as a friend but you don't turn me on. I have sex with you when I am really horny but you don't do it for me"
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 06:42 PM
1

Age is a factor, but assuming I am looking at close to my age it's what I notice. And I notice it a lot.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:36 PM
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The wall is 80% in their head and 20% in their body. Younger women seem to be a lot less stressed and easier to talk to. I am in a LTR now that is circling the drain and have decided I need to get the abundance mentality pounded into my head when\if this one ends. So when I am out with friends I chat up women. When I talk to a woman around my age (40's) most of the time I don 't get a good vibe and they find a way to turn almost any conversation into a critique or complaint. Often volunteer thei…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 09:15 PM
0

Watch it - I think they were composing spoken word art using non-gender specific pronouns with concepts designed to smash the hetero normative power structure to pieces.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:36 PM
2

Comic just for males = Sexist patriarchy oppression Comic just for females = you go girl
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:14 PM
3

Women don't often know what they want but pretty much 100% of the time they want what the other woman has.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:06 PM
1

Having been in 4 LTR's I can state that 3 of them were a case of I was never buying the cow- I didn't want to get married. My current live-in is the last one I will ever do unless I know I want to get married and that she is the one.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 06:07 PM
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40-something guy posting here- Don't tell unless he asks Don't lie if you want a LTR - truth later will be far more impactful When a woman gives me history and pretty much every guy she has been with is "the most awful human being ever" I assume I will be the next "most awful human being ever". Breakups happen for reasons but math is math. Either you have the bad judgement\luck of only wanting to be with horrible people or you are the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 06:05 PM
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When you are young you will miss the signs of interest you get and misread interest that is not there, plain and simple. This was me for years. One time I girl I considered a friend was over and had some funky socks on. As she was leaving I commented on them and she said the underwear matches - and then unzipped her pants and showed me. We kissed, wound up in bed. Later she said that was the last straw- if I couldn't take that hint she was going to stop coming around.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 05:42 PM
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I've been thinking this for years. Think about how many times you told a woman about a bad experience you had only to hear "good, now maybe you will know how I feel"
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:27 PM
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Even the old fashioned conservative religious woman can be a mental patient.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:52 PM
5

And she says - "This is exactly the type of guy I want to be able to drop my kids off at every other weekend and two weeks during the summer.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:50 PM
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I dont think she is a bad person She is, or at the very least is doing things a bad person would do. You've already spent enough time trying to make this work. The reason why you getting into her being with another man is she is making you feel worthless and the guilt is transformed into doing something that pleases her, makes her happy and therefore for a period of time stops the verbal and emotional abuse she gives to you. Make an exit plan. Get a paternity test. Contact a lawyer before you do…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 05:30 PM
1

Actually appreciate hearing that she said that. I also work in IT and have heard that only once when a woman said after a man made a mistake and took down a server "I'm glad I'm a woman, I would not have got in the level of trouble you did" (it was about 15yrs ago so I am paraphrasing)
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:59 PM
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And spends 10 minutes describing what her "perfect guy" has to have. Then, when asked what do you need to bring to the table goes "He should want me for me"
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:25 PM
1

True as to the odds of a healthy child.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:24 PM
1

Hit some big cities with career women. I met a woman a couple of weeks ago 51 and she's tight. She still is 51 - little wrinkles, etc. but clearly spends a shit-ton of time and money on her body.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 06:04 PM
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Also ask could she even if she wanted to? I know effort\desire counts but don't get stuck in a trap where you think you have someone who can do something for you just because they want to.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 05:32 PM
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Spot on- she is probably better looking than he is and I'll bet he's the quiet type and she is always the life of the party everyone talks about. Also may be the first truly wild woman he has ever had.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 05:27 PM
1

The older I get the more I see the wall isn't physical so much as mental- they get to a certain state of mind that I do not want to be around.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 05:13 PM
1

i'm in my late 40's and get more interest from the 25-35 range than anything else. Women around my age not so interested. 20yrs younger? Now they chat me up.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:09 PM
2

I am seeing a business opportunity here . . . . can see the late-night infomercial now . . "From AlphaSpunk - a name You Can Trust - comes DesignerChowder! We'll even match your husbands genetic traits so he'll think it's his own child!"
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:04 PM
1

Unplate the crazy . . . . you got no ROI here
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:02 PM
3

Here is the piece that will work- "talk like them, and use their words." The trick is to use their dictionary with your content. A bunch of women telling one woman she's the victim? Sexist- how dare they say she's a weakling with no abilities. You're taking something that went bad and telling her she can't do anything herself. No, no we should always split the tab- I know it's going to be harder for a girl to grow up to be the CEO if she thinks she doesn't have to contribute. There's a bunch mor…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 07:13 PM
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Long time ago I had my GF coming over for us to go out to dinner\movie. I got distracted and jumped in the shower, got cleaned up with just enough time to greet her at the door in my towel. We were in bed in about 60 seconds and it was a pretty good marathon wild session. After she said "I knew we were not going to dinner" with a big smile and a laugh. She thought I planned it - greeting her at the door with a towel and wet hair. I never let on that it was not a plan and it became a standard - m…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 03:46 PM
1

Do not ask a woman for advice. The only exception is if you are going to do something and think it's a bad idea ask her without telling her that you think it's a bad idea. If she says do it, don't.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:00 PM
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Me now - I will never live with another woman Unless I am sure I want to get married and I am sure it's to them, as they are, right now" Here's some truth from a guy who is on his 4th live-in (and soon to be over). Live in #1 in my 20's- Didn't want to get married and if I did I knew it wouldn't be her. Thought it would be fun - sex and TV. Bad move on my part. Live in #2 early 30's - Wanted to get married. Knew it was not her, moved in anyways. Ended when I got a shot at . . . Live in #3 - mid …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 10:03 PM
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The only way you can be #1 is if she is a bad mom or the kids are out of the house. Either way it's not a good deal. Had a few great first weeks with single mom's- they see you as a vacation. At some point this will end and you will other be pseudo-dad or I'll get back to you. One single mom I was with married her BF sh had had since sophomore year HS. By age 27 she was done and at age 28 meet me (at age 22). So even though she had one guy (was not a party girl) it still made no difference - you…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:40 PM
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I was that guy and had my friends "soft next" me. For those reading this thread- think about if the women (or just a guy you were friends with) created a dynamic where your existing friends (and family) found a way to be around you less.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 08:04 PM
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Don't know about that. He ran a large resort so used to dealing with people when they are pissed off. But it was gold advice for me to just start calling women on their shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 09:00 PM
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She is also very young and hasn't seen shit yet- you need to keep in mind that 5-6 years ago she was in the 8th grade.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 06:57 PM
2

My first LTR had a gay friend from HS that we hung around with. This guy told me I need to not be so accomidating with her and that if I kept if up she would stop thinking of me as a man. He then for the rest of the night just tell any woman at the part "yapyapyapyap, shuttup, you're talking shit" everytime they would start spouting BS. Started doing that and it helped. I still slipped into my "I must be wrong, let me agree so she stops being mad" and the relationship went to shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:32 PM
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Never give in when threatened. Reward afterwards for good behavior. Looking back at all of my relationships - short or long - everytime I gave in under duress I created a situation where threats and bad behavior would be rewarded. The flipside is rewarding good behavior. Telling her you're going out for a night on the town after a great day is positive. Going out after she rants\threats that you do not go out is not the way to create a good relationship. To all the guys out there who don't under…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:23 PM
2

You can fine Brian and his sister all over Chicago. With almost zero exceptions none of them will have been born in Chicago- they will be from the burbs, out of state etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 03:41 PM
6

It does appear to be "truth serum". Men seem to exaggerate more when drunk. Women do "let me tell you what I really think".
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 03:36 PM
2

Good points and good practice. Everyone knows someone that often says out of the blue "You know what your problem is? . . . ." and I always thought not only is that flat-out bad manners but has a low % of success if that person was actually delivering something of value. At the end of the day a good idea delivered badly hurts the idea- you have now taken a good idea and wrapped it in a bad experience which weakens it in the mind of the subject who is receiving it. Please write a bit about your c…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 03:24 PM
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We can try but it will only work when the knowledge is sought after. Problem is so many don't want to hear it, and many who want to hear it don't want to do anything to make themselves better. One of the thing that a beta\feminized man gets from submitting to the will of others is he can now say "it's not my fault" as he is following the rules of others. The surrender of agency puts you into the victim\servant category where now so little is your fault because it's not your decision.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 02:59 PM
2

I also have a tough time not talking about a bad day. I got used to being able to unload when I got home. Keeping things to myself is not my nature and it's hard to change that. My new MO is to only talk about something bad if I have already resolved it. This does not mean talking about what you are going to do but only talking about it after its over. Counter intuitive to about everything people say about relationships ("always say everything") but it works well. The constant complaining about …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:17 PM
1

"Giving tingles IS being authentic. Don't over think it." Brother, you need to get this on a t-shirt.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:49 PM
1

What makes this interesting is a man who writes for lefty website HuffPost says he just figured out he doesn't trust his wife. Not in a "I'll cheat and steal" way but that he cannot take what she says at face value and that her feelings are often out of proportion to the situation. Interesting that a guy who is probably way to the left still sees "AWALT" and is struggling to wrap his head around it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:04 PM
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AWALT can be 24/7, most of the time, sometimes, seldom etc. You may have one who is solid 99% of the time- but that 1% can still do damage. Its why keeping AWALT in your mind keeps you safe and sane.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:58 PM
2

I was watching a movie a while back with my GF. It's a modern action movie so you have scenes of a 115lb woman (very fit) kicking 3 guys asses at once. This was a more realistic fight scene and she was getting hit pretty hard- bloodied and thrown about. The GF got very upset and we talked. I am paraphrasing as this was a while ago. GF - "I don't like that they were so rough, I didn't need to see that" Me- "She's an agent going after bad guys, she snuck into the place, it's either fight or run" G…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:56 PM
0

In LTR your job is to listen to her talk about her feelings. This is also the job her female friends and family have. You are making her feel like she is not with her man and lover but with another woman.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:43 PM
1

Thinking about this a little more it reminds me of a guy - super liberal guy I knew, college teacher, vegan, crunchy as hell, the kind of guy that would loose his mind on /r/trp. One day we were all outside and his wife came back quite upset over something that had happened at the store. He was calming her down, listening, agreeing with everything. When she left I gave him a look and he said "You can't take anything a woman says when she is upset at face value and women are upset a lot of the ti…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:25 PM
0

AWALT for me is still a matter of degrees- you have some that are 100% not viable, and some that are lower. It's a matter of AWALT 24/7 or on occasion. Keep this in mind brother- you have a better chance of a successful relationship keeping AWALT in mind.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:06 PM
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"What Are the Warning Signs? - Extreme jealousy or insecurity - Constant put-downs - Possessiveness or treating you like property - Telling you what to do - Constantly checking in on you - Explosive temper - Making false accusations ---- LOL - Isolating you from your friends and family - Preventing you from doing things you want to do” Sounds like a few women I have been with.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:58 PM
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Great post brother. Been a serial LTR guy for years (late 40's here) and never married. From what I understand now in the past I did plates as auditions for LTR then dumped the plates and rolled my time into the LTR which failed. I see the ups and downs you have had and see many of mine and even more missed opportunities. Nice commenting on the children of the LTR you have known- over the years I have been able to do some of what you have and it does make me smile from time to time. Heading out …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:14 AM
2

And I can, have and did get laid- and that's part of my problem. If I never was able to land a woman I would be in a large paid-off house with a nice retirement fund thinking if I want to work until 55 or 65. But I got some and I got stupid. And part of that stupid was thinking I could use my wallet to fix my relationships. Now I know that is not the case.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:03 AM
1

Interesting that in our past you had such an extreme ratio. I imagine a culture where only the most successful were able to have children. When people tell you "life's not fair" you can say it's been worse.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 06:13 AM
2

Agreed that it's well off, just not at the "so much money I can be ugly" level.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 04:09 PM
5

You know what hits the wall first? The attitude.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 10:15 PM
3

It's self-ego preservation It's also ego inflation. Does she want to think about the guy she could not get, or another "yet still another guy hitting on me doesn't he know how high my standards are" Still true as to preservation though. Had one of my sister's friends - about the fattest\shortest woman I have ever seen- say "I can't sleep with you- you're my best friends brother and that would be like incest". Just out of the blue.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:20 PM
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"Back in my BP days, I pitied these women, and wondered to myself how somebody could go through life with their default mood being "miserable". Now I know that they've done it to themselves, and I harbor no more pity for them." So true- I used to actually seek out the 6/7's who just seemed "to never have got a fair shake at life" and I was going to treat them well and show them how great it could be. Results can best be summed up in a quote by Abraham Lincoln "People are about as happy as they m…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:14 PM
1

All true- it's about getting the eyeballs the advertisers wants. Social justice has jack-all to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:10 PM
1

Stop being all pissy that you had to do something to get women. You were not born rich or hansome- get over it. Grin like an idiot over the fact that you woke your ass up and did something. There's a guy with movie star looks, family money and naturally smooth? Yeah his ass was born lucky and he probably never thinks about it. How about how many guys who are in your old situation and will never get out? Good for you for doing something. Don't get to made about needing to learn some new skills an…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:07 PM
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Depends on where the 200k is. Middle of fucking nowhere in smalltown USA yea. Any big city in the US is swimming in divorced\single guys in their 40's making that (and more).
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:58 PM
5

Keep in mind in your 40's in a big city its not really killing it- just doing well. Also being any kind of catch in your 40's separates you from the pack.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:56 PM
2

In my bottom feeder days I slept with a fat girl a couple of times. Not the "she needs to loose 25lbs" I mean "she weighs more than I do" fat. The physics are real- you need a new angle for PIV, you can't grind because her belly tilts your body and you can't get full penetration. You can't go down on her because you can't breathe. Not that she stunk (she did not) but the fat on her mons made it so your nose was blocked. This was 25 years ago, we both in our 20's and I remember her talking about …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 07:37 PM
6

That was both brilliant and the right think to do. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 07:28 PM
7

"I also fear that she may attempt to kill herself if I break up with her." With the understanding that this is selfish you need to get away from someone like this anyways. Unless you are already on the road to marriage, married or family you stay away from crazy. What she is doing is establishing codependency. She is going above and beyond for you and needs you to do the same. If you are together long enough she will either self-harm or actually harm you when you do not reciprocate to the level …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 06:38 PM
2

Young men take heed of columbianguys words "Never move in with a woman whom you're romantically involved with; she will inevitably take over all your personal space somehow, leaving you with no male sanctuary, which all men absolutely need for rest/escape from their women. (Only do this when you're either married or definitely going to be in the immediate future, but be sure to have a space for you and only you that she never intrudes upon.)" Having stupidly done this for the 4th time now (and v…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 06:34 PM
2

Been in a few LTR's and have done the need\want talk before. 0 for 3 on positive reactions (one quite upset). If you are not married she wants to be wifed up and your independence may be mistaken as you are thinking about leaving. You might be in a period where you need to give her reassurance that you are not going anywhere. DO NOT let her use her neediness to extract big concessions.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 06:26 PM
1

Did almost the same thing I said "I love that we both love each other but don't need each other". Major crying jag started. When we broke up a couple years later she still remembered it and said that's when she first started thinking it would not work out. Woman try to create a level of dependency with you in order to feel secure that you won't leave. When that does not work they get very nervous which means crying, screaming or both.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:56 PM
1

My Take MRA = Complain about it, write a letter. Read it for a few weeks and then stopped- not a lot there to help me. MGTOW = See point but not checking out myself. PUA = I need to have sex with a lot of women or I can't get any women interested in me what am I doing wrong. Interesting but too vertical. TRP = A bit of all of the above plus a bigger dose of "get your shit together, here's one way to do it". Also seems to have a more diverse group posting.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:51 PM
1

I have been doing a version of that one for 20 years. I used to throw in the injustice of gay marriage being illegal as well. Was sometimes hard to keep a straight face tho
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:31 PM
1

Your thirties will be amazing- don't waste any of it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:25 PM
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Can we get this into a movie?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 09:24 PM
1

In my 40's lifelong native.
/r/GEOTRP06/03/15 09:55 PM
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Was friends with a lesbian couple for about 5 years. They had a 3 bedroom townhome- one bedroom for when they were not fighting a seperate bedrooms for each one when they were. P (the more masculine one) told me at least one day a week H would tell her to go sleep in "her room". Also at least one day a week H would just say "I'm staying in my room". So basically about a 1/3 of the time too angry to sleep in the same room with each other. Also knew an older lesbian couple (late 50's\early 60's) a…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:38 PM
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Not lately- been that way since the dawn of time. Full serving of fun with only a dash of responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 11:17 PM
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It's also "soft racism". A part is "oh, he's not educated and doesn't know any better, poor thing". Makes her feel better about her art school degree.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:21 PM
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Hell yes, its the equivalent of a 300lb women seeing a size 8/10 in Victoria's Secret and going "wow I'm sexy too!!!!"
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 08:45 PM
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"hearing and seeing without judgement." I would like to tell you about some stuff I did (or think) and you need to accept this as the truth and be OK with it. By 5 minutes I mean pretty anytime I seem to be doing something that doesn't make sense or offends you. It goes without saying that you will get 5 actual minutes to do this to me on your birthday. I must warn you that if you take advantage of this offer you will not get laid on your birthday.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 09:10 AM
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Was he always heavy or is this new? How about his parents\siblings- in shape or does he come from a heavy family? If he's from a heavy family he might see himself as doing well because the rest of them are so unhealthy. I have to ask what about other aspects of his behavior? Putting on weight is a sign of poor discipline and taking pleasure now not worrying about the consequences later. Is he working on his career, friendships, family etc.? He could be a guy who already peaked and will slowly sl…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/15 01:46 AM
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. . . . . And she falls back in love when the fund cracks 500k . . .
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 01:15 AM
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And when "respecting women" = for doing nothing and no matter what they do. I was in a conversation when a woman says you need to respect me. I said "for what?" and she went off. I told her if you get happy getting respect from someone who knows nothing about they type of person you are and what you accomplished then that is cheap respect and I wouldn't want it. Got a lot of nods around the table. Probably forgotten by most the next day.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 12:21 AM
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It's important not to get too upset during this time. It's like getting mad at the rain or snow- it's weather and physics. For me TRP is seeing how things work and how I can do better within the system that exists now. In my pre-TRP days I spent too much time with "that's not fair" or "that's not right". Now without drama I see what's going on and 4 out of 5 times TRP knowledge yields a better course of action.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 12:16 AM
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What interesting is that in the "plus size" stores she is probably the most in-shape woman in the store. I'm almost 50 and grew up lusting after women who by todays standards would be considered a little heavy. What boggles my mind is there are women reading this at 5'4" and 250lbs thinking "gawwwd see I'm soooooo hawtttt" A rounder ass and ample chest does not equal you will be in scooter chair with you insulin pump before you reach 50.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 12:00 AM
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It's more than that- it's how to run a house. Add value to the relationship. Raising kids, keeping the home running well is no easy task if you want to do it well. My grandmother probably spent 3-5 hours a day on the house- and that was after her kids were grown and left. My neighbors wife stopped working after their 2nd child turned 3. She will go back to work when the youngest gets to junior in highschool. They have less income because of this but they decided to make sure their kids were take…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:54 PM
1

The point I was making is I know if I want to keep a quality woman I need to keep on improving myself and not take my foot off the gas so she knows she made the right choice. I am stating that women who want to keep a quality man should think about doing the same. At the end of the day its this- do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who throws in the towel and decides they don't need to be as good as when you met them? We all age, time marches on. I don't expect my woman to loo…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 11:48 PM
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"The trouble is the men that excite her will not marry/commit to her." The other side of that is often she won't commit to them. Women often say "I want him to want me just for myself" which means "I don't need to do anything better or special to keep him". It's the delusional thinking that she does not need to up her game to get him to commit when she already knows he has options. Women don't need to compete like men do in their teens\20's even 30's these days. Women have a list of what they wa…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:36 PM
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"Never use Straight talk in a highly professional environment, unless it's with a highly trusted male colleague. " Young men take heed of this advice.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:41 PM
1

I often ask bass and trout for fishing advice.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:30 PM
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Actually hoping that happens- she's prone to explosive reactions and this will get her our of the house.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:26 PM
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There is always someone who says "It was so much better in the olden days". It's a rose-colored glasses view that cherry picks the best and ignores the rest (and most likely the best is already 50-90% BS).
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:46 PM
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Forgot to mention it was 4 live-in LTR's. And yeah when this one ends don't see myself having another. About the only drama-less one was with a girl from overseas. Left her because I was getting to many IOI's from women who were far more attractive. Probably a dumb move on my part but mistakes get made. Agreed that there is no "no drama" situation. When I talk with a woman now I ask about her parents, family etc. Using the tools I got here it's often spot on as to what type of a woman you are de…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 07:41 PM
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Been in 4 LTR's and a couple 6-12 month dating relationships. I'm almost 50 and never married. Two things all women have in common- 1. They don't want to have to tell you what to do. 2. They want to tell you what to do.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:59 PM
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"tl;dr: Wife is upset that I didn't engage two of her former sexual partners in mortal combat when I heard them talking about her" or TL;DR man commits to woman who was a tramp without reservations- and she's still not happy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:50 PM
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this no matter what you do, she will be mad. This will be true for all women, all time. The only difference is the frequency and size of the shitstorm that follows.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:48 PM
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Crabs in the bucket- when one shows initiative and tries to get out the others try to bring them down. Instead of saying "how can I do that" it becomes "it's gotta be someone else fault, not mine"
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:48 AM
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I think there is also a "Stockholm syndrome" at work here. You have a guy who agrees with the inflated BS he has been fed (male privilege, women have zero power, the only difference between the sexes is society etc.) and says "OK, I see a couple kernels of truths here and I want to reform". And he is taken prisoner (or goes willingly) and begins to identify and think like his captors. Then he reforms and conforms to this new social construct he has been given. But he's an educated man and a thin…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:53 AM
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Gold above my friends. The ability for a woman to suspend disbelief in the face of physics is quite large. As long as they believe something to be true it is. Men do this as well but in my experience women seem to do it more. Keep in mind for women truth lies in the perceived motivation and not just in the action? She knocks over and breaks something of yours? It's only because she was working hard to do something nice for you. You do the same thing? It's different because you did it because you…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:57 PM
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HuffPo = People magazine for people who don't want to admit they read People magazine. Also for writers who are willing to work pro bono.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:42 PM
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TRP offers advice on how to get a woman interested in you. Guys then use what they have learned to start a relationship with a woman. That could be very brief (one night) or LTR. He is young and may not be interested in LTR. You should tell him what you want\will accept. He may not be honest in this regard- consciously or unconsciously. Check out the /r/redpillwomen sub to see what other women who want a quality RP man are doing to make that happen. Many of your friends will say "just bang him a…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:49 PM
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If you have not met in person then odds are 4:1 you are sending them to a man. My guess is you don't want to be another guys jerk-off material.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:38 PM
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You are like a drunk that has 100's of bottles of booze in the house. Get rid of the liquor and you won't be tempted. Delete, delete, delete.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 09:30 PM
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Older guy here and have had 3 live-in LTR's. Unless you want to get married and you know you want to marry him do not do that. I will not have another live-in LTR unless I know for sure I want to get married and I want to marry her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 09:26 PM
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Current GF (I suspect to soon be ex-GF) is being encouraged by her new BFF (woman from office she has known for a few months) to get out there and date.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:39 PM
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Amen- guys while all of your snowflakes may look a little different, they are still snowflakes.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:37 PM
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A while back I had dinner where we drank 3 or 4 bottles of wine. Conversation rolled around to mixed drinks (the fancy variety). With wine glass in hand the hostess said "I don't drink so I don't have a favorite one".
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:36 PM
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To bad about your current state. Now get off your ass and get in shape. You are letting the weight of all of your problems stop you from doing anything. I was wearing 38" pants and heading towards 40's 3 years ago. Now a 34. Didn't happen over a weekend. Move your ass.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:56 PM
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She is still hot and it just did not occur to him that she was interested. He's awkward and its appearant on his show. I was about 22 and had a girl, 18, very hot from work show up at my place unannounced with a tight tank top, short shorts and a fresh apple pie made from apples she picked with her sister the previous day. She had made only 3 pies brought one over to me. I was taken by surprise, thanked her stood in my doorway and then said goodbye and went back to watching TV. About 5 hours lat…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:36 PM
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Another thing- many American's don't see wine as drinking. Liquour (stright or mixed) = drinking. Beer = drinking. Wine somehow does not mean drinking. Wine is also good for providing enough social lubricant to get things moving without getting blotto. It takes a lot of work to get smashed on wine.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:20 PM
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One of my biggest regrets bar none.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:12 PM
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I did too and my family started treating me differently. One uncle told me about a job I might be interested in, I got asked to more events. I started being treated like an adult and it's a big ego boost to someone in their early 20's who only a couple of years ago was basically a teenager living like a broke college student. Men do want to be the responsible person, the "captain". And this relationship gave me that with a flick of a switch. I wasn't ready for it and even if I was she wasn't the…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:19 PM
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Here is what I had with a single mom I was with in my very low SMV 20's- She treated me like gold- I mean went the extra mile. While I had low SMV I was a couple years younger and kind of earning ok. Sexy clothes in bed, cooking while I watched football, pretty much made every day good. As she had low SMV for a period of time she went out of her way to make me happy, see to my needs and made me feel like a king to keep me. My family started looking at me as a saint and more of a man\less of a bo…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:56 AM
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And what's not TRP- Give us % of your money Leave us your money - some or all No premarital sex If you work for us (join the priesthood) no women, no money for you. Here is what you should eat on Friday. Here is what you should eat during a 40 day period in the spring. Here is where you need to be on Sunday. See this water? Now I will wave my hand over it and give it special properties. No science please. If you follow these rules you won't get anything now but when you die it will be totally aw…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:50 AM
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Keep in mind women usually don't know what they want, but they know they want what other women want, have or have had. Watch the way a woman will talk to other women to find out what she wants. The story is "it's the process" and she is just talking it out to reach her own decision. I believe she is working to make sure what she wants is approved of and also wanted by the other women. Guys will ask "what do you think of this car" and hear out the pros\cons. Women seem to be more concerned with m…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:44 AM
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He does to me as well. He's the nice guy you keep around as a friend because he's entertaining but he is a kiss-ass on the show. Everything and everyone is the best ever and he usually cannot hold himself in a conversation. When I tune in because someone who I want to see is on I FF through most of the show. Not surprised he didn't see or didn't want to see this blatant pickup. Ferguson on the other hand owned his space and it didn't matter who was on- it worked.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:39 AM
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This in spades. When they get older they have less men pursing them. So if you are even 1/2 decent you might be in for some crazy action. Things that have happened to me- Denting every single panel on my car. Smashing of TV, computer, other items in house. Asking for my help to move a couple of things. Then calling my house to tell my GF (whom I had not mentioned this too) what I was doing. Also telling current GF that's it's her birthday, she had food and wine and that I might be a little late.…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:52 PM
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I would never have let my GF move in with me. (and I did that 3 more times including now in my late 40's). Never had started smoking. I thought being active and not getting fat was good enough. Now in physical therapy. Exercise men, exercise. Done a better job of keeping my mouth shut. Would not associate with criminals\sketchy people. Goes for 24\7 wake-n-bake types as well. 6. Would have spent more time with my family (grandparents, mother, etc.) and less partying with the people I don't talk …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:57 PM
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Keep in mind it's the kind of 40s\50s age range guy whose on Reddit. 47 here BTW
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:23 PM
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Also good to do a little ROI and if for little time\effort\$$$ you can up your reputation it's almost always a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:01 PM
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It has been my experience the more a woman says something about herself the more she is trying to convince you (and herself) that it's true when it's not.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:46 PM
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People judge you by your college, company you work for or your car becuase its part of the accepted status system. They don't have to design or build anything- just get accepted or buy someone elses work. The idea is I have value because I have the socially accepted signs of success. I went to this school, now work here and have this awesome car. I could be a total dick, not that bright, a smart guy or whatever- your first impression of me from a current inventory point of view is that I have it…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:42 PM
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Exactly it, watch the terminology. When I wrap it in the "tofu-TRP" speech a get a lot of nods. For the first couple of months here I was a little more evangelical as to a desire to get out the message, mentioned this sub to other guys. Now I don't bother and when I do engage verbally in TRP it's wrapped up to a point where it goes down easier. It's like those treat pill pockets for dogs. They won't take the medicine if they can see or taste it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:29 PM
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Ok so if this is going be a a LTR thing then you want her to contribute 15k more which will go to pay down the principle. Keep in mind that is for an equitable arrangement which is different that the "protect yourself" line of thinking.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:54 PM
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Think about how you may have tried to hook up a buddy with a girl. Your buddy is not good with women, maybe a bit of a loser etc. It's the same with women- they want their freinds to be happy, even the crazy ones. I am willing to be her friends treated you really well and sometimes went out of their way to make sure you were with her at group outings, parties, dinners etc. They knew they would have a better time with her if you were there.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:52 PM
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While you son is involved you need to know what's going on in that house. Sad to say while you don't have to bend over backwards you need to keep that channel open- or someone else will.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 11:46 PM
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4 months = LTR you are probably young. I will also bet do not have a lot of money. Also 4 months is not break the bank time. This is a leadership opportunity. Plan a night (or the weekend) with activities. DO NOT give some lame ass card that says "whatever you want to do". You don't have to spend a lot of money- and make sure you rock her world that weekend. I would say getting some lingerie would be a good idea - women do like to dress up for bed. Get two sets- one fairly sexy and one completel…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 11:44 PM
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"Just do it for yourself" would be fine if you want to be a hermit If you don't worry about a career and only want to masturbate then that's just great. Keeps the competition down. The rest of us will earn and have a good time.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:39 PM
1

Men and women in a nutshell. Old joke- Couple goes to a marriage counsleor who asks them both to list their complaints. Wife goes first and for 30 minutes give everything that bothers her- his socks on the floor, watching football, his haircut etc. The the doctor says "let's see what your husband doesn't like about you" The husband goes "Only that she doesn't like all those things about me". Men are the true romantic sex. Woman want to be the object of romance- they don't want to contribute to i…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:37 PM
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Keep fucking her after she's came. Best move ever- multiples etc. Every guy has his moves- this is a big one of mine. Great turn on for me as well as I know she is pretty much loosing her mind at this point.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:20 PM
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I stutter. Not as bad now but up til my 20's real bad. At the grammar school level the girls made fun of it much more than the boys. Every now and then I still get some shit. One of the comebacks that seems too work well in a group setting- "Oh wow you find a small speech impediment funny? I bet someone in a wheelchair or blind must be hysterical? Do you hand out by handicapped parking for a good laugh when you are having a bad day?"
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:17 PM
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She was jealous of the plant plain and simple. And did damage to something you cared about and enjoyed because of that. She wanted to forget about it -and more importantly for you to forget about it. Next steps would have been your friends and family.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:14 PM
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A lot of the time women's questions are statements and statements are questions. They don't use Webster's dictionary or adhere to rules of grammar. With TRP you are seeing exactly how this works. In my own damaged LTR I am attempting to bring "common tongue" to the relationship with very mixed results. I am moving over to what you just did. Problem is that is hard to do in a fast or heated conversation.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:52 PM
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Anything by Mumford and Sons.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:49 PM
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"As many see it, Cuoco worked hard and with that and a lot of support from her family she now has a lucrative career and a good marriage. 1000's are now working on explaining how her success can be attributed to people other than herself, friends and family" "Up next- where the Pilgrim's who landed at Plymouth Rock actually responsible for the Apollo moon landing?"
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:45 PM
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He took his foot of the gas plan and simple. Her PhD may be in a BS field but she sent a clear signal and he decided to take it easy. Not saying she made a good LTR prospect but he sent out a clear sign that he lacked ambition. He's young so being broke while trying to get something going is ok (like your own business, school etc.). Coasting never works out.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:38 PM
2

Oh and forgot- the spa package was over $200 and he got some.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:27 PM
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One thing women need to understand is for men the teasing, giving a hard time ball busting is how to show each other we are friends and are comfortable with each other. Men learn the "no fly" zones over time (what areas are off limits) and work each other over on the other areas. Women see this and cannot understand how we can be apparently verbally abusive to each other and be friends. Here is why- I can say these "mean" things to you because you know I am your friend, I am not out to get you a…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 12:38 AM
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Figured that out a little while ago. Runs against logic and the training we get from society- but its true.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:25 AM
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Even more then let themselves go physcially is the rest of it. I'm in my 40's and know that time will take its toll no matter how well I take care of myself. I could handle my LTR\wife getting a little heavier, body sags etc. and I think most guys can and still be happy. It's the small arguments are now big ones. Sex gets less frequent and rockstar sex becomes a quarterly event. Things you once did on occasion (and even cut back on) are now taboo. I know a guy in his 50's married to a pretty stu…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 12:24 AM
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That was me in my 20's. Questions to save your ass- Did you both contribute to the down payment? Are you both on the mortgage? Are you both contributing equally to the payments? If 1 and 2 are you you are doing well. If 3 is true then you are doing well. Once someone is on the loan regardless of the down payment you are co-owners of the house and the debt. If she did not contribute to the downpayment you can try to get her to sign a "quit claim deed" but only after you get her off the loan. This…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:46 PM
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Chicago girl quick assessment at the best. Seen that a lot. Sat in a room and watched 4 women discuss one womans date the night before- about the same as this story. She had reached the same conclulsion and she decided that while she enjoyed making out there would not be a second date or sex. Later when flowers and a card from a high-end local spa arrived at the office they huddled back up and decided to call the spa and see how much the spa package cost (this was around 2000 or so). If the spa …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:38 PM
2

I watched Barry Lyndon when I was about 19-20 and again in my 30's. A very unrated film IMHO and has a lot of TRP naked truths about life. A couple more the poster did not hand out as they would be spoilers. One part I found to be interesting was watching Barry trying to buy his Alpha status (and title) after his marriage. The more he tried the more his clueless nature came out. His inability to function in the very wealthy circles he was trying to integrate himself into was painful. I can still…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:27 PM
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"I've only slept with five guys." Can confirm- having drinks with a mixed crowd and 2 women both agreed that a hook-up, one night stand or "a guy just for sex a couple of times" doesn't really count- it's only the ones they wanted or expected some kind of a BF\GF relationship with.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:01 PM
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I would imagine that will be the case much of the time. It's like a completed crossword puzzle- if the interest is the project\challenge once over you are no longer interesting. What I also believe is that women that do this don't realize that if you make fundamental changes what you have is not what you started out with. So either you didn't want him in the beginning or you won't have what you liked at the start.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:57 PM
1

Gotcha, so I would get into a marriage if I wanted have and raise children. LTR outside of marriage (dating, live-in etc.) for me kind of evolved without much thought- probably why it did not work out all that well.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:54 PM
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It's the type of delivery I use when trying to slip a little TRP nugget into a conversation with women.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:47 PM
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Them: You need a woman's love to be complete You: How will I attract and keep a high quality woman without being a high quality man? A bit of BS (you may not be thinking about LTR) but a nugget of truth to hand out- especially to women.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:44 PM
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Here is the DINK trap. It's not the money- it's the idea that without kids marriage will be like dating without any of the work of finding a date. I was in the DINK trap with 2 women (in one now) and I can tell you that even in a line-in situation you will have have a wife even if she is not a mother. The point of this story is starting from equal levels $$$ wise may be hard to maintain. The point that is missed is that even when kids never enter into the equation a lot of the same pressures and…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:18 PM
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Men have been the most romantic gender for some time. Here's how it goes- Men - meet a woman and just blissfully happy. Love pretty much everything about her and don't mind the minor blemishes. Wishes she would never change. Woman- Meets a guy and wants a LTR. He just needs to get new friends, job, haircut spend less time with his family and start acting different. A man will get a woman like a cherished new car and take care of it, knowing it will age but doing what's needed to keep it on the r…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:53 PM
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It's illogical to think that all types of women are suitable for LTR. It's logical to assume that a woman that sleeps with a number of men above the average is more likely to exit a LTR and one with a lower count is more likely to stay in the LTR. This logic can be applied to fidelity as well. As the man says "it's arithmetic"
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:46 PM
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It's an immediate attention getter and it makes people that know her notice the change and ask why. So- She looks in the mirror and knows she will stand out more. Feels empowered that she dares to be different. Friends, family etc. will ask why and it's an opportunity to talk about the breakup and herself. It's part of the process many women have. Guys cave\get drunk and then make the inevitable "improvement plan". Most continue caving\drinking. Also call up every woman they orbit and sob thinki…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:39 PM
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It's well said, thoughtful. Honest and respectful while still having heart and clearly laying out how you feel. You clearly state in no uncertain terms how deep your affection is for her and how great of a man you would be in her life. At this point in the film she leaves her "bad guy" husband and shows up at your door with a suitcase. More than likely it produced an "eeeeww, he wanted to have sex with the whole time?!? Gross, I never had sex with my friends." You were trained well that a sincer…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:23 PM
1

You also have friends of crazy women who meet you and think 'wow, he is awesome she needs to keep him he will fix her'. Her friends viewed me as something she needed to be happy, control mood swings, etc. And I got real good at it. Trouble is she starts to hate you for it and your life becomes traveling therapist 24/7.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:29 PM
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Victim = Not My Fault Like the man said the greatest thing you can have is your own agency - the ability to shape your destiny. Accepting victim-hood deprives you of this.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:09 PM
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Tells you painful sexual moments from her past after you've been dating for a while and it's kind of serious- evaluate. Tells you painful sexual moments from her past the first time you're in bed- might be time to move on. Serious trauma is not an easy thing to talk about. Not so much a shit test as a sign she identifies as a victim too easily (before anything else) and that type of a personality seldom takes responsibility for their own actions.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:59 PM
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Do you want to have and raise children? Do you think she would do a good job of being a wife and mother? If you can't give a yes - not a sounds good or sometimes when I'm really happy with her then its a no-go. Don't do it if the happiness she brings you is what is changing your mind- if you don't want it then even a great woman should not change that. And if being with a good one for the first time has you thinking about marriage & children then you should take a pause. Not saying break up, jus…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:50 PM
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And another possibility is she did it for the attention and drama that will ensue. It's not the first time a woman has started or tried to start a fight between two guys. I have seen and know a woman who admitted doing this on purpose because it excited her. Generates drama, high emotions. I bet after he challenged you he got some pretty wild sex (perhaps many days worth). I also bet that it won't be the last time she does this. She gets to bang somebody new and then gets an even bigger turn-on …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:30 PM
1

It's like modern youth sports where everyone gets a trophy. Everyone is an exceptional hero, and everyone is a victim. And in the end the real heroes and real victims go unnoticed by all the fog created by the need to make sure everyone gets something.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:37 PM
2

Might have been me- or perhaps a lot of us have had the same experiences. I think it might be both.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:34 PM
2

Nope at least I had that much good sense.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 03:33 PM
2

For those saying OP is either (a) full of it or (b) nah brah they buy me a drink because I have high SMV keep in mind OP states he is overweight and unattractive. Let me tell you a story. A good friend of mine (about 20 years older) had a buddy from work who took out a lot of women. Was not good looking, did not make a lot of money. He did chat up and ask out almost every woman he met. When I was about 19-20 he gave me his playbook. Look for a wedding ring - if no then start Ask questions and le…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 09:37 PM
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Upvote solely based on the "fap to the snap" comment.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:54 PM
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You know where the US truly innovates in the manufacturing space? Victims. Within 20 years almost 98% of the country will be registered victims. You know who gets hurt by this? The woman whose husband beats the hell out of her. Imagine her sitting in group therapy- cast on her hand, bruised face. Across from her is a woman looking well crying about how she was only allowed xxx$'s a month and could only get manicures "at the good place' for special occasions. As each new flavor of abuse\victim is…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:38 PM
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Had a crazy GF and one by one as her friends got more confortable with me they would drop the following (I am paraphrasing here) She is nuts and it's not you. She has had great guys and drove them all away. You need to get out of this. Sad to say I didn't listen.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:53 PM
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Wasn't talking about England- mostly the garment industry around the world that employs mainly women. When I think about who buys the most clothes, shoes etc I think women. And buying goods made by women who don't get treated all that well. So we see weekly "women MBA's make 4.2% less then men" but maybe buried on PBS at 2AM a documentary of how that 300$ purse got made by someone getting 4$/day and the factory bosses shaking down the women for sex. Not saying white women (or western) don't get …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:41 PM
2

I also bet the following- She was seeing other guys in the beginning, but stopped thinking she could be happy with this guy in and out of bed. The "other BF was cheating on her" Odds are she also did that and more than once. She probably "slipped" once or twice during the relationship. New guy not only does it for her in bed (or will) but she also considers him LTR material- just wants to make sure before she loses the security of her current relationship.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:33 PM
1

It's probably the one biggest thing that got women interested in me in my 20's. I looked bad and was pretty broke. I was also willing to do what others would not. I'm not saying take major legal risks or rob a bank- I am saying if you occasionally do something a bit risky\sketchy it's a big win. A buddy of mine used to do this move. He would be out and shoplift a sandwich from the convenience store when he was with a girl. She would usually freak a bit when he was doing it. He would then hand it…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:26 PM
0

One thing to remember- it's fiction. It's ok to use it as a tool- keep in mind the script is written and the outcome is already known.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:21 PM
1

Draper is alpha and plays better than any other character. He also shows what you need to avoid- too much drink and making the woman your mission. Make your life your mission- not your mission in life as a means to get more women. Have your mission - the rest will follow. Adama from BSG- does what is needed, makes the hard choices and knows when to delegate. Munch while on Homicide. Kramer on Seinfield- does what makes him happy, takes DGAF to another level. Take away a little aspie and dress be…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:20 PM
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This in boatloads. Your value shots through the roof- espaically with women in your age group. Younger women will flirt with you openly and often enough over a better looking 23yr old guy. Have fun with the 45yr old milf who hits the gym every day and sees you as another piece of exercise equipment. Bask in the glow of the 20-25yr old women who 10 years ago didn't even want to give you the time of day and now see you as a hot property. Decide you think you can defy the odds and get married\have …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 11:13 PM
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Agreed you have to show some level of empathy and be the dad as well as the boyfriend\husband. The key is dispensing empathy and assistance from a level of leadership and not servitude. Don't ask what she wants- bring her what she wants. Leadership sometimes means doing for those who depend on you and follow you. Abdicating the decision making process turns you into a resource and an employee.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:59 PM
3

Went to my grammar school reunion (grades K-8). Was the fat kid with glasses who read scifi, had a computer etc. Almost none of the guys from my age group showed up but about 12 women did- all of them but one pretty much from the "pretty girls" clique that ruled grades 6-7-8. Now in good shape, dressed like I earn and getting attention. Bunch of facebook invites. Expressions on the face clearly showing surprise. Not saying this to make me feel good. I see some posts lately of "waaa I'm a looser\…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:56 PM
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It would truly not matter what she looked like or how easy- I would not go near that based solely on what I just read.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:49 PM
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"Perhaps because the perpetrators weren’t the white middle-class men who are feminists’ preferred villains." Or perhaps because the victims were not middle or upper class American women. There is a subtle racism at play that anyone outside of the US and western Europe is not as worthy. Pretty white girl from a family earning over 200k a year goes missing on a vacation in the Caribbean? Year-long manhunt. 1000's of girls in poverty 10,000 miles away getting raped and forced into marriage? "It's t…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 10:31 PM
1

Sales means selling things in this case IT\Tech (servers, storage, networking etc.)
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:31 PM
2

Sales has a huge hookup culture. High % of good looking women who think like men at some level. Go to a convention and walk the floor when the attendees are not there and it's just the vendors- men and women sizing each other up to see who they will go after and what bars need to be hit that night.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:54 PM
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Your post is part of your problem. You didn't ask a question and you don't have a goal or an objective. From your narrative that seems to be your MO. Make a list, not a novel. Take care of a couple of easy things on the list. Move on to harder things. Looks like your friend is having the type of life you want- if he is such a good life-long friend why are you not asking him for advice? Also admit to yourself you were not that oblivious all this time but in some denial to keep yourself from being…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:51 PM
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I think I would have gone alone. Take the beating on the trip, get whatever refund you may get. This kind of has "doesn't end well" written all over it. That being said hope it works out for him.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:49 AM
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*""Men have that little voice in the deep recesses of their minds constantly telling them that they are weak and soft and scared" * Sometimes in a really bad situation. Then you regroup, or you act, or you learn and move on. That voice is you thinking I can't do this or I won't make it. And you get your ass in gear and fix it, move on, find another path, etc. "The irony is that our entire civilization, our very survival as a species is a product of the endlessly nagging fear and anger." If you a…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:56 AM
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"It's free to join, but all applicants have to be personally recommended by an existing member, and - probably more importantly - they have to be hot, very hot." Good thing they are not shallow like men and don't believe in fat-shaming or anything like that. I for one cannot imagine a man coming up with a traveling party of girl-on-girl action that only admits highly attractive women who also have money.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:27 AM
1

We have done a lot to create the monster. The male hamster thinks "ok I know some women are pretty smart and capable and get treated unfairly. I will compensate for this by giving women more slack on mistakes and extra points for any work they do". Then they encounter a woman that hits all the marks and enter level 99 white knight mode. Knowing women who are good at what they do and are attractive I can tell you this not only marks you as a simp but shows the hypocrisy of the man who does this. …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:22 AM
1

"Trust people (even women) to act in their own (perceived) self-interest at all times. You won't be disappointed. -WishIHadMyOldUsernam" Key word here is perceived. Don't use your own logic (or logic itself) as you decide why or try to predict what behavior someone will do. In my experience this applies more to women than men. Look at times in your life when you were insistent on doing something only to realize later it was a really bad idea. Congress gets low approval ratings every election yea…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 08:40 PM
3

50 years ago you could say women were not encouraged, aware, given the opportunity to hit the STEM fields. You had some exceptions but still "math is hard" barbie was out there. So now that you have 10-20 (maybe more) years of girls\women being told to get into STEM? They are still mostly avoiding it. Despite movies\tv shows with hot female scientists, all of the recruiting efforts co-ed education everywhere (except women's colleges of course) we still don't see females 12-20 wanting to get into…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:52 PM
1

Beyond even gender roles- she never learned the value of honesty, integrity and honor.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:40 PM
3

Keep in mind the orbiters are also part of the "crabs in the bucket". They can't get her interested in themselves and they are dammed if anyone else should either. They are also working hard to convince her that they are the type of man she should be attracted to. It's like one of their female friends but without the sexual honesty (the "yeah he was so sexy and good in bed). At the end of they day he is trying to break orbit. If she is free he thinks his odds go up- and they do. As a former "orb…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:40 PM
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I'd like to believe she let him know how much she appreciated it and did something nice above and beyond the call in return. Then again there are a lot of things I would like to believe
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:21 PM
1

Yep- your 30's can be amazing. My 20's were weak and in my 30's I was able to attract better women- but I got hung up on each one. This guy needs to know how good it can be with some work. He's hung up on a 19yr old girl who has a ton of options. He should be able to find a ton of 27-35 that would fall all over themselves for this guy and would be a good experience for him to get an idea of how to handle himself with women. My biggest fear is he meets a woman who looks good enough and treats him…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:07 AM
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"What can that guy do to overcome the trauma and depression he has from his sexless past?" You will overcome by doing something about your now. You are close to your 30's and that is the time where you will be a hot commodity. I went to an all-male Catholic school. The girls I dated in highschool ranged from plain to downright frightening. Only one had a brain and a personality that was worthwhile. They went out with me because the guys they wanted were not available and I'm funny as shit at a p…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:52 PM
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Sex is also the barometer, the health indicator of marriage\LTR. Yes you can get busy, medical issues but it's pretty much an accurate indicator of how much you desire each other. It's a sign of how much you still want each other after a bad day. I told one GF (with her for a few years) how much I wanted her. She told me men just want sex and it does not matter with who. They get it in their head that because we would have sex with other women that somehow it means they should not want to have s…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 10:05 PM
2

Shouldn't make a difference but it does. Also raises status with the men in the office as you have the women hanging around you.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:22 AM
2

Glad you go what you want right now, which seems to be a plate that has plates. You also feel like you have 17 tons of confidence but sometimes that works against you. Guys are bred to be problem solvers, fix it up men. Broken car, leaky sink, network down etc. we attack issues and then it works. And we get good at it- feeds the ego (in a good way) and give you the confidence to tackle hard jobs and the wisdom to never stop learning. Problem is people are not things. This goes for men and women.…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:14 AM
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Such truth in the words "Want to be treated like a Queen? Make sure your man feels like a King" Sadly in so many circles today it seems to be not understood.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 03:48 AM
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5 hits home with this guy. Questions are questions and statements are statements. Questions get answered, statements get digested. We do pay attention to your words and that can lead to unneeded drama. Men lead with a question or an event. Women tell a story that often ends with an event or a half question. Men do Q&A. Women do tell and show. If its not a big issue that's not a problem. If its a big one we have to remember 3-5-10 other things before getting to the topic at hand. It's like gettin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 03:46 AM
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As a guy who has been in 4 LTR's (and 3 times said "New Year's eve is when I give her a ring) only to have things go south this is quite refreshing to read. While I now know where I failed in my actions this list also gives me a good idea of what to look for next time if my current LTR ends. Some thoughts on mutual bumps 5 - Willing to commit to one - just need to know that most of the time what we had day 49 is still there day 393 6 - A man needs to continue to improve his (and his womans\famil…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 03:31 AM
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Since you are actually paying attention here I will give you a couple more. Quote from Mad Men "Philanthropy is the gateway to wealth". The cliche that giving is its own reward? That shit is true. I felt great when I raised money for habitat for humanity and my stock in the office went through the roof. Find out if your company has a matching program and get on board. Nothing like having your name called on on this one- and your boss gets instant cred. Ask for advice on things not work related t…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:50 AM
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I would mock it and at the same time it's sad man. I see a guy who played by the rules, probably did what was expected and requested and still gets left out. Another reason to keep your value up and develop social skills. While you don't want to be an emotionally dependent person you also don't want to be so inept and messed up the only way you can get someone to even pretend to want to show you affection is to pay for it. It makes prostitution seem clean and honest by comparison.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:39 AM
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It's sad. It's the kind of thing I hope would be a SNL sketch but it's not. I would like to say it's a sign of the times but I think this situation has been going on for generations- it took the internet age to make it a business. You look at MGTOW\monk mode and I think part of it is a response to this- the cost for affection becomes greater than the affection itself. Somewhere there are people who have a void and are willing to pay for someone to fill it. It's a emotional prostitution ring. Guy…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:10 AM
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Good news- you are 22 so both a long life ahead of you and you caught on to this early. A couple of thoughts- Make a chart as to what you think the pecking order of the office is. Decide who is #1 and stay in agreement as much as possible. There will be things you will be able to do better than anyone else. Make sure you get the lions share of the credit- except when it comes to sharing with #1 Pick a charity and be vocal about it. Cancer, food pantry something like that. Organize something arou…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:59 AM
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Glad you are happy but . . . Posting a success with context of how you overcame obstacles and how others can do the same helps. A "cool look how awesome" doesn't do much for everyone else here. You are both young. Unless you both want a LTR now or looking for marriage\family all of your relationships will be transitory. You are dating a woman who is in her attention getting peak- good for you getting her to try to lock you up, but keep in mind she gets a lot of offers. Glad you are happy- keep i…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:50 AM
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You are still looking at the young end of the scale where 28 is an old guy and 20 = young. 47 In an LTR now and when I am out (with or without my GF) the women that tend to show interest in me seem to be between 25-35. I'm in a field where there are a lot of women in their 40's who are in great shape for their age- fit, make good money etc. but don't give off the same vibe as those 15-20 years younger. Dunno why, but it is.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:09 AM
1

Protip- start making some male friends. Work, local bar (neighborhood bar type, not the pickup\club place). Join a health club, take lessons in something. Why- if you can't make some male friends easily picking up women will not come easily . Protip #2- get a job that makes you travel. Talk to strangers wherever you are. Eat at the bar or lunch counter. Talk to clerks in stores, gas stations where ever you are. Worked for a very good friend of mine who was very quiet and introverted. A few years…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:04 AM
2

If all you want is to pick-up women you can just hang out in PUA sites. If you make anything all about women you are giving up some power. While there is a lot of how one should act as a man to get the women you want- casual, dating, plates, LTR, marriage\family etc. if you don't use the whole package you are spending a lot of time trying to obtain a single resource- women. I've been here trying to improve my LTR and do a better job in whatever comes next if that does not work out. I also use TR…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:49 PM
2

You also do it for women you don't really know. You have no clue what she is about and don't approach her. Your mind spends endless cycles putting together a picture of your dream girl and projecting it on to her. It's like you are buy a car not knowing make\model or even having seen the car. You make up a vivid picture of what the car is based on your own desires. Then you sill end up shocked that when you finally have it and drive it its not what you thought it would be- even though you had no…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:00 PM
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25 years in IT here. I do notice that when I get an exceptional woman in the office the other women tend to try to bring her down- it's the "crabs in the bucket" dynamic. Examples- Very talented female DBA. Many DBA's seem to be a little introverted but she was quite pleasant. In a large meeting I suggested she be the face of the project to finance at the director seemed to really like her. Every guy seemed to be "cool". The two women rolled their eyes and proceeded to try hard to come up with a…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:18 AM
3

Been doing that for a while - I play dumb "I thought you were a 4?"
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 09:31 PM
2

Women can\do figure out they may need to get in shape to attract the type of guy they want. They seldom think "Maybe I should not be such a pain in the ass" however. They seem understand looking good. Behaving well is another story.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 06:41 PM
1

How about this- "I won't marry you because you are damaging your health and I do not want to commit to a lifetime with someone who does not want a long healthy life" If this guy was smoking or doing some other kind of unhealthy behavior it would be perfectly fine for her to say "no" to marrying him. Because her bad behavior gives her a fat ass now its ok?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 05:46 PM
1

Agree fnordsnord here- you might be deluding yourself a bit. It's one thing for the new you to handle yourself with people you meet now. It's another thing entirely to do it with someone from your past when you were weaker. I did make a move on (and dated\lived with) an old crush who freindzoned me in my weaker days. I slowly reverted back to my old ways and blew it. In your case as she has a kid and you have a home to live in this could be messy for you. I know you just want to hook up but when…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 07:46 PM
1

"I will always have Blue Pill in me. Like an alcoholic, I will always be in recovery. " Blue pill is like cancer in remission- it's seldom cured just kept in by by the chemo of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:27 PM
1

Yes. Your appearance does change the way people treat you. Pay attention to your appearance.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:22 PM
2

Her- "You do a lot of time-consuming activites that are dangerous and not a good idea if we are going to have a family" Him "Good point, I'll take it easy for your and the kids. Years later Her - "Why don't you excite me anymore?" Not exactly the story here, but still something to keep in mind. Balance your responsibilities with your current pleasures.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:20 PM
1

So dumb and easy bad, smart and doesn't bang a ton of guys good. And sad to say many guys don't listen.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:13 PM
2

This is one of the few ways I attracted women and got laid back in my 100% blue pill days. Being able to own the room and be the life of the party works to your advantage and makes you the person people want to invite. Had a friend that was also 100% blue pill and he would try a do this with money. Bring booze, offer to pick-up tabs etc. One time he asked if I could "not be so funny" tonight because it bothered him that I got attention when he was the one paying for a lot of the night. Also it's…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 10:06 PM
1

Agreed no instant improvement just because you are older- it's just a different field you are on and if you are doing it right you have increased your own SMV.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 05:11 PM
1

Oh that's a good one. A big vote for yes.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:04 PM
2

I had a female deskside engineer working for me that could have been a sysadmin- had decent techincal skills and really sunk her teeth into a problem. She wasn't a clock puncher and could be relied on to work late. Unfortuanlty she decided the stress of the job was too much and went to work as a teacher in a grammar school with learning disabled children. That really drove it home for me- I'd rather be dealing with an Exchange environment rolled over with 5000 mailboxes down than a room full of …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:02 PM
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I'm not saying you can't- there are exceptions and you appear to be one. I bought my condo at 21 and started my own business at 22. But if your going to college for most it means until 22-23 you are pretty much trying to get by and have to rely on entry-level work and help from others. I think the point I was trying to make is the opportunities to raise your SMV will come fast in your 20's- as long as you stay in shape, work hard and don't do anything stupid financially you're in great shape to …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 06:58 PM
1

Two short points- How to be an entrepreneur? Invest your time\money in a business of your own. How to be a billionaire? Some by starting a company that gets big. Most start out already as wealthy. Inheritance works best. Bill Gates did accomplish a lot. Bill Gates got his meeting with IBM because his mother was friends with the CEO. You can do better than your parents.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:36 PM
2

Oh yeah passion- do you actually like it? I've been looking for a decent female sysadmin for years- have met only one. Social skills are what I look for- so many in our field are a mess in a meeting or social setting. Have to weed out those who will shoot themseslves (and us) in the foot. I can deal with a little introversion. It's the Milton Waddams types I pass on. Fun fact- one resume I was given had a link to the candidates business site (he was a webdev\hosting company). That linked to his …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:32 PM
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Keep your radar up (and your TRP knowledge handy) and you won't fall for the golddiggers and chicks looking for beta bucks. Yeah Chad is going to get a ton of tail- but that does not mean you go hungry for 5 years. So your ass actually has to work to get women- so what? So Chad bangs 50 women a year and you had 2- so what? We all know SMV is flipped- women start out with a ton and it fades. Most guys start out with not much and then can gain more. It's the big three- Stay in shape Be confident a…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:23 PM
1

I'll be straight- I thought most of you were full of shit. I joined when it was under 10k I think. I first thought it was a bunch of bitter basement dwellers still in mommy's house bitching about women who shoot them down and lying about their own accomplishments. I noted a lot of PUA stuff and imagined a bunch of douches with their hats on backwards walking around the bar acting tough. What I found is that while there a a few that fit into that mold the bulk are men trying to have the best for …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:10 PM
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I am the go-to in the office for interviewing new candidates. I have also closed all but one job interview for the last 20 years. Some tips- While it's nice to say "we did" or "our team did" I am not interviewing your team. Either you are being to humble or you didn't do much. Tell me what you actually did, not just what your team\group did. No whining- don't tell me how much it sucked, how bad you were treated. I am not going to hire you based on the fact that your job for the last 3 years has …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:04 PM
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A guy would have led with "Backed into another car in the parking lot, wasn't paying attention". I notice women "pave the road" with motivation prior to delivering the actual action and outcome. It's like by laying a foundation of good intentions the results (which are already in the past) will be different.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:27 PM
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"Successful men really make women horny." This. Young guys pay attention- if you are low in the SMV department stay in shape and earn. Your 30's will be a buffet as most of the jocks gain weight and don't have good jobs, the bad boys with 3 DUI's, and many of the other high SMV men fall away under the pressure of the adult world.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:23 PM
1

Most of the "X vx. Y" or the like I think is an effort to take a complicated landscape and distill it down to 2 choices. This makes it easy- you only have two things to pick from. One of the wars I see going on the desire to have complicated items distilled down to two camps. I don't see women as the enemy the same way I don't see snow as the enemy- it's just weather I need to plan for. I like it when the weather is good but I plan for bad weather. I don't get mad at the snow- I remove the snow.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:43 PM
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So true- and it's not just qualify its justify. Think about how many times a woman has called you out for something- and how quickly it move to "you did this because you don't care" or "you did this because you don't like me". A few weeks ago I heard a woman talk about a minor accident she was in. Here is what I heard- She was on the road because she wanted to make sure dinner was special. It was so important for this dinner to be special because she loves the dinner guests so much. She had so m…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:32 PM
2

"Creating problems that aren't there/drama" As a guy trying to improve my own LTR I can say if I had to pick one item it would be this. A few of the other points would fall away if this one was dialed down. We reached a point where small items became huge ones. When you get to small things becoming huge issues we get a little numb. This means when you actually have something that is huge either we don't know (because it happens so often) of you have to go nuclear (which means you are having a hu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 10:23 PM
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It's not that I wouldn't want a woman with a good career\high income- in today's world that's a good thing and as long as you are not a mother you should keep on going. If you want a husband and children then you are going to be a mother and I would want you to have that as your primary focus if you and I were to have children. Keep in mind this means if you want that for yourself you need to find a guy who can earn and also wants to be a father. As to your looks as long as you are healthy (in s…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 10:17 PM
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This is one of the few times I have ever seen (or heard) a woman saying she needs to take responsibility for the spark\fun\passion going out of a relationship. There is this idea that men need nothing from a woman in order to feel desire while a woman needs and deserves a ton of attention and positive reinforcement in order to desire her guy (especially her LTR guy). It's the cliche of "what does a man have to do to turn a woman on? Everything" "what does a woman have to do to turn a man on? Jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/14 10:02 PM
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Have addressed this with my GF\LTR and here is what I say when this comes up (in no particular order and not always all of them. I like that you are improving yourself I want us to be healthy and not being heavy is a part of that In the office there seems to be a pretty big fitness vibe these days and I don't want to be the one person in the meeting who looks like they can't cut if physically. If we are going to get old together we should be a fit as can be so we can still enjoy life. Basically …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/14 09:55 PM
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In LTR and for me it's controlling my frame when conflict or questions arise. I either go passive-aggressive ("fine, do whatever you want") or nuclear when a conflict is on or approaches. Keeping the goal in mind and counting to 3 before I answer helps.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 08:31 PM
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Men can be complicated but like any other animal we respond to conditioning. When our lover starts to sound and act like our mother desire can be a causality.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/14 08:22 PM
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Agreed- one of the things I started doing a while ago. Boosts confidence, gives you stories and keeps you smooth in social situations. This will enhance your personal and professional life.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:28 PM
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One of my big fails was actually telling her about my problems and how I was feeling. My new words and phrases- I'm stressed = I'm focused on this I'm upset = I'm pissed\dissapointed I'm sad = Wrong - you are never sad I'm hurt = Wrong - you never admit to be hurt It's a sad state of affairs but when you she being affected you appear weak. She wants some kind of emotional fix first and that does not imply one that makes you more attractive. The less I complain and appear to be affected the more …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 11:48 PM
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On the "My ass is to big" thing that many men face (even when that ass is just fine). My GF loves doggy. I never miss a chance in graphic detail to tell her what I think about her ass. I tell her how fine that ass looks in jeans. And I grab that ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 11:43 PM
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Engage the other guy. Always do this. In a mixed party if there are going to be people you don't know dial back on the booze. By going silent you became the wallflower no girl wants (except in sappy hollywood movies). She also probably noticed you were a bit smashed. So she has a younger guy showing interest being the life of the party and you mute with poor motor skills. For about a year now I make sure I stay fairly sober in these types of situations and make sure I own the room for some or al…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 11:40 PM
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This exactly- if you say "I like that I want more" we usually will deliver (even over deliver). When women say "Why" they usually mean "You are wrong here" and it sets a negative tone. Keep in mind our mothers quite often said to us "Why did you do that" and you do not want to have us thinking about being a boy in trouble with our mother when talking about the bedroom (or pretty much anything).
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 11:33 PM
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"I'll get only what I need then" Damn that could be my house. She gets angry when I do\get something for myself and does not seem to be comfortable getting something just for her. I think a lot of the drama comes from her idea that everything is about the both of us. That creates a dynamic where nothing is just for one of us which means everything is a compromise. It's been hard trying to get her to do things just for her- she has this huge guilt complex about her just getting what she wants is …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 11:29 PM
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He sounds pretty cartoonish- I can almost hear the porn music as he tweaks a nipple for 3 seconds and then goes in. You might need to be a bit more direct with your need for more foreplay and you might need to be equally cartoonish in the beginning to get him to get into it. A frown won't make him want to do something else- he'll take it as a sign you are not into him. Some smutty talk and grabbing his head and pulling him to your breast might be better- sounds like he is a lifetime porn watcher…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 11:21 PM
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This happened to me a few weeks ago. In live-in LTR we both just lost some weight (me more than her). I have been going out with friends solo and its driving her a little batty (well more than a little). I also have been making a point of taking her out and making sure she sees the attention I am getting from other women (bars, shopping etc.). A few weeks ago when I let her know I was going to be late she stopped in the bar in a nice steakhouse by our place. Two guys gave her their phone numbers…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 11:12 PM
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I get the "you have to come after me" constantly. She wants to be chased and gets mad now that I don't pursue. It's still a pain in the ass but it boils down to the desire to not reward bad behavior. If you walk out on a conversation don't expect me to follow. Once I figured out that often the best way to diffuse the situation and bring harmony back was to not engage it made a big difference. As long as you keep on engaging on any level- angry, apologetic etc. the argument continues. Stopping th…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/14 10:54 PM
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Went to couples therapy a few years ago. Got a "it's so much better now" and we had a pretty long honeymoon phase. I did nothing new- it's the process and the appearance that made an impact. In this case the action was the appearance of intention- by going I showed an intention to make the relationship better. As she often focuses on intentions and motivation rather than action this action produced a result for me without any kind of actual change on my part.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:47 PM
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Professionally I find it easier to work with a gay man than any woman. Being around gay people as an adult has been one of the things that has driven home the differences between men and women for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:25 PM
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Liked that one back in the day. Al Bundy was the voice of a generation.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:22 PM
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On episode 4 of season 1 now, it's a great show.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 08:22 PM
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Movies, TV and music all changed for me. Can't watch pretty much any sitcoms anymore.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:55 PM
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I'm with one now (and its heading towards the end). It's crazy how awesome they are in the beginning- your friends and family all can't believe how great she is. Life of the party, smart, funny etc. Awesome in bed, can't get enough of you. I cannot stress how awesome it was- she did a ton for me and is\was one of the best lovers I ever had. What will I do after? If I want to get serious meet her parents. If they are not around ask her (and anyone that know her) what her childhood was like. I wil…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 07:02 PM
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Holy shit fairly spot on here http://gettinbetter.com/dance.html Some good reading, wish I had this about 20 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 06:42 PM
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The hamplanet families at the grocery store is all over the inner city and the small towns. I spent a couple of years on the road and a lot of it in small towns where camouflage pants are considered formal attire. Families where the 10-12 year olds outweigh me. Carts full of absolute shit. Usual t-shirt of Jesus driving a monster truck with a M-60 and the American flag. Head into the inner city and see rampant obesity as well. One time I got a little queasy when Gramma on the scooter chair has t…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 06:18 PM
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"Women want what others have." This is so true. How can I be sure my my GF to not be able to tell me what she wants? Ask her. How can I be sure to have her tell me what she doesn't want? Tell her what she is getting. It's a bit off topic for this post but there is a lot in common with what's being talked about here and how women make decisions in general. A guy is looking at getting a new car and picks a year, model etc. He might share that with friends to get opinion as to if it's a good idea. …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:43 PM
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Or maybe more, don't know stippernomics.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:29 PM
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And in this case the best way to take down the patriarchy is to have it splooge in its pants while you grind away for 400$\hr.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 05:29 PM
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A bunch of us from work have a weekly night out that has gotten huge- tonight we will have about 25 people there. I have been causing drama on purpose and getting a lot of attention from the women as a result. I have also started doing this when I go out with my GF. I get attention from women, reminds her I have options and makes my life better.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:01 PM
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Since taking TRP to heart it has completely changed they way I listen to and communicate with women. I mostly hang around "career women" and it's amazing how accurate most of the TRP philosophy is.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:37 PM
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> Feminism is an upper middle class white woman thing. In my experience any woman born in the USA can have this attitude without being white. Go to any Starbucks in the burbs and you see girls teens\20's all races but pretty much the same animal.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 08:12 PM
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> You can't convince her to unsuck 30 dicks. Can we get this printed on t-shirts?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 08:01 PM
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"If I'm crazy, you should be crazy!" I have fallen for this on so many occasions- either getting whiny passive-aggressive bitchy or going nuclear and just exploding. It's been tough but staying zen'd out when she is going off pays off in buckets during the episode and afterwards. Also when she is angry I don't ask questions. It's counter intuitive- you'd figure that is someone is having a shitty day you want to make sure what's going on will suit them, right? Wrong- her making choices make her r…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/14 08:37 PM
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Got that going on right now. Told her she was beautiful and that's why, said a bunch of nice stuff about her looks etc. and made her day. A couple of days later we went out to a bar around midnight (it's open until 4). I dial up my game and pretty soon have the table in the middle of the room that people just keep in gravitating to. I pull more and more until I have every chair taken and a few standing just to be there. Have the women interested (one follows me to the bar every trip and keeps on…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:26 PM
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"Can i change this relationship from one where she is selfish and dominates to one where I am the leader." No. And don't do the "I'll just bang her again and then walk away" because you won't, you are young and too hung up on her.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 08:15 PM
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I worked hard without asking for much knowing the owner of the company would see my worth and reward me. I did favors and helped anyone who asked knowing they all would help me when I needed it. I was a kind nice and generous young man knowing women would see that and want to be with me. Then that didn't happen most of the time. Most of the time I didn't get what I gave. And now I still give - and am better at giving - but I give to a much smaller circle. And that new me? Women like that new me.…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:40 PM
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"The hamster wants you to fuck her instead of someone else" Gold my friend just gold. Here's one of mine- "The hamster does not know what it wants - except that it wants what the other hamsters have"
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:32 PM
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I kind of lived this. My 22 yr old self with 40-ish woman. I was thin but not in shape, pretty broke etc. She was a customer of the store I was in. "Dates' worked like this- Show up and do some kind of task (paint, build a bookcase, move furniture. Get food and drink (she pays) Sex Go home. Basically a handyman\listener\rent-a-dick. When she had something going on with a guy the visits\calls would stop. When she came into the store on a Saturday with hair\makeup done I knew it was game on at tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:51 PM
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My biggest vices- eating bad, drinking too much, wasting time watching TV. How I handled them- Eating bad- No shit food in the house. No shopping hungry. No lunch with co-workers if they are going to a place where I can't order decent food. No drive-thru's or pizza Drinking One "gonna have a few" night a week. Never have a drink 2 days in a row (even if it's a glass of wine with dinner). No matter how good the sale I have no good reason to stock up on beer, wine, scotch etc. TV DVR = no commerci…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:01 PM
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I can't tell you how many times my first new "TRP enhanced" actions and statements made me go "oh shit" about 3 seconds later. And 9 times out of 10 it ended up being the right move.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:39 PM
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Right answer Ian. It boils down to what you want to do, and then deciding what type of woman (or women) you want to be with. I might add if you are going to be the family man you will need to also be the career man- if I were to start a family I would want to be earning enough so my children come home to family and not a locked door. I would also state that if you have not dated\had sex with more than a couple of women the family man thing can be tough. I settled down a bit early and then got th…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:38 PM
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If he isn't asking for help he won't listen.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 10:48 PM
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Fellow "old guy", agreed that a lot of TRP I have had, heard or thought of over the years. TRP puts it into an adaptable framework I can use. Thanks internet.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:06 PM
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Just what I thought, and what I think every time I read a story like this. Thanks TRP!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:03 PM
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Skip the boss- some companies are just big singles bars. I worked a place where everyone knew I had a live-in GF. Within a couple days of it getting around that it was over and she was moving out I got more than a couple checking me out. Slept with 2 different women in one month, another a couple weeks later. Another a couple months later. Found out one of them had banged 2 other guys in the office. Had I had a little more game (and less clueless as to an IOI) I probably would have had more. The…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 09:02 PM
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Not the first time I have seen a woman say something like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:34 PM
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He could be hoping to get his own FFM with her and the 26F teacher. Just sayin'
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:32 PM
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Finding out I can state pretty much any TRP ideas in the right context and get the room nodding their heads.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:25 PM
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Holy shit that was funny. Sad that I have but one upvote to give.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:18 PM
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"What TRP has taught me is that I am always to blame, even when I don't think it is my fault. And that is an incredibly hard thing to accept." Very true, been hard for me but finally going through it with the concept of agency. If I make it not my fault, I am a victim. If I am a victim, I am not in control of my own actions and destiny. Therefore accepting responsibility for actions and outcomes is the only path to owning my life.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:36 PM
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She is being honest most of the time- it's not a lie if you believe it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:33 PM
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Never think that what she says or thinks her politics are has anything to do with how she behaves. Look at how much high teen birthrates are in solid red states. Politics (yours or hers) has little to do with how she will act or treat you.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:30 PM
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Also blaming society\media. Works great no matter if she thinks she is liberal or conservative. "Well the media\society has everyone brainwashed to do this" Works for bad purchasing choices, job, sex, shoes pretty much everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:24 PM
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And the excuse is always not their fault- it's like cheating is a pit covered in leaves hidden from view that they fell into.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 09:06 PM
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Gold my friend true gold. Now here is your next step- since you know this use it to your advantage. You can get a woman will agree too almost anything if you tell them its not their fault.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:27 PM
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47, in an LTR now but I cannot believe the amount of attention I get from 25-35 year old women. I have to admit a lot of time they are hotter than the women I would have gone after in my 20's. Your 30's-40's will be a buffet. You can spend a lot of time with some choice dishes or do some grazing. If I was not being loyal I could have gotten laid twice in the last month with little or no effort. Guy in your 20's- stay in shape and don't go into debt. You have a pretty awesome time ahead of you.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:24 PM
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"BP "philosophy," i.e. Disney/RomCom/Feminism/SJW/etc, has taught men that when you find the girl of your dreams, you are supposed to show that girl that you love her by sacrificing of yourself, placing her needs above yours, and abandoning the life you lived in favor of a happily ever after that I'm sure most of you by now have discovered doesn't exist." And what never occurs to anyone (or happens in the movies) is when the guy does just that, he ceases to be the man she fell in love with in th…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:19 PM
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I do that with the "her man" as well- another current phase is "you need to let your man handle this". She get the sense of ownership "your man" and I get to do what is necessary.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:03 PM
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I felt weird as well- and sometimes she would call me daddy. Never in the bedroom, usually when we were doing something. Felt weird for a while but I cannot deny the results.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:20 PM
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Took me a long time too. I used to think that when I went off instead is being whiney\passive aggressive I was taking charge of the situation. What I now understand is she is looking to provoke an emotional response. The type of reponse is not a critical as getting one. TL;DR - for her getting any response is just as important (maybe more) that getting a specific response.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:19 PM
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I pretty much have been. Looking back as I have managed teams of men (I work in IT) I pretty much realize I manage all as beta men- give a ton of praise, and become dad when need be. Every now and then I got a guy who clearly did not need to be managed and then would move into peer mode. I think many find comfort in NOT being the one who make the decisions.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:16 PM
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I'm just getting this in my LTR and it's working wonders. Observations- Like children in the absence of praise they will assume you do not approve. Giving praise is like candy and a prophylactic for her mood swings. Referring to yourself as "Daddy" almost always results in a more pliable woman. So does "good girl" or "whose my good girl". Like a child do not make threats you will not carry out. She needs praise and validation. A quiet "I'm just disappointed" has a better long term effect than yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:47 PM
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*Her panic is setting in and she's trying to rob you of any confidence. * What CareBear said- takes care of three things- You still can't dress yourself- you still need her. You still don't look good - you can't get anyone else. She still has the last word on even the most personal things you do. DO NOT react - at all if you can. DO make an effort to make sure that when you are out together you are one good looking charming MF'r and enjoy her reaction.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:30 PM
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Moms- don't make Dad earn all the money!!! Let him take a few years off to stay at home with the kids. If mommy starts earning a lot of money maybe see if Dad can get her to move out and still pay for the kids and the home. Maybe Mommy can give Daddy 1/2 her 401k as well. Daddy should still hire someone to take care of the kids though- it's a tough job and he should have to do all of that with running the house. Daddy should still hire plumbers, carpenters, repairmen etc.- can't expect him take …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:14 PM
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I am in my 40's - lived with 4 different women, dated others. I have yet to be with a woman for any length of time that doesn't ask (or think) I have or am trying to have something on the side. I have come to believe that this plays into the idea that if you are not happy with her it must be because some other women is involved. The idea that it might be them never occurs to her. Also keep in mind women often line up the next guy before they move on- and they think we think the same way.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/14 07:49 PM
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In your shoes- not married but together for 11 (and living together for 8). It's been tough and its a long game. One thing that has been working well for me is when the "new me" crushes something which benefits her. I imagne you are being a little more assertive as to getting what you want. Every now and then (and in public even better) throw down to get her what she wants. Makes you a bit of the "daddy" (which I believe every woman wants no matter what they say) and provides proof that she will…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/14 07:46 PM
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"Women. Welcome to the rat race. Hope you enjoy your stay." I wish I could have more upvotes to give brother. In a 10yr LTR. When I met her she had a decent lower-level job in my industry. Through luck, drive, my encouragement and her own hard work and abilities she is now scratching the top end of the field. Her income in 10 years has gone up 300%, drives luxury V8 convertibles and can afford almost anything within reason. Pretty much a dream career. And at least 1-2 days (and sometimes 3-4 day…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:54 PM
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You have hit on one important piece of the dread\sex game. Every woman I have ever dated at one point or another weaponizes sex. So when you don't fold when she offers (or denies) in order to get you to do what you want, you are taking a tool out of her arsenal. What you could have said (with a smile on your face) "I have expectations- they are about you and it's getting me hard already"
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:41 PM
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"Give a woman any responsibility over anything significant and she will weaponise it to fuck with you at some point." That was gold my friend, true words.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 10:14 PM
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Does she know you and your wife hit some bumps? Because she might be thinking LTR with you and not just a bang.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 09:21 PM
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I did that for a while because I thought it was easy. Got to be a punchline for some of my friends. My rationale was they would be so happy to have a guy they would treat me like a king. Surprise- with almost no exceptions I got treated pretty much the same.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:07 PM
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I don't talk about it a lot. I do mention to friends who seem to both need and be able to act. So far I have only one other convert- 2 others basically said "it's to hard and I don't want fighting at home". Keep in mind we're married\in LTR. Those that are married have risk on their mind.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 08:00 PM
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I got a lot of TRP understanding with gay and lesbian couples I knew. I have hung out with gay male and female couples. This drove home the differences between men and women more than anything else. I saw two gay guys spend about 15 minutes hashing out a pretty huge financial matter- the joint purchase of a new home. They pretty easily figured out a way to do it when one guy had about 30k less than the other guy with no drama and I mean none. It went like this- Guy #1 -"How about I pay an extra …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:31 PM
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Yes Yes In both areas I had to break through years of similar dogma that worked hard to tell me the world isn't what I see but what others tell me it is.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:15 PM
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Need to pitch a sneaky TRP sitcom to the networks. Put enough "awwws" in to sugar coat the pill.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:38 PM
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It's possible. The question you should be asking is how probable is it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:53 PM
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"Yes, women are awful at giving advice." One of the reasons why is they have a hard time putting themselves in another person's shoes. They are great at being emotionally affected by others- it's just a disconnect in looking at it from another persons point of view. I get told I am distant because I don't cry at every sad story you might see in a movie. Women cry because they think about his this affects them. They are better at telling when someone else is upset because they actually look for i…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:20 PM
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Feeling skeptical about the story, but I bet I could peddle this to Judd Apatow. Hope it's the real deal but sounds a little hollywood.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 02:51 AM
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Breakdown- 1- Came home one day and said "it's not working". Tears etc. but comments of "not a surprise". Took a few weeks for her to leave. 2 Weeks and weeks of tearfuls email, voicemail etc. Even a mix disk. Still get the occasional email 15 years later. 3 She pulled the plug, can't say I was too surprised. This was my peak as a high-value beta (funny, charming, earning but too passive). 4 I said I wanted out. She was weepy but very sweet and understanding. Later I found out she vented to our …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 08:50 PM
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If there ever was an example of the "never happy meal" this is it. This guy writes and puts a ton of really tough, smart, ass kicking women in everything he does. So- Step 1 - write\direct\produce a string of critically and\or publicly well received shows and movies, each of which has balanced strong male and female leads. Step 2 - Admit you like pretty girls Step 3- Hamsters engage. Set weapons to "destroy career"
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:55 PM
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I have been very guilty of this in the past. I kept on trying different approches to the same thing- like when a candidate looses an election and blames "just not delivering the message right" rather than the content itself. I have done the wildly apologetic, the angry-nuclear-let's throw down and pretty much everything in between. What has created peace and harmony in my current LTR is keeping it short and not making threats or promises I won't keep. I used to think that as long as I was not ap…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:49 PM
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How about what you should not be doing as well- Don't rack up debt- no new cars, mostly thrift\sale clothes, etc. Don't skip the dentist Don't eat shitty food just because you are young, active and not getting fat. Don't skip time with your parents to hand out with the same people you hung out with yesterday. Most of those people wont be your friends in 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:39 PM
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Can't tell you how many times I have heard something similar to that. And the old idiot me would then bring out a very reasonable and nuanced explanation as to how that was not the case, what should happen etc. etc. It's amazing how well "no" works. Solves problems, everybody happy.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:27 PM
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Maintain your frame. Keep in mind men are conditioned to be tough and sometimes that changes into us thinking that we need to be able to tolerate things otherwise we are being weak. I have been working on this for a while in my LTR. What has worked for me is being calm and consistent. Going nuclear only gave the hamster more fuel. Keeping calm (and leaving\withdrawing when it did not work) has resulted in less verbal abuse\bitchiness and quick sincere apologies when it does happen. Still not 100…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:56 PM
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I agree that it could have been better pairing- the women perhaps should have not been together. They are still together which says something after 15 years. I have seen fights\arguments in public with female couples- I don't think I have seen a male couple fighting in public. The point I was looking to make is that from what I saw gay guys are pretty much like straight guys- just with another guy. And gay women still seem to operation in a relationship with another women like women. So the idea…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:36 PM
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I got a lot of TRP understanding with gay and lesbian couples I knew. I have hung out with gay male and female couples. This drove home the differences between men and women more than anything else. I saw two gay guys spend about 15 minutes hashing out a pretty huge financial matter- the joint purchase of a new home. They pretty easily figured out a way to do it when one guy had about 30k less than the other guy with no drama and I mean none. It went like this- Guy #1 -"How about I pay an extra …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:04 PM
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Here's what its about. I'm in my 40's and have been present for many conversations when a woman is lamenting the fact that she does not have a man in her life. I see a similar trend when the woman is looking for a date, boyfriend, LTR or a husband. Here is what is breaks down to- Who she is- Usually in worse shape than her peers- physically, professionally and value. And I don't mean SMV, I mean how much value someone brings to any given situation. Quite often they are overweight (not a little, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 07:48 PM
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In an LTR making more of my moves less BB and more AF. For instance- Going out? No more "where do you want to go" it's here is where I want to go or you can choose between these two. On the occasions when I say "your choice" more than 1/2 the time she now abdicates. Purposefully altering the amount I spend on birthdays and Christmas. Got called out on in and I said "I don't think about the money- I think about what you want". My next gift from her was quite pricey and she continues to up her gam…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:35 PM
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> You start doing your own laundry, and that sends a message to her that you don't need her domestic talents. Double for cooking your own food Been in 5 live-on LTR's in my life and this works every time. Nothing strikes home how little you need a woman like living by yourself when you are both in the same house.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:05 PM
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Would have read your post history but I was late for my bi-weekly patriarchy meetings and needed to shop for a new fedora and get some gel for my neckbeard. Oh wait, I'm just a guy looking to do better for myself and have a good life for me my family and friends.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 06:00 AM
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You don't want me?!?!? God I want you so much now, do me.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 02:51 PM
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Pretty sure she expects to be kept in style and for her man to generate revenue for the household- she just thinks all she needs to do to carry her weight is the remain breathing. If more women would understand how much we do value your keeping the household running while we are out earning it would go a long way towards keeping the divorce rates down. Yes, guys need to let you know we appreciate it- but each time a woman sneers at another woman for running a tight household instead getting a 50…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 10:01 PM
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So true. No breakup has ever been worse than her's. No one ever had a worse childhood or had to overcome my obstacles. No one else is thought of as badly as her. And not one is as honest or speaks her mind more. She's the only one who is consistently loyal and truthful. Everyone else is selfish- she just gives and gives and no one ever does anything for her. They all have it- it's just a question of degree.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:56 PM
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And never as satisfying at getting
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:55 PM
1

Depends on the situation. But if you are using it too much, you as basically asking for validation.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:18 AM
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A few years ago I was in bad place. The bad place was doing well- I was making decent money, having kind of a good time doing it. Then two things happened- I had a really bad week. I wised up to what I was really worth- and what more I could be worth with a little hard work. So for about 8 months I studied for several certifications. Gave up a lot of easy and fun times. And passed a few very hard tests. Then I started listening to recruiters more and raised my salary and job title requirements. …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:34 AM
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I have hung out with gay male and female couples. This drove home the differences between men and women more than anything else. I saw two gay guys spend about 15 minutes hashing out a pretty huge financial matter- the joint purchase of a new home. They pretty easily figured out a way to do it when one guy had about 30k less than the other guy with no drama. I watched two women fight, stay pissed for the whole weekend over who should pay for a new Christmas tree. It was a public fight and even t…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:25 AM
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Better able to manage my sister (and understand how I will be providing for her financially for her in her old age). In my younger days I was jealous- she stayed in school, got degrees and certifications, etc. She was quite fat but still had a ton of guys around here. Now in her 40's I see she had youth and a willingness to embrace pretty much any alt\fringe culture to become a part of the group where she would be desired. The men she hung around were either serious loosers or treating her as a …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:14 AM
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"the average red-pill-popping Redditor The average Redditor is not popping the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:08 AM
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"What, so we don't want them to like us for our personality?" Said by every women whose the size of a house, broke and angry most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:01 AM
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What do women most often want are these two things. What another woman has What they currently don't have. Before you say "duh" to #2 keep in mind once she has something, it's no longer as attractive. Hence 400 pairs of shoes, 200 pairs of earrings etc. Each one is bought\acquired with great joy and the idea that "this will make me happy" Then quickly forgotten. It's the act of acquisition that brings pleasure. And the more you create opportunities for her to think she has once again "acquired" …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:56 AM
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Two of the best woman I have been with were both born outside the US. Both did a great job of maintaining a positive sexual dynamic without being a pushover. Both had great jobs and masters degrees. Both were real "girly" women- they could be relied upon, but still very feminine 24/7.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:55 AM
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I have given up on all "ologies". In my youth I was an ardent Reagan-era GOP'er who wanted to join the CIA and topple communism for Ronnie. In my mid 20's-30's I was pretty far left and joyfully embraced (and spoke passionately of) the idea that the only difference between men and women was the role society forced on us. Now I vote for the least worst candidate. And many of my hard core right wing friends think I'm a little liberal. And most of my liberal friends think I am a little conservative…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:51 AM
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I want to reject it as well. The fable spun by the other side is so attractive. I can relax, take it easy and live in a fair and honorable world where my love, deeds and actions are returned in kind. I also want to be a Jedi that meets Jesus when I get to heaven. Fables are so damn attractive.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:44 AM
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"-Having a man in your life who has people around him who care about his well-being." No joke this was a major issue with two women I was with. That stereotype where the new girl sets out to get her new guy to distance himself from those he is close to? It's not a bad movie script, it happens. Current GF on more than one occasion during an argument would say "and if we broke up I am sure all of your friends would be happy to see you more" Ladies we come back home to you. I cannot stress enough h…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 05:57 AM
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Guy here- got flowers once- it's just too feminine for me. Think of another gift.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 05:51 AM
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Sometimes the "that isn't redpill" is given by someone who doesn't understand that understanding what is wrong is part of figuring out what is right.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 05:49 AM
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Here's what happens a lot in my current LTR (47m here). Thanks for taking charge and just getting it done. I'm tired of the "new you" just deciding. Why will this one end? She wants an attack dog on a lease who is a tiger everywhere except at home. When the tiger just gets it done and that makes her day he's the king. When the tiger makes his or someone else's day then he's the domineering my-way-or-the-highway guy. So I see the dynamic where you have women today who want a strong guy- just one …
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 05:47 AM
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A little clueless back in the day. Better at that now.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:13 AM
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It's was more than my looks- moved from a low-end neighborhood in the city to a middle\upper middle class suburb. Finally moved past that "pity me" with a combo of not giving a shit and getting my shit together. And yes I have met women 3-4-5x dress size making 30k\yr and can't wait to tell you what a "catch" they are.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:53 AM
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A woman I dated briefly told me this after we had been having sex for about 3 weeks. I will summarize, can't remember exactly. "I want to get married and have children. I want to find the man who could be my husband in the next 2-3 years. You are wonderful and I could love you, but if you don't want to be a husband and a father we should go our seperate ways." I was honest and said I did not want to be a father, and attempted to keep the relationship going. She did not want to and that was that.…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 02:51 AM
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Depends on how you leave it and how it ends. For me it was my sister is two years younger therefore my little sister. So how could I see her friend as someone I would be making out with. Keep in mind I'm 16 at the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:45 AM
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Well played, well done. An example of "abundance mentality" saving your life. A guy whose doing awful in the dating game might not have done that- and ended up in a boatload of drama.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:42 AM
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Knowing you are BS'ing yourself is the first step- don't stop owning it.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:38 AM
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"TL;DR - Trying to shortcut your learning again? Go read that thing it's not even long. That was money- good post.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:37 AM
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Sister's friend comes with us on vacation. Hangs all over me, asks me to go out at night in the boat, hike etc. Don't even try to kiss her- it's my sisters friend. Real cute girl shows up at my place unannounced. She figured out my general address then checked every mailbox until she found mine. Had a fresh baked home made pie, short shorts cleavage enhancing shirt. I answer the door unshowered and the place is messy, so I take the pie thank her and send her on her way. 5 other incidents followe…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:58 PM
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Agreed- by far the kinkiest woman I ever had was very devout. Spanking, public sex, flashing, bondage etc- nothing was off limits. Loved being called a little whore. And went to church every week, young republican in HS, etc.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 09:27 PM
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I was thinking 10 years is a nice margin. Not so old that you have concerns about being a widow for a long time. And yes a lot of men who are single in their 30's don't want to be married. You might want to think about a divorced man\father. I don't know if you want to have children of your own- is that a requirement? Would a guy who had everything you wanted but had children from a previous marriage be acceptable?
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 09:25 PM
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You might want to look at men a little older than yourself. You bring youth and a willingness to be a woman of value. He brings experience and substance. Also at this point he is fairly formed and if in good shape will probably stay that way. Think about how many times you see pictures of someone from 20 years ago and how much they have let themselves slide physically. If he has his act together he is used to leading and also knows when to delegate (captain\1st officer model). If your idea of Al…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 01:03 AM
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Keep in mind you had two cultures who also valued science and engineering. There was no "Just go to art school and find yourself and just do what you love and everything will work out" You also had two systems when your living conditions really depended the value you gave to the system. While the connected were able to help their children there was no "estate" to will to the descendants. I wonder how much of the lack of women in STEM fields is due to the the tripe THEY GIVE THEMSELVES* as to val…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:52 PM
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This is a great article to read to understand the mindset of a woman these days. No matter how good the guy and how happy he makes her, she is still not happy enough or unsatisfied. It's like she got a winning lottery ticket for 1 million but threw it away and bought another hoping for the 10 million dollar prize. After XX years she realizes the following- That was pretty good I don't know why I wanted out I don't know what I will do know I still don't know what I want.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:37 PM
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> Lead by example Start getting health conscious. Talk about wanting to stay in shape as you get older. Talk about how you see other couple older than you out of shape, unhealthy and that you don't want to be them.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:33 PM
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One more thing- I'm not saying you should spend time with a woman whose views are 180 out of phase with yours. I am saying that being in step in terms of politics, faith and other points of view is not an insurance policy.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:26 PM
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I have to take issue with this - "Women know EXACTLY what they want" Women often don't know this- it's subconscious. Ask a guy what he wants- you will either get a specific answer or an "I don't know". Ask a women and you will get a list of motivational reasons and a ton of broad statements- but not much actionable. Ask a women where she wants to go eat- "Somewhere nice, but not too nice, and not where we go all the time but i don't want anyplace new we haven't been to before" Ask a man where he…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:24 PM
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He's also working from the point that all that matters is how "nice" he is. Not his looks, abilities, experience, success etc. It's the male version of "why won't anybody love me for me just being me" that chubby broke girls cry after the rebound guy who banged them 5 times dumps them for a better option.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:19 PM
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Agreed and keep in mind its the internet. You have a lot of angry guys, some trolls, some "Internet Tough Guys". After a while you start to see regulars posting with the same goals as you. After a year on here I know find I really enjoy it when someone who I don't usually agree with comments on my thoughts- it makes me think twice about what I am doing.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:56 PM
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"I acted like a RP ALPHA only because I was totally exhausted and actually didn't give a fuck." Looking back at my early years I now see that again and again. It's funny how much more you are wanted when you are not wanting.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:53 PM
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I know uber left-wing and right-wing people. I have seen the same drama, BS and failures from each side and everything in between. Don't take your foot off the gas just because she says your view on faith, politics, religion or anything else agrees with yours.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:46 PM
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Very much so. In my 40's in a LTR. Girls in their 20's sometimes approach me. Music comes up- talk about new stuff I like, also talk about concerts I saw back in the day. Don't talk about work a lot- that's for guys still climbing. Keep the "reserved wisdom" on tap. "Oh you're going there? Went there 10 years ago, check this place out. It's about making your experience and status a value and not a sign that you have checked out.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:23 PM
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> One final note: why the heck are all these SJWs so fat, hideous and easy to troll? Add generally unsuccessful and unreliable. SJW's psyche requires them to be victims of society as a whole. This means they are under overwhelming odds and have little chance of winning. That means that each fail is OK because they had so little chance to begin with and it's not their fault anyway because everyone else was against them. It becomes a coping mechanism for unhappiness and consistent failure.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:13 PM
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Lust was my deadly beta sin in my early 20's. I tried way to hard and it showed. In my 30's it was sloth- now that I had a hot woman, good job, good home I got fat and lazy. The one I need to focus on now is pride- seeing where I go wrong and doing something about it without blaming others for my bad moves.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:10 PM
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I wish I could be the "nice guy" and not get treated badly or taken advantage of. Since taking the red pill I don't act and think differently because I want to- I act and think differently because I have too.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:05 PM
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> When you play sometimes you are gonna lose unless you always play safe and even then it takes some luck. Resigned to being beta is giving up. If your not failing your not trying. Good response Granny_Whisperer
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:36 PM
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Makes sense- she's probably thinking about leaving and you're the excuse. And more than likely she has done this before- hence the "branch swinging" theory. I have been more than one woman's branch in my life.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:19 PM
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"(ignoring the politics, that's not the point of this clip):" Most women do not care about your politics or follow politics all that much. I've seen guys from both sides whipped at home, and seen guys from both sides play well. The story you hand out to explain your point of view matters when she think it helps her or re-enforces what she already believes. You can't get a woman's desire by what primary you vote in.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:15 PM
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Rhyming- You've been gone for many a day Come on home she's in lingerie You second kid is on the way Too bad he's got someone else's DNA
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 10:16 PM
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Hoping this is a humorous post.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 10:05 PM
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Men are not just taught to respect but that courting = deference and submission. This means that they appear as both a servant and a dependent as they cannot make decisions where the woman is involved without asking permission and gaining acceptance. So the man becomes an employee and child who the woman is asked to think of romantically. And that makes the romance kinda tough.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:02 PM
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I would worry more about the girl in good shape who might slide later on. She knows what its like to be huge and made a choice to do better. More dangerous (especially in the long run) is someone who was always able to stay thin without much effort. So many balloon up in their 40/50's. Since you are asking I assume you are thinking GF\LTR material. Not sure how old you are, but I would not want to get old with someone who isn't taking care of themselves- it makes it too easy to slide yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:59 PM
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Holy shit that's terrible. Also goes to show the idea that women are always the best choice when it comes to childcare is not the case.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:55 PM
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Can't be true, The Patriarchy keeps all Wymen from STEM fields. They won't allow a women to reach this level. Otherwise all of those women with a masters in cultural anthropology might have to think it could have been their choice as to what career to pursue. Seriously though good for her.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:59 PM
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Same thing happened to me. Women will often get jealous of and compete with anything that makes you happy without their involvement.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:31 PM
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Ah did not get that. Thinking about flea market stands I see in my town and the idea of rather than compete by doing a better job, you compete by taking the competition out.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:13 PM
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It was meant tongue-in-cheek.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:12 PM
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No- they just can't compete and loose without getting hurt feelings. Play games with women- see how many get real pissy when they start loosing. I'm not saying men don't- I am saying % wise women do it more.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:00 AM
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Neither- competing would involve doing a better job of running a better stall. This is assault plain and simple. Ever play a game with a woman and watch her get pissed and try to end the game when she starts loosing? It's like that. Had more than one GF who I could not play a competitive game with- even rummy. Still funny sir_wankalot_here
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:59 AM
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Men are also more likely to compete for fun. Ever play a game with a women? Most women play games to pass time. When the game gets competitive, its gets ugly. Had 3 GF's each of which you could not play a competitive game without it getting ugly if she started to loose.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:56 AM
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Men are also more likely to compete for fun. Ever play a game with a women? Most women play games to pass time. When the game gets competitive, its gets ugly. Had 3 GF's each of which you could not play a competitive game without it getting ugly if she started to loose.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:56 AM
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I remember that one- good read. Had a similar situation in a previous group I was involved with.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:08 PM
2

I don't see a problem with playing to someones strengths. If team A does great internal design work and team B does great work when competing with other teams how is this a problem? I've got a few things in the office I suck at and a few I just do better than almost anyone else here. Why would I worry? Just route to what I am good at? I get the need to challenge yourself to do better but still you'll waste more cycles chewing on this one that the ROI will be worth.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:07 PM
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Went to an all male Catholic high school. Looking back best thing- while it had me a little awkward for a while I came out of the gate earning pretty well.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:04 PM
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And would it be so bad if you had teams of mostly women working internally (not in competition) and team of mostly men that worked eternally (in a more competitive environment). I still fail to see issue of playing to ones strengths. If I knew I did better in group A than group B I would do all I could to get in the group I would do the best in- it's just my nature.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:03 PM
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Women tend to not be too into technology at the nuts and bolts level. There are exceptions, but it's a pretty accurate generalization. It's just that simple- no textbook explanation required.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:46 PM
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Keep in mind in 1946 we had no competition. Europe and most of Asia was a smouldering pile of ashes. China was in a civil war, Germany was cut in two. Most of the middle east was a American or European colony or puppet government. We were the only game at the time. And that gave us years and years of taking it easy. It's not hard to be in 1st place when your the only team that can put 11 players on the field. And you will most likely never see a playing field like that again.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:35 PM
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Don't believe the lies of the liberal media- if there really was anything bad with the chemicals people would stop buying it and the problem would solve itself.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 09:06 PM
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Interesting that they refer to the difference as a "stereotype" rather than a difference. It's human nature to qualify a results you are surprised with using adverbs\adjectives that take the "sting" out of the result. Would it be so horrible to state that men and women operate differently?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:12 PM
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I was just as bad. Now flowers are only for birthdays and randoms. Also I got used to being the nice guy and "taking her order" for the evening, i.e. where do you want to go, when, how long etc. I get better results from nights I just say "here is the what\when\where" than the old ways. Not that plate is LTR but it does show the point of view and the method of response works in both casual and LTR situations.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:07 PM
1

I still don't understand WHY it works but recognizing and responding to shit tests makes them more attracted. Me neither, but I am getting better at not thinking about "why" so much. What has helped was the understanding that most of the time I am not dealing with a rational person.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:57 PM
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> Like, I sometimes wish you could have that fairytale romance That's a true statement. I wish that by being the "good guy" every chance I got I would get a great relationship. It's just not the case and sometimes it is upsetting. What helps me stay on course is experiences like Ganadorf- I see the results and that keeps me on track and helps me stop from doing the unproductive actions of the past and focus on the results.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:31 PM
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Amen to this one- so far pics from most of the meetups I have seen have been awful. I also think we have about 20% "Internet Tough Guys" in here and I think they are the ones most likely to show up.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:42 PM
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The question they need to ask is "How do I not get into the friendzone with women that I want to have sex and\or a romantic relationship with?". Some advice- Don't start out trying to be their friend. If it gets to "Can we just be friends" then decide if you are good with that. If not, move on to the next girl. If (for whatever reason) you are good with this, stop trying to get her into bed. It makes you look weak and needy. If for whatever reason you decide to spend time trying to make this mov…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:40 PM
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But what if "To deal with the hardship of the life as a soldier, some of the men slept with married women or consumed alcoholic drinks" Cries of "That's not an excuse" and "Divorce the cheating bastard" in 3. . .2 . . 1
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:07 PM
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Watching a guy in the office head down this path right now. Buddy from another place I worked at had this happen to him. No amount of little league games, lawn work and nice birthday parties will save you if you don't get her turned on. At the end of the day she still wants a guy that makes her need to change her panties if she thinks about him too much. Great father and husband? Good for you and that helps. Not lover material? No you have a problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:52 PM
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In LTR, been on TRP for over a year. I have never and will never bring up TRP with my (or any) woman. I have on occasion when asked about something new I was doing would say I read it somewhere. I also sometimes say I came up with it on my own. Be careful she is not humoring you too much. You are turning over your playbook to her and that's not always going to work out for. Other than that, glad you are happy.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:40 PM
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She spent time with you before she left so she would not feel guilty on her trip while picking up another guy. She more than likely dumped you before her trip to sleep with someone else before leaving or with someone she was going with. If she says "I want you" when she comes back it means he dumped her.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:21 PM
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If you are her friend, then she didn't do anything that bad. Otherwise you would not agree to be her friend. Women befriend people they have done wrong to in order to rationalize away guilt they may feel. Watch how women wrong each other, apologize and make-up. It's an amazing process to watch.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:47 PM
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Whose a naughty little adjustable interest rate? Ooooh I bet you are!! Double digit interest you bad girl you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:31 PM
1

He asked for this- a woman more tame than he is. If you are not asking for the sex you want- and I don't mean a "um, honey, um, I do you um, think it might um, be ok if like you sucked it for a minute" then you should not be surprised when another guy wraps his arms around her, pulls her tight and says "I want your ass, now". In my younger beta days I remember distinctly right before being dumped a girl telling me "you know, once I just want you to take me". It's not just about being strong- if …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:30 PM
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If I only knew "you're a jerk" means "We could be having sex in 10 minutes" my younger days would have been so much different. And oddly enough- the women would have been happier as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 03:12 PM
1

Current GF once told me the opposite of love isn't hate, its indifference. I actually threw down on this one and told her that was not the case- that is was far worse to hate someone than to not care about them. This discussion went on for a long time. Only after getting into TRP did I really understand what she meant. She was handing out a TRP gem without knowing it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:27 PM
2

Not right after, but after the first couple of times I would get into a major pleasing mode of "what do you want, how much can I do for you". I would often not ask\demand anything for myself. Made for a couple of big fails as it made me look needy and gave the impression that her agreeing to have sex with me was a big favor on her part. As I got older I adopted a more cocky attitude. One GF a while ago after we had had sex a couple of times wanted a "date". She said she didn't want to just come …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 09:43 PM
1

Listen to tapes of John Gotti's talking about how much his wife is riding him. These guys need to keep up their family appearance for social status which directly impacts their professional status. They have women on the side. And they catch shit at home.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 09:38 PM
1

If he really was her BF she would not be banging you. She has a guy she calls her BF. More than likely he's there to fill a role so her family and friends think she is "normal". He's socially acceptable and looks good enough. She needs a date for weddings, family stuff etc. She is not interested in being loyal, only appearing so. Hence the "I have a BF, lets bang"
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 09:34 PM
1

Have been told by more than one GF that they could forgive a one time (in the case of one, many one-times) but could not let an affair slide. So more OK with sleeping with 15 women one time, less OK with 1 woman 15 times.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:12 PM
6

"not a big deal" but still enough of a big deal to create a throwaway. If not a big deal why the need to hide?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:38 PM
3

Also in an LTR- this works well. Agree\amplify works well if its a tongue in cheek comment. If its not, then a "yep" and leave it works great. Can't even remember what I did on Monday but I just said "yeah, right should not have" . Got called a name went "yeah, right, I was". 2 minutes later got the look, panties off and one of the most vigorous sessions in a couple of months. She was looking for me to loose frame- either get way apologetic or go nuclear and engage in a fight. When that didn't h…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:35 PM
3

Amen- now when I hear her say "your a jerkface" I treat it like foreplay.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:30 PM
1

"Can't I just be myself" - No, you dolt. The truth here cannot be understated. Sometimes the "current you" sucks and needs to improve or change. Otherwise you would still be shitting in your pants.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:59 PM
1

Can't settle for just one cock- even for a little while and still wonders "Why doesn't anyone want to marry me?" Hmm so far you have shown you don't want to be loyal- why should I take a chance that this time it'll work.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:56 PM
2

7) Couldn't control your emotions
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:32 PM
-3

Important lesson here - " I decided to be beta and take offense." I used to think that when I threw down over something that pissed me off I was being Alpha. Nine times out of ten I was failing the shit test- she wanted be emotional and off balance, she wanted a fight and I gave it too her. It's been hard to stop doing this- sometimes my natural instinct is to engage. Seeing the results of not engaging has made not going off and giving her the conflict she wants easier. Kudos to you for doing th…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:43 PM
11

I love the requirements - "My ideal partner would be tall, compassionate, intelligent, humble and chivalrous. " Tall = Be Handsome Compassionate = Listen to my tales of woe and don't call me out on my BS Intelligent = Smart guys earn more Humble = My ideas are the best and you need to let me drive Chivalrous = You need to pay for everything and let me have my way most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:29 PM
2

"I want to pretend to be progressive and political even though I don't have the slightest clue on any world issue." I meet women who say "I'm very conservative" "I'm a big democrat". And they can seldom tell you what's going on in the world now, let alone last week. I've been told we fought the French in WWII, and Israel has been around for 100's of years. I've heard "I hate the news, it boring"
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:37 PM
1

Jeez never heard that one....think I will get a few t-shirts made
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 07:37 PM
3

Pretty much my story- I would either give in to avoid a fight or throw down and go 15 rounds. Nothing works so consistently as abstaining from verbal combat and doing what I was going to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:27 PM
1

If you cannot get over her whatever you do don't try and call\email her. You are not thinking and it will be fail. Instead get your shit together and practice on other women so you will have a better chance of landing your one true love with your new found skills. Or by then you won't be so hung up.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 05:41 AM
2

Park where you want. Control your body language and maintain even tones. Don't give in to wanting to fight over this one. Current LTR used to do this at an epic level. I would either accede or throw down. Neither one worked. Just do what you are going to do, and redirect. Talk about where you are going or the last time you were there. If she says something say you liked this one better. And that she looks great in that outfit. Basically like jiggling keys in front of a baby. Been working for me.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:35 AM
1

Offer good wishes, don't meet up.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:31 AM
1

"Should I be that much of a dick?" If you just wanted out maybe not. You caught her going for a new dick - the dick line has been crossed.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:11 AM
0

I say this will all kindness and I am not trying to break your balls AND I will probably get some heat for this but my advice to you is this- Aim Low You are pretty OCD on this matter right now (and kind of rightly so) and the first semi good looking woman who does not appear to be a serial killer that lets you have sex with her will immediately become your "soul mate" No headingred, that's not going to happen to me, I got the TRP working for me. Yeah, ok . . somehow I still see a lot of risk he…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:15 AM
1

My behavior is being noticed now. She says it's the new job and I am being all assertive and cocky. Somedays she gets bitchy about it. Somedays we have rockstar sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:35 AM
3

Nothing works like the "I got this" aura. I have also found that interviewing them works as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:31 AM
2

Would there be any kind of a tax shelter we could get if we got recognized as a cult?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 02:29 AM
1

I like women that are into porn. I have a top 3 in my life, and two of them were avid porn hounds. One like "literotica" , one liked graphic hardcore stuff.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 04:58 PM
2

Likewise my friend. In my 20's I fed this ecosystem like a madman. Low SMV and a misplaced desire to feed my ego by going for quantity sent me down this path. Another thing I realized later is that they are fat because the lack impulse control and don't know how to say no. I had one woman, I was about 20, she was about 40 and prob a size 16/1x. Got invited over on a BS pretext "I'll give you $$ to fix this". 20 minutes later making out. 20 minutes after that having unprotected anal sex with her …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 04:56 PM
2

Kind of what I was thinking. I will hit 50 in a couple of years. A size 6-8 is all good by me. I also noted in my younger years the size 6-8 set had more limits than the bigger girls. So when someone goes with "I like fat women" I don't know if they mean a size 8 or a 4x tent from the big girls store. I do get fetishes and I get that I don't get most of them. I really don't get this one and it's a health thing. I see a big person- I mean a 1-3-5x size woman or a guy 6' and 350lbs and I see someo…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 04:39 PM
3

Great example of how two extremes result in two different but stupid outcomes. I don't want to spend time\money punishing adults for having sex with other adults. This is how we end up with laws making asking your wife for oral sex grounds for divorce. I fear that the Austrian case will lead to more "forgetfulness" and more people with children who don't want them killing them in this fashion.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 04:32 PM
2

Gold here "We tend to make stupid mistakes....It is what it is. " Don't spend too much time obsessing over you mistakes. It is seldom your true mistake was a result of wisdom and critical thinking. Try not to do it again. Obsessing often leads to you trying to do it again with the misguided notion that this time there is some minor change you can make that will result in a different and positive outcome.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 04:20 PM
1

Even if she is not seeing someone else. Even if she is doing nothing- something is hard wired into many women that if they don't say "I'm so busy its been such a crazy day" they have somehow failed at life. I think its also a little bit of the victim card- only in this case they are victims of their own awesomeness. "I'm just so damn amazing doing such amazing stuff do to my awesomeness that I just don't have time for anything else"
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:40 PM
1

It is controlling and selfish and I think stems from two areas- the desire to be the "mommy" and a very low level of confidence. I have been with women (and seen other women) use the phrase "I allowed him xxxx" when talking about their men. I allowed him to go fishing over the weekend with his buddies. I allowed him to watch football Monday. And as much as you might think "she's just saying it she doesn't mean it" its still a sign that you are viewed as a child or employee in the relationship. D…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:38 PM
1

A while back the woman I was with (not the one I am with now) got out of bed after sex and headed for the bathroom. She promptly feel down. Giggled a bit and crawled the rest of the way. Came back into the bedroom and said "I need to learn I can't walk right away" While I am not 100% sure I imagine there are times when she is with other guys (don't see her anymore) and remembers who rocked her so hard she can't walk> And in my current LTR the "look" the morning after is something I love. That "h…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:31 PM
1

It also lets them convince themselves of the following- I have a lot of friends I do a lot of awesome, entertaining and important things I don't have time to do this thing (which is important) becuase I have to do this thing (which is trivial). Like "I don't have time to study for certifications, I am so busy working on this hobby project which I will drop within 6 months" At the end of the day it's said to make themselves feel better and try to convince others that they are really in the game.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:26 PM
1

"I can't get it why i should act like someone i don't really am" Here is my answer. I am going to use an example from my younger days. I will close with how "not acting" can be an excuse for not getting your shit together" No one wants to act 24/7. There are times when you do need to front or hold information back. In my teens\early 20's I was brutally vocally honest about what I liked and didn't like. This music sucks, this movie sucks, etc. etc. Typical young male behavior. And I would end up …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:20 PM
1

Good tone, but you are still overcompensating. One edit I would make it this- "being charismatic and attractive can help you woo a few ladies" to Being charismatic and attractive can help you woo most ladies. Staying charismatic and attractive lets your LTR know you are a valuable commodity and she needs to deliver value to keep your attention.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:53 PM
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Actually as far as getting a woman to see the light that was pretty easy, relatively speaking.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:41 PM
2

Understand that the topics and actions of this movie were pretty much unheard of at the time. While some of the story has not aged well, a lot of it is still on topic.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:55 PM
2

Agreed, need more real life experiences and events\outcomes. Need more from all walks of life.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:48 PM
3

I am sure that if he cheated on her because he was a victim of only being in committed relationships his whole life she would be ok with it. Horrible I know, can you imagine a woman wanting to be with a guy who only wants to be with her and wouldn't step out. He just needed to have some strange. I am sure any woman would understand and forgive that. Hell, I bet should would love and respect him more.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:12 PM
1

That is a powerful statement - should be placed into Canon.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 10:22 PM
1

Add another to "dated crazy and stabby" list.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 10:13 PM
2

Best sex I've ever had and 100% not worth it. I'd rather fuck a land whale than go through any of that shit again. Wish I got this a long time ago.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 10:09 PM
2

I want her weak kneed and unable to walk and thinking 10-20-30 years from now that no man made her cum as hard of as often as me. I do see it as a bit of a contest. At the end it's about seeing that "holy shit" look and knowing she didn't know she could cum that hard. And I will use any trick I want to make that happen.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:01 PM
1

Start writing down dates\times etc Start recording incidents If he does have a woman\child on the side it's going to be tough to get leniency in court. He may\will need to prove "alienation of affection" and the logs\recordings can help with this.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 08:14 PM
0

Here is the wiki - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Puritan Hope that helps
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:10 PM
90

It often boils down to "You are having a good time without me, and this threatens me" Women work to eliminate any competition for your attention. Most of the big fights in my LTR have started with this- me spending time with something or someone else. The gay shaming is probably only a tactic- straight guys get this as well. Almost every woman I have ever been with has thrown down over my friends and activities. Some even through down over my family. Examples- "You play poker with your friends a…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:08 PM
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This - "I'm so busy, life is hectic right now" - Barack Obama, he's busy. Putin, hes busy. Not some bitch or some beta who works 9-5. If I only had a dollar for every time I heard then and then heard 5 minutes later "Watched seasons 1-4 of Mad Men on Netflix this week"
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:02 PM
1

I have guy tasks -lawn, garbage, shovel snow. She does the "heavy cleaning" i.e. actually getting it clean. I'll hit the dishes or vacuum but that's about it. She will empty out the pantry, closet etc. and just clean it out. I'll run a vacuum across the carpet. It has been a long road for her to understand how little I care as to the level of clean. As long as there are no dishes in the sink and floors are not covered I'm ok. I think one mistake modern women make is in thinking either we really …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 09:21 PM
1

I'd hire this guy in a minute- even if he didn't have the experience in the field. Clearly rational with the discipline most people lack (myself included).
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 07:13 PM
41

"it just happened" will eventually be a legal defense. Invade Poland? "It just happened" Run over your neighbors dog? "it just happened"
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:58 PM
5

Hunter was one of those rare breeds that so many groups claimed "he's one of us" never to understand he wasn't a member of any of them.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:55 PM
1

You will never get kinkier sex, better food or more indulgence than when she is about to do wrong- even more so than when she just apologized for doing something wrong. Examples from my own experience- Week of crazy sex, great meals and indulging my every whim culminating in a weekend of the same to the power of 10. Late Sunday night "Yeah, I know you told me not to quit my job but I did" Weekend of crazy sex and acceding to my every whim- football all day, food, waiting on me hand and foot. Nig…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 06:50 PM
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" Friday night we were laying in my bed cuddling and saying how much we loved each other, and today she ripped me apart." She already knew she was going to do this. The cuddling\attention was to make her feel better, not him. Had a girl give me a "dream weekend" and then the dump on Monday. When I brought up how wrong it was to switch gears like this, she let me know she wanted to give me an awesome weekend before calling it quits. For all of the BS culture puts up about women being kind and emp…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 02:55 PM
1

I also think giving a yes or no means they have made a choice, and women don't like to make decisions like that. They will say no to choice (like do you want to go out for Chinese food) but it's harder to get a yes\no answer to a yes\no question from a woman. In my own LTR this is a huge source of frustration for me. I have been adding "yes\no\maybe" to the end of my questions. This has helped tremendously . I get more yes\no's and the maybe gets me to a yes\no quicker and keeps her chill.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:48 PM
7

There are times when I clearly see I am asking something that is a little too much. There are a lot of times when "do you want a glass of water?" is not answered with a yes or no but another statement like "I had a lot of coffee earlier" or "I've been drinking a lot of water lately". So you have been drinking a lot lately so you do want more? Or you have been drinking a lot lately and you are sick of it?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:45 PM
1

One of the best posts I have seen in a long time. I have been working on something like this for a while- your summary is excellent. Also, as related to your statement "The consequence that this has for the business of asking and answering questions is staggering: Women won't directly answer questions because they fear disapproval of their answers." Notice how a woman will quite often question others answers and respond with approval? Quite often is it disapproval of the intention and not the ac…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:26 PM
2

The con is the ultimate validation machine for the woman with low SMV. Huge? No problem. Broke and often unemployed? No problem. Divergent personalty? No problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:26 PM
3

Con culture is a group unto its own. You see the same people at scifi, fantasy, comics, gaming etc. It's an interesting tribe with its own set of rules. Dudes getting together in a basement to play games is one thing. Driving 400 miles and getting a room creates a different dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:24 PM
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God yes- I have watched women who can only wear clothes from the big girls store (I mean huge) get chased by buckets of guys. Every con has a ton of these couples- Her- quite large, tatoos, maybe a piercing or two. Probably not doing well career wise. Dominates every conversation. Him - skinny as all hell, looks like a mess. Doesn't say much. Probably has a steady job. Probably paid for the con.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:34 PM
21

I have been to a few genre cons (scifi, film etc.) and having done the after-con party scene in the hotels I can tell you it's a giant hookup fest. Everyone is away from home and are in that vacation mindset where "what happens here stays here". You go to one of these gamer\scifi cons. You see a girl dressed up like some anime cartoon, pretty revealing and she is really playing it up. She didn't get that costume and come up with this 2 hours ago- she is looking forward to doing things she normal…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:25 PM
1

Because the women who think it to be so cannot imagine it to be about anything other than how to get them into bed, due to their inherent high level of awesomeness and such. How can TRP be about anything other than them? I often lay awake in bed for hours reading on the internets and diagramming flow charts so I can sleep with them. I go days without food, minimal sleep, no bathing reading post after post. My life would be incomplete if one of them doesn't want me. Even now I am ordering a more …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 10:07 PM
28

“One guy did his shaving with a buck knife,” Fahs said. “Male students tend to adopt the attitude of, ‘I’m a man; I can do what I want.” Who wants to bet the men that did this thought about it for about 30 seconds, and them women talked and pondered for days on end.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 03:11 PM
1

Keep it up- hit a pretty big wall in my 20's and pushed through. While some my dismiss this as too much self congratulations, I think its important to hear success stories over adversity.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:15 AM
4

Btw, is there anything more self-entitled than saying that you deserve "it all"??? You speak sooth my friend, carry on.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:10 AM
6

"This is why TRP stresses the importance of being an Alpha. Not because we want to abuse women, not because we hate women, but because women will not respect you if you don't set boundaries. Being an Alpha means respecting yourself, and if you respect yourself you won't let other people, especially women in relationships, take advantage of you." Alpha creates value you can add to a relationship. If those that heap buckets of criticism on TRP would accept this - even at 50% - they would come to r…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:01 AM
5

I have hung out with gay male and female couples. This drove home the differences between men and women more than anything else. I saw two gay guys spend about 15 minutes hashing out a pretty huge financial matter- the joint purchase of a new home. They pretty easily fiugured out a way to do it when one guy had about 30k less than the other guy with no drama. I watched two women fight, stay pissed for the whole weekend over who should pay for a new Christmas tree. It was a public fight and even …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:38 AM
2

Next time don't drink all the good beer
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:15 AM
19

Were your listening to my GF talking to me last week?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 05:51 PM
2

I have been modifying it with "pick a, b or c" and that can sometimes work. It gives her an opportunity to weigh in but I take care of narrowing down the list. Keeps me as a leader- I choose the choices- but still lets her pick out something she wants. Getting passive\aggressive doing something you agreed to do is something I used to be guilty of. Somehow in my idiot mind I would rather fight later than have a small disagreement now. At the end she is mad you are actually capable of wanting to d…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 03:21 PM
1

I have been modifying it with "pick a, b or c" and that can sometimes work. It gives her an opportunity to weigh in but I take care of narrowing down the list. Keeps me as a leader- I choose the choices- but still lets her pick out something she wants.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 03:12 PM
1

Great point and one that I continue to fail on. Having that talk is an opportunity for criticism and conflict. So too often I would not bring up things that had a decent chance of turning into conflict. It's been a long road to be able to do this without thinking, and I'm not done yet.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 03:10 PM
5

"Treating yourself like a human is important. Having boundaries, wants, and the self-respect and honesty to go after the life you want isn’t exceptional." It's not only what's good for you, it is vital if you want to bring value to any LTR should you choose to go into one. Not taking care of yourself makes you a dependent. She might as well adopt a child or get a dog. Good post buddy.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 06:29 PM
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"I don't care" or "I don't know" In your shoes a year or so ago. One thing I needed to learn that each time I say "Whatever you want" I say the following- I don't want to figure stuff out- you do it. I don't know what I want - still acting like a child I don't want to be in charge\be the decision maker. You do it. In one fell swoop you are giving up authority and letting her know you can't be depended on. If you want to be the head of the household you need to take charge and you can't do that p…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 03:29 PM
11

Your outsourcing sex and companionship. It's competition plain and simple. And as it's basically a job she is applying for it makes you her boss. I can see why women would go nuts- it prices them out of the market.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 05:45 AM
1

I have noticed this- it's pretty much upper middle class white women who are the most vocal and inflexible in this area. I don't think you have too many women from poor to entry-level middle class really thinking on this.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 06:19 PM
3

Also this- "Because it secures their male's long-term commitment by reducing his options. I wish I would have got this 20 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 06:11 PM
9

Stories like this, this is what TRP is about This- I'm using these tools to make my relationship better. So many read one post "oh I can't stand women they drive me crazy blahblahblah" and think that's what it's all about. This guy is becoming a better, more involved and reliable husband and father. He's working on being a better man. It's what its all about.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 06:10 PM
45

I used to get that a lot. Didn't figure out until I was about 30 what that really meant.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 09:46 PM
1

In my 20's pretty much anything. Now, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 10:27 PM
1

Goes 10x for the ones who were pretty hot. I see this a lot with my vendor reps- ones in the 40's\50's who clearly were smoking back in the day now having to really work to see and not just closing on their looks. Working with one now- looks to have been quite hot back in the day. Lives alone with 2 small dogs. Sat at a table of 10 guys and asked "who is handy and wants to come over a build a deck in my backyard". Was shocked when no one jumped. They get used to rockstar treatment in their 20's/…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:58 PM
2

I get why a lot of guys are doing\seeing TRP as kind of a PUA handbook. It's not where I am at either. There is some value in learning PUA skills to maintain attraction and leadership in your relationship. As to "do the opposite" I agree. Looking back at my younger years (and I had pretty low SMV) most of the time I got the interest of women was by being the standout. And you don't standout doing what everyone else does.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:38 PM
1

I think it's also a case of wanting company for your misery. Every time you can get someone else to make the same mistake as you it makes you less responsible. It's the old "everyone else is doing it". By defying convention you are pointing out the error of their ways. And no one wants to hear they are wrong, especially from their own kid.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:34 PM
1

Because most people here are 16-24 In my late 40's and I think you have some truth here. In my 30's I dated women in their 20's.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:16 PM
3

After we got together, I slowly went from Alpha-ish to Mr Nice Guy After she had secured the Bad Boy she wanted to transform it into the Nice Guy, Husband/Boyfriend material This has been my problem throughout my life. Working a rebuild now and if it does not work out damn well not slide next time.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:34 PM
1

It's a good example of why the abundance mentality needs be in your mind- especially if you are not good at getting women.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 04:14 PM
2

And what do you know, every single woman had a good reason and their lives were enriched by the experience. You know what can make women cheat? Reading shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 10:43 PM
1

" [Having] an affair gave me the courage to ask for what I wanted in my marriage," she says. " Holy fucknuggets batman. Can you imagine the exploding hamsters if a guy said this. "You know, my wife wanted kids and I didn't. So I stopped having sex with her and had an affair. It's all good though- I was finally brave enough to ask her for what I want"
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 10:41 PM
3

Hamster translating 101 "I'm not perfect" = "I've done and will do a bunch of mean, stupid and cruel things and I was not responsible 99.9% of the time"
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:04 PM
1

I get that there are some good morals, values and lessons in many religious texts. I have to admit it's hard for me to take too seriously basing my decisions on the spirit world\magic. For me it boils down to lessons, values and ideas also exists in Dune or even Star Wars - I just know that sandworms don't exist and I can't use the force to knock robots down. It doesn't mean I don't appreciate the narritive or even the point of view. It does mean that if that the spirit world is given as the pri…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:46 PM
11

"You know what stops people from pursuing a STEM education? It's fucking hard." Upvote just for this
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:34 PM
1

I think there are a couple of stages. Young women get the most attention, so you get a lot of opportunistic sluttiness. Then they get older and some keep it up (or dial it up) as a way to keep getting attention. It also ramps up to what they are willing to do in the bedroom. I have had more women want to get kinky in my later years than in my youth, and I believe a lot of that is them wanting to make sure they have something unique with me in the bedroom (they want to stand out from the crowd).
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 08:31 PM
6

It's a condiment at the Mexican place. I always get Cardio on the side with my nachaloopogorditarioto platter.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:39 PM
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You know that's pretty much it. In a LTR and my GF and I have been attacking our weight on and off for the last 5 years. In that time I have been a 38 and a 33 waist. She has some size 4's and 10\12's. I can deal with the 10's because she usually does something about it or at least expresses displeasure with her condition. The day she throws in the towel my opinion will change. And the day I give up and just let myself go I wouldn't hold her at fault for walking away either. It's not about "must…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:38 PM
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This -Shit tests- don't let them degenerate into "fights." Maintain frame. Cannot be understated. Fights are emotional wars of attrition that feeds the hamster and creates an addictive need for more. Each time a long fight ends in apologies\sex\anything good you are rewarding the act of fighting. As men we compete and we don't back down. This works against us in this situation. You need to think "what are my victory conditions here" and then use your head to get them. In most cases you cannot an…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:25 PM
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Good response. Did the same thing a couple of months ago, only with a stout and The Americans.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:19 PM
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Likewise.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:17 PM
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"Even joked about how some of the females from client offices blatantly flirt with me. Upping my perceived status made a big difference." Got that right brother. Also making sure you look good no matter where you go together- even the grocery store. Nothing like interest from other women to let her know she has competition.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:17 PM
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46 here, there is a lot here for guys our age. There is also a lot of content that fits any age. As an older TRP'er I look to the younger guys for a few things- health for instance (seem to be more up on that than guys my age). I also like to offer a "been there, done that, learn from my fail" when I can. When I was in my 20's many times older guys gave me advice that can be summed up with AWALT\maintain your frame. Most of the time I ignored this and paid the consequences. I hope that on occasi…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:10 PM
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It's been the largest factor in my success- more so in my uber-beta years. For the most part I have done well financially and I have a pretty high intellect. I can talk politics, business, history, art, religion etc. and do well in a cocktail party situation. I also have a modest (in the past definitely took it to stupid levels) desire for risky behavior. While the women I am with will often give me a "how am I with you" as the roll their eyes when I recount my stories, the same women will gladl…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 07:03 PM
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Told to a woman- "Women don't like geeks. Women like good looking men who happen to be wearing glasses" Not sure where I heard that but it stuck.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:03 PM
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Amen to that one- getting to the point where I got tears\anger are passengers in the same car was a big deal. There is a song by Kate Bush called "love and anger" where she talks about the relationship relying on love and anger as there is nothing else. As I understand my woman's addiction to anger and sadness I address her needs like a pusher with a junkie.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:59 PM
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Throw him a couple of easy ones that he can knock out 100%. The confidence might get him to be the standup guy you need. That being said he might need a few more big failures (including you) before he digs in a gets his act together. And I have learned to accept that I can't fix everyone- including the ones I love. Sometimes you have to walk away. Not telling you to walk away now, but if you rule that out as a possibility you might not be willing to do the harder thing to get his ass in gear. Be…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:53 PM
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I hear you- I'm not a hypochondriac but I used to be a "the sky is falling" guy verbally. even when i wasn't that bent out of shape over something- it was just a verbal tool I used to get my ass in gear. I realize now it made me appear weak and also made me a big pain in the ass. I am now working on that one, and pride myself on keeping my self emotionally even during stressful situations.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:50 PM
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The Heartiste post is pure gold for any guy in LTR. I have been doing the "I'm not telling you lets go" for a few months now and it works great about 90% of the time. Had a couple go south a little bit- but still more than worth it. If you're in a LTR try it this week. Just say "we're going out". DO NOT fold and reveal where. Do make sure the first couple of times you do it you knock it out of the park- doesn't have to be expensive just has to kill. Double points if its anywhere new.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:34 PM
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Look at the divorce rate for male and female same-sex couples. Women run much higher. That should speak volumes to you right there. As for the rest there is a ton of stuff here dealing with business, finance, health, travel etc. Stick with it- you'll be happier.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 10:04 PM
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Good to see someone young whose being a stand-up guy.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:49 PM
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Unionizing or organizing for some kind of financial advantage would make sense. That level of cooperation will be hard to come by with the talent currently going for these spots. Any woman hot enough to be a cheerleader but with a brain is probably giving it a wide berth. You end up with pretty knuckleheads hoping to get an MRS degree.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:46 PM
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She might be seeing you as competition in a social situation or just plan jealous of the attention you are getting. I get that sometimes and I make a point of bringing her into the show. It's takes the load of me and keeps drama down. As to the taking charge I get that as well. I find the less I say about what I want and just do it the better it goes. The more I explain myself the more content I deliver for her to tee off on and debate\complain.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:17 PM
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You need to understand that nice no longer means what you used to think it means. The old version of "nice" got you to where you are now- not liking her. That means divorce, misery or both. There is nothing nice about being a passive guy who lets his marriage turn to shit because he doesn't want to have an uncomfortable moment. Here is your New Nice. The New Nice means having a strong relationship. The New Nice means taking a stand and owning your own happiness and mistakes. The New Nice is you …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 04:00 PM
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This works with waitresses, checkout clerk at the grocery store, etc. I see what you see- nothing melts panties like her noticing another woman wants you.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 09:31 PM
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"Yes you love her, that doesn't mean you are correct in doing so" Had I had this wisdom 20 years ago Great post
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 04:32 PM
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I think the 20-year old me would try to crack this one. I think the 40-year old me would take a pass. Let us know how this works out.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 04:28 PM
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In my younger hyper blue pills days twice I had chatted up and asked out the hotter of the two and each time the FF came along. Each time they attempted a "hand off with me". I remember hanging out with a fairly hot girl and her FF getting drunk. The girl I was interested in finally started getting close, playful tickle etc. I moved in for the kiss and she went for it, then she moved my face to her FF. I went back to her my 19 year old ass thinking "holy shit, threesome?!?!" Nope, kept on handin…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 04:21 PM
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Another example of making sure you keep your foot on the gas and stay focused in LTR.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 08:07 PM
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" I was so ingrained in a BP lifestyle that I started to get a skin tone like Violet Beauregarde post three-course-meal gum in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. " Points for this
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:43 PM
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So he is or is not a beta orbiter- that's 50/50 odds from a math standpoint. They did or did not have sex - also 50/50 Now she says his name while you are inside her. What do you think those are now? You want those kind of odds? Sounds like you are making the right call.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:40 PM
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Sounds like you're young- have a fun now. Take care of your physical and financial well being though- you don't want to look 50 when you're 35. And start thinking about saving for retirement now- skip that car payment and put it in the 401k.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:37 PM
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It's sick and twisted that you have to turn in an academy award performance in order to be respected. I showed weakness when I was younger, pretty much had every GF dropped her opinion of me real quick. I can call one episode in particular out as the turning point in one LTR that led to the end of the relationship. Never, ever, ever under any circumstances show weakness. If you get upset\sad in front of her mix in anger. If your parents siblings and dog die in a fiery crash tell her you are goin…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:21 PM
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This goes 3x in LTR so from Day 1 maintain this. Think of ways to offer choices on things that you don't care about. For instance- This weekend let's go to the city to do X and Y. We will leave around 1 and go to X first. For dinner pick place A or B. Get into the habit of deciding when there will be a choice and when there won't be a choice.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:11 PM
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Examples- Was in a live-in situation. Bought a house using my own money as down payment. Was going to have her co-sign on the loan so she would feel obligated to contribute financially. Got advice not to do this and also to get her to sign a quit-claim deed to the property. Saved me a ton of drama when we broke up. Started making money and was going to buy a new car. Got talked into just getting a used car and paying cash. My business went to shit less than 2 years later- saved me drama. Biggest…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 07:59 PM
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Better you got this lesson while you were still broke. Count yourself lucky.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:42 PM
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40-something guy here. When I was younger I had a lot of guys who are around my age now give me advice that would have been welcome here at TRP. I usually did not listen. A couple of times I did and it saved my ass. I realize now I should have been more effusive in my thanks. You are doing us a great service just by asking. A lot of us were where you are now and went through a lot of the same hell. Just knowing I can help another guy who's trying to get his shit together gives me a great deal of…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:31 PM
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Also gives gifts that make you happy, not her happy. Have a GF who often gets me things she wants me to like- not things that I do like. I'm not talking about how much it costs, don't care about that. What I have seen is that women often give a gift of something they want to someone they care about. It's not about the gift- it's socialization. A guy is more likely to hone on on what he knows someone wants and get the best one he can of that.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:24 PM
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Good post
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:21 PM
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Few women can cook really well.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:30 PM
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Yes
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:29 PM
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Can I get that job?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:11 PM
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Keep in mind this is a pretty recent trend. Historically the rich married the rich and the poor married the poor. Then we started moving away from the caste system and you saw more marriages between different social and economic circles. Now I see economics as one of the most common factors for those doing well, and race\religion\ethnicity is for the lower classes.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:10 PM
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Been in a few LTR's with live-in GF's. Hate it when women do my laundry. I can clean, cook, take care of myself. Don't need anyone for that. Spain\Italy seem to have a lot of "momma's boys" who go from living at home to married and never seem to be able to take care of themselves. Worked with a guy from Italy whose mother would come over to his home (he was married) and pretty much take care of him like he was 10.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:03 PM
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You're young so is she. Don't expect a reason for her actions.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:57 PM
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"Women will very often talk down about a guy they're actually interested in." This is truth.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:38 PM
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Worth the read
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:37 PM
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"(1) Place the blame on a factor outside herself. I did not blame her nor her incompetence. I said it’s late at night, I am non-verbally saying, the mistake is not yours but rather the environment is rigged to set herself up for mistakes. The mistake is external. Neither of us are at fault." Using this for LTR game. I want what I want. I don't care how she rationalizes doing it my way. Getting what you want without drama is an art form.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:32 PM
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"women will always see your emotions as a weakness" Never, ever ever forget this. If you forget everything else, keep this one. Learn from our fail
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 07:16 PM
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Snorted at my desk when I read that
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 06:16 PM
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Choose wisely, protect yourself as best you can.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 08:25 PM
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Leaders need to be depended upon. You stepped up when she was down. Lets her know she can count on your for safety\security. Solidifies your status as leader and protector. Nothing wrong about that.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:56 PM
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I was that guy for a couple of women. One even told my GF at the time that she plans on stealing me away from her once she turns 29. Keep in mind every woman probably has at least one guy like that.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:52 PM
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You got away cheap, good job with that.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:43 PM
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Women constantly make this fucktarded mistake of assuming a sex act with a high value man is a measure of her value, attractiveness and importance to him, when, as in this case, she's just something available to be pumped. Truth here
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:25 PM
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A lot of this is a matter of your age and experience. As you get older, be with more women those "gotta have her(s)" start to fade. I'm not saying you won't have days when you go "wish I could have had her\not broken up with her" but they come less often and need to be met with you thinking about the ones you had. Keep in mind almost any woman you meet in her 20's who is hot has her pick and it's easy for her to move on. Wait until you're 30.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 04:24 PM
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What did he think would happen?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:48 PM
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Some truth to that but you can't roll over. The move for me is less is more- don't get louder, don't say more, repeat if necessary.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:43 PM
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Join the club- was very alpha when I pursue, and beta once I have them. Glad you're having fun.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:38 PM
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The feminists of the past mostly wanted a shot (education, career etc). The modern day version has replaced "we all deserve a shot" with "men and women are exactly the same, only society makes them different". Was talking with a group. Brought up the idea that until chivalry is dead women will never be truly equal (was stirring the pot a bit). Got some heat, stayed calm and straight faced and said "How do you expect a little girl to grow up to be a CEO if she expects the door hold open for her a…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:35 PM
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"If she got louder, I'd get smoother. As a result, her tantrums got shorter and shorter." In your shoes right now and this is working really well for me. I used to be willing to throw down and dial it up as much as she does. Since I adopted my "Zen master" frame when she gets wound up it ends faster with less drama and the outbursts have tapered off dramatically. Another example of game\frame being critical to LTR. Good post, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:30 PM
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It's pretty much like regular biology, only a lot more unhappy and with extra cats.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:32 PM
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Chicago for me. Back in the day with a few exceptions the public schools sucked and the Catholic schools were the best choice for K-12. Now the public ones are not as bad, and the Catholic schools have fallen behind in quality. This goes for small towns (far suburbs as well). By contrast the wealthier suburbs close to town have an insane tax base and build junior HS that look like a college campus\Olympic training center. It's pretty extreme. You got inner city kids going to school in a total sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:10 PM
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FYI- I attended Catholic school until grade 12, then public for college.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:08 PM
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It also depends on where you go and income in the area. In a low to mid income area Catholic schools may be an excellent choice. When you get to mid to upper income the public schools are so well funded (property taxes are the primary sources of funding) that the public schools look like high-end private schools. If I had kids, I would buy the cheapest house in the most expensive town I could afford. And do my best to insure my kids don't get too messed up with all the money that is floating aro…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 09:07 PM
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Holy shit, I could have wrote this one myself. In my 40's now and still bump into women I was helplessly trying to get in my 20's. Saw one at a bar a few years ago. Was out with my current GF who looks great for her age. My onetime "gotta have her" had the cokehead nose (deviated septum), wrinkled leather skin (sun plus too much partying) and while not a whale had clearly let he figure slide way down. She was out with two other women (both fatter than her) and clearly looking. Stopped at her tab…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 08:52 PM
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"Sexual strategy should include sex itself." Good point
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:17 PM
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---Instead of saying "never be this.." make a post analyzing the behavior in question and ask, "is this behavior beneficial to your goals?" More of this would be productive. The "only a total bluepill beta would eat organic yogurt" is not helping. "Are you eating smart and staying healthy" does.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 07:14 PM
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You are 24- chill. In a few years you will be the shit, and loads of women will be swarming you. Your biggest challenge will be staying single. You will also notice your anxieties get less and less pronounced over time.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 05:00 PM
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Dear cute girl who never said no but never said yes- I channeled my energy into my career. Because your type said no I didn't spend money on trips, dinners, concerts etc. Because I had a job I had a condo and then a house while you were paying rent. Because I wasn't a drunken wreck 5 nights a week I look about 10 years younger than I am. Because I had my shit together I still got laid. Now I'm in my 30's. Had a couple of LTR's and a few short-time GF's. I look good and live well. And can't remem…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:05 PM
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This is one key area I have been trying to address for the last few months. Look at it this way- If you do it far to often for no good reason, it won't mean shit when you really have something to apologize for.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 06:23 PM
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Because according to today's brand of feminism the most oppressed women are middle to upper class white women. And (sob ohmygod sob) then I found out the other vice president they hired (sob) A MAN - negotiated a salary 8% higher than mine! Now I have to wait another year to get my BMW (sob) or settle for a Lexus. Oh overseas women get beaten and raped all over the place and no one does anything about it? Ewwwww, gross that is why I DO NOT watch the news. That stuff is too depressing.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:46 PM
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Yep- if you think "I'm a liberal women will treat me well" or "I'm a conservative, women will treat me well" you will fail. Know an artsy super lib woman married to a lineman (electric company) man for years, treats him like a king. Been hanging out with a couple younger than us- super conservative\fundamentalist types. He can't do anything without a "discussion"
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:42 PM
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"The Three Musky-Tears" Saving that for a later date.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:31 PM
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Nothing make a woman unhappy like getting what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:28 PM
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Without the rationalization engine the hamster would fall into a deep depression and loose fatal amounts of self-esteem.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:25 PM
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If they guy had lied about banging tons of women, knocked one up hell yes it would have been DTMF all the way.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:22 PM
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Also note that given blowjobs = given blowjobs to 1,378 guys.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:20 PM
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Nothing immoral with bringing an umbrella in case it rains.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:13 PM
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I have run into those. Flirty, acts sexy and then gets upset when you return the favor.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 07:06 PM
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Hmmmm, can we flip this and say "10 things wives should never do" Hamster 'sploding in 3....2....1
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 10:00 PM
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Had Philipina GF. Virgin when I met her. Very book smart, quiet, respectful. At the end of the day not much to do when not having sex or doing mundane tasks. Still quite sweet and pretty much doted on me the whole time. Had she either been more attractive or had a little more personality I might have stuck it out longer. Still if I wanted to get married of all the women I have been with the best shot for a low-drama life was with her. There was never a question of who was in charge and she had a…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:55 PM
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"My lack of success with women led me to asking other women for advice, and being programmed by their advice." This- learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:12 PM
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Works all over. Now start making sure you look good where ever you go. Grocery store? Look sharp. Shopping for a new shovel? Look sharp. Don't even flirt with the women around you- you won't have to. But she will see them come up to you and then the fun begins.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:41 PM
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Good post
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:40 PM
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Is neither because picking a team jersey\label isn't a priority for me.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 10:12 PM
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I think a lot of it is also sadism- they love to watch someone get punished but don't want to feel guilty about doing the punishing.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 10:02 PM
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I have hung out with gay male and female couples. This drove home the differences between men and women more than anything else. I saw two gay guys spend about 15 minutes hashing out a pretty huge financial matter. I watched two women fight, stay pissed for the whole weekend over who should pay for a new Christmas tree.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:57 PM
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Good idea.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:49 PM
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If you think your beliefs have the power to change the fundamental nature of women, I have a great deal on some prime vacation property for you!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:46 PM
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"Politics: America is controlled by a corporate lobby not by the people. Spirituality: Life is random and finite and there is no force that punishes misdeeds. Sexual Relations: Women act in their biological self interest when choosing or abandoning partners." Items for the shortlist\pocket card of TRP truths
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:40 PM
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Got that right. How about a TV show where a woman gets hit in the groin every 5 minutes? Harhar harhar, that's funny. Me laugh at comic genital injury.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:23 PM
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Look this is a nation founded on biblical law. God said be fruitful and multiply. Childless people are giving God the middle finger when they don't. I don't see why people are surprised by this. Please tell me I don't need to point out that that the above is satire.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:11 PM
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What he said
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:59 PM
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3 Neanderthal males had this conversation after a particularly successful mammoth hunt. Your observation is nothing new, should be expected. Good that you are thinking about this now. You need to read the signs. This will never stop. Right now you are only looking at if she wants to bang you. It's the tip of the iceberg. You will be expected to know what she wants without her saying it. Here's why- Women need to believe you "get" them. This is shown in the way they get upset if they need to expl…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:30 PM
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Just play the odds on this one, OK? More than likely this will not end well. Even worse odds than with a woman you just met. If you know it will most likely not work out, then don't start. IF (low % of success) = YES THEN (action) = PASS
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:50 PM
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Keep in mind some of this is a little (very little, not trying to over dramatize) like PTSDabuse. You can be abused as a kid and start lifting weights, get into MMA, great job etc. You are now a fully functioning confident and strong badass. Then you see the person who caused you that pain and you get weak. It's a trigger. Now you are not only not thinking clearly, but you want resolution. You want to re-engage and this time own the outcome, be victorious. IMHO you have a low-percentage ROI here…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:45 PM
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Aaaaaaaaand that's why the song is a punchline!
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:40 PM
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"You want a hot girlfriend then you need to be the type of man that's can maintain that not just get that in the beginning because the moment the situation changes they will upgrade your ass for a better model." This- stop bitching you can't get the pretty girl's attention if you look like a mess. Guys in your 20's- if you can get your shit even halfway in shape your 30's will be amazing.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:36 PM
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Great move. One of the few things I started getting right early on. If it's free, it most likely won't be valued.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:34 PM
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I'm 20, still hopeless romantic beta. Cute girl at work chatting me up, hitting it off quite well. Asks to come over to "study". I make a place at the table for her to study and she comes over. She works for about 15 minutes and comes over to the couch. Takes off sweater, in tight blouse couple buttons undone. Talks about how upset she is with her parents, moves closer to me crying a bit. Starts kissing me, it gets hot. This is the best looking woman I have had my hands on yet in my short life. …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:25 PM
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One night my GF had a fight with one of her family members. She got drunk and started a fight with me. Smashed things in the house, started a small fire. Broke about 15k worth of stuff. Went to her therapist who told her the blame for this is a 50/50 split between the two of us. My head exploded. Keep in mind a therapist needs to get paid. They need the client to come back. Telling the client "It's your fault" runs the risk of them seeking advice elsewhere. Telling the client "It's 50/50" keep t…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:11 PM
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Perato baby, to a T. Makes your day go faster too.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:03 PM
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Glad you are on the right track, stay strong, be happy.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:02 PM
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" your liberal about some shit and conservative about others." For me TRP means I go with what works for me, stick to the math and stay strong without being a dick. All the rest is window dressing. A man is not some NASCAR machine whipping around the track with a bunch of sponsor stickers on it. If you get liberals calling you conservative and conservatives calling you a liberal I think you are getting it right.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:01 PM
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In my 40's, in a 8 year LTR and this shit works pretty much the same way. Replace McAlphadick with pretty much anything else. Don't compete - just do your own thing. She will come back.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:56 PM
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Once I understood the nature of emotional manipulation I started thinking before reacting and trying not to do what I may have done in the past. Relationship is better, I am happier and if you push her she would say the same thing. Women want someone who is dependable- not a dependent. If you are being the guy who keeps on leaving the decisions up to her you are a child and she will treat you as such. It's another clear-cut case of how being the "nice guy" is not being nice. There is nothing nic…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:53 PM
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Holy shit, got that one two. Banged her on her couch while her parents slept 10 feet from us in another room. Told her I was an atheist on Saturday - dumped on Monday.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:23 PM
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What he said. And you seem to talking yourself in two choices- a plate or marriage\kids. Just enjoy the GF piece and take it easy man. Don't think to hard, and take you time on marriage. Or maybe not at all.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:22 PM
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Done it, really drives them crazy. Keep in mind that's a card women have pulled for a long time to get what they want. Be with a woman long enough and you start to expect it. Wow, that was a wild weekend. Wonder what she did\what she's going to ask for. Had an ex that had this down to a T. Before she dropped any bad news screwed my brains out. Quitting a job, loosing a job, wanting to move her mother in with us- all pretty much a pre-game thing for her.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:19 PM
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Men- "I know how you feel" Women - "Good, now you know how I feel!!!"
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:08 PM
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"I'm bisexual! *wink, hairflip" is much more palatable than "I'll fuck almost anything!" What he said
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:40 PM
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Amen- people starving, 100,000's women raped in war-torn countries. Can't do anything about that, but we did start a successful write-in campaign to create more gender neutral toys.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:35 PM
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Many times they are that way. I have known two who had a very brief honeymoon only to have their wive inform them that there will be no kids, they will not be working, and they will be heading home to visit momma for a few months. That being said, seems to work most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:33 PM
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It does speak to what women want is often not what they say they want. Many women would say good for him, great guy - and turn him down for a date for that very reason.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:20 PM
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Some of mine- Crazy Convention Girl. Goes to conventions, ren faires etc. Upside- Crazy wild sex in the bedroom with a lot of role playing. Downside - expert level drama (she pretends to be others for fun- what did you think?) Secret Freak- Quiet conservative rich girl, former NHS\GOP teen booster club. Upside - every freaky bedroom fantasy you ever thought of. Downside - very adept at hiding how many laps she has had on the carousel. And do you really want a woman saying "Daddy I'm your whore, …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:17 PM
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I have yet to meet a woman who takes more than a passing interest in this subject. Even less that do more than skim the surface.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:55 PM
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In childhood following orders is rewarded, not following is punished. As someone who was raised in a faith-based environment you have a pretty rigid org chart, strong incentives to submit and a great deal of magical thinking. It also glorifies suffering and taught that we are sinners (inferior) from birth. "You need to submit and do what we say or the invisible man in the sky will punish you when you die" tl;dr Catholic school. Now talking with people in mega churchfundie schools- even worse.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 09:38 PM
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Avoid "ism's" at all points. A couple of items to bring up How can we have equality when we have advocacy groups that are gender specific? Without global unit of exchange and an essentially stable population (no growth) how can communism be successful in a multi-currencey inflationary world?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 09:22 PM
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Thanks for the LTR FR. Need more of those. And I should post a couple myself instead of being a lazy ass.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 09:02 PM
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Has your penis entered their vagina? If = yes, then sex.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:59 PM
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I've seen plenty of bluepill guys make good choices with women. I've seen alpha\TRP types make bad ones. The BP guy who knows he's weak and stays gun shy as to commitment etc. is often better off than they guy who says "I can handle this".
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 08:52 PM
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Hell, I'll throw out a couple. In my 40's so keep that in mind. This is for women I would "date". Not LTR but also not a ONS. Has children at home (never again). More than 1-2 of any animal or has a horse. Does not have a salaried job (works hourly\part time). Never reads. No drivers license\car Just got divorced\out of LTR. I know lots of guys will say "oh, that's easy pickins'" I just don't need to be around that level of drama. Pile of piercings\tats. Yeah it's all the rage now. IMHO it's a s…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:13 PM
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Can we get a TRP humor sub going on? Or does everyone think that will just put the wrong vibe out there?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 06:56 PM
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Not bad thoughts but not applicable to all. While there are many guys in this sub that are looking to hone their PUA skills there are others who are looking to improve themselves or make the relationship they are in better. I'm not out to "game" my LTR GF- I am out to make our relationship better. If she is happier, I am happier it's a win-win. It's not about manipulation- it's about understanding my failings and her mindset, and taking action to make both of us happier. Since heading down the T…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:02 PM
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And oh yeah, it's a panty melter.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:37 PM
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I'm close to 50 so probably older than most people here. Back in my day you didn't have a ton of male "rockstar" chefs on TV. The fact that I cooked was sometimes viewed with suspicion and contempt by other men. Cooking was seen as the domain of women and unless you did it for money it was often seen as effete behavior. My view is very close to yours- I didn't want to be dependent on anyone, and I wanted to have good food to eat that I could afford (left home at 17, try eating on 30$\week). This…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:36 PM
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It's not that it's weak to have hatred towards something (or someone) it's just that it not always useful and often used to much. You will get emotional and you will get upset. Doing your best to reserve that for things that really deserve it and trying not to stay that way for too long is productive. If you get mad\hate something and then you move on and make it better it's useful. If you stay angry for too long it gets in the way of clear thinking and gives more power to the thing you hate in …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:30 PM
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Good thoughts, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:27 PM
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Something bad happens to your girl "Sorry honey, I know how that feels". Something bad happens to you "Good, now you know how I feel". Women are more sensitive to others emotions. Women are not (and are often much less) understanding and empathic then men.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:09 PM
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Then this snake told me I should go with cable. Should have gotten directv, way cheaper.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:43 PM
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Agreed- there is a ton of daylight between the two.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:20 PM
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Or they are looking for you to stir the potget her current BF to dump her. They want out- don't want to be the one to bring it up. As much as I like getting laid at my age I don't need the drama.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:18 PM
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This is why in my LTR when we go out I look for opportunities to have other women chat me up\flirt with me. The last few months she has stated I know you can just go out and get laid. We also have had as much sex this year as in all of last year. This shit work guys. Want to get a girl? You need lame. Want to have a good LTR? Your ass better have good game, and if you get lazy don't be surprised when things go south.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:07 PM
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Freaking awesome!!!!! Can't wait for the next time I hear "Typical male" "What do you expect, men are pigs" "Meeeeeeeennnnnn (hissed out through clenched teeth)" "Figures a man would think that" "Only a man would think that's a good idea" "You know how guys are" Does this mean man-caves are outlawed? Because when man caves are outlawed, only outlaws will have man caves.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:03 PM
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Hamatar - a new film by James Cameron. Come to the planet Hamatonia - inhabited by many tribes. Tribe Blewpul repeated comes to the assistance of the Hamsta tribe- but get pelted with rocks, kicked out of the compound and occasionally boiled in a pot and eaten. The Hamsta tribe showers gifts and affection on the Rudpull tribe who spends most of their time ignoring the Hamsta people. Conflict arises when the Blewpil tribe has a moment of clarity and migrates to another continent. Hamsta tribe des…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:46 PM
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"why are there not any niiiiiiiiiiiiiice guyssss?!?!" Which is followed up in 5 minutes by- "Oh, he's just got out of jail, no job and can't be trusted? How fast can I get my panties off!"
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:40 PM
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Learn to delegate rather than abdicate. It's the captain\1st officer model you read about on here. Understand that even if you don't care about something you still need to have control or influence in the matter. Where this will pop up- holidays\dinners, furnishings, vacations. Where you need to never fold and pretty much always drive- friends, finance and family. Find ways to give her a say. For example pick where you want to go on vacation, perhaps the hotel but tell her she should pick out so…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:37 PM
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Lesson learned, don't forget this one my young friend.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:28 PM
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"There shouldn't be any special gender-based advocacy groups allowed! It's sexist! grrrrrrr!" Kettle, meet pot. Pot, say hi to kettle.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:27 PM
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Here's what I am doing right now- I always try to dress one notch above her when we go out casual (grocery shopping etc). Then while out I look for opportunities to get interest from other women (not too hard). It does not matter as much to age\attractiveness of the other woman- she will change on the spot. Put her arm on me, change her pose etc. Once the encounter is over there will be kissing, sexy talk etc. She grew up pretty sheltered. Like taking her to the slightly scruffy parts of Chicago…
/r/askTRP27/03/14 06:22 PM
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And if the 30-something men did the same thing to a 16 year old girl it would make the news.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:57 PM
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Men- having sex with women with no promise of commitment. Women- not having sex but requiring commitment (some\much, depends).
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 06:54 PM
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