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HovaPrime/r/seduction16/01/15 05:24 PM
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HovaPrime/r/seduction18/02/14 09:31 PM
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HovaPrime/r/seduction12/10/15 06:17 AM
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HovaPrime/r/seduction17/03/16 02:30 AM
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Sounds like you’re figuring it out slowly OP, you weren’t just a nice guy, you were a nice loser. Focusing on approaching girls when you haven’t even established yourself physically as a desirable partner won’t give you successes. In fact if you just focused on being the great guy you wanna be or the guy you think girls like, you’d have way more success even if you don’t know how to approach. That’s the difference right here, you’re trying to be a good salesman selling a bad product, you need to…
/r/seduction07/09/23 03:23 PM
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She tryna jump ship, and if she jumps onto yours, sooner or later she’ll be looking to hop on another one.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:42 PM
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This is the answer, they’re in a sea full of “Hey there” some of them are just trying to make it down the queue lmao
/r/seduction01/03/22 09:23 PM
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So even though this post has been deleted, I guess I’ll share with you bout my successes so far since you asked haha. I don’t day game much, but I plan to do it more in the future as I get more comfortable than I am now with dates. Most of my results came from OLD surprisingly enough. The few times I did approach in real life, I’ve always been able to get the girl to go on an impromptu coffee date. The key is to make the girls feel comfortable and let them know that you’re not a creep. That’s th…
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:54 AM
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Best advice I had on here was that confident comes from within and to read Models by Mark Manson. After that I just fucked off and did my own thing and worked on myself. I am a lot more successful with girls now than when I first started but when I come back to this sub it feels like everybody’s just struggling not to be an incel or regurgitating the same generic advice that you need to hear when you first start dating around. I guess most people probably move on once they get locked into a rela…
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:38 PM
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A woman is not a servant that’s supposed to satisfy you at your every whim. They’re no objects, sure this chick in the OP is playing games, but that doesn’t mean we’re all agreeing that an essential sex slave is better.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:25 PM
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I mean if your dad got some poon back in the days to have you, what are your excuses?
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:17 PM
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That’s awesome that you can see that man! I’m proud of you for being able to look past your emotions and think on a more constructive setting! You’re not a victim, you are what you think you are and if you think you’re a person that can always grow and improve despite whatever bad hand life throws at you, you’d be a confident, well rounded person in no time. Believe in yourself, I know you can improve.
/r/seduction27/06/21 05:56 PM
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It’s good that you won’t fake your emotions, but when I say insecurities I mean like you have this underlying self pity “woe is me” aura that you’re giving off with the way you speak. That is not a good path to go down, NEVER victimize yourself. There are people that’s been dealt worst hands and has done better than people with “good hands”. You need to look inward and find value within yourself, once you can find that natural confidence where you can brush off a rejection because it’s no big de…
/r/seduction27/06/21 03:41 PM
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OP you’re not replying to this comment, but this is the correct answer. If she’s not into you, she’s not playing games. Go find someone else and be straightforward with them, and work on yourself because this post reeks of insecurity.
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:20 AM
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No dude, there’s no such thing as attracting the wrong kind of people (unless all you attract are trashy assholes). The point you have to focus on is that you are attractive period. Whether that opinion came from a gay man or an attractive woman doesn’t matter. In fact, if it came from a gay man you should be even more flattered since gay men tend to be attracted to extra attractive men. If a gay man finds you attractive, chances are girls do too, the girls just won’t say anything about it becau…
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:41 PM
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Don’t take it so seriously, I’ve gotten a few advances from gay men in the past too and honestly it’s pretty flattering. Girls don’t usually outright compliment you because that’s not how they’re brought up in society, although some will, most won’t. The only times a girl will straight up approach a guy is if they’re like drop dead gorgeous, which makes them feel normalized for hitting on the guy, or if they’re a celebrity, which also normalizes the interaction. Just take the compliment and feel…
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:43 PM
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Ima be bisexual just this once.
/r/seduction12/02/21 11:39 PM
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Foreskin gang checking in, remember to either be active sexually or continue to stretch your foreskin on a regular basis or both. The skin will eventually go back to its regular state if you don’t.
/r/seduction16/11/20 09:28 PM
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I’m not quite sure if it’s mold, but after dry aging a steak you’re supposed to cut off the edges where there’s discoloration. What you’re left with is this tenderized center that’s more flavorful and soft.
/r/seduction15/11/20 02:54 PM
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Man I’m tryna get that dry aged steak love, sure it took awhile to prep and the edges are moldy and shit. But at the center of it all, it’s more tender than any regular old steak. Shit are we still talking about relationships?
/r/seduction15/11/20 09:51 AM
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Well said, this post gave me mixed feelings. I’m happy OP got a success story but damn, relationships these days are brittle.
/r/seduction15/11/20 08:02 AM
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I just want the link, guys.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/20 04:59 PM
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I was in the same position, I lost everything within a night with somebody that I was comfortable with. We ended up having a very nice relationship where I learned and matured a lot. That all happened when I was around 20 during sophomore year of college. Point is, don’t sweat it, you got time and if you happen to do these things later than I did, you still got time. And also I didn’t tell her much, but I think she knew I was a virgin at the time so she took it nice and slow. Girls are accepting…
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:23 PM
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How is asking somebody on a date than having them pay for it, dating like a boss? Would you expect your friends to pay for your dinner if you asked them to go hang out?
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 05:43 PM
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So you’re just reliving the same moment over and over again? If that was all it took to live a happy and fulfilling life then I’d be set for the rest of my life too lmao. Go out and find some more experiences like the one you watch every night instead of getting hung up on a video you took a year ago.
/r/seduction08/09/19 07:51 PM
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How do you be creepy? I genuinely don’t know how because of how cautious I am. I can hold a conversation well and I’m confident in socializing with others on normal grounds but I have no idea how to convey interests whatsoever. It makes sense I need to be a bit more forward but where do I start?
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:51 PM
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I mean he's average, but the take home from this picture is that the dudes name is Anis
/r/seduction26/05/16 05:33 PM
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I mean judging by your reply you sound pretty basic, if being weird and out of place is your concern than you're gonna be fine. The people that are considered "normal" are always those that have enough self awareness to realize they're different from everybody else but fight that feeling and conform to the crowds. It's the weird ones that know they're different and embrace that truth and shows it to the world without caring about anyone else.
/r/seduction23/05/16 02:18 PM
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You're right, human emotions are not a binary system and many things are gonna factor into a persons decision, but the fact still stands that the answer they said was NO whether you take that as NO or "Oh she might just be really busy right now" is up to you. All I'm saying is when I hear someone say NO to me, I pack up and move on because I don't want to be anybody's friend. If you wanna linger and become that girls friend then by all means waste time and get yourself into the friendzone, I mea…
/r/seduction23/05/16 02:12 PM
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If you're friendzoned you ARE a pussy, that's the truth and you know why that's the truth? Because if you had shown intent from the VERY BEGINNING of meeting the girl that you liked then she would've NEVER put you in the friendzone, sure things might not work out but the worst case is she'll reject you. When she rejects you she MIGHT say something along the lines of "I just want to be friends" but let's cut the bullshit there, we'll probably never see each other again so that's not really consid…
/r/seduction23/05/16 01:49 PM
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That's a very skewed way of thinking. When you have a conversation with someone, it is not a contest of power (if it is then both of the participants are very shallow and insecure in themselves) it is a way to get to know the other person better. Actively listening to someone and responding accordingly will definitely improve the quality of conversations you have. And also being nice and actually caring about a girl will not get you friendzoned, being a pussy and not showing intent (without comi…
/r/seduction23/05/16 08:46 AM
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Most of the girls that I've taken out on dates prefer to pay for themselves because they like to be independent which I'm totally fine with since that's just less money out of me. Your views on this whole thing seems reasonable but that's only because of the perspective you're putting things in. You say you'd have to do all these things just to get the girl, but if you've been reading Models then you should know that the things and the mental journey you'll be going through isn't for girls at al…
/r/seduction11/05/16 06:17 PM
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That's because you're still seeking validation from them. Yeah you're meditating and exercising but those are probably things you read on here and think that they'll help. Now what you really SHOULD be doing is think deeper and find the reason within yourself, what I like to do is ask myself "Why am I really doing this?" Or "Cut the bullshit dude, what's the real reason behind this action?" (This was a method within Models By Mark Manson which is a must read if you haven't read it.) If that's no…
/r/seduction09/05/16 04:37 PM
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Thanks, I've been keen on not texting her as much. I've never been a guy to double text or constantly bother anyone, I'm pretty self aware of that, but I'll admit with this girl I've broke the double text rules a few times.
/r/seduction18/03/16 07:36 AM
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Noted, I thought about my actions with this girl and you're right man, I've put this girl on a pedestal and I didn't even realize it. Thanks for the heads up, and quick update on the situation she actually texted me today with some random chatter and brought up the lunch offer, so I guess that's still on the table.
/r/seduction18/03/16 07:34 AM
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Thanks for the advice, I guess the part of me I need to throw away is worrying about messing up. I get so worked up on trying to keep a certain image of myself that I ended up putting this girl on a pedestal and became a desperate guy. I'll just tone it down and cool off for a little and get in touch with myself again.
/r/seduction18/03/16 07:32 AM
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Really?! That's putting her on a pedestal?! I honestly did not know that, so what would you say instead?
/r/seduction17/03/16 05:51 AM
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Yeah I get where you're coming from, when I socialize with people in real life the one thing I'm conscious about is not projecting a false image of myself. I try to be very real with anybody I meet girl or guy, but at the same time I know I have flaws such as feeling neediness at times, I can't just go from 0-100 with people and I think that goes for everybody. I know there's no step by step guide of how to do things, I wasn't looking for that but what i am looking for is at least the right dire…
/r/seduction17/03/16 05:49 AM
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I've actually called her once, we had a conversation for like half an hour and it was fine, but once we text again it just falls off. Maybe I shouldn't text her at all.
/r/seduction17/03/16 05:16 AM
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Haha okay you got me, I guess if I really do think about it I'd want a better outcome. I'm the kind of guy that likes to know things for sure, like if it's not gonna workout id like to know that instead of wondering about the outcome. And a typical conversation would be something like Me: Hey let me take you out to lunch sometime when you're free! Her: Will do! I'm actually nearby because my brother just got a haircut in town. (She went back home over the break) Me: Does that mean you're up for …
/r/seduction17/03/16 05:15 AM
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Good job on your first approach! Now that the worst has happened, there's not much more to be afraid of, something that I usually open with is "Hey, how are you?" If you ask them a question they're more likely to respond, and don't sweat it, this girl you approached sounds like a bitch you're better off living your life without her.
/r/seduction19/12/15 05:42 PM
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Well I was in a bind like you awhile ago, I think one of the most important things you have to keep in mind is that you need to be comfortable with yourself first. Being comfortable with yourself, you'll be more open with other people and a lot of the times I realize people think I'm a pretty cool dude because I'm so relaxed and confident about myself that they'd actually want to hang out with me. So once you're comfortable with yourself, you can start up friendly conversations with the people s…
/r/seduction03/12/15 10:58 AM
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Good job my man, approaching a fucking group for the first time and at a mall too?! You're doing good work, don't let that experience bring you down and keep at it!
/r/seduction03/12/15 07:23 AM
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Ever heard of an app called Grindr?
/r/seduction29/11/15 08:22 PM
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More like, try and fully move on to live a more self fulfilling life. Life's too short for you to be sitting there and moping about one girl.
/r/seduction29/11/15 05:22 PM
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Hey man I understand what you're going through, I'm basically in your situation except I'm maybe a little better off, but the main point to answer your question is the first point that ModernNinja listed. It's only awkward if you make it awkward, I cannot stress this enough because awkwardness is a state of mind, for an example, I'll tell you a story about what happened to me earlier this semester. I'm in this voice class in college to better my passion of singing and in that class I noticed a H…
/r/seduction23/11/15 06:12 AM
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If you don't do it in 3 seconds then you'll just keep making up excuses until eventually giving up and not doing the intended action.
/r/seduction20/11/15 02:32 AM
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I might say something different since I really don't see myself saying exactly that line, but I'm planning on doing something along the lines of what you suggested!
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:49 AM
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Actually not half bad of an idea, I'll be sure to give it a try.
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:47 AM
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You're right, I'm a fucking man. I'll just have to approach, I guess I still have a long way to go on improving my inner self
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:47 AM
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So how would you bring it up again in the most casual manner, but still convey that you're interested in her?
/r/seduction12/10/15 04:57 PM
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Yeah, but the hard thing is that her friend might be back next class and I'd have a harder time approaching her since they literally do everything together, from getting to class to getting out of class.
/r/seduction12/10/15 04:56 PM
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Yeah you're right that sounds pretty good I might just try that!
/r/seduction17/01/15 07:38 AM
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So what do you do to express interest without giving away too much?
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:28 PM
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That's what I was thinking, I'm not really bothered by the fact that I might get rejected (which I need to learn to get over anyways) but I'm really actually doing this more for myself. Let's say that I do decide to go through with it, are there anyways you can suggest I can ease into talking to her?
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:28 PM
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Well the history of the matter runs deeper than what I originally stated, but I am absolutely certain that the reason why things didn't work out was because I was too much of a bitch to let her know my intent. The question here is that I just want to know if there are anyways I could ease into talking to her again so that I can confess to her my intent or if it's already too late.
/r/seduction16/01/15 07:06 PM
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This sounds like a bunch of insecure bullshit to me, if you're gonna get insecure over a comment from a thirsty ass dude that probably has no chance with the girl then you need to start thinking real hard on your actual priorities.
/r/seduction14/04/14 10:45 PM
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Ah I think I'm beginning to see what you're saying, one question though. Can you give me an example of showing your interest in dating without sounding too forceful or emotionally invested?
/r/seduction18/02/14 11:41 PM
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Would you be able to go more in depth on the method of being more serious with a girl? Because I feel as if sometimes if I come on too strongly I won't be giving the girls a chase, but as of now I'm not presenting myself at all as a potential partner to them due to that fear.
/r/seduction18/02/14 10:21 PM
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