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Unfortunately I dated a man like this He drank heavily throughout his twenties. Daily, entire thirty racks some days. In this thirties he had really bad bowel issues and wouldn’t see doctors because he didn’t like them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 03:00 PM
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Wow yes, definitely get a new realtor. Your story makes me shake my head. So frustrating and poor show of everyone else involved When I was shopping for my home I gave my realtor specific qualities I was looking for Huge yard Few neighbors but preferably none Woodsy He found me a few that were close but I ended up finding my home myself. It was on the market for more than a year, being sold by a woman who had lived here for 62 years with her husband. She was in her 90s and refused to sell below …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:11 PM
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I love this entire comment “Hate-boner” was used and I know what they meant but I have literally never been turned on by someone I “hate”. Same! Why would I want to be vulnerable and turned on around someone I hate? 😐 🤔 oh right because I don’t use sex to dominate people…. It’s taken me 30 years to grow my salt and every crystal has been well earned. I could practically hear the Doritos bag open and smell the scrote who sent me that message. 🙌 😂 🧂 ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:04 PM
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💯 because you post here 🤷‍♀️ they’re fragile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:34 PM
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Speak up and leave anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:22 PM
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Yes. This. My father was a legit fucking nutcase who would take a level 2 situation up to level 10000 crazy in .5 seconds. Most confrontations were avoided because the instigator was shocked he responded with quadruple+ energy That being said he supported the family, had some LVM traits, was there for us. Got arrested a bunch. Had a lot of fights. Didn’t cheat on my mom but also didn’t really treat her right. This lesson of “bring MORE crazy” stuck with me and I am grateful for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:58 PM
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Millions of restaurants and he asked you to cook! 🤡 Millions of cleaning services and he asked you to clean! 🤡 Millions of sex workers and he asked you to suck his c0ck! 🤡 Millions of therapists and he talked your ear off! 🤡 Millions of laundromats and he asked you to wash his stuff! 🤡 Millions of lenders and he asked you to borrow money! 🤡 Millions of condoms and he asked you to go raw! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:54 PM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:46 PM
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Oh my god this dude is so fucking dumb. It has to be satire But it’s probably not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 03:08 PM
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This. Exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:37 AM
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Same! The actual link I clicked to first get to this sub was posted by a scrote complaining about it 😂 Thank you random scrote for leading me to FDS <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:30 AM
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Absolutely!! Gentlemen Prefer Blondes is probably my favorite movie ever. I cannot speak highly enough about it Also, Easter egg (with no spoilers) — There’s a scene in this movie where a character says to Marilyn Monroe, “you’ve got animal magnetism” That same line occurs many times in a previous movie of Marilyns, The Seven Year Itch Funnily enough The Seven Year Itch is also quite FDS. At one point Marilyn’s character says she keeps getting proposed to, and of course she turns them down. She …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:21 PM
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Oh wow hello 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:40 PM
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I LOVE this movie. I’ve seen it 10+ times Every aspect. It is utterly fantastic. A work of art in every way. The outfits, the script, love all of it Jane Russell is incredible. Marilyn is amazing. The opening song, the final one, chef’s kiss This movie is surprisingly FDS. Marilyn and Jane have standards that they stick to firmly and reject any man easily who refuses to meet them. They stick together and elevate each other 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:31 PM
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BAHAHAHA I wanted the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:09 PM
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I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:08 PM
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Years ago when I worked in a city a guy opened his coat to reveal his dick hanging out of his pants. My first reaction was to laugh. It had never happened before and I just lost it completely. Is this real life? I was red in the face laughing in disbelief and even more when he covered himself and dashed away 😂 you’re embarrassed now?! 😆 People like this are dangerous. Laughter throws them off. Can put you in danger too, though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:07 PM
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Don’t forget captain of the Enterprise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:57 PM
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Yep both He’s another insecure idiot who can’t keep his mouth shut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:24 PM
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Only if he is 7 feet tall making 7 figures a year and has a 7 inch dick /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:42 PM
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I don’t subscribe to any crystal stuff, tarot cards, astrology etc - but I don’t put down people who do They’re not infringing on my life at all. And telling them how BS I think something might be as long as it’s not hurting anyone, is not my style I’ve had men be nasty to me for my taste in music, clothes I wear, anything and everything. Completely turned me off dragging other people down for things they enjoy even if I don’t think they’re interesting or worth it Just respect that they like it.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:43 PM
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An ex did the pretend-backhand-wind-up to me in response to me explaining why something he did was slimy. I flinched. He thought it was funny I told him to gtfo the next sentence I spoke. Even pretending to hit = DISQUALIFIED I would never do something like that to someone I love. I’ve done this in ACTING SCHOOL and prior to the scenes and practice we are very open about comfort and consent. Just not cool bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:28 PM
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LOL omg I though exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:24 PM
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This is what porn does to men over years. They develop tendencies that mimic porn and their mind goes immediately to the thing they practice daily. In this case a single father fantasizing of having sex with his daughter 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:42 PM
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That is so obviously a troll post written by a man So boring and sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:00 PM
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IF I want to have a healthy child AND a potential mate says they have a disposition for passing down a genetic disease THEN I am a nazi for not wanting to mate with them ??? What the ever loving fuck 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:38 PM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:12 PM
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I loved this episode!! Thank you. This was enlightening and so helpful. Heartwarming I value FDS incredibly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:53 PM
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Muhahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:14 PM
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How is all of this not misogynistic 🤨 I want to visit a city with women only, please. Not out of hate. Out of exhaustion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:45 AM
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The most insecure man I ever dated was 6’7 He was absolutely inconsolable when I broke up with him because the guy you’re choosing over me will be short! Before I even had anyone He was such a dumbass PUA 🤦‍♀️ and I was a 🤡 for staying with him as long as I did. I gave him the benefit of the doubt so many times. Wish FDS existed then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 01:53 PM
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Over the years I have become familiar with my emotions and I can calmly state “I need a break from this (conversation/activity), I am feeling upset.” But because I state it so calmly I’ve been met with resistance. Flat out ignoring what I say and continuing to go at me with whatever is upsetting. It seems like people don’t listen unless I’m screaming and blowing my top. But that was when I was younger and I didn’t want to be built up to that stress. So I just leave. And sometimes yes, I do screa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:44 PM
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HE HAS A THEORETICAL DEGREE IN.... SOME STUFF. OK????? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:21 AM
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There is a episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation, where Data, the Android, has his memory wiped and is in a place quite backward science wise. He starts attending a school and the “professor” is teaching some stuff that is kind of... obviously not right. Data questions it. I feel like Data would quickly see how deliberately twisted women are perceived in literature and culture like this if he were confronted with it. It’s so... obviously obtuse. At this point it’s I’m a full human, and if it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:13 AM
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This shit is so dumb. It’s boring at this point. Religious rib shit, blah blah women weak blah. It has been the same dribble for centuries. Once I internalized that, read so much weird and wacky misogynist shit that scrotes post, it just became.... commonplace. Known. Repeated. Beaten like a dead horse. WHAT ELSE YALL GOT? Nothing. Not a damn thing. The same shit against women for centuries. When I hear this shit to my face, it’s like someone talking about the wall being blue. With one or two se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:58 PM
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I don’t want a man who acts like an overgrown child None of that is sexy or lovely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:44 PM
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Thank you for sharing 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:08 PM
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If you ask someone to do X and they either can’t or refuse, or pull the crap mentioned in this video, then the options are either Continue putting up with it Remove yourself As soon as you figure out you’re in a situation like this with a narcissist, remove yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:16 PM
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I didn’t think of this. I will remember this for the future, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:08 PM
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I watched a scrote grab a young girl between her legs at a club. She was so confused and was crying. In the chaos I told her to throw punches if it happened again, and then I told the bouncer. He laughed. He fucking laughed. I don’t feel bad for the scrote in this video in the least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:44 PM
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They don’t want to get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:23 PM
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He could have had 13k and a normal life and instead he let his penis and pride drive him What a dope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:56 PM
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This this this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:55 PM
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🤩 that is wonderful!! OooOooo a bridal sword 🗡 that sounds so awesome. And royal 👑 I’m imagining a man (Cary Elwes as Westley from Princess Bride 😂 same pirate attire) at the alter kneeling and bowing his head and presenting a gorgeous sword for his love 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:50 PM
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😨 IF I DONT HAVE RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE I DONT LIKE THEN I WILL NEVER HAVE RELATIONSHIPS OMGG That’s like saying if I don’t eat food I don’t like then I’ll never eat 😂🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:41 PM
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READING YOUR SUB MADE ME REALIZE HOW TERRIBLE I AM WAAAH so bb u wan touch peen? 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:15 PM
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Thank you lady!! I love seeing the ring posts here, I find them so beautiful in many ways. I have only good feelings toward women who want beautiful rings (and other marriage proposal items) I don’t wear rings as I have ruined a few during my hobbies 😂 for example I learned that sulfur turns silver black (temporarily) and takes off a small top layer. Stopped wearing silver while I work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:21 PM
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You said it lady. I am right there with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:05 PM
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When I was a young girl I fell in love with a piece of art. I won’t specify because it is very unique and identifying to me Anyway. I quickly decided I did not want to be proposed to with a ring. I wanted that art (or a replica because the original is in a museum and priceless) And that’s what I have told prospective boyfriends. Some laughed and said they’d get me a ring anyway 🤡 and obviously that didn’t last My current beau, he loved this idea. He ran with it. While organizing my office and ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:54 PM
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It is a lonely life being surrounded by people who lie to themselves Everyone does it to an extent. Some more and some less. There’s always something even if it is hidden away Men do it far more often. They live in the made up reality where “boys will be boys” and there’s always someone to do laundry, cook, clean. They mentally hide away from the realities of how coddled they are. It’s why they’re mostly terrible. I just ghost them. Like I said, lonely, but would you want to be friends with some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:27 PM
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Yep. Dated guys like this and it is REALLY common with porn addicts (aka daily porn users) PIED throws any chance of really intimacy out the window even if you want to be into it Oh wow we are getting sexy, wait hold on gotta jerk off the dick. Ok there it is, continue He is so hot omg the way he is kissing me. Gotta pause because he stopped touching himself and went soft. Wait another min. Ok continue Yeah let me get a condom on him. Wait again. While getting the condom he went limp. Then he we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:35 PM
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Mean = being nasty for no reason stories shared here and on FDS = women holding normal boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:11 PM
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None of this is mean at all. You did right by you 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:10 PM
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I love this so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:18 PM
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Damn. Your aunt sounds awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:39 PM
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I loved this snippet too. Great point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:10 PM
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Hahaha I am so glad I’m not the only one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:56 AM
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Oh wow it’s true. I looked it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:04 PM
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Intelligence does not equate to wisdom, or empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:09 PM
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A male boyfriend of mine long ago wanted so badly to get into Mensa. He went on and on about how they’re trying to tackle big humanitarian issues or some shit I told him straight, “You know there’s religious fanatics in Mensa, right?” He was staunchly atheistic and watching the wires fry in his brain trying to do mental acrobatics to explain how religious fanatics in Mensa exist and that “they can’t be as bad” That’s all the world needs - more “smart” men with zero empathy and understanding to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:52 PM
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I wear whatever tf I want and if a guy I’m interested in says something stupid about it, he disqualifies himself I very much enjoy fashion designed by femme lesbians because how they dress doesn’t consider the male gaze at all and it shows. Very refreshing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:09 PM
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This is such toxic advice. How dare you at FDS suggest a woman has her own money and good credit? Wow. Toxic. Care about her health??? What’s wrong with you?? Don’t sacrifice her wants and desires?? She can sacrifice anything she wants. You’re all so controlling. Can’t you see this advice is DANGEROUS?? /s if that wasn’t obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:03 PM
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Exactly. I don’t want some cheap ass ring that I’m supposed to wear for decades. My running shoes are worth more than that ring And my glasses, my kitchen aid mixer, my watch, my tattoos, one weekly grocery bill......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:44 PM
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Oof. That’s an automatic disqualification in my book Glad to read “was dating” 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:03 PM
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That last picture omgosh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:13 PM
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Ok I really like this outfit. Giving me dark Dr Who Tom Baker vibes with that enormous grey scarf. Great jacket, big floppy gorgeous lapels. Plain grey shirt, dark loose jeans, again with the big and floppy in the boots 10/10 outfit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:11 PM
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Exactly I have my own table Why would I invest in someone else’s table when I have my own and I have zero confidence that my contributions won’t disappear when I leave Scrotty McTablu 🌟 Make your own table and invest in yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:30 PM
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My thoughts exactly If I have to try and maneuver him into pulling his weight, he isn’t worth it OP is right when it comes to avoiding being the life manager. Avoid that at all costs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:42 PM
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They may see it as serving their purposes for the strong and righteous menfolk 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:52 AM
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I may be way off base here. But when I hear “TRP women” I think “The Raging Pickme women” Women who want to be treated like that... just... 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:52 AM
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This was very helpful for me to read right now. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:49 PM
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It is a great comparison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:10 PM
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Mods/admins: please make this a topic in the next podcast!! Some scrote argued with me about this!! Me: women need to vet their partners so make sure they aren’t shitty Scrote: so it’s a woman’s fault if a man hurts her because she didn’t vet him good enough? That’s fucked up 🤡 Statement: buyers need to do their research to ensure the car they’re buying is safe Scrote logic: so it’s the buyers fault if their car fails and kills them? That’s fucked up 🤡 🤡 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:28 PM
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Men like that suck the life out of you Best to let them rot alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:04 PM
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Thank you for posting this. This was such a heavy thing for me to realize and your words help solidify that lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:39 PM
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Porn sickness. He gets off to women’s pain. Another sick scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:59 PM
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I love every bit of this ❤️ good for you, and grats on your new 🐶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:52 PM
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Muhaha Muhahaha MUHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:32 PM
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Interrupting If you talk through interrupting, he keeps trying to start his sentence Arguing about arguing. Derails from the point and spawns a new argument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:17 PM
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I am so sorry this happened. I am empathetically feeling your rage. Fuck that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:01 PM
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I laughed out loud 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:40 PM
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He needed someone to force him to do it just like he needs someone to force him to do anything else Fucking pissbaby scrote sperm doner is all this idiot is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:39 PM
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Best episode yet. Thank you ladies. I particularly was struck by the part how women / people can obviously tell when men are porn addicted and see women as objects. The tell tale signs like staring obsessively, not being able to make eye contact. Unsocialized, porn addicted males have a tell and once you see it, you can’t un-see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:55 PM
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Ohhh thank you! I learned today. New research topic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:57 AM
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I got gifts for my FRIENDS who are moms so yes 🤦‍♀️ you should get something for your GF I swear men just bargain for showing their hatred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:15 PM
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If my partner cheated by going to a SW or anyone else, wouldn’t matter to me. Done with the relationship Joke quip: There is ONE exception and it’s the stereotypical soap opera amnesia story where he’s somehow lost in another country without me and with amnesia and starts a relationship with X. But you’d have to have the fucking trial of the century to get me to believe he really had amnesia 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:04 PM
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I cannot imagine feeling good with that decision while in labor. Having a camera up your lady bits as you give birth. Just. Wow. Noooo thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:59 PM
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I like this attitude. Please excuse this scrotty reference: your comment reminded me of a scene in Fight Club where, after a member of the club dies, Tyler (being “himself” and not “Tyler” at the time) tries to call to the goons’ humanity by saying “His name was Robert Paulson!” One of the brainwashed goons in the club says something like, “In death, we have a name. His name was Robert Paulson.” Meaning, men are only granted the high value caliber after they’ve lived their entire lives and died …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:54 PM
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I can’t send you to another planet, best I can do is time travel forward on this planet only at 1x speed On the real though: 🤢 humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:28 PM
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LOL yes he did!!! Dante in the story was oh so compassionate But Dante the writer and real person wrote him there sOOooOoO 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:02 PM
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Thank you. It was super difficult at first but as I was breaking up with him I started feeling lighter. I knew I wouldn’t have to deal with his awful behavior affecting me anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:17 PM
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Same thing as (Star Trek) Ferengi males preventing Farengi females from wearing clothes - so they don’t have pockets and can’t keep items or money Barefoot = no shoes = can’t escape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:34 PM
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second inner circle is betrayal and fraud right? Or second top which would be carnal sins Maybe split them in half and they get both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:13 PM
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It gets super obvious when men won’t even look at or talk to you unless they know their penis is involved 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:27 PM
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This is excellent advice. The LTR I was in before my current relationship, he put in effort for the first year and a half. Suddenly his job closed shop, and he didn’t find another one for months. I supported him and told him if he wanted to go to school and take of the house, great! But we know that didn’t happen right away or like that really. He got lazier and did laundry once a week, poorly. He did take one course in machining and then refused to take any machining jobs because insert excuses…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:01 PM
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I’m trying to be better for the women in my life <3 Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:08 PM
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It was. And yes :) I spent the rest of mother’s day with my best friend and her children setting up a swing set. She’s 2 months pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:54 PM
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Porn sickness 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:29 PM
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I felt similarly and am still unpacking why I feel that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:28 PM
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Apparently it was hidden under a long jacket like a trench coat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:11 PM
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This is my favorite post on FDS right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:56 PM
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TW - animal abuse Long ago on AskReddit a nurse responded to one of those “Nurses/Doctors of Reddit, what’s the craziest thing a patient came in with etc etc” or something This 40-50 y/o scrote came in with a small dog on his dick. You read that right. He r@ped a small dog and caused it to go into shock, cutting off circulation to his dick. He couldn’t get the dog off. They had to euthanize it. No charges filed. Men are slaves to their dicks. They’re not trustworthy. This guy should have died of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:54 PM
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Spent the weekend with my boyfriends family (mine is estranged. I cut contact with abusive and toxic family long ago). It was all women - sisters, aunts, grandmothers. Then myself and my boyfriend My boyfriend got thoughtful gifts and cards for his mother, grandmother, aunt, and did chores for his mother while there (the chores are normal, not just for Mother’s Day) The ladies all traded gifts with each other There did not appear to be any gifts from the men in the family and they didn’t show up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:07 PM
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Haha yes I remember that post. He loosely explained inner monologue and went on to propose that women have “many entities” or “threads” ?? going on that men have nothing to “hook into” ??? so that’s why men don’t understand women because women are just many thoughts in a brain and not one or something. Instead of considering that people understood his suggestion and justifiably and hilariously shot it down, he saved his previous ego and said that no one understood what he was saying. Obtuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:56 PM
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N
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:55 PM
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This was so beautifully put.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:59 PM
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Yeah just makes me 😬 Ok little pal we know you care a lot about coming across as... so cold and horny... byeeeeee It’s like watching a crazy person shit themselves and yell at you that they prefer to live with shitpants. Like, ok? Cool? 👀 He’s looking for a response and the response to these scrotes should always be blocking them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:53 PM
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Fucking Christ they live off depravity 😂 So gross. SOOOOO GROSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:18 PM
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More recorded proof that red pill men are the trashest trash to ever trash 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:57 PM
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I laughed out loud at that part. Dick size matters. I don’t like small dicks, they don’t reach the good spots. It’s incredibly sad how little research there is into women’s sexuality. Like people are fooled into thinking the women’s orgasm doesn’t exist....just....ugh 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:02 PM
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Ladies if you are with someone like this. Leave. It doesn’t get better. No, he won’t “learn” or “change” He despises you. Get. Out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:49 PM
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This makes me think money. If you’re asking what money you bring to the table, you don’t bring your money to the table. Your money supports you and ensures you are not under anyone’s thumb. You also don’t bring any prospects of sex, cleaning, therapy, cooking, etc when vetting a partner because that puts you in a position to be taken advantage of by a scrote looking for an easy time. You bring what men are biologically driven to seek out. You bring the potential of the warm comfort of a mate who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:14 PM
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It was annoyance + alcohol + comfortable company of friends It was all a bunch of laughter and lightheartedness and that continued even after this dude started getting wanky. Personally it is easier for me to say something ridiculous like that very loudly because it feels like it delivers better and that gives me the confidence to solicit a random stranger for plantain-antics. Make a joke out of him and show him how we definitely aren’t taking him seriously and he’s definitely not taking any of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:56 PM
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OooOooOoOo I like this one 😂 Their tune sure changes quick when they’re not the ones getting their body tortured
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:46 PM
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Aggressive “Think too much”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:28 PM
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Right??? I imagine it sometimes. Just walking around at night. My friend who works at a restaurant asks me to accompany her to take the garbage to the trash outside. IMAGINE WHAT LIFE WOULD BE LIKE IF WE COULD TAKE THE TRASH OUT WITHOUT THE “TRASH” TRYING TO DO THE SAME TO US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:40 PM
20

Please do haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:38 PM
42

If only he just didn’t draw attention to the fact he’s so insecure about his tiny dick, the entirety of FDS wouldn’t know about his insecurity about his tiny dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:37 PM
62

Crygasm! I would like to add this word to my lexicon. My current boyfriend gave me my first emotional crygasm. He’s attentive, thoughtful, mindful, just so connected. He doesn’t aim to orgasm every time we are intimate and focuses on me to ensure I am satisfied. He was so happy he started crying too. Just so much love. SO MUCH LOVE. So much caring and tenderness and connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:36 PM
15

Triggered little man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:24 PM
34

This would be so interesting to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:34 PM
14

Omg 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:33 PM
10

HEY YOU GOT ANY OF THAT PORN ADDICT INCEL SPERM?? 📺 🐒 HOW ABOUT 55 Y/O SCROTE DUST 💀 HOW MUCH THAT GO FOR LIKE A DIME? 🪙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:29 PM
31

If I suggested my boyfriend and I split the bill he would think I was breaking up with him or detaching or something. Him paying for me is him making sure I’m taken care of. These scrotes don’t get that logic because they only think of themselves and their dicks. They don’t understand the joy in taking care of someone you love and consider that means paying for their fucking food to show them that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:20 PM
148

Seriously it was so tactless and just poor poor taste on his part. I think he realized he was out of his element 😂 But that’s the thing. I, at the time a late-20s woman with other late-20s women, challenged his challenge and he just felt awkward. After he approached our group and forced weird sexual topics onto us. We were not talking sexual. He just saw young women at a bar and thought PENIS POSSIBILITIES His livelihood and health was not under threat and he clearly felt comfortable enough to s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:07 PM
325

Oh shit. You reminded me of a drunk outing..... I’m at some club bar in the Midwest with friends who suggested it. This young boy, maybe 22, integrated himself into our circle on the patio and kept trying to impress me somehow. He started talking about the women he “sexually subjugated” and told me directly that I “look like a sweet normal female” 🤢 I told him I’d give him five hundred dollars if he let me fuck him with a plantain in my car out back. The circle quieted immediately waiting for hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:29 PM
114

Women with their own homes look at this guy and go “Nah, I’m good”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:25 PM
23

Shots fired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:15 AM
22

Yes!! I love the idea of a shared name. Combining both. I don’t want to change my name to someone else’s. It feels weird like erasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:33 PM
2

That’s what I got from it. Makes me sad. And I felt anxious at the time like I did something wrong. But she was just feeling something about my boyfriend paying for me and hers....not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:22 PM
58

CLEARLY we NEED this mans opinion 😂 💀 Why don’t y’all want scrotes up in here calling us bitches huh?? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:12 PM
10

And then they get pissbaby mad when women don’t want to be treated like cum dumpsters 🤷‍♀️ Men have convinced me that they’re generally trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:31 PM
15

#NOTALLMEN 😂 watch porn habitually #NOTALLMEN wank it to screen ladies like a sad caged monkey 📺 🐒 #NOTALLMEN feel so insecure about porn that they assume viewership onto ALLMEN Fuckin dummies. The world is so much bigger and richer and they’re stuck in a masturbatory loop patting themselves on the back for nOt SiMpInG 🤡 meanwhile they’re investing jack and shit in their actual lives, plateaued in mediocrity, and will never be able to achieve the emotional connection with a human woman that they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:52 PM
2

Queen fucking energy right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:04 PM
173

He would be tripping over himself if a male in a high position told him he fucked up. Which he did. He’s a misogynist plain and simple. It’s only high maintenance because a woman told him, and he doesn’t respect women who don’t understand they should expect the bare minimum from him Report him. No professional environment needs some desktop guy telling women how their relationships will pan out based on a printer job done wrong. Ducking idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:28 PM
11

The bartender at the pool hall I go to said it was weird that I like when my boyfriend pays. I wanted to tell her that....he loves to pay for me. he loves to provide for me knowing I can provide for myself. he knows that I don’t need anyone which is why he wants to pay for and support me My boyfriend is planning a huge thing at the hall for our anniversary this week. It’s also our friends bday so boyfriend is getting him his own small cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:59 PM
6

I’m gonna frame this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:10 PM
8

Wow. Thank you for this. Powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:39 PM
12

Yes!! This is exactly correct. We’ve had to become clever and perceptive dealing with violent people stronger than and sexually attracted to us. They don’t even know how much they don’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:35 AM
1

Sign me up 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:41 PM
155

Who wants to give anything (time, attention, YOUR BODY) to someone who Actively hates, belittles you Has extreme anger issues Has violent tendencies Incels play themselves 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:05 PM
54

Poor old man who learned nothing about taking care of himself, dies from malnutrition like an abandoned animal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:31 PM
21

They must be deluded, it’s the only logical explaination They = supremely desperate for free random sex with women Us = women who don’t want to have sex with random men Demand for free random sex = high Supply of free random sex = low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:48 AM
7

This is so accurate you could chart the stars with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:45 AM
106

I thought of you on the way out of Walgreens. Wanna get married or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:38 AM
62

My boyfriend proposed with a ring I found out it’s fake when confronted he pleaded the 5th his last wife got a real ring 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:37 AM
45

Yep. Because he’s not. Just another scrote acting scrotey for decades at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:15 PM
38

That is so sad. Imagine being a young girl and passing up real career opportunities for OF. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:29 PM
64

Yep. I immediately stop talking to men like that. They’re never worth the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:03 PM
74

You gave me flash backs to my mom telling me how she always kept cash in her purse, glove compartment, luggage, pockets You never know. You just never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:20 PM
114

My ex was the same. I read somewhere else on FDS that... they may not have planned these behaviors, but they did after they did them and saw the reaction it had on you, and they liked it So when these dudes gave their dumb ultimatums and saw women scramble (“Nooo you aren’t dumb!! You just have to_______!”) they see her trying to help and they prefer that to being yelled at What do we learn from this? When they pull the “I’ll never do X again!” you don’t play into it. You call them out on their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:52 PM
74

FDS goals (not all inclusive, just general): Independence, self-improvement, self-love, stability, happiness, block and delete, healthy relationship with respectful man TRP goals: fuck on the first date by any means necessary, obedience, “free” dates, women are lesser and it’s ok to lie to them, women don’t know what they want, women like to be abused, women like assholes, women are children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:41 PM
147

It’s not only free, but the “salesmales” are EVERYWHERE. They really want you to have their product and some will stop at nothing to shove it down your throat (literally!!) and then try and make you feel bad about it, and maybe any other products you’ve tried in the past! DICK IS ABUNDANT AND LOW IN VALUE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:51 PM
187

That sucks. I’ve had pick me friends do stuff like this. I am no longer their friends But hey. Don’t let her shitty treatment of you get you down. Taking a leap of faith investment in a friendship is the first step toward a stronger friendship. Some friendships can’t grow. Some can. And that’s how you figure it out - because someone takes the first leap of faith. Don’t be discouraged <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:53 PM
9

Omg :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:21 PM
25

This is so excellent. Very happy for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:10 PM
37

Fucking mess. Hugest nope ever. How much do you bet that if he got his open relationship partner pregnant and she wanted to keep it, that he would be begging her to stay??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:26 PM
31

Lol I feel this. Any time a woman is doing _____ looking like _______, idiot men and pickmes want to “take her down a peg”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:24 PM
31

Prince Charming sure will love your desperation 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:50 AM
2

I had an ex who joyously told me he ran over my favorite animal on his way to work one day. Like....k? You’re clearly just doing this to hurt and get a rise. I didn’t respond to him at all. They give themselves away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:45 AM
15

Scrote still bitter about being rejected at age 12. Seems about right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:28 PM
42

Manipulation aside, because that’s a whole different tangent: I’ve repeated, word for word, what a man says to me back to him, only to have him exclaim ”Nooo, not that!!” and re-explain differently. Then I say THE EXACT WORDS he said FIRST and suddenly it’s right 🤦‍♀️ Even if you’re completely accurate, understand 100% —- men perceive everything you say and do through a filter of “wOmEnZ dUmB” and think that you are thinking the worst and/or most dumb possible way to perceive whatever it is you’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:25 PM
5

Months ago some LARPer scrote suggested a “queen meetup” Guess what would have happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:21 PM
166

Men will tell a woman he loves her just to sleep in a bed. Men will tell a woman he’s faithful just to get a hot meal. YOU’RE NOT A HOMELESS SHELTER. DO NOT GIVE ANYTHING, EVEN A MOMENT OF YOUR TIME, ENTERTAINING ROMANCE WITH LAZY, ENTITLED, ZERO VALUE HOMELESS MEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:46 PM
47

I’m sure this is true to an extent But definitely more guys break their dicks than those who are born with them simply bent without the scar tissue from years of jerking it to screen ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:41 PM
4

Seriously. They have zero awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:58 PM
5

The drive in me to rape and murder is non existent. It’s just not there beyond imagining it like a movie in my head. I know it’s wrong and the consequences and just....why? Why rape or murder when I could just live in peace without scrotes I don’t want to touch scrotes. Rape and or murder would mean touching them /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:15 AM
7

Son of a scrote chef’s kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:13 AM
10

I like this analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:00 PM
70

Back in college this guy became obsessed with me. And being young also, I was interested. I asked him to take me out on dates. Spend time with me. Anything. He could/would not, preferring to play games in his parents basement and lament at how I would look so good in lingerie. Still I continued to talk with him ( 🤡 ) asking him for his time and to come out with me. We never even kissed. Never got the chance to. I moved on. 17 years later he lives alone and has the same routine of work + video ga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:43 PM
2

Porn is as progressive as cigarettes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:29 AM
66

Men who get pissbaby mad over small shit and then pull the 🤡 I didn’t know it would affect you like this 🤡 Cut off LVM even in your own family. Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:24 AM
16

He asks for a PlayStation 5 No probs. Got this Purchase PlayySlation S from knock offs market. NEXT. He ask for threesome with your best friend. No problem. Got this. Purchase pocket pussy flesh light. Perfect. Same thing. SUCCESS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:13 PM
7

This has me amped for the next episodes. Thanks ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:06 PM
17

This is good advice
/r/askFDS25/04/21 01:05 AM
52

Number 4 especially When men spout there are more male victims, they purposefully omit that THE PERPETRATORS ARE ALSO MALE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:40 PM
5

Semen retention is when men don’t climax. They may “edge” or bring themselves close if they do self pleasure, but do not climax. My current partner practices this. He doesn’t watch porn (doesn’t stop me from checking up on this every so often to make sure) and doesn’t masturbate. When chooses to orgasm once every four times or so we are intimate. In my experience semen retention makes for better, longer, more controlled erections Doesn’t mean they’re less of a jackass or misogynist. Or even that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:32 PM
14

Honestly semen retention is something to cheer for. Yes, I know men don’t give any fucks about us and the reasoning. I am not debating this dudes weird weirdness about his sperm. But partners who practice semen retention and don’t watch porn = usually have rock hard erections and can last a good while. It’s the opposite of porn sick limp dick It certainly doesn’t mean they’re any less misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:27 PM
32

First of all as a FEMALE I am disgusted by this attitude. Your man got you a ring!!! That. Is. E. NOUGH!!!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:42 AM
29

I don’t disclose where I work If they get pushy, I just block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:04 PM
287

Exactly Cleaning for a man for free only gets you drumroll more unpaid cleaning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:51 PM
24

This is lovely advice. Especially about accepting your emotions. Never “run” from your own thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:51 PM
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It can seem impossible to be alone when you’re feeling insecure and have low self esteem. The easiest way to feel relief may seem to be from external sources, but it is not real relief, just a distraction No one can make YOU feel better about YOU except YOU. Other people can’t think your thoughts or feel your feelings. You’re alone in your brain. Don’t temporarily patch your feelings by entangling yourself with a person who ends up temporary because you yourself are only temporarily in this low …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:48 PM
303

You hit the nail on the head. Their idea of a “dream” is a woman who puts out and does menial tasks while asking for nothing. You ask for nothing, you get nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:48 PM
257

So your boyfriend sleeps in the same bed as his female best friend and washes the bedding after and you think he’ll deny cheating even if he is but YOU don’t want to seem toxic????? Textbook libfem pick me bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:56 PM
3

🤮omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:12 AM
26

Period sex can be really great in my experience. Squeamish men need not apply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:28 PM
123

In my college years there were four guys who lived in a house where the entire place looked like this. Honest truth I peed outside instead Once one of the guys puked in the toilet and got it all down the front and floor. He only cleaned the floor and the seat... I would go into sneezing fits almost instantly because of course they didn’t own a vacuum I hope they burned it down because that vile place needed to be cleansed from the earth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:41 PM
2

I love this video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:40 PM
3

Seconded.
/r/askFDS20/04/21 06:47 PM
1

Completely and wholeheartedly agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:55 PM
22

Tis absolute HERESY 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:55 PM
92

Lol @ masculine meat Oh this reminds me! I dated a man years ago. I was mostly vegetarian and we had eaten at a number of places where I ordered as such. I suggested a nice steakhouse for our next date. We went. Y’all this man ordered a 12oz filet WELL DONE with STEAK SAUCE 🤡 At a place where steaks are 60+ days aged and 50$+ a plate. (I am a steak snob, only eat it 4~ times a year) I ordered an 8oz filet blue rare (the rarest) because that’s what I like when I eat steak. This man kept telling m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:41 PM
197

If a man won’t eat soy because he thinks it’ll make him feminine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:03 PM
6

Thank you <3 and thank you for your outlook, it was helpful and uplifting. I think I’ll start expanding my wardrobe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:49 PM
25

I recently got hired as a manager in my department with a 15% pay raise. I am making a dumb (as in “phat”) amount of money. I haven’t told anyone about the raise or how much I make aside from my best friend and close family. But I so badly want to. I dreamt I told someone else and immediately felt horrible about it in the dream. I don’t look like I make good money. I drive a 15 year old car that I bought used and paid off in 2010. I bought a modest house. I wear mostly cheap clothes but I have n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:50 PM
63

Shit me too. Do I put this on my resume??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:39 PM
40

I explained how to properly care for a cast iron pan. Don’t use soap, use this special chain-cleaner I purchased specifically for this purpose, don’t use paper towels after on it. Let it dry in the oven on 200 for a couple of minutes. What does he do? He explains to me that “this is unnecessary for cookware.” And that “it’s Dawn soap! They use it on ducks! This is FINE to use on a cast iron! IT IS IRON.” So he uses soap, lets it sit, regular sponge, paper towels. “SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THIS PA…
/r/askFDS19/04/21 02:25 PM
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Hahahahahaha I laughed out loud at that part. No amount of “glamping” (glamorous camping) will turn me onto bathing in streams or gyms and having to find an unsoiled spot against a tree in the middle of the night to shit. At least get a fucking RV with a bathroom 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:19 PM
26

Is he making an effort? Or is he making an effort for now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:02 PM
43

dump at the first glimpse of a pink flag and keep the eye on the prize This whole post was great. Love this final sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:07 PM
13

Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:58 PM
4

This was a great read. I am glad you’re free. Reading this helped me process some stuff in my past. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:35 PM
7

Damn. Connected dots for me too. It makes so much sense. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:08 PM
38

Heartbreaking. Terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:59 PM
14

Love posts like these. Good work <3 welcome!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:23 PM
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MiSaNdRy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:09 PM
1

Lady. I feel you. But your boyfriend doesn’t not hear you. He hears you and chooses to ignore. He knows you’ll just try try try try try try try again. And so do the guys at your work. I used to be like this. Practice your loud voice in the car alone. And when you say something, be very sure about what you’re saying. Be concise. And loud. Be sure of your words. The men in my family have an awful habit of not only ignoring people but talking over them loudly. Get louder and maintain. Don’t yell. D…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:42 PM
34

My thoughts exactly. These are desperation trophies. This boy isn’t ignorant to the requirements for clothes and dishes. He’s just letting her do the work. And throwing her a bone. And each time he does the barest of minimums she SHOWERS him with PRAISE 🙌 and TROPHIES 🏆 HOLY FUCK YALL I WIPED MY OWN ASS!! What do I get?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:16 PM
9

Fresh fit is bullshit. They’re a couple of dumb misogynists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:14 PM
61

Me too. Wow. I would be like “wow thanks” 🥱😐😑 the boyfriend probably thinks “this woman is insane”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:11 PM
36

I can imagine it now. “So you’re saying there ARE reasons to kidnap a woman?! YOURE CRAZY” They look for anything to tear apart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:05 PM
74

Thank you, yes - I poorly phrased this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:00 PM
176

“Mad af for what” <3 This woman did nothing to warrant KIDNAPPING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:47 PM
61

So many men get so upset hearing that they are responsible for their sperm. So dumb. Then they get on FDS calling us crazy nut bags because we vet men for ... oh I don’t know ... responsibility and partners that respect our boundaries? When our boundary is DONT ORGASM INSIDE OF ME. How thick do you have to be to argue that men are not responsible for their ejaculate AND that women are dumb for vetting their partners who respect their reproductive decisions 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:38 PM
79

HOW is this elevating exactly?? So they never learn to help themselves???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:58 PM
7

HehehhehehHHEEHEHEHEHMUHAHAHHAHA fucking yes, lady! I am feeling this energy TO MY CORE! You’ve earned it. You’re protecting it. Keeping yourself in a good state is the same logic as putting on your oxygen mask first. It is just so sensible!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:29 PM
13

Nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:46 PM
78

“MOMMY MOMMY I DID A DISH! I GO PLAY NOW?!” - the dude in OPs post, probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:23 PM
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😂 💀 and children often do! They’re observant and not trying to bend over backward to demonstrate for their menfolk how mAsCuLiNe they are. How they wEaR tHe PaNtS! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:36 AM
570

At 49. Well. Great work Sherlock. You’ve done it. What so many women shouted from the rooftops and at you from every direction probably your whole life and you’ve ignored, you figured out on your own after nearly half a century. Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:26 AM
49

💃 🙌 👑 I have listened to each episode immediately as they came out. Thank you ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:22 AM
30

So well put and concise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:59 PM
103

Can you write this down and send it back in time for me? FFS. I would have loved early life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:58 PM
13

💥 came here to say this! Enjoy your hobbies and live your life. Not your life in search of someone else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:49 PM
14

This is a great idea. It could be on the FDS Spotify? Mods!!! 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:15 PM
14

Step 1) Porn makes males think weird creepy sex scenarios with family and family-ish are attractive and attainable Step 2) Porn sick males assault their family in real life because they’ve trained their dicks and brains to get off to it Step 3) pOrN iS nOrMaL 🤡 iT dOeSnT cAuSe AnY pRoBlEmS Seriously I am SO glad I am not a male. Imagine being controlled by your gentials and train yourself over years to think incest is sexy They’re horrifically laughable. It’s the most amazingly moronic scenario.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:41 PM
71

Damn boo. I like this a lot. Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:26 AM
9

Beautiful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:24 PM
37

I’m not from Turkey and don’t speak Turkish. I can cheer on the FDS efforts and advancements of women in Turkey but I can’t speak to their specific challenges or offer any helpful advice. I’ve never lived in such a place or had quite the same experiences or difficulties, and I don’t want to assume or give poor advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:21 PM
25

Yep. He said flatly that he thought we would be together forever. Despite him not having a job, refusing to spend special days with me, refusing to help with housework, and arguing about everything with me. Boy, bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:52 PM
44

This doesn’t apply to me at all, but I support and commend your efforts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:38 PM
10

Couple years ago a guy asked me on a date. I chose the place, a restaurant I love and frequent alone or with friends. It is NOT a cheap place, but that doesn’t matter because I personally can afford it and so I bring myself. Guy says he is cool with the place and price and compliments my taste. Day of, I arrive early and order myself drinks and oysters Dude arrives and seems off. Complains about parking costs, price of the restaurant Immediately I’m not feeling it. I tell him I’ll pay for myself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:08 PM
73

I’d rather oxygenate the vacuum of space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:21 PM
2

Wow. Gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:07 AM
15

That was painful to read. What a dope Yeah, I have so many thoughts going on in my head it makes ME a dope and you somehow an elegant intelligent thing. Maybe it’s because you’ve got a Pentium I for a processor dudecake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:59 AM
3

Fuji apples are great. Opal apples are my new favorite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:31 PM
24

🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:54 PM
99

Also to add: 99% of men are misogynistic. 99% of men are on the scale of major misogynist to least misogynist, but they’re all on the scale. The other 1% are in a coma or something idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:37 PM
49

Yes, he did I wonder if he sees women as full humans now. I wonder if it is possible for men to change like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:41 PM
249

Most men can’t understand that women have an inner monologue like they do. They can’t even comprehend that maybe their experience with consciousness and being alive isn’t restricted to only them or only men. It’s like they experience the answer of being human by being human, but dehumanize women so vastly that they don’t even consider that women have thoughts and feelings and hopes and dreams and moral challenges, etc. In summary, they don’t have empathy for anyone without a penis because they a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:57 PM
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No better time than now! It’s easy to not pay for dates when you just ignore any man who would refuse to pay for you. Paying for your date directly correlates with his interest and desire to invest. If he doesn’t want to pay, he’s not really interested. Men will get progressively meaner towards women who they don’t really like when they’re still romantically involved. He really knows within the first few minutes of meeting if he wants to invest and sees you as a “dream girl” - and if he does, he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:46 PM
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That’s awesome and I’m glad you found something that works for you :) Birth control is absolutely a benefit as a whole - it has given countless women comfort and reproductive freedom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:38 PM
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Aww boohoo you can’t afford it little man I haven’t paid for myself on a first date (or any date) since 2007 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:53 PM
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This is just so depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:57 PM
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Dead right lady. It doesn’t matter why. It matters that they did it and how it affected you They’re either doing it unknowingly and hurting you Or doing it on purpose and hurting you Either way you end up hurt and by someone who WONT or CANT change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:18 PM
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The eugenics is what made me chortle with laughter. Seriously now. SERIOUSLY. Eugenics? Comparing SOME women's preference for penis size with EUGENICS? Oh lord we better set up the small peen camps and catch the fuck up /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:14 PM
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Scrote is trying to poison her and she’s trying to understand his motives because she loves him Fucking. Lunacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:07 PM
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Agree that height, shoe size, hands etc are not a good indicator of penis size. Dated a guy who was 6’7 and had not only the worst personality ever, but a smaller than average penis that he abused to the point of needing a death grip and paint shaker machine speed to climax For me personally, dick > all else, and I too prefer “average plus”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:59 PM
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Totally, I don’t like to think about where I may be if I were still on hormones. Not worth it Thank you for the compliments!! I just went scrolling through your history and it turns out I’ve been upvoting you pretty regularly 🥳 keep on being awesome lady
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:13 PM
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Wow we had very similar experiences. HBC changed me as a person and I did not like who I was. Mood swings, crying, all so my LVM ex could have a few extra pumps. He was terrible at sex and I felt obligated 🤡 I got off HBC after I found myself angrily researching some stupid thing for hours to argue with my ex on something he was totally wrong about (supply and demand in the housing market, he didn’t believe it existed). It took YEARS to feel normal again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:06 PM
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Years ago (pre-FDS) I fell for a guy whose brain I loved, personality I enjoyed, and body that I thought I could convince myself to fall for. But this voice in my head and gut told me not to procreate with him. It was interesting and weird. Very real though. We decided to stop talking and went our separate ways —- Edit to add: I would not have been happy with this man. Despite loving his brain and most of his personality, some primal drive inside me was repulsed by him physically. And I feel awf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:01 PM
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Glad you did an episode on that terrible vice article Keep on keeping on ladies! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:19 PM
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🙌 You are in the right place. There is no better time than now. Congrats to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:26 PM
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So true. My ex was like this. When I tried to clean before we had guests he would tell me NOT TO CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT HOW WE LIVE 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:35 PM
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Omg 🤦‍♀️ “Lost” = “I can’t even sign up for insurance how can I possibly navigate forms. Not even for my kids would I put myself through filing out forms and going to appointments.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:30 PM
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He may have got to close the door, but I got to lock it 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:29 PM
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Great analogy. This is exactly what it is like I helped my ex sign up for college classes once. He signed up for one class Next semester he asked me to do it again and I told him to figure it out. He never went back. Don’t put work in for people who won’t work for themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:24 PM
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They’re animals They only prove it more every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:41 PM
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No Such a big no Oh god no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:23 PM
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What the fuck He wants a life manager and laborer and masseuse and therapist .... 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:22 PM
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Just want to say I admire your efforts Regarding the finances, start small. Save your first 100$ and never touch it. Next, save 1000$ and never touch it. First two steps are the hardest. This would be your emergency fund for in case After you have that 100$ + 1000$ saved, target how much you would need to survive without working for 4-6 months. And then start saving that If you ever do use your emergency 1k, IMMEDIATELY restore it back to 1k and continue not touching it. It’s the buffer This all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:20 PM
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Yep My ex fought with me about spending my dead sisters bday with me. He would rather go out with friends. My current guy planned an entire birthday for me with multiple cakes and pizzas and close friends. He spent my dead sisters bday with me without question. He even learned to make my favorite childhood dishes from scratch IF HE WANTED TO, HE WOULD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:04 PM
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Why does he care about the height preference of someone he isn’t attracted to and doesn’t want to date??? ?????? Oh right. Hubris
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:01 PM
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This. This is why I bought my own home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:40 PM
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A million times this. Thank you mods!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:59 PM
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This is a list for a job interview This dude is looking for a “date partner” and not an actual life long mate. If you were looking for your life long mate, wouldn’t you add some things to this list? What he’s explaining here is just basic person existing on a date ☠️ If I wanted a human who wore shirts and listened to me that’s the bare ducking minimum. Is this man an alien who has never met a woman or been on a date?? Seems like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:23 PM
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Plot twist There’s one rug basically glued to the floor and the curtains were there when he moved in 😹☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:20 PM
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FLY FREE you gorgeous inner weirdo. Make those mirror faces and hand signal like you’re trying to confuse a landing aircraft
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:25 PM
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I’m so happy this struck a chord with others 😹 One of my favorites is to push my nose up like a pig but make honking sounds like a goose because it’s generally confusing. Pigs don’t honk. Does she know this? is what I hope they wonder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:23 PM
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A guy tried to get my attention from across a bar by eyeing me up and down. Inspecting me. We locked eyes and he had a weird intrusive look about him. So I made a weird face and started doing jazz hands and he looked away all red faced I have increased skill in the art of Weirdflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:59 PM
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My current guy practices semen retention. He chooses not to orgasm 2/3 times we are intimate. For him, my orgasms are important and he has said on more than one occasion “a dude cumming isn’t anything special. And I don’t want to be tired after sex.” I’m glad I found a man like this. Bigly refreshing compared to the clowns of my past and those who answered your question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:35 PM
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Length without girth is just pain. Accurate!! It’s like a long creepy finger. Like Salad Fingers (if you’ve heard of this antique creepy meme) but a penis instead of a finger 😬🤢💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:50 PM
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Completely agree I dated a guy with a huge cock. Just enormous. Like 9-by-soda can. It was immediately pleasurable and he could do things no one else could like give me the easiest PIV orgasms without clit stimulation The guy I’m dating now is easily above average in length and girth and I’ve found I prefer him to the largest guy I experienced because I can fully take the current guy whereas the big one he had to be extremely careful not to hurt me But yeah. Smaller and thinner cocks....are just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:49 PM
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Concur. The thicker the better imho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:27 AM
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It’s amazing to watch a mans face fall when they realize you’re for real with them paying for dates Once I was at a bar talking with strangers and I told this dude that I was really traditional, no sex before commitment, he must pay for dates. And I explained it was to weed out the dudes who want me for sex. The oldest guy thought it was awesome. The young guy said it was probably because I didn’t make any money and wanted to live for free. After I told him I had a good job and made good money, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:58 PM
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I don’t stick to any one brand, but generally ones that are reviewed as being very stretchy. Search for “underslip shorts” or “women’s slip shorts” The last brand I got that were good were some generic on Amazon. Sorry this isn’t too helpful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:45 PM
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Well put. I experienced the same. And I still do sometimes about things I haven’t thought about since discovering it about myself in other areas of my mind. It’ll keep happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:00 PM
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Fee-fee and pee-pee 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:46 PM
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“I just wanted to eat the pie you made for me (and that I told you I would eat) so badly that I went out to Sonic and plowed through seven hotdogs in the parking lot because I just love that pie so much and can’t wait to eat it. I’m definitely still hungry and can’t wait for this pie but I’m going to Sonic tomorrow too so just keep it warm for me. But I’ll definitely eat it!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:45 PM
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Came here to say this, glad I’m not the first. Men rape women. Men rape men. Men do the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY of the RAPING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:39 PM
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Srsly that’s all I hear when I read these scrotefestos 💀 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:11 PM
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He and I met online through tinder 🤢 He gave me a blue star or whatever it was. A super like. Checked out his profile. Ok cool He started chatting with me. Was very respectful. We went from text to calls to video chat. No sexting and he never asked for pics or anything crude First date, he paid without question. He thanked me for the opportunity to take me on a date I’ve never paid for a thing. He listens when I speak. He cares about my thoughts and feelings. He took care of me when I broke a bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:00 PM
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It is HUMAN INSTINCT to diggle your piggle to women on a SCREEN 📺 HOW DARE YOU FEMINISTS WHOM I DO NOT RESPECT DARE YOU DARE WANT MEN WHO DONT DIGGLE PIGGLE TO VIDEO LADIES 😤😤 HOW DARE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:06 PM
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I work 45 hours a week and do all housework and chores and childcare while my husband does jack shit to help and makes it harder for me to even shower or buy new glasses I need to see BUT IM THE BAD PERSON BECAUSE HE DOESNT HAVE ACCESS TO MY MONEY holy duck 🦆 Take me away from this horror show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:09 PM
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Me too. He gave me two rings actually while telling me he wanted me to to propose to him 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:04 PM
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Ahh yes The “promise to consider possible future engagement” ring What a guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:01 PM
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You did the right thing. He tried to backpedal and give you a chance to change your mind 🤡 but you held firm! Good good good good. Seriously I am elated to read your post. You had so much strength and willpower. Please recognize and DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THAT My current partner practices semen retention (AMAZING. LOOK IT UP.), doesn’t watch porn, and is extremely attentive to me sexually, to my life in general, to our lives. There are men who are NOT porn sick and you are on the right track to fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:51 PM
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This is the most beautiful and truthful. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:55 AM
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The irony of posting about the pain but necessity of breakups on a breakup sub starting with THAT HE HASNT BROKEN UP WITH A WOMAN HE DIDNT LIKE AFTER 20 YEARS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:31 PM
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MEN: WE ARE DRIVEN BY OUR HORMONES ALSO MEN: WOMEN CAN NOT BE TRUSTED BECAUSE THEY ARE DRIVEN BY THEIR HORMONES 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:20 PM
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This makes me happy to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:50 PM
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Now you know And knowing is half the battle queue GI Joe theme music But for real - now you know what that looks like and what you don’t want. Be kind to your past self, because she did not know The closest you can get to yesterday is right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:02 PM
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When men refute they said something I know they said and I heard, I distance and leave. Sorry you had to deal with this asshole Proud of you lady!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:43 PM
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Thank you for the elaboration I cannot get behind that Edit to add: are there reasons someone should be castrated? Yes. But just all men because they’re men? No...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:30 PM
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I am so sorry you had to put up with them. The last few sentences really shook me. Totally fucked up. It’s like they’re not even human, or even trying to be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:22 PM
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It’s really sad they need to be told that humans have hair 💀💀🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ ffs It must be awful to live that way. So glad I’m not a male who is a slave to their dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:21 PM
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I wear thin undershorts below my dresses so if it does happen, I’m basically wearing bicycle shorts anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:17 PM
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Me too please!! I’m trying to find them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:15 PM
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Browsing a certain anti-masturbation subreddit, reading posts and comments by MEN detailing exactly what FDS warns about over masturbation and ED is incredibly interesting To loosely quote a comments I just read: “I’m 21 and just starting to notice that’s it’s my fucking dick up” (as in his fault his dick doesn’t work) “I’m 32 and married to my wife 4 years. The porn addiction is such a vicious cycle that when you abstain you can’t get regular erections while having sex because your penis doesn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:56 PM
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In my experience the only non-POC who want to use the n word seem to do it out of desperation to find themselves oppressed somehow by not being able to say it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:04 AM
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Omfg This is the best way anyone has said this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:36 PM
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A simp is a man who performs misogynistic assholery for the approval other men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:12 PM
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Under what circumstances?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:12 AM
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It was not my intent at all to reinforce e notion that unattractive guys are nicer. It matters to me that a guy treats me well. Attraction and looks absolutely do matter. If I found a guy attractive who treated me badly, I wouldn’t date him. If a guy treated me well but I was not attracted to him, I wouldn’t date him. If a guy treated me well and I was attracted to him but he wasn’t “conventionally attractive” then I would date him because it’s my standards that are fulfilled - 1) treats me well…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:43 PM
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Thanks for the explanation. Next time I will add "to me" to the end of those so as not to confuse you or anyone into thinking I am making a blanket statement I'm not making any rule for any other woman. For me personally I care about someone treating me right. Women deserve to be with men they find attractive, in any way, and I have not tried to shame any woman for their standards. I never said a woman is asking for "too much" for having physical, standards, quite the opposite. That's why I am h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:30 PM
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Let's define further then "I've dated me who are conventionally unattractive physically" -- men who are shorter, chubby, whatever, whom I find attractive. I liked their faces. I liked the symmetry. This doesn't make me a pick-me for finding men attractive who are conventionally unattractive "but had amazing personalities" -- they put me first, took me on dates, paid for me, did not pressure me into anything, made me laugh, put effort into the relationship, respectful of me/my choices/my life "so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:15 PM
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I agree with you completely I have dated men who are conventionally unattractive physically but had amazing personalities. That’s honestly what matters the most (to me personally and any any all women have the right to have standards. You are totally correct for wanting a man who is attractive according to YOUR standards) Someone beautiful on the inside (to me. someone who I find beautiful on the inside, as this is my standard, and not meant to shame any other woman for whatever their standards …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:38 PM
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I feel like at that point it’s a life changing program. But would they actually grow out of being incels, or weaponize their knowledge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:05 PM
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You’d be doing the lords work, truly I’m glad services like these exist. I worked for a non profit that served mentally disabled citizens and they had life skills coaches on staff. Great people, all of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:55 PM
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Yes. He needs a paid professional who has experience dealing with this 🙄 same professional who helps grown adults stop sucking thumbs or shitting into bottles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:39 PM
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He is ashamed of himself and making it all about him. Fucking clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:36 PM
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Tbh I would report this message too What an idiot this guy is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:46 PM
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Men are raped and abused more than women....by whom? It would be by other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:30 PM
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Yep I felt the same way. Today I am happy to report that I make considerably more than I did back then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:05 PM
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At a bar pre-FDS this guy reaaaally wanted to know what I made. We both worked in The same field but my career was about 10+ years longer than his. Both the same age at the time Y’all this man literally stomped away when I told how much I made. I rounded down, too. He was coming at me strong with some “provider vibes” (his words 🙄) but had a meltdown hearing I was 20k/year above him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:04 PM
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Just want to mention that wasp killer spray goes like 16 feet and will fucking blind you Less than 20$ at Lowe’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:55 PM
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Something like this happened to me. But with my feet.... I knew this guy from a friend group who was always chill with me. Seemed level headed. In hindsight he was very excited to hang out with me. He lived an hour away and asked if he could crash at my house after a small get together at our mutual friends near where I lived. I said yes. My house was small and he slept in the bottom bunk bed, and me on the top. The bottom is usually just for cats. He brought his own camping cot and blankets. Wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:17 PM
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Listened. Following on Spotify THANK YOU QUEENS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:22 PM
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💀 😂 I’m feeling a theme hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:20 PM
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I love the smashed glass ceiling outlook I humbly accept your gift of broken glass 🤩 I shall create chandeliers, mock Tiffany lamp shades, walking stones - and the most beautifully sharp ridiculous moat with a sign that says “free nudes” in the middle 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:02 PM
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I’ll use this broken glass all around the house I paid for I’ll call it the BROKEN GLASS SCROTE MOAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:50 PM
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Woooow yes. I’ve gotten huge hate for saying pretty much exactly this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:47 PM
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exactly This is why FDS teaches BLOCK AND DELETE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:46 PM
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This attitude is what has saved me from years of grief. 1) some peoples minds you can’t change. 2) if you could change them, consider all of the effort it would take YOU to do so. 3) what do you get out of it? Isn’t it easier to just let that person go instead of expending your energy, time, patience? Do an ROI (return on investment) 4) some men will never believe anything you say because of who you are. They would rather dig a hole and triple down on being wrong than ever admitting or even cons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:35 PM
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Right?? Where is this post. I’ve never seen anything like that. And that sentiment is NOT what FDS is about at all. It’s laughable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:37 PM
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Agree. Please keep as a sticky for a while It’s so infuriating that they chose to misunderstand and misrepresent FDS. But not surprising at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:50 PM
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Kevin McXbox 💀 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:09 AM
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Maybe aimed at the males who couldn’t otherwise ever procreate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:25 AM
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And it’s always guys who aren’t even ugly. They’re normal average dudes whose self esteem is so low they feel they have to say “I’m so ugly but I’m a person inside!! A NICE PERSON” 🙄 And then they come out the gate with insecurities and use everything you say to point toward it like “you don’t wanna date me because of MY JAWLINE UGHH” No, m’dude, it’s because you don’t listen and you’re massively insecure and filter all of what I say through your imaginary veil of wOmEnZ bAd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:56 PM
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Investments Really nice food at really nice restaurants Great skincare products Amazon prime for my best girl friend Cat dental work I love my own money 💰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:10 PM
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Thank you. Added and listening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:10 PM
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Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:44 PM
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Kindly think on this. Edit: nothing you’ve added is helpful or adds meaningful discussion to the topic. From your post history you’re either a troll or very new to this sub and women’s issues in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:16 PM
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I clicked out and remembered this comment immediately and came back to upvote and comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:37 AM
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I think about this a lot. Thank you, mods! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:40 AM
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I CAN EAT ANY TIME I WANT shovels garbage into mouth IT’S YOU WHO IS LOSING OUT drinks toilet water I AM NEVER HUNGRY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:19 AM
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Ahahahaha holy wow. They figured it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:10 AM
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I grew up playing video games. Right around age 11 I got heavy into a very popular massive multiplayer role playing game, and continued for years. I still got out into the world and became an actual person. I can type really fast too (thanks, pc gaming!) You’re totally right though. Groups of friends playing a console is massively different than holing yourself up for years with electronic entertainment and little or no personal contact. Having experienced this to an extent, I can say that while…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:16 PM
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They do this for horses to collect semen from a stud and use it to inseminate the mare they want to breed with Also, male turkeys are known to try and mate with fake turkeys, or even just the disembodied head of one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:08 PM
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Truth it does. Imagine before COVID how so many males already did this though. They self isolated for so long and during such formative years that they can’t handle another person. It’s really sad. Entirely their fault, still really sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:58 PM
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I’ve imagined a male sex doll. But that’s it. A fleeting thought of “oh this exists.” And that silicone romance stuff...it’s not even a step up from a pillow. It’s akin to a video game with a better texture pack. They’re still having a “relationship” (re: severe mental illness) with themselves, pretending a doll is alive somehow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:57 PM
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Honestly what else is a sex doll other than a huge admittance of utter failure? The two things all life is purposed for is NOT DIE and PROCREATE. No mate wants them, so they need to go into their closet with a rubber dolly and tend to their peepee urges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:50 PM
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That’s the hilarious part. They’re no studs. Women choose their partners and assholes get the stuffed animal with a hole in it and put into a corner to jack off until they die This is the same concept
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:47 PM
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I found this one funny. Like a self fulfilling prophecy, or China’a one child only law Digging their own demise. Would you be fulfilled by a doll? If I can empathize real hard with this.... I’d have to be in a dark and lonely place to consider a doll a suitable partner. Koo-koo for coconuts. The kind of lonely where your whole world is your mind + streaming media and only remote human contact. It’s such a failure of humanity. I can’t help but be reminded by those fake animals that farmers use to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:38 AM
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Gotcha. Makes sense. Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:26 PM
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Why does this matter? Honestly and kindly asking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:39 PM
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Damn girl. I learned today. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:55 AM
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I don’t date men with children. I automatically swipe left on profiles with kids or when it lists them as having kids. If he doesn’t treat his sperm like gold, why do I want it? It’s clearly easy to get and he just distributes it freely. There are absolutely other scenarios but as other women here have pointed out, he should be worrying about being a FATHER instead of finding another vagina to jizz into. Hard. Pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:34 PM
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Thank you :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:49 PM
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Welcome <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:02 PM
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I dated a guy who said he made his first million by 32. He was 51. I was 29. He said he wanted to pay me and get me “on the books” where he would pay me a whopping 200$ a week to give him lunchtime blowjobs and be monogamous The same FDS rules apply to rich men. They’ll invest the same. Or not. They’ve all got penises and money doesn’t change how bad they want their pp touched
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:22 PM
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Nope. My being angry does NOT mean I’m conquered. Don’t buy into this crap Your purpose is not to be a beacon of stoicism in the face of angry scrotes who want to use and abuse you. And you should NOT feel ashamed for being angry. You are NOT conquered because of your anger. Men are angry all of the time and it’s basically the only acceptable thing for them to show other men. FECKING STOP. Are they all conquered????! What does conquered even mean for them in that aspect? They aren’t ashamed. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:53 PM
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Nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:46 PM
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Yep. This I learned the hard way from giving guys I wasn’t attracted to “a chance” I ended up resenting them and myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:24 PM
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This is why I don’t date men with criminal records. It’s too risky to just not know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:05 PM
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My moms cookies were tollhouse recipe, but with pre-roasted nuts in it. She won three baking contests with those cookies 😝 no one knew any better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:36 PM
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I already posted about how grateful I am, and I am going to do so again here because this community is amazing. There’s no Women’s space like this anywhere. Not in real life. Not on the internet. I feel unapologetic about my life I grew up with my looks tied to my worth. I had 3 cosmetic surgeries before I was 25, the first at 16. I am in my 30s now and FDS is what pushed me over this weird psychological hump and into a vat of confidence. Not therapy, not friends, not exercise, not achieving the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:34 PM
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I dated an older Muslim man who wanted me to convert and then do this temporary marriage with him so we could have sex during Ramadan I told him I respected his religion to much to do that, and then ghosted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:37 PM
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Actually had a conversation about this again with my current partner He has slept with 11 women total. I have slept with 43 men total. We are both in our mid thirties This wasn’t ever a secret or a mystery. I told him I’ve experienced what it’s like “around the block” and he has more to offer than any of them. The grass isn’t greener. I’ve seen it. It’s shit grass with ants and rocks and just terrible. He treats me amazingly and I wouldn’t ever give that up. I’m not tempted to leave when I know …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:25 PM
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There was a dude I went out with who thought it was cute to lift my skirt. It was a workout skirt with shorts under, but it bothered me. When he first did it in public I pulled my skirt back down and told him not to do it. He then did it again almost immediately after. I warned him that I don’t don’t it funny and please not to do it. He did it again, and I turned around and told him I was going home, because if I ask him and he still does it, the only option I have is to remove myself. He change…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:27 AM
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I was making out with a guy I met at a party earlier that night. He was funny and nice enough. I was on my period and there was a 0% chance of getting frisky. There was flirting and dirty talk (me:“Ever been deepthroated?” — him:“no girl could handle it”) He tied getting handsy, I squirmed out of it multiple times. Eventually he undid his pants, and.... he was about 3 inches ish. Maybe 4. I didn’t say anything about it bc it’s his body, that would be horrifically rude. I kept squirming away and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:16 PM
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🤦‍♀️ The blind leading the blind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:43 PM
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Thanks lady. I sincerely appreciate that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:02 PM
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I love this. This is what I remind myself when I think each of these things. Thank you for arranging it so succinctly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:49 PM
6

Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:58 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:26 PM
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I had a guy tell me “that’s too much for a girl” when we compared salaries and mine was higher 😂 ok dude all vagina people will earn less for you so your precious ego remains in tact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:12 PM
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Summertime by Mungo Jerry. You’ve definitely heard this before. It is stupid catchy and I still love it....the same way I love my grandma despite hating people. (“I love you but no. You’re being embarassing and racist grandma.”) Some lyrics: If her daddy's rich take her out for a meal. If her daddy's poor just do what you feel 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:36 PM
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That’s a huge nope from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:45 PM
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Yeah if you don’t actually understand what is going on then I cannot help you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:48 PM
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The money. Financial security is my goal. I take care of elderly family members on my own. And right now at this age and position in life, I am single with a good job, that even when taking care of them I have been able to save a decent amount of expendable money. If I lose what I put in, we won’t suffer. But if this pays off.... I pay off my house and even if I died my family would be ok. And a little for the lulz too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:58 PM
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Of the popular stocks this week... I have 4 GME, 40 AMC and 5 BB (blackberry)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:20 PM
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This is fucking beautiful. Succinct and awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:15 PM
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People who are “outdoorsy” can actually list what they do outside. When I hear that word it kills me. It’s as generic as “I like to have fun” 😦 Stuff like: hiking swimming urban exploring gardening disc golf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:30 PM
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I LiKe DaRk HuMoR = I’ll give you a dollar that he means racism and sexism. Amazing This dude is 34 and has mentioned 0 life skills. (Edit: he mentioned cooking. Ok). “Looking into” IT courses means you know jack shit about IT and would probably start and end with level 1 help desk resetting passwords and being a ticket monkey. Not that there’s anything wrong with that........but it is about as IT as working at Starbucks makes you a baker. This is the sad reality of a huge portion of the dating …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:12 PM
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Truth!! Another one of my favorites is asking guys if they want to read my poetry. 9/10 they’ll ghost 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:48 PM
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Honestly I was a bit terrified while doing it and there’s probably a mirror universe where it didn’t end as well. But I was just so tired and didn’t think much other than “WTF GUY”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:26 PM
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Bullies and predators crumble when they’re seen and embarassed. Good on you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:47 PM
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I felt such anger and annoyance at the time because of just that reason. No, it’s not ok that I’m tired and don’t want to talk to you. He clearly took it as “that’s ok you’re tired and won’t talk, I’ll do all of the talking” Way after the interaction I felt like an ass. Now it makes me laugh to think about (Not verbatim) Me: IVE LIVED HERE FOREVER DO YOU LIKE DOGS Him: I— Me: HAHAHAHA THATS AMAZING DOGS ARE SO COOL WOW THIS ONE TIME MY FRIENDS DOG MISSY DID A FLIP ISNT THAT AMAZING WOW DO YOU LI…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 09:02 PM
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Years ago guy on a subway tried to get my attention. I stupidly waved back thinking “I don’t know you..” When he came over and stood in front of me I took my headphones off and politely explained that I was tired, thanked him, flashed my (fake) wedding ring and went to put my headphones back on. He literally said “that’s ok” and started introducing himself to me and launching into something about his life something in me snapped, and I was braver back then. So I amped my energy up to 20000 and b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:30 PM
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My first year in college there was a guy in one of my classes who became obsessed with me (“Tommy”) We were both the same age. Both played video games. He was part of my friend group. But he was so afraid of making any move. Eventually he helped a few of us, including me, get a job at the software company he got hired on with as techs. Tommy eventually got the courage to ask me out. But when I asked where, he didn’t want to go out because of his anxiety. He didn’t want to walk or hike because of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:45 PM
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These are the same people who don’t train their dogs because “it’s just gonna jump around anyway. Just wait for it to stop” 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:34 PM
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It’s not about being independent. She can open her door. Everyone knows that. It’s about a guy taking time to treat a woman extremely well. Because he loves her. He knows she can. But he wants to anyway, because it makes him feel good to treat his lady this way. It makes HIM feel like he’s doing something for her. He drove her to the restaurant that he chose and planned for. He told her the time and picked her up and she looks amazing. He opened her car door. He brought her to a nice place. He m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:34 PM
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Barring an abusive partner who threatens you if you were to leave, other circumstances - I do agree. And it is worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:13 PM
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This is probably my biggest fear. Being trapped in a shitty relationship with a shitty partner who makes life awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:49 PM
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I was raised to think males were smarter, quicker, better in every way. And that I was stupid and not worthy. When I came into my own (around 29) and realized who I was compared to who all I dated and males I knew, it was horrifying. I felt like I had been eating soylent green and just realized it was people. The blindfold was off and I was disgusted. It took years for that to settle into an accepted awareness rather than appalled disgust Ignore the guys who bring you down or neg you. Don’t argu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:09 PM
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I want a man who thinks about what I need before I need it and takes the initiative to get it done. If I’m in bed sick, I don’t want to ask “get me water, juice, ok a blanket now. And something for my head.” I want a guy who sees I’m sick and wants to make me feel better and does those things without asking. CARES for me without asking Has a job without me asking. Takes care of himself without me asking Basically I want to date a person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:38 PM
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I am all for block and delete. There is only one time I wish I had not Very awful guy I dated posted pics of my on revenge porn site with my real info. And after it was all over, I deleted the conversations where he admitted to it. All of the evidence gone. To this day I wish I had kept it... but I wanted it to be over. It was just before revenge porn laws were made. I could have gotten some sort of settlement because it affected my life. Never make videos or send pics or anything like that, eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:54 PM
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