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This reminded me of a great quote: "I am not who I think I am, I am not what you think I am, I am what I think you think I am"
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 05:10 PM
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Really inspiring and you have absorbed alot over one year. Keep going this is great stuff brother! Out of all the acronyms, the one I didn't get was WISNIFG? What does this mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/20 02:20 PM
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'The mind eluminated' is a fantastic book. They also have a very active reddit page
/r/RedPillBooks16/01/20 09:21 PM
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Sidebar
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:04 AM
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It's a numbers game my man. Go out and try again.... then again... then again. Be outcome independent
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:00 AM
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Men hate bitches. Men love women who can stand up for themselves and are not afraid to be a bitch if necessary. Big difference, but I see the confusion. Its akin to men appearing arrogant when in fact they are confident.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 09:55 AM
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Sounds like she was initially drawn into you via the push pull but then you over did it and your insecurities shined through. Learn and move on.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:52 AM
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Do nothing. You sound a bit desperate mate she, can smell it
/r/askTRP24/08/19 01:07 AM
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“Yeah, I was looking for a babysitter, why don’t you come over tonight” *hold cheeky smile”
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:26 AM
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Sex god method book
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:22 AM
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Blends also with Law 20: “Do Not Commit To Anyone. It is the fool who always rushes to take sides. Do not commit to any side or cause but yourself. By maintaining your independence, you become the master of others— playing people against one another, making them pursue you.” Indirectness is just a great tool to achieve this. Like OP says, indirectness has its time and place and may be used more powerfully than directness.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 07:47 AM
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Can be freakin anything just make sure you give her plausible deniability. And use the words ‘lets’; it’s a golden tool. “Common lets go grab some tea at mine” “I want to introduce you to my dog, lets go” “Lets go have a spliff I’m bored” “I’ve started a new insert hobby you will love it, lets go” Grab her and start walking (dominance and leadership), change topic and keep conversation at high energy. If she really doesn’t want to come she will say something. If she gives you token resistance gi…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 05:53 AM
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Unfortunately yes. Becoming the best form of yourself is hard and thus 99% of people won’t do it... Focus on yourself and do what you know needs to be done; don’t question other people’s choices even if they question yours. Self improvement plays massive dividends in the future but it’s a grind I know...
/r/askTRP14/06/19 11:15 AM
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“It’s ok, I don’t mind”
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:31 PM
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Read this he other day super fascinating
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 08:08 AM
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Managing expectations is key. Try have zero expectations from people. If you find yourself disappointed or upset, it’s usually because your expectations have not been matched. So try and self-reflect and understand what you are inherently expecting from people...
/r/askTRP02/05/19 11:02 AM
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‘The flinch’ is pretty good. It’s a free pdf short book. However note that Action > Reading a book
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:30 AM
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Only text to meet up. By not texting her much you will show you’re up to other shit; you got things going for you in life. I.e high value and worth pursuing. Good luck
/r/seduction21/04/19 11:22 PM
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Youre having a beta mindset. If she won’t fuck you then next her. You are being her emotional tampon at this point mate. Game other girls and make her jealous if you really want to fuck her; that’s your only option at this point.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:37 PM
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Yeah of-course it’s fine to be just friends with girls but know that when you set that premise you won’t be able to have sex them... so long as it’s not your strategy to fuck them then cool. Don’t fall into the nice guy beta trap of LJBF.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:31 PM
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If she brings up her bf it’s a covert LJBF rejection
/r/askTRP19/04/19 09:00 AM
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Fighting is ALWAYS a lose lose situation!! She won’t be impressed, in fact she will see you can’t control yourself and bring her attraction down; better to deescalate and come back to the girl later
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:21 AM
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I think you know the answer. Eye contact is a sure sign of either sexual interest or she is thinking of killing you 💁‍♂️
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:18 AM
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Cringe
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:23 AM
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It took me a while as well but I’m pretty sure it’s a troll post 😂😂
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 10:49 PM
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She replied well so I would leave it at that. But remember to keep texting to a minimum. You should only be texting for meeting up. She will infer that you’re doing shit when you don’t text much. I.e. you’re a guy of value and this is attractive to women. Good luck
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:56 PM
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5’10 is fine dude. However you’re going to stay a virgin with that attitude
/r/seduction24/03/19 11:09 AM
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Don’t respond, hard next.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 10:56 AM
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I’ve definitely felt this from various women. Some are more nurturing and healing while others are more exciting and dangerous. There can also be blends. I’ve found myself going through cycles of craving both extremes. Also, I think the key word is ‘tend’: Latinos ‘tend’ to be hot while asians ‘tend’ to be cold. So of course you’re going to get exceptions.
/r/seduction10/03/19 03:15 PM
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Yup, pharmacologist here and I totally agree. The novel theory of inflammation causing depression is gaining a lot of traction and dovetails nicely into the other theories such as the monoamine and BDNF theory- exercise reduces inflammatory mediators which in turn increase serotonin and BDNF. FUCK YOU INFLAMMATION Hence, exercise at-least 3 days a week and eat clean to maintain good inflammatory mediators.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:05 PM
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All women are promiscuous and naturally spin plates. They can’t help it with the zillion of options they get everyday from thirsty dudes. It’s just something you have to accept. Acceptance will take time and you may feel anger in the meantime but persevere soldier. What you can do is the same thing though, talk and fuck a lot of women; this will naturally give you abundance and DGAF mentality, you will no longer care and won’t be surprised anymore that she is fucking around. You may be her #1 ri…
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:51 AM
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You answered your own question. Don’t validate her too much but it is important to do so sparingly so she doesn’t think of you as an asshole and leave. It’s a fine line to walk along
/r/seduction21/02/19 09:41 AM
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Don’t worry this is the natural process of unplugging. The more you see the true nature of women (and the world) the more it challenges your internal beliefs and you will get angry/put off and women will become unappealing (see the stages of unplugging post by Rollo or in his book Rational Male). Eventually when you accept women’s nature you can start enjoying it more e.g. practicing DGAF, abundance, teasing, negging... everything will fall into place as trp sinks in and is a lot of fun. What yo…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:36 AM
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She may not see you as masculine enough yet to be dominate in bed and your just a pit stop before she finds Chad. Take a chance and try to dominate her more, (read SGM if you haven’t already) she may submit and open herself more to you. On the other hand, she may just be more masculine in nature (I see this a lot in bi women or women who have a lot of older brothers) and if it turns you off then next her.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:20 AM
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Never stick your dick in crazy. Unfortunately this lesson can only be learnt when you stick your dick in crazy ...
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:06 AM
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This. If she keeps pushing you need to push back with higher dominance. Also how come nobodies mentioned Iron Rule of Tomassi #2: NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:37 PM
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Cheers for the reminder this is an INVALUABLE post
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 02:22 PM
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Dump her. Don’t talk to the other guy. Don’t look back.
/r/seduction13/02/19 09:46 AM
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If she is a high value female she WILL ALWAYS HAVE ORBITORS.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:36 AM
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Read the book bro ;) it’s definitely up there as my top 3 TRP books (after Rational male and 48 laws of power)
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:32 AM
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Go for it. This is as direct as they can be lol
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:31 AM
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Yeah exactly. ‘needy’ people pretend to have no needs but will indirectly try get their needs met by helping/fixing other people’s problems with hope that the generosity will be returned (deemed ‘caretaking’) and thus their needs being met... This is inherently a bad tactic- know the difference between ‘care taking with hope of reciprocity’ and ‘truely caring for someone’
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:17 AM
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Read No More Mister Nice Guy. I had similar issues, you subconsciously block yourself because you feel you don’t deserve it. NMMNG will make you put your needs first and convince you to take action and enjoy it instead of feeling guilty because you ‘took’ what you wanted. No shame in that- in fact women want you to do it. Good luck
/r/askTRP12/02/19 10:57 AM
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Using both ‘always say less than necessary’ and ‘pose as a friend, work as a spy’ in tandem that has brought me many insights. Just focusing more on what people are saying while minding what I say pays dividends for sure. But my favorite one is ‘win through actions never through argument’ which is the most potent and time saving law. Saved me a lot of hassle when used. Moreover, using this one alongside ‘think as you like, but behave like others’ is very powerful.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:06 PM
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Didn’t read. Don’t plate ex’s. Cut and never look back.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:33 PM
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First, chill. Failure is part of the process, learn how o take failure in your stride. Dust yourself off and get back on that horse. Invite her out again for drinks, a little alcohol can loosen things up (don’t be dependent on it though) and imply kino. Lastly, note how your feeling now. The feeling of failing because you didn’t take action is a lot worse than feeling rejected because you took action. Next time remember this and be more bold and make a move. Rejection>Regret
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:27 PM
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Can’t believe I’m the one to have to say this.... SIDEBAR
/r/askTRP01/02/19 11:37 PM
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STRENGTHEN: -Glutes (glute bridges, squat) -Abs (crunches, leg raises) -Hamstrings (leg curls) -External obliques (wood chops) STRETCH: -Psoas (lunges) -Iliacus (lunges) -Quads (quad stretch) -Tensor fascia latae (Standing TFL stretch) -Erector Spinae (childs pose)
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:44 AM
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Looks like these problems run deep. Drop her, it’s not your responsibility to manage crazy especially if she is disrespectful to you in public.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:38 AM
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However, never isolate yourself by being independent, interdependence is key.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 01:11 PM
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Ask her out straight up or invite her over and make a move. If you get rejected again you got your answer,!hard next and don’t look back.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:23 AM
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I feel you man but just know that women are 10x worse and more promiscuous than you will ever be.
/r/seduction23/01/19 10:51 AM
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I wouldn’t waste the energy. Cut her out, move on and don’t look back.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:48 AM
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Very helpful cheers
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:22 AM
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Jesus had a middle name?? Cheers for the tough love 😂
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:13 PM
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Aye I think that’s the consensus
/r/askTRP22/01/19 07:50 PM
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Love that pussy juice. Took you a while to find that lol
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:51 PM
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General rule of thumb: keep his stomach full and balls empty.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 05:35 PM
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Side bar and no more mister nice guy
/r/askTRP22/01/19 05:33 PM
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Lol you’re still a virgin aren’t you
/r/askTRP22/01/19 05:31 PM
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Sir yes sir. Booked doc appt for BP and T. I lift 3/week and stick to compound exercises: Deadlift, squat, OHP and bench. I’ll check out citruline malate cheers
/r/askTRP22/01/19 04:05 PM
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Cheers, this is encouraging. No I wasn’t too into her, she was just an easy catch at the end of the night showing extreme IOIs. >HB7 from now on for sure...
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:33 PM
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You’re wrong dude :) it is short for ‘using head for sexual pleasure’. Anyway, this is not the point of the thread
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:18 PM
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Cheers
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:16 PM
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No porn. Lift 3/week. Cheers I’ve looked into eating some more ginger lol
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:15 PM
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Yeah that’s my thinking also... I don’t watch porn nor masturbated in a while. But I have been seeing a plate who fucks a lot (the girl I had mdma night and fucked the following morning) ... hmmmmmm 🧐
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:14 PM
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Head means oral sex dude ;)
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:11 PM
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This is a shit test 100%! Just play is cool and hold the frame of ‘I want to fuck you but I don’t need to’. Tell her she isn’t going to get sex anyway no matter how much she begs. This will drive her mad and crave you even more.... then smash her.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:27 PM
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This. She has got you friendzoned my friend. Don’t bother investing anymore attention. Crush or not, find other women to game.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:31 PM
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Don’t text too much with girls (it gives them the validation straight up and she thinks ‘thank you beta male for approving me’). Just text to organize meeting up that’s all. Give her your attention in person not over text. If she pushes for conversations over text always steer towards conversations about when to hang out. If she doesn’t want to meet up then NEXT her. Don’t give out your attention needlessly
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:13 AM
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If she is telling you straight up (multiple times) in an overt manner (this is the language they use when women are serious) then LEAVE HER ALONE. Don’t be a creep, she is not interested. Bite the bullet, accept the rejection and move on dude. Now I can understand where you’re coming from in the snense that it may feel like a shit test but if she is 1) telling you multiple times to kiss off 2) uses overt language 3) closed body language; then leave her the fuck alone dude........
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:05 AM
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The romanticized idea of love is fake.... welcome to the RP my friend, it’s a deep rabbit hole. Good luck
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:42 AM
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You got to go with her dude it’s her brothers birthday...
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:30 PM
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Why do you want to make it work in the first place? Sounds like you’re not into her and feel bad about it (this is beta). I would break up with her and move on. Breaks never work dude
/r/askTRP20/01/19 01:18 PM
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Withdraw attention
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:59 AM
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Depends... If she breaks eye contact first and looks down it usually means she is being submissive and may find you attractive/dominant. If she breaks eye contact and glares sideways it’s that she is unsure. If she breaks eye contact and looks up it’s a bad sign and she has just given you the ‘eye roll’ and she thinks she is more dominant/higher value than you. Now if you break eye contact first it’s game over my friend- you have communicated that you think of yourself as lower value/submissive …
/r/seduction18/01/19 10:04 AM
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It’s an attention ‘ping’. She is either interested in you again or she may be trying to pull you into beta orbit (most likely the later). I would answer it and swiftly try organize a meet up. If she declines with no intent of rescheduling then hard next and don’t waste your time. Don’t give away your attention needlessly...
/r/seduction18/01/19 09:50 AM
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Yeah agreed, my point is there’s no benefit in insulting them outright just to cause offense lol. TRP is about discovering the truth of intergender dynamics (among other things) in the real world and applying it accordingly. Now, if people find these dynamics insulting that’s their problem and a different story. Great post!
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 09:42 AM
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I agree with this for the most part. However, the baby making machine comment is just demeaning, not redpilled. Women have a place in this world and we need them to compliment out masculinity. Disregarding them is ignorant and unproductive.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/19 09:18 AM
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Positive and negative = +ve and -ve
/r/seduction17/01/19 12:10 PM
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Stare at his lips then eyes then back to the lips.
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:09 PM
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-Occasionally say subtle statements of intent e.g. “Sexy” and innuendos when appropriate -flirt, push pull, teasing, escalate physically ect -Don’t do everything she asks. Girls want you to be dominant. Jokingly ask why or point out an obvious answer/solution -Make sure to spike +ve emotions aswell as -ve emotions sprinkled alongside flatline talk. Most guys get friendzoned by only giving her +ve emotions or flatline and she gets all validated and uninterested in you. Swaying between the emotion…
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:06 PM
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Did you tell her honestly or was it out of spite? If it’s the former then hold frame and don’t mention it again. Start working on yourself instead as that’s in your control. She will get the message that you want more and she needs to shape up.
/r/seduction09/01/19 09:47 PM
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Cut her out your life dude nobody needs that drama
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:10 PM
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Nope you’re definitely in anger phase
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:37 PM
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Meditation fuck sake read the side bar
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:42 AM
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So you don’t know then?
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:35 PM
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What are some more controversial books??
/r/askTRP01/01/19 04:29 PM
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Watch out for the validation black hole. If she does come back she just might be trying to put you into orbit. So don’t engage in long conversations with her over text or call- use this time to organize meeting up in person. If she doesn’t want to meet: she doesn’t exist, NEXT. If she comes back very enthusiastic almost apologetic, take it as a good sign but keep in the back of your mind she will probably flake again. If she does, never return her calls after that and permanently move on.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:50 PM
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That sucks dude but it happens to the best of us. Consider her dead: Morn the loss and accept how you feel, NEXT her and move on. Do not reinitiate contact, if she is interested she will come back around, but right now she no longer exists
/r/askTRP30/12/18 01:09 PM
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There is a great post in the ‘red pill handbook’ found in the side bar, page 88: ‘how you know you’re alpha’
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:46 AM
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Go and ask this question in women red pill (WRP). Just like TRP, they advise self improvement and accepting the truths of intergender dynamics. They can teach you to be a more enlightened women and attract a high value male. Unfortunately men and women have different sexual strategies and so we cannot advise on this really as our imperatives are different.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:52 PM
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Pain is certain, suffering is optional.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:38 PM
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I find exercising, especially running, gives me time to think deeply and untangle complex thoughts. Meditation is also good for this, just let your mind go and observe the thoughts come and go. Stoicism should be a bedrock mindset and your right some stoic exercises are akin to the dopamine fast such as ‘negative visualization’ and ‘voluntary discomfort’. Check out the post ‘dealing with loneliness as you work towards becoming a top 10% man’ by u/nowboarding. It’s in the red pill handbook in the…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:33 PM
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You’re describing anhedonia. It’s very common when you initially take the RP and during the progress of unplugging. It’s your previous views of the world violently clashing with reality. You have probably heard this countless of times but I would advise finding a mission/hobby- something to create or make which you can be passionate about and also to take your mind of things. Also, exercise! It will do wonders for you. For me it’s running and gym, I set races once a month to track my progress an…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 08:19 PM
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Google keep is a lot better in my opinion for note taking
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:06 PM
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Listen to some audiobooks during that long commute
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:23 PM
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Yup 2/3 rule works every time
/r/askTRP26/12/18 07:56 PM
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