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HoodCardigan3/r/seduction14/05/11 11:14 PM
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The pants work, the pipe is not as cool as you think it is.
/r/seduction29/04/12 10:14 PM
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IMPORTANT NOTE: Do not be an asshole and push this to far. That is called rape, and that makes you a truly disgusting person worthy of a slow painful death. Had the girl said, “Yes, take me home,” I would have do so without question. At any point, had she stopped me, I would have stopped. She wasn’t even drunk when we fucked, not at all. It’s not about tricking the girl or making her do something against her will, it’s about understanding people well enough to get them to do what you want them t…
/r/seduction16/04/12 03:13 AM
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This problem is entirely in your head. Ignore the bra and take off her panties.
/r/seduction02/12/11 04:42 AM
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Most likely OP is Sikh, and the turban is a religious obligation.
/r/seduction19/09/11 03:16 AM
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You can joke and say that you belong to some extravagant, made-up profession, but the context has to be right. It can't seem like you're evading the question because you're actually a loser. But you can add your actual job afterwards, but not talk about it. The goal is that the humor your demonstrate with your initial response compensates for the lack of value in your job. The other way you could approach is to find a way that describes the best possible version of your job. What is the best, mo…
/r/seduction20/05/11 05:31 AM
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The guy's in college, of course he's unemployed. Give him a break. Fuckin' everyone in college is broke, and yet they still get laid. There a plenty of cheap date options, see the list cited below. If you're in a college town, there should be even more free events going on (though not in the summer). You want to find something interesting, cheap and different.
/r/seduction18/05/11 06:34 PM
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I rely on public transit, and am loathe to take a taxi, but often the cost of a cab is the cost of getting laid. Nevertheless, it sounds like you did well. To avoid facing a similar logistics dilemma, try to plan a day two close to your place so you can bounce easily.
/r/seduction17/05/11 04:23 PM
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Have you tried getting girls to sit on your lap? You would need to have a high level of intimacy, but if you can get a girl to sit on you you're 15 seconds away from a k-close. Seems like you could use the chair to your advantage under certain conditions to execute such a move.
/r/seduction15/05/11 05:57 AM
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Chuck Klosterman has a knack for constructing fantastic hypothetical questions. If you can simplify and memorize one or two of these, you have a great conversation topic to whip out when you meet a clever girl or an interesting group. These are far better than canned openers (though I wouldn't use them to open), and generate a more interesting conversation that interview style questions.
/r/seduction14/05/11 11:18 PM
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Your conversation topics are extremely boring: basic interview questions. You did nothing to differentiate yourself from the dozens of other guys who approach this girl. You didn't use any seduction techniques like DHV, qualifying, teasing etc... Thus, the girl just felt like she was being hit on, her friends didn't approve, and you failed to leave a meaningful impression.
/r/seduction14/05/11 09:16 PM
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Should i tell her how i feel No. You need to act on your feelings, expressing them won't convince her of anything. This is r/seduction, not r/induction, you have to appeal to the gut not the brain.
/r/seduction07/05/11 10:21 PM
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You would have to involve her in the conversation and make it rude for her to bail out. "My name is X and this is my friend CB." Reincorporate her interests or stories into the conversation so that she has to participate. Ideally, whoever you introduce her to is actually interesting to her, and she'd rather talk to them than go bother your friend. You want to give this girl a reason to stay at the party and enjoy it. Nothing is guaranteed to work, but it's worth trying, given that you lost her a…
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:07 PM
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CB clearly wasn't feeling you, and all you did was grasp at straws. You could have tried opening another set, and pawning her off on someone else. If she's having an interesting conversation with a third party, she's distracted from HB, and less likely to feel like you and your friend conspiring to sully HB's purity, which she is duty bound to defend.
/r/seduction05/05/11 07:00 PM
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You sound like you know you messed up but are rationalizing and making excuses. When a girl is coming on to you that strong, you might as well ask her straight up: "Are you single?" "What happened to [exboyfriend]?" I respect and agree with your moral stance, but your info didn't match the evidence. Also, downvote for drinking and driving.
/r/seduction29/04/11 09:33 PM
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That was hilarious. If you read all the way to the bottom, and I don't blame you if you didn't make it, it says the author made out with someone on Mystery's TV show The Pickup Artist. This fact really underpins her impression of PUA's. She is railing against the straw man in a furry hat who uses magic tricks and NLP. I don't think I've ever once seen someone on seddit promote peacocking or fuzzy hats. Thank goodness. She also builds a nice dichotomy wherein men are aggressive manipulators and w…
/r/seduction26/04/11 09:56 PM
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I was going to congratulate OP and say that he did ok, but after reading your post, I have reconsidered. It's difficult to take the woman's perspective and extrapolate her desires and goals, but when you can, it really helps guide your actions and eliminate doubt. Thanks!
/r/seduction18/04/11 03:36 AM
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I don't think the internet can answer your questions. What do you want to do with this girl? It sounds like she's hooked, she's thinks you're interesting and funny. That doesn't mean she's DTF, but you've laid the groundwork. So ask yourself what you're looking for with this girl: a one night stand? a girlfriend? just a friend/entourage? Then aim for that. If you can't decided, flip a coin and then go with your gut.
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:42 AM
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That's so depressing. You just gotta move on mate. Don't waste any more effort on this girl. Focus on the next one and don't let this bog you down.
/r/seduction11/04/11 05:43 PM
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Never rub another man's rhubarb.
/r/seduction08/04/11 04:02 AM
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I think you're reading way too much into a rage comic. It's not meant to be an accurate representation of what the artist did or said. And the whole situation has nothing to do with dominance or dhv or game or anything. Women have a tendency to express interest when they aren't interested, and it's offensive and disrespectful. A rage comic is the perfect venue for OP to express his emotional reaction.
/r/seduction06/04/11 04:02 AM
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The standard technique with LMR is to freeze out: remove yourself from the situation entirely. Indicate through your behavior that sex is not overly important to you. Then re-escalate. The premise of LMR is that the woman is withholding consent in an attempt to save face. The freeze-out causes her to realize that she actually does want sex, and thus she consents. If a woman is withholding consent for some other legitimate reason, then there really isn't much you can or should do. It seems like t…
/r/seduction05/04/11 05:13 AM
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i get a tester of expensive cologne sprayed on me, my only suit jacket, best shoes and shirt, brush my teeth, shower for a long time, and deodorise. I think this is where the night was won. You shed all the vestiges of your social isolation when you suited up. The ladies might never know that you're looking your best, but you do, and that confidence is gold. ps. Shower, then cologne, or it defeats the purpose...
/r/seduction04/04/11 04:35 AM
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The best way to convince a girl that you're not gay is to make out with her. This is straight out of "The Game". Strauss mentions the line "If I weren't gay I would totally be into you". It lowers a girl's defenses, and you become the forbidden fruit. Until you kiss her and she realizes you aren't gay. Takes a lot of courage to execute though. As long as you don't allow yourself to become her gay friend, she should catch on. You need to keep building attraction and try to sexualize the conversat…
/r/seduction03/04/11 07:07 AM
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Sounds like you did well. This girl is clearly interested in you. Now you just need to execute. Theres no need for self doubt or nervousness, just manage the logistics, be natural, have a good time, and you're home free. Maintaining interest by text can be tough. The longer you go without an in-person interaction, the dryer the text well becomes. I think your instincts to manufacture a double date with her college roommate are good, and it's not too late to try that. What you want to do is maint…
/r/seduction03/04/11 07:00 AM
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Just a tip to all FR writers: If it's going to be a wall of text, do us a favor and edit it down after your first draft. I think there's a good FR hiding here but it's cluttered and difficult to parse. Sorry, moving on. It sounds like you did well and identified your own mistakes. You used kino, you kept up conversation, you shifted venues. You realized when you were being AFC, when you weren't leading, etc... I'm not sure that asking about your sexual fantasies didn't mean anything. I hope you …
/r/seduction28/03/11 05:38 AM
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Everyone on Seddit says to take the lead and make decisions, but you're the first person I've seen outline what to do if your choice is shot down: adapt. Good tidbit. I think the adage goes: It is better to ask for forgiveness than for permission.
/r/seduction28/03/11 05:26 AM
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Up until the fiance thing, I would have said that your mistake was spending so much time with her in a very short time span. But after the twist, I don't think any of this is your fault. It's really weird that you met her family while she was engaged, kind of makes me doubt the veracity of the engagement. In any case, this girl seems to have been going through a tough time. She leaned on you for emotional support, but she was never going to sleep with you. Freezing out LMR is meant to overcome g…
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:41 PM
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Thank you for a great FR. I've seen a number of people dismiss seddit because they dislike the Mystery Method, but I honestly don't think it's heavily preached. I see a lot of stuff about confidence building and social skills, and not much about canned routines or magic tricks. I guess the lingo and the mentality is sort of engrained... I think your FR demonstrates the end point a lot of us are trying to achieve. To be able to go out, have a great time, meet a beautiful girl and build a meaningf…
/r/seduction27/03/11 03:25 AM
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I like "Act 'til it's fact"
/r/seduction25/03/11 04:58 PM
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Great FR, well done! Eye contact is always important, but even more so in club/dancing situations because talking is impractical. If you didn't arrive with a target, it's really creepy to just grind up on a random girl. But with a good smile and solid eye contact, you can develop instant rapport. Sometimes a girl will make eye contact with you, which is essentially an introduction to dance. I think it's important to build up the kino just like you would in any other situation: don't go for the g…
/r/seduction25/03/11 02:20 AM
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8) You’re on a date, sharing an event together. Don’t spend all night focused on her. It’s weird. Have fun where you’re at, talk to some other people, check some things out. Enjoy the event. This seems so obvious but it's not something I do. Interacting with other people creates social proof on the spot. And it takes the onus for entertainment off the two date participants. Thanks for the tip!
/r/seduction21/03/11 04:58 PM
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Stop going to dinner and start going to bars or dancing or something. She is not going to kiss you. You need to escalate physically and make the first move.
/r/seduction18/03/11 12:18 AM
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It's a good sign that you've identified a problem and want to work on it. The first step is to be mindful of your speech. Reflect on those things that seem asshole-ish. After a bit, you might be able to catch yourself before you say it. If you can identify playful teasing or some other specific situation as problematic, you can try to cut it out of your repertoire so to speak, and reflect on what you would have said and whether it's douchey. Another consideration is that different approaches are…
/r/seduction15/03/11 05:07 AM
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I like the contrast between the friend, who rolls over like an overeager labradoodle, and OP, who wants to challenge the girls expectations. Good stuff.
/r/seduction11/03/11 09:44 PM
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The non-needy formulation is "I am going to attend eventX, you should come along." Though I haven't tested it myself, I have seen people on Seddit suggest: "I am going out to eventX on Saturday, you can tag along if you promise to behave." It sounds like it wouldn't be hard to get her number if you feel more comfortable on the phone. "Hey, you forgot to give me your phone number last weekend." It's not the end of the world to make one request of a girl, you just don't want to establish a pattern…
/r/seduction10/03/11 06:38 AM
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It sounds like you could bang girl #1. I don't quite understand the reputation thing you're worried about, just keep it on the DL. You don't have to date this girl. In all of these cases, I think you need to shift from the general dorm hallway encounter to social situations that are more conducive to sexytime. Basically, figure out where the fly party is going to be, and invite the girl you want. Girl #2 I wouldn't make moves on. As a matter of principle, I do not rub another man's rhubarb. Howe…
/r/seduction10/03/11 06:02 AM
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You can look in the Sidebar - New to Seddit section for references on date ideas and text game. In brief, your goal is now to interact with this girl in a situation that allows you to build rapport and attraction. You need to define the context to ensure that conditions are ideal. Call or text the girl, remind her who with a positive twist "Hey Girl, it's ryeyebread, the charming boy with piercing blue eyes from your mathematics class". Then invite her to an event, either alone, or if you're mor…
/r/seduction07/03/11 03:59 AM
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High School is not real life. Apply yourself and get into a great college. Proceed to make girls forget about their "boyfriend back home". For bonus points, return to hometown and make girls from your high school forget about their boyfriends away at college.
/r/seduction06/03/11 07:46 PM
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Sounds like the guy could use a friend. If you help him, it can only improve your standing with the girl. You can be as hands on or removed as you want. If you like the guy, go to the gym with him. If you'd rather not commit the time, point him towards whatever resources taught you about seduction: books, websites, etc... You don't necessarily have to sign a 3yr contract as this guy's wingman. As long as you send him along the path to self improvement he will appreciate it.
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:59 PM
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Seconded. I can't believe I had never seen that Lonely Island clip before.
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:15 AM
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When I wake up in the morning, I feel just like any other insecure 24-year old girl. Then I say, ‘Bitch, you’re Lady Gaga, you get up and walk the walk today.’ Lady Gaga
/r/seduction01/03/11 03:10 AM
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I strongly dislike Andy Rooney. Thank you for giving me another reason to do so.
/r/seduction28/02/11 11:25 PM
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Study hard, wait 6 months, go to college.
/r/seduction28/02/11 06:05 PM
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(In one Manhattan ZIP code, for example, women account for 63 percent of 22-year-olds.) Which one? Why do you tease me like this Slate? On a serious note, great find. I found the article really encouraging. It's nice to have a social-scientific basis on which to build your confidence. Before going out I can say to myself: "I am a young, attractive, well educated man, and I'm rarer than a Furby on Christmas Eve circa 1998" Every little bit of confidence helps.
/r/seduction26/02/11 06:31 AM
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You're in college, so there is a good reason for her to be busy. The conflict between study time and sexy time will be problem in almost any college relationship, casual or serious. That said, the fact that she said 'for a few weeks' is odd. I think your best course of action is to maintain an abundance mentality. Don't wait for this girl. Lead the relationship, but don't be needy. Imply that it is her loss if she fails to contact you (though I'm not sure exactly how to do this). However, if you…
/r/seduction22/02/11 05:59 AM
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Another alternative to negging that I read about here recently was the idea of disqualifiers. From this perspective, the goal is to tease in a way that disqualifies you as a potential suitor, so that the girl does not feel that she is being hit on. When she relaxes and lets her guard down, she can enjoy your company and it is easier for you to later build attraction. I think the example was along the lines of "You and I would never work out" or "You're much to tall for me". The goal is not to in…
/r/seduction15/02/11 10:32 PM
13

Though perhaps not appropriate for such a situation, my dad always said that "God only made a few perfect heads, and on the rest, he put hair."
/r/seduction07/02/11 04:37 PM
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I think in the long term, OP needs to work on a weakness in his game: building attraction. But in this case, I think he just needs to clear a mental hurdle, and he's already well position with this girl.
/r/seduction06/02/11 02:31 PM
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bike home like a boss. FTFY
/r/seduction05/02/11 12:23 AM
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