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I’m sorry brother, you are not alone. She is a fucking piece of shit. This will bite her in the ass.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/24 11:15 PM
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I really needed to hear this. Thank you for putting it in perspective and giving me hope.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 11:38 PM
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That you so much for this very specific insight. I feel it’s a Trojan horse to break me financially. I’m having an extremely hard time mentally. I was very naive and gave her everything, believing she would be amicable. It took me time to get clarity of my situation. She’s coaching my son and alienating him in attempt to relocate with her new man. I regret not fighting like this the first time and just hope for redemption and will not stop fighting until I can right as much as I destroyed. I’m t…
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 03:36 AM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 11:43 PM
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Thank you!
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/24 11:43 PM
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I don’t miss that shit anymore! You guys are spot on with the comments as well.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 05:38 PM
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I would live with your parents if it doesn’t affect visitation/ custody in terms of having rooms/beds for kids. Then use it to get ahead financially.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:46 PM
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It’s a systematic problem and money making scheme. I pay close to $1,400 a month, plus 65% of extracurricular expenses with minimal custody (every other weekend/ dinner visits); so I see my kid 12 times a month. I can’t afford to go back to court and she keeps adding up expenses.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:38 PM
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Yes thank you
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 07:33 PM
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In my state the spouse can request increases after 3 years and if I make 15% or more income. I’m confused with working part time jobs like Uber, will that count?
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/23 06:26 PM
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You nailed it brother!
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 03:00 AM
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Also trolling in Custody sub; it’s a double standard like the other gentleman have said.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 02:57 AM
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100%
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 03:56 PM
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Thank you for the advice
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/23 01:27 AM
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That’s interesting, I have an ex that is hellish and constantly send accusatory or insulting emails if I don’t blindly agree to anything. How did you do that? I thought I had to respond to most of her messages bc she claims I’m not coparenting.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 11:49 AM
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I also feel like it was planned years in advance, when I stop and think about it. I also feel it was inevitable. I would love to know how to get over it after 2 years as well. It’s not much easier.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 04:34 AM
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I miss the idea of my wife and felt like you did until I realized how cruel she was and is. It’s been a few years for me as well and it is easier most of the time. You will have momentary lapses and that is ok. You do what you can to get through each minute, hour, or day… keep fighting brother!
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 06:21 PM
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Mine started eating fish, no longer liked well done steak and learned how to clean up the dog shit from the back yard and garden. According to my son, she even cooks and does laundry now.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 08:07 PM
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Thank you for sharing and giving me hope. I constantly think about the time I don’t have or missing out of.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 09:49 AM
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I think it depends on how much support you have. No matter what it’s miserable. However, if you are blessed to have friends or family, it will help distract you. I have been depressed thinking about the upcoming holidays myself. This is my second alone and I try to think of the holidays as another “day” and try to keep myself busy without much thought. Good luck brother, l wish we all had more support.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 09:45 AM
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I think it’s because it’s a lotto ticket for these women; essentially easy money. The percentage increases with the level of education. Like others mentioned, the system is rigged in their favor. As a divorcee, I wish I had done more to stay in a horrible marriage because my life is 10x worse sans the daily access to my son, financial hardship, mental struggles and loneliness .
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:15 AM
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Congratulations! I’m so happy for the positive news and that karma does exist.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 08:21 PM
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Thank you! I really appreciate your insight. That’s a good idea, never thought about a PI.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 11:20 AM
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100%
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 05:13 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing! Keep us posted with how your situation goes.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/22 11:17 AM
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I wish you the best of luck! I’m sorry but I don’t know much. I am also a father in NY and wanted to modify my visitation/custody. I have also found the change in circumstance to be vague. My ex also wants to relocate and my lawyer advised me to motion for more visitation when she either moves or motions to move. You mentioned that you were able to modify visitation once before. How was that process?
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/22 12:35 AM
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It takes two people that want it to work. I tried everything and dug a deeper hole. I’m only realizing how badly I was blinded by hope. For you, I hope it can work out. But if she really wanted to, you wouldn’t be on a this journey.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/22 12:32 AM
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I’ve noticed very passive aggressive behavior. Using extreme language, for example taking something said out of context and turning it into to, “why are you always...”, basically gaslighting anything and being combative. I have a spider sense of anticipation, when I expect a day full of aggression and bitterness.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 03:56 PM
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I’m sorry, but it’s true when people say it takes two. Don’t invest your heart to a person that’s not invested in making it work. You gave a chance, pull away and not show any emotion.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/21 09:25 PM
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I wanted to thank everyone for their input.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/21 07:14 PM
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So if we have joint legal custody where she is the tie breaker, she will be able to move my son away? She agreed to remove relocation from divorce. It says that the 4 areas are Medical, Religion, Education and extra curricular activities. I agree with her on those things, just worried that It will give her power to deny me or move.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/21 03:43 PM
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That’s hilarious!
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/21 10:42 PM
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Thank you! I will definitely do that instead of reacting to her threats instantly.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/21 02:17 AM
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Thank you so much! I will definitely keep this in mind. She wants final decision making ability, which is a joke and would mean she is in control.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/21 02:16 AM
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I am also in that situation, I have a 4 year old son. I keep telling myself that it’s not my fault and that a happy single parent is better than my son learning about relationships from parents that don’t even sleep in the same room and fight. I couldn’t keep it all bottled up . So, eventually I did got to a therapist and it has done worlds of good. It’s better than bottling it up or confiding in people that will use it against you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/21 02:10 AM
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Thank you for sharing, I will check out that book.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/21 01:33 AM
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I feel your pain because I will also have to do this in the next few months. How old is your daughter? My son is 4. I was thinking of going to a therapist as a family. My stbxw wants me to just disappear one day. I would also like to know how others did it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/21 01:14 AM
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I want to applaud everyone for the great advice and personal stories. This sound familiar to a lot of us. I bet it has something to do with being a good man. Just remember, no matter how the custody situation works out, be the best father you can be with the time you have.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/21 02:53 AM
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That is a definite sign of toxicity. I gave up everyone in my life for my wife (she also pushed me to stop talking to friends and family) and slowly her family became the only one left.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 05:44 AM
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Lol, I thought it was just my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 05:41 AM
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What an amazing reply. Thank you for giving me hope as well!
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 05:20 AM
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Thank you, I’m thinking that makes the most sense.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 11:49 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 01:40 PM
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It’s sad how she could do that. What an amazing job keeping calm and telling your son that without going tit for tat. Thank you for sharing.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 01:39 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 01:23 PM
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Thank you, what is a manageable distance for you? I live in a big city, but a few miles might be a 30 minute commute.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 03:24 AM
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Thank you very much for sharing that with me, I’m sorry to hear that. This is so stressful, I cannot compare situations, but I want to get as much insight as possible before I do anything. I’m embarrassed to live blocks away and see my neighbors and her family, but think it’s worth it for the slightest chance of seeing my child more and to avoid regret.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 03:22 AM
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Thank you, is it more important for younger kids? Mine is 4.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 03:16 AM
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Thank you, I guess a few miles is close enough and space is important.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/20 12:38 AM
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