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Need SupportHot-Ad-7424/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:30 AM
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Getting StartedHot-Ad-7424/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 04:12 PM
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Need SupportHot-Ad-7424/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 03:44 PM
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RantHot-Ad-7424/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 05:45 PM
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For some accountability is so difficult. My now ex wife as of last week, told me the week prior she’s “sorry for how things played out. But there was brokenness on both sides.” For reference she asked for an open marriage, I said no, she cheated anyway, and moved out to start sleeping around. It’s like we’re almost there. You can see you fucked up and get so close to admitting it but taking that last step is where she draws the line. But I’m officially divorced now so while I deal with her for m…
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/26 06:20 AM
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Definitely a little difficult when stbx is running to church now(including getting baptized again) and constantly trying to use our child at church events to show she’s a good mom. It’s a little rough and trying to constantly process that while working on my relationship and making sure my child is okay.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 10:14 PM
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My STBX was/is doing the same. I’ve since gotten the spine to at least unfollow her and not force myself to look at the crap. It’s just to help the victim complex, at least in my case so she can feel better about herself. Was sharing posts about mothers will do anything to save their child. Meanwhile she hadn’t seen our daughter in about 10 days at that point. Even had a conversation last night with her at drop off regarding future custody paperwork that she knows it’s been helpful for our daugh…
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:16 AM
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I wore mine for a little after my stbx stopped wearing hers. During this time I begged to make it work even trying to meet her at a completely open relationship and she said I wasn’t hearing her and she didn’t want to be married to me or to anyone. She wanted to do whatever she wanted and not have to listen to anyone else. As soon as that conversation finished I took it off. That “person” was no longer my wife she was gone.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 08:46 PM
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Depending on the state leaving the marital bed also counts as separation and not having conjugal relations.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 06:24 AM
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This is great! “DO SOMETHING” talk to people, talk to a therapist, don’t be afraid to talk to a doctor about your feelings and if medicine would be helpful, go to the gym, hangout with people who care about your well being, and try to find outlets. And don’t be discouraged if you try something for a few weeks and it doesn’t fit or you come back to it later. Progress is not going to be a straight line there will be peaks and valleys. It’s a matter of putting one step in front of the other and tak…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 07:27 PM
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insert Spider-Man meme here
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:21 AM
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She came home from her last orientation before she was supposed to start school and asked to talk. I said of course and she said I know there’s things I don’t do that you enjoy but can we have an open relationship on her side. Then she’ll be more interested to sleep with me. She said our life in general had become routine with our child. Then said our sex life was very routine. Granted she’s the one that kept removing things until there’s was a handful of what she was okay with. But over the pre…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 05:21 AM
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Mine told me I did these whole list of things wrong and that I had to work on all of them. But she didn’t know who she’d be in 6, 9, 12 months from now and couldn’t promise anything. This was all after asking for an open relationship and cheating on me btw.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 08:53 PM
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In the initial 2.5 months of everything happening I went from floating between 181-184 and went down to 164. I’ve maintained there for the last month/month and a half or so but not on the uphill yet. In those same 2.5 months I could barely eat and walked roughly 220 miles. Shit the first week everything was happening I ate 4 apple sauce packets and 2 bell peppers.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 02:24 PM
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Yea I’ve somewhat accepted it but still taking it one day at a time. But I get it bro I don’t want it to drag on and wish I didn’t have to deal with her ever again but we have a child together
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 05:55 AM
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Thank you! My stbx was disconnecting(now that I can look back and see it) but sending me things about how your spouse is your best friend and knows you better than anyone else. Then within a week met up with a “friend” and then again but he would “never come between a marriage”. Come to find out he stopped talking to her. Because well it seems he got what he wanted. Looking back further she branched to me as well and I just overlooked red flags. I hate how regular this sends to be for a lot of u…
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/25 05:51 AM
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I legitimately started off and am at where you are. I call it D.A.D. The depression anxiety diet.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/25 05:54 AM
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Thank you very much. Unfortunately it absolutely is the hardest thing especially because at the same time of going through this I see how my child is experiencing it as well. I’ve told others this is by far the most difficult thing I’ve gone through and that includes my mother passing when I was a late teenager.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/25 05:16 PM
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In talking with friends and coworkers I compromised so much regarding what I wanted. Constantly taking things out of our sex life that I enjoyed. Then to turn around and say I know I don’t do things you enjoy but could we have an open marriage on my side…I want someone who’s actually considerate of me and my wants and needs.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 08:26 PM
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I hope so man shits been so rough. I also very much miss the company of a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/25 08:22 PM
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To be fair in the beginning of everything she quite literally said that, that she’s not the same person I married. She had also texted one of my good friends “what happens if my morals, views, and beliefs changed.” After the Saturday event I asked her on the Sunday if she had someone specific in mind and she was like “no not at all”. We went on a sort of date on the Monday and in that conversation she weirdly and abruptly said oh when I went over to his house I told him “just because I’m here do…
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 05:41 PM
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Honestly I think the only reason she is around as much as she is, is because of people being in her ear. When we were originally dating she said she was “more of the crazy aunt type” which she repeated to my SIL like 1.5-2 months ago. But it’s definitely on my mind that it’s a possibility. The lawyer said to have custody papers already written up. Then if something happens I can file asap.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 03:43 PM
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“A post-nuptial agreement is a legal contract created between spouses after marriage. It outlines the division of assets, financial responsibilities, and other key matters in the event of separation, divorce, or death.” So for us we used it to split the assets that we acquired both before and after being married and included a section about daycare/tuition expenses for our child. When talking with the lawyer she said once I sign my affidavit after the 91 day waiting period I can then submit a pr…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 09:18 PM
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When I talked with the lawyer she said to just file the divorce and hold off on custody right now. She said I hold all the power and shouldn’t rock the boat. My STBX has paid half or so the last few months of daycare. In the post nuptial daycare and tuition expenses are to be split 50/50. That said the lawyer, my family, our friends, my friends, and her family think at some point she’ll just walk away. Unfortunately she’d be doing exactly what her dad did which she complained about the entire ti…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 08:58 PM
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I’ll definitely do that, thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 07:46 PM
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I appreciate that! I’ve tried to be throughout this whole dumb process. I even avoided her family for a large part during this so as to not spread everything she’s done…her family has since come to me and told me she’s bad mouthing me and saying these things to which they know isn’t true and don’t believe.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 07:45 PM
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From what I know she doesn’t use Reddit and she’s been out of the house for 2.5 months so she can’t see my phone or anything of the sort.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 07:41 PM
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Unfortunately I’m learning this the hard way. Over 6 years together, married almost 5, with one child and just came home one day to blow everything up.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 04:31 AM
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