HubbyBumps Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	What if she can’t afford to move out?		HubbyBumps	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/25 05:52 AM
10	Going downhill pretty fast…..	Rant	HubbyBumps	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/25 06:59 AM
8	EFT therapy with a narcissistic wife….	Rant	HubbyBumps	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/25 10:29 PM
7	While in therapie, do we put all efforts on hold till the sessions?	Need Support	HubbyBumps	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/25 01:24 PM
7	When to you know??	Rant	HubbyBumps	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 01:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	When to you know?? Good luck making that decision! If you want, please share how it went!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 04:31 PM
2	When to you know?? I recognize the situations and have escalated thinks mid last year. I told her we’ve got disconnected and told her we were done, unless we went into therapy. And that’s where we are now. We’ve had a few sessions and I do not see a single change, nor any attempt. I’m getting closer and closer to a point where this does not make sense anymore……but how to recognize where that point exactly is?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 02:26 PM
3	When to you know?? Thanks. I have notes even though ive always felt ashamed making them. Writing them make me feel like a traitor, even when I know they are just for me, dumping my thoughts most of the times. I hope it won’t come to a conflict separation as we both acknowledge the relation of far from perfect. I’m some steps ahead of her I think, and it will be such a tough message, with such an impact, that I’m scared of even thinking about it. Still I notice my brain is taking me more and more to that point. Eno…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/26 02:19 PM
1	EFT therapy with a narcissistic wife…. Sorry for this to happen to you. I feel your mental ache and disappointment after that boom.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 10:08 PM
1	Going downhill pretty fast….. True. And god knows how hard I worked to make this relationship work. It will always be needed but sometimes the fundamental seems bad and up for a new, better aligned start.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 06:28 AM
1	Going downhill pretty fast….. Yeah. My point is that I’m wondering if I’m going to really be in there myself. I may just draw a conclusion that this is not going to won anyways, and I don’t see a future together. Right now, all I can think is that I wanna get out of here…..	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/25 05:46 PM
1	Going downhill pretty fast….. I’ve been trying to get to that point in a conversation but she prefers to keep that type of topic for the sessions. And I respect that so I’m patient. I do know what I want and I’m curious if she will understand and will be able to change from the past and allow us to be equal in our relationship. If not, I’m going to draw a conclusion.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/25 11:02 AM
2	Going downhill pretty fast….. Yeah. But it seems like whenever I try to make my points they get pushed back to me as my own faults and I should do better (when I try to discuss things) or ignored and declined (when I try to steer our activities to also incorporate things that I prefer). Seems she’s on a one way track and doesn’t want to change from how things were for years.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/12/25 10:36 AM
2	While in therapie, do we put all efforts on hold till the sessions? I’ll check with the therapist how to balance my curiousness and the therapy plan. I’ll definitely be keen on the progression and if my wife’s answers are going the direction I favor. I’m done with choosing others above myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/25 03:53 PM
1	What if she can’t afford to move out? I’m not from the US and not sure what you mean with Half the term, or what that means on consequences. Wanna elaborate a bit?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/25 08:58 PM
3	Well, it's official, im single Gefeliciteerd! Je kunt weer vooruit kijken!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 08:55 AM
7	I just realized recently that in 10 years of marriage, she never made me a cup of coffee. Not once. Same here. Nothing in 21 years……you only realize afterwards	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/25 01:37 PM