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depends where you live
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:26 AM
14

Lot of girls are also looking for that too they just wont tell you
/r/seduction15/04/26 04:45 PM
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Tbh I'm gonna be honest as someone who was a late bloomer, once you graduate college it doesn't really mean much anymore. The thrill of being at a hs or college party and getting with a girl is way different and lamer then getting with a girl post college at a bar or on a dating app. Now it's just something you do back then it felt awesome. And ya I look back at regret that I blew opps in hs and college and lost my virignity late even though I slept with 70 girls from 23-28. But nothing you can …
/r/seduction22/03/26 08:08 AM
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I think the most you can wait for sex on a date is 4/5. Depends on girl though
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:38 AM
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I think You should've been more clear you were asking her out Maybe done something more public and chill for the first date like grab drinks or something in public
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:36 AM
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She sounds like a textbook fearful avoidant. Talked to plenty of them during my single days. You just gotta put them in a box and never take them out especially becasue most will warn you ahead of time or you'll pick on their behavior
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:35 AM
2

Law of averages and everyone has dry spells
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:30 AM
8

Working in a hospital is a lot different then working in finance lol
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:28 AM
0

You need to get social reps
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:27 AM
10

Becasue you didnt strike the iron was hot or they were never that into you.
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:26 AM
1

From someone who was in your boat. A shit ton of reps bro. I got the creepy label in college (tbf I got all my advice from asktrp sub), chilled out, matured and figured it out. Just go on a lot of dates and you'll learn to read things.
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:16 AM
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Ya I agree that she has no intentions and sorta just existing and each time I interact with her she appears to be overly interested, maybe interested or neutral. There’s no way to know. I’m just going based on signals I’ve been giving. And I’ve been laid off multiple times and still in my 20s so I’m well aware I could easily get terminated especially since my new company has moved to outsourcing to India for support rather then hire more people.
/r/seduction19/02/26 08:14 PM
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I’ve dated plenty on the past. Jsut not a coworker in a very visible role with 7 figure upside.
/r/seduction18/02/26 05:51 PM
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But that would involve me asking her in the first place and putting it out there. We haven’t even exchanged numbers or anything yet.
/r/seduction18/02/26 05:27 PM
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Honestly I’m just showing up to work and if something were to happen I wouldn’t be the one really initiating I care way more about this job then her
/r/seduction18/02/26 05:15 PM
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Make friends in line
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:12 AM
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Because its not true lol
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:07 AM
2

Based on his fake stories he spam approaches
/r/seduction09/09/25 04:03 PM
5

Off dating apps or at bars. Not some freak approaching them in public setting
/r/seduction09/09/25 01:27 AM
16

Any guy that talks to college girls would know they spend most of the convo completely disengaged or very distracted even if they're into you.
/r/seduction08/09/25 06:09 PM
2

Depends how delusional they are
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:36 PM
2

Ya honestly probably think you're just fucking with them
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:13 PM
8

Yet in other comments you said 14. You aren't very good at lying.
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:12 PM
3

It depends which college. Where I live the colleges are pretty serious and difficult to get into.
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:12 PM
8

And no you haven't lol.
/r/seduction08/09/25 04:22 PM
1

Nothing like an insecure guy calling someone else insecure. And there's also 20 reason why this post isn't true.
/r/seduction08/09/25 04:20 PM
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A 22 year old (assuming they are still in college a this point) is probably thinking about their career and how to get a job in this fucked economy. They aren't cosplaying in a sorority anymore.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:20 PM
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Sure but you didn't bang a 22 year old sorority girl, becasue 22 year old sorority women don't live in the house. And they aren't allowed to bring guests back to their room. And 22 year old sorority women are only hooking up with you off of hinge or at the bars very rarely if you live in a major city and its normal for them to leave the college bible.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:16 PM
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Where I live a lot of times sorority girls will venture out to bars or clubs and hook up with older guys rarely but the guys are always 100% ghosted the next day. And I live in a major tier 1 city so it's normal for girls to venture out of the college bubble.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:12 PM
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Also a 22 year old doesn't participate in sorority life anymore yet alone live in the house. I was also in a top tier frat and quit the frat by senior year where I was 21 turning 22. I wasn't 22 in the fall of a college semester. And if a girl brings back a random guy to the house she's not dating, especially someone not in college there, they'd 100% get kicked out in a heartbeat. And sometimes I'll go on dates with sorority girls or talk to them out at bars. But even if I do pull them which is …
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:10 PM
51

Or she's like a 2/10 ogre
/r/seduction08/09/25 06:03 AM
96

He isn't because this never happened.
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:39 AM
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I'll take things that didnt happen for 500
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:39 AM
1

Ya she was into going on a date with you but all her behavior screams as someone with low to 0 interest.
/r/seduction27/08/25 04:58 PM
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She's not into you
/r/seduction27/08/25 04:41 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction23/08/25 05:24 PM
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That's such a lie lol. He sounds like he has personality of a wet paper bag. She's just saying that to put him down or justify it. I've led girls on like this and they try to claim the same thing that I'm not attractive and such. My personality isn't great lol and I'm pretty boring.
/r/seduction20/08/25 11:29 PM
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Its because he's probably good looking and you're not
/r/seduction20/08/25 09:46 PM
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My therapist who's a woman and former sorority girl to boot always says when I talk about women asking what it means she says stop asking what it means becasue its different every time and jsut do what I feel right.
/r/seduction19/08/25 02:38 AM
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Ya man let us know how it goes. I’m kinda curious because I’ve had similar situations to this.
/r/seduction17/08/25 10:54 PM
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Rough usually when girls say theyre on their period it means they don't want to have sex if they are or not. These dates can be tough because you don't really know what they're thinking and such. Honestly I'd just go in it aloof and if she seems les interested just end it early. Or be bold and call her out, you already had sex with her so there's not much to lose. Usually dates are supposed to build momentum but it sounds like it peaked at date 1 which can happen.
/r/seduction17/08/25 09:12 PM
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I mean that sounds pretty successful lol
/r/seduction01/08/25 08:17 PM
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Creepy = ugly lol
/r/seduction31/07/25 10:42 PM
1

You’re going out in Bali. Literally just walking up to women and saying hi is enough. Advanced game or whatever is overrated.
/r/seduction31/07/25 07:29 PM
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Advanced only what?
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:25 AM
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I match online with really hot girls but they lose interest after a while I mean this happens to everyone, no texts will save this from happening.
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:24 AM
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Every girl I've gotten severe oneitis for has disorganized attachment or is a fearful avoidant. Or just bpd/npd.
/r/seduction31/07/25 02:46 AM
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Don't bother with them they will fuck you up if you get too attached after they lovebomb you to get close. In this case she's not interested. Avoidants will absolutely go out with you and then pull away once they feel you getting too close.
/r/seduction30/07/25 07:43 PM
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Yes we had sex on the trip. She sent me nudes and I never asked for them. That was two years ago. We’ve texted boring logistics texts since then very sparingly. I jsut flaked on hanging out with her.
/r/seduction24/07/25 02:01 PM
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Went out with some friends last night. One of the girls had like 3 drinks and threw up 15x outside a random apartment complex while I sat there for over an hr.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:55 PM
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They're unemployed
/r/seduction17/07/25 01:08 AM
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Ya maybe becasue your instagram makes you look like a stalker lol. If you had 200-750 followers and at least 1 photo you'd be fine .
/r/seduction16/07/25 06:59 AM
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I wouldn’t care lol
/r/seduction13/07/25 12:50 AM
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Then just unfollow everyone who doesn’t follow you back
/r/seduction12/07/25 12:46 PM
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Just ask for their number. If they say no and want Ig then get their Ig. It doesn’t really make a difference and most women don’t really care about what your instagram looks like unless you only follow ig models and have extremely low social interaction (unless the ratio is relatively even on both sides and clearly you don’t use it).
/r/seduction12/07/25 12:32 PM
1

I see plenty of good looking guys who can easily talk to women.
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:02 PM
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What do you do? How’d you not have time? I used to work in private equity and still made time. Now I’m a broke blue collar worker lol.
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:53 AM
1

I’ve only been blocked by one, although my ex who dated for two years intermittently still blocks me two years later. Most just remove on social media and ghost me.
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:51 AM
1

When you say end poorly does that mean removed off social media and no contact?
/r/seduction10/07/25 08:52 PM
1

A lot of drs have 0 game. My ex worked at a plastic surgery clinic and she said the drs would ask the assistants and get rejected all the time or theyd use them for dinner. Managers probably not, most managers aren’t any more social then broke guys. A lot of millionaires either just DM chicks or flex on dating apps.
/r/seduction10/07/25 08:51 PM
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Yep I never walk away clean. Last one was 8 months, shocked it lasted so long. Ever other one exactly 3 months lol.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:10 PM
1

Just go on hinge and go on a few dates
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:25 AM
9

Just make a hinge and go on some dates its so easy in NYC
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:10 AM
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Goddamn bro youre living my dream. I live in la and I'm broke and can barely afford to hang out with friends. And I have to go to work everyday to a demanding job barely making anything. And I'm the same age as you. I'd love to live in NYC.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:09 AM
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You dont even need to escalate lol. Just causally talk to her and at the end tell her she seems cool and ask if she ever wants to go out sometime. Then get her number and schedule a date.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:59 AM
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Ask her if she wants to grab drinks lol next time you talk it’s really that simple Also it’s been a year she could in a relationship now
/r/seduction10/07/25 05:57 AM
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Take her on a date
/r/seduction10/07/25 05:55 AM
1

Jsut ask her how her week is going or make a joke if she broke her new phone yet
/r/seduction10/07/25 05:54 AM
1

Well certain things in life matter more than others. Getting rejected by women isn't a bad thing it happens, unless you get rejected all the time.
/r/seduction10/07/25 02:05 AM
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I do too but usually around 3 months it blows up
/r/seduction10/07/25 02:04 AM
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Sometimes the power imbalance is too much and they get attached. Even when I try to act casual women will get attached I've talked too.
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:23 AM
1

This similarly happened in a movie I just watched but different context
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:17 AM
1

My parents were as bad as you could possibly get especially my dad. Even to this day. At some point you need to move forward and not blame your parents.
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:15 AM
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I had a very traumatic childhood as well. You're a year older than me and have a solid group and a 3rd place. I know people way worse than you and have no support. Just learn to move forward. But I would def seek therapy for cPTSD symptoms.
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:15 AM
1

Why are you even commenting on this subreddit if it's so negative? I have seen first hand unattractive men approaching women and immediately getting brushed off or accused of being creepy.
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:12 AM
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I mean I wouldn't live your life being sensitive, you're gonna have a tough time moving forward in life and be held down by things that don't matter.
/r/seduction09/07/25 08:10 AM
2

It's so cheesy when guys try to be like where your bf or stop lying. Like if a girl is interested she's not gonna say I have a bf.
/r/seduction03/07/25 07:12 AM
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He probably receives very little wins or positive things in his life if this makes him depressed
/r/seduction03/07/25 07:10 AM
1

Never put anything on your profile that hurts you as a man, conservative, anything short term, overly serious prompts etc.
/r/seduction03/07/25 07:08 AM
2

I mean sure if you wanna spread lies go for it
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:48 PM
1

Then you have unresolved issues becasue its pretty easy to pull 6-7s off dating apps if you are above average looking and normal.
/r/seduction01/07/25 11:47 PM
1

Lol pretty much anywhere. In the US, if you look like that and are a least average height, if you can't pull 6s and 7s, there is something seriously wrong with you.
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:55 PM
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It was removed. And yes if you don't have a baseline level of attractiveness, in cold settings with approaching it will be labeled as creepy or off putting.
/r/seduction29/06/25 06:54 PM
2

Ya you can fake it but eventually you'll expose youself, can't keep up an act forever
/r/seduction28/06/25 07:33 AM
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Abundance
/r/seduction28/06/25 07:32 AM
1

If that's you baring you're not a midget you can easily pull 6 and 7s lol
/r/seduction28/06/25 07:31 AM
1

Then hit them up to go out
/r/seduction28/06/25 07:30 AM
1

Then why do you go out with guys like that. Just make new friends who elevate you.
/r/seduction25/06/25 07:10 PM
1

Dawg you didn't even invest time with her. You texted her for TWO DAYS and she was straight up honest. I went with a girl for 3 months, where she rejected multiple sexual advances in our beds past making out with some clothes off and led me on until she finally said she was sorry she wasn't intimate with me and needed to figure herself out. I have also led girls I wasn't that attracted to on instead of cutting the cord once I wasn't feeling and wasted time out of fear of it coming back to me.
/r/seduction25/06/25 07:10 PM
1

She jsut wasn't interested in you at all and no amount of vibing with her will change that. Over time you'll realize over text who is interested and who is not quickly.
/r/seduction25/06/25 07:05 PM
1

I don't have an instagram and it probably hurts me. But oh well.
/r/seduction25/06/25 07:03 PM
2

Even if you weren't needy they could've flaked for other reasons. You don't know this is the reason. The more you go out with the less you'll care.
/r/seduction25/06/25 07:01 PM
1

Lol being respectful as an ugly man = ew he's trying too hard to be nice he's creepy.
/r/seduction25/06/25 06:58 PM
1

Depends on who's giving the rating. Is it an inflated number or is it an honest rating. If it's 6.5/10 no you're above average which is good enough assuming you're fit and tall enough. You will struggle with hot girls though.
/r/seduction25/06/25 06:57 PM
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If you're good looking you're not creepy
/r/seduction17/06/25 06:12 AM
1

I think men peaking later is bullshit. I barely see 35+ guys at the bar. The only guy I know who is 35+ pulling is some 6’5 model who I always see out and my old fwb friend got with him from a bar. However he still goes to same gym as me and acts like a 21 year old. I see a lot of fat 40 year olds not peaking lol. I think chasing girls at a bar or on hinge when you’re 35+ is kinda pathetic. I’m also like 6’0-6’1 pretty muscular and decent looking and literally every girl I get with is pretty mid…
/r/seduction23/05/25 06:05 PM
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The one in Santa Monica is the iconic one and has some of the most stunning girls you’ll see in your life there. However good looking talking to them lol.
/r/seduction23/05/25 05:08 PM
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Yep one of my best friends always puts it best. He’s like if you don’t want to be jealous of super good looking guys who get approached 24/7 just look at the girls who approach them. They’re all mid at best. I went out with my old coworker who is an extremely tall jacked good looking dude. Most of the girls approaching him were mid or decent looking. Nothing special. College Girls are 50/50. At bars they’ll talk to you but they’re always with a big group of college kids. So only the weirdo colle…
/r/seduction23/05/25 05:04 PM
1

I used to when I made a lot of money go on a lot of hinge dates
/r/seduction23/05/25 01:38 PM
5

Ya that is true. But if you are good looking you’ll always have chances. I never really see stunners going home with guys. Every time I go out with friends they always claim they can’t wait to meet great women our age (27-31) and won’t talk to college girls. If they do pull it’s always a 19-22 year old college girl (everyone under 21 has fakes). The irony is always funny.
/r/seduction23/05/25 01:37 PM
3

Belles in Venice is undoubtedly the best but competition is extremely fierce. Every guy is the same. Victorian and Bungalow used to be great but it might be worth a check out. Waterfront during Saturday afternoons. Jamesons and Roosterfish are usually pretty good. Lincoln is a sausage fest but has potential. All the bars next to Belles are in that area are good.
/r/seduction23/05/25 01:35 PM
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Dated a hot girl with bpd for a month. Did everything I wasn’t supposed to and fell into every trap. It ruined me for months. Don’t be me.
/r/seduction23/05/25 07:10 AM
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If you’re good looking you can get laid pretty much every time you go out. My old coworker was a 6’6 240 lb division 1 football player and good looking. The first time I went out with him he got approached by more girls in one night then I have in my entire life not including my frat parties. Most of the girls approaching him were girls I would birddog on hinge and happily date looks wise but its not like they were stunner, they were jsut pretty mid to upper mid in LA. He brushed them aside like…
/r/seduction23/05/25 06:43 AM
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I live in west la. Happens all the time. I see girls going home with guys every time I go out.
/r/seduction23/05/25 06:41 AM
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Missed a lot back then. Now if they seem to hold eye contact and get closer they're interested.
/r/seduction23/04/25 07:57 AM
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Ya I live in LA and she works in entertainment. It is what it is. Usually I get the we aren't compatible or I don't see this going anywhere. Doesn't make a difference to me. Onto the next.
/r/seduction14/04/25 01:01 AM
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Well I got ghosted by her so ya the law of averages strikes again.
/r/seduction14/04/25 01:00 AM
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Ya.I got ghosted which is rare so that is probably the case. She probably wasn't that into me.
/r/seduction10/04/25 06:48 AM
1

Yep I got ghosted by her so I boned myself most likely.
/r/seduction10/04/25 06:48 AM
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I got ghosted which is very rare so anything I did probably wouldn't have mattered anyways.
/r/seduction10/04/25 06:47 AM
1

I got ghosted by this chick which is super rare. You win some you lose some.
/r/seduction10/04/25 06:47 AM
1

My date was short and it felt like a part 1 of a 2 part date that didn't get to happen because she had an early flight. My fault for not doing the date earlier like she suggested to get more time in.
/r/seduction07/04/25 03:12 AM
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She did say she becomes friends with a lot of guys she ends up going out with on hinge
/r/seduction07/04/25 03:10 AM
1

Ya I agree. I just ran out of time on the date and she wanted to go out earlier so we could get more time in but that's on me. If she wasn't hot I'd just not hit her up but ya I came off as chill at the end of the date and not like I was trying hard at all.
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:31 AM
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Ya makes sense. But it's also LA so a lot of time girls will want to go out again then it just fades out. If this fails well then onto the next I could easily talk to girls that look like her out at the bars. Just hard on the apps when you're just another guy. She seemed pretty receptive on the date and made a comment about hitting me up when she's back and seeing me again so I feel like second date should likely happen if I take the initiative.
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:29 AM
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Lol just because I had an abnormal circumstance doesn't mean I struggle lol. Do you do well with girls lol. Cuz I dont base my entire life on this like it seems like you do.
/r/seduction18/03/25 01:50 AM
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That happens to me every time too. Ill have insane dry spells for months while talking to same 2 girls I always have then go out with like 7-8 girls in 2 weeks and have no idea how juggle everyone. Eventually all the girls will filter themselves out.
/r/seduction15/03/25 02:27 AM
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Ya I usually do pretty well with girls. I've had girls pay for me. I've also struck out a lot. If she doesnt repsond to invite me over its whatever. Onto the next. I have other girls.
/r/seduction14/03/25 08:11 PM
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She already knows I texted her today about her place and no response yet I’m assuming she’s gonna flake. Oh well such is life.
/r/seduction14/03/25 05:46 AM
1

I dont think a 100/dollar Airbnb is worth it for this girl who might leave early.
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:34 PM
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Lol im tlaking to other girls as well besides the two above. I dont really care either way what happens im jsut kinda curious what this sub thinks of my scenario.
/r/seduction13/03/25 06:34 PM
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Ya fair enough. I guess im sol if she can't figure it out on her end.
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:16 AM
1

Yep haven't had this issue since covid lol when I lived at home. Depending on our place, I might be at my parents for longer then till the end of the month and my roommate and I make vacate perm.
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:12 AM
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I just said that to make it seem like I get her logic. If she really wants to me come she'll make it happen. But I get why she wants to go to mine. It's easier since I'm gonna teach her to dj, she can choose to stay or leave whenever, and she doesn't have to have me there while others are there. If I didnt have this problem this wouldn't even be an issue, she was 100% wanting to come to mine based on the texts. Even on first date she said she wanted to come over for date 2 because she had an ear…
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:11 AM
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Ya she's aware and said she will ask her roommate tomorrow if my place is not usable. I let her know that we had drywall issues a few weeks ago while we were jsut casually texting after date. If not maybe I suggest drinks and we go over later in the night rather than have me come over at 845.
/r/seduction13/03/25 01:08 AM
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Whats the reaso? And where, I'm staying at my parents, thats 100% not acceptable to them.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:56 AM
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She knows about the drywall leak. I told her we had one a few weeks ago when texting after first date, and when I brought up going to hers today she said can we go to yours and I said can't we had to vacate recently due to the leak.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:45 AM
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I think Friday will be a good litmus test. She initially said I need to be in bed by 11/12 on Friday over text when suggested mini golf at 9 but when I said ok wanna watch something or grab drinks, she responded a day later saying yes I'm down to watch something or actually you should teach me to dj. First date 3 weeks ago we were making out and I invited her over and she said she would be down but had a lot of hw and early class (she's in law school). I think she kinda just goes with things in …
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:44 AM
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She comes over in a heartbeat. Last Friday she would've came over at 2 am too but I was camping and told her I was busy. Also my place was out of commission. But she also takes 5 yrs to repsond to texts. Never had a girl take forever to repsond to texts but show a lot of interest. I think she clearly wants to but worried about roommate and her roommates guest potentially judging her or seeing her bring a guy over. Especially since its date 2.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:29 AM
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I did, one of the girls who's roommate is having poeple over said let me know tomorrow if we can go to yours and if not I'll ask my roommate if its cool. I feel like its gonna be annoying considering she takes forever to respond and I feel like she really wants to go to mine.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:03 AM
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