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Amused mastery is hard to pull off here because the extreme is wild. Pour some beer on your hand, smooth it back through your hair like a greaser. Dab some on either hand and pat it like it's cologne on your neck. Hum an old toon as you do it. When finished say, "When I go out, I don't always wear beer cologne, but when I do, I wear ode-de-whore, stay thirsty bitches" and smile wickedly. If she does it again, have her removed from the bar. Also, if you're gaming, have a spare shirt or something …
/r/askTRP22/12/14 01:55 PM
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How'd you join TRP in June and haven't learned one of the most basic "gain confidence" sidebar pieces? How do you think you get over ANY fear? Do it until you stop being afraid. Just go to a club and do it to people you don't care about and will never seen again. Also, it's reasonably clear you haven't read much because "don't shit where you eat" (work) is pretty far up there constantly.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:43 AM
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If anyone needs metrics because they have no ability to pick up on social ques like "This girl is ready": You see if she's interested with light touching in the first song in the first minute Escalate that to heavier touching by the end (3-4 minutes) The second song should start out a little lighter Much heavier touching, grinding lightly Kiss by the end Makeout party on the 3rd song Get a drink, talk, party some more, make out, grind, then go home with her after a 4th or 5th song These are aver…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 02:31 AM
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I call it, "The Santa Bulk" j/k I couldn't bulk if my life depended on it.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 04:39 AM
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Don't LTR to experience love because it will be a fucking mess of a relationship. If you're going to LTR up just for "practice" at least do it with someone who doesn't shit test you like this. Just keep her plated to keep your confidence levels high and start looking elsewhere. Also, as said before, if you're ever unsure, just say nothing. You'd be surprised at how saying nothing makes people backpeddle stupid statements like this at a phenomenal rate.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 04:38 AM
3

Bi is life on easy mode. My dread is constant and prevalent. There is no turning it off. I'm above a 7 too, so I'm basically swimming in quality ass of one variety or the other constantly. Life is good.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:24 AM
3

Why didn't you just fake it? (if you don't care, then go for it) Or ask her to finish you off in a way you were sure you could get off?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:13 AM
6

I had the weirdest experience where the opposite happened. We had a model who dressed to kill daily. She was oggled a lot, but never treated differently by any of the guys. I was honestly shocked people weren't drooling over her constantly and trying to trip and accidentally drop their dick in her hole.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:09 AM
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Bi-guy here, would agree. Gay guys just don't give a shit if they're into you. Gaydar isn't just magic, they do that "stare" to see if you'll return it. Unless you're in a gay bar, it's much easier to break into a conversation slowly with an IOI like this for someone you (hope) is gay/bi. You could also be attracting more attention than your friends because you dress better, clean tight fitting clothes, good shoes, well groomed, certain hair styles, etc. Most guys do the bare minimum, so it's a …
/r/askTRP17/12/14 12:06 AM
5

Meditation is religion without making up magical shortcuts to happiness. Take time everyday to think about what you're doing that day, how you will feel when you accomplish it, and what you will do next. Think about how you can fix anything you weren't pleased with the previous day. Eventually, with practice, start thinking about not just today, but tomorrow, and the next day, etc. Aka, it makes you happy to concentrate on your goals, fix your mistakes, and plan your future.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 02:19 PM
7

Partial oneitis, see sidebar, this is basic. Solutions: "I'll call you when I've got a minute free then" "You're right, I need two of you, then I get two minutes" "I love making minutes last" "Maybe the minutes will add up, maybe they'll just be minutes. I don't worry about it"
/r/askTRP13/12/14 10:40 PM
3

In addition, he needs to actually ignore her pleas for validation. Keep her as an orbiter. Stop giving in to your need for her to reciprocate what you think are romantic feelings. When you keep asking her out, YOU are breaking that line, not her.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 08:46 PM
2

Are you serious? So far I emailed her that I have what I need to incriminate her and all I wanted back was just a tincy bit of closure. Google the word blackmail.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 08:41 PM
1

Does the dad play any part in it? My GFs takes him for weekends sometimes (again, doesn't contribute shit). You're going to have to go beyond "not hating" to actually liking him because you're effectively dating both people. Edit: To be clear, I'm not saying you should, I'm saying that's what a happy LTR with a single-mom entails.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:13 PM
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You've just committed blackmail, with email evidence, have fun at trial idiot.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:55 PM
1

Just because this one is the easiest you've been in doesn't mean there are others just as easy out there. You've got two problems, she's 9 years younger, while in your 30s, which places her out of your life experience pool. The second is you don't really want to deal with her kid. End of story. I'm in a LTR with a single mom right now and I love the kid. Same basic setup except she is only a year younger. I'm comfortable with this setup, especially as you said, she can provide for her own, so an…
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:52 PM
13

Gay friends are non-judgmental? Lol, I'm bi, out of all my friends, they are the MOST judgemental. They have NO stake in needing that pussy and will tell them to get their shit straight. In addition, they usually act as epic gatekeepers since you can't hit on them to bypass them, and they'll take little Ms. Pukesalot home before you get in her pants. Sounds like not a lot of people here have any actual experience in the gay community (out of college).
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:25 PM
1

PUA came across some basic tactics for "winning" women. It's boring, low brow, and the long term abilities are almost non-existent. It's like that guy who played Mortal Kombat with you back in the day but could only sweep stun you into infinity. Sure, it works for a lot of people, but someone who actually knows what they're doing is going to do far better than you, get farther than you, and garner way more respect. It's not that their tactics won't work, it's that it's an overly simplistic one t…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 01:52 PM
1

Are you shitting me? There is an entire business sector dedicated to helping people stop being fat. There are two obvious problems here, either she has a thyroid issue and will never even reach an ideal weight, or she just doesn't give a shit. If a stock broker who is up 20 hours out of the day can work out, anyone can do it.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 09:06 PM
1

That's awesome, you're pulling some real long termers. Even if that is your norm, that is the THE norm though, know what I mean? It's entirely possible your next batch will only last two or three weeks.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 12:16 AM
10

You pretty much have to expect this. You're not investing your time in an LTR, and plates will EVENTUALLY start looking for someone who is, or try to rope you in. A lot of people talk about spinning 4 or 5 plates, but the honest truth is, plates lasting longer than 3 months are a rarity. That's the downside with plate spinning, you have to keep picking them up, or finding new ones, because eventually they're going to fall on the floor. The alternatives are getting an LTR, or a whore. You CAN fin…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 10:32 PM
1

I found planks to be a good starter, but worthless after a month. Leg raises on a machine thing where you fling them into the air work well. Ab roller works good for the first month. Mileage may vary, I started skinny and got bigger. Bigger guys will probably have different results.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 10:24 PM
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Crunches aren't terrible but you have to do SO MANY of them for it to be effective. In one workout I can do about 250 of them now. (150/50/50) I still find the gym workouts to be much better, with the leg raises and the weighted ab machine. Sorry, don't know the official names of stuff. I'd suggest getting some free weights and doing crunches, that will generally speaking, give you a better workout for dem abs. The two biggest things that will give you good abs are losing fat, and gaining muscle…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 10:22 PM
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In my experience, they (and almost any 1st generation woman) REQUIRES a much lighter RP than normal. They get scared away from strong RP game, but lighter play will draw them in.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 01:13 PM
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You can earn as much as you want, if it's more than you need, just tuck the rest in savings.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:08 PM
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Absolutely. There's a few good looking people at geeky meetups I go to. But the kings are the ones who can balance both looks and personality relevant to what is going on around them. Yeah, that guy over there fucking LOVES football, but if we're talking about retro video games, he's smart enough not to try and bore the shit out of the crowd with talk of pigskins. The guys who try to control the situation with irrelevant topics are either oblivious, or ADHD.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:07 PM
2

I agree, there's a line to be drawn certainly, but if you can easily afford it, what's the issue? I could draw the line at $3 or $30, I don't think that matters much for someone with a decent job. You start talking over $50 you have my ear.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 01:37 PM
1

The only way to deal with these people without eventually fighting them or leaving is amused mastery. "Omg, your right dad my birthday party is coming up!" To her:"you want to come to my party? " For the pretty comment: "you're right, she is prettier than me, I totally should have gotten the boob job you recommended" Also, confront or drop that dude. He could be a good wingman if he wasn't being such a bitch. Betas turning alpha are more than willing to learn. If he's not and he's just got some …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:58 PM
10

The entire clothing industry revolves around women and they're trying to pass off how people are judged onto men. Hilarious! Omg, did you see what Jennifer Whothefuckcares was wearing the other day? She's totally letting herself go by wearing a blue shirt.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:45 PM
2

How about, "I have no idea how to deal with women giving me the most obvious hints in the world" Or "I'll be right over and kiss it where you need it" This is not rocket science.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 12:31 AM
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Don't drop hints, just tell him you want him to take charge in the relationship. Make sure it's an actual LTR before engaging in this type of talk. You'll need to own up that sometimes you'll disagree, but that it's his job to stick to his guns if he disagrees with you. Seems pretty simple.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 12:26 AM
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Not everyone has 10 million shit tests. If it's an LTR, "All we do is fuck" is a pretty big one though. It's also only a month, you're both in hormone overload right now.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 01:28 PM
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Most of the responses here are flat out stupid. She's quite literally giving you control, assuming you agreed on the place to eat out. Just fucking book it, good god man, every minor act is not a shit test. If you absolutely can't break out of this "everything is a test" mentality, then suggest something for later, on the basis you booked and went to a place she liked.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 11:52 PM
1

It's super objective. If he was below a 7 at his "30lbs of muscle" phase maybe stick with her. If he's now a 7 or above need a 5 or more to be relatively happy below 40 years old.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:42 PM
1

Not having it, they love the "silky smoothness", the way it makes your muscles look without it, etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 12:30 AM
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I'm blessed with an almost complete lack of body hair except arms, legs and a little on my stomach. Every person I've been with said to keep it. The second I shaved it off they drooled over it. You know the saying about what they say, and what they actually want.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 10:54 PM
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Don't worry about hitting 30, you'll still attract people. Also, I second the "don't shit where you eat". It is a batshit terrible idea unless you are locked into that job via a military grade contract. People can, and will, sabotage you if they suddenly don't like you. Grade A way to do that is to have a failed relationship with them. And working with someone you ARE serious about is even worse, where you have everyone else judging you constantly for it (work ethic, breaks, career, etc.).
/r/askTRP29/10/14 11:36 PM
7

You pushed incredibly hard and physically trapped her. You have to leave people a way out for two reasons, one because you're entering harassment zone (like actual legal harassment, not some bs feminist thing if they feel they can't escape), and two you need them to feel secure that their decisions are their own (because they are). You fucked up by removing both of those by trapping her in a locked room. Also, sometimes, "I don't want to hang out" really means I don't want to hang out. You also …
/r/askTRP29/10/14 11:28 PM
1

Either find something more rewarding to yourself, or punish yourself for texting constantly, by promising to donate $5 for every text over 10 you make per day or some other achievable number. This is, of course, assuming you're actually driving people crazy with your text and not making dates, etc.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 10:56 PM
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Hands down, if you can say you worked at a strip club, it's an interesting conversation. The stories you're going to collect are going to be worth their weight in gold alone. Even if you work there for 6 months, I think it would be worth it.
/r/becomeaman28/10/14 12:58 PM
2

Get a vasectomy and keep going.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:56 AM
2

Are you trying for LTR or plates? If it's an LTR, you'll get these now and then and you need to give them some validation. I usually do a double up, where I will agree & amplify, then suggest something that calms the hamster, like going out somewhere or doing something (outside the room). For plates, I would agree and amplify to ludicrous levels, bring up all the things you do and say "Oh yeah, I loved that time when we had sex at the museum of science, or that time we had sex ALL DAY at Six Fla…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 03:32 PM
3

You're not getting it, stop "punishing" her. YOU fucked up. Talk to her like any other person, treat her like any other person, just stop going after her sexually. In a few months she could break up, or maybe she could be a good wingman. She didn't fuck up, and hasn't demonstrated any crazy.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 03:20 PM
1

Probably best answer here.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 03:17 PM
2

Have you TRIED to do anything? I might suggest trying to give up weed and video games voluntarily before selling them. See what kind of self-motivation you have to do other things. In fact, go a week without using them, and only allow yourself a limited amount if you find you want them back after that week. That includes TV too, read books or do something constructive instead. Most basic, easy, first step you can do.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 11:00 PM
2

I date girls who are at "the wall" because I'm older and don't like the 20s girls. Women who are at that area are sometimes hyper-aware of their situation and come off as absolutely baffled why you would legitimately be interested in them. You should play off that you are older with wall women, not younger. They are almost universally (in my experience) looking for older, more stable guys, not wild flings. And by wild flings, I mean, they might actually be looking for a wild fling, but their ham…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 10:49 PM
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All hamstering aside, if I judged her like every other human on the planet, gender aside, I would judge this person to be an entitled bitch. Not a single thing here affected anything but this person's ego. They came off as flat out stupid (didn't bring money to a club), and crazy levels of entitled (this person should dance with me AND be interested in me, this person should take pictures of me, and should WANT to take pictures of me for the club). Everything here has happened to attractive peop…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:13 PM
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I eat like shit probably 1/4 to 1/2 the time but don't gain any fat. Then again, I've rolled the genetic equivalent of a natural 20 and have never been fat, even when not working out.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:09 PM
6

I'd go with option three, don't want to have to worry about getting kicked out of their local gym for harassment or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:14 AM
9

This, the person doing the dumping ALWAYS feels better. She wants you back so she can decide when to dump YOU later on.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 12:37 PM
1

Only $100?
/r/askTRP21/10/14 12:02 AM
11

There's loads of fucking moronic comments in here. Academia isn't fucking around, it's what you take and what you do. Poison won't hurt you unless you actually swallow it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:02 AM
12

Completely agree. Try finding people who are motivated to improve themselves or do interesting things is like trying to find a unicorn. Double downer, there are even fewer as you get older. The most happy medium is if they will at least enjoy and join you in interesting activities you bring up. If not, you should probably pass her by. In addition, most TRP suggests being the leader and bringing up these activities. This is TIRING for almost everyone since you are scheduling, finding, and coordin…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:50 PM
1

Get a tattoo if you have a good idea for one and you're ready to spend upwards of $300 (for the smallest one). You could get a shitty flash tattoo, but you'll get what you pay for, a flash tattoo that hundreds of other people have. It doesn't look like anything unless you then go on to fill up the rest of your body with them making your pattern unique. Getting a "serious" tattoo is going to require research into artists, design ideas, verifying the sketch is what you want, and then $100-$200 an …
/r/askTRP18/10/14 04:11 PM
2

Seriously? RON JEREMY dude. It doesn't matter what a pornstar looks like, 90% of their value is in personality and fame (for men).
/r/askTRP18/10/14 03:31 PM
18

I still hangout with my ex as a friend (ultimate dread level if you're into that). I have no desire to have sex with her and have made it absolutely clear. Aside from her trying to get around this constantly, she also has done massive improvements on herself. She now works out nearly every day and won't skip a day for anything. Rides her bike to work most of the time, counts calories, goes out to meetups for her hobbies, and is learning amateur dancing and other skills. Aka, she redpilled up, an…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 12:29 PM
1

We're missing perspective here, how much time has passed since the breakup?
/r/becomeaman14/10/14 12:56 PM
3

They don't take kindly to people who openly work as sex workers, strippers, hooters girls, etc. Unless of course you hate it, or you're reformed, etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:20 PM
3

You don't know what AA is until you deal with the government. Good luck getting in without being a vet.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:19 PM
6

As a bi-dude, it's life on easy mode man. Makes it crazy easy to wait for the really high quality girls. "Oh, I feel a need to get a blowjob" DONE. Time to go workout!
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:07 PM
7

That's really too bad for you. That's like the high school jock who will never have it better than those 2-3 years when they are the football god. Look forward to tomorrow, don't harp so hard on your past.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 11:00 PM
2

A different take than what has been posted: One reason guys don't like career women is because they have priorities too. She's deciding whether you're worth that investment right now. As someone who exclusively plates and dates career women, this is expected (flaking). If you date in the wall zone, you'll see a lot of this. Flaking for a career woman is common, the only way to judge interest is how she acts when you meet up again. If you don't want to deal with this kerfuffle, don't date or plat…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:45 PM
2

Yep, I've got a 40 hour workweek, plus social meetups, regular meetups, friends, a girl, house, etc. and this fits pretty nicely in there. I would suggest doing the stuff on the bar rack (powerrack?) first if your gym is anything like mine because you'll be waiting in line for that.
/r/becomeaman10/10/14 02:36 AM
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I follow this one, specifically for skinny guys. It doesn't have much on legs, so you'll have to make up your own leg day. I've been using it for almost three months now and still see significant gains, as in, I have muscles that I literally never even saw before on my body. And this is not that hard of a workout, in and out in 30-40 minutes. http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/workout-for-every-guy-skinny-workout.html
/r/becomeaman09/10/14 11:21 PM
1

I disagree, I think it's less about caring and more about prioritizing. If all you are doing is trying to prevent someone's feelings from being hurt, you're going nowhere fast. You can still care about hurting people and make a logical decision that still hurts people. Because it's the right one to take. I think the largest difference in men and women is that, in my experience, women will make a bad decision because it hurts the fewest feelings. Or they just won't make it at all and leave it up …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 09:24 PM
2

Had a similar realization, after a few months it gets easier. I also realized the girls who are put off by it are the ones who have low self esteem. They used to feel comfortable around me when I was doing everything for them, and suddenly when I show I have my own priorities, I'm an asshole for not blowing off everything I want to do or paying for everything. The new girls are much closer to my new SMV while the ones who are put off are usually 3 or more below it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:51 PM
1

I'm bi, I hang out with trannies and gays all the time, and this guy beats the best crossdresser I know for 'flaming' status. Also, nobody uses the word 'cis' in real life.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:20 PM
7

If you're spending money on bottle service without the attempt to impress ANYONE I want to be the leach that sucks off your financially well off face. I can blow $100+ in a much more grand fashion than having someone pour my drinks.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:50 PM
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Doesn't matter what she's aware of, she completely disrespected you. Don't stick around for that, even for practice. Tell her you're done before she does it to you, it's like the waiting game now.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:31 PM
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I picked up on trp based on posts like this. Unfortunately, I find they are not the most common form of advice. I almost feel there should be a separate sub for people who aren't soley concerned with getting laid. Beaman our whatever is ok on occasion, as are some motivators subs, but trp does have its solid moments like this. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 09:30 PM
2

I, as a high value male, would only consider a highly intelligent woman who is passionate about what they do. I'm slightly older though, and I've had my fill of people who hate their jobs or barely tolerate them. I have no reason to want to come home to that daily. Been there, done that. Plus if you both have a great job, that means more awesome vacations the two of you can take, and less worry about stability.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 01:14 AM
1

Remove the code tonight, hope for the best. He can probably sue you if you launch your bit. The case will drag on forever. I'd try just asking what he's going to do with all the extra hours and see what he offers first. Do you even know if he can pay that much?
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:33 PM
1

You have to define what you consider respect, both as it applies to you, and as it applies to other people. Answer these questions (for both): What demands respect? How do you keep respect? How do you lose respect? Apply these and win at being happy in life. Be super honest as to how they are fulfilled.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:30 PM
1

You're getting into comp-sci so here's an opinion on someone who has been in the field forever. DO SOMETHING AMAZING. Demonstrate your value just like a guy would, go out to meetups, work on serious side programs, go to hack night, learn something new every fucking week, and learn to be the top person in every company you work for. I'd go bonkers over someone who looks like a 6, but acts and demonstrates competent values like a 10. If you do this, you can probably hook a really good 10 guy who i…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:25 PM
2

Not entirely true, mostly subjective. Waiting one or two might be suggested for LTRs, but there is no hard science here. Plenty of people shack up for life after the first date.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:20 PM
1

You don't always need to be talking. Just relax once in a while. Watch the conversation and learn about people. It's not the amount you say, it's what you say.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:18 PM
6

Seriously unless the dude is like...55. 60 is way out of cougar territory and into grandma fetish status.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:16 PM
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The studies are usually provided in the videos you see. The fact is, neither side has definite proof one way or the other. There are WAY too many variables to throw down. The overall flow is that women CHOOSE to pick lower paying jobs and do not take the majority of management positions. The days of paying a male staff worker doing the same job as a female staff worker (all experience and variables included) more money are LONG gone. The simple fact is, if this entire argument were even remotely…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:15 PM
3

Thank god the top comment says this. You can't control people, you can only offer yourself. If she isn't committed to you, fuck her (not literally). There's a bazillion more out there, just drop her like a hat.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:07 PM
1

I'm operating under the idea of "relationship" as a two-party system. You're basically describing polyamory which is entirely different and not really a romantic relationship at all besides the fact you occasionally fuck. The question is FWB except you can admit to feelings. No, there is no point in entering into that.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 11:01 PM
1

You clearly know this relationship better than me.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 02:06 PM
3

It's a plate. Totally with you up until the "don't move in" part. After a year or two together it's time to up that game, otherwise, you're not going to gain anything out of the relationship. If you're the "breadwinner" you'll eventually start dishing out more and more money for nothing seeing as you won't even be waking up next to her/him.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 01:03 PM
1

They are just people, being hot does not make them better at sex. I've had people who were super hot and TERRIBLE at sex and others who were on the wild kink train. I honestly find girls who are NOT 10s to be better in bed though, as if they have something to prove.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 12:58 PM
6

In a year long relationship? Only TRP would suggest "bitches be crazy" when she's professing her love after a year long relationship :P
/r/askTRP06/10/14 12:50 PM
5

How long have you known her? Also unclear, are you dating this girl? Or are you having sex with her? Don't tell me you're not doing either and you're floating in friendzone town right now wasting everyone's time...
/r/askTRP05/10/14 02:37 AM
2

As I've learned the hard way, unless you're one of the few absolute confidants in your friends life, expect possible partial attitude change, and then complete rejection the first time she starts shit testing him. You'll lose him, he'll stay with her until she's tired of him, then he MIGHT come crawling back to you. If you can't stand to be around him since he's fucking up so badly, then you have to leave HIM. That's a much MUCH shorter text/email. Just be like, "Bro, I'm not going to sit around…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 04:20 PM
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I'm 27 years old. I believe in taking care of myself and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 100 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the r…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:14 PM
1

Tried this, ended up with sex three times a day on the weekends. Did not work. Would...maybe suggest?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:28 AM
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I rather have fun playing with them. I agree with the person below, not everyone can be a conspirator if you want to buck the trend. Personally, I love making fun of (not arguing with) people who use the terms "straight cisgender male". It's super hard to have your issue seriously addressed if the only responses you get are in the form of mocking :)
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:36 PM
1

You want to stay with her so bad because aside from love, she's also your only consistent source of sex and affirmation that you are worth more than a one night stand. She quite honestly ditched you a while back though, and it sounds like it's because at least in part you ditched yourself. You need to work on you and forgo worrying about sex for a while. It'll suck the first few weeks, and you'll get over it. You'll be pumped that you are getting recognition from other people and THEN you move b…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 01:16 AM
1

This was advice for newbies to escalate kino, not worrying about someone's oneitis and having a girl flake off. Even in my most beta of days I've never had a girl leave me for "an alpha" in the middle of dancing. If she does, great, scored herself right out of the dating pool.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:32 PM
1

You're really concerned about this ONE girl. Worrying about her fleeing you means you need to double up on your confidence. If she's going to go because you pointed out this dude's behavior is unacceptable, she was going to go anyway, just later at a different scenario.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 12:27 PM
2

I thought it was obvious, but I mean in your group you are bringing out (2 to 3 people at most). Unless you're bringing out 50 people in which case...orgy? :p
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:43 AM
1

I'll bet they would, and they should if it fits! There's a few major problems with it obviously, the first being people can entirely change between early 20s and their 30s. I literally switched politic ideologies entirely, many people will change careers, ideas of what is attractive, friends, wants and needs, etc. At late stages (27+) you start getting settled into who you'll be the rest of your life. Don't trust that a 22 year old has any idea of what's going on in the world or who they are, be…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:41 AM
1

Reddit's hivemind is crazy easy to control. One minute it's all "blue team!" then someone posts something which gets 1000 upvotes and suddenly it's all "red team!" after ONE FUCKING POST. I've even seen TRP do it, the supposed bastion of "don't let other people lead you around". But then again, this is the internet, where the game is made up and the points don't matter. TL;DR Take what you need, discard the rest from the interwebs.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 03:25 AM
1

You have to split him off. Tell her you know he's trying to bag her and she needs to tell him it's inappropriate to ask her what she's doing "that night". Fuck him if he doesn't have any females in his life, go FIND ONE that's not taken. There's only like 51% of the planet full of them.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:19 AM
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Graduate high school, it's a fucking shit show in there, stop worry about your SMV and having sex. You're going to be horny, it totally blows. Maybe you'll get a handy. But seriously, everything about high school is so fucking bonkers that TRP can literally not address it. It's irrational, social circles and cliques make it a living hell to diagnose, and you being under 18 makes it impossible to tell how much is hormones talking and how much is reality. Work on yourself, talk to women if they're…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:15 AM
0

Everything sounded smooth here, I agree, prob shark week, or had to shit crazy bad. Just escalate and make sure you mention what went on with her touching your dick (in smoother words of course). "Let's go out to a movie tonight, I'm sure nobody will see where your hands are in the theather" "Ready to continue our hot time out tonight/Friday/Saturday?" or even more subtle: "I want to see you in a little black/red dress on Friday at <theclub>" "You, me, and a bottle of wine have a lot of nothing …
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:08 AM
1

Sucks to be you guys, I have reliable, good friends who will take a hint to blow off after it's clear there's some interest going on. Being the leader of your own group is pretty much a game-set-match trait.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:57 AM
1

Indeed, definitely textbook orbiter status as much as I hate to use that like a definition. He needs to move out the romantic investment zone he's bordering on and into the friendzone in his own mindset (because it's pretty clear he wants to bang her). I have a number of attractive friends around that I don't even think about having sex with, it's actually pretty good for your SMV. I just enjoy their company, and they enjoy mine. As long as OP can stop masturbating over her, and think of her as …
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:50 AM
2

Feel free to get married. Don't marry a 22 year old unless you've lost your goddamn mind. I wouldn't suggest marrying after 2 years either, more like 5+ (ESPECIALLY since she's so young). What does she even do at 22? Likely just got out of college and has absolutely no career. What are her goals? Does she follow through, or is she riding your coat-tails and hoping she hit the jackpot? It sounds like you may be a bit desparate to nail down some hottie before her wheels start turning, which means …
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:42 AM
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Two words, two fucking words: GO DANCING It doesn't matter if you're COMPLETE shit, it's GUARANTEED socially acceptable contact. If she's into you, you'll know it, if not, you'll know it (at least by the end of the night). If you can't make yourself go out on a dance floor, you don't have enough self-confidence yet. Go get some.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:33 AM
2

Moses wouldn't be able need to part the labia sea The only thing tall people sometimes lack that is really hard to fix is a small head. Saw a guy at the gym the other day who was huge but his head was so small he looked like something out of Beetlejuice. Would definitely need to see what his "mashed face" looked like too. Overall though, sounds like his shit isn't together. Has the perfect hobbies and good stature, but is entirely obsessed with getting women. SMV is inversely proportional to how…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 02:24 AM
3

Maybe it's just my types, but I've never encountered a woman who has told me her problems on the first, second, or 5th date. Unless something was unavoidable like "I have a kid", I've had every woman I've ever dated wait for LTR status before dropping bombs on me. I guess if you're in college it might be different.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:14 AM
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I have quite literally never seen a twoXer say something is not rape. "Oh we had sex, but I wasn't into and I said yes because I felt pressured". Rape. "We both got really drunk and I was on top, but I barely remember it". Also rape.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:40 PM
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Sounds like you might have been too drunk to hold yourself together. Why the fuck did you drink like it was St. Patty's day? Also, why did you leave? So what if she was talking to someone else, women don't need to exclusively talk to you to have fun with you. If you show value in other ways (like talking to that guy), and she's being entertained and not left to do nothing, you're still on as long as you gracefully reintroduce yourself to the conversation. Are you unable to join an ongoing conver…
/r/askTRP27/09/14 03:17 PM
3

You already know what people will say, then listen to it. If she doesn't want to have sex and you're not interested in her beyond sex, then just leave. You're both wasting your time. Also, where the fuck did rape come into this? Were you thinking about pinning her down and raping her after she told you flat out "no" the second time? A bit of WTF there mate.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 03:12 PM
1

Enjoy your life. You ever look at a mountain in the distance and think, "That'd be cool to climb"? Go do it. That week. Doing things you really enjoy doing will almost always net you social circles that are higher social status than doing junk. Those circles will elevate your status considerably. Don't worry about the frat houses, it's mostly false bravado and getting syphilis. You could bang a few more 8+ girls, but honestly not worth it when you could be doing better on yourself and getting be…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:24 AM
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I laughed when I saw his response. 2 year beta? Definitely have to start concentrating on his own life. No "game" he runs is going to work for him, definitely needs to work on himself before she starts to get a twinkle back. By that time, he can make the choice whether she's worth it or not (or she'll leave in the middle, 2 years means she might already be riding someone else's cock).
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:13 AM
1

Sounds like you're worried for some non-obvious reason. It's her COUSIN'S birthday party right? Who cares? As long as she hasn't been talking about how much she wanted to suck someone's cock in that state, you're good. Replace cousin with grandma, dad, brother, etc. Tell her to take pictures.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:10 AM
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I don't know about you, but I don't view someone with a weak woman on their beck and call "strong". A man who has a woman who exhibits strength, and yet stays with him is FAR more interesting to me. Yeah, you can look at some ass all day long, and obviously there should be a good amount of sexual attraction, we're not talking a strong heffer here, or military battle chicks. A woman who is the "alpha" of other women, still retaining her femininity is the prime goal, much like the well off and wel…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:41 AM
1

I'm actually ok with Hilary's presidential bid. She's a pretty strong leader as evidenced by basically running half her husband's career while he literally dicked around in the white house. (because why not? :p) It's obvious she's sticking with Bill for political reasons, and she doesn't seem to take dick from anyone. This is meant to be serious, but...fuck it, look at those puns!
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:33 AM
2

When you look at powerful men, not just popular people, you see them with one of two types of people. Either amazingly beautiful women/men that are dull as a box of rocks, or other powerful and intelligent people. I could write an extensive essay on how it works, but the reasoning is basically powerful men attract driven and powerful women for LTR. When you're in your 20s, the dynamic is usually very much a "do what you want" scenario, where women typically will flick from man to man. The powerf…
/r/askTRP19/09/14 03:41 AM
2

Perfect advice! OP is now SINGLE, but he keeps referring to himself only in relation to women and relationships. OP, you are SINGLE! Relax a bit, regroup, and have some fun! The "oh no we broke up" feelings will go away quickly after kayaking across a glacier lake. Don't bring a gf, meet a new one there.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 12:57 PM
2

Some of them are all talk, and realistically want something completely different than what they say, so feel free to just operate as normal. That being said, this could also turn out like the KKK trying to date a Black Panther, ending in fire and cancer.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 03:19 AM
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If you're actually a sociopath there really isn't. If you're not a sociopath, it's going to eat at your nerves slowly over time. Not at first when you're getting your big rush, but over time when either you or she wants more. You'll have to spend double the money to cover it up, your extra time that could be going toward improving yourself is instead being spent making up stories about where you were. If you've been following the (good) advice here, your girlfriend should be matched up with you …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:09 PM
3

I agree with you, but did you even read my post? I said DON'T BS, just demonstrate that you have basic knowledge about what's being asked instead of demonstrating that you know nothing about it. Another example: "Have you worked with this framework?" You: "No, but I have worked with X which is a similar framework." I'm not saying go on a tirade, I'm just saying demonstrate some knowledge in every question unless impossible. I've stated that you should build your own frame as well. The most effec…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 08:55 PM
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LOL, It doesn't take balls to say I don't know and you demonstrate zero value by doing it. You don't get bonus points for giving "straight talk" unless you already know your shit. Interviewing is a game just like any other.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 08:43 PM
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I've got 2 plates, and WAY past the anger phase, but thanks anyway. Also, I read that post about how everyone posting something from another forum is in the anger phase too.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 08:37 PM
1

Here is a not well trimmed beard Here is a well trimmed beard The larger the beard, unfortunately, the lower your chances. The first guy could have cleaned his up as you can see many hairs are sticking out at various places. The second is form fitting to his face, accents it rather than making his face "bloom" by appearing comically larger than it is (as in the first one). Long and short, beards are only slightly more acceptable than wrist tattoos in the professional field. Maybe in another 10 y…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:30 PM
1

I start off leaning back and come in later. Don't appear overeager, because you're not, you've got those other offers on the table. Plus, it gives you something to do aside from fidget, slowly moving in, unlocking your arms/legs.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:25 PM
0

That's the nuclear pill, if you're given a question you know absolutely nothing about. Would not suggest unless it's entirely out of your wheelhouse. I'd always suggest using "I don't know that, BUT..." and adding something of value. If you try twisting it into some completely other topic, it's going to come off as BS, if you demonstrate you have at least a passing knowledge about the question I just asked you, it's not a dead end.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:09 PM
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Agreed, not saying anything is better than getting yourself into an argument. Two things in particular you don't want to respond to: "Aren't you going to say anything?" Unless you have a fucking awesome quip, just don't say anything. Don't appear angry, smile. This isn't the silent treatment, this is you waiting out a tantrum. "You always..." Because whatever follows this is going to be some crazy bullshit. Ignore it, just like you'd ignore a kid who wants one more ride on the ferris wheel but i…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 02:44 PM
1

Just tell her she's cleaning the fucking sheets in the morning. Good god, some extra beta in there with a guy who washed the sheets and MADE HER PANCAKES. The fucking girl KNOWS when her period is coming up. What are the odds she'd wash your sheets and make you pancakes if you shit in HER bed?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:41 AM
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When girls bring another girl, it's suicidal to stick around. Beta males will not be going home with them later in the night regardless of relation, but a girl will almost always be hanging with her friend until she passes out on her couch. Unless you are in both their pants, the other girl is going to SHIT ALL OVER YOU once you are out of earshot. Your plate could fucking eat your dick 24/7, but one night after a cockblocking night out (unless it's EXPLICIT that you are going home with your pla…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:27 AM
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Yes, the simplest material is this. You can't learn to ride a bike by riding books. The balance doesn't come naturally, nor does overcoming the fear of falling over or running into your garage door. You can look back now and say to yourself you never really got seriously injured riding your bike, and now you'll ride it every fucking day to work, right? Same thing, get on the fucking bike and start peddling.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:17 AM
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If you're going out more than once or twice a week, one approach a night isn't terrible, especially for a beginner.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:14 AM
1

I agree for plates, but this is going to come up for LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 04:29 PM
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Estimates say this will be anywhere between one and "go fuck yourself" slices. Also, please record this for posterity.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 03:49 PM
1

I actually had a hard time a while back and my GF really pulled me out of my shell and made me do things EVERY. FUCKING. WEEKEND. I would normally just play video games, surf, and that shit, but putting myself out there every weekend started the initial tug on my inner alpha strings. TL;DR Get the fuck out of the house and off the computer.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 03:05 PM
2

Have you tried rejection? You might be building a shell to protect yourself from pain, when in reality you need to experience it to get past it. It's like getting a tattoo for the first time, you're super nervous about how it will feel until you get your 30th one. There's numerous activities you can try on to experience rejection. Speed dating, meetups, bars, etc. I would suggest going with something nuclear at least TWICE a week to start breaking your walls down. And by nuclear I mean ask a gir…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 03:00 PM
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We can't change women, but we can change ourselves. I think a goodly portion of TRP that many people I see on here fail completely at is getting rid of hatred of rejection and being undesired. The people that you see out there who are successful, both in sex and power, simply do not care how they are perceived. They have desire themselves, but it doesn't get tainted with rejection. If they fail in a business prospect, they move on and try a different approach elsewhere, or they make their produc…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 02:55 PM
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I am SUPER confused based on your previous posts as early as yesterday about how you're basically a pro at TRP and No offense, but you don't get it. I laughed at him for being insecure for being short, not short. and I'm 5'5" and I have a beautiful Colombian girlfriend. Her friends are always flirting with me. I'm not all that attractive facially, and I don't make a lot of money. I have a don't give af attitude and they love it. and Simple pickup did a video showing you can get girls even if you…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 02:45 PM
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Same here, I let them pay for half most of the time, but I let her know when I pay for the whole thing why (like when she orders $5 worth of food and I order $30). Also dependent on your status and income. If you make 5x the amount your girl does, you might come off cheap when you ask to split the bill. She shouldn't know exactly what you make, especially on the first date, but eventually she'll get a pretty good idea. First dates always split though.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 02:26 PM
1

One of my plates won't fuck asian guys because she doesn't like the implied cultural background bullshit she would have to go through. A second piece of it is because she says they overcompensate, are loud, etc. which really just means are boring/unattractive. That's just one though.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:58 PM
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The biggest disadvantage being unattractive is how it affects your own morale, especially earlier in life. Being 5'9" isn't short by any means, and being fat can be fixed. Being cowardly, or boring, especially in a first meeting is almost impossible to fix. You've adapted and overcome my man!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:54 PM
2

You're using the same blog I just called batshit as support to their own statements. I'm done here.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 03:30 PM
1

Well fuck me, I like swing too. I can sense your comment being true though at most swing events. It seems to be either DTF girls, or complete feminazis, no in between.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:58 PM
3

Where is the last MVC library created, or at least run by, a woman? The last major skyscraper? How about a fucking successful website? Women are outnumbered because they leave when the realize being a pretty face counts for exactly shit in the engineering world. Bill Gates is, and has always been a monster (the dude is ugly), but I'll be damned if he isn't constantly one of the most respected and richest people in the goddamn WORLD.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:21 PM
2

I know, this is the same reason men leave the medical field, because of "The Old Cunt Club", amiright? All those doctors just can't deal with the feminization of the medical field on a day to day basis where they have to listen to bitching and moaning about boyfriends and menstrual cycles.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:17 PM
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If he's got cameras in his room or whatever, he might already have evidence he's innocent so he doesn't give a shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:15 PM
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I think at some point, alpha mentality can go over the top and become emperor mentality. His expectation was probably that he can have everything and anything at any time. Bitch fucks another dude, not allowed, so psycho ensues. Be of the dark triad, don't BE the dark triad.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:14 PM
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That article was a bunch of crazy talk. High socioeconomic status males need to be scarier, if women are going to breed with high socioeconomic status males. Excessive repression of private violence has led to dysgenic sexual choices by women. Partly we should solve this by preventing female sexual choice, but another part of the solution is more selective and less repressive repression of violence by high socioeconomic status males. High socioeconomic status males need to be able to get away wi…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:10 PM
1

The only other person you are responsible for in your life is your children. She is USING you, and possibly manipulating you, to be a rock in her unstable mess of a head. If she's insulting you, there's a real possibility she's just banging some other guy, as that's not something people with anxiety do. Even if she gave the best blowjobs in history and played video games with me all day, that crazy shit storm that just flows around her would be more than enough to dump her. There are millions of…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:42 PM
2

I'm probably a lot less complicated than some of the answers you'll get. Go on 5 to 10 "dates" with her. Fuck her at least six times. There's enough info on this board to cover red flags, so just watch for them on the dates. If she mentions something crazy, you have your LTR answer. Make sure she isn't ass at sex. The easy answer is, just pull from your plates.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:39 PM
1

Dudes can get fit too, depends a lot on the reasons. I hear a lot of people who pick up asian chicks (in asia) find the depressurization effect of riding back to america causes massive bloating. On the other hand, if she is turning her life around and has possibly gotten surgery for the extra skin, she's probably good to go. Obviously do not marry.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:14 PM
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Good god, anyone who can listen to this whole thing deserves a cookie made of blowjobs and anal. I made it about 30 seconds.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:11 PM
1

LOL, reminds me of Val from the parody Scooby Doo in Venture Brothers: "The few remaining men will exist as studs breeding in the cow pasture. Or they could go off to the nearest suicide center where they would be quietly gassed to death." (squeezes Patty's tits)
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:01 AM
4

In my 30s, still mainly communicate through texts and emails. Logistics also require more than "meet here", when you both have jobs and you're not in college.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:48 AM
5

Same here, love the advice, but sometimes people slip in some stupid bullshit about politics or Jews/black people like we're not going to fucking notice.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:07 AM
1

Possibly, hard to tell without knowing more. But telling him to pay for all her shit is a pretty blatant shit test.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:56 PM
4

Sounded like she was his first mate but she wanted to captain the ship. Got what she wanted, now she has no struggles and nowhere to go but down with this guy. Resentment incoming hard and fast in this relationship.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:40 PM
1

She was bi, or a lesbian, that's genetic. That being said, being crazy isn't always genetic.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:11 PM
8

Who are you people? I masturbate like once, MAYBE twice a day sometimes. Past three times and it starts to get sore. Do you have dick calluses, or do you just blow your load in like 5 minutes? Also, I don't feel the redpill is the area to discuss uncontrollable dick wanking. Maybe that's just me.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:09 PM
5

You can also check out my story from a speed dating event a few weeks ago. Still spinning that plate and others now. I found speed dating/mixers to be good to meet a ton of people and learn how to dominate a room before and after. The actual "date" is great practice to talk to women and just get past the rejection phase. Assume they are all going to reject you and go in to have fun. You'll gain the confidence needed to be more sure of yourself when you approach women (outside of these events).
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 02:44 AM
1

/r/relationships ? Seriously though, do this with women who are sexually available at a bar, not people who are trying to sell you something. And at the very least, get a number or have sex to count it as a success.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 08:17 PM
3

That girl is burning through her looks at an amazing rate. Hard drugs kids, not even once.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 08:12 PM
3

Protip, stick up for your girls, but if you can't back it up (or if you get shot in the face), you LOSE alpha status.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:11 PM
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They have always been around the web DESIGNER field, making art and layouts. Sometimes the testers too. I've met some really good female designers. But aside from meeting one or two, the only female coder I've worked with in 10 years didn't do shit. Literally sat on her hands all day, "met with clients", and eventually became a housewife for one of my co-workers.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:19 PM
2

LOL, yes, I've hung out with you without hitting on you ten times, finally I've earned my one free sex time with you!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:10 PM
6

Japanese men have a heavily repressive culture, where if you're not alpha, you are extreme beta. There seems to be no in between, and there are not many alpha. That's one reason they have panty machines and enough pornography to drown a puppy at any street corner. I honestly feel bad for them.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:05 PM
1

Kinda curious, in a joint situation, how do you split the groceries? I'd guess SOME of your purchases are joint somehow? Or do you split them too?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:01 PM
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Could be an absolutely terrible choice in a city where you'll get shot, but I understand the idea.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:31 PM
1

Some overinflated cunt on Craigslist is unlikely to be phased by this approach. They get something like 100 replies to a single post.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 12:36 AM
1

I've had my share of 19-24 year olds, and I guess they aren't terrible in bed, I just can't stand dealing with them before and after. The older they are, the more likely they are to know to get the fuck out or shut up afterwords. Or get me another shot while naked. /oldmanproblems
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:50 PM
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Just don't do it. You'll lose some people, yes, but you also won't be saddled with unnatural social baggage you don't want. If, for whatever reason, you WANT to get married, go for it. If you don't, then don't. Seriously, would you get an STI if you were pressured into it that would follow you around the rest of your life?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:46 PM
2

I already stated before, Medium doesn't pay out (it's a blogger site), and all she gets are page hits which count for about as much as reddit internet points.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:44 PM
2

If you're just building social circles, start with something you are familiar with, or even better, an expert at. Be the person people need to come to for help on something. Start something and get people involved. LEAD
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:43 PM
1

My female ideal SMV scale is actually a bit different from most guys on TRP. I find females who are older (above 27) more attractive than the teenagers and college girls. Might be in part because I want someone who knows how to actually fuck. In fact, I prefer a girl in power, sometimes even older than myself, begging me to violate her VP status all over her conference table. Is there a term for women who are at or over the wall? Cougar doesn't seem to quite fit it since I don't aim over 40, but…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:33 PM
1

Straight on. I'm beginning to wonder though, being over my 20s, that the game changes a bit for women/men in their 30s. Same game, different rules it seems. Jobs are pretty important, status symbols still aren't. Attitude is still important. Wonder what stays the same and what changes.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:17 PM
4

If you have a startup and get bought early you can do it. Then again, he had to steal the books so maybe not so much.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:51 PM
1

Revenge is not a good tenant here, that's what you're aiming for. The most successful outcome is be successful by yourself, WITHOUT her. She's already moved on, and likely banged out a dozen cocks in the time she went out and back. If she's honestly hot, as in comparison to everyone else on the planet, you could keep her around and make her orbit you. Don't even THINK of trying to get back into her pants. If you do, break it off, you're likely to go into beta mode again. If you can keep that off…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:51 PM
1

Back in the day I had a girl I did this with too, her ex boyfriend fawned over her like a flower while I pounded her meat. Dropped her when she went tits up for the beta as he started to reclaim some of his sexuality with some (honestly) good sex toys like harnesses and generally treating her like a slut in bed (which she completely was).
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:47 PM
3

If you were to ask her before writing this article, what the top 10 things feminism is fighting for, male-only drafts wouldn't even be on the list. I'd be shocked if there was even one item that only affected males, but would make us more equal.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 06:01 PM
1

If you freeze your sperm, you can impregnate whoever you want at a later point in life. There's no reasonable reason to want to knock someone up the "old fashioned way" especially when you're running 7 figures and basic intravenous pregnancy is easy to do these days (and usually covered by insurance).
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:59 PM
1

Totally cool. I thought you were going to say something about her turning you down and then you saying, "NUH-UH, I don't want to hang out with YOU!". Turning down an orbiter position is a solid move. That being said though, you can also use her as a wingman if she's solid and just had other things hanging around. Having an attractive woman around vets you as preselected and they are golden when opening up new opportunities if they play the game with you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:47 PM
0

Medium doesn't pay out currently, so no money there.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:05 PM
3

I've never heard that before, TIL, thanks. I'm not out for censorship, but I'm not here for a klan meeting either, you get my drift.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:26 PM
2

I'm with you on that, but on this very thread there is a comment about her being a "JAP" with 9 upvotes currently. Unless that stands for something other than a racial slur that I'm not aware of.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:05 PM
3

Absolutely, as long as you're you, you're in.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:36 PM
6

As a bi guy, this is hilariously accurate! We've got the bears, daddies, twinks, queens, trannies, and so on. Also, fetishes are readily apparent and will come out on the first fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:16 PM
1

Yeah, but is this relevant to TRP material? That's some crazy pussy right there, all you have to do for that is be in the right place at the right time. Oh yeah, and be absolutely batshit insane. Crazy is usually stage 5 clinger material, do not approach without 3,000 miles of ocean between you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:13 PM
3

Neon dress, sequin top, hangover glasses, and completely average face, and yes a little pudgy. She would have fit right in at a trashy gay bar. Or as a drag queen.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:58 PM
3

Jesus Christ, thank you. It's not DISRESPECT that's needed, it's a balance between being yourself and seduction. You disrespect anyone and you're going to actually move into asshole/jerk territory. You don't act disinterested, you just be YOURSELF, and don't act like you need to play her shit tests (which comes off like an asshole). Real assholes don't get laid, they complain about not getting laid because they alienate people (go too far). There's a reason there's a nuclear option, and a reason…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:49 PM
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That's why it's a blue pill example. It's a goldmine of what not to follow. It's hilarious how in one sentence she says she wants to literally kill the idea of masculinity and how she (being a woman) knows that it's terrible for men. Then in the next sentence she says it's ok for men to respectfully disagree with her when they're really, really nice about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:36 PM
4

I'm not an expert by any means, but I do know a mad internet bro when I see one. Don't hate women just because they are women is right on the sidebar in nearly ever article. That's exactly what you did. Good luck with that, later.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:35 AM
7

Why are you flipping your lid dude? She laid down some facts: Why would this lead to more interaction? (5 of 7 and he didn't say what the responses were, they could have all been "GTFO" or variations thereof) You can always make time to chat, absolutely true. He's already gotten nexted by her, this seems like a nuclear option to reel them back in, or petty "I know you are, but what am I" at worst Conversation will die off just like the first one. Given that there are no logs or responses posted …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:25 AM
4

There's no amplifying after your agreement. Might work, but that could backfire as beta talk right there. Aka, parroting.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 08:37 PM
9

She was crazy hot, was BP at the time, no other options, excuses, etc. Yes, it was a terrible move. I'm serious that she just talked AT me too, I barely said three words the whole time, and she was driving on the highway too.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:56 PM
107

Her article is clearly thick with jealousy about not getting picked and has more than a heavy tinge of racism.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:50 PM
4

I think not entirely. I bet if you twisted it so that it wasn't just practice it was something you wanted to do because you enjoyed it, it would have come off entirely different. Instead of "I have to go practice" you could use "I'm going to play around on the guitar" or "I feel like playing some guitar".
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:10 PM
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Good example of what to avoid like the plague. I had a similar experience while on OkCupid in which a girl talked AT me on the phone for almost 2 hours. I eventually said I have shit to do and hung up. Texted her later to cancel a date we had set up and she flipped shit about what I missing out on. This is a girl I did not know at all except for all the fucked up daddy issues she told me about on her diatribe.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:04 PM
1

It waned in the years I was married, but generally if I have a girl around I'm a 4 times a week person at minimum. Also learned that I can only go about 5 weeks at maximum before I start looking elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:27 PM
1

Actually, that particular night it dropped to like 60, and there was also a light wind. I brought a jacket just in case (not a full coat). Had to put it on eventually because I'm a skinny dude.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:24 PM
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I did, and I was pretty openly honest that I was just here to hang out and have fun, not to meet the expectations of trying to "find a mate". I talked about my traveling and writing because I like to do both.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:23 PM
10

The only thing you're going to catch on the Bachelorette is an STD. Well, and life lessons as to how not to act. You've got a bunch of physically 8-9 men wooing a single usually 8-9 woman with the most beta scenarios possible. These guys literally drop below their physical SMV in attempts to get this chick. Watch and learn.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:00 AM
1

Coming from a bi guy, I'd say you have fairly high SMV on looks alone, 8 or 9 and you could hit a 10 with a good personality. You're probably more attractive in the first pic. Get another with some girls in it instead of selfie flexing (in the second one) and you'll probably get even better results. With the shirt off of course.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:42 AM
1

The comment section is HILARIOUS! Check out this absolute GEM: You're all ignorant if you think the fact that she is 20 years old has anything to do with anything. I am a 20-year-old woman married to a 24-year-old man and I believe that I know a lot more about what a marriage should be than a lot of the 40-something married couples filing for divorce right now. Age is not the issue here--the issue is that a lot of people do not understand what marriage is anymore. We like to have what we want wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:09 AM
1

That's why I figured dating websites aren't worth the time. You could be messaging total flops when a high SMV girl passes you right by.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:04 AM
2

I know, I thought that was going to work gold for him, but the girls said he was an asshole later. He actually came off to everyone as an asshole, including the guys.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:45 PM
6

Not responding at all seems like the better option. She already said yes, so if she blows you off you can hamster her with further non-response if she says she can't make it suddenly. Alternatively, if she gets out of the wheel, she wasn't going to fuck you anyway. You should always double up your plans so you have something you can do that you want to do regardless if someone blows you off or not. The only people you should be mad about dropping you are your best friends, not a POTENTIAL plate.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:37 PM
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Depends on the mix, whoever has more people has to move around (only make sense so you're not chilling at a table for 2 hours alone). So in this case, yes, although it's not commonly or always the case. Usually an even amount, just so many women paid and didn't show for some reason.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:30 PM
3

I did go near last in the rounds (since we had to sit around while the other guys tried their hand). The hottie never seemed to leave my side after I had my go.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:12 PM
3

What's wrong with a pre-nup?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:51 PM
2

It sounds like you're lonely because you put all your eggs in one basket. You didn't make guy friends who aren't going to leave you because of some emotional bullshit over dishes or getting fat. You put sex on a pedestal so high you're going to need a crane and a demolition team to knock that shit down at least a few pegs. Before you try jumping in the sex game again, you should pump up your personal confidence in just being YOU.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:39 PM
1

You don't have to stop caring, you just have to have your priorities straight so that she isn't your whole life. Your friends are a part of you too, but if one of them changes and becomes a huge dickhole, you have to let that person know what's up, and if they don't straighten up, you drop them. It's not about not caring, it's about standing up for what your core values are, and not taking stupid shit from other people just because they are attached to you. That being said, you can take this to …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:41 PM
1

It sounds like you're seeking companionship, and filling that hole with sex. It's a short term filler for most people from what I've found. You need to find something, or someone (could even be a bunch of guy friends) that fill that need.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:05 PM
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