| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]Done | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 05:45 PM |
| 2 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]Do you do cold approach in SF? I just moved to SF from NYC and the idea of doing cold approach here feels really weird just given how few people are out and about compared to NYC. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Moving to SF from NYC. Am I fucked?Any recs on finding clubs to join? | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Moving to SF from NYC. Am I fucked?Any advice? Having no social circle either is making me nervous | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Anyone want to be my wingman in NYC?PM me and tell me about yourself | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Anyone want to be my wingman in NYC?Yo dude! Shoot me a PM | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone want to be my wingman in NYC?PM me | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Anyone want to be my wingman in NYC?PM'd | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Anyone want to be my wingman in NYC?PMd | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 11:48 PM |
| 4 | How to find a wing in NYC?Jesus | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How to find a wing in NYC?Did, he connected me with one guy but I'd like to know more | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone done a workshop with The Natural Lifestyles?Mini was ~$5k, 7 day was $11k, Euro tour is $15.5k. Insane, especially to have that poor of a consulatation call experience | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipFor sure, thanks. If she again says she's not looking for a serious relationship should I just say that's cool and that I'm just looking for someone casual right now too? | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipFor sure, thanks. If she again says she's not looking for a serious relationship should I just say that's cool and that I'm just looking for someone casual right now too? | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipAnd then if she says no for that one, just try to set up something else in the future? | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipProblem is she lives like 45 minutes away so even just meeting up for a drink is kinda turning it into a whole thing | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipDo you think that sounds like too much of a formal date for a girl that said she wasn't looking for a relationship? Also thought about giving her a call but idk | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipHey man, know it's been a while, but how would you recommend I hit her up again? I feel like hitting her up for a formal date is not the best move but also not just hitting her up like a potential booty call | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to hit up women on 23andme?Actually, sperm is composed of germ-line haploid cells. So at best you'd only get 50% of your DNA in her. Sorry my dude. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Best way to start a conversation on Tinder or other dating appsSo how do you make yourself interesting or a challenge right off the bat? | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Best way to start a conversation on Tinder or other dating appsI've been working with a dating coach who has been saying to compliment on her looks and then ask about something unique in her profile? | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Nick Sparks as a coach?Awesome, thanks so much for writing that. So after your time with him, did you improve with women? Did you continue to work on the emotions on a deeper level like he recommended? If so, how? He seems like a great coach, but I'm not sure I can drop the $2000 to potentially be told at the end that I have to work on some deeper stuff. | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 04:49 AM |
| 3 | What to ask under 21 girl to do tonightHow about suggesting grabbing a bottle of wine and going to the neighborhood park? | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What to ask under 21 girl to do tonightI'd like something with a little more low-key of a vibe. That sounds like I'm putting in too much effort | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Nick Sparks as a coach?That's the one | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipI'm fairly confident she's not going back to him. She went on a whole rant once about how much she didn't like him | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipThink there's any potential in the future with this girl? | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipYea I think that's what I'll do. From reading the texts, do you think I handled it ok? | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipI'm just trying to figure out if there's something I could have done differently so I don't make the same mistake moving forward. I've had a lot of girls bail on me, often for another dude so it just kinda feels like I'm not enough | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:17 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipThis is the text convo we had: https://drive.google.com/open?id=1SL4qMqea39lPeeVIJM7I_lOy0f-GfEy2 | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:13 AM |
| 1 | After hooking up with girl a few times she said she doesn't want a relationshipYea she said she was interested in seeing where she's at after Christmas break, so I think I'll just wait to hit her up then. I just don't like waiting lol. The insecure part of me is concerned that she's gonna just find someone else in the meantime and that I screwed something up here | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late for me to get better with womenJust don't really know how to start. I'm just over feeling awkward and inhibited with women. Really pisses me off but idk what to do about it | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it too late for me to get better with womenI know it sounds pretty ridiculous, but kinda feels like that sometimes | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Have very hard time talking freely with anyone, especially girlsI've been trying mediation off and on for a while. Do you think it can help with this emotional clenching? | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Have very hard time talking freely with anyone, especially girlsBecause it feels real shitty to feel alone. This clenching makes me feel like I can't emotionally connect with people and it makes me worry that I'm going to be alone forever. I just don't know how to open up and express my thoughts and feelings, both positive and negative. Makes me feel like I'm not quite human, just kinda locked into this shell looking outward. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | I AMA Dating & Relationship Coach Who Taught Millions 'How to Hold Conversation Like a Man'. -- I'm Nick Sparks, AMA!Cool, thanks for taking the time to answer all my questions! | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | I AMA Dating & Relationship Coach Who Taught Millions 'How to Hold Conversation Like a Man'. -- I'm Nick Sparks, AMA!Dates? | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | I AMA Dating & Relationship Coach Who Taught Millions 'How to Hold Conversation Like a Man'. -- I'm Nick Sparks, AMA!What locations do you have planned coming up? | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | I AMA Dating & Relationship Coach Who Taught Millions 'How to Hold Conversation Like a Man'. -- I'm Nick Sparks, AMA!Totally, makes sense. Your videos on getting sexual and making conversation were really helpful. Idk if this is a question that you're comfortable answering on this platform, but since I didn't see it on your site, I was wondering how much you typically charge for your weekend live-training sessions? If that's not info you prefer to let known to the public then no worries. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | I AMA Dating & Relationship Coach Who Taught Millions 'How to Hold Conversation Like a Man'. -- I'm Nick Sparks, AMA!Thanks! I've been trying to get more into mediation, considering doing a retreat in a few months. I've really liked your videos, especially when you demonstrate how to talk with women. After watching you, I find I'm kinda able to get more into the mindset you are talking about and get into a similar style of communication. I was wondering if you'd consider posting more videos of you just talking and escalating with women. All of your lectures are super helpful, but watching an expert like you ac… | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I AMA Dating & Relationship Coach Who Taught Millions 'How to Hold Conversation Like a Man'. -- I'm Nick Sparks, AMA!Yea getting out of my head is really difficult. Even when I'm just talking to friends I find that I'm usually super in my head and self-conscious. I have a pretty hard time being fully expressive and open, even around family and drive. Makes it so that when I'm talking to a cute girl it's just 10x worse, especially if it's in a large group situation, like a bar or club. One-on-one can be better but still in my head. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I AMA Dating & Relationship Coach Who Taught Millions 'How to Hold Conversation Like a Man'. -- I'm Nick Sparks, AMA!Hey Nick, one thing you talk about a lot is letting sexual energy build up naturally which is the essence of flirting. One of my biggest obstacles is that in the past I had a lot of issues with performance anxiety. I feel like I kinda repress sexual energy out of nervousness of sexual failure and shame. This shoots me in the foot in terms of successful flirting obviously, but also even when I am able to get a girl into a sexual context, I often fail to get turned on for the first few interaction… | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How long after getting a girl's number should I wait before hitting her up?Hahaha ok good to know | /r/seduction | 08/04/17 06:00 AM |
| 1 | The anger phaseHow would you recommend doing that without being a whiny bitch? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/15 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Moving past the approachHave an interesting life to talk about | /r/askTRP | 30/03/15 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I put myself through a rite of passage?You should consider a NOLS or Outward Bound trip | /r/askTRP | 25/03/15 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Need help - Girl asking questions about past - Suffering ED with GirlHey man, I've dealt with this shit a lot too. The first girl I ever tried to bang (ex gf now) this happened for a while until I got my shit together. Since breaking up with her the issue popped up again though. Sucks complete dick. Really sent me into a downward spiral for a bit. Still happens sometimes but now that I've had more successes it's gotten better. Here are a few things that I've found really helped. 1) Cialis is great, however it doesn't effect your head. Basically you're putting you… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Have hard time getting turned onI'm 21. I'm not sure exactly how long it's gone on. When I had a gf I had no trouble getting insanely turned on by her but since then it's always been kinda trouble to get going with chicks for a bit. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girlsWhat's a good standard way to approach a chick? Just go up and say "hey my name is blank"? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Have you personally known any indian guys in the USA that had a lot of success with women of other races?Yea. They lift and have good social skills just like anybody else that is good at getting pussy. Don't let your ethnicity be a handicap | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Bulking meal plan=better mood?Right now I'm 145lb. Trying to eat 50g fat, 150g protein, 390g carbs. Eating clean. Eggs, fish, beans, brown rice. Things like that | /r/askTRP | 14/03/15 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when she asks how many girls you've slept with?But if she pushes the question, how do you respond? I usually say something like "I lost count around 476" but then when she keeps pushing it I'm not really sure how to play it | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How to fundamentally change? Vastly different personalities in different situations. Confused afWhat would you say were the biggest concrete changes you made? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a friend hitting on my girlWell fuck. Is the situation salvageable or no? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/14 09:50 AM |
| 1 | When and how to drop platesAlso, in a semi-related question, is an exclusive ltr the same as having oneitis? If not, what's the difference? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Playing one girl off anotherThanks dudes, that was what I needed to know | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Playing one girl off anotherYea first time. I've never been in the position to be banging several chicks at the same time (not in a three-way sense). Basically if I want to lock-down girl #1 would it help or hinder my efforts to have the other girl that I'm hooking up with (girl #2) there? After the bbq there will be a party that most likely I would end up taking girl #2 to and idk what would happen with #1. Like I said, the next morning I'm going paddleboarding with #1 and there's also a party that night that I could take… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Playing one girl off anotherWas that a yes, have both the chicks over at the same time or no? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/14 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Getting into potentially dangerous watersYea she's a server and had been there over a year and I'm a dishwasher | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Getting into potentially dangerous watersAny way to avoid having to quit my job? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Can't lift. Now whatMy question was not what to do about my shoulder. I have a doctor and a PT for that. My question was assuming I can't lift, which is basically the first piece of advice for becoming RP, how can I still try to become alpha without getting muscular? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/14 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Can't lift. Now whatBy "what now" I didn't really mean what now medically. I mean assuming I can't do much lifting and realistically put on much muscle, which seems to be one of the first and most important aspects of being RP, what do I do? It seems like I'm basically stuck being small. I've been dealing with this shoulder for about four years now. I've already had surgery on it and now it just dislocated again. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/14 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Can't lift. Now whatIt dislocates. I've had surgery for it but I just dislocated it again rock climbing | /r/askTRP | 06/10/14 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Good diet for bulkingIf I've been feeling super low energy lately would that be a symptom of burning out my cns/pns like you have said? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Met Incredible Beautiful Match - She didn't respond. What went wrong?Ya man idk what you did wrong. If I was a chick I would be balls deep on you right now. But really, there's pretty much nothing correct here | /r/askTRP | 15/09/14 05:04 AM |
| 3 | Hanging with people from BP daysElaborate | /r/askTRP | 12/09/14 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Wtf I am able to get chicks but not fuck them. Ruining my mental stateI did lift but I've been recovering from an injury for the past year. I haven't gotten my levels checked. And this problem has been going for over a year | /r/askTRP | 05/09/14 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Wtf I am able to get chicks but not fuck them. Ruining my mental stateOk lol well how can I at least make myself a slightly hornier bastard? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Wtf I am able to get chicks but not fuck them. Ruining my mental stateElaborate? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/14 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Wtf I am able to get chicks but not fuck them. Ruining my mental stateAren't we as dudes supposed to basically want to fuck everything with a hole? I drink plenty of other times with chicks and it doesn't always work. How am I supposed to manufacture spontaneity? But ya, you're probably right | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Wtf I am able to get chicks but not fuck them. Ruining my mental stateShe was a random chick I met in Jamaica. Thicker than normal. We went and hung out in the hottub. Ended up drinking some rum and I had poppeda cialis. Ended up fucking right in the hottub. I think it may have been cuz it was so spontaneous. I also like somewhat curvier girls. Idk | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Wtf I am able to get chicks but not fuck them. Ruining my mental statePartly a choice but at this point I don't really have much of a drive so it's not really a challenge at all for me | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Wtf I am able to get chicks but not fuck them. Ruining my mental stateFour. Only one of which I was able to get it up the first time. I know I can get it to work, I just don't know how or why. I'm the kind of guy who likes to be in control and to fix problems. The fact that I have essentially no control over this aspect of my life is driving me nuts. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to handle not getting it upOk so last night I was hooking up with this chick and the issue of not getting hard happened again. It's super annoying. It's been happening off and on for almost two years. At this point I don't even feel that I'm anxious but more that I just know it's not going to work. I was able to get sort of hard briefly a few times before going completely soft again. I don't know wtf to do. I've had my doctor give me Cialis before which didn't really do much to help out. I never really watch porn and I on… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/14 12:54 PM |
| 2 | When no means yesIn the case I am referring to the girl and I were sitting together. I was running my hands up and down her back under her shirt and massaging her scalp. When I went in for the kids she died me and said "You know nothing is going to happen tonight". She then also asked me about another girl who I had been working on before. She didn't literally say the word no. I understand that an actual no means no, but what about other responses? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/14 09:53 AM |
| 0 | What are some good examples of RP man at work?Frank Underwood from House of Cards Don Draper from Man Men (usually) Walter White from Breaking Bad (progresses from being everybody's bitch to alpha as fuck) | /r/askTRP | 28/08/14 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How to handle not getting it upNo | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 06:53 AM |
| 2 | How do I find my frame of mind?Try meditating. I don't care if you're not into a bunch of touchy feely stuff or not. Meditating helps clear out your mind so you can focus and act more directly. When you meditate you will clean out all the bullshit in your mind that is making it scrambled and agitated. Find a half hour a day and do it, either in the morning or before bed. Think of it like brushing your teeth for your mind. As the day goes on you accumulate mental filth that needs to be scrubbed away. Get your om on bro. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Advice to a beta buddySo is trusting a girl always a mistake. Assuming she's never done anything sketchy should you still always assume she'll cheat, especially abroad? I feel like at some point in life you will need to trust a chick... Right? This shit is a lot to swallow | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Advice to a beta buddyGood shit. Thanks guys | /r/askTRP | 26/08/14 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Advice to a beta buddyYea I can definitely see the pussy vibe now. I was trying to go with the mature, even-handed vibe but I think I kind of missed it. Also, it was like pulling teeth to get him to send what I wrote, he never would have gone for what you suggested. And ya, I explained that she is probably flip flopping cuff she knows she is going to be partying in Spain and probably feels conflicted by wanting to bang Spanish guys but also feeling guilt and attachment to my friend. She wants to test if he is the str… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/14 03:18 PM |
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